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ConversationAltruistic_Field2134/r/seduction06/05/22 01:05 AM
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ConversationAltruistic_Field2134/r/seduction04/06/22 09:42 AM
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ConversationAltruistic_Field2134/r/seduction16/06/21 04:19 PM
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Yea its exactly like working out, I will never not forget what to do, but Its significantly harder to do it. I agree I will never loose this skill completely but I do not think I will ever be at a time where I am as good as I am yesterday/today...I just do not care about it anymore for reasons I have said in this post and want to move on. About mistakes in your other comments, its moreso I know what I did after I did it was not what you are supposed to do but its just what happens when I 1. give…
/r/seduction11/05/22 11:22 PM
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Yea I agree. I do not see this as a lifestyle and I do not like doing hobbies I do not care for anymore. This was more an instrument for my growth and I will have good memories from it but I think I am done.
/r/seduction06/05/22 05:45 AM
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Thanks for the advice!
/r/seduction06/05/22 05:06 AM
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Yea I think this is where I am at. I value more solid friendships/people or my own time then trying to do all this anymore.
/r/seduction06/05/22 05:06 AM
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It does not completely go away but its not at the same level. Like I can do it still and be ok at it but I know I am making so many basic mistakes that it does not surprise me when the woman rejects me (Im not saying I go in with the mindset to fail just that after looking at the interaction I see what went wrong). The best way I can describe it is if a pro basketball player gets injured and it takes them months to recover. When they come back they are never great and actively a detriment to the…
/r/seduction06/05/22 05:04 AM
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Thats not it man being yourself still takes a lot of effort to go up to women, get rejected and then go up to another woman and get rejected again.
/r/seduction06/05/22 02:02 AM
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Yea I have also noticed that ALOT of the seduction guru's, the people who are more dedicated then you or me because of passion or income, quit eventually too so I am just like "its gonna happen and I am definitely never gonna invest my time into being that good. I had a good run maybe its time to get out."
/r/seduction06/05/22 01:33 AM
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Im now imagining a cave man with like a dyed purple tunic and slick backed hair with a bright yellow bone necklace going up to other cave women and I cant stop laughing
/r/seduction06/05/22 01:27 AM
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Others have already said it but she is hinting (really telling you) that she wants to bang you. Which is great if that is all you want from her. However, if you want more with this woman then this is a fuckin red flag man.
/r/seduction28/03/22 04:00 PM
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Why is everyone trying to flirt/build attraction/trying to escalate over snap/Instagram/text? New generation new rules. I am more old school (basically your thinking) so this shit does not make any sense to me.
/r/seduction28/03/22 03:13 AM
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You know that is one of those things I really do hate about this skill (and not talked about enough) is that you loose this skill EXTREMELY quickly if you are not constantly grinding to get better.
/r/seduction28/03/22 03:03 AM
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So their is a gradent to think of groups. 2 is a pair and typically you need a wingman as you need someone else to distract the friend. 3 is your sweet spot. You can go up to one of the woman you like and talk to her and the other 2 will have each other to talk to. Its your best friend and if your set on approaching groups its where you should look the most and concentrate all your effort in. 4+ its way too much for you to handle and even for great dudes its a fuckin CHORE to get the woman to ag…
/r/seduction28/03/22 02:54 AM
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Move on? This shit never works out man.
/r/seduction27/03/22 02:01 PM
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Its not bad but it clearly involves some high tactics/calibration that most dudes on here will not get.
/r/seduction27/03/22 02:00 PM
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I get the general sentiment of this post is to say you should care about the people you are going after: a very good message. However, most top dudes do not REALLY care about women they just have a better face then most average people do when it comes to expressing interest. When you actually talk to these dudes and REALLY dive deep into them having a woman or getting to know them means very little to them (for a variety of reasons).
/r/seduction27/03/22 01:42 PM
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I see what you are getting at as your probably thinking "man this dude has had a lot happen to him he must've done something wrong!". I am only describing my most insane rejections. Typically when I go out this does not happen but just using it as an example of what CAN happen in nightgame compared to daygame (the harshest that has ever happened to me is a women just saying no). In those scenerios, I usually had just said "hey how are you doing today?" before the women would do those things. Whi…
/r/seduction27/03/22 12:27 AM
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being female Oh your a woman I thought you were a dude with big moobs :P Serious: Yea I have no doubt that would work in a gay bar like those dude are not shy at all.
/r/seduction26/03/22 02:53 AM
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Yup. Also the Rejections are WAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY better in daygame then night. Like in day game the worse people do is just ignore me and walk by or politely say no to my request. While in nightgame it is a jungle in there. I have gotten EVERY type of rejection imaginable and women do some just terrible shit there. L…
/r/seduction26/03/22 02:27 AM
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Interesting, I have never heard that strategy before but it makes sense and sounds super fun! Thanks for telling me.
/r/seduction26/03/22 02:23 AM
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Yea no question the general quality of women you meet is WAYYYYYYY HIGHER. Like compare a common situation: you have a women who you approached in a bar who gets black out drunk once a week. Compared to a women who never goes out, eats healthy foods and mainly works out (you approached in the gym).
/r/seduction26/03/22 02:22 AM
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The quality of women is lower though. Your have a higher chance of dealing with a crazy women then just meeting her in daygame. Plus, a lot of women try to doll themselves up which can make them look really good but once you see their natural face its not as attractive. Daygame, most women are going about their day and have no reason to look that good which translates to a much more represent of what they look like.
/r/seduction25/03/22 11:53 PM
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I am not familiar with the term "seed money" what does that mean?
/r/seduction25/03/22 11:42 PM
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Second Ghost.
/r/seduction25/03/22 01:10 PM
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Im not fancy "say what are you drinking?" See what she responds with calibrate and move from there.
/r/seduction25/03/22 07:18 AM
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One of my friends who is in law school constantly meets other people who are lawyers when out. The kicker is he does not really want a lawyer or law school SO so the conversation goes "oh your a lawyer?" internally: FUCK.
/r/seduction25/03/22 06:52 AM
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Ill be real man its not really worth much. Like I know many friends who are in "professional" jobs and they get shit from women. However, I see bartender or DJ mcgee get all the attention from women anywhere they go. Difference? Usually its their personality and the way they carry themselves. The women who are attracted to those status symbols of Professional jobs are quite materialistic, reputation conscious. and social hierarchy climbers. If that is what you want then go for it but I do not li…
/r/seduction25/03/22 06:50 AM
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I know I am old thinking but texting should only be used for meet ups and quick exchange of information that helps with the meetup. Everything else just distracts from that goal.
/r/seduction25/03/22 06:44 AM
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Yea I think this is good and people should learn from it but its a little too much banter for my taste. I like to get past the whole 'small talk" as quickly as possible as I find those topics not particularly interesting and in all honestly it does not endure a women enough to ya if you keep in this playful mode. But again this is good material and people that struggle with keeping a conversation light should look at this.
/r/seduction25/03/22 06:01 AM
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Are you in more of a western country? In Western Countries, yes a lot of dudes will steer clear of Hijab women because that usually implies a conservative reading of Islamic teachings (not saying its true as a lot of women just wear it cuz of culture but that is what they think). This implies a LOT but many men do not want to take the chance because of it. So your probably gonna have to be more aggressive to get a dude if you want the western men to approach you. This means like clearly smiling …
/r/seduction25/03/22 01:10 AM
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I am guessing that I am going to disagree with the majority opinion in this thread but there is a lot. I can relate you on multiple levels as I am a hella big nerd who likes to argue with people about star wars, talk about the philosophy of the tolkian bible, dive deep into 40k lore and I used to watch a shit ton of anime back in the day(Code Geass is the best). First, lets talk about connection. people form connection with others not by how much you tell them but how much they tell you. Like th…
/r/seduction25/03/22 12:26 AM
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To a point but I find most dudes who do drink more get sloppy and that becomes another hinderance in their seduction.
/r/seduction24/03/22 11:37 PM
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I mean your both right. Women (unlike dudes) take a more holistic look at dudes instead of just one thing so to some women, social status is the most important, or big muscles (looks) are the most important. Dudes its always looks first and then everything else second.
/r/seduction24/03/22 11:32 PM
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What I think OP is saying is that hes thinking of the typical dynamic of a woman will say they want a nice dude with X traits and mannerism but then the very same women will go after bad boy mcgee with the exact opposite traits. Or women will say would would work on them (like game wise) but then actually doing those things does not work out and it honestly comes down to how good of an impression you left her at. For instance a dude ask a women how she would be asked out on a date, she states ju…
/r/seduction24/03/22 11:30 PM
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Then the advice in this thread is sufficient for your goals. Have fun!
/r/seduction09/03/22 07:39 PM
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I mean what is your goal? Say hi to some women? Dance with some women? make out with some women? Fuck some women? We cannot help you if we do not know what your end is.
/r/seduction09/03/22 04:40 PM
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Completely agree. I hate this argument against porn as it always seems like its just moralization.
/r/seduction09/03/22 02:31 PM
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testosterone level high I hate this. Testosterone might slightly help you with confidence but it is not the end all be all of anything. Like I like to call this Seduction "bro" science.
/r/seduction09/03/22 02:29 PM
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Yup. I masturbate and watch porn but I am still motivated to go out and talk to women. Hell I might be at my best when I do (for a variety of reasons). Plus, I noticed how differently I talk when I am not on porn and I do not really like it. To me this idea that porn (and usually extended to masturbation) just comes from the old belief that the more sperm a dude has the more "special power" they have. Which is just a stupid belief.
/r/seduction09/03/22 02:25 PM
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norwegiandoggo has the right take. Every time this topic comes up their will be someone who claims that porn is bad and you need to stop. But really what most of the studies really mean is porn is bad IF IT IS DONE WITH THE DETRIMENT OF OTHER THINGS. L
/r/seduction09/03/22 02:24 PM
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Yup OP confirmed that he did pursue her and likely she shot him down leading to him just befriending her. Which led into all these situations where she would sabotage him cuz she be jelly.
/r/seduction09/03/22 07:14 AM
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Yup still not worth it. Plenty of fish in the sea do not need to ruin something just for your own ego.
/r/seduction07/03/22 10:18 PM
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IN GENERAL when a women says they are invisible to the opposite sex what they mean is they are just not getting the approaches from the dudes they want. Like they probably get hit on constantly from so many different dudes that they barely register that the dude is trying to hit on them...probably just assume they are being nice. While the dude shes been eyeing for a long time is going after another person. Which makes her feel like she is invisible (case and point another redditor said this exa…
/r/seduction07/03/22 12:51 AM
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She just got done with a relationship is playing the field by hitting up all her old numbers. I would not set high expectations, set the date at your place or somewhere nearby that makes it SUPER easy for you. In addition, have other plans ready because the chances of her falling through with these plans are not very high.
/r/seduction07/03/22 12:26 AM
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Look man I just come here to talk about the THEORY of game not do game itself. Its a academic adventure. /s
/r/seduction06/03/22 09:22 PM
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FYI this is the reason people say do not date at work...to avoid these type of situations.
/r/seduction27/02/22 04:11 AM
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This. I have seen my friends make objectively wrong moves that this community would hound them for (not being confident, acting completely detached from the situation, being ultra aggressive with sexual desire, looking like he just came out of a commercial for least fashionably dressed male, etc) and they were able to get the woman. In reverse I have seen dudes who have done some the best game I have ever seen strike out. Difference. I could tell when the woman was into them (first example) and …
/r/seduction25/02/22 07:07 AM
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To give a more generous take: A woman is able to look at a guys social media account to see what type of dude he is without any repercussions. Plus it is 2022 everyone should have a decent social media. Realistic take: If a women is already questioning your character enough to snoop on your profile, chances are they are not gonna feel comfortable meeting up with you later. Cynical (possibly realistic) take: She just wants you for attention/clout.
/r/seduction23/02/22 05:13 PM
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Its also just a case of people just generally do not know. Like many people I talk too ill ask why they do something or why they keep doing something and they have no answer as they do not know themselves.
/r/seduction20/02/22 03:52 PM
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So what would you define him going up to the original woman to make a "friend"? That's the cold approach part.
/r/seduction19/02/22 07:35 PM
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The reason I say gym is both social game and cold approach with all bad and no good is that it is. You have an environment where you are not close to women and must go up and approach them if you want to get anywhere with them. They will not make a move most of the time and are quite guarded so its all on your shoulders. Sounds like cold approach right? This is what OP originally did. However, because you see this person enough you cannot just go in hot/seduce fast most of the time cuz then that…
/r/seduction19/02/22 06:31 PM
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I mean your right like look at the previous top dudes in the seduction industry all skinny or unfit dudes. So obviously having a good body is great but its just another factor that a woman judges you on if they like you or not.
/r/seduction19/02/22 04:35 PM
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Yea your strategy is exactly why I dislike gym game. Its essentially social game and cold approach with all the bad of both and hardly any of the benefits. Congrats though it it works for you!
/r/seduction19/02/22 01:29 AM
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While I do not want to specifically talk about what he teaches (as I have my own issues with that) what the issue, that my post was addressing, was "where does this dude have the credibility to speak on these matters?" how can a dude be lecturing other dudes about "changing mindsets" or "getting the one" or any of that sort? What separates you or me, a random redditor, from him to give essential advice that millions like you, listen to? Is he like a scientist? No. Is he a great spiritual/religio…
/r/seduction18/02/22 10:43 PM
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The author isn't an expert. Whenever I bring up my distain of models I always bring this up. Mark never got his claim of 100 women from using models, he did it from learning mystery method. So the advice he shares in his book has not been field tested.
/r/seduction18/02/22 08:06 PM
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Ok this is an entirely different scenario then I thought. if you think its a game then do not play. Like its been 10 years you have gotten over her and found some wife and kids. So do not invite her.
/r/seduction14/02/22 04:45 PM
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You can but it sounds kinda defensive. There are many ways but one simple way is to ask the question in the negative so "hey you seem like your very assertive" "why do you say that?" "So your saying your not assertive? (random emoji)" Something like that.
/r/seduction09/02/22 12:38 AM
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Have an idea that this is not serious and everything will end at any moment. It helps you not get too needy for most women.
/r/seduction08/02/22 02:23 PM
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You essentially have to get them to answer the cold read first and then act. So whatever you asked her, she made a judgement on it (yes I agree with you or no I do not agree with you). Once you know this then I would depending on the response switch to either being explain my reasoning in a fun manner or if I got it wrong, then move on.
/r/seduction08/02/22 02:19 PM
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Practice and realize that the longer you do it the more natural and ingrained in becomes for you. Like if you played basketball your gonna suck at making shots and have to think about the mechanics all the time even in games. But practice enough and eventually you will get to the point where you are able to point and shoot without even thinking about it.
/r/seduction08/02/22 02:08 PM
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If your going to do it realize the venue: Gym is actually a social circle kinda game where you cannot just go direct as that could get you kicked out. The best thing to do is start small by saying hi a couple of times and then trying to start a convo. TO make this strategy even more effective I would suggest you come THE GUY at your gym. Like you talk to EVERYONE at your gym it does not matter if they are guy girl trash you will talk to them. That way you build your social proof so if a women th…
/r/seduction07/02/22 03:58 AM
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Yea I have been there and its frustrating. You obviously are at a different level then them and accept the more "gamey" facts about dating IE your not always gonna get what you want and sometimes you should just go for someone even if you do not necessary are completely jazzed about them in order to get better. Most likely your friend will not change so do not think this behavior is ever gonna improve. So that leaves you with a choice: Either leave your friend or continue as is and accept this r…
/r/seduction11/12/21 09:52 AM
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Cool, its again just another for of Online dating and if thats your thing fine go for it. But IMO its not worth it to learn this skill many men learned seduction without it many men will still.
/r/seduction11/12/21 08:55 AM
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/r/seduction11/12/21 06:39 AM
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Yea dating apps require a certain type of game that IMO is not really transferable to other game/other aspects of life. Like the pro are massive amounts of women, it is a passive game so once you get set up you can essentially do it anywhere and you being able to learn how to market yourself online. But the cons are those women have massive amounts of people to choose from so unless you message them within the first week of them being there you most likely will not be seen by them. Deeper even i…
/r/seduction11/12/21 06:27 AM
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talk to a bunch of women and realize they are just people too. Funny, sexy, sometimes socially awkward people.
/r/seduction11/12/21 06:21 AM
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So you CANNNNN change people but it requires the person to make that decision on their own from themselves, not from your influence. Otherwise it will not stick.
/r/seduction11/12/21 06:13 AM
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if your beginnner its about 1/100 women you approach you should be able to bed. If your intermediate about 1/50 if your advanced about 1/30.
/r/seduction10/12/21 08:29 AM
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Further most of the dudes in hollywood who are considered "sex symbols" are all in thier 30s.
/r/seduction09/12/21 09:05 AM
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Yea one of the good thing about men for the dating market is if we do the bare minimum (make sure we have decent confidence, make sure we got a decent career, make sure are still in decent shape) then we can potentially be really attractive to a lot of women till our 50s. Problem is most dudes do not do this for various reasons which makes them end up in terrible situations.
/r/seduction09/12/21 09:02 AM
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So they were a pickup website that was like the biggest ones as they had many different people comoing in to learn from them (like they essentially became a school with all their "gurus" teaching at this event or that). But a while ago they switched from pick up to Self help and now its just not the same. Though I would say the type of game RSD specialize in (mystery game) is really hard to do long term...not because you cant but because it requires a certain type of person that unless your that…
/r/seduction08/12/21 08:02 PM
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Yea for a lot of nightgame women you have that night to do something and...thats it.
/r/seduction07/12/21 02:20 PM
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I mean it is I have defiantly started flirting with women by giving them complements.
/r/seduction04/12/21 01:48 AM
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OP I do not know why your getting such hostile comments from dudes when all you were trying to do is just say "hey some women like to be approached and you should not be afraid". Your doing gods work so have my upvote!
/r/seduction04/12/21 01:46 AM
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I mean about a week ago I was in the bar just sitting there looking at the dance floor. It was fairly empty except for one group of girls dancing. I was talking to my buddy when I glanced over to the group and one of the girls looked at me and waved. I genuinely thought she was waving at someone else so I turn back over to look at my buddy low and behold she then comes over to me and ask "hey you want to dance?" I was taken aback by this as literally and I mean literally has never happened befor…
/r/seduction03/12/21 03:22 AM
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