What to do when no one understands (fully) you?

BobbyPeru · 2024-07-15T19:25:30+00:00

Your frame is weak - you care way too much about what others think.

Captain_pants4 · 2024-07-16T00:20:22+00:00

Don’t be cryptic and gay

castironskilletset · 2024-07-15T13:18:09+00:00

No one has to understand you to do what you want.

For example, A woman does not need to understand how game works in order for game to work on her.

Its faulty assumption that for people to do what you want them to do, they need to understand you. They just need to feel good about doing it. Thats it really

2wo2wo3hree · 2024-07-15T12:48:22+00:00

What to do when no one understands (fully) you?

Remember that nobody gives a fuck about (fully) you.

It seems like you’re living in other people’s frame. Otherwise, none of this would even matter.

TheNattyJew · 2024-07-15T11:40:49+00:00

That's the thing about being a man, people will never support you. They always believe and support the women. They will bend over backwards to twist the facts around to make her look good and make you look bad. It's just the way it is. You can see this very clearly on the relationship subreddits. No matter the issue, the man is the evil one. It's just something you have to live with and get over

dillonlara115 · 2024-07-15T12:16:07+00:00

check your ego at the door. it sounds like you are set on your way, unwilling to change your position but somehow expect others to. is this not hypocritical of you?

WishMeLuck77 · 2024-07-17T18:18:06+00:00

Could it be.. i mean.. look at other new guys who come here. Could it be that you never had to think for yourself and followed always someone else’s instructions?

TraditionNo1086 · 2024-07-25T20:09:01+00:00

What's important is that you know you're doing the right thing. It's good to get feedback from others, gives you different perspectives, and you might learn something new and consider stuff you haven't considered before. But you shouldn't do something that doesn't feel right to you. I think it's good to consider it being a "bad" thing, consider the wrongs and rights to be sure.

If you want to get some nonbiased opinions you can ask Reddit about it I suppose but remember it's still your life and no one should make the decisions for you

Ambitious_Buddy_6723 · 2024-07-15T09:58:46+00:00

Sounds like validation seeking. Also have you tried to comprehend their POV even if you disagree? Maybe STFU more and do what you want without DEERing. Seems like you've been deering your stance on whatever this issue is.

NoMoreMrNiceJay · 2024-07-15T19:24:12+00:00

Anything outside your frame is either amusing, intriguing, or funny.

Some people will fall into your frame, continue with you mission and campaign for what you want. Your life is a solo journey.

Swagstoic · 2024-07-15T09:54:55+00:00

I'd work on your codependency.

Also, I'd get over yourself.

You're unique, your story isn't.

extrastone · 2024-07-15T08:59:52+00:00

You do you. It sounds like this is building frame.

Title	What to do when no one understands (fully) you?
Author	Anyosnyelv
Upvotes	1
Comments	16
Date	July 15, 2024 8:42 AM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askMRP
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