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DiscriminationArguesovereverythin/r/MensRights29/03/23 10:12 PM
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DiscriminationArguesovereverythin/r/MensRights19/02/23 01:33 PM
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DiscriminationArguesovereverythin/r/MensRights03/03/24 11:44 PM
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DiscriminationArguesovereverythin/r/MensRights08/08/22 01:25 PM
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DiscriminationArguesovereverythin/r/MensRights04/04/22 12:47 PM
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Legal RightsArguesovereverythin/r/MensRights25/12/22 09:11 PM
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DiscriminationArguesovereverythin/r/MensRights16/06/22 06:18 AM
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IntactivismArguesovereverythin/r/MensRights03/05/22 01:23 PM
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DiscriminationArguesovereverythin/r/MensRights07/08/22 11:44 AM
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Social IssuesArguesovereverythin/r/MensRights09/12/21 04:33 PM
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DiscriminationArguesovereverythin/r/MensRights15/10/22 10:39 PM
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DiscriminationArguesovereverythin/r/MensRights01/09/22 02:02 PM
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support requestArguesovereverythin/r/MenSupportMen07/08/21 01:35 PM
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HealthArguesovereverythin/r/MensRights18/08/22 02:35 AM
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I think what's even more concerning than this is the movement both by Republicans and Democrats to force the financial burden of raising children on everyone. You could be perfect. Literally stop having sex with anyone. Doesn't matter. You'll still pay child support through school taxes. Parent's will receive child tax credits and you'll have to pay the difference. The only silver lining is that at least these taxes are applied equally to both single men and single women. There are also women ou…
/r/MensRights14/02/26 11:34 PM
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there already is one, but at least it hits men and women equally.
/r/MensRights10/02/26 01:24 AM
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A father would say anything to defend his daughter. Fortunately, the law is pretty clear. In Florida, lewd or lascivious battery (Florida Statute § 800.04) is a severe felony sex crime involving sexual contact between an adult (or person over a certain age) and a minor, typically defined as being between 12 and 16 years old. It is a strict liability crime, meaning that even if the minor consented or misrepresented their age, the act is still illegal. I don't think she's going to walk away becaus…
/r/MensRights01/02/26 02:06 AM
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I disagree. Your time is limited and valuable. Don't spend it around people that will unjustifiably hate you or treat you poorly. Go your own way.
/r/MensRights31/01/26 04:22 PM
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I'm not understanding the article. It said they received 77% of what was owed and suddenly the entire organization will collapse in the near future? What am I missing?
/r/MensRights30/01/26 09:47 PM
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Yeah, but you can say that about both major political parties in the US. It's really not a choice at all. You can face joblessness due to DEI programs or workplace injuries due to the erosion of safety regulations. You can be unfairly prosecuted because politicians are trying to protect women or because politicians are tough on crime. You lose access to your child because "believe all women" or traditional gender roles. Your choice is an illusion. The only way I see to get out of this is to supp…
/r/MensRights19/01/26 09:21 AM
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You're talking about abolishing the UN. I can't even get my city to allow me to buy alcohol past 2AM. In my state, we successfully added the right to purchase marijuana in the Constitution, and law makers were like "no" and started arresting people anyway. No one is listening to us. I'm tired, dude. It's like nothing we say or do or want matters whether it's something small or something potentially deadly. Good for you for thinking about changing the world. Someone's gotta do it. I just can't ge…
/r/MensRights18/01/26 06:19 PM
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Hey OP. Did you know that any entity that receives federal funding is required by Title IX not to discriminate by race, color, national origin, ethnicity, ancestry, SEX, disability, or age? Here is a link to file a complaint with the OCR: https://www.ed.gov/laws-and-policy/civil-rights-laws/file-complaint I can't promise that you will win, but you'll force them to deal with this topic rather than ignoring it. And honestly, if they keep needing to hire lawyers to deal with this, maybe they will c…
/r/MensRights02/01/26 01:09 PM
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I'll decide what's in my own best interest, thank you. If I decide something is worth fighting for, then I will fight. Forcing people into a dangerous situation is a good way to see guns pointed in the opposite direction than what they want.
/r/MensRights26/12/25 12:03 PM
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It's the logic that I don't get. What's the connection between being able to vote and being eligible for the draft? If we manage to abolish the draft, should no one have the right to vote? The existence of the draft is more of a constitutional flaw in my opinion. In a society that brags about human rights, how can it be legal for the government to command a person to die?
/r/MensRights24/12/25 01:31 PM
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No, I only choose male doctors. If you go on your insurance website, you can see information about the doctor and choose them using your own criteria. no questions asked.
/r/MensRights18/03/25 03:28 AM
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I respectfully disagree. That money belongs to her and she should give it to whomever she wants. You can't demand that other people donate money in a way that upholds your values. You should donate your own money and collaborate with other like minded individuals to address the issues you feel are important. Men have more than enough resources to take care of other men. So let this actress take care of the girls while you and me handle the guys. I've been donating to Doctors Without Borders mont…
/r/MensRights04/12/24 08:19 AM
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She raped him by shoving her mouth, ass, or vagina onto his penis, yes.
/r/MensRights08/11/24 05:53 PM
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No, that's not correct. The last line does make the law apply to a woman raping a man. If a woman penetrates her own oral, anal, or vaginal opening with a man's penis against his will, this could be charged as rape under Idaho state law.
/r/MensRights08/11/24 01:32 AM
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Not for nothing, but when I think of equality and social justice, I don't think of China. I don't think of America either, but I definitely don't think of China.
/r/MensRights03/10/24 06:01 AM
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they'd put you in jail and let her go.
/r/MensRights25/09/24 09:13 AM
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They have bots. But bots are easier to use for say removing political topics than they would be for removing bad faith posts. It's not like you can automatically remove posts that mention "feminism". Also, since so many subs ban people that post here, the bots can't remove low karma accounts either because men need those to participate here.
/r/MensRights04/09/24 06:28 AM
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mods aren't omnipotent or omnipresent. Do your part and report it.
/r/MensRights04/09/24 05:50 AM
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Supremacy clause means that federal law would trump state law. Unfortunately, there are no political candidates that openly defend men's rights. It's up to you as an individual to ensure that you are never trapped by the terms of common law marriage.
/r/MensRights30/08/24 03:38 PM
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You need to call your therapist. This isn't a joke or a put-down. Make an appointment before you end up doing something you regret.
/r/MensRights30/08/24 07:35 AM
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AAHHHH I'm sorry don't beat me
/r/MensRights30/08/24 07:03 AM
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There was that whipping incident though. Maybe don't start flogging people when they don't respect your religion.
/r/MensRights29/08/24 04:48 PM
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Are you high right now?
/r/MensRights28/08/24 03:35 AM
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I think "egalitarian" is a more apt description for someone that believes that.
/r/MensRights28/08/24 03:35 AM
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I'm hopeful about society's progress, but I'd like to see the sentence given to the women and the man before I make any conclusions.
/r/MensRights26/08/24 07:12 AM
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I've been growing more libertarian over time and I think it's everyone's right to view/discuss whatever they want in the privacy of their own home. Your reason for looking at these athletes is no one's business but your own. However, I get your point about the hypocrisy. The media has no morals.
/r/MensRights16/08/24 06:15 PM
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Fully support. I think it would be very helpful to highlight cases where a man was raped by a woman but the woman received a lighter sentence due to shortcomings in the law.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/08/24 05:06 AM
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Yeah... and I just answered the question you asked. You are allowed to ask, but that doesn't mean that people will agree.
/r/MensRights02/07/24 06:50 PM
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None of what you mentioned matters. A woman can decide to have an abortion. A woman could also surrender the baby after it's born and many states allow this to be done anonymously. That would mean that they could do this without the father even knowing. Since women have the option to unilaterally decide not to be a parent, men should also have that option. Paper abortions are not unreasonable.
/r/MensRights02/07/24 05:40 PM
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What program is this? Who is funding it?
/r/MensRights30/06/24 06:54 AM
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Paywall. Can you post the article?
/r/MensRights26/06/24 07:46 AM
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Written by Chris Pollard. Dude had both a platform and the opportunity to advocate for men, but chose to write this garbage instead. I wish there was a way to hold people like this accountable. If men don't support other men, then women and politicians will think it's fine to disparage them too.
/r/MensRights12/06/24 03:51 PM
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You don't have to justify yourself to anyone. Your money belongs to you and you can give it to any cause you deem worthy.
/r/MensRights09/06/24 03:27 PM
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Do women have the right to vote in Ukraine? So then, I guess men aren't the only ones to blame.
/r/MensRights03/06/24 10:18 AM
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That's an easy question to answer. Society doesn't give a shit about men.
/r/MensRights01/06/24 03:45 PM
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The KKK is a hate group because they have a history of lynching people. It is ridiculous to say that a STEM program for women is the same thing.
/r/MensRights01/06/24 03:41 PM
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I'm fine with programs that only allow women IF AND ONLY IF it is privately funded. You want to take your own money and dedicate it to something you feel passionate about? Go ahead! Everyone has the right to do that. We could do that for men too. But the moment you apply tax dollars to that program, you need to allow everyone to participate. Otherwise, it's no different from fining people for being born a man or fining someone because of their skin color.
/r/MensRights31/05/24 05:17 PM
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I don't know if we really got to find out. According to Wikipedia: "It is now known that, during the Vietnam era, approximately 570,000 young men were classified as draft offenders,[3] and approximately 210,000 were formally accused of draft violations;[11][3] however, only 8,750 were convicted and only 3,250 were jailed." If they had tried to force all 570k men, I think we might have seen some organized resistance. At the very least, they would have lost more men than they would gain with consc…
/r/MensRights25/05/24 07:42 PM
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I see 6 people that should be on the front lines themselves.
/r/MensRights25/05/24 07:57 AM
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This is why the second amendment exists.
/r/MensRights25/05/24 07:51 AM
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Why ask that here? Crazy people believe crazy shit. Best to just ignore them.
/r/MensRights23/05/24 10:34 PM
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For sure. Two different view points to describe a complex issue.
/r/MensRights18/05/24 05:06 AM
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It is in the interest of the public that the beloved NBA should undergo a very slight rebranding to ensure it is never confused with its female counterpart. I propose adding an 'M' to the NBA, transforming it into the MNBA. I'm not clear how this would advance men's rights. The NBA is already understood to be a men's organization that differs from the WNBA. Even if women were allowed to play in the NBA leagues, they would probably get crushed by men. Men are generally faster and stronger than wo…
/r/MensRights18/05/24 04:59 AM
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I think this is a good start, but it's missing a huge component. What you are saying is true to an extent. However, I think that the way you describe society is more how Western culture is portrayed in the media. The reality is that every individual contributes to their environment by allowing themselves to be exposed to certain people and situations. This is probably my MGTOWness coming through, but I think men that don't want to be negatively influenced should carefully choose who they allow t…
/r/MensRights18/05/24 04:48 AM
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If you're out at a restaurant, do you not use the bathroom because there might be a kid in there? Do you avoid rest stops as well? All public bathrooms have kids in them sometimes. OP is definitely overthinking this one.
/r/MensRights17/05/24 08:21 PM
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What you said in the title is not correct. The study does not claim that 14% of college men have committed sexual assault. It says that of the 197 participants involved in a 4 year study at one specific school, 14% had reported committing attempted or completed rape and 34% had reported at least one act of sexual assault perpetration. This study was published in 2004, so we don't know if a researcher would obtain the same results today. The study cannot be generalized to all college men because …
/r/MensRights13/05/24 08:15 AM
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¿Por que no los dos? 🤤🤤
/r/MensRights09/05/24 05:35 PM
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Well, I'm gay. So definitely a bear.
/r/MensRights08/05/24 07:38 AM
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I think the saying that 90% of women chase 10% of men has some truth to it. If you are a really good looking man, you will be fine on a dating app. If you're looking for someone that won't judge you primarily on your looks, then go elsewhere.
/r/MensRights08/05/24 04:53 AM
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Safe? No, of course not. People have been doxxed, people get banned all the time for associating with any Men's Rights group. If the account is linked to you, I have no doubt that the HR team at Disney, Universal, or wherever you are now will want to have a word. You could be putting your career in jeopardy. If your content gains any traction, people will accuse you of inspiring violence against women. All the carefully selected words in the world won't stop you from getting sued. And assuming y…
/r/MensRights30/04/24 04:53 AM
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I don't know where you heard this, but it does make me happy imagining people who think like this getting eaten by a bear.
/r/MensRights29/04/24 07:11 AM
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If it were me, I would return to fight against the Ukrainian government. The only way fo ced conscription stops is if they lose more soldiers than they gain.
/r/MensRights25/04/24 07:02 PM
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Are you voting for Trump because he's not Biden or has Trump given you a reason to vote for him?
/r/MensRights25/04/24 06:17 AM
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Women get paid for egg donation. If you're not gonna get paid, I don't see why you should do it.
/r/MensRights23/04/24 06:18 PM
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This woman needs a psychologist for whatever she's been through that makes her post things like this. You are not her psychologist. If you don't personally know this woman: Go your own way. You can't convince a bigot not to hate people over facebook. If you do know this woman personally and you feel the relationship is worth it: approach her irl. Tell her you are concerned about her posts. Ask her about her experience with men and try to listen without interrupting. Remind her that she does have…
/r/MensRights23/04/24 05:34 PM
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Exactly. People that hate men treat them as one giant group. They get hurt by a few, so they carry a torch against all of them. Let's not be like that. Both men and women have a vested interest in men's rights because we all have fathers, brothers, sons and friends. Anyone willing to support the cause is welcome to speak here as far as I'm concerned.
/r/MensRights10/04/24 07:24 AM
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I personally blame Toxic Femininity. Women have developed a culture that punishes other women for not conforming to the social expectation that everything they own should be pink. It reinforces the stereotype that women care more about frivolous things like "appearance" rather than more practical concepts such as efficiency or efficacy. So, in reality, the 'Pink Tax' actually demonstrates how it was women who have harmed themselves with higher prices on these goods. Women are solely responsible.…
/r/MensRights09/04/24 09:01 AM
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That was very well stated. Something else to add to the explanation is that the term "Toxic Masculinity" inherently supports a bigoted system of collective punishment. It attributes Toxic behavior to 'men' as a whole when in reality behavior is very individual fails to acknowledge the contribution of women's culture that has influenced men socially omits the fact that women sometimes benefit from Toxic Masculinity (ie excluded from the draft, incur fewer injuries at work because they are never e…
/r/MensRights08/04/24 10:39 PM
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Yeah, it's probably best you post your opinions here. You found a privately owned echo chamber. They are within their rights to only allow opinions that agree with their world view even if the reasoning behind their opinion is dumb as shit. In this specific scenario, however, I don't agree with you 100%. Every person deserves to feel safe in their own home. If the husband is too drunk to hear "no" or "I'm not into it", then he might also be too drunk to hear "ouch" or "don't put that there". If …
/r/MensRights08/04/24 08:13 AM
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Who is she to tell other people what is allowed to make them happy? She mentions all of the things men need to do to have a real relationship - Touch grass, go to the gym a few times a week, socialize. Has she considered that the fact some men prefer AI actually reflects more on the women? Maybe they aren't worth even that much effort...
/r/MensRights01/04/24 12:00 AM
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Was there ever evidence to the contrary?
/r/MensRights24/03/24 08:42 AM
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And I'm warming up to the idea of nuclear war. Let's just let the world start over from scratch. Give a new species a chance at the wheel.
/r/MensRights21/03/24 12:27 AM
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Listened to the entire speech. He gave me zero reasons to vote for him, so I won't. The Republican response was utterly laughable. A choreographed portrayal of suburban mom 'scared for her children' did not connect with me. Going with the Libertarians this time. I don't think their position works in an extreme form. But if we can get a few libertarians in office maybe we can pressure the government to stop wasting tax dollars on bullshit and repeal some bullshit regulations.
/r/MensRights17/03/24 06:47 PM
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It's cervical cancer vs prostate cancer. I'm fine with women that talk about tough experiences as long as they don't diminish the needs of others. I think a lot of people cross a red line by saying their problems deserve more attention than other people's problems. But in reality, we should be striving to solve both.
/r/MensRights17/03/24 07:53 AM
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Aren't there home paternity tests now? Just do it and don't tell her.
/r/MensRights16/03/24 07:19 PM
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I think that if your happiness is dependent on others, then you are bound to be miserable eventually. You should find a way to feel fulfilled regardless of the circumstances. I don't see any way to do that other than by improving yourself.
/r/MensRights11/03/24 11:05 AM
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Seeing everyone around you as a potential rapist sounds like torture. I hope you seek out some help so you can work through that. No one deserves to go through life that way.
/r/MensRights11/03/24 07:34 AM
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Do you value your relationship with this woman? You are clearly right that her statements are sexist. If I said "I don't like the Irish because they steal. Not all Irish!", the bigotry is clear. However, I think confronting her would just make her dig in her heels. Try being gentle and direct. For example, in this situation: If a girl came to me revealing that a guy did something bad to her. I would want to help her and listen but when they sneak in these misandrist comments it makes me not want…
/r/MensRights11/03/24 07:31 AM
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the probably got all the kids on the first round.
/r/MensRights04/03/24 03:40 AM
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Previous time it was posted, I also confirmed that the screenshot above is accurate. Don't get me wrong, I'm glad it was changed. But it would have been nice for Google to at least apologize. As it is now, it appears OP is lying when that's not the case.
/r/MensRights25/02/24 10:38 PM
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99% of the time, the best thing to do is to walk away. If you bring up examples of woman doing the same behavior, they'll inevitably say, "Yes, rarely a woman will do this but it's usually men." If you bring up 10 examples supported by evidence from FBI crime data, recent census data, OSHA statistics, etc, they will say, "Yes but the victims are always women." And when you counter that with evidence, they say "Yeah, but so many more women are impacted." As if that's a justifiable reason not to h…
/r/MensRights19/02/24 08:31 PM
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Bro, if I could make money on OnlyFans, I'd talk about it non-fucking-stop. Sex for money is the dream.
/r/MensRights15/02/24 04:51 AM
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you're
/r/MensRights07/02/24 11:50 PM
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I hear you and agree with you, but if men looked out for men like women looked out for other women, life would be much better for us. Something that has always annoyed me.
/r/MensRights07/02/24 08:50 AM
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"But the other side has men too. Still not safe..."
/r/MensRights03/02/24 06:44 AM
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"i'd love to join the military, but it's not safe for us"
/r/MensRights02/02/24 06:43 PM
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Well, yeah.... She wasn't charged with murder, she was charged with involuntary manslaughter. There was no criminal intent, only 'reckless behavior'. Seeing that there was no evidence that they were anything but a happy couple, the victim of the crime probably wouldn't have wanted his gf to go to prison. Although I'm definitely sympathetic towards the parents. This was a tragedy.
/r/MensRights27/01/24 09:52 AM
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Being a mod isn't a paying gig. Morons will say moronic things. That doesn't mean the sub needed to be banned. It just needed support.
/r/MensRights27/01/24 09:37 AM
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Issue number 1: I hate when people who are not part of a group say, "This entire group believes THIS and here's why they're wrong!". Not only did you fail to provide any reference or proof that MRA's, MGTOW, and PUA agree with that statement; but you also failed to recognize that individuals in these groups have highly diverse opinions. It's like saying Joe Biden represents the opinion of all Democrats, Liberals, and Moderates. Joe Biden may be influential, but he doesn't speak for all of them. …
/r/MensRights27/01/24 05:02 AM
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100% of presidents are men. What percentage of men are presidents?
/r/MensRights16/01/24 01:36 AM
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If you're afraid of what they'll think when you show them what you believe, should they really be your friends?
/r/MensRights15/01/24 08:27 AM
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There is no compromise here. If she gets pregnant and she wants to have the baby, she will. You have no options at that point. So decide what you want. If you are dead-set on not having a baby, either don't have vaginal intercourse or break up. Sometimes, there's no way for everyone to win. You either change or you make a change.
/r/MensRights15/01/24 04:58 AM
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People on Reddit are not a perfect picture of mental health. I agree those comments are disgusting and I acknowledge that there are cultural biases against men in relationships. However, for your own sanity, don't give any more attention to these idiots than you already have.
/r/MensRights10/01/24 09:55 AM
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He's looking left but his hips are pointed right. And coincidence! He's exactly aligned with her ass. He knew exactly where he was. There's no way this wasn't intentional.
/r/MensRights10/01/24 08:03 AM
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I actually like troll posts when they're funny. This is just kinda boring.
/r/MensRights09/01/24 08:54 AM
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Exactly. What if the biological parent doesn't want to be the parent? What if this is sperm donation to a lesbian couple or something?
/r/MensRights03/01/24 03:00 AM
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You have every right to complain about unsolicited nudes that are sent to you. And you are absolutely correct that there is a double standard between nudes sent by women vs men. My problem with this stance is that by banning nudity from Twitch altogether, they make that decision for everyone. Families need to plan how to introduce their kids to sex in a healthy way. Companies should be able to decide what will be on their platform.
/r/MensRights14/12/23 06:03 PM
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I support a lot of issues on this sub, but I don't think this is one I'm going to back. 1) Teenagers already have direct access to porn if they have internet access. 2) It's up to parents to set parental controls if there is something they don't want their kids to see. 3) Similarly, the idea that a legal adult cannot have access to ______ because a child might see it has always been a terrible argument. Per point #2, if parents don't want their kids seeing nudity, they can easily block the websi…
/r/MensRights14/12/23 10:35 AM
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I am very confused. Looks like he tried to pick her up and put her in the SUV, inadvertently hitting her head on the roof. Then they both calmly walk away until he starts running, shoves her away, then runs several miles. What the hell is happening?
/r/MensRights14/12/23 10:05 AM
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To me, the greatest argument for sex work is that the government has no business telling two consenting adults what they are allowed to do in the bedroom. However, I don't think that men that spend all of their money trying to get laid will suddenly start saving money if women can charge for sex. Best solution is to have some dignity.
/r/MensRights26/11/23 03:37 AM
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I don't really criticize anything a man decides to do with his own body. Nut or don't, just as long as you're happy. I am, however, concerned with how much money men give to women for sex. Completely support reducing OF income for a month.
/r/MensRights13/11/23 02:41 AM
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I don't regret going to college exactly but I do regret how much I paid for college. I borrowed 60k and I just paid it off a few years ago. A total of 90k. My parents were a bit shocked too because apparently my college loan payments were more than their mortgage payments. Despite having a 3.0 GPA, the jobs I found paid a little more than minimum wage. Even now, with experience, jobs are paying $4-6 per hour more than what I could make at Wendy's. It might be my fault for not continuing through …
/r/MenSupportMen16/10/23 03:28 PM
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Trust me, the moment men start to do it too, the rules will change. The laws aren't the only problem. It's also the people that govern.
/r/MensRights06/10/23 12:49 PM
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snow modern desert fanatical existence marble badge consider square cow This post was mass deleted and anonymized with Redact
/r/MensRights01/10/23 03:16 AM
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I need details. When, where, and if true verified were they caught.
/r/MensRights01/10/23 03:08 AM
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Not to be crass, but does she have to finish you off vaginally? Maybe she does it orally or with her hand? You could also finish on her stomach or something. To me, it seems like she's only thinking about what she likes.
/r/MenSupportMen01/10/23 03:00 AM
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I'm actually shocked the police didn't try to arrest him for filming her without her knowledge.
/r/MensRights29/09/23 03:41 AM
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I agree that this is tragic, but what relevance does this have to Men's Rights? The father was given custody, the mother had no criminal record, and there were no accusations of past violence. It doesn't look like there was any systemic prejudice against men here.
/r/MensRights30/08/23 06:37 PM
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Though I usually just advise them to look into it deeper before making too many assumptions about it and tell them what I know. Well, I'm glad you came to check out the sub rather than listen to rumors. I can tell you that I've seen quite a few posts from gay men here in addition to my own. A word of caution: be careful applying an individual post or comment to the entire sub. There is a large mix of different viewpoints here. Unlike other gender-issue based subs, we are allowed to disagree with…
/r/MensRights25/08/23 02:50 AM
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That's challenging to answer because I don't believe r/MensRights represents any individual group. Rather, it's a discussion among men and women that opposed institutionalized and cultural gender prejudice. I don't think that any of us can answer on behalf of everyone that participates in this sub. However, I can say that many posts on this sub demonstrate a desire to reject traditional gender roles. Many in the group oppose the draft/male conscription because they believe it shouldn't be a man'…
/r/MensRights25/08/23 02:44 AM
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I think that you were both 10. She pulled down your pants, you put your foot up her ass. If I was there, I would have said "yeah, that's what happens" and went about my day. Sadly, this type of thing happens with adults. A woman hits a man, a man hits her back, the police charge the man with battery. I think I can forgive a child for doing something stupid, but I'll never overlook the adults.
/r/MensRights14/07/23 10:41 PM
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Husband: I'm not comfortable being married to a man. CPS: You fucking piece of shit....
/r/MensRights08/07/23 06:32 PM
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by Amy Woodyatt
/r/MensRights14/06/23 01:52 AM
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If you move to a country without extradition, you could burn down the house and leave. Doesn't mean you should. Also, how would someone sell a house without their wife even knowing? I agree more details are needed.
/r/MensRights07/06/23 12:00 AM
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I just realized that your previous comment was not generalized; you were talking about something specific that you went through. This post is a discussion about what is legal, not what is moral. A better place to discuss what you went through would be with your therapist. Applying a general legal principle to a specific case is something that can only be done in a trial.
/r/MensRights29/05/23 01:15 AM
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"Implicitly waiving the right to report" is a very interesting way to describe it. Probably better since it allows for a difference between a legally permissable action and a moral one.
/r/MensRights28/05/23 10:01 PM
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All of the examples you gave are not instances where violence is required to escape, as proposed in OP's question. Rather, they are - at most - potential reasons why someone may be found not guilty of their violent actions. The M'Naghten Rule, for example, does not mean it is legal for individuals with a mental defect to commit a crime. It means that the consequences of the crime will be different from an individual who comprehends the morality of their actions.
/r/MensRights28/05/23 05:32 PM
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I'm not sure I agree. I also think this is the epitome of the consent debate that people have been having since the early 2000's. Like anything that is taken against someone's will, I think the response of the person matters. If you walk into my house, help yourself to the food in my fridge, and all I say is, "Looks good!", then you can imply that consent was given even though the person didn't ask. I can't call the police a month later and complain that food was stolen. On the other hand, if I …
/r/MensRights28/05/23 05:24 PM
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I'm not sure about the laws in Sweden. What did you do when she laughed? Did you push her off or keep going? Also, I doubt she was using protection, so make sure you get yourself checked out.
/r/MensRights27/05/23 06:08 PM
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I think it would be better to charge Facebook since they are aware and refuse to take it down.
/r/MensRights27/05/23 01:28 PM
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No. Any person that is being abused should attempt to remove themselves from the situation rather than try to become physically violent. Physical self defense is only warranted when it is impossible to flee. I can't think of any situation where someone is not using physical violence where it would also be impossible to flee.
/r/MensRights27/05/23 01:25 PM
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It's because only poor people take the bus and if you are poor, you are automatically a minority. Or maybe you suffer from wage inequality as only women do.
/r/MensRights24/05/23 02:01 AM
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I think what you are saying has merit, but you shouldn't use Iran to disprove sexism against women. A lot going on there. Even so, I'm really starting to think understand why libertarians say taxation is theft.
/r/MensRights20/05/23 03:32 PM
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I agree that rape cases can be difficult to pursue criminally, but it might make it easier if you try the civil route first. You may have consented to sex, but you did not consent to serious injury. She's responsible for any damage she caused. See a doctor, get it documented, then see a civil attorney about getting a subpoena for her information on the dating site. With any luck, facts will come out during this case that you can bring to the DA for criminal charges.
/r/MensRights18/05/23 01:12 AM
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I don't think anyone here can explain why random strangers walk up to you and squeeze your biceps. That sounds incredibly odd and would weird me out too. A stern "Please don't touch me." followed by a swat with a rolled up newspaper might be appropriate here.
/r/MenSupportMen12/05/23 04:45 AM
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😂 "OK, kid, here's your government-assigned father." But remember that you aren't paying the child or the mother. You are reimbursing the government for their expense. The government uses the "what's best for the child" argument to silence opposition. But what would be really good is if the government simply absorbed the cost if the child needed it to survive. It's called Welfare and it already exists. CHIP too. Basically, the government is using fatherless children to manipulate you into paying…
/r/MensRights12/04/23 02:26 AM
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I think Turnip was trying to imply that men would not be drafted because the war would be fought with drones and other tech. That's probably kind of correct. If a nation is too advanced for drones to work, we'd probably use nukes, sooo.... No one left to draft after that.
/r/MensRights07/04/23 01:57 AM
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If you're 18, then this will all be over soon. My advice to you is to start building your savings. Get a job doing whatever you can and try to save up 6 months of income BEFORE you move out. Trust me. It may feel bad living there now but it will feel even worse moving back in.
/r/MenSupportMen31/03/23 02:54 PM
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Are you one of those people that believe we should strip search all Muslims before they get on a plane? What about Catholics? Should we not allow them to interact with children? Should we shut down all Catholic schools? Do you think men shouldn't be allowed to own guns because the majority or mass shooters are men? If you try to blame everyone for the actions of an individual, it's already problematic. But why do it in this case but not in others? Aren't the women just as capable of disappearing…
/r/MensRights30/03/23 08:45 PM
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For the sake of the argument, let's assume that not a single woman was involved. Are you saying that this isn't an example of prejudice because men can't be prejudiced toward other men? If so, then wouldn't it also be true that women couldn't be prejudiced toward other women? It is well documented that numerous women opposed the suffrage movement before women gained the right to vote. Isn't that an example of prejudice? What if a woman refuses to hire other women because they are afraid she migh…
/r/MensRights30/03/23 08:26 PM
1

What specifically is circumstantial? Innocent men burned to death because they were locked in a cage. They had time to let them out (as shown on the video) but they didn't. How heartless could you be? By the way, you didn't address what I said before: the men started the fire while rioting The 68 men locked in the cell did not start the fire. One or two did. They others weren't responsible any more than you were. women didn’t do this You don't know whether any women worked in that facility. this…
/r/MensRights30/03/23 07:28 PM
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What are the extra privileges you enjoy?
/r/MensRights30/03/23 05:50 PM
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"The men"... Like all them men? Every single individual in that locked cell was a rioter? It's possible that, if a person intentionally set the fire, then they may have caused their own death. That DOES NOT mean every man in that cell deserved to burn to death. If you can't see that, then you need to overcome your own prejudice.
/r/MensRights30/03/23 04:19 AM
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I think it's sick that a group of people that have never proven to be violent were locked away like this. I don't accept that there was time to evacuate everyone except the men. The decision to leave them in a cage to suffocate/burn to death was clearly a result of unreasonable fear perpetuated by society's prejudice against men.
/r/MensRights29/03/23 11:57 PM
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You're not seeing the big picture. The future of AI is and has always been about sex. Soon, you'll be able to download a PornHub OS into a generic android model, purchase personality software on OnlyFans, and customize your dream partner with upgrades from Amazon Basics. If you ever get bored, just swap out the components - bigger breasts, add a penis - for a completely new sexual experience. No one's going to want to have sex with an actual person anymore. Too risky. Besides, if you ever want a…
/r/MensRights27/03/23 02:58 PM
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I don't know how you could read TwoX and keep your sanity. You should stop. Bad for your mental health.
/r/MensRights20/03/23 04:10 PM
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I've been training myself to stop reading as soon as I see this kind of nonsense. People that silence others shouldn't expect anyone to listen to their concerns.
/r/MensRights17/03/23 09:40 AM
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Technically, it's not right? That would be women excluding other women. But I take your point. More to the point, I'd like to know if there is any evidence that excluding trans women from safe spaces would actually make them safe. I've never heard of a single instance where a person had a sex change, then went on to assault women in the bathroom. If anyone has examples, feel free to share. Nevertheless, I don't support the exclusion of any person from any public space. This is a problem women cr…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/03/23 11:49 PM
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I don't think that video accurately represents the MGTOW position. This is more Alpha (Red Pill) with MGTOW talking points sprinkled on top. MGTOW does advocate that people abstain from relationships, but only because (and until) they can gain equal legal and social protections to women. Their answer is that, if you don't like the system, you can opt out of the system. The part about women 'behaving like a princess' and women needing to have cooking and cleaning skills is a niche Conservative id…
/r/MensRights24/02/23 08:08 PM
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You realize that China, Russia, and Iran all have authoritarian governments and that the people there have no control over who is in power, right? You also realize that women have an equal right to vote in the United States and Europe and are therefore equally responsible for who is in office? Did you think about what you were going to say or did you immediately start talking out of your ass?
/r/MensRights20/02/23 01:34 PM
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LOL, you got that wrong. Only the definition of a woman is ambiguous. Men are defined at birth and are required by law to register for the draft.
/r/MensRights20/02/23 04:39 AM
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With China threatening to support Russia and Russia actively supporting Iran, I don't think it's a question of if there will be war, but when.
/r/MensRights19/02/23 01:35 PM
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Lol rule 3
/r/MensRights19/02/23 12:35 AM
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People have been calling other people names on the internet since the beginning. Only difference is they stopped it for everyone except men. Blame the platform, not the people. It will be like that until you find a platform with fair policies.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/02/23 12:18 PM
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I'm very excited to see this. Men need more ways to look out for themselves.
/r/MensRights14/02/23 10:43 PM
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Here's a related news article https://www.riverfronttimes.com/news/missourians-sue-lab-for-apparent-paternity-test-error-that-cost-man-30k-and-jail-time-2900854 This issue is less about the mother's actions and more about the court system designed to pipeline men into prison imo.
/r/MensRights12/02/23 02:10 PM
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One of the easiest ways to obfuscate gender bias is to deliberately not collect information then claim "there's no evidence". I think we all know on some level that this happens, but it was a real shock for me when I actually saw it happen right in front of me. My company suffers from severe disparities by gender and race. The VPs solution was to stop divulging information that would allow us (the managers) to thoroughly explore the problem. Smh.
/r/MensRights11/02/23 06:52 PM
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r/youBeatMeAtMyOwnUsername
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/02/23 05:19 PM
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I don't think anyone could successfully argue that a fact is offensive. It's possible that it could lack context and therefore support poorly reasoned opinions, but it should be up to commenters to introduce other facts to prove the OP wrong. I'm not a mod, but I will still encourage you to thoroughly support any argument with clear evidence from reputable sources. Especially when you know people will react to it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/02/23 05:20 AM
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We really need to have our own legal organization. If the police don't want to protect us and the courts can't see their own bias, then we need to find other creative ways of enforcing our rights. Anyone know of any non-profit groups already doing this?
/r/MensRights02/02/23 12:55 PM
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Judge Rupert Lowe described defendant Lines's actions as "serious sexual offences", but added her attraction to the boy was a "one-off" rather than her possessing predatorial instincts. Judge: Don't worry, she only fucked one kid. Everybody gets one.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 08:46 PM
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I hope he finds every person that slandered him and sues the shit out of them. Nothing will ever put his life back the way it was but those others need to share his pain.
/r/MensRights04/01/23 05:09 AM
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I don't see a problem here. The article says that the space will be open to everyone but that specialists will be present to help women in particular. Every group has a need. If a hospital provides specialized equipment and staff to treat cancer patients, that doesn't violate the rights of those with heart conditions. The police will be there to help everyone. If there is still a need, I think men's groups should volunteer to meet needs at events like this. Anyone can start a group and ask for d…
/r/MensRights30/12/22 10:11 PM
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Day 4 Men return. All over the world, the same phrases are repeated: "What the fuck happened?!" "I was only gone for three god damn days!" "Whose gonna pick all these bras up off the lawn? I'm not fucking doing it." "What do you mean my car burned down?!"
/r/MensRights30/12/22 04:51 PM
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I've always been a strong supporter of MGTOW. I know that's not universally popular on this sub and hated on Reddit overall. But we used to have a saying, "MGTOW doesn't recruit. People find us." I can't imagine anything that would make people find MGTOW more than this.
/r/MensRights30/12/22 04:30 PM
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What are you talking about? Child custody should ALWAYS be in the best interest of the child. Stripping a father of their parental rights is NOT in the best interest of the child. Here's an excerpt from a report included in the 2020 US Census. In 2018, about 4 of every 5 (79.9 percent) of the 12.9 million custo- dial parents were mothers. One of every five custodial parents were fathers (20.1 percent) (Appendix Table 2) Is this possible without gender bias against men? So the question you should…
/r/MensRights30/12/22 04:07 PM
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Any man in this situation should defend his own life first. He doesn't owe anything to anyone, least of all to those that would put his life in danger to save themselves.
/r/MensRights30/12/22 03:46 PM
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Thanks OP. You reminded me to prioritize security cameras in my home.
/r/MensRights30/12/22 03:22 PM
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I personally think he should go worse. Just completely nuke the conversation. "You know, if you think about it, abortion is primarily a men's issue." "You think there are any men's only universities I can attend? I think money should go to schools that admit more men." "Women suck. Know what I mean?" "Andrew Tate's coming out with a book, I think I might buy it." OP will end up getting stabbed in the eye, but at least he won't have to hear this nonsense if she's in prison.
/r/MensRights30/12/22 06:57 AM
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So you have a TA? I would ask them to help mediate. Maybe there are others that have the same issue and you could all swap rooms.
/r/MenSupportMen28/12/22 08:48 PM
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Well, if I were appointed Emperor of Ohio... The first thing would be to change who has access to social services. I would allow everyone with children to qualify for the same amount of welfare, food stamps, etc at the same income level regardless of whether children were living in the home. BUT a portion of the support would be sent to the child's home in place of child support. It wouldn't stop there though because it's not fair for tax payers to be permanently saddled with child support eithe…
/r/MensRights27/12/22 10:05 PM
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I don't want that either. What I want is equal access to social services. So if a woman could have qualified for welfare to support her kids, then a man should also qualify for the same amount to assist with child support payments.
/r/MensRights27/12/22 03:45 AM
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Sadly, this is not accurate. What first led me down this rabbit hole was this article: https://www.dispatch.com/story/news/state/2022/12/25/ohio-bmv-amnesty-program-helps-drivers-with-suspended-licenses/69556271007/ They describe 130,000 people that have had their license suspended in my state, which is Ohio. And also sadly, depending on where you live, a job could be hard to come by. Especially if you don't have a car. Cleveland, Columbus, and Dayton are all major metropolitan areas and ALL of …
/r/MensRights27/12/22 02:45 AM
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Congrats!! I hope you enjoy it.
/r/MensRights25/12/22 10:21 PM
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I might be late to the game, but I just learned that a person that is behind on child support payments could have their driver's license suspended in numerous states. The reasoning being that if you are behind on child support, the best way to remedy that would be to prevent you from getting to work. Eventually, you'll become so behind that it will be possible to send you to prison. According to the US Constitution, prisoners are the only US citizens eligible to become slaves. On the other hand,…
/r/MensRights25/12/22 09:17 PM
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Huh. Maybe that's why I'm so terrible.
/r/MensRights23/12/22 07:14 AM
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Interesting. Couldn't you argue that he's also a barrier keeping people out?
/r/MensRights15/12/22 02:51 PM
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OP - why is this a men's rights issue? I'm not saying it can't be, but you posted the article without any explanation. After reading, the woman was convicted of attempted murder and sentenced to 20 years. What part of that discriminates against men?
/r/MensRights13/12/22 08:16 PM
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This seems like a fancy Temporary Insanity plea, but based on bullshit science. Wonder how many times juries have convicted someone of this in the past 10 years or so.
/r/MensRights13/12/22 08:11 PM
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Yup. Being gay doesn't shield you from false accusations. Just let being a man doesn't shield you from harassment. Some people need a little more time to figure that out. But if they want to volunteer to be targets while I go my own way, that actually works out great for both of us.
/r/MensRights09/12/22 05:33 PM
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If there was ever a time we needed a history teacher, an expert in international relations, it's now. They left a valuable, contributing member of society to remain in prison until he is 74, but rescued the basketball player... This society doesn't care about men.
/r/MensRights08/12/22 02:43 PM
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Ms Cadman-Smith suffers from 'extreme anxiety' and other issues, which means she was not deemed mentally fit to stand trial. Ms Cadman-Smith engaged in sexual communication with a child, the jury found. The judge imposed a five-year sexual harm prevention order on her. Cadman-Smith - who has a one-year-old child - will also be placed on the sex offenders register for five years as well as being barred from working with children. She was also ordered to forfeit her mobile phone which will be dest…
/r/MensRights25/11/22 03:47 PM
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There aren't really enough details to say this for sure, but it sounds to me like your friend might be suffering from depression. Think really, really hard. If you can't think of a reason why your friend is mad at you, then maybe it's not you. Maybe you need to keep after him. Give him some space, but don't give up.
/r/MenSupportMen24/11/22 10:31 PM
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The only way this stops is if men stand up for themselves. For countries like Ukraine and Russia where men are already being forced into life threatening situations, the men need to defend themselves against the individuals carrying out that force. When they lose more fighting men than they gain, they'll stop. For countries like the United States, where draft legislation is locked in legal limbo, the only thing left to do is prepare. In order for a draft to work, someone will have to physically …
/r/MensRights24/11/22 03:27 PM
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If they are getting deleted, then the mods are doing their job. Can't stop people from being assholes, but you can respond appropriately.
/r/MensRights23/11/22 03:16 AM
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Get the absolute best lawyer you can. That's all you can do at this point.
/r/MensRights23/11/22 03:14 AM
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It was mediocre at best.
/r/MensRights23/11/22 03:12 AM
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I think depression is a result and we need to explore the cause.
/r/MensRights19/11/22 02:57 PM
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Just to be clear, all of this is happening in Malta, right?
/r/MensRights15/11/22 08:30 PM
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I'm sorry for what you are going through. The truth is that horrible things often happen to good people. People that don't deserve it. I want to encourage you to use this as a learning opportunity. Trust is necessary in a relationship, but you have to protect yourself first. If you're going to put yourself out there, your partner has to prove they deserve your trust first. Start setting some relationship boundaries to make sure you are safe(r) from false accusations. Don't hook up for the first …
/r/MenSupportMen05/11/22 03:29 PM
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Fitting that it's the yellow box that focuses the gaze in these photos. Just like how directors made the decision of where to point the camera, so naturally feminists blame every male in existence for their decisions. Laura Mulvey's conceptualization of the male gaze was formed in 1975. Had I been consulted - 10 years before I was born - I would have asked them to focus more on biceps and abs. Because I'm gay. I apologize to women everywhere for not doing more to prevent this horrible tragedy.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/11/22 03:17 PM
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Feminism is about revenge, not equality.
/r/MensRights02/11/22 02:00 AM
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It's not about hating women, it's about respecting yourself. Shame that some men are so conditioned to "put women first" that they will denigrate other men to keep women on their pedestal.
/r/MensRights01/11/22 11:27 PM
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No. It just means be careful and be aware. If a relationship is less than equal, don't ignore it because society tells you to "man up". You have the right to go your own way and leave that relationship behind. By the the way, relationship can refer to a romantic relationship, but also a work relationship, a family relationship, or even a transient interaction with someone you just met. Don't allow yourself to be devalued. Go your own way.
/r/MensRights01/11/22 11:20 PM
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I assume the best place for MGTOW would be a discord server. You'd need to get invited.
/r/MensRights01/11/22 11:12 PM
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The real answer? Because in the dating websites where this is done frequently, men outnumber women by a ratio of 10 to 1. Companies believe that if you don't like it, there is always another man to take your place. It's rooted in a theme of male disposability. On the other hand, women left in droves when they received dick pics. This forced dating websites to enforce strict policies that protect women. So there's your solution. If you don't like it, leave. Don't let some company make money by ha…
/r/MensRights01/11/22 11:15 AM
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A tie.
/r/MensRights28/10/22 10:51 PM
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Why were you there? Nothing can give you that time back. You shouldn't spend it around people that tear you down.
/r/MensRights25/10/22 03:07 PM
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Ok. You do you and I'll do what I want. And that's MGTOW
/r/MensRights24/10/22 06:56 PM
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MGTOW means different things to different people. No, you don't have to be celibate. What they're saying is to be careful. Do whatever you have to do to protect yourself from becoming a slave to a vengeful ex.
/r/MensRights24/10/22 12:16 AM
1

Another patient comes in. This one was robbed at gunpoint, then shot by a black man. Her husband was killed during the incident. She asks not to be treated by any black staff members. Is this fine too?
/r/MensRights21/10/22 11:01 PM
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No, they shouldn't do it for men or women. What's next? Should you be able to say "no gays" if you're homophobic? "No Germans because I'm Jewish"? "No Muslims because I'm American"? I find it horrifying that people can easily spot bigotry for just about anything except when it comes to white people or men. You either take who you get or refuse medical service. No accommodation.
/r/MensRights20/10/22 08:21 PM
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Alternative. Boys feel that playing with girls is unfair. They exclude them from the game.
/r/MensRights19/10/22 02:29 PM
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I was emphasizing the treason more than the war. Those 11 lives could have been saved if they had a choice of whether to fight.
/r/MensRights16/10/22 04:07 AM
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If anyone ever says that to you again, just have this link on standby. It's a picture of a woman participating in torture at Abu Ghraib.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/10/22 01:08 AM
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First world Karen problems
/r/MensRights16/10/22 12:58 AM
8

You really believe they volunteered because the Russian government said they did?
/r/MensRights16/10/22 12:23 AM
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All of these men are dead because the government tried to take away their choice. Well, I guess there's always a choice and you can't really control which one people will pick. We - in the US and Europe - need to push our governments to repeal draft legislation.
/r/MensRights15/10/22 10:43 PM
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You'll definitely find research if you look into child abuse. A lot of people forget that.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/10/22 02:18 PM
3

She doesn't have a friend that could do that?
/r/MensRights11/10/22 05:07 PM
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Sounds like she doesn't need a man. She needs just one friend. When you realize that not one person - male or female - can stand to be around you, maybe you need to start looking at yourself instead of "men".
/r/MensRights11/10/22 02:01 PM
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It astounds me when a woman chooses to be in a situation, then blames every man she sees for her own bad choices. Be an adult. Walk away.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/10/22 12:49 PM
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I'm afraid that if I put my name and address on something with MRA on it I'd be inviting harassment.
/r/MensRights10/10/22 06:56 PM
10

Exactly. You aren't required to provide a reason to anyone. "I'm just not into her." All that needs to be said.
/r/MensRights09/10/22 03:42 AM
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If your friends leave you because you refused to let yourself get molested, they aren't your friends. Tell her you mean it when you said you were uncomfortable and if she touches you like that again you will leave. Then leave if she does it. Let your friends know you're not into her. They'll understand. Or they won't but you can at least stop being molested.
/r/MenSupportMen01/10/22 09:40 PM
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I wouldn't be surprised if incels have gotten a bad rap. The media tends to focus on the most extreme version of whatever idea is represented. And I don't trust people that oppose the idea to present it fairly. But that being said, I don't understand why anyone would voluntarily identify as an incel. It implies a "victim status" that simply doesn't exist. If you want to sleep with someone, work out, clean yourself up, and get out there. If you don't then don't. I'd probably need someone to expla…
/r/MensRights30/09/22 12:52 PM
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I really like r/mensupportmen. We need places like this if we're going to survive in this society.
/r/MensRights29/09/22 01:12 PM
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It's an obvious violation of civil rights. The problem is that men don't know about it and therefore can't challenge it.
/r/MensRights29/09/22 11:58 AM
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Hey Tyson, also sorry to hear what you went through. But I'm encouraged that you are sticking with your wife. Despite your challenges, I'm sure she is grateful to have someone like you in her life. Have you considered becoming a foster parent instead? In my state, the adoption fee is waived if your foster kid cannot return to their family for some reason. In addition, the state pays you $30 per day to take care of them. The get free insurance, money for incidentals, an allowance for clothes, and…
/r/MenSupportMen28/09/22 09:14 PM
9

When you say "where is this coming from?" are you asking "who is saying this" or "why was this said"?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/09/22 08:56 PM
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More insidious than that. The feminist message is that women are oppressed because of men. Ignoring that the vast majority of men in Iran are powerless as well.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/09/22 05:30 PM
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Don't lose your cool. It won't help anyone, especially not yourself. Best option I've found is to put some distance between me and people that speak like that. People are gonna bitch. You don't have to listen.
/r/MensRights26/09/22 11:38 PM
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While that is true, only one party believes in reserving jobs and university seats for certain races and genders.
/r/MensRights24/09/22 09:34 PM
5

Yup and 3 in 4 are non-binary.
/r/MensRights24/09/22 12:38 PM
1

Ok, start at the beginning. When did you first notice you felt like this?
/r/MenSupportMen23/09/22 10:31 PM
2

Need some additional context. Right now, this reads "I'm not having fun anymore so I think I'll kill myself." Not enough here to actually figure out the problem or help. What happened to make you feel like this?
/r/MenSupportMen23/09/22 12:15 PM
8

Blatant institutionalized sexism.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/09/22 01:47 AM
2

I'm very confused by your post. It seems like your neighbors go out of their way to bother you, people at a random restaurant bother you, even just talking on the phone, people bother you. This isn't normal. You should think whether there was something you contributed to each situation that caused it to escalate. 9 times out of 10, simply not responding to an insult will call things down. It doesn't feel as satisfying in the moment but often times responding isn't worth it. It might also be help…
/r/MenSupportMen20/09/22 03:21 PM
2

Sorry to hear that, man. You sound like a great guy and I wish you had the happy ending you were looking for. Gonna give you the generic dude advice. Hit the gym. Get some abs and some biceps. Bury yourself in a hobby you really enjoy. Learn something new. Reach out and make more friends. Every time you face rejection, make yourself 10% better than what you were last week. You're only 17 and you have a lot of happiness ahead of you.
/r/MenSupportMen17/09/22 05:31 PM
19

I remember the first time this happened to me. I was a straight A student; had never really been punished for doing anything before. Thrown out of class because a girl that was in detention every other day said I did something. It took a lot of awful experiences, but I eventually learned how to get people like that out of my life. Don't sugarcoat. Call this what it really is: bullying. Abuse. Gaslighting. People tend to view bad things done by women as less severe than they truly are. You need t…
/r/MensRights17/09/22 03:32 AM
40

No, she is completely right. Justified violence is a legal use of force to defend oneself from harm or death. If a criminal is attacking someone - anyone regardless of sex - I have no sympathy for them at all. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. BUT that also means women MUST be fully responsible when force is unjustified or disproportionate. And we all know this is not the case currently. If I hurt someone because I thought they were going to hurt me and I am wrong, I go to jail. If a woman d…
/r/MensRights11/09/22 12:36 PM
2

My greatest frustration with this is that it isn't really women physically forcing men into life threatening situations. Men are doing that to other men. They go around forcing others to die in their place. So, adding to the post: if you are in a life threatening situation and your best chance of surviving is to kill the one putting you in that situation, you are morally free to defend yourself. They can force you to fight, but they can't choose who you fight for.
/r/MensRights06/09/22 07:14 PM
4

That woman isn't. Working hard not to become what I hate. But yes, you definitely have a point.
/r/MensRights05/09/22 08:18 PM
6

Yup. If your happiness depends on what other people might think of you, could you ever really be happy?
/r/MensRights05/09/22 04:13 AM
2

You can ask people in Reddit to help you diagnose a tumor. It's possible to find someone that can do it. But it would be better to see a doctor. Depression can be life threatening. It needs to be treated seriously.
/r/MenSupportMen04/09/22 04:03 AM
7

Your view that men held power within each of those groups is clearly false. I don't think you've fully considered the complexity of the bigotry at those various times. Gay men were punished more frequently and more severely than lesbians in every society. This was true in the US with sodomy laws, during the Holocaust, and is still true to today in many nations in the Middle East and Africa. There are countries *right now* where it is legal to be a lesbian couple but illegal to be a gay couple. T…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/09/22 12:49 AM
2

Tell them you identify as a woman.
/r/MensRights01/09/22 03:39 AM
18

If I was attractive enough to make money on OF, I'd do it with no hesitation or shame. There are tons of men already doing it.
/r/MensRights31/08/22 11:35 PM
3

I'm sorry to hear about that. I hope you find what you need to heal. It might be cathartic to get this off your chest on social media, but ultimately, the feeling will likely be short lived. Make sure you connect with a therapist that can help you explore your feelings more deeply so that you can get a sense of closure. Last, it doesn't sound like this is something you specifically want, but I mention it because there is limited time to make a decision: certain states will allow people that were…
/r/MenSupportMen31/08/22 03:26 PM
18

It's not just you. This is happening. In a world dominated by bigotry disguised as feminism, "equality" becomes synonymous with hurting men the same way they feel they've been hurt.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/08/22 12:06 PM
30

I want to hear more about how gay men dominated society. Then I want to hear about black men. Finally, I want you to show me how poor men were responsible for how society is run. Society was never dominated by men. It was dominated by wealth and those born to authority. But those that have swallowed anti-male propaganda don't care about logic or reason.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/08/22 05:24 AM
7

I can relate to a lot of what you are saying, but it also sounds like living in this society is tearing you apart. MGTOW is a great way to regain your sanity. Hopefully you have a place you can go to recharge before you have to deal with the feminist bullshit again.
/r/MensRights26/08/22 07:33 PM
25

I've been fed up with Reddit's bullshit for a long time, but I haven't been able to find a good alternative.
/r/MensRights26/08/22 02:27 PM
33

Doubt it. Clubs have been giving women free entry, free drinks, catered events, and preferential treatment for as long as I can remember. There are still men that willing let themselves get treated like shit just to be near women. Best you can do is not be a part of it. Let the idiots go broke while you go elsewhere.
/r/MensRights25/08/22 02:36 PM
1

With my luck, I'd spend my life savings so I could live forever, then get hit by a car.
/r/MensRights19/08/22 11:20 PM
1

Never heard a holocaust joke before. What's the best one you know? It's still kind of a double standard. Imagine something equally weird - a female bully gets her tit slammed in a car door. Car drives off ripping it off her chest. I don't think people would laugh like they would laugh about castration... Something is wrong with our culture where people just don't see men as people.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/08/22 07:40 PM
1

Arguably the greatest step in Men's parental rights is choosing whether to become a parent at all. Vasectomies can be irreversible. Condoms fail when carried in a wallet or pocket. Avoiding pregnancy will soon be a shared responsibility between men and women. It will be great to see fewer men trapped by child support payments.
/r/MensRights18/08/22 02:40 AM
18

From a gay guy's perspective, this would be incredible.
/r/MensRights18/08/22 01:09 AM
15

Which is why you are going to save all your texts. You likely don't have the means to document your conversations with her (film or whatever) but you can still create evidence by talking to multiple people immediately after each incident. Keep requesting help. Stick to you guns, don't allow anyone to make excuses for her. I went through something similar. I had very little to prove what was happening at first and I was unable to obtain a restraining oreder. It was a combination of photo evidence…
/r/MensRights11/08/22 12:31 PM
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It's infuriating that this issue only became newsworthy to the BBC because a girl was strip searched. The majority of the article features her experience (which was horrifying and definitely deserves attention) but has only 1 line about the 95% of boys that this also happens to buried deep at the bottom of the article. Many of these boys were searched without their guardian being notified and without the appropriate chaperones present. It's a shame that the only time people show empathy is when …
/r/MensRights08/08/22 01:30 PM
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I agree with you to an extent, but we also can't be blind to history. There was time when being a specific race or gender was seen as a disqualification to hold a job. That isn't opinion - it's fact. AA could have been used as a system to monitor for a fair decision making process. Sadly, it was used as a system of revenge to put white males at the end of the line. AA should never have been what it was.
/r/MensRights08/08/22 11:19 AM
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However I’m not confident that tool would be used to help men anyway so perhaps nothing lost There it is. The people that run this process cannot be trusted to use it fairly. Rip it away and don't allow it to come back until it is regulated properly.
/r/MensRights07/08/22 01:03 PM
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The current system will never allow that to happen. I'm in favor of completely tearing down a bigoted system rather than keeping it in the hopes that it could be hypothetically be fair in the future.
/r/MensRights07/08/22 12:58 PM
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What evidence do you have that men are currently benefitting from Affirmative Action? I've seen tons of female-only programs but never a male-only program.
/r/MensRights07/08/22 12:16 PM
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A win here would be a powerful tool for men's rights as universities may be forced to use students qualifications to determine admittance rather than the traits they were born with. Perhaps programs that exclude men can be challenged next.
/r/MensRights07/08/22 11:48 AM
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One more piece of evidence that will be ignored by our oh-so-woke government. There has to be a way to take matters into our own hands, I just don't know what we could do.
/r/MensRights06/08/22 01:24 PM
1

Completely agree. It would help if OP had some examples of male celebrities shamed for having sex with lots of people. My impression has always been that it was standard, specifically with vocal artists, bands, and actors.
/r/MensRights05/08/22 03:51 AM
5

This has nothing to do with mens' rights and everything to do with him being a dumbass. He told his wife to start a relationship with another man and now he's mad that the relationship grew. It was an arranged marriage in the first place, so it's not like they had any connection before this. After they married, they were penpals. If he wanted to build a relationship with his wife, he should have pursued her more than he pursued his job.
/r/MensRights05/08/22 01:53 AM
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Sadly, leaving the building won't help many men due to draconian policies on child support, alimony, and abortion. And if you manage to escape all that, your taxes are used to support the system that chased you out in the first place.
/r/MensRights04/08/22 01:31 PM
1

You're feeling awful because you got fucked over tonight. Use this time to make plans to get something you want next week. If you do nothing, you'll be right where you started. Btw, this is a great time to save up for your dream lifestyle. Military is buying your food and paying for housing. Buy some stock. Yes, I've seen the news. You don't want to buy when the market is doing great, buy now when stocks are down. Microsoft will never fail. Alphabet (Google) and Disney will recover one day. Stas…
/r/MenSupportMen31/07/22 10:44 PM
2

I love this. It would be great if it could also include things not specifically related to men's rights but also things to build the community. Financial wealth, psychology, forming healthy relationships, etc.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/22 06:09 PM
1

Just as horrific as the torture suffered by these men, there was a lack of consequences following the incident. No one was convicted for the murders of the detainees. Brigadier General Janis Karpinski, the commanding officer of the prison, was simply demoted. She faced no further consequences. Specialist Charles Graner was found guilty on January 14, 2005, of conspiracy to maltreat detainees, failing to protect detainees from abuse, cruelty, and maltreatment, as well as charges of assault, indec…
/r/MensRights23/07/22 11:50 AM
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He's not being paid for lost wages. He's being compensated for the torture of being behind bars for 20 years for a crime he didn't commit. His wife was able to be with their child. He wasn't. That's why he got paid and she didn't.
/r/MensRights23/07/22 04:13 AM
1

OP, I'm genuinely confused and I'm hoping you can help me out. The article says that NHS policy has been changed to include 6 rounds of artificial insemination before giving the green light for IVF. How have men been excluded? Neither artificial insemination nor IVF can be performed on a man because they do not have eggs to fertilize. Where do you see that gay men have any benefits? As above, those procedures cannot be performed on men. Their surrogate could perhaps qualify, but there is nothing…
/r/MensRights21/07/22 05:03 AM
7

Weird. Did the study control for genetic influences such as inbreeding? If only a few mice were breeding over 9 generations, I wonder if hormonal imbalances could have occurred from one or more rare genetic conditions.
/r/MensRights17/07/22 03:47 AM
1

Whatever. You think I'm insane, I think you're a clown. Doesn't really matter. You live your life and I'll live mine. Not like I would change my mind just to get your approval. Go off and die somewhere if you want and leave me out of it.
/r/MensRights15/07/22 06:58 PM
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I think you're onto something in that men are encouraged to buy things that make them excellent providers. Power tools to fix the house, mowers and things for the yard, something to work on the car. Men are almost never encouraged to pamper themselves, indulge, or relax - at least not in a positive way as with women. However, I don't think all of the encouraged male consumer habits fit what you are saying. For example, what about guns and bows for hunting? What about computers and tech gadgets? …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/07/22 07:44 PM
1

Come find out.
/r/MensRights14/07/22 07:17 PM
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In her defense, she does need a nose job. But what does this have to do with men's rights? Edit: No, I did not forget about the dad. He has rights and they were fully enforced. So how is this a Men's Rights issue? In what way does the father need rights that he does not already have?
/r/MensRights13/07/22 10:44 PM
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I've never even seen $100k. My ass would have been in jail. Makes you wonder how many men are in prison or on some list simply because they couldn't afford to defend themselves.
/r/MensRights12/07/22 08:26 PM
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She sees all men the same way she sees the uncle that raped her. She makes an exception for you now, but wait until you two have an argument. Suddenly, she'll see you as Uncle Rapey and who knows what she'll say or do at that point . She needs help you aren't qualified to provide. Your relationship has no future unless she is ready to go through years of therapy. Get out.
/r/MensRights12/07/22 03:08 PM
1

Every man has to make his own decision. I've decided how I would respond and it's fine for you to choose something different. However, any man that tries to force their choices on me would make a lethal mistake.
/r/MensRights12/07/22 03:42 AM
3

Would never pass in Ohio, I can promise you that.
/r/MensRights09/07/22 12:18 AM
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Forced conscription of men won't work if men refuse to enforce it. It falls apart even more if men group together to actively resist. Speaking only for myself, only a complete fucking idiot would threaten to destroy my life unless I joined them, then give me a gun. It's a bad idea from top to bottom.
/r/MensRights08/07/22 07:15 PM
1

I never got the talk about how to treat men or women. I never even got the sex talk. That's probably because my dad didn't have a dad. He didn't know how to do a lot of things but he tried to the best of his ability. Love him more than anything.
/r/MensRights08/07/22 12:45 AM
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Seems risky, threatening someone unless they fight for you. They even give you a gun? Sounds downright dangerous.
/r/MensRights07/07/22 06:18 AM
1

*Some men like to provide. Not all men have to behave the same way. ​ And that's more of what I'm getting at. Back then, you couldn't be considered a man unless you provide. There were no exceptions for people down on their luck, no consideration for men that work hard but didn't earn much. And it was reflected in dating culture (still is in my opinion). The man always has to pay, the man must have a good job, a man who can't pay his bills is trash though women that can't pay are not. ​ Male ide…
/r/MensRights04/07/22 05:02 PM
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Totally agree with this. There are dozens of cons, schemes, and violent crimes that can be pulled by women. And due to implicit bias, men might not get the help or support they need to recover. These men are lucky to be alive imo. Look after yourself, gents.
/r/MensRights03/07/22 03:23 PM
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It's easy to have a romanticized view of history. But I think many of the harmful aspects of dating culture persisted back then as well. For example - the concept that men are providers which has evolved to cause the problems with alimony and child support today. But you do have a point. There are multi-million dollar industries that are designed to exploit male loneliness. It's a good idea not to contribute to them.
/r/MensRights03/07/22 03:18 PM
1

Op hasn't responded, but he said indigenous... so maybe Australia?
/r/MensRights30/06/22 03:01 AM
1

I didn't see the movie. Is this pic from the film? Not getting what this has to do with having father figures...
/r/MensRights30/06/22 01:50 AM
3

What's the plan?
/r/MensRights28/06/22 01:10 PM
8

I think I need more information about how this was handled afterward. If a man buys a woman a dissolving bikini, he better be damn sure how she'll react or he'll wind up in jail. Swapping the genders, if the gf knows the bf would find it funny and if the gf is careful to do it in a safe place (ie where kids are not exposed) it could be fine. However, if this happens and the police ignore the man's complaint, or if the DA tries to put him on a list, then that's different.
/r/MensRights23/06/22 01:53 PM
3

From BBC news: More women diagnosed with breast cancer. Men most effected.
/r/MensRights16/06/22 06:39 PM
5

Yeah I get you. For me, the answer is that I need to work on myself. No one can control where their taxes go or what a university does. But we can learn a skill. Just saying, I did fairly well in college, but I've never once pulled in the kind of dough my plumber and electrician make off of me. There will never be a time when those in power decide to give it up. We have to find a way to work around it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/06/22 03:15 AM
7

I don't know much about Red Pill, but I do consider myself MGTOW. I can't think of anything less radical than building a lifestyle centered on minding your own business. Since I'm using myself as an example, I want to point out that I have numerous healthy relationships with women. My boss - who I absolutely love working with - is a woman and has always treated with respect. I have a great relationship with my mother, my female relatives, the old retired woman that lives next door, etc. But I wo…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/06/22 03:08 AM
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1a. Asking for human rights are only extreme to those who are prejudiced. Asking for equal protection under the law is extreme for those that thrive on inequality. The mirror to radical feminism doesn't exist and don't ever let anyone convince you otherwise. 1b Radical feminism is not universally seen as bad. The KKK is seen as universally bad. Radical Islamic Terrorism is seen as bad. Radical feminism is viewed with sympathy and acceptance through silence. So we are not the same by behavior nor…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/06/22 04:51 PM
3

Translation: You care so much about what strangers think that you persist in a lifestyle that doesn't make you happy, ignore the opinions of the people closest to you, and ultimately harm your health through the eventual diseases that accompany obesity ( high cholesterol, diabetes, high blood pressure). Go outside. Don't care about the people that don't care for you. You deserve to live a happy and fulfilled life. Also - I'm not a health expert - but I read that 80% of your physical health comes…
/r/MenSupportMen02/06/22 11:52 AM
7

Wooooooooooooooow. I don't really watch soccer, so I didn't even think of that. Pretty insidious. And very revealing. People that believe they are doing the right thing don't have to lie about it. Manipulative bastards.
/r/MensRights19/05/22 04:35 PM
5

I don't know that I agree that there are not a lot of options for male fashion. If you look around, I'm sure you can find various styles, or just create your own. Also, a lot of people can't see past their own perspective. I wouldn't go to r/askwomen for sympathy on men's issues. That's like going to a fundraiser to save the rain forest and telling them that cancer is so much more important. Good luck with the fashion! Be sure to post pics when you have them!
/r/MenSupportMen19/05/22 01:37 PM
7

Have you considered avoiding long term relationships? Sleep with people you don't know and can't hunt you down.
/r/MensRights19/05/22 01:28 PM
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I did some fact checking. According to CNBC, the women's team brought in more revenue from 2016 to 2019 then the men's team. The men's team issued a statement of support for equal pay. By all means, pay should be based on value. These women have earned it. Edit: So apparently, the CNBC article is basically a lie. Terrible.
/r/MensRights19/05/22 01:25 PM
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You have numbers to back that up? If the contract is based on revenue, then I agree with you! You should be payed according to what you earn. Edit: I did some fact checking. According to CNBC, the women's team brought in more revenue from 2016 to 2019 then the men's team. The men's team issued a statement of support for equal pay. By all means, pay should be based on value. These women have earned it. Edit 2: aaaaaaaaaand it's a lie. Someone pointed out that the years in the CNBC article are che…
/r/MensRights19/05/22 12:54 PM
7

Another gentle reminder: you don't HAVE to take part in a misandrist culture. Your time is valuable and you deserve to be happy. If there are people in your life forcing their sexist beliefs on you, treating you as if you are less deserving of fair treatment or concern, start removing those people from your life. Spend your time with people that will build you up, not tear you down. You don't have to watch media or read anything that shits on men. You don't have to engage against internet bullie…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/05/22 12:41 PM
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Time to start your defamation case, friend. Sue the organization, sue the individuals. If you don't, this will happen again to someone else. Protect yourself and future men by stopping this now. Also, update us!
/r/MensRights11/05/22 12:42 PM
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Jill Cosby
/r/MensRights10/05/22 11:51 AM
1

really? What platform are they using? I saw a forum but I don't go there often.
/r/MensRights09/05/22 02:35 PM
5

FDS went private. Took way too long imo.
/r/MensRights09/05/22 02:25 PM
12

Hi, yes, I need some legal advice. My girlfriend just had a baby but I really don't want to be on the hook for child support. I also don't feel like she would be a good mother because she's kinda poor while, in comparison, I actually have a great job making decent money. I'm planning on taking the child out of state and dumping it at the firehouse anonymously. Sound like a good plan? ​ What do you mean they could track me down?! The whole point of Safe Haven laws is to let you privately abandon …
/r/MensRights08/05/22 04:22 PM
1

Roe V Wade was decided in 1973, nearly 50 years ago. How's that second approach coming along?
/r/MensRights06/05/22 08:50 PM
25

Men started the war, so men should die. OK, then Muslims committed acts of terror so Muslims should be imprisoned? Catholic priests raped kids, so all Catholic priests should register as sex offenders? Or perhaps all gay men? There are higher rates of crime in black areas, so black people deserve to be harassed by police? Your prejudice is showing. You can't hold an entire group of people responsible for the actions of an individual simply because they share the same gender. Putin is responsible…
/r/MensRights06/05/22 02:10 PM
7

Hey all - I'm looking to fill a position. Preferably non-white people encouraged to apply. Equal Opportunity Employment.
/r/MensRights04/05/22 11:24 PM
24

Yes... and JUST the rapists. Don't condemn every man for what a criminal did and don't assume every man accused must be guilty.
/r/MensRights04/05/22 01:19 AM
1

not legal advice, not a lawyer. I don't see how that's different from a legal settlement. She wants $20k cash and you keep all the assets. And I take it you don't have kids, so no child support? I would take the quick way out if I were you. Just keep in mind that whatever you are paying, she also has to pay. So if you have to spend $30k fighting over assets, she could spend the same or more, depleting the assets and no one gets it. Be sure to ask your lawyer about alimony. If you are entitled to…
/r/MensRights04/05/22 12:34 AM
0

There's nothing fair or equitable about parental rights as they are now. There are numerous examples for why throughout this sub, so I'm not going to bother putting it here for you.
/r/MensRights03/05/22 11:11 PM
1

I have no expectations of getting any kind of parental rights through this decision. You are missing the point. Why should I care that a right I already do not have gets taken away? Why should I fight for someone else to have that right when that same person would fight to keep that right from me?! I have a greater interest in voting for the person that treats all of us equally since that at least represents some of my values. If the pro-choice side wants me to join them, they'll need to start t…
/r/MensRights03/05/22 10:13 PM
0

You started off talking about how laws and consequences should be equitable, then write a dissertation justifying why men and women shouldn't be treated equitably. You want them to be legally responsible for a kid, give them legal rights when it comes to having them. Right now, only the woman's choice is considered. It's hypocritical to demand rights for yourself without being willing to give them to others.
/r/MensRights03/05/22 08:48 PM
1

No, it is a step backwards for some. Men are in the same place they were yesterday.
/r/MensRights03/05/22 08:39 PM
1

There is no law that requires any individual to have a medical procedure in the United States.
/r/MensRights03/05/22 06:19 PM
3

Honestly, I'm just tired. I'm tired of standing up for the rights of a group that successfully sponsors legislation to take away my rights. I'm tired of hearing why I shouldn't have the same rights as others. Should I be a better person? It would be nice. But I just can't.
/r/MensRights03/05/22 06:17 PM
2

Yeah, I'm really disappointed with how they handled the draft.
/r/MensRights03/05/22 06:13 PM
1

A really fucking under rated comment. Hope this makes it to the top.
/r/MensRights03/05/22 06:12 PM
2

They would have the same rights as men. I'll tell them what they tell us: just don't get pregnant. Contraception is YOUR responsibility; doesn't matter of the other person lies about it or if you've been drinking and weren't able to consent or if you were drugged and raped... How is it possible you can't see that women currently have rights men don't have and not the other way around?
/r/MensRights03/05/22 05:15 PM
3

What inequality? Is there some right to autonomy that men have and women do not? Go ahead, I'll wait.
/r/MensRights03/05/22 04:08 PM
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They are celebrating people being treated equally, not people being harmed. But you are so intent on demonizing men's advocates that you can't see it any other way. Those same men would jump in to support laws that support ALL victims of rape and abuse, support ALL homeless individuals, provide EQUAL parental rights during a divorce, and EQUAL options for accepting responsibility for a child. From that perspective, you are clearly the one celebrating when someone loses rights.
/r/MensRights03/05/22 03:02 PM
6

You're here arguing that making abortion illegal would right a wrong and put women on the same level of responsibility as men No, I'm arguing the exact opposite of that. Making abortion illegal makes it wrong for everyone. And I'm not going to join the hysteria because it suddenly hurts women. When I cast my vote, I'll either support rights for everyone or support rights for no one. I'm tired of being asked to elevate certain members of society over everyone else.
/r/MensRights03/05/22 02:55 PM
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That's not accurate at all. There are a lot of men on this sub that are anti-abortion, that believe this is a loss for human rights. Like I said above, men won't get parental rights if there are no parental rights. But that's the difference between us and feminism. Men on this sub will argue that EVERYONE should have the right to choose, while feminists have been happy to exclude men entirely from that decision. That was the point of the post. I'm tired of advocating for a group that openly advo…
/r/MensRights03/05/22 02:13 PM
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How long exactly do you define "always" as being? That's actually a fair argument. "Always" was a poor choice of words. I should have said "for the past 50 years" which is a VERY LONG TIME TO SAY ABSOLUTLEY NOTHING ABOUT AN ISSUE. By all means, don't speak up now, just keep staying silent. What you pointed out doesn't change the substance of the post at all. Believing there is some emergency that exists this morning that didn't exist last week just demonstrates an acceptance of sexism against me…
/r/MensRights03/05/22 02:08 PM
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I strongly disagree. I've never seen a homeless man that didn't ask for help. People literally call them "beggars". Resources aren't limited at all. The people that are willing to give out resources are few. The government is willing to fund women's homeless shelters fully, but tightens the purse strings when it comes to men. It's a form of systemic discrimination.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/05/22 12:44 PM
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It's the empathy gap. People see a woman out on the street and they jump in to help her. "It's not safe for her out there." "She shouldn't be out here alone." "She needs somewhere to go." People see men on the street, they step over them. "Sad but that's the way it is." They forget he exists 5 seconds later. As if it's not dangerous for men to be on the street. Everyone needs help sometimes, but women are more likely to get it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/05/22 12:40 PM
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OP - thanks for posting this. This is the type of group I want to be a part of :-)
/r/MensRights02/05/22 08:42 PM
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I don't think we are going to win rights by changing public opinion. Apathy toward men is too ingrained in our culture. We need a legal fund. Laws about equality are already on the books. Let's make sure they are enforced.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/05/22 12:50 PM
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Don't ever let anyone convince you to argue against your own well-being. First - suggesting that we change the name of the movement to Men's Advocacy is a waste of time. r/Mensrights byline is literally "Men's Rights :: Advocating for the social and legal equality of men and boys since 2008". MRA stands for "Men's Rights Advocate" or "Men's Rights Activist". Changing the name will never change the opinion of someone whose underlying reasoning is based on prejudice. Whether that prejudice is ackn…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/04/22 03:14 AM
4

This was in 2011. Any updates? Fucking horrible by the way.
/r/MensRights29/04/22 11:06 AM
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But you could also argue that SA is not gender based because the person is not selected ONLY for their gender. Someone that grabs an 18 y/o would be unlikely to grab a 66 y/o even if they share the same gender. They grab them because they are attracted to them. I think OP has a good point. People are trying to make the case that assault = hatred of women. They are trying to make it sound more severe when there really isn't a need to do that.
/r/MensRights29/04/22 12:56 AM
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To be completely honest, I'm not really mad about the ad. I thought it was a little funny and creative. I like dark humor though. I think I'm more mad about the hypocrites that would raise hell if the family was trying to kill the mom. I would have laughed if it was a woman and people would call me a misogynist or insensitive. That makes me angry.
/r/MensRights27/04/22 06:59 PM
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Yeah, you can't solve racism with more racism. The trouble, however, is proving that a candidate was less capable than another and yet was chosen anyway. One candidate went to an Ivey League school, the other has 10 years experience at a successful company - how would you prove that one of them was chosen because of their race? So far, I think the only viable option is to encourage whistleblowers. Only those inside the process could prove that the process isn't fair.
/r/MensRights27/04/22 06:46 PM
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The girl I was seeing at the time slapped me as a joke. I said something dumb but funny and in no way offensive or sexual. She decided it would be funny to slap me. Our culture is weird.
/r/MensRights27/04/22 02:10 PM
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And the article said any girl over 11
/r/MensRights20/04/22 11:55 AM
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If you think you'll be treated fairly and reasonably with pictures of a topless 12 year old on your phone, then you and I live in different worlds. But whatever. We'll see how this plays out soon.
/r/MensRights20/04/22 12:46 AM
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Yeah, it makes sense why you're lonely. Hard to form a solid relationship when no one is around. Time to put yourself out there. Start small. Go on a jog. Get a part time job or volunteer. Show up to community events. Make it your goal to interact with 2-3 people every day. Then, however much you are doing, do 10% more next week. So, if all you do is say hi to someone this week. Try a full sentence next week. The point is, if you change nothing, you'll always feel this way. Start putting yoursel…
/r/MenSupportMen19/04/22 06:13 AM
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There's a difference between love and desire. What you said about women online, that's desire not love. You don't need to look a specific way to get love. You get love by loving others. When was the last time you told someone that you love them? What makes you feel like you love someone? When you find that person,make sure they know it. Also, be careful who you love. Some people Will try to take everything from you and give you nothing in return. When you run into someone that's a black hole of …
/r/MenSupportMen18/04/22 08:24 PM
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You're in the park with your kids. You take some pictures. Cops show up. A woman says you were taking pictures of her sunbathing. You say that's ridiculous, but when you check your camera, sure enough, there's a topless woman in the background. What happens next?
/r/MensRights15/04/22 05:36 PM
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The next move will be to exclude men from some public spaces because it is possible underage girls may be topless there. They've already started with the gyms. also, Fort Collins response to losing the appeal was low key hilarious. Basically, "Fuck it, I'm tired. Got other things to do today."
/r/MensRights15/04/22 03:31 PM
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Fair warning that you may not get a wide range of answers here. Mods have repeatedly stated that defending MGTOW is not allowed in this sub. I'd be surprised if this post doesn't get pulled down soon. If it does stick around, you are eventually going to see a lot of comments that are deleted. At the end of the day, regardless of how you feel, this is a private company. Reddit has the ability to enforce their views on their site. There is no requirement that their reasoning be based on facts, log…
/r/MensRights10/04/22 04:57 AM
1

They don't have a bill of rights, but they have rights...
/r/MensRights09/04/22 10:51 PM
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There was a time when gay men would be assaulted because a guy thought he was staring at him. Under this law, you could have someone prosecuted legally out of homophobia. It also makes me think of cases like Emmit Till, where black men were lynched for flirting and the accusation turned out to be a lie. Now they want to prosecute men for looking at someone with sexual intent. How exactly do you prove intent? Maybe they were staring into space? Thinking, hey she looks like someone I knew in high …
/r/MensRights09/04/22 01:23 PM
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I don't know if it's fair for women to buy men's products. I certainly wouldn't buy women's deodorant. But if they have a complaint, they should take it to the people creating, marketing, advocating, and selling those products: women. No one takes advantage of women like other women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/04/22 02:32 AM
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Women: AVERT YOUR EYES IN MY PRESENCE OR I'LL HAVE YOU WHIPPED #feminism
/r/MensRights07/04/22 01:55 AM
50

So, prostitution?
/r/MensRights06/04/22 12:29 AM
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And they'll sit happily at home cooking and cleaning while men die in their place. Then, when the dust settles, they'll turn around and say, "We did it!!". I posted my thoughts on Zelenskyy's policy to prevent men - and only men - from leaving Ukraine. He has blame. But that doesn't change the fact that the women left the men to die without a single word of protest. It's never been men opposing women or women opposing men. It's always been those with power abusing those without. People in power …
/r/MensRights05/04/22 09:17 PM
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No at all. It would be foolish to deny history. No one could reasonably argue that women have not been mistreated historically. But to say that misandry was caused by misogyny implies that misogyny occurred first. It did not. There has always been mistreatment of men. Who was sacrificed first in every war? Who performed back breaking labor, often under the shackles of slavery? Who most commonly underwent torture? Who was expected to sacrifice themselves for the benefit of others. There's a histo…
/r/MensRights05/04/22 01:46 PM
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Why do some men become police officers and others become criminals? Why do some enjoy playing sports and other men enjoy going to the movies? The answer is that every man is an individual. The reason why they do it is up to the individual. No one can control the decisions an individual makes except by applying the law. So for me, the more interesting questions are about societies and legal systems rather than individual preferences. For example, why does society give attention to men catcalling …
/r/MensRights05/04/22 12:36 PM
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Wow. We are so fucking equal right now. Especially loving that last line about excluding trans in order to protect children. So trans = child rapist? Nice job Canada.
/r/MensRights05/04/22 12:00 PM
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Yeah, my company is doing this too. They can advertise the position in a way that will reach more minorities and women, but they still have to hire you based on your credentials and experience to comply with Equal Opportunity Employment laws. The problem is that there is no system to verify that a candidate was the most qualified one for the position. Numerous portions of the interview are subjective. I recommend you mention your husband numerous times during interview. If they catch you in the …
/r/MensRights05/04/22 04:13 AM
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Didn't she rape a guy?
/r/MensRights04/04/22 07:36 PM
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It sucks that you have to deal with that. I may have a sort of solution for you. My job has been pushing diversity as well. Whenever I see something supporting a group I do not belong to, I sign up anyway. March was women's history month and I got so much out of it! I was in every workshop. I asked all the questions. I reached out to the organizers after the events with my ideas. I hope to god someone tells me - in writing - that I am not allowed to be there. I'll throw every penny of my life sa…
/r/MensRights04/04/22 07:27 PM
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Yeah, glossed over some things. I think it is natural that someone that was not raised as a male would miss some things. They'll probably gain more insight over time. Also, too bad there's no trans for race...
/r/MensRights04/04/22 05:55 PM
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I think what the top comment is saying is, you be the adult. Let the kids act like kids. Makes them look stupid.
/r/MensRights04/04/22 12:28 PM
1

than those whose highest degree is a high school diploma. That sounds like it includes everyone like retail workers and janitors. Any data that specifically concerns how those that learn trades compare to those that have a degree?
/r/MensRights03/04/22 01:32 PM
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We need a legal fund that supports men nationally. I think anyone accused under this system could pursue it in court. § 18.2-417. Slander and libel. Any person who shall falsely utter and speak, or falsely write and publish, of and concerning any person of chaste character, any words derogatory of such person's character for virtue and chastity, or imputing to such person acts not virtuous and chaste, or who shall falsely utter and speak, or falsely write and publish, of and concerning another p…
/r/MensRights02/04/22 12:30 PM
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MGTOW has entered the chat. There's nothing wrong with marriage and there's nothing wrong with staying single. Ultimately, you should build a life where you feel you'll be happy. Half of all marriages end in divorce, but that also means that half of all marriages are successful. You could just as well find someone that truly gets you; that doesn't treat you like a walking paycheck; someone that you love being around. In that sense, it wouldn't be a curse. But it's not wrong to want to remain sin…
/r/MensRights02/04/22 04:13 AM
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A whopping 2% more in some cities. Seems kinda like click bait.
/r/MensRights02/04/22 03:30 AM
4

I account understand what's going on with that. Can anyone explain?
/r/MensRights02/04/22 03:16 AM
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All I know is it was his wife's talk show. It appears he manipulated him into doing this to promote the show.
/r/MensRights31/03/22 12:55 AM
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Excuse? Absolutely not. But it provides significant context. That man is living in hell and we saw him reach his limit publicly.
/r/MensRights30/03/22 04:38 PM
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meh, I don't like having to hide. I think it's important for people to see the same person that stands up for men's rights will stand up for everyone else too. Makes them less able to justify their prejudice.
/r/MensRights30/03/22 02:51 PM
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The problem is they can block you and prevent you from responding in your own thread. It's their petty way of getting in the last word.
/r/MensRights30/03/22 02:47 PM
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Prejudice - preconceived opinion that is not based on reason or actual experience Racism - prejudice, discrimination, or antagonism directed against a person or people on the basis of their membership in a particular racial or ethnic group Sexism - characterized by or showing prejudice, stereotyping, or discrimination... on the basis of sex. White privilege is a preconceived opinion based on sex and race that a person has specific set of life circumstances. It's not reasonable, nor is it possibl…
/r/MensRights28/03/22 12:45 PM
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You missed the point I was trying to make. Circumstances can give anyone an advantage, but it doesn't mean that everyone within that group has that advantage. For example, being born in the United States could give you an advantage if you would like to go to college in the United States. But it would be ridiculous to claim that a person was admitted *because* they were born in the United States. Admission to college is based on a number of factors. Not everyone born in the US will have the circu…
/r/MensRights27/03/22 10:11 PM
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Agreed in as far as it would be ridiculous to assume that there one cohesive opinion on 4chan or 8chan. Wherever there is true freedom of speech, you'll have a diversity of opinion.
/r/MensRights27/03/22 07:16 PM
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That case is so sad. He went from "hero" to armed robbery. We need to figure out what is broken in society that leads people this way.
/r/MensRights27/03/22 07:01 PM
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Just win an election. No one can stop a woman from gaining political office in numerous developed countries.
/r/MensRights25/03/22 07:11 PM
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I'm down. There are probably a ton of talented men on this sub. We should be sharing life advice.
/r/MenSupportMen23/03/22 03:18 PM
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Totally agree. I think part of it is that anyone can call themselves anything they want and there's nothing you can do to stop them. Same with BLM. There's the person that says, "Hey, I think it's unfair that black men receive statistically harsher sentences for similar crimes" and they write a senator. Then you have someone who shouts "BLACK LIVES MATTER" and burns a business to the ground while literally fighting a black guy. MGTOW had the same issue as supposedly there were men that attacked …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/03/22 02:45 PM
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A better question is why I would want the opinion of a group supporting cultural and institutional prejudice? Whatever their thought process, it's guaranteed to make me angry.
/r/MensRights22/03/22 01:50 AM
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Where can you watch it? Netflix?
/r/MensRights21/03/22 01:12 PM
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We should probably coin a term. I'm thinking "Self-Serving Prejudice". Taking the term from self serving bias in psychology: A self-serving bias is any cognitive or perceptual process that is distorted by the need to maintain and enhance self-esteem, or the tendency to perceive oneself in an overly favorable manner.[1] It is the belief that individuals tend to ascribe success to their own abilities and efforts, but ascribe failure to external factors. Basically that, but a tendency to think of a…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/03/22 10:07 PM
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It blows my mind that inserting a broom handle, a glass bottle, or a knife into someone would not be considered rape. Shouldn't all of those things carry at least the same penalty as inserting a penis? How could any reasonable person support differentiating one from the other. This is clear and obvious sexism.
/r/MensRights19/03/22 04:50 PM
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In OP's defense, this post was on the popular tab. Many people saw it. Most of the time, I jump past the post as soon as I realize it's TwoX, but that's usually after reading the first few lines. And once you have the "That's fucking outrageous!" reaction, it's hard to stop reading. Waiting on Reddit to allow users to filter out communities even when browsing r/all.
/r/MensRights19/03/22 02:23 PM
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You could more effectively advocate for men by raising your children to treat people as equals. Do what you need to do to keep food on the table.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/03/22 02:37 PM
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How much does a man's life cost? According to ziprecruiter the average US Army soldier was paid $30, 572 per year (Source 2). That equates to less than $15/hour. What an incredible privilege. We may not be able to control what women do, but we for damn sure better make sure that men don't voluntarily sell their lives for Walmart wages. We can't afford to let men think of themselves as less valuable than women.
/r/MensRights16/03/22 02:53 PM
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Post is arguing that women making more could benefit men because men don't have to take up the provider role. Essentially women could earn more while the overall family unit makes the same. Your reasoning assumes that women are a part of every family, which is presumptuous. Neither single men nor gay men would benefit from this scenario. Which is exactly why employment decisions should be made by qualifications rather than by class. Equal Opportunity Employment laws guarantee the right for every…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/03/22 03:03 AM
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gay men are giving you the side eye.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/03/22 02:32 PM
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Are a bunch of people calling you a dick? Or is it one person? Also, are you actually being a dick or are they harassing you? If you are a good person being called a dick, the best solution is to get away from these people. If you are in a situation where you can't get away - ie school or work - start by using the protections that are already in place. When talking to HR, don't say "She called me a dick." Explain that your experience matched what you read on the US EEOC website: Offensive conduc…
/r/MensRights14/03/22 10:29 PM
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Yeah, been around for a while. Was a big problem for 80's and 90's kids too. Shame there hasn't been more progress in addressing it.
/r/MensRights13/03/22 06:17 PM
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Why don't you try working for an organization that already does this and copy what they do? If you tell them your dream is to create more shelters and you demonstrate you are serious, I bet they'd apprentice you for free.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/03/22 04:38 PM
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This is something I wish I learned earlier: don't rely on other people to determine your worth. Convincing people that you have value is beneath you. You have that value whether they see it or not. Moreover, your time and your effort are limited. Only give it to people that deserve it. Invest in yourself; take what you need from school. But rather than waiting for society to be better, you be the better one. Find friends that you can support and that support you. You should be the one making the…
/r/MensRights11/03/22 02:50 AM
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I'm copying what I wrote on a different comment. Being a man myself, I don't blame men for the draft. I blame Zelenskyy for his execution of the law. Nether do I blame myself for having to sign up for the draft in the US. I blame the Supreme Court Justices that refuse to hear the case that so clearly contradicts the 14th Amendment. I blame the congressmen that failed to overcome their prejudice. It's not about blaming men for men's problems. It's about men overcoming men that stand in their way.…
/r/MensRights10/03/22 10:02 PM
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Hard to argue with that.
/r/MensRights10/03/22 09:58 PM
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Being a man myself, I don't blame men for the draft. I blame Zelenskyy for his execution of the law. Nether do I blame myself for having to sign up for the draft in the US. I blame the Supreme Court Justices that refuses to hear the case that so clearly contradicts the 14th Amendment. I blame the congressmen that failed to overcome their prejudice. It's not about blaming men for men's problems. It's about men overcoming men that stand in their way.
/r/MensRights10/03/22 08:00 PM
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Fair point
/r/MensRights10/03/22 07:49 PM
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If this were a thousand years ago and people were fighting with swords, that would make sense. But anyone can fire a gun. maybe not 100% equal, but not different enough to send her away with the kids. They should be treated like adults.
/r/MensRights10/03/22 02:33 PM
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Damn, I absolutely love this idea. I would take it even further. Serve in the military, your vote doubles. Serve in combat, it triples. Get drafted against your will - x10. People that had to sacrifice something should get a greater voice. I didn't serve by the way. I just think it makes sense for them to have a greater vote.
/r/MensRights10/03/22 06:28 AM
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Then I guess that bitch on her own. Easier to get a new girlfriend than get a new spine.
/r/MensRights09/03/22 07:21 PM
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I actually don't have an issue with this IF it's funded privately. Since everyone pays taxes, everyone should be able to benefit (*cough* homeless shelters*cough*). But if someone decides to use their own money, they're free to use it how they want. You can't force others to have your values. Which is why I want to support organizations that benefit men specifically. We have the expertise and the resources to help each other succeed in college; to support fathers' rights in custody battles; to d…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/03/22 11:57 PM
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Call the police? What the fuck I look like, a Power Ranger?
/r/MensRights07/03/22 06:50 PM
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I believe men should stop letting society tell them who they are and simply be the person they want to be. No one else's opinion matters when it comes to your happiness.
/r/MensRights07/03/22 06:43 PM
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you have a good point. Maybe I'll invest in some security cams. I would hate to reinforce the idea that men are dangerous. I don't want to behave as though they are right.
/r/MensRights07/03/22 06:28 PM
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Answered this in a different post. Gonna just copy/paste. TLDR it's because of culture acceptance of prejudice against men. "This is exactly why I'm in subs like this. I'm black. So would it be OK to follow me around a store because black people have stolen things? Is Stop and Frisk OK when the only description of the criminal is that he's black? I'm attracted to men. Should gay men not be allowed to serve in the military because straight men are afraid of unwelcome sexual advances? Is it OK to …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/03/22 02:49 PM
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Your bf is right, OP, but you should encourage him not to hold himself to society's prejudiced standards. He should be the nice person that he wants to be. If the mom has a problem, it's not up to your bf to solve that. She can just leave the line. I went through something similar this past summer when I adopted some puppies. A bunch of kids in my neighborhood came into my yard to play with them. At first, I thought "this looks bad, I'm a single guy and people will think I'm luring these kids wi…
/r/MensRights07/03/22 03:02 AM
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There are also daily videos on r/nextfuckinglevel and r/Damnthatsinteresting showing Ukrainian soldiers taking down helicopters and tanks. There are people in those helicopters and tanks. People that probably didn't want to be there in the first place. Watching one person kill another has never been that interesting to me nor do I consider it next level. I understand that Ukraine has to fight and sometimes kill for their freedom - I get that - but I'm not going to cheer when they kill people. It…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/03/22 01:45 AM
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OP does have a point though. But even when you're right, if you come at people's necks like that, they won't want to listen. I think we all know that there is an empathy gap against men, but it doesn't help to attack when you see empathy given to others. Instead, just add the empathy that's missing. A better response would have been. "Don't leave out the men. Russian soldiers were told that they would be fighting Nazi's in a peacekeeping mission. Putin used them to fuel his ambition. Now the luc…
/r/MensRights06/03/22 03:30 PM
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The world needs more people like you. Keep it up!
/r/MensRights05/03/22 04:45 PM
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And if it was a woman cheating on her husband, people would say men are trying to control her. I don't condone the lying, but it's disrespectful to call this rape.
/r/MensRights04/03/22 10:33 PM
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No, I don't think it fits the current definition of child abuse because the "injury" criteria is not clearly met. Anything resulting from the procedure would likely be deemed sequelae of the infant's previously uncircumcised condition. Moreover, law I was referring to defines harm as Harm "the consequence of maltreatment and refers to the nature of the injury or trauma affecting the child". But who knows. If you can convince a court that harm resulted from the procedure, then perhaps that would …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/03/22 02:30 AM
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That question doesn't make sense. It's not illegal because of one law but is illegal because of a different law. In the same way that reckless driving laws don't *specifically* state that I can't fire rounds out of a tank on the highway while on my way to Walmart, but it's still illegal.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/03/22 04:57 PM
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Not at all. I'm not a lawyer, but I do know that child abuse is prosecuted by the state. Here's the definition from my state: "[Child] exhibits evidence of any physical or mental injury or death, inflicted other than by accidental means, or an injury or death which is at variance with the history given of it." Pretty sure cutting off a baby's testicles would be considered an injury. It's also true that something can be legal but unethical or ethical but illegal. Doctors need to consider whether …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/03/22 01:35 PM
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Not a new concept for the gay community. Something about being forced to see a different perspective changes people. What I find more astonishing is how women can allow a horrible experience with 1 or even a few men to overwrite all of the experiences with good men that they've known throughout their lives. OK - yes, she was raped/abused, and that dude deserves to have his nuts cut off, but are you really going to take it out on every man? Exclude boys from educational opportunities? Brainwash k…
/r/MensRights27/02/22 05:28 PM
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I think it's disturbing that after a baby is born, one of the first things the doctors say is, "Aight, let's touch his penis". It doesn't really seem to fit into modern medicine. Anyone that doesn't at least question why we do a procedure that isn't medically necessary needs to reexamine their values.
/r/MensRights27/02/22 03:24 PM
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That was absolutely heartbreaking to read. I give you credit for having the patience to explain all of that. As for me, I have no words.
/r/MensRights26/02/22 06:22 PM
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The justification I hear is that women run the risk of sexual assault and rape while serving in the military. They feel they shouldn't have to face the increased danger of being attacked by their own side. Sounds pretty reasonable. I tell them, "OK, you go over there by yourself and I'll stay here with the kids."
/r/MensRights26/02/22 03:47 AM
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I don't give a shit what any woman does or does not do. I won't tell anyone that they should go off and die. All I know is that I will not be fighting unless I believe in the cause.
/r/MensRights24/02/22 04:15 PM
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I agree. It doesn't really matter who plays the role as long as the story is good. The whole "Let's do Ghostbusters, but this time, with women!!" attitude is one of the dumbest aspects of this society. Being gay or black or handicapped is not a personality trait and it doesn't add anything to the plot. Stories like that are only written to separate idiots from their money. We don't have to be a part of it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/02/22 02:38 PM
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Y'all remember those memes about Vin Deisel on his yacht? Also, it did kinda look like Mary J passed out on stage because she was out of breath. I made jokes about everybody in the halftime show, but I never put them on social media. Wonder how that would have went...
/r/MensRights22/02/22 12:08 AM
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But why would we do this? If they want to make posts celebrating women, just let them. If you don't like what they say, it's better to go your own way then to aggravate them. Also, a large part of why started following MGTOW in the first place was the fact women seemed to hold me personally accountable for every bad thing any man has ever done to them. I don't want to become what I hate. There are absolutely bigoted, sexist, asshole women out there, but I won't bother every woman because of how …
/r/MensRights18/02/22 05:08 AM
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Woman can get an abortion or abandon the baby at a fire station. Women walk away more than men do, and they get support while doing it. Also how do you keep getting around your ban? This is like the 4th time I've had to deal with you!
/r/MensRights16/02/22 08:24 PM
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There's nothing wrong with celebrating mom and everything she does for the family. I celebrate my own mother. I'm not OP, but I think the point of the post is to reference aspects of our culture that devalue the role of men in a family. Our culture presents mothers as an essential and indispensable part of any family while fathers are great, but optional. This attitude is reflected through numerous statistics: the proportion of women that win child custody and have the child for the majority of …
/r/MensRights15/02/22 07:38 PM
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Your sister: It's OK to hate someone only because of their gender rather than the content of their character. Make sure she understands what she is saying. If it's not OK to be a racist, and it's not OK to be homophobic, and it's not OK to hate people because of their religion (ie anti-Semitic), then it certainly isn't OK to hate by gender or sex. The good side of this is that you are in her life. If you can win her over, that's one less person justifying poor treatment of men in the world.
/r/MensRights15/02/22 06:48 PM
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Gaht dayum. Fucking destroyed him.
/r/MensRights12/02/22 10:40 PM
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Yeah, it's almost as if you can't apply the behavior of one person to an entire class of individuals. I mean, how crazy would it be if each person was different and responsible for their own behavior?
/r/MensRights07/02/22 12:50 PM
13

Two thoughts. First, no untrained person will ever be equipped to help you heal from what you've been through. It's like getting shot and trying to fix it at CVS. You need to invest in a therapist. I know you said you don't like them, but you need one. Keep going back. ​ Second, might help for you to move somewhere that will let you start over. Save up some money, use a company like Zillow to see places halfway across the country, then move. Leave all your shit behind and just move. You won't ha…
/r/MenSupportMen06/02/22 01:10 PM
23

We really need a better social media platform. FB is trash. Reddit is trash. TikTok is trash. What's out there that isn't trash?
/r/MensRights03/02/22 05:25 AM
29

Personally, I think chivalry needs to just die. If I participate in it, it's like I'm admitting that my life and safety is worth less than a random woman's. No, I'm not going to lift that heavy thing because chronic back pain is incurable and medical bills are expensive. No, I'm not gonna fight off an attacker for you. My life is worth just as much as anyone else's. No, you can't cut in line. No don't expect free shit. No, you can't have my seat. I don't expect random women to show up at my hous…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/02/22 05:53 AM
13

glad you found each other
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/01/22 09:42 PM
7

Exactly. Obviously if you say that *only* women have to look over their shoulder, men that have been robbed, jumped, stabbed or shot will say "you're wrong". It's perplexing how someone who has been through the same thing can exclude other victims simply because of their gender.
/r/MensRights27/01/22 02:48 AM
9

Like I said before: No amount of discussion or reason will change a bigot because bigotry is in and of itself irrational. u/sunlight_gaps created this account several days ago with the sole purpose of harassing people on r/MensRights. The only other subs shown in history are r/FreeKarma4You and r/JustUnsubbed where she supports someone that claims to have unsubbed here but then inexplicably goes on to comment again on Men's Rights numerous times. I'm happy to engage with people in a good faith d…
/r/MensRights26/01/22 12:42 PM
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This is exactly why I'm in subs like this. I'm black. So would it be OK to follow me around a store because black people have stolen things? Is Stop and Frisk OK when the only description of the criminal is that he's black? I'm attracted to men. Should gay men not be allowed to serve in the military because straight men are afraid of unwelcome sexual advances? Is it OK to think that gay men must be pedophiles? Is it OK to think all women with blonde hair are stupid? Would that change if you and …
/r/MensRights25/01/22 02:29 PM
23

It's exhausting. I don't have the patience to explain to people that don't want to listen. Instead, I wait quietly for my opportunity. When something happens, I ask the right question at the right moment and watch the wheels spin. ie "If she was really interested, don't you think she'd ask you out sometimes and pay for you?" or "Take care of yourself out there! They can't pay you enough to risk your life for some job. Maybe you shouldn't be to only one getting these kind of assignments." We may …
/r/MensRights23/01/22 03:32 AM
8

Do you think the boycott has been impactful? In the long run no. Gillette are still in business. I don't believe in cancel culture and I don't think this should be a measure of success. The company still exists, but I have nothing to do with them. My money isn't financing statements I don't agree with. On that level, it is pretty successful.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/01/22 03:07 AM
10

This is easily solved. Call the company, tell them you identify as a woman and you are in a vulnerable situation. If the company does not prioritize you, sue them for discrimination. Equality achieved! Fucking dumb clown world policies call for fucking dumb tactics.
/r/MensRights21/01/22 01:21 AM
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That was the joke. "Men need therapy" has two very different meanings depending on who says it. Sentiment behind it is different. "Men should support their kids" also has drastically different meanings for "support" (financial only vs being present in the kids life) and "their" (the woman's kids regardless of whether you are actually the father vs the kids that a man actually fathered).
/r/MensRights16/01/22 01:52 PM
4

Completely true and sad. Also "Men should support their kids".
/r/MensRights15/01/22 10:21 PM
1

This is scary because half the time I don't know what comes out of my check.
/r/MensRights15/01/22 01:41 PM
15

That's fucking insane. Can you link an article or the law itself?
/r/MensRights11/01/22 02:46 AM
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That's a pretty fair point. A better title would have been "Why are men known for cheating when both men and women cheat at nearly equal rates?". As written, the title does sound the same as FDS propaganda.
/r/MensRights02/01/22 03:45 PM
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If you need to know the gender of a child soldier before you are motivated to help them, I'd say you're a fucking horrible person. But if anyone is able to help them, I'd be willing to partner with horrible people. This is a complex problem that I don't think anyone knows how to solve. Worst case scenario is that they'll only help the girls, so we would have to watch how they solve it and duplicate that with boys. Fucking sucks that this is how the world is, but we can't wait for a prejudiced so…
/r/MensRights02/01/22 01:41 PM
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You and I must have had very different experiences on MGTOW. Can't speak for Redpill because I wasn't a part of that group, but posts like what you were describing would get downvoted pretty heavily. Or if you scrolled down, you would see numerous posts telling the person to Fuck off. Not saying bad stuff did not exist at all; the mods were slow to act. But, speaking as a black guy, I never saw anything that drove me off completely.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/12/21 02:27 PM
9

I still don't understand how it's legal to turn over a baby without getting consent from the father.
/r/MensRights30/12/21 02:56 AM
22

I went through something like this. What was hard for me was that some of the people I spoke to for help assumed that I did something to deserve it. That she was defending herself and I was the violent one even though I've never given anyone reason to think that. I felt like the people I trusted the most were looking for reasons not to believe me. I finally just said, "When is the last time you saw me yell at someone because I was angry? When was the last time I've been in a physical fight or th…
/r/MensRights30/12/21 02:48 AM
11

What's a "nigcel"? Is that the racial slur I think it is?
/r/MensRights28/12/21 01:33 PM
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If you keep reading things on r/Feminism, it's going to poison your mind. Remove this and anyone that thinks like this from your life. You'll be much happier.
/r/MensRights28/12/21 03:34 AM
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Men's Lib is controversial in the MRA community because they fail to address (and often support) prejudicial treatment of men by women. Imagine if a civil rights group believed it should be legal to refuse employment to black people. Obviously there would be objections. There are numerous examples of hypocrisy in addition to Affirmative Action. They believe in a woman's right to choose, but do not support paper abortions for men. They believe in protecting women from sexual assault (which MRA's …
/r/MensRights26/12/21 02:49 PM
12

Wow. Watched the movie, really liked it, all of the woke stuff went completely over my head. Crazy how these evil parts of our culture pop up where you least expect. You'll have to tell me which part was sexist.
/r/MensRights23/12/21 02:14 AM
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I get told how happy they are that I'm alone. Who the fuck is saying this to you?! Whoever it is, get them out of your life immediately. Stick with people that enjoy being around you, not people that will crush for their own ego.
/r/MensRights23/12/21 02:10 AM
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Adding to that, I would say that none of this is truly depressing. On the contrary, it helps you stay safe so that you can actually enjoy your life. It's analogous to anything else in your life. Knowing about food safety means you can enjoy great meals. When you hear that people became sick because they drank the water in Mexico, you can avoid the water, drink tequila instead, and have a blast on your vacation. You'll see a lot of horror stories involving bad marriages, estrangement from their c…
/r/MensRights22/12/21 02:32 PM
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"Well, studies have shown that men do not have families, nor would they want to stay connected to loved ones if anyone ever bothered to care for them. On the other hand, taking a woman away from her family simply because she was convicted of a crime is actually a violation of the woman's rights." ---MOJ probably
/r/MensRights19/12/21 02:24 PM
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>It may be a minority of women who will falsely accuse males. We don't even know this for sure. According to RAINN's own statistics, there is only enough evidence to convict 28 out of every 1000 sexual assault cases. I'm not arguing that the other 973 are liars, only that we don't have information one way or the other what happened. There's no mechanism to effectively track when a report was exaggerated. If no one decides to prosecute, a jury will never review the evidence. So we can't actually …
/r/MensRights19/12/21 01:24 PM
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report them for sexual harassment on whatever service you are using.
/r/MensRights18/12/21 06:56 PM
14

Your mistake was using Facebook in the first place. You should fix that.
/r/MensRights17/12/21 05:41 AM
14

Sometimes I hate social media because of people like this. But I'm also grateful because it lets you see who people truly are. You showed her empathy and she showed you contempt. The worst part about this is that if she ever successfully attacks you - if she destroys your reputation or causes you to have academic consequences - you will be less likely to be empathetic to others in the future. It's shame that our society freely allows bad people have this kind of power over good people. So make s…
/r/MensRights16/12/21 04:41 PM
11

I love that your post focuses on actually helping OP rather than responding to some toxic comment. Best thing you can do about that is improve your life and live happily.
/r/MensRights15/12/21 12:44 AM
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Part of me wonders if she would have come back if she were asked to pay back-child support. It's a shame that men and women aren't held to the same standards.
/r/MensRights10/12/21 11:23 PM
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I strongly doubt that 4 Senators could overrule the other 96. This is just another example of widespread apathy for the lives of men. They're saying that if someone has to die, it should be you, not her.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/12/21 10:53 PM
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That was one of the reasons I joined the MRA subs. People will freely admit that crossing the street because I'm black is racist. But if a woman crosses the street because I'm a man, she's justified. At the end of the day, what does it matter which prejudiced excuse they use if I'll be treated like shit either way?
/r/MensRights10/12/21 01:30 PM
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why are we the assholes? Because at the end of the day, people believe what they want to believe. They look for facts to support their beliefs, not the other way around.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/12/21 12:49 PM
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If anything, it is human nature to be tempted by violence. But when a person is violent, don't blame it on their race, their religion, or their sex. Blame it on their choices. If I'm in the grocery store and I see 16 apples but only 2 oranges on the shelf, it would be insane to think that all apples are in the grocery store. But that's what we've done with crime statistics, down to the same numbers.
/r/MensRights10/12/21 12:31 PM
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I'm not sure what part you think is untrue. Whatever it is, something tells me you've missed the point. It is not OK to believe that the next black man you meet is going to rob you. That's racism. It is not OK to think that every Muslim you see is carrying a bomb. That's prejudice. It is not OK to think that every gun owner is out to kill you. That's.... just fucking stupid. ​ In the same way, it's not OK to believe that men have a problem with violence. They don't. Holding every member of a gro…
/r/MensRights10/12/21 12:27 AM
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I agree with you completely, but it's nearly impossible to track that statistically. I used FBI/DOJ statistics thinking that most people that disagree with what you expressed would not be able to argue against that data.
/r/MensRights10/12/21 12:17 AM
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yea
/r/MensRights10/12/21 12:14 AM
2

I've got a plan to make you filthy rich, but it involves you and your male friends shitting your pants in public. Are you in?
/r/MensRights09/12/21 07:56 PM
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No, you missed the point of the post. The correct way to say it is that "neither men nor women are likely to be violent". Violent criminals are rare in the United States. Applying these statistics to all members of a sex is prejudice plain and simple.
/r/MensRights09/12/21 07:28 PM
2

In all fairness, she was 14 and that was probably the issue. Not saying everyone that age is immature, but some are.
/r/MensRights07/12/21 02:10 PM
1

Looks like it only raised 1k so far. You should see if you can partner with one of the major men's organizations to fight misandry in your area.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/12/21 12:29 PM
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In my opinion, the first step is to unsubscribe from any group or person promoting this. Seeing messages like this sent to directly to my phone is absolutely going to mess with my mental health. I need to take care of myself first. Second thing is to separate from anyone you know that likes or reposts this shit. If you see it at work, report it to HR. If you're not satisfied with HR's response, here is a link to file a federal complaint. Let family and friends know that you won't allow hatred in…
/r/MensRights30/11/21 02:51 PM
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It's a form of organized harassment supported by institutionalized sexism.
/r/MensRights25/11/21 01:46 PM
5

"We know not all black men, but enough to be scared." If you see me walking towards you and you cross the street, should I feel better because you did it because I was a man and not because I was black? Either way, you judged me because of my appearance. "Not all gays but enough that they shouldn't be in the military." How is it that you can see it so easily when it comes to other groups but not when it comes to men? Do you have a problem with men? I give ONE opportunity for them to see things c…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/11/21 08:23 PM
1

We've all been there. One of my female coworkers once asked how much I made and I told her thinking nothing of it. Shit lasted for 2 years. So yeah, we all make mistakes. But if you keep doing your own thing, it will work out.
/r/MensRights01/11/21 12:43 AM
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I don't want to break Reddit rules, so I'm gonna say it like this: you need to move in a direction of your own choosing that takes you away from people with those opinions. There is absolutely no reason to speak to a feminist. Not online, not IRL. If you remove those people from your life, you will be happier. In fact, my relationships with my friends, family, and coworkers are stronger than they've ever been after I removed the toxic friends, family, and coworkers from my life. Feminists don't …
/r/MensRights30/10/21 01:48 AM
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Also, straight to jail.
/r/MensRights16/10/21 01:30 PM
2

Still?! I thought that was addressed a few years ago. Which states still do this?
/r/MensRights09/10/21 06:27 PM
4

But with inheritance, the parents earned it and gifted it to their kids. In this case, she just existed, then said "aight, ima head out" and took his money with her.
/r/MensRights07/10/21 02:17 PM
2

I just want to be treated as an equal. Not looking for either sex to have an advantage on anything. OP, where did you hear this out of curiosity?
/r/MensRights07/10/21 12:21 AM
11

Apparently, this guy protected himself with a prenup. The settlement was more generous than it had to be. They didn't want a long, drawn-out court case in Switzerland and he wanted to recognize the length of their marriage. Still insane that someone can become that wealthy simply by existing.
/r/MensRights07/10/21 12:07 AM
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Somewhere in Illinois: "The law gives '$10,000 in damages against anyone who causes an unwanted pregnancy', but it clearly wasn't unwanted. She was hoping to make $10,000." Judge: ......... case... dismissed?
/r/MensRights06/10/21 08:12 PM
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Completely right, AND this is the correct response for this situation. Assholes are gonna asshole. You can't change them. It's best to walk away and keep them from influencing you or anyone around you. If anything, OP was the asshole too - not because he said anything wrong, but because it's dumb to debate people that won't respect your opinion no matter what you say.
/r/MensRights04/10/21 11:52 PM
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Good job reaching out for help. The more you do now, the more options you will have down the road. First step is to get trained professionals involved. You should absolutely call 800.799.SAFE (7233), which is a domestic violence helpline. It would be best for them to give you step by step guidance on how to de-escalate a violent situation and what to do if/when you are unable to do so. They will also be able to link you to trained professionals in your area that can work with your family long te…
/r/MenSupportMen23/09/21 02:47 AM
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Your self-worth does not stem from dating. OP - You need to tell yourself that every morning when you wake up and every night before you sleep. If you aim for just being in a relationship, you might end up anchored to the wrong one with 22.5 years of child support payments. Look for the girl that's just as good to you as you are to her. The ones that turned you down so far did you a favor.
/r/MenSupportMen23/09/21 12:15 AM
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I'm not sure there is anything you can do about this, however, it is free to talk to a lawyer and I think you should. You should discuss whether her statements were Defamatory. Here is an article about the topic in a similar situation. If she made defamatory statements and if she continues to do so, you might be able to sue for damages. However, I wouldn't get your hopes up. Her claim here would be that she was too drunk to consent to kissing or being filmed. You would likely have to prove that …
/r/MensRights21/09/21 01:52 PM
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Do everything you can not to interact with a feminist in any way. You don't deserve to be stressed out for doing or saying the right thing.
/r/MensRights21/09/21 01:16 PM
1

That's really good! Were you able to get an appointment scheduled?
/r/MenSupportMen17/09/21 03:44 AM
1

Hey, OP, how did it go?
/r/MenSupportMen16/09/21 10:52 PM
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Per EEOC: The law protects you from retaliation (punishment) for complaining about harassment. You have a right to report harassment, participate in a harassment investigation or lawsuit, or oppose harassment, without being retaliated against for doing so. Since you have already been fired, you need to obtain a lawyer and file a complaint. You always have an option of filing a charge of discrimination with the EEOC to complain about the harassment. There are specific time limits for filing a cha…
/r/MensRights16/09/21 10:51 PM
8

I don't care what any woman does or does not do as long as it doesn't involve me. Went my own way a long time ago.
/r/AntiFeminists16/09/21 02:03 PM
4

Time will definitely make things clear. She might just need some time to sort out her feelings. If you keep your friendship it's possible it could evolve over time into something better. But if you see her flirting/dating another guy, then it's obvious that she is setting you up to be option B. Don't let anyone waste your time. You can never get that back.
/r/MenSupportMen16/09/21 01:57 PM
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good job!
/r/MenSupportMen16/09/21 01:51 PM
1

are they allowed to play for a different nation?
/r/MensRights16/09/21 12:14 PM
3

I'm sorry for what you are going through. Have you spoken to the Canadian Suicide Prevention Service today? If you are starting to feel suicidal thoughts creep in, the best thing you can do for yourself is reach out to professionals. The group here on Reddit can support you, but there are limits to how much we can impact your situation. We simply aren't equipped to meet ALL of your needs. It seems that your current mental health provider is not as responsive as you need them to be. There are oth…
/r/MenSupportMen15/09/21 10:05 PM
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What is your lawyer saying about all this? It's your attorney's job to deal with those kinds of challenges. If you aren't satisfied, you might want to explore making a change.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/09/21 01:47 PM
6

And what would stop the men from playing for a different team in a different league?
/r/MensRights15/09/21 01:09 PM
13

Still too much tbh
/r/MensRights09/09/21 06:54 PM
43

Nothing as long as you never tell anyone.
/r/MensRights08/09/21 03:19 AM
98

Wonder what it will do to the relationship when he finds out?
/r/MensRights07/09/21 11:53 PM
61

So, I guess women can go their own way. Just not the men.
/r/MensRights07/09/21 11:43 PM
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I can't imagine what would be worse: being executed in an Iranian prison or being left alive in an Iranian prison. Rape and torture must be rampant. Stay safe OP.
/r/MensRights07/09/21 11:24 PM
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That's kinda harsh isn't it? We should be able to talk about the definition of a Men's issue here in this sub. It would be one thing if his criticism was belligerent and unhelpful. But OP clearly explained his position in a way that is constructive for the group. ​ Regardless of whether the majority of us agree or not, OP was right to post this for discussion.
/r/MensRights07/09/21 08:59 PM
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Adding to that, I've been seeing posts all over the place about how Texas women should boycott dating apps 'until men learn they can't control women's bodies'. If that is OK, then why can't someone here say they'd advise men stay away from marriage until other laws are fixed? MGTOW was banned for the way it criticized women. Standing up for your own rights is not a criticism.
/r/MensRights07/09/21 08:51 PM
4

I would be scared shitless of any government that could force a woman to have an abortion. Am I understanding this meme correctly?
/r/AntiFeminists07/09/21 07:53 PM
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Right, but these tables are only showing growth and not comparing growth to income. Notice that both tables start at 100. So if income for men in 1947 was $10 and income for women was $1, even though women's income grew more they would still be paid less. Did your source compare actual incomes? ​ For me, the 'gender pay gap' is problematic because it doesn't capture pay differences for high risk or less desirable jobs. Women aren't choosing to do these jobs, so more men are risking their safety.…
/r/MensRights07/09/21 04:07 AM
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The numbers are pretty easy to look up on government websites and other reputable sources. According to the CDC, divorce rate is roughly half of marriage rate. https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/fastats/marriage-divorce.htm According to US Census data from 2016 (the most recent I was able to find) 82.5% of custody cases were awarded to the mother. https://www.census.gov/content/dam/Census/library/publications/2016/demo/P60-255.pdf According to the American Sociological Association - the largest profession…
/r/MensRights07/09/21 03:40 AM
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...without being required to notify the father. Never heard a feminist bring that up in an equal rights discussion.
/r/MensRights06/09/21 06:05 PM
4

And you can let them die or you can help them. What you can't do is kill them. ​ Edit: a word
/r/MensRights06/09/21 05:36 PM
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I was told that because I am a man, my opinion does not matter. Fine. Then don't ask for my support either. Why would I fight for the rights of a group that won't fight for me? I will ALWAYS oppose any legislation that gives a privilege to any sex, race, or sexual orientation at the cost of another. And if they figure out how to do that with abortion laws, then I will support them. The rule for us is "If you don't want a baby, don't get her pregnant." Whelp, looks like that's the rule for everyo…
/r/MensRights06/09/21 03:19 PM
7

Sperm will die on their own regardless of what you do. Again, not the same and I think you know that.
/r/MensRights06/09/21 03:12 PM
7

What did she say when you asked her which specific right she was fighting for?
/r/AntiFeminists06/09/21 12:55 PM
9

Get mad at someone else. Take it out on us. Sounds abusive to me... but I thought women didn't do that? 🤔🤔🤔
/r/AntiFeminists04/09/21 10:28 PM
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I saw this post and I said "no way this is real". Lo and behold.... My mistake was thinking there were limits to stupidity.
/r/AntiFeminists04/09/21 10:24 PM
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You have a point. There may not be a way to handle this well in a single question. It would be best for her to take her time. I think as long as she is respectful and genuine, any (good) parent would be OK with her asking questions.
/r/MensRights04/09/21 07:31 PM
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In addition to what everyone else is saying, I think the most important thing here is that you are willing to admit you made a mistake rather than trying to justify a harmful behavior. If you see the guy again, you can casually apologize for the mix-up. And in the future, you can simply decide to be better. Maybe ask gently, "excuse me, is that your daughter?... OK, sorry just checking if everything was OK." And honestly, knowing your attitude about this, I would feel safer around you than most …
/r/MensRights04/09/21 12:13 PM
13

Rep. Vicky Hartzler (R., Mo.), a House Armed Services Committee member, lampooned the prospect that millions of America’s daughters could be put needlessly in the line of fire. So we might need to put men in danger but we don't need to put women in danger? ​ "I feel confident that in an emergency that the women of this country would step up and volunteer as needed," Hartzler said. Unlikely. 83% of current military service members are male. 99% of service member deaths are male. If they aren't vo…
/r/MensRights03/09/21 08:56 PM
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No one bother replying to this. Looking at Octaroona's post history, she has been posting frequently here as well as TwoX. No matter what data or reasonable explanation you give her, she will always have another off-topic argument for why it's OK for society to be prejudiced against men. Her responses typically get toxic pretty quick. I have no problem with discussing different world views, but I do have a problem with pointless debates for someone else's amusement.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/09/21 01:16 AM
1

I did. The very next day. But it took about 6 weeks to get her out. So that was six weeks of me barricading my door every night.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/08/21 11:12 AM
3

Stay here for a bit. It's a good place to be.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/08/21 08:41 PM
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He had numerous witnesses there. If at least one of them is a friend, they will corroborate the story. Making a police complaint costs you nothing. You should do this sooner rather than later.
/r/MensRights29/08/21 08:37 PM
5

There are several instances where I would be OK raising another man's kids. The husband died. The divorce was due to abuse or a crime and she left for the kids' safety. Foster kids when the parents are too fucked up to be allowed to raise them. Sure. Not this one though. She got men in her DM's daily? Then why she making this video? Go get one of those simps. Miss me with that shit.
/r/AntiFeminists29/08/21 01:33 PM
3

She was the first ever convicted. Hope there will be more to come.
/r/MensRights28/08/21 11:54 PM
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I went through this very situation. I allowed my sister to stay with me while she was looking for an apartment. After 5 months, she hadn't paid any of the bills that she agreed. When I confronted her about it, she threatened me with a large kitchen knife. My dad's reaction: "Oh, she was probably just afraid of you." Me: "How could she be. I never yelled at her or went near her. I haven't yelled at her since I was 12." My mom's reaction: "That's just what brothers and sisters do. You don't know b…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/08/21 11:21 PM
1

Sounds like we agree. No one is arguing to shut down homeless shelters for women. We are arguing to open more homeless shelters for men since men are the vast majority of the homeless. We don't want to shut down support centers for battered women. We want to open mental health services for men, especially since suicide, depression, and abuse are prevalent problems among men. Public and volunteer services should be open to anyone that needs them. We shouldn't decide not to help someone because of…
/r/MensRights28/08/21 02:14 PM
17

There's a very simple solution for this.
/r/MensRights26/08/21 09:12 PM
4

Serious question - is there any reason for one of us to read TwoX? Whenever it comes up, I skip right over it.
/r/MensRights25/08/21 07:30 PM
2

Apparently, this is going to change very soon. Women will have to register for the draft. Last I heard, the Supreme Court was waiting on hearing a case over this issue.
/r/MensRights25/08/21 07:25 PM
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There's only so many times you can kick a dog before that dog bites back. Before you do anything else, remove the person kicking you from your life. If you don't, then you are correct, you will eventually lose control. So get away before that happens. ​ I really do hate this world and the people in it because it feels like no one cares about me or the people around me. We suffer constantly and if we ever talk about that misery, we're demonized and ostracized. If you aren't surrounded by people w…
/r/MenSupportMen25/08/21 02:03 PM
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First, you should change your mindset concerning how you view injustice. I'm assuming that you might be new here, so please forgive me if I explain something that you already understand. I’d prefer not to have to be seen as a sex object and assumed I’m stupid for my gender over having financial advantages in certain situations tbh. We call that line of reasoning the "Oppression Olympics". It's an idea that you have to suffer the most in order to receive help, so it causes multiple groups that ha…
/r/MensRights25/08/21 01:37 PM
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Hatred has no logic. They act like women don't have the right to vote.
/r/AntiFeminists21/08/21 01:09 PM
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No problem, I'll explain. The logic in the FDS post was that the man in the situation MUST have been the main culprit behind propositioning a minor for sex because a woman would not want to do something like that. I was pointing out the flaw in her reasoning by sarcastically saying that some woman are also attracted to other woman. Therefore it is possible that the woman may have been just as willing to commit a crime as the man was. Does that make sense?
/r/AntiFeminists19/08/21 12:35 PM
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Please let us know how it goes.
/r/MenSupportMen18/08/21 01:23 PM
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Thanks, that was helpful.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/08/21 01:21 PM
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Because no woman has ever been attracted to another woman? Oh ok. Now it makes sense.
/r/AntiFeminists18/08/21 01:09 PM
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In that analogy, should you close the pool down forever or should you remove the shit, ban the nasty ones, and let the 98% swim tomorrow?
/r/MensRights18/08/21 12:54 PM
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I can't tell, are you disagreeing? It starts out as if you were, but then it sounds like you are agreeing with me with different facts. I don't see any contradiction between what I said and what you cited. But, yeah, if you were just adding additional sources, then thank you!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/08/21 01:52 PM
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Personally, I wouldn't argue with your friend about this at all. Why should you be expected to care about the issues she is passionate about when she doesn't care about your well being? Shouldn't she oppose all violent crime, not just violent crime that happens to women? However, if you choose to have this out with her, arm yourself with facts: 1) Violent crime is committed against both men and women at roughly equal rates https://www.statista.com/statistics/423245/us-violent-crime-victims-by-ge…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/08/21 05:57 AM
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I'm really sorry to hear about what you're going through. I haven't been in the same situation, but I know how hopeless it feels when you realize how your past contributed to so many mistakes in previous relationships. It sounds like you were able love someone despite all of those challenges and I'm really happy for what you have accomplished. Question - do you have a professional support system that works for you? Think of it this way: What happened to you as a child fucked you up pretty bad. G…
/r/MenSupportMen15/08/21 04:29 AM
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If that is a genuine question, then I encourage you to stick around. You will see numerous laws posted here that allow women to have unjust privileges over men. I'm not going to re-write the entire sub for you but I'll give you a start: Divorce. TL;DR: Women are given numerous financial advantages during and after divorce that allow them to more easily establish a new household without the husband. According to US Census data from 2016 (the most recent I was able to find) 82.5% of custody cases …
/r/MensRights15/08/21 02:14 AM
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The argument clearly didn't work in court. His reasoning was rejected by the court. “I don’t buy that argument at all,” Messitte said from the bench. “As a matter of law, I’m not prepared to say that this is not sexual.” That's judge-speak for "shut the fuck up, dude."
/r/MensRights15/08/21 01:30 AM
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Appears the original commenter is advising OP to kidnap the children. Encouraging others to do something illegal is against Reddit Terms of Service, yes? Wonder if they will take it down.
/r/MensRights15/08/21 01:13 AM
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OP, I think a lot of people are going to reach out with offers of support. One thing I want to add is that you should reach out for professional help in addition to the efforts you make with people online. I looked through your post history to see if I could find the previous one mentioned above. Looks like you have been through many communities - r/venting, r/SuicideWatch, and others - trying to find support over the last 6 months. Despite all of the toxicity online against men today (as you ex…
/r/MenSupportMen14/08/21 11:41 PM
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It's brilliant. Joined. Also, you're gonna get banned.
/r/AntiFeminists10/08/21 04:40 AM
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Can't get conned by female dating strategy if you don't date women . *Taps forehead
/r/AntiFeminists10/08/21 04:23 AM
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Sounds like you did everything you could to end things on good terms. At the end of the day, all you can do is try to be a good person.
/r/MenSupportMen10/08/21 04:13 AM
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People who are prejudiced will hate you no matter what you do or say. They'll hate you because of the things I say. They can always justify a reason to hate you. So you might as well speak your thoughts. Tell us why you disliked the video.
/r/MensRights10/08/21 02:18 AM
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What in the fuck?! How could anyone be opposed to due process? It's a fundamental tenet of our country. They must be some hateful motherfuckers.
/r/MensRights10/08/21 02:09 AM
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"Hey Bob, would you mind identifying as a woman for a while? Otherwise, we might lose control of the company..." "Fuck it. Sure."
/r/MensRights10/08/21 01:42 AM
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Can someone ELI5 this? What happened? Who won?
/r/MensRights10/08/21 01:33 AM
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I'm sorry you went through that, OP. A totally innocent conversation with a very close friend turned into a massive falling out. Her massive overreaction to an innocent conversation is a clear sign of whatever trauma is in her past. She's displacing all of her negative emotions about that event onto you. I think a lot of people would ask you to show understanding - to be patient and give her space. I'm not going to tell you that. You don't deserve to be punished because of what someone else did …
/r/MenSupportMen07/08/21 12:37 PM
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Something similar happened to me in college (though definitely not as bad as what happened to you). I've always been sort of asexual. While I do get romantic feelings for people, it's... just different. Making a very long story short, there was a girl that had a crush on me in school, but I didn't really have an interest in her. One day, when I was walking to my next class, she saw me. She came up, shouted my name really loud, grabbed me, and kissed me on the mouth. I was pretty horrified. There…
/r/MensRights05/08/21 09:31 PM
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The most important thing I've learned is that no one has the ability to tell me who I am NOT. If I define myself as a man, then I am one. You didn't ask about race or sexual orientation, but I use the same logic for those identities as well. If someone says "All black men are X" and I don't fit that definition, that doesn't mean that my identity changes. It means the other person needs to work on the way they define black. Same here. There are some traits that are immutable, like whether you wer…
/r/MenSupportMen05/08/21 08:56 PM
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yaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay!
/r/AntiFeminists05/08/21 03:29 AM
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Damn, this is a really good idea. I could see this helping a lot of men live healthier lives.
/r/MenSupportMen05/08/21 02:20 AM
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MGTOW was re-created here. https://ruqqus.com/+MGTOW
/r/PussyPass04/08/21 05:31 PM
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Apparently MGTOW reformed on Ruqqus. I know nothing about the site as a whole but here is the link https://ruqqus.com/+MGTOW
/r/MensRights04/08/21 05:23 PM
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Fuuuuuuuuuuuuck. Just had a serious life realization. Everyone I ever loved, I was attracted by how they interacted with other people. Everyone that has ever loved me were people that I do a lot for. Damn.
/r/MGTOW30/07/21 03:16 PM
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Well said. Why are so many MGTOW posts about women? I literally came here to go my own fucking way. Hope I start seeing more comments like yours. Want to see men enjoying their life, not outrage against women.
/r/MGTOW28/07/21 10:54 AM
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I personally can go without sex for long periods of time and still be satisfied with my life. For others, that would be miserable. I can see how prostitution could be a better alternative than a relationship if that's what they want to do.
/r/MGTOW25/07/21 08:36 PM
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Same, but I wonder if its because I stopped reading a lot of subs when I started MGTOW.
/r/MGTOW20/07/21 01:41 PM
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Died laughing from the title alone. Have an upvote.
/r/MGTOW18/07/21 05:46 AM
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Why waste your time thinking about what any woman has or does not have? I personally stopped giving a shit a while ago. Just live your own life.
/r/MGTOW17/07/21 07:24 PM
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Most expensive prostitute in recorded history.
/r/MGTOW14/07/21 02:46 AM
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Fair enough, man, I can respect that. Just be careful out there. Even if MGTOW is not for you, you are taking quite a big risk in the way you are interacting with these clearly traumatized women. You seem like a well-intentioned guy so I hate to see you caught up in their damage. Make sure you take care of yourself.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/07/21 04:36 AM
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When someone has made up their mind - especially someone that is prejudiced - you will not be able to change it with a reasonable argument. Stop trying. If a person denies the existence of the sun every night, their certainty in their belief doesn't make their opinion valid. They are wrong and there is no need to gain the acknowledgement of an idiot. Definition of Rape from Merriam Webster: 1: unlawful sexual activity and usually sexual intercourse carried out forcibly or under threat of injury …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/07/21 08:55 PM
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Does anyone have any infor on this case? When ? Where? This is horrendous.
/r/MGTOW01/07/21 08:24 PM
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That is the point we are arguing. The judge shouldn't make that decision before the questions are asked. When applicable, a judge shouldn't make that decision at all. A jury should.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/06/21 07:43 PM
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"If the jury had less information, they would be more likely to convict" is a terrible rationale for a law. Here is a clear cut example: Let's say that it is common for you and your girlfriend to have sex in the morning. Sometimes you wake her up, sometimes she wakes you up, but both of you do it and both of you have always been fine with it in the past. Neither of you explicitly ask for consent, but the fact that both of you do it to each other implies acquiescence. However, let's say one night…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/06/21 07:40 PM
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Must say, I really enjoy not getting shot at. Can you imagine if all of the global superpowers went to war with the technology we have today? Between chemical weapons, nukes, and biological weapons, no one would get a chance to "act like a man".
/r/MGTOW27/06/21 05:14 PM
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She looks like Angela from the office, who was also a hoe.
/r/MGTOW27/06/21 11:11 AM
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I think I might have accidentally red pilled one of my friends today. He asked why I wasn't interested in seeing anyone and I said that dating is basically insulting. "You pay for her food, you buy tickets, you drive and all she gives you is her company. If she was really interested in you, wouldn't she take you out and pay sometimes? That ever happen to you?" He got quiet for a sec and then goes "that's a good point". I think most people put up with women because our culture trains us not to as…
/r/MGTOW26/06/21 10:04 PM
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Has anyone else read the bill? It sounds absolutely awful. From what I can tell, you basically can't ask about past sexual relationships of the accuser - even if it is a relationship with the accused. Connecting with the article, if the accused person reasonably believed they had consent due to past interactions, this would not be admissable as evidence. Don't get me wrong, I don't think someone automatically gives consent just because they had sex in the past. But refusing to let the jury even …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/06/21 09:26 PM
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Wish you the best, man. Stay strong, stay happy. Also, I agree that true MGTOW is not about hate at all. I think it's about being careful about who you let in your life and limiting (if needed) the influence that person has. I personally have very strong ties with my family (mostly women) and friends (few women, mostly men). But I am careful in how I interact with them. I think r/MGTOW has taught me awareness, not hatred. But if being here is making you start to feel hatred, then I think leaving…
/r/MGTOW26/06/21 03:49 PM
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u/a-man-from-earth, you're right. Sorry about that. I'll dial it back. Hope this complies with the rules, but if not, feel free to remove and I won't comment on the thread again. u/MelissaMiranti, You have no right calling the men on that sub cowards. I'll bet many of them have suffered 10 times more than you've ever experienced. If they decide to just mind their own business and live their own lives, they don't need you judging how they live. That's why I start to lose my temper when I see yet …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/06/21 03:24 PM
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Congrats man. Just keep being a great father to your kids. Ignore all the other bullshit.
/r/MGTOW26/06/21 11:13 AM
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Melissa, you seem so confident about a group that you are not a part of. You are insisting MGTOW is about segregation despite someone from MGTOW literally talking to you right now. Maybe you should be open to the possibility that the group is more complex than you think? Many of us in MGTOW - including myself - have been on the receiving end of abusive/manipulative relationships with women. Rather than trying to repair those relationships, MGTOW encourages men to simply go their own way. There a…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/06/21 11:10 PM
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Well, segregate is a strong word. I would call it awareness and precaution. You should be aware of how certain aspects of our legal system, our society, and our culture allow women to take advantage of men. You should actively work to avoid it. If/when you find yourself in an unequal relationship, don't demean yourself by accepting it. Just go your own way.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/06/21 03:44 AM
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I'll be honest, I couldn't get through a single paragraph of that feminist bullshit without my eyes glazing over. Not sure how you read all that and still have your sanity. Ever since I started an r/MGTOW lifestyle, I've been so much happier. Can't recommend it enough. You might like it better than trying to diagnose whatever sickness this person suffers from.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/06/21 09:56 PM
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I could see it both ways, actually. But however we define rape, we need to keep it consistent. Is it the sober person's responsibility to recognize when a person is unable to consent? Fine. Is it every individual's personal responsibility to protect themselves by not being overly intoxicated? Are they solely responsible for every drunken decision due to their lack of self control? (ie drinking and driving) This is fine too. But what we can't do is change the law depending on which American citiz…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/06/21 12:59 AM
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Dating women 15 years younger is not going your own way. Wrong sub.
/r/MGTOW15/06/21 11:34 AM
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I just joined not too long ago and I found it by following a link in the comments of another sub. I was suspicious of the reason why MGTOW was quarantined at first. Then I thought it was unfair that this sub was quarantined while subs like Female Dating Strategy aren't. But now... idk. What I really wanted was to be left the fuck alone. So, actually, the quarantine is kind of nice.
/r/MGTOW11/06/21 06:31 AM
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No thanks. Not into incest porn or furries.
/r/MGTOW11/06/21 12:08 AM
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Legal system needs to be changed so this can't happen in the first place.
/r/MGTOW11/06/21 12:05 AM
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I don't think it's fair or even accurate to blame conservatives. Liberals have quite a lot of blame too. I think the larger issue is our fucked up culture that treats men like trash.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/06/21 11:17 AM
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Dumb question from someone that just joined the sub: is this related to men going their own way or is this just a random meme?
/r/MGTOW05/06/21 10:36 AM
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Looks like I'm posting the unpopular opinion. MGTOW =/= alone. Going your own way means that you are aware of the social, cultural, and legal traps that allow women to make your life a living hell. But you can actively avoid these pitfalls if you simply practice caution. I'm still figuring things out, but so far I have avoided having children and I'm not pursuing marriage or any relationship. No chance that a women would live off of my child support or alimony. I did, however, make an exception …
/r/MGTOW02/06/21 01:36 AM
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Was an interesting video. Why was this marked NSFW?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/05/21 09:37 PM
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Nuanced discussion is always appreciated here. That's what makes this sub different from r/feminism - mods won't silence you for reasonable disagreement.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/05/21 01:21 PM
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I see what you are saying, but I'm not sure I agree that this belongs on a Male Advocacy sub. Roe v Wade provides zero rights to men in an issue that obviously effects men as well. Quick technical point - Roe v Wade did not grant women the right to an abortion, but rather prevented the government from interfering in a private decision between a woman and her doctor. This right of privacy, whether it be founded in the Fourteenth Amendment's concept of personal liberty and restrictions upon state …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/05/21 03:09 AM
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I'm 100% certain that when the legislation is actually written, there will be provisions that benefit only women. It would be in line with everything he has supported so far. That being said, I'm not necessarily opposed. Biden's policies are aimed to benefit women more than men (as OP mentioned) but men do still benefit. America is a place where you can overcome a disadvantage if you develop your own knowledge, character, and skills.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/05/21 03:47 AM
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Everything - no. But this should have. One of the points that I really liked from the video was when he talked about men trying solutions that don't work. They think it works for others and so they get depressed because they think it's them. It's a perfect example of why women should be discussed because they actively contribute to toxic dating culture. Saying that men can fix it by changing themselves is both fallacious and harmful. A better discussion would have been to suggest positive charac…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/05/21 02:03 AM
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I could only do the first 30 mins so far. Not sure I'm going to listen to the rest though because I was pretty disappointed. TL;DR: He frames dating challenges as a male only issue when he should have discussed how both men AND women could change our culture. He did an amazing job in the first 5 mins accurately identifying challenges that men face when it comes to dating and demonstrating how even those that overcome those challenges could end up feeling empty/depressed. He highlighted poor advi…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/04/21 11:32 AM
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Adding to this- you shouldn't allow anyone to treat you like a category. We've already agreed as a society that it is not OK to follow me through a store because I am black. Black =/= criminal. Why should should anyone believe that you are more violent because you are a man? Your therapist feels that her prejudice is justified, but you need to let her know that it is inappropriate to treat anyone differently due to their race, sex, gender, religion, orientation or any other identity.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/04/21 06:54 PM
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