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Shutting the fuck up is a beautiful thing and it's paired perfectly with a soft or hard next. No woman is worth becoming a whiny little bitch who's arguing to get their way. Medium is the message and this makes the message clear. No bullshit, not now, not ever.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/18 05:34 AM
8

I AM Ed Sheeran, want me to play you a song?
/r/askTRP20/12/17 04:59 PM
2

I'm not sure how it's a revenge fantasy. It's factual that as women hit the wall their suitors drop drastically because their younger competition comes into their prime. It's not saying there aren't thirsty dudes out there who willing to pursue anyway.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/17 08:15 PM
3

That's the truth. Most of the leftist males I've encountered are 125lb wimps with greasy nerdcuts who bend to the will of any female present. Add that to the growing videos of protesters and antifa and it's easy to see why women are defecting. Or they're black guys and despite what the media is pushing, alot of white girls are unwilling to hamster that one.
/r/askTRP13/12/17 08:24 PM
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Trad thots, they see what's trending and what direction has the most potential to exploit. Red pilled men in the broader political red pill are a growing force and as always women need to invade male spaces. Most of them will adopt the ideology of the cock residing in their vagina assuming it's alpha enough.
/r/askTRP13/12/17 07:52 PM
5

I've watched a lot of porn in my life, but it's almost always solo or lesbian girls. My dick used to get soft and I'd have to find a new video if a naked guy popped in the scene. But porn is a rabbit hole, your brain will eventually not be satisfied by what you started out viewing. I used to waste hours looking for the perfect ass/tits for whatever my mood was.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 07:38 PM
1

I run into trouble because my frame is strong, but maybe they feel a BB vibe, or since they're young, solely trying to lock down any beta provider. My frame won't budge and neither will any of these single moms. It seems like necessity of them to try to batter me into submitting to them up front and when I agreed and amplify, pressure flip or ignore it has the opposite effect as a childless woman. It damn near destroys the interaction, with them leaving enough window open for me to submit to whi…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/17 08:12 PM
1

I started getting blocked by these girls who I went to school with because I couldn't help but troll. Once I took the first swing at their stupidity I sat back to watch their friends list rain down on them.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/17 08:02 PM
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This is the conclusion I came to. My time isn't even worth entertaining the idea of sex with them because there is zero entertainment in gaming them. That's before we reach all the pitfalls of being involved with them.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/17 07:55 PM
4

God bless America, where we give legal favoritism to trash.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/17 07:53 PM
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I saved this comment, holy shit.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/17 07:45 PM
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Not even close. The single moms I've been talking to are pre wall (technically all single moms are post wall but age and looks wise). They're fishing for my commitment up front. Maybe it's because I'm successful for my area, but not wildly successful. If I had a giant salary, or if my looks were top tier I could probably bed them no problem. As it stands they don't have time for me to game them and I won't hand out any commitment, let alone to the dregs of society. Post 30 women I think would be…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/17 01:35 AM
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Haha that's how I'm coming into contact with these women. After I became single and word got around that I have my own home (larger than average for my area) the sharks started circling. I refuse to bend my frame an inch and neither will they. They're viewing my possessions and earning ability and dreaming about forcing me into a beta role, they flip out royally when they see it's not going to be the case.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/17 12:45 AM
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I've come to realize they're not even worth the effort it takes to plate them. Their frame is fucking steel because of societal reinforcements and emergency need for provisioning. All attempts I've made to flirt with these women in attempt to plate them turns into power struggles of dominance. They don't try to hide their efforts of forcing you into a beta role. They want to know off the bat if you're ok with the kid being in the picture (there is no picture we're just flirting). Everything is b…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/17 12:41 AM
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You've got a good family. I'm beginning to see too many people getting wrapped up in the post feminism line of backward thinking. Several in my family have changed to that way of thinking because a female relative got knocked up and ditched. Now they see things out of sympathy for her and look down on me for voicing my opinion.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/17 12:31 AM
11

Rollo did this experiment in The Rational Male and it's incredible. These girls are disgusted by the audacity of a man creating standards for women to meet when their own profiles are filled to the brim with ridiculous qualifications to message them.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 11:01 PM
11

I have the same thing. I'm horribly unphotogenic, but get told I'm good looking in person. My ex girlfriend who I met online told me she didn't want to meet me and said I looked nothing like my photos for the better. I wouldn't even know where to start to make my photos a real representation of me let alone create the extreme illusion these girls are capable of.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 10:58 PM
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Download Makeapp. It's a beautiful app with an algorithm that removes from photos; eye shadow, false lashes, lipstick, blush and any other nonsense these girls put on. I've tried it on girls I've been with long enough to know what they look like without their makeup and.... DING DING this app is a winner. Funny enough men come out looking exactly the same.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 08:11 PM
17

You've literally just replied to two people who insulted you snowflake. Good job on the ignore.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/17 07:38 AM
4

If it matters that much they sell condoms with slight local anesthetic in them. Never tried them but I saw them online before and people seem to think they work for holding out.
/r/askTRP07/12/17 06:47 AM
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Here let me break it down for you since you're having an autistic moment. Comment mentions Chad's getting majority of sex and most women are sharing same genes. My reply illustrates how even the ugliest of cows (no anger, but ugly is ugly) get Chad dick on tinder. Please break down to me where I'm angry at either Chad or cows for stating facts.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/17 06:37 AM
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Read the comment I replied to and see if you can figure it out then. Disdain for no one is written in my comment. Work on your reading comprehension.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/17 06:30 AM
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Girls want a rollercoaster of emotions. Try tossing the next one out if she disrespects you in any way and let her know why. She'll be clinging to you for a relationship in no time.
/r/askTRP07/12/17 04:46 AM
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Facts especially with modern day dating apps. Even some of the most horrible cows will only swipe right on Chads and they'll get his dick if he's bored, drunk or high.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/17 12:52 AM
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It's highly unlikely they're requesting this without being led to it then. As men we're prideful and greedy creatures, most self respecting men want the pussy for themselves. It's why we generally disqualify high n-counts from LTRs. She's either a stripper/webcam girl or she's playing these guys or over exaggerating it to you.
/r/askTRP06/12/17 11:38 PM
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I remember when I first got single. I was flirting with a few girls at work and one too it too seriously and became a stalker. I had to shut it down due to her not being very attractive and coworkers, but my friend who I also work with was snapping on me. He told me "dude you're single again just get your numbers up it doesn't matter what she looks like or where she's at." Even before finding TRP I could sense that his comment was coming from a place of scarcity. He lied about his numbers consta…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 11:22 PM
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I don't believe that it even happens. I believe she's taking the piss out of OP, trying to see his reaction. I don't know a single person who would want this let alone be open enough to ask a woman. Many guys aren't confident enough to try to fuck an attractive woman let alone ask to watch someone else fuck her.
/r/askTRP06/12/17 10:39 PM
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I believe he was saying die alone, as in without a man to leech off of, whilst being a crazy cat lady. Not actually wanting to see them physically be killed.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 06:52 PM
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Clearly it is
/r/askTRP06/12/17 05:01 AM
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Generally the return to something that didn't work is an indication of a need for previous stability. Exes are prone to pull the pregnancy/moving back in trap. I agree that if sex is good and the man protects himself that it's essentially just another fun hole to use. But we can't pretend that it's not in the realm of high possibility that a treacherous female would pull such a stunt.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 02:13 AM
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People's problems generally have more to do with themselves than others. On the off chance she does kill herself (statistically very unlikely) it will be due to feelings of inadequacy on her part. It will have little to nothing to do with you.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 02:09 AM
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Push her down on the way out.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 02:07 AM
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I don't know how bad you've got it, but calling yourself a troll and wondering if you can get laid screams incel. As Jordan Peterson says "stop saying things that makes you weak." (Watch his vids too). For Owen start with https://youtu.be/GGp25fn25Cs If it applies to you, great it's highly motivational and a great starting point for people at the lowest of the low. After that I just recommend picking through the videos with titles that apply to your interests. He has a massive amount and they we…
/r/askTRP05/12/17 01:38 AM
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Possible, I don't know everyone's business. I can tell you the message he delivers is a good one for men especially in your situation. Look at the message not the delivery.
/r/askTRP04/12/17 10:55 PM
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Feminism. This society caters to women and life is easier to be lazy and fat.
/r/askTRP04/12/17 10:50 PM
2

Get on YouTube and search "rsd Tyler". You have the same look as Owen (Tyler), but he wears it better because of his style and demeanor. You'll also learn a few tricks on improving yourself and confidence.
/r/askTRP04/12/17 10:43 PM
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Read your question. "Is it still worth going out?" If you enjoy going out then yes. If you're dependent on women, no. Do what you enjoy because a woman isn't going to fill your cup. The non philosophical answer is you need to find better locations.
/r/askTRP04/12/17 08:09 PM
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Various reasons meaning she's ugly, fat, handicapped, black, your sister, smells, underage, you're married, "she's" a he, village whore, you roofied her? Seriously just shut the fuck up about it and deny deny deny.
/r/askTRP04/12/17 07:39 AM
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It's only gay if you kiss
/r/askTRP03/12/17 04:28 AM
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6'5 muscular are the key words. You can literally say whatever you want. I would start telling a few of them to meal prep for you as well.
/r/askTRP03/12/17 04:24 AM
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Women say this to men they want to be beta. My mom always used to say this to me where I would go to the gym. After reading sidebar material I saw mom's want to raise beta males out of inherent need for betas to provide. Your girl wants you to be a beta provider.
/r/askTRP03/12/17 04:22 AM
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First it sounds like you spend too much time around her. Secondly she's an idiot child looking for attention (tattoos, being loud, hitting you, feminism). Don't give her any. Ignore, and amused mastery of you must engage. (Oh you feminists are totally right women don't need a man. You're a shining example sis!)
/r/askTRP03/12/17 03:23 AM
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I plan on being dead before I'm caught dancing. Besides he's like 100 if this doesn't kill him the little blue pill will later.
/r/askTRP03/12/17 03:09 AM
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This is real shit. Every "normal" girl I date bores me to tears. It's only the BPD I see every so often that gets me excited. It's easy to see from a mile away; drama, nonstop texting, neediness, always wanting to know what you're doing. The BPD girl's constant need for our attention satisfies our narcissistic ideas of self importance. It also causes productivity to go down. Oh well, at least they can fuck.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/17 06:20 PM
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It's not illegal to talk just go chat them up and ask.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 05:00 AM
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I used to have severe approach anxiety. It turned more mild this year. A couple weeks ago I went out of the country and figured fuck it, no one here knows me and I'll never see them again. I was chatting everyone up, gaming girls in front of their moms and made new friends with some guys who live near my area who I'll be hanging out with. I kino'd a single mom in front of her friends before they dragged her off to get her kid. I had no outcome dependence because it was a family vacation and most…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 04:06 AM
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He got hit with the Trump curse.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/17 05:15 AM
1

You did good even remembering to split the check. My first date after finding TRP I had to take a migraine pill earlier and had a couple drinks. I was feeling good and light that when the bar tab came I tossed up the money without second thought then almost kicked myself in the parking lot.
/r/askTRP11/11/17 03:51 AM
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Haha yea tinder has a lot of real sexy scammer accounts. They're pretty obvious though.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 08:51 PM
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The quality of the girls out in bars and clubs just seems to be higher on average than on tinder. Even at the Dr's office I was hitting on a 9 that you would rarely see on tinder. The cold approach is definitely more effective because I find the girls are less prepared to react than online and if you're slightly funny they eat it up. I found it strange that you got way more matches on tinder than bumble because in my area bumble seems to be more heavily populated and with higher quality girls. I…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 07:16 PM
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Their hamster needs to justify the reason they're coming over is for a movie, not sex. You just start gaming and kino right next to them on the couch. When they tell their girlfriends they can say "one thing led to another and we had sex!" It lets them save face and not look 100% whore, which, there's nothing wrong with that.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 05:56 PM
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I lived this for about 4.5 years of my blue pill life. If you'd like details feel free to message me however I will tell you now. It won't end well.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 05:03 PM
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Before TRP I laid in bed depressed for months mourning the list relationship and wallowing in self pity for having to pay a mortgage by myself. I went on a bunch of dates with not very attractive girls with no personality who used me for meals. The first attractive girl I went out with I caught oneitis after the successful first date and shit the bed all over the second by professing how much I liked her and being needy. This aimless hopeless shit, combined with my brother sending me Chad memes,…
/r/askTRP08/11/17 05:01 PM
2

Good job man. I ended my BP 4.5 year LTR last year without TRP, and went through a severe depression. My main advice is to stay busy, read and try to go out with friends. You're still human and depression may hit, but use TRP as a direction to pull yourself out if it does. This really helps end the wandering through life aimlessly hoping to find "the one" strategy. Women will begin to treat you better when you treat yourself better and your SMV rises, but they're still women. Remember that.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 04:24 PM
2

Don't wait, be up front and honest. "Hey I like dancing, but clearly I'm just starting out and you're really good. Mind showing me the ropes?" You have the perfect excuse that you're a newbie.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 06:44 AM
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You're in ninth grade, just focus on improving. Everyone changes in high school and you're at the beginning. Kids will grow, build muscle, excel at sports, learn to drive, get into colleges, date girls and party. You're at a fortunate age where you're expected to change, just read the side bar and focus that change appropriately.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 06:41 AM
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Listen dude, I'm not great looking, but I'm far from ugly. From your description I'd say I'm better looking then you, but that's because your description is displaying your frame of mind right now. I went through a deep depression after my last LTR where I hyperfocused on my looks and thought I was a hideous monster. I had female friends telling me I was cute and nice looking without my asking them, but I couldn't accept it. Guess how many girls I got, even while trying? 0. A few not great looki…
/r/askTRP08/11/17 05:46 AM
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Part of frame control is being your honest self and living in your reality. Be up front with him and set boundaries. Make it clear you're not about drinking and doing things that interfere with your goals. This is part of becoming alpha, being in control and showing leadership. You may find that he bends to your frame and you may end up with someone who can benefit you as a gym partner, wing man or become someone who can build your social circle. Place your purpose behind your actions. It might …
/r/askTRP08/11/17 05:25 AM
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Just holler back to the guys waiting "hey any of you guys doing similar weight want to get in between sets?" You might find new good quality friends while you're at it.
/r/askTRP07/11/17 07:47 PM
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Make friends with them, you might find someone doing similar weight and you can split between sets and have a spotter on bench
/r/askTRP07/11/17 07:41 PM
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She's too heavy to lift her up there
/r/askTRP07/11/17 02:49 PM
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Gotcha gotta keep that in mind. She's getting the validation in texts so that needs to happen only in person. Also gotta make solid plans instead of short notice hangout offers. Practicing this is all new to me, just gotta keep track of where I can improve. Thanks for the insight.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 04:29 AM
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Yea medium is the message, thanks for the input.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 02:24 AM
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Good shit, it's harder to analyze my own situations just starting back out. Grateful for this sub.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 02:23 AM
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Get them if they make you feel good and like the style. If someone tries to clown you that's your job to hold frame.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 12:27 AM
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I gotta say, I quit smoking, cut porn and did nofap for over a month. After my dick went back to normal and I started dating again I'm getting blue balls daily unless I nut. No porn and no smoking was good for me. I don't think nofap is for everyone, do what's best for your body.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 12:25 AM
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Tell her you'll talk when she's not so busy then go about your life. Next time you see her make actual plans and tell her to join you.
/r/askTRP21/10/17 11:51 PM
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Stop worrying about being alpha and work one step at a time. Start leading a lifestyle you enjoy of your choosing. You'll be doing things you're interested in and hopefully have some knowledge about. From there when you converse with people hopefully you'll have opinions and expertise so that you can lead the conversation or interaction. This can be something as simple as helping a friend replace electrical outlets, cooking food or showing a girl how to play pool or ski. Put yourself in position…
/r/askTRP21/10/17 11:46 PM
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There's plenty of material on the sidebar and readings that people post frequently to answer your questions. If you're so smart why can't you read and comprehend them? Why should anyone take the time out of their night to explain these things to you when they've been answered? For you to come in and announce that most of the posts are troll posts, while asking basic shit, qualifies as a troll post. Dismissed.
/r/askTRP21/10/17 11:23 PM
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Yea it's an addiction, like I said I wasn't on her snap anymore, but she was. These girls have a constant need for validation and instant gratification. It's one of the many reasons I'm rethinking my worldview of ever settling down in this modern age. Truth be told it's her problem not yours. I wouldn't turn it into an issue or she'll use it for attention and validation from you. If she's on it while you're together, leave and she'll subconsciously start to associate you leaving with her snap us…
/r/askTRP14/10/17 09:48 PM
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A couple years ago I was busting my ass shoveling during a snowstorm and caught my ex, after having just woken up, videoing me to put on Snapchat. I started hollering at her and offered her the other shovel. Needless to say I wasn't on her Snapchat anymore.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 09:25 PM
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You go with him wherever he goes? And he's the beta? Start being the alpha and taking charge and you might get him motivated to do more exciting things.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 04:40 AM
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Get the psychological abuse shit out of your head. You were a willing participant in isolating yourself from friends and being manipulated. Time to start lifting and be a man. You can go confront her and end up crying in her lap or start improving and leave her as a memory of good and bad times and lessons learned.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 04:37 AM
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May all of your shits be as solid as your post.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 08:22 PM
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This is a solid quick read. I might put it on the back of my bathroom door to read during my daily morning shit.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 08:04 PM
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Great read, I never noticed these windows. I always did things at my own pace when I felt enough time had passed and was comfortable enough to try. I need to be observant for these "invitations."
/r/seduction12/10/17 07:13 PM
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Atta boy. That's the attitude you need to have seriously. Girls eat the arrogant shit up especially if you're playful about it. I don't know what your approach is, but leave a lasting impression (escalate, send funny text with her present, give yourself a funny nickname) so they won't want to flake.
/r/askTRP12/10/17 03:33 AM
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Medium is the message bro. If she ghosts you that's the message.
/r/askTRP12/10/17 03:22 AM
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Don't validate her again. If she's part of your social circle you can be cordial, but you need to never be her emotional tampon again. Don't hang out with her unless it's because you're out with your other friends and she incidentally happens to be there. As for the big favor you did her, Briffault's Law. "Past benefit provided by the male does not provide for continued or future association. Any agreement where the male provides a current benefit in return for a promise of future association is…
/r/askTRP12/10/17 03:19 AM
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Diet big time. I'm on Paleo and I dropped over 20 pounds from August to September. Now my weights staying the same, but I'm noticing considerable dropping in stomach fat and gains in muscle during month two. Diet is usually about 80-95% of fat loss.
/r/askTRP12/10/17 01:47 AM
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Woods were always the best for messing with girls, drinking, fighting. Just about anything you couldn''t do when adults were around and you didn't have a space.
/r/askTRP11/10/17 08:29 PM
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Exactly. AWALT, but as long as you're doing what you're supposed to be doing (sidebar stuff) there's less chance.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 11:54 PM
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He is a beta with his idealization of how this will go. If OP is his own mental point of origin then he won't sit around worrying about this husband's future. Higher chance of OP getting attacked/publicly outcast than the cuck breaking off the engagement.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 12:31 AM
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I recommend this for the sidebar, particularly for the update.
/r/askTRP09/10/17 11:34 PM
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Yep I realized the emotional upheaval isn't very serious to women after reading "The Manipulated Man." Women are coddled and encouraged to express extreme emotion along with that being in their nature. As men we're taught to suppress everything and be stoic from boyhood. When we get into a relationship and see our gf throw a giant emotional fit over something trivial as not getting to go out for the night or vacation plans being changed, our blue pill conditioning causes us to be confused. As me…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/17 07:18 PM
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The other answers provide you with a good view of frame, but I want to clarify your conversation driving point. Letting a girl drive a conversation is a good thing. It shows she is interested in talking to you, let's her blab hints of things for you to ask and it's less work that you need to do.
/r/askTRP09/10/17 04:10 AM
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There's an old song called "If you wanna be happy" by Jimmy Soul that's relevant to your post. People were on to some red pill concepts before it was all put together.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/17 05:28 AM
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You're not either AF or BB. Women biologically attempt to capitalize on the best prospect that meets both ends of her hypergamous needs. She attempts to find an alpha in her earlier years that fits both AF/BB, and as she approaches the wall during her epiphany phase she'll attempt to mold a man to fit her needs. Hence trying to get the "bad boy" to settle and take care of her. Or trying to get the "slightly beta" guy to "man up."
/r/TheRedPill07/10/17 05:22 AM
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I once was drunk and went down on a girl after I fucked her and started gagging on my own pube. It comes with the territory.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/17 05:01 AM
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Start lifting your hormones may be out of whack if you're always like this.
/r/askTRP07/10/17 03:18 AM
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This all applies to you because you're a male. Don't have any female friends to get friend zoned by? Better learn game or that girlfriend you're dreaming about won't happen when you get the LJBF rejection. Seriously kid, I wish I learned this at 18. Value those friends you have and try to expand with more friends. Be proactive, make plans and get social. Read all of the books listed above, work out and get the fuck out of your head.
/r/askTRP07/10/17 03:16 AM
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If you're traveling and at a hotel find the gym, or just a local gym. Find little opportunities to get away from her. The fact that you're together so much is 99% of the problem.
/r/askTRP06/10/17 11:31 PM
2

"Hey where da white women at?"
/r/askTRP06/10/17 11:28 PM
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That's called oneitis and it's a no no.
/r/askTRP06/10/17 11:25 PM
1

Are you pregnant? Seriously go fucking lift and stop worrying about what other people are doing.
/r/askTRP06/10/17 11:21 PM
5

Also Hunter Drew on The Family Alpha is dedicated to going into detail on this subject.
/r/askTRP06/10/17 10:53 PM
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I just started the book so I can't answer, but Rollos Positive Masculinity has a section dedicated to this.
/r/askTRP06/10/17 10:51 PM
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I feel like you've put the last five+ years of my life into words. That gun is empty, I can still remember the worst moment of it. She told me "I'll kill myself if you leave me." I responded "I'll kill myself if I stay" and I remember just laying there feeling a grueling peace after passing the worst shit test of my life. Now I'm left with picking up the pieces of abandoned friendships, financial chaos and working on vast self improvement. Meanwhile the war bride found herself a new beta provide…
/r/TheRedPill06/10/17 06:30 PM
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God damn that's a good link. Also had a oneitis shoot me down for me to get here. Mine was for moving too slow and I got put into auto reject.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/17 06:17 AM
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"Already asked her, my mom and my dad. They all said yes!"
/r/TheRedPill06/10/17 03:22 AM
17

You wouldn't believe how many girls at my work who watch Game of Thrones have said they wished Khal Drogo pinned them down and fucked them against their will.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/17 02:46 AM
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Jesus this is the only noteworthy thing to come out of this tinder campaign. And they have her mocking a guy for calf implants? Botox the bitch!
/r/TheRedPill05/10/17 05:59 PM
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I'm with you there. Many guys I befriend are willing to give up their lives at the sniff of a pussy, even a not so cute pussy.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/17 05:25 PM
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I second the cement mixing method. It sounds self explanatory, but if there's an art to it then it's with sharing.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/17 02:21 AM
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Just get up and start doing things. Make yourself busy. If the injury is still nagging do other things that won't aggravate it. Go outside. Just don't find a girl to shift all your free time to or you'll fall into a trap.
/r/askTRP03/10/17 10:28 PM
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https://therationalmale.com/2011/11/15/rejection-revenge/
/r/askTRP03/10/17 05:08 AM
5

Why do you care about her n-count unless she's in the running for LTR? You haven't even fucked her.
/r/askTRP03/10/17 05:05 AM
0

Just say "I don't shit where I eat. I don't want any damn drama." Plain, simple, impersonal and leaves the door open for when one of you leaves.
/r/askTRP03/10/17 05:01 AM
2

Male prostitution. Bring that alimony back to the man's pocket.
/r/askTRP03/10/17 04:58 AM
4

You were doing school, gym, working and self study, and she supported you. You were the prize and focused on your life while she's happy to come along for the ride. It seems like you have enough soft dread going to mitigate her hypergamy for the time being. Stay social, stay on your goals and if it seems like things start going south just know that you have the power to apply real dread. Unless you want to spin plates, that'll solve your abundance issues real quick.
/r/askTRP03/10/17 04:56 AM
2

Are these girls looking for a relationship from you? Do they just seem to generally looking forward to fucking? The lack of LMR and ASD seems like you're projecting a fun NSA vibe and they're looking for sex.
/r/askTRP03/10/17 04:46 AM
2

I'm going to give you some perspective on going too far. My ex's dad died and she broke down. I gave her all my attention, started doing everything for her and let her get away with not going to work. Eventually as time passed and I kept this up, she fell into a perpetual state of sadness because subconsciously she knew that's how to get my attention and validation. That was the swaying factor that led to the downfall of our relationship. My advice is to be human, strong and kind to her now. Aft…
/r/askTRP03/10/17 04:38 AM
12

I gotta agree, after a lifetime of anger issues that it's only good when you focus it and direct it. Being aware and letting it out as it happens in a productive manner can lead to great achievements and crucial changes in life. I spent most of my life aimlessly dealing with being mad and it left me spinning my wheels getting nowhere. I ended up with stress migraines from bottling up so much anger. Becoming self aware after ending a dysfunctional LTR and finding TRP has helped to guide me and kn…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/17 04:52 AM
3

Shit test. She's trying to put you on the spot to see if you're emotionally invested in her. You passed by calling her out on the LDR talk.
/r/askTRP02/10/17 01:45 AM
1

I know that kino demonstrates this is a man-woman interaction. Are there verbal cues for this as well? I'm not done reading through all of my books, but the general gist I'm getting is that overt communication should be avoided. Women like mystery and guys who just "get it" and overt communication doesn't give them plausible deniability. What are your thoughts?
/r/seduction30/09/17 01:53 AM
1

OP is lazy
/r/askTRP29/09/17 09:55 PM
2

Then you don't have time to learn how to talk to girls. Or talk to them for that matter.
/r/askTRP29/09/17 06:23 AM
3

This is why you need to turn your phone off. You clearly have zero command of the situation and you're looking for someone to lead you by the hand through this. Yes it's acceptable. Now turn your phone off until you're sober.
/r/askTRP29/09/17 06:20 AM
6

Now stop texting. Turn your damn phone off if you can't control yourself.
/r/askTRP29/09/17 06:10 AM
15

You're playing it off as if you asked because you thought you knew him stupid. Not because you asked because you're a needy little bitch.
/r/askTRP29/09/17 06:07 AM
3

Say oh he looks exactly like a dude I went to school with but that's not his name. Then ignore all texts while you're drunk
/r/askTRP29/09/17 06:05 AM
1

OP would be better off watching PUA shit since he just wants pickup advice.
/r/askTRP29/09/17 04:50 AM
1

If you call them out on bullshit it's positive.
/r/askTRP29/09/17 03:13 AM
3

Your already told her not to message you if she doesn't have time. If she messages you to come over and you don't get any yams tell her to leave because you're tired and don't act bitter. Then next her.
/r/askTRP29/09/17 03:06 AM
2

I find it good practice to stay on here and read about problems while I'm in monk mode. It helps me to read about situations and apply them to my own life or think critically about how I could respond to a variety of things.
/r/askTRP29/09/17 01:54 AM
2

AF/BB doesn't mean a comparison between two people necessarily. These are the two aspects women look to fulfill through hypergamy. They can see you as an alpha bad boy who they can tame for the beta bucks and the beta who they can possibly convince to "man up." You need to raise your SMV and if out with friends just make sure that you're the alpha to the girl you're after. A good discussion with your friend if they're aware of game would be helpful.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 09:20 PM
1

Yea sounds like The Manipulated Man. It's in the sidebar.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 09:05 PM
1

The medium is the message. If she's acting like a child then she's looking for Daddy to lay down the law. Better ready that belt.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 08:48 PM
1

This is why they invented vacation insurance. It's a shame Warlocks site is down, I seem to remember him having a guide on how to practice TRP concepts on your ex.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 06:21 PM
5

She's trickle truthing. She isn't being honest and upfront. Also you told her your ex cheated on you so she thinks she can try your ass and get away with it. Don't let her get away with it. Next.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 06:16 PM
2

If she's hot I would tell her and watch that sex come rolling in.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 05:04 PM
0

You have oneitis because you're a man. It's nothing unique to mommy issues. With that being said you should still look at your upbringing and see how you can change yourself from it, but even swallowing the red pill you'll still probably have to fight cases of oneitis. Women biologically attract us and some women way more heavily than others.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 04:55 PM
4

Dude the city and people in it didn't ruin your life. Your upbringing gave you a bad mind state and you continue to perpetuate it. Step one is lose the victim mentality. You have a bad history of pain and for whatever reason not being good with women is the specific thing that hurts your ego. The fact that you didn't get laid until later is a mental thing and now you're focusing on it. Guess what? YOU'RE ONLY 24. You're not even in your prime SMV years till you're close to 30. If you hate approa…
/r/askTRP28/09/17 03:52 PM
2

Be your honest self. If you don't want her to see you lose frame again, be honest and say you'd prefer to be alone instead of letting her come over. Death is a big deal, take care of yourself and don't worry about TRP interactions in the mean time
/r/askTRP28/09/17 04:53 AM
1

Always lift, monk mode or not. You're in a good social position right now that girls are readily available and inexperienced. Read through Rollos stuff at The Rational Male and try to practice outcome independent interactions with girls.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 04:48 AM
2

Get off social media. I remember when I was younger before I deleted my Facebook it was a oneitis factory. Talk or hang out with a girl, she adds your Facebook and next thing you know you're looking at all her shit. That's when you start idealizing a relationship with her and BOOM she's on the pedastal and you'll never get that pussy.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 04:44 AM
1

What's a good lifting sub to follow?
/r/askTRP28/09/17 02:29 AM
2

Rollo has writings about entering a LTR and how to hold frame. Also he breaks down many potential female life cycles, it's all summed up in his book preventive medicine. Don't play games sending her shit with other girls. Learn how to maintain an alpha frame balanced with ability to provide. They're looking for a balance of their hypergamic needs ultimately. Either the alpha they can tame or beta they can get to "man up."
/r/askTRP28/09/17 01:13 AM
1

You're supposed to be mysterious and let them think they can figure you out. It keeps them on the hook. Say you gotta go you're busy and don't provide an explanation.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 12:49 AM
1

Yea stop looking at it and improve things in your control. Lift, raise testosterone and grow a beard.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 12:39 AM
3

"I'm sure we could share a few laughs, but I don't think jokes can be appreciated though this app. There's this (location near you) I've been wanting to try it. Come with me it'll be fun." Assuming she's down the next text is getting her number then you can set up logistics.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 10:56 PM
1

Which one said nope?
/r/askTRP27/09/17 10:37 PM
1

Start being social around the rich guys and network. Ask them for advice on careers, education and show ambition. A lot of guys like the ego stroke of sharing their vast knowledge/mentoring skills and might even hook you up with a job.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 10:18 PM
6

Based on the title I thought we were going to get a romantic story where OP found his unicorn. Sometimes you just gotta put it on the tip and stick it back in to the truffle butter factory.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 10:13 PM
6

Almost EVERYTHING Clint Eastwood. Watch "Unforgiven" it's seriously Clint trying to hold a blue pill frame that goes against his nature until he loses his shit and paints the town red.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 09:56 PM
1

Call her out on being defensive, get her to be more defensive and give her that shit grin that lets her know you're fucking with her. Also have a plan and let her know that you have a plan. Lead with the details and managerial stuff and leave the songs to her if that's her strength. Make her need you.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 09:29 PM
1

Sleepy time tea, melatonin pills, wear yourself out at the gym.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 09:24 PM
7

This. It's not beta if the shit really doesn't matter and you're trying to be controlling. If you're overreacting in your response instead of setting a legitimate boundary then you appear beta.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 09:21 PM
1

Ask convo 1 "naughty or nice?" Convo 2 say "I guess that means I'll have to be rough with you."
/r/askTRP27/09/17 09:17 PM
2

Also they're both giving you an opening to make a sexual joke.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 09:14 PM
6

Stop looking for data about her and start trying to stand out and be funny. Once you get her to lol a little talk about a bar/cafe/food place you want to try and tell her to come along. Get her number and proceed with not acting like a robot on the date.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 09:14 PM
20

Watch Owen on RSDTyler. "I wuv your wittle belly baby. You look like a little Buddha baby, don't go to the gym spend time with meeeeee." A couple years later when you're a fat slob who can barely breath going up the stairs she'll start nagging you calling you a fat disgusting piece of shit. Then she'll go out with her girlfriends and fuck the bartender and end up leaving your fat ass. Meanwhile you'll be stuck with your dick in your hand devastated asking her "but I thought you loved my belly ba…
/r/askTRP27/09/17 09:07 PM
4

This was in blue pill days so there's no demoting a 5 year LTR who you live with. She stopped paying her half of the bills so I broke it off and offered her to stay while she saved for a place. As soon as I found out she had a new man a month later I packed her shit and threw her out because my house doesn't have a Public Storage sign on the front.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 04:12 PM
1

This is absolutely true. I had a lot of people pleasing in my upbringing that I've been trying to break and I didn't see this connection. Thanks for the insight.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 06:17 AM
1

Young kids who are left alone generally internalize it and think they did something wrong or bad to be left alone. They then latch onto others for validation out of fear of being alone. Being alone for long periods of time can be great. You can get a lot of things done, improve yourself, go out and experience things you want. You just need to tell yourself that you're alone on your own terms, look around the room and take in the fact that life continues whether someone is there or not. You may w…
/r/askTRP27/09/17 04:28 AM
2

You're college age. Just know that it's normal to be alone and there are plenty of other girls around in your age group. Follow the sidebar, you're going to need to learn how to live on your own to become a man. I had to leave a codependency of 5 years and I'm going through it now. Be grateful you found this out about yourself at your age.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 03:56 AM
16

She'll become easily and heavily attached due to not having a father figure in her life. She will also shit test the every living fuck out of you, because she didn't have male security growing up so she'll desperately need to know you're in control. My ex had BAD daddy issues and as I progressively failed shit tests, I got treated more like dirt. Hypergamy wasn't really in the cards with her as much as other girls due to abandonment issues she didn't want to spend a moment without me. Good luck.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 03:30 AM
9

Nice hard smacks on the ass that she'd never get from a peasant.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 02:19 AM
2

Brilliant job with the bolding. Everything here is a symptom of codependency. Your abandonment left your needs unmet and you feeling lonely, so you need someone to be with you for validation. It's called a codependency because generally both people need the other and with two unstable parties, toxic environments are built. Therapy may help so long as you don't get one trying to blue pill you. It's tough when you're young, but you're going to need to accept yourself flaws and all and learn to use…
/r/askTRP27/09/17 02:16 AM
5

It sounds like you're a virgin and you need to learn how to demonstrate sexuality and physicality. Getting to second base is a green light to third, which is a green light to go all the way. Try it out, if she resists back off to whatever you were doing before then try again in a few minutes. If she keeps denying you sex, listen to everyone else and HARD NEXT.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 02:09 AM
2

Don't get attached, don't tell her your life story, use kino, change venues and lead, try to fuck.
/r/askTRP26/09/17 10:31 PM
3

Most of his points come down to improving your life, building confidence and abundance mentality. Solid videos while you're eating breakfast or taking a shit.
/r/askTRP26/09/17 09:34 PM
5

These are facts. My ex had depression and anxiety from a bad childhood, but I held frame early in the relationship and things were good. After her dad died I coddled her ass and tried to do everything for her. I scheduled therapy sessions, held her, constantly reassured her and eventually had to cover the bills while she wasted away and stopped going to work. I constantly tried to make her feel better when she was down and this became the norm until I became so beaten down from doing overtime an…
/r/askTRP26/09/17 07:12 AM
5

You clearly haven't. This is called oneitis, heard of it? You lost frame, acted like a total beta and her pussy dried up at the thought of you. Go read the sidebar with your eyes open. Also, don't shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP26/09/17 03:07 AM
3

She wouldn't love the blue pill you. Hold frame and get the fuck. Little spoon doesn't make the rules.
/r/askTRP26/09/17 02:57 AM
6

Grab her by the hips, tell her forget it, plant a big fat kiss on her and slap her on the ass for good luck. Just move on and don't explain yourself. Explaining yourself and apologizing leads to trouble.
/r/askTRP26/09/17 01:51 AM
2

Take the L and keep it moving, like I said don't start explaining yourself. When you start second guessing yourself and apologizing is when you start losing alpha status. Just be unreactive, be confident and don't bring it up again, it'll probably build attraction.
/r/askTRP26/09/17 01:42 AM
1

Do you watch porn? It could be a sexual dysfunction side effect, also taking way too long to ejaculate on the opposite end. Try starting out slow sometimes you're just in the mood and can't help it. I've had times where it happened and if you have a condom let a little out. If not pull out and let a little out then go back at it.
/r/askTRP26/09/17 01:38 AM
4

When you're having a fact based argument, a fun bet or a situation where you're a willing participant in putting your opinion on the line and get disproven. Never start explaining yourself or apologize for stupid shit. Her criticism seemed somewhat reasonable, next time it's small shit like that just ask why not? If she provides a valid logical reason (something women don't often do) like using decorative dish cloth for dishes then it's fine to just accept it "makes sense" is a good reply. We ge…
/r/askTRP26/09/17 01:34 AM
1

If you find value in the career for your own interests (fulfilling work, owning property and cars, baller vacations) then pursue. If it's going to make you miserable, maybe reconsider. You should be the star of the movie that is your life. Don't pursue a career to make a ton of money for a nonexistent wife, or you'll find a real one who's more than happy to use your cash, fuck the pool boy and charge you alimony for the rest of her life.
/r/askTRP26/09/17 12:46 AM
1

Then fuck black women.
/r/askTRP26/09/17 12:03 AM
31

She's why we have condoms.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 11:51 PM
2

Agree and amplify "He sounds dreamy I should get his number" Pressure flip "No, why would you tell me about that?" Best just to ignore and let her think about why she would say some stupid shit like that.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 05:39 PM
2

That's solid advice. I'm never sending a post date text again. Experience is the best teacher and no matter how attracted to the girl I am, I'm not falling into her frame.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 05:21 PM
5

I bought into it totally and was depressed/desperate after a 5 year LTR ended followed up with an extreme oneitis rejecting me after two dates for acting like a blue pill beta fag. I'm now nihilistic, apathetic and sincerely don't give a fuck or have any hope for the future. I mostly fixed my back through PT and started lifting again, working on my own shit and reading red pill books to learn more and improve my game. Does the nihilism go away? It's only been a month, but I feel like I take joy …
/r/TheRedPill25/09/17 05:16 PM
1

I did this with last oneitis. After first date she texted me telling me what a great time she had. After second date (that I knew didn't go as great because I let her invite me out with her friends judging me) I texted her saying I had a great time. Got ghosted and our sex date cancelled. Never give an after date text and never count on talked about sex.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 04:29 PM
1

Do you have any dread in losing her? Don't give a fuck and it'll show. If she tries to complain about it later grab her by the hips, kiss her and fuck her. Shit test passed.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 01:33 PM
1

Go back on tinder and make your bio that you're looking for a wedding date and chill.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 05:52 AM
6

Yes and you should do it while out with her. She goes to the bathroom and tells you to wait here? Walk away to the bar and game up a girl, minus maybe kino. Get that competition anxiety running through her brain and you won't end up with a celibate land whale.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 05:48 AM
9

Listen pusscake, You left it at his house, confronting him will be easy because you know where he lives. You know what to do, but you're afraid. If you swallowed the red pill you know that you need to be a man. Don't ask for the bike, tell him to give you the fucking bike and if his reply doesn't coincide with "yes sir" hit him in the fucking face as many times as it takes you to put him on the ground then proceed to stomp him. If he doesn't then produce the bike, gift him a brick through his bi…
/r/askTRP25/09/17 05:46 AM
9

You're being overt about your disapproval of her going out, which makes you look insecure. Read Rollos Rational Male series, Preventative Medicine covers this subject I believe. You're too young to be in a LTR, let alone restricting your fun for one girl. I spent almost 5 years in one where she needed me around all the time and didn't even want me to see my family and friends. Fortunately she didn't want to go out without me so I knew cheating wasn't on her game plan. Even still I resented her a…
/r/askTRP25/09/17 05:42 AM
4

Give her some kino and go for the fuck. You're either her orbiter or fucking her, your choice.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 05:01 AM
5

"My name is____ what's your name?" "What brings you to (current location)?" "Are you from here?" Seriously dude are you a fucking robot with zero social skills?
/r/askTRP25/09/17 02:02 AM
1

Find someone who you can get the shit off your chest to about your life. Then accept your current life situation and work on improvement. Your life situation is not your life, it's only a point in time and is subject to change depending on the action you take to change it.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 01:58 AM
9

When I was blue pill my ex started complaining about food I made and kept nagging and asking questions about ingredient choices. I took her plate and threw that shit in the trash and happily finished my meal in silence.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 01:14 AM
2

Fuck more and learn how to do it right.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 12:46 AM
1

This was going to be my answer. He should be your best friend, not your enemy. Don't be too proud to ask for help, pointers and to go out and party with him. He'd probably appreciate having someone to go out with and you'd have an actual male friend, because females aren't really going to be your friend. Stop seeking validation for your perceived superiority and understand you're the problem, not him.
/r/askTRP24/09/17 11:28 PM
50

This is the winning answer
/r/TheRedPill22/09/17 12:34 AM
3

The mentality doesn't determine fault, but your narrative portrays her as the villain even with your admissions of fault. The book will help you learn how to get your needs meet through direct action, verbalization and boundaries.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 04:51 PM
14

Read "No More Mr. Nice Guy" by Donald Glover. You have a victim-villain mentality of your relationship even though you appear to be just as, if not more complicit in all of the stupid shit.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 04:38 PM
2

Tell her "Let's just be friends."
/r/askTRP19/09/17 01:23 AM
7

Dog training 101. This man deserves a medal.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 12:01 AM
0

If you haven't fucked her yet ask her what STD he said he gave her.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 11:48 PM
6

Yup, problem is I start getting anxiety and stuck in my head. Admittedly I came here hoping to gain knowledge to go back after my oneitis, but I've had to refrain because I understand the material I just struggle to implement it. I'm trying to get out more and build abundance mentality, but my friends are all married lames so new social circle is my first goal.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/17 05:57 PM
8

Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Chad. After discovering TRP a month ago I've done a lot of reflecting on my life. I came here because I pedastalized a oneitis and told her how much I liked her. Fortunately for me this one was honest and told me that I was "too nice for her," which fucked my head up and brought me here. I'm pretty well known as that asshole who says anything, makes everyone laugh and has a general IDGAF attitude. I manage to attract girls that I have zero interest in, but have always struggle…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/17 03:41 PM
1

She's a plate that you caught feelings for. If she bangs other people she's not your LTR. Keep spinning, just spend more time with other plates.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 03:25 AM
1

If she's your LTR and you've been together for some period of time then there's a normalcy that occurs and boredom can set in. It's up to you to take the lead and change things up while keeping her in your frame. If she's a plate then continue spinning, it's about the sex.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 03:14 AM
1

What are you doing when you're hanging out? You need to find a passion for your own life, don't rely on a girl for it. Make plans to do something you want and bring her along. If you still find yourself bored by her then next, but don't expect another human to fill a hole in you.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 02:57 AM
5

I would just continue fucking them it sounds like the situation is under control.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 02:48 AM
7

Easy, fuck her and don't send a dick pic.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 02:45 AM
3

I need to read this. My last relationship I was total alpha in the beginning then I deteriorated into beta, or as society says "got comfortable." My lifelong problem has been falling into the frame of girls I'm attracted too and not getting what I want. Meanwhile girls I find completely unattractive claw at me because of my generally idgaf attitude.
/r/askTRP16/09/17 03:30 PM
2

I'm going into school for the same situation. 48 laws is on my reading list. Do the laws in this book apply to power in the broadest sense for situational and workplace? Or are they applicable to the male-female dynamic many of us on TRP are here for?
/r/askTRP16/09/17 02:30 PM
1

I'm grateful for this post because it clearly defines beta bucks as $, when some of the other examples in this forum equate it to being bucked off the horse. My understanding of the concept just increased because I can now associate it better with the provider role of the perceived beta.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/17 11:23 AM
1

When she said you had to earn the number I would've agreed and escalated asking her how much $ (mentally equating her to a hooker). Also don't ask her out, tell her out "There's this new bar/restaurant "INSERT NAME" I've been looking to try, let's try it out together." It's verbal leading and it's using the app for it's only purpose, to set up the meet.
/r/askTRP16/09/17 04:06 AM
1

Hit her back with that hey and say I asked you a question what's up with it?
/r/askTRP16/09/17 03:46 AM
1

I started reading Eckhart Tolle's "The Power of Now" to break up all of the red pill, male-female dynamic. So far it's helping me to focus on myself and my present, as opposed to worries of the past and future which your post implies that you exhibit strongly. Also it sounds as though your idealization of love from a woman that comes from being raised by a single mother relates to Donald Glover's "No More Mr. Nice Guy." I just finished this book and it opened my eyes to the personality disorders…
/r/askTRP15/09/17 08:11 PM
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