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I don't know. Playing Pokemon never got me laid.
/r/askTRP08/09/18 05:06 PM
4

Yeah, what's with all this, "just tell her you don't have time to waste and walk away," shit?
/r/askTRP06/09/18 09:48 PM
9

I've had older women (like post-menopausal) tell me they don't understand the ego of today's girls. I always wonder if they were really any different. One of them told me she dated rich dudes in California so I was skeptical about whether she had been any more humble.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 08:34 PM
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Can you do without it for more than a week? If not, maybe you should ask yourself why you need it. My personal opinion is that porn should be avoided entirely. Easier said than done. I also think that soda should be avoided entirely. For the most part I don't drink it but when I occasionally have one I always feel a slight tinge of disappointment in myself. It's your call, brother, but I would advise to just cut out porn entirely.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 04:07 AM
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...Good point.
/r/askTRP03/09/18 08:24 PM
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Yes. Porn is huge problem because It is largely free and easily accessed. Seeing naked women floods the male brain with dopamine, and with pornography we have access to images of hundreds of naked girls in the blink of an eye. It's a "reward" that you didn't have to earn. The reason our brains fill with dopamine at the sight of a sexually attractive naked woman is because, generally, our ancestors had to be worth something to get to that point, and the reward was having a real life naked woman i…
/r/askTRP03/09/18 08:04 PM
1

I dunno, my eyes were just drawn to them.
/r/askTRP03/09/18 07:59 PM
1

Steve the construction worker is jacked though. He's banging, like, three married women with rich husbands.
/r/askTRP03/09/18 07:56 PM
1

Ask Amanda to the dance early. She'll probably suck your dick later, which is something you need to happen. And when she sits in your lap, grab her ass or put your hand on her thigh or something.
/r/askTRP03/09/18 05:32 AM
1

I realize this is a month old, but I'm curious about this same thing so, in my definition: Candlelit dinners, bottle of wine, bouquet of flowers, long walks by the beach/river/whatever, buying her an expensive gift every once in a while.
/r/askTRP03/09/18 02:40 AM
0

Very true. Women will know how a man whom they don't value feels about them and laugh about it with their friends.
/r/askTRP01/09/18 10:33 PM
1

Examples please.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 10:54 PM
1

Where do you meet yours?
/r/askTRP30/08/18 09:33 PM
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Where do you get your girls, vandaalen? I don't want to club, and I only seem to meet girls "where I eat" so...what works for you?
/r/askTRP30/08/18 04:56 PM
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You're in high school so you figured that out at a really good time in life. Try being in your late 20's and figuring that out.
/r/askTRP26/08/18 11:17 PM
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Good grief yes. 9 out of 10 handshakes I give to guys I get the limp noodle back. When I actually get a firm shake back it almost throws me off. Edit: guys not men
/r/TheRedPill26/08/18 04:26 AM
2

If it sounds too good to be true...
/r/askTRP25/08/18 04:06 AM
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Abstaining from masturbation is generally a good idea.
/r/askTRP25/08/18 03:52 AM
1

Well, stop it!
/r/askTRP24/08/18 05:04 AM
1

You just can't give a shit about what women think.
/r/askTRP24/08/18 05:01 AM
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I'm glad you made this comment, because lately my eye contact power has shot through the roof and I'm about as alpha as you are. Today, I go into my favorite coffee shop on campus and I'm just tired of stragglers and people who waste time. So this particular cafe sells cakes and baked goods for some reason, and this guy at the front of the line is just bitching about how he wants one of the full-sized cakes, but in cupcake size, which he obviously can't fucking get, but he won't shut up about it…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/18 04:59 AM
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I said I implemented some teachings, not that I'm a Red Pill guru. There's always more to learn.
/r/askTRP24/08/18 12:57 AM
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Yep, that's why I left my hometown.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/18 10:35 PM
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Yeah people don't like it when employees in the service industry try to dominate them. Have you ever been to a store or restaurant where the cashier was some tough-acting dude who tried to stare you down and act intimidating? It's off-putting.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 08:50 PM
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Stared at her, acted neurotic, etc.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 08:44 PM
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It seems a bunch of guys here are telling you that you are a "white knight" for trying to protect your sister. I know this is TRP and that we generally have a realist view of how women and relationships really are, and white knighting is a stupid thing to do with a woman you are pursuing. That being said, family is important, and part of the reason women are so out of control these days is because men have failed to take the commanding role over the women in their families. She's your sister. Yo…
/r/askTRP23/08/18 08:42 PM
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That's what I did.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 04:44 AM
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I'm not 100% sure. I know I stared at her a few times. I just acted nervous around her and wanted her approval. I think I just gave her a creep vibe.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 04:43 AM
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She used to.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 04:39 AM
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Aye aye, sir! Why do women freak out when men they don't like continue to exist in their premises? It's like nobody is taught today that you sometimes have to share space with people you don't care for.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 10:17 PM
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Well, actually it is largely his fault in a lot of ways, but it's not anything I can't overcome and I'm done complaining about it. I think a better message is that if your parents fucked you up, you can still overcome it, but only if you quit bitching about it and focus on bettering yourself.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/18 11:41 PM
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Are they hot? I've never been around Jewish women. I always think of Fran Drescher...
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 11:13 PM
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No.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 04:49 AM
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I thought the alpha female was just the bitch that runs the group of girls.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 03:26 AM
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If you make it a month, I swear they start to believe you might be a person.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 03:24 AM
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They know. They don't know that they know, but they know.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 03:23 AM
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By playing videogames and masturbating to open while working shitty jobs. At age 26 I decided to go to college and get away from my mom's house and away from my shitty friends, as scary as it sounded. Best thing I ever did. Life's still a bitch, but I'm growing as a person and I hope, into a man.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 03:22 AM
0

Wait 10 years.
/r/askTRP12/08/18 09:20 PM
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That's because you aren't sleeping with maximum masculinity. You don't need a mattress - those are for women and soyboys - what you need is a concrete slab or - if you have the cojones for it - a bed of nails.
/r/askTRP12/08/18 06:45 PM
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I would add admiration as well.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/18 06:38 PM
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That's not what I asked. I already knew girls are retarded, I just asked if we have to go as far as fish taco guy all the time.
/r/askTRP12/08/18 06:35 PM
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Because I tower over him and I am of average height.
/r/askTRP12/08/18 06:34 PM
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I brush my teeth with ghost pepper toothpaste to make it as alpha as possible.
/r/askTRP12/08/18 06:33 PM
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I know you're exaggerating, but I do believe women pick up on a "porn-user" vibe men put out. Whenever I go a long time without porn, my interactions with women become more natural.
/r/askTRP12/08/18 06:31 PM
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You talk to random women you don't know on the streets?
/r/askTRP12/08/18 06:29 PM
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There's a bit of gap between being a man with good fashion sense and being metrosexual. Not every guy who cares about his appearance is emulating Ryan Seacrest.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/18 01:58 AM
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Yep, and the "men are slobs" trope in advertising has been used by the media to make men look stupid for decades now. Slightly unrelated but one commercial that made me rage even before I knew what TRP was is the Hardee's commercial from a decade ago where the guy's gf broke up with him so he has to cook breakfast now and can't even properly crack an egg. Fucking dumb shit.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/18 01:55 AM
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Yep, watch a lot of girls' line of sight when looking at a man from the front and it goes head-shoes and then back to head if the shoes aren't shit...which mine are.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/18 01:50 AM
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Visit TRP if you haven't in awhile. Don't mindlessly watch TV, play videogames, or any of the other entertainment crap you used to participate in.
/r/askTRP12/08/18 01:35 AM
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Yeah, I'm pretty sure she was more attracted to me in the two minutes she saw me than she was to roomie. I decided to ignore her because he's a decent roommate.
/r/askTRP12/08/18 12:46 AM
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I have been depressed partially because I didn't have any idea what my goals should be. I had no direction when I was a teenager and in my early twenties. I'm 28 now and I still have only a vague direction I am going in. No, you shouldn't give up your dreams, you should just make sure they are actually attainable.
/r/askTRP11/08/18 11:33 PM
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I'm afraid I'm not much better, I just know the facts from the bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/18 08:56 PM
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Yeah I kinda wanted to help in out in what way I could, seeing as he offered to set me up with some Chinese girls (I declined, something seemed weird about that), and he's helped me out with some other things, but it is clear he has Chinese Nice Guy syndrome. I've spoken to other Asian-dudes-from-Asia and I keep seeing the same problem pop up. They say they want to date American women...but can't. Are the women in China just more accepting of Nice Guy qualities or something? Or are these dudes n…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/18 08:54 PM
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White guy here, I have a Chinese friend at the college I go to who wants to date white girls but I can tell his approach is all wrong. He dresses well and maintains his appearance, and most of his friends over here are Americans. Whenever I try to tell him red pill stuff he always scoffs (I never call it red pill). He was going to some party with a bunch of girls he'd worked with and they told him he had to buy them all gifts (cuz he's rich), I tried to tell him that's a stupid thing to do, but …
/r/TheRedPill10/08/18 08:31 PM
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Loneliness is how I learned to be comfortable with myself. Better friends came afterward.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/18 02:23 AM
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Don't cross that street on October 31 at 7:15 am. Don't look at porn. Stacey is a whore who will later be a heroin addict. Don't look at porn. Your dad is gonna die next summer, that anger you're holding in towards him needs to come out. Don't look at porn. Quit playing videogames. Don't look at porn. Forget about loyalty to your friends, they come and go. Don't look at porn. Leave home as soon as possible, your mom will be alright. Don't look a porn.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 02:11 AM
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I'm not Chad, I'm probably never going to be Chad, I don't think I want to be Chad. Yes, sometimes I fantasize about being Chad, but that's not me. I come here to learn how to be the best version of myself I can be. If I focus on trying to be a one-dimensional alpha male caricature, I'm gonna burn out with disappointment. Learning to stand up for myself, to strive through hardship, to interact with women the way we were meant to, to purge as much weakness from myself as I can: that is what I foc…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/18 02:06 AM
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He's no longer a part of my life, but this is a guy who thought I crossed a line when I said "fuck you" when he called me a "douchebag" after he thought I rolled my eyes at him (which I didn't). The dude lived to argue, it was like an impulse for him, and he was always right in his own view.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/18 08:31 PM
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To be fair, I do the same thing with lol or angry face or devil face with friends.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 08:27 PM
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What happens when you have to deal with a psycho who keeps amping up the tests though? I had an old "friend" like that... He would seem to get angrier the more I would try to pass his tests.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/18 08:19 PM
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Hey, quit judging him on his meme skills, you don't know what he's been through!
/r/MGTOW06/08/18 03:58 PM
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This is just what i needed to read. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/18 07:45 AM
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Yep, and before you start to change yourself they always like to remind you of the thing you need to change.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 02:03 AM
3

Where did this happen so I know where to avoid?
/r/askTRP30/06/18 04:01 PM
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He died 10 years ago. I felt guilty for having a sense of freedom from him. Other than that, I'm done talking about it.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 02:15 AM
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I don't really know to be honest.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/18 02:43 AM
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My grandmother used to complain about this since my mom was a kid. I noticed it when I was a kid. Seems like the only exception was Red Foreman.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/18 02:34 AM
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I fondly remember some of my days playing videogames in my youth, but I in no way want to return to those days.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 11:40 PM
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I employed stoicism (based on my limited understanding of it) this past week at my job after having a bad time. It made everything easier. My boss actually gave me some respect at the end of the week.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/18 11:38 PM
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Haha, I'll pass. I already have a PS4 to sell to somebody else.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/18 11:36 PM
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I looked at a girl at work for too long apparently one day. She said "what are you looking at?' in a shitty tone. She then proceeded to be pushy with me for no reason so I got assertive with her right back. She backed off. Since then I haven't acknowledged her unless I absolutely have to and I can tell it bothers her now.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/18 05:02 AM
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I knew this would happen eventually. I used to be scared of looking at women for fear of them thinking I'm a creep. They've been building up to this shit.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/18 04:58 AM
1

Yeah, that's been on my mind awhile actually.
/r/askTRP15/06/18 02:59 AM
2

I know about black chicks being more masculine. It's just on the campus I'm at, Latinos are the least populous of everybody. I always had the impression that Latino men were super masculine (they coined the term "macho") and Latina women were super feminine but with a bit more aggression than your white and Asian chicks.
/r/askTRP15/06/18 02:57 AM
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What makes Latinas better? Honest curiosity here.
/r/askTRP15/06/18 01:47 AM
1

Some girls have admirable personalities, but women don't really want your admiration, I've found out. They want a man they can admire. The more you show your admiration towards her, the more you ultimately pedestalize her. I met a woman I admired. Chinese lady, spoke fluent English and French, master piano player. Very well read. Moved with a grace I'd never seen before. But I admired her too much and she could sense it, and I think she saw it as a childish trait. I can't really blame her. Now I…
/r/askTRP15/06/18 01:41 AM
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I kinda have forgiven him. I pity him more than I hate him now, but the anger towards him tends to flare up when I fuck something up and hear his verbal abuse echoing back at me.
/r/askTRP15/06/18 01:32 AM
1

This is key. I've changed noticeably in the past three months, but I'm nowhere near the end of the journey. I'm not even halfway through, but I'm moving.
/r/askTRP15/06/18 12:49 AM
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Nobody ever really explained properly to us why they are stupid and childish, did they?
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 06:11 PM
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But that doesn't mean that they're dressing like a man if they don't show skin.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 04:43 AM
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How does lack of skin showing = dressing like a man? Ugh, I forgot how ugly the Dragon Age characters looked... Funny enough, DA:I was the game that made me realize I was wasting my life.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 03:25 AM
0

Josephine wears a skirt...
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 02:28 AM
1

Maybe you aren't giving yourself enough credit. Maybe in a society that is starved of quality men, women your age aren't as picky as you think. Maybe the 80-20 rule is a bunch of hyperbole. Who knows? Just go with it and don't get complacent.
/r/askTRP13/06/18 11:40 PM
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She's basically a Spaniard, but alright. Nevertheless, she is the only correct option.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 11:36 PM
1

Stop counting the days.
/r/askTRP13/06/18 11:30 PM
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Yeah, it always irritates me when a baby boomer or a Gen Xer complains about millenials and so on being snowflakes when they're the ones that taught us that shit. Yes, it's an irritating attitude that pervades society, but kids don't learn that garbage on their own.
/r/askTRP13/06/18 11:29 PM
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Almost hard to believe it's the same person.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 06:05 AM
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Any real life examples?
/r/askTRP13/06/18 02:22 AM
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It's weird how once you start getting the form down for lifting, it really stops being uncomfortable, even when you are having a hard time finishing. This happened today with squats. I really had to push to get the last couple reps in, but my form was good and I didn't really feel uncomfortable...
/r/TheRedPill11/06/18 11:46 PM
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I try to take a cold shower every day to embrace this philosophy.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/18 11:43 PM
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Golden reply.
/r/askTRP07/06/18 07:19 PM
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That's why I'm not taking up any of my beta friend's offers to have any girls I'm interested come do stuff with us as a group. Beta males are treacherous.
/r/askTRP07/06/18 07:12 PM
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Once you get past the validation mentality, you won't care if you're a 5/10 or a 9/10. Besides, looks really aren't everything. I've met gorgeous 9/10's that dropped to 3's once they opened their mouths. I've met girls that weren't amazingly attractive at first glance that had other things going for them once I observed them more. It matters less for guys. Quit going to r/rateme, it's an unfortunate byproduct of a culture of narcissism gone rampant.
/r/askTRP07/06/18 01:08 AM
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Tough talkers mostly make me cringe. Especially the guys that always talk about how they "used to get in fights all the time" before they left high school or whatever. I worked with a guy like that for a year. He didn't realize everyone around him was rolling their eyes.
/r/askTRP07/06/18 12:49 AM
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Why should I even notice some jealous bluepill guy? I don't give a fuck if guys are staring at me I don't notice them. Because they're threats to your well-being. There are a lot of dangerous weak men who fight dirty. Why can't I have bluepill friends? You can if you want to, but be aware that bluepill men belong to a system that is against you. Noone in this world just accepts ideas and opinions they don't understand that someone barks at them. Politicians, celebrities, and religious leaders sa…
/r/askTRP05/06/18 02:52 AM
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Haven't changed enough yet. But I will tell you that girls have acted confused and sometimes angry when I don't pay them attention after they reject me. It's a good feeling when you realize that you've moved past a girl. Honestly though, don't go worrying about this. Find new women. Don't hold it against them that they didn't want you when you were weaker. Should you feel guilty when a 250-pound fatty that you ignored shows up a year later with a svelte figure and an alpha male boyfriend?
/r/askTRP04/06/18 10:35 PM
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In my experience, yes. That's why I strive to partake in neither of the two.
/r/askTRP04/06/18 10:29 PM
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Has having fleshlights and access to unlimited porn helped our society improve?
/r/askTRP03/06/18 10:50 PM
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I wrote that comment figuring somebody would miss that and say something snarky. But one thing I get tired of is having to overstate things on message boards because people can't be bothered to read critically and make inferences. Good on you for defying my expectations. It's a problem in society that so many people don't consider every word that someone says/writes.
/r/askTRP02/06/18 08:14 PM
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This. Sometimes shit just happens and a girl can't make it for whatever reason.
/r/askTRP02/06/18 07:49 PM
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Yep, one of the many reasons I've been a virgin for so long is because I was stuck in the middle of fucking nowhere.
/r/askTRP02/06/18 07:31 PM
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It's not that they like jerks, it's that they like men with confidence, and oftentimes men display confidence (whether real or fake) by acting like a jerk. I've known jerks that lacked confidence and absolutely sucked with women. A lot of neckbeards act like jerks.
/r/askTRP02/06/18 07:08 PM
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Here is r/pornfree, it's like NoFap with less lunatics. Enjoy! But yes, NoFap itself is useful as long as you just take what you need from it and don't join the cult.
/r/askTRP28/05/18 06:53 AM
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Talk to them without caring if they like you or not.
/r/askTRP27/05/18 10:00 PM
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> super sweet, super lovey, let me wreck her butthole You caught me off guard, I laughed. Edit: formatting
/r/askTRP27/05/18 09:59 PM
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And why are you listening to incels? Incels are some of the most self-hating people alive, it makes them feel better when they can make others feel bad. Wherever it is you keep going that incels are talking to you, quit going there.
/r/askTRP27/05/18 09:33 PM
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Good point.
/r/askTRP27/05/18 07:50 AM
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I also think that you shouldn't keep going just to go. I quit recently when I realized that I got what I needed from therapy. Just like I realized I got what I needed from NoFap and chose not to keep visiting the subreddit. Edit: Think, not feel.
/r/askTRP27/05/18 02:56 AM
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Therapy helped me stop thinking everyone was out to get me. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy is useful. If you have Borderline Personality Disorder or something like it, look into CBT.
/r/askTRP27/05/18 12:21 AM
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I believe it is possible, but it relies on you 1) not caring about what she thinks, 2) social distance if not actual distance, and 3) actually improving your life, at which point you won't and shouldn't care what bitch from the past thinks anyway. When you next bitches, they fucking take note, and they generally don't like it, even if they rejected you first. They start paying attention to you, and you respond by not paying attention to them. If you immediately bite as soon as they start paying …
/r/askTRP26/05/18 11:45 PM
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Sounds like a good policy. I like girls who ooze positiveness anyway and I really have no interest in being someone's emotional tampon.
/r/askTRP26/05/18 11:30 PM
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Question: When it comes to HB9s with low confidence, is it acceptable to compliment their beauty, or is it best to just say nothing.
/r/askTRP26/05/18 11:21 PM
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In my own view, Asian girls hit the wall later than white girls (an Asian guy actually told me he thinks white girls get ugly fast). But there is also a period with Asian girls when they are late teens to early twenties where many of them seem...too childlike for my tastes. I actually find the Asian girls who are a bit closer to my age generally more attractive. Where white women are concerned, the opposite holds true for me.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/18 11:13 PM
1

Did it end with you feeding her your own salt stick?
/r/askTRP26/05/18 10:39 PM
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From my NoFap days. There were some TRPers on there, they used to get flack from the regular NoFappers (who are often blue-pilled pussy-worshipers) back in the day.
/r/askTRP26/05/18 10:36 PM
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One guy used to tell me that I rocked the black T-shirt with jeans pretty well. I like to wear a more colorful button-down or jacket over whatever black, grey, white, or blue shirt I'm wearing. Edit: Spelling
/r/askTRP26/05/18 10:33 PM
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Sticky this/sidebar this please, mods. It's not exactly new, but it is comprehensive and well-explained with good examples.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/18 10:31 PM
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The female teachers in my school, who were the vast majority, fawned over the academic progress of the girls while shaming the boys. As a result, the girls in my grade were rude, stuck-up, and condescending for as long as I could remember, therefore I did not talk to them and did not learn how to communicate with girls. So I ignored them. One girl, who was nice but kind of a slut (who the other girls didn't like, of course) had a huge crush on me but I had no idea how to reciprocate so nothing h…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/18 05:55 AM
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If that is the case, then we can easily correct them.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 10:36 PM
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I mean, she is American born and raised.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 09:55 PM
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Ah yes, I love those shy virgin girls who have evening park sex.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 08:40 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TokB-6JBSro
/r/TheRedPill21/05/18 08:33 AM
5

We're only smart when we think with the right head.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/18 06:55 AM
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Because it is threatening to a world that is controlled by an elite that wants the masses to be subservient drones. The irony is that we are genetically programmed to respect true masculinity whether we like it or not, despite the societal programming to despise it. True masculinity is independent. The powers that be do not want you to be independent. True masculinity is disciplined. The powers that be don't want you to be disciplined unless you are in the military (where you won't be independen…
/r/askTRP20/05/18 11:13 PM
3

I think it is important to know which battles you can't win or aren't worth the trouble. There isn't any shame in not picking a fight you know you can't win. There are some women who just have so much confidence it takes a man of extreme self-confidence to reign her in.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 11:09 PM
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Honestly, I'm thinking no. All the dudes I can think of who were super alpha and got tons of chicks. They didn't go around talking about it, but everyone knew their n-count was high. Chicks will tell other chicks. Dudes will notice when you're with a bunch of chicks. No need to say anything. I'm thinking of a Kendrick Lamar lyric: "I stay modest 'bout it ('ey)...She elaborate it ('ey)" If I'm wrong, please correct me.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 11:01 PM
2

Better late than never. Every time I get discouraged I look back at the progress I've made.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 10:50 PM
1

Yes, it's frustrating. But we can learn from our mistakes even long after we realize we made them.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 09:47 PM
5

I was at a bar by myself one time. I was drinking, staring off into space, and I didn't realize it but I was looking at some chick and when I came to, she gave me this irritated look, and I just kind of shrugged and sipped my beer and went back to my thoughts. So there was this guy a couple seats down from me who was there with his bros, and his bros went to take a piss or order a drink or something, and she comes over to get a drink and stands between me and him, but she was closer to him. I wa…
/r/askTRP20/05/18 09:44 PM
2

What about with your bros? (Assuming they are trustworthy.)
/r/askTRP20/05/18 09:36 PM
4

Still in the early stages of shifting, but basically. I'm in my late 20's, still a virgin, never had a relationship, lousy friends, grew up being told by my dad that I was worthless and he didn't really teach me anything (even though he could have), and I don't know how to be a man. I'm a former hardcore gamer, porn addict, and I'm a college undergraduate in my late 20's. I realized that my way of dealing with women, and men, and life in general wasn't working and I realized that society had spo…
/r/askTRP20/05/18 07:35 PM
0

Don't step on her feet. Don't hover hand. Touch her and lead. Also, don't crush her hand. Women don't like it when you crush their hands.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 06:24 AM
5

Next him like you'd next a bitch. This is why beta males often make terrible friends by the way. It is the truth that a true friend will have your back. This guy didn't have your back so, therefore [fill in the blank.]
/r/askTRP20/05/18 06:20 AM
4

Agreed, what if you improve quite a bit and you see her again and she doesn't give a shit anyway? All that effort for no payoff. In fact, if you care too much about sticking it to her, it might be the reason it backfires. Forget bitches that reject you. Don't hold grudges.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/18 04:16 AM
6

Does that mean she is the gold digger world champion?
/r/askTRP20/05/18 01:56 AM
13

Why would you treat a whore like a princess though?
/r/askTRP20/05/18 01:54 AM
1

It's harder to swallow for me since I came from parents that stayed together until my father died. I understand that it is a useful mantra to internalize, and I realize that my parents marriage could have fallen apart a couple times, but the fact that it didn't makes it harder for me to internalize. My parents unusual religious affiliation may have had something to do with it, but I don't know. My mother dislikes feminism, she's in her 60's now so I recognize that she is "behind the times," so t…
/r/askTRP20/05/18 01:51 AM
31

I've always known based on the simple fact that you can have a team consisting of guys doing their job, and then introduce a female coworker and suddenly at least one of them can't focus on his job and has to talk to her all the time hoping to get his dick wet (and of course, much of the time she isn't doing jack shit either). It's the most irritating thing to me.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 06:22 AM
1

Drop them. It will be hard at first, you may not make friends right away, but spend enough time away from them and you will realize that you have no use for them. Source: Personal experience.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 06:12 AM
6

I get IOI's from some fairly attractive girls, I just have 0 social skills. At least I know I'm not fugly, I guess.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 06:10 AM
1

*shrugs* My black roommate pulls chicks with Tinder all the time. White chicks, Asian girls. I don't know him very well, but he isn't what I'd call alpha. He's not in shape but he's tall, easygoing, and smokes weed a lot. We're in a college town, maybe that makes a difference.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 06:08 AM
7

What is with all of this "act beta to get rid of girl" shit going on lately? How about getting rid of a chick in an alpha way? It seems counterproductive to start acting beta, that's what we're trying to change within ourselves. Disagree with me if you want, but once I've killed the beta in me, there's no way in hell I'm acting like that again.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 06:03 AM
165

If female only co-working spaces become a trend, I wonder how long it will take for analysts to notice the productivity gap between sexes? Edit: Grammars
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 03:11 AM
1

So is having a crush the same as oneitus? Furthermore, can you keep yourself from having a crush?
/r/TheRedPill16/05/18 08:25 PM
1

There was about a two-year period where I was aware of TRP before being active here. First year was like: "Oh my god, these people are terrible." Second year was like: "Hmm, maybe they're on to something, but I hope they're not right. They can't be!" Now I know I've got to internalize this.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/18 08:23 PM
1

Because it's better to use your key to open every door than to put all your keys in one lock or something.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 11:33 PM
5

I work part-time at a restaurant in a college town. They even order the exact same damn thing as each other. (Weirdly, some frat boys do this as well.)
/r/askTRP15/05/18 11:22 PM
24

Them thinking you're crazy and/or a misogynist and telling other people that you're a crazy misogynist.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/18 06:39 AM
2

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. I've undergone a bit, it helped. Basically it is recognizing thought patterns that lead to anxiety/depression, etc. It helps you identify the triggers that lead to recurring depressive, anxious, or obsessive thoughts. There are therapists who utilize CBT, but ultimately it is the patient's responsibility to implement it. In my personal experience, it helped me defeat paranoid thoughts about what other people were thinking about me. Apparently it has actually been ef…
/r/askTRP14/05/18 07:25 AM
1

I've noticed this myself. But I wonder how much of it has to do with maturity and a society that does not encourage maturity in women. I've known a lot of older women that have pretty wise observations about society. My mother was telling me the other day that my grandmother would complain when she was a kid that TV shows made fathers look like idiots, unnecessary compared to the mother. Like she could see what the media was doing. I can't imagine many women of today making that observation. But…
/r/askTRP14/05/18 07:12 AM
7

I thought the spread of Islam to (some) parts of India contributed to that as well.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/18 09:25 PM
3

Could you link it for a curious Westerner?
/r/TheRedPill13/05/18 09:24 PM
1

I don't like it. You're trying to not be beta. Acting like a beta won't help you destroy beta traits. Don't do this. What u/Triadis3 said makes far more sense to me.
/r/askTRP13/05/18 08:33 PM
1

I would actually say that's a red-pill truth coming from blue-pill media. You want to know how women think when all morals go out the window? Just listen to those pop diva songs.
/r/askTRP13/05/18 07:32 PM
2

Holy shit, that's an epic level of cringe.
/r/askTRP13/05/18 07:30 PM
2

I was at the bus stop and who should come along but my oneitus who had ignored me and avoided me after I asked her out. She looked at me and I stared for a second, straight-faced, and then ignored her without a word. Out of the corner of my eye I saw her stare for a few more seconds, then she scurried off to get on the bus. Oneitus-crush broken! In my new apartment, quarters came missing from the top of my mini-fridge. I knew it was either my roommate or his girlfriend. I was dreading it, but th…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/18 07:56 AM
46

I think it is funny when blue-pilled media accidentally shows red-pill truths.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/18 07:48 AM
6

Yeah, even if someone seems like a person who would be into TRP ideals, don't tell them, it just isn't worth it.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/18 07:47 AM
1

Ouch, my soul!
/r/askTRP13/05/18 06:50 AM
1

Then years later I had girls that loved how I smelled days without showering. I'm not saying you're bullshitting, I'm just having trouble imagining this. How would you describe this smell? Because I can't stand my own smell after two days without a shower.
/r/askTRP12/05/18 12:44 AM
2

Becoming socially isolated in unfamiliar territory helped me a bit. Not that I wanted that, but it was a blessing in disguise.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 07:42 PM
1

I have a weird beta friend who uses them with me and I always cringe.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 08:19 AM
1

I think you're on point with this comment. I mean, when you consider the that the whole purpose of shit tests is to see how he reacts under pressure, they really aren't so superficial. However, I do think a lot of women are superficial towards men who obviously lack self-confidence or whatever. They tend to dismiss those guys very quickly without any consideration for potential improvement, reasons for his being like that, et cetera. I think men are slightly more likely to consider things like t…
/r/askTRP10/05/18 04:08 AM
2

"This party is lit as fuck. Like a Dionysian bacchanal....but never mind that, let's do beer pong." Like that?
/r/askTRP09/05/18 10:33 PM
12

No More Mr. Nice Guy. I agree with a lot of it.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 10:13 PM
1

Is it better to walk around with palms open or closed fists?
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 10:12 PM
1

Yeah, but then you get the guys who complain about it being a "sausage fest."
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 10:11 PM
13

Frat guys don't really seem to grow up from what I've observed. It's like they're trying to prolong their adolescence.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 03:06 AM
0

It's a shit test to make mopers more mopey.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 03:02 AM
2

So yeah, get used to those video games and anime, because that’s the closest thing to happiness you’ll ever achieve. Only if you equate happiness with having women. While much of TRP is based on how to interact with women, a major point besides that is becoming the best version of yourself. A point that this post seems to have missed. This is nothing more than nihilistic drivel.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 03:01 AM
9

I get depressed after a porn binge. Usually three days is what it takes to feel power through the depression. My eye contact worsens as well.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 02:27 AM
28

You think this barber isn't cutting the hair of a hundred other customers? I hate to break it to you bro, but you aren't that special to him, you're just one of his many money sources. ABALT!
/r/askTRP08/05/18 12:18 AM
1

I'm not giving them a free pass. I'm just not angry at them anymore.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/18 08:07 AM
2

Hmm...that's a really good question. If only TRP had a term for men with no desirable masculine attributes who show off wealth in order to secure women...
/r/askTRP04/05/18 06:34 AM
3

Yes, we have TRP...for now. I do hope that somebody is creating a back-up plan in case this place goes down...
/r/TheRedPill04/05/18 02:56 AM
7

This is one of the reasons I don't like women in the workplace. Men start getting stupid trying to one-up each other.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/18 02:54 AM
2

I recognize the terms alpha and beta as social constructions, but if I'm on TRP, I may as well speak the language.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 10:41 PM
2

Brooklyn Nine-Nine? Never seen it, I'll check it out.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 10:37 PM
3

Yep, and I kept giving people the benefit of the doubt despite my subconscious urging me otherwise. Not again.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 10:32 PM
2

I've already done some of that. I left home to go back to school and got resentment from some of my friends back home. Didn't make friends at college at first because I didn't know how to socialize. Tried with a particular group, but their alpha female didn't like me and I didn't like her and the rest of the group (mostly beta males) just did what she said. So this past year was extremely lonely, but I'm glad it happened. I used the opportunity to learn to be content with being alone. What if I …
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 10:32 PM
1

Bitter? No, I'm determined. Hence I said: "I'm going to kill the beta within myself as much as I can."
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 05:39 PM
9

At this point, I'm not blaming anyone but myself. I'm angry for being raised to have certain assumptions. Now that I recognize it, I can fix it.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 05:36 PM
1

The whole point of this is that I'm done being angry at women. I did not compare them to children. I only said that being angry at women for acting like women is comparable to being angry at children for acting like children: Completely pointless. I've been angry at women for being selective with mates and acting in their own interests, as they should.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 05:34 PM
5

Fuck damn it you're right! This summer is about me improving myself. There will be other women to talk to in the area. Thank you for the clarity.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 09:43 AM
3

What if we were never an item though? She was never my plate or anything, I just sensed some interest from her.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 03:33 AM
5

I'm remaining at my college for the summer. A girl from my class whose number I got is going back home. It's unlikely we'll be able to meet up as I'm pretty sure her parents keep a tight leash on her. How often should I text her over the summer to keep myself in her memory banks?
/r/TheRedPill02/05/18 05:27 PM
46

I hate how society tells me to get in touch with my feminine side when I never really knew my masculine side. I was just caught in some in-between limbo. If there's one thing I've learned, it's that emotions will cripple you if you don't learn to overcome them.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/18 06:46 AM
5

I can ignore the bitches that rejected me now. Before I would stare at theme wondering what went wrong and I do believe it creeped them out. Over the past couple of weeks I have trained myself to be indifferent to them, showing brief cordiality only when needed. It's funny the looks you get from these women once they realize that you don't give a fuck about them anymore. One whom I work at the same place with (don't shit where you eat yes I know) actually followed me to the cash register really …
/r/TheRedPill27/04/18 10:05 PM
1

Why do you hate school? Is it just the classes, or is it your social situation?
/r/askTRP24/04/18 04:28 AM
22

"Live well, it is the greatest revenge." - The Talmud
/r/TheRedPill22/04/18 10:49 PM
7

I found the question to be self-evident of this, honestly.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 08:26 PM
2

Former NoFapper her. This is a minor one but last night after three weeks without porn I succumbed to it and felt like shit about myself, thinking "Oh man, I'm gonna lose all my confidence and act weird again, et cetera." Then I though, "maybe if I don't believe it will happen, it won't happen." So I went outside, grabbed coffee, grabbed breakfast, walked with good posture, and put on a positive tone/eye contact with the people around me, and lo-and-behold! I feel fine. In fact, in general, I've…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/18 08:03 PM
1

My life would be better if, at eighteen, I had just decided to ignore my parents' advice and gone off to a non-community college despite what they believed was right. You have to break free of your parents at some point. Better sooner than later.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 05:39 AM
1

On a casual level? Sure. I talk with a girl much younger than me in class every other day. She seems happy to talk to me, but I don't see any IOI's and I'm not fretting about it. She's 19, Muslim, and apparently very loyal to her parents, and I'm 27 and...not Muslim so... On a deeper level. Fuck if I know. I doubt it though.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 09:09 PM
1

Does overhead press work for that?
/r/TheRedPill20/04/18 03:59 PM
1

Can I still have soy sauce with my Asian food? Edit: Serious question.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/18 06:06 AM
1

I work in a kitchen five days a week and work out three days a week. Then I put on my normal clothes and go to college and walk around a lot. Also, I find them somewhat therapeutic and when I was an adolescent I figured out I could get away from my chatty mother by taking a shower.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/18 01:54 AM
1

But do you respect her? Women like plenty of men they don't respect.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/18 01:22 AM
1

Ok, I'll answer your questions. Are you showering reasonably regularly (once every 3 days is not normal)? Yes, usually twice a day. Did you attempt to shave or groom your facial hair to look normal? Yes. Got complements from people I barely know, including a woman. Is your room constantly in a state of dissarray? Yes, it's a mess. Can you hold a conversation with strangers that isn't about video games or anime (If you do these things, QUIT)? Yes, but I live around a lot of post-millennials who m…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/18 12:31 AM
1

Junior year of high school? You figured it out early son. Try being almost 28 years old and just feeling like you are kind of beginning to figure things out...and there are people older than me on her. You've got your entire adulthood ahead of you. I lost the last decade of my life and sometimes I feel like I just don't have it in me to be a man. Count yourself lucky.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 04:51 PM
43

Never say anything to make woman say, "Awwww." Maybe you know the aww. They do it in a flat, high tone, kinda like they're looking at a baby or a kitten or something. They say it after you've said something that makes you sound somehow pitiable. If you ever say something that gets that reaction from a woman, make sure you never say that fucking thing again. If you think that there is even an offhand chance that a statement you make could get that reaction, don't say it, because that's the sound …
/r/TheRedPill16/04/18 04:33 PM
1

I like to think that you posted that three times so that we would remember it.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/18 03:59 AM
11

I didn't cry when my granddad died. I almost did, I felt tears in the back of my eyes, but they never came. I respected him, I admired him, I wish I could have known him better and that Parkinson's hadn't crippled his ability to interact with me. Everyone's grieving process is different, don't think you have to act a certain way.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 03:21 AM
2

Think of it as a shit test. If you can't handle it on the internet, what are you going to do when someone is rude to your face in real life? Edit: spelling
/r/askTRP15/04/18 09:18 PM
1

The red pill is sad until it empowers you.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/18 08:57 PM
6

Every princess acts like she wants a white knight to save her, but what she really wants is a dragon to slay her.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/18 08:55 PM
2

Your father has failed you, but you don't have to fail yourself. Prove him wrong.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 08:53 PM
2

I think dominance is a scale, and that there are dominant women, but those women want a man who is more dominant than them.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 08:47 PM
1

NoFap, while a noble cause, is harder when you have a blue pill mindset.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 08:44 PM
26

Yeah, so since I've actually gone out into the world and stopped relying on media to get my information about various groups, I've noticed a substantial amount of alpha-looking Asians in the campus I go to school at, and usually I see Asian women paired with Asian men. That being said, I see a lot of Asian women with white guys as well, but not enough to believe that Asian men are being abandoned. Granted there are a lot more beta-looking Asians than alpha. But I would say the same for white men…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/18 07:35 PM
3

What did she do to be creepy?
/r/TheRedPill13/04/18 02:33 AM
5

But are they good in the sac?
/r/TheRedPill13/04/18 02:31 AM
2

The first chick sucked 7 inch cock while in the Uber ride back to my apartment, Seriously, the driver didn't care? Edit: formatting
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 03:57 AM
3

Ok, so you act like it never happened. Like, what do you say when she admits that she was being a bitch? Do you just say, "Don't worry about it," or what?
/r/askTRP12/04/18 03:31 AM
3

Serious question: What's the difference between pain that destroys you and pain that makes you stronger?
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 03:26 AM
3

I never had a good male role model growing up. My father was a bitter, broken man who told me I was "just about worthless" and wouldn't teach me vital skills even when I asked him to. His dad died when I was six. My mom's dad had Parkinson's disease and was unable to be a strong male role model. No older brothers. My brother-in-law didn't want to teach me anything. My uncles were AWOL because of family drama. I'm about to turn 28. I've never had a gf, never gotten laid. I've made some improvemen…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 03:22 AM
3

Thanks for the advice to you, u/sj2k, u/whatsthisgarg, and u/mml76gs. This was first post on TRP, I've been lurking for a long time trying not to believe it's all true, but I've had enough of being an omega or beta or whatever the fuck I am.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/18 12:14 AM
1

The illusion of her being a cool, thoughtful chick was broken, and not a shallow, boring bitch was broken by her looking like every other college barhopping chick, yes. I am viewing it as a good thing that the illusion was broken.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 11:10 PM
1

What is the best demeanor to have towards a woman who has rejected you in a bitchy way when you cross paths when you are out and about? My reasoning being that there was a girl on my campus who I had struck up a conversation with multiple times, so I finally asked for her number (in a clumsy fashion) and you could tell she was visibly pissed off, yet she gave me a number but I suspect it was not real. The next time I saw her I made eye contact and smiled and she gave me a contemptuous look. Fast…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 03:47 PM
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