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Thanks for being helpful dick
/r/seduction24/12/19 01:46 AM
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I like this a lot actually
/r/seduction24/10/19 04:12 AM
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This
/r/seduction23/08/19 03:20 AM
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Have you had this work for you personally?
/r/seduction10/08/19 02:31 PM
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Well I don’t like lying either which is why I told her the truth
/r/seduction10/08/19 02:13 PM
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Well like I said I’m not expecting to date an 18 year old in a serious relationship for years. I’m just looking to hookup and have some fun.
/r/seduction10/08/19 02:12 PM
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Lol why not?
/r/seduction10/08/19 02:05 PM
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Well in the future I suppose I could go with that, I'm not a huge fan of lying to a girl but I'm also not looking get into a serious relationship or anything either.
/r/seduction10/08/19 12:54 PM
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Do you mean like I should have said yes when she asked if I was 26?
/r/seduction10/08/19 12:49 PM
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No reply, and thanks bud. I know I over think things sometimes but I just want to eliminate as many little mistakes as possible in my game ya know?
/r/seduction09/08/19 08:45 PM
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I guess in the future I’ll refrain from using cutie or other similar names unless I know for sure the girl is ok with it otherwise you never know how they could receive that. And yeah I should not drum up small talk just for the sake of it. I can see how it seems ‘manufactured’ as opposed to organic. I guess for me when I talk to someone, not just girls, I am genuinely interested, I tend to be a pretty good listener. But for now at least until I’ve hung out with her a few times I should not real…
/r/seduction09/08/19 06:19 PM
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I didn’t down vote it
/r/seduction09/08/19 01:04 PM
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For sure that’s pretty solid advice. Can I ask an example or two of a meme or something you talk about beforehand like you were saying? Thank you sir
/r/seduction09/08/19 11:16 AM
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For Saturday what I was going to say was “Hey (name), I work until 4 so I should be able to make it to the beach by 5:30. See you then!” This way I am assuming we are still on instead of asking if we are
/r/seduction09/08/19 11:08 AM
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Well we were planning for during this week but our schedules could only allow Saturday at the earliest
/r/seduction09/08/19 11:05 AM
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So do you think I fucked up the date? She didn’t respond so that’s not a good sign. I remember her saying Thursday was a busy day for her but still...
/r/seduction09/08/19 06:34 AM
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The last girl I dated we texted every day for like 2 weeks before our actual first date so I mean I dunno Doesn’t she kind of forget about you if you don’t talk for a while? I get what you’re saying but it seems like there needs to be some sort of middle ground or else things go cold
/r/seduction09/08/19 06:20 AM
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But why though? I don’t understand what was so bad about asking how her day was?
/r/seduction09/08/19 06:13 AM
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Thanks for the response, the first night we started texting I remember saying good night cutie and she responded with a blushing emoji so there is precedence that she has responded positively before which is why I figured it would be ok to use it again. I know on Monday she said Thursday she was busy with something so it could very well be the case she was simply busy today
/r/seduction09/08/19 04:04 AM
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Thanks for the advice vibez. Yeah I'll try setting up the date when we're about to part ways.
/r/seduction05/05/18 08:08 PM
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Update: She said sorry I thought I responded last night but I'm free Sunday. So I said let's get that coffee and she said yes with a smiley face. Either way I'll still handle it better next time. Instead of trying to reschedule that same night maybe wait till the next day, make a little small talk and then say 'let's go here on this night'
/r/seduction19/04/18 05:05 PM
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That’s good I like that. How about after the first date. Is this the best way to propose a second date? Like instead of asking wanna hang out again sometime? Just assume she wants to and throw and day and time out there?
/r/seduction19/04/18 03:14 PM
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I haven't met her before by the way, she is from the Coffee Meets Bagel Dating App
/r/seduction19/04/18 01:56 PM
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Yeah this sounds pretty good...thanks for the response!
/r/seduction16/03/18 02:55 PM
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Haha no it's all good I really appreciate hearing from a woman's perspective. This is what I was thinking would be best anyway. I had a date last week with a girl that really seemed to like me but I think me trying to setup another date too immediately may have messed things because she ended up making plans with another guy this week instead.
/r/seduction16/03/18 02:53 PM
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Good for you man. I’ve heard girls say many times I made their day even if they are unavailable so I always keep that in mind when I go to approach. Keep it up!
/r/seduction12/12/17 04:04 AM
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Actually the very first day we started texting she ghosted. Then a few days later I was like 'hey what's up' with no response. And then she eventually explained she wasn't feeling well but thought I was cute and then we continued talking. So she has set this precedence before. Have you had this similar kind of situation happen to you?
/r/seduction04/12/17 05:45 AM
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Use the line from Pulp Fiction about awkward silences when Uma and Travolta are on the date haha. I don't like them either but I am pretty good at preventing them. However if I feel like I have been asking too many questions or driving convo too much I'll pull back a little and put the pressure on her to reciprocate.
/r/seduction01/12/17 06:00 PM
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I know man this is such a mindfuck and I can't stop thinking about it. When she said don't get weird on me I could've said 'same goes for you' but I think I didn't say anything. All the texts I sent prior I made sure to look over and assess. In that moment when I sent those I didn't think them over like usual, I just did it spontaneously. But of course that's the time when it appears to fuck things up. Yeah I thought sending the text about her surgery going well would come off as good which is w…
/r/seduction01/12/17 05:24 AM
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Yeah I've been trying not to beat myself up but it's hard not to. Maybe I did make a mistake but it was a small one, wasn't expecting her to dismiss that whole night of fun because of it. Now whenever I text a girl I'll be over-analyzing and making sure my words are short and concise. It def could be the surgery and has nothing to do with me. Thanks for the reply bro
/r/seduction01/12/17 04:39 AM
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I totally understand what you mean man. Jealousy is the most painful emotion I experience and it ruins my mood if I feel totally unwanted and girls are drawn to other guys. It just makes you feel inferior, unworthy or undesirable. It really sucks. Girls can just somehow intuitively feel if you have any neediness inside you. The less you have the more they are drawn to you. When I am in a great mood I can genuinely not care if a girl likes me or not which of course helps me get them more easily. …
/r/seduction29/10/16 10:06 PM
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I was thinking the same about you ;)
/r/seduction11/09/16 02:00 PM
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There's a difference between narcissism and just plain feeling good about yourself and believing you're a high quality guy. But if that other way of thinking works better for you that's cool too. It's a very healthy one in fact :)
/r/seduction10/09/16 04:48 PM
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Honestly I haven't read it but I've heard nothing but good things about it. I'm probably gonna check it out here soon myself. My buddy refers to it as 'the last pickup book you'll ever need'.
/r/seduction08/09/16 10:05 PM
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You should check out the book Models by Mark Manson
/r/seduction08/09/16 12:33 PM
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Oh oops I misread that, my bad
/r/seduction06/09/16 08:10 PM
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Having a deeper voice is considered 'sexy' to women. I would look up exercises to help develop your voice. I think it can help with your confidence.
/r/seduction06/09/16 08:08 PM
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If she gave you her number, texts you back, waits for you after class and goes out of her way to acknowledge you why do you think she's not attracted to you?
/r/seduction06/09/16 07:51 PM
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I just went out to the bars at night and yeah just forced myself to do it. I would do some warm up sets and make very brief conversation with girls and then eventually have longer ones. It feels awkward at first but its just like jumping in a pool. It becomes much more easy and comfortable.
/r/seduction06/09/16 07:48 PM
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Sounds pretty good to me
/r/seduction02/09/16 08:51 PM
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When a girl shows interest it really makes it a lot easier for a guy to try and make something happen because she has essentially given him the 'green light'
/r/seduction02/09/16 07:04 PM
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I still have yet to read this book but I keep hearing great things about it.
/r/seduction02/09/16 06:52 PM
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/r/seduction02/09/16 06:50 PM
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I would have approached way more girls and been way more aggressive
/r/seduction02/09/16 06:46 PM
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Always get her number so you can text her. Don't rely on her advancing the interaction.
/r/seduction02/09/16 06:23 PM
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Because you're trying to attain inner fulfillment by acquiring outer things. That which fulfills you is already inside you, not 'out there'. Start meditating daily and it will help you feel more content :)
/r/seduction02/09/16 06:20 PM
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If it works keep using it
/r/seduction02/09/16 06:17 PM
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Hmm interesting, I'll try that
/r/seduction02/09/16 06:15 PM
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I've been making my own. I bought some essential oils. I mix them in a small bottle with water and they smell real good are not made with harmful toxic ingredients.
/r/seduction02/09/16 06:13 PM
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I would start lifting, it will not only improve your looks but building muscle increases your testosterone which makes you feel more masculine
/r/seduction02/09/16 06:12 PM
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/r/seduction02/09/16 06:10 PM
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Start meditating daily. Also google 'Gyan Mudra' it's a simple and effective way to induce deep relaxation
/r/seduction02/09/16 06:09 PM
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Took the words right out of my mouth and I was even gonna suggest Mark Manson
/r/seduction02/09/16 06:07 PM
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There's no need to start taking medications, they are not good for you.
/r/seduction02/09/16 06:04 PM
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I always smile during my interactions and give myself a reminder to talk and act slowly before I start talking to her.
/r/seduction02/09/16 06:03 PM
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Strong eye contact is important but yeah I would break it occasionally so as not to creep her out. She maybe looking away a lot because she's nervous.
/r/seduction02/09/16 01:54 AM
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http://www.gifkings.com/2011/07/just-head-for-lights-brian.html Go for it man don't be shy. You don't need to talk with a girl to have sex with her. The other week I was gonna take a girl out and she just told me to come over instead. I know it's a little weird not getting to know her a little bit but learn to be a sexual badass.
/r/seduction01/09/16 02:37 AM
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This is interesting. I need to work on my eye contact too. I guess I am too concerned about creeping girls out. If some are then so be it but this is crucial to being more successful with girls.
/r/seduction01/09/16 02:21 AM
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Hey do you know my friend so and so? Oh you don't? I thought you did. You look so familiar. Where did you go to school? Use something like that as a jumping off point to get a convo going.
/r/seduction01/09/16 02:11 AM
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I see that as just an introductory text that doesn't necessarily require a response. I've had girls not respond to that text but respond to my follow up. Girls get nervous too so if she's staring give her the benefit of the doubt and just advancing the interaction. Playing games accomplishes nothing. Just talk to her next time you see her at the gym.
/r/seduction01/09/16 02:09 AM
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If she smiles a lot, twirls her hair, touches your arm or other body part, laughs at things you say that aren't that funny, she's generating conversation. Mostly though you can just 'feel' if there's electricity between the 2 of you or not.
/r/seduction01/09/16 02:06 AM
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I think you can do it if you're more 'advanced'. When you have a good grasp of social dynamics you'll be able to tell if she's into you or just into the convo. So if you're not doing well with it I would stray away from it until you really feel confident in what you're doing.
/r/seduction01/09/16 02:03 AM
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Check out the book Models by Mark Manson. It is a very good book on how to get good with girls. And yes simply start approaching girls and learn as you go. OK, you should do the newbie mission. Go to a mall or crowded place and whenever a woman walks by all you do is say hi, make eye contact, smile and that's it. You don't have to say anything more than that. This will get you comfortable approaching and talking to random strangers. It'll feel a little weird at first but you get used to it.
/r/seduction01/09/16 01:52 AM
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