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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 3 | This was painful to watchOkay, the ending actually made me tear up... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 05:26 PM |
| 13 | Fear of “glowing up”?This is so helpful - thanks. I really like that you understand the struggle realistically, so you know when you can handle it and when you can’t. And I love when you said “last thing I want are men’s actions to influence me.” Thanks for sharing. :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 10:30 PM |
| 4 | I Said This Before and I'll Keep Saying It, No One is Entitled to You Giving a Clear "No." YOU HAVE A RIGHT TO STAY SAFE!The brains are shrinkingg as we speak. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 12:41 AM |
| 6 | Or- better yet, don’t reply.Yessss. Last words to my toxic LV ex weren’t even words - it was just a gif. ✌🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 12:39 AM |
| 4 | Oh manlets and their requestsOmg 😑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 12:38 AM |
| 50 | Gabrielle Union, age 46. What wall?!Baby girl is more GORGEOUS than me and she’s 20 years my senior. 🔥 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 12:37 AM |
| 9 | A lot of great points were made on my last post to stay off apps geared towards plus sized people, so I'll be deleting this one. But the audacity of gross scrotes when I swipe through makes me need eyebleach.okay - there are NO words. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 12:36 AM |
| 5 | The day before our first date! He’s been asking me out for weeks and now he reveals himself!!👎🏼👎🏼👎🏼👎🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 12:35 AM |
| 15 | 20 years to be exact and he still sent this, so something tells me he usually doesn’t resist at alleeeeeeeeeeeew | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 11:04 PM |
| 26 | 2 letters, yeI love saying that too 😌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 11:03 PM |
| 10 | Random dude tells me I fit the style he is into as if I asked to partake in some sort of test to meet his criteria. Lucky me!!!!!! *eyeroll*Omg! You’re sO lucky!! You fit the ‘style’ he’s into! ✨ He literally sounds like a slave owner. And also like the captain of the fuckboi bus. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 09:45 PM |
| 28 | IS MARRIAGE A SOCIAL CONSTRUCT?Honestly, I’m not sure either. I do think men benefit so much more from marriages than women. Because most men just take while women give. I know that I’ve seen enough bad/mediocre (aka also bad) marriages to not desire it. I don’t even care if I’m in my late 20’s. Most men are toxic, emotionally lazy, liars and addicts. What I love is that when I have found myself in bad relationships, I have all the power to leave them - with not much to clean up afterwards (no kids, not having to divorce, etc… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 09:41 PM |
| 11 | Men never listen to me - especially detailed questions.He didn’t think you were a woman because of how you act? 🥴 See - it’s such a huge norm for women to shrink themselves and be soft and kind and inviting aka ignored, interrupted and walk all over. No. You are definitely not stupid. You’re really smart AND bold to be combatting this stuff and not just letting it be. You fight barriers so your voice can be heard and that’s hella respectable. ♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 03:13 PM |
| 28 | Just LVM Things“Fartsssss” 😭😭😭😭😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 04:36 AM |
| 107 | Men never listen to me - especially detailed questions.Yessssssssss. Experienced this alllll the time with my ex. I felt so crazy until I realized he was literally just a dumb shit who really couldn’t hold conversations. I really had to break it down like he was 5 all the time. And I would just hate myself every time because I’d think why tf am I doing this??????? Now with your boss.... BRAVO for being more aggressive in your question. Men for the most part really just don’t listen/talk over women. I was just talking about this with my sister who’s … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 04:32 AM |
| 15 | HVM media examples?Max from catfish. Low key have a crush on him. He’s super smart, talented, stands up for people who are taken advantage of, in different episodes you can see him wearing a t-shirt that says “the future is female” “feminist” and “black lives matter”. He takes time off the show to be with his wife. Honestly, Max is the reason moving forward I will only date a man if he considers himself a feminist, and if he cares about the oppression of people. Plus I think he’s a hawtie to the max. 👈🏼👈🏼 see what… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 02:03 PM |
| 27 | No turning backThis made me literally lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 01:58 PM |
| 23 | Scrote stumbles across posts his SO made about him on FDS. Scrotey outrage ensues!😏😏💋 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 04:04 AM |
| 36 | Hating misogynistic behavior = / = hating menOkay, this person is for sure a bitch - honestly not sure if it’s a male or female because it’s really hard for me to fathom a female thinking this. Secondly, “why do we always have to split the two genders like their two different species?” So okay it is a female, and she has degraded herself to think like a man.... thinking it’s cooooooOooOol to not only HAVE animalistic impulses, but to also act on them. Deep down this person HAS to be really, really hopeless about the current state of men - … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 01:09 AM |
| 3 | Never even realized it was the norm for LVMs to expect (and often GET) praise for doing the most baaaaasic things until I met this sub. It’s revolting now.Sweet! Thanks :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 02:49 AM |
| 78 | Look out for #1, ladiesAnd they really had to use a dusty male too. Accurate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 02:19 AM |
| 8 | Never even realized it was the norm for LVMs to expect (and often GET) praise for doing the most baaaaasic things until I met this sub. It’s revolting now.Who is it???? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 02:18 AM |
| 103 | Honestly just thought this was so funny, I mean what else do you say back to that? Of course I am beautiful 100% of the time!!Little bitch wants you to only find your worth from him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 02:08 AM |
| 15 | Never even realized it was the norm for LVMs to expect (and often GET) praise for doing the most baaaaasic things until I met this sub. It’s revolting now.I think if you follow the right people on TikTok you’ll find a bunch of videos like this. It’s amazing. ✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 02:06 AM |
| 37 | dating pool today :)I was just about to say this. Probably meant “man child”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 01:33 AM |
| 7 | Ladies, I’m a roll. Roast em’!HAAAA! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 10:48 PM |
| 17 | Tired fuccbois during covid-19 too?😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 09:40 PM |
| 6 | Came across this profile on Tinder - these type of men think they're funny, but it's honestly just very disturbing!Yeah, I fuckin done with online dating. It’s scary and depressing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 05:41 PM |
| 11 | If a woman chooses to forgive/stay with her cheating spouse that’s her choice, but no one will ever convince me that their relationship is goals or anything to aspire to.100%. If fucking Beyoncé can be cheated on, bro we all can. I pray every night that women realize their power and don’t succumb to a dusty ass bitch. You have no idea how the tables turn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 03:26 AM |
| 20 | If a woman chooses to forgive/stay with her cheating spouse that’s her choice, but no one will ever convince me that their relationship is goals or anything to aspire to.YES. She has so much to offer - I’ve always looked up to her. And like I said, I used to feel like her and jay z had the best love but um yeah no. He’s a fuckhead and she has sooooooooo much. She’s bangin, she has so much talent. I feel like deep down she is passionate about women’s rights, but I think she sells out for money and the image. I think it weighs on her. Let me just say... should she decide to divorce jay z, I would 100000000% celebrate her. I already think she’s a damn powerhouse. I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 12:36 AM |
| 17 | Finally found my HVM ladies!!! 🤗 He's totally into talking about feminism with his homeboy and didn't even mean to let me know about it. Hello hubby 😍Ew. How fucking cringey. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 11:52 PM |
| 6 | Misogynist Men Hate FDS Because We Expose Their TacticsAmen 👏🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 11:50 PM |
| 8 | If a woman chooses to forgive/stay with her cheating spouse that’s her choice, but no one will ever convince me that their relationship is goals or anything to aspire to.Exactly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 11:50 PM |
| 62 | If a woman chooses to forgive/stay with her cheating spouse that’s her choice, but no one will ever convince me that their relationship is goals or anything to aspire to.Agreed. I used to think Beyoncé and Jay Z had an amazing love because she forgave him for cheating. 😑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 04:38 PM |
| 9 | New realization after breaking up with a violent ex.I feel like I’m falling into a downward spiral, no matter how hard I try. I’ve done so much for myself to be independent. I have a well paying job I LOVE that has allowed me to get my OWN apartment and be financially independent. It’s already hard enough to break up with a guy who treated you like shit - because I’m haunted by the good ways he made me feel too and I’m grasping onto anything that makes me feel worth it. It’s really hard to feel worth it when both of your parents view you as shit.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 11:12 PM |
| 42 | “We’re not rewarding minimal effort.” Tik Tok is pleasantly surprise meOmg 😂 I love her. This is amazing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 07:47 PM |
| 14 | Can we please talk about this nonsense? I’m trying to understand what’s going on here?👆🏼👆🏼👆🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 02:28 PM |
| 14 | I might give him a whole dollar if he acts right😂👏🏼👏🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 09:05 PM |
| 5 | I might give him a whole dollar if he acts rightMy ex, too. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 09:05 PM |
| 7 | He hasn’t asked me one question about myself yet, or even made me laugh. Why are we even talking about meeting yet? Clearly just interested in one thing overall. No thanks ✌️He’s a loser. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 09:18 PM |
| 10 | In which depraved men of Reddit openly admit to being pornsick pedosWow. I agree. Because their lives were taken from them as children, but they are still alive and have to navigate it now. It breaks a child’s psyche. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 08:17 PM |
| 9 | My mom always gets so upset when I tell her, I won’t marry a Muslim dude even if my life depends on it. I’m sorry if I offend anyone, but as someone who spent years studying the religion, the whole thing is super misogynistic when it come to women.Right. Like you’re not the one who’d have to wake up next to the dusty bitch everyday. 🤨🤨🤨 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 05:04 PM |
| 30 | My mom always gets so upset when I tell her, I won’t marry a Muslim dude even if my life depends on it. I’m sorry if I offend anyone, but as someone who spent years studying the religion, the whole thing is super misogynistic when it come to women.UGHHHHHHHHHH good for you standing up for YOUR life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 04:04 PM |
| 21 | In which depraved men of Reddit openly admit to being pornsick pedosFuckers. I have 3 brothers who were molested by my dad. They all three have SEVERE mental illness. 2 of them are in their 30’s and are so handicapped in their lives. I WISH a grown ass man would’ve done to them what they want to do to children. Would it be okay still? Would it be natural? Would they be standing here today calling it honorable? Stupid fucks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 03:50 PM |
| 31 | In which depraved men of Reddit openly admit to being pornsick pedosMales are literally becoming less than animals. There is NOTHING natural or okay with being attracted to children. It is absolutely evil. And this bullshit about not acting on the thoughts being honorable in any way is FUCKING GARBAGE. It’s exactly how porn works. It is a drug - they are a slave to the stimulation. It starts out as “light” porn, but soon that’s not enough. It takes more and more stimulation to get off. The “thoughts” of children won’t be enough soon. Fuck these depraved, evil pi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 03:44 PM |
| 6 | Gail Dines: Putting the Radical back in Feminism ——- she is fire. If you don’t want to listen to all of it, start at 33:36.Of course. All of her videos are gold. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 03:32 PM |
| 11 | Gail Dines: Putting the Radical back in Feminism ——- she is fire. If you don’t want to listen to all of it, start at 33:36.Couldn’t have said it better myself. Listening to her videos makes my desire to be with any man someday just diminish. It’s not even just that it’s a head ache and waste of my life arguing with a male about the basic ways to treat a human, let alone someone they “claim” to love - it’s straight up dangerous. These creatures are so far gone, so far removed from basic empathy, compassion. All they do is cause destruction. I believe that the majority of them are walking around with an undiagnosed me… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 03:30 PM |
| 15 | NVM gaslighting in meme form 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️Omg 🤨 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 01:03 PM |
| 45 | What Awesome Things Did You Accomplish After Getting Rid of the LVM or NVM?I’ve done the same as you: have made my home a peaceful, open, creative space for me once again. I gained a lot of weight during my toxic relationship with my NV ex - mostly due to drinking so much (why our relationship even happened and lasted 7 months) so I cut out alcohol, been doing intermittent fasting, working out and drinking lots more water. Eating healthier. I’m also taking up knitting and getting back into drawing (one of my most favorite hobbies). Been listening to podcasts he would h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 03:07 AM |
| 2 | Scroll to 0:50 for Elon Musk's new fiance (2nd wife) talking about him proposing after ten days, how she would have said yes to almost anyone, how her parents are traumatized by the whole experience, and how she often has the urge to escape.I find him very creepy looking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 06:18 PM |
| 2 | Men don’t understand why I would ever want to stay single. They call me “man hater” and tell me to just “lower my standards” and I’ll quickly find a boyfriend. Why do they find the idea of a woman wanting to stay single so offensive?Ew! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 06:15 PM |
| 54 | Men are far sicker in the head than we can ever imagine. Predatory men are the NORM.What a piece of shit reprobate. I can’t express the hatred in my heart. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 02:33 PM |
| 13 | Reminder: Rich and Famous does NOT equal high value. Gail Dines exposes a Hollywood legend who beat two prostitutes to the point of physical and mental disability.Wow. Thanks for sharing this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 02:27 PM |
| 196 | Men don’t understand why I would ever want to stay single. They call me “man hater” and tell me to just “lower my standards” and I’ll quickly find a boyfriend. Why do they find the idea of a woman wanting to stay single so offensive?My theory is that it challenges the part of them that is a child that needs a woman in their life to leach off of. It’s not just that they can’t comprehend the idea of being happy and content with being single - they are offended at the thought. Because they are weak and you are strong. How dare you not need them. 👸🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 02:36 AM |
| 43 | One male’s version of leveling up“He sucks his snot back in constantly” Hahahahahahahahahhahahahaha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 01:25 AM |
| 19 | BF forgets my birthday, tries to make me believe expecting a gift is childish😂 omg | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 10:33 PM |
| 84 | For real?How big is your brain my dude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 08:41 PM |
| 131 | I cannot get over how disrespectful Justin Bieber is to his wife “Listen to me woman.”He talks as if he’s holding on for dear life to his last remaining brain cell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 05:23 PM |
| 9 | Black Don't CrackDAYUM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 01:51 PM |
| 22 | I think you mean you want a servant, Nathan9” dick he doesn’t know how to make a woman cum with | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 01:15 PM |
| 6 | I think you mean you want a servant, Nathan😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 01:14 PM |
| 15 | Really hoping that this is a jokeLove his username. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 12:59 PM |
| 30 | Really hoping that this is a joke😆😆😆😆😆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 12:58 PM |
| 34 | HVM setting a shining example for his family/friendsAw, why a lovely grandpa!! “I don’t want to know you” - I like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 12:57 PM |
| 4 | Low Self Esteem? This Simple Daily Task COMPLETELY Transformed My LifeI freaking love this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 04:19 AM |
| 2 | Low Self Esteem? This Simple Daily Task COMPLETELY Transformed My LifeDEF going to start doing this. Thanks for sharing! 💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 04:19 AM |
| 93 | I don’t even have words for this. Ladies, NEVER take back a cheater 🤮I can’t believe the question, alone! Why did you stick with your SO???? Why did YOU as the cheater stick with the SO you cheated on??? What? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/20 07:54 PM |
| 7 | LEVELING UP IS A CHOICE WE GET TO MAKE EVERY DAYI keep seeing this guy and these messages. Who is this guy? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/20 04:20 PM |
| 6 | So it finally happened... ex messaged me out of the blue 👻This was thoroughly enjoyable to read (especially with the added gifs). What a queen. 💞 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/20 03:44 PM |
| 5 | So it finally happened... ex messaged me out of the blue 👻👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/20 03:42 PM |
| 2 | Even yeast infections aren’t a turn off.My ex did this, too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/20 02:17 AM |
| 20 | To the woman that needs to hear this today 😘Oooo, I like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/20 02:14 AM |
| 6 | Is it just me or are OLD guys awful at conversation?Me too. I don’t think it’s appropriate to be in a social media platform where the conversations are private and delete. My clown ass dated a boy who had Snapchat and would even snap his EX! He ended up deleting it “for me” but it took enough stress and asking and trying to explain to him why it’s shady and unnecessary to realize I’m never dating a guy again who has Snapchat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 06:00 PM |
| 392 | Pedophilic scrote logic“I almost see her as a baby” that I like to fuck. “I regret telling her the real reason” because now I can’t fuck what in my eyes is a baby. I can NOT wrap my mind around how depraved guys are - let alone how little fucking shame they have to freely admit how depraved they are. He is so far removed from honor, integrity and guilt that he doesn’t even hear the vile shit coming from his mouth. I hate this person immensely. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 02:11 PM |
| 57 | Get outYou are definitely not overreacting. This boy is literally trying to pressure you into having sex. He doesn’t care at all that you wouldn’t enjoy it because you’re too tired or worn out. He literally wants to use your body to get off and has no regard for your feelings or well-being. He seems like he (like a lot of fuckboys) believes your body is his property and you owe him sex when he wants it. At best that is depraved and disgusting. It’s DEFINITELY not love. He is willing to put you through … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 02:05 PM |
| 2 | Please give me the push I need to leave my FWB-turned-boyfriend, who can't so much as call me pretty.Imagine spending your life with him. Never being told you’re beautiful. Calling a woman beautiful is done even by the most lazy losers - it’s not even enough of what you deserve and he can’t even do that? If you stay with him, even if there are things he does you enjoy and make you happy, you will always battle with your self-worth being cut. And worst part is you’ll battle with allowing yourself to be treated this way. You’ll wonder if you could have met a man who is actually in love with you a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 01:52 PM |
| 21 | Something I just randomly remembered made me smileOkay at first I was like this is garbage, but then I saw the end. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 01:14 PM |
| 14 | DATE PARTNERS, NOT PROJECTS 👏🏻😂😂😂😂 I have no words. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 01:10 PM |
| 11 | Is it just me or are OLD guys awful at conversation?Right. Like get out fuckboy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 03:42 AM |
| 23 | Is it just me or are OLD guys awful at conversation?😂 I fucking hate Snapchat. If a guy puts his snap on his profile I immediately swipe left. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 03:22 AM |
| 30 | Is it just me or are OLD guys awful at conversation?I can 100% relate. It feels like a fucking chore talking to some guys. They’re just super boring and bring nothing to the conversation. Like my mom says, their “walking lobotomies”. As soon as I feel like I have to keep the convo going, I quit because it’s a chore not worth doing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Is it normal to feel afraid for your safety when you break up with an LVM?Thank you! I’ll look into that book. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 02:21 AM |
| 12 | I'm so disgusted by my past behavior and what I used to tolerate. How do I move on?Something that helps me is to think about the things he did that you hated - the things that hurt you and cut at your self worth. Things you don’t want to spend the rest of your life feeling/battling. I started to make a list on my phone of everything I didn’t like about him and I thought it’d be hard but i couldn’t stop once I started and the list is super long. It helps put things in perspective because it’s easy to only remember the good things but that’s not reality and if you fall into only… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 02:16 AM |
| 15 | I'm so disgusted by my past behavior and what I used to tolerate. How do I move on?I’ve been feeling similar. The other day, I was working from home and just thinking about the stuff I allowed my ex to do to me and the horrible, hateful behavior I accepted from him and forgave over and over again. I was thinking about how I just stuffed my feelings and wants down and put his wants and feelings (which were hurtful to me and our relationship) over mine. I started crying. I felt like I was seeing myself as someone else - like one of my best friends, sister or mother would see me … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 02:10 AM |
| 35 | How to Tell if He's HV/LV/NV for YouWow, this is amazing. Never thought about it like that. Thanks for sharing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 09:18 PM |
| 4 | Is it normal to feel afraid for your safety when you break up with an LVM?So depraved. That’s awful. Who tries to force someone to be in their life? No shame. Only a fool won’t take a (HUGE) hint and has zero self respect to try and stay where they are clearly UNWANTED. It makes me wish he would just hurry up and bang or date someone else or do something that will make him lose interest in me altogether. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 04:30 PM |
| 5 | Is it normal to feel afraid for your safety when you break up with an LVM?That would be amazing, but that would be a lot of work to move all my stuff. I’m also not sure if I’d have to pay for that. If I could do that I will. My apartment complex issss renovating a section, maybe they’ll offer the current residents the option to move to then once their done. That’d be awesome. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 03:12 PM |
| 3 | Is it normal to feel afraid for your safety when you break up with an LVM?Right. She usually needs to go to the bathroom before bed but maybe I’ll just start taking her right before it gets dark out. Good idea. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 02:07 PM |
| 3 | Is it normal to feel afraid for your safety when you break up with an LVM?I like that! What is the app called? No. But it’s been a day and he wasn’t drunk or high when we broke up. I’m starting to feel that he won’t do anything but I also keep in mind that he may brood over this and now that he is home where weed and alcohol are plentiful, he may get ideas to do outlandish things - especially now that he believes we got a dog together (when really she is mine). He has tried to take her before... physically taking her from me and going to his car. That’s what I think a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 01:28 PM |
| 13 | Is it normal to feel afraid for your safety when you break up with an LVM?I’m definitely learning to trust my gut. Ive been told I’m overreacting or “just need to trust people” by exes my whole life, but it’s been right so many times. I trust me more than I trust them. Yeah, I already told my sister I broke up with him, and she knows he can get violent. And I know she will tell my brother in law, who is passionately against hurting women in any way and is a bit protective of me. I appreciate all these responses, because when I get afraid or imagine horrible scenarios … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 12:39 PM |
| 8 | Is it normal to feel afraid for your safety when you break up with an LVM?I ordered pepper spray yesterday. I feel totally safe during the day just because I’m surrounded by neighbors and people are always walking their dogs outside (my apartment complex is the type that when I open my front door, I’m outside). It’s at night when I walk my dog that I get nervous and I look all around the whole time. Since I don’t have the pepper spray yet, I just have 911 pre-dialed on my phone. It makes me feel better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 12:33 PM |
| 9 | Is it normal to feel afraid for your safety when you break up with an LVM?Thank you for those resources :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 03:42 AM |
| 7 | Why is Keanu a flair? 😂😂I was wondering this too. 👀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 08:23 PM |
| 6 | DON'T DATE SIGNIFICANTLY OLDER MEN.Omg WTF!!!!! This is infuriating. Disgusting imbecile. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 08:23 PM |
| 18 | BE INDEPENDENT !! we dont want to attract these type of men.😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 04:04 AM |
| 7 | You are the prize 🎁The truth hurts like a sword 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 04:03 AM |
| 1 | Jojo’s new song “Man” is screaming FDS vibes. Love her.Yesssss. 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 04:46 AM |
| 11 | I hate this trend so muchI was wondering the same... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 01:28 PM |
| 36 | Old classmate from college messaged me after 5 years asking how I was because of the pandemic. Suddenly sends these pictures. Why do men do this?Ew | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 01:22 PM |
| 3 | Jojo’s new song “Man” is screaming FDS vibes. Love her.Awww 💕💕💕💕💕 I love that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 12:29 PM |
| 12 | Age that women first noticed men were looking at them sexually in graph form. Comments are full of the usual male denial that this ever happens. Gotta wonder why they feel so personally offended at this graph that they’d issue kneejerk rebuttals🤔Wow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Times Up Joe BidenI know, I saw it. He’s disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 10:56 PM |
| 10 | Jojo’s new song “Man” is screaming FDS vibes. Love her.Me too. :) I know. I saw an interview with her and she was explaining how she’s taken the last 2 years to dive into herself and love herself, because for a while she was going from relationship to relationship thinking it would fulfill her. I feel like this is her coming of age song and I’m so down with who she is now. ♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 09:46 PM |
| 11 | Jojo’s new song “Man” is screaming FDS vibes. Love her.I know right! I was on YouTube and saw she had new stuff and about shat myself. She’s so cool. 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 07:43 PM |
| 17 | How did you deal with the “I can cook so there’s no need for us to go out” guy when using online dating?If I see a profile that says that, I skip. If he brings anything up like that as a “first date” I say I’m not comfortable with that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 07:34 PM |
| 29 | I got this message on a dating site. What do you think, does this make you swoon?Swooning so hard right now. /s Edit: wow, didn’t mean to put “am hard right now” 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 07:28 PM |
| 35 | “Put down like a dog” I hope these men are never blessed by anything a woman gives ever again,even casual kindness ever again.I’m fuming | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 01:56 AM |
| 4 | How have you guys gotten over being dumped?Just looked 😬😬😬😬 yikes.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 11:49 PM |
| 4 | How have you guys gotten over being dumped?It’ll take as long as you want. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 11:44 PM |
| 6 | I finally dumped him, and I’m feeling sad. How do I stop caring?♥️ I hope so too girl. But until then, let’s be happy and fulfilled. We aren’t missing out on anything, because we ourselves are so much enough. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 11:42 PM |
| 28 | Times Up Joe BidenHe’s such a worm. “Creepy uncle Biden” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 10:31 PM |
| 17 | I finally dumped him, and I’m feeling sad. How do I stop caring?I’m in the same boat as you as far as I just broke up with my LVM bf too. I miss him sometimes, but overall I honestly can’t say I do. I really enjoy all the things I didn’t do because I was dating him. If you miss him, think about being with him again (realistically) a year, two, three years from now. Don’t play it up in your head either... think about it realistically. That helps me. You took a step in the right direction because you freed yourself from something that will only be a headache l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 09:27 PM |
| 14 | I feel so bad for women like thisI’m at a total loss of words. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 07:53 PM |
| 68 | Instant Left SwipeIf I don’t find him attractive, if he talks about drinking in his profile too much, if he says he smokes weed, if he has a gym selfie, if he has a pic with another girl. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 03:26 AM |
| 29 | This is horrible!!! let's try to help her!Omg! 😥😡😡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 01:19 AM |
| 13 | Any real life experience with men changing for the better?Omg I love that. “People don’t change, they just become a more evolved versions of themselves.” 🔥 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 12:30 AM |
| 9 | Any real life experience with men changing for the better?This | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 12:28 AM |
| 1 | HVM slam poetry👀👀👀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 12:22 AM |
| 40 | Too Much Emotional Labor For A Little Scroty Ego Stroke—Rihanna Gives Her Attention to What MattersI can’t listen to any songs with him for this reason. He’s a dirty scrote. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 01:55 PM |
| 11 | Too Much Emotional Labor For A Little Scroty Ego Stroke—Rihanna Gives Her Attention to What MattersPreeeeeeach | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 01:54 PM |
| 25 | Harvey Weinstein, 68, tests positive for Coronavirus. Has underlying conditions. Is now in isolation cell.Boy bye. 👋🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 01:53 PM |
| 8 | To all the lurking pickmes and FDS newbies!👆🏼👆🏼👆🏼👆🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 01:52 PM |
| 1 | What are some bad hygiene habits an LVM you dated had?Good for you for breaking up with him for that. I’ve dated so many guys for way too long that had bad oral hygiene. I feel like I’m finally leveling up as far as that goes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 01:46 PM |
| 3 | What are some bad hygiene habits an LVM you dated had?OMG get tf out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! That is depraved on a whole new level!!!!!!! He sounds like a villain from Batman!!!!!!!!! OMG!!!!!!! I’m beyond myself! I understand why you would never tell anybody that - I wouldn’t either just out of sheer embarrassment of him. I HATE French kissing too because yeah - I dont trust that these scrotes are fuckin clean! I just imagine all the bacteria and I just, the mood is gone. Over something so damn basic - hygiene. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 01:17 PM |
| 2 | What are some bad hygiene habits an LVM you dated had?Yeah - my ex had that untrimmed mustache thing going on too. He’d have to constantly move it out of the way when kissing me. I hated it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 01:11 PM |
| 2 | What are some bad hygiene habits an LVM you dated had?Wow! There’s a sub for everything! 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 01:07 PM |
| 3 | What are some bad hygiene habits an LVM you dated had?I’m sorry. 😥 Yeah, I’m 27 and I feel like I’m only now just understanding the flaws in how society views women in relationships - thankful for this sub. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 12:54 AM |
| 5 | What are some bad hygiene habits an LVM you dated had?I had 1 fwb who was so well groomed. Such an enjoyable thing to see in a man. Which is sad because it should just be a common thing period. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 12:30 AM |
| 6 | What are some bad hygiene habits an LVM you dated had?My gf usually does it - wow. And I used to be that. 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 12:25 AM |
| 6 | What are some bad hygiene habits an LVM you dated had?Right?! Wtf! Don’t you look in the mirror and think YIKES. 🤨 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 12:18 AM |
| 7 | What are some bad hygiene habits an LVM you dated had?I know, same!! I HATE seeing any hair at all on my bathroom counter. I have curly hair and it sheds a lot - but I alwaaaays pick it up. I just hate the sight of it. Why are men literal farm animals? Pisses me off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 12:17 AM |
| 2 | What are some bad hygiene habits an LVM you dated had?What! Can I just ask, what kept you dating him for as long as you did?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Man wants to know how to teach his daughter how to masturbateOH my gosh!!!!! Pedo status | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 10:56 PM |
| 11 | What are some bad hygiene habits an LVM you dated had?Omg! Disgusting! My ex would brush his long ass cave man beard and leave his nasty chin pubs all over the sink, too. Like wtf? Are you blind? Do your hands work?! He also had really bad night sweats. 🤢 It got even worse sometimes. There was a few times he drank too much and missing the toilet when peeing. One night... he LEGIT slept walk and stood up in the corner of my room and PISSED. I’m beyond myself that I stayed with him for months after that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 10:08 PM |
| 10 | What are some bad hygiene habits an LVM you dated had?I’m dead now. Tf hell NO! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 08:17 PM |
| 12 | Just found out through a mutual friend how my ex describes my genitals in relation to other girls genitalsWhat a tool. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 06:43 PM |
| 36 | Quarantine or GTFOThank you 💕 I was afraid I’d be sad and lonely - I’m so much happier and peaceful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 06:39 PM |
| 13 | What are some bad hygiene habits an LVM you dated had?I cringed so hard reading this I think I just gave myself more wrinkles. Omg. What we allow ourselves to be subject to. 🤢 no more for me! I expect the same level of cleanliness as myself. I don’t care if your parents just didn’t teach you or if you are just a lazy ass hat. Naw. Nope. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 06:37 PM |
| 11 | What are some bad hygiene habits an LVM you dated had?Gosh, some of them are literally cows. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 06:19 PM |
| 15 | What are some bad hygiene habits an LVM you dated had?Nooooooo!!!!!! 😫 why why why! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 06:18 PM |
| 17 | What are some bad hygiene habits an LVM you dated had?it’s so freaking nasty to kiss someone who doesn’t even brush their teeth properly. Like I’m gonna catch whatever nasty bacterial infection you have goin on in there. 😖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 06:12 PM |
| 18 | What are some bad hygiene habits an LVM you dated had?Ew! Maybe because you smell of shit and if your oily skin touches mine, I’ll break out. 😡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 06:10 PM |
| 12 | What are some bad hygiene habits an LVM you dated had?Ohhhhhhhhh my gosh. 😩🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 06:08 PM |
| 28 | What are some bad hygiene habits an LVM you dated had?Ew. 😒 When I started dating my ex, he would never get his hair cut or shave his damn beard. I was a stupid pickme. I literally let myself spend so much energy and time investing into a man who doesn’t even care to invest in his own personal hygiene or physical appearance. Huge red flag for next time. If he can’t take care of himself in the most basic ways, he won’t be capable of taking care of me the way I deserve. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 06:07 PM |
| 15 | Daily reminder to take zero shit from men!!👀👀👀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 04:26 PM |
| 57 | I bet he thinks he's being soo cute being this uselessI saw this post. Literally thought the same thing. You’re pissed because you can’t make a bowl of oatmeal? Yikes... survival of the fittest. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 04:26 PM |
| 118 | Quarantine or GTFOSend him home. My boyfriend started acting more crazy too because of this lockdown. He got way too drunk and violent. I called the cops on him and broke up with him. Get him tf not only out of your house but out of your life. You deserve better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 03:33 PM |
| 12 | Why do men try to talk us out of our standards?PREACH. 💕 This is why I broke up with my ex. I expected HVM behavior from him and when he repeatedly dropped the ball I told him I’m not lowering my standards and that I’m done. He begged me to just stay with him. Brah, nah. Literally just explained how I do not want you. Have some self respect and find a woman who does want you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 12:54 PM |
| 23 | Please remember men like this exist. This was taken from a post about men having babies with one night stands or FWB if the woman gets pregnant. Pleaaaassseee respect yourself enough to never be in the predicament of being pregnant with a losers childWow. Just wow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 12:49 PM |
| 2 | Need help changing my mindset about my ExWe got this. 💞💞 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 04:30 AM |
| 1 | You're stressed over him....FOR WHAT?!!🤔😂Damn! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 04:28 AM |
| 3 | I lIKe nATurAl gULz😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 04:10 AM |
| 1 | The biggest ‘signs’ a man will ACTUALLY be good in bed, in my optionAgreeeeeee | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 03:49 AM |
| 1 | What the FUCK is it with eating ass these days?!!🤢🤢🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 03:47 AM |
| 2 | What the FUCK is it with eating ass these days?!!“Shitbreath motherfuckers” 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 03:42 AM |
| 2 | My mom having a beautiful FDS moment (english is her second language :P )This made me literally lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 03:29 AM |
| 1 | This subreddit ♥️💕💜💞 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 03:22 AM |
| 1 | Left him at the cafe👑👑👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 03:15 AM |
| 2 | Need help changing my mindset about my ExOmg. I know exactly how you feel about feeling like you end up looking like the crazy loser while he gets away with being literally psychotic and just such a nasty person! I just broke up with my extremely lvm ex for the second time 2 days ago because he literally flirted with my sister in front of me (he was super trashed, but idgaf... I don’t do that when I drink - when I confronted him about it he went into a rage and destroyed so much of my apartment). Can make you feel so damn crazy!! The o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 02:50 AM |
| 35 | My sister told me that her husband believes that when a man sees a beautiful woman, he’s wired to imagine her naked.“They can't handle male sexual competition and the whole patriarchal model was invented to prevent female sexual selection. That's their biggest fear.” I love that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 09:16 PM |
| 9 | LVM be like...Oh. Didn’t realize that was a thing. I don’t know if I’ll ever know how to properly reddit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 11:05 PM |
| 14 | LVM be like...Dry | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 06:14 PM |
| 2 | LVM be like...Thanks :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 06:00 PM |
| 11 | LVM be like...I’m new here. What does LVM mean? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 04:32 PM |
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