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This reads like an advertisement, good message though
/r/TheRedPill28/08/23 02:23 PM
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"Excuse me sir I'm bombing on this date can you chaperone this interaction for us?"
/r/TheRedPill27/08/23 03:18 PM
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If you put an ice cube in a room thats 22 degrees fahrenheit, and each month you raised the temperature in that room by 1 degrees, it'd be a very long time before you saw anything. Then suddenly, after 10 months, the ice would start melting. From the outside looking in, you'd assume that one day, out of nowhere, the ice JUST started melting. As if it was fed up and simply chose to stop existing in its previous form. This would be a logical assumption given what is observed, but it is incorrect. …
/r/askMRP25/08/23 11:01 AM
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Hey, where OP said he has only improved since he met his LTR, you called that a covert contract. Can you go into a bit more detail and explain why it is a CC?
/r/askMRP23/08/23 02:20 PM
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I'd advise you to take that post at your own discretion and decide what is too extreme for you. Using dread is not over the top or too extreme in my eyes (in fact, it's quite hard to have a relationship with absolutely no dread.), but starting fights for the fuck of it or flat out lying about cheating is crossing the line for me. "Dread" is just a form of preselection, and preselection is well documented in psychology. Preselection does not have to be sexual, but in the case of dread game, it is…
/r/ExRedPill15/08/23 02:47 AM
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No. Half the population is wired to have less empathy, not to be entirely incapable of it. This is a fact. I stated nothing about danger nor threats towards happiness. Just a desire for men feel capable and in control of the things they find important. Control and dominance is not bad by default. Bad things can be done with those things, certainly, but that does not make those traits/ desires bad. Good things can be done through control and dominance, but that does not make those traits/ desires…
/r/ExRedPill14/08/23 04:53 PM
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Plenty of it is speculation, because no formal studies have been conducted. Plenty of it has empirical evidence with studies cited. The depth of red pill goes far beyond "women are this and men are this." I urge you to do further research.
/r/ExRedPill14/08/23 03:56 PM
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I'm not overlooking it, I do agree it's a flaw in the community. I've stated why it's there and the purpose it trying serve. And the majority if things I've said and believe absolutely come from self help books. Each book thus far has been recommended to me by the red pill side bar. But I stand by red pill because at it's core it says we'd all prefer relationships that are romantically passionate, rather than something closer to a friendship. It also says that in order for this passion to be pre…
/r/ExRedPill14/08/23 01:10 PM
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No, it is taboo to discuss the differences of the two genders. To say anything besides "we are equals" is demonized. We are not equals, and I'd like to make my stance on that clear. In fact, not a single person can ever be equal to another, regardless of gender. Everyone is different. We are all equitable however, and that is true regardless of gender. Getting into the taboo subject though, we can say that humans who have been exposed to higher levels of testosterone will develop traits relative…
/r/ExRedPill14/08/23 12:40 PM
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Anything taken out of context can be made to sound awful. But yes, I agree, that does sound awful and incredibly hateful. Even with full knowledge of the source in question, I'd still agree that the author could get the same point across with less shock value. All of that being said, there is truth in that article, and it reflects heavily on ones intelligence and character to take anything at face value and not question it. A lot of men cannot make that discretion. For as advanced of a species t…
/r/ExRedPill14/08/23 04:14 AM
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I'm not, it's not something I'm interested in at the moment
/r/ExRedPill14/08/23 03:35 AM
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This post from 6 month ago was the very first thing I posted on a red pill sub. In it, I used the word "bitches" and the community was quick to call me out on that. They disapproved of my use of that word, called me hateful and disrespectful, that I needed to grow up, and that I didn't really understand red pill. 6 months ago, I did not understand red pill, they were right. I still have a shit ton of learning to do. All the comments basically told me, in more words or less, do more research, wor…
/r/ExRedPill14/08/23 12:47 AM
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Check this Post out and tell me what you think about the comments. I'm sure we see two different things, but I'm genuinely curious to know your opinion. I don't think any comment in there is preaching that he lie or be dishonest, and the majority of the comments are telling him that he needs to be more assertive and willing to express his wants/ needs, and accept the consequences for expressing himself (be honest and be vulnerable). Or in their words, "You sound like a pussy, man up" lol. What d…
/r/ExRedPill14/08/23 12:24 AM
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It was the first self improvement book I read and I love it to this day. I reread it once every couple of years. Do you think red pill preaches that you should lie and be dishonest towards women?
/r/ExRedPill14/08/23 12:12 AM
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touche. Take my upvote. I've researched both sides plenty, what evidence would you provide to prove that red pill contains no truth?
/r/ExRedPill14/08/23 12:10 AM
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Well frankly coming to this sub, I agreed with a lot of the things I saw. Quite a few posts left me scratching my head and saying "how is this anti red pill?" I would also have to suppose you'd be right on red pill being opinion based and not fact based. Red pill will forever be a theory, but the history of it is fascinating. Up until covid, (since the late 90's) it's always been men sharing notes and collectively testing those notes when out trying to pick up women or within their relationships…
/r/ExRedPill14/08/23 12:04 AM
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I'm glad you're doing better without it, best of luck.
/r/ExRedPill13/08/23 11:35 PM
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I'd imagine anyone who is logical to a certain extent would be able to spot and correct fallacies within their logic. Red pill or not. And your right. Not all women are hypergamous. And plenty of men are hypergamous. My personal interpretation of hypergamy has always been "the average" or "there is a trend" and I'd think it be silly to assume something applies to ALL people without any variability. Unfortunately, a lot of people who come across red pill content cannot make that discretion. In th…
/r/ExRedPill13/08/23 08:52 PM
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I can see where you're coming from, and from my perspective, it sounds like you only looked at a fraction of red pill. The most surface level lessons of red pill are often taken to extremes, a lot of manosphere youtubers are prime examples of that. It goes a lot deeper than teaching struggling men about women. And to be honest, I think the married red pill subreddit is a great example of that. The community there seemed to be much more grounded in reality and mature than just the standard red pi…
/r/ExRedPill13/08/23 08:27 PM
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What is red pill to you?
/r/ExRedPill13/08/23 07:43 PM
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Well all I can say is I'm sorry that you feel that way. I'm glad you are doing better without red pill. Best of luck man.
/r/ExRedPill13/08/23 07:06 PM
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You asked for a reason, I gave you one, you then discredited my reason? What is your argument and why are you attacking me?
/r/ExRedPill13/08/23 07:00 PM
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What is all about gender to you?
/r/ExRedPill13/08/23 06:56 PM
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Myself? Personally? Because I'm autistic and need a blue print to follow. Red pill provided that, high school musical did not.
/r/ExRedPill13/08/23 06:54 PM
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What does being all about gender mean to you? Because I thought my last reply made it clear that red pill was a theory all about genders.
/r/ExRedPill13/08/23 06:50 PM
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You don't need red pill to reach that conclusion. Every teen movie has that conclusion, most young adults come to that conclusion on there own. But for some people, life experiences or teen movies don't do it, but red pill does. And in some cases, not even red pill brings people to that conclusion.
/r/ExRedPill13/08/23 06:47 PM
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Red pill is not a theory of psychology, it is a theory of inter gender dynamics. It is heavily focused on sex and on genders. The theory states what is observed, there is quite a bit of history that can be found to explain why red pill looks the way it does now, the community dates back to the late 90s. The conclusion that most red pillers come to after digesting the theory is that you need to take accountability for yourself and your results. Make yourself your primary focus and stop putting ot…
/r/ExRedPill13/08/23 06:10 PM
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Because that is the main issue of men who come to red pill. "Nice guys" They struggle with setting boundaries, they get all of their validation from others and treat women like gods (and when a god doesn't acknowledge your prayers, you either lash out and curse your god, or you double down on your praise), they don't really have to ask people about their own relationships and what they should do, because they flat out can't decide for themselves. A lot of the time they've never put themselves fi…
/r/ExRedPill13/08/23 05:57 PM
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Unfortunately a lot of men (more than I realized) can't handle that grain of salt and don't have the nuance to properly interpret and integrate the information. Too many of them make it into a "us vs them" mentality
/r/ExRedPill13/08/23 05:16 PM
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No, I'm red pill. Red pill says "be your own man and make your own rules. Stop being who you think other people want you to be." That's the end goal of red pill theory. If you want to be dommed by your woman and wear a leash for her in the bedroom, don't feel ashamed about that. If you want to be friends with women, don't let anyone tell you that your wrong for that. If you want to have kids and settle down, go for it. If you don't, learn how to not feel pressured by society to do so. If you wan…
/r/ExRedPill13/08/23 05:13 PM
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All of them really. To me it is a science. It's a theory. For me, hearing about hypergamy makes sense to me and inspires no hatred towards women, just a better understanding. I think most people hear about hypergamy and use it as a cop out to hate on women and call them hoes or sluts or whatever other insult. I think for the vast majority of people, I think the latter is what their red pill experience is like. I really feel like this is driven by figures in the manosphere who feed off of hurt an…
/r/ExRedPill13/08/23 05:00 PM
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I've seen quite a bit more success actually. Pretty sure I'm on the spectrum, so having things spelt out so clearly made it much easier to navigate intimate situations. Have lost no friends and no women have ghosted me. Although a few friends were worried at first, they come to realize red pill has only made me a better friend and person. I treat it like fight club, as I know how it is perceived and would rather not have the misogynous red pill stereotype associated with me. But when I do feel c…
/r/ExRedPill13/08/23 04:48 PM
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Two guys in one night. Wow. Fucking her so easily on the first date should've tripped the "This is a plate" alarm in your mind.
/r/askMRP12/08/23 11:46 PM
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Well for one, why and how do men fall into the BB category? Given the post, what are the obvious red flags that OP made (or can be assumed to made) to get such treatment? Beyond that, if this were happening to your bro, what would you tell him?
/r/askMRP09/08/23 09:33 PM
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What is in your control with black pill ideology
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/23 10:17 PM
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What is black pill. I'm actually curious, I've never gotten it from a black piller, just from red pillers. Put me on game.
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/23 09:02 PM
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In order to see black pill as objective you have to refuse to accept accountability and invalidate any attractive man with a woman. Do either of those things collapses your house of cards.
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/23 08:52 PM
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Flat earth is subjective. Black pill is subjective. Red pill is objective.
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/23 08:49 PM
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Red pill teaches you what it is they do and why
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/23 08:32 PM
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If you can come up with a better solution, I'd love to hear it
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/23 08:26 PM
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Even short ass/ ugly ass lil wayne as hoes. And so does fat ass dj khalid. Kodak black too. Why are these unattractive men having sex?
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/23 08:15 PM
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this makes no sense at all
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/23 08:10 PM
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Explain lil wayne and dj khalid😂
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/23 08:08 PM
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nor does this address how women can be seen dating fat or short or ugly dudes. Even short ass/ ugly ass lil wayne as hoes. And so does fat ass dj khalid.
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/23 08:05 PM
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I don't see the relevancy
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/23 08:03 PM
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Attraction is not dependent on physical features. Not for women.
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/23 07:52 PM
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Lol. Who are you to say what ugly is? Who are you to say that other's can't determine if someone is ugly. Brother, are you in so much denial of your potential that you are deluding yourself to this extent? This is silly man.
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/23 07:38 PM
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Ad Hominem fallacy. You are deflecting further. If it can happen once (let alone, millions of times) there is no excuse. There's no delusion, only observations. Again, I'm arguing for your favor. You are arguing against your favor.
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/23 07:21 PM
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If it can happen once (let alone, millions of times) there is no excuse. Again, I'm arguing for your favor. You are arguing against your favor.
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/23 07:17 PM
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You've deflected my entire argument. You also misunderstand it at its core. There are no exceptions in what I've said on being ugly. The rule is have a higher SMV than her, and she'll be attracted to you.
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/23 07:16 PM
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Yes. You deserve your results. If you want different results, do something different or increase what you are already doing. A quick google search of "ugly men with pretty women" returns millions of results of first hand experiences witnessing this dynamic. If it can happen once (let alone, millions of times) there is no excuse. Again, I'm arguing for your favor. You are arguing against your favor. I am also an example of this.
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/23 07:10 PM
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But there are 4 billion women. And a no today can be a yes tomorrow, if you are better by tomorrow. This is a big part of becoming successful with red pill, it is called having an abundance mindset.
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/23 06:57 PM
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The potential to achieve is nearly limitless when you utilize all your resources and put in work. If you are unwilling to use resources, you are far more limited in your ability to produce results. This is easily observed in day to day life, history, and in all major advancements. The same is true in dating. If you are unwilling to use recourses and put in work, you will not achieve as much as a man is willing. Men go from rags to riches everyday. Kobe didn't get where he did over night, and he …
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/23 06:52 PM
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No, you do not see my point. Best of luck to you man. I hope your life brightens up a bit. I'm sorry life has taught you to have such a nihilistic perspective.
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/23 06:46 PM
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Great. You see my point. Surely now you see that you can be successful with women. If this is not your stance, than no, you do not see my point.
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/23 06:44 PM
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You're still missing my point. I see your point in it's entirety. "Not everything is possible." Please tell me if your argument is anything more than that. My point. While things are always going to be impossible, there are a lot more things that are possible. This really becomes an argument of semantics at this point. One could argue that technology is just an extension of man, and therefore, still naturally him. Just how birds naturally builds nests. You could also argue, technology is separat…
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/23 06:40 PM
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No, that's not possible. I agree. You're missing my point though. What makes humans special is our ability to use tools. What we can't do naturally, we can delegate to our inventions. In other terms, if we put in work to create a tool, that tool opens more doors for us. I hope you can see how that ties into getting laid.
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/23 06:25 PM
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Not yet. Not until some crazy, delusional mother fucker decides to change that, develops the technology, and puts a person on the sun. But before that, he has to first believe it is possible, or else he will never start. If you have the balls to fail, you'll eventually find success. 100 years ago you'd sound crazy for saying we can land on the moon. Now we say "what's next?"
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/23 06:16 PM
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We made it to the moon didn't we? That was impossible until we decided it wasn't. Then we figured it out. Again, it takes audacity.
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/23 06:10 PM
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If that's what you believe, you are correct. You are your own limiting factor my guy. You set the limits on what's possible. You deserve whatever you have the audacity to take.
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/23 06:05 PM
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If you say so.
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/23 06:02 PM
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I'd recommend reading Psycho-Cybernetics by Maxwell Maltz if you truly want a good understanding of my stance along side numerous examples of evidence and studies.
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/23 06:01 PM
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Bro you can do anything and be anything you put your mind to. The mind is a computer. It will find solutions to the problems you give it. If you decide a problem is unsolvable, the mind will never produce a solution. It won't waste it's recourses. Placebo effect is quite literally the (and this is super cheesy, I know) power of belief. Believe it or don't, you are correct and your mind and even body will adapt to make that belief a reality. This is well documented.
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/23 06:00 PM
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You're putting words in my mouth. You truly do not understand my argument or my stance.
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/23 05:56 PM
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No. If you put in the work you can be the president of russia. Hard work is always recognized.
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/23 05:53 PM
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My brother in christ, if you believe you can or if you believe you can't, you're right. That's the jist of what I'm trying to say. You're arguing against yourself and I'm arguing for you.
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/23 05:49 PM
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After the brad pitt part, no clue why you're bringing in the geopolitical landscape of the world, I have no opinion on that and it has nothing to do with red or black pill. Looks. I said women care about resources, I then said looks are a part of that. I did say "Women don't care about looks" to clarify what it IS that they do care about. It was purely to emphasize the scope of their concerns, I clarified that in the next few sentences, but sure, pick at that one example. You got me. Women do no…
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/23 05:28 PM
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After the brad pitt part, no clue why you're bringing in the geopolitical landscape of the world, I have no opinion on that and it has nothing to do with red or black pill. Looks. I said women care about resources, I then said looks are a part of that. I did say "Women don't care about looks" to clarify what it IS that they do care about. It was purely to emphasize the scope of their concerns, I clarified that in the next few sentences, but sure, pick at that one example. You got me. Women do no…
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/23 05:22 PM
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I haven't finished reading your comment, but the brad pitt comment was quoting you. You're right. It is saying "Just Because" that's why I said it makes no sense. The cause cannot be the effect.
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/23 04:59 PM
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I haven't finished reading your comment, but the brad pitt comment was quoting you. You're right. It is saying "Just Because" that's why I said it makes no sense. The cause cannot be the effect.
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/23 04:59 PM
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Those examples are perfect for dismantling your logic. "Success is impossible if the win-state requires another individual" is wrong. You can influence another persons decisions. My conclusion is not flawed, I am a breathing example of it. Your logic with brad pitt doesn't make sense. They say yes because they say yes. The cause cannot also be the effect. Working and having sex are very different you are right. One feels great, the other not so much. Women do not care about looks. Men do. Women …
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/23 04:35 PM
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Yes. You can hate the player. It is just counter productive. You are also correct, success is dependent on someone else. Can you not succeed at getting paid because your boss is required for that to happen? You can, as long as you show up on time and get your work done. Can you not succeed at becoming the president because the votes of millions are required for that to happen? You can, as long as you are more favorable to more people than your opponent. "Men can't achieve what they want because …
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/23 04:09 PM
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I mean yeah you can hate the player but that's like drinking poison and waiting for the other person to die. It's counter productive to achieving what you actually want. Blame women all you want, but you'll start to see results once you can blame yourself. It then becomes a solvable problem at that point. Don't hate the player. Hate the game.
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/23 03:22 PM
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Yes. Precisely. Welcome to being a man. If you weren't born with a vagina, you will need to work to have sex. Do not hate the player. Hate the game.
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/23 03:15 PM
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If you think my entire argument is "anytime a man criticizes a woman it must be because they hate women." then that is text book straw man. Moving past that, the rest of your argument has nothing to do with hating women or why it is valid to criticize them, but let's look deeper at it anyways. You're absolutely right, there are certainly men out there who have no chance with women, so no, I'm not "that type of person." However, the vast majority of men have influence over their success life. I'd…
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/23 03:06 PM
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This is a great example of a straw man fallacy.
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/23 02:20 PM
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Yeah I'd agree, a rational male would be able to put a condom on or just not have sex at all. I can see his angle but telling 20 year old men (some of which cannot think for themselves) to get snipped is an awful use of his platform
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/23 02:21 AM
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I had a different experience. I will say it was way longer than it had to be, but for a "Red Pill 101" I think it does the job well. I will say, watching his content, dude gives me a bad vibe. His content and information is great, but him as a person gives me the impression that he's REALLY putting on an act once the camera comes on. Can you link the vasectomy comments? Anyways, OP sounded like he was missing a lot of the basics and just wanted hate on women. The Rational Male seemed like a good…
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/23 01:41 AM
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That's an Ad-Hominem fallacy, his book is filled with great information. The information isn't any less valid because of it's origin.
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/23 01:24 AM
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Do you have to care about women or do you chose to do so? You are good enough bro, I can tell the reason why you're not seeing the success you want is because of your mindset. The first step is knowing you're good enough, and you are. Getting all the bitches in the world will not change how you feel about yourself. I promise.
/r/AllPillDebate02/08/23 12:45 PM
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You're right. Being shorter is a massive disadvantage when dating. You quite literally just have to make up for it in other areas bro. I have multiple short friends who have gone from no action AT ALL to multiple partners/ girl friends. It's possible. Let's look at validation again. By not wanting to be a beta, you are saying "I don't want to be hated. I want to be respected." and, by being wanting to be an alpha, the motivation would "I want to be loved. I don't want to be walked all over or di…
/r/AllPillDebate02/08/23 12:09 PM
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By that logic, if I could bring myself to have sex with my gym bros then I hate them. Do you hate your male friends because you do not want to sleep with them? You're using bad metrics. Understandably so, I've been able to relate. This stems from a need of validation (Read No More Mr.Nice Guy). Someone wanting to have sex with you is an indicator of sexual interest and nothing more. If a person does not want to have sex with you, there is no sexual interest. Sexual interest is not required for y…
/r/AllPillDebate02/08/23 11:54 AM
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You sound hurt. I fall into the red pill camp, but this just seems like a way to justify hatred. And using bad evidence to do so. I'd argue that none of the "lies" you were told were pushed on to you with the intent of deceiving you. You were trained to be a beta. Women LIKE betas. But they like betas for different reasons compared to why they like alphas. They'd rather settle down and marry a beta. They rather get their brains fucked out by an alpha. Getting back on track though, this whole pos…
/r/AllPillDebate02/08/23 09:57 AM
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Right. I think you're spot on with all of this. With all that in perspective, I think the issue in question right now is the fact that I "need" her to respect me at all. She is just a plate after all, like you said.
/r/askMRP30/06/23 02:17 AM
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Okay, I see what you're saying. Thank you for calling that out. Yeah, sitting with that for a second I see the hole in my logic.
/r/askMRP30/06/23 02:10 AM
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Elaborate, how have I demonstrated ignorance of the medium being the message?
/r/askMRP30/06/23 01:49 AM
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Negative. I'm not married, nor do I have kids. I haven't gotten myself into anything, nor do I feel bad for being called out on my mistakes. I'm not interested in being told about them when nobody is offering a solution to the original question. My game is nowhere near perfect, I could post 1,000 questions on this sub picking apart everything I've done, but for the time being, I'm interested in this one situation. Iron Rule #1: Frame is everything. If this isn't about frame, what is it about? Ce…
/r/askMRP30/06/23 01:47 AM
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She did say she would pay me back, she did not give a specific date. It was mutually agreed to be vaguely in the near future. It's been about a month and I haven't mentioned it until yesterday. Further context. Asked for money back. She said she didn't have it. I said "Bs, you've touched more than $100 in the last few weeks." She threw pussy at me in response. To answer all 3 questions, it's respect. I want her to respect me. I can see now that she doesn't (at least not as much as I'd like) Your…
/r/askMRP30/06/23 12:50 AM
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Acknowledge my request. Say "no can't do it" or say "here's $100." The outcome is irrelevant. She didn't acknowledge it though. Somewhere, at some point, I fucked up frame control. Only interested in how I can reestablish that. Next time (there won't be a next time) I ask for my money back, I don't want her to throw pussy at me to defuse. I'd rather she knows that's not acceptable behavior.
/r/askMRP30/06/23 12:38 AM
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This post is less about $100 and more about what should be done in the situation I described within the post. Obviously my frame control needs work, but the only question I'm interested in (in terms of properly controlling frame) is if one should press a lie or simply let your plate think you're oblivious. Ik I shouldn't have loaned her $100. I don't mind losing it (I would never give it out if I really needed it) but when I brought it up, she dismissed it by throwing pussy at me. To me, that sh…
/r/askMRP30/06/23 12:27 AM
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Don't care abt the $100, its more how she's avoiding it Nope, she didn't. Don't care abt the $100, its more how she's avoiding it Don't care abt the $100, its more how she's avoiding it First time spinning plates. More concerned with properly maintaining frame. Tired of being a simp. Ignoring something that bothers me and giving her attention anyways doesn't seem like the right play. I'd be fine if she straight up told me she's never going to pay me back, but she just tried to disarm me by throw…
/r/askMRP30/06/23 12:20 AM
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What would you recommend?
/r/askMRP29/06/23 10:58 PM
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good advice
/r/askMRP29/06/23 07:12 PM
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Thanks for this reply. I had hit her up for the $100 and she didn't respond. She then reached out for a late night link (still ignoring my message about money prior) and I just left the message on seen. No response on my end. I suppose the boundary there is "no, you're going to respond to me and pussy can't make this go away." Don't think I should be worried about the $100 at this point, although it's more or less the principal of "you will pay me back" that's concerning me. I doubt she will pay…
/r/askMRP29/06/23 06:11 PM
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The way you worded that clicked for me, thanks for the reply. This is the first few weeks of me practicing RP, I'm still learning as I go. I can't say I'm surprised with her behavior though.
/r/askMRP29/06/23 06:00 PM
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She owes me money. I shouldn't have loaned it to her, lesson learned for next time. Nothing deep, only $100. In reality, my own self respect is worth more than a crumb of coochie and $100, I'mma call it out next time it is appropriate.
/r/askMRP29/06/23 03:44 PM
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She's a plate. She has a boyfriend. I am not that boyfriend.
/r/askMRP29/06/23 03:39 PM
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Lol. If it was simple as you say, we'd all read a single post and never look at this sub again. Reworking an entire frame set of believes takes time and consistency, if it didn't, we simply wouldn't be here right now.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/23 03:52 PM
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Is it okay to be shat on by others? No. Should you be genuinely surprised when it happens? No. To revolt against hypergamy and its existence is to revolt against evolutionary biology. It's delusional. It's not going anywhere. It is far more than just the status quo, it is a fundamental property of the sex. I'm not telling you to let people force shit down your throat with a smile, I'm telling you to not be surprised when they try. Be prepared, be rational, have the next-button nice and warmed up…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/23 11:23 AM
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Girls with daddy issues look like sluts. Men with mommy issues look like simps/ cucks. If you had a healthy relationship with your mother (which from the sounds of your description of her, you didn't) you would've never found yourself in the situation you're in. You would treat LTRs like you treat any other relationship with your bros. The only difference being sex. Your LTR would be a part of your life, but it would not be your life. Just like any other friend. "Oh you can't come over and play …
/r/TheRedPill26/06/23 01:35 AM
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Being good enough is not the same as being perfect. There is always room for improvement obviously. If you have to source motivation through self degradation, more power to you brother. An alpha sees himself as the shit and acts like it. Again, to each their own.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/23 10:16 PM
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Texting should be minimal. Its a method to set up a date, it is not a date itself. Don't use it to get to know each other. You didn't give many details on the date so I can't comment on the rest of your game, but it's safe to say you fucked up somewhere. Don't sweat it. Ironically, not caring is what makes you successful with women. Caring too much makes you do worse. Everyone is going to say this, so hopefully it registers for you, but spin more plates. All of your issues go away once you start…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/23 04:52 PM
2

It was either bartending or personal training, just happened to land a gym job first. And I only had one friend prior to joining the staff. He and I were gym bros for years and he picked up the gig to stay afloat, once I joined the team he got much more comfortable with the staff and eventually we created our own circle. Not necessarily from scratch, but pretty damn close. The group is formed around hitting work outs, posting content/ gym edits on IG (we're personal trainers, so it's a way to ma…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/23 01:38 AM
1

FR on telling my girl about her avoidant attachment style. I got LJBF'd. Picked up red pill a few months ago, stumbled across Attached and it flipped my world upside down. Thought I could fix my issues by being "secure" and encouraging her to do the same. Made her more avoidant and made me more anxious. Lesson learned. Wish this was posted a few months ago. Either way, have come to a similar conclusion myself. Could've never written it as eloquently.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/23 02:29 AM
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Is she giving you enjoyable sex? Is she helping you achieve success faster? Is she slowing you down or making you a better version of yourself? Is she playing a key role in building this business? Could you build it faster without her? If she doesn't make you a better man and she doesn't provide you with sex (at the bare minimum) what is it that she does for you? Separating may be jumping the gun, but it's something you may want to consider. Before that, see if there's anything she can do to mak…
/r/askMRP18/06/23 03:50 AM
1

Believe me brother I know. It's one of those things that is simple but that doesn't necessarily make it easy. Day by day though, I'm learning to be more accepting of myself. Red pill is playing a major role.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/23 12:33 AM
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If you could go back and redo the last 7 years, would you go on more dates?
/r/TheRedPill13/06/23 04:02 PM
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Let your plate initiate this conversation. Be truthful. Your plate will either continue to spin herself or she won't. At that point, you decide if the juice is worth the squeeze. There's not much else to it.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/23 11:05 PM
3

I've had a similar experience, turned 23 not too long ago. I was just thinking to myself how the theme for this year seems to be uncovering trauma and working through it. The whole process has made me realize just how much more maturing I have to do. Kind of a system shock. Turns out I'm still a little boy in a lot of ways, regardless of the bass in my voice
/r/TheRedPill06/06/23 09:15 AM
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Abundance mindset. She was never yours, it was only your turn. She wasn't the "one" either, if her behavior wasn't evidence enough. She was one of many, and one that you will out grow in SMV as you age. You've lost nothing. Don't cry over spilt milk. Just clean up the mess and pour another glass.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/23 05:07 PM
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The book "No More Mr. Nice Guy" preaches a similar message. I'm looking into therapy at the moment, as I know there's a bit of a mess under the hood. Thank you for the advice, I think I'm going to give the book a re-read to refresh myself and take a deeper look at my child hood
/r/TheRedPill31/05/23 01:08 AM
1

I appreciate the input. There's a lot of truth in your post. I've preached that men are success objects while women are sex objects, but in practice I'm falling short. Part of how I value women is their social economic status, that's a trend I've just now been made aware of. (That's actually a lot for me to unpack, I'm not sure why I do this.) I definitely got too serious too fast with my last chick. She commented on it now that I look back. Lastly, I think mastery of Game is the next step for m…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/23 01:05 AM
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Honestly, I think I see these women as status symbols. Not only are they a source of validation, but they're also a way for me to show my friends and family that "hey, I'm not a fuck up." or "hey, I'm doing well in life." I know, I know, I know. Be better. But no matter how much I work on myself, I'll always gain status from dating a Beyonce. Even if I have the mansion and the yatch and the 100 million in my bank account. I can always add a 10/10 to my arsenal. I damage my image when I'm flexing…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/23 12:26 AM
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I identify as the dominate partner in the bed room. Being entirely honest with you, I've noticed I am willing to play a more submissive role but only with the type of women I wrote about in my post. Lets take eating out for example. Very rarely do I want to do it. But with women I see as "above" me, I love it. I could eat them out for hours, and I have. I enjoy them being in more of a dominant role, but it's always with the understanding that IM letting them, not that they're making me. I still …
/r/TheRedPill31/05/23 12:10 AM
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Never been tested but I'm a body builder/ personal trainer. 190lbs body weight, benching 295lb, Squatting 405, and deading 500lb. I seriously doubt I have low test, never been tested though.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/23 11:40 PM
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I used motherly in the sense that they seem to take lead and frame in the relationship, but you're right. The women I catch oneitis for are "out of my league," but not in terms of physical attraction, just in terms of success/ potential in life. For example, I've found myself sleeping with a stripper/ adult content creator lately. She's just as pretty as any other girl I've caught oneitis for (arguably hotter) but knowing how she makes her money (and just how she navigates life) makes me so much…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/23 11:34 PM
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I've always been lead by women. My relationship with my mother as a child was usually her being upset which taught me to stay away. She was very bossy, demeaning, and physically abused me until I got a little older. Around age 12-13 things flipped with her, I think because I finally grew past her in height. She started to be much more receptive to what I had to say, never hit me or even hinted at it, hell she never even raised her voice at me. I can recall a lot of times she had depended on me r…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/23 07:30 PM
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I'm new to red pill. I've posted once or twice. Been here long enough to realize how much work I still need to do. The hardest thing for me to conceptualize is frame. It's one of those things we all operate on, but are rarely made aware of it. I think I have a better understanding of it now, but when it was first introduced to me it just didn't click. Beyond that, game in general. For me, things like agree & amplify and cocky/ funny are still hard to get the hang of. Shit tests are difficult for…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/23 04:29 PM
1

I've been consistent with the gym for two years now, just getting into MMA. Starting to get tired of body building/ power lifting which has naturally drawn me to focus on other areas of my life, main reason why I started MMA. I don't think the habit is going away anytime soon, but I wish I could rediscover the gym all over again lol.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/23 08:20 PM
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Copy that. I appreciate you breaking it down for me. Friends, Social skills, and education are my priority atm.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/23 08:00 PM
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Yeah I know your right, I wont care in a few months. I'm still in a withdrawal phase, similar to you back in college. Ik she's toxic too smh.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/23 09:59 AM
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The way you worded things really clicked with me. Right now the only thing I have going for me is my physical appearance. I'm a gym rat with solid genetics, and since I started lifting nearly all of my attraction from women has come from that fact. I've gotten pretty bored of lifting and recently added MMA to the mix, with the hopes that I can find some more like-minded individuals. My current focus is on expanding my social circle, as that seems to be what I'm craving the most now that my relat…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/23 01:11 AM
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Thanks for clarifying. I have the basics down, I'm pretty well off for my age. 23 with 60k a year. Nothing crazy but a hell of a lot more than my friends. My own car and my own crib as well of course. Fairly attractive and great body, been in the gym for 2 years. If I looked at maslow's hierarchy of needs, I'm at level 3. My social life is awful. I'm military and away from home, I haven't done the best job at making new friends since getting to my new base 3 years ago. If my car broke down there…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/23 12:51 AM
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Would you say women should never be the goal? I've taken the opposite approach, and made it the goal to practice spinning plates. Do you think this goal is short sighted?
/r/TheRedPill14/02/23 12:30 AM
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I appreciate your perspective. I never thought about like that. I noticed a lot of my pervious issues went away when the two of us first started seeing one another. It never occurred to me that I had just replaced a few bad habits for a single person. It's a lot to take in but I think you're right. Other areas of my life are lacking and I've been coping.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/23 12:02 AM
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More anxious than depressed. I have has issues with substances in the past aswell. I'm putting in the work to straighten out my mental health
/r/TheRedPill13/02/23 11:54 PM
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OP here. Thank you all for the responses. I know I have a lot of work to put in. You guys are telling me I never swallowed the red pill to begin with, and that I basically got a really good look at the damn thing but never put it down the hatch. I'd have to agree. I haven't read all the material, I haven't practiced the lessons in real life, I haven't solidified my understanding. I just discovered the community and convinced myself I had nothing to learn. Wouldn't've entered a LTR after meeting …
/r/TheRedPill07/02/23 07:29 PM
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