Since this is my first time posting , I feel like I should share with you guys my background. I am 19 years old foreigner (excuse the English mistakes ) and about 5 feet 9 inches tall. As a child ,I suffered from a serious muscular disease which completely destroyed my self confidence. I had no relationship with girls until I was 16 and kissed a girl first when I was 17. Like all the great PUAs , I got interested in how attraction and the minds of females work and started to do some research about it . I have progressed a lot in these 2 years and here are some of the things I learned that enabled me to progress into a more confident and successful person , both with girls and in life :

  1. It is really important to have girl friends - This one is pretty simple. If you have many close girl friends , it makes it much easier to talk to and understand girls. Many guys who lack success with women actually don't have any real girl friends that they care about and can actually talk to. Girl friends are also great for advice and networking as well so try to connect with a few girls strictly as friends. After I started being friends with girls I was generally liked by them and started to improve my social skills.

  2. But only being friends with girls mean that the first few attempts to actually form something more than friendships will fail - This started happening to me as I got more girl friends into my life. I would be attracted to a girl but since I only knew how to be a friend I always ended up getting friendzoned. I was even labeled "the king of rejection " by my friends but ...

  3. After the first few rejections , one usually gets experienced enough to finally land a girl - The key point here is that most people (in this case me also) who experience this fast rise in popularity will probably fail their first relationship because although they know how to flirt with girls , they do not know what to do in a real relationship. So if you make a lot of mistakes (being needy, controlling , not caring enough etc.) and the relationship itself doesn't work out , IT'S OKAY. First relationships are excellent experiences that ensure that you will not suck as badly in your second relationship. (First relationship 1 month , second relationship 6 months. There was definitely improvement)

  4. The asshole stage- After the first unsuccessful relationship , a lot of guys (me included) go into a tailspin and become obsessed with making those women who rejected them and treated them badly or even worse treated them as " just friends' pay. Since this happens almost overnight , a lot of people will notice it and call you out. Although everyone around you will say that this will not lead you to get more girls, (being on the end of that spectrum will not help I tried believe me) you will not listen and go with this attitude for a period of time. As the wounds from the failed first relationship start to pass you will achieve the balance of a charming guy. This stage took 5 months for me but when I got past it , I was seen as more charismatic and attractive by girls.

  5. As you get more experienced with girls , you will see some patterns- In this case , I actually noticed some things I could use to see if I could kiss a girl on the first date .The first one is the hand test. This is very basic kino escalation but I have tried it numerous times and it is a good way to know if the potential to kiss the girl exists. Usually within the first 30-60 minutes of the date I take her hands and tell her a story about how a teacher used to move her hands while explaining something. After the story ends I continue to talk about something else but instead of letting her hands go, I put my hand over her hand (on a table usually). If she is comfortable and doesn't retreat her hands this a very good sign that she can be kissed. After the meal , I quickly change venues as moving around creates the illusion that the time spent together is more than it actually is , which creates comfort and trust with the girl. I always found bars to be a nice venue to go to because sharing something like shots also helps create a bond (doing something together ). Aside from ordering shots I also order something like a beer or a cocktail to do the bottle test. The bottle test is simple. I offer them a sip of my drink. The reason behind this is that if they are willing to share their mouths indirectly (the bottle) , they will also be willing to share their lips directly (kissing). After this there is one last move I like to use to get close to the girl. This is especially useful for guys who somehow just can't get close to the girl and need an excuse. I offer to take a selfie with them which enables me to get close and get a little more physical with them . The result of the selfie move for me has been a kiss within 30 seconds in 80% of the times I have tried it so I would advise you guys to try this move. I will update with more lessons I have learned very soon.