I’d been messaging with this guy from OLD for a little over a week. We had initially made a dinner date for last Saturday but his sisters ride from the airport fell through so we decided to reschedule. Then the COVID-19 stuff started to amplify and now my city’s on a “stay at home unless it’s essential protocol.” All restaurants are closed for dining in.

Well, I was bored from staying in the house and curious to meet him so accepted a date to this pretty outdoor cafe. I know it’s not FDS but literally nothing is open and I believed he genuinely tried for dinner.

Well I show up at the cafe and he texts me that he’s already sitting. I walk up and he has a water. As I go to sit he said “oh would you like anything?” I said “sure” and he proceeds to gesture me towards the register as he remains seated.

I’m bewildered. This guy can’t even bring himself to buy me a coffee!?!? Can’t even stand up to walk me into the cafe?!?! As I fume in the line I think about all the other things I could be doing in the next hour that are more worthwhile than entertaining this effeminate male. Then it hit me: I don’t HAVE to stay!

I ordered my tea and walked passed him out the door saying “ I need to get something from my car.” Instantly blocked and deleted and drove my happy ass home.

Old me; nice girl me would’ve stayed. I would’ve even hid my disappointment to try to make him interested. Im on that queen shit now. Thank you FDS