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| 3 | What to say when asked if you are seeing other women.Thanks for the chuckle, using that soon | /r/askTRP | 06/05/16 12:44 AM |
| 1 | About to graduate college with a horrible GPA and a useless major, any advice and ideas on turning my life around so I am not broke as an adult?I didn't mean you're gonna be an investment banker, just any entry level shit job to poke your head into that world. Somewhere you can pay your dues and show everyone you have potential etc. It didn't want to include this in my post, but I very much relate to you. 3 years ago, my GPA was 0.6/4. I was miraculously able to transfer schools though (and once you transfer, you start with a fresh GPA in the new school). I graduated recently with 2.8 (I was still slacking off), but once I graduated I r… | /r/askTRP | 19/04/16 09:18 PM |
| 1 | About to graduate college with a horrible GPA and a useless major, any advice and ideas on turning my life around so I am not broke as an adult?Take the lab tech job first to pay the bills. Order your interests, any interests, in profitability/dislike ratio. So if you're remotely interested in tech or finance, that'll be the top choice. If you don't have interests, make sure to stay busy exploring and eventually something will click. Once you find it, learn it through the plethora of online courses (lynda.com is now included with linkedin premium). Truly grind. That's your 5 to 9 job, your more important job, your future. Within a coupl… | /r/askTRP | 19/04/16 04:24 AM |
| 5 | Moving to NYC: Need RP adviceNeighborhood is completely up to your budget and preferences, each area has its pros and cons as you can see from the other comments. Finding an apartment is a bit of a struggle, the earlier you look before your move-in date the better. Be prepared with first month's rent + security deposit (equal to one month rent) and sometimes even last month's rent. So worst case, you'll pay 3x one month rent before move-in. Buy the monthly subway card, I barely ever need to take a cab. I suggest you get ver… | /r/askTRP | 28/03/16 06:20 AM |
| 2 | How do you come to terms with that some things you always wanted (i.e children and such) simply aren't feasible and worth the risk?This'll probably get downvoted to eternity by the TRP noobs, but I'd love to hear the TRP gurus' opinions and stories. TRP is mostly based off American women. AWALT, of course, but not all girls of the world's n-number is in the double digits by the time they're 19. So if building a family/children is something you need to do at some point in your life (as I will as well), just be extremely mindful of the red flags to minimize the risk. There will still be risk. You'll have a better time if you … | /r/askTRP | 23/03/16 12:54 PM |
| 1 | How to quit video games?That list is the basis of all addiction, absolutely golden! Where did you read this or did you compile it?! | /r/askTRP | 16/03/16 04:50 PM |
| 4 | I think my brain shit tested me and I failedThat's the past, man...you're defining yourself by who you were in the past. If each of us did that, we'd never be able to break out of it. Instead, accept the fact that it's natural that your brain was artificially morphed into this by all the blue-pillness in the world, it is overwhelming after all. But because you're an alpha motherfucker on the inside that just needs a little polishing, you're capitalizing on TRP now to do exactly that: polish. When I was overcoming my porn addiction, I got … | /r/askTRP | 12/03/16 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Fell of the wagon. Hard.Great reply, I would just add to be the best you can be. Don't focus on what others are doing or not doing, they're dealt different cards than you, just focus on maximizing yourself. I wrote a post about discipline, the dirty secret of success through discipline is that it breeds more discipline so more success and so on until you realize how much you're actually achieving. | /r/askTRP | 04/03/16 02:34 PM |
| 3 | What Three Habits have benefited your life the most?1) Changing from exclusively lifting to various sports I enjoy: Getting your body used to moving in as many different ways as possible 2) Sleeping right 3) PornFree/NoFap awareness | /r/askTRP | 01/03/16 11:41 AM |
| 2 | How badly can posture affect your lifts?Look up buttwink, don't hit "super low depth", hit as much depth as possible without getting buttwink. | /r/askTRP | 25/02/16 06:04 PM |
| 3 | Any good real social dynamics channels besides rsdfreetour?CharismaOnCommand, not particularly redpill but very insightful. | /r/askTRP | 25/02/16 04:20 PM |
| 5 | Tune-up Tuesday: What is your #1 issue you need help with the most?I've been there, man. The logic for me was, I'd rather be proud I have these girls attracted to me from afar than risk escalating and getting rejected in the hopes of getting laid. I put the social status of looking like a chick magnet above my personal pleasure of getting laid. See the problem? Let it all go, every bit of you that cares what other people think. Your confidence should come from nothing but that you are who you are and being proud of every thought that crosses your mind, because … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/16 05:48 PM |
| 1 | How do I become a beta?Say you've stopped doing any work and just been ordering chinese locked up in your room the past couple of days reading up about this HeForShe feminist movement going around and you agree with EVERYTHING there. You appreciate her, like, SO much more now and you can't look at any other girl but her. Feminism has become your new bible and you're gonna be making some serious changes from now on (improvise). The more beta changes you show her friends, embarrassing her in the process, the faster she'… | /r/askTRP | 04/02/16 11:27 PM |
| 2 | Use less words.It's not as easy as it looks, so here's the trick that worked for me: Talk slower. If you focus on talking slower, your brain won't just ramble on forever, it'll be forced to summarize more, and it'll have more time to do so than you think. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/16 01:43 PM |
| 1 | What would you do if you were 18 again?Take lifting slowly and carefully, never kid around, listen to your body so you avoid injuries like the plague. Many injuries that aren't permanent leave you with the vulnerability to get the same injury again as opposed to someone who was never injured. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/15 04:34 PM |
| 4 | What is the best way to initiate a conversation if the person is wearing headphones?Came here to say exactly this, motion to her to take her headphones out and ask what she's listening to or "you seem to be enjoying this way too much, I'm curious etc." | /r/askTRP | 06/12/15 05:36 PM |
| 2 | Text game -- How many of you simply DON'T text besides to make plans?Nope, why would you degrade your majestic real-life charisma to simple text among the simple texts of the 200 other beta chumps texting her also. Like you said, ignore any text that's not a question, one-word pointless questions, and only engage when logistics are in question. I only text girls beyond that before a first date, like Tinder or if she was daygamed but needs some warming up before going out, I'll send some 5-6 sentences just to get her talking then I'll proceed like normal, never co… | /r/askTRP | 06/12/15 02:16 AM |
| 1 | What has been effective for you to learn charisma?Meditation helps with Presence, makes your movements slower but your mind faster somehow, it's just one of these things that magically works behind the scenes but I can't put my hands on it. Also, this might sound basic, but I had some difficulty at first separating charisma with guys and girls. You know how girls work obi. Acting aloof with guys though won't get you anywhere, it's more about an exchange of interest and respect. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/15 06:23 AM |
| 1 | How do deal with emotional burden?Talk to a male buddy, talk to family who can relate, write a letter that will never be sent. Maybe see a therapist if it gets too bad. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/15 10:27 PM |
| 5 | Why is being "big and beefy" more the goal at TRP then being "toned and lean"?Size and strength will get you guys' respect and fear, lean muscle will get you girls' vaginal waterfalls. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/15 03:42 AM |
| 2 | Quick question regarding liftingJust take the week off, focus on eating and sleeping right, don't do too much alcohol and drugs and you should be even stronger when you get back. I've learned it isn't worth it working out on vacation, I never miss a day in my normal schedule so I can afford a week or two a year. Just as long as it's extra recovery, not extra destruction like a crazy weekend with long nights and drugs. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/15 03:25 AM |
| 8 | Heuristics and youYour post drives home an important lesson, don't override your intuition, learn from your mistakes. We need this to be clear since the politically correct realm considers this racist, sexist, etc. I would only add two points that could be easily overlooked: 1) Make sure your intuition is basing its decision on your own experiences and not the general public's. If society feeds you "this race is blabla" but you've never experienced that first-hand, that's not your intuition speaking. 2) Do not sh… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/15 05:25 PM |
| 1 | I have multiple interpretations about a negligible situation, how do I know which one is correct?Your awesome analysis efforts will be much more fruitful elsewhere, yes. | /r/askTRP | 01/11/15 08:59 PM |
| 1 | I have multiple interpretations about a negligible situation, how do I know which one is correct?I personally have pretty strict rules when it comes to coworkers so this may be a bit harsh. You got really drunk, mistake, stay in control. You got really drunk at a coworker's party, mistake, stay in control around people whom your livelihood depends on. Offering to go pick up your stuff from her, mistake, being both alone in her apartment could be easily interpreted as a sexual advance, depending on whatever the fuck happened when you were drunk, if signals were exchanged or interpretations y… | /r/askTRP | 01/11/15 08:30 PM |
| 1 | The fallibility with RSD Aka Real Social Dynamics.I see your point, it verges on the don't shit where you eat concept. | /r/askTRP | 30/10/15 03:04 AM |
| 3 | The fallibility with RSD Aka Real Social Dynamics.That's a very poisonous mentality, that you wouldn't want to meet the girl after approaching and getting rejected. Dig deep and ask yourself why you'll be ashamed to meet her again. Just like a salesman doesn't give a shit if you pass on their product, 'cause it's just not for you, it's for a ton of others who will buy it though. I live in a city of millions, and only once did I meet a girl I approached and got rejected by...she felt a little awkward seeing me on the train again but I went up an… | /r/askTRP | 30/10/15 02:09 AM |
| 3 | How to Get Over Jealousy of Girls?They're in their prime: youth. You're the farthest from your prime: inexperience. You should be looking up at alphas with a natural excess of testosterone and brains and not even be jealous of them, accept your reality and strive to enhance this reality consistently regardless of everyone else. | /r/askTRP | 25/10/15 05:25 AM |
| 1 | Working out on VacationEssentially this...from my experience, it's better to have my lifting/diet routine on point year-long and not have to care about a 10-day break. Sometimes I PR right after a break. All you need to be careful of is your diet, that's what really makes a difference when you're on a break. Make sure you don't overeat and you eat enough proteins and you should be good. | /r/askTRP | 25/10/15 05:21 AM |
| 2 | Was this Beta?I'll advocate the pov you're trying to hear. I personally wouldn't interject until I heard life-threatening noises like serious battering. I have nothing to gain from it, nor will anyone accuse me of listening and being passive so my only motivation for interjecting is to save another human being. She knows her life, she can call the police, she has a society rooting for her. I don't want to enter a heated conflict with a physically capable beta male unable to keep his emotions under control. If… | /r/askTRP | 25/10/15 05:17 AM |
| 7 | Best way to react in situations like theseThis IS the early sign of a huge red flag, I'm personally 90% sure she's branching out, and is being careless at that. Radio silence for at least a week, indulge back into your single life: your work, your friends, your hobbies, you can even flirt around a little. This'll do two things: it's your best bet if you really wanna "keep her in your life", if you push in any way she'll be more sure to branch out. It's not an overreaction, she knows what she did wrong, you just can't deal with bullshit … | /r/askTRP | 25/10/15 04:54 AM |
| 2 | TRP's Guide to Skyrocketing your SMV with PhotographyExactly, if you like what you're doing, nothing else matters, just own it because basically if it's coming from you, it's cool. Bora.vs.Bora is mental...I'm not sure how he consistently achieves this look. Photos like this. I'm guessing he undersaturates all the colors in the HSL part of Lightroom and then selectively introduces colors bit by bit until it has that feel. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/15 09:46 PM |
| 2 | TRP's Guide to Skyrocketing your SMV with PhotographyMake sure you like it before taking the leap. I'd look for a used Canon Rebel kit and if you end up with extra money, go for a 35mm or 50mm prime lens, preferably also used. That'll put you around 250. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/15 09:15 PM |
| 5 | TRP's Guide to Skyrocketing your SMV with PhotographyAgain and again, I'm clearly advocating that attitude that you called true alpha. This guide is not meant to have someone buy an SLR to pick up chicks, but to encourage ones who already have a tendency for photography to develop an easy and rewarding skill. Focal length use is subjective. 35mm is a bit wide for my taste, I had a 35 and a 50 on my crop sensor and preferred the 50, rarely shot in tight spaces. Appreciate your input though. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/15 07:12 PM |
| 2 | TRP's Guide to Skyrocketing your SMV with PhotographyAbsolutely agree, editing is part of "the eye" bit to me, there's only so much you can include in a basic guide. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/15 07:02 PM |
| 7 | TRP's Guide to Skyrocketing your SMV with PhotographyYou trolling, mate? How tf is that race-based? A heavy neg is a direct tease. A light neg is an indirect one, like saying "you have a nice face" which subtly implies you didn't like her body. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/15 05:51 PM |
| 3 | TRP's Guide to Skyrocketing your SMV with PhotographyThat's the attitude I'm talking about, trust me people notice that not because you're exuding an IDGAF attitude, but because literally everyone else has such an overwhelmingly attention seeking attitude. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/15 02:46 PM |
| 7 | TRP's Guide to Skyrocketing your SMV with PhotographyGlad I could help man! Never use Instagram filters, people know them by heart and they're meant to look overcooked. VSCO filters are way more subtle, the final image looks "healed" as opposed to "filtered". | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/15 02:39 PM |
| 24 | TRP's Guide to Skyrocketing your SMV with PhotographyAbso-fucking-lutely, that's the trick. Your followers come back because you provide stellar quality content, all the while girls are thinking you're the winner of every popularity contest. If you're a casual Instagrammer, you're the high-status fish in a small pond of shitty iPhones. If you label yourself a "photographer", you're the tiniest fish in a brutal pond that will never impress. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/15 02:37 PM |
| 3 | TRP's Guide to Skyrocketing your SMV with PhotographyVery valid question. In my experience, if you play it right and your attitude is like I described above, it does help your game, but not for the reasons you described. We all know that women love Instagram because it's an inherently feminine medium that caters to feminine values: material beauty, social games... You're not playing it how the girls play it. You're not trying to seek attention, or post selfies, or food, or posed group photos...you're taking sick shots of things you like and postin… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/15 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Racecar drivers and power liftersI've been restoring cars and street racing for a few years, nothing remotely close to what they do, it's a high of adrenaline and dopamine that eventually makes you feel calm in real life, like everything else is slow. Check out how calm skydiving instructors are. They live life in the fast lane, their minds are conditioned to make calculated decisions instantaneously, their eye-body coordination is next level. Masculinity is practically controlled aggression, and that's what their sport depends… | /r/askTRP | 22/10/15 04:08 PM |
| 2 | Racecar drivers and power liftersI'm an avid fan of both F1 and powerlifting, I get your question, and the answer is pretty obvious: status. News flash, huge muscles aren't a requirement for being alpha, alpha is conditional because it's rooted in status. Lifting is just a surefire way to ignite the cavewoman genetics in every modern woman that remember stronger guys being more dominant in the ancient times, therefore higher status. Due to stronger men having higher status for thousands of years, women are now genetically condi… | /r/askTRP | 21/10/15 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Resources for powerlifting-related anatomy/physiology reading?So I've always kind of ignored it because Candito had a video that said it doesn't matter...but after watching your link and researching this, I'm getting convinced this was actually the reason behind my little disc bulge. Could you help me through inbox? | /r/askTRP | 19/10/15 03:42 AM |
| 1 | Resources for powerlifting-related anatomy/physiology reading?Thanks, downloaded and will read next! | /r/askTRP | 19/10/15 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Resources for powerlifting-related anatomy/physiology reading?I see your point but I got a mild disc bulge about a month ago, almost fully recovered now but playing it safe. If I wasn't focused on form, the overuse injury could've been worse so I'm trying to learn more about form. | /r/askTRP | 19/10/15 02:40 AM |
| 1 | How to keep TRP mentality for your whole life ?Let me know if you want me to elaborate on any of these: "I don't need a girl/woman, it's just a choice." because I do a lot of high-value activities that I love like lifting heavy weight and a couple of risk-taking sports and working hard in the field I chose and love, activities that I genuinely enjoy as much as I enjoy feminine energy in my life. "I'm a virgin, no big deal." or "I haven't had sex in a while" - I'd think that's kind of weird, maybe I've been too busy doing the activities I lov… | /r/askTRP | 12/10/15 09:00 PM |
| 1 | AMA fitnessWhat injuries did you have and what would you have done differently to prevent them? | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/15 01:44 PM |
| 8 | “Such is Our Nature”Serious skill, man...I still enjoyed it even though I could predict what will happen easily, the characters were understood clearly as soon as you introduced them, but after enjoying the bedtime story, I read the ending... Fucking chilling how shameless the dynamic is between a basic bitch with a ticking clock desperately looking for money and security, and a beta bucks chasing all his life after that same oneitis and his foolish naive glee once he acquires the worn out version of her. Both are … | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/15 04:55 PM |
| 4 | Your struggle and pain? Women neither understand nor give much of a fuck.People like to think they can use TRP to get a girl and then "just be themselves" but the reality is, the "gaming" (manipulating) never stops. Or the trap I fell in, having so much confidence in your consistently growing SMV that you start chasing a girl you know is lower in SMV with the logic "Can't she see I'll be the best thing that happened to her social life?" and she keeps running. Higher SMV or not, always be vigilant, gentlemen. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/15 01:08 PM |
| 1 | For those of you who quit porn, how did you do it?COLD fucking TURKEY is the only way that worked for me. YMMV, just saying what worked for me. No porn, no fantasizing in bed, no touching your dick, no prolonged looking at cleavage, no voyeurism whatsoever, just trying to stay in the moment in reality when meeting girls and focusing on getting arousal ONLY from physical factors like touching and humping and eye contact and alpha-woman dynamic. 20 days of that and I was cured, I no longer wanted porn, I wanted to manhandle a woman in bed. The mo… | /r/askTRP | 02/10/15 05:09 PM |
| 1 | How to tease correctly?My advice would be learn how to dispell her serious face. Tingles come from a defensive position so trust me, many guys want to be able to tease enough to get the girl into that defensive position. You just have to get her out of it to complete the emotional rollercoaster. Try different lines and faces like "I'm just messing with you" and see what gets a sharp sigh and laugh out of her. | /r/askTRP | 30/09/15 10:49 PM |
| 1 | what about the skinny guys?Thanks for clarifying, that's what I meant, that it's accurate in measuring progress not your current measurements. | /r/askTRP | 30/09/15 09:23 PM |
| 1 | what about the skinny guys?Ever-skinny guy until a few years ago. LIFT. You can either be pitied by gym rats for how skinny you are or be hated for how lucky you are to not need to worry about fat while bulking muscle elegantly and gracefully. Eat and sleep more obvi, and get this: GoWISE USA Slim Digital Bathroom Scale. It was 25 bucks I think. Every day, wake up, piss/poop, then stand naked on that thing. That gives you a very accurate measure of your bodyweight, body fat %, body water %, body muscle %, and bone density… | /r/askTRP | 30/09/15 08:10 PM |
| 2 | How to tease correctly?You're doing it right, don't be goofy, don't change your smirk (perfect it in the gym mirror while you're lifting, makes it natural in intense situations). Maybe make your words a little more ridiculous while keeping the same dryness level/smirk? "Get out of my car." is more like holding frame than teasing unless you're laughing while saying it. Try "deal breaker, bye!" or go more ridiculous like "delete my number, you're out of my life forever". Also don't change your compliment game, that's yo… | /r/askTRP | 30/09/15 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Watch Patrice O'Neil turn a tease with a boyfriend into putty with his immactulate confidence and gameI just checked it out on amazon, getting some good reviews saying it's the real deal but we'll never know until we read it. Buying it and hope to get some time to read it this week. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/09/15 02:13 AM |
| 1 | Whats the most appropriate response to "cheating"?Smirk and leave, radio silence. Best scene to describe that is in Lucky Number Slevin, could only find the french version of the scene (severely NSFW): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ARRZLe8lCYw | /r/askTRP | 24/09/15 11:30 PM |
| 1 | How do you react when you get dumped ?Give it a week or two then recalibrate from there. Pretty sure she'll text you within that time so it's kind of a non issue. | /r/askTRP | 23/09/15 05:40 PM |
| 5 | The one approach that keeps fucking me upThat last tip = FRAME FOR DAYS. Literally my go-to image when I'm facing many shit-tests or in any intense sexual situation. Imagine the helpless face she makes when you're causing her too much pleasure, teasing her at your mercy. Imagine that and may the bitchiest girl merely attempt to break your frame. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/15 10:15 PM |
| 4 | How do I acquire sexual confidence if I'm a virgin?My main advice will be to go full NoFap. The sub itself is a joke and I don't personally think it's necessary forever, fapping isn't that bad, porn is though. But, I think it would help you a lot if you "reboot" or whatever they call it before you get in bed with a girl. It'll have your brain get rid of the connections of porn=arousal and fantasy=arousal and move your arousal from your brain to your body. That's why people will tell you it will come naturally to you. I believe it'll come very na… | /r/askTRP | 17/09/15 12:46 PM |
| 4 | To the person who just asked what he can do to improve his face - here is my answer. Someone made fun of you and you deleted the topic before I finished the response.Hope he sees this and it doesn't get flushed down the comments: grow a beard. The right way. I've recommended this many times and it saved many a beard, just like it saved mine when I started: trim, never shave. Some beards, like mine and from the looks of it the guy in the photos, are patchy because some hairs grow much faster than others. Some hairs grow in 3 days, others in 3 months. The solution: keep trimming the fast hairs at a steady short length to maintain a clean professional look. By … | /r/askTRP | 06/08/15 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Easy recipes for making your own food on a daily basis What was the first thing you could make yourself?How long would it last in the fridge if you cook it in bulk? | /r/askTRP | 30/07/15 12:44 PM |
| 8 | Casino Royale - James Bond: The Ultimate Chad Thundercock is a great Red Pill character.Although this is all true, Bond is intensely RP, one common trait throughout the series is that his love for women puts his mission at risk, sometimes to the point of failure. It makes him seem honorable and gentlemanly in the eyes of the audience, how he cares about the damsel in distress when a whole nation's fate lies on the other side of his choice, which is nothing but good ol' whiteknighting. Nonetheless, great points. I'm sure there's a lot more to be learned from the movie series. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/15 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Fucked up my long game with an HB10, now what?This might fuel your oneitis but I actually don't think you're as bad as you think you are to her. You should read the chapter in Models that talks about HB10's. They're essentially human females, AWALT, only jaded to the bone about any validation to their appearance/attractiveness. She knows she's hot, but that doesn't mean her astronomical SMV will only match a buff alpha prince to be crowned soon, she only wants a guy who doesn't have any gaping wholes in the facets of his life, has his life … | /r/askTRP | 24/07/15 04:32 AM |
| 3 | Fucked up my long game with an HB10, now what?Been there man, I acted cool because I thought I had no chance with her so I never gave a fuck to make moves and game actively. As soon as I was on a date with her though, kino just never felt like other girls and I freaked out. Here's the question you should be asking yourself: would you act the same way if put in the same situation again? No, you won't. Learning to keep frame with such a high caliber, although not applied yet, will deem itself very useful from now on. One more thing, I don't a… | /r/askTRP | 24/07/15 03:01 AM |
| 7 | What does a top 20% man look like (physically)?Why do you care? Work hard and let the benefits fall where they may. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/15 12:54 AM |
| 2 | She Doesn't Care About Your JourneyAbsolutely agree, can't emphasize this enough to any redpiller. The gains/money etc are coming anyway so why bother with the frustration of gauging where you are along that journey. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/15 10:38 PM |
| 1 | She Doesn't Care About Your JourneyGood point, I was trying to emphasize how they use your motivation behind success to identify natural alphas from fake ones. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/15 10:34 PM |
| 1 | A long term solution to the clothing-imposed SMV problemPut it as an edit if you consider it worthy, since it matches your "create your own style" side of the argument but isn't really worth its own post. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/15 09:45 PM |
| 2 | A long term solution to the clothing-imposed SMV problemOne little known source of quick fashion advice I've been using is pinterest. Let's say you have beige jogger pants that you want to know what to wear on. You search on pinterest "beige joggers men" and you get pictures of the best minds of fashion trying to incorporate this item in their pictures. "Alright I have that black v-neck and white vans" and you're set. As you keep searching, you find items that you see a lot (i.e. match a lot of the clothes you already own) and you have your shopping … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/15 09:37 PM |
| 7 | Harsh Truth Revealed - Biggest problem I have is that I look very unmasculineHere's what I did about my once considered beardless baby face. If your face has almost no hair rowing whatsoever, then you're better off shaving clean. But if you have what I had, a patchy beard, then do what I did: never clean shave, always trim until it fills up then up the trim level. 6-7 months later now, I have a full beard with almost no patches in it. What happens is some hairs grow massively faster than others. The others do exist, but they grow in 3 months while the patchy ones you see… | /r/askTRP | 22/07/15 03:22 PM |
| 2 | How important is it to have instagram/facebook?She was positively surprised because it means you don't care for all the external validation that comes with social media, which is baffling to someone who desperately depends on it as a never-ending waterfall of external validation. She assumes your life is awesome and her hamster imagination fantasizes about the mystery of it. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/15 02:56 PM |
| 3 | Things to do while Im young and able.Pick a sport you genuinely enjoy, and perfect it. There is so much to choose from, you can master any sport within 2 years. Dancing works the same way. The adrenaline rush of mastering a physical activity, or multiple, gave my brain an avenue of excitement that often overrides my excitement for girls, and so creates an abundance that trumps all else. Date that doesn't sound too promising? Nah I'd rather take my skateboard out instead. Keyword here though is a sport you ENJOY. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/15 03:00 PM |
| 5 | Empowering MusicTake you to every party cause all you wanted to do was bra-aaa-nch Now my baby's branching, and is filled up by another maaan <3 | /r/askTRP | 20/07/15 03:29 AM |
| 4 | Empowering MusicI've seen this post countless times, sometimes it introduces great songs that I stick on repeat for months but usually, music is subjective and what pumps me up won't necessarily work for you. Here's to hoping this post does the former. What I've noticed gives me the most alpha vibe, is Pink Floyd actually. It turns any fidgety restlessness I have mentally into patient meditative stoicism. If I'm already in that mood and need more aggressive alpha before a date or so, I usually go for The Pretty… | /r/askTRP | 20/07/15 03:23 AM |
| 5 | How to take compliments?Act like you've heard it a thousand times while simultaneously thanking them sincerely. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/15 03:44 PM |
| 1 | best response to the "we're not having sex" shit test?One of the most famous tests, so many ways around this textually like the others have mentioned or just good ol' A&A, but most importantly, your inner game needs to be solid amused-mastery-wise...whatever you say, give her a look like "Sure...of course we're not having sex, yeah like that ever happened after girls say exactly that..." | /r/askTRP | 24/06/15 03:11 PM |
| 6 | Massive realisations tonight, correct me if i'm wrong.I skate too and it's always very therapeutic and philosophical when I do it alone. You're definitely on the right track, I would say now's a good time to plan different avenues you could improve yourself at and work at them gradually. Hobbies you enjoy or always wanted to do but something was stopping you, skills you were always fascinated by, building up your CV, etc. When you fill up your schedule with hobbies you love, such as skating, everything else kind of quiets down. When you interact wi… | /r/askTRP | 19/06/15 10:22 AM |
| 2 | Do women actually mind being cheated on?A lot of the time it's denial hamstering, but I've always thought that women hate the humiliation part of cheating much more than the realistic fact that he's cheating, but that's just a theory I'm working on. Meaning she wouldn't mind him playing around as much as she minds the humiliation of everyone knowing she was never good enough for him. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/15 12:54 PM |
| 1 | [TIPS] Best methods of initiation convo in day game/public transport/on the street?"I had to talk to you" is a save if your opening line falls flat and the situation turns from "casual conversation with hot guy I like" to "wait what, how should I reply to that?". Ideally it goes much smoother than this. The other two statements are about your frame, where you're coming from, your mindset while approaching her. It's portrayed subtly, she knows you can walk away at any moment because you're not so incredibly focused on her responses but just casually chatting. Often the conversa… | /r/askTRP | 02/06/15 06:45 PM |
| 2 | [TIPS] Best methods of initiation convo in day game/public transport/on the street?This was exactly my problem too, once we're in a conversation I'm good to go a lot of the times. Whatever comes in your head, just say it, jump in with the lamest line and let your natural self save itself from that shitty situation you put yourself in, even by "shit haha that was a really lame line but I had to talk to you, let's start over." Girls try to make themselves unique as much as possible, find that uniqueness and amplify it or neg at how she's a cliche. You need to understand that wha… | /r/askTRP | 02/06/15 06:06 PM |
| 7 | When and how do you use the power gaze?It's a part of natural game, you'll realize you have it when you're having intense eye contact with everyone you meet while genuinely knowing to your core that you're better than them. Meditation will help the most, stopping porn next, and lifting heavy will too. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/15 02:37 PM |
| 2 | Do I let other see my transformation?Evolutionarily, she wants to imagine you're so genetically gifted, as opposed to how torn and brutal life was to you while you self-improved. Girls don't give a fuck about hard-work, they only care about the results: your lifestyle. So if your photos look like you're just enjoying yourself doing sports/lifting for the fun of it, this is just who you are and the body sculpted by it comes as a bonus, leave them. If they all have comments like "LOOK guys I gained 15 pounds on my squat after grindin… | /r/askTRP | 02/06/15 02:23 PM |
| 5 | [TIPS] Best methods of initiation convo in day game/public transport/on the street?Read this: Newbie Traps: The Problem with Direct Openers This post has helped me a lot because my general demeanor works more indirectly, as the guy who's just so social he's talking to everyone around. When I go direct, I have to focus on injecting more direct statements in the convo and it's less natural to me than building up sexual tension subtly without her knowing I realize how wet I make her feel just by eyefucking. So my openers are usually indirect, I usually have to drop some direct bo… | /r/askTRP | 02/06/15 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Alright this is a random question but would you be friends with a gay dude?Like a lot of people are saying, a lot of them are pretty cool and understand their limits, most of them actually. Befriend him and show him your high SMV lifestyle and bask in the benefits of his gossip with girls. However, I write this as a fair warning from a few dealings with the flamboyant ones. Do not take him seriously. If a man comes over and insults your favorite sport or hobby, your natural reaction would be to logically explain why you love it. If it were a girl, you'd brush it off as… | /r/askTRP | 02/06/15 01:50 PM |
| 3 | Alright this is a random question but would you be friends with a gay dude?This. Gay friends are potentially perfect wingmen if you actually have them on your side, they're insiders on women's gossip and women typically respect their attraction (i.e. if he says you're hot, she'll think so too). | /r/askTRP | 02/06/15 01:46 PM |
| 2 | How to be more sexualIn terms of inner game, what works best for me is imagining her in bed. As realistically as possible, imagine yourself looking her in the eyes while her face is struggling to keep her pleasure/submissiveness from showing, ramming it hard down there but kissing her all over. It only takes one experience of entitled-bitch-at-bar turned to submissive-whore-in-bed for you to be able to instantly imagine any girl you meet in that state. Avoiding porn also helps. If I have that image in mind, there is… | /r/askTRP | 28/05/15 01:30 PM |
| 2 | There is No Spoon: On why you should approach game PHILOSOHICALLY and not TECHNICALLYStellar quality post, it's rare I find a post that I believe would've accelerated my progress to where I am now had I read it earlier. The first few paragraphs about learning game as a mere hobby is the perfect analogy to describe TRP philosophy. What also still fascinates me to this day is how women can discern the difference in your inner game like night and day. Whatever you feel, she will inevitably read. It's in her biology, her sexual strategy is contingent on it, and that's pretty fucking… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/05/15 01:15 PM |
| 4 | Is there anyway you can tell if a woman is going to age well?Essentially this...not only how she ages but how she's gonna turn out personality-wise. Girls always consider their moms a baseline, the permitted amount of craziness, that they can then risk by adding to. But if mom does/did it, she's goddamn entitled to do it too. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/15 07:43 PM |
| 1 | How much do you sleep and how do you get quality sleep?This is not scientific, but anecdotally solid. A year ago, I slept over at a friend's house after a party. Many people slept over so half of us ended up on the floor. Deepest sleep I'd ever had back then. So I decided to try it and replicated it perfectly. Yoga mat, sleeping on the back, and focusing throughout the day to never be on your back, don't watch TV in too much of a crouched position even, just maintain upright posture you'll get used to it. The results are mental, to me at least. Deep… | /r/askTRP | 22/05/15 08:18 PM |
| 2 | From an Antisocial kid to Alpha maleIn a nutshell: Confidence comes through basing your self-image on your own judgment and detaching from the judgment of others. How do you do this? Achieve more. Social skills come through practice. Use your bedroom for nothing but sleep, expose yourself to human interaction as much as possible while actively changing your body language, tonality, pace etc. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/05/15 04:47 PM |
| 2 | What percent of the young male pop. is in good physical shape?Depends on the area, could be maybe 10% in my hometown but for example in NYC, a good 60% at least. What really matters is once you get into the workforce, that's when no one has time to focus on themselves unless they're making other sacrifices like waking up early etc. That's when you'll really stand out, not that you won't now. Stay vigilant man, cheers! | /r/askTRP | 14/05/15 03:02 AM |
| 3 | Do you just ask for a blowjob?Anti-slut defense, she rejects your advances a bit just so you don't think she's a slut, even though deep down she wants to bite you. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/15 02:31 AM |
| 5 | Dealing with blatant acts of disrespect (dudes)Dude, the whole point is to keep frame and avoid being overly offended, possessive, and insecure about losing her. First thing's first, he can have her for all I care, genuine abundance I'll just move on no hard feelings if she wants to leave with him. Secondly, I'll keep taking it to the end, I'll comment on each of his approaches, try typical AMOG tactics and if he actually impresses us (we're a team), I'll have him give her his number and tell her to keep it safe, and give him a nickname on h… | /r/askTRP | 13/05/15 07:19 PM |
| 3 | Dealing with blatant acts of disrespect (dudes)So I reply, "yeah man enlighten me, show me what you've got" and anything he does after that will look cheesy and prepared. Again, if he holds frame and acts natural, he knows what he's doing. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/15 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Is it ever to early to go into a 5x5 high intensity workout regime?To each his own man, they work for me...I also do another activity outside the gym that's very core-intensive so that might be why I worked it into my routine a long time ago. Cheers | /r/askTRP | 13/05/15 11:14 AM |
| 26 | Dealing with blatant acts of disrespect (dudes)If he's just putting his card there's nothing much you should do like others are telling you, but if he lingers there and tries to talk to her, put him on the spot. Position your body next to hers like you're a team and say "Alright mr. player, let's hear your pickup line, if you impress me I'm leaving." He'll barely be able to speak and honestly, if he kept frame with you staring in his eyes, he kind of deserves her haha | /r/askTRP | 13/05/15 11:08 AM |
| 1 | Is it ever to early to go into a 5x5 high intensity workout regime?You're right in terms of focusing on the outer ab muscles but he should definitely inject some core work through the week. Planks, russian twist over exercise ball with weights, hanging leg raises, and most importantly tummy tucks. Working core will supplement his compound movements since they all use the core heavily. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/15 11:04 AM |
| 1 | Is it ever to early to go into a 5x5 high intensity workout regime?/r/Sepean summed it up but I'll give you my personal experience. I used to care too much about aesthetic too, why would I care about strength etc. Personally, on my body, the period I trained for aesthetics, was very unreliable. I did look good this week I'm training but if I stop for a few days, I lose any momentum I gained and pretty much have to start from scratch. Strength training was my limiting point in my aesthetics, I feel, so it really made my body look better, and more permanently. No… | /r/askTRP | 13/05/15 10:57 AM |
| 2 | Is it ever to early to go into a 5x5 high intensity workout regime?I did EXACTLY what you're describing. 3x10's of isolation exercises like bro-curls on and off for a couple months, then 3x10 but 5 times a week, then 5x5 for 2 months now and let me tell you, the changes are massive. More strength, more testosterone...and ironically, though 3x10 is more for aesthetics and 5x5 is more for strength, I look way better than I did while on 3x10, actually getting compliments, actually getting leaner while getting cut. No, it's never too early, especially that you're n… | /r/askTRP | 13/05/15 04:36 AM |
| 2 | AMOG tacticsBasically, every person has a reality of their own. You have your own perceptions of things, she has hers. The goal is to hang so tight to your reality and perceptions of things, that she "enters your frame". Be it a subjective opinion, or a confrontation, you can see the future running a different course than hers and it's all about who wills the next moments enough to their reality. Subjectivity example: She: One of my favorite shows is SNL, it's like the best show ever!! Me: See that's just w… | /r/askTRP | 12/05/15 05:35 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with these specific social settings?A lot of newbies skip mastering the art of the indirect approach and go direct every time when I feel the skill of being direct is built upon that of powertalk, NLP, subtle indirect flirtation. You don't have to escalate and make out within an hour, it's not a race. If you can see she's interested, go with it. Talk to her and get her friends on your side, isolate if you can for a smoke or whatever and maybe k-close if you have enough IOI's, but your main mission there is to give her enough of an… | /r/askTRP | 11/05/15 12:45 PM |
| 9 | "He's treating you like sh*t"We need way more of these kinds of comments. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/15 11:58 PM |
| 6 | Porn and video game addiction are leading to 'masculinity crisis', says Stanford prison experiment psychologistCertainty of achievement. The game is programmed, do this and you get this trophy. No luck involved, it's clear and simple so you can shut down this big-picture part of your brain that incessantly nags that you're going in the wrong direction when you don't achieve much. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/15 11:46 PM |
| 4 | "Pavlov on Plates"I don't need to know her height, her double major, her weight (we already know she's thin if she's your plate and you wrote HB9), exactly what cigars she smokes. With your description now, if she was a friend of friend's, I'd be able to identify her. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/15 01:37 AM |
| 8 | "Pavlov on Plates"Let's say your're addicted to snickers. Your girlfriend suddenly says: You can only have a box of snickers after buying me a bracelet. You might be like: Wtf what does this have to do with that, you're not the boss of me, that's personal, why should I fuck up myself in a double whammy this way etc But what if your girlfriend occasionally eats individual snickers too (so she understands your struggle) and then she starts going colder when you eat snickers. You start thinking your eating snickers … | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/15 01:27 AM |
| 3 | "Pavlov on Plates"This is so refreshing, this is game. My definition of game is the ability to be distant from your demeanor/speech enough to be able to inject the concepts you want (amused mastery, abundance, dread etc) and control the conversation from afar while simultaneously being in the moment and acting genuine, charming, and natural. You demonstrate this very clearly, especially through the 3rd disclaimer, the crux of the post to me, where you show your understanding of the big picture, how this would nev… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/15 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Kingsman: Male role modelsCurious: what was your reaction when he was asked to kill the dog? I was surprised at my own reaction, how logical it was to me to just pull the trigger and deal with the inevitable hurt later. I have a dog myself, and I love him more than most family members. So I could only attribute this reaction to TRP, how it kills every part of you that cares about the societal expectation to do the noble thing that would harm you. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/15 10:49 PM |
| 7 | FRAME CONTROL SERIES - Anger OutletsI was just thinking today how therapeutic lifting is. YMMV but my mind just goes empty while I'm lifting. No matter the stresses I have that day, my mind is just focusing on how my muscles feel (tightness, conditioning for the next set) and the music. The emotions of these stresses linger though, so you let out the emotions, the cloudiness, the tension in your mind, all without having to actually address the problems causing them. Once I'm out of the gym, I start remembering everything going on … | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/15 10:36 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys take care of your face?Steam room after gym if possible and whenever it gets oily, Neutrogena oil-free exfoliator. No science or research behind it, it just works for me. | /r/askTRP | 04/05/15 03:37 PM |
| 2 | Ask IllimitableManGaming alone or among friends? As in going solo on the clubs or gaming with friends around like a house party setting? Which do you find more success in or feel more comfortable in and why? | /r/askTRP | 30/04/15 05:22 PM |
| 2 | TRP is giving me Jedi-like powers among my alpha friends and the women they hang with. I need some advice.Agreed. A true bro who'll have your back, especially if he's fairly redpilled and going places is rarer than you think. Also, there's a chance Rob and John both see the chemistry and are aware you intentionally let her pass, which will raise your value to them even more. If not, maybe try alluding that very subtly, even if only to John. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/15 03:28 AM |
| 2 | To Go or Not to GoOn your way there, call and say "do you have condoms or should I buy some?" and check her immediate reaction. If she's trying to baby daddy lock you, that hamster acceleration should be fun. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/15 04:29 AM |
| 19 | Should you ever ask a girl why she rejected you?SHE DOES NOT KNOW. /thread | /r/askTRP | 27/04/15 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Fix your body posture and become more attractive.Excellent links!! A lot of people won't realize how concise and accurate these two links are, I had to gather this information from all sorts of lengthened articles. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/04/15 12:04 AM |
| 17 | Fix your body posture and become more attractive.I struggled with posture for quite a while and am finally reaping the benefits. Since people are so insecure about this shit and think it's all broscience, I'll just say what worked for me and what didn't, regarding my own condition (possibly the most common condition), anterior pelvic tilt and kyphosis, you can take it or leave it: Your bones are held in place by your muscles creating your posture. Our muscular system was built dynamically through our habits. Lethargy, sitting a lot, bad sleepi… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/15 06:23 PM |
| 3 | 24 yoVirgin here, should I lower my standards?You stop watching porn. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/15 04:42 PM |
| 2 | Best books to read to improve social skills and get people to respect people?I'll just point out a few things to put you on the right track, you can then ask me to elaborate on any: 1) You're way too dependent on external validation, true confidence is measured by how much your self-image is dependent on your approval of yourself and not others. 2) Focusing on the "likes" gauge is generally a girly matter. Girls don't work like guys, girls all like each other's pictures by default, similar to how everyone you know would attend your wedding or funeral, the default is that… | /r/askTRP | 26/04/15 02:51 AM |
| 1 | Do you personally know any indian guys in the USA that have been done amazing in the game? (in for examples)Perfect then, just make sure you lift and get your testosterone levels up by eating properly and sleeping well and coast off that natural game. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/15 04:34 AM |
| 3 | Do you personally know any indian guys in the USA that have been done amazing in the game? (in for examples)There are none, give up and die already. /s Seriously though, own it so hard that you make all the white shits wish they were Indian to talk about all the spiritual enlightenment, all the thousand-year culture, all the various food with credibility. If she calls you out on something like "Isn't Indian food full of curry and spices?", say it's nothing like she has in mind and it's too polluted in the US, you'll show her the "authentic" Indian food. I'm a foreigner too, and even living in an inter… | /r/askTRP | 16/04/15 04:22 AM |
| -1 | My ex gf brother died. Need advice.Putting some petty emotional shit behind you when the situation is as grave as death is the hallmark of a man and everyone will appreciate you holding frame and acting neutral with the girl and her family. Sorry for your loss, I'd meditate a good 20-30 mins the day I'm going if you're not meditating every day already. You could be in for some unpredictable tests to your frame when you meet the girl, especially in such an emotional environment. Whatever she or anyone says or comments, say you fee… | /r/askTRP | 15/04/15 05:32 AM |
| 2 | Movies/novels on romance from a man's perspective?Women by Charles Bukowski is about an alcoholic writer in his old age that is slaying pussy left and right. If you want to see how casual a natural alpha finds sex, read it. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/15 04:13 PM |
| 2 | Audio concerning and/or extrapolating TRP theoryIs Beige Phillip as good as Black Phillip? Are they even following the same theme of getting calls about relationships and answering in a TRP way? Elaborate please... | /r/askTRP | 13/04/15 11:05 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Father died; TRP confirmed: Do Not Marry StrippersStay vigilant as fuck, gentlemen. We all need a gut-wrenching post like this from time to time. Women manifest the violent part of being human (that we all deal with easily at the gym, fucking a hole, or destroying each other verbally for 5 mins) in the most unhealthy emotional manner possible. Posts like these show how fucking dark it can get inside their minds, fucking inhumane. OP, my deepest condolences, I'd attend the memorial service if it's close to NY. Don't listen to people saying you s… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/15 03:04 PM |
| 7 | Practice somewhere else.While this is a perfectly valid solution, the root of the cause is feeling awkward with someone rejecting you. This is perfectly normal, to associate sexual rejection that are dependent on a thousand other factors than you with social rejection. But you need to internalize how illogical this is as much as possible and experience the laughs that come with meeting a cold approach again on the same subway. As long as you end interactions on a good note even if she rejected you, it won't be awkward … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/15 03:54 PM |
| 3 | Why is it that women seemingly can't be friends with each other on a level as deeply as men can be friends with each other?Came here to say exactly this, that first paragraph is the essence of their relationship. How many times have you heard a guy say he wants his friend's girlfriend and no one else? Thought so. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/15 03:59 AM |
| 4 | Why does speaking in few words give the impression of holding frame?You don't have to explain yourself, you say how you feel briefly and you're not even slightly afraid of being misinterpreted or giving the wrong impression. Also the less the words, the more the gravity of your thought. Which is more powerful and chilling, an angry "Oh my god you've done it again you do it all the time, if you ever do it again I'll do this and that" or a calm eye-to-eye "This is unacceptable and will not be tolerated in the slightest. high pitched blabber from the other side Try… | /r/askTRP | 06/04/15 10:14 PM |
| 2 | How to prevent running out of things to talk about with a date?You need to be aware of the cause of the problem before attempting to fix it. Do these awkward pauses happen with your closest friends? I bet that's a negative. It's your leftover anxiety that gives you these mind blocks. To fix that, approach more, go on more dates, interact with people you meet everywhere more, even if it's a passing comment about something they're doing or their attire. Also, try focusing on threads you can riff off in sentences. If she tells you "I went to France last year w… | /r/askTRP | 06/04/15 09:21 PM |
| 2 | Lifting has given me a short temperYou need to internalize the concept of frame more realistically, it's not just a concept out there, you need to be proud of yourself for knowing how to act calmly in intense situations, let alone a glass falling. First thing that jumped in my head when an accident happened on the road right behind us recently was "Wow everyone's actually freaked out but thank god I'm psychologically jaded enough to stay cool as a cucumber, take action quick and calm." Meditation will give you that cold demeanor … | /r/askTRP | 06/04/15 04:13 PM |
| 6 | Improving yourself for the girlsThis is a lack of game and TRP knowledge, not Nice Guy mentality. You're pedestalizing the pussy and you don't understand that this will destroy your game. You'll always look thirsty to girls, they can smell it so clearly like horseshit in a park, it just ruins your mentality. Your mentality should be "I'm an intrinsically awesome person by virtue of who I am on the inside and the insane potential I'm realizing as hard as I can for myself every day, I'll be sharing the fun that is me with those … | /r/askTRP | 04/04/15 01:06 PM |
| 2 | Plate flakes for the first time. What is a suitable retort?This. She's a plate, not girlfriend material. Fuck meeting friends and all that shit, let alone the disrespect. Radio silence for at least 4-5 days, easy this one. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/15 12:54 PM |
| 2 | Girl I used to orbit got in contact.I'll give it to you straight: That "K" sounded butthurt, you should've just ignored. This is just my experience but YMMV, I would recommend against it. She's poison to you, you've invested so much in her image in your mind and that shit lingers. You didn't actually get reincarnated or anything, the slate isn't clean you've just changed a lot and she hasn't changed one bit and that will bring back memories. I'm not trying to stress you out, just a fair warning. You will face some old BP demons an… | /r/askTRP | 04/04/15 12:44 PM |
| 1 | Girl calls says she has a flat tireThis. A usually decent rule of thumb is to think what you'd do if she was a guy friend. Don't overcompensate, the point is for your mind to perceive them as a normal person, not a pedestalized goddess, so you can easily recognize if they're crossing their limits. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/15 12:29 PM |
| 7 | How are some guys naturally good with girls?Experience. Natural good looks, high status at a very young age, natural extra testosterone...they coasted on that while they gained experience. So first girlfriend at 13, he got real attached to her and fucked up in the most cringeworthy beta way possible, she left him, he felt like utter shit. But because he was blessed with a high value, another girl threw herself at him the next week. It lasted a year this time before he fucked up again. By the time he was 16, he vaguely understood most TRP … | /r/askTRP | 04/04/15 03:31 AM |
| 2 | Decided to go exclusive with one plate. Other one has developed strong feelings for me. How to go about dropping the second one?One of the golden lines /u/tombreck2 dropped here was: I’m moving away “in the near future” and I can’t commit to anyone. You'll hurt her anyway, just do it in person, hold frame, and give one of these lines that you can go back on if for any reason you wanted to add her back to the cycle. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/15 10:58 PM |
| 4 | What language to start learning?I'm currently learning my third language, French, and I'm surprised no one has mentioned this yet: Don't expect results. This is the epitome of outcome independence, since you won't be making any kind of perceivable gains even 3 months into the language. You'll learn the first couple of sentences in a conversation and 90% of the time, whatever the person responds with will sound like gibberish to you. If you're outcome dependent, you'll get demotivated real fast but you need to completely give u… | /r/askTRP | 03/04/15 02:50 PM |
| 1 | What to do when the majority of guys in your area/ country at alpha?I figured so too from the "mate" bit. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/15 06:33 PM |
| 7 | Testosterone and YouWhile I do understand how much testosterone, that glorious chemical, affects my everyday life, especially my psychology...I do not understand the need to go overboard with it. I had low testosterone from the BP lifestyle I lead (shitty sleep, shitty food, no lifting, shitty stress, shitty porn/fapping, shitty female interactions) and fixed it by changing my lifestyle to what it is today and my body is just more alive, I give much less of a fuck, have way more confidence, way better frame, almost… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/15 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Learned my lesson on holding frame.You can research and explore different techniques yourself but this is more than enough to get you started: https://youtu.be/8a5fO8jE7mc Also download an app called Insight Timer, helps track your progress and gives bells during the session. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/15 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Learned my lesson on holding frame.You're 19...by the time you're 21, none of the people you know will remotely be the same. Don't worry about the video too much, it'll be forgotten soon enough since you're so young. If it's isolated enough that you can delete it, do so. If not, then work on yourself as hard as possible and soon enough, people won't even believe that was you a few months from now. Meditation is your new religion, it's the most effective frame-creator. There's no other way to achieve that cold deathstare and contr… | /r/askTRP | 31/03/15 02:40 PM |
| 2 | what happens when everyone becomes aware of rp the way ppl are aware of pua stuff?Tyler/Owen from RSD talked about this before. It will never become mainstream because they're very nuanced concepts that the general public will always take for face value and criticize according to the perception of the stupidest extremist. So if you tell the general public to escalate kino, the public won't recognize the balance they'll need to achieve, they'll either try it once and it won't work and they'll shout FAKE AND GAY or they'll point at the idiot molesting a stranger. TRP is the sam… | /r/askTRP | 31/03/15 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Is showing anger to women breaking frame, or a turn on?/u/penguin_says_slide nailed it. It's not your anger, it's your standing your ground. The anger can be a true break of frame, sometimes even irreversible if she was doing it on purpose expecting an emotional reaction and you gave it to her. She can literally laugh in your face Your biggest weapon is walking away. You have no idea what that does to them. So whenever you can do that, do it. My approach has always been the cold sarcastic one. Channel your Hank Moody for the everyday shit-test-y arg… | /r/askTRP | 29/03/15 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Moving across the U.S. at age 20; All advice welcome on how to make the best of a fresh start.Lift, meditate, approach. Over and again. Can't stress these enough, this is your religion now. I had a major move and went the monk mode then rebuild network route. Don't go that route. Be as social as you possibly can be, go to every party you're invited to when starting a network from scratch. Use that fat 2/10 that you'd normally ignore to get to her hot friends. Meetup.com can help with finding people with similar interests. Favorite sport that's not popular in the US? There's a meetup for … | /r/askTRP | 28/03/15 04:51 AM |
| 2 | Should I Submit an Article on Men's Rights to my College Social Blog to Counteract the Large Amount of Feminist Propaganda?Advocating men's rights reeeeks of beta. Soon as they feel that urge inside you to seek external validation, coupled with the whole "you girls are ganging up on us, it's not fair and it's making us men insecure" theme, you'll just look really bad man. Fuck changing your fucked up environment, analyze it and exploit it, don't shoot yourself in the foot. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/15 04:32 AM |
| 3 | Talking to insecure girls; "why you talk to me?"I agree with /u/PowerandPride, just a simple "I want you though." will give her a mini orgasm. It's important to recognize the difference between a shit test and a comfort test. If it's got a "You're too much of a player" vibe to it, just trickle some beta. Chateau Heartiste had a post about this, google it. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/15 04:26 AM |
| 1 | Opening lines for at the bar or the mall?I wish we had a thread about this exact line. It's literally THE cliche but it works because she's seen it performed a lot and can easily and clearly see your intentions and inner frame saying it compared to the other guys. Honest and bold as fuck as well, but whenever I say it, I feel like a cheat, like a novice PUA trying a line. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/15 04:17 AM |
| 1 | Opening lines for at the bar or the mall?Interview questions with funny comments in the middle. What's your name? What's that accent, where are you from? Oh I've never been there what's it like or I've been there and had this impression. Anything contextual like what are you doing here, where are you going all dressed up like that? What do you do in city? How long have you been here? Etc This is the baseline, the bare minimum, your go-to questions when the conversation run stale. More often than not, she'll carry the conversation too a… | /r/askTRP | 28/03/15 04:11 AM |
| 2 | Opening lines for at the bar or the mall?I urge you to watch more prank shows or Youtube videos. That screeching halt cringeworthy moment never happens if you just maintain frame. You can almost say anything and they'll look at you like a baby that just fell and looks up to their parents to check how they should react. If you look like what you said was perfectly normal and you're just socializing whenever the fuck you want, you can nail any indirect opener. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/15 04:04 AM |
| 2 | Overcoming the height issueFucking legend, I had a little "God I wish I had that" halfway reading this. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/15 03:59 AM |
| 1 | Instant grat and Delayed grat activities, how they can change your life.Yeah raising sons isn't much of a question, what's more interesting is what kind of guy you'd want your daughter to find. Like you said, the best way to calibrate her standard is to set the example yourself, to show her that high value men like you do exist in abundance and she should better herself to nail him down to commitment. /r/redpillwomen can help with that I guess. I would've thought an RP guy would want his daughter to find another RP guy who's willing to commit to her. She'd never be … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/15 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Instant grat and Delayed grat activities, how they can change your life.I've experienced this and can relate 100%, perhaps on a milder level. I never explicitly said it, but yes deep down I felt for a long time that a lot of people around me were bitches to pleasure. And a few people realised that, I've noticed it particularly with my roommate, we have a pretty down to earth relationship and she kept saying she felt I was judging her all the time. We talked less and less, I wanted to keep focusing on whatever I'm doing instead of talking to her extensively. A few we… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/15 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Instant grat and Delayed grat activities, how they can change your life.True, but I t's about your tendency to addiction. I don't get a single thought of temptation after alcohol or weed, very easy to control but I can get hooked to a game for hours if I play just a couple rounds. So that's the balance I chose for me, your mileage may vary. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/15 08:47 PM |
| 0 | Instant grat and Delayed grat activities, how they can change your life.Very extensive topic, but like I said, that perceived realism is the real killer here. You're getting your dopamine fix of accomplishment from an allegedly "delayed grat" activity as in you play hard in order to get rewarded but it doesn't benefit you in any way in real life, it's not a natural healthy dose of dopamine, you just get sucked in this other world, emotionally invest in it and then consider its rewards enough so you don't work as much in real life. Play all you want man but don't con… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/15 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Instant grat and Delayed grat activities, how they can change your life.Immense respect first of all, love how you're taking care of yourself first and foremost before worrying about matters concerning others. You hit the nail on the head concerning the 2 major pitfalls, I've fallen in both of them many times before stabilizing a bit. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/15 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Instant grat and Delayed grat activities, how they can change your life.Agreed 100% but you gotta get there first before considering trickling in instant grat again. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/15 06:36 PM |
| 3 | Instant grat and Delayed grat activities, how they can change your life.Very extensive topic, but like I said, that perceived realism is the real killer here. You're getting your dopamine fix of accomplishment from an allegedly "delayed grat" activity as in you play hard in order to get rewarded but it doesn't benefit you in any way in real life, it's not a natural healthy dose of dopamine, you just get sucked in this other world, emotionally invest in it and then consider its rewards enough so you don't work as much in real life. Play all you want man but don't con… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/15 06:34 PM |
| 2 | Instant grat and Delayed grat activities, how they can change your life.I've always contemplated how I'd raise my kids on TRP ideals and I'd just like to say you're doing a balanced great job at it. Have you introduced them to any gender differences or anything serious? Guessing they're too young for that. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/15 06:22 PM |
| 2 | Instant grat and Delayed grat activities, how they can change your life.I did it first to fix my posture and force me to sleep on my back, to stop sleeping on my stomach, also thought it might help fix my lumbar lordosis. I lay a yoga mat on the hard wood and a blanket over it, that's it. Posture did improve a bit but the major difference I noticed was the deeper sleep. I sleep 4-5 hours and wake up sometime around 5 completely awake right out of bed. It is much harder to go to sleep though so you need to be tired down and sleepy going to bed. Every week or so I hav… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/15 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Instant grat and Delayed grat activities, how they can change your life.There's another comment saying The Power Of Habit by Charles Duhigg talks about this and helps in applying it but I haven't read it myself. You don't need too much theory man, just gradually enhance your schedule, introduce new hobbies like language learning, it can be pretty interesting. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/15 02:57 PM |
| 8 | Instant grat and Delayed grat activities, how they can change your life.Right there, discipline is much more reliable than motivation. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/15 02:24 PM |
| 29 | Instant grat and Delayed grat activities, how they can change your life.It's one of my main motivations to do anything, fearing it'll get harder and harder if I delay it, particularly approaches. Just jump into it and calibrate from the inside. Daunting tasks are the same, just start and within a day tops you'll have a clear enough plan for the next few days' work. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/15 12:50 PM |
| 14 | Instant grat and Delayed grat activities, how they can change your life.Tyler has a good introductory video and for tracking progress I use Insight Timer, which has a few guided meditation tracks as well but I've never tried them. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/15 12:47 PM |
| 2 | How to?I read the original thread. If you don't know why admitting your nervousness about sex is wrong, you should read the sidebar. When you're done knowing the attitude you should embody, read The Sex God Method to know how to. /thread | /r/askTRP | 18/03/15 05:41 AM |
| 1 | Have hard time getting turned onHow slow are we talking? Age? Has this always been the case or did it worsen recently? | /r/askTRP | 18/03/15 05:28 AM |
| 1 | How do you handle confrontations?Just remembered another incident when a homeless guy was inside the ATM area of my bank (closed on a holiday), asking everyone coming in and out for money. All I needed to say was "Listen man I don't mean to be a dick but if on my way out I see you here, I'm calling the cops." Didn't expect it to work but on my way out, he was outside the bank but still harassing people so I just left. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/15 05:00 AM |
| 1 | How do you handle confrontations?About a week ago, I was walking with a plate in a subway station and a homeless guy stared at me. Having gotten used to not breaking eye contact, I kept staring right in his eyes as we walked past him. Right as I'm passing him, he tries to startle me by jumping extending his hand infront of me and shouting, like how you hid in a closet and startled your brother when you were young. I was surprised myself at how I never flinched, just kept walking without any interruption in my body language or e… | /r/askTRP | 18/03/15 04:56 AM |
| 1 | Our maid wants to fuck me. Should I go for it or not shit where I eat?What you should be more wary of is the aftermath of your family finding out. There's a big possibility they might if they live in the same house, especially across 2 years. They'll fire her of course, but I doubt they'll tell the agency or ruin her reputation, she'll find another job. But will they be fine with you being sexually active...if you're still financially dependent on them, you should take care. In a nutshell: Take the risk but be wary of the possible aftermath. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/15 09:42 PM |
| 2 | What are YOUR personal red pill improvements?Biggest improvement that powered all the others was avoiding ALL instant gratification activities and implementing delayed grat ones. If I find anything in my life that would hurt now but give me a benefit later, I'm game. Socializing isn't considered instant grat as I am naturally introverted and a lot of the times would prefer to stay at home so I push myself out. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/15 07:50 PM |
| 2 | Should you have a Feminist freind?There's a factor you're not realizing. They rub off on you. You're laughing now, but hear any perspective long enough and it'll sound less ridiculous each time. Which do you think will supplement your TRP journey better, getting immersed in a wolfpack of alphas or reigning high and mighty laughing at some feminists. Have her as a friend all you want, just don't make it a habit and needless to say, don't engage. I have a feminist friend as well, but she knows better than to talk about that shit i… | /r/askTRP | 17/03/15 07:30 PM |
| 3 | "You Don't Own Me!"I believe it does. Possessiveness is an insecurity no matter how far up the levels a girl goes. If she's a wife of 20 years, you still need to understand that, although you'll take care of her, protect her, and try to keep her close, it wouldn't remotely be the end of the world if you split and actively operate from that mindset if it comes to it. You are still an independent human being with enough value to find someone else and therefore are not possessive. What I think Eddie's playing at and … | /r/askTRP | 17/03/15 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Age questions and how to respondWhat? Don't understand what a zimmer frame is. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/15 09:45 PM |
| 10 | Don't expect people to be on your side as you walk the road to success.Here's the Bill Burr link he's talking about, it elaborates extensively on how girlfriends hinder their SO's success shortsightedly: https://youtu.be/fGxCQB7xpH4 | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/15 09:05 PM |
| 1 | an essay on neediness and wantinessGonna need you to elaborate on that last part mate, this is one of the weaker parts of my game. It's such a delicate balance to me to engage the girl I want then ignore her for her friends then back to her. How far do you engage each of them compared to your target and when do you make a move on her explicitly isolating or showing she's the one you're picking? | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/15 08:45 PM |
| 3 | What are some pushpull/one liners/shit test answers you use to show off your frame?That Frank Underwood delivery though... | /r/askTRP | 15/03/15 02:46 AM |
| 7 | Bill Maher has gone full feministI can't believe I'm about to defend Bill Maher, but humor me the following insight: Whenever a politician changes his direction this drastically, I can't help but think I would do the same if I were in his position. His job dictates that his public beliefs equal money. Loads of it. It differs in no way from an opera singer going into another genre because more audience and money is there or a programmer specializing in another language. Would Patrice do it? Nope. Patrice, Bill Burr, and their li… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/15 04:30 PM |
| 2 | How to handle rejection?Here's a rejection master: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gFlj1z6JjsQ | /r/askTRP | 13/03/15 05:40 PM |
| 1 | How to handle rejection?If at a bar or house party, always smile as you leave so people think you're just leaving on a good note, maybe you didn't like her, maybe she didn't like you, it didn't work out at the end but you smiling while leaving means it was fun either way. A lot of the times you'll realize the negativity's coming from you, sometimes if she's rejecting me mid-conversation, I'll go at the end of our little talk on the subway: "Well anyway, my stop's next, final chance you should really reconsider" hands h… | /r/askTRP | 13/03/15 05:35 PM |
| 1 | How do you make your voice more attractive?Also another way to determine if you're speaking from your diaphragm is to squeeze your nose shut and keep talking. If you're speaking from your diaphragm, your voice shouldn't change much at all. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/15 02:51 PM |
| 1 | How can I use the university that I attend as a status symbol?This. Girls will usually be good enough conversationalists to pick up on the "school" keyword and ask a followup on where you're going to school. Just make it the main keyword of any sentence. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/15 05:44 AM |
| 4 | Question re: Definition of lovePlease post the same question to /r/RedPillWomen, we have no input to add here, especially that it's a theoretical question that needs no male perspective. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/15 05:37 AM |
| 2 | How do you make your voice more attractive?A post I had written about that. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/15 05:34 AM |
| 2 | Should I lie about my age for more results?Oh I'm definitely not whining about it, I've always been ahead of my age, my friends are always older so I've had both success and failure with older women. I see birthdays as a Level Unlocked: You now have clearance to 4 years of girls of legal age. Not to boast too hard but I never share stresses not even with guys, I've stopped having the need for it. Appreciate your advice though, your insight was helpful and is appreciated. I'll try avoiding it more, I might just slip under the radar. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/15 05:30 AM |
| 1 | Should I lie about my age for more results?I tried the not bringing it up bit before, it eventually comes up so it's easier to filter early on. A&A shows you're comfortable with it, I always lace my honesty with relaxed and comfortable subcommunication. Maybe it is a shit-test and I'm just not good enough at handling it but I actually believe it's fair they don't want to date younger, imagine a 26yo girl telling her coworkers she went home with a 21yo college student. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/15 02:31 AM |
| 2 | A shortcut to understanding what you need to succeed......DO YOU FEEL COMFORTABLE STEALING HER?"That's alright, I'm not the possessive type." | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/15 02:17 AM |
| 2 | "If you won't settle for a woman who has been riding the CC and wracking high numbers, why should a woman who has low numbers go for a guy with high numbers?" - my plate. What's the answer here?I had assumed that from you saying she's a plate, I asked that same question myself when I was swallowing the pill actually. You're on the right track, just don't be too open about TRP it won't be received this coolly every time. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/15 01:44 AM |
| 1 | How to stop urges to be betaYou're too attached, retract a bit, get real busy for a few days, meet her maybe twice a week tops until you have your head straight. Bonus: she'll go nuts over you. Just don't be cold so she doesn't think you're punishing her for something, just be busy all the time. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/15 01:34 AM |
| 1 | Reconnect with uninterested/indifferent gril?Wisest advice here. She's gone, her image in your head is of your own making, she's nowhere near as perfect. More investment in yourself and your discipline. More approaching and experience with girls, can't possibly stress this enough. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/15 01:31 AM |
| 4 | Proper way to respond when girls talk about other men?Let her talk for no more than 30 seconds, sometimes even I mention a past girl without realizing and I switch the topic quickly. If she goes off on the tangent too long, say "Listen babe I'm not your girlfriend, I feel like you still have feelings for this guy and if that's the case I can leave you to it" then have a new topic in mind to open since her face might be stunned by your abundance mentality. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/15 01:25 AM |
| 2 | Digesting red pill.I'll be honest with you man, you'll have more moments like this along the way. My most depressive moment was realizing the sheer brutality of hypergamy, I won't retell what triggered that but it was pretty dark back then. It gets so much better though, you see everything clear as day, now being BP sounds weird to me. "Dude wtf? You're nagging her because you want her to respond faster? Why on Earth would you think that?" when a year ago I was worse than that guy. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/15 01:20 AM |
| 1 | "If you won't settle for a woman who has been riding the CC and wracking high numbers, why should a woman who has low numbers go for a guy with high numbers?" - my plate. What's the answer here?Plenty have answered, just dropping by to ask if you're actually slut-shaming a plate? A fucking plate? Seriously man...I'm all for honesty with platonic friends, these talks are a guilty pleasure from time to time but to slut-shame a plate is to get her to realize she's never getting commitment from you so as soon as the sex gets even slightly mediocre, she's out. Take care man. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/15 12:42 AM |
| 2 | "Can I make it?"I've been running a couple of "perfect" weeks discipline-wise and I was JUST starting to get lazy, that video is exactly what I needed to hear. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/03/15 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Question About Dorming With Friend-Girl.Literally facepalmed at that FWB bit. Can't think of worse advice. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/15 04:09 AM |
| 2 | Question About Dorming With Friend-Girl.I've been living with two girls, one headstrong, the other very nice but sly socialite a social ninja, both 7's in my book, both high-maintenance. There are advantages to living with girls, mainly that they keep you in check unforgivingly. Un-fucking-forgivingly. If you binge on masturbation for a day, have a nasty breakup, or are generally weak and limp for a day, you'll destroy any dominance you built up through the past few weeks. When that happens, it's a battlefield of politics to regain do… | /r/askTRP | 09/03/15 04:03 AM |
| 2 | Should I add calories to cardio days when bulking?I'm no nutrition expert, but I'm pretty sure the calories/protein from a McDonald's burger is different from those of a piece of steak. Shit's probably full of unhealthy money-saving shit. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/15 12:55 AM |
| 1 | How do I believe in myself?Potential. The more you achieve in life, the more you wonder how much more you thought you couldn't achieve yet could. Once you realize your true potential, not only does your sense of worth increases, but you have no more excuses to get shit done. You, my friend, are a man. Your biology contains immense potential for objective palpable willpower and self-improvement. That's why society puts us down and that's why everyone's afraid of young men. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/15 12:51 AM |
| 3 | I need voice and speech trainingI had written a post addressing exactly that. In terms of deepness of voice, project your voice from your chest, your diaphragm, feel it vibrate, don't project it from your nose. Squeeze your nose shut and try talking, if your voice doesn't change much, you're doing it right. Also, anecdotal broscience though, stop fapping. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/15 05:28 PM |
| 1 | When cold approaching girls on the street and college campus how do you keep a fun and light vibe? How do you make her feel comfortable talking to you, with you being a stranger?Stop her physically, stand in her face, don't approach from behind (walk around the block if you have to). After she stops gesture her to take off her headphones and ask what are you listening to? Whatever she says, say "Really? I thought they really sucked, are they getting any better?" bullshit bullshit bullshit | /r/askTRP | 07/03/15 02:38 AM |
| 2 | Two not particularly attractive girls have crushes on me, what do?Don't go beta like the rest are saying, they're IN your social circle, reputation and status are key for gaming. Just get comfortable with it and milk it, respond when you like, ask them to do shit when you like, ignore them when you don't. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/15 12:50 AM |
| 11 | Two not particularly attractive girls have crushes on me, what do?USE THEM. And don't feel guilty about it either, they have orbiters that do shit for them as well, circle of life. Have them do your homework (no study buddies though), introduce them/call them into the conversation when you're actively gaming a girl (have the girl see them mirin' helplessly), text them while you're with a plate (have your plate get a tiny glimpse of the screen-long messages they send), use them as a confidence booster when you're feeling down. They'll pick up on the exploitatio… | /r/askTRP | 07/03/15 12:14 AM |
| 2 | I'm great at pretending to be confident but I've been at it for a while and I am still doubting myself internally.You should do this for a living, man. Saving this fucking brainfuck for when that pesky child in my way-older-than-my-21yo-body brain doubts me. | /r/askTRP | 06/03/15 04:45 PM |
| 6 | Why do more women than men believe in Astrology?It provides a vague agency they can justify their decisions upon. "It's settled then, my horoscope said I'll have a tiny road bump then the start of something great so I guess Stacy's warning about Jack was the road bump and Jack is actually great! OMG horoscopes are like so uncannily true it's like they're talking to me!" | /r/askTRP | 05/03/15 06:17 PM |
| 2 | 100,000However much balanced most of us are, we NEED the anger and the hatred of other TRP-ers here. Keeps us vigilant and balances the infinite stimuli out there of the other extreme: feminism and alpha-shaming shits. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/15 11:31 PM |
| 1 | She stopped resonding. Wondering what my next move should be?Brilliant! Another gem I rarely use though: To make sure she didn't write a wrong number, recite back the number with one wrong digit in the middle. If it was the right number, she'll correct you. You should compile a list of these in a post sometime! | /r/askTRP | 04/03/15 03:38 AM |
| 2 | She stopped resonding. Wondering what my next move should be?This. You should've noticed the misunderstanding back then and added "and by coffee I mean weeeeed". Just follow the above and approach more girls. | /r/askTRP | 04/03/15 02:19 AM |
| 3 | She stopped resonding. Wondering what my next move should be?This must be the most comment you write ever, as it should be. It was a major breakthrough in my pickup, you're giving them the chance to display they have a life and are only free on certain days while not revealing your schedule at all. Before I used it, a lot of pickups went like this: Me: Let's have drinks [there] on [1 or 2 days from now]. Her: (even if she's free, she doesn't want to sound too eager) I can't I already have plans, how about [3 days from now] Me: I can't (I actually DO have … | /r/askTRP | 04/03/15 02:09 AM |
| 2 | How to stop being so serious and what else can I improve?I can relate to a lot of this, although I'm in college. My answer to my seriousness was finding good bros. Guys shit talk all the time so that gets your funny teasing brain working, as well as hearing a lot of references and material you can reuse with girls. With girls, be careful when you "neg" or tease because I took it way too far at first. Make sure you neg something she can change about herself (I once told a girl she had too small boobs, instant cunt-dryer). Girls dream of being unique so… | /r/askTRP | 03/03/15 04:47 PM |
| 1 | How to go about picking a roommate?No don't try to impress. If I'm reading an entertaining clown's writeup, I wouldn't think "Oh wow he's so witty and funny", I'd think "Wtf how much time and effort did he put in this giant paragraph?" If you want to post something, post "Looking for a true bro to share my room, PM me?" (Don't have them in the comments so people don't know how many people are approaching you) and make it very casual when PM-ing people and when receiving PM's, small talk about their background, shit talk about adm… | /r/askTRP | 03/03/15 02:08 AM |
| 5 | How to go about picking a roommate?Through checking out their Facebook, find the guy who seems the most alpha/fun with the least genetics. This way, his game and eventual fame rubs off on you but you'll surpass him eventually because your genetics are better so he won't be stealing girls. Lifting fanatics are also a good choice, no matter how stupid they can be, they value discipline above all else and the testosterone that comes with lifting should help with your chances of them being alpha. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/15 01:59 AM |
| 4 | Nothing Going For Me At 20.21yo STEM undergrad here as well, I was you a year and a half ago, almost literally could've written this post. I was very harsh on myself (and still am) in terms of the habits I incorporate. Do the following gradually and don't consider it all a failure and binge out when you hit rough patches, no all or none mentality. It's all about managing your dopamine, stopping instant gratification activities and incorporating delayed gratification ones so read more on that. 1) Though you'll hear a lot t… | /r/askTRP | 25/02/15 02:57 AM |
| 1 | Suggestion: Take A Break From Reading TRPPurely anecdotal, can't find anything solid online, but yeah it fixes my posture and I sleep deeper (sleep less, wake up more awake, dream more). It's obviously less comfortable though so it can take longer to go into sleep if you're not tired already. Try it a couple of times, see if it fits you...a yoga mat/carpet and a blanket. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/15 03:59 AM |
| 1 | Suggestion: Take A Break From Reading TRPKale, Celery, Ginger, Cucumber then I put any sweet stuff I have to make it bearable (and sometimes delicious) like honey, bananas, apple, pear, pineapple, berries, cherry tomatoes etc. Blend it, don't juice it though for the fibers. Happy shitting. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/15 03:58 AM |
| 5 | Suggestion: Take A Break From Reading TRPThe major thing I took from Manson was honesty. When you're faking or lying, you're subconsciously telling yourself your truth is not good enough. Pook is definitely my next read. Anyone have it in PDF or do I have to read it online? | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/15 10:49 PM |
| 3 | What to do in situations of actual scarcity?I lived in NY at 21, the struggle is actually real for young people who aren't in a major uni. You're competing with the most successful guys in the world for some of the most privileged girls in the world, where everyone's in their prime at 25+. Everyone thinks it's easy creating a huge social circle in NY but it's not, and the expectation that you should have a circle within a month only makes it worse. Focus everything you do on areas around college campuses. That means West Village around NY… | /r/askTRP | 10/02/15 04:05 PM |
| 5 | I'm not one of you... but I humbly ask for your perspective/help in getting over my ex.Listen, man...it's not about your build or being a wimpy pushover friendzone guy. It's as simple as this: women's attraction isn't like ours, they don't like you for you, they'll never love you unconditionally, and their definition of "falling in love" is synonymous to you being the best they can get to commit to them. Once you internalize this, and pass the anger phase, you realize how the man/woman balance is so beautiful. The way both sexes are wired was done this way to push each other to th… | /r/askTRP | 07/02/15 06:31 PM |
| 4 | Take a break, come back strongerPatrice O'Neal, Bill Burr, Jim Jeffries, Louis Ck, and most recently Iliza Shlesinger...all geniuses, all RP-ers inlcluding the last. Also Russell Brand. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/15 03:53 AM |
| 3 | TRP Negatives?Actually true, and guess where I got the money from? Sold my PS3+Logitech driving wheel+games = $600 | /r/askTRP | 06/02/15 03:34 AM |
| 4 | TRP Negatives?TRP kind of kills you on the inside...I used to have the brain of a child as BP. Now it's more serious, all about delayed gratification, inner game, social calibration/awareness, and most of all, realism (bordering on pessimism). I've passed the anger stage, I completely accept the world as is, very little surprises me. But I've definitely lost the ability to open up and connect on a deep romantic level. Which is perfect. Wouldn't have it any other way. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/15 03:28 AM |
| -3 | Wolf of Wall Street scene. About the beta and the alpha.This. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/15 02:52 AM |
| 4 | If a girl chuckles at your question "Do you have a number?": "Do I have a number?"I usually just hand them my phone with the keypad screen on it. Sometimes this is taking it too far like a try-hard, sometimes they like it: I immediately text them "Hey who's that good-looking guy you're talking to?" through a shortcut "ppp" so I don't have to type it out and can send it pretty fast without them noticing. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/15 02:10 AM |
| -5 | Looks matter MORE as a guy than they do for girls ... yes mind = blownProof this is wrong, using Tinder: Youtube social experiment you can look up...female model goes on Tinder, gets 5 dates, goes to the dates in a fat suit. Guys' reaction: They call her out, they leave, they get weirded out. 4 guys leave, 1 BP Nice Guy stays. Alternatively, male model goes on Tinder, gets 5 dates, goes in a fat suit. Girls' reaction: They get weirded out for a moment then relax because his confidence and game is that of a fucking male model who's gotten female attention since hit… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/02/15 08:18 PM |
| 4 | Girls with boyfriend. Need help on how to proceedHope you understand TRP is an amoral strategy for men, you set your own morals. Doesn't have to be alpha or beta, one of Harvey Specter's main traits is he has bad history with branching from his mother's branching so he never does. Just set your boundaries and stick to it. I personally respect her relationship if she doesn't seem too interested. If she is interested, I escalate subtly (like /u/Leastohm said) and am just more careful with the escalation as I don't escalate until she reciprocates… | /r/askTRP | 31/01/15 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Let's talk about sleeping, how do you do it?Get in a routine. Mine is stopping eating an hour before, hygiene, reading on a Kindle (e-ink isn't like smartphone luminous screens), then sleeping with a face mask. I also sleep on the floor (yoga mat and a blanket) on my back, lots of natural benefits you can read about, does wonders to my posture and I get in a deeper sleep, I sleep much less (5 compared to 8 hours) and wake up with a fresh mindset. It's harder to get to sleep though so gets some using to. Don't use your sleeping position at… | /r/askTRP | 29/01/15 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Too cowardly to next a plate that's increasingly and uncomfortably trying to LTR me. What do?My roommate got broken up with with that line a few months ago! It was one of the "I cannot fathom how that could work on a fully grown human being." novice RP moments. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/15 03:33 AM |
| 1 | How do you respond correctly to I love you?Fair warning: Last part may cause an explosive hazard to her vaginal area. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/15 03:17 AM |
| 1 | 90 Days of TOTAL RP Immersion (MGTOW + Monk Mode + No Fap)Yeah, man...you already speak of a lot of progress and yet I think this is still unhealthy. You're giving yourself the feeling of accomplishment before you put in the actual effort. The decision part is important but it pales infinitely compared to the actual effort of spending a week this way, let alone 90 days. Rock on man, just be careful. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/15 08:43 PM |
| 2 | How can I help my ultra beta boyfriend?Why are you still with him? Very curious what redeemable qualities he has. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/15 09:16 PM |
| 1 | I like shy quiet girls but I think I intimidate them, how do I be more approachable?Damn that's insightful, identifying what works in my random successes with shy girls. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/15 02:19 PM |
| 1 | Californication - Hank MoodyFirst time I hear of this...on it! | /r/askTRP | 26/01/15 02:17 PM |
| 2 | I don't trust myself to fix my life.I pulled myself from this rut. Few things you need to internalize: 1) This is completely natural at our age, it's a phase where you don't trust the world for its unfairness and are therefore demotivated to work for the targets you're promised. Some overcome it and excel and some lurk in this phase too long. Until it stops being a "phase" and starts becoming their life. You can always pull yourself back up, even if you fail uni, and are out on the street. That's the power of manhood. It's just th… | /r/askTRP | 26/01/15 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Self-improvement during rest periods?Meditate every single day, learn a new language, read out loud, work on a side project that'll help you in your field. If you'll watch a show or something, make sure it can help you somehow. Don't listen to the Big Bang Theory or some BP show that doesn't align with reality, watch Californication. If you binge on more than two episodes, know your willpower needs a check. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/15 01:51 PM |
| 2 | Have you ever rejected a woman who once rejected you?RSD Tyler once joked about this: "HAH bitch, you went on a date with me back then? Fuck that's sad. I wouldn't have given me a second look." Seriously though, I want to bring up an important point here. Dude, be honest, would you have it...ANY other way? Imagine hypergamy didn't exist and she loved you for the merits of your brain and the kindness of your heart. Would you remotely be the better person you are now? Would men be as competitive? Would men keep their game up even during relationship… | /r/askTRP | 26/01/15 05:09 AM |
| 1 | Had open heart surgery. How/when is the best way/time to break it to partners.Humor's the easiest way of showing you don't care but you run the risk of overdoing it and showing more insecurity than flat out saying it. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/15 05:00 AM |
| 5 | Had open heart surgery. How/when is the best way/time to break it to partners.This nothing but a guess, but the comedian side of me wants to laugh it off. Some cheesy line like "Oh that's from that time you ripped my heart out" or "They said I needed a better heart if I'll keep fucking girls this hard" or "Yeah I got in a fight the other day. You should see the other guy." When she asks more, then tell her in a calm voice about the operation playing it off like it was nothing. I don't think saying it changed your life and playing it up is a good idea, it's all in your hea… | /r/askTRP | 26/01/15 04:35 AM |
| 2 | Perhaps I am not built for TRPIt constantly amazes me how clear-minded men are at logic. This was so genuine it showed me the absurdity of the Nice Guy mentality I once had, an eye-opening trip down memory lane. Trust TRP for once, OP, it will make you happy. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/15 04:28 AM |
| 1 | Much of the mental "frame" draws power from the physical one. TL;DR: Why lifting is a necessity.It's a piece of the puzzle that many novice redpillers write off as a looking aesthetically good bit. I've always had high metabolism, when I stopped lifting for a couple of years, I never gained fat, my arms got disgustingly thin but I still had pecs and abs that I always hamstered "is enough to look good". What OP is saying, and needs to be said is, lifting improves your mental frame too. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/15 01:40 AM |
| 2 | [FR] First night clubbing after 8-10 months of TRP and semi-Monk modeReally needed to re-hear that, man! Thanks for your constant input. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/15 12:43 AM |
| 0 | How to dance and escalate at college parties?Elaborate on the want to talk. I usually extend my hand, give her a twirl, and pull her away. Worked on 1 of 4 girls so far. What do you say if you want to offer value first? | /r/askTRP | 26/01/15 12:35 AM |
| 4 | Indonesia is about to start producing a male birth control pill.I'm sure the strategy will be to never tell your girl you're taking it with any excuse like you heard it messes with your hormones. Have your girl take her birth control anyway. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/15 12:05 AM |
| 1 | On Debating and Discussion as a ManQuality post, worth the read! Raised by a mother that feeds on debates, being in debate clubs and plenty of philosophy courses, I'd like to add a few basic tips for effective debating: 1) is obvious: hold your fucking frame. No emotions, don't make it seem like you're trying to win them over like a religious preacher, make it seem like you're exploring the truth together. If she gets emotional or yells or name calls or anything, "Check yourself, I won't be talked to this way, let's table this un… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/15 11:44 PM |
| 2 | These Cars Ain't Loyal (Women and Morality)However long, this analogy actually is pretty accurate and insightful. I would've emphasized that the replacement Man Car was able to climb to her parking spot. In fact, she won't accept a Man Car that overlocked his engine to get to her, he must be drifting around down the scale when she caught his headlights. You'll particularly see that with alpha widows. I noticed one I'm close with was suddenly very anxious about her social life and constantly tries to give everyone the illusion that everyo… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/15 10:57 PM |
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