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Yeah that also works. Just don't worry too muvh
/r/seduction24/07/26 02:51 AM
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It's pretty easy, you just say exactly what you wrote here to the therapist. They will not judge you(Unless they are a shitty one) so you can talk freely whatever you want.
/r/seduction24/07/26 02:40 AM
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The thing is, these inner game type of things aren' really easy to learn or change. It comes from experience and constant learning. The best way is to find your most comfortable self. Girls only will like you if you are comfortable and easy going around them. So work one that. Maybe try therapy if it is too hard.
/r/seduction24/07/26 02:31 AM
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No I don't even look for sex. I try to setup dates first and they always fiddle out later. But good for you finding the girl by this. I guess it is meant for someone else just not me. I'm just so tired of this shit.
/r/seduction20/07/26 10:49 AM
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I tried like approaching girls who would give multiple eye contacts but got rejected instantly lol. Maybe I'm so bad at this but also didn't really learned that much in that year
/r/seduction20/07/26 10:40 AM
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I feel like it is the opposite, cold approach gives you short term quick success but never the long term. But yeah I agree you can have fun with real eye opening women but that's it really... Just short term fling.
/r/seduction20/07/26 10:39 AM
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I mean that is basically the game no? Moving on to targets that actually works is the first gate to the game I think.
/r/seduction13/07/26 06:51 AM
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Nah I'm now in my home country(Asia). I go for all people doesn't matter with race(Maybe less to black girls tho). I do have an anxious, resting bitch face sometimes but it is hard to control this unless I'm kinda drunk... So I tend to try to get drunk.
/r/seduction03/07/26 02:35 AM
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No, Asia
/r/seduction30/06/26 01:10 AM
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Thanks. How much engagement do you recommend per session?
/r/seduction29/06/26 10:57 AM
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What opener do you recommend then?
/r/seduction29/06/26 10:00 AM
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Me? What does that mean?
/r/seduction29/06/26 07:20 AM
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Not always but with similar variants... like "You caught my eyes and I had to come from that table" or something
/r/seduction29/06/26 07:06 AM
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Damn thanks for the really detailed comment. I needed one. Thank you. I'll defo have to try more this weekend 🫡
/r/seduction29/06/26 06:59 AM
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Bruh I've already been told that I escalate too quickly on the first date so that's why I calibrated down a bit. I dunno why this sub always tell things so opposite like this.
/r/seduction23/02/25 03:00 AM
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Okay thanks
/r/seduction23/02/25 02:45 AM
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I go for a cafe which is a bit spacious and bright to get to know each other well. I try to talk about basics first like their hobbies, life, goals, etc. Then I try to introduce some emotionally investing questions like their best or worst time of their life, how was the dating life, what do you try to find in your future partner, etc. Then I move on to a quiet and very romantic bars and sit on the corner so that I can engage some touch more easily. I now talk about more emotional topics while I…
/r/seduction23/02/25 02:21 AM
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I did structure logistics properly. Like setup lite introductory cafe, then spicing things up at a quiet bars, go for a walk then sit on a bench side by side etc. I admit I wasn't flirting enough in the past, but yesterday I did flirt and escalate a bit but she all soflty rejected with some weird reasons. So I still am clueless
/r/seduction23/02/25 02:13 AM
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I would say mostly online. Like 90%
/r/seduction23/02/25 02:05 AM
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What does this mean?
/r/seduction09/02/25 09:40 AM
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Gotcha thanks
/r/seduction09/02/25 09:40 AM
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Fuck around and find out(literally)
/r/seduction08/02/25 01:57 PM
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But like what to do after a date or two? How do you text?
/r/seduction05/02/25 04:20 AM
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Rule of office romance is just don't. Unless you already know you two have chemistry or she's flashing her tits secretly to you.
/r/seduction31/01/25 09:19 AM
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S.K
/r/seduction29/01/25 04:25 PM
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I dunno, sometimes even when you're going crazy in the club, you still need to hit them on and it is not easy to succeed. I also see some low energy dudes just getting girls without being high energy and shit.
/r/seduction29/01/25 04:25 PM
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Day game is almost impossible cos I live in Eastern Asia where talking to stranger while sober is deemed barbaric. But yeah, it takes ages to get laid
/r/seduction29/01/25 04:12 PM
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That's a good input I think. Need to be more assertive and genuine.
/r/seduction16/11/24 03:19 PM
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It's weird cos I felt like the convo was very smooth and she also said like she enjoys talking with me in the middle of a convo which I rarely hear from a date. Maybe trying to hold her hands was something that she didn't like?
/r/seduction16/11/24 03:15 PM
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True that
/r/seduction16/11/24 02:38 PM
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I might at this point
/r/seduction16/11/24 02:28 PM
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Very helpful thanks
/r/seduction16/11/24 02:28 PM
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Where would you recommend? Also I live in Asia so cafe date here is very common
/r/seduction16/11/24 12:50 PM
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They mostly say like oh it's a 7~8 and they will never say the truth. Which is why I'm trying to figure things out if ppl here know more better
/r/seduction16/11/24 12:46 PM
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Yeah it's just frustrating cos I don't know what the reason they thought I was not the fit. I got hit with this so much time and I don't know what I have to do to improve more
/r/seduction16/11/24 12:36 PM
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I try not to talk much in the text and I tell them I might come off shy but I do try to talk more and they seemed surprised that I talk more than expected.
/r/seduction16/11/24 12:35 PM
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Maybe wrong word, still getting unsuccessful after a single date which I find like there is a problem
/r/seduction16/11/24 12:23 PM
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Most of the likes aren't gonna be converted to matches anyways cos girls aren't gonna be swiping a bunch of guys to start with. Even with in those hundreds of matches, most of them just text boring shit like "Hi", "How are you", "I want sex", etc. Just be cool and smart then you'll be at top of her match lists in no time.
/r/seduction10/11/24 11:26 AM
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I didn't pay any actually only for me.
/r/seduction08/11/24 10:37 AM
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Like when I go for a hug and go close, they will come towards me too and kinda fling their arm up.
/r/seduction07/11/24 03:46 AM
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Damn guys, thanks for all the input. I could summarize it into: Be more flirty and escalate starting from first date Share my story while actively listening
/r/seduction06/11/24 03:47 AM
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I don't know, I've been doing cold approach for months but dating apps were way more successful. If you are like me and want serious relationship, dating app is better. But if you just want instant fun, cold approach is defo better. It's more faster than dating apps I can imagine.
/r/seduction12/10/24 01:22 PM
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Nah like cut it to 1/4th. Waaay to long
/r/seduction11/10/24 06:10 AM
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Thanks. concrete plan before getting a number does sound logical.
/r/seduction24/07/24 01:06 PM
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Not gonna lie, I was drunk that night and almost blacked out. Next morning I realized I sent her a "Good night and text me when you're free" with some goofy emoji. I think I fucked that part up.
/r/seduction24/07/24 01:06 PM
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Thanks. Lesson learned moving on to the next one.
/r/seduction24/07/24 12:24 PM
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Thanks.. I'll try to not do that for sure.
/r/seduction24/07/24 11:16 AM
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