| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 11 | Nicole Scherzinger (41) & Thom Evans (34) - dating since last Fall - Reminder: HVM will put in the effort to make a LDR work. Thom: "She lives out here (L.A.) so I'm splitting myself between the two places at the moment. I live in Surrey (UK) but I visit as much as I can.Trash or not, most stories that start in these rags like the National Inquirer usually end up being true down the line. He's a man at the end of the day, a famous one that lives thousands of miles away, so I'm sure he has a few groupies to keep him occupied whilst he's home. Don't be so quick to defend a man. That's pick-me behavior... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 10:16 PM |
| 18 | When a man says a woman is high maintenance, what does he really mean?It means they can't afford to date you properly. I've gotten called high maintenance (and a gold-digger) usually after letting the expectation be known a man needs to court me and take me on proper dates, and pay. I'll stay alone before I accept the bare minimum, but there's always another waiting in the wings since men are predictable. The ones that usually call me HM have always come back though and by that point I don't give them the time of day no matter how much they beg. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 10:12 PM |
| 27 | Seeking advice: how can you test whether a guy is with you just for your looks?You can't. No man ever gave a woman the time of day if they didn't see physical attraction in her. Whether it's a pretty face or a hot body, men always come for something. Period. HVM or LVM they both want something nice looking or nice to look at. HVM just stay to learn what's inside. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 04:10 AM |
| 30 | I got a "wyd" DM from a female friend I haven't heard from in foreverI've been getting messages all day! One guy was from 2 years ago... WTF? Another says, he 'was hoping we would spend Valentine's together. " but he's never asked me out. Ever. Make it make sense! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 11:34 PM |
| 36 | How are you celebrating you Galentines or Valentines day?I'm taking my man on a date to the movies tonight... Popcorn and hotdogs on me! He's in elementary school though, the only man I'll pay on a date for... I can't resist, he gives the best hugs! 😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 03:52 PM |
| 7 | Almost felt bad for the guy until I read he ditched his fiancé for Pam. Pam helped that girl dodge a bullet.I can't get passed the part where she proposed to him... 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 09:59 PM |
| 55 | REPORT THEIR ASSES: Do not allow negging, porn sick, MARRIED, perverse LVM to dominate the online dating scene. Get them banned!I've been banned twice from Tinder and they turned me back on after a month once and a week another time. Seems needy ass scrotes were reporting me as a fake account! Couple actually told me they were reporting me cause I didn't jump at the chance to meet up Apparently I'm so hot I can't be on a dating site... 🙄🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 04:54 PM |
| 5 | Found on r/witchesvspatriarcyCan someone post the original link to this please? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 08:28 PM |
| 8 | [Discussion] What are your deal breakers, and why?Not opening the for any woman he sees in our path. These types of men usually stop doing it for me after a while then get angry when I expect it. He should respect women as a whole, not just me because he wants something from me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 08:27 PM |
| 7 | Why is “What do you do for work” the first question guys immediately ask?No, just no... The men who have asked me this have either been in mediocre jobs where they don't make enough and hobosexuals looking for someone to split the rent with. I stopped answering this question after I learned my lesson. This screams LVM. I don't even ask it cause I've heard guys complain thinking the woman only wants to know how much money they make so I definitely don't entertain it as a woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 01:31 PM |
| 13 | Is it ever appropriate to initiate a date?Exactly.. And the question you need to ask yourself is what are you craving from him that makes you want to fill your spare time with him? Don't be one of those that lose themselves over a man and if/when things go south your left in shambles. Even housewives who don't have to work keep a busy full schedule away from their husbands and children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 12:00 AM |
| 32 | Trolling will not be tolerated. Trashing FDS and FDS mods will also not be tolerated. This is a support sub.I'm getting hate mail private messages from my posts here... LVM are triggert! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 09:58 PM |
| 10 | Don't Be Ruled By EmotionsYes! I love MJ Harris, Chloe_ and Chrissie and Tony Gaskins sometimes. I like Mindful Attraction as well but the fact he has a separate men's channel where he tells men how to game woman sometimes I don't trust him... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 04:12 PM |
| 5 | Honestly, I wouldn’t mind something semi casual with a handsome, polite fellow, but how do men not get that they’d get laid more if they cut this shit? Next!I love it! I'm using this... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 02:03 PM |
| 28 | Don't Be Ruled By EmotionsBe careful who you listen to... Shera has many gems in her older videos but it seems her husband can't stand her in the few videos she has with him in them. And the way he is rolling his eyes and looking at other women right in front of her told me all there is to know so I started watching other gurus that seem to be more balanced. If you watch her older stuff it seems she took her husband from his previous wife which as a divorced woman was not cute to me. I joined her fb group and all the vid… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 01:06 PM |
| 4 | Honestly, I wouldn’t mind something semi casual with a handsome, polite fellow, but how do men not get that they’d get laid more if they cut this shit? Next!Gfy? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 03:08 AM |
| 14 | A date should be a treat.What about the lowest of effort dates, when a man asks you to take "a walk" with him... WTF? I've never had a guy ask me that until today. Ugh ETA : it was a fool from OLD, I don't think anyone would have the balls to ask this in person... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 11:34 PM |
| 8 | What’s your strategy when dudes just drop their # in convo?Wait what? Teach me your ways, I want to do this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 11:03 PM |
| 31 | Is it common for women to date men they are not attracted to?I think the man has to love you more than you love him otherwise the balance gets thrown off. Sometimes that means you are with someone who treats you like a queen but he might not tick every attraction box on your list. And I'm fine with that. Cause sometimes if the man is TOO attractive to you then you start to chase him and you end up back being a pickmeisha. No thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 11:56 PM |
| 5 | I like long walks on the beach, Pina colada, my cat and murdering my ex gf. Serious inquiries only plz.😳 I'm not going to get any sleep tonight... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 11:40 AM |
| 11 | Texting EtiquetteI have the opposite problem, men complain I'm too short with them in text mostly 1 words or short sentence responses... They say they think I'm not interested. sigh I'm not trying to hold full conversations with these fools! That's what calls are for or meeting up in person... 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 08:46 PM |
| 3 | I don't agree with all of his views, but sometimes Steve Harvey speaks the truth.Can you post a link to the name of the specific podcast or how to find it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 05:38 PM |
| 21 | Coffee datesI get asked on coffee dates all the time, thing is I DON'T drink coffee. The smell is very off-putting so I avoid places that only sell coffee like the plague. When you tell a man you don't do coffee dates, I get some wild responses... I've been cursed and told off for trying to get a "free meal" on way more occasions then I care to admit... 😂 It's like these men can't think of anything else? Ice cream, smoothies, shoot even a cookie or cupcake spot. But I use it to filter the entitled assholes … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 01:39 PM |
| 8 | PSA: Don’t use your real name for coffee/food ordersI use my online name, it's something I'm familiar with and it's nowhere near my name in real life | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 12:27 AM |
| 10 | Insecure about my feet and how men would look at it..I wish, mine are an 11... Trying to find high heels is hell but the influx of cross dressers are making it easy for big feet queens like myself... 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 07:09 PM |
| 10 | OLD : Immediately asks for a number.Thanks all, I thought I was doing the most! I use a forwarding number even until I'm exclusive with someone for a while. My ex and me had been exclusively dating for 8 months before he got my real phone number so I guard it with my life! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 06:12 PM |
| 31 | LOL, boy no.I get these from men I give my number to call in OLD and they always try to sneak in texting... I ignore and they usually call after a few hours with me not responding... And they always tell on themselves by getting mad or telling me "who has time to call all the time?" If that's the case, lose my number and enjoy your text life ✌🏽 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Travel buddies?I'm interested! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 03:30 PM |
| 15 | Friendships with HVW vs PickmeishasSame, I'm in South Florida and dropped my last pick me friends that kept taking shots at me so I'm alone. I'm open to women who actually want to better themselves! 🙏🏽 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 02:49 PM |
| 2 | OLD questionsDon't answer either of these questions, issa trap! Every time I do it turns ugly or insulting. If you say you've been single too short (like 6 months) they call you a whore for trying to date so soon. Too long single (like years) and they think nobody wants you and try to beg you into accepting scraps. As for the question about the OLD, I swear only insecure guys ask. It's like they want to know how much competition they have. More then one guy told me they think I'm too busy to get to know them… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 02:18 AM |
| 6 | How much does race play a role in your dating life?I'm African American and just yesterday this guy was arguing with me about how I "look Puerto Rican" for the better part of 15 minutes. No disrespect to any Puerto Ricans in this group but I hate when guys argue with ME over what my background is when I know both my parents, and all my grandparents and they still feel the need to try and make me something I'm not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 02:14 AM |
| 23 | Kobe Bryant Died......I just feel sorry for the other victims. It's like they are faceless, nameless compared to the celebrity. They are reporting 7 other people died in the crash, including a whole family and yet nobody knows their names. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 02:11 AM |
| 14 | Some concerns regarding the DiscordIt happened to me as well, and I was in the discord group well over a week and posting actively. Not sure if I have to jump through all the hoops again to get back on? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 02:06 AM |
| 3 | “Sorry I only just saw this message”I am in the United States, I already said I communicate with relatives in other countries so I'm well aware that Whatsapp is widely used. But here in the US every cell phone plan, including prepaid and even those free phones given by the government has free texting. So if you are in the US and a man is pressing to use whatsapp, for ME that is a big red flag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 02:03 AM |
| 24 | “Sorry I only just saw this message”Stay away from guys that use whatsapp. Every one I know use it to hide side chicks from their girlfriend or wife. It has a password and fingerprint option to lock people from seeing your conversation. I only use it to communicate with my family in another country. I've had more then one guy literally stop talking to me because I refuse to use it to talk to them. I give them a fake number that forwards to mine so they can't see I have Whatsapp already. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 05:39 PM |
| 4 | FDS discord queryI was approved and then removed street a week? I was posting and getting advice so I don't know what happened? I saw a few others on here with the same experience 🤷🏽♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 02:17 PM |
| 258 | They are so predictable..I know Brad is powerful in the Hollywood community but the way he humiliated Jenn after the cheating, I would never look his way again... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 09:44 PM |
| 53 | guys are learning astrology to try to get laidWhat the actual fuck... This is why I never tell a man my sign, they use it to bullshit you into telling you we are ideal match, or to get in your head. Most of these spiritually "woke" men are the biggest fuck boys and time wasters in my experience. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 05:18 PM |
| 4 | Am I overreacting?Thanks all for the suggestions. I just did the soft block for now. I'm at work so I'll address her directly when I have time. But it's been going on so long I think I'm over this, cause joking or not the fact she finds insulting me comical shows her mentality and this woman is 47 and a grandmother... 🙄 You gals rock! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 05:15 PM |
| 3 | Am I overreacting?Can you walk me through how I do this? Feel free to pm me thank you My profile is private | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 02:35 PM |
| 5 | Can a guy who is less educated than you be a HVM for you?I can only speak for myself but HVM are ambitious and are always trying to better themselves. I'd be wary of any man that is content being the same forever. Regardless of what they currently do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 06:01 PM |
| 36 | Does height really matter? Can a short man be a HVM?I'm 5'7 but wear heels daily and I don't mind shorter men but they seem really angry. The ones I've come across actually try to convince me to wearing flats which seems they have confidence issues, I don't know... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 05:05 PM |
| 34 | What’s the most depraved OLD opener you have gotten? here’s one of mine. This was after liking my pics two previous times, that I ignored. Finally gave him a chance and this is how he opened.That's tame. I had a guy send me "I want to fuck you so hard" in the FIRST sentence! 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 11:44 PM |
| 5 | Has anyone noticed their pick-me friends hold the guys they're dating to a different standard?Not for lack of trying I wrote a whole post last week about how to find more uplifting women for friendship. I'm definitely open but not desperate. In the meantime sometimes enjoying your own company is a good thing and I'm fine with that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 04:39 PM |
| 10 | Has anyone noticed their pick-me friends hold the guys they're dating to a different standard?How so? I don't entertain any man treating me with disrespect. Plus I cut all my pick me friends off for this behavior cause it was mentally exhausting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/20 07:26 PM |
| -1 | Has anyone noticed their pick-me friends hold the guys they're dating to a different standard?This is EXACTLY why I have no more female friends... I refuse to interrupt my peace listening to all their drama. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/20 06:55 PM |
| 1 | No female friends?Never heard of it but I'm installing it now, thanks! 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 04:20 AM |
| 3 | No female friends?Ya know! I'd rather go around by myself then hang with friends who impede or insult my progress... Some of these women really think they are winning because they have a bunch of LVM after them! Quality over quantity! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 12:40 PM |
| 26 | How to Make Your Best Dating ProfileI wouldn't cause theses men still try to lie themselves into being what you want until you like them and then you find out they weren't what you wanted at all... Just happened to me. Guy had 3 kids but knew I wanted 1 more and kept talking about us having one down the line. Fast forward after dating 2 months and the bastard informs me he is never having another kid. Says it multiple times in case I didn't hear too. I blocked him the same night for lying and wasting my time. UGH | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 11:31 AM |
| 3 | No female friends?I posted a reply where I said I joined multi meetup groups and they were full of women whose mentality doesn't align with mine. I was on there going to outings with them for 2 years and it's not for me... I might try volunteering or something cause I never thought of that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 11:22 AM |
| 6 | Meeting older men on OLDI'm not in NYC but I'm curious about Tinder gold. Cause all the swiping is exhausting. How long did you sign up for? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 12:51 AM |
| 4 | No female friends?I tried meetup and the women in the 3 groups that are most popular are the most Pickmeishas I've ever seen. I made friends with 2-3 and had to stop communicating cause I didn't want to undo all my hard work of leveling myself up. One works 2 jobs, has a 1 year old that her unemployed husband refuses to watch while she takes care of everything including cooking and cleaning the house when she gets home... WTF I got exhausted listening to her Another is single and loves penis too much, just thirst… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 12:25 AM |
| 2 | Sis goes above and beyond to help this jobless LVM and is shocked when he flips out on her the one time she doesn’t baby him.I hope this was a stunt for retweets... Especially when she dropped her IG handle. 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone here ever had a successful relationship with a HVM they met on OLD?How old was he when you met? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 02:29 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone here ever had a successful relationship with a HVM they met on OLD?How old is he? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 02:29 AM |
| 73 | Dating as a high value Black women is harder than I thoughtIt's hard in these dating streets! I'm a black woman, work corporate for 30 years, secure in my career and literally just got shaded by a black man older than myself because I never went to college... Mind you I make DOUBLE what his degree-having self does and this man made me feel 3 inches tall despite him running intentionally behind me for days just for me to give him the time of day. I'm mid forties, look 28, get mistaken for my 20 year old son's girlfriend on a regular basis. Take care of m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 02:19 AM |
| 5 | Co-star coming in clutch with sage adviceWhat is this app? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 01:26 AM |
| 29 | sharon stone was blocked from bumble…I've been blocked from Tinder 3 damn times. From petty ass men that think I have a fake account. I've had guys message me saying I can't be a real profile... I have to contact them everytime to get reactivated. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Dating horror storyLike I said, he's been a friend. He makes me laugh and treats me like a queen. I didn't give him the time of day because he has multiple children and I want to have a baby in my future and he does not but at this point I'm just enjoying our time together. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 08:43 PM |
| 3 | Dating horror storyWhat if you've been on 6 dates in the past week with a friend you've known for 2 years? He's a nice guy I never gave a chance to and I want to be his gf but I don't know if I should say something... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 07:09 PM |
| 48 | pretty muchYes! This is like the 8 commandments of why we shouldn't have sex without a commitment! Where is this from? I need to follow them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Beware of any guy who brags about their dick sizeI have one I'm dating that is always complaining it's too small, but it's HUGE, pretty much fishing for compliments... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/19 09:56 PM |
| 4 | The art of not sharing FDS versionI do this and guys bolt for the hills. I literally tell them the first couple of days that I need to find out if we are even a match and like being around each other before I start giving them my whole life story. Feels like I've lost out on some really good guys this way. I really hate the question about where I work and the ages of my kids, some are even bold enough to ask why I got divorced. The guy in seeing more, attorney, says I'm too mysterious and we will never move forward if I don't sh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/19 03:30 PM |
| 22 | How Can You Tell If A Man Will Be Good In Bed? (MEGATHREAD)Wow I'm dating a lawyer now and he LOVES to talk! Like a lot. But he is also the best man I've ever had in bed EVER. He has a magic tongue (unfortunately bragged about it beforehand but definitely backed it up) and can make me climax like 6-7 times in a row during sex as well and I've never had that in my life and I'm no spring chicken. He's learned to tone down the talking with me, but when we are out in a group he is his regular argumentative self which makes him happy. Plus he pampers me like… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/19 07:22 AM |
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