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I'm truly sorry that I have experience and spent time doing proactive things :(((
/r/seduction19/07/16 11:43 AM
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Because I am an asshole :)
/r/seduction19/07/16 11:19 AM
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Yeah , they market being selfish as something bad . The greatest people in history were some of the most selfish people in the world and that is why they succeeded .
/r/TheRedPill29/03/16 01:56 AM
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Name me one person who did not come here after a breakup . It's always because of the girl . But we found the greater goal in life so we should be thankful .
/r/TheRedPill29/03/16 01:55 AM
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I dated a BPD girl . Was unbearable , sucked out my life energy but also made me an expert in seeing the signals ...
/r/TheRedPill29/03/16 01:53 AM
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You are here so we know who the real MVP is :)
/r/TheRedPill29/03/16 01:52 AM
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Better late then never mate . Everyone that comes to this sub has similar problems but we are part of a small minority that is actually working to fix this shit.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/16 01:51 AM
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Exactly man , TRP saved my life , gave me a purpose , gave me a great body , a work ethic and the confidence to open a blog because I now think I can contribute something of value . Life is too short to be a suffering bitch .
/r/TheRedPill29/03/16 01:50 AM
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Everyone is fucked up but no Bipolar or borderline personality disorder is enough I think ....
/r/TheRedPill29/03/16 01:48 AM
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A statement like " You seem adventureous hope you don't disappoint me " will make her qualify herself because she doesn't want to be seen as boring . If you are a noobie you can check out my new blog http://humanoidhamster.com and Also pm me if you want guidance .
/r/seduction29/03/16 12:58 AM
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1 night and alcohol was involved. Was a friend of a mutual friend , I knew she thought I was hot and I escalated and kissed her within 15 minutes .
/r/seduction29/03/16 12:43 AM
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I think being spontaneous and different is key . You need to make her feel excited and thrilled to be around you to keep her around . One tip from me would be to go for a walk and just spontaneously kiss her at a moment where you think she won't hit you in the face . Even if you get rejected you can try again later if you don't react badly to the rejection .
/r/seduction29/03/16 12:42 AM
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I think you can try to qualify or make them comply which is like a shit test
/r/seduction29/03/16 12:39 AM
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That means that if you start to make her the utmost priority in your life , think that she is the only one you can ever be with , and the only one that can ever understand you , you are in scarcity . You don't have to fuck other chicks to be abundant , just know that you are a man with variety of options .
/r/TheRedPill28/03/16 07:00 PM
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BRO it really does not matter what you talk about if you are passionate about it , they will respond.
/r/seduction14/11/15 08:08 AM
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I'm in
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 08:51 AM
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Message me if you have any questions would love to help
/r/seduction30/03/15 04:49 PM
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My post might help you :) http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/2xzgds/met_with_ex_lessons_about_oneitis_relationships/
/r/seduction08/03/15 09:12 AM
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Loved the post man . Always nice to see honest posts like these :) message me privately I would like to pick your Brain out if you are okay with it :)
/r/seduction08/03/15 09:10 AM
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I tried to reconcile like 3 times man and unless she is also head over heels in love with you , she will not forget the bad moments and those will come back to haunt you ... For example the whale thing came up like 8 times after the break up ... So just start fresh and you will do great :)
/r/seduction06/03/15 07:48 PM
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After you get another girl, your perspective will probably change about her . Nobody is close to being perfect and as time goes on and new people get in to your life you will see her more normally and objectively as well .
/r/seduction06/03/15 07:45 PM
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Hahaha thanks man I wish I knew these things 6 months ago ...
/r/seduction06/03/15 07:42 PM
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Thanks man :)
/r/seduction06/03/15 07:41 PM
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I still like my ex as well but when you experience new people you will see that the feelings towards her had more to do with her being the first love of your life than her qualities . Go experience new people and you will see that revisiting a damaged relationship is just not worth it .
/r/seduction06/03/15 07:41 PM
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Thanks man glad you enjoyed it. I might even follow up hahaha :)
/r/seduction06/03/15 07:38 PM
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The weight thing is off limits unless you are certain that she won't be offended ... Great mindset though , very similar to mine and respect bro :)
/r/seduction06/03/15 07:37 PM
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This is a hard one I have to admit that ... It was not easy for me to forget the ex even though she had many problems . I think the situation here has more to do with the way she made you feel than her qualities. Every one of us want to run back to the girl who treated us badly and show her that we are now better off . Validation seeking from women is something that we all could fall into but just remember that a successful and happy man DOES NOT GIVE A SHIT. So this is very normal but even if y…
/r/seduction06/03/15 07:36 PM
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Message me directly this is very similar to my situation I can really help you.
/r/seduction06/03/15 06:59 PM
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Rising from the nerdy guy who could not talk to girls for more than 2 minutes to having a girl who treated like you were the king of the world can fuck up anyone man ... I was at a point where I felt like I could say and do anything I wanted and I was this gargantuan asshole ... It took her not giving a shit about me to make me realize this and losing that validation actually made me feel like shit but life is all about making mistakes and adjusting accordingly so I might have ruined one relatio…
/r/seduction06/03/15 06:58 PM
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Well is this a mutual decision and how attached are you to her at this very moment ?
/r/seduction05/03/15 08:04 PM
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I think that is the reason why the people who have been through a break up seem like a completely different person in the span of a very short time .
/r/seduction05/03/15 07:02 PM
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Your welcome it was a pleasure :)
/r/seduction05/03/15 07:01 PM
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Thanks :)
/r/seduction05/03/15 07:00 PM
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You are right. Forgiveness is just the start of the healing process but I think that the change of perspective is the key point here. Thanks for the comment :)
/r/seduction05/03/15 07:00 PM
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RSD videos also have some helpful stuff if you want to check out some further stuff.
/r/seduction05/03/15 06:57 PM
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Wow 2 weeks is impressive my first oneitis went on for like 6 months ....
/r/seduction05/03/15 06:56 PM
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Keep working hard there will come a time when she will just be a person who pushed you into greatness. In the future you will look back fondly at this chapter in the mostly empty book that is your life :)
/r/seduction05/03/15 06:56 PM
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Well maybe the right phrase for me was blow out of proportion. My ex was a nice and fun girl as well but as I look back I probably thought of her as like my soul mate when she was lacking a lot of the qualities of one. But if you can stay cool as friends respect my friend :)
/r/seduction05/03/15 06:50 PM
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Ok, cool . So introduce yourself to me like what your background is and how experienced you are and it will be great to share our experiences with each other :)
/r/seduction22/02/15 01:02 PM
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Message me as well we'll talk about your problems
/r/seduction15/02/15 05:39 PM
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Thanks a lot for the advice I decided to back off and focus on other girls for now. Maybe in 1-2 months I'll hit her up again.
/r/seduction14/02/15 09:37 PM
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Hi . Since you are so experienced as a PUA , I want to ask you a question on something. There is this girl I barely knew long time ago (she was at my school) and years later she followed me on instagram. She had become a pretty good looking girl so I initiated a conversation with her from facebook and got her number pretty easily. She seemed to be really into me at first but than about a week ago she stopped answering my texts. The problem was I think the fact that we could not setup a date sinc…
/r/seduction14/02/15 09:15 PM
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That didn't stop me in the past :) If you don't look like you are 11 you can find a way to get in
/r/seduction14/02/15 07:33 PM
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Practice storytelling . İf you can tell a good story she will surely be intrigued
/r/seduction14/02/15 07:31 PM
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Clubs will be filled with drunk lonely chicks
/r/seduction14/02/15 07:25 PM
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Well at a party environment it is best to approach the group (if you don't know anyone in the group) and try to win over the guys in the group first. If you know someone in that group , it will be easier to connect with the group. In the end , the main goal is to isolate the target. Once you isolate her , you have to physically escalate so that she knows your intentions.(touching hand, hair , shoulder etc.) Than go for the kiss , if she responds to it offer to go somewhere quieter. In the quiet …
/r/seduction14/02/15 07:08 PM
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thanks man hopefully it will be a blast :)
/r/seduction14/02/15 06:59 PM
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I talk about this at my post as well but if you are both shy an offer to take a selfie can create enough closeness for the kiss. You can joke around and say come here don't pose like my friend from the army or some shit like that and pull her a little bit closer. You can also take some silly pictures which will let you build rapport and comfort with her. Check out my post (http://redd.it/2vtxkt) for some more tips on how to get the kiss. But don't try to do it with a complete stranger it will ju…
/r/seduction14/02/15 06:20 PM
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Hahaha this message made my day
/r/seduction14/02/15 06:08 PM
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I think especially with kissing it can be applied step by step so that when it is close to happening you will be so amped up that you'll go for it out of instinct . You can read my post it has a few tips to determine what the right moves to get sexual are .
/r/seduction14/02/15 11:01 AM
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Read my post I think it'll help you
/r/seduction14/02/15 10:51 AM
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