| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 92 | & that’s on porn addiction… SMHWhen you’re saying “our marriage shouldn’t be this way” and it’s that way. Divorce! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/22 08:36 AM |
| 54 | Ok what is up with this man and sleeping hats?I bet it’s because he doesn’t like the way it looks when she wears it. And he’s so superficial that he cares about what she looks like 24/7. It’s funny how women are always told not to be superficial because 🤭 we may actually start loving ourselves. But men are the ones that constantly want us looking put together or hot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/22 04:56 AM |
| 122 | What is the most low value reason a scrote has tried using to manipulate you?I feel like dead bedrooms are always the male’s fault. Either he can’t get it up because porn addiction. Or he’s just such a shitty husband that the wife doesn’t want sex with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/22 04:53 AM |
| 3 | I love it when scrotes just perfectly illustrate why we need FDS. This is the type of guy you will weed out with the "unreasonable" rules he mentionsIt’s funny when these guys talk about women only dating “chads”. And how easy women are when the guys are hot. But when we have high standards and don’t give everything away within the first few dates they criticise us for being too high maintenance. We can’t win. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 03:54 AM |
| 356 | Vetting Vetting, imagine being with a man for 30 yrs plus and he doesn’t love you, only as a best friend…. This is sad.Imagine wasting someone’s life and love like this. We get one shot at life. And this man has taken away her opportunity to be completely and romantically loved by someone who would actually respect and take care of her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 01:09 PM |
| 482 | I just got dumped mid-abortionYou’re strong and you’ll get through it. What a pathetic loser, he couldn’t even muster the decency to support you through this. Men have no fucking idea. They’re able to breeze through life. While women suffer the consequences of their (men’s) actions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/22 11:24 AM |
| 3 | OLD is a place holder for when you’re feeling lonelyHahah that is so spot on and hilarious | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 06:20 AM |
| 357 | This kinda chaos is what happens when people believe to live in a dream-world where sex means nothing and men don't cheat (emotionally or sexually)Whenever I read stories about threesomes, they make me so unexplainably uncomfortable. I feel all angry and gross inside. I do not understand how women like this talk themselves into being okay to go ahead with a threesome. Because even the thought of it makes me queasy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 12:08 PM |
| 36 | BuT DiD YoU CoMmUniCaTE??Yeah I’m only now just realising this, looking at my past relationship. None of the problems I ever brought up were solved through “cOmMunicAtIon”. They were always met with “I can’t do anything about it” or lying. And only one of the problems was solved, and that was due to circumstances changing. Not because he actually put the effort in to fix the problem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 11:15 AM |
| 78 | How are men so obsessed with sex and yet still SO BAD at it??They would be a lot better if they actually cared enough to figure out how to make their sexual partners orgasm. It’s that they only care about making themselves orgasm and then roll over and think job done. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 04:43 AM |
| 2 | Do you have a friend who reaches out to you when things aren't working out with her man, and then the minute they're okay, she's gone?Not this, but I did have a friend reach out to me because she and her bestie were having a fight. For a few weeks we were hanging out together more. Then as soon as her and the other girl were friends again, she was gone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/21 08:59 PM |
| 660 | Ask Amy: I think my wife is lazy for not having a career while raising our kidsThe fact the he says “I didn’t ask her to” in regards to her taking on majority of parental care and house work AS IF he would’ve done it had she not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 01:14 AM |
| 10 | Men who lie in wait for emotionally vulnerable womenI love that idea!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 10:39 PM |
| 66 | Men who lie in wait for emotionally vulnerable womenI’m sorry for your loss. That is so disgusting and I’m so so sorry that happened to you at such a terrible time. They think it’s just going to all of a sudden be easy to get in while we’re down. Grooosss | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 03:10 PM |
| 35 | What theme would you like to see displayed more in movies?Women who break up with their partners and stay broken up because they choose themselves. None of this, he does some embarrassing public apology and so she caved and they live “happily ever after” stuff | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 09:08 AM |
| 14 | You deserve to be someone's first choiceThis was nice to read, thank you for reminding me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 11:10 AM |
| 28 | Things you used to find romantic before FDS?I had the exact same thing as a teenager. I was in a weird situationship with this guy in another state and he had told me he watched videos of a girl that looks like me. Boy did I think that was so nice 🙄 so gross! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 12:58 AM |
| 11 | Husband suggests she stop buying formula rather than get a job and cancel his $80+ a month subscriptions.I bet if she started not wearing makeup he would turn around and say “you never put any effort into your appearance” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 05:07 PM |
| 446 | Husband suggests she stop buying formula rather than get a job and cancel his $80+ a month subscriptions.Lol, I’ve been temporarily banned from the subreddit this is from for calling the guy a man child. Like huh? He’s not gonna see it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 01:37 AM |
| 197 | Car mechanics need to respect professional boundaries“It fell out of my pocket” like babes what? You just have a random piece of paper saying “text me” in your pocket at all times? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 12:52 AM |
| 23 | He’s dumb af if he thinks we won’t be able to pick him outDoes he not realise the point of FDS is weeding out these kinds of disturbing characters? Lmao honey, your narcissism is showing. Thinking he could even get close to an FDS woman without showing major red flags immediately. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 08:10 AM |
| 7 | 🤡🤡🤡“War within himself” lmao men are so coddled | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 12:16 PM |
| 3 | Sick of male attentionAahh I see. Stay safe! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 11:23 AM |
| 9 | Young Gen Z women have been conditioned by porn culture to accept brutality during sexual experiences. We desperately need to reach these poor young womenThank you. It’s horrendous, and it’s perpetuated by not only porn culture but the lack of representation and education on what real loving sex should look like. And it’s horrible knowing that so many girls grow up, not being told self respect and bodily autonomy and that they have the ability to say no if they’re uncomfortable so they just go along with it thinking that’s what they need to do or be into. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 10:47 AM |
| 4 | Sick of male attentionCan’t they bar him from your place of work at all unless he has a solid reason of being there? So disgusting that you have to run away to hide because no one is standing up for you and telling him to get lost. What a nasty gross man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 10:00 AM |
| 29 | Young Gen Z women have been conditioned by porn culture to accept brutality during sexual experiences. We desperately need to reach these poor young womenYup. Even when we don’t watch porn. The boys we have our first times with have been. So they’re all into holding you down and choking you and so you think that’s normal and so you talk yourself into being into it. And then it progresses to worse and worse stuff. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 08:56 AM |
| 6 | Finally met my HVM 🥰The “vetting him for the last 24hrs” literally made me stop chewing my skittle. Lmao I was like guurrrrl. Had me in the first half, not gonna lie. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 02:26 AM |
| 40 | Reminder: You do not have to "play act" through shitty sex. Get up and leave.This. It amazes me how many women fake orgasms. Why pretend to be satisfied? Let him/her/them know what a crap sexual partner they are!! If you are uncomfortable or dissatisfied then get up and leave! It’s your right! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 12:04 PM |
| 11 | Yes, by all means, walk 20 feet ahead of your wife and children, you asshole.My dad does this all the time. He did it when we were in a different country, where you can easily be scammed or pick pocketed. And he does it when he’s out with my mum. It’s so rude. What’s the point of a family outing if you’re gonna walk way ahead and not spend time with us? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 12:44 PM |
| 15 | There are no safe spacesMen are fucking SICK. Like a teenager?! You are a grown ass old adult. And you find TEENAGERS sexually attractive?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 12:18 PM |
| 4 | I don’t know what YouTube is, I am a MAN though so please praise me for intending to look after my daughters.Literally just wants a cookie for being a dad. Why on earth would you go to reddit of all places to ask how to do hair? Even if someone did a step by step on a hairstyle it would still be hard to follow because you don’t know what it’s supposed to look like. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 06:04 AM |
| 36 | nOt aLlmEnI like to think all men. All men have something that negatively impacts on women. They have a porn addiction, they think rape jokes are funny, they are just bluntly sexist, they don’t say something when they hear another guy harassing a woman, they are lazy in their relationships and treat their partners like a mummy, they have benefitted in the workplace because they have a penis. You get the point. ALL MEN are connected to or benefit from something that has negatively impacted women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 03:54 AM |
| 12 | Wedged In My Windshield Wiper: A Note From A Scrote... Jerry | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 10:28 AM |
| 22 | How is being bothered by micro-cheating connected to having low self-confidence?EXACTLYYYYY! I wasn’t so insecure beforehand. It’s crazy that scrotes and pickmes alike will tell you that it’s completely normal to be so disrespectful in a relationship ship and that you need to be “more open minded”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 02:07 AM |
| 43 | The price of being the “cool girl” who totally looves threesomes. (But is actually just desperately trying to keep her LVM happy)This makes me feel so sick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 12:24 AM |
| 19 | Rant about a subreddit :/Definitely not disgusted, just sad that these women can’t uplift themselves and carry themselves like the bosses they are. I hope they are able to heal too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 01:10 PM |
| 33 | Can I kinkshame yet?What is ddlg kink? That’s just a whole damn pedophile! KINK SHAME, KINK SHAME!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 03:43 PM |
| 493 | A group of boys harasses and assaults a group of girls minding their own business.Of course they scatter like the rats they are. Probably an insult to rats. I seriously do not understand why there are boys who think this is funny. Why do men seek to intimidate and harass?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 03:32 PM |
| 33 | Husband pushed his pregnant wife off a cliff...Your experiences made me think of a time when my boyfriends dad picked him up from our movie date (we were teenagers) and left me there at night in a car park to wait for my mum. It’s funny to think some of the men we associate with just have no regard for the dangers that young girls and women face. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 11:04 PM |
| 11 | Ads on Reddit targeting poor women and girls for prostitution. Absolutely disgusting.Making women think that selling their bodies for a quick buck is the way to go. Nice. Male depravity. I wonder how they would feel if their daughters were the ones seeing these ads. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 05:11 AM |
| 10 | Men and their hygiene, or lack of itI can’t believe they actually slept with these disgusting men? You’re gonna let someone who doesn’t properly wash and doesn’t know how to floss inside of you?!?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 11:52 PM |
| 3 | Men struggle to give the right amount of attention because they struggle with valuing the emotional needs of a womanThank you! For over a year I tried to explain that I wanted more time together and for everything not to be over messaging. Now that there was a huge risk of losing me does he listen and actually try to spend more time with me. They put our emotions and needs on the back burner and don’t tend to them until the water starts to boil over. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 08:54 AM |
| 21 | Men, Integrity, PornSo true. They just have an urge to “get off” with absolutely no consideration for any of the parties involved or affected, apart from their penis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 08:37 AM |
| 5 | Flashback to when my exes would ‘compliment’ my labia by saying they were ‘perfect porn star lips’ and I actually thanked them proudly 🤡That’s definitely true! Yea a lot of guys now are so open and proud about it, it’s crazy how normal they think it is. But also sadly some men are still so secretive and lie. Have been burned recently because of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 02:19 AM |
| 10 | Flashback to when my exes would ‘compliment’ my labia by saying they were ‘perfect porn star lips’ and I actually thanked them proudly 🤡“I came to a video where the girl looked like you.” I was only 15 and felt like I was in love with the kid, but boy do I wish that I could’ve seen the signs. I was emotionally strung along for 2-3 yrs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 12:21 AM |
| 1 | The post said this was a “joke” but it’s not..because this has been every barbecue I’ve attended...My dad showed my mum this the other night laughing. As if it isn’t exactly how it goes down when my dad occasionally uses the $6000 barbecue my mum bought him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 02:56 PM |
| 20 | apparently punching a guy for picking me up against my will is "threatening violence" according to reddits standards. as if a friend wouldn't know i despise that and as if i would break his nose or something in response. this is ridiculousI’m confused. You can’t comment that.... but reddit can be filled with crap tons of porn, some of which would probably depict violence?!? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 02:16 PM |
| 41 | Do I just accept that men are disgusting behind our backs?Thank you, and you’re right. He’s shown that he doesn’t respect my boundaries and hasn’t been honest. Even when we discussed him telling me if he had any slip ups he still hid it because “I didn’t want to make you upset even more by telling you” which for me is a bad excuse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 06:21 AM |
| 28 | Do I just accept that men are disgusting behind our backs?Thank you I really appreciate your words. He said to me that he wasn’t paying for it, but who knows if that’s true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 07:58 PM |
| 20 | Do I just accept that men are disgusting behind our backs?I’m honestly very uncomfortable with the thought of watching porn. I tried once to see what kind of stuff he was watching but it’s definitely a no for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 07:48 PM |
| 2 | I wish I was as strong as some of you are.You are powerful and you can leave. I know it’s an extremely hard situation but don’t look back on life and regret not taking care of yourself more. You deserve respect, love and kindness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 02:23 PM |
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