IDK whats been going on with me but over the past few months I have slowly lost my interest in doing any type of game whether it be Daygame nightgame etc. Its not like I do not care about the opposite sex or that I am depressed (I still like to do a lot of things other than game) I just do not care enough anymore about game and continuing it.
Now I know daygame/Nightgame works, I have had success with it (dates, fuck buddies, relationships, etc) and I believe a lot of dudes should do it as it teaches them a lot about women frame control, etc. But having been doing daygame for roughly 3 years (but due to the pandemic it feels like a year and a half) and nightgame for 5 years, I just do not feel it as I once did. I just feel I could be spending my time doing other things that like more fulfill me or something. For instance, I went out today with one of my buddies and while it was fun going up to women and talking to them, all I was thinking was I want to go home and do other shit or I would rather go hangout with friends and just chill then be out meeting new people. Which is just way different then I used to be.
Then I am also looking long term at this skill I have cultivated and feeling it is unsustainable. Because for me, If I am not constantly going out at least 3 times a week for like 2 hours (or 1) then I feel after like 2-4 months I am right back to square 1 with AA, stupid openers all that jazz. Which then to get back to where I once was, it takes me another month or 2 of constantly going out and then I have to continue to do it till I burn out again at which point I take breaks and then restart everything all over again. While this is fine for my situation right now, this is not something I want to invest into long term especially since I would like to use that time I allocate for game for other things such as my career and other hobbies. Quite frankly, I will not have the same amount of time I do now so thinking I will be able to fit it in the future as I do now seems fruitless.
IDK what do other people think? Maybe this is what people mean when they say you mature out of it? Has anyone gone through something like this or has some experience with this?
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