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There is hope for you yet. I'm 6'6" and fit just fine in a 2006 997 C4, I had about 0.5-1inch of headroom. I don't fit comfortably in most cars but I could have easily driven that thing cross-country with little to no discomfort. Now the 1990 and 1993 911s were tiny and uncomfortable. I had to recline the seat, lean my upper body to the right, and I would have to lift my right leg to shift into reverse and sometimes 1st. Which sucked because those years of 911s were so much fun to drive, felt li…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/22 04:54 PM
29

It's an oscar's joke.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/22 07:42 PM
5

...and they she could see partly into the future. ​ Left immediately and blocked everything before even starting my car. Bet she didn't see that one coming.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/08/21 04:13 AM
23

If they show a willingness to reschedule then proceed but if none is made don't. Case I: "I'll check my schedule and get back to you." Then if you are free get back to her with a time and place. Case II: Not interested, next. Unless she initiates at a later date and is game.
/r/askTRP22/06/21 05:03 AM
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My pleasure. Good luck.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 05:23 AM

In the future you should reply with the terms and make sure that he understands if they are violated then the deal is off. "Yes 1 week is fine BUT 1 week only and I expect the standards of cleanliness to be upheld. When the week is up or you fail to uphold your end of the bargain then it's time for her to leave." But it's on you to enforce. If it's been 8 days you need to go to him and say "We agreed to a week and it's been over a week, time for her to go." If you get push back just mention that…
/r/askTRP21/06/21 05:00 AM
1

I mostly go on symptoms backed up by the numbers. I knew what I felt like in highschool and college and it was a dramatic difference to how shitty I felt in my mid 20s. The number was just a way to verify my hypothesis. Write down what kind of symptoms you think you are experiencing then afterwards search for symptoms of low-t and see how they match up. I recommend searching for the symptoms after so you can get a more accurate picture. If you know what symptoms to look out for before hand you m…
/r/askTRP21/06/21 04:46 AM
1

Prescription cost used to be $7 a month but this year it jumped to $30 (400mg a month, w/ insurance)--Test C only, my E2 stays within range so no need for an AI. Early 30's but dealt with it through the last 5+ years of my 20's before I finally found somebody to work with me. I got the "oh you're in the 300s that's in range..." line for a long time. It wasn't until it dropped to 220 that they decided something was wrong. It really pissed me off because when I finally got above 600 I felt so much…
/r/askTRP21/06/21 03:34 AM
13

Energy levels increase, libido through the roof, increase muscle mass assuming you put in the work, better outlook on life. Your balls might shrink a bit and be slightly tender for a bit a few weeks into it. If you have the gene that makes your hair follicles sensitive to a rise in DHT you will find out in a few months. Things didn't change overnight. For me it was around week 7 or 8 when things took off and it was like a veil had been lifted. Things began improving and my whole outlook shifted,…
/r/askTRP20/06/21 08:20 AM
17

Swallow your ego or swallow your teeth. Next time don't even escalate the situation just drive away unphased. Keep doing what you're doing and one day you'll probably wake up in the hospital, not worth it.
/r/askTRP08/06/21 09:49 AM
1

I got that one from Roosh's book Day Bang.
/r/askTRP08/06/21 12:55 AM
6

Can't tell you what to do while they are moving stuff out but I like to be present when there is a stranger in my house. Whatever you decide, do change the locks when it's done.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 09:02 AM
7

Running with the job question. I tend to ask something along the lines of do you enjoy it? Doesn't matter what she says next question is, If you could do anything what would you do? Let her answer then create a fantasy and have some fun with it.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 07:25 AM
1

For sure. This whole cutting thing is new to me. I spent a lot of my life eating an exorbitant amount of calories just maintaining weight and when I got out of college and was no longer playing football I forgot to lose my appetite. Oh well I'd rather this then being a "hardgainer".
/r/askTRP05/06/21 02:26 PM
2

Cook chicken breast or any other meat and make a cream sauce using heavy cream and cheese (alfredo sauce comes to mind). Heavy cream is very calorie dense. My go to is to cook chicken breast in an instant pot with 1-2 cups of broth. Remove chicken then add a cup of cream and some cheese, then simmer until thickened(can also use some cornstarch or flour to help). My two favorite dishes are a parmesan and mushroom sauce or a buffalo cheese sauce. The way I make it, 1 serving comes out to 942kcal, …
/r/askTRP05/06/21 07:06 AM
2

This is what I do once I've got it down to the two best options. I don't even wait for the coin to land, when it's in the air I immediately know which choice I want to make and just go with it.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 09:13 AM
4

Set up another date some time and act like it never happened.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 08:58 AM
1

Add weight on the pullups. Personally I prefer Bentover Rows for backwork. I feel a much better connection in the muscles I'm working. Need to keep a good balance and should be able to row nearly as much as you bench.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 04:51 AM
1

Was a farm hand for my grandparents for a bit and got a side gig that consisted of setting up in fields at night and shooting coyotes that were harassing livestock at a couple neighboring farms.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 07:08 AM
2

Dude...
/r/askTRP04/05/21 09:17 AM
9

She's attempting to pull you into orbit. Ignore and keep your dignity. Heed these words. “As a dog returneth to his vomit, so a fool returneth to his folly.”
/r/askTRP04/05/21 09:10 AM
1

Being on such a substantial calorie deficit can definitely fuck with your sleep and energy levels which can cause all kinds of issues. If I have a deficit much greater than 750 calories for a week I feel like dog poop (no energy, no motivation, etc...). I think a good step would be to get your diet right. If it's an underlying medical issue then you should get that sorted out. Unless it's medical I can't imagine that you can't force yourself to eat 2,000+ calories if you really wanted to. Do you…
/r/askTRP03/05/21 09:12 AM
5

She sounds charming... Just ignore and continue doing what you're doing. If she pushes I'd just withdrawal she sounds like a headache.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 01:38 AM
3

Have you invented a time machine yet, No? Then there is absolutely nothing you can do about it other than using it as motivation to go out there and improve yourself. By your words you wasted those years so do you want to continue wasting time dwelling on shit you have no control over?
/r/askTRP01/05/21 09:51 AM
3

What’s the chameleon trick ? Like actually wanting kids but pretending not to ? Yes. They essentially say they believe in whatever positions you hold without actually holding said positions.
/r/askTRP01/05/21 08:01 AM
3

SCUBA tanks and ride on the ocean floor. I hear he is the only person to jump the Mariana trench.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 03:48 AM
2

Because even in today's world power is backed up by physical force/violence.
/r/askTRP26/04/21 05:58 AM
3

"HOW TO GET LAID LIKE A WARLORD" Part 2: Inner game.
/r/askTRP26/04/21 05:36 AM
1

Don't feel bad. It's not your place, simple as that. When/if she feels comfortable telling him then she will but until then just be a good brother to her.
/r/askTRP26/04/21 05:26 AM
3

Ha I've seen a few of your call outs lately, totally deserved--people who are still green behind the ears getting pushed towards EC status right out of the gate. Keep up the good fight.
/r/askTRP26/04/21 03:47 AM
18

whispers "Ricky Spanish"
/r/askTRP20/04/21 08:49 AM
1

Depending on the amount of course credits you have accrued the Warrant route could be an option. It's been a while but I think I had 90 credits when I was putting together my WOFT packet.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 10:04 AM
5

Stop asking them questions tell them or just do it. They have the ability to say "no" or not answer a call. Asking questions shows you're insecure in your actions.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 09:54 AM
2

Don't forget the handcuffs.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 09:52 AM
2

It's ego investment. Anyone who makes a "cause" a part of their identity will balk and react this way because they interpret it as an attack on their person rather than a rebuttal of ideas. Best to not engage with these types as nothing of value will ever be gained.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 05:37 AM
11

Nice try FBI.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 09:59 AM
1

sort of acted indifferent. She responded by saying "It sucks that we are different, because I'm so in love with you" I anticipate an "I need space to find myself" talk incoming. "Yea maybe" Yeah she's already pulled the ejector handle and cleared the canopy. His frame kind of crumbled but I suspect she was already on her way out and was just using work as an excuse to distance. The longest I've ever not talked to her is like 5 days. I reckon she'd become stressed if I didn't say anything for lik…
/r/askTRP16/04/21 09:24 AM
2

As others have said this is your problem not his. This is nature. Second, why would you want to cut off contact with a high value dude who hasn't transgressed and who appears to have his shit together. Why not use that to your advantage and learn some things from him so you can better yourself and get to his level or beyond.
/r/askTRP13/04/21 04:40 AM
1

This. Women don't care about the journey they care about the results. They don't want to know how the sausage is made they just like the end product.
/r/askTRP12/04/21 07:35 AM
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What is going on here? She's an idiot that wants to play stupid games. She thought you would chase after her, "oh baby I'm so sorry what can I do for m'lady to make up for this serious offense?!" Then got buttmad when you didn't. So show her you are a man of value and drop her like a bad habit. You don't have time for childish games.
/r/askTRP03/04/21 06:21 AM
2

How do you get to Carnegie Hall? Go out and start making small talk with anyone. Guys, girls, old, young talk to them all. Don't try and script something out before hand just jump in feet first and try to go with the flow. This is what has been working for me. It helps when you can approach people you have no sexual desire in so you aren't in your head about saying the wrong thing or any non-sense. Try to connect mundane topics to interesting things that may have happened to you. For instance on…
/r/askTRP02/04/21 08:54 AM
0

You are probably giving off a good time guy vibe. The side guy that slings dick and isn't seeking anything substantial.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 08:37 AM
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I've never met a girl that didn't just get out of an "abusive" relationship.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 08:34 AM
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18-25. The 4.5 years in college I was basically tripping over it. I had incredible preselection working for me.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 07:49 AM
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but one could argue it shows strength because you're removing them from your life and moving forward. This is how I see it. What shows more determination/strength/drive someone who always has a parachute or path back to the old ways or someone that burns the ships and says "retreat is not an option, the only way through is forward." I block/delete because once a relationship is over, as far as I'm concerned, that person no longer exists.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 02:16 AM
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To piggyback are you keeping track of your lifts? If not how are you going to track progress. I have spreadsheets of every lifting workout/program going back years. I track reps, volume, weights used, PRs, goals, etc. I also have my lifts/program projected a few months into the future with stated goals so I know what I am working towards. If you don't program or track or set goals you're going to just be spinning your wheels going in circles. Give us some more info. Where did you start: bodyweig…
/r/askTRP21/03/21 05:36 AM
1

As other have pointed out he is right about both lifting vs cardio and obesity. The battle for weight loss is 90% diet, 10% training. Lifting > cardio, but any form of exercise is better than none. Fuck motivation you need discipline. Motivation is fleeting and for weak willed individuals that run on emotion. Discipline will keep you plugging away day after day. For workout related stuff check out places like barbend, built by science, stronger with science, Brian Alsruhe, Mountaindog1, etc... F…
/r/askTRP20/03/21 09:37 AM
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Best is a tough call but either a uro or endo would be preferred. I think a lot of it depends on whether your hypogonadism is primary or secondary. I'd just ask your primary care physician what they recommend.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 03:23 AM
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First urologist then after the MRI I got put in with a neurosurgeon and endocrinologist. But I went back to the uro since everything is stable now.
/r/askTRP16/03/21 09:48 AM
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I went through a really bad few years I pretty much turned into a different person and was exhibiting classic symptoms of low t but since I was at 440 they told me I was fine but I knew something was seriously fucked. I used to be outgoing and motivated and out of nowhere I became very withdrawn and just couldn't find pleasure in things that I used to love. I kept pushing and pushing for more testing. Then around the time I hit my late 20s it again dropped to 260ng/dl. Went to the urologist and …
/r/askTRP16/03/21 09:35 AM
1

Have you had a full discussion with your physician? Is this your primary care physician or a specialist like endo/uro? If it's the latter you might have a better shot at them being knowledgeable about all that TRT entails. Just know you're pretty much signing on for the rest of your life. For what it's worth I got put on it a few years ago at 28 after suffering for nearly a decade and it was a game changer. I don't know anything about sustanon as I am on test-c. From what I have read every 3-4wk…
/r/askTRP16/03/21 09:23 AM
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The amount of time it takes you to pick up your phone and call another girl.
/r/askTRP16/03/21 08:06 AM
8

Do not LTR a chick with a guy best friend. This chick took it a step further and didn't just have the best friend she also fucked him before and lied about it when asked. No way I'm wasting my time doing anything but plating someone like this.
/r/askTRP15/03/21 03:45 AM
1

I mean it doesn't specify what she needs to do. It does. She needs to not do X. She thinks "hmm he doesnt like me doing x but what should i do instead". Pretty much anything but X. You aren't trying to control her by saying do this and this. You are establishing boundaries by informing her that you don't tolerate X and if she continues this it's adios. Is your method indeed successful for that? Like why would she even stop it? Because she values you. If she doesn't stop then she doesn't value yo…
/r/askTRP14/03/21 05:34 AM
3

I got some mileage out of The Power of Now. It got me to be mindful of the times I wasn't present and helped me teach myself to enjoy the little things.
/r/askTRP12/03/21 07:24 AM
8

Classic nice guy. You should read No More Mr. Nice Guy, particularly on the subject of covert contracts. In her eyes you are her errand boy nothing more. What was this tough position you were backed into? To help or not help some girl hoping to get in her pants or something more?
/r/askTRP09/03/21 08:43 AM
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Don't talk politics. Two things I never discuss in public are politics and religion. It will almost always lead to arguments, shouting matches, or isolation. As for the non-pc part I can't help you. I'm not PC at all and outside of work I don't give a damn what some limp wristed cunt thinks about me. Think as you like but behave like others.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 07:45 AM
3

Np friend. One thing that helped me was tracking my goals and/or setting aside 5-10 minutes at the end of the day to reflect on things. Many times I will feel a little down like I haven't accomplished anything but when I go back through my day and actually recall all the "wins" I had I would realize I was ignoring all the positives and putting all my focus on the negatives. You can imagine how detrimental this can be to someone. I would come across days where I was clearing 70-80% of my goals fo…
/r/askTRP09/03/21 06:02 AM
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Drugs. Joking. Do you have any good male friends? That's a good area to talk and work through problems. Do you have any goals you are working towards? Something to give you purpose. Is the relationship causing you problems? Is it because deep down you know you can do better and are unsatisfied which manifests itself as depressive moods?
/r/askTRP09/03/21 05:20 AM
3

But seeing people make the same amount or almost the same amount as me by whoring without going through the struggles like I did Your struggles came before theirs will come later when no halfway decent man will do anything but pump and dump them because who wants to be with a whore. Don't worry about them as the saying goes "comparison is the thief of happiness." I'm convinced that most of the ones they tout making that much money are a super-minority and are propped up and pushed by the platfor…
/r/askTRP09/03/21 04:59 AM
1

"Okay." Then radio silence. She no longer exists as far as you're concerned.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 04:46 AM
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2 in the stunning, 1 in the brave.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 04:43 AM
1

Would you build a house without first laying a foundation? Boo hoo I don't like legs I'll just figure out a way to dismiss it so I don't feel like a loser. Don't be a loser. Build up that posterior chain so you can hip thrust a chick through the wall.
/r/askTRP08/03/21 06:44 AM
3

Ball is in her court the onus is on her. As others have suggested in the future don't ask her but tell her what you are doing and when and ask if she would like to join you. If she is into you then she will accept or at the least try to reschedule.
/r/askTRP07/03/21 06:21 AM
2

You shouldn't get to the point where you need to but if you just can't help yourself say something like your phone is dead or in the other room "I need to use your phone to send a message." You don't need to look through it just judge on how she reacts. Does she immediately hand it over or does she make excuses or start frantically deleting things?
/r/askTRP07/03/21 04:57 AM
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She just doesn’t give a answer and changes the subject or stays quiet She did give you an answer. Don't listen to what they say but watch what they do. Also stop asking stupid questions, you aren't even dating this girl. It's very insecure and will be like a bright spotlight to her.
/r/askTRP07/03/21 04:20 AM
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That is a straight up black flag, beat feet as fast as you can, situation.
/r/askTRP02/03/21 06:15 AM
2

Ah seems things have really taken off in the past decade since I was there.
/r/askTRP02/03/21 04:07 AM
2

Damn dude what timeframe was this? I played football in college during the late 2000's and the only NCAA stuff we had to do was the drug tests.
/r/askTRP01/03/21 06:46 AM
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Need some advice. long distance relationship Yeah don't do that. She didn't break it off because you went out with friends. She was already on her way out this was just the thing she latched on to. For emphasis LDRs do not work. Ever.
/r/askTRP27/02/21 09:37 AM
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You need to first focus on fixing your loneliness and feeling of being lost. While no man can stand on their own but you should be comfortable in being alone because when it comes down to it it's you and only you that is responsible for yourself. That doesn't mean putting up walls and making yourself an island it just means figuring out that being isolated for periods of time aren't going to make you crumble. It's the same thing I say to people who are always bored. Boring people are bored. I we…
/r/askTRP20/02/21 05:59 AM
2

This or a gentleman's haircut. Your barber will know what it is it's one of the cuts they are tested on. Stick to the classics they never go out of style. I have done everything from buzzed to long shag, wore a high and tight for most of my life but have since settled on short/medium sides long top, it's easy and works for me. If you do fades and live near a base then there are usually a few really good barber shops within spitting distance of the front gate. I don't bother with styling it too m…
/r/askTRP19/02/21 10:00 AM
1

You got to learn to hide your power level lol. When it comes to politics just stfu. In today's political climate there is nothing to gain and everything to lose. Think as you like but behave like others.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 07:28 AM
1

It's slang for a $10 bill.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 05:20 AM
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How do you think procreation/pregnancy works? Yes, Uncle-Dad did creampie his future Cousin-Wife.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 07:45 AM
14

If you are looking for a LTR then, in my experience, 6-7.5/10 is the ideal range to look at.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 07:33 AM
1

Taking up motorcycling is the fastest way to pick up boomer friends. I've only met a handful of guys my age since I started riding 5 years ago but I can't go out anywhere without some older gent telling me about their glory days.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 06:41 AM
2

5 minutes but I tend to be quite strict. Don't waste my time. If they realize they are going to be late then a quick text/call can let me know and maybe we can work something out. But in my world if you aren't early, you're late.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 07:55 AM
1

Not off the top of my head. Just keep working on yourself and improving. There is always room to get better. You can always practice your conversational skills. It is a skill that will serve you in almost every aspect of your life when dealing with others. So many people today can't even carry on a short conversation with strangers. Just because you are introverted doesn't mean you shouldn't be able to charm a room.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 11:18 AM
1

You've never been in the mood for a laugh?
/r/askTRP10/11/20 05:47 AM
2

Welfare. The State has taken over the position of men. So instead of finding one quality man and settling down the State just robs all men to pay for the poor choices of those women.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 05:42 AM
4

It's okay to be quiet and aloof as long as you have other traits or characteristics that portray high value. You can't just sit in a corner and brood you need to be interesting, intriguing, or already established. Too many shy/introverted individuals tend to think "all I have to do is be quiet and people will think I'm mysterious," nope like everything else you need to have some other draw that will pick up the slack be it looks, money, etc. For me one of the great things about being introverted…
/r/askTRP10/11/20 05:11 AM
1

How do you internalize these elements of the red pill to the point where you don’t start considering every girl you sleep w for a ltr? To add to what blue said, change your mindset. Most guys are specifically looking for an LTR. The mindset tends to be this girl seems good how can I qualify her to myself. However, you should just be looking for girls and then letting them prove themselves to you. You are the buyer in the position of power, they are the seller trying to convince you that their pr…
/r/askTRP03/11/20 06:34 AM
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"Do what you want." If that's too straightforward for you then find your own way to say it. If she is a plate then what she does should have no bearing on your life other than if she occasionally tags along for some fun.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 03:55 AM
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Don't look to make a girl your gf that's like going to a car dealership and doing the salesman's job for them. Don't sell her to yourself she has to sell herself to you.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 10:33 AM
1

or just doing a no-contact and texting her mom a list of logistical details like how to get her shit out of here and change her mailing address. Pop smoke brother it's the only option.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 03:36 AM
1

Strong orbit too, he's approaching the event horizon.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 09:26 AM
2

Get him a puppy immediately. Someone who will love him unconditionally. Puppy are known to improve a person's mood. And he needs it to go through this tough time. This x1000 assuming he is someone who enjoys dogs. My most recent dogs got me through some extremely difficult years. They have been gone for nearly 6 years now and I don't think I go a week without thinking about them and what a joy they were.
/r/askTRP24/05/20 04:21 AM
1

Yeah I'm not quite there either, but keep in mind those are seriously advanced numbers. They are my big milestone goals. It really depends what you are looking for. If you want raw strength go do a 5/3/1 or similar. If you want physique find a nice bodybuilding program I think a lot of PPLs are set up geared more towards it. I'm currently working through Juggernaut 2.0 with 5/3/1 accessories and next I'm going to run GZCL VDIP for a few cycles. I never gave SS or stronglifts the time of day so c…
/r/askTRP23/05/20 03:00 PM
1

Don't worry about the numbers. As far as attraction goes numbers are arbitrary. But since you asked, if you want to judge if you are strong af or not then the general numbers I use are: bench: 1.5x squat: 2x deadlift: 2.5x press: 1x Keep in mind these are advanced ratios and only people who have been lifting hard for quite some time will be able to reach them. The thing is you shouldn't be bothered with these numbers the only thing that matters is that your lifts go up over time. Just keep them …
/r/askTRP23/05/20 09:39 AM
3

"her past relationships were abusive men" This is pretty much every woman's description of a past relationship. Just skimming this and can tell this chick is all kinds of messed up. What the hell are you doing in a relationship with her. This entire relationship is in her frame. Grab your balls and do what you want to do and stop worrying about her.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 04:07 AM
1

Be better aware of your surroundings.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 03:40 AM
5

Ha! This is about politics and corruption not TRP.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/20 03:38 AM
11

5'10" and 130, you could sneeze and send him tumbling across the room.
/r/askTRP17/05/20 06:14 AM
1

Like a dog returning to its vomit.
/r/askTRP16/05/20 07:17 AM
4

This is the death ground strategy and it can be very effective, in fact it is what has helped me achieve most of my goals. I learned through many mistakes that a plan B while comforting decreased my drive of completing my primary goal. It comes from the 1500's when Cortés landed in Central America and began his conquest of Mexico, he had his men burn the ships. When you burn the ships there is no turning back the only choice is to move forward. Run with plan A until the end. There is no plan B.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 04:26 AM
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Laugh at his blue pilled ass, he's her emotional tampon. Assign him a new nickname, "dear diary" whenever it's brought up. Don't share anything you don't want out in public with a women they can't keep their mouths shut, gossip is their favorite past time. PS don't "kick his ass" that's the most beta mate-guarding shit you can do and is extremely immature.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 06:59 AM
3

Stop living in her frame. You do what you want, if that generates interest from her good if not who cares more where that came from.
/r/askTRP05/05/20 07:22 AM
1

Treat'em like dirt and they'll stick to you like mud.
/r/askTRP05/05/20 04:24 AM
9

When a girl calls you "controlling" what it really means is you are taking away one of her avenues to cheat(possibly) while in a relationship with you. You done good.
/r/askTRP05/05/20 04:19 AM
2

Laugh tracks are the worst. The are worse than the writing.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 08:30 AM
1

My thoughts exactly.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 01:12 AM
7

I think the royals are going to snuff her first.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 08:10 AM
8

Because women.
/r/askTRP28/04/20 06:31 AM
13

A Space Odyssey.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 05:00 AM
3

I played all kinds of sports growing up and football in college. I can't stand watching sports and will not do so. It's boring as fuck watching other people play I'd rather go engage in the activity myself. When people find out I played they want to talk about the games non-stop. I have zero desire to engage in these conversations so I just stop them there and tell them I don't watch sports.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 04:58 AM
1

introduce you to her friends. This has a high probability of backfiring unless you have some good game or the girls are with their boyfriends at the time. Whatever girl she introduces to him will most likely begin to wonder why? If he is so good or worth dating/fucking why isn't she(the friend) doing it instead of passing him off. Just my experience but the only time this really works is if you have fucked that friend before and she can talk you up. Women are attracted to men other women want. F…
/r/askTRP26/04/20 03:52 AM
1

I think it's easier to think in terms of attraction vs. arousal. She will be aroused by the alpha but be attracted to but not aroused by the beta provider for what he can supply (attention, money, etc.).
/r/askTRP26/04/20 03:42 AM
2

Tits all day.
/r/askTRP26/04/20 03:31 AM
2

Is there any possible way for you to go back in time and change the past? No, get over it. The past is the past your focus should be on the present and the future. Take that first baby step, the first step is the hardest, but you'll be surprised how quickly and easily you gain momentum once you start.
/r/askTRP25/04/20 05:41 AM
1

Sounds like a FWB not a plate.
/r/askTRP25/04/20 05:31 AM
5

Of course you should care what your LTR posts on social media. This “rEdPiLl” notion that you shouldn’t care anyway is bull-fucking-shit. I feel the same way. Posting on social media in that fashion is her marketing herself to other dudes, I just don't see any other way to spin it.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 08:02 AM
1

Do the audio book.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 08:00 AM
2

One time, which is drawing the line/setting the boundary. Once the line is drawn I give no quarter.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 09:28 AM
4

Have a serious one on one. Just tell him something like "I don't appreciate you talking to me like that, don't do it anymore" and leave it at that. If he continues drop him immediately, no muss no fuss. Or channel your inner Walken. There is a slim chance he doesn't realize he is being such a twat, this is the type of way you clown friends in private and maybe he gets carried away and brings it into the public arena, but most likely he does understand what he is doing and won't stop until you co…
/r/askTRP21/04/20 09:13 AM
1

Good job. Other than that it really is a deep dive down the rabbit hole. Following links to other links is how I did it.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 08:50 AM
13

Going to have to agree with nads here, this dude ain't "shit testing" you he's straight up disrespecting you.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 08:46 AM
6

Scroll up, second thread from the top "I Created a PDF of asktrp's Sidebar."
/r/askTRP21/04/20 08:41 AM
2

Maybe you could get them involved and cook the meal together. That way you can lead her and instruct her on what to do and what you need—have her assist you by doing things like preparing and passing you the ingredients like a surgical nurse would in the OR. But actually bringing them breakfast in bed is a super cliche chump move in my opinion. The main point being that you are cooking because you like to cook not to please her or to create a later obligation for her to fill.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 06:26 AM
2

Sidebar 50 Shades Redder IM MAXIM #66 – “If you really want to know a woman’s notch count (number of partners), feign non-judgement. Indicate you have slept with hundreds of women. From comfort, follows truth.”
/r/askTRP21/04/20 06:08 AM
2

PERSEC is info about you like your username, OPSEC would be about TRP in general.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 01:44 PM
3

Deep six this account for starts. And practice some PERSEC next time around. As for now don't entertain it, you don't have to answer questions you don't want to nobody is forcing you. Just deflect and change the subject.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 10:53 AM
4

Don't reply at all there is no reason to respond. Just go about your business like nothing happened and wait for her to contact again.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 08:58 AM
2

She's not yours, it's just your turn. Once you internalize that and stop viewing women as possessions the jealousy will dissipate.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 08:40 AM
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"Guys just hear me out, this is different. She's special not like all the other ones." Come on dude. Reread One Two Specifically #5, 8, 9, 15 Top coment says it all "LDRs are the same as falling in love with a camgirl, for fuck's sake." Three: Am I a beta faggot? Read the sidebar eh? How can you lie to yourself like that... STOP BEING A DUMBASS. You need to go back to square one because nothing you supposedly read has stuck. Educate yourself before she cucks you then crushes you. Cliff notes she…
/r/askTRP20/04/20 07:05 AM
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Figured it was along those lines. You are exhibiting the characteristic traits of someone that comes from a place with an overbearing female figure. She stood up for me and kept speaking up for me when I never asked her to. These are things men do. You should be doing it for yourself not letting a woman speak for you. She patiently but insistently talked to me to make me open up about my insecurities. It really sounds like you're looking for a mom not a companion/girlfriend/fuck buddy.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 08:39 AM
2

Be specific with your goals. How are you going to be more involved in your community? Just saying "become more involved" is too broad, you need a specific objective to work towards or you may find yourself wondering aimlessly. For marathon/triathlon have an overall goal of finishing it but you need incremental goals leading up to it, ie. Run X-miles by Y-date. Then once you achieve it create a new short term goal for the next milestone, this creates a road map for you like following a recipe. Th…
/r/askTRP19/04/20 08:21 AM
3

Question, were you raised by a single mom?
/r/askTRP19/04/20 04:25 AM
6

"You're right, nevermind." Don't say that unless you want to blow it up. I really have no good answer I'm also interested to hear what others have to say because I wouldn't exactly know how to respond. I will say in my BP days I was banging a chick that was hot but low value and she knew it so she would get uncomfortable when I would give her some praise because she knew she didn't deserve it. Seems like there is a possibility you are dealing with someone in a similar state.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 09:45 AM
2

Well said, I concur.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 08:41 AM
1

Damn dude. Yeah that would do it for me too.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 08:32 AM
1

Yeah he can be brash and over the top at times but his breakdown videos are gold for showing TRP principles in action.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 08:09 AM
2

This is my default. I love tits and I will not apologize for it. Are you ogling them constantly and actually being a creep or are you just checking them out in passing?
/r/askTRP18/04/20 07:26 AM
2

What do you mean by beeline? He just means he makes a direct approach to her.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 07:23 AM
2

Is there a path or any advice one can give so that I can accept the Red Pill as it is? I think the best way is to see it in action. Donovan does some video breakdowns of dating shows and explains it by showing some real world examples. Once you start to understand those you will begin to see it in your day to day life by just observing the actions of others in you proximity. For me it was actually seeing and experiencing it that gave me my 'ah ha' moment. Every man has to work hard at something.…
/r/askTRP18/04/20 07:20 AM
2

You don't respond. Delete contact and move on.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 06:59 AM
1

Treat it like anything else but beware the dependapotamus. I personally wouldn't commit to anything until I was in town though.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 06:57 AM
5

He doesn't he's looking for an excuse not to lift and exercise.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 06:44 AM
5

What has she done to deserve to be elevated to LTR status? The onus is on her to qualify herself to you not the other way around. Meaning when she begins acting like LTR material by not sleeping around and committing to you then you can begin thinking about bringing her up to the big leagues but never before.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 06:10 AM
1

What do you think? Re-read what you wrote I've known this girl since early January. Been on about 6 or 7 dates... ...Thus far, she has not responded well when I try to escalate. Every time I "make my move" she just turns weird and the whole interaction becomes awkward. She told me she was "not ready yet". She NEVER initiates contact but is usually receptive when I do(responds fast, ask questions,etc). If you have been around here for more than a few days or read any of the sidebar you would know…
/r/askTRP18/04/20 06:00 AM
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He's inferring that OP is a pussy.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 09:41 AM
4

The medium is the message.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 08:04 AM
3

Edited To Add. But I will always see it like Reaper as estimated time of arrival.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 05:13 AM
3

NO! If you are even asking this question then it's a FUCK NO!!
/r/askTRP17/04/20 04:19 AM
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Plot twist: dudes girl is sweating OP and wants the D and his friend is trying beta shame game.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 08:45 AM
2

What's the point of taking time to try and explain something to someone that is too lazy to seek it out themselves when the information is readily available? I bet if OP came in referenced a few articles and gave their interpretation of said articles and things they have experienced or tried, then they would get a different response.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 04:54 AM
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"I'm sorry you feel that way." You aren't apologizing for any of your actions, but giving her an underhanded rebuttal. The only time you should ever apologize is if you believe you are in the wrong, these instances should be very rare. And never if someone makes the demand which is exactly what she is doing, she is attempting to control you by getting emotional. If you were to apologize in this circumstance she would know she can control you and would lose any respect she might have had. Would y…
/r/askTRP14/04/20 04:49 AM
1

Absent father and living with hippie mom. Yikes.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 03:48 AM
10

<5
/r/askTRP11/04/20 06:13 AM
1

Gordon Ramsey provides a lot of great videos, this playlist glosses over the basics. I like him because he is no bullshit and watching these videos you can see the enthusiasm he has for his craft.
/r/askTRP11/04/20 05:12 AM
1

Do as many as you can then do assisted ups with a focus on the negative (lowering) motion.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 10:26 AM
1

Can't say I have ever had this question posed but if I did I would stay ambiguous and answer with, "yes and no" for both and leave it at that, don't explain or expound further. Let her come to her own conclusions about what it might mean. Because whatever I say doesn't really matter my actions speak for me.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 05:47 AM
5

You can't target fat loss unless you do lipo or some other type of surgery. You lose fat all over. Now the reason you're still noticing a lot in the belly is most likely down to genetics. Me I seem to gain fat in my thighs and stomach first and lose that same fat last. Nothing you can do to change that it's how your body works.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 08:20 AM
1

How the fuck can you withdraw attention when it's the sole source of pussy in my life with almost 0 opportunities to game new girls? Also the fact that he is solely focused on pussy and derives at least part of his self worth on it.
/r/askTRP06/04/20 05:36 AM
1

"When was the last time you ran anywhere without holding down 'Shift'?"
/r/askTRP06/04/20 05:21 AM
2

Manipulation. Women use tears for manipulation. If she is crying and there is an audience around 11 times out of 10 it's for attention or manipulation.
/r/askTRP06/04/20 04:54 AM
2

"You remind me so much of my mom." Then get super clingy and do a bunch of shit a simp would do. Should drive her away.
/r/askTRP06/04/20 04:48 AM
3

You know what trickle truth is? Well you're going to in the near future.
/r/askTRP06/04/20 04:42 AM
3

They have done it before and they will do it again.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/20 04:37 AM
6

NO NO! This one is different I swear.
/r/askTRP06/04/20 04:34 AM
1

Yeah I always saw it as the communications degree for normies. Just speaking generally. Meaning a lot of the guys I played ball with took communications because its one of the easiest.
/r/askTRP06/04/20 04:23 AM
1

Because I want to. If that want and desire is internal then it's that simple no reason to break it down any further.
/r/askTRP06/04/20 03:52 AM
1

He is. The best you can do is give her the information, lay it out and let her make her own decisions.
/r/askTRP05/04/20 10:02 AM
2

This girl cheated on her previous partner with me, should I fight to date a cheating slut? Involved with her ex how? Need clarification.
/r/askTRP05/04/20 06:34 AM
1

I like it sometimes. It acts as a secondary filter for people who haven't read the sidebar and makes blue pills stand out like a sore thumb. Just a quick glance over most of the info that is required reading for the sub will help them navigate the threads and find the right answers. It also lets them see many of the BP answers get shit on by others, so not only does it show you what to do it also shows you specifically what NOT to do.
/r/askTRP05/04/20 04:42 AM
5

Yup, they have probably had anything they wanted provided for them. I've met some women from very wealthy families that had no idea the value of money. They have never held an actual job, paid taxes or any other expenses for that matter. $2 or $200 it doesn't matter it's all the same to them.
/r/askTRP05/04/20 04:32 AM
5

Delphinidae, no shit I never knew that. Thanks stranger.
/r/askTRP05/04/20 04:21 AM
1

Attention whore.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 08:01 AM
2

Is it still April 1st?
/r/askTRP03/04/20 06:04 AM
3

I look in the mirror a lot and hate what I see. Then change what you can. If you can't love yourself how could you ever expect someone else to. There are very few people who will look "ugly" with some muscle mass and <15% bf.
/r/askTRP31/03/20 06:58 AM
1

I know it sounds weird but have you tried keeping a journal. Just a trial run every now and then unload and right whats on your mind. Even if you never go back and read it sometimes just getting it out can help. I do it once every few months when I start getting antsy and just unloading is enough to clear my mind and let me focus on whatever it is I need to do. I don't even read them again, most of the time I burn them shortly afterwards but just getting it out helps me process or find things I …
/r/askTRP31/03/20 06:46 AM
3

Going to be a lot of nice lightly used equipment once this stuff blows over.
/r/askTRP31/03/20 06:23 AM
3

I heard something once, so simple yet it shattered my mindset and it's something that I often remind myself of whenever I feel a little down. No matter how bad you think you have it there are thousands of people out there in the world that would do anything to be in your position. I usually feel as I have everything under control, and that I don’t need help, but this emptiness is killing me. I feel lonely, but I know these negative feelings truly never go away. That’s just apart of being a man, …
/r/askTRP31/03/20 06:15 AM
2

Dude I poop like once every couple days and barely have to wipe, it's so expedient. The only thing that sucks is I used to get a lot of reading done while on the throne, now I have to sit outside in beautiful weather to read.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 08:00 AM
2

Zero carb carnivore with a side of IF, usually OMD--one meal a day. Lunch: Cold brew coffee (occasionally, I tend to fall in and out with coffee) Dinner: 2-5# (pick and choose) ribeye, sirloin, chuck roast, and/or ground beef with a bordelaise or brown pan sauce.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 07:50 AM
1

Fertility has nothing to do with it for me even if it did women have plenty of other traits that signal fertility. I see single moms and know that they make poor choices and don't think ahead which are terrible traits for someone whom you choose to raise your young and is antithetical to what I would look for in a woman. To add a single mom is lose lose in dating, a good mom will throw all things out and devote their energy to their children. This leaves little to no energy for the man. On the o…
/r/askTRP30/03/20 07:42 AM
2

"yeah, he's hot. I'd definitely go out with him" "...right now." Just add that to the end of anything a woman says about what she wants/needs/feels. It will serve you well.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 06:49 AM
0

Attractive women are used for their bodies because they’re usually boring as fuck or thick as shit because they never needed to be interesting or smart until they hit the wall. Women stop maturing mentally when they realize they can use their looks and sex to control men and will only continue to mature when that condition can no longer be met.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 04:18 AM
1

Most of the CPAs I know, all men, tend to be rigid and rule follow rules to a 'T' I haven't met any women CPAs. In your experience is yours similar with regards the structure, rigidity, and rule following or does she revert to regular woman outside of work?
/r/askTRP30/03/20 04:13 AM
1

demands for restaurants, gifts, vacations, furniture, etc start ratcheting up and you either play the simp olympics or the relationship fades away. I agree with you here. I always opt for option B which is probably why my average relationships are about 1.25 years and the longest was 2.5. I usually find I have no desire to continue because I either lose interest or she begins racheting up the negative shit.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 01:32 PM
1

Are you tracking your weight loss over time Ditto for tracking lift progression. You should be keeping a journal or spreadsheet of your workouts so you can track over time the differences. Having hard data to reference will really clear up where you may be failing.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 06:30 AM
1

She is in a shitstorm of emotions (rightfully so). Man whenever girls get like this I have to stiffle laughter because I picture them in that Anchor Man scene, "I'm in a glass case of emotion!" Dammit now I can't stop laughing.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 06:19 AM
1

Where are you guys taking these women? I had a great relationship with a girl dated exclusively for over 2 years the grand total I spent on her was probably between $200-300. Hey if you have the money and want to then spend away but don't just throw money at pussy for the sake of pussy.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 05:35 AM
3

slut, abused, raped, suicidal Run, don't walk, the fuck away.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 05:24 AM
3

Assuming you were replying to OP because I agree with you.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 10:32 AM
9

The only woman that ever told me these things was when i actually gave a fuck and im pretty sure she needed assurance that i was still a fag and hadnt read the sidebar yet. You are a cunning linguist.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 09:24 AM
2

I have the same rule with my LTRs.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 09:14 AM
1

Most routers can create guest networks that can't access your main network. Mine can create multiple networks.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 09:12 AM
1

I have never had LTR I trusted 100% and the second you do, you lose. You can never never never ever trust a women. I have had 2 year long LTRs with incredible women but I would never trust them because I know women's nature. edit: you don't have a RP friend.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 09:08 AM
1

Knocking up a skank. Building your entire frame and quantifying your self-worth using women as the leading factor.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 06:55 AM
1

Do you even lift phaggot? We point to sidebar because the lessons are strategy while the situational threads are about tactics. Tactics will always evolve but the strategy remains the same. The sidebar gives you info to shape a strategy then from that strategy you can devise tactics for each situation. There is a reason we want you to learn by reading, if you don't have time to read a few essays then you aren't ready for TRP go home to mommy.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 06:43 AM
2

Only you can decide what you want and what is best. I know someone who did his 20 years with the Army and now travels and backpacks around living off his retirement in his 40's. He is always in good spirits, loves his life--every day is an adventure, and will go out of his way to help others. I also know 50yr olds who are c-suite execs in fortune 100 companies making bank but are miserable and of course some who love it. Three different types of people but somehow the 40 year old is still coming…
/r/askTRP28/03/20 06:11 AM
1

I usually don't say anything then 5-10 min later I'll get some very suggestive photos. "I'd miss me too." Don't know if that is right but that's the first thing that came to my mind.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 06:02 AM
3

Conner that's great. I met a white dude named Jamal. You guys should be friends.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 05:57 AM
1

Girls ALWAYS lie about their n-count This is a great one to me because you can actually see the lying in their reactions. You can tell some of these chicks are in the triple digits then come back with <10. HAHAHAHAH I believe the context is within an interview of dating and partners where they sprung the n-count question on them out of the blue, so you can see the hamster activate and spin-up at record speed.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 05:37 AM
2

If only there was a repository for various collected works of TRP where one could go to read these lessons. Perhaps it could be in a vertical bar shape and could be nestled on the side of the subreddit page...if only...
/r/askTRP28/03/20 05:32 AM
81

The Ballad of the Juicy Pump.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 04:37 AM
5

Red Pill Primer - Sidebar Made Simple
/r/askTRP24/03/20 08:12 AM
7

Escapism. They can't get what they want in life so they revert to controlling little pixels on a screen.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 07:37 AM
1

Is the deformity skeletal or does it have something to do with muscle/tendon/ligaments? What I mean is is it just something that only affects ROM and visuals or are the muscles/tendons fragile or limited in there capacity to develop? If it doesn't stop you from working out then just keep hitting it hard and don't worry about it. If you aren't in comps then don't worry about achieving perfect symmetry. For an everyday person the differences aren't all that noticeable and even if someone does ever…
/r/askTRP24/03/20 06:44 AM
1

Confidence.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 06:10 AM
6

This has been covered ad nauseam this week. Use the search or read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 07:32 AM
1

Don't text them back.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 06:23 AM
11

Frankly I don't know a definitive answer but ultimately I'd say it doesn't matter. Leaving on unread signals you are busy, leaving on read signals you have more important things to do. Both kind of say the same thing but they communicate things a bit differently, if that makes sense. This of course assumes she even checks for these things.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 05:59 AM
48

Good so far. Pull back by leaving her on read but don't re-initiate, wait for her to. Second whenever there is a long break between texts like a day apart don't pick up the conversation again, talk about anything else, in fact act like she didn't even send that last message because that is just her trying to guilt you into committing. She does't actually care about STD's she just wants to saddle you. OP beware, she is moving fast and will most likely present you with an ultimatum in the near fut…
/r/askTRP23/03/20 05:52 AM
3

Get out, lock the car and walk off but turn around and ask him to keep an eye on it for you until you return later. In all seriousness though I just deescalate. If you are doing something that is going to take under a minute or two then I would just say "yeah no problem I'm off as soon as I finish this, safety first you know." If they have a problem with that then I'm most likely done talking to them, because they are not going to be rational, and I will continue finishing up what I was doing be…
/r/askTRP23/03/20 04:53 AM
1

It's hard to tell with all the other shit getting posted here.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 01:39 PM
14

Damn you spergs are overthinking this. Its like a bunch of wallstreet wannabes trying to predict and time the market. You think a few weeks in a soft quarantine is going to turn people into lusting animals with no self-control. You also assume they aren't getting banged out, they are still catching dicks left and right. You think a little virus is going to stop the same people that fuck 100s of dudes a year, unprotected? Dude get your head out of the clouds. Nothing much has changed on my end ot…
/r/askTRP22/03/20 07:06 AM
2

As with everything, practice.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 06:54 AM
2

otherwise why would she disclose her dormant virus to you. Because she caught it fucking around in the past couple weeks/months and knows she didn't get it from him. Some States still have laws concerning the non-disclosure and/or transmission of a known STD to a partner. edit: reread your comment and now I understand what you were communicating but I'll keep my comment up.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 06:32 AM
1

With the going price of TP right now you did right.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 06:11 AM
1

Looking at some of the situations it seems like you often use laughter to mask nervousness because you just don't know how to (re)act in a given situation. Do you know what exactly triggers it? The situations and circumstances that caused you to laugh are pretty varied.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 05:58 AM
1

Because with guns you can get all the food and drink you need. Only half joking.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 05:47 AM
1

Clean my fucking house. I hate clutter but can't seem to ever get away from it. I have a pile of clothes in my room and a pile of junk from various projects in my living room. It is a serious detriment to my mental state but I can't get over that hump to keep my shit in order. This is my biggest personal issue at the moment. If you go to my place of work, my home office area, or any of my vehicles it's spotless and in perfect order but any living areas are disaster zones. So I'm going to fuck th…
/r/askTRP22/03/20 05:44 AM
7

Don't do this. I did this for my LTR after we had been dating for a while but never for random sluts. It was the one of the beta traits I would use to balance out the relationship.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 05:33 AM
5

It's situational. I don't text to build rapport at all I do that in person. I will text a little more than logistics only but nothing deep or involved and it's usually just answering her questions or giving her the run-around so she has something to hamster at. Think about it this way you have everything to lose and nothing to gain by texting, the more you talk/text the more you give away, the more you give away the less mysterious you become, then girl loses interest. I still wouldn't text much…
/r/askTRP22/03/20 05:21 AM
1

Ditto with distance and time apart. OP, you aren't going to build rapport over text it's just not how it works with women. Do you have a solid frame to work with as in has she met you in real life, does she know what you look and smell like? If not then attraction will only decline during your physical absence.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 04:37 AM
0

What concept is confusing to you? First tell us how you interpret it so we can fill in any gaps.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 04:31 AM
2

A little bit of paranoia is a good thing. Other than that is just being outcome independent. What happens if a girl cheats on you? It sucks, you might be upset but ultimately nothing changes. The sun still rises, big government still sucks, and you continue doing you. That's the only way you're going to be able to function knowing AWALT. “Just because you're paranoid doesn't mean they aren't after you.”
/r/askTRP22/03/20 04:27 AM
2

Dude is a repeat loser, cut him out of your life before he drags you down. You and your group confront him but nothing changes, on either end. You guys still hang out with him and he continues to backslide down like the banana splits. How much longer are you going to run this marathon with an anchor around your waist? If eventually he sees the light and wants to improve himself, great. Until then you can't do anything for him but let him bring you down. Having low SMV isn't a sin, having low SMV…
/r/askTRP21/03/20 09:44 AM
6

Get blood drawn it's the only way to know for sure.
/r/askTRP21/03/20 07:11 AM
2

This, chicks don't exercise for health reasons they do it to be attractive. The best way to get her to exercise is to give her a reason to.
/r/askTRP20/03/20 06:06 AM
1

Don't try to solve her problems unless she asks you for help.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 08:39 AM
5

You set boundaries and she broke them. What do you think you should do? Dudes don't remain friends with their EX's unless they are smashing. She broke boundaries...punish/next hanging with an EX...never more than a plate.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 08:17 AM
2

So you'd waste your time to accommodate a chick?
/r/askTRP16/03/20 10:34 AM
0

You have enough time to go to the gym and not workout. Also are you the biggest, baddest dude in the gym?
/r/askTRP16/03/20 09:47 AM
5

OP has oneitis for chick but is really trying to overcome it, however, he keeps rationalizing why she is worth keeping around. Dude had a past boss that was a douche. OP starts seeing chick at work. After some maneuvering and trickle truth he finds out she was banging the douche for months before they met (and probably still doing it which will be revealed when OP ends up nexting her). Flying you out and taking you out is gold and sounds like a great FWB but from what I have read she definitely …
/r/askTRP16/03/20 09:39 AM
1

So for me it's a pure depreciating asset, not a liability. Same, in all the accounting I have done we put vehicles in the long-term asset category and get the current value by tracking the accumulated depreciation (also under the asset account).
/r/TheRedPill16/03/20 08:59 AM
3

Have you fucked her yet?
/r/askTRP16/03/20 08:30 AM
1

This is just my experience and I haven't fucked around with virgins so maybe it is a bit different assuming she is 20 and a virgin, so part of about 0.0001% of the female population, but my experience is as folllows. If they say they don't do something that is just womanese for "I do that all the time I just don't want you to think I'm a slut and want you to feel special." Or something along those lines. She said she just doesn’t do this with guys She does this with guys, probably all the time. …
/r/askTRP16/03/20 08:06 AM
1

Meat heals. It's the original superfood.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 07:06 AM
1

Weld/connect barbell to trailer hitch, place hitch in receiver on vehicle, lift and repeat until crying.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 05:16 AM
5

No, women are solipsistic. Rollo on the topic women can’t actualize how a man would have himself loved by her. It is not the natural state of women, and the moment he attempts to explain his ideal love, that’s the point at which his idealization becomes her obligation.
/r/askTRP15/03/20 08:38 AM
8

because not-drunk girl didn't bring her phone. Going to call bullshit on that one unless somebody stole it from her a few minutes earlier. Chicks are surgically attached to their phones especially ones that are good looking, and they will go to great lengths to make sure that phone is nearby and charged. You kept saying girl 2 was into you and you were vibing but all your interaction post-meeting seems to be taking place through intermediaries. It sounds like she was brushing you off, not enough…
/r/askTRP15/03/20 05:23 AM
7

🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 Stick them on fan blades and turn it on and some guys would still repeatedly stick their dick in it.
/r/askTRP15/03/20 04:57 AM
1

Polarize her earlier. This is what they talk about when they say fail early. By polarizing her you are finding out in that moment what her feelings toward you are instead of wasting untold amounts of time worrying about how she feels, better to know as soon as possible. Stop having conversations with these chicks, are you trying to date/bang them or be their girlfriend. There's another girl that I met about 2 weeks ago, we've been chatting and a lot of IOIs too like double and triple texting me,…
/r/askTRP14/03/20 06:58 AM
8

What better time to build a homegym.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 07:57 AM
58

As a leader your priorities in order are; (1)your mission, (2)your men, (3)yourself. If you have a weak link you need to find out why they are a weak link. Maybe they don't fully understand their duties, don't have the proper equipment, or don't have the necessary skill set to accomplish it. as he has not been carrying is weight to the point that I always gotta remind him to complete tasks. You're going to have to have a talk with this individual. They need to be aware of their specific tasks, i…
/r/askTRP13/03/20 07:45 AM
1

Do that shark fishing with a spear, now we're cooking.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 07:21 AM
3

Maybe you’ll be lucky to only have to suffer a concussion for a few weeks. Maybe you’ll get a traumatic brain injury and be disabled for the rest of your life. Maybe you’ll die. At least you “manned up”. Is it worth the fucked up scar you’ll have on your face the rest of your life? The thousands you’ll spend for new teeth? The possible surgeries (broken orbital bone, broken nose, torn retina, etc...)? To become disabled from a brain injury? If your ego is worth it, you’re a fool. Good points and…
/r/askTRP10/03/20 07:12 AM
3

I am a super imposing giant and I carry a gun. I de-escalate every thing I can and if I can't I pop smoke and beat feet. Doesn't matter how big and bad you are or think you are, there is always someone bigger and badder out there. It only takes one punch, push, shove, kick to fuck your shit up. Why risk it?
/r/askTRP10/03/20 07:09 AM
1

Go visit your extended family for a few days. Family is important and you never know when you'll get a chance to see them again. You can even turn that into a vacation to get yourself into a new area and new experiences. I am biased as I was fortunate enough to have a good family experience. You seem to like the outdoors. Do you backpack or camp? Go backpacking. Learn some new skills like how to set camp, build fires, create animal traps like snares or fishing if that's more your speed, and butc…
/r/askTRP09/03/20 05:02 AM
1

Jocko podcast, Start the World--Jack Donovan, Before the Train Wreck--R. Cooper, Team VTAC with Kyle Lamb.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 04:53 AM
1

Sounds like she's buttering you up to try and baby trap you as a last ditch effort. Protect your boys and continue as you were. First she hits you with the ultimatum of I can't do this anymore I need more from you. Then you call her bluff and she just all of a sudden wants to go against her nature. Doesn't matter how many times I begin a relationship by telling a girl marriage isn't an option eventually she is going to press me for it within a year or two.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 04:40 AM
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You can't help someone who doesn't want it. Live your own life. But really, this dude intro'd you to TRP. He must have just passed through because it doesn't sound like he bothered to read anything.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 10:50 AM
1

When the red river flows you take the dirt road. Or make like you're playing the Oregon Trail and ford that shit.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 10:46 AM
3

I'm not from the US but if you shot your gun to have the intruders flee and damage was caused to your home would insurance cover repairs? No idea and not something I would even bother worrying about until it happened. I assume it would depend on your carrier and what type of insurance you had. There are just way too many variables to give an answer one way or the other.
/r/askTRP07/03/20 08:39 AM
8

Guns beat martial arts every time. If in the US just use one of your guns to repel them, if you don't have guns then buy some and learn to use them then buy some more. Regardless staying central and hunkered down is what you should do in a home invasion, even if you have firearms. Create a hard target. You know the terrain and have the upper hand. Force the attackers to come to you, ideally down a hallway or through a doorway to create a fatal funnel that on top of them attacking a defensible po…
/r/askTRP07/03/20 07:21 AM
1

Hard to drill down to one but off the top of my head I would say, Meditations. "In your actions, don't procrastinate. In your conversations, don't confuse. In your thoughts, don't wander. In your soul, don't be passive or aggressive. In your life, don't be all about business."
/r/askTRP06/03/20 07:38 AM
2

I will give my seat for very pregnant women, the disabled, and the elderly. Everyone else gets equality.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 07:05 AM
1

Ask "when are you free?" If she says anything other than giving you a specific or range of days then she's telling you to move along. If you say let's do X-day and she says she's busy then one of you will have to suggest another day. If you agree to another date you are now communicating that you must not be in high demand since you have all this free time (original date + new date). However, if you ask her when she is free you put the ball firmly in her court. You'll either get (a)silence, (b)a…
/r/askTRP03/03/20 06:49 AM
3

So she's a moped. Fun to ride but you don't want your buddies seeing you.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 06:37 AM
1

It’s not what you say, but how you say it. Confidence is the key here. This a thousand times. There have been numerous occasions where I have said something stupid that should invoke an eye roll or slightly mess up the deliver of a joke but the girl will be genuinely laughing and into it like I just said the funniest fucking thing in the world. The majority of communication happens non-verbally so stop letting words interfere with your communication.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 06:34 AM
1

For example? “Tell your coworker not to talk to you?” Hat kind of boundaries can you set here? "The work place is for work not personal life discussions, let's keep it professional," or something along those lines to set a boundary that your personal relationships are not up for discussion but you're still free to talk about other things.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 06:17 AM
1

I haven't found one end all app but found a mix I use. I'm still messing with it though. I keep tweaking the system as I experiment and learn what works and what doesn't. It can be a pain but people are so different that I think the best approach is taking a base system and tweaking it to your own needs. A mix of nirvana(main GTD, projects) onenote(references and notes) Todoist (quick lists like groceries and want/need lists) google calendar (appointments and events) I'd like to use less apps bu…
/r/askTRP01/03/20 02:59 PM
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Using lists for things like tasks, to-dos, projects. I incorporated my own version of the GTD system. It helps me be productive as well as clear my mind as ideas come into existence rather than try and hold on to all of them in my head (impossible). I figured out once I started getting the thoughts/ideas out of mind and onto paper not only increased prod. but helped relieve anxiety meaning I sleep better at night since I don't always have all these thought running through my head. This one thing…
/r/askTRP01/03/20 10:41 AM
1

You have to get close and escalate. You have to walk before you can run, can't go from level 0 to 4 right off the bat. What she is doesn't matter you are the leader you set the direction and tempo, if she washes out she washes out. If you aren't getting close it's because you aren't initiating. If you are and she keeps putting the brakes on then there's your answer. Look up DiCarlo's escalation ladder for the general rundown of kino.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 08:54 AM
2

Are you escalating or going right in for the kiss? Usually I've already been rubbing her thigh and back, playing with her hair and teasing her by the time kissing gets around. Could also be she just wants a girlfriend to give her validation and buy her shit (you didn't pay for her meal did you?). The second time you two met she had to have known the subtext since the first encounter so either she's playing with you or you are failing to get her juices going. Regardless with this broad you've pol…
/r/askTRP01/03/20 07:12 AM
3

Well I wouldn't LDR so my advice is let it go and bang a bunch of hotties at school, it's the best medicine. If you like her make it a thing that you guys meet and get dirty whenever you're in town but other than that don't do distance shit. Also read this from the sidebar, There's this one girl...
/r/askTRP01/03/20 07:03 AM
2

Wait, back in college at the same school or different?
/r/askTRP01/03/20 06:26 AM
1

How many girls are you currently seeing? I find this mostly happens if I'm feeling a bit lonely. I don't have any problems with memories just understand that you are remembering an ideal time. I think about women in those same situations but I look at it as "yeah, man that was fun" but nothing more, that's normal, however if you think back longingly for her or anything then you're going down the wrong path.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 05:36 AM
1

Wasn't until my late teens so 12 +/- 2 years.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 12:56 AM
2

If they aren’t making your life better or happier why even be with them? Exactly life is short and your time is finite, why would you want to waste it not having fun.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 11:41 AM
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Does she (A)increase my happiness, (B)bring problems to my life. A = keep. Anything else, drop her ass. To recap events she gives you shit for talking to another girl. gets jelly and goes radio silent. comes back at you for shit with another girl. She doesn't even live close to you. Do I really need to continue?
/r/askTRP29/02/20 11:34 AM
1

Do you. I used to shave my chest but stopped about 7 years ago because it's a lot more masculine and easier on the upkeep. If I grew a rats nest I would clip it to a shorter length but not all the way. Frankly I have never had a women say one way or the other. Just keep yourself clean.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 11:15 AM
2

Do mother fuckers even gloss over the sidebar/intro information, for fucks sake.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 10:42 AM
1

I have found the same. Women love shooting my guns. Range day is always a date if women are up to it.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 06:33 AM
2

I agree I throw little jabs about my buddies being stupid all the time but these are underhanded insults disguised as roasting. This dude has no respect for you. He's also a faggot using passive aggressive shit talk instead of being direct. To OP, frankly your acquaintance sounds like a piece of shit.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 05:50 AM
4

getting cut and drinking her own blood Biggest fucking red flag I have ever seen. Fuck that noise.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 05:45 AM
2

Depends if it's someone I have been seeing for a bit sure, but if it's someone I haven't then no. They already know I am interested or I wouldn't bother texting them so there's no need to overtly tell her. I want my actions to communicate my desire. The longer I have been with someone the more I will use text up to a point. The inverse is also true. Non-verbal communication is a big deal so texting is only great for someone who is already familiar with you. AMS has a good video about texting wom…
/r/askTRP28/02/20 11:22 AM
1

I would still push for actual numbers, stand out from all the other chumps. It just seems that on IG/Snap you are just 1 of hundreds but the actual number is given out much less. Even on tinder my first move is to get a number and move off of apps, but I stay in the 23-29 bracket.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 11:03 AM
1

Start saving them in your phone with a brief description or word about who they are. Beth - "tall blonde doctor" Becky - "slut" Kristen - "has more than one cat, pass." And stop drinking so much. Does nobody get numbers anymore? Getting a snap/IG seems like a brush off to orbiter status. Also if you have their IG why not look through it and see if something sparks your memory of your conversation, if it doesn't make something up you have her social media right in front of you.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 10:50 AM
1

Don't let it define you. I suffer from ADD/HD it is a double-edged sword in my life. I can read a book, novel, excerpt and read it 5x over and realize I haven't retained any information because I have a hundred other thoughts racing through my head at the same time. My daily routine usually involves me getting home, undressing, and getting my area straightened up. Only this takes me over an hour because while doing each thing I see 5 other things that take my focus and divert attention. However …
/r/askTRP28/02/20 07:46 AM
4

Call it Feral's razor, “never attribute to disrespect that which is adequately explained by a shit test.”
/r/askTRP28/02/20 07:11 AM
5

Yeah it does but never realizing and making the same mistakes over and over sucks even more. Just turn this into a learning experience.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 11:40 AM
6

This, literally act like it never happened.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 09:52 AM
2

Get a dog.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 05:48 AM
1

If I'm suffering from DOMS it's usually because my protein intake is inadequate.
/r/askTRP24/02/20 11:00 AM
1

But overall, I feel this sinking feeling of FOMO, especially when I see them hanging together on social media. I had a ton of fun when I was in college it was a blast. I was a football player and part of the most popular fraternity on campus, it was four years of crazy shenanigans. It's been almost a decade and I rarely think about those times as I've had better ones since. Put the work in now and reap greater rewards in the future, but don't forsake your friendships just because. Surround yours…
/r/askTRP24/02/20 09:54 AM
1

Most likely she has just adopted the traits of her mate. Is the guy a hard worker/high achiever?
/r/askTRP24/02/20 09:47 AM
1

You wanted a break and she wanted a break. So you both took a break and she "found" someone else. This is the exact sequence of events I would expect to happen. What is the question/problem? When a chick says we need a break it means she is no longer happy and wants to go get dicked down but with the option of coming back after she has had her fun.
/r/askTRP24/02/20 09:23 AM
1

Go up and say whatever is on your mind. You might not be able to think of anything right now but you will in the moment. Hardest part is getting the ball rolling so just jump in the deep end and figure it out. You see a girl you want to approach, what do you do? A. go directly up to her and say "hello I'm blank" or something similar. B. get inside your head thinking she's hot, what do I do? What do I even say? Whatever, forget it she probably would't have given me the time of day because *insert…
/r/askTRP24/02/20 09:10 AM
1

Last I looked into it the thought process was cardio first lift second. Best case is cardio AM and lifting in the PM but this is a commitment. I did it for a few years and hated it. I didn't look too far into it though as it wasn't a big concern of mine so I could be completely wrong. I fucking hate cardio and don't bother with it outside of walking, hiking, or other daily activities. What's your goal? If it's swimming I'd say do that first. If your goal is to just get strong as fuck or lose wei…
/r/askTRP24/02/20 06:37 AM
2

This being said, stop being a pussy. Life's a ugly dark place, you either learn to survive it or you're doomed. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7nqcgUDoV_M
/r/askTRP24/02/20 06:23 AM
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You don't need motivation, you need discipline. As for getting out of bed in the morning force yourself to get out by placing your alarm clock across the room. This only works if you have an obnoxious alarm that won't stop after a short time. Sometime just taking the first step can put you on the path to completing things. Look into habit stacking to help build patterns and routines. This will help you establish some kind of discipline. To build a routine will take time. You just have to do it. …
/r/askTRP23/02/20 11:47 AM
1

"My mom is going to love you, you remind me of her." Should get her to leave you alone. But seriously just tell her to cool it and that you want to meet other people too. Or tell her what's actually on your mind "I'd like to fuck but I'm going to go see if I can't find something better first, wait here." What do you care? You're allowing her actions to dictate your choices. If anything having her do this shit works in your favor in terms of pre-selection so use it to your advantage.
/r/askTRP23/02/20 09:38 AM
2

Seriously I'm 6'6" and look sickly below 215 (<5% bf) "Get to da GYM!" and eat more. When I was playing ball in school I would have to eat well over 4500cal a day just to maintain my weight, eat more.
/r/askTRP23/02/20 06:28 AM
4

I do personal goals. Most of the girls I have had experience with have some kind of vision for what they want think they want. So if they are doing something they like or something they have wanted to do since they were young I will follow that thread and poke around in their history feel them out and ask them where that passion cam from. For example the nurse wanted to do OT for autistic kids, the doctor wanted to help others because of her childhood, etc. These are things that could have easil…
/r/askTRP22/02/20 07:36 AM
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rather talk about what going on in the persian gulf or something that takes intellect This is what guy friends are for. When I engage a chick it's because I generally want to know something about them. I steer away from gossip and drama but they are free to talk as much about themselves as they like. I have dated intelligent women and it's nice but I have found that even the doctors, nurses, and engineers just want to talk about dumb shit most of the time. As for what to talk about, anything. A …
/r/askTRP22/02/20 07:15 AM
4

Later on all of our friends pressured us to go out by ourselves. You need some frame work. I would have just stated something along the lines of "I'm not getting involved with a sloppy drunk." But I'm an asshole and occasionally like to burn the ships and bridges. Plus drunk people with no self-control annoy the fuck out of me.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 08:50 AM
2

So she disrespected you and you want to go back...what so she can do it a second and third time? She has already shown you what she thinks of you but if you're a masochist go for it but sex only, no companionship, and she initiates all contact. You did right with the soft next but she hasn't even put in any effort. This reads as she can do as she likes, walk out on you and all she has to do is flash a smile and you come running back. Who has the power here?
/r/askTRP18/02/20 08:39 AM
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What I’m asking is, do y’all remain authentic all the time or do you say what you need to get laid? I don't do things to get laid, I get laid because of the things I do.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 03:32 AM
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Especially if you are her direct superior, that's just stupid as fuck. Don't be a dumbass.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 03:12 AM
2

Or the face of the dude from twilight.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 02:40 AM
2

You had a shitty date where she decided you weren't fuckable. She actually might have decided that beforehand and succeeded in getting a free dinner. I'm curious as to who decided to do dinner instead of smoking and fucking.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 11:48 AM
1

They tell me life can’t always be about work, yourself, and your possessions and that settling is all a part of it. They are losers and always will be. They just want you to join them in their misery.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 11:41 AM
1

One text not two or three in a row. The multi-text is going to make you seem needy and lacking of forethought since you can't slow down your response enough to say everything you need to all at once. It comes off as gushing to me. Also what bar or strip club is she working at?
/r/askTRP16/02/20 08:52 AM
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Has she already hit you with the IHAB? If not why are you worrying about it, stop planning for failure. Get out of that mindset you can cross these obstacles when/if you come to it. Usually I just say "cool" and continue on talking about whatever I was going to say anyway. But if she is working and responds with "i have a bf" then that's most likely her way of nicely brushing you off without having to outright reject you to your face. I don't bother with women at their place of employment, they …
/r/askTRP16/02/20 07:55 AM
1

Are you there to lift and get better or chat and waste time? But I just don't feel that mindset. I just go in and work out and leave. Good man, keep this mindset. If you want to chat get a solid workout partner and talk during rest between sets. Would you go to the library to converse? Would you go to the post office to eat lunch? The gym is for work, do work get bigger and enjoy your progress.
/r/askTRP15/02/20 10:39 AM
3

Did you ask him about the company in general or maybe specific duties and tasks you would have to perform? Did you ask about the day to day workload and work environment--how employees interact and get along? People don't just hire the most qualified, they also look for people who are a good fit for the company or people they might like to be around 5+ days a week. Remember they aren't just interviewing you, you are interviewing them too. Even if you think you know everything you need to ask the…
/r/askTRP15/02/20 10:32 AM
4

I saw this quite a bit when working in the hospitality sector. I would have couples and families come in and I would start addressing the man and the women would start answering or they will cut the guys off and talk over them to answer. I'm just sitting there like "duuuuuude...really?"
/r/askTRP15/02/20 09:20 AM
3

and then read this gem from the SIDEBAR
/r/askTRP11/02/20 12:38 PM
1

He's saying she's creating a paper trail or record of events but with the intention of a third party audience.
/r/askTRP11/02/20 07:17 AM
3

Yeah, your probably too old. I’ll see you at 7. Damn dude that's slick. Bravo.
/r/askTRP11/02/20 05:53 AM
2

I get what you mean about the philosophy and I agree. I always err on the side of caution as a lot of people I see that get into philosophy like to just sit around and philosophize about philosophy and the philosophical implications of philosophy and never actually take part in life. I really took to the stoics when I learned about the life of Marcus Aurelius, so maybe you can find something that works for you by finding a successful or interesting individual and find out why they were able to a…
/r/askTRP11/02/20 05:02 AM
2

Patrice "tell a bitch, 'you look like your breath stinks.'" Rolls up to a car and says, "you got a nice car but I'm tryin to figure out if I like that dumb hairdo or not." Haha. He really had a take no prisoners attitude, liked to get them riled up from the start.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 08:58 AM
1

I eat steak and pork, but used to eat a ton of chicken breasts--fuck that noise, I would get nauseous trying to eat 3lbs+ of chicken--sous vide is the answer. Sous vide those big breasts then sear it. It's the best cooked chicken breast you'll ever have, cooked to a perfect uniform 145-150F. The downside is it takes a while to cook but since it holds at a steady temp the only work you have to do is removing it from the water and searing it so actual involved cooking time is a few mintues. I swit…
/r/askTRP10/02/20 07:29 AM
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Any advice for finding the mythical mission to give me some passion? vvvv I’ve lined myself up for a very draining but lucrative career after university to stabilize my family’s financial situation and take care of my mother in the short term. I'd say that's a good start right there. Your objective right now is to study hard and gain the knowledge and insight to help you excel in your career. Don't just pass, be the hardest working mother fucker in your program. Are you on the Deans list yet? If…
/r/askTRP10/02/20 06:54 AM
4

"We can get to know each other face to face, meet me at X at time." But to me it sounds like she just ain't interested dude. She's looking for orbiters. Don't be one. The medium is the message.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 06:40 AM
2

and I get pissed off when I think to myself “why didn’t I know about this sooner! My life would have been so much better now.” I know it sounds stupid but shit like that gets to me. I do the same thing, but try to reframe it in the context that you are now aware and it's because you have succeeded in implementing change that you are even able to have that thought. That's a win in my book I may be upset it took me so long to realize it but it's a win that I have changed enough that I can look bac…
/r/askTRP10/02/20 06:18 AM
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Unless you have a time machine those things are past and you cannot do a single thing to change it. What helps me move past is channeling my inner Jocko and accepting ownership for my mistakes/failures and devising a plan to make sure it doesn't happen again. Living in the past causes stress and depression living too far in the future causes anxiety, focus on you and what you can control. I had an instructor who, when things got rough, would often repeat a mantra to me "focus on your 3 foot box.…
/r/askTRP10/02/20 06:05 AM
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Don't. You don't let your subordinates see fights between their superiors, that's just poor leadership. To note, I like all my people to contribute but if someone is adamant about a position then I expect them to defend it properly, if they can't then they are just wasting everyone's time. Losing control and blowing up like they did is just wrong. If I butt heads with others I will let them know we will continue the discussion at a later time but do so in a cordial manner. Gripes go up. Frankly …
/r/askTRP08/02/20 06:00 AM
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I lift 3 days a week using the reverse pyramid training method and focus only on bench, squat, deadlift, standing OHP, and pull-ups/chin-ups. There's no rule saying you have to lift every day. I make way better gains on a 3x routine then I ever did when I lifted every day. On my days off if I feel like it I jump on the rings and do bodyweight stuff. Outcome for me; less time in the gym (1 hr. max a day), better progress and more free time to peruse other activities.
/r/askTRP07/02/20 08:27 AM
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A lot of micromanagement where I work lol but that’s nature of the beast. Thanks This could be a big cause of your stress too. Micromanagement kills productivity as well as employee empowerment. No use delegating tasks to others if uppers are going to continue to gum up the works, if you want to do it do it, but if you delegate it to me get off my ass and let me do my damn job. Do you have a system for managing daily tasks and other things? I adopted and molded the GTD system to fit my style and…
/r/askTRP07/02/20 08:06 AM
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Entrepreneurs In Cars. Rich is great love his stuff.
/r/askTRP07/02/20 07:25 AM
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Agreed. The poli-sci guys I knew did it to go into law.
/r/askTRP04/02/20 03:05 PM
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look for a position within government But what if he actually wants to accomplish something? Preface: business degree so most of my advice will lean towards the business side because it's the only area I have any experience in and that experience is little, so take it with a grain of salt and reference it across what others say. But seriously what do you want to do? What do you think is worth slaving away day-in day-out? You don't have to necessarily do something with your poli-sci degree, just …
/r/askTRP04/02/20 10:27 AM
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Best for me is girls with dogs in the profiles or out on a walk if I meet them during the day, "Nice looking dog we should take it on a hike/walk sometime." Almost always met with "Yes please #."
/r/askTRP04/02/20 10:23 AM
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I don't know this "awww thanks I love to give people chances," sounds like what I would say to someone in a competition who has no way of placing or how a sister talks to a little brother. Seems rather derogatory to me but you're the one present so go with your gut. If you can set it up why not go for the date, nothing to lose. I wouldn't be surprised if she flakes though.
/r/askTRP02/02/20 07:36 AM
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I do woodworking. I used to brew beer but kinda stopped drinking so then picked up woodworking. You can do a lot with a jigsaw, curricular saw, drill/driver. If you can swing a tablesaw then you can really start making shit. I use these skills to do anything from learning to build cabinets/furniture or frame a wall to building small drawers for the pantry, or a small coat hanger for the wall, etc... You can use power tools or hand tools if your a masochist traditionalist. The possibilities are e…
/r/askTRP02/02/20 07:13 AM
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I'm going with Christian.
/r/askTRP02/02/20 06:25 AM
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346 is your bio-available, that 300 being low is Total test—TT. When people are talking about their T levels they are referencing totals.
/r/askTRP01/02/20 07:38 AM
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You're scared. You're scared because you most likely don't know, or you just tell yourself you don't know, what to do if these simple interactions move into the next stage. Right now without thinking what would you do if you started an interaction with one of these women they show interest then hint about doing something right now? Do you have an answer right away or are you thinking about it...are you still trying to figure it out? That's fine if you are, this catches me often too. Sit down and…
/r/askTRP26/01/20 10:06 AM
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You can't force others to do something they don't want to, thinking this way is going to harm you. You can either drop him or just shut up about it and accept that it's his decision and remain there for him when he inevitably needs your support. If you keep talking about it or pressing the issue he will just get aggravated and cast you aside. If you had a fatass friend and you were preaching to them about the dangers of diabetes but he just didn't give a shit would you expect them to change them…
/r/askTRP25/01/20 07:53 AM
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My foray into the Buddhist mindset was when I was learning to deal with loss. The Tibetan Book of Living and Dying really helped me put life and loss in perspective and form a new way of framing the inevitability of death. I have not however gone back and read it from a RP perspective. It has always been something I pick up and skim whenever I'm reading one of the stoics as I find some parallels between the two.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/20 07:03 AM
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I feel like 9/10 this will have an inverse effect and cause her to end up calling more often lol Ain't that funny? That exact situation is a lot of guys' first "eureka" moment.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/20 06:45 AM
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Yeah... don't. Remain cordial but I would stop it in its tracks. There are really two ways this plays out. You two live a storybook life and get married or you don't and you have now completely destroyed your relationship with your friend and mentor which is way more important than any broad. Relationships with women are fleeting but bonds between men can propel you through the rest of your life, don't fuck that up for something that's a dime a dozen.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/20 08:48 AM
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