TRP on Border Erosion

MgFeSi · 2016-05-04T22:40:28+00:00

For the curious and lazy

Other subs worthy of mention unfortunately include the Married Red Pill sub, which despite its efforts to give a safe haven to men who married while plugged in, has devolved into an exercise in rationalizing why it was a good idea to begin with. Despite my repeated attempts to help them steer into the right direction, I have been confronted by many members there simply defending marriage as a good decision for a man in western culture, one of whom was a moderator whose post read "knowing what I know now, I would get married all over again."

The argument uses a common theme that you might recognize. Those who don't get married simply "aren't alpha enough to survive a marriage." Marriage, to them, is red pill on hard mode, and only the best of the best survive. Interesting that shame should be the primary enforcer of this behavior. It reminds me of something... perhaps it's written about somewhere in our sidebar.

I imagine myself making a similar face reading about somebody bragging about surviving a game of russian roulette, trying to convince others it's a game of skill and that the bullets in the chamber are reserved only for those not strong enough to win.

Rock on devolving. The stuff I've learned here has helped turn around a dead bedroom, saved a toxic marriage, and lit the fire under my ass to become the man I am supposed to be.

Click, whew, your turn.

sexyshoulderdevil · 2016-05-04T18:25:41+00:00

The Red Pill Wives/Women hoopla proved one thing. The TRP Mods can know all the Red Pill Theory they want and still not effectively manage what essentially existed as a marriage of two Reddit-subs with competing sexual strategies. So he's 100% right, no marriage for TRP Mods.

As for us, we're fucktarded masochists... I still maintain the final form of this sub isn't advocating less wives...but MORE wives. We will repopulate the Earth with millions of little MRP babies out doing our manly bidding... We don't die...we multiply. Now excuse me, my wife is helping my fiancé pick out her wedding gown and I'm about to head out on another date. Toodles.

Kosmoknots · 2016-05-04T23:27:47+00:00

I used to be subscribed to this sub and the main, but the main had such poor quality posts that it made sense to drop it.

It's cute watching the boys coming in here to complain about the men.

alorian · 2016-05-04T22:04:42+00:00

A couple of people who own their shit say that they would do it again. I don't think I ever saw an endorsement for marriage here. I'm fine with my marriage, but would never tell a friend they should get married. I think most of us are like that. I thought it was funny when RPS came through here to say marriage was always bad, riding his ego the whole time. We know marriage is a bad deal. We're anti-divorce rape here, not pro marriage. I pointed this out on that thread, and apparently that's ban worthy.

My question now is- with TRP's borders being so weak, are they going to build a wall?

spexer · 2016-05-04T22:51:45+00:00

I could see TRP having an issue if we were advocating for people to get married. I don't see anyone here doing that.

We are red pill and married. It would be like creating a subreddit for red pill men that are currently in the military, where they could discuss their unique circumstances, and how to apply the pill to that life.

I dont see why his panties are in a wad.

ReddJive · 2016-05-04T17:57:53+00:00

MRP has been traditionally split into two camps of pro and anti marriage since the start.

I don't understand why it's a split. It's a choice.

There's value in both sides. It's up to the man to make the choice of which way to go. To assuredly say this is the only way is to demand following and is demagoguery.

I appreciate /u/TheFamilyAlpha virtue of the husband and defense of marriage, though I can't say hold to it just yet. I also identify with others outrage at the state they got themselves into.

There's a range. It's not binary.

Like TRPs hard stance against marriage. LTR is pretty much the same thing without the legal entanglement. So I find it mildly hypocritical but not so much so my panties are in a twist.

In any event, warriors are born on the battlefield. I like the trial by combat here in the RedPill world.

PurpleVeteran · 2016-05-04T18:09:44+00:00

It's funny that they're talking about the "tone police" and "censorship", but then take a hard line on what they'll accept or not. What they see as border erosion, I see as normal discussion and debate. Don't agree with something or someone, then correct them or ignore them.

It seems that they want the entire RP philosophy held as canon, when it's clear that lots of things are contradictory or don't apply to everyone the same.

Certainly I'm one of the more purple folks here, and probably am more guilty of these crimes of heresy than most, but I welcome the discussion and wisdom of other MRPs. As such, I hope this continues to be place for discussion... and the TRP ~~tone police~~ moderators can maintain their own space with whatever philosophical purity they want.

Adderallabuse · 2016-05-04T19:54:42+00:00

I agree with RPS and feel that TRP needs a new flair for marriages within its subreddit and the existing TRP moderators should control the message.

Result? Far less trolls, bluepill and/or female centric advice, and TRP tenets remain core.

Title	TRP on Border Erosion
Author	bogeyd6
Upvotes	8
Comments	111
Date	May 4, 2016 5:41 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MarriedRedPill
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/4hvnjg/trp_on_border_erosion/
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