OLD dealbreakers/red flags

Myaayu · 2019-12-09T02:35:54+00:00

No drama/ looking for something real
“Looking for a mom for my dog”
“Just ask”
Excessive emoji usage
“Looking for the Pam to my Jim”
Literally 0 personality anywhere in their profile. Please tell me something about yourself outside of Office quotes, how often you go to the gym, and how much you love hiking.
Selecting anything outside of a Monogamous relationship for what they are looking for
a dirty ass mirror selfie, gross
a picture where they are posing with cheerleaders/hooters waitresses/etc
Only selfies
Only group photos
“If I have an extra hour in the day I would..... Sleep” Yawn. I’m falling asleep at this answer.

I understand that there has to be an average that most people fall into. But people stink at filling out dating profiles in any meaningful way.

riseaboveagain · 2019-12-09T05:40:59+00:00

“I’m (older than dirt) but everybody tells me I look (much younger than dirt)!!”

Mentioning he’s confident? He isn’t

“I’m a Dom” - NO

Entrepreneur usually = unemployed

Claiming a great sense of humor, but there’s no written evidence of it

A suit pic from a wedding 10 years ago, the only time he’s ever worn one

connect2u · 2019-12-09T02:21:28+00:00

All the men I’ve encountered either just left a job, is starting a job, or is conveniently “going to school” All three to me at this age (30+) raise a red flag.

When you say you’re not interested after a few messages they suddenly turn on you. Call you names and try to insult your pictures... when five minutes ago you were the hottest thing on the internet. Lmbo.

Ms_Tilly · 2019-12-09T09:02:49+00:00

Also: “just seeing what’s out there” or my personal favorite “looking for new friends”

Flauwoor · 2019-12-09T09:45:35+00:00

'Not on here much, follow me on insta: @ fckboi923002' Naaaah.

riseaboveagain · 2019-12-09T09:02:09+00:00

Any mention of being a “king of dad jokes” like it’s supposed to be cute, attractive, endearing or unique

jalapenopancakes · 2019-12-09T01:57:05+00:00

“No drama”

connect2u · 2019-12-09T11:34:33+00:00

Oh oh also when they say... know when to laugh but also when to be serious. Isn’t this common sense?

Single dads... talking bad about the child’s mother or talking extremely well about her... like they are best friends well. I don’t think that’s normal, maybe it’s just me.

Misleading pics of him or talking about working somewhere amazing but that was 10 years ago and he is planning on getting back in that field. (Pro bull rider, nurse, CEO of a company)

Okay okay I’m done.

willget_better · 2019-12-09T03:41:49+00:00

Dog pictures. Especially if it’s not their dog. Same with babies (who the hell used someone else’s child to manipulate their way into dates???)

MissAustraliana · 2019-12-09T09:07:55+00:00

A photo in which they’re pictured with a DJ booth - worst case scenario if they’re operating one

Jeez, I’m reflecting and they just keep coming to me

cassabell1894 · 2019-12-09T21:22:00+00:00

"Fluent in sarcasm". Everytime I have come across this, they think they are witty and clever, but it's also been an excuse to use put downs and negging as a "joke".

raggedclaws_silentCs · 2019-12-10T01:27:46+00:00

Looking for “someone who can hold a conversation” (like wow, maybe you’re just sitting there only talking about yourself!) OR “someone who can hold her own in a conversation” (like whoa, I didn’t know that talking was a competition!)

FoxeyLady1967 · 2019-12-10T03:09:08+00:00

When he's a bigger cat lady than I am. NO thanks.

Title	OLD dealbreakers/red flags
Author	143somuch
Upvotes	35
Comments	29
Date	December 9, 2019 1:54 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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