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Out of all of that, don't you worry that your ex would want something more while you just want to fuck, and that you could hurt her in the process?
/r/seduction08/01/26 09:35 PM
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Thanks dude ! You're a cool dude too, hope you're doing alright
/r/seduction16/12/24 12:44 AM
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That's maybe the thing. I'm externally pretty sucessfull. I'm very athletic (getting constant compliment of girls to the point of objectification, sometime), have a bunch of friends, have a good work with good work/life balance, do cool stuff I always wanted to do, but I still have some self-esteem issues. Like, I know I'm a good guy, but it's complicated it to "know it" and really understand it, if you get what I mean. I'm still working on that. That's actually my main focus at the moment, abov…
/r/seduction16/12/24 12:27 AM
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Ahah, good question. Not this time. The girl had one orgasm once, and just told me, and I quote her: "bravo, bravo" 😭 Beside, I don't see sex as a performance, but as a meeting between two individual. If it doesn't work, sometime, the chemistry isn't here. Maybe I see it more as the fact that I considered the relation more "highly" than her, if that makes sense ? Like they didn't cared that much. And even thoo I didn't want more, it kinda makes me feel down.
/r/seduction16/12/24 12:07 AM
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I understand, but like, I'm not sure it's that ? In the sense that I get more butt-hurt after being rejected, than if i'll do the rejection (if I do it, I'll stop thinking about it in hours). Beside, I saw them only once or twice, not enough to really know someone.
/r/seduction15/12/24 11:58 PM
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I'm honestly getting bored of being with girl that I know I won't really see again, and sleeping in a way we don't touch each-other, because fucking is okay, but cuddling isn't. Idk, makes me feel more alone.
/r/seduction27/11/24 04:10 PM
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Thanks ! Problem is that, there is literally no girls in my social / friends groups. I do thai boxing / weight lifting / mma, so like 90% guys. Beside, I'm a full remote software engineer. Most of my friends (and their friends) are male engineers, therefore... It's kind of complicated outside of dating app, honestly. Might be thinking about doing more mixed hobbies, but honestly, I'm very focused on learning how to be a better fighter, and it would kind of depress me to take a hobby which the ma…
/r/seduction25/11/24 05:15 PM
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Thanks a lot for your response dude ! Hope it work for the best with your love interest !
/r/seduction25/11/24 05:13 PM
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Well, I do have nothing to teach. It's not something you're going to like, but it's kinda luck and trying (or lack of luck, sometime, I guess, since I want something long term). Things that helped me, though, is that I don't really care about sleeping with them. I don't need it. It can be a nice moment, and I'm still horny and even more with pretty girl, but I don't need it. If the girl piss me off, she won't get any. I don't seek validation with girls. Or I feel kinda like it. I don't see sex a…
/r/seduction25/11/24 05:11 PM
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Wdym be "being on top of your shit' ?
/r/seduction12/11/24 07:06 AM
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Wellllll, so, I'm going to be judged, but oh well I do deserve it this time We talked two years ago on tinder, and she was not sure we fucked because "that period was blurry dude" The chick told me she was okay with one night stand on the date. That It was okay to just hit it off and go. She talked about a one night stand she had with a dude one year ago. Ect ect Not necessarily a red flag, but "hey I want something casual and better keep it casual flag". And more like one night stand than fwb I…
/r/seduction11/11/24 10:20 PM
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For that specific chick, idk. I liked her, even though she was full of red flag. Sex was very great. I won't pursue her, but still need one or two more days to get back to the chase I guess.
/r/seduction11/11/24 07:45 PM
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Depends. I would argue that you can be attached to the wrong person, for the wrong reasons.
/r/seduction11/11/24 07:44 PM
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True ! Thanks, I'll keep this in mind. To be fair, she was at her job, at the desk, talking with two of her coworkers, and 3 other coworkers near her, the 2nd time. I was not feeling ballsy enough to approach her while she had "so many people" spectating 😅
/r/seduction02/10/22 06:50 PM
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Hey dude, true but uncool 😆
/r/seduction02/10/22 06:40 PM
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Yeah, sorry I wasn't clear about that. I did not ask her for a date. I just asked her if she was free this day or that day
/r/seduction30/09/22 10:00 PM
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I love what emanates from this text. I don't have anything to say. Just that I saved this text, and I'll come back to read it whenever I feel like i'm not true to myself (Even if I can't say that i'm true to myself right now). Thanks.
/r/seduction20/12/16 11:35 PM
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Hey, sorry for the late response. I totally know what you means. I hit the gym too, and after that, I noticed a lot of girls staring at me, especially at the pool. It helped me think that I'm more attractive than I tought. Now, I think the lack of external validation may explain the situation where I am. For a long period of time, i've been pretty away from girls. I have studied a lot, in a place where there aren't any girl, doing sport either at my appartement or run alone, and stay in the same…
/r/seduction20/12/16 11:31 PM
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Hey, sorry for the late response. Yeah, it's totally that. I feel like I'm catched on a endless lope of self-developpement, because on a low self esteem. It feels like my esteem of myself is directly decided, and only, by external validation. Don't get me wrong, it's normal. I mean, we're social animal, our value is determinated by our relatives. But I feel like the next level of self-developpement is just becoming aware that you're valuable just because you are yourself; and that you don't need…
/r/seduction20/12/16 11:18 PM
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exercises Hey, sorry for the late response. You sparled my interest. I would gladly take a look on your webinar if you posted the link !
/r/seduction20/12/16 11:10 PM
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