Obviously this isn’t a new concept but it was just one of those things that hit you sometimes so I wanted to put it into words.

Last year I broke up with my boyfriend (PA 🙃), he was my first boyfriend and we were together for 3.5 years so quite a challenge getting used to not having someone else there. I decided to download OLD because well, attention fresh out of a relationship tends to feel good.

I kind of went on a dating spree. Majority of them were one offs but it’s safe to say I have had conversations with a fair amount of guys.

But something that is very clear is that HVM are not on OLD. It’s a bit of fun to talk to people on those apps. But we’re not going to meet our future partners/ husbands on there. Out of all the men and dates that I’ve been on, none of them have truly sparked my fancy. For various reasons, a lot to do with them just being typical LVM.

Sure, there are those few cases where people meet each other and live happily ever after. But I feel like that is the exception and not the rule.

Anyway, I’m starting to get sick of men and their grossness. I have a lot of growing to do and I’m excited to work/focus on myself and grow and just be levelled up. And also just focus on creating friendships rather than a relationship.

(And when I do end up meeting someone , I would love to be able to tell people a nice story. Not “we met on an app where we were both talking to multiple people at once” 😂)

This was long winded and probably not very meaningful but I wanted to get it out lol. Thanks for reading!

Edit: also, no hate to anyone that has met their partners through OLD. This is just my perspective from my experiences. If it worked for you, that’s awesome!