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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 8 | Boyfriend suggests a prenup to “protect” his house, OP drafts her own prenup that also protects her assets and investments. BF doesn’t like a prenup that doesn’t solely favor him and they break up.After watching the Betty season of Dirty John I am so glad to see this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 11:00 AM |
| 114 | Someone please tell me to block this LV piece of trash... apologises for not making enough effort 2 weeks ago, already back to pushing me away when I'm trying to make plansIt sounds like you’ve been chasing this man for a while so you’ve set the precedent. You can’t fix someone when you’ve already shown him how low the bar is. Block and move in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 12:23 PM |
| 26 | PSA About Age Gap RelationshipsI couldn’t help but think about Jessica on love is blind telling mark she’ll be 38 when he’s 30 and 48 when he’s 40 haha. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 12:51 AM |
| 7 | Wish I knew this before. Sure, sometimes there is something wrong with your libido. But I wouldn't count on that from my experience lol. Whether you're not sure, go see a doctor sis <3Had this issue. Could not get wet and had to use lube with him. Thought it was me. Turns out he couldn’t turn me on anymore after I lost all trust in him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 04:08 PM |
| 27 | [update{Guy who refused to split the billWhy did you match him again? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 10:41 AM |
| 5 | Putting on a voice when speaking to menShe does! It flips the second she’s talking to men vs the camera or other women. I was watching it with my brother and he actually pointed it out in the first episode before I even noticed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 08:13 PM |
| 31 | Putting on a voice when speaking to menJessica from love is blind is a textbook example of women doing this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 10:47 AM |
| 28 | High School Boy plays Pornhub Intro at black history month program. The entire assembly laughs - Extremely disappointing kids are so exposed today they can all recognize a 3 second riff as pornCould he have picked a worse assembly to do this at | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 12:23 PM |
| 3 | Should I move on?Men know right away. They don’t need six months. He is leading you on | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 11:55 AM |
| 2 | We need to push back against female traitorsYes. But sex work is also not criminalized everywhere. Categorizing it as a crime puts the blame on sex workers and not those who purchase it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 03:27 AM |
| 1 | We need to push back against female traitorsOr systemic socioeconomic issues faced by marginalized groups force certain populations into more precarious types of work? There is more than enough academic literature on this topic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 03:20 AM |
| 8 | Guy not confirmed plans for date – what course of action to take?You do not mention it and then when and if he brings it up you say you don’t do last minute plans. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 03:19 AM |
| 14 | Should I move on?Sounds like he’s already in a relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 03:15 AM |
| 5 | We need to push back against female traitorsIncluding sex workers in this list is incredibly unfair. People in those situations are often a product of their circumstances | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 03:13 AM |
| 1 | Something wholesome for once-This movie is perfect in every way | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 12:44 PM |
| 61 | Boyfriend destroys her Animal Crossing island out of spite, she later decides to work on their “communication issues”.The most disturbing part for me when I read this was that he destroyed it and then wanted to show her so he could watch her reaction. Terrifying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 05:11 PM |
| 12 | Boyfriend destroys her Animal Crossing island out of spite, she later decides to work on their “communication issues”.I think calling someone who is obviously being psychologically abused LV is a pretty LV move. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 05:11 PM |
| 1 | FDS approved moviesYes!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 06:04 PM |
| 14 | The red flags keeps piling up!Anyone asking to see you during this time - putting you, his, both of your loved ones, and wider communities at risk is not someone you should be putting any energy into. And honestly, you should have acted with more maturity during this time yourself. No one should be “dating” in person right now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 08:39 PM |
| 19 | The red flags keeps piling up!Also I just went through your post history - you saw this guy during the self-isolation period? Evidently both you and him have to reassess your priorities. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 08:36 PM |
| 26 | The red flags keeps piling up!Not sure what you’re even doing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 08:26 PM |
| 3 | Blood donation and HVMExactly!! Now isn’t the time to date but to try and help. And so many people want to help. I find that reassuring. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 11:27 PM |
| 27 | Blood donation and HVMI hadn’t! I guess the title was misleading, but it’s a green flag for me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 07:17 PM |
| 23 | Blood donation and HVMHonestly it’s more than likely haha. Only time will tell, not getting my hopes up here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 07:15 PM |
| 23 | Left him at the cafeIt’s obvious that the circumstances you mentioned are very different than going on a date. Staying at home is a privilege at this time that should have been respected. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 10:48 PM |
| 32 | Left him at the cafe“Stay home unless it’s essential”. You said it yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 10:25 PM |
| 39 | Left him at the cafeRegardless of what the CDC is saying there is a moral responsibility now to socially distance. While local businesses remain open, why she would still pursue this regardless of whether such regulations are put into place is bewildering to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 09:54 PM |
| 67 | Left him at the cafeDid you really feel a date was more important than the collective health of your community? This was pretty low value of you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 09:38 PM |
| 31 | Am I the only one who think that 90% or the dating sites profile are extremely fake? 😂What is the purpose of you even looking? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 02:49 PM |
| -3 | Lmao, I’m 19.Why do you have your settings for older men if you’re not interested? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 02:01 AM |
| 13 | Love is Blind on NetflixEveryone needs to read the love is blind subreddit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 05:40 PM |
| 5 | So he waited 4 days to tell me he’d gained like 40 pounds. He sent me this along with an updated photo after organising a date with me for tomorrowSounds like my ex | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 09:25 PM |
| 10 | To pen pal or not to pen pal?I actually wanted to put my technique out there: I always mute any chats with potential men. That way I’m not bothered with notifications and if I do reply it is naturally when I’m on my phone | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 02:33 AM |
| 12 | Do you have any stories of LVM that crashed and burned later in life?Dated my ex for two years and he led me along saying he’d marry me. Took me ring shopping in everything. Found out shortly from his family that he had been going around telling everyone in his life he’s single for months. He gained over fifty pounds after we broke up and continues to use his pre-weight gain pictures to catfish girls online. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 12:10 PM |
| 33 | Anyone else feel like there are NO attractive men out there?I can’t agree more with the travelling bit. It’s so frustrating. Like you said, not everyone has the money or schedule that allows them to travel. And just because I haven’t been to 32+ countries doesn’t make me any less worldly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 12:06 PM |
| 3 | When men ask for your InstagramSome guys ask for insta to make sure they’re not being catfished or talking to a robot. I also actually take it well when a guy adds me on Instagram since it means he’s not cheating haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/20 03:51 PM |
| 23 | “Is he nice to you?”There is literally nothing nice about this man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 04:22 PM |
| 16 | “Is he nice to you?”Isn't being nice just the bare minimum though? Everyone should be nice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 04:14 PM |
| 15 | Guys with relationship memes all over their social media..thoughts?Anyone airing any crap like that on social media has got. To. Go. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 01:59 AM |
| 19 | Guys with relationship memes all over their social media..thoughts?How old are these men? Lol. Have literally never ever encountered this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 01:53 AM |
| 25 | Men who dislike animals and especially cats are a red flagI would also just add, I’m south-asian and never grew up around any animals (though I do have a dog now). For a good portion of my life I was honestly scared of them because of this weird deep rooted fear my parents instilled in me as a kid. Some cultures just don’t open children up to having pets. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 08:15 PM |
| 4 | When a man asks for a date and you gotta assess the specific day he asked for 😒I actually like to keep my weekend evenings open for actual social outings with friends. I think it has the added benefit of making me appear busier and therefore someone to make time for on the man’s agenda | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/19 09:48 PM |
| 15 | OLD dealbreakers/red flagsAll men know the average woman will drop her panties to play with a puppy. I own a dog myself, but wouldn’t use the poor thing as a pawn for dates. It’s a low effort way to make himself look like a caring person. Additionally, this applies more if it’s a picture of his friend’s dog, not his. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/19 03:54 AM |
| 21 | OLD dealbreakers/red flagsDog pictures. Especially if it’s not their dog. Same with babies (who the hell used someone else’s child to manipulate their way into dates???) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/19 03:41 AM |
| 12 | How to navigate BumbleI treat dog pictures the same way as babies unless they specify it’s theirs. I just see it as a weird manipulation tactic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 03:28 AM |
| 11 | Tinder date is freaking me outYou better nope it straight out of there | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/19 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Following someone first on Instagram?I left it. Thank you!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/19 02:32 PM |
| 3 | Following someone first on Instagram?You’re right! Thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/19 02:31 PM |
| 2 | Following someone first on Instagram?Yes, came across their profile on the explore page. Should I just leave it be? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/19 02:07 PM |
| 2 | Following someone first on Instagram?That’s what I’m worried about as well. Any tips on how to get their attention? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/19 02:01 PM |
| 8 | Do NOT date...Lawyers/law students | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/19 09:04 PM |
| 5 | How old are you guys?26! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 01:33 AM |
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