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Well, what if your wife is special? You know, not like those "other" slutty girls.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/18 01:55 PM
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You need to integrate competency as a function of confidence as well as experience, maturity and discipline. Your not just a role-player, your a man. And not a normal man either, but the kind of man that gets shit done. Respected by other high value men. Desired by women. If you build too much of it irrationally, your frame will crumble as soon as its actually tested.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/18 06:11 PM
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This is a good post. I would like to add that while one can use the attitude of outcome independence and abundance, confidence should always be grounded in reality. For me, this attitude starts with knowing that I do not need anyone else to survive, and live a good life. It is the real world skills that I have learned over the years because more than anything else, I avoid depending on another person and being on their time. Because of that I will never need to hire a- auto/marine mechanic carpe…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/18 05:59 PM
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Gold.
/r/askMRP08/12/17 02:50 AM
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I cant speak for the book, but my mission started to become clear once I started getting rid of all the bullshit reasons for why my life wasn't the way I wanted it to be. I took back control of my life and its direction in general and then thought about what I wanted for a long time. I have always wanted to be a good example of a strong Christian family man/leader, and before I die I want to hunt and kill a large game animal with a bow that I made myself. It sounds so simple but its the foundati…
/r/askMRP25/11/17 12:24 PM
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So lets say again my wife has a crisis of conscience and either tells me more about this, or more with a different person. Im not really sure where to draw the line. She insists after the 2nd time they were together she texted him the next morning to end it and there has been no contact since. And she has been faithful since then (10+ years). Do I tell her no matter what happened in the past as long as she keeps it to herself it wont be a problem? At this point Ive built the best employee I can …
/r/askMRP08/11/17 10:18 PM
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Thanks man, I'm saving this to my phone. Its not so much that I'm upset about what happened. I just don't trust my judgement. I am fucking crazy about this girl. She turned her life around before I did and was a great example. It sucked when she told me about this, but I'm comfortable knowing how to avoid it in the future. She always lets me know where she is and is 100% open about everything like her phone, money or whatever. I just don't want to hear about anything else. Getting caught off gua…
/r/askMRP08/11/17 11:04 AM
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And I think this too sometimes. I know I was a loser. So why the confusion? Why do I give a shit? I am still a little freaked out that I didn't see it at the time and fear that I have this blind spot as far as my judgement with her.
/r/askMRP07/11/17 06:06 AM
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That's interesting. My wife say "fuck me harder" a lot, especially right before orgasm. The more control I have/use seems to increase her ability to loose it like you described, she just collapses and starts giggling as if its almost too much.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/17 12:41 AM
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I have a question. My wife is just like #1, and from time to time she can rant about her distant yet very "alpha" father. Not excessively just once in a while and there has always been a sort of luke warm relationship between them since Ive known her. Shes been with me since we were 18/19 (now 37/38). Things are great in the bedroom but I'm running out of dirty things to say to her in bed, and I get the impression she would get off on it if I told her to "call me daddy". On one hand I think that…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/17 11:19 PM
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You should wish that you built a stronger frame before you shared. There is never a bad time to tell the truth, only an inopportune time.
/r/askMRP07/10/17 07:20 PM
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People change sub-consciously all the time. That's why the rule of 1 month of red-pill for every year of marriage is a standard. There wont be any direct and immediate evidence that sharing this material with your wife is worth doing but there is a lot to be said for "planting seeds" so to speak. The author is going to be an independent party and most likely a persuasive writer. This makes it easy for anyone to at least passively agree with. Once they absorb or "process" the material into their …
/r/askMRP07/10/17 07:14 PM
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One of the biggest changes for me personally is going from unproductive and lazy to always going, always moving and really not being able to relax a whole lot. I think some of it is a natural over-correction because I never want to get comfortable enough to get lazy again. I work 6 days a week and on Sundays I'm usually doing hobbies and running around with the wife and kids. I'm sure there is a balance I'm just too busy enjoying myself and my mission to slow down. I might just be making up for …
/r/askMRP07/10/17 07:27 AM
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I like this I do this a lot. Figure out how to tell your story it in a way that is 100% truthful and 100% attractive (or at least not un-attractive). If there is something negative that you cant gloss over, own it in a way that sounds sexy like, "I had some demons to kill after college stemming from a car accident". This could be anything from a pill problem to finally getting your drivers license. Let their hamster fill this part in. If you are attractive enough they will fill it in with an ima…
/r/askMRP05/10/17 09:29 AM
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"It seemed like a good idea at the time." "I felt like we needed an adventure." "It was time to shake things up". As long as your relaxed and not trying to DEER it can work in your favor. If you are pressed for more info, "There were a lot of factors that played into my/our decision." And just fog that message. You have to come to terms with your own conscience though. If you are passively pissed at your wife or your former self you will risk coming off like a butt hurt faggot. Own every square …
/r/askMRP05/10/17 09:15 AM
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I am about to talk to my pastor about walking my wife and I through this (after 20 years together) because we fucked it up so badly the first time. We are at a place now where it makes sense, at least for me. It is my idea though, and mostly a superstitious one. If it helps, just look at it as role play. Being a good example of a conservative Christian family in 2017 is a big part of my agenda, and one of the many different roles that we play out together. Edit- This is at a non-denominational C…
/r/askMRP03/10/17 09:13 AM
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Its only a cliche to you because you haven't actually tried to do any of it so the words sound hollow. "Long is the way and hard, and out of hell leads up to light." -Milton "Paradise Lost"
/r/askMRP02/10/17 02:33 AM
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Why dont you try pulling your lips over your head, and swallow? Troll.
/r/askMRP01/10/17 08:08 PM
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You set the boundaries to what you're willing to put up with. If she violates them, she is punished or next'd. Period. Burn this into your head OP. This is the truth.
/r/askMRP29/09/17 03:08 AM
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Ive talked to angels_fan in the past, because I rarely get a shit test that I notice and he helped me out back when I got started. Wife and I rarely fight. I did let her walk out the door for a couple of years about 10 years ago. Didnt chase after her. Probably should not have taken her back, although I dont regret it. She is about as hot as it gets for a blonde white girl in America (age 37, fit, we have 3 kids). She makes better money than me and I have her dad and myself to thank for not resp…
/r/askMRP28/09/17 11:06 PM
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At my worst I was just like this, probably 5 or 6 years ago. But until recently I have been a drug addict in denial that has struggled with the traumas I experienced when I was a little boy. I almost lost everything anyone could ever want because I could not reconcile what I experienced with the explanation I had with regards to good and evil. I have always been a Christian I just didnt know what that meant and when I listened to Jordan Peterson on Joe Rogan's podcast this spring its like everyt…
/r/askMRP25/09/17 04:26 PM
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You sound like a complete cocksucker. That makes sense knowing your mom.
/r/askMRP10/08/17 12:33 AM
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I'd browse the internet and wonder "what kind of flair defines me as a person?"
/r/askMRP10/08/17 12:17 AM
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Outcome independence.
/r/askMRP04/08/17 11:55 PM
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My drive has gone down but I think that its probably normal and a byproduct of outcome independence. I just don't stress out about sex anymore or wonder how my marriage is.
/r/askMRP04/08/17 11:04 PM
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If you don't make a big deal out of it she wont either. It takes a good bit of time on it to really notice anything and nothing is going to change radically. Just play it off as something your doctor wants you to try and its totally normal. By hiding it your only going to cause yourself more problems.
/r/askMRP07/07/17 07:58 PM
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This is it here. I came home from work today, showered and my wife initiated and gave me the kind of blow job that men go to war for. Thats a first for me. Patience is key. Nobody worth being around changes overnight.
/r/askMRP07/07/17 01:53 AM
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I fight a similar battle in that I work 50 hours 6 days a week doing a lot of physical work and I'm beat as soon as I come home. Everything hurts and no energy. You just have to suck it up and get started. Overcome the temptation to sit down with the kids. Just think of it the same as going to the gym when you don't want to. The initial get up and go is the hardest for me.
/r/askMRP02/07/17 04:38 PM
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Not to be a contrarian, but what is a natural alpha? I would argue, we all are (men). "Natural" is just a function of what we are used to vs. what is true. Every one of us has to work at it, to "fake it before we make it". Once we do that for a bit consciously and observe the obvious results we are in the clear forever. The virtue is in the action based on the consciousnesses. None of us here had that naturally (or if we did, it was suppressed by TBP).
/r/askMRP30/06/17 03:27 AM
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Exactly this. Part of being a strong man is being a mentor to those that do not have that kind of an example in their life. I have two daughters and you can bet the house on the fact that whoever they want to marry will know explicitly what it takes to be a man long before I ever think of handing over the responsibility of taking care of one of my girls.
/r/askMRP29/06/17 12:41 AM
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I second this. My wife and I are Christian and on the surface (and only on the surface), there is a lot of material that does not seem to apply here. It just seems that way though. This is basic human nature stuff. Just operate on the assumption that you are not fun enough or attractive enough for the next 6 months at least. The very first time I came here was over a year ago. I've hit this place up like 4 or 5 times max since then about specific questions. I've went from dead bedroom to cheerle…
/r/askMRP28/06/17 05:06 AM
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I have a 15 year old girl who has been dating this boy for a couple months now. He is getting very beta, and clingy. I like the kid, he is from a good family with as much positive potential as anyone, but is falling for the same traps we all did. I have not said anything to either yet, just my wife. I want to tell the kid whats up for his sake, even if he doesn't end up with my daughter in the long run. He was a fun and exciting kid to start with, now hes boring. Would you say anything or leave …
/r/askMRP28/06/17 04:52 AM
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Your looking at this all wrong, this is just the star. You need to be setting your terms and your expectations not the other way around. Its not going to get any easier than now.
/r/askMRP25/06/17 03:19 PM
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I can sympathize, because I know how easy it is to fall into this trap. It is horseshit though. The kids will be FINE unless they are in a violent emotional and physical relationship. I grew up in a foster home with people in and out and environments changing all the time. The only thing that lasted long term, was violence. Specifically physically. From an emotional standpoint we are almost infinitely malleable, as in whatever emotion I have now is pretty much the only important one. Unless you …
/r/askMRP23/06/17 03:00 AM
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It means take charge, as in the outcome is a direct reflection on you and your value as a man. You should still take responsibility for what she doesn't know about you, because being a good man means being honest and truthful. What you should not do is live this other 2nd life like a faggot without disclosure so you can feel some sort of false validation. There is an uncomfortable contest of good vs. evil going on that you want to try to rationalize because you don't want to do the thing that is…
/r/askMRP23/06/17 02:38 AM
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Stop worshiping your wife. She has zero respect for you. If my wife noticed me not fucking her and also messaging other women, she would be a neurotic mess and probably in some kind of therapy. You will never, ever get the kind of attention you want from your wife until you lay it all out and tell her to take a walk if shes not into you. Your foolishness is that your think this is a gamble. Shes already never ever going to want to fuck you. Ever. This has already happened. This decision has been…
/r/askMRP23/06/17 02:31 AM
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Why are you still with her/why haven't you found pussy elsewhere? Why haven't you told her to get lost? Your answer cannot include anything about kids.
/r/askMRP16/06/17 10:35 PM
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Hes not going to be happy until he gets on Lifetime.
/r/askMRP11/06/17 12:14 AM
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I went through a similar situation with my wife early in our marriage, and I think it was a bit of both home and escape. I went further down the spiral and she eventually left for home. I straightened up and got her back. Shes pretty fond of living away from her family as long as her husband is not a fuck up.
/r/askMRP10/06/17 12:41 AM
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This is a crossroads, for sure. Its a lot harder to do that than it is to just sit back and blame the harpy in anger. I imagine the internal temptation to reject this reality includes a lot of "but I've already tried so hard" and "its not fair". I wouldn't say any of this if I had not already been there and done that. If I could save my sorry ass from a life of being a pussy, he can too. This is all pretty universal stuff here.
/r/askMRP10/06/17 12:34 AM
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Yup. He can make huge steps in the right direction when he starts to fog "pack your shit and move if you are that unhappy". OP if you can say that ^ and hold frame then do it. Obviously it comes with a risk (that you should ALWAYS be willing to take).
/r/askMRP10/06/17 12:08 AM
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Dude your wife doesn't give a shit where she lives. She is probably being honest when she tells you that's why she is unhappy/bored but in reality she doesn't know either (or wont admit it). Since you don't want to admit that your wife wants Chad / your not Chad, you end up believing the same bullshit she tells herself. Literally the definition of living in her frame. Forget about your wife, she has long since forgotten about you. You disappeared years ago and regardless of your improvements she…
/r/askMRP09/06/17 11:14 PM
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I read the OP and the comments. This guy is playing 4d chess and I'm over here thinking I'm pretty cool because I just learned the rules to checkers. Kind of the way it is with this stuff though, the moment you think you know something a whole new layer of complexity reveals itself.
/r/askMRP07/06/17 04:26 AM
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She has no idea and is kind of frustrated with feeling like that (feels guilty for feeling that way). Its not every time, after last week when she said that she was horny and initiated all weekend up until last night. Then last night the same kind of thing happened where she locked up and turned into a starfish.
/r/askMRP23/05/17 11:35 PM
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Thats what I assumed this was. Do comfort tests increase in frequency or severity as progress is made or is it mostly independent?
/r/askMRP23/05/17 11:14 PM
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Yes she is very submissive, to a point where it gets frustrating. I encourage her to take charge of things now and again but mostly its an uphill battle. I have not read SGM other than a couple chapters. Ill have to re-read the DEVI chapters in MMSLP but I am at least conscious about it.
/r/askMRP23/05/17 11:08 PM
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Rape has some pretty clear and explicit requirements, that article didn't describe any of it. You cant just simplify rape down to all sex that isn't magical. Its dishonest and reckless. Also she initiated last nights drama so that doesn't fit either.
/r/askMRP23/05/17 11:02 PM
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I asked her questions about what was going on or changed with work, her clients, family etc. If there was anything she was ruminating on. It was only a 5 minute conversation as were laying there naked but she cheered right up.
/r/askMRP23/05/17 10:59 PM
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OP you sound like a cunt and you are missing the boat bigtime. Cancel the appointments, tell your wife she can leave if she wants. Thats a nice fast track to a main event and just be done with it. If that doesn't "jolt her into reality" nothing will, unless your still pretty much the same loser you were when you started MRP. I'm guessing you wouldn't be able to hold frame if you had to, and you still have a lot to learn. List out the top 5 things you would do to improve yourself before entering …
/r/askMRP20/05/17 10:13 PM
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Delete your Facebook account, and show at least some disgust whenever social media is mentioned. You sound like too much of a woman to even do that. You have "brief discussions about Facebook?". So basically your LARPing with your wife? Am I missing something? Is this a business account? Social media is a game of pretend for "grown-ups" and it is built for women and weak men. Its not the root of your problems but it is a disgusting symptom.
/r/askMRP04/05/17 01:47 AM
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My wife got like this once, and sounded sort of like OP's wife. Very anxious/nervous and overall fearful. Once I stopped being an asshole everything kind of straightened out.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/17 02:09 PM
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If I came here to be called a Faggot, I stayed to learn the ways of the BBK.
/r/askMRP18/03/17 01:09 AM
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Indeed. We all go through the anger phase,. One of the most infuriating realizations was just how thoroughly, just how calculating, menacing and ultimately instrumental the church and Christianity was in keeping me down. I still work for the counselor's son. Both guys are really cool and down to earth, just really confused.
/r/askMRP18/03/17 01:02 AM
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I've had a pastor/counselor tell me its my fault. Basically laid out a step by step plan to keep my wife from having to own her mistake.
/r/askMRP17/03/17 10:52 AM
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Even if they read it all, it may not even be possible to internalize it. Men have a hard enough time internalizing it and finding it useful. Im not sure a woman would even be able to not just internalize but then come up with a counter-strategy that was at all effective. Best strategy would be to do what they do best, and just do it harder and longer.
/r/askMRP16/03/17 03:22 AM
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I've had a lot of these beat-downs, I coached Little League for 4 years and had a lot of low-rent kids from worse parents. Maybe try looking at responding to a kid on your team telling you these things. What would you tell a kid who wanted to win? Its your wife though, you don't have to entertain any of it if you don't want to. Its usually not in your favor to tell her directly to shut up but there has to be a fun/funny way to get the message across. Or you could be direct but expect her to ampl…
/r/askMRP16/03/17 03:17 AM
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I'm going through a similar situation. Starfish response = selfish caveman. I've gotten positive feedback after showing I just don't care about her orgasm (nearly as much) anymore. I listen when she verbalizes how I can be better in bed, and shes coming around to the idea that she needs to get more involved if its going to be more enjoyable for her. Sometimes starfish is all I'm going to get though unless I can radically change the direction of her emotions after we both had a long day at work a…
/r/askMRP15/03/17 12:04 PM
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I am FNG so take for what you will. I had a lot of similar questions to the 4 you listed and I kept asking myself the same question and that was in a nutshell, what would I do if the world ended and I wound up alone in the wild with nothing. How would I get validation, how would I know what I liked, wanted and valued. How and where would I get those things. Some of the answers and especially the implications were quite terrifying, but ultimately led to a very comfortable, very manly place that I…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/17 05:02 AM
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Basic Info Age: 37, wife 38, 3 kids 15, 12, 10 Married: 18 years (I know) Education: Tech School, Network Eng., Auto Tech. Occupation: Woodworker (fab & install hardwood cabinets & furniture) Successful: Not really. Not financially. I like what I do and avoid what I don’t like. Almost too alpha, not enough beta $$, although I am more than intellectual enough to make beta bux. I dont care enough about what my peers, parents, wife, or kids think about me to move back into IT. I like what I do and …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/17 04:13 AM
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This short story speaks volumes to me, about what has actually worked in my relationship before and what used to confuse me. I still hover around the Main Event and this kind of thing encourages me to stick to what I know is right/necessary and follow through, regardless. That I set the standard for my life and what I find acceptable. Not my parents, peers, wife... even my kids (although I have to work on not capitulating to my kids demands).
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/17 03:07 AM
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This rings all too true, and I am autistic. I am comfortable and safe. Commitment was/is never the problem. Adding dread enough for her to realize SHE can and should be missing what I bring to the table is my biggest problem, at least since leaving the anger phase.
/r/askMRP15/03/17 01:21 AM
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I am genuinely curious, what do you do for work? Are you good at it? Are you exceedingly good at it? What other things do you excel at, naturally? Lots of smart/experienced people here have given you valuable guidance and your still confused so I wonder what it is that you understand and find natural that has nothing to do with your wife/relationship. Usually the best indicator is a mans profession.
/r/askMRP14/03/17 10:55 PM
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I posted a while back about the words "I feel" and have been removing that from my vocabulary and modifying my thought process. You mentioned the word "shouldn't" ought to be removed and that is one that I have been kicking to the curb with frequency as well as they are commonly tied together.
/r/askMRP14/03/17 10:02 PM
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Read this a bunch- Verbal Intercourse is Optional Seems like you lost as soon as you agreed to entertain her complaints.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/17 08:32 PM
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Pick up her nasty ass filth and put it on her side of the bed, her car, etc. It works for a child so it will probably work for a wife.
/r/askMRP12/03/17 09:23 PM
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I should have done a better job explaining. Ive had addiction problems. Nobody understands wanting to go back and re-set the past like a clean addict. That is why this program is so appealing to me. Its dependent on the work I want to put into myself because in a new-agey kind of way "the answers" or "happiness" or whatever is inside myself. It does not depend on anyone else. So the kids come around quickly because they were really young when I went through most of my problems, my boss is mostly…
/r/askMRP12/03/17 05:41 AM
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Money will buy you nicer clothes immediately, diet changes your health pretty quickly. Anabolics can speed up bulking or cutting weight. Hygiene can be improved today. You can put in extra effort at work now. Frame and game take practice and time but you should be able to find at least 1 thing to practice right now. You can start a hobby or make friends at your own pace. From my limited experience my kids have responded fairly quickly and reliably, and my boss notices my increased productivity a…
/r/askMRP12/03/17 04:01 AM
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That actually does sound like the fun part. If he understands the rules well enough and understands how the game is played, why should he give a shit about a safety net?
/r/askMRP10/03/17 10:20 PM
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Same here.
/r/askMRP10/03/17 09:53 PM
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It doesn't matter. fucking a-men
/r/askMRP09/03/17 12:11 AM
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This ^ and why do you even give a shit about any of these childish complaints or requests? You can reach a point where your wife (or boss, or friend etc.) knows not to test you with such weak material because you will remove yourself from the situation, immediately because you simply do not care.
/r/askMRP08/03/17 11:55 PM
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She knows she is emotionally immature and childish, and she wants a man who A) won't tolerate it, and B) won't get all pissy and get his panties in a bunch if she throws a little attitude his way. Be the bigger man she wants you to be and rise above. I've recently began "passing" frame tests and I was astonished when I found not only this to be true, but it gives them something to get wet about.
/r/askMRP01/03/17 01:47 AM
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Talking about this stuff with your wife is decidedly Not Attractive. She doesnt want to hear that your having a hard time doing normal stuff. Oak trees dont take anti-depressants, so fake it until you make it. If you have to fake it a hundred times a day, do it. You can. Meds are a quick fix and the easy way out. Chicks and fags take the easy way out. Men take the best way out. Your not a chick are you? If you start really fearing suicide type stuff, re-visit your coping mechanisms. I used to be…
/r/askMRP24/02/17 01:51 AM
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Do you find it easy to consider yourself Alpha vs other men (AMOG)? How about looking a The Blue Pill, did you ever buy into that garbage or when you look back did you always reject it? I'm kind of a gorilla naturally, same height as you but at 250lb. I've gotten away without much accountability because I never bought into any of The Blue Pill mentality, am very good looking, funny and very smart. A lot of the finer points MRP teaches cover the bases I used to put effort into (game, OI). Your st…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/17 07:55 AM
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The way you broke this down was excellent. Good post, sir.
/r/askMRP23/02/17 06:02 AM
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I like the way you broke this down. Anything more complicated usually goes out the window because I get too agitated by trying to interpret complex emotional responses and interpersonal relationships. This is something I can use.
/r/askMRP21/02/17 06:06 PM
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I am in a much better place than last February. The process of internalizing has been slow-going, until recently. There have been enormous breakthroughs along the way. A year ago I would not have been able to tell you 1 thing I like about myself. The last couple of months have been tough, but all part of swallowing the Red Pill. I am working on how to find joy as it does not come naturally, while also doing the things I need to do to improve myself in a way that creates someone compatible with o…
/r/askMRP17/02/17 07:04 PM
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I have always suspected that I was in her "frame". I just couldn't identify it. My wife is a "Nice Girl" and is a fucking ninja about it. She is from a family of 11 kids and all of them have huge families. My wife moved out of the church long before we met but its a huge part of her families Lutheran church. Its part of how they rationalize that they deserve to go to heaven. Honest.
/r/askMRP17/02/17 05:14 PM
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As I understand it the term hamster refers to a sort of un-desirable state of continuous rationalization and internalization. Is that correct or can you elaborate? I was simply and explicitly trying to explain the situation behind the decisions that I made but clearly communicated more than that.
/r/askMRP17/02/17 05:10 PM
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I had a hard time internalizing WISNIFG the first time around (6 months ago or so). We are going out of town for our oldest daughters volleyball tournament this weekend and I had a ton of time to fill so I will use the time to myself to read it again. Where can I find out more about DEERing? People refer to it a lot and I seem to have missed something in the sidebar or otherwise.
/r/askMRP17/02/17 04:59 PM
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Thanks. I'm sure its because I am too close to the situation but I had a hard time identifying (and seems like I still do) and describing this interaction.
/r/askMRP17/02/17 04:57 PM
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I am definitely going to STFU next time. Once I am consistently doing that I will work on AA/AM.
/r/askMRP17/02/17 04:56 PM
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I can identify with some of what you are asking, as a fellow Christian. I would ask you a question immediately and that is: "Are you her priest?" She is not yours. You are not hers. She cannot forgive you or give you anything outside of what she was made to give you. If she is asking, turn the question around on her and she can tell you why she FEELS the need to know. Keep her hamster moving but in a way that solves her shitty FEELS problem or at a minimum moves the problem back to her and away …
/r/askMRP16/02/17 11:29 PM
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She was raised Lutheran, a very strict section. She broke away from that and has been born again. I took a longer road, but ended up in the same place. We both grew up in rural Minnesota. Father is fairly typical, tough love is the only love, and mostly absent. She's #7 of 11 kids. Had a very strong bond with her mom, who was SAHM until she passed. A lot of her sisters are either SAHM or just work part time. She works a lot in tourist season, but otherwise stays home or works 5-10 hrs a week. Pr…
/r/askMRP03/11/16 10:24 PM
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It took a long time to find our church. It's no different than anything else. The most important thing is always be thinking for yourself. Pray for spiritual protection and discernment.
/r/askMRP03/11/16 03:18 PM
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I don't remember, probably followed a link from mixedmartialarts.com , but I have spent a lot of time this year on self improvement, and overall just improving my marriage and family. I am a Christian, and after reading some of the basic stuff here I found it was very in line with the things we teach our kids, and also the enormous amount of responsibility placed on the father and husband in the Bible. I really despise the full scale assault on masculinity in the US. Feminism and the destruction…
/r/askMRP03/11/16 05:21 AM
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I had a similar path. Very alpha up until age 26, exceptional and masculine in every way. Then life hit me HARD, still reeling from that, it struck again when I was 28 even harder. 8 years later I'm about 80% where I want to be as far as self improvement (if you can put a number on it). Almost all of the really hard life lessons were learned in the last 8 years.
/r/askMRP03/11/16 01:41 AM
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Most MRP material applies to one of us, but there are things that taught as AWALT, and I've never seen anything like that in my wife and honestly cant ever imagine her doing or behaving like that. Maybe certain shitty female traits have been suppressed. We both grew up in a tiny farm town in the middle of nowhere, and both families are very traditional. Boys work the farm really early and work hard. Girls learn how to bake and generally follow their mothers footsteps. Not sure if there is any pl…
/r/askMRP02/11/16 11:06 PM
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Its season here, and that means both of us are under a lot of work pressure. Lots of kid stuff going on, so mostly we were both tired and getting on each others nerves. So that would have been last week sometime. Not much of an argument. The next day I felt kind of stupid about it and just made a note that just because she doesn't have the physical workload that I do, or the hours, that she still needs as much time as me to unwind, especially from the kids. My fault for not owning the situation …
/r/askMRP02/11/16 10:47 PM
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In my mind I dont have a problem. Not like a lot of guys do. Ive been here since about April. Sidebar, read books. Already lift. My wife and I are not a trainwreck like a lot of situations but there is definitely improvement to be made by me. Honestly I felt kind of stupid asking the question because I really cant point a finger at what would be my problem, I just had a feeling if this is every woman ever made, then I'm missing something, even if its small.
/r/askMRP02/11/16 10:42 PM
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