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This list is actually only one question. The only question a mrp man is supposed to ask himself constantly. "Am I improving?" A self aware man that is worth a damn is always trying to improve, and not afraid to work hard for it, and not afraid to fail becaise he understands that he will get up and try again.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/17 05:16 PM
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I haven't posted in a very long time. Prime reason was for making no progress wat so-ever in all aspects of my life for the last year, despite working like a fucking dog. I knew I had low Test since I got tested last year, but because I struggled to find a doc that would help me I also tried to up T by bending iron and eating better. Result was nada. Eating fewer kcal resulted in becoming even at the gym, and earing more resulted in carrying an even bigger spare tyre. I was such a misserable fuc…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/17 05:54 AM
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The catfish or the fat broad with the gifted hands?
/r/askMRP02/09/16 01:48 PM
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Catfish. Term I only heard about yesterday. I like throwing around new terms and looking smart. If the fat broad gives a decent handjob i'll recommend her to my friends as well.. I still think his wife or someone other than himself got hold of his account and sent this post.
/r/askMRP02/09/16 01:26 PM
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Pay attention boys. This is what it looks like if your wife finds MRP on your PC and decides to catfish you....
/r/askMRP02/09/16 12:42 PM
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Yes, you keep her up to date. How else will she know what is going on, if there is progress, what you are working towards. You share the gameplan.
/r/askMRP30/08/16 06:14 AM
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Yeah I'm with /u/druganswer on this one. If you can't afford to move out of your parent's house you don't do it. But as Rex said, get on a budget plan. The plan is not " we pay of as we can afford it" The plan is to account for every sent and every send has a predetermined place to be spend every month. Show her the plan. As Captain of your ship you conway the destination to you first officer. You show that you can lead as a Captain. If she jumps ship, so be it. But don't keep her in the dark re…
/r/askMRP26/08/16 09:42 AM
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She fucked somebody else... nuff said. Except if you are into being a cuck.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/16 08:34 AM
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Your wife treats you like a child. Aw look mommy he has special request.... lets toy with him a bit. I remember your previous post. Poster boy for "cannot check my ego at the door". Shut up to your wife ragarding anything sexual. Any fucking thing. You have a long ways to go still before aking for nudes. In the meantime read blue pill proffesor's 12 stages of dread and the dissection thereoff by jack10ofhearts. Read it, internalize it. Read it again. Don't read half of it and then let your fucki…
/r/askMRP24/08/16 07:03 PM
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I fell in to a burning ring or fire...
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/16 06:06 PM
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I had a post on it a while back. Link here it took a while to realize that I have to give it a little bit more effort.
/r/askMRP24/08/16 05:53 PM
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but she's the master at giving the smug grin Kill your ego regarding this whole thing, rather see it as a way to have some fun with her. If she grins at you in the pool hall you smack her ass and promise her she will grin again later. Or kiss her right on the grin and mumble to her that you find her arrogant ass sexy. You know something along those lines. Just rather have fun with it than installing handycap rules. I had a girlfriend once that also liked pool but she kinda sucked at it, really f…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/16 08:41 AM
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the problem is that she no longer ( at least for now) is a muse to me It comes from taking the pussy of the pedestal. As an introvert you needed and wanted a muse to inspire you, to make you come out of own head. You still need that, you still crave that inspiration from someone special. The problem is you no longer have oneitus. Maybe try some meditation, I don't know because I am struggling with much of the same issue, to rather get that inspiration from yourself. I see it still as me seeking …
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/16 08:24 AM
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Yeah. Kind of a mindfuck if you come from a bluepill beta background.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/16 07:28 AM
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This whole post is what MRP is about for me. To own your shit. This is how you become a better man. By making the better choice consistently. Once you start to make the right choices you built discipline, and discipline builds frame in my opinion. All the other things like sex and respect is only a by-product of your self discipline. We are building men here, and making the right choices consistently is how you become a man. Great post.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/16 06:37 AM
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She is stomping around the house like a toddler because she is one. On my phone so i cant link, but read the top posts. Your wife is the most responsible teenager in the house. She reponds to her feelings. After a while of applying MRP you will realize it and it will start to amuse you. In rhe meantime, how would you reapond if your daughter called you like that. Raised eyebrow and and internal dialogue of " are you serious". Treat it like that. Your response as to are you naked otherwise I'm bu…
/r/askMRP18/08/16 06:02 PM
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Look dude, I've read through all of your comments to all the other posts. You have a fucking chip on your shoulder the size of Texas. Read through all of these replies to you, see how you answered them, be very honest with yourself. Is this really a man in need of advice, or just a douche troll looking for some validation. You make it seem as if you are intellectually superior to most people , it might be true, but you come of as a social retard with a massive ego. Mostly advice here is to lift …
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/16 01:36 PM
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I'll kill you kind of thing. I also used it to make her know how I stand about if she tried to cheat. You my friend need to see a fucking psychiatrist, I imagine you as one fucking awkward teenager that had zero friends and married the first girl that gave him some of her time. So you married the same awkward female. How the fuck does not make one friend in three years? You have to forget about your marriage and sort yourself out first.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/16 07:59 AM
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I was very open with her friends at a party. Thought you never got invited anywhere...?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/16 07:54 AM
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Your wife checked out of your relationship a long time ago. Before MRP mine was the same. We hardly ever had a fight, it was even worse than roommates, it was more like living with a person that doesn't even acknowledges you. I also got the text for chores to be done and thats it. Your wive knows you will be there tomorrow, and the day after. She doesn't worry about you leaving. No start at the very beginning. Read the professors book about 12 levels of dread and start on level 1. You need to ge…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/16 07:24 AM
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I tell her I made a mistake I am not going to do what she asks. She says then we need to divorce. I say OK. You have not had your main event yet, and this was your wife's way of telling you she checked out of the marriage. If you were awesome enough why would she leave about something so menial as being on a whatsapp group? I tried looking at your post history and really? One post removed for lack of effort and then this and then you say you have been at it for a year and is where you want to be…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/16 07:00 AM
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Gonna read this right now, but I'm confused as fuck. Where did the other stickyed post go?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/16 06:14 PM
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My wife can be a genuinely awesome person that people are drawn to. The fact that she's shitty to me is something I have to work on. Wouldn't it have been nice if there was a place where they take guys alone before marriage and tell them this.
/r/askMRP17/08/16 01:52 PM
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I'm sure when you posted here you didn't expect these guys to rip you a new asshole hey? Truth be told this a locker room for men. And as men we tell it straight. These guys were not nasty assholes because they just like to fuck with some guys, they were telling you the whole bloody truth. MRP does not advocate marriage, but gives advice to already married men how to become a better man, and as a spin-off maybe save a low sex marriage. Lurk here for a while. Read the posts as they come in plus t…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/16 11:30 AM
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My dad has a saying that he uses on people like you.."I don't have the luxury or the time to feel depressed or sad." Yes, he does have feelings, and yes he does feel sad and depressed sometimes. But if you dwell on it too much you miss the change to do something. A redpill man reflects on his feelings and uses it to motivate him to do something usefull, rather meditate on your goals, than dwell in your sorrow. It doesn't pay off at all, there is no upside to it.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/16 08:27 AM
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I've been interested in the deadbedrooms sidebar lately You worry way too much about all kinds of other shit like flair, dude, just relax and think of MRP as a course in college. Yes, you might debate some of the curriculum with your prof, but you don't jump in two days into your course and want to change the subject matter. My personal guess is that you are daunted by the magnitude of your self improvement journey that lies ahead, that you would rather try to prove us all wrong and see if you r…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/16 08:04 AM
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He might just be that much of a retard. Yip, you nailed it. They come and go like that.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/16 07:57 AM
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You have been warned. Do not, I repeat, DO NOT, start nuking shit at home just because you think you deserve it. MRP is a journey, and a long ass journey at that. Read on askmrp how many newbies fucked their shit up by going 100 miles an hour as they start to realize what is going on. Take your time and improve over time, without looking for the validation from mommy. If you do this right, it is guaranteed to make you into a better man. if she is on board great, if she is not, great as well.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/16 07:42 AM
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and I do love her Brah. Let go on that idea forever. You think you love her, but you actually need her validation, and that is why it hurts like fuck that she doesn't want you. Everybody here said it allready. Hit the sidebar, lurk here and start to understand what it's all about. Read up on ego killing, the best thing you can to for yourself ever.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/16 10:47 AM
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That was my biggest mistake at first. "Its mostly protein and fat so I can eat it right.." Started getting better when I actually started utilizing myfitnesspal. You cant manage what you dont measure.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/16 07:02 PM
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Classic newbie mistake. Let's see if he will attack and defend or if he will try and realize why you posted this.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/16 02:38 PM
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I'm not codependent because I love my wife and marriage. I need to get the details. I want to schedule a polygraph but she said no. Did you post your sorry story on the interwebs to find solitude and simpathy? Or did you post to find help? If you posted for camaraderie and to find someone to tell you she is a cheating bitch and you are a great man, wrong sub. If you really want help, With your life, with being a man, then this is the right place. You have a choice you need to make today. 1. If y…
/r/askMRP14/07/16 08:10 AM
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Thanks for this. Practical way to view and own her tingles or lack thereof.
/r/askMRP13/07/16 06:31 PM
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I really dont give a fuck about mother theresa. I was using her as an example of everybody has some kind of ego. Could have said Ghandi or fucking Bono for that matter.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/16 06:29 PM
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Hahaha. Not quite what I was going for :). Bet the old lady was frustrated as fuck.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/16 09:02 AM
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You ask something that cannot be taught. Killing ego is the biggest obstacle for anyone. Fuck I think even mother Theresa had times where she thought " Look at how humble and giving I am."
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/16 08:24 AM
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I wonder if Rollos 'saving the best' resonates with you at all? Mistakenly assuming OP read the so far as Rollo. This fucknut is a douche and I bet he gets no further than this post on MRP.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/16 06:58 PM
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Its called ripe mango. Available at all oulets where quality men gather. Makes your breath taste like freshly squeezed pussy. Drives MRP wives wild.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/16 06:30 AM
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I have tha added benefit of working alongside my sister. She sits in the office next to me. Used to blow up like a waterballoon if she didn't get her way, and lived to emotionaly manipulate the rest of us by threatening to resign and leave. She knows this pushed my dads buttons because he is overprotective on all of us. Me brother sister and mother. Since red pill she has only threatened to walk once. Dad and mom is in semi retirement and I have the reigns. I told her to pay over her own leave p…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/16 06:24 PM
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Right at the top the AM are for amused mastery. It had to do with post of guys that post along the lines of I am doing what MRP says but it is not working. Should have better explained it.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/16 05:54 PM
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Dude. We have the same sister. Emotional wreck. I love her dearly, but fuck me even if I am away I am still doing something wrong. Pre red pill I always tried to placate her. Aplogize for being such a fucktard that I don't even know what I did wrong. Now. I treat her like the oldest child of the house. Same sidebar advice applies. Except posting about het sucking my soul from me....:). Thing is. You are enabling her by just not shutting her shit down. You shut her shit down the same as you would…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/16 05:50 PM
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Yes, but keep in mind this was written for men that already swallowed or is trying to swallow the red pill.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/16 05:39 PM
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Yip. Grow a pair and grow a frame. "Listen, I am more than happy to discuss issues regarding our children with you. Other than that, we are divorced and I am not available as your emotional tampon." See, easy as that. Because surely as a man you have clearly defined bounderies? Yes.
/r/askMRP24/06/16 03:04 PM
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what you want to do would be the epitome of BP, no? YOS is NOT about what you want to do. It is a way for you to take stock about your current situation. I.E. Where was I, what did I do that worked, what did I do that didn't work. What am I going to try next. Then read the advice of the old MRP ringheads. Why do you think you are the only one that got no reply or comments from anybody? Your post is fucking weak. Let me put it another way... YOUR POST IS FUCKING WEAK. Although MRP is a praxeology…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/16 02:04 PM
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I experimented with aids I hear it's a lifelong experience.... :p This is also part of my MAP. OP, there is a shit ton of advice available on learning how to control your orgasm. Make it a mission to find and implement the methods that work for you.
/r/askMRP24/06/16 07:05 AM
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/u/Throwawaycsgsubs wife especially is a big supporter.
/r/askMRP24/06/16 07:00 AM
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She could at least do him a favor and cuck him openly. That way he can have something to think about when he jack off.
/r/askMRP23/06/16 06:36 PM
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She's nowhere to be seen Because she is in NYC fucking some std infection from CL.
/r/askMRP23/06/16 06:33 PM
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Research nofap. See why the guy there do it. Your guy is whacking it to some internet pixels so much that he's got fuck all left for you at the end of the day. I might be wrong about my assesment, but I'm willing to put some money on it.
/r/askMRP23/06/16 06:30 PM
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My first thought... troll. If you are for real you are so royaly fucked I don't think the sidebar is gonna do you much good. The reason you are not leaving this fucking whore tou call your wife is because you are tooooooo fucking scared. Not becaise you love her. Thats fucking bullshit and you know it. So why are you trying to convince us that you love her? Because you are such a little pussy fuckhole that you are scared shitless about life outside of what you have now. Typical stockholm syndrom…
/r/askMRP23/06/16 06:26 PM
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just didn't want my absence to interrupt her positive vibe. If this was true your wife would have decided to go with you. She needs, wants, to make her mood your responsibility. You need to stop this right now otherwise you will always be the one to blame for how she feels. She sees you as her emotional tampon and not as her captain that will lead her to own her own happiness. What you think is dread is only just jealousy. The difference being that she is only jealous of your time spend having f…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/16 09:02 AM
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Don't tell me that we are not gonna get a cheat sheet?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/16 08:49 AM
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**is this a plus for not trying to earn brownie points by helping unasked? Or me being a lazy fuck? The last example was that the dogs needed to be picked up after getting home. The mother in law usually does it (she gets hers and our dog), but it's 25 minutes down the street from my house and she has to drive another 25 minutes to go home after that so I was thinking maybe I should do it. I asked myself "if she isn't asking me to do it though, seems fine doing it, and I don't want to, is doing …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/16 05:51 PM
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I hope you put more effort into your fucking life than you did in this fucking excuse for a post.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/16 05:43 PM
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In Cool Runnings there is a scene where one of the athlete's father came to fetch him back to Jamaica. He says to his son.."i see a lost little boy" that guy made me think about that scene. Just because you look good and are ripped it doesn't make you a man.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/16 05:26 PM
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Hit the sidebar. If you don't know google for the answers. You have to take ownership of MRP. And no one here will spoonfeed you anything.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/16 05:17 PM
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Yes, it's okay to share your vision. But the mistake that newbs make is to go to the gym three times, think they deserve some magic respect because they are a red pill man, and then TELLING his wife that he is going to change into this awesome being. First you change. Take control of your shit. Show her that you can maintain this change, and then you can discuss your vision. You first need to become the man that she can trust before she will trust the words comming from your mouth.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/16 05:13 PM
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Start by reading the wiki. Then shut the fuck up about anything while you start reading the sidebar. Lurk here, read posts and comments. See why some posts are low quality from low quality guys and some, like this one, is valuable. Post questions in ASKMRP. Don't go telling your wife that you found the oracle and things will change from now on and you demand her respect. Read, lift, lift, lift. shut the fuck up. Thats about it.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/16 02:55 PM
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I only got about halfway through this wall of puke. Just couldn't carry on reading. You say you discovered rp a year ago. It seems that since then you have done fuck all. Go read through your own post now, evaluate it and if you have read the sidebar see if you can write a comment to yourself. You my dear sir. Are a fucking faggot. Your wife controls you like the little whiney bitch you are. Now grow a pair. Sack up and start at the very beginning. Then come back in 5 months and tell us what you…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/16 06:36 PM
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Your momma is a burlesque performer. Seriously. Yes maybe the word faggot or retart may be hurtfull irl. On this subreddit it's an easy way to call a guy on his bullshit. Sometimes we just have too look past the PC for the greater good of the sub.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/16 05:38 PM
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What was that genuine nugget I could use in my own life? See if you can find the fiddlers post on making a cheat sheet. He was looking for a textbook comeback or AM. He never GOT it. You can fake frame with a textbook reply to her snide comment, but the mere fact that you will then come and boast about how you put her in her place, shows that you still have no frame of your own.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/16 05:26 PM
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You are right that you are never immune to being cheated on, but that was really not what I was trying to convey. If you have read the most recent posts by the newbs they mostly come down to "I won this fight or this situation." A true MRP man would rather strive not to be in a situation where he has to win. He would be so on top of his game that his first captain would not dare go against him for fear of losing him. That is all I am trying to say.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/16 06:52 AM
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You are still missing the point brah. But if you want to split hairs you go for it.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/16 06:51 PM
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I can't agree more. It has nothing to do with the children.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/16 06:15 PM
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The same way I feel about women that uses their children in a divorce to punish the father. She is willing to fick up her children to get back at the father for whatever she feelz he has done wrong. It fucking sickens me.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/16 06:14 PM
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The way I see it, together with some of the latest posts isvthat guys think theyv'e won when the female loses. Guys don't seem to get it. They have only won, when they have won. It doesn't matter what happens to their wives. Most guys still see unplugging as men vs women. I.e. the bitch cheated and I screwed her royaly. Where the truth is more like .... the bitch will never cheat because I am the best she will ever get close to having.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/16 04:41 PM
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The feminazi is gonna have a field day with this one. How dare a man own up and make his women happy. Walking around in a cloud of hate and distrust is much better. Good good good. Good vibrations.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/16 06:32 PM
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That, and fuck the neighbors too.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/16 11:31 AM
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http://www.fahrenheit211.net/2016/05/02/the-trigglypuff-case-social-justice-warriors-have-become-their-own-worst-enemy-something-we-should-all-be-thankful-for/?cb=06751385515775554
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/16 07:05 PM
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Fucking mysogynist. Can't even let the feminists take some blame.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/16 06:49 PM
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It's not my fault I've got the order wrong.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/16 06:34 PM
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This post and the one below by Redjive is food for thought. It just goes back to the same mantra of owning your shit. Put in the work and the effort if it is worth it to you. No free rides.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/16 06:27 PM
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That fiddle dee dee fucknut can put that little titbit in his cheat sheet. ..... ..... It's not your fault.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/16 06:24 PM
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But copious amounts of high quality lube standing in the corner of the room just screams covert contract.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/16 06:22 PM
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Is that boy still around. I need some explanations on some logistics from him. Was thinking of getting my wife a tattoo so some guy with a beard and latex gloves can take ownership of her. No divorce rape at all. Except for paying for the damn tattoo.
/r/askMRP09/06/16 05:14 PM
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Look, Churchill was number one Alpha male, but I bet he didn't have MRP to give him some frame.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/16 05:15 AM
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This. My biggest pet peeve at the moment. Falling down in a chair fucked from whatever I was just doing then getting THE LOOK. This advice will make me take it in a new light.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/16 07:38 PM
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A hazmat suit will seriously desentisize your nipples though.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/16 07:03 PM
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I am making a distinction between OI and abundance mentality. Before I knew of MRP I had true abundance mentality because I was fucking somebody on the side. Wife gave me hard no, okay, I knew I was getting some tomorrow. But I still didn't have OI. I was still butt hurt because of the NO. It still irked me that she didn't want to fuck me.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/16 07:00 PM
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You can look it up for yourself, but you are engaged in the mother of power struggles. Chances are that you have been such a beta that she basically ran the household and your marriage singlehandedly. She will not give it up easy. Are you really leading your family? Being the stoic captain. Or is your first mate still in charge?
/r/askMRP08/06/16 06:48 PM
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Tinder is never going to give you real outcome independance. True OI comes from knowing you are the prize. Until you understand this you are showing her false OI, meaning you still operate in her frame. Now for abundance mentality it might work. Knowing there are othet fish in the sea... But if you are not going to follow through with it, you are still in a way faking it. I am a firm believer in faking it until you make it, but some or other time you will have to stop faking it. Abundance comes …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/16 06:27 PM
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Hahahahaha. I have nothing else to add.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/16 06:19 PM
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Finally, a cheat sheet for fiddle fabulous.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/16 08:33 AM
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Heavy lifting is what men do. Real men. It took me closr on 4 months here to realize that. And by heavy lifting I mean we shoulder the weight. The weight of the bar as we pick it of the rack. The weight of the responsibility to care for and provide for our families. A true alpha male is not about fucking the girls and getting their pussies wet. A true alpha male is the one that leads his wife, leads his familie. Leads his peers. He knows the burden of carrying the weight, but he does it with a s…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/16 05:57 PM
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These guys are just fucking nasty. I get what you need. So here is my list. Read the sidebar. Lift. Create a MAP. Be attractive. Don't be unattractive. The fact that you have given up around December explains this post.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/16 12:39 PM
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Very sorry to hear of the cancer. We don't have a guideline for using MRP in your situation. I hope you will find the strength to stick around and be that guide for other men in the future. For the first time since I found MRP I am not agreeing with something you say. Not so much Red Pill, but sure as hell MRP is giving him what he needs to deal with this situation. We are men, and we act like men. We do what has to be done as a captain to keep the ship going. Yes, we are also human. We cry, we …
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/16 05:49 PM
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This... Sure, a lot of guys fuck off after their first post and then the brutality. But,,,,,,,,,,, but, if they somehow manage to really hear the message within the brutality they stay. And then they grow. And then they become real men. Without ego's. Without seeking or needing validation. MRP. Saving one man from himself, one man at a time.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/16 05:57 PM
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The biggest take away for me from red pill is that you have to take extreme ownership of everything that happens to you and every decision you ever make. If you OWN every choice you have ever made then MRP being ammoral is not going to be a problem. The choice of how to handle every situation that comes up, is up to the individual himself. It's your choice to fuck a hooker, or not. It's your choice to live with a sex denying harpy, or leave her. It has to feel right according to your own moral c…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/16 11:42 AM
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work" done on our issue If you get why you say OUR issue, then you will realize why you are called a faggot.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/16 05:42 PM
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the man is often still a weaksauce fuck. Prostitutes or escorts can be a great way to de-pedestalize pussy- and may help a guy unplug, but long term, it is not the answer. There is very little satisfaction in fucking a girl who does not want to fuck you - end of story. This is Married red pill - we want to fix our marital relations by fixing ourselves. We want the little non-unicorns we married to eagerly accept our affection. that's it. Otherwise, why be here and not the main sub? Can't agree m…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/16 02:12 PM
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Good advice. Will use it but sparingly. Nothing is as nice as free dread.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/16 06:40 PM
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Until I came to MRP I have noticed this and used to try to argue with my wife about it. It's not exactly as if she called them skanks or ho's, but every time she was at the office later that night she always talked about these women and this one is so, and that one is so. Highlighting all the bad she could find in them in those brief moments. Now that I understand what its about I just laugh a little to myself. The more I let go of the anger and realize how women operate, the more I actually fin…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/16 06:16 PM
2

I wonder is OP is gonna come back and learn from this?
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/16 05:46 PM
1

SJW of the word unite. What would a t-shirt of an "anti jail rape culture" protest look like. Even if Bubba's buddies can confirm you screamed encouragement the whole time he is still guilty if you later decide you can't handle the slutwalk to your own bunk.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/16 05:45 PM
1

Definitely before. Every unhappy jailbird is a rape victim.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/16 05:28 PM
1

Well, you can always tell him you don't feelzzzz like sex because he is not communicating with you.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/16 04:22 PM
1

I hope he does actually, I am starting to enjoy his Whinemoreesque style of commenting. The hard truth shall set us free.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/16 02:42 PM
-1

Hahaha. Sorry brah. Used it on my wife a while ago. Part of my go to AM.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/16 02:40 PM
2

Fuck dude. First rule of fightclub.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/16 02:25 PM
4

Do you need a hug dear. It fucking seems like it. Read /u/ex_addict_bro 's post history. That is how you take control of your life. NOT by being a pissy fucking pussy. Repeat after me. "I feel pretty, oh so pretty"
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/16 02:00 PM
1

Hell I was an option A club member for a long time. MRP changed my life and it is busy changing my marriage. OP is too fucking lazy to do the work, he seriously hates his life and his sex denying wife and chose to reflect that hatred towards this sub. Read his post history...
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/16 01:57 PM
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But... but aren't we all just angry losers hating our wives on this sub then.....? His advice therefore is golden and we should all go visit a house of ill repute tonight. Sure as fuck will beat doing all the work. No lifting tonight for brothers, I'm gonna get me an STD.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/16 12:22 PM
2

If you have chosen A), it means you've given up and you should not be reading this subreddit anyhow. In my BluePill beta days this thought ran through my head numerous times. I had a whole theory about why it was the only way out. Well Since taking the red pill and becoming a MRP man I call bullshit on this. If you have chosen option A it might have been because you were stuck in the matrix and didn't know better. You were searching for answers, that is why you stumbled on this sub, and that is …
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/16 12:11 PM
8

One spoon per pound of bodyfat. Divided by her bitchiness at the time. Plus two drops for overengineering. Rub vigorously until she opens up emotionally and trusts you enough to talk about why she prefers a rubdown to going down on you. Repeat with different temparature levels of oil until you give up. Make a post explaining why you are the victim.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/16 05:29 AM
11

You forgot daily flowers and doing the dishes. That will ignite her pussy.
/r/askMRP26/05/16 06:17 PM
1

Yes. I was being sarcastic a bit. Text needs facial expressions.
/r/askMRP26/05/16 05:22 PM
1

Well, MRP is sexual strategy. Don't tell me you were sarcastic and this shit doesn't work?
/r/askMRP26/05/16 04:35 PM
2

OP, I hope you get the message of all of this. Don't wait until she leaves to start. Start tomorrow. Get up early and go to the gym. You roughly have 5 weeks before she leaves, if you really are committed you can lose about ten lbs by then. As /u/FearDearg2015 says, set the hamster spinning before she leaves. I sincerely hope you will be back here next week posting in OYS. Telling us about your first week dieting and lifting.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/16 02:19 PM
3

Your posts is all over the place with conflicting shit that doesn't mean fuck. Stop trolling fucker. You are at the wrong place for that.
/r/askMRP26/05/16 07:27 AM
2

HAHA. I was waiting for this response from you. OP is doing this for the validation, that is why he wants to wait till she is gone and then surprise her when she gets back. Maybe he will realize this when he reads your response but I highly doubt that.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/16 06:43 AM
2

Will google that bit of information. Everyone knows that the internet is 99% correct. I say to the internet stranger I get invaluable relationship advice from.
/r/askMRP25/05/16 04:36 PM
2

1. "How I'm gonna fuck my second wife on the kitchen floor." 2. Be childish. "Was wondering what you are thinking about." 3. "I was thinking about how nice it is to be thinking without being interupted." If it is not a shit test she is definitely looking for something to create a bit of drama, you know.. feelz. Oh, that means its a shit test. Go figure.
/r/askMRP25/05/16 02:06 PM
1

It's a fact that 76.24% of all statistics are just thought out on the spot...
/r/askMRP25/05/16 02:02 PM
1

You can only make her life interesting by interesting. If your wife is ready to branchswing because you are an uninteresting fuck that is all on you. I'm not rfuting that he must make his life interesting. For sure, because a alpha male always has shit to do and to accomplish. OP states that he is a tough guy that fishes and hunts etc. But does he ever take his wife out to keep her on her toes? You can be the most interesting man on the planet and not include you wife in some of your awesomness …
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/16 01:36 PM
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Yip. My thoughts as well. Even if she isn't cheating yet she seems to have decided that she needs that rush, so its a matter time. In the meanwhile if she can get him to step over the line first he will have to give her a hall pass. At least thats what I deduct from it Watson.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/16 05:59 PM
2

Your wife complained that she is in a slump. I'm on my phone so find it difficult to link to tje post, but search and you shall find. Jacktenofhearts had a post about being enervating or energizing. Look it up. If all you do is work and nothing else you will be the cause of her slump. You have to make her life interesting. I know it sucks to think about it, but a good captain keeps his crew happy to be on board.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/16 05:26 PM
3

Three weeks on MRP is not long enough to know that some men get pissy over using the wrong naval language..
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/16 05:22 PM
3

I am a real person, with feelings
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/16 12:56 PM
3

I never understood the word misogyny until MRP and I am allready sick of it. It's the scapegoat answer for fucked up feminism as racism is for fucked humanitarianism. Ask the raped girls in Germany. Who has a hard time explaining that rape happened because of misogyny and not because of failed sjw complaining about racism.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/16 11:05 AM
2

I just wonder where the "trust" vs "dread" lines cross, you kinda don't want her to trust you, one the one hand, yet you want her looking to earn your trust on the other. No dude. You got it all wrong. She has to be able to trust you always. But she has to know that you are such a high value man that you have the world of options. It should then be up to her hypergamous nature to retain you as the best option she has.
/r/askMRP19/05/16 10:10 PM
7

Thats why men find their way over here. If you get the sex you need it becomes 10% of your marriage. If you don't the resentment alone becomes 90% of your marriage.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/16 10:05 PM
1

Let me tell you about that "integrity". That is the hammer she uses to drive the beta into you. Now I'm not saying you can't have morals and be Alpha. Being a high quality man is intrisically linked to having integrity and morals. That should be how you behave every day. But in terms of drea she should always know that if she stops providing value to you, you would be glad to show her the door and divorce her. Just keep in mind that you also have to be ready to do so and not just fake that attit…
/r/askMRP19/05/16 06:04 PM
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Plan of action. 1. Give in to her demand of a 3rd child. 2. Let her decide your sex schedule until she becomes pregnant. 3. Fuck her good when she ovulates. 4. Post on deadbedrooms after 3rd child is born how she just used your dick to get you to bend to her will, and how you can't believe that woman can do that.
/r/askMRP18/05/16 06:28 PM
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sensitive guy with the victim mentality If that is the one thing that MRP fixes in all of us it would be enough. This is what I lost since I discovered MRP. You are solely responsible for everything that happens in your life. Nobody else.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/16 06:45 AM
1

From my first posts you and wmp helped me first of all understand what ego is, and then how to kill it. There is going to be lots of guys coming after me who will need that advice. Guys like me can try to explain it to them but I feel we truely lack the enthusiasm... or rather the wisdom to do it properly. Wmp. Bpp and TFA. What can I say. This sub will be just be different without you guys. That said, we that remain will give our best to carry the message forward.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/16 07:59 PM
1

Hahaha. I only know the english version.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/16 07:45 PM
1

Ek doen. Ek is n towenaar. I am just fucking with you a bit. Part of my new enervating plan.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/16 07:33 PM
1

Eina. Dit maak seer.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/16 06:55 PM
1

Without bringing your mother into it, your liquidity has lost its appeal.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/16 06:48 PM
1

In your frame completely. First making me watch Casablanca. Now making me google sargasso....
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/16 06:45 PM
1

I get it. I guess I need that ruthless honesty.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/16 06:42 PM
1

Honestly, I truly understand when one of these guys moves on...it makes logical sense. But the romantic in me will miss that little bit of the comaraderie they brought to this virtual table. My sentiments.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/16 06:39 PM
3

Sorry brah. Sounds a bit fake comming from you...... But you do you... lol
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/16 06:30 PM
1

As wmp used to say. You do you. He will be sorely missed. At least I can honestly say that I still needed him. Guys that have their shit together doesn't understand the need the rest of us have of them. I can do without it... but i would rather not..
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/16 06:25 PM
1

I have fuck all to do with American politicks and I wanted Trump to win. As for the French. Google translate will only get you into so much trouble... The rest is up to yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/16 06:22 PM
1

For old times sake.... your mother would liquefy for myself...
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/16 06:18 PM
2

Now you are making me watch Casablanca. Something I swore I would never do. For my 2 c's. I still needed guys like whinemore and cad for that matter. I wasn't done sitting at their feet feeding of their wisdom. MRP is where I feel at home. It's like having the older wiser brother I always failed to be.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/16 06:17 PM
4

Did that this morning. Could see she wasn't going to orgasm so I cavemanned her ass and got up. Best goodbye kiss in a while.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/16 10:57 AM
4

My father told me to never take a bet against someone that speaks french... crafty old man.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/16 10:53 AM
3

I come to MRP to get my ass kicked everyday. Thank you for giving me today's kick up the rear. Just the motivation I was looking for.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/16 02:42 PM
2

How long since you discovered red pill? If it is only very recently just do nothing at home regarding your situation and start by reading the sidebar and the posts on MRP. Take it slow and follow the advice given. If it has been a while since you discovered red pill and you still ask theae types of questions. Well then you are a lazy blue pill fuck that will be stuck in this situation forever.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/16 04:50 PM
2

My wife is still aways of from menopause, but looking at women in general. They all fucking believe they are special needs. The AWALT applies. After learning about the red pill that shit just makes me laugh.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/16 02:03 PM
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My god what a mess. Sounds like an instructional for how to care for a special needs individual. Yes. The one with the golden pussy often believes she is a special needs individual.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/16 01:48 PM
2

You can be angry at women about it and place the blame on them, but it is really the fault of weak men. This is exactly what MRP is advocating. Whinemore is right. You are just terrible at explaining. You have been living MRP standard for years without putting a label on it. Your marriage is proof then that MRP works, some of us just discovered that later in life than you.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/16 06:17 AM
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You realize that the reason you haven't left her is not because of your religious guilt. It is because you are shit scared of being alone... You can hamster fuck it the way you want but if you calm down you will see I am right. The dog has got fuck all to do with anything for you. You need to figure out if you are going to stay in this relationship. If yes. Then you have to have a better reason than guilt. And then you have to swallow this bitter red pill and start owning your decision. If no. T…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/16 06:01 AM
1

What have a look at liquid caffiene? I only know coffee. Am willing to try anything. I found a dr. yesterday that is willing to work with me on the low T. Will see him on Monday. Hopefully that is the bloody answer.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/16 05:31 AM
2

TROLL!!
/r/askMRP05/05/16 10:55 AM
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Alpha (Masculine) men break molds and disregard things that don't bring value. That is what makes the blue pill so antagonistic towards any red pill ideas. They are shit scared of breaking from the mould their mommies and wifes and the feminazis put them in. The truth is fucking scary. Its hard work to own it.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/16 06:45 PM
1

Thanks for the link on rhe reset button. Will make a effort to be more upbeat and fun. I am sure it will take a lot of the strain from the relationship.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/16 06:39 PM
1

• Testing the Male • Seeking Communication • Putting him to Work • Evolutionary Selfishness • Self-Determination I haven't read the book, only BPP's summary here, but I think along with the 12 stages of dread this will help determine where exactly you are in your relationship. As a guage this can be extremely helpful for a man as to know what and how his wife is feeling about him and where to begin to salvage the relationship. ( and if it it salvageable at all ) I need to reread this a couple of…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/16 08:32 AM
1

Your wife probably isn't going to just magically stop shit testing you so you need to get to the point where you don't start your day 50% pissed off just because of the prior day's bullshit. I thought about this a few days back. How I wake up in a good mood and then turn angry when I see her. This is something that I need to own. When I read my own post all I see is excuses and it makes me angry at myself that I see the problem but is too lazy to make the changes needed.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/16 06:33 AM
1

I'm no therapist. But it sounds like your addiction is still getting the bettet of you. All I can say is that if you choose a hobby or something worthwhile to pursue do something that requires other guys to attend. It might seem straightforward, but if I were you the last thing I would want to be is alone too much. You need someone to keep your mind occupied for a while at least until you get more control over your addiction.
/r/askMRP03/05/16 07:21 PM
1

You are totally correct. There is at least one evening out with the guys once every two or three weeks. I will make that more regular like once every week and report back. Thanks for the insight.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/16 01:04 PM
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Its been a while since I posted on OYS. Things have been improving in all aspects of my life, but I still have a long way to go in all those departments. It is frustrating to me that I can and will slip back into beta mode so easily, and I constantly have to keep my guard up against myself. I guess the biggest problem is my weak frame, and I decided to keep a journal on every time I lose frame or operate in my wife's frame or someone else's. Things I owe. My diet is way better in the last few we…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/16 10:14 AM
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Listen, champ, I get it....this shit is hard. No truer words have been spoken. For me I have to remind myself daily about this. Every time I have to conscientiously decide to initiate because its just so much work to game my wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/16 06:40 AM
1

She had that strap-on since forever. I suspect she always knew /u/Nucka574 would cum to analyze her responses.
/r/askMRP29/04/16 11:59 AM
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The problem here is not her flaws. The problem is that you are a liw value man that hoped a shitty post will illicit answers that will show how bad she is and how right you are. You are looking for validation from us. Why? Start reading dude. Read the sidebar. Read posts on MRP. Read the answers to those posts. The flaws are yours. If you understand why, and you own these flaws you can start to address them. I bet we never see you here again. Or we see you in a month still complaining about all …
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/16 05:58 PM
3

Yip. But the hamster is strong in this one.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/16 05:13 PM
1

And in her defense, the cheating may have been in kind of a grey area. If it bothers you, you need to step up and tel her about it. What you are doing here is hamstering it away so you don't have to deal with it.
/r/askMRP26/04/16 07:56 AM
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It seems you are and /u/ex_addict_bro are splitting hairs now. He meant only to say that it really is a nice phone. Sometimes just read the OP for what it is i.e. a way to show that true leaders are in control of their savings and how you can lead if you are in a situation where you have spare cash. To criticize just for the sake of criticizing it is fucking stupid.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/16 12:36 PM
1

After reading all the valuable advice in the comments section the question remains. Are you grow up and grow a pair of balls. Are you going to take all this advice and apply it and come back here with real questions if you run into a problem, or are you gonna give up because it's way to hard. If you choose the first option, expect days that you feel you want to cop out. Expect to feel you want to scream in her face.." Fuck you.....!!!!!". Expect days that you drag your tired body home from the g…
/r/askMRP23/04/16 02:00 PM
1

I have read your post twice now. I love to read about guys that is getting ahead with their MAP ( mission ). I still find myself doing things thinking that it will improve our sex life, not realizing at the moment that I am doing it for the wrong reasons. Until later when I start to analyze my day and actions then I realize it and it pisses me off that I am still that much in her frame. Your post has renewed in me the vigor I had a couple of months ago. It is good to made aware of what is the tr…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/16 12:41 PM
2

Your mom has no constraints. My art lies in one liners.
/r/askMRP18/04/16 02:06 PM
3

You handled your break up like a boy. You did not handle it like a MRP man Now read through the entire sidebar and do some introspection to see why I am saying this. If you get it, if you see the light we will be seeing more of you along the way as you improve yourself and become the best man you can be. If you don't see it, you will handle your next relationship the same as you did this one.... Hint: like a boy still wanting to suck at your mommas teet. My bet is you validate your behavior and …
/r/askMRP18/04/16 10:17 AM
1

Your mom is a marionette...
/r/askMRP18/04/16 08:12 AM
1

That is now my opener for tonights repertoire. Will finish with: It's the end of the world as we know it, and I feel fine.....
/r/askMRP14/04/16 07:00 PM
1

Then you wil always hate it. Blue pill, feminazi training has the whole world bowing to their useless shrine. That same shrine that will always call everything that just seems to be against their so called gender equality mysogynistic. If a man does something for himself he is an asshole. If a woman does something for herself she is enlightened and free from chauvinism. You will be reminded of it more and more, and will frustrate you more and more from now on. Suck it up. The whole world is like…
/r/askMRP14/04/16 06:14 PM
1

Hahahaha. Realized my mistake too late. Decided to leave it so he can find it.
/r/askMRP14/04/16 05:25 PM
1

Nah. But he asked for your mother jokes. Now he's miss this one.
/r/askMRP14/04/16 05:12 PM
1

Your mom is an etymology... Was meant for shoulder devil... my mistake. I don't even know your mom.
/r/askMRP14/04/16 04:54 PM
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You are relying on her to provide sex for your validation OP will not get it. He is happy in the thought that he gets as much sex as he wants. My bet is he defends himself against every piece of advice he gets here.
/r/askMRP14/04/16 06:40 AM
1

Troll. Yip. I'm sure of it.
/r/askMRP13/04/16 06:50 PM
3

My go to advice is always to read your own post as if you were not OP. What would you say to this guy? That he should have the balls to tell her that he knows about exbf and the relationship is over. Simple as that? Or would you advise hom to be beta blue pill motherfucker and scheme his way out of a relationship because you think he hasn't got the balls to be upfront about what he knows. My guess is the latter, and that is what you are asking us to advise you. Why? Why are you to chickenshit to…
/r/askMRP12/04/16 06:14 PM
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Action, always action Yip. Took me a while to stop making plans and set goals and started working. Action is what seperates the Red Berets and the guys that still post shit posts in Askmrp after a year. I recently started asking people around me, on askmrp as well, " what are you going to do about it? " Its fine to say you are going to start lifting, or going to read the sidebar. Just fucking do it already.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/16 05:35 PM
2

I've learned that my concern with her fidelity is a symptom of my fear of inferiority and disapproval that I'm trying to fix by controlling her. IDGAF what she does. As I improved my life this became apparent to me too. I just stopped worrying about her. If she wants to cheat I am not gonna stop it. All I can do is provide her with reasons not to cheat, by being the best I can be.
/r/askMRP12/04/16 11:19 AM
1

If Brad Pitt wanted to fuck my wife, how would she respond? Well I know miss. Boesman would be out the door like flash. taking off her drawers on the run... That's why I am starting to insist she calls me Joe Black at home...
/r/askMRP09/04/16 07:39 AM
1

What do you mean fishy. Your problem is you want to catch her out so she can admit it....? why? Just end it. She is gonna cheat physically, she is already cheating mentally and emotionally. Just end it. no explanation required. Why are you seeing yourself as such low value that you keep her on? And why are you not okay enough with yourself to be alone and without a girl for a while?
/r/askMRP09/04/16 07:26 AM
2

That moment is what many guys here lack and I think are looking for. They paint by the numbers, as you say, but they still aren't seeing the picture, much less moving on to blank canvas. Isn't that why we get told to lift and read the whole time. That is the way to paint by numbers on MRP. If you do it long enough. And if you keep on developing your self discipline through these methods you eventually get that eureka moment. I keep getting smaller eureka moments as things are improving. It's lik…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/16 04:10 PM
2

He has to fix what caused him to select a shitty woman. I agree on that. All I am saying that I think in most cases you will find that she wasn't shitty to begin with. But once we put the pussy on the pedestal, once we turn beta, once we stop leading is when woman turn. It is when we push them to lead a marriage because we can't. You know, because of our feministic upbringing spewing equality. If you married a shitty woman right from the beginning that is a whole other ballgame.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/16 08:38 PM
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If a decent guy married a shitty woman it is still his fuck up to own. Either way the responsibility to fix it is yours as the man. You made the decision, you fix the situation. But in TFA case, and I suspect in most guy's here case, the woman wasn't shitty to start of with. We turned them when she realized her captain wasn"t awake enough to run the ship.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/16 08:17 PM
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Yip. Agree fully. Shitty marriages happen because of shitty men. If you wake up to reality but are too lazy to put in the work your marriage will still be shitty. And if asked you would probably say that given the choice you would have never gotten married. As I improve, and my marriage improves I am starting to see my wife in the light I saw her before I decided to marry her. Not with the oneitus of a beta bitch, but as the woman who adds so much value to my life that I wanted her to have my ch…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/16 06:17 PM
1

Imagine you are reading this in a year from now, you have evolved to be the uber-man you are striving to be and somebody else wrote this post. Then you will see that whole dilemma is fucking retarded. You made a fucked up promise to your wife to spoil her undeserved ass for her her birthday. Go through with it and never do such a stupid thing again. Next year you get blowjobs and sunny smiles for your b-day and she gets to give you more blowjobs for her birthday. got it?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/16 08:24 AM
2

On my phone so this is the short answer. Let's see if I can get these done today. How can your wife, or your employer value your contribution if this is your attitude towards what needs to be done. Weak attitude for a weak man. I bet you slouch. I say this is what I'm going to do, and I follow through for a few days and then just stop doing it one day Why do you stop. You default back to being weak. I bet you sit alone at home in filth masturbating because mommy is still in India. I want to go o…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/16 04:05 PM
1

Read that again and then you tell me why you sound like a weak ass sissyboy. Grow a pair. You sound disgusting.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/16 02:45 PM
2

Question is, what the fuck are you gonna do about it?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/16 01:33 PM
4

Maybe now I'll get the validation I've been lacking all these years? Nope. No one cares. I have been struggling with this as well. To give an example, I realized I was constantly checking my phone to see if my wife has been on whatsapp, or if I received a message... It drove me insane in the beginning, can't she see how I am improving and still now recognition from her...bitch. It was extremely embarrassing when I realized how I am still seeking her validation and her approval... because in my b…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/16 10:55 AM
1

Best answer here is this from wmp. As you evolve from being a nice guy you have to constantly ask and evaluate your own answers as to why you treat her in a certain way. It is tricky in the begining when your old programming wants you to revert back to the way you were, but as long as you can justifyably say that you are going with the best option for you at that stage you should be okay.
/r/askMRP05/04/16 05:27 AM
3

Hulk is one hard motherfucker to kill...
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/16 04:01 AM
1

Can't open that file.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/16 07:24 PM
1

Trump and Rep pill has the same controversy. They cause sjw to look the truth in the eye while knowing they can't admit to what they are seeing. That and it makes them explode from all that internal turmoil.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/16 06:08 PM
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This is totally on me. I have to be the one she wants to impress. I need to be the one taking her places she'll get dressed up for. You got all wrong. The problem you have is not her dressing up for you or not. Your biggest problem is that you still enough of a beta bitch to sit up with her whinning in while she is comfortable in front of the tv. Fix you first. Then lead her to not be that harpy bitch. And if you are attractive enough and can dread her enough she will stop rulling your house and…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/16 06:00 PM
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<drops mic> Made me chuckle just now.
/r/askMRP04/04/16 04:45 PM
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Nothing says no sex for you toninght as much as smelly feet. Haha
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/16 03:31 PM
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The day he got rid of his ego and his victim mentality and did what needed to be done. This 7 year old boy has owned his shit and fixed his life better than you have. You shame me now as I look at how I like to feed my own little hamster.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/16 02:22 PM
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I showed that to my two children about a year ago. Explained how it is right to retaliate but wrong to start a fight.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/16 02:00 PM
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One of the major changes I made was to stop wearing shorts and sneakers to work. This is how I feel most comfortable, but I expect my staff to be well dressed and presentable. My new work clothes has some dread as well because of the two good looking woman I recently appointed. Added benefit was my staff not being bitchy about their work wear policy anymore. Plus I feel like I belong with all those bankers and financiers when I meet with them.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/16 01:58 PM
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He will, next week after implementing what his dad is gonna tell him tonight, and kicking the shit out of this bully tomorrow.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/16 01:50 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=isfn4OxCPQs This is the best one IMO.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/16 01:48 PM
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Yip. I was angry at my mother when I realized that I am allowed to defend myself and my self worth. My dad taught me how to fight and defend myself, but my moms "voice of reason" was just so overpowering. She was and still is preaching to rather walk away than to confront. She tried that with my boy a while ago and I had a talk with her about what she is doing. She agreed to back of, but still can't see why.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/16 01:16 PM
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Remember to keep your dress appropriate for the occasion. Don't go to bed in your khaki's and polo shirt wearing your dress shoes....
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/16 01:11 PM
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The point is, this was a failure on my part and your's as well OP. We have not adequately prepared our boys for those situations, and maybe it is ego talking here, but maybe we needed to see those events or have them happen for us to recognize the degree to which we have not prepared them. It is because we are raised in a blue pill feminazi world where we are taught to walk away from conflict. It's a hell of a thing to teach your child to stand up for themselves, even if through violence, when w…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/16 12:51 PM
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If you are sure that there will be no repercussions, and your son will not blamed later on for being the aggressor, then you tell him that it is not okay for him to let someone else make him feel inferior. if need be show him some moves, but the main thing is he needs to know it is okay to retaliate. It is okay to defend himself. It is okay not to step down. We are told much to much to turn the other cheek. In my opinion it is an eye for an eye in a bully situation. You need to make him understa…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/16 12:36 PM
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5) Explain that there's only one way to deal with a fucking bully. Have an upvote.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/16 10:50 AM
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You wrote my tl:dr. Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/16 10:17 AM
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The fucked up part about retaliating against a bully of any sort is that you usually get the short end of the stick. So the problem is not your son retaliating, it is that he will get punished ( blamed ) for his actions. But you have the issue that if you don't retaliate at some point it will continue. One way to get around that is for your son to challenge this bully to a fight that can somehow be regulated. Let's say this happens again at school and he can challenge him in front of his peers o…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/16 09:37 AM
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Yip, no new lessons. It was written to clarify the statement of be attractive, don't be unattractive. It seems to me that a lot of the newer guys accept that it is essentially the same thing, which in my mind it isn't. You can't be well built and trim, wear your clothes like a mannequin but slouch around the house complaining about how hard life is and except that you are attractive just because you look like Hercules.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/16 08:16 AM
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Yeah okay I get where you come from, but I think maybe OP just framed his sentence wrong. I understood from him that he totally gets it. That if it was true unconditional love he didn't have to improve in the first place. It kinda that he did improve and only later realized why he had to.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/16 09:00 AM
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Unconditional love doesn't exist, get over it. That is exactly what OP said you twat. Read it again. What OP is saying is what the sidebar and the old gius on here have been saying. She loves you the way you deserve to be loved by her. A womans love for a man is different than a mothers love for a child. It is conditional on what you deserve by means of your smv and her percieved value of what you add as man to her life.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/16 08:17 AM
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He is still seeking validation. We've all been there. Hell I was there not two weeks ago. Hey /u/lotusknyte Rather take WMP comments and ask yourself why he calls you a faggot, than trying to explain that you are not a faggot.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/16 11:32 PM
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Lotusknyte doesn't realize that he is an even bigger faggot for trying to explain his mistake to a bunch of strangers rather than just owning it.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/16 11:03 PM
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How long have you been married? Do you have kids together? How old are they. Does she work? Is she a SAHM? What value does she add to your live. What does she bring to the relationship? Why would she have to be insecure in a new dynamic if you have always been alpha and is introducing some beta comfort. Aren't you maybe missing the plot and turning up the alpha too much, causing her to walk on eggshells. I don't think you are sincere in your evaluation of your marriage. Your thinking is skewed a…
/r/askMRP02/04/16 08:35 PM
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You write a good report but you ask no question. Decide what you want to ask before hand. What you write here is some vague shit with no point.
/r/askMRP02/04/16 07:22 PM
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So you want honey buns to dress to the nines for you because you deserve it MR. ALPHA MALE? Thats not how it works numbnuts. You lead by example. Let me spell it out for you.... You dress nice for you. You dress nice because like a loreal add you are worth it. You dress nice and smell nice because you value yourself. Then you lead her to do the same. Think you can come to terms with that?
/r/askMRP02/04/16 07:09 PM
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Is this disrespect and shit-testing on her part? Short answer is Yes. Real question here is how are you going to handle it knowing it is a shit test? Aswer that by reading the sidebar and lifting some heavy stuff. Remember to internalize what you read and make it apply to your situation and circumstances. You have started reading the sidebar books haven't you. If not, stop fucking around with silly questions because you are too lazy to do the work.
/r/askMRP02/04/16 07:03 PM
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Come on. I hope you are just acting stupid. Dress nice. Smell nice. Groom.....
/r/askMRP02/04/16 03:24 PM
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If op can also just do a short description of Beta, for those of us still strugling with these dang definitions.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/16 04:35 AM
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It's the same generalization you get on TBP and TRP. Mommy says playgrounds are dangerous. On TRP women are made out to be cunt whore harpies that is only good to fuck and let go, on TBP men are made out to be controlling abusive sons of bitches not to be trusted. If we lived and believed in the false truth of generalizations we would be so fucked up as a civilisation that we wouldn't be able to continue to function. Its up to us to accept the real truth. You make the playground dangerous or fun…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/16 07:53 PM
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Because of MRP and posts like these I have adopted a view that everything in my life, good, bad or neutral is directly coupled to a choice I made. This was challenged by a friend of mine, asking what if I can't help the outcome. I explained it to him as such. If a debtor of mine decides, or is unable to pay me on time, it was not my decision, but it was my decision to grant him credit to start with. That decision was based on the information I had at the time. Same thing if I decide to go out to…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/16 07:31 PM
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Speaking only for myself. It is a long process to get your self respect back after being beta for so long.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/16 05:51 PM
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The ad was purely for entertainment value. Most guys saw the post on askmrp. If you can't appreciate it for what it was, thats your fucking problem.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/16 04:29 PM
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This. Text is for logistics. Logistics doesn't cover hair colour.
/r/askMRP01/04/16 12:38 PM
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Everyone will tell you to read the sidebar. Guess what, it is because it works. My advice first and foremost is to dump this girl. She shits on you and you take it. She does not respect me much in front of these guys and usually makes fun of me in front of them(shit tests). If you are dead-fast set on marrying her, you need to step up now! Is it your house? If so and you feel this guy is not welcome, fuck him, set boundaries. He can go stay somewhere else. You say you have been lurking for 4 mon…
/r/askMRP01/04/16 09:49 AM
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Same problem. Had a offroader for a while until I realized digging gravel from my skin is not the best way to spend a Saturday evening.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/16 03:41 PM
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But think of all the pitty sex...
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/16 03:27 PM
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Does this remind any one else that its not about the nail.
/r/askMRP31/03/16 02:38 PM
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CJ is competeing with jack10. I see a power struggle in the near future. If OP reads one thing it will be Cj's response.
/r/askMRP31/03/16 02:34 PM
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I should have taken your advice, now the moment is gone forever. No single malt experience for me tonight. Gonna rub my dick in my wife's face later on and see if I can pick a fight.
/r/askMRP31/03/16 02:23 PM
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You need to get rid of your anger, that will help you see your wife in the correct light. More bratty teenager, less controlling bitch. Read /u/cj_aubrey post on letting go of anger. It is a long process, but worth it if you aren't capable of just saying fuck it and getting on with your life. These guys are correct, make your marriage fun again. Tease your spouse again. What would you do if a subordinate at work showed you the thumbs out motion? Handle it that way. Don't lose your shit. GET OVER…
/r/askMRP31/03/16 02:14 PM
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Because this is my short answer. I don't think your ego would survive my long answer. That's all you get. (credit to /u/over60_stupid_loner -- had that bullet sitting in the chamber for awhile) (and yes, fuckers, I'm fully aware my 'short answer' is still pretty long) I was waiting for you to employ that one since 60 used it. OP has been so conditioned to be beta that he literally doesn't know how to behave, even though he might know the theory from reading the sidebar, the practice is still a l…
/r/askMRP31/03/16 02:07 PM
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Thanks for the input. I have a few books at their level in our native language. Will have to see if I can find translated versions of the classics. Little Ms. Boesman will love Alice in Wonderland.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/16 01:47 PM
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Up until now I have only read sleepy story time books to my children, but because of this I'm gonna switch to a whole book. We can read one decent book every night. That way they get taught how to follow a story line through several days, delaying the ending, and growing their imaginations. As always you have provided a hands on, step by step instruction for us slow learners. Thanks
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/16 01:18 PM
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Had a 1998 Yamaha FZR 1000 genesis. Had it tuned and tricked and could 240km on the highway. Now Im looking at something more grown up, maybe a ducatti Multistrada. I fully expect to sleep alone for a night or two.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/16 01:06 PM
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I take it a rice burner is a superbike..? That post yesterday was the saddest thing I have yet to come across on MRP. On a lighter note, I used to do crazy shit on two wheels before mommy said WE need to sell it, and of course blue baby sold it the next morning. Now I'm browsing for a bike again and wifey's teeth has been glued together for a while because of it.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/16 12:51 PM
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Maybe I should have asked, who don't you want to be?
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/16 12:40 PM
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I edited the post to include a link to the ASKMRP post of yesterday. If you read that post you will understand.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/16 08:48 AM
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Nah. they are two different guys. The one in bed is her husband, the biker is the guy that fucks his wife while he hides in the closet.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/16 06:12 AM
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I fucked around a bit in my blue pill days. Also had a sideplate that I used to call slut, cunt, my own special little whore. Got her dripping wet and sending me pictures of her playing with her pussy. Was always thinking what the fuck would the husband do if he found out. I guess now I know. The guys on here is correct. Drop this slut. She will never change. She is just waiting for the next guy to give her tingles. If you don't want to leave her, you will have to be the one that calls her your …
/r/askMRP30/03/16 07:43 AM
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I would have caved in at this right away, I just want to get along. Isn't this the beginning of our betadom. We as men are programmed to take the path of least resistance because we know that is the shortest route. Because logic. But with woman we must resist the urge and show that we will lead her to take our route because its the best for our family. Well thought out FR. Food for thought.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/16 03:49 AM
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We are a group of friends that go on a rugby tour every year. We go hunting once a year, and we come together regularly to shoot the shit and just be guys. I havent brought up MRP but men know that I don't subscribe to the happy wife happy life mantra. My thinking is that when you get a group and the gym going maybe you can somehow franchise the idea. Let men from all over get together and form cells that promote manliness. I wonder how long the Femz will take to sabotage something like that lik…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/16 07:41 PM
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Haha. Freud would have me on the couch for that slip.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/16 07:29 PM
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My english spelling suck.... To come back to the original post. Isn't your idea with going FamilyAlpha to help men embrace their masculinity on a less anonymes basis than MRP. If I can ask, what are your plans to achieve that? Workshops or mancamps or groups?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/16 07:04 PM
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Definitely. But Alpha and red pill are the terms used here and are familier.? (My english suck, and its worse without spell check) And most men that come here does so because their non masculine beta lifestyles brought them here. Just look at how many times xbox and video games are referenced. I concede to your argument however. We as men in general need to become more masculine. Especially those of us that didn't get military training.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/16 06:32 PM
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If I wash the dishes tonight I might get a hug before bedtime.
/r/askMRP22/03/16 06:25 PM
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Best thing that could happen to my two children was that daddy swallowes a red pill. Now we spend afternoons outside playing with the dog. They help me keep the yard clean and they bring tools when needed. Both. Boy and girl. I am helping my boy learn that a mans work is never done. I am teaching my girl that you can be feminine and work. When we come inside they both help with chores. Some afternoons they bike while daddy goes jogging. As a red pill father it is your responsibility to help your…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/16 06:15 PM
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I got far to go still. My first thought was fucking WOW! Now there is a man who's wife knows who the captain is... To my great shame.....
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/16 05:58 PM
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If facebook users in general could use it wisely it would be great tool to keep in touch and expose yourself to new ideas. But I see people sitting at home doing nothing but living through the lives of other people. X checked in here, Y did this for the weekend. And the poor shlub that keeps looking at other's updates have no life.
/r/askMRP22/03/16 05:40 PM
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I agree, love is a choice. Infatuation is achemical reaction that dissipates over time. I think that the notion of love between a man and a woman is purely a choice you make. Likewise you cannot tell me you love your wife if you do not respect her. If you want your wife around without respecting her then that is the validation seekimg that you refer to. That is why MRP is hard mode. You make a choice to save a marriage that you don't respect for whatever reason..i.e. kids, sunken costs, vows. Th…
/r/askMRP22/03/16 04:54 PM
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Facebook is probably the most evil fucking thing ever. Even if you can get past all the relationship issues it's causing, it is singlehandedly dumbing down the entire western world. People are getting more stupid every day and productivity overall has reached zero levels.
/r/askMRP22/03/16 04:41 PM
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It's already working by Inner_pizza in marriedredpill [–]BluepillProfessor 7 points 3 days ago New account A bit new is right. Good Lord what the fuck is this? When I see something like this on MRP I always think: WWWPD. What would /u/whinemoreplease do? I know, I know!! He would call this guy a pussy, delete the thread and probably ban the user. So...wife cheated. You went back pussy begging. Wife cheated again. Tells you about it this week. So to reward her you plan an elaborate seduction rout…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/16 01:41 PM
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I feel like every man has a fictional character or real life hero they admire. Ask yourself what would they do. What would James Bond do in your situation or John Wayne do. BPP said it best a couple of posts ago, WWWPD. What would Whinemoreplease do?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/16 12:05 PM
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There is nothing to add to the advice you have gotten so far, but I have to tell you to keep quiet about all of this. Don't go home tonight and say to her that you are going to improve yourself and she needs to suck your cock. Implement the advice given here but YOU DON'T TALK TO HER ABOUT ANYTHING. NOT YOUR NEEDS, OR YOUR FRUSTRATIONS. ABSOLUTELY NOT A FUCKING THING. Until you have read at least the sidebar books and you know more about what MRP is about.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/16 05:01 PM
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Then why ask the question. You don't want her useless ass in your wallet anymore. Get it over and done with.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/16 01:02 PM
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You are seeking validation from us to prove to yourself that you should divorce. At the moment you are so much in her frame that you want to divorce because money...read anger... but you still want to fuck her aftetwards because comfort...read easier than facing rejection from someone new. What would you answer someone elses weak ass post if you were to read this? You started MRP because you wanted to save your relationship. Now it seems you don't want to do the work anymore and would rather div…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/16 12:39 PM
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Is she using birth control. My wife is on birth control to regulate her period. So before MRP I did some research and this one is particularly known for fucking up libido. After swallowing the pill one of the issues was that as the captain of my house I must make her go back to the dr to get it checked out. So far i have brought it up, but haven't gotton so far as to make her go. I also know that when things were good she was on the same bc and we fucked like bunnies. I guess what I'm trying to …
/r/askMRP20/03/16 06:35 PM
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Thats my point. You and me are in the same boat. We hope she is just withholding her inner slut. But she is still withholding any sex, even starfish. We still have a loooong way to go.
/r/askMRP20/03/16 05:56 PM
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I'm the last one to claim to be an expert on MRP. But I used to be a massage expert. And then I would brag to her friends about how lucky my lady is for having a man that made an effort to massage her. Then I swallowed the pill and nothing changed. Then I became aware that the pill is still stuck in my throat. After that? I saw what a massage means if we aren't sex on the regular. Last massage was months ago. She asked about it once. You know.."can i get a back massage tonight, you do it so well…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/16 05:39 PM
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If you think that you are making progress, why have there been no sex for two weeks? I hear you saying that she is holding back her inner slut, but then you should at least have had starfish...?
/r/askMRP20/03/16 05:21 PM
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From the mouth of 99 % of us... We all have a long way to go. But at least we know we are moving. Blue pill beta us would have done fuckall, happy in the thought that we have arrived. Not realizing that we never started the journey.
/r/askMRP20/03/16 05:19 PM
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The fuck altar? Please tell me that was for him and her to practice some or other kink. Not for him to get her in the mood...
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/16 05:12 PM
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This post was written as a way to remind myself of what is happening. My own SMV is lacking in my wife's eyes for exactly this reason. failure is execution I know the the theory. I lack experiance... maybe rather the balls... to do the practical.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/16 12:42 PM
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Would you rather I sing Nikita for you! Just so you know, i have been finding her fucking diary underneath a tree the whole godamn day.
/r/askMRP19/03/16 06:16 PM
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Essentially
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/16 03:09 PM
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Im humming Cat Stevens and cursing OP to high heaven. Hmmmmm hmmmm days of the old schoolyard... hmm hmmm.
/r/askMRP19/03/16 12:06 PM
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Not sure about the point of no return, but I would imagine if a man has been sufficiently beta its not possible to recover. Personally I think this is true as well. If you lead her to form an opinion for long enough she will always think of in that way. It's like a convict. You might change into the pope himself aftet getting out of prison. And people will be happy with your new found goodness, but you will never lose the stigma that you are a criminal.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/16 09:09 AM
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I have to ask OP. What have you decided to do? Not regarding your wife, but regarding your life. You gonna stick around and learn from these wise assholes. Or am I gonna come back here tomorrow to find a deleted account.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/16 12:43 AM
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Pray do tell where one can acquire these cotton balls. I still have'nt gotten mine back from the wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/16 12:14 AM
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Had a nice chuckle just now. One might say he talks too much.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/16 11:56 PM
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Like your edit. It seems you have your own life in order and on track to achieving your own goals. Except for the fact that you can't seem to make your girl take what is in your opinion good advice, how is your relationship? MRP is about becoming a man. Think about what it meant to be a MAN in the time of our grandfathers. These guys had goals. Plans. They had faith in themselves and their own ability. They were not afraid to speak the truth. I have no other way to describe it. They were mans me…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/16 11:45 PM
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Can't man the torpedoes now captain. I am on the roof with a cape being superman. I am scared that my wife will try to emulate me and fall to her death.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/16 10:59 PM
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Yeah. This is just to easy. But nice entertainment for an insomniac on a Friday evening. Plus I want to smoke real bad. Maybe I should just go wake up the wife and leave you guys to handle superman here. Expect a field report tomorrow about a hard no coupled with some drool.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/16 10:34 PM
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Let me guess, you glitter when you stand in the direct sunlight right.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/16 10:17 PM
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One week in. Read BPP's first post. Where he had a three day reading binge. Do that over the weekend and come back on Monday. Then all this will make a lot more sense. Edit: Then you get into the sidebar and take it in like a dry sponge. Listen to the old guys. Read and lift. Although hard, it really is that simple.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/16 10:16 PM
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Go 60 go!!!!
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/16 10:10 PM
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You need to get yourself some friends IRL. I would suggest looking for them at places where gay guys hang out. Other than that you can join a boy band. I'm okay, you're okay. Your awesomness is awesome!!! Get a fucking life dude. Guys that come here seek real answers for real problems. If you need your dick wanked ask one of those awesome guys at those awesome organizations. Now fuck off.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/16 10:08 PM
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Thanks bpp.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/16 09:47 PM
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I limit animation to the Simpsons. Nearly did'nt get the gist of it all. Now I have to switch to family guy.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/16 09:45 PM
1

Does brian beg for a cookie?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/16 09:29 PM
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You want to believe your own bullshit. You came here hoping to get confirmation that it's the right thing to do to save this whoring woman because you are such a nice guy. Mrp is all about remaining married. Not about being to fucking weak to stand up for yourself. If I have to guess she was your first serious fuck before you got married.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/16 09:27 PM
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Insomnia, the gift that keeps on giving. If you find her shit, lemme know what you think.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/16 09:20 PM
1

You know a Meg?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/16 09:17 PM
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No dude. Maybe if you ask the mods. She is still active on rpw. I cant recall the specifics, but her husband told her about mrp, and she came here to ask us how to get her beta back.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/16 09:14 PM
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Let me ask you this. How do you see yourself living with her for the next 20 years. Begging for sex and then rewarding her for the scraps you get? That would eventually crush your soul and you will end up a dry husk of a man. Stop being fucking weak man. If you respect yourself even a little bit you would see how you are enabling her to treat you like a fucktoy that feels fuck all for. We gave you some shit, but on reality you make me sad.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/16 09:05 PM
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And in a strange twist of fate "that asshole" 's internet handle ends with CAD.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/16 08:47 PM
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Lets cut the bashing for a bit. Your backstory here is just a way for you to defend your original post. Your original post starts with the fact that this shit works. And then you tell of how you think you behaved in a little red pill way and that lead to your wife opening op her legs for you in lust. Ball busting aside. You can' t change a lifetime of blue into red on a weekend. If you choose to listen to what these old guys say, and you detach yourself from your own reality and think what if th…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/16 08:35 PM
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It doesn' t look like it now, but all this IS contructive critisism. Take it from me. But your ego and your oneitis make you blind to it. This here is what your dad would say to you if you asked him.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/16 08:19 PM
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So this post is a pat on the back then.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/16 08:06 PM
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I just puked a little bit in my own mouth. Remembered when we, where I come from, started calling this batting on wet pitch. This guy is getting cucked with mr. monster black dick but unlike blue pill cucks he doesn't get to watch.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/16 07:23 PM
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she asked if I still wanted to fuck. I said either way is fine with me, what do you want? She said it's ok, so I said when you want it let me know Dude, if you have been reading you would know that that is not perculation creating behaviour. She was either aroused because she just fucked her boyfriend before you got home, or lubed up in order to get through her beta retaining fuck with the least complications. Good luck brah. Read posts and skip the sidebar for a bit. You must lose the rose tint…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/16 07:15 PM
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I'll decide what I will react to. If the whole idea is stoicism like explained by ancient philosophers, then this is a better way than pure AM or AA. It makes sense that if you are that much in control of every aspect of your life, it is more a question of "does it warrant a response" rather than "how wil I respond to it". It is then that people will say "the force is strong in that one"
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/16 06:57 PM
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While reading Mcgill's balanced checkbook post I realized I read it before. Oh why can't I recall things so efficiantly any more. It describes the different values we assign to shit nicely. Just as you I have waited for the blowjob heavens to open up after moving in. Instead the more shit to do floodgates opened. And you get stuck with not enough fingers to stop the tide. Come on man..... just one good boy from mommy was all I wanted. Too late I realized it will never come. Mommy isn't here. You…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/16 09:05 PM
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I have had my ass handed to me today in all the worst ways possible. But all of the advice called me out on my slower than I thought progress. My amused mastery is actually me being pissy and in everyones frame except my own. Time to redouble my efforts and lose my ego. In all my posts up to date I feel that today I learned, and suffered, the most.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/16 05:56 PM
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You are right. I should have at least kept her on the loop as to what is going on. That was my mistake and I will learn from it. The worse part of it is that is took me all of ten minutes to unscrew the bottom part of the seat and put in a new bigger wall plug. I guess i still want that little boy validation from her.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/16 03:35 PM
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Nope. I got nothing.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/16 01:11 PM
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Before I get to the whole trust issue, the whole story I laid out for her was in the same gist as when she ask's you where you've been and you say slaying dragons or something similar. Be that as it may, I was not surprised that she felt strongly about the fact that I broke a promise without informing her the timeline has changed. My immediate feeling was that I do get that you are displeased, or angry or felt that I didn't live up to her expectations, but the absolute words of her feeling that …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/16 12:32 PM
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At the risk of sounding like some sort of sensei in a poorly dubbed movie, I have much to think about... I disregarded society's vision for me and formed my own. That is where it is starting to make sense. Thanks
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/16 11:23 AM
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Are you saying then that it is not so much to be content in everything good or bad, but not to fear the consequences of anything happening good or bad? Sorry to waste your time on this. I get the idea to break from the crowd and from popular gospel such as 3rd wave feminism. But to completely discard reality as we know it would mean that you operate on a vacuum. It doesn't make that reality true, but unless you are filthy rich or have no responsibilities you cannot just forego current wisdom and…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/16 10:31 AM
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My dad has a saying and prayer. Father, give me not today what I want or think I need, but give me the wisdom to manage to the best of my abilities that which You do give me. I have stuff to attend to now, so I will probably finish Enchiridion later, but would like to discuss with you the meaning of it all. In short he seems to just say be content in everything. good or bad? From a philosophy standpoint I can see it work, but how do you manage that in a world driven by profit?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/16 09:48 AM
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Both of your replies bothered me a lot, especially because I was thinking I am giving an example of a win situation. How do they say, hindsight is twenty twenty. I want to stubbornly convince you of my win, but if I calm down I realize that you are both right. Even though I thought I used AM correctly, and my aim was not to make her cry, I was effectively trying to show her how ridiculous her claims seemed to me. I have much to learn.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/16 08:09 AM
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I hear what you are saying, but it was said in jest, and recieved that way. Maybe my writing needs some tuning in. In the past I would have been so scared of her feelings that is she told me to not touch her I would pull back immediately and then stew in resentment. My comment about me confiscating her boobs was a way for me to show her that I like holding her boobs and her close to me. The same reason I am walking around with a smile. It might come off as being a dick, but the reason is is that…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/16 07:43 AM
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Here I was celebrating the fact that I have finally passed a shit test. Maybe the way that I replayed the conversation makes it come over that way. But in hindsight I am humbled by your assesment of what is going on. You are right, I am being a dick, and I have a million ways to defend that to protect my ego. In the end I was really thinking that I was more AM than being a dick. Especially because I am finally having fun with her and not walking on egg shells. Maybe the problem is that I still s…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/16 07:26 AM
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Although I do agree that the original post turned argument was not suppose to happen, the effect it had was that MRP guys now have an even clearer vision of womans sexual strategy...i.e. lock down a beta for support after having their fun with the alpha. As Whinemore said, you do you. But take from what happened the lesson. There is more truth there in practice than all of the sidebar theory combined. We could have handled it differently but we didn't. And you are allowed to fuck up, but a man o…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/16 08:37 PM
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There is nothing I can add to the advice you got up to now. For me the anger stage is coming and going like being a fucking manic depressive. Until a day or so ago when I decided that I alone have control over my feelings. Try having fun with your wife like you would your little sister. Joke and tease her the whole time. Turn initiation into a game. See how far you can push and then back off. You are a lot further than me, with your wife submitting, so see how much you can seduce her. Get her to…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/16 04:54 PM
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I guess anything is better than "Ballbusterbitchorangekellyclarkson"
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/16 04:21 PM
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It's because you didn't have a safe word. I can see you with a 12 inch strap on in your ass screaming "hot chocolate".
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/16 05:08 AM
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You smoked 4-5 a day right. I was a pack and a bit a day smoker. I'll take that bet. But with our currency being so fucked at the moment I might have to pay you off on installments if I light up.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/16 06:40 PM
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Everytime I think on the virtue of RPW I remember vampiresquidina??? and what she thought was the best way to save her husband and marriage. I am pretty sure he is now one of those bluepill guys that spends his time cross posting from MRP and then taking the piss out of it with his loser buddies. Fuck, even when I was a blue pill retard I could never fathom people that spend their time giving more of a fuck about what other people did than themselves. I see these types of people doing mediocre w…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/16 05:31 PM
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Everytime I think on the virtue of RPW I remember vampiresquidina??? and what she thought was the best way to save her husband and marriage. I am pretty sure he is now one of those bluepill guys that spends his time cross posting from MRP and then taking the piss out of it with his loser buddies. Fuck, even when I was a blue pill retard I could never fathom people that spend their time giving more of a fuck about what other people did than themselves. I see these types of people doing mediocre w…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/16 05:31 PM
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So instead of telling my wife that: she shouldn't disrespect me because I like her and therefore care about what she says and thinks about me (didn't work), I need to stop caring about what she says and thinks about me. because I'm married to her and faithful because I like her, she has a monopoly on my sex life and therefore some level of responsibility (didn't work), I need to stop acting like I'm unconditionally staying faithful / married. This is the hardest thing for me as well and I think …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/16 02:27 PM
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Things I am owning Fitness and Diet. Last year I have made good ground on both, but slacked a lot after December holiday. Since beginning of Feb I started letting go of my laziness and has been slowly getting rid of bodyfat. My goal is below 10% BF at the end of June. Reading I read all of the red pill 101 sidebar when I first chugged the pill, but only skimmed the graduate level and the rest. When I started to get my fitness back on track I also started re-reading NMMNG and WISNIFG. At the mome…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/16 01:57 PM
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The best thing you can do is not let her know that it bothers you. Shut the fuck up about it at all, and DON'T MAKE FIRST CONTACT!!!
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/16 12:12 PM
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Speaking for myself only, I was lurking for a long time, and only started posting when I thought I reached level 2 dread and can contribute something valuable plus needed some advice. Guys like Jackten and Irate gives good insight into ones problems and how you can go about solving it. But guys like whinemore and Stone is the reason you then get up and do it. Most men on here has been betafied to such an extend that we crave the validation when we feel we have achieved or done something right. W…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/16 08:58 AM
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Arguing with any of the other subs about MRP tactics and why we do it is exactly why MRP teaches us to STFU. When I look at those subs I see the essential playground bully that pics on the guy that he actually wants to be like. My question is why would any Merper argue with any of those fools. You can play with their hamster a bit, but never think that you would be able to make them see your side. It's like asking a PC leftist to stop thinking about racism and how wrong it is, but to start looki…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/16 07:33 AM
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Sub Human MRP is the devil Bobby Boucher!!! The problem with Bi-polar people is that you never know with which one of those charming personalities you're talking to.
/r/askMRP14/03/16 06:18 AM
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Imagine for a minute that it was your brother that wrote that post. What would your advice to him be? You have to keep one thing in mind, only you can ever be true with yourself. At the moment you have such severe oneitis that you cannot see yourself living without this girl. This bitch is already sexually bored with you but wants all the other resources you have to offer. One last thing to consider. If a man marries he will want to have a family. This girl drinks to much and then fucks around w…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/16 09:15 AM
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Thanks for the answers guys. For me they shine like a torch on a dark road. I have to say that sex is used by her as a weapon or a display of power. There is never a situation where I have to jump through hoops or perform choreplay with sex as a reward. Your response in regard to that has made me decide against monk mode. Another thing that I have come to realize since yesterday is that my biggest issue is my total fear of rejection. I need to work to be mentally aware of abundance. I have no ou…
/r/askMRP10/03/16 07:40 AM
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I was fully expecting to have my arse kicked, but all of the replies are so true. There is nothing else for me to say but that you are all spot on. Farmer Brown needs to rethink his farming techniques. Thanks for the showing me and the other noobs which way is the right way.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/16 02:55 PM
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Have debated with myself where to post it. Next time it will be in the right sub. Thanks for the answer. You are right. It's the beta behaviour that is making me question how I should behave. Bloody hell, it's tough to let your beta instincs go. I have read stone's post when he posted it, will read it more carefully and try to internalize.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/16 11:39 AM
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Does the Amazonian Sex Kitten World have gps co-ordinates please. Sounds like Dollywood but with better tits.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/16 04:52 AM
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Yeah, I guess I was a bit wired and reeling. I have been on this sub for a long time. Six month more or less. I have read and internalized the sidebar, most of it twice. I have had the anger stage, did even that twice. I have been improving in most aspects as a red pill man and husband. Trust me if I tell you that I have the theory down to a tee. I understood what was happening in my relationship since I came here the first time... But, Friday morning was when it all came together. To use the ma…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/03/16 03:04 PM
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My previous reply vanished. Let me give you the tl:dr version. Both our children slept in their cots in their own rooms from day 1. We also figured out that babiea will wake you up with crying if they need to be fed. So we have a near perfect record of sleeping through every night since our first child. Take those baby books and throw them away. At 10 months your boy should be sleeping and getting to sleep by himself. Mabey just a tuck in. Just be the assertive father and get it done with.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/16 07:15 AM
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Thanks to all the blue beards comments. What a day today has been. We came home at around half past nine, put the kids to bed and spend some time with the new puppy. I got in the shower with the idea to sleep early because I'm taking the kids fishing tomorrow. Even though i have severe insomnia tonight was different. I just couldn' t sleep. This is what knowing the matrix feels like. It has been six months since i found MRP and it feels so good to know that the pill is finally down. It's now thr…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/16 01:39 AM
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I am on my phone so excuse my editing. Everyone on this forum will tell you to man up. To read the sidebar and to lift. Even though you may think that you need or wanted more practical advice, this is the most solid advice you will ever find. What you are feeling is, I am guessing due to your depression. I do however have a theory about depression. I believe it is caused when one have no pr vague goals and purpose in life, and is cured when you have something usefull to do and achieve. This brin…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/16 02:44 PM
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The reason I haven't mentioned the reading and lifting part is that I realized as I was writing the post that I am still to weak in most areas to acknowledge that I own anything, and instead of erasing my post I submitted it to keep as a reminder of how I slipped back to being a weaksauce weakass man. I have read the entire sidebar and most books twice. In the last couple of weeks I came to realize that my MAP is vague and my whole frame is not where it should be. Even though I have started back…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/16 08:46 AM
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Shit I don't own Procrastination. Even though things are better, I still have to force myself quit a bit to get of my lazy ass and do what is needed. This applies mostly to the office and not so much at home. I can masturbate my hamster till it bleeds, but as /u/whinemoreplease pointed out I am a weak male. It is getting better as I apply more self discipline, but it's still way off. Sex. Even though we had "not starfish" sex last night, it wasn't really good. I put this down to a few issues. 1.…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/16 09:23 AM
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I can't argue with that. But it is posts like this that is making me internalize what the pill is about. And everyday that helps me weaken my hamster. These posts makes me realize how far I still have to go.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/16 02:32 PM
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There you go. MRP explained in one post. /u/RPAlternate42 you just managed to take two years worth of posts and answers and compiled it in one single post. Maybe the mods can edit this and add it to the course prerequisites. This would have saved me 4 months of fucking around thinking I am the hottest shit because I swallowed the pill. I also believe it might save the most noobs from nuking their marriages. Just my 2c.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/16 07:33 AM
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I get what you're saying, and I agree it's not about the playstation. It is about his own failures. I read OP's previous posts before I answered, and his history of his girlfriend walking all over him is extreme. My idea about discarding the playstation is how I would treat a child that is wasting time and not doing chores or homework. If the child can manage to first do their duty and then have some (pleasure) leisure time, it's all good. But if a child neglects his responsibilities because the…
/r/askMRP06/02/16 07:16 AM
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Holy Fuck. We still get reruns of Everybody loves Raymond and King of Queens on Comedy Central. I remember in my most Blue pill days how it frustrated the hell out of me that Raymond can make his wife walk all over him like that. But the thing is I used to despise his fucking harpy wife. Now, if I catch something of it while wifey is watching, I can't help but smile at how the media is trying to program us... And we grow up believing that shit... Happy wife happy life. My wife used that sentence…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/16 06:59 AM
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I am still a noob here, and surely the old tribe leaders will provide better advice. But if it were me that situation I would have addressed the issue long ago. After that just unplug the fucking machine and throw it in the trash. That way you enforce your disapproval at once without a covert soft weaksauce attemp to stop it by filtering your wifi. You don't play that ps4 anyway do you, you're a man thats spends his time on the range with real guns. Fuck dude, get that playstation out of the hou…
/r/askMRP05/02/16 10:08 AM
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I used to have the same problem so all I can offer is practical advice. All I did was to not get onto the bed with them. One night I read to them in one room and the next night in the other one's room. I sit with my back against the wall on the floor and have them sit next to me. It's hard to fall asleep this way, and they go say goodnight to mommy after we're done. Then only do I help them brush their teeth, so I have to get up. Just try something else than what you are usually doing and find w…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/16 05:45 AM
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Your advice as per the usual is spot on. I do tend to masturbate my lazy hamster. At the moment I keep on reminding myself to get up and do more. As for the hobbies, for now at least I will stick to reading... I am going through a second anger faze which I wasn't expecting to happen after things getting better at the end of last year. It's hard to explain but I have very little sexual feelings toward my wife. Just to be sure I am having my test levels checked tomorrow. The last few month's work …
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/16 10:43 AM
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I just started back on banting diet. The same one Tim Noakes got so infamous for a while back. Was dieting this way last year and it worked very well. Stopped because of Christmas holidays and been struggling to start up again. Will be following it until I lost 12 kg, then I will start on another diet as I begin cutting down to 10% bodyfat.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/16 08:02 AM
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'Hamster masturbator' is me then...
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/16 07:13 AM
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My editing skills is now also starting to evolve thanks to /u/whinemoreplease. Thanks for the advice /u/stonepimpletilists. Sitting inthe truck reading is just gonna be fucking weird, but I get your point. Time to start reading the sidebar once more. As for the quitting, maybe just the realization that that is the problem will help me do something about it. For me to stop being a procrastinator will be the hardest thing to overcome, that and to force myself to game my wive every day.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/16 07:05 AM
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Hell, where to start. Shit I don't own. The truth. I was seeing the little success I had for much more than it truly was. Body. Not being in the gym nearly enough. That will change tonight. MAP. Had a weak ass MAP, but I am starting to define my goals more clearly to myself. Hobbies. It's hard to be DGAF and OI and walk away with nothing clearly productive and fun, to walk away to. Booze. I am not a serious everyday drinker, but when we entertain or visit with friends I tend to drink a bit to mu…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/16 09:50 AM
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Sorry to post here before the link changed to the new week, but where I am, it is the 7th already. Hell, where to start. Shit I don't own. The truth. I was seeing the little success I had for much more than it truly was. Body. Not being in the gym nearly enough. That will change tonight. MAP. Had a weak ass MAP, but I am starting to define my goals more clearly to myself. Hobbies. It's hard to be DGAF and OI and walk away with nothing clearly productive and fun, to walk away to. Booze. I am not …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/16 08:19 AM
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Then MRP is true... Time to next my wife and get a second one. First one so far hasn't managed to teach me any tact. I'm still in the anger phase after all this time, maybe that's why.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/02/16 11:17 AM
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Thanks to this post I realize that all the improvement that I thought I was making in most aspects of my life is BS. I have taken back the ship's helm ( right term? I wasn't in the navy ) without a fucking clue as to where I was steering the ship. Here I was thinking that the little improvement I saw was major, but I was a blind fool. Today will be spend on deciding what it is I really want, and how I am going to get there. Time to revise my MAP. I think like most of the noobs on here, I am just…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/02/16 09:47 AM
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As far as shit-tests are concerned I could have done better... clearly I'm still not recognizing them for what they are. I was expecting Whinemore to lay into me with his crack whip, for all he knows my post was a comfort test... This is why MRP works, hardcore hardass advice from guys that knows what life is supposed to be like for men.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/16 12:27 PM
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Thanks for all the feedback guys. The criticism is well deserved. Just to clarify a few points. This was written with noobs in mind. And this is how I see MRP working for me. I was not looking for any validation, which I thought was clear in my post. This was meant to point out the difference in men seeking validation from others and men that embrace the MRP philosophy as I see it. I came here in the beginning looking for ways to make my wife fuck me more. What I found was the realization that I…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/01/16 06:45 AM
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OP should just be advised that all the examples listed below is fantastic as far as frame is concerned, and I see he is seeing the light as to what that entails. But he should be warned not be so invested in his new red pill frame that he fucks up his marriage with his new found asshole " I don't give a fuck about anyone anymore" attitude. Her: Remember to take out the trash. Him : You can do it yourself you lazy bitch, I will not be ordered around by anyone. I am my own man... There is a big di…
/r/askMRP20/01/16 11:36 AM
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I see many guys asking OP about supporting another man's child, and questions about child support and such. I think OP is so new to red pill that all those questions and all those answers will mean nothing to him. He needs to swallow the pill, and maybe if he is lucky, in a few months he will see for himself how fucked up his situation is and then he can ask for advice how to fix it. For now he needs to read as Loner has said. Read, improve, read, improve. For now you can do nothing to change yo…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/01/16 01:00 PM
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Take it from someone you went through the whole thing. Swallowing, puking it up again, anger... everything. You don't need someone to coach you. Get reading, read again. and take it slow. the anger can make you fuck up your marriage in a heartbeat. You need to digest the info first and the start the transition to become a better man. always remember, your situation is your own fault.
/r/askMRP15/01/16 10:44 AM
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I read every new post everyday as a way for me to find ways of implementing red pill. Once, before I swallowed the pill I asked my wife what attracted her to me at the beginning of our relationship, and her answer was that I had a "fuck the world", cocky attitude towards life and people. Not so much asshole as just not caring about other peoples validation. This is what made me find the pill in the first place. To answer Scurvemuch with how I would have done it in my past, and how I am slowly st…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/16 09:37 AM
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From a christian perspective on how to do MRP this post is certainly going to light the way for a lot of men including me. I see people arguing about what you meant and how you are in fact hamstering your christian beliefs to accept how MRP has worked for you. What I see, and how I deal with everything as a christian, is that your are not arguing with yourself or your hamster but only stating the obvious i.e. that red pill or not your beliefs is what matters most, and yes as a child of God there…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/15 10:57 AM
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I have no more to add to this. The mirror's reflection is sickening. This was the one post and comments that is gonna get me working harder and stop faking until I make it. There is no substitute for the real thing.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/15 06:48 AM
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I am still reading, NMMNG and MMSLP twice, but I still have to get WISNIFG. I get what you are saying about posting though. I do feel that I still need to read more and apply more before I start posting.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/15 12:35 PM
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Thanks Newdad for the best MRP post I have read sofar. I have been lurking on MRP and TRP for a while now, and find myself unable to implement what I've read in the sidebar books. Your post has instilled in me a renewed sense of urgency in finishing the reading and to push myself to to be the captain of my marriage boat, my business boat and my life boat in general. You have after all this time I've been lurking here inspired me to change back to that guy I once was. I can't thank you enough. Yo…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/15 02:45 PM
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Thanks. Figured as much but now i'm sure.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/15 01:10 PM
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I have been lurking for a couple of weeks. I think I got most of the lingo, but what does OI mean.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/15 12:45 PM
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