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better yourself you want to truly believe you are cool and an awesome guy? become that person then. and until you do, fake it till you make it
/r/seduction31/12/20 07:42 PM
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because you see yourself as a pussy you gotta truly believe you are worth "a hot girl" and if you dont then you have to make yourself into someone who you believe is
/r/seduction31/12/20 02:02 AM
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theyre going to be in a fucking car cuddling together, obviously they dont plan on wearing masks give good advice or none at all
/r/seduction31/12/20 02:00 AM
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Actually loled out loud to this.
/r/seduction26/12/20 04:13 PM
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Or you could just be honest, and yourself, and funny, and not worry if she is interested or not because if you are those three things she will be. She could be looking at 100 different things. But if shes interested you will know if you are being yourself.
/r/seduction25/12/20 07:59 AM
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Sometimes doing something like this can help your chances. Shows youre a regular human who feels emotions like nervousness just like anyone else.
/r/seduction04/10/20 06:28 AM
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?
/r/seduction08/09/20 06:53 AM
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lol. they do
/r/seduction07/09/20 06:20 AM
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yes
/r/seduction07/09/20 06:00 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JNN_wYfUaCs&ab_channel=ChrisBumstead
/r/seduction07/09/20 06:00 AM
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thats only if youre not hot I watched a youtube video of a pro bodybuilder going on tinder and he had tons of matches with models and a lot of them messaged him first and they were saying some nasty shit
/r/seduction07/09/20 04:29 AM
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And if they say anything like "venmo me $5 and see what happens" straight up report them for selling pornography
/r/seduction07/09/20 04:28 AM
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I mean yeah I can do that but it doesnt really solve any of my problems.
/r/seduction22/06/20 09:03 PM
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Thanks for the advice. I think I should do this too. Im thinking ill call her later this week and try to set up a date, and if she once again flakes ill be honest with her and ask her whats going on.
/r/seduction22/06/20 08:50 PM
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I really want to but i wanted to have that conversation in person. I feel like weve been talking long enough where we can be honest about our intentions instead of being vague in order not to see too eager.
/r/seduction22/06/20 07:38 PM
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Yup very true. Thats why i said im like 75% sure its done. Wont count myself completely out just yet though
/r/seduction22/06/20 07:36 PM
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At what point can you tell a girl how you feel then? I mean we’ve gotten to know each other pretty damn well over the last 2 months even if we e only seen each other only 4 times in person. I also know for a fact she is looking for a relationship and i am as well. But she doesnt know i am yet at least. Maybe thats why shes hesitant? Youre right on all the rest though. A few days of silence might give her some motivation if she really cares. She knew she already had me a week ago so she stopped t…
/r/seduction22/06/20 07:35 PM
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idk man ive met some really interesting girls off dating apps, its definitely doable but you have to know what youre doing
/r/seduction19/05/20 12:21 AM
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Lol if u think any guy ever doesnt want to have sex with you ur kidding yourself (if you follow rules 1 and 2 of course)
/r/seduction12/02/20 04:24 PM
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You know all you have to do is say "lets fuck" and you can avoid the entire dance... Cuz im sure he doesnt think you like him as much as you might think you like him. so let him fuckin know
/r/seduction04/02/20 10:12 PM
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Hey you just described my entire life save for a few freak exceptions lmao
/r/seduction04/02/20 07:10 AM
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and let him put the pieces together. If hes anything like the average guy, its best to put the pieces together for him lmao
/r/seduction23/01/20 05:01 PM
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She wants your cawk op. Like seriously though. At this point literally anything you say to her will work. Next time you see her you better say something or promise to venmo everyone in this sub $20 no bamboozle. That should force you to do it.
/r/seduction23/01/20 04:26 PM
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Sometimes chicks just dont feel like it. Their emotions can change on a dime. Dont sweat it.
/r/seduction20/01/20 05:31 PM
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I think youre in the wrong sub with ideologies like that
/r/seduction16/01/20 09:12 PM
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You also can't lay the pipe too well Lmaooo so youre saying you gotta micromanage how hard you slanging the dick?
/r/seduction15/01/20 04:40 PM
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Videogames? That just seems pointless.
/r/seduction09/01/20 04:18 PM
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Yeah only its not 99% of chicks out there.
/r/seduction06/01/20 10:03 PM
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I pretty much just ruined a thing I had with a great girl by being too "needy" and I only realized what I was doing when it was too late. Basically have options. Dont get oneitis. Let her get it instead and if you really like her then go for it.
/r/seduction06/01/20 09:45 PM
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yeah, dont. they want to be left alone
/r/seduction06/01/20 09:42 PM
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no
/r/seduction06/01/20 07:15 PM
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She may have forgotten or she may just not care. Cant hurt to ask again and whatever she replies will be your signal to move on or keep going.
/r/seduction03/01/20 10:48 PM
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Would it work for a first date though? I feel like you have to know em before you drag them alone into the countryside
/r/seduction24/12/19 09:18 PM
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Do mushrooms.
/r/seduction17/12/19 05:44 PM
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Yeah its different and it sucks. I hit it off with this chick REALLY well on a first date. Felt like id known her for years already. Made the mistake of flat out telling her I liked her. She flaked on me twice after and then friendzoned me. And yes, we did kiss a lot on the date. And danced together and my hands were all over her.
/r/seduction13/12/19 11:37 PM
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First, DM me a pic of your feet
/r/seduction13/12/19 09:01 PM
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Oh shit well fuck me thats about the worst case scenario. Sorry to hear that mate. But thats also why I recommend you should practice a bit first so you know what youre doing and can also teach the girl a bit too.
/r/seduction11/12/19 07:17 PM
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What happened? I feel like this is foolproof as long as the girl (and you) are comfortable and confident and dont mind possibly looking goofy.
/r/seduction11/12/19 06:40 PM
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Little does she know that after this great first date shes in for a world of disappointment ;)
/r/seduction11/12/19 05:18 PM
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In this situation I usually prefer to go for the snapchat. I prefer to talk rather than text so getting her snap is a good way to avoid telling your life story through text. But you do have to try to send her interesting snaps to keep her curious about you. Or post some ridiculous things on your story.
/r/seduction10/12/19 08:11 PM
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Okay and how do I initiate flirting? Same question as my post lmao
/r/seduction07/12/19 10:32 PM
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Im not sure if this is the right sub for this, but yes of course you should go for it. The pain of regret is much worse than the pain of rejection. And what if he likes you back.
/r/seduction05/12/19 11:21 PM
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Brb getting a computer science degree
/r/seduction05/12/19 04:35 PM
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Just ask her if she wants to eat with you or something. Gotta think on your feet
/r/seduction03/12/19 10:45 PM
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compliant? The fact that you used the word "compliant" already says enough about her interest in you
/r/seduction03/12/19 05:35 PM
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Thats just the way it is
/r/seduction03/12/19 05:00 PM
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She probably wasnt that interested in you then tbh. Girls are really good at faking it to get you to leave them alone unfortunately.
/r/seduction03/12/19 04:25 PM
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Im tall af and I cook a lot and have a picture of myself in a chefs outfit at a music festival. My bio is: Taller than your ex and ready to take you to flavortown. 6'4 I gotta admit it gets a lot of good feedback.
/r/seduction26/11/19 06:03 PM
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Just dont turn into the "hugger" guy because nobody likes that
/r/seduction25/11/19 11:25 PM
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Afterward, she told me that even though "come over to watch a movie" is often used as a euphemism, she actually sincerely meant that and wasn't anticipating sex. I just said "sure you weren't." Lol of couuuuurse she wasnt. She just cant admit it because she doesnt want to be slut shamed. Nice save though.
/r/seduction25/11/19 11:23 PM
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im not saying it wont work sometimes, but the risk vs reward is definitely not worth it. Most women will probably not be down unless youve already been dancing for a while. And odds are if shes okay with you throwing her, shed rather just grind on you instead or something. Just kiss her already
/r/seduction25/11/19 07:51 PM
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lift her up and spin with here at least a full circle. You try this on a stranger youre getting kicked out of any club youre at.
/r/seduction25/11/19 05:51 PM
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Socializing is not seducing. Just be open. Talk to everyone, girls included. Make lots of friends. Then the girls that you want to seduce will gravitate towards you since you will appear popular.
/r/seduction23/11/19 08:48 PM
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This is how you get charged with sexual assault.
/r/seduction20/11/19 04:45 PM
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haha go fuck yourself bud
/r/seduction20/11/19 04:11 PM
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i mean they are typically really easy to spot right off the bat or after a few messages
/r/seduction20/11/19 04:10 PM
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So hot chicks and fat chicks?
/r/seduction20/11/19 04:09 PM
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You should not have asked her to be friends because well then she thinks you want to just be friends. Just go for the number. And try to set up a date. Insta isnt awful tho. I got a date once from getting a girls insta. Just be sure to ask her out relatively fast, before she can friendzone you.
/r/seduction19/11/19 06:44 AM
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If you want to lose it that badly just make a tinder. If you are as good looking as you say you can get matches with decent photos. And come friday or saturday night use a boost and just flat out message every chick if shes dtf. Odds are one will say yes.
/r/seduction18/11/19 10:46 PM
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Well right now I want a good connection with someone, and shes certainly providing that. Sex isnt my goal, its part of the journey.
/r/seduction16/11/19 08:33 PM
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I dont think shes that inexperienced. She said shes dated guys much older than me so that says something. I think shes just trying to say, that shes looking for more than a quick fuck. Which is fine with me.
/r/seduction16/11/19 01:51 AM
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Nah I dont need to fuck her right now. Shes actually pretty cool so there is potential in an actual relationship down the road I guess. It is too soon to tell though. We'll see how tonight goes.
/r/seduction16/11/19 01:37 AM
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How do you know im not CHAD?
/r/seduction16/11/19 01:37 AM
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You might not think it, but chicks love memes as much as guys do. They are dorks even if they might not seem like it. So meme away lads
/r/seduction14/11/19 10:54 PM
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Eh I wouldnt say its validation. At least not for me. Me and my friends always share stories about how our dates go, how the women we see are. And also stories about sexual things with them. Sometimes we brag yes, but its all fun and games. I dont post shit with girls on social media though, at least not unless shes actually my GF. Thats a bit unnecessary and nobody really needs to see that. But you do you if you want to
/r/seduction14/11/19 10:53 PM
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aka dont be creepy
/r/seduction14/11/19 02:47 PM
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Bruh just approach her and be normal about it. Trust me you dont want this girls advice on how to approach women.
/r/seduction14/11/19 02:13 AM
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Yeah this right here. Basically this girl is saying, dont ever try to talk to me in public. Because I will turn you down. Sounds to me like shes a bit stuck up to be perfectly honest. Like Im never gonna see her again, why not shoot my shot? What if we'd get along really well if she wasnt so damn uncomfortable. Sounds to me like its a personal problem. Or am I just supposed to accept that shes right and never talk to a cute girl in public again? I guess I can be single for the rest of my life...
/r/seduction14/11/19 02:06 AM
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Yeah sure lol.
/r/seduction13/11/19 08:19 PM
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Did you just open with "do you have a boyfriend?" or were you talking before that? Because you cant just open with that, you have to make her comfortable first and then ask her if shes seeing someone before trying to make any moves.
/r/seduction13/11/19 07:57 PM
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The difference between those two is how you present yourself and how you say it. If you make a creepy voice and say "hey how are you doing tonight?" youre going to have people running away from you. If you say the same thing with a cheerful friendly voice and smiling, youre probably going to get a positive response. And if the worst case happens and a girl is creeped out by you being friendly (and not creepy), then move on as shes not worth your time.
/r/seduction13/11/19 07:53 PM
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Well then make her know that you want more. Thats on you to communicate not her. And if she doesnt then you move on.
/r/seduction13/11/19 07:48 PM
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You just have to approach my guy. When you see a girl you like, dont give your brain time to think, because it will always convince you not to do it. Just go on instincts and approach the girl! Ask her whatever you want to ask. No amount of advice or teaching will help you learn this better than practice.
/r/seduction13/11/19 07:46 PM
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I feel like asking directly is the best way to go. It shows your intent and is straightforward and honest. How is that not working for you?
/r/seduction13/11/19 07:44 PM
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Its 2019. Chicks dont like phone calls. You gotta get with the times or get left behind.
/r/seduction13/11/19 04:29 PM
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You dont just jump in the deep end with "Come over so I can eat your ass" You slowly ramp it up based on her responses. If she doesnt respond well you back off and change the subject.
/r/seduction13/11/19 04:26 PM
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You are not the norm to tell you the truth. A lot of chicks on tinder respond very positively to slowly increasing sexual messages when done right. Then again its tinder and not real life, but still.
/r/seduction13/11/19 04:25 PM
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Thats not true. You can still show some of your personality through text while being funny and sexual sometimes. Its more than enough to get a girl hooked before ever meeting her.
/r/seduction13/11/19 04:24 PM
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Yeah welcome to dating in 2019. I was messaging this girl. We were getting along great, I asked her if she was down for a drink she responded "I'd love that!" Asked for her number. Crickets lmao on to the next
/r/seduction13/11/19 04:20 PM
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Because she wants attention, validation, and followers on instagram. Like 20% of all girls on tinder actually want to meet people in real life my guy.
/r/seduction13/11/19 04:18 PM
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The girl has already turned you down by saying she has a bf of three years. Trying to figure out how healthy her relationship is only going to end in one way. badly
/r/seduction12/11/19 05:07 AM
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Yeah im gonna go ahead and say DONT do this. There are plenty of beautiful single girls out there and OP shouldnt spend time trying to piss off this one thats already taken by getting nosy about her personal life.
/r/seduction12/11/19 04:49 AM
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Hey man I know that feel. Approaching a girl and having anxiety until you say those words to ask her for her number or whatever. It feels way better to get em out and get rejected than to never say em at all at least. On to the next!
/r/seduction12/11/19 04:46 AM
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Thats all it ever should be!
/r/seduction11/11/19 08:46 PM
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It was super simple. I could tell she was a country girl, horse lover and all that so I tailored them for her. Obvs I would never date this girl but I wont miss out on an opportunity for something casual. All I said was "Vodka or Whiskey?" Country or City? Football or hockey? And when she got em all right I "congratulated" her and asked her out and you know the unfortunate rest.
/r/seduction11/11/19 06:40 PM
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Id say so: Last night I had an interesting tinder conversation with a girl who was way above my average (in terms of physical looks). I basically turned the convo into a test for her with a series of questions. And she almost failed the last one but changed her answer at the end. Then I told her she got a perfect score and she ended up telling me to come out that night as she was just visiting and she was gonna leave the next day. I couldnt make it unfortunately as I work today, but the idea is …
/r/seduction11/11/19 04:12 PM
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Well then youre clearly falling short somewhere because the math just doesnt add up.
/r/seduction11/11/19 04:05 PM
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No I do agree. But I still think its helpful to approach any women that you at least find physically attractive even if she might not seem like your dream girl off the bat. You never know someone until you know them. Some chick in a club might secretly be a huge nerd. And some nerdy looking girl in a library could be a wild party girl. You never know. And you can always use more practice.
/r/seduction11/11/19 02:55 AM
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Sounds like an excuse to get out of approaching.
/r/seduction11/11/19 02:35 AM
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Hey even if you are "ugly" in a way that cant be changed, that doesnt mean you cant be fit, clean, and put together. And thats more than enough to attract any woman.
/r/seduction11/11/19 02:34 AM
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To make meaningful connections.
/r/seduction06/11/19 11:22 PM
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the only limitations are the ones you set for yourself Obviously you will never fly no matter how hard you flap your arms, but as far as social interaction goes the sky is the limit if you put in the work. It sounds like you might be using your "limitation" as an excuse to not try because you already "know" you will fail
/r/seduction05/11/19 07:58 PM
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If you dont want to come across as a creep dont be creepy. Your tone, body language, demeanor all play a big part in this. Just be honest when approaching. Tell a girl you noticed her because she was cute, try to make her laugh and then close her.
/r/seduction05/11/19 04:52 PM
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Its not about getting girls or having sex. Its about meaningful connections with people and finding love. Sex is never the goal. Its part of the journey.
/r/seduction05/11/19 04:08 PM
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Thats an incredibly dull outlook to have on life. Sure we all die and nothing matters, but dont you want to enjoy life to the fullest while you can?
/r/seduction04/11/19 10:15 PM
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Definitely not. I got rejected by one of my best friends. It hurt for a bit but now were even better friends and I love her boyfriend. You know what I do regret tho? Not approaching more girls while i was in college.
/r/seduction04/11/19 10:14 PM
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Probably because the word seduction on its own is a bit of putting. It sounds like you are trying to seduce someone or just use them for your own pleasure when thats usually not the case.
/r/seduction29/10/19 04:35 PM
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Text her whenever the fuck you want to. There are no rules, only what you make up in your head. Only thing is make sure you dont give her the power aka say "let me know when youre free" because she wont. Make sure she knows youre a busy guy and arent sitting around waiting for her.
/r/seduction29/10/19 04:30 PM
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A technique that worked for me really well in Cabo (I know the environment is a bit different but bear with me) was this: Dance around having a great time and try to make eye contact with girls you are interested in, if any return your gaze then walk over and offer them your hand to dance. Start facing them and leading them with your hands and if theyre into it pretty soon you can turn them around and grind on them, spin them, makeout etc. This worked with a very high success rate down there. Bu…
/r/seduction29/10/19 03:12 PM
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You need to cut all contact.
/r/seduction29/10/19 04:37 AM
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Eh you just started thinking and stopped doing. Once your mind starts to wander, you will no longer hear anything being said to you. Just be in the moment. The girl wouldnt be talking to you if she didnt want to. Always assume attraction.
/r/seduction28/10/19 10:32 PM
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Just kiss her when youre alone at home or something. Start small and light and then just add more tongue, kiss her deeper, start exploring her body with your hands and before you know it she'll be pregnant.
/r/seduction28/10/19 02:42 AM
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Bruh we on r/seduction cuz we dont have significant others...
/r/seduction24/10/19 06:28 PM
11

You were probably nervous as shit which doesnt help. You need to be more in the moment and stop worrying. Also stop beating your dick off everyday.
/r/seduction22/10/19 10:32 PM
1

She could just be fucking with you for attention. Or she might like you. Call her out on it.
/r/seduction22/10/19 07:52 PM
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Nobody is out of your league my guy. It may seem that way but she takes huge steamy shits the same way as the rest of us. Do not put her on a goddamn pedestal or you can kiss her goodbye. Shes a human being, treat her like one.
/r/seduction22/10/19 07:49 PM
1

how do you dress?
/r/seduction16/10/19 06:08 PM
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Girls will forgive you if you try to escalate too much too fast usually, but they wont forgive you if you dont do shit when theyve given you tons of signals
/r/seduction16/04/18 05:07 PM
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Well you had better get used to it. Its gonna happen a lot. It does to everyone.
/r/seduction16/04/18 04:42 PM
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Ya ever go down on a girl and get a big whiff of poop? wat? op please never say this
/r/seduction16/04/18 04:35 PM
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Yeah because 99% of chicks hate that shit. If youre actually fit you need to show it off without douchey photos
/r/seduction16/04/18 04:34 PM
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You solved your own problem. Stop being average and skinny. Hate to say it, but nobody wants average. If your looks truly are average in a way you cant change, then at least get in shape and dress well. That alone will make you stand out much more than the rest of the average population.
/r/seduction16/04/18 04:33 PM
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must not be following rules 1 and 2 then
/r/seduction16/04/18 04:32 PM
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Never expect to get rejected. Always assume attraction! Especially in this case. She smiled at you and enjoyed talking to you. You need to get good at recognizing IOIs like this because it will make it much approaching and closing much easier when you know they are already in to you for sure. This girl was definitely in to you and while you probably did miss out on seeing her again the important thing is to learn from this mistake and next time a girl smiles at you to get her number!
/r/seduction16/04/18 04:30 PM
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good job man! let us know how it goes!
/r/seduction22/03/18 02:25 AM
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nah of course not. I go to the gym to go to the gym, but if i see a cute girl i want to be able to act on it if possible
/r/seduction21/03/18 01:14 AM
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Lol i read that here im pretty sure
/r/seduction21/03/18 01:13 AM
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Srs. Go watch some videos on oral sex and shit. If you can make the girl cum like that it really doesnt matter how long you last after that. Unless youre tryna do some WWE type stunner sex move youll be fine.
/r/seduction20/03/18 10:07 PM
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Ladies don’t generally throw good guys away Im gonna have to disagree on that, but in this case I think OP is good.
/r/seduction20/03/18 09:44 PM
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Come over and lets watch half a movie?
/r/seduction20/03/18 09:41 PM
1

Trying to be FWB with your ex is a terrible idea from all angles. One of you is obviously going to catch feelings again. Theres a reason shes your ex. Remember that. There are also a million other girls out there probably cooler than her so move on.
/r/seduction09/03/18 07:21 PM
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What do you mean? If you see these three girls everyday just ask em if they want to hang out sometime. Just say the words. The feeling of regret is 100x worse than the feeling of rejection. And who knows, maybe they will all say yes. As for the bookstore if you see someone interesting just start by talking to them and introduce yourself. Build some rapport and then you can worry about asking em out.
/r/seduction09/03/18 05:42 PM
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NO
/r/seduction09/03/18 05:39 PM
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Oh no getting laid too much? What a burden to bear indeed
/r/seduction09/03/18 05:39 PM
2

Check out r/nicegirls, its literally women freaking out when men reject them
/r/seduction08/03/18 07:36 PM
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I'm 19 and want to see this girl again but 1 on 1 dates aren't my thing Well how do you plan on ever getting to know her? Its time they became your thing and you got better at real dates. Dont ask a total stranger to come hang out with your friends at a festival, she will think youre only interested in being friends with her. Ask her out, and go on a real date.
/r/seduction28/11/17 06:52 PM
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Run into her by "accident" after class. Be like "oh hey we just got out of Mr. Obamas class, that was a wild ride eh" or something just as stupid.
/r/seduction03/10/17 06:03 PM
1

Pretty insane how much shit men have to do to get with a girl. I mean its fun and all but it sure is a lot of work at the end of the day...
/r/seduction02/10/17 04:25 PM
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Its called a septum piercing, and yes it is a turnoff
/r/seduction21/12/14 03:47 AM
5

If shes letting you kiss her forehead, then she definitely wouldve let you kiss her lips
/r/seduction23/11/14 07:03 PM
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uhh what. that is terrible advice im sorry
/r/seduction23/11/14 07:59 AM
2

My first impression was that this dude looks terrible, but he still gets the ladies. Practice makes perfect
/r/seduction19/11/14 08:19 PM
1

Youre in highschool man, just a tell a girl you like her and you are already ahead of the curve
/r/seduction15/11/14 05:28 PM
11

10/10 reply haha
/r/seduction15/11/14 05:27 PM
1

r/bdsm? is that a thing?
/r/seduction29/10/14 12:47 AM
1

I feel like this is spam or on the wrong subreddit...
/r/seduction29/10/14 12:28 AM
1

I used to use tinder a lot, but now i think its stupid. Going out and meeting real women is 10000x better. Get good at that and laugh at the guys swiping all day
/r/seduction25/10/14 07:43 AM
3

I dont really get whats so complicated about this, just ask her out or something. If you says youve gotten IOIs it should be easy
/r/seduction24/10/14 06:50 PM
1

Maybe start with something a little smaller? Idk about you but I dont think going from kissless virgin to getting laid would be an easy transition.
/r/seduction22/10/14 05:39 PM
1

stop masturbating
/r/seduction18/10/14 07:20 PM
1

Well those men are AFCs who should probably keep to themselves
/r/seduction16/10/14 05:34 AM
2

Yeah but its about time girls realize that rejecting someone and being upfront about it is 1000x nicer than lying to them
/r/seduction13/10/14 06:37 PM
2

I used to think this, but in reality you have thousands of days of your life left. Years to approach people and have fun. There is no need for speed
/r/seduction12/10/14 04:50 AM
7

Yeah like in high school where everybody wears those cheap victorias secret sprays which are like cotton and bubblegum which just flood your nose with sweetness. Please back up girl
/r/seduction09/10/14 05:25 PM
1

I find that my friends tell me a lot of shit I do is cringy, but I dont think it is and when I do it it gets positive responses. Shit like the jokes I make and the stupid things I do to make people laugh, its just me, its not cringy
/r/seduction06/10/14 08:35 PM
0

Wall of text man, please organize that shit
/r/seduction06/10/14 08:17 PM
2

If you think you are doing something cringeworthy then of course its going to be cringey. Its all execution. So you fucked up with one girl, big deal, there are thousands more. Yeah it sucks but you will get over it
/r/seduction06/10/14 08:08 PM
11

Well if you are both inexperienced don't try to rush her into sex because she might not be ready for it even if you are. Still escalate but slower. At least thats what I would do if i was you, youve got plenty of time
/r/seduction06/10/14 08:03 PM
10

GOOD FOR YOU MAN!!! Wish I had started as early as you...
/r/seduction06/10/14 07:18 PM
1

Practice, just talk to more girls. I prefer daygame and before I used to never talk to anyone, now I can approach people with no problem
/r/seduction06/10/14 07:10 PM
11

Or I like to picture them taking a hot steamy shit, contrary to popular belief, everyone needs to shit. Including the hottest girls of them all. A nice long diarrhea-ridden shit.
/r/seduction06/10/14 03:17 PM
4

Seriously man, I have had this happen to me a few times as well. Like are girls forgetting how to date or something? Too many one night stands from the club have made them forget how to actually meet people...
/r/seduction04/10/14 08:24 AM
-4

Ya srs im wondering the same thing. I can easily get women to respond, its the phone number + meeting up that is difficult. If all you want is a reply just say "bby plz respond" and that will work too. I Actually did that once to a girl who didnt respond to anything I wrote and we ended up going on a date.
/r/seduction26/09/14 08:45 PM
1

Believe me ive got the working out part down quite well, as well as the fashion. But i do need to just talk to more women and focus on myself
/r/seduction15/09/14 03:38 AM
3

I think you misunderstood. Basically when I see another dude gaming a chick (that I'm not even into) I get jealous. It's as if I want every girl to be mine or nobodies. It's stupid as fuck and I want to stop my mind from thinking like this
/r/seduction13/09/14 10:31 AM
5

I bow to the teacher
/r/seduction14/08/14 01:51 AM
3

i think you meant no formatting
/r/seduction13/08/14 05:01 AM
-5

damn while this sounds like a fun time im not sure if its the best way to lose your virginity. when i lost mine the girl had fun but i was so nervous i couldnt actually finish, idk if you are the same but keep that in mind
/r/seduction11/08/14 03:40 PM
1

i know, its been a while
/r/seduction08/08/14 12:07 AM
1

the last text i sent her was for her to text me when shes free and wants to hang out, im not gonna message her again, if she wants to do anything else its on her
/r/seduction08/08/14 12:00 AM
1

no we were just always outside walking around and when we finally got back to her place her sisters boyfriend was there because they were gonna go pick up the sister from the airport later. There as in, me and her were in her bedroom and he walks in and doesnt leave us alone
/r/seduction08/08/14 12:00 AM
1

yea i know im needy and i need to stop that...
/r/seduction07/08/14 08:36 PM
3

I had a girl over and we hit it off pretty well. I could tell she liked me but there werent really any signs like locking eyes for a while or something so I said fuck it "can i just kiss you already" worked out well
/r/seduction17/03/14 05:53 AM
1

similar thing happened to me yesterday (cockblocked by bf) but she said it was sweet of me to approach her and we talked for a bit while walking to our dorms, might be hope
/r/seduction19/02/14 06:48 PM
4

you dont say it... if you make out you are pretty much already there... just start kissing other parts besides her face and take it from there
/r/seduction12/02/14 10:18 PM
2

this is why i dont drink and also you should have left that whore a lot earlier, anyone who does hard drugs is someone to stay away from in my book
/r/seduction05/02/14 05:29 AM
10

Ive actually tried this and I can confirm that 50% of the time, it works every time
/r/seduction10/01/14 01:48 AM
-5

its ok guys i put up a shirtless selfie of me after shoulder and tri day at the gym... if this doesnt work my app is actually broken
/r/seduction09/01/14 05:26 AM
1

im not unattractive by any means... there have been many hot chicks that found me attractive and my friends who are getting shit tons of matches are not especially good looking either which is what really didnt make sense to me...
/r/seduction09/01/14 03:48 AM
1

Ive literally gone through hundreds of chicks and still have zero matches, yet all my friends got multiple matches within minutes... Im beginning to think mine is broken
/r/seduction08/01/14 04:55 PM
1

I was the same till i took care of it last summer, but havent seen much action since then since im so busy with school. it really doesnt actually do much... like it never even happened. what im saying is its no big deal and nobody but you actually cares that much
/r/seduction02/12/13 07:44 AM
30

zero body fat how are you alive bro go compete
/r/seduction23/10/13 04:55 PM
2

well i dont smoke, so it would be like an ambush which would creep me out if i was a chick too
/r/seduction09/09/13 11:04 PM
9

MFW nobody squats better than me and I have to ask a chick to show me how to squat incorrectly
/r/seduction09/09/13 09:53 PM
2

i knew what that video was before even clicking the link. YOU SEEIN THIS RIGHT NOW?
/r/seduction09/09/13 09:52 PM
6

Ive tried that, and its not easy timing your locker room exit with a girl when you have no idea what shes doing in there...
/r/seduction09/09/13 09:50 PM
1

In the end, the worst that can happen, has already happened to you with girl 3.
/r/seduction22/08/13 09:26 AM
1

Hang out with them outside of said activity. Best way to make friends is to show them you want to be friends
/r/seduction11/08/13 07:45 AM
5

Jokes on you I'm not sleeping with anyone...
/r/seduction13/06/13 08:06 AM
1

I will be living with 2 guys and 1 girl next year at my college. We are all friends already and I am comfortable around girls as my friends but not as much around romantic interests. This girl isnt but hopefully it will still help me
/r/seduction02/06/13 09:28 AM
1

This is great and all, but its the ez mode for seduction. Do this drug-free and sober and its completely different.
/r/seduction20/05/13 05:59 PM
1

Chances are you are not ugly, but you just lacked confidence when you approached her or shes a natural bitch. I've been told I'm quite handsome (by my mother) and I've gotten some bitchass replies before too
/r/seduction12/05/13 05:48 PM
-2

i guess i took a while longer to realize all this, its not like i ask out 200 chicks every day, but when i do its not as big of a deal, which it shouldnt be and the fact that im getting shredded by becoming a bodybuilder doesnt hurt hah!
/r/seduction11/05/13 08:48 AM
1

Dude I used to have the same problem and this is also the reason why I didn't have a date to prom or any other dance for that matter (pathetic I know). I was late to realize that honestly, why do you give so many fucks. Just ask one girl if she says no big deal, you wont care 20 mins later (well if its your first you might) there are so many one will have to say yes eventually
/r/seduction11/05/13 07:01 AM
12

Judging by her shorts I'd say that chick plays soccer, and any chick that plays soccer gets a +1.5 on my scale
/r/seduction08/05/13 07:33 PM
2

What kind of motorcycle do you ride?
/r/seduction08/05/13 04:38 PM
0

not jerkin it will help your confidence, which he is lacking without weed or booze so actually its not useless
/r/seduction06/05/13 03:00 AM
1

Quit being a little bitch. Stop whacking off too
/r/seduction05/05/13 09:06 PM
0

I've got a female friend who is naturally really bitchy all the time. My friends all think she is a major bitch and I gotta agree with them but at the same time I'm still really attracted to her. Maybe its just because she is hot as fuck but I dont know...
/r/seduction30/04/13 04:43 PM
1

wow thats pretty clever, will give it a shot
/r/seduction19/04/13 08:05 PM
3

hmm so you are saying if I do this I can pick up Emily Rudd?!
/r/seduction08/04/13 05:35 AM
1

I'm always looking around when I talk to people just because I tend to notice who comes and leaves the area. I like to notice everyone who is around me. Being aware is something I always try to do.
/r/seduction04/04/13 04:19 AM
22

Oh I meant I literally have seduced a thousand women in my mind going through the steps. Hardly any in real life
/r/seduction31/03/13 12:00 AM
7

Man I've seduced like a thousand women with what I've learned from seddit. Its easy... in my mind
/r/seduction30/03/13 08:40 PM
2

Yeah... its not an EX!!! Its her current boyfriend. Guess I didnt make that clear...
/r/seduction28/03/13 11:05 PM
1

so you are saying to pretty much show no interest or dont chase? I wasnt really chasing to begin with... not yet at least...
/r/seduction28/03/13 06:18 PM
6

Relevant question: What does it mean when a girl brings up her boyfriend (quite often actually) but only complains about him and calls him dumb and useless?
/r/seduction28/03/13 05:23 PM
1

I've been hanging out with this kid I met recently and he just oozes self confidence and has a lot of good shit going for him. I'm always more outgoing and confident myself when I'm around him.
/r/seduction26/03/13 11:50 PM
2

hiyoooo
/r/seduction26/03/13 07:00 AM
24

Canada.
/r/seduction26/03/13 06:21 AM
1

r/nofap really helps... sad that I relapsed today though...fuck that I'll still be awesome even without it!
/r/seduction26/03/13 06:04 AM
1

yeah same here! a month ago no chance I would have even talked to her
/r/seduction26/03/13 02:20 AM
11

I opened on this really cute girl at a museum this saturday, we made pretty good conversation but unfortunately i didnt snag her number. Gonna regret that for a while... I may never see her again
/r/seduction25/03/13 06:33 PM
1

very interesting angle on this... I like the audio
/r/seduction25/03/13 05:21 AM
88

not sure if daughters... or girlfriends...
/r/seduction25/03/13 05:01 AM
2

Anyone here who tries to do seddit and doesnt drink?
/r/seduction22/03/13 05:48 PM
1

James Bond is more like, hey you are pretty good lookin, lets have sex in the shower as I approach you from behind...
/r/seduction22/03/13 02:48 AM
1

What if, whenever you talk to this girl, she keeps mentioning her boyfriend, but calls him stuff like dumb and useless?
/r/seduction22/03/13 02:46 AM
0

Yo I asked out this chick last thursday and made plans for tuesday after school. When I texted her to reconfirm she says she blacked out during class and went home early... Moral of the story is chicks get themselves sick to avoid me. Nah she actually did black out but when I replied with maybe some other day she didnt text back...
/r/seduction20/03/13 02:42 PM
3

dont need no pizza, they got food there... the way he says this line.. priceless
/r/seduction15/03/13 06:51 PM
2

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZPaMdxC6CQI 60% of the time, it works every time
/r/seduction15/03/13 06:46 PM
5

I recently watched Shes Out of My League, and even though its a movie, it was similar to this. The guy was doing fine until he put the chick on a pedestal and then it all fell apart. You have to believe you are good enough, because YOU FUCKING ARE!! If you put someone on a pedestal, they can only look down at you. Also: When you put a chick on a pedestal, she seems perfect/unattainable to a level where she is hardly a person and just an object. Imagine her taking a fat steamy shit, which she DOE…
/r/seduction11/03/13 05:46 PM
20

there is this too lol but in seriousness even if she can do a backflip its still a funny line that will probably get you a yes
/r/seduction10/03/13 08:05 AM
54

Not exactly a one liner but this
/r/seduction10/03/13 06:38 AM
8

Well the fact that I have to have sex with a girl I guess.... I keep imagining it happening like a porno, which I know is totally wrong.
/r/seduction09/03/13 09:36 PM
7

yeah this is the gist im pickin up, after the first time its much easier
/r/seduction09/03/13 09:25 PM
36

this sounds like a good article, but honestly to a virgin like me its also incredibly intimidating
/r/seduction09/03/13 07:12 PM
19

Girls hands tend to get cold quick, especially when they are in my freezer...
/r/seduction09/03/13 07:04 PM
12

Tried this, ended up drooling all over my desk...
/r/seduction08/03/13 12:48 AM
2

Imagine shes taking a fat steamy shit. Really puts things in perspective since everyone knows girls dont shit.
/r/seduction06/03/13 06:38 PM
1

yes this is very true, I have a feeling my opinions on all this might change a lot once I actually do all of it, thanks for the support guys anyhow
/r/seduction06/03/13 05:26 PM
3

Yeah i get that but I cant just go to some club or party and kiss a girl, im not like that. Has to be someone I actually care about. Whats the point if its meaningless other than getting a kiss?
/r/seduction06/03/13 08:14 AM
4

Yeah I want to but I guess I just cant! Seeing all you guys talking about all your closes and stories only makes me feel worse about my own accomplishments. Cant figure out why I can't just do it
/r/seduction06/03/13 07:22 AM
2

yeah this shit works. If they are talking about an event or something be like "so when do i have to show up?" works too, and who knows, you might even get invited if you initially weren't
/r/seduction06/03/13 07:01 AM
33

Sadly this applies to me. you are dead 100% right. I overthink the SHIT OUT OF EVERYTHING. I know a few girls that seems interested in me but instead of acting on it I just over think it. Where do I take her, what do we do. Its pathetic. I need to fix this.
/r/seduction06/03/13 06:54 AM
8

fuck your ex, fuck her best friend, fuck your best friends sister, fuck your best friends mom, fuck her whole family
/r/seduction22/02/13 11:03 PM
1

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OXlZ6edCHqI
/r/seduction21/02/13 02:18 AM
-1

Here is how I assess women. Hot: women you want to have sex with, thats pretty much it, lowest level Cute: Relationship potential girl, you want to do more than just hit it and quit it, level 2 Pretty: Girl you have genuine interest in being with, enjoy her for her Beautiful: Wife material (Emma Watson) Telling a chick shes pretty, she better be damn pretty in order for it to be genuine
/r/seduction20/02/13 09:06 PM
6

Yeah I feel you man
/r/seduction18/02/13 03:36 AM
3

what do you mean by "significant developments"?
/r/seduction18/02/13 01:22 AM
4

http://imgur.com/ZeH8g
/r/seduction17/02/13 08:46 AM
1

Physical eh.... take her to play ice hockey
/r/seduction11/02/13 04:46 PM
7

initially planned to write kill her, but that was too dark
/r/seduction11/02/13 01:52 AM
61

After you undress here, ask her to go someplace EVEN MORE PRIVATE. Redress her
/r/seduction10/02/13 07:58 PM
3

Hey I was about to google esoteric, then I saw your link and thought. Hey wait a minute. I have chrome dictionary and then found out what esoteric meant. I still clicked your link...
/r/seduction27/01/13 01:02 AM
2

I believe you mean kinoing not ketoing unless you are trying to set her up on a low carb diet hahaha
/r/seduction07/01/13 05:22 PM
-4

if you are making out and shit and still cant f close try escalating kino, more rubbin and shit until she lets you in her pants. or you could straight up be like " I want to fuck you now" and see how that works lol
/r/seduction22/12/12 04:37 PM
2

Go to the gym every day. Pretty quick for the returns you get
/r/seduction26/11/12 06:48 PM
2

Yeah those girls are usually all dressed up and wearing makeup and shit, I see em too but I dont really focus on em
/r/seduction20/11/12 09:43 PM
0

Work hard, then they will come to you...
/r/seduction20/11/12 07:04 PM
14

Dont game at the gym. Sure there are hot babes there but they are there to workout (usually). I dont hit on girls at the gym and I wouldn't want them hitting on me, at least not there. When I go to the gym im there to focus on getting ripped. You should not think about anything other than what you are there for.
/r/seduction20/11/12 06:21 PM
3

Yeah i see this helps. Like if you see some super hot girl like trip or drop something or being a clutz it kinda brings you back down to earth like shes a normal fucking human you know. Not some piece of heaven that doesnt have to obey the laws of being a human.
/r/seduction12/09/12 06:28 PM
2

why i dont drink
/r/seduction31/07/12 01:29 PM
3

with pictures
/r/seduction27/07/12 07:04 PM
2

Post follow up when/if date happens
/r/seduction27/07/12 07:04 PM
5

A really cute girl with short blonde hair. Nice legs (toned calfs to be specific) tit size doesnt matter really as long as she has something... Playing soccer is always +2 on my scale.
/r/seduction26/07/12 09:16 PM
1

shame there are not so many stories about PUA doing work, but we can change that
/r/seduction16/07/12 10:19 AM
2

you and me both my friend
/r/seduction16/07/12 12:43 AM
1

Ive been friends with my elementary school crush on facebook for a while now, shes still pretty and not fat, but lives in europe fuck i had even told her i had a crush on her, in fucking elementary school
/r/seduction14/07/12 06:54 PM
1

damn i can say i have been in the exact same position
/r/seduction14/07/12 06:31 PM
5

out of those texts 4 were yours and 2 were hers, im no pro but that is not a good sign
/r/seduction14/07/12 06:30 PM
2

damn that is magic btw what does (y) mean?
/r/seduction14/07/12 06:25 PM
6

dude i was exactly how you were before, in high school, and im starting university soon too and i hope i can not repeat what happened!! this is inspirational to me
/r/seduction14/07/12 06:13 PM
1

dont give up, she might still respond, once i had to wait 8 hours for a reply long after i had given up on it, never figured out why but everything was cool after that
/r/seduction14/07/12 10:35 AM
0

if you are even semi attractive he will say yes unless he is a douche, pretty much thats it
/r/seduction06/07/12 07:05 AM
1

well, we will see on monday....
/r/seduction17/06/12 07:42 AM
1

well yeah i thought about that at first, but its way too random, the day before we were talking a lot and she seemed really chill, and now shes hidin and shit, gotta be some reason for that, usually they just ignore you or soemthing, never hiding and shit
/r/seduction17/06/12 07:37 AM
2

how do you come up with such perfect shit man?
/r/seduction05/06/12 07:00 AM
4

hey can you hold something for me - brilliant!!
/r/seduction06/05/12 12:18 AM
0

wise words. I will do my best to make it happen!
/r/seduction03/05/12 03:42 PM
0

you didnt do anything else like take her out on a date or something? just walked up to her no flowers no creative plan nothing and asked her and she said yes? because thats what I was thinking....
/r/seduction03/05/12 06:41 AM
0

that is a good idea but i dont have enough time for all that stuff.
/r/seduction03/05/12 05:47 AM
0

let me describe exactly when i see her. I have 2 classes at high school for non important reasons, 5th and 7th period. as I go to 5th she walks to 7th from lunch by herself so I could potentially talk to her then. The only other time is after 5th period where she walks to her next class which I do not know. Only other time I might see her is after school outside waiting for her ride. The reason I posted here is because I have a very limited time window to make a good impression pretty much only …
/r/seduction03/05/12 05:33 AM
0

I have a few options but this is #1 choice. We have about a month and a half before the actual dance. I was actually planning on catching her in the hallway because we go the same way to class and talking with her for a bit then finding her after school and then maybe asking her. Getting to know her a bit better before asking.
/r/seduction03/05/12 05:14 AM
1

pics or it didnt happen
/r/seduction24/04/12 12:10 AM
6

I would like to see this question answered as well because I often have the same fear
/r/seduction17/04/12 03:34 PM
5

If you are a king and you want to look relaxed check out Jarl Ulfric
/r/seduction05/04/12 01:46 AM
1

That is true too. Well there is only one way to find out
/r/seduction27/03/12 05:23 AM
3

I want to hear back from you...see if my advice actually works!!!
/r/seduction27/03/12 05:10 AM
0

Say "PROVE IT" and pull down your pants... thats pretty fucking alpha, i mean if shes boasting about it you know she wants it. It will only turn her on even more if you suddenly whip out your cock
/r/seduction27/03/12 03:31 AM
1

Im not that amazing at reading people but I bet if i had asked her out last friday she would have said yes. today, on the other hand, definitely not. does that help you at all?
/r/seduction13/03/12 08:35 PM
1

I was actually thinking of asking why shes in such a bad mood but she didnt seem like she wanted to talk at all. whatever we ill see tomorrow
/r/seduction13/03/12 06:32 PM
2

Weve been talking for a while now ( like weeks) and usually we get along pretty well. Then yesterday she said she was feeling kinda sick ( maybe got flu) and then today nothing. I even dropped some of my best jokes which usually make her laugh she didnt even crack a smile.
/r/seduction13/03/12 06:07 PM
1

how do i sound like a jackass, id say i sound like someone whos inexperienced, cuz i am
/r/seduction13/03/12 12:22 AM
-1

ok think about how what you are writing sounds
/r/seduction12/03/12 11:07 PM
-1

wow not gonna judge but sounds like your highschool had a lot of whores
/r/seduction12/03/12 10:20 PM
0

yeah excpet she is fucking 17 and we are both in highschool.
/r/seduction12/03/12 10:13 PM
0

i know, but is there really a point to ask her out if shes already in a relationship?
/r/seduction12/03/12 05:20 PM
0

um yeah actually it would...
/r/seduction12/03/12 05:06 PM
8

you should be a stand up comedian
/r/seduction11/03/12 09:32 PM
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