Ontenitis

Primary__Account · 2017-09-18T02:35:53+00:00

Hookup with her. Have fun and eventually you just might have sex with her. Just don't ask her out and if she ask tell her "I'm not ready for a relationship at this moment of my life."

Make her a friend with benefits, but do not tell her this. Hangout with her and do not tell her "hey let's be friends with benefits"

Just flirt and have fun.

Wait for other advice, incase someone else has another approach to your issue

BigMattyMcDaddy · 2017-09-18T02:45:30+00:00

Easy, fuck her and don't send a dick pic.

Cunt_Robber · 2017-09-18T02:42:19+00:00

Dude fuck her. Sluts will slut. Youll prob look back on this opportunity and really regret not losing your virginity at this time.

-HeartOfDark- · 2017-09-18T03:40:50+00:00

Never send a dick pic unless you're dating the girl. You look desperate at best and you look like a creep at the worst. Be a little classy...
She likes you. If you want to "hook up" with her then make a move. If you're not comfortable with it then take it slow with her. You're a kid dude. I know you don't want to hear that but you're young and you shouldn't rush stuff like sex just to get it over with.
Ignore your friends who say she's a "thot" or whatever. She's a girl who likes you. Maybe she has liked other guys or even been with other guys. That's none of your business. Your business is being happy with yourself and adding people to your life who improve that happiness. If she makes you happy then go for it.
It sounds like you like her. So go for it. If it doesn't happen then it doesn't happen. That's fine. That's part of your personal development as a human being.
Never put pressure on yourself and never think less of yourself if something doesn't go as planned. Girls are like a maze. You get lost in them. Don't get lost. Keep your goals in mind at all times.

SiulaGrande · 2017-09-18T03:20:28+00:00

DO IT

redlurker9 · 2017-09-18T03:23:33+00:00

Step 1: fuck her.

Step 2: fuck her more.

Step 3: ????

Step 4: PROFIT

BewareTheOldMan · 2017-09-18T08:46:42+00:00

Young man - If you're going to have sex, make sure you KNOW what you're doing and ALWAYS ensure your safety, health, and wellbeing. PRATICE, PRACTICE, PRACTICE using a condom BEFOREHAND! The "heat of the moment" is NOT the time to have uncertainty.

DO NOT perform oral sex on this chick. You are NOT exclusive, hence you may NOT be the only guy having sexual relations with this girl. NEVER, EVER...not now and from this day forward stick your mouth or face in "strange" and unfamiliar territory. Make that decision BEFOREHAND...and know this is NOT a deal breaker for most women. Long Term Relationships (LTRs) have different rules regarding this matter. The object is to ensure YOUR pleasure, while she receives peripheral or direct benefit. You do your thing or moves/whatever and she will likely enjoy your effort. Pay attention to her responses to your actions. This will give you a sense of her level of interest/enjoyment.

If she offers to perform oral sex on you, I would advise using a condom as you DON'T KNOW this chick, but once again...this is decided BEFORE you begin sexual activity with any woman. As stated earlier, the rules for LTRs versus Hooking Up are different.

I have such an urge to hookup with her. This is your biological and hormonal imperative working as normal, just don't let it control you to the point of making stupid decisions.

Understand the risks associated with sexual activity....diseases, "accidental pregnancy," and false accusations. These issues will be new and are inherent risks associated with sex that many young men don't think about, and in most cases are clueless. Trust me on this - you DO NOT want to pay child support for the next 18-21 years for a kid that may or may NOT be your biological child, depending on how many OTHER guys are having sex with this same chick. This is a risk you ASSUME in EVERY sexual encounter.

If she's your first, there's a likelihood that you will experience some level of emotional bonding. Remember basic rules...this is NOT your future wife/mother of your children if she is a THOT. The rules are different for a young, virtuous, traditional, and virgin woman. KNOW THE DIFFERENCE.

I personally don't recommend sex if you are not in a financial position to assume personal responsibility for children, but young men are going to do "what young men do." Either way, be VERY smart about your actions or approach in this entire matter.

Be safe, smart, DON'T fall in love with a THOT, and DON'T get her or any other woman pregnant.

Lastly - if you "do the deed," resist the urge to brag to your friends or everyone else. You might be able to keep this information tight-lipped with a close friend who you KNOW won't betray you, but everyone else is going to talk. This is how you keep your "mysterious and confident vibe." Let HER do the bragging on your behalf. That way, you are not outing her as a confirmed slut to everyone else.

There's a lot more...more than what you learned in school, from your friends, social media, the internet, and even your parents. This will give you a good start for now...Good Luck.

Title	Ontenitis
Author	iiKarambit
Upvotes	9
Comments	7
Date	September 18, 2017 1:07 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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