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There is nothing you can do if she does not want you. I have controlled my ex and she left me because of control. You simply don't choose wh0r3s. I did choose one. Biggest mistake.
/r/Divorce_Men22/12/25 12:29 PM
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Yeah I don't even understand why anyone should wait when he wants to fuck. I have waited like 1-2 months but not because someone told me, but because I did not care about other women at that time. As soon as I started caring I started banging.
/r/Divorce_Men03/12/25 12:05 PM
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Hardest: Losing my love and losing the family unit, meaning not being able to hug my kids every day.
/r/Divorce_Men03/12/25 11:59 AM
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Lot of comments are against you but you are doing it somewhat right. USA laws are fucked. Do what you can for yourself and make sure your kids get your support (which is not equal that you pay a lot of money to your ex)
/r/Divorce_Men02/12/25 11:24 PM
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I am from EU and a child does not need 100-200k USD per month. These are actual child support numbers. USA laws are fucked. Making payments based on income is wtf. The child have needs I understand but not more money than what can raise 20 kids.
/r/Divorce_Men02/12/25 11:22 PM
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"Hard to walk, sensitive, over needy:" Women don't like weak men. As I read more: "They were actively mocking me and joking how weak and pathetic I was." "How can someone so sweet and empathetic" She was never that. At least not towards you. Just a mask. "Was the woman I loved real, or just a version she showed me?" Both of them is the same person. One person is usually not 100% sweet or 100% evil. "I know I wasn't perfect and I know my chronic pain was adding stress to the marriage, but I just …
/r/Divorce_Men03/11/25 03:19 PM
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I can relate. 2.5 years passed, i fucked like 10+ women and turned down a few. I could not get any better and I knew it when it was over. I got two women at almost similar level which was good at least. Only positive I can tell you is over time you will start to forget the sex with your ex. You will start to enjoy sex with others more over time. Also my current woman does something what no one ever did. While overall the sex is not as good with her with ex but this one exclusive thing makes it m…
/r/Divorce_Men03/11/25 02:23 PM
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Nice. Do your best to save your marriage. Then if you cannot save it, accept it and a get one or more sexy women. I thought my world ends when my ex left. Now after 2.5 years finally I am so glad she left me. She is very very bad person and a just I can't live with someone like this.
/r/Divorce_Men11/10/25 05:15 PM
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Start working out. Get muscles if you dont have it yet
/r/Divorce_Men11/10/25 04:08 PM
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Fit body helps a lot, but it is not enough. You need time and motivation to constantly chase women. Honestly it is not worth it. I did these because I had low self esteem and I thought I will successful if I seduce a lot of women. If you just want a few quality women: workout (naturally) as hard as you can recover from and spend time with these women (chat and in person time)
/r/Divorce_Men03/10/25 04:10 PM
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"Choose a good woman" Most important. Also keep being in good shape. Sadly I fucked up all of them. Wrong woman, out of shape, did not keep dating her.
/r/Divorce_Men03/10/25 06:18 AM
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I don't agree. I made some women cheat in the past (not anymore). I was a great student, had a great career and worked out a lot.
/r/Divorce_Men03/10/25 06:16 AM
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What if you will regret of not fighting for your family? I have similar experience as yours. But i would do it again. Now i can think back calmly and note that it cannot happen any other way, because i did absolutely everything and more and she still did not want me. I dont care about my dignity, but i care that i am 100% sure i could not do anything more to save my family.
/r/Divorce_Men29/09/25 09:40 PM
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Thanks but i am not the OP. My ex said she does not want kid with anyone either, but obivously she can change her mind. You say i dont matter to my ex and it is partly true. She wanted to get back together numerous times but after she rejected and betrayed me so many times i did not want her anymore. I still want her a bit, but only an idealized version of her. I offered her kid yes. I want a third kid, origianally wanted 3 with her. I wanted real siblings to my kids,but i will probably have a t…
/r/Divorce_Men29/09/25 09:33 PM
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It has been 2.5 years for me and I really dont want my ex to have baby with another man. It would impact my kids negatively because i know 1000% she would not do anything with my kids. Also i dont want my kids to live with another man. I don't understand how ppl are fine with these on this sub. I offered my ex another kid several times and she always says she will never want another baby.
/r/Divorce_Men29/09/25 08:34 PM
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Ofc it helps. I had huge pain as well but it helped. When I fucked a very similar ass as my ex had it helped a lot. I realized not only she can have that kind of ass. When I fucked a similarly attractive woman as my ex who was much more kind that helped as well. When someone did something to me what my ex would never ever do (never asked but I am sure), that helped as well. When every single women were more kind than my ex, that helped tremendously as well. As other commenter mentioned you need …
/r/Divorce_Men26/09/25 07:45 AM
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Yeah i tried to. Then she offed me after the paper has been finalized.
/r/Divorce_Men23/09/25 04:23 PM
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That is what my ex did to me. I don't recommend. You will get an enemy for life.
/r/Divorce_Men23/09/25 01:18 PM
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let me know if you know it. I am still struggling with it after 2.5 years :D But it is getting better with time and after I did some revenge on her (nothing big)
/r/Divorce_Men23/09/25 01:16 PM
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In case of death you will always see her as perfect partner even if she had flaws. During divorce you will see her true side. While it will be (was) painful, later you realize how bad person she was actually. You will see her looks fading away and you will see her bad personality side after divorce only. But if she dies you will never see her getting fat and old.
/r/Divorce_Men23/09/25 12:00 PM
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Geez. Obviously divorce especially if she is the the mom of your kids.
/r/Divorce_Men23/09/25 11:57 AM
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Women doesn't care about house. i had it. They want sexy muscular man. Sadly i got fat and she left me
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/25 07:58 AM
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One of them knows. Occasionally I meet with a third, but the third was never ok enough to replace anyone.
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/25 06:48 AM
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Well. I have 2, so once a week is actually twice 🤣 and i spend friday night and whole sat with one.
/r/Divorce_Men19/09/25 11:00 PM
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There is that type of relationship where you meet once a week only. I prefer those. I am not really interested in living with anyone.
/r/Divorce_Men19/09/25 07:07 AM
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I have a very attractive ex. At least I thought. As time passes I see her less and less attractive. She is aging slowly and my love fades away. Without love she is still attractive but I saw her differently. Maybe your love will fade away as well and you will see her worse. Additionally. Since the relationship is already over, you can think of this way. You got very good genes for your kids. There is not much else this woman can give you. I am not saying women in general can't give you way more.…
/r/Divorce_Men17/09/25 12:47 PM
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Dude I thought I can't bear the pain. It was very brutal half year. Then another a bit less brutal 1.5 years. Now after total of 2.5 years later life is much better finally. And yes there are kind women out there. What they want is a physically strong man (muscular). Hit the gym whenever you have time. If you have belly (I had it as well), get rid of it.
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/25 01:47 PM
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lol as other person mentioned it will get way worse with kid. You are young. Leave her, get muscular and find a normal person
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/25 12:52 PM
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Yeah but why would she be more vicious if the man is nice to her? If she becomes more vicious then it will be evident for even her that she is bad person, or she is not that nice as she thinks.
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/25 12:48 PM
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" Forget about reconciliation. It'll only make her colder and probably more vicious." Why more vicious? I wanted to reconcile with my ex as well and she was vicious yes, but she was that way always.
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/25 11:36 AM
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New cars every two years lol. I am happy I have a used 2009 Toyota. And I just got it like 3 years ago. Planning to use it for 8 years more. What a waste of money getting new cars constantly It is good that you stay fit. I plan to do the same.
/r/Divorce_Men14/09/25 06:11 AM
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Yeah they probably will lose the next election after 16 years. The next government will make life a bit easier for poorer ppl.
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/25 05:32 PM
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Actually in hungary poorer people pay MORE taxes. In percentage of their salary.
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/25 05:28 PM
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Hungary. Almost everything is more expensive here because of 27% VAT
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/25 04:41 PM
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2500 usd is more than my net income and I get way more than national avg. Why those kids needs 2500 usd? I get less than that each month, cover my two kids and still have plenty to have my own life.
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/25 11:51 AM
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I don't think any of us here choose the life without our kids. Most of us get the best out of thr current situation.
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/25 05:20 PM
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I agree. I had extreme mental pain because of separation but I keep meeting with my kids every week. While it is still not ideal, I am way better dad because of it.
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/25 05:18 PM
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Why 15 exactly? My kids are 4-6
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/25 05:06 PM
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I agree. Women do ONS, but in a hope of continued relationship. They usually select sexy men for sex. Why would not they want to be with them if they are sexy enough for sex? It is different for men. In desperate times we sometimes select a less attractive woman for sex as well. But obviously we have no intention of dating her. Any women who is doing ONS has zero self awareness about her value and zero understanding of men. If a man does not date her after the sex it is because either she was ba…
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/25 02:28 PM
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I don't have alimony, it is not really common in my country but have child support. At one she said she is using that money for herself which later she denied. However I had similar feeling as well as you. Now after close to 2.5 years I don't mind that much. So I guess it will get easier. (it was similar story, she did not do anything, was extremely disrespectful and rude towards me and still not working, even though she have a lot of opportunity)
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/25 07:09 AM
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I agree. I cheated women and it was never ever about them. I was horny for new women.
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/25 02:43 PM
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She is destroyinf herself and making you look better because everyone knows now how slut she is.
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/25 02:32 PM
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You mix correlation with causation. Someone who is single mother is not unhappy just because she is single mother. She is single mother because she is always unhappy and thought the cure of her unhappiness is getting rid of her husband.
/r/Divorce_Men06/04/25 10:53 AM
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How can you get over someone who is just your type phisically? I had the best sex in my life ever with her. I have been with a lot of women so it is not like I haven't experienced anything else. There is a reason why i had kids with her and not with other women before her. I am in therapy currently with this issue. Anyway I don't even want to live with her, just be with her. There are lot of relationships where ppl don't live together.
/r/Divorce_Men23/03/25 09:13 PM
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Yeah true. I haven't really talked with people in similar situation in the past 2 years. This is the first time.i think i am using this subreddit. Most of my peers does not even have kids, let alone divorce
/r/Divorce_Men23/03/25 03:49 PM
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Thanks Can't even imagine what someone feels whose kids are adults and moved out far away, maybe even to different country. At least I still have my kids legally once a week and no one can say no to me, only if they are very very very ill.
/r/Divorce_Men23/03/25 03:48 PM
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Yes might be. Currently attending to a company therapist. 6 free times. I've done this free 6 times 1 year ago as well. Also went to a 2 week group excercise 1.5 year ago. Did not solve much. I guess if i would go for a year long one, maybe that would be different but it is extremely expensive and it is very hard for me to spend money (for anything)
/r/Divorce_Men23/03/25 02:52 PM
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Thanks "Try to accept that you were not compatible with your ex partner. Things were not good at the end probably" Sadly it is true.
/r/Divorce_Men23/03/25 10:07 AM
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So you gave her money now and promised one full house? Ofc she is happy for a while now.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/24 10:31 PM
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Somewhat true. I don't care too much what others think but sometimes yes
/r/askMRP16/07/24 06:10 AM
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Yes you are right.
/r/askMRP15/07/24 05:25 PM
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"You're unique, your story isn't." I agree. I just never had a chance to talk with someone with similar story (kids taken away). Because most of the people I know does not even have kids or they are different gender or they live with their kids.
/r/askMRP15/07/24 10:54 AM
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Yes I am seeking validation. I have fully comprehend their POV. But their POV does not count my interests at all, only the interest of others. "Maybe STFU more and do what you want without DEERing." Thanks. That should be last "validation" I ever need.
/r/askMRP15/07/24 10:44 AM
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haha :D Sadly I can't do anything now. Almost 3 months have passed and my ex has a new boyfriend it seems. Only thing I can do is read the side bar fully here (started) and focus on my kids. And lift and STFU. And prepare for legal side
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/23 02:48 PM
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How did you not retaliate to the liquid being thrown in your face x2? What is the proper response? I am similar situation but just weak and aggressive. My ex left me anyway :D i have no idea what would be the ideal response because neither the OP’s, nor mine was good.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/23 10:43 AM
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“ It doesn’t go away. You just have to let it become a part of who you are.” I am almost crying on the bus reading this. :’( i’ll watch the video when i get home.
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/23 10:17 AM
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Thanks. Your words are motivating. I just visited them, it was so good.
/r/Divorce_Men11/06/23 01:34 PM
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I am not that good dad to raise kids fully alone. Also i think it is illegal here but not 100% sure.
/r/Divorce_Men10/06/23 04:57 PM
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When did the ex took the kids? It happened 1.5 months ago for me. I was also thinking of suicide but not really anymore. It was extremly bad, but now it is just bad. A felt zero motivation for anything. Still somewhat similar but better a bit.
/r/Divorce_Men10/06/23 04:55 PM
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Omg :(
/r/Divorce_Men10/06/23 08:38 AM
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