This is little of a question, just a massive realisation, more of a question if i'm right??

Throughout my life i've fallen in and out of many different social groups, particularly through high school. Tonight i've had a massive realisation, could even call it an epiphany it was that massive to me. Ive actually realised how true the red pill is.

With each group I was involved with their was a particular skill or quality I was known for, Ive realised that when I fell out of those groups was because that skill was something I chose to neglect/ignore. I realised this tonight as I was skating at my local park. A few friends rolled up which I used to hang out with when I worked at a trampoline company, I met them their and at the time I was quite good at flipping, this was how they came to know me. After they came to know me is when I used to hang out with these guys but as all groups I fell out with them. I realised tonight my demonstrable skill is what gave me value. When I got fired from that company, over time those guys started seeing me less and less, to which is now non existent.

Tonight as I was skating, I realised they were all raw alphas, due to the fact their beyond good skaters and while they said the polite hello etc, little attention was paid to me. i'm just below average for a skater, compared to them my demonstrable skill is nothing. As I landed something I thought was worthy I tended to notice they took little to no interest, and I realised its because honestly at the moment i'm not that special, I have no demonstrable skill to them that would make me special or out of the ordinary. Whereas they're tight and get along well because they all share the same interest and they're good at it.

Ive realised why allot of the red pill community and guidelines say not to really care or bother to validate a social status while your building hobbies, because it simply wont work. If you have nothing of value to offer then people will not take more than a pity interest in you. So its essential to build on yourself, go monk mode, do whatever the fuck you need to do to become a better person and build into the person and frame you want to have and be and let nothing and no one stop you from it.

As for me, Im now more dedicated then ever to building hobbies, attaining hobbies and gaining value, not for others though. For myself. Ill know i've earned my validation when the rest follows, such as people taking an interest in me, correct me if i'm wrong on this guys but this makes allot of sense to me now.