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Married Red PillTheFamilyAlpha/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 07:53 PM
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FitnessTheFamilyAlpha/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 01:28 PM
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Red Pill TheoryTheFamilyAlpha/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 03:53 PM
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Married Red PillTheFamilyAlpha/r/TheRedPill03/03/17 02:02 PM
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Red Pill TheoryTheFamilyAlpha/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 11:20 PM
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Building PowerTheFamilyAlpha/r/TheRedPill24/10/17 01:33 PM
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Married Red PillTheFamilyAlpha/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 03:30 PM
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Married Red PillTheFamilyAlpha/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 01:07 PM
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Red Pill TheoryTheFamilyAlpha/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 06:55 PM
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Red Pill TheoryTheFamilyAlpha/r/TheRedPill11/04/16 06:50 PM
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Building PowerTheFamilyAlpha/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 01:55 PM
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Married Red PillTheFamilyAlpha/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 02:00 AM
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Red Pill TheoryTheFamilyAlpha/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 12:03 PM
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Married Red PillTheFamilyAlpha/r/TheRedPill09/11/16 10:42 PM
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Red Pill TheoryTheFamilyAlpha/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 01:16 PM
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Red Pill TheoryTheFamilyAlpha/r/TheRedPill22/05/17 06:52 PM
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Building PowerTheFamilyAlpha/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 04:57 PM
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Married Red PillTheFamilyAlpha/r/TheRedPill04/03/17 06:50 PM
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Married Red PillTheFamilyAlpha/r/TheRedPill09/12/16 02:15 PM
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Red Pill ExampleTheFamilyAlpha/r/TheRedPill20/07/16 06:45 PM
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CultureTheFamilyAlpha/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 06:43 PM
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TheFamilyAlpha/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/16 01:59 PM
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Red Pill TheoryTheFamilyAlpha/r/TheRedPill11/04/16 03:31 PM
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Married Red PillTheFamilyAlpha/r/TheRedPill04/03/17 11:54 PM
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Married Red PillTheFamilyAlpha/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 11:27 AM
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Married Red PillTheFamilyAlpha/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 02:23 PM
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Red Pill TheoryTheFamilyAlpha/r/TheRedPill17/11/16 07:04 PM
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Red Pill TheoryTheFamilyAlpha/r/TheRedPill20/07/16 05:06 PM
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Red Pill TheoryTheFamilyAlpha/r/TheRedPill10/11/16 07:08 PM
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TheFamilyAlpha/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/17 06:20 PM
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Building PowerTheFamilyAlpha/r/TheRedPill24/10/17 07:53 PM
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TheFamilyAlpha/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/17 01:59 PM
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TheFamilyAlpha/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/17 11:53 AM
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Married Red PillTheFamilyAlpha/r/TheRedPill11/03/17 06:11 PM
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Married Red PillTheFamilyAlpha/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 11:04 PM
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Married Red PillTheFamilyAlpha/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 02:09 PM
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TheFamilyAlpha/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/16 02:31 PM
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TheFamilyAlpha/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/17 01:19 PM
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Red Pill TheoryTheFamilyAlpha/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 04:26 PM
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Red Pill TheoryTheFamilyAlpha/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 04:03 PM
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TheFamilyAlpha/r/MarriedRedPill04/03/17 06:49 PM
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Married Red PillTheFamilyAlpha/r/TheRedPill10/03/17 06:41 PM
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TheFamilyAlpha/r/MarriedRedPill28/12/16 01:17 PM
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Red Pill TheoryTheFamilyAlpha/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 02:17 PM
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Red Pill TheoryTheFamilyAlpha/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 03:33 PM
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Married Red PillTheFamilyAlpha/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 02:30 PM
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Married Red PillTheFamilyAlpha/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 11:53 PM
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Men's RightsTheFamilyAlpha/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 07:32 PM
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Red Pill TheoryTheFamilyAlpha/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 08:13 PM
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Married Red PillTheFamilyAlpha/r/TheRedPill24/12/16 01:27 PM
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Married Red PillTheFamilyAlpha/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 03:27 AM
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Red Pill TheoryTheFamilyAlpha/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 11:48 PM
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Red Pill TheoryTheFamilyAlpha/r/TheRedPill10/11/16 03:38 PM
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FitnessTheFamilyAlpha/r/TheRedPill03/12/16 05:09 PM
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PayPal Sent
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/17 01:02 PM
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DaFuq lol I’m going with natural smells
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/17 12:11 AM
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What’s weird stuff?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/17 11:13 PM
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I do, I’m also making my own.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/17 10:19 PM
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There is: 31 Days To Masculinity
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/17 10:18 PM
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Builds a baseline before entering 2018 Helps instill discipline during holiday times As a Vet I liked the DoD aspect 31 Days in December Lastly, there will never be a ‘good’ time, So I figured why not start the campaign now
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/17 08:57 PM
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It hurts to scratch the beard Shirts will be of Custom Ink quality this go 'round, I will be creating my own products once I launch 31DtM.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/17 08:29 PM
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This is a solid post and one which hits on that key point of not only having a vision, but being a living version of that vision. Everyone radiates towards the guy who just gets it. Men and women aren’t sure why they like that guy, but there’s something about him, he’s going places. You can only be that guy when you truly are going places and have a vision for where your life is heading, that’s the only way you can take intentional action. You don’t want to be the guy just bobbing up and down in…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/17 08:19 PM
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Ha!
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/17 01:13 AM
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I’m glad it helped man, sometimes all you need is a little different perspective.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/17 10:52 PM
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Lol
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/17 10:33 PM
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I’m a Jeep guy lol made perfect sense to me. If you ever look for Used Wranglers, 99% are retardedly overpriced as these things maintain resale value due to the ‘culture’ of the Jeep. You can find that 1%(I did) but it took months, which is a rarity for me as when it comes to vehicles, I usually know what I want and go for it within 2-3 weeks.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/17 01:26 PM
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I said they are the best foundation, their upbringing predisposes them to living in a role which fits best with a family narrative. Others can do it, but from my experience, the only LTR/Marriages that don’t suck ass with shit kids are ones where the women came from these roles and obviously the men are leading. These women exist just like Wranglers that aren’t overpriced exist, you’ve just got to find them.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/17 12:37 PM
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Unicorns don’t exist. Unsure how else to tell you that.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/17 12:10 PM
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Ask the mods why they keep removing my shit.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/17 12:09 PM
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What is the vasectomy waiting on?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/17 02:34 AM
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So how could I categorize them?
/r/TheRedPill04/11/17 02:30 AM
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Never give her everything, never become boring, and never make her your mission. I’ve been through the ringer, bitches be crazy, be ready to walk free if you aren’t getting 100%(+/- 10) of what you want, leave. Fuck society’s narrative.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/17 01:33 AM
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I get you
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/17 01:19 AM
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I have a few pieces on how to get the slut from your wife on the blog, they may help with this. The more important piece of it is that you own it. You want her to view you as Daddy, not Alpha Father so you need to man the fuck up and take that title. Own your shot brother.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/17 01:18 AM
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Brother, I wish I could bottle that exact sentiment up and share it with the world. Nobody should have kids, just to have kids. It should be a thought out, strategized, intentional decision. As for Category 4: These women are so fucked it would take another 2,000 words to capture their entirety so left it intentionally vague.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/17 01:15 AM
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Which is why it is so crucial to understand which type of girl you are dealing with.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/17 01:13 AM
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All you can do is take the information moving forward. Never assume people know your thoughts, share the praise.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/17 01:12 AM
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Is what it is, make the best with what you've got.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/17 01:08 AM
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It's almost like I know what I'm talking about. Category 3s want nothing more than to not have to live like their mothers.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/17 01:08 AM
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Not a problem, depending on which type of Cat 3
/r/TheRedPill04/11/17 01:07 AM
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So you literally came in here just to tell me you weren’t reading it?
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 10:26 PM
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I’ve applied this my whole life, no regrets yet. Err on the side of action.
/r/askMRP03/11/17 10:05 PM
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I wonder how many great books you haven’t read because you were defeated by their title.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 10:05 PM
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Good job man There are so many women out there. It is a man’s romantic nature/masculinity which drives that ‘Need to save’ but in our society, fuck that. Same for single moms, they may be great women, but they’ll always love their kid more than you. As a Vet I’d say war widows are worse, you’d never live up to their husband’s image. Traditional girls in 1-2 are great, maybe 3, never 4.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 09:31 PM
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Category 4 is the worst as there are girls who have great potential, but their programming is just so fucked up. Never get serious with a woman who operates like that.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 09:22 PM
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Exactly This is why it is so fucking important that men vet as best they can if they want children. Choosing a baby-momma and/or wife is the most important business decision a man will ever make in his life. Don’t choose with heart, use your brain as the only way to create something aside from feminist tinder-sluts is to have feminine traditional women raise feminine traditional daughters with value.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 09:20 PM
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Ha!
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/17 09:06 PM
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"Daddy" isn't just "Father" It's also Man who runs the home and cares for everyone in it.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/17 08:59 PM
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Thank You!! At least someone here gets it.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/17 08:15 PM
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100% The point of this piece was to get men to recognize that their current level of training is likely inadequate.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/17 07:42 PM
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Balance in all is key, completely agree.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 07:32 PM
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Why would you take a day to celebrate? That seems pretty excessive considering almost every example I can think of. Take some time, yes. But move forward and learn from the victory.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 07:12 PM
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Ha! I threw that one in there at the end just to point out, it doesn't fucking matter that you fucked the girl, what did you learn. There's millions of women, fucking her isn't special. If you're smirking about why she's a bitch to 99% and you fucked her, then a part of you knows why she fucked you, you've got it going on so I guess that last part allows you to bask in the glory of the pussy you fucked.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 07:11 PM
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Objective analysis is not second guessing, it's learning and preparing to raise the standard for the next go 'round.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 04:18 PM
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The children of men who are RP Aware have a significant advantage over their peers. My kids are 8 & 5 and I have been teaching the same, they're already progressing well ahead of even my own expectations. Kids are smarter than most give them credit.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/17 03:51 PM
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The Fuck You Say to Me?!
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/17 03:41 PM
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You're giving time and attention away, for what? IV dripfeed makeout sessions? Try this, stop messaging her, remove attention - not like a dick, don't intentionally go out of your way to ignore her, but have better things to do and better people to associate with. She'll raise her game, you'll ignore, she'll fuck you.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 03:21 PM
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Midgets need to eat too, just smaller portions.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/17 03:15 PM
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I don't suffer from PE, but I think this is interesting. Always looking to mix things up, update on whether it numbs her too as that would suck.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/17 03:13 PM
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I gave all of my binders & notes to the guy who replaced me and told him I'd kill him if he sucked & didn't outperform me. Regret it now, should've saved one.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/17 03:11 PM
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Does it numb your girl?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/17 02:55 PM
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Frame = Reality You're world is what you allow it to be.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 02:45 PM
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Success begets Success
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/17 02:36 PM
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Will do, thanks man
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/17 02:33 PM
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I'd never heard of conclusions of Judo, will have to look that up today.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 02:27 PM
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Honnold is a beast, that mentality is exactly what I'm talking about. It's great to hit your goals and there's nothing wrong with relishing in that moment of victory, but if you learn nothing from it, then you're always going to stay at that level. If you look back and reflect on where there's room to improve, you're better off for the next competition. As for the Savage Take Down, it's the internet and traffic on Wednesday was great for TFA.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 02:16 PM
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Shadow* No.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/17 01:42 PM
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When you stop thinking about the act and just do it. Some guys spend months inside their head analyzing every interaction, others just flip the switch a few weeks in. You'll have to stop worrying so much about A/b and just do what you want. Eventually you'll look back and realize that for the past 2 months, you've done so much and never thought about it.
/r/askMRP03/11/17 12:13 PM
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The pic tops it off, that's fucking awesome.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/17 12:10 PM
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I was going to post almost the exact same reply. Hiking is an amazing way to achieve exactly this. For those with long commutes, turn the radio off and put the phone in the glove box. Windows up or down, makes no difference, but lose yourself to the thoughts in your mind. It's amazing how the body can operate and safely navigate the roads while your mind is allowed to explore what's really going on inside.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/17 11:53 AM
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3 years I’d leave & not raise the kid. I’d say 7 would be the point where I would still divorce but I would remain a part of that child’s life.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 10:43 AM
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I read this in Liam Neeson's voice.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/17 06:18 PM
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Excellent point, irrelevant of what's going on with your wife, invest the time in helping train your son to stand up for himself. He's getting bullied just like you are by your wife. You both need to take a stand, draw a line in the sand, and enforce it.
/r/askMRP02/11/17 06:15 PM
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I gave her an ultimatum, said "I prefer to be alone than with a cheating whore", she said nothing but she did solve the problem for you, she started flirting/hitting on Chad. Easy day, you gave the ultimatum, now enforce it. Look at guys who aren't on Reddit as well like Mark Baxter, Richard Cooper, and Jack Murphy.
/r/askMRP02/11/17 06:14 PM
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Whatever it is I'm reading, I'm reading it for me, not my wife. If she asks, I answer as it isn't some fucking secret. With that said, I don't volunteer nor do I go too in depth.
/r/askMRP02/11/17 01:35 PM
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We can implement redundancy without progress Or We can make progress towards our goals. Always choose the latter.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/17 01:15 PM
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With all of this publicity I figured it would be a good time to let everyone know that I'll be running another variation of #MenofMarch this December. There are 5 days left to buy a 31DtM shirt, if you do that you're a part of #DecemberofDiscipline. I'll be creating a group email, opening up my skype to those who joined, and each day we'll go through the 31 Days to Masculinity challenges. (It will be better than #MenofMarch as the book is already out and I won't have to write it while participat…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/17 12:48 PM
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My lady thought it was a waste of money, but had no issue aside from that.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 11:36 PM
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That’s because when a girl does it, most guys goose to play the role of Captain Save-a-Hoe
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 09:49 PM
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Move forward without giving her another thought, bitches be crazy. she willingly had sex with you then sent you that text, think about that... Now, dial yourself back in and realize, she was just a girl, she wasn't your future wife or some special being, just a girl. Move forward, learn from the practice she gave you.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 07:33 PM
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I was 19, learned early to just chill the fuck out and that the point of life was there is no point, so why take it seriously?
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 07:26 PM
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Marriage is part romance, part business, and part tradition. Men need to give each their due diligence and not get lost in the ideology of it all.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 07:24 PM
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I'd rather the man finds out and breaks down at birth rather than after 18 years of raising what he thought was his flesh & blood.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 07:10 PM
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Why is that the mindset? We have the technology, right after birth they should just do the test and let the man know. Why is it wrong for a man to be given that information? to answer your question and provide some off topic info, my kids were planned and my wife and I feel a little guilt about it as some people struggle for years. Wife and I did 'pull out' technique until we wanted kids, then bam my son was born. Waited 3 years pulling out, then decided we wanted another, bam daughter was born.…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 06:22 PM
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Enchiridion Gates of Fire War of Art
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 06:12 PM
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What I find to be absolutely mind blowing is the fact that men DNA testing their kids is viewed as this insane taboo. That kid didn't grow in us, how do we know for sure? I had both of my kids DNA tested and when I tell people that, they give me this crazy look. Not that I give a fuck as I did it anyways, but why isn't this done from birth? Feminine Imperative at its finest...
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 06:09 PM
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Ha! I said bigger than me, not fat, but it is what it is
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 04:15 PM
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I'm glad you said this. There is nothing wrong with any path a man chooses. Whether it be LTR, Gronk, Monk as long as they own it and enjoy it, good on them. Too many guys are too serious. Once you own your shit, you should be all smiles.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 04:12 PM
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I'm not butthurt man, this is the internet.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 03:46 PM
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Didn't have the respect to tag my username in the post? I get it Queer Pube Coil, This subreddit is all you have. When you saw that I was posting here again and getting upvotes, it rubbed you the wrong way. This isn't just about lifting as there were plenty of dudes fatter than myself (Rian says below he is 20lbs heavier) and there were plenty smaller than me (Rollo). You didn't go after them because, again, this isn't about me lifting. You're mad that I am on YOUR Red Pill as you put it. You go…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 03:19 PM
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I think the term you were looking for was Dwarf, not Hobbit, I have a beard, Hobbits don't.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 02:20 PM
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People don’t care. Even if I’m an expert on the subject being discussed, rarely will I correct someone who is wrong as it kills the vibe, when you’re out - you’re out to have a good time, everyone should step back & chill/enjoy the ride.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/17 06:17 PM
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Yep
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/17 05:59 PM
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You’ve got 230,000 dudes walking the same path, differently. You shouldn’t be lonely man. If you are, embrace the solitude while working to improve social standing.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/17 02:36 PM
7

Similar to the guys who think their girl is incompetent. If she keeps deferring decisions to you, don’t view her to be stupid, recognize she is looking for leadership.
/r/askMRP30/10/17 02:35 PM
7

Don’t bring it up and discuss it with her, just fix it.
/r/askMRP30/10/17 02:35 PM
35

My wife was cold last night too, you know what I did? I said, “come here you sexy Eskimo” and I wrapped my body around her’s to warm her up. It sucked for a few minutes, but I didn’t care; Smelling her hair and having her fall asleep on my chest was worth it. Take from that what you will, but we both had the same problem last night and this morning I had sex, you had a wife on the couch.
/r/askMRP30/10/17 01:01 PM
74

Examples I have witnessed first hand: Within an hour of meeting girl: Talks about abusive/shitty childhood Brings up previous failed relationships Mentions struggles paying rent Talks about not knowing how to talk to girls Some men are so desperate to just be heard and given attention that they word vomit their entire life’s suffering onto any woman who gives them attention. It’s almost as if they’re wielding their suffering and failures as a sin of status. Trying to show that they’re the nicest…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/17 12:54 PM
3

Easy Day If you’re stuck, ask. Don’t talk just to talk, make sure that you actually go out and do.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/17 11:49 AM
8

Your life was always full of possibility & potential for adventure. Your wife and children didn’t take that from you, you fucked that up by taking your foot off the gas once you married/started a family. Unfortunately you took the path of many others, deciding not to take ownership of your life until after you fuck it up. Sometimes you have to get burned to learn. You’re getting burned, use it as fuel to learn and grow.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/17 11:21 AM
1

My wife does not like TFA at all, if it were up to her, I’d of deleted it years ago. I do it because I have to. She has no vote on that part of me. But, she is a woman who knows that we are married as well as individuals and that is a part of who I am as an individual and she respects that. But don’t think she loves what I do, again, nobody in my entire family, aside form her, knows I’ve written a book or run a blog.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/17 04:59 PM
1

My mission is to help other men, in What scenario but I have to choose between family & that?
/r/TheRedPill29/10/17 04:41 PM
0

I see you added to your comment. 1) My wife doesn’t brag to anyone as nobody in my ‘Real Life’ knows I write. 2) I love that my wife is worried about other women (See: Dread) 3) Men who start families should bring positives to the lives of those they lead.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/17 04:35 PM
1

So the family benefits when the man walk’s his mission, which a family is a part of but they are not the mission itself. There are married men with children doing more than single men, it comes down to the man not the relationship status.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/17 04:30 PM
2

You have no idea what you’re talking about. Do you think it is in my family’s benefit that I go do speaking events for a week or that I spend hours writing away from them?
/r/TheRedPill29/10/17 04:24 PM
2

Self-Improvement & new experiences to the Grave.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/17 04:07 PM
2

I say exactly this in that piece, "having a family does reduce a man’s output." My point is, your output for yourself is reduced, the family requires your time to help them through their lives. If you want children (as I did and many others do) then this is something you factor in. The man who raises solid children is no less of a man than the one who creates an empire from his business. It all comes down to the man, only you know what's worth it.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/17 03:26 PM
3

Going from TTB to TFA was my absorption of the Red Pill in its entirety, absolutely. The message, even after going through that period in my life, has changed very little as I was walking that line prior to, nothing had to adjust really after the fact. I've already been blasting the Bi's, tried scratching my beard this morning and it was brutal just to lift them up. The most disappointing part of GLO's rampage was that he called me a Hobbit when clearly he was looking for the term Dwarf(*I have …
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/17 03:00 PM
2

Your kid can become fuel for growth or an anchor to future performance, it's entirely up to your perspective. There is definitely a point to be made on The Burden of Family
/r/TheRedPill29/10/17 02:23 PM
6

I’ve been surprised at the DYEL comments, bench is at at 225 (by choice) & squat is over 330, with dead over 360. From looking at the videos, arm work is needed which I don’t really do but I get it. As for “a lot of this success is self-reported” I’ve been writing for years, the message hasn’t changed. On Twitter I’ve worked to share a little more of my personal life to show that I’m living what it is I’m writing. Authenticity is key, with videos and pictures coming out, it is transparent. Guys …
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/17 01:13 PM
2

Irrational Confidence brother, Irrational Fucking Confidence.
/r/askMRP25/10/17 02:35 PM
1

The greater good doesn't exist. It's the greater evil. That may be how it is in your frame, not how it is in mine.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/17 07:56 PM
1

That's great man, shoot me an email at the end of it or during if you have anything you want to ask/share.
/r/askMRP24/10/17 07:16 PM
2

Fear is no excuse Decide on what you want your future to look like, then make that happen. Set a high bar & live your life.
/r/askMRP24/10/17 07:02 PM
1

Completely agree
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/17 07:01 PM
3

Marriage is a risk. It's less of a risk for men who've properly vetted their woman and are RP Aware. The fact that you're so afraid of her cheating concerns me more than anything else. If it is your prerogative to get married, do it and remain a man who, if his lady did cheat, would still come out of it alive. Your girl is a part of your mission, she isn't the end goal of it.
/r/askMRP24/10/17 06:04 PM
2

I tell people it's gay. They know better than to press me or I'll open the can of: People want to appear happy when they aren't. People track you, they aren't your friend. Everyone compares their lives which makes them hate their own. People get upset at not getting likes. For Some, Facebook is great. For most, it's a fucking time vampire which makes you feel connected to people you don't really know.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/17 05:58 PM
36

GENUINELY not fake, happy being his wifes doormat. No person on earth would be happy being anyone's doormat. It isn't just the married crew, look at men who are doormats to their boss, their girlfriend, young men are doormats to their friends and family, etc. This isn't a married man's problem, it's a person's problem. Man or woman, you need to stand up for what it is you believe and refuse to take anything laying down. This is why I push the concept of Authentic Living so much. you have such a …
/r/TheRedPill24/10/17 05:53 PM
1

True I'm looking forward to the next 5 years when the younger guys move into mid twenties early thirties armed w/ way more than I had.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/17 05:49 PM
1

The entire post is at the blog. I like to personalize my format so I leave the end of most pieces off so people can get the full effect on the blog.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/17 05:48 PM
1

Nice I'll have to add that to my Dime & Time Vampire groupings.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/17 05:47 PM
13

I'm running a T-Shirt campaign now on Twitter. Basically, buy a shirt & you'll be a part of the next program which will be even larger than #MenofMarch. It's going to be called #DecemberofDiscipline & as I have finished my Master's and the baseball season will be over, I will be in the trenches with each man as well as opening my email and skype along with a few other perks. A lot of men are saying 2018 will be their year, I figured there is no better way for them to actually make that happen th…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/17 05:34 PM
2

Negative, no logs for me.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/17 03:07 PM
2

This comment is gold and is exactly what I'm talking about.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/17 03:07 PM
1

I think we bring a balance with our writing styles, like opposite sides of the same coin. But I can see what you mean by being tainted from the crazies exposed to growing up. They show nice, then sink the fangs in. Sometimes I think I'm just living in this weird paradox from the rest of the world.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/17 01:28 PM
1

It isn't about the woman, it's about you. If you die protecting a loved one or rising to the occasion, so be it. You died in a manner you deemed fit, whatever happened before or after matters not.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/17 01:06 PM
1

So find those words and share them
/r/TheRedPill24/10/17 01:05 PM
2

That's why I enjoy Twitter, I only follow those who challenge me to perform at a higher standard. In "Real Life" there are few who do this.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/17 01:04 PM
1

Perfect response. I did a periscope where I said the same, "You aren't forced from the group, they're left behind."
/r/TheRedPill24/10/17 01:03 PM
4

This is why I share my failures as well as success. Not too many people fuck with the dude who lives authentically.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/17 01:03 PM
2

Nailed it
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/17 01:02 PM
1

100%
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/17 01:02 PM
1

Put yourself out there and run with it, the alternative is repression of self which is death to me.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/17 01:01 PM
1

Fear is healthy, but it's 2017 & most people's fears are unfounded.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/17 01:00 PM
3

Masculine Men Walk Their Path Alone
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/17 07:36 PM
5

Overconfidence - Cocky Irrational Confidence - Competence & Confidence
/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 07:18 PM
1

Ready & waiting
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/17 06:40 PM
2

Thanks man
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/17 06:11 PM
2

As the head coach of my Son's Little League team, I appreciate the example.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 06:11 PM
2

That's a solid idea, not getting what you want should act as fuel for improving tactics as opposed to an anchor which makes you quit trying.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/17 06:05 PM
9

IDGAF + Irrational Confidence is all 90% of the men struggling need in their life. That minor shift in perspective does wonders for quality of life.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 05:45 PM
5

Similar to the concept of Smiling in the Rubble. Men embrace the suck in a way women will never understand.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/17 05:44 PM
24

Irrational Confidence is key.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 05:05 PM
1

There is too much backstory to this dude than I'm aware of. He wants to fuck his wife in her sleep, he has issues. You want to say your crew isn't your problem, you're a shit captain. This situation is out of any advice I can provide, too much history I missed.
/r/askMRP11/09/17 04:02 PM
1

Roger, didn't see that until after, was checking from my phone.
/r/askMRP07/09/17 01:12 PM
2

I think we're in a world which has become 'Hollywoodized' where everyone thinks there has to be some cataclysmic event required to turn it around. Just start doing, start enjoying life, stop following the narrative of society, stop trying to impress MRP guys and lead your family. From there, everything else will fall into place.
/r/askMRP07/09/17 11:12 AM
1

?
/r/askMRP07/09/17 11:06 AM
3

Do you even know what red pill is about No clue, I'm new to all this 'pill' stuff.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/17 08:28 PM
2

This is real world leadership by a man who is married. This is advice & an example for others to follow, but a red pill man who is leading his family. This is a warning for others to prepare for this shit because having a family does not make you exempt from the insanity the world will throw at you. You didn't get any of that from this??
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/17 07:56 PM
1

Glad you linked to this. I would never wish this upon anyone, but it's great to see those who rise to the occasion. Every man has dreamed of what he would do when he got the call. Few actualize it. Well done /u/BogeyD6, rest easy brother.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/17 07:36 PM
1

Back story helps, I need to get in here more often. She has to get over it and stay, or don't, and leave. Boom. One of the first battles/fires he has to confront & resolve.
/r/askMRP06/09/17 06:56 PM
3

Physically & Mental Prepare It isn't a matter of if you'll be tested, but rather when. Another: https://thefamilyalpha.com/2016/09/07/are-you-prepared/
/r/askMRP06/09/17 06:44 PM
5

But he admittedly fucked up the entire beginning of this. He did not implement any strategic dread 1-5, he fumble fucked his way through it. She may be a woman who can be easily 'converted' to his direction. He needs to unfuck him and stop viewing her as the enemy before she digs deeper and makes this much worse than it is.
/r/askMRP06/09/17 06:38 PM
4

Flip the switch man. Just start living the life you want and don't disregard everything she says. If she is saying Jekyll & Hyde then maybe you're swinging from hot to cold as your mentally working out on presence and removing attention. Let there be a comfortable middle ground. This isn't major shit man, it's simple shit amplified. Get back to laughing. Don't Forget to Enjoy the ride
/r/askMRP06/09/17 06:35 PM
-1

I'm aware of that. The problem is, OP isn't. Thus, my comment isn't an order for OP, but rather a seed to be planted in his mind.
/r/askMRP06/09/17 06:30 PM
6

Prior to the main event, she doesn't want to be led. Says who? You can't just make up a point like that. Many women would fall in line as soon as their husband unfucks himself, no 'main event' needed.
/r/askMRP06/09/17 06:29 PM
13

I am going to need more detail then that The fuck kind of sentence is that? Are you a cyborg? I dont want to cheat on you but now you see that I do have options. If you have to say it, you aren't doing it right. Here's an idea: Lead Lead her to a better place where she feels it's the two of you vs the world as opposed to being against each other. She should bring balance and peace to your life, not this bullshit insanity. Don't talk to her like she is some retarded computer program that requires…
/r/askMRP06/09/17 05:19 PM
1

It was
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/17 04:35 PM
4

Relevant: My Wife, the balance to my masculine Her Value Awesome Sex Frequently Great Cook Interesting Person Feminine Youthful Balance to my sometimes serious demeanor Great Cook Someone who knows when I'm giving my all or not A person I trust to Raise my kids Someone who keeps my castle clean while I run the kingdom Awesome Blowjobs Another motivated individual who I take pride in leading as well as observing her achieve her own personal and professional goals. A reliable person to help me get…
/r/askMRP06/09/17 02:44 PM
3

You have to create an environment which fosters this type of relationship. you have to actively Create your slut You can't just say, "I want more anal" and expect her to give it. This is your wife, not some prostitute you have a monetary agreement with.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/17 02:39 PM
1

Relevant: Baseball & Letting your Son become a Man Also Relevant: Your son is the Heir, that does not make your Daughter the Spare
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/17 02:37 PM
1

Because we're romantics Because we want that fairy tale life even though we know it doesn't exist. Because as the leaders of our family, we know that we are responsible for their well-being and sometimes we assume too much responsibility and feel that we should fix every negative. There is nothing wrong with this, just keep it in check and ensure you aren't compromising your authentic nature to keep the peace.
/r/askMRP06/09/17 02:31 PM
5

Get over the past or it will kill you. If you can't stop thinking of how she was getting railed in her youth, then get a divorce as you'll spend the rest of your life trying to out fuck ghosts. She doesn't owe you her submission as it isn't given, it is earned. If you were a masculine man living life, then you'd have this slut of your own who you could treat like your little play thing. Unfuck your mindset - jealousy, feeling inadequate, etc. These are going to work against you. Do what you want…
/r/askMRP06/09/17 02:29 PM
8

We're all in this together. I share my notes on life hoping it helps others.
/r/askMRP06/09/17 02:12 PM
5

It's a gift.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/17 07:59 PM
5

Me too
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/17 07:51 PM
1

If he were American we'd have an issue as there can only be one U S Sailor. He's Canadian, should be a good time.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/17 03:54 PM
1

Thanks
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/17 03:53 PM
1

Thanks man, this is my first live event. Pumped
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/17 03:53 PM
1

Solid distinction.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/17 03:52 PM
5

Spoken like someone who has never led. In the Navy I had 45 who worked directly for me. Each of them were grown men, each of them were my responsibility. On this subreddit the Captain/First Mate dynamic is promoted. You cannot have that if you do not view your wife to be your responsibility. She needs a husband to guide her through this as much as men need the feminine to keep us grounded. You're too busy viewing this as Husbands vs Wives that you aren't capable of making it Husband & Wife vs th…
/r/askMRP13/08/17 04:35 PM
1

I just reread my comment; he struck a nerve.
/r/askMRP12/08/17 10:37 PM
1

That's perfect. Building a Solid foundation as well as greater appreciation for those the equipment as well as those who came before.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/17 06:30 PM
5

I call it Intentional Discomfort
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/17 05:57 PM
1

Very few examples. One of the reasons I cancelled cable.
/r/askMRP12/08/17 05:54 PM
1

Understood. Yes, wives should be the responsibility of their husband. Unfortunately, most husbands have chosen to play the role of Man-Child taking on the persona of Peter Griffin & Homer Simpson over that of a masculine leader.
/r/askMRP12/08/17 05:10 PM
1

Are you saying your wife is not your responsibility?
/r/askMRP12/08/17 04:58 PM
1

No problem
/r/askMRP12/08/17 04:56 PM
21

She's your fucking wife, not some bitch of a plate you're spinning. She had to put up with your weak fatass for how many years? Now you unfuck yourself and she doesn't get the perks? You seem like you're a dick and I feel sorry for your wife. If your wife is filling her role & she is telling you that she wants more of you in her life, why make it an issue? Lead the woman, be present. That doesn't mean grovel and make her your purpose in life, but you married her so she is your responsibility.
/r/askMRP12/08/17 02:17 PM
1

Yes
/r/askMRP12/08/17 01:49 PM
8

Truth hurts Now you know how she views you. What to do when called meek? Obviously run to the internet and tell other men, that's something that will prove her wrong. Look, you have three choices here: 1) Be butt hurt and walk around feeling sorry for yourself. 2) Try to overcompensate to 'show her' which will make you look even more pathetic. 3) Recognize that you've been playing it safe and that has been recognized by others. Once you accept this you can then look at ways you can show your wif…
/r/askMRP12/08/17 01:46 PM
1

Did you read my son's fight. I focus a lot on his Rite of Passage.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/17 03:35 AM
1

Which one?
/r/askMRP08/08/17 08:18 PM
1

When she acts like a parent, they'll respect her as one.
/r/askMRP07/08/17 11:43 PM
5

Nailed it nucka
/r/askMRP11/07/17 07:58 PM
3

Solid post There should be no fucks to give on others walking their path. Walk your own path, make your life great, experience all you can, & leave behind a shredded corpse.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/17 07:46 PM
5

She wants a clean house and you're on Reddit, isn't the end of the world. I'd do my laundry before being asked, but that's me. Instead of turning to the internet, why not just tell your girl that you'll get it done when you get back or she can do it for you if she feels it needs to be done right now. I feel like we shouldn't have to tell you how to adult or speak to your woman.
/r/askMRP29/06/17 07:42 PM
4

You'd like this
/r/askMRP29/06/17 06:27 PM
4

Just do man Just stop thinking about it and go fucking do something.
/r/askMRP29/06/17 05:18 PM
8

Easier said than done. You get momentum at work, when your watching a YouTube video, or reading a blog post and then it comes time to execute, but you can't. You can't because: You're Tired The kids need your time The bathroom needs work You'll start another day You've got plans There's lawn work to be done You need to research more for the right diet You need to write out your goals You need to write out your month long lifting program Until you make your physique & relationship a higher priori…
/r/askMRP29/06/17 05:07 PM
10

You're undisciplined & enjoy being comfortable. Nobody is going to light that fire for you. You either want it or you don't.
/r/askMRP29/06/17 04:25 PM
7

You shouldn't have followed her around talking about it. You had some fun, move on. It isn't about keeping a tally, if you had a blast & can't finish so be it. I've fucked my wife bowlegged and haven't finished because I'd been drinking or whatever, no big deal. Smile and laugh, life is too short for anything else.
/r/askMRP18/06/17 06:59 PM
3

You're unattractive & have no game. Learn how to flirt & not act like a teen who wants to see his first pair of Tits.
/r/askMRP18/06/17 02:40 PM
4

OP, did you see this comment? This two letter word is one of the most underutilized communication tools out there. Tell the mooches, "No." Then let them know that you have plans for your family and their financial mishandling does constitute an emergency or responsibility on your part. Do not be a martyr, tell your in-laws that you can help them create a budget, but you will no longer serve as their 'bail out' fund. Or You can be a pussy and keep stringing the Dime-Vampires along until they suck…
/r/askMRP18/06/17 02:39 PM
1

Thank you & keep up the good work leading the family man.
/r/askMRP17/06/17 09:43 PM
1

Today I coached my kid's baseball team & we won the semi-finals. I then went home & we played some more baseball (practiced pitching, my son is starting in the championship game humble brag) then we watched some Bob's Burgers & begged the fuck out. You don't need to reach the peak of Everest every day, but god damn, you can let screens raise your kids and be so boring that your wife is more interested in a show.
/r/askMRP17/06/17 08:48 PM
9

You aren't against this woman, you know that right? Why not make her a part of your improvement? Knock this shit out together and have both yourself and your wife experience the great aspects to living an authentic life vs continuing to live in accordance with the narrative society has written for you.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/17 06:45 PM
2

Was she always like this? Why did you marry her?
/r/askMRP16/06/17 07:09 PM
8

1) Say something (even mentioning it) and come off as a complete butthurt beta bitch Or you could talk to your woman and not think you're a bitch for doing so. You don't want her doing something because other guys will move in, say so. If she tells you to fuck off, now you know where you rank in her priorities. 2) Say nothing and recognize that she is not mine, it is only my turn. (I fucking hate RP) Embrace the reality over the comfortable lie. 2a) Say nothing and find a hot bitch at my yoga cl…
/r/askMRP16/06/17 06:26 PM
6

I cannot hold frame the way I would like to when angry. Frame = reality You shouldn't have to hold frame as it isn't something you do, it's who you are. It's OK to be angry, it's a part of being a man. We are simultaneously the more violent and romantic of the sexes. You are walking this 'life path' alone, embrace that. Recognize you have very few breathes and you can either use them pissed or you can find comfort in the discomfort. Learn to Smile in the Rubble Life is good brother, then it's go…
/r/askMRP16/06/17 06:22 PM
3

IM heavily influenced my interest in this aspect to understanding interaction with others. I think I reference that exact post in my own. Must read for those interested.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/17 05:44 PM
6

Machiavelli for the Married Man
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/17 05:33 PM
2

On top of what the other guys have offered, do you go at it more than once a night? Let's say you explode at the 30 second mark, wait until your unit recharges then get it going again, you should last much longer. Also, are you jerking it to porn? If so, you may have conditioned yourself to cum asap.
/r/askMRP16/06/17 01:07 PM
3

Progress
/r/askMRP16/06/17 12:15 AM
1

I'd like to see a resurgence in the act of ceremonial commitment vs marriage. Buy a ring, have her legally change her last name, no need for the contract. EDIT I'm the wrong one to ask if I'd ever get married again as I've found a way to make it work and have become the exception which proves the rule. Don't base decisions around exceptions.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 10:17 AM
1

I agree with you on this and think your head is in the right place. Even if a chick shows she is low value, you adjust your intentions and move forward, no big deal.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 03:45 AM
3

Success begets success Always remember Confident > conceited Dominant > domineering
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 02:41 AM
24

It shouldn't be Online Dating it should be Online hookup scheduling as anything more than setting a time & place is a waste. Let the thirsty men request 'friendships' over the internet while you go out into the real world and meet women, like real men do.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 07:58 PM
34

Women love sex too, but to your point, once you know this and are ok with it, life is just easier. Yep, bitches want your dick and they'll take whatever else you'll give them too. Such is life, better guy with better genes and resources comes around, you may lose her, so be it. Women are women, love them for their feminine nature, it keeps us from being too serious all the time. Just don't try to make them something they're not (men) or that one of them is special (she isn't). Find comfort in th…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 07:54 PM
5

You're the container, she's the water. She fills the form you give her in the relationship.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 07:25 PM
6

You got married, got fat, wife stuck with you through it all, and even though she's done what's been asked now you aren't even sure if marriage is for you. Good luck man, you're a fuck.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/17 07:22 PM
7

She isn't your mother man. She is your girl. Does her argument have validity? Did you say you were going to do something, then got too lazy and didn't do it? How can I help you without having any sort of idea as to the context of the situation. There are no blanket pieces of advice, each situation is unique as is the relationship, check out my blog directory or the many other resources out there which provide ample information on what you should be doing.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 07:07 PM
19

So should I just let her win every argument? How in the actual fuck did you get that from what I said?
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 06:41 PM
10

A Vet properly B Fill your role as a man. the fact that she argues shows me that you've allowed her to argue with you since you've been together. C Stop viewing it as Me vs Her, she will submit to your leadership when she trusts you not to crash the ship into rocks. you've yet to do that. Start by fixing you, your wife is a reflection of your performance.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 06:29 PM
393

Tell me I can't and I'll show you I can Irrational self-confidence, a trait shared by all masculine men. The voice in your head is the greatest enemy you'll ever face. He knows everything about you; your weaknesses, your fears, your desires, he can rationalize you into and out of everything. The only way to overpower the voice inside is through action, it's through finding comfort in the discomfort. Soon, you'll develop a sense of self which silences the critic in the stands, leaving you there t…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 06:27 PM
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1) LIFT: this is overdone so I don't feel the need to elaborate. Improve posture/presence Groom facial hair, nose hair, ear hair, use beard oils Get haircuts regularly, nobody wants a dude with a scarf of hair around his neck Wear clothes that accentuate your fit figure i.e. dress properly. Even if you're fat you can wear clothes that make you look good until you aren't a ham planet. 2) Game: What is the fucking problem with guys approaching and chatting up girls? There are all sorts of PUA hand…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 06:24 PM
3

There are phases to this, but I asked the question, now you know that there will come a time where you're able to decipher when to give a fuck & when not to engage. It isn't Us vs them
/r/askMRP14/06/17 06:15 PM
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There's significant evidence that everyone has become retarded. Not all relationships are cucks and sexually deprived harpies, there are people who are making it, so saying created a planner may not mean scheduled entire life. You do you man.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 06:15 PM
2

If it works keep it up, my opinion doesn't mean shit, I was just asking the question/making the statement. You did dodge my more important point.
/r/askMRP14/06/17 05:59 PM
1

That's my point, your default is that men in relationships are retarded lol
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 05:58 PM
2

Then ignore it, I was just thinking of seeing OP at the grocery store near my house trying this on my wife, made me laugh, I shared. Should I run the rest of my comments through you for approval?
/r/askMRP14/06/17 05:32 PM
1

Very well, we all have our preferences. My #1 spot - airport or hotel any bar.
/r/askMRP14/06/17 05:31 PM
3

I think OP cold approaching in a grocery store is a wasted effort. Coffee shops, parks, other more 'open' places where people aren't getting in getting out would get him actually having to hold his own besides small chatter, escalation, etc. A lot of women are looking to get in and get out. EDIT To add what I've said before, if it works and build his confidence, then good on him. It's the location, not cold approaching itself which I find odd.
/r/askMRP14/06/17 05:25 PM
2

Thanks for responding, too bad your friend couldn't lower the blinders and consider that maybe there was more than the one path which has been promoted for the past 30 or so years.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/17 05:23 PM
1

It's like the dude who told her she had "Runner's Calves" to which she responded with, "That's what m,y husband says" then 9ignored the guy. I don't see grocery store being the place to cold approach. If it works for OP, go for it. If nothing else, it helps get rid of the fear of approaching, it's location more than action which has me somewhat curious as to his logic.
/r/askMRP14/06/17 05:21 PM
1

I couldn't keep track of my son's baseball, my appointments, and her work schedule. So to help me when dealing with when I could make appointments, she laid out the families schedule for me, like a solid woman who sees an area where she can assist her man.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 05:18 PM
1

I have conversations with men & women at random places, but never like that, seems weird. If it works, then it works. Coffee shop makes sense to me, grocery store, not so much.
/r/askMRP14/06/17 05:15 PM
5

Scan the Directory from the blog. I've got all sorts of stuff in there.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 05:13 PM
10

Hey man, I could link you to 10 posts to my site, but I'll let you search and just have a man to man talk. Where I'm coming from Married 8 years 7 yr old son 4 yr old daughter awesome sex life enjoying every moment with wife & kids still pursuing my own goals. The way to achieve this is through intentional, dedicated, strategic balance. There is no room for I deserve more or If only I didn't have kids as that is just wasting time. So what to do? Work around it all. You've got to take the kids ou…
/r/askMRP14/06/17 05:09 PM
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A) You remind me of MilfHunter trying to get chicks at the grocery store. If you did that to my wife, she'd laugh in your face and walk without answering you, but if it build confidence, go for it. B) I saw her face looked pretty stressed. Not my problem your wife's mental health is not your problem? Aren't you trying to be the leader of your family, an 'alpha' male, someone who sets the standard from which all others will be measured? If so, everything needs to be run through a filter of do I n…
/r/askMRP14/06/17 03:17 PM
7

Have you ever mowed your lawn, then when complete grabbed a drink and looked upon the manicured piece of land you own? That's pride. Ever built anything? Helped anyone achieve their goal? Soothed the fear of another with your presence? That's all pride.
/r/askMRP14/06/17 02:50 PM
1

I'd like to see a resurgence of 'ceremonial bonds' vs marriage. Have her legally change her name, buy the ring if you choose to, make babies if you'd like, but no contract or 'common laws'. Together by choice, not force. She performs, man stays, she doesn't and man leaves, he loses nothing.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 02:49 PM
1

Life is too short to live a single minute of it for someone else.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/17 02:19 PM
1

Let me know how she took it, I don't know of many (any?) women who are reading my writing.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/17 02:18 PM
1

Oh god.... running your life then? Come on man, you're better than little pot shots. My record should show this isn't the case, you seem to have an issue with saying anything positive about men in relationships.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 02:17 PM
2

You gotta make it work for you man, it's possible and if it isn't, why stay together?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/17 02:15 PM
1

No problem.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/17 02:10 PM
1

Love w/ reality in mind vs romantic desire. I see your point on it taking a blog post to cover the topic because there is quite a bit to be said. to prevent word vomit covering the whole thing, I see what you're saying and think that RP love is definitely different and more rewarding than bp love.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/17 02:10 PM
1

great example
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/17 02:08 PM
1

Good to see you aren't dead and still care enough to respond to me.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/17 02:07 PM
3

It's almost like I know what I'm talking about.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/17 02:07 PM
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Dominant > Domineering Arguing & forcing your girl to follow you will never provide the same satisfaction as inspiring your girl to follow you. Submission is taken, yet never forced. To have a woman drop to her knees to blow you without coercion will fill you with a sense of satisfaction which could never be obtained if you were to beg and plead for it. The comes from men. Your brothers will follow you if you have proven yourself as a leader. You'll experience greater loyalty and results than if…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 02:06 PM
2

There are benefits Awesome Sex Frequently Great Cook Interesting Person Feminine Youthful Balance to my sometimes serious demeanor Great Cook Someone who knows when I'm giving my all or not A person I trust to Raise my kids Someone who keeps my castle clean while I run the kingdom Awesome Blowjobs Another motivated individual who I take pride in leading as well as observing her achieve her own personal and professional goals. A reliable person to help me get the top on/off my Jeep with ease No w…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 08:00 PM
1

First paragraph was hilarious, last paragraph was spot on.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 07:40 PM
1

My experience with my LTR/Marriage is significantly different than your's, we'll never share a perspective on the pro/con. Regardless of that, this is about the man doing and feeling as he pleases without any regard as to what the female takes from it.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 07:21 PM
2

Men are similar to dogs, we're happiest when exhausted.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/17 06:36 PM
0

You spent quite a few words talking as if your experience was the only option there is. Women are women, no need to base their response on your enjoyment of the world. Love freely, they won't change but you'll enjoy the ride to the grave.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 06:34 PM
2

Finding comfort in the discomfort.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/17 06:26 PM
2

As with all things in life, healthy balance is necessary.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 06:25 PM
1

I didn't know he did YouTube, also the message he shares is exactly what I'm talking about.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 06:19 PM
1

Exactly
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/17 06:17 PM
1

Every day is Buffalo Chicken & Blowjobs day in my house
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/17 06:16 PM
3

I see your point & hope men view this exchange to clarify the writing.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 04:35 PM
1

Thanks man.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/17 04:34 PM
1

Agreed with the point on the plate, but I think it happens more often than most re willing to admit. They say they're spinning plates, yet are deeply hurt when exclusivity on the pussy is lost.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/17 04:34 PM
4

You do whatever you want, nobody is convincing you otherwise.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 04:32 PM
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Yep, if you decided to keep her around, then you've got to move forward without looking back. By keeping her in your life, you're saying, I may not forgive you, but I do not hold this against you
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/17 04:31 PM
3

Even then, divorce isn't the end. You can recover from anything. Frame = Reality
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 04:30 PM
15

It must be total absolution of 'nice guy' tendencies. Love the way men Love, not the way men have been told to love. Woman comes - great Woman goes - equally great, life goes on. Men must experience the joy of total immersion in the moment, total expression of self. Our romantic nature is ours, not to be influenced by anyone else. I try to paint with a broad stroke so that the new guy & expert can both take something away.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 12:57 PM
7

Most guys are too stupid & talk to much, those who get it use it as they wish.
/r/askMRP09/06/17 12:06 PM
8

Great timing with this. My wife wanted to start a blog for a business venture she is taking on and asked for my assistance. I've built her the foundation of a blog and gave her advice on how to move forward. While she was playing around with it she frustratingly said "when you started your's you made it look easy" to which I replied That's because I never complained when it was hard. I helped her avoid some pitfalls that I fell into but if I were to do this for her it would take away the joy and…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/17 11:01 AM
2

That's a great question for the mods
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 10:34 AM
1

Brilliant. I'll craft something along the lines of my Masculine Moves
/r/askMRP09/06/17 10:26 AM
1

Thanks man and honestly, who steals radios nowadays?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/17 02:47 AM
1

To directly answer your question, yes. To elaborate, you give the first one all you've got. For some, the second is better than the first as they learned their lessons, for most others, the fear o the unknown is gone, they know what will happen, they know they'll survive on their own so the fear of divorce is no longer an unknown fear. My question to you, what would you get from a second marriage that you could not get from an exclusive LTR?
/r/askMRP09/06/17 01:26 AM
2

Holy shit man, I'll see myself out
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/17 01:09 AM
1

I've toyed with the idea. Not going to happen soon, but someday I'll pull the trigger.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 01:07 AM
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Have fun with it man, don't get caught up on every day. I've had 7x a week Sometimes (last night) 3x in one night Then other times 2 days with 0. Enjoy her presence, life is too short to worry if you're keeping up with Ron Jeremy.
/r/askMRP09/06/17 01:00 AM
1

True, but a majority here need to just start, then it will find them.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/17 12:57 AM
4

$300 worth of Dynamat Ha! This is supposed to be my safe space...
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/17 12:56 AM
3

Or you could roll your windows up and not try to get attention like a female. I find it odd that you would view listening to music loud as attention seeking. Have you never just wanted to jam at level 10? I guess I' not as musically sophisticated as you. To me, it's about losing yourself in the music not attention, then again. Someone who says, "you don't have the $300 worth of Dynamat in your vehicle to make destructive coupling go away." is probably a douche, so I'm good not fitting your descr…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 12:55 AM
2

You hit the nail on the head.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/17 12:52 AM
2

I feel sad for wives that have dead bedrooms, but don't feel bad for the husbands, it's their fault. Same here Wasting a perfectly good woman.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 12:51 AM
2

Exactly why I always have the Jeep stripped down.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/17 12:32 AM
1

Thanks man
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/17 08:38 PM
3

I see what you did there and I like it.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/17 08:38 PM
10

You've got to mix it up man. Sometimes you've got to fuck her mind into oblivion. Sometimes you've got to sit down, share some wine, and watch Netflix then go to bed. I doubt anyone enjoys the frequency and quality of sex I am having with my wife and we are both enjoying it. There are times where we're laughing in the middle of it. You can't keep a running tally, as if you have to have sex or something is wrong. As soon as sex is scheduled or planned, it loses the passionate aspect to it. There …
/r/askMRP08/06/17 07:40 PM
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but I really appreciate you bringing it up/starting the convo here. That's what it's all about man. Swapping notes, figuring out how to best navigate this adventure we call life with our fellow man.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/17 01:59 PM
3

Excellent, every man should give this topic some sincere thought. Too many are drifting aimlessly towards death, at some point you've got to grab the oars.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/17 01:52 PM
2

Bro, just do. It was a recognition of weight loss.
/r/askMRP08/06/17 12:46 PM
3

Why wouldn't you just read and apply, see if it works, and decide for yourself? This may not be the best place, or it might. all that matters is what you do, not what you read.
/r/askMRP08/06/17 12:23 PM
1

Negative. But you do you.
/r/askMRP08/06/17 12:21 PM
3

I recently had this exact discussion, I took a lower paying job because it gave me freedom. I can't buy back lost time in the office. Proper budgeting & you will want for nothing.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/17 11:10 PM
1

I lift with my wife I've made her cry multiple times coaching her, but every time she thanks me for getting those last few reps/push-ups/sprints out of her. As long as she gives her all, even if she is bitching the whole time I'm ok with it as I keep my tempo up w/ or w/ out her.
/r/askMRP07/06/17 07:49 PM
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My family rejected me. My wife hated me. My mother told me to get my shit together. My brother sold me out. My sister lectured me. I kept going. I lifted, I read, I STFU'd, I AM'd, I AA'd, I got my finances in order, I got my social life back, I started pursuing hobbies again, I killed my oneitis and started following my fucking path - my way. This is what separates the men from the boys. This is when you realize that the masculine man walks his path alone, truly alone. It's when you realize tha…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/17 07:47 PM
1

but knocking a girl up just like that, that feels way too careless and reckless. Like what? Not all kids are accidents lol but unless you've shit yourself, and allow your shit to stay there, then this post is going to be good too. I laughed out loud at this; thanks?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/17 10:34 PM
3

I agree Yukon Cornelius may not
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/17 10:31 PM
16

This is the perspective I want to introduce others to. It isn't Husband vs Wife Kids aren't shackles who robbed your freedom. They can be fuel, not anchors.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/17 08:51 PM
5

I'm in a similar situation. My job is the standard 40hrs, but I get a shit ton of leave time as I travel now and then and the hours translate to "comp days". I can leave early/arrive as late as I please and take a week off whenever I want. Here's the thing, I make $43k a year (W/ Navy monthly stipend for shoulder injury I make $58k) the salary is lower than I could get, but the hours are exactly what I want. My wife works & we manage our funds properly so that while we aren't making 6 figures co…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/17 07:48 PM
5

Agreed We are no man's judge, only our own. We must judge ourselves firmly & fairly. Having a man objectively assess his performance is no easy tasking.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/17 07:37 PM
5

Many lives are completely wasted by men who build the dreams of others while leaving their own to rot. Time is our most precious resource & we all must spend it a little more intentionally. I think MRP has helped quite a few recognize this.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/17 06:50 PM
2

What did she say that hit you so deep?
/r/askMRP06/06/17 06:32 PM
10

You get what you've earned, nothing more or less. Well done.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/17 06:19 PM
1

I did ancestry and me & come to find out, I'm 98% ruhtard.
/r/askMRP04/06/17 03:03 AM
1

I hope you become a successful billionaire
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/17 01:09 AM
3

What?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/17 09:07 PM
5

Thanks man, I actually just updated that post. No matter what I write, that's always my #1 viewed post of the day/week/month.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/17 07:55 PM
1

If I see the men find it of use, I'll update the book to include it as a reference.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/17 07:30 PM
3

Me too man, subreddit is bare-bones right now. This weekend I plan to spruce it up.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/17 07:24 PM
20

Excellent work man. Sometimes, she needs to miss you.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/17 07:16 PM
3

True. Always improving. Say something stupid and you'll learn something smart.
/r/askMRP02/06/17 05:32 PM
19

It's the internet man, everyone has a voice. Just don't be a fucking retard.
/r/askMRP02/06/17 04:07 PM
3

Your wife is a reflection of your performance.
/r/askMRP02/06/17 03:06 PM
1

You do you
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/17 08:46 PM
11

I have no clue how long OP has been at this. Days, months, years. The sooner you decide to keep or dump, the better. Life is short brother, don't waste a breath.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/17 07:40 PM
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She's your wife, not your nanny. If she serves no other purpose, why stay married? If you completely withdraw, how will that improve the dynamic between the two of you? She won't suddenly crave you because you're better looking and OI. You found TRP, she didn't. You've got a group of men guiding you, she doesn't. Why not lead her to a better place if you want marriage? If you don't, why not pursue divorce? The shit relationship will be toxic for your kids and will warp their sense of masculine/f…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/17 07:12 PM
25

When you no longer need a woman, she'll want you.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/17 07:05 PM
13

You're their girlfriend. You chat, watch movies, get brunch. That's cute.
/r/askMRP01/06/17 04:37 PM
1

It's great when you aren't the only one who has something to talk about. We all need to ensure we leading our families to points where they are improving & breaking free from society's poison as much as we are.
/r/askMRP01/06/17 02:58 PM
10

my wife and have not been having sex as frequently as I find to be necessary. You're fat and you aren't gaming her/creating a sexually charged environment This has me very irritated. Not enough to get in shape apparently. Would it be okay to eliminate some of these privileges until the sex increases? "I'm taking your things away until you have sex with me" Attraction is non-negotiable
/r/askMRP01/06/17 12:48 PM
2

I've been on a Goldmund Unleashed binge since that post. I've got a few works based off his writing, great stuff. A lot can be crossed over toward the married population.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/17 12:11 PM
3

You aren't alone in this man, don't ever forget that.
/r/askMRP31/05/17 09:04 PM
2

If that works for you then don't change anything. Each relationship is as unique as the man's fingerprint.
/r/askMRP31/05/17 08:50 PM
6

Being a responsible adult is not chore play. I'm assuming OP will lead, not write covert contracts.
/r/askMRP31/05/17 08:40 PM
0

It was nothing. Just smile & say, will do
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/17 07:33 PM
13

You can start making it fun again. you can remove the Me vs You which has built up between your wife and your self. you can ensure that your wife has passions and hobbies outside the home. You can ensure that everyone knows what the standard is by setting it yourself. Leaders pick up the heaviest thing first and put it down last, all the while they tend to those they lead and delegate the tasks accordingly.
/r/askMRP31/05/17 05:02 PM
11

Bro, ask and you shall receive. Masculine Moves Creating your Slut Be Unpredictable YMMV Don't Forget to Enjoy the Ride 10 Ways to Keep Your Wife on Her Toes Balancing The Scales There are a bunch more, just check out the marriage section of my blog in The directory If you need to reclaim your sense of self I just published a book 31 Days to Masculinity: A Guide to Help Men Live Authentic Lives available in both Kindle & Paperback. If you choose to go that route, I just created a subreddit /r/31…
/r/askMRP31/05/17 04:59 PM
4

Are you saying you realized you didn't need her when she was there, yet when she was gone you needed her. (See Hamster) As for the hard no, maybe you aren't as cute & playful as you think as she should be sexually frustrated as well. She doesn't want to fuck you because you aren't building attraction between the two of you.
/r/askMRP31/05/17 04:46 PM
6

Married for 8, together for 14. My wife is a champ. She is submissive, funny, sexual, and just a natural feminine chick. We don't always care about the same shit and I constantly remind her that I'm not her girlfriend and don't give a shit about what tiffany wore to work today. What she brings to my life is worth dealing with some of the more retarded conversations we've had. At the same time, we've had some incredibly insightful discussions as my wife is rather intelligent, way more book smart …
/r/askMRP31/05/17 04:44 PM
10

I wrote about exactly this in my post The Void. You've made improvements already which is great. now you need to take a look at life from an authentic point of view. What is it that you want to do. Does that align with what you are doing? A lot of guys who are bummed out/depressed/victim mindset guys are actually suffering from a repression of self. They're working a job they hate and so busy trying to keep up with consumption that they never stop to feel a breeze, see the colors in the world, a…
/r/askMRP31/05/17 04:40 PM
3

I go to bed because I have to get up in the morning you chose sleep over sex? Why didn't you guys go at it like animals after the pillow fight? My god man, I go mad after 2 days of no release. mopey while she was gone, I didn't NEED her in my life this doesn't make sense
/r/askMRP31/05/17 04:26 PM
21

You sound like an entitled prick who thinks he's deserving of more than he really is. Making money doesn't equal attraction or submission. Expecting a spotless house from a woman who is homeschooling and around 3 kids all day is not 'alpha'. Your wife probably doesn't even have an identity of her own as she is with kids daily then has an adult man child doing stupid shit and not helping when he gets home. Caring for your family isn't a second job, they'd all be dialed in if they had a masculine …
/r/askMRP31/05/17 04:22 PM
1

She knows I'm attractive and she knows I'm confident. She also knows that because I am these things, that she has to keep herself together as well. This is dread. It is a form of conditioning, but my point was that it isn't as simple as A=B i.e. Dog whistle = Salivating mouths. Your woman is more complex and you need to see that. These games aren't going to get you the sexual relationship you want. Developing greater attraction will.
/r/askMRP31/05/17 03:08 PM
6

You can't condition your woman to react the way you would your dog. My dog knows when he sits, Lays, etc that he'll get something. You need to develop attraction with your wife. Trying to get her to associate sex, w/ you leaving notes for her to do things isn't going to work. Instead, work on flirting with the woman. Work on getting her to laugh and show her feminine beauty through showing masculine independence. Once you no longer need her, she'll be attracted to you. I love my wife, but she kn…
/r/askMRP31/05/17 02:28 PM
6

A new phrase I've become very fond of is always be gaming. there is no end to this, it's self-improvement and total immersion in life to the grave. Mediocrity is death, stale routine is death, become a predictable individual is death. Don't suffer death before you enter the ground. Live fiercely.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 01:15 PM
3

There has to be a standard. Those who cannot reach it or raise it will try to dilute & lower that bar because it isn't fair that they have to work for something, they believe that glory should just be given.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 01:12 PM
1

You sound like a weaksauce fuck as do a few of the guys who responded. This is ASKMrp, what is your question? Unless of course you didn't have a question but were to afraid to post in TRP or the main MRP sub.
/r/askMRP31/05/17 01:02 PM
7

an hour later i sent an eye roll text Why? Aren't you on a business trip? shouldn't you be working or at least be perceived by your wife to be working? "found your note, love you tons, but no opportunity." Translated: I don't do these things for you. In a moment of weakness i inquired about her thoughts on the note Why? This discussion could have been had in person when you came home from the trip. You could have easily said, "Babe, you do it for me and to know you're in our bed getting yourself…
/r/askMRP31/05/17 12:50 PM
2

The self-loathing needs to go. It sucks, you wanted a family and you lost it because you followed the narrative set for you vice your own. That sucks, we get it. Where do you go from there? That's up to you, this can be fuel for growth or an anchor which pulls you down to victim-hood for the rest of your days. Everything that failed, failed because you allowed it to or you didn't properly prepare, own that. It was your fault. Not moving, not the job, not the wife, not the kid - you. The reason y…
/r/askMRP31/05/17 12:14 PM
3

There is no war to be waged with anyone except your self. This is you vs you, when you choose to enter your frame & live a life where everyone wins, it will be so.
/r/askMRP30/05/17 06:57 PM
2

We had a few breakdowns There definitely was a moment where guys stopped 'playing nice'. I just did what I had to do & laughed at the absurdity of it all.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/05/17 06:52 PM
1

I plan to It can be fuel or anchor I choose fuel.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/05/17 06:47 PM
1

Drone status Must have helped you out during marching, fucking hated the redundancy without progress.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/05/17 06:38 PM
1

Ha!
/r/MarriedRedPill30/05/17 06:37 PM
2

I'm drawing the line on this one. I know I could have the surgery & then try out for the commission & schools which would physically push me, but should I? I've decided no.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/05/17 06:37 PM
1

I couldn't stop smiling. Every fucking morning the RDC would walk in (we're at attention in front of our bunks) & he'd get to me & just know I was going to smirk, then he'd fucking scream DREW ON YOUR FUCKING FACE I'M SO GLAD YOU'RE SO FUCKING HAPPY MAYBE YOU'LL FIND SOME GOD DAMN MILITARY BEARING WHILE YOU'RE DOWN THERE!!! Every morning I loved it
/r/MarriedRedPill30/05/17 06:35 PM
2

I could retest But another surgery runs the risk of further damage due to more scar tissue.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/05/17 06:32 PM
2

Actually got some bad news today. Shoulder injury from my time in the navy disqualifies me from commissioning. My decreased range of motion and the job I want are not going to jive. Had to pull the plug today.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/05/17 06:27 PM
3

Agreed Although, it got me in a lot of trouble in bootcamp
/r/MarriedRedPill30/05/17 06:19 PM
2

Bro, Do things in life because you want to do them. Give gifts because you want to give them. Never give so that you can receive; it takes away from so much that this world has to offer. You were laying your wife down and rubbing her naked body. Do you know how many men have never experienced that in their life? Now you're angry for another day, taking away from the joy you could be experiencing then. So last night you're pissed and today you're pissed and for what? What good has that done? Stop…
/r/askMRP30/05/17 06:14 PM
9

Boom. The initial joy found in sharing these thoughts is understandable as there are few places a man can talk about this shit. But at some point, they should just be mental observations. A moment of insight where you stop, pull out your compass, adjust coordinates, then get back to the grind without telling the world about it.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/05/17 06:03 PM
6

Bro, if you lead & consistently reconfirm that this is real she'll be onboard. She wants a masculine man who leads unapologetically. Side note, you need to get out of your head when talking to her. It isn't that big of a deal, have the discussions & start defaulting to masculine habits & tendencies. Be authentic with your message and this will go smooth. Try to be macho leader boss captain man and it will implode, she'll fight you every step of the way. Masculinity is a part of who you are, it's…
/r/askMRP30/05/17 05:49 PM
9

Congratulations brother, to the both of you
/r/askMRP26/05/17 07:03 PM
12

What's stopping you from leaving a woman who is giving you anxiety day in and day out?
/r/askMRP26/05/17 12:24 AM
1

It's one of the most basic of competencies required to have as an adult, yet so few pay it any attention; too comfortable.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 07:08 PM
1

Nobody is suggesting you do that. If you saw me you'd think I was a chill dude because I am. It's isn't one or the other You can be carefree & observe your surroundings.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/17 02:11 PM
1

8 years active Navy as an Engineer, not an Operator. I appreciate the advice, but I'm not sucked into the walk with fists clenched mindset, we're good.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/17 02:10 PM
2

Find a way to make her a part of your vision. It's much easier to steer a ship when the crew supports the captain.
/r/askMRP25/05/17 01:57 PM
6

Did you tell her that you had booked a hotel?
/r/askMRP25/05/17 11:14 AM
7

Your wife had a kid, congratulations man being a father is fucking awesome. In regards to the sex, stop viewing her as a woman who had your kid wife in general She is a woman, treat her as such. Flirt with her, lay game, make sure she realizes that even though her body may have changed and there might possibly be stretch marks or some weight from the baby that you still find her attractive. Make sure you're both finding time for sleep too. Don't be predictable Mr. routine man, mix things up & ma…
/r/askMRP25/05/17 11:07 AM
2

Don't feel bad for me, my marriage and life are fucking awesome
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/17 10:55 AM
4

I said the opposite. Weak men are afraid to ever say excuse me
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 12:45 AM
7

Well, at least I can say I tried
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 11:18 PM
2

I said exactly that in the post on training yourself to recognize when things are escalating so you can leave before the fight even occurs
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/17 08:35 PM
6

You seem to have this notion that it's some obnoxious all the time type thing. Nope. Also, if it works for me & you think it's dumb, why not just not do it and not worry about me?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/17 07:50 PM
3

I don't suffer from anything like that, but I could see how it's hard to turn the switch to off.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 07:36 PM
1

Maybe all of TRP should stfu because there are people doing what we're posting about better than us. Do you see how stupid that sounds?
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 07:35 PM
10

Right That wasn't my point. People always default to TERRORIST ATTACK IS RARE. This post cover preparation for anything. What if you lose power for 3 days. Do you have flashlights, books to read, spare candles, etc? People don't think of this shit and if you have kids, you need something to keep them entertained. Cards, books, etc.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 06:03 PM
8

Then disregard To the guys who will check their smoke detectors, start running, & ensure their families are prepared for the elements this post was just what they needed.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 05:39 PM
5

This shouldn't be You vs Her but somehow it's become this. You make your decision man. These are huge life decisions and you're turning to us, for what? In your frame, do you completely disregard your wife? Do you follow your mission & do what you know is best? What do you do?
/r/askMRP24/05/17 05:24 PM
3

I laugh & talk shit, life is too short to take it serious
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/17 04:57 PM
16

It's not every meal man. Maybe it's my writing, but there are certain guys who always take it to the extreme. It's OK to read something & walk away thinking, "hey, that brought up a solid point" as opposed to picking out the one thing you don't like and pinging entirely on that. Takeaway However you want to prepare yourself and your family, do that. Show them where the fire extinguisher is How to call 911 Ways out of the house Dealing with Strangers Water competency
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 04:35 PM
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I'm not paranoid Probably the most chill dude I know. I'm just aware that the families who suffer when they lose power for 3 days are suffering entirely preventable complications due to lack of preparation. This discussion plants seeds in the minds of men, look at the responses already. We get very comfortable then BAM the rug is pulled through fire, a fight, whatever. You don't have to associate preparation on this level with paranoia, I'm not saying get 6 months of food stored away. I'm saying…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 04:20 PM
9

What about attempted robbery? Bar fight? Dealing with an insane/drugged up person? Would the chances be higher then? Because this isn't just about terrorism, it's about all conflict you may face which include natural disasters such as hurricanes, flooding, etc. We must prepare for the violence, man made or not that we may face. If you read the entire post you'd see that this goes deeper.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 04:14 PM
5

No, no tunnels lol Bunkers, yes.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/17 04:12 PM
4

It's not "beta" that's addicting. It's consumption & comfort. Grinding day in and day out is hard, but it must be done. Chillen, whining, wanting your needs met without earning it, that's easy. You're doing well and are back on track, use the lapse as fuel, not an anchor.
/r/askMRP24/05/17 04:11 PM
1

Do what you gotta do man
/r/askMRP24/05/17 04:00 PM
3

Of course there is balance, yesterday I coached my son's game and had a blast - no worries. There are dates where I'm with my wife and while I face the door, I say nothing. I'm not stressed or on edge, I'm aware.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/17 03:58 PM
4

Fixed & it was Reginald Denny
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/17 03:56 PM
5

She had never thought to do anything about her fear. Powerful quote. We are all capable of doing something about what scares us. We've just been beaten into the ground with conflict averse praise. Sometimes immediate overwhelming violence is the answer.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/17 03:27 PM
3

It's truly a skill which has carry over into every other aspect to living.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/17 03:25 PM
4

Excellent takeaway & solid point regarding the need to keep the clan tight through shared objective.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 03:25 PM
1

I'm aware, I find it to be worth the risk. If I ever go radio silent, you all know why.
/r/askMRP24/05/17 03:24 PM
3

Excellent man, you're going to be called upon, ensure you're capable of answering.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 03:23 PM
4

Cringe for days man, if you aren't playing the what would you do game with your family, they aren't situationally aware.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/17 02:04 PM
3

I recently completed an EBook that is geared towards exactly this. Discovering who you are and being able to authentically be that guy in the world. I'm going to be releasing a post on exactly that today.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/17 12:37 PM
2

Transfer that to all challenges in life. Don't feel beaten because they exist, appreciate their presence as an opportunity to show your worth.
/r/askMRP23/05/17 07:16 PM
1

Yep
/r/askMRP23/05/17 06:21 PM
3

Nah, she'll never view the world the way I do. I'm man, she's woman; Men* are the romantics.
/r/askMRP23/05/17 06:18 PM
1

social media
/r/askMRP23/05/17 06:14 PM
1

Looking to make that happen now.
/r/askMRP23/05/17 06:08 PM
1

lol nailed it
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/17 06:08 PM
4

Good to be back. Twitter is like moving to a nice new place. It's great, has everything I need, but it's never the same as the good old days back home.
/r/askMRP23/05/17 06:04 PM
1

Yeah the worst of them is 'honorable'
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/17 06:03 PM
3

Thanks My work unblocked reddit (for now)
/r/askMRP23/05/17 06:02 PM
2

All of them, why wouldn't they be?
/r/askMRP23/05/17 05:50 PM
8

Good thing I don't give a fuck.
/r/askMRP23/05/17 05:22 PM
1

That's fucking awesome.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/17 05:20 PM
4

My wife shit tests regularly, but I view it as a positive. As long as she shit tests, we're good. When she stops, there's a problem. Your comment is perfect as men need to see both sides of the coin.
/r/askMRP23/05/17 05:07 PM
3

Got your back brother.
/r/askMRP23/05/17 05:05 PM
1

Not sure if I can do that one in my head lol
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/17 05:05 PM
1

I read this with the voice of old asian teacher, I advise all do the same.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/17 04:41 PM
3

Enjoy the Ride Man Life is too short to take all of it seriously. Smile, breath, then move forward.
/r/askMRP23/05/17 04:39 PM
4

The answer for each man will be as unique as their fingerprint.
/r/askMRP23/05/17 04:38 PM
1

It's a solid point, I try to keep it as authentic as I can. There's a fine line there. Cheesy/Authentic Professional/sell out
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/17 04:30 PM
1

I loved the flag photo, but it felt cheap. I'm glad you liked it and I hope you don't let a banner take away from the content.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/17 04:15 PM
42

Awesome Sex Frequently Great Cook Interesting Person Feminine Youthful Balance to my sometimes serious demeanor Great Cook Someone who knows when I'm giving my all or not A person I trust to Raise my kids Someone who keeps my castle clean while I run the kingdom Awesome Blowjobs Another motivated individual who I take pride in leading as well as observing her achieve her own personal and professional goals. A reliable person to help me get the top on/off my Jeep with ease No worry of STDs during…
/r/askMRP23/05/17 04:12 PM
3

Life is too short to take it too seriously. Enjoy the ride.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/17 04:05 PM
2

Surpised no. But we do have the solution. We remove ourselves from living the life & following the path which was engineered with surgical precision to creating consumer drones. We break the mold and start pursuing genuine desires. Who cares if we don't live up to society's expectations? We need to remove "society's" voice from our mind and start listening to our own. Men have no idea who they are because they're too busy trying to be the guy they think others will like.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/17 03:51 PM
2

I like it
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/17 03:44 PM
2

Solid breakdown. I'm sure there are going to be a few men who read your comment and feel The Void grow in their heart & soul.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/17 02:39 PM
1

Open Windows Candles Silence or Classic Piano Drink Clean Work Space Empty Stomach Done. I'm in the zone in seconds (With regards to writing).
/r/TheRedPill23/05/17 02:16 PM
2

So what to do with this information? If you were a good looking guy you could still pull chicks without having a social media account at all. Tinder opens doors to find those in your area who are DTF, but a social media account is not required to pull girls. It's the whole, The sword doesn't make the warrior, the warrior makes the sword Social media is a tool. If you don't lift or engage girls in person, it's nothing.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/17 02:07 PM
12

Direct answer: A plate is more Some fluff: Nobody is making you cheat, if by, "I see my options grow every time I go to the gym" you mean your body is looking better so you're feeling more confident thus you're raising your SMV = more options, yes. If you mean that girls are looking at you in the gym and that means you have more options, no. A girl looking at you does not = she wants to fuck. People look at each other all the time, don't be the guy who texts a chick & thinks he's spinning plates…
/r/askMRP23/05/17 02:03 PM
1

It isn't defeat so much as 'adjusting fire'. When you're walking your path as a masculine man, you have to periodically stop & adjust coordinates. Things come up, life changes, etc. Adapt to them and overcome.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/17 01:58 PM
1

I view "fake it until you make it" as mental fitness. In my head I'm a model, I will lift & eat right then my body will catch up. In my head I want to be a writer, I will write like I'm successful until I am successful. So long as your goals are authentically in line w/ who you know you are, when you reach that point it will feel right. A lot of the time we don't make what we're faking because at some point along the way we realize that we actually didn't want X, we wanted Y. But people don't ta…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/17 12:00 PM
1

When you come from a place of authenticity, life itself is just easier.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/17 11:40 AM
2

You're born unique - don't die a copy I like this, I'll be using it - thanks.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/17 11:39 AM
3

So your problem is girls? Ok There's absolutely nothing wrong with that, we all have our issues. The point I'm trying to make in this post, which seems to be a little lost with you, is that you pursue women, while remaining your 'self'. Learn the PUA techniques, learn what motivates others and work your Machiavellian magic to use it against them for personal gain. But do so from your unique perspective. Don't put on the suave persona when you absolutely detest that caricature and are more suited…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/17 12:45 AM
4

Are you high? Nobody said limit who you are.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/17 12:21 AM
1

Took the words out of my mouth (keyboard?)
/r/TheRedPill22/05/17 11:28 PM
6

When you do what the fuck you want and absolutely do not give a fuck or need her at all, that's exactly when she needs you and the pussy floods like niagara
/r/TheRedPill22/05/17 10:00 PM
3

I completely agree, there is nothing and I mean nothing a woman won't do with and for a man she wants to fuck. This post was more focused on the total development of the man himself.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/17 08:23 PM
5

So long as you're objectively evaluating who you are, life is good. When you "love yourself" while ignoring the reality of your situation, life will crumble. Masculine men find comfort in the discomfort and will choose a harsh reality over a comfortable lie every time.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/17 07:39 PM
3

In my Men of March series/EBook, day #2 deals with exactly this. You have to face that thing you've been avoiding for weeks/months/years. You can only live an authentic life when you've faced all of who you are as a man.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/17 07:37 PM
1

I had it recorded, VA has taken care of me. They held up their end of the contract for sure, no gripes here (except wait times).
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/17 07:36 PM
1

Carrying refrigerant bottles through scuttles did some damage. Went to incompetent Docs on ship, told to take Motrin & stfu. Years pass See competent civilian docs while on shore duty All muscles torn, ripped, fucking not attached etc.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/17 07:19 PM
1

Busted shoulder My Downs is cool, it's the R.O.M. I'm worried about.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/17 06:56 PM
1

Trying, still have to get probed & prodded.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/17 06:50 PM
3

We don't judge here
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/17 06:40 PM
1

Drinking?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/17 06:32 PM
2

Cutting her off is an option. It shouldn't be the first option nor should it be the default. OP hasn't made any real attempt at leading this woman to a better place. I'd start with him sacking the fuck up, then trying to led her again; reassess from there.
/r/askMRP26/04/17 10:07 PM
9

She knows I'm serious when I say I'll divorce her for this shit and she still does it. She still does it and you didn't divorce her, so you aren't serious. This is your wife man and she is struggling. I don't know you or her, but to see you even hint that dread might be the answer seems to show that you have no fucking clue what you're doing. She needs help, not to be shunned or ostracized. My wife was struggling with the stress from her work and I noticed she started drinking just to relax, the…
/r/askMRP25/04/17 07:03 PM
2

Exactly, something over the what if?
/r/askMRP22/04/17 01:51 AM
3

Tell her you will 'marry' her by getting her a ring & wearing one of your own, have her legally change her name, never get the contract involved, just call what you're doing 'marriage' What is the difference? You guys can swear your love to one another in private or a gathering. Do it old school, that's what I would do.
/r/askMRP21/04/17 08:38 PM
28

Rough. This place is here for you, if you need to sort shit out, do it here or with your bros, not to your wife. She's gone, that's over. Now you focus on you and those kids, life is too short to waste a minute of it on reminiscing about the past. When you're alone in bed or without the kids, don't let the dark thoughts creep in, keep yourself active & moving forward.
/r/askMRP21/04/17 05:22 PM
1

Great insight, don't just know you have to work on something, but actually work on it and apply it. I didn't get the vibe she was obese, I was more focused on reducing the alcohol.
/r/askMRP21/04/17 04:44 PM
4

There's a lot going on in this post. To throw some blanket solutions out there, you've got to start with having the difficult conversations but doing so in a way that it doesn't come across as a Me vs You discussion. You know that you both have your issues, why not talk about your future goals togehter and how you can reach them. In it, include a vacation or expedition which requires some physical ability. From there you can talk cooking, drinking less, etc. Make her feel like it was her idea. H…
/r/askMRP21/04/17 04:17 PM
4

I don't know the story, but I do know that either way, you should be enjoying the ride. Don't get too caught up on your interactions with her, getting lost in your head instead of just immersing in the moment. Have fun with it.
/r/askMRP21/04/17 04:13 PM
8

Makes sense If you want to maximize her response, then dedicate the time & energy to making that happen. Having a side piece satisfies that primal lust, which should be directed towards your wife. If you get caught, you may revert back to the nice guy you were and double down on your efforts to be a good man. Fuck that. Keep the side girls if you want, I don't care but know the game you're playing.
/r/askMRP21/04/17 03:48 PM
2

Why is she your wife?
/r/askMRP21/04/17 03:36 PM
6

Tell her to accept it or to start the paperwork. Edit To elaborate, you cheated for a reason, now would be a good time to tell her that reason. If it's something which can be corrected, maybe this fixes the issue, if not, you lose the wife, easy day, cut & dry.
/r/askMRP21/04/17 03:24 PM
5

I purposefully left it like that Men who leave their kingdom to look like shit to prove a point aren't followed for long. This isn't you vs her, it should be a team effort. Work together, make this job project #1 to the cohesion of you & your girl. Her behavior reflects what you've accepted up to this point.
/r/askMRP21/04/17 03:13 PM
30

My wife & I fuck a lot it helps curb the desire. Also, nobody is making you stay together or separate, do your thing.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/17 03:05 PM
7

It's been this way for years. My exact point. You're wife is putting on the captain pants because after years you still couldn't get it done. your foot is just another excuse. At least she is taking action, someone has to lead
/r/askMRP21/04/17 03:02 PM
4

So you couldn't: pick up the phone and call friends? Family? Find some workers at Home Depot? Grab the neighbor? Do what you can without putting max pressure on your foot? Go out there with wife and supervise/help her?
/r/askMRP21/04/17 02:58 PM
8

Bro, your wife is doing what should be your job and your worry is the yard. Maybe you should worry that your wife is going to start viewing you as a man who can't get shit done because he is a pussy. Dominant > Domineering Don't yell and use fear to get what you want. That's why you get duty sex 5x a week whereas an man who inspires submission gets pornstar sex 5x a week. You need to re-evaluate priorities & approach.
/r/askMRP21/04/17 02:51 PM
2

A: My wife
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/17 05:00 PM
66

A dog is the only thing on this Earth which loves you more than itself. Honor the life of your dog by living a little more 'dog like' in your life. Not angry about the past and not worrying about the future, but totally immersed in each moment.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/17 12:41 PM
4

Built* Just wait until #MenofMarch ends and I release these masculine savages to creating their own challenges and living their days according to their own master plan.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/17 12:52 PM
1

Great work brother, that is awesome news.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/17 04:22 PM
4

Perfect As men, we need to feel that primal urge for sexual conquest. You gave up the pixel bitches and now have a real woman to relieve that pressure.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/17 04:19 PM
2

Maybe 3x a month I'll play a game of madden w/ my son.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 04:18 PM
1

Time is a fickle bitch, I have hours flying by like minutes recently.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/17 04:17 PM
1

Work blocked Reddit I'll get them all formatted and uploaded tonight. They've been posted on the blog.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/17 02:22 PM
1

too many...
/r/askMRP13/03/17 11:39 PM
1

Something brewing in my mind since starting #MenofMarch is the need for men to recognize that this doesn't have to take months or even weeks. Just tell yourself you aren't going to take the comfortable path anymore and just fucking change. When you catch yourself saying "I'll just have one beer." or "I'll do that later." Stop yourself and take action immediately. Flip the switch and begin acting like the man you believe you are, today.
/r/askMRP13/03/17 07:20 PM
1

Bro, great work so far and don't worry about bench or equipment just yet. Give yourself the month of March to use your body as your weight. Make it hard, control your body weight, do negatives. After you can control you, then add external stresses.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/17 06:03 PM
1

Taking action, excellent work.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/17 08:30 PM
5

Dude, just fucking change your default and act like it has always been this way. Follow the #MenofMarch campaign and you'll see hundreds of others who are doing exactly what you are talking about. Just choose to stop being a pussy, fuck the gradualness of it, just fucking sack up and be better.
/r/askMRP12/03/17 04:12 PM
1

Puts life into perspective
/r/TheRedPill12/03/17 04:09 PM
2

You continue to improve and find a way to express your genuine self. At some point, you have to realize that your wife may not want to play by these 'new' rules. Then you have to decide, is she worth the investment of time and energy to win over, or are you ready to move on and take ownership of this world without her in your life.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/17 10:59 PM
7

It isn't just the wife. Do it to your kids, dog, Jeep, house, gym, friends, etc. The things that used to flip your stomach around because you felt so passionately, remove it and remind yourself how lucky you are to have it.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/17 09:50 PM
4

Up to the man. To me, it's a reminder that tomorrow isn't guaranteed and that I need to remember I'm lucky to of made it this far.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/17 09:24 PM
1

You're missing the entire point man. You make these happen regardless of any outside interpherence. Wife feels like shit, create an environment which fixes it. Have to do 'girl' push-ups, then do them until you hit 100
/r/TheRedPill10/03/17 05:17 PM
1

I keep the ass trimmed, no longer shaved. Solid point on the stabbing grow back phase. I also use conditioner, guys need to experiment on the growth rate.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/17 07:13 PM
1

Ha!
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/17 07:12 PM
4

You can go through the posts, there's no way I could maintain this tempo year round.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 06:27 PM
1

Different results for different people. Research and experiment
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 06:19 PM
1

Ha! Bro, I fucking died that day and just typing it out today had me cracking up like an idiot.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/17 06:19 PM
3

A Love Story
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/17 05:56 PM
2

Experiment on your body. Better to figure it out now, before beach season.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/17 05:56 PM
4

1 guard Side note: I have a hairy ass and I shaved my ass with a razor once. We were out at a store and I had to fart so I casually walk away from people and proceed to in a controlled manner release a little. I forgot that there was no longer hair there to soften the clapping of my ass cheeks. It sounded like a fucking cannon went off. I was laughing so hard I was crying and couldn't breath while my wife just walked away shaking her head. You've been warned...
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/17 05:32 PM
3

Nose hair too
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/17 05:27 PM
4

Own it, find a way to make it work with regards to the 'look' you're going for & keep it maintained.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 05:27 PM
1

I think there's a skincareaddiction subreddit, I'd search places where people are talking about this specific issue.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 05:13 PM
1

The unibrow fucks a face up quick
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/17 04:49 PM
2

It's some clinique for men face wash and it came with a face lotion as well.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/17 04:49 PM
1

Google-Fu it up man. My wife picked up a little kit which worked, I have no clue what it's called. Do the research, you'll find what works for people & what doesn't.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/17 04:48 PM
1

Same thing. I was referencing Julian Edelman, Patriot's wide receiver he has that type of cut
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/17 03:14 PM
1

That's the point of it all. Asking those difficult questions and objectively answering them takes grit. This month is as easy or hard as the man makes it.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/17 03:13 PM
1

My wife gets carded every time we order drinks, her skin is baby smooth. She asked to do my face for years, I relented. Started months ago, I look great.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/17 03:12 PM
2

I thought I was the only one who dealt with this. What I've done is start to taper the hair off from my knee to my balls where it's now shaved. A dick fade?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/17 03:10 PM
3

They love booty as much as we do. It isn't gay to discuss this shit, it's fucking part of being a man and we should own it. Too few are talking of this, TRP provides an arena for open discussion on increasing dick size and decreasing smell by removing the hair around your cock & balls lol
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/17 02:56 PM
1

Perfect Week #1 is down, 3 to go
/r/askMRP08/03/17 06:33 PM
7

It's better to suffer through the grind of improvement than to enjoy the comfort of a slow pain ful death which never includes a moment to actually live. Find purpose in the grind; comfort in the discomfort.
/r/askMRP08/03/17 06:18 PM
1

www.TheFamilyAlpha.com
/r/askMRP08/03/17 06:16 PM
2

exactly
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/17 06:05 PM
4

Beating your former self is the goal. You are winning
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/17 05:39 PM
9

Thanks, keep grinding brother. All I'm doing is writing, you guys are the ones who are setting a masculine example which will enable other men to do the same in your 'real life'.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 04:54 PM
5

It's an addiction few recognize. I really don't care about anything more than the man proving he can do it and getting that feeling of masculine primal fury which comes from built up sexual frustration. For those of us having sex, we're good. For those who aren't, feel that rage which only exists in men.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/17 04:54 PM
1

Men helping men is what it's about. I look forward to hearing of your journey
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 03:34 PM
2

You aren't competing against anyone but yourself. It isn't you vs the Men of March it's you with the Men of March all competing against our former selves.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/17 03:33 PM
1

If you go to my directory, there's a section for Fatherhood. Also, that edge is exactly what I wanted men to feel. Primal power building inside
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 03:30 PM
1

That's all you can do. Now you know that you don't have control over yourself as much as you think you do. Failing is a learning opportunity, so long as you get back up.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 03:28 PM
2

Never quit. At the same time, don't think that you're capable of total commitment to self, you proved you couldn't commit to yourself for a month. Fall down 7, get up 8
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 07:57 PM
1

The insight is entirely your's. I'm just writing words, you're the one putting in the work.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 07:56 PM
3

We're all going to make it brother. Don't get caught up in the insanity, instead find comfort in the discomfort and focus on making your life as great as you can. The world is insane, I'm still having a blast and you should be too.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 04:39 PM
1

The motivation is dwindling in most, this is where self-discipline kicks into gear.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 04:38 PM
3

The only way to know how far you can go is to pass that line and fall flat on your face.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 03:20 PM
1

It is, that sexual rage is something I'm hoping men recognize as fuel for performance vice just being a pain in the balls.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/03/17 11:26 AM
5

Be better. Objectively look at what you've become addicted to, furiously jerking your cock, alone, possibly to pixels on a screen, possibly to fantasies in your mind, it makes no difference. Jerking off prevents you from reaching the greatest of heights with regards to masculine power, confidence, and awareness.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 11:25 AM
2

Had an issue at work which stole me from my computer the entire day. I post to the blog then go back and format for reddit; today there was an issue in-between the two
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 11:56 PM
3

I'm stuck at an event. I'll post breakdown as soon as I can.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/17 05:25 PM
1

I wouldn't know, I have a lot of sex. Maybe use it as fuel to find someone to fuck? After 2 days of no sex, my mind trips out. Wife & I fuck daily, maybe a day goes by. If it's more than that one of us is sick or I'm traveling for work & going total fucking savage mode.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/17 03:56 PM
3

This is why I write. Great work brother
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 12:53 PM
1

No problem brother
/r/MarriedRedPill04/03/17 11:55 PM
11

Trying, had a late night with the Mrs.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/17 07:45 PM
5

I'm telling Victor, copycat! Ha! It was actually my wife who said it to me one day & I thought it was awesome so I stole it
/r/TheRedPill04/03/17 07:44 PM
2

So jerk off The fuck do you want me to say?
/r/TheRedPill04/03/17 06:35 PM
2

Thanks for the shout out & the donation. All the money I make from writing I put towards writing (Logo, Banner, Book covers, writing fees etc.)
/r/MarriedRedPill04/03/17 06:33 PM
2

Don't view that challenge as merely a MenofMarch challenge, view it as the new you. From now on, this version of you makes sure he tries new shit now and again.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/17 06:32 PM
1

You've gotta have faith brother, there's a method to my madness.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/03/17 06:31 PM
1

You've got to find balance and realize that optimal living comes from genuine living. Don't act Masculinity is who you are, not something you do.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/17 06:30 PM
2

It's almost like I know what I'm talking about... Great work brother, I'm sure those paintings are true masterpieces.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/03/17 01:56 PM
1

Great work brother
/r/MarriedRedPill04/03/17 02:34 AM
1

You are your problem You are also your solution.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/17 08:07 PM
1

great stuff
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/17 06:09 PM
3

Keep grinding brother, it only gets better
/r/TheRedPill03/03/17 05:19 PM
1

Now that you recognize problems, work towards solutions.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/17 05:18 PM
1

Excellent work w/ the family. Regarding the photo, look at it as a sort of test.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/17 05:17 PM
2

Just be there Nothing too serious Walks, mini hikes, playgrounds, fields. Give a kid space & a ball and be there to roll it back is enough to kill hours. Something special would be hand painting, buy a white bed sheet and let the kid paint all over it outside
/r/TheRedPill03/03/17 05:16 PM
3

Checking in is not mandatory, though it may help keep accountability
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/17 05:15 PM
1

Yes, except for bowling, it's been a long time. Thanks for that, we'll be doing that this weekend (kids are sleeping at grandparent's tonight).
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/17 05:12 PM
1

Excellent insight
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/17 05:11 PM
5

This is why I write
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/17 05:10 PM
3

Very himbling, I hope you're applying the knowledge and embodying your masculinity setting an example which will allow others to live in accordance with their genuine nature as well
/r/TheRedPill03/03/17 05:09 PM
1

Glad you're finding value in it
/r/TheRedPill03/03/17 05:06 PM
22

I'll be taking my wife on a weekend vacation after this month as she deserves it. It's pretty fucking time-consuming on top of everyday living but it's worth it. Too few experience this level of passion.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/17 02:50 PM
1

Now that you've identified it you can isolate and get control over it or destroy it
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/17 02:48 PM
1

Great work brother
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/17 02:47 PM
7

I'm honored to be walking this journey with you and all of the other men who have taken the challenge
/r/TheRedPill03/03/17 02:46 PM
2

I'm in the same boat. We mix it up nightly but usually it's the same five Mix-Ups like book night or movie night or game night, etc I've got to come up with something new as well
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/17 02:45 PM
6

This whole month should be somewhat uncomfortable. Which is great because it forces you to find comfort in the discomfort
/r/TheRedPill03/03/17 02:42 PM
1

This is necessary, it's crucial to go through this digging to find exactly what lurks beneath the surface, keeping you from reaching the 'self' you want to become.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/17 01:30 PM
1

Bro, I did mine right after bench. I was on the pain-train
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/17 01:29 PM
1

You're not being a bitch. In fact, choosing to share your emotions & experience with regards to this challenge shows you're getting it out of you for the world to see. Now that you've cut it out of your soul, what are you going to do about it?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/17 01:16 PM
1

Do you man, I'll work with the other hundreds of dudes who are just improving themselves.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/17 01:15 PM
2

You're competing against the man in the mirror. I have a bunch of videos on Twitter via Periscope, it talks about this stuff if you're on there.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/17 01:14 PM
1

Great example for other men to follow. It's like the military, we had shitty days, but we all suffered together so it wasn't that bad. Find comfort in the discomfort & turn to your brothers when doubt creeps in, you won't let them down and tey won't let you down.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/17 01:13 PM
1

I don't see why guys can't just challenge themselves for a month without bitching. Do it or don't, nobody is forcing you either way.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/17 01:12 PM
1

Yep, or have sex. I don't give a shit about jerking off. What I'm doing is making men go further than they've gone before. Just do it
/r/TheRedPill03/03/17 01:11 PM
1

Negative Though personally I'm still running my own weightlifting & body weight regimen
/r/TheRedPill03/03/17 01:10 PM
1

Get it brother
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/17 01:10 PM
2

Excellent, now keep t up. Commit to yourself and prove that you're worthy of the life you feel you deserve.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/17 01:09 PM
1

Recognition of the problem is key. Now, time for your solution to it.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/17 01:09 PM
3

It's not about demonizing jerking off. Project much? It has to do with the psychological aspect of maintaining control and breaking preconceived notions as to what you're capable of.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/17 01:08 PM
1

You can, it starts the minute you read the first post.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/17 01:07 PM
1

Motivating shit brother
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/17 07:18 PM
1

It's out there for the world to see. Now own it.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/17 07:17 PM
2

Welcome.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/17 07:17 PM
4

There's no excuse for mediocrity. In fact, this program would alleviate some of that stress as it would reveal the demons you're trying to keep a hold of. Don't talk to me about time or stress, I've got plenty myself, all men do. Commit to yourself. Show that you're worthy of the live you think you deserve.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 07:01 PM
3

Beautiful stuff brother. You've got to let it out knowing the problem isn't enough. You've got to face it, spit that shit out and destroy it, remove all power from it and watch at how much straighter you stand and more confidently you talk and walk. Removing the black clouds allows your masculine light and energy to shine onto others.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/17 05:58 PM
2

How could you possibly come up with a comment like that?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/17 05:56 PM
1

Yeah, I completely disregarded because, you know
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/17 05:55 PM
2

Puke received, now to clean it up a little. Make the relationship fun again and maybe recognize that not only is she not attracted to you, but she's also not having fun w/ you. Stuck in the 'wife' rut? Maybe. Bring some joy into the relationship. Treat her like a lover and don't take it all so serious or focus so much on sex. Laugh together
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/17 05:36 PM
1

What a time to be alive.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/17 05:22 PM
2

That's not the solution. Don't go to her with your needy complaints, but directly confront her with the notion of, Babe, I'm not having fun with you anymore and it's killing me. I'm going to start owning this life instead of walking around on eggshells and hoping you'll recognize that life is not about work and making money but rather living... I want you to face it, not recognize it.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/17 05:09 PM
1

Get it brother. 100 push-ups is the minimum, you're a man, set your own goals beyond it for the month
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 05:00 PM
1

How so?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/17 04:33 PM
3

It's a month long series which will challenge you daily to ensure that you're living this life in a masculine manner. For some, it will be the first time they cultivated a genuine identity. There's no hand holding. You set your bar and you reach it.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 04:26 PM
2

Are you trying at your job? Do you care about anything, if so do you care past saurface level? Have you removed all the people from your life and moved to a completely new area to start fresh without the monotony or repetitive days? I don't know you so I can't tell you what needs to be as it's all contextual. So look at yourself, what do you want that you don't have? What are you afraid of people, or even yourself discovering about you?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/17 03:56 PM
7

This isn't a fitness challenge.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 03:54 PM
2

Great work. Immediate application dedicated to taking care of your future self excellent.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/17 03:54 PM
2

Brother, just put it out there. Every time I hit publish, to this day I wonder if people will see the picture I painted with my words. It's a rush and mix of fear, joy, and desire.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/17 03:52 PM
3

The Burden of Family
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/17 03:43 PM
1

Same here, swallowing the pill forced me through this. For guys like that, shift thought toward death. What haven't you done that you want to do? Why haven't you done it yet?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/17 03:41 PM
2

You've got to do it brother, on your own.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/17 12:27 PM
2

Day one is easy, the motivation runs high. Commit to yourself for the month, prove you're worthy of the life you want.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 12:25 PM
2

This month is the beginning of the new you. You'll never come back to this point in your life.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 12:25 PM
1

It started on Ash Wednesday (unintentionally) Lent follows, most give something up for the 40 days and 40 nights when I'm saying this for the next 31 days and 31 nights you're not so much giving something up as much as testing yourself more than you have before
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 12:18 PM
1

Good, use it as fuel
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/17 12:17 PM
1

We're all in it together brother.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/17 12:16 PM
2

Time management is more crucial of a skill that most are aware.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 12:15 PM
2

A nude from your wife, good to go as you aren't going to jerk off, you're going to fuck her. But nudes online? Bad news brother.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/17 01:14 AM
6

The time is now. Commit to yourself now
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 01:13 AM
3

Then don't. Don't let your hands get idle. Always working towards something
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/17 01:13 AM
1

This is just the beginning brother
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 01:12 AM
4

I've read that book, it's how I have lived my life since bootcamp. Pretty cool to read that I wasn't alone.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 11:46 PM
3

Easy fucking day
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/17 10:37 PM
4

Don't just read it, apply it
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 10:27 PM
3

After the month is up I want you being the one who gets others to complete their goals
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/17 10:05 PM
2

It was one of those lines that wrote itself.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/17 08:09 PM
3

Acta, Non Verba Don't talk about being better, be better.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/17 06:37 PM
1

Get it brother, the time is now.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/17 06:37 PM
5

I don't care what you like, this is written for all men. Cater your responses most efficiently to your situation. With that said, the other 99% of guys say 'busy' because they're afraid of the conflict which will arise by giving a straight genuine answer.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 05:57 PM
23

It's not about the physiological response to the push-up, it's about the psychological response. 100 is nothing, just do them.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 05:56 PM
2

3 months is too long. Embrace your sexuality, don't run from it. A week, sure. more than that, negative.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/17 05:55 PM
1

Get it brother The only modifications allowed to be made to the program are those by individuals who literally cannot complete the task. Knuckles are acceptable if due to surgery
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/17 05:55 PM
2

Awesome to hear, look forward to hearing of your future success
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/17 05:54 PM
2

No problem We're all in this together. The only chance Masculinity & families as we know it will survive into the future is if masculine men take ownership of themselves and pass that genuine living vice conforming nature onto the future. Save the man, save the family.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/17 05:53 PM
5

Replace it until you don't desire it. Tonic water & lime Placebo
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/17 05:47 PM
1

The rising tide of masculinity will lift all of our boats.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/17 04:49 PM
2

Great work brother
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/17 04:49 PM
10

This is exactly the purpose of the MenofMarch. By saving the man, we save the family. Raising the standard for future generations.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/17 04:48 PM
5

Why on earth would you do that? Sex is an aspect of marriage which should be cultivated, not hidden from.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/17 04:48 PM
11

Perfect break down. I can't write out a detailed plan as each man's mission is his own. All I can do is tell you, everyday this month you're going to do something and what that something is will be up to you. But this month is it, if you can't commit to yourself for a month, maybe you don't deserve the life you think you do because if you did, you'd fully commit.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 04:47 PM
25

Don't miss interpret the meaning of the push-ups. It isn't entirely about reclamation of self. It's about forcing yourself to do something every day. Building new habits.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 04:45 PM
2

Considering a 3 month moratorium, would that conflict with March's challenges? What are you quitting for 3 months?
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/17 03:26 PM
6

Fuck yeah you can check out those sexy ass selfies. I was talking internet photos/reddit/whatever If it's your wife, fuck yes look at that shit & reward her with some great sex.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/17 03:25 PM
11

It will be hard (literally & figuratively) but you've got to get control over your impulses. That's the whole point to that rule. What's worth more to you? Jerking off & feeling that 10 seconds rush or proving you're a man capable of placing what he has to do ahead of what he wants to do.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/17 03:25 PM
4

That's perfect, it'll only get better from today.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/17 02:39 PM
1

No.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/17 11:05 PM
1

Creep. Glad you're onboard.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/17 05:51 PM
3

Thanks
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/17 02:25 PM
5

There's no shortcut to anyplace worth going I have said time and again that my goal is to help them reclaim their masculinity. Writing a month straight should show men how serious I am about this. Mind you, something I've yet to tell anyone and I'm not going to promote on this site or anywhere else on here is that I start another class for my Master's Degree in March as well as I start coaching my son's baseball team. We all can make excuses as to why we don't perform; I'm not going to and I hop…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/17 03:49 AM
1

I wrote that post, check out the blog
/r/askMRP25/02/17 03:41 AM
1

I'll share the entire post from the blog here. To be fair, the formatting will look better on the blog.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/17 03:40 AM
7

Unicorns don't exist, hence the term. My wife is a living human, where did I lose you?
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 01:28 PM
1

Perfect. Remember, Acta, Non Verba
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 05:47 PM
5

Bro, Fuck You I have to get up at 0515 every day. Sleeping in on the weekends means making it to 0630 before the mind turns on & I'm ready to seize the day. though I do maximize my days because of this. We all have 24 hours, are you going to spend those extra 3-5 sleeping or grinding?
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 05:02 PM
3

Time will tell if you follow through, I hope you do.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/17 04:07 PM
12

You live your life & pursue your mission. This woman isn't your mission & she straight out told you she doesn't want to be in your life. Why would you want someone who doesn't want to be there?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/17 03:13 PM
23

but just more in an intellectual way That's why you bought a plane and said meet me in 12 hrs. That's not intellectual, stop sucking your own dick and recognize you thought she was 'the one' and you don't want her fucking someone else or in someone else's bed. Let her go, she wants out & you've lost face here. After this, she'd know you needed her more than she needed you because she said good-bye & you came running
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/17 03:03 PM
5

It says to stop thinking you can touch any girl you want because they talk to you. Don't be a fucking idiot and learn to read whether a chick is attracted. This chick is not, you should've known that before touching her ass.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 01:50 PM
3

You aren't worthy of dignity & respect, not yet at least. She performs this way because of your failure to maintain a standard. What she is doing is what you've allowed her to do through acceptance & the rewarding of failure. Tell me this: Why do you think you deserve better?
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 12:41 PM
14

I call this Spartan Mindset. After moving 5 times in 5 years in the Navy my wife & I developed this mentality without knowing it. Basically, if it doesn't bring value or isn't used within a set period of time, it is given to someone who could use it or it is sold. Why have stuff, just because? That's Consumer mindset, weak. Everything you own should have an immediately clear purpose to you, if it doesn't it should immediately show it's value, if it doesn't, then why do you have it? Life isn't ab…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 12:25 PM
1

Listen. If you really want to fix the issue, you'd stop jerking off. Put parental controls, PM someone from NoFap, basically you'd take action like men should.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 12:22 PM
1

Ha!
/r/askMRP23/02/17 10:47 AM
2

Yep
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/17 11:02 PM
1

Honestly haven't never thought about this I doubt that, but you do you. I think of other pussy, but I'm a satisfied man so I don't pursue.
/r/askMRP22/02/17 09:10 PM
2

To be honest, it doesn't matter why it works. Just take advantage of the bar being so pitifully low.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/17 09:08 PM
0

Objectively answer me this. Does her having sex with more men bother you? Do you wonder if he was bigger, better, or her best? Does it piss you off that you have noone to compare to while she does & now that you've embraced your sexuality you realize you could have had plenty of chicks?
/r/askMRP22/02/17 07:21 PM
2

Our lives will always be busy. Kid Work Grind Business whatever At the end of the day, we've got to view our wife as a woman & treat her like we would any other women we were trying to get inside.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/17 06:11 PM
9

Depends on the man/culture. For me, It's a no go. You can remain an LTR but marriage means she is leaving her clan and joining your's. I wrote a guest post about the need for men to reclaim their family honor & take pride in the name of their masculine ancestors. http://darktriadman.com/2017/02/11/primal-fury-of-family-honor/
/r/askMRP22/02/17 01:18 PM
2

Start with you. You fix you & the marriage has a chance.
/r/askMRP22/02/17 12:42 PM
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You're making progress which is key. Now you need to start getting out of your head and just doing without the added but... I eat well but drink too much I'm aware of talking to much & tardiness but I keep doing it See what I mean? Have fun with this, enjoy the progress & enjoy the ride. This shit is fun, living life according to your terms is awesome. Remember, your wife is not your enemy, it isn't you against her, it's you against you.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/17 12:41 PM
0

Why are you doing all of this?
/r/askMRP22/02/17 12:37 PM
1

Then you should have read and recognized exactly what I said without writing a post. You know what you have to do.
/r/askMRP22/02/17 12:33 PM
0

Was she a virgin?
/r/askMRP22/02/17 12:32 PM
2

Unfuck your life. There's nothing more to it. You don't need Morpheus or a special treatment plan and you aren't unique in any way because you were in the military. Everybody used to be somebody, how about you become somebody today.
/r/askMRP22/02/17 12:31 PM
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Frame = Reality You don't adjust your perception of reality for anyone. Fatherhood does not = Dadbod Marriage does not = Deadbedroom Masculinity does not = 'wrong' Live outside the mold our weak society is forcing on you and you'll find that you become fucking superhuman. People are so used to the same fucking routine. Break it and live entirely in your frame where you set the standard and those who do not meet it are removed. People aren't used to having to qualify, they love it.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/17 12:20 PM
7

Sometimes you have to objectively ask yourself, Do I deserve her best
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/17 12:17 PM
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What would a whom you admire for their masculinity do? What would a man who leads his family do? What do you think you should do? There is very little context, but if you act like you need sex, then you're buying & she is selling. How about you stop needing Sex & instead create an environment where you are attractive enough and she wants to fuck you, making you the seller. You have an 8 month old and a busy schedule, where are you gaming her in this? Are you flirting & acting like a while as opp…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/17 12:15 PM
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Lead. Read my blog, specifically the 'Masculinity & Marriage' posts in the directory. It's an all encompassing process. The bottom line, you have to do this for you, not to get her back.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/17 02:49 AM
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Everyone serves as an example. Either what to do OR What not to do. Excellent decision to take ownership of your life.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/17 07:19 PM
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Please read This
/r/askMRP03/02/17 11:08 PM
1

Not yet
/r/askMRP03/02/17 09:54 PM
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You're getting it, but now you're over thinking it. Follow your genuine 'self', this means follow that voice that says you want to recognize the efforts of your girl. Also, important to point out; it's our role to fill the void of 'Daddy' when we take a girl as wife or LTR. We become the man she turns to for advice, to make proud, and the one she turns to for protection. You girl is telling you this to make you proud, great progress borther. So sit her down and tell her to give you her feet if t…
/r/askMRP03/02/17 06:57 PM
2

Embrace it. Also, don't brag to your wife, state your success as but a casual point. Act as if winning is so common that it doesn't even phase you anymore.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/17 05:28 PM
1

becoming a good winner. I've been going through this with my son in baseball. He's a skilled player & suffers from the burden of being the Coach's son. He gets extra work & is praised but mostly in private as I don't want forvoritism to run through the team, nor do I want parents to feel I put him in the position to succeed, as he truly does it himself. The other day he told a kid who simply couldn't field a ground ball that he wasn't trying hard enough and that's why he wasn't very good. I pull…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/17 05:23 PM
1

Can't rush greatness lol
/r/askMRP03/02/17 04:33 PM
11

'Become Alpha' I need to write a post on this as it keeps being repeated. Alpha is a mindset which leads to certain types of behaviors. You can become an 'Alpha' man with the flip of a switch (That will be the name of the post) you just have to draw a boundary and enforce it. You know why your girl is like this? Because you've accepted it, created it, and allowed it. This is your failure, she's filling the vessel you created. Just defaulting to beta Why, because that's the norm? Because that's w…
/r/askMRP03/02/17 03:24 PM
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I'm just a dude working to raise my standard, same as you. The point of my remark was to A) See if you'd lose frame & flip out - you didn't, but you did give an excuse, no need for that. B) To show you who the fuck cares We all make mistakes, we all have strengths and weaknesses, why be insecure about it? Irrational Self confidence is key to reclaiming your masculinity Never forget this. Your insecurity in your math abilities will carry over like cancer to other areas. Be Confident, in all thing…
/r/askMRP03/02/17 02:13 PM
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HA! I can't hog all the critique so I figured I'd make a little one to see if he would bite
/r/askMRP03/02/17 11:28 AM
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Thanks man
/r/askMRP03/02/17 11:26 AM
1

You're absolutely right
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/17 11:18 AM
1

Absolutely for some women then must try harder and for some men women must try harder the higher the standard the better the product
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 11:17 AM
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I just want to snap and loose my shit like Kanye level Lose* Guess it isn't just math.
/r/askMRP03/02/17 01:37 AM
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You're treating your wife like she's your friend. Your complaints and feelings are for your bros, your dog, and your beer not your girl. How about you start having some fun with it. I know you may want to stick it to them for how they're treating you, but think about this: Their beloved daughter married a dude who had to move into their home. Kill your ego. These people have given you a home, find a way to bring some joy into the situation until you're able to get on your own feet. Then, when yo…
/r/askMRP03/02/17 01:31 AM
1

That's exactly how it sounded in my head as I was writing it
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/17 10:20 PM
1

So do it
/r/askMRP02/02/17 10:08 PM
1

I'd say do both. It's the combination of both mental and physical fitness which will produce the most optimal 'self'.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 08:28 PM
1

I wish someone had told me. took me until 27
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/17 08:26 PM
2

3 is a great number
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/17 08:25 PM
1

Thanks man, comments like these really hit home
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 08:25 PM
1

Yes.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/17 05:48 PM
1

Exactly, or as I recently explained to a guy. Find difficult things, make them easy, then move on to another challenge.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 05:37 PM
1

Ha!
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/17 05:33 PM
1

Nice man, good to hear you aren't typing via a stick in your mouth.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/17 05:27 PM
2

Modern Day Agoge Installment #2 will be coming this week.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 05:12 PM
3

I like that, Refuse to Die - sounds like a future post.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 04:38 PM
1

Dude, that's fucking awesome. I wrote a post on the blog about the need for fathers to create a 'Modern Day Agoge' this is the living example of that post.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 04:37 PM
1

On that note, how are you doing?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/17 04:36 PM
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People think more drinks = more fun, negative. Catch a buzz, cool. Slurring & crying - not so cool.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/17 04:36 PM
2

Check my most recent post on TRP; what replaced the shame was your Pride
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/17 04:35 PM
1

It's incredible. When I have a challenge I view it as fuel for growth, not something to complain about.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 04:34 PM
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Thanks & that resolution & commitment to self is what drives them wild. Women will wonder why you aren't chasing them around like the other men, then they'll chase you.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 04:34 PM
1

Perfect.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/17 03:54 PM
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Solid points. Though, I think there is something to be said about the turmoil inside the man who sees reality yet tries to return to his previous conditioning. There's a level of repression there which would drive any man mad. The void created by a repressed self is real.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 03:40 PM
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OP, reread this comment 4-8x Find your weaknesses & improve upon them. Gentlemen don't get drunk, they have 1-3 & chill.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/17 03:38 PM
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I used to use clue(I think that's the name) then after a few months of unchanging patterns I just became aware of her & could, without the app know where we were at. Sometimes she'll be an emotional bitch, AA or comfort accordingly. Don't get so caught up in her cycle that you forget to focus on having a good time and just gaming the shit out of her with some passive dread always running in the background.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/17 03:25 PM
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To add to this line of thought. The beta pursues the 'perceived' easiness. what he misses through lack of experience is that the pain of action is 'easier' to handle than the pain of cowardice & comfort. Masculine men find purpose in life &the grind becomes 'easy' as it's just what men do. Beta men have to actively justify their mediocrity, masculine Red Pill men don't have to dedicate this massive amount of mental enrgy to legitimize their actions, they know they're good to go.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 03:21 PM
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But you started; that single act was the greatest investment in self you could have ever made.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/17 03:19 PM
2

Just do. It seems simple, but in everything going on in your life. Just do the genuine real thing you want to do. Don't do combat sports because MRP said so, idgaf what it is you choose to do, but you have to choose it. Genuine living man, we all need to reach the point where we are who we are and not who we think she should be.
/r/askMRP02/02/17 03:15 PM
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There is power in that. That small shift in perspective is what I'm aiming to help men make. Once you see how simple it is, to just be genuine vice keeping up the charade, life runs much more smoothly and is much more enjoyable.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 03:13 PM
1

You should also be masculine by nature.
/r/askMRP02/02/17 02:57 PM
1

No. But they'll be a part of a series of 'novella' e-books I'll be releasing. Creating The Slut Void, Shame, Pride Modern Day Agoge String & Polaroids All will be e-books in the near future with added content.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/17 02:54 PM
2

Why are you taking your wife seriously? Also, why aren't you giving any context to the feel. If she says she feels bad because you called her a fat whore it's a little different than her saying she feels bad you're doing more productive things than she is.
/r/askMRP02/02/17 02:52 PM
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Fuck it man. You have a deicison to make. Get over it or go fuck someone on the side to make you feel better. Anything inbetween is fucking pathetic.
/r/askMRP02/02/17 02:49 PM
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Get her what you want to get her. Not what society said get her Not what you feel you're expected to get her. Know her tastes & work with that.
/r/askMRP02/02/17 02:32 PM
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It's been covered to death here. The shift to support the female imperative & white knights is the bottom line. Check out the work of /u/Rollo-Tomassi
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 02:30 PM
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Have you checked the posts on my blog regarding sex? I could rehash a million words here, or you could just head there and check it out. Bottom line, have fun and get out of your head.
/r/askMRP02/02/17 02:27 PM
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Still not alpha working on that The fuck does this mean? Still not alpha - Alpha is a mindset brother, where is your display of irrational self-confidence? Why start a post admitting you're still mentally weak? fucking OB last semester and now Pediatrics is the class that even some 4.0 students struggle to pass. Don't give us justifiers as to why you may not succeed. Remove that safety net & go all in. She thought you were an alpha when she married you, she's realizing you aren't.
/r/askMRP02/02/17 02:25 PM
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All women are submissive to the right man. The growth recently is a result of weak men & daughters being imprinted at a young age that women have to lead because men can't. Most men are too weak to lead their family, unfortunate truth.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 02:22 PM
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No difference. None of this is original, just different application in modern times.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 02:20 PM
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That girls don't want a man who shares his feelings. That a woman is submissive & not equal to men in every regard. That by not showing love the way shows/movies say you should that women will love you more.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 01:55 PM
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The decision to view reality for what it is and not what you want it to be. This subreddit is specifically focused on the sexual aspect to that. But The Red Pill is reality, nothing more. Edit To give a quick example. Men think providing a home & stable life warrants them a great sex life & respect from their wife. The Red Pill makes it clear that this is not the case. A man must game his wife & make himself so valuable she will do anything to keep him. Big difference.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 01:52 PM
3

I hate my 'pre bootcamp' self. Before 19 I was a BP nice guy fucking pussy.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/17 01:51 PM
3

Here's my tip for you. Stop viewing yourself to be a man that "never felt passion for life who was already screwed and fucked up since childhood?" This is remnants of the victim mindset in your mind and it is a direct result of you refusing fully commit to yourself and your life. You have yet to Burn your ship on the shore. Because of this 'escape route', (i.e a justification as to why failure is acceptable) you are not fully committed to taking back ownership of your life & actions. You have to…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 01:51 PM
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We are all nothing, in that is the liberation to be anything. We're only on this rock for a speck of time, might as well have a body which enables us to enjoy the ride and experience it all. Can't see the views from the top of a mountain if you can't hike the mountain.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/17 12:44 PM
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I had a 6 paragraph write-up that my computer just deleted. I will come back and rewrite my response later today.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 11:57 AM
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The gym is for both; the iron doesn't discriminate
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/17 11:40 AM
2

Do you man, the offer is there. Don't fuck it up.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/17 01:48 AM
2

Nah, we have different approaches to breaking them down. I try to mix it up. Sometimes it's an immediate punch to the jaw; sometimes I let them inside, make dinner, keep feeling them out, then stab them in the heart.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/17 01:47 AM
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You're right & I fully agree. I just wanted to ensure you knew I wasn't going Tony Robbins on you lol Just trying to cater the approach in this one.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/17 01:45 AM
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Motivating as fuck brother. Use the self loathing as fuel and if you ever hit a point where you think the road is too long or you just want to say fuck it My email is [email protected]
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/17 01:24 AM
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If I get hit by the bs, the site lives on. But to your point, I've never written something like that before because I've never spoken to this type of man before. These men need that type of individual encouragement. They need to feel they've got someone in their corner until they can take off & use themselves as their competition & motivation. I see your point, but you've got to take yourself out of your head and put it into the mind of a man who is too afraid to do a pushup in front of people.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/17 01:22 AM
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When you see the strings which control the system, you can never un-see them. You can run, you can hide, but you'll always see the hypergamous nature in women's eyes. You'll always be aware of reality no matter how uncomfortable it makes you. Good. Men find comfort in the discomfort and instead of being upset at reality or society, they use their knowledge to get a leg up on the competition and not only survive but thrive as masculine men in a weak society.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 01:03 AM
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It is your fault. You aren't a man who she wants to shower with gifts, sex, etc. You could be, you could have been all year. But, instead of lifting weights, laying game, and making her wet at the thought of you, you chose the easier path of passing on the lifting days, enjoying pizza & beer, etc. How do you react? Like a grown man, you're 27 suck it the fuck up. Try harder next year & she'll have a nice gift for you.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/17 01:00 AM
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We all hate our former faggot selves. What matters is whether you use that as fuel or as a burden. Don't forget to keep it fun
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/17 12:55 AM
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Smooth man, I'll try this one out. Now it's a waiting game to see which one of us has too much to drink or the floor is wet and we take her ass out lol.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/02/17 11:34 PM
1

Awesome. It only gets better, little fuckers teach you more about yourself than pretty much anyone else.
/r/askMRP28/01/17 10:39 PM
1

How's fatherhood man?
/r/askMRP28/01/17 02:13 PM
0

Is that a hamster lol If thinking = hamstring, then we're all fucking hamstring our lives away. But you do you
/r/askMRP24/01/17 01:38 PM
1

My situation was different. My chick wasn't my wife & I found out 8 years later, big difference. For OP, drop her or don't, but don't keep her & hang this over her head for the rest of your days. Look at your life & do exactly what you want with it. This girl isn't special, she cheated on you and did all sorts of nasty shit with another man while she was married to you, think about that.
/r/askMRP22/01/17 03:24 PM
2

I've been married 8 years, I had porn star sex 10 minutes ago.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/17 05:42 AM
2

Thanks man, I'm glad the post resonated with you.
/r/askMRP18/01/17 09:23 PM
1

Why don't you consider yourself to be a man who has 100% reclaimed his masculinity?
/r/askMRP15/01/17 03:37 AM
2

A. Why are you so angry? B. Why do you think you deserve respect?
/r/askMRP15/01/17 12:10 AM
1

You aren't doing enough. Trying and being completely objective with review of performance is difficult yet necessary. You got in a wreck. Why has that changed the little, flirty, slutty things you would do?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/17 01:58 AM
2

What do you want? Seriously man, objectively look at everything and tell me, What is your end goal?
/r/askMRP14/01/17 01:55 AM
1

One of my old friends once dated a girl in highschool. Neat, AWALT. Now where was that guy at fault OP? He ws at fault, fuck chicks and disregard their past or* if aiming for LTR get better at vetting.. I know you're talking about the chubby husband who can't even get his wife to give him a blow job. I write for all men. I've had single teens and double divorced 50+ year old men work shit out with me. How is this a mans fault? It is your fault. You're a romantic man and you see this girl as what…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/16 03:37 AM
1

Relationship title does not define your role. You are man. You are masculine.
/r/askMRP31/12/16 12:56 AM
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Dude, you & /u/UEMcGill have been absolutely killing it on here recently. I hope guys are taking note because these fluctuations of quality content come in waves. The time you're dedicating is not wasted, well done.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/16 12:32 AM
1

I feel as though the Werewolf tied it all together.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/16 12:20 AM
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I couldn't help but laugh at the irony of a handful of women at the bottom of the thread wishing there husbands would follow your advice. That's the end goal. I don't give the slightest fuck about internet points, I want dudes (and chicks) to find maximum joy in their life, we have too few breathes not to.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/16 12:13 AM
16

Enjoy the ride man & refuse to let complacency creep back into your life.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/16 11:38 PM
13

I received an email from a dude who told me he'd found my blog from deadbedrooms. It planted a seed and my genius brain said to me, Hey, why haven't you ever gone into there and started the conversation about a different approach to bringing sex back into a deadbedroom situation, something I've had success with both on here as well as from the guys who've emailed me. I knew my involvement on the 'sphere would come into play so I went in there with an entirely different approach, palms up, lettin…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/16 04:10 PM
5

Going to the gym leads to the forever small syndrome lol
/r/MarriedRedPill28/12/16 04:50 PM
1

Ha! YouTube comments are pretty high quality from what I've heard.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/12/16 03:49 PM
3

don't talk like you are teaching new sailors or something. To be honest, that's the best approach I've found. I have no filler words, no erroneous hand movements, and I stick to the facts while showing some personality. I do it on my commutes to and from work, so you'll see me cruising in the Jeep talking about man shit pretty soon.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/12/16 03:42 PM
3

I plan to keep them under 10 minutes, probably 5. No lectures, just quick discussions for the most part. We'll see, I still suck at managing the flow of information.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/12/16 03:34 PM
2

Ha! I'll be sure to avoid.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/12/16 03:27 PM
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Glad you're digging the content.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 03:27 PM
2

YouTube videos, trying to add another medium to TFA.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/12/16 03:03 PM
4

Mother Fucker lol
/r/MarriedRedPill28/12/16 02:38 PM
4

It may have been you who inspired my recent use of the phrase, find hard things and make them easy, then find another hard thing. If so, thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/12/16 02:37 PM
9

Absolutely, we have to set the standard from which we measure others as they'll perform to the standard we accept not the one we expect.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 02:19 PM
4

Each man should adjust to his personal requirements. Also, just because you're more productive at 7 hours doesn't mean you have to get 7 hours if there's a legitimate reason to stay up to complete whatever project you're working on.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 02:17 PM
9

Too few recognize that all it takes is just a little more today than yesterday, then a little more tomorrow. Eventually the habits will form and standard will be raised.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 01:50 PM
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Hold on, let me find an excuse...fucker
/r/MarriedRedPill28/12/16 01:48 PM
2

Agreed, it is incredibly frustrating when you the lack of living going on in the world. The art of conversation is lost with a majority of people. Speaking to someone about whatever is now viewed as something you simply don't do, as if we're expected to just stick to our own little path and get our face back into our phone. Life isn't short, the problem is the amount of time which is wasted.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/12/16 01:46 PM
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This is the Directory Look under the 'Marriage' section. UNpredictable, 10 ways, Create Slut, and a few others touch on this subject. Masculine Moves might also give you some examples.
/r/askMRP28/12/16 01:49 AM
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Surprise vacations living room paint night 'adventures' in the Jeep to local sights ghost hunting crazy sex Ballroom Dancing in the middle of anywhere Opera Singing anywhere Shooting Range Scary Movies Casino Fires Themed Parties Practical Jokes Sex Toys Being Masculine Looking Good Naked Check the blog for more.
/r/askMRP28/12/16 01:15 AM
3

I don't know what man flu is, but the wife has been solid. She tries to become caretaker, I turn her into 'naughty nurse' lol
/r/MarriedRedPill27/12/16 07:07 PM
1

I've been fighting a cold for a month now, I endorse the being sick sucks message 100%
/r/MarriedRedPill27/12/16 04:36 PM
2

Nah man, I meant I wanted it out 3 months ago, still editing lol
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/16 11:42 PM
1

The greatest compliment a writer can receive is someone saying that they found it valuable enough to share with another person, so thank you for that, it's appreicated. As for the book, 3 months ago lol
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/16 11:03 PM
1

Frame = reality Whose are you living in?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/16 10:25 PM
5

It's not a big deal to women, plugged in dudes, and children. To men, it's a sign of earned respect and a result of a completion of the Rite of Passage.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/16 08:33 PM
4

Every married beta, every single beta, every beta could use TRP in their life. To me, it's about raising the standard. This post isn't about planning a day, it's about becoming a planner, a leader; recognizing that shit doesn't just happen you've got to plan and coordinate and make it so. Many don't know this, the message is for them.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/16 07:21 PM
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You'd be surprised how few married men can do what you view to be 'common knowledge'. In fact all of TRP is unnecessary when you think of it. This should be common knowledge, men should be men, easy day. That's not the reality we live in, also there's a reason flair are added to posts. If you don't want married men dealing with family info, don't read a post flared for marriage talking about holidays.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/16 07:11 PM
6

Absolutely, the man with the plan comes out on top. Don't let 'planning to the minute' get in the way of enjoying the variables which may arise. Adapt & overcome.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/16 04:38 PM
1

Merry Christmas brother
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/16 01:58 PM
1

If you're pumped, but tired, I'd have to ask you this. Is life easy? Do you want it to be easy or do you want to be stronger? Take advantage of this time brother, you're never going to have it again. I'm a husband, dad, grad student, worker, writer, blogger, and lifter - my life is busy and I love it. Love your life & live your life. If you don't give the now your all, you're going to look back on this moment and wish you had done more. Sack up brother & get some.
/r/askMRP23/12/16 02:55 AM
1

Are you pumped to have this amount of free time w/ her?
/r/askMRP23/12/16 12:49 AM
7

my plan now is to basically refuse all sex So you're the faggot who gets everything he wants for Christmas, but cries because he had 1 less toy than his friend, ok.
/r/askMRP22/12/16 05:39 PM
5

Who cares?
/r/askMRP22/12/16 05:30 PM
2

You don't force shit like that, you inspire it from her. Like anal sex, most girls hate it, until they love it. Be a guy your woman wants to blow, check out all of the resources out there to do this. Either through manipulation (positive) or through a challenge, which works with competitive chicks.
/r/askMRP22/12/16 05:16 PM
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You're welcome. We're all in this together man, just men in an internet locker room. If you want to improve your real life you've got to put more effort in than asking a question which has been asked 30x. This type of low effort makes me think you're putting in the same low effort w/ your life. If that's the case, nothing you read can fix it, you've got to raise your standard of performance.
/r/askMRP22/12/16 03:24 PM
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You act as if being new is an excuse for being weak. Be a man or don't, stop sitting on the fucking fence. Wife calling me out on not OYS. How to handle? O.Y.S.
/r/askMRP22/12/16 03:22 PM
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rough and dominating and women love it. - False, read YMMV Not all girls have the same kink, have you talked to her about the issue? Not in a condescending/you're disappointing way but rather as a sexual discussion?
/r/askMRP22/12/16 03:21 PM
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It's been covered time and again, put the effort in to find the posts man. https://thefamilyalpha.com/2015/11/17/10-ways-to-keep-your-wife-on-her-toes/ https://thefamilyalpha.com/2015/12/15/be-unpredictable/ https://thefamilyalpha.com/2015/12/30/creating-your-slut/
/r/askMRP22/12/16 03:19 PM
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The transition from improving for her to improving for self is a beautiful one.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/12/16 03:17 PM
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Solid post. This guy will gain satisfaction in completing a difficult task and the smile it brings to his woman. Whether she fully appreciates the effort (she can't) is irrelevant, his appreciation of a job well done and that smile on her face is the completion of the contract.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/12/16 03:11 PM
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I've been saying it for years. Lifting is Step #1 to reclaiming your masculinity and it's not just because of muscle mass.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/12/16 03:08 PM
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Has it always been this way?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/16 02:49 AM
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You have been on fucking fire the past few posts I've read. Solid content man.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/16 04:32 PM
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You've got to cater your approach to your girl. Honestly, this is something you should have caught & figured out during vetting.
/r/askMRP19/12/16 04:13 PM
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OP, check This Post on Balancing the Scales and see if it helps. You aren't wrong or superficial for desiring your woman to maintain her physique. I hope the article helps.
/r/askTRP17/12/16 01:43 AM
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well that's good.
/r/askMRP15/12/16 06:42 PM
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You're stupid, go take care of your girl.
/r/askMRP15/12/16 05:52 PM
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ha!
/r/askMRP15/12/16 05:44 PM
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it opened a can of worms and revealed more than I expected It's what men do, we don't only provide an answer but we also find the source to prevent it from happening again. Remove the ego and embrace the various ideas being tossed your way. Keep what works and disregard the rest. As for you, your kids are an excellent motivator for improvement and I'm actually in the middle of a post on that exact subject which I'll be publishing tonight. There's no excuse for lowered standards when you've got a…
/r/askMRP15/12/16 04:27 PM
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This is what it's all about. Men starting to feel better being men again. How was this done? By acting like you should have the entire time, like a man. Well done.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/16 04:24 PM
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Listen man, look at your username - is that the name of a man who is aiming for greatness? Your wife is acting like this because someone has to lead. You chose not to, forced her to do it, now she resents you for it and doesn't trust you to take the wheel. What are you doing about this? What do you want to achieve? Why? Once you figure all that out, realize that you entered this marriage as a weak fuck, she may not want to change the rules. Are you looking to improve for your 'self', your marria…
/r/askMRP15/12/16 04:02 PM
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Ha!
/r/askMRP15/12/16 03:23 PM
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I'm selling the shit in gallon batches
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/16 02:16 PM
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He has no plan, he thinks his shit doesn't stink and that means his chick is just going to fall on his dick. Notice, nowhere in here does he give the scenario of his gaming of the wife/initiation, it's all about the other chick. This dude is fantasizing about what he thinks his life would be like if only instead of taking responsibility for what it is and how he's going to make it what he wants it to be.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/16 02:09 PM
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FUCK Well, secret is out, looks like shit tests will be passed by all. Merry Happy Kwanzaa
/r/askMRP15/12/16 01:34 PM
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Try This
/r/askMRP15/12/16 01:01 PM
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It's like this has been written before.
/r/askMRP15/12/16 12:49 PM
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She's a alpha female and very contentious What does this mean?
/r/askMRP15/12/16 12:49 PM
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Said she was tired, but then proceeded to stay up 2 more hours and drink wine. I get it, I'm not attractive. Listen man, you're in a routine that you need to break. Why are you waiting to initiate when she is on the couch, comfortable, watching a show or whatever? You need to foster an environment which helps you turn your wife into your slut while at the same time doing shit that gets women craving men. You've got to make her feel, keeping her on her toes. This isn't just blog promotion, these …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/16 12:16 PM
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Agreed, I was talking US Pros
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 10:02 PM
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When you can oversee the playing field, you have thr advantage in every situation. Be who you have to be in each moment to get what you want.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 09:46 PM
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Ha! Thanks?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/16 08:19 PM
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Solid post and excellent points. This isn't anything new, but it does bring up the point that we need to stop viewing it as an Us vs Them. They're women, we're men for one to succeed and get what they want, the other must submit and follow. The goal is to create more masculine men so they stop following and start leading. Masculinity begets femininity and like a YinYang the masculine and feminine nature of the sexes are entirely complimentary. Men must fill their role first and only then will th…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 07:03 PM
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I'm glad you enjoyed the blog and as a dude who turns 30 in February, it's good to see other motivated men continuing to grind. With that said, you just need to get out there. You've got the information, now put yourself in a position on the 'battlefield' of life and see what comes of it.
/r/askMRP14/12/16 06:59 PM
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since she's graduating winter, she's expressed an interest to move in with me. Neat, the fuck does that have to do with you? You're an adult, why aren't you deciding if you want a woman living with you? The fact that you say you had to 'add red pill' to the relationship and It hasn't been easy but I feel like I'm starting to regain respect and control in the relationship. shows me that you probably should not be moving in together, you probably shouldn't even be together as you aren't content. '…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/16 06:23 PM
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I attach myself to the game This is where I think you are fucking up. That team is nothing, maybe a representation of your region, but nothing more. Enjoying the leisure time is great, but it's not my point. attachment is my point. You should do things because you choose to do them, never because a X fan would do that. You do you man, I just think attachment to something so trivial, it's a part of the problem we have with men.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 06:05 PM
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Bro, who the fuck is pulling Victoria secret angels on this sub? My advice was to the guys on here who can actually relate to what you're writing in real life. There are gorgeous women out there who you can get, if you're playing the Model or bust game, good luck man as you're right you'll need to be higher status than her as you don't get the model if you don't look like one yourself.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 06:02 PM
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The only time my mind is truly at ease is when I'm in the flow. Through lifting, writing, schoolwork, playing with kids. When I'm doing what I need to do to improve myself is when I'm at my best.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 05:35 PM
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The level of wealth is where people get it twisted. You don't need a mansion & Lambo to get chicks. If you drive a Wrangler & have your own place, preferably not in the hood - you're good enough. Women want men who are independent & masculine. you can't be those things while living at home. You can't bring a chick home & tell her to be quiet so you don't wake up your 'roommates'(parents). She'll never call again. Your own home & vehicle, both in a respectable range are all that's required.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 05:32 PM
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It's weird when friends tell me, "We won the Superbowl." No we didn't, you & I didn't do shit for that team, they won. Now how about you go and win something in real life.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 05:18 PM
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My thought exactly. To the post, the bar is so low that being normal weight, not even muscular or shredded, but just being normal weight puts you above a large percentage of men out there. Add game, RP awareness, and some fashion, no excuse for not pulling ladies.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 05:15 PM
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Solid point. I see it with sports, people live & die for a team, but all they are rooting for is laundry. They want a certain jersey to win; men are willing to fight and waste their valuable time for millionaires who will never even know they exist. Why? Because it gives them identity, they are a Patriot's fan which means they are a part of a group. I used to be a sports fan, now I view it to be a waste of time. The family will have a get together and friends will come together over a game, but …
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 05:07 PM
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Dude, this is your wife who is bringing issues to your attention for guidance. when we say women are submissive, this is what we mean. She wants you to make the call and for you to handle the confrontation. You're the man of the house, correct? Your woman is saying, "Hey Manofthehouse I think there is an issue, can you check it out to ensure I'm not crazy and if there is and issue can you talk to the workers?" Simple shit man, you are leading, the wife is following & deferring.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/16 04:51 PM
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the king of shit mountain FTW! When I made it an took over 3 shops (45 guys) I remember thinking, all of these fucking retards are now my responsibility.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/16 04:41 PM
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I'd meet my girl, maybe make it a thing where I'd sit outside and read in the fresh air or something. If you're in the hood, maybe she's got a point. The night before my wife started going to night class I sat her down and handed her a Knife/Flashlight combo as well as pepper spray. Her school was in a nice area, but she had to walk into a dark parking lot. I explained how to use light to disorient, how to use pepper spray, and when and where to use the knife. She sat there and soaked it in, a f…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/16 04:37 PM
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This is one of those discussions to be had at a bar lol difficult to explain. I was an E-6 which looks like a PO2 on your list. http://www.navy.mil/navydata/ranks/rates/rates.html
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/16 04:33 PM
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Ive had a po2 ask if i was cool, when driving to our ships golf tournament, one of the guys said yes, then pulled a bong out of his glove box Dude, E5 was where it was at. Not quite in charge, yet not at the bottom either. Not your responsibility when shit goes wrong, not your responsibility when shit jobs roll around lol
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/16 04:09 PM
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Clean if you need a clean house/environment but do it because you want it that way, not to get fucked. This was my point, OP is doing shit for sex, not because it needs to be done.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/16 12:56 PM
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Technology has made modern living comfortable, because of this society (men) have become weak. Implement some Intentional Discomfort in your life. You may have this idealized version of what your Rite of Passage will look like, just be aware that without money, connections, or appearing to have any physical presence you are likely to get robbed, beaten, raped, or killed. Go into this fully prepared, you may come out a better man than I or you may die. Before going full hobo mode in Texas, re-eva…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 12:48 PM
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I am the bad guy for wanting him to have a social life Whose frame are you in? If you were in your own frame you'd laugh at the obsurdity of this notion. But, you allow that thought to linger & question your actions. Dude, the kid is fucked up, maybe there is another approach you can take, such as finding out what he will do. Also, the whole phone thing, I don't play that game. If I'm out I call friends and family on having their face in the screen and there's no fucking way my kids will sit the…
/r/askMRP14/12/16 12:44 PM
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You know, as rampant as the female imperative is not all women are whores. I work with a wicked nice & shy chick who could probably be a freak in the sheets but she'd rather work, go to school, and paint. They aren't all beef curtain hags out there lol Go to places where high quality people go & become someone worth speaking to, then meeting again, then reproducing with. Also, read posts on running a family without marriage.
/r/askMRP14/12/16 12:39 PM
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There never was and never will be anyone walking this path with you. Masculine men walk their path alone and there is beauty in that. When you realize that you are both the problem and solution to everything in your life, it just gets easier.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 12:31 PM
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Was frenchie truly virtuous though? He was a squared away sailor who embodied the ethos of your fleet. Yet, when presented with the opportunity to fail (drugs) he did exactly that. Your post is solid, one of your best pieces and the message is clear and sound, this is just sidebar for my own insight into your mind.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/16 12:19 PM
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You may have missed my point. I'm the runt by choice; makes me train harder in everything.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 08:05 PM
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If our wife is lazy we don't moan and nag, we step into the breach we stop rewarding failure and get our wife to stop being so fucking lazy FTFY Gentlemen, don't do the dishes, lead your woman to seeing dishes and cleaning them, thus eliminating the noise from her own life.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/16 06:56 PM
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Enjoy the game.
/r/askMRP13/12/16 06:35 PM
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Good, get your shit together for you and the next chick you let into your life who doesn't bail when you're sick. The fuck do you want from this girl? The ease of pussy? Man up and go out without making sure the world sees it on Fakebook.
/r/askMRP13/12/16 05:50 PM
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At 5'8" I'm the smallest of my friends. When I lift I do it with the strongest dudes, putting me near the bottom. When I run I find the fastest guys, make me the slowest. I'd rather be the weaker Lion than the strongest sheep. I look at myself w/ my peers and feel the urge to improve to 'beat' them - never satisfied. The view me a fuel as my motivation to improve causes them to train harder as well. Find the Lions and run with them. Back in the 'primal' days this is how it was. The weaker men we…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 05:33 PM
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Oh no, I am here to learn. Then why are you countering every point given to you? Kill the ego before you end up going purple or back to blue.
/r/askMRP13/12/16 05:28 PM
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See what happens when you aren't a conflict averse pussy? Masculinity begets femininity.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 04:47 PM
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I really honestly did want to do something nice for her, but I just forgot all about it. Who are you trying to convince? Us or yourself? If you wanted to do something, you'd of made it a priority, you didn't.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 04:46 PM
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Why not tell your wife to unfuck shit with her friend? Lead her to mending the issue & do that before the party. If my wife got in a fight with my best friend's wife we'd say fuck em' & go do our own thing. If we wanted to do shit together, we'd force them to see the retarded shit they're fighting over and for them to get over it. When push comes to shove though, I'm behind my wife fuck the haters. If they cannot be together, then the couple can't come over until my friend unfucks his girl or my…
/r/askMRP13/12/16 04:42 PM
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isn't doing whatever the fuck you want the most alpha thing you can do? Context man. Is a fat dude playing video games day in and out alpha? He wants to fuck women between games but doesn't because he's fat from playing games so he just beats off. He does this to the grave. You could call that alpha in that he did his thing and who are we to judge? The problem is that isn't reality for the 99.9% of guys out there. They play games because they want to get away from real life. way less than my wif…
/r/askMRP13/12/16 04:35 PM
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On a wicked tangent, I had a discussion the other day talking about the marriages that survive a man 'unplugging' are usually the marriages that began in the man's frame, then he lost it. When he 'reclaims' his masculinity he is just reverting the wife back to the original setting, not a new one. She's 'been there' before so it's easier to adjust and comply whereas those who never embraced their masculinity are going into unknown territory and these marriages are often the ones which collapse.
/r/askMRP13/12/16 03:59 PM
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You were pretty close to some insight here, but you fucked it up at the end. You should have writen this out, then deleted it and made a decision. The goal isn't to get attention or help guys on MRP until you're capable of helping yourself. This isn't about winning the internet, it's about winning in your life. This is just another What do I buy for my girl on X occasion post.
/r/askMRP13/12/16 03:22 PM
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Of course man, it feels good to see your hard work paying off. But it's like I tell the boys I coach. Don't start screaming and flipping out when you score a touchdown or homerun, get up & smile acting like you've been there before. You now know what it feels like to be desired, be selective with whom you give your attention to from here on out. If I were at a party and a chick started stroking my back, I'd spin, grab her hand & look her in the eye with a smirk, then walk over to my wife and put…
/r/askMRP13/12/16 01:28 PM
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You 'declare, set boundaries, etc.' dude you aren't leading these people yet you're acting as though you are. You jump up because nobody is ready to go to the pool? Tell me, what exactly did you do to ensure your wife and kids would be ready? Your wife threw something because that is behavior you've accepted up to this point. That's not on her, it's on you. Drawing that boundary in front of everyone, whatever I'd had the conversation in private but you do you. Did you ever think the out of town …
/r/askMRP13/12/16 01:23 PM
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You were doing alright until you said contact the chick. Humblebrag here? For sure, there aren't many places men can talk about shit like this. To message her back? You haven't internalized abundance, you have a good marriage, and to show the first girl to give you attention a second thought is weak. But you're new, so it's expected. But objectively look at this. You have a wife who is performing to your standard, why veer from that? Be more aggressive? To what end? Why not just be a man who got…
/r/askMRP13/12/16 01:04 PM
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Do you man. Some day you'll reflect & see my point.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/16 04:06 AM
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Think like a man instead of a solipsistic woman and you'll see the point of my post.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/16 03:48 AM
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Many men are afraid to make waves, I find that to be the only way to make progress.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/16 03:36 AM
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To be honest, idgaf. I've got a fucking awesome marriage going right now so I'm going to keep it going as long as I can and if it ends whatever I'll pick up chicks; but for right now it's the fucking shit
/r/TheRedPill10/12/16 03:10 AM
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Solid comment man, some points hit home hard.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/16 02:01 AM
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You're stupid as fuck. My wife isn't fat, you know why, because I never let her get fat in the first place. She had 2 kids, I made sure she ate right and lost the weight while we trained together. Learn to lead
/r/TheRedPill09/12/16 09:31 PM
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getting married is a terrible proposition for men. agreed For those who've already bit the bullet, follow the masculine path and make the marriage worth it or get a divorce now, why waste another day married?
/r/TheRedPill09/12/16 09:29 PM
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are you seriously censoring comments on your blog, tried twice now! Don't be sensitive, I have to approve comments & I can't do that from work.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/16 07:29 PM
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Enter marriage in your frame, maintain standard & frame, no problems. My wife and I are doing fine, sex, fun, personal professional development - easy day. If she ever finds something strange and we get divorced I just continue on and hook up with chicks and improve to the grave. Marriage is good for now, I'll enjoy it and if/when it ends at least I tried - no big deal.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/16 07:28 PM
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Your initial comment made me smile, this explanation made me laugh.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/16 06:53 PM
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Fuck marriage, this was for those who've already said the words. To those who haven't and want a family do so without the contract.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/16 06:47 PM
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though technically if you look at the actual species behavior it gets weird, but generally it's the right idea. I had the same thought when responding, decided to just let it be surface level & not get too deep as it's the internet and all...
/r/TheRedPill09/12/16 06:46 PM
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People perform to the standard you accept, not the one you expect.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/16 06:45 PM
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The fuck are you rambling about? I write a blog for married men, most have kids - I'm not telling single guys to get married and reproduce, I'm telling those who've already done so to stop being complacent. Get the fuck out of here with your random 'call to arms' it doesn't make sense in the context of my post at all.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/16 06:43 PM
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Did you read the blog or reddit post? You seem to of gone into this with a preconceived notion as to what I was saying because I wrote in the very beginning, "having a family does reduce a man’s output"
/r/TheRedPill09/12/16 06:41 PM
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No problem man. Our kids follow our example, not our advice It' imperative that we embody the masculine and allow their mother to be the feminine.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/16 06:31 PM
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Solid distinction and a discussion I've had multiple times. The username FamilyAlpha is corny, but it was intentional so as to immediately distinguish what type of man I am and write for. I don't view one to be more or less masculine, but various and different embodiments of masculinity. Wolf vs Lion
/r/TheRedPill09/12/16 05:21 PM
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That's been my go to chart thus far. I didn't know if there was a resource I was unaware of.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/16 04:58 PM
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Where do you get those numbers? I've found similar from art of manliness and through google but I can never find a legit 'source' for levels. Me at 29 vs a 50 yr old do we both just fall anywhere between 300 ng/dL and 1050 ng/dL?
/r/TheRedPill09/12/16 04:37 PM
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Where do you get your information for where T levels should be at? I had blood work done, awaiting results.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/16 04:11 PM
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Always Fight Club
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/16 03:41 PM
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I don't argue either way as dudes need to do what dudes need to do. It's why my blog is geared towards those who are already married and most likely a parent. I could easily create a blog dedicated to single dudes and talk about getting chicks and living life. The market is larger and it's easier to play on emotions. But what good is that? We have enough of that. How many blogs are out there telling fathers to stop being faggots? How many blogs are out there telling husbands and fathers that the…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/16 03:12 PM
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Precisely. Not all men need to have families, but those who choose to do so, lead them as a masculine man must.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/16 02:59 PM
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We need more of it in society.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/16 02:34 PM
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How in the actual fuck did I not think of adding this? nice share
/r/TheRedPill09/12/16 11:33 AM
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Dude, Waffle houses are a godsend for drunks
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/16 03:04 AM
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Exactly, I've had this conversation so many times, he goes under appreciated in the trials.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/16 03:03 AM
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Here's every post I've ever written for the blog
/r/TheRedPill09/12/16 02:04 AM
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He's a fucking boss. Dude basically walked told everyone they were retarded.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/16 02:03 AM
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Dude, wrangling your drunk bros is like herding cats. I remember trying to get a few dudes back to the ship after a night out, I wasn't sober but rather less drunk and it was fucking impossible, drunk masculine men aren't drama, they're fucking ADHD.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/16 02:02 AM
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It is through total exertion that men feel the purity of their masculinity.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/16 01:10 AM
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Recognize time well spent with family from Time forced to spend. I spend a lot of time with my wife's family because they're fucking awesome, mine is boring and selfish. Don't think your wife's desire to see people should be over-ridden as she has a say in her time as well. If you guys don't agree, split up and do your own thing. Find balance brother and you'll find yourself spending your time most optimally.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/16 11:47 PM
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You guys sound like you just made if through BUD/S Nice passive aggressive attempt to undermine men talking about being men. You aren't Navy SEALs, they're REAL men - Go fuck yourself. Men can talk about being men without ridicule and comparison to the 1% of the US Military. Masculine men are real men,you don't get to define that, we do.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 10:57 PM
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It's in the post man, men find joy in great effort.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/16 10:48 PM
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me living a proper life is actually the best way to give the world the finger. It truly is, the world wants you to fail, miss your wife, etc. Fuck em' As for preparing for all that is to 'possibly' come, I wrote a post on Negative Visualizations earlier today which deals with exactly that.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/16 10:47 PM
1

Thanks for the shout out man.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 09:34 PM
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A man can do whatever and be masculine as fuck, so long as he does it out of genuine desire vice seeking approval/validation from others.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 09:32 PM
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been doing alot of nofap. Its nuts Tell me that's not just coincidence.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 08:02 PM
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You may like this post I wrote a while back on the topic.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 06:34 PM
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Awesome man, glad I could help you kill some time in a productive manner. Good Luck and remember, you're good.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 06:32 PM
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I think this is developed through a series of challenges which force you to find comfort in the suck. When your comfortable with pain, there's not much that can phase you.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/16 06:00 PM
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It's why boys, when covered in dirt, cuts, bruises, and grime as smiling ear to ear.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 05:58 PM
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Real world example of exactly what I'm saying. This isn't 'theory' it's masculine living
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/16 05:58 PM
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You appreciate more when you have less
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 05:56 PM
2

I forgot about the Kwanzaa crowd, happy(?) Kwanzaa /u/Scurvemuch
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/16 05:55 PM
2

I believe that until a man tastes raw unfiltered pain, he'll never achieve his maximum potential.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/16 05:55 PM
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There's a purity in that This is it, this is the purpose of my post. Finding that purity in life, beautifully done man. Sometimes I write and others polish it up better than I could, you hit the nail on the head. In the rage, in the grind, in the hardest moments of life you can experience the purity of masculinity, true joy in chaos.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/16 05:00 PM
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If the comparison works then it works, not corny at all. You're right, shit can hit the fucking fan and as tempting quitting sounds, you just can't do it. So push forward and smile in the chaos.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 04:57 PM
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Bootcamp was my Rite of Passage, you're going to find you're capable of more work with less sleep than you ever thought possible. My thought when times got rough - "They can't kill me, if they do my family will get some cash" And in that artificial chaos and pain and the "rumble" on my face, I couldn't think of a place I'd rather be. I had won. Makes me want to rip a phone book in half. Good luck man, Never Quit.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 04:56 PM
2

It's a gift, Merry Christmas
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/16 04:53 PM
1

I've been there, laying down physically but mentally the mind is spinning.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/16 04:19 PM
7

Rock bottom is a solid foundation from which you can build your new empire.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/16 04:19 PM
9

Time is your most precious commodity, the sooner you learn that you aren't obligated to give it away, the better. I only see people and attend events I want to, I no longer go to a lot of family functions because I'd rather write or go on an adventure with my wife & kids. You'll find, if you keep this standard beyond the holiday season that there are many 'time sinks' you can eliminate and fill with productive action.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/16 04:03 PM
3

Dude, that's fucking awesome. The next time you can't sleep after a major performance, get out of bed and write. Some of my best articles were written at 0100 because I couldn't get the idea out of my head, so it was either get it down or lose it forever. Let your emotion flow through the pen or keyboard and see what you come up with. Once it's 'out' you'll feel exhausted, like cutting off a limb, getting that emotion out of your head is heavy lifting. I look forward to hearing about your future…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/16 03:59 PM
1

It says a lot about the mother to recognize and relay that to the children, excellent scene.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/16 01:29 PM
7

Hey man, we'd just started, it was literally set #1. This is supposed to be my safe space
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/16 12:34 AM
6

I wrote this almost a year ago. I've yet to feel the need to take it down or alter.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/16 10:16 PM
4

You are man. Look deeper at my original comment, let it sink in that everything you are doing is to keep her. Even in your response, you say you don't think you're afraid. You should know and you don't. Kill the ego, it's ok to feel this way, just recognize the impact it's having on your psyche, health, and decision making.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/16 09:03 PM
4

At first I was scared of losing her but I've gotten over that. No you haven't, the rest stems from that.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/16 08:03 PM
2

Stop taking everything so seriously. Your wife isn't the enemy. You are both the problem and solution to everything in your life. Manage time by writing it out, getting a real plan together requires Intel on where the bottlenecks are.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/16 11:23 AM
1

Haven't seen it, I'll have to check that one out.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/16 02:03 AM
3

Gangsta's Paradise it is
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/16 11:47 PM
5

I hear you on that, I enjoy chasing them around the playground and house. I could never be the dad who just sits and watches, just isn't as fun.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/16 10:40 PM
3

If I were a single dude I'd be writing about that, but married with kids = TFA I don't know where it stemmed from, but I always wanted kids. Which is weird because neither my brother or sister have kids and my Big doesn't have kids. At there age I'd already had 2. Wife & I are both the oldest, correlation?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/16 10:39 PM
2

That's a solid perspective. I thought of including a similar perspective in the post but found myself veering in too many directions, maybe a future post.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/16 10:03 PM
2

fuck the Dutch - Ha! I agree man; married, single, divorced - it makes no difference so long as you're owning your shit as a man. Everyone has value and we do have very few breathes in this planet. Make them count, choose a path and fully commit to it.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/16 09:28 PM
4

Solid reply man and in the comment you seem to objectively own where you're at, not much victim hood to be found. Whether you were forced or pressured it's irrelevant as you're here and all that matters is what you're doing with your present 'self'.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/16 08:05 PM
2

I've never seen the movie but your relay of it is spot on with my post. If Jobs had dedicated more time to his family, he may have learned to better deal with employees as they'd be treated like 'extended family'. If he dedicated more time to home and delegated more work to Apple would they have become as big as they are? Who knows, maybe.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/16 08:03 PM
5

You want them, and you figure it out as you go along. Very true, I'll be using this one when the topic comes up again.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/16 07:37 PM
9

Dude, that's how I felt when I came across MRP. I got out of the Navy, looked around, and thought, "Fuck, are all married dudes faggots now??" This place helped save me from losing all hope in masculinity.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/16 07:32 PM
2

Ha!
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/16 07:19 PM
7

Definitely, my kids have taught me how to streamline actions & multitask like a mother fucker.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/16 07:14 PM
1

Solid reminder as I guarantee there were quite a few men who read this and recognized that they were hoping for something from the gift they gave. My approach is that I buy something I want to give my wife and I factor in the little hints she's dropped. Seeing her smile is for me, there's no expectation of a similar gift being given to me or sex or anything like that. When you buy something you want your girl to have and she opens it and lets that smile blind you, that makes it all worth it. I g…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/16 07:13 PM
1

As the years pass, many men will find they are no longer able to lift heavy weights without injury What? This isn't about lifting the same way you did at whatever age, it's about putting stress on your muscular & central nervous system. It's about strengthening your bones and increasing your raw strength as well as destroying the instant gratification demon Guys who don't use proper form get injured at 20 years old; lift right and all of those lift you say are impossible are the result of you do…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/16 11:20 PM
1

Thanks man, TIL
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/16 10:45 PM
1

I'll show my ignorance, I only see it one way. What is the blue version of that phrase?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/16 09:38 PM
2

Dude, if it works stick with it. There's no need to drain your masculine essence. I only release when I fuck. Fortunately I've got a solid sex life - no need for porn.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/16 09:03 PM
2

Can't believe I didn't slip that in there with men in motion not gathering 'fat, bp habits, deadbedroom, etc.' Next Time
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/16 08:58 PM
1

Walk the dog Feed the dog No dog? Get a dog Made me LOL
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/16 08:50 PM
3

Dude, my dog is my fucking best friend. Dude loves me more than himself and I've raced him on more than one occasion during a run(I've yet to win, but he pushes me to keep trying).
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/16 08:48 PM
1

Absolutely, I think it was Elliott Hulse who introduced me to the 'breathe from your balls' concept.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/16 07:57 PM
1

Exactly, for the 100 who just do it without thinking or it there are 10,000 who have no idea what it's like to just improve through motion as they've been beaten into stagnation over the years.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/16 07:56 PM
9

You need to get the fuck in shape before you lose a foot or go blind. Fuck this entire post, it's retarded. Want real advice? Eat less & eat right, workout, and unfuck yourself. I pity your wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/16 01:33 PM
15

This is a great resource, read & implement. Remember, wife isn't the enemy, she's just had to deal with her husband being a pussy for however long.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/16 12:10 AM
1

Does she see your vision for this family? Does she know that she should no longer be 'doting daughter' but rather '100% supporting wife'?
/r/askMRP02/12/16 03:27 PM
1

Explore the blog man, it's there for you & all others looking to take their life back.
/r/askMRP02/12/16 12:45 AM
2

I get it man, life's easy though and sometimes we make big things out of little things, C'est la vie Just don't let it continue on as it isn't worth your joy or relationship & time you have with this woman. Tell her to keep it and to use it or store it or sell it and keep the cash. Also, grab some wine and just discuss it, don't fight. Tell her why it bothered you, let her know the reason you purchased it in the first place is because you could see her using it and finding joy and that you were …
/r/askMRP01/12/16 07:43 PM
8

Life is crazy man and this is how marriages go. A friend of mine bought his girl a sticker maker and she never used it, same shit. I bought my wife a violin once, fucking collected dust until I returned it for 1/200 of the price. So it goes man, you fucked up the way I did and so many others have in the past and will in the future, you listened to her words over observing her actions. It's not that big of a deal and certainly not a reason to flip out or go full on I'm fucked, divorce, this sucks…
/r/askMRP01/12/16 07:15 PM
2

It is entirely my fault. I was lucky to meet a guy in AA who actually did the work. He sat me down and smacked me with a 2x4 until I understood this. Buy that man a drink (coffee of course) I recognize now that the only person who can help me is myself. It took a while to figure that out but alas here I am. Everything is for me right now. Even when I quit drinking it was for me. Probably the only reason it worked. And yes fuck her and anyone else that dismisses what I am doing. Excellent work ma…
/r/askMRP01/12/16 07:02 PM
1

These guys haven't unplugged, they've just started to see something isn't quite right. The strings are still invisible to them, soon they'll see, or they'll return to their mediocre existence trying for the rest of their lives to forget the truth they uncovered but couldn't decipher.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/16 06:43 PM
2

I go through phases, it's usualy BPP who dials me back in to the fact that, These men know not what they are capable of
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/16 06:31 PM
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Remember a few things: 1 - This was your fault. Your alcoholism, your failed marriage, choosing the wrong woman or possibly choosing the right woman and fucking it up - that's on you. 2 - You aren't just the problem, you're also the solution. Keep moving forward and do so because you want a better life; never because you want to prove to her you can make it - fuck her, she's out of the picture. 3 - I have a better relationship with my kids as I am not covering up her bullshit I'm glad the relati…
/r/askMRP01/12/16 06:19 PM
7

Excellent post OP. I read somewhere that funerals are to men what weddings are to women. The way I took it, men find motivation to live harder when they see how limited our time really is. Our time is not guaranteed, I could die driving home today. Would I be content with the work I've left undone? No, I have 1 project which I would hold regret, the TFA book which is still being edited. OP, this post has left a mark on my inner 'self'. The edits will be done this weekend and if you'd like to PM …
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/16 06:03 PM
1

Dude, no shit I just finished eating some popcorn that she popped for me because I said I was hungry. Nothing more, just said I was hungry and fucking poof.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/16 05:54 PM
2

That's very interesting man, also before I get too deep I thought my wife & I were the only couple who make fun of fat people, refreshing to see there are other fat people haters out there. Now to you; Have you ever made it clear to her that you aren't sexually satisfied in your relationship?
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/16 02:20 PM
2

Oh well, is right as it's the only answer. My only suggestion is that you enjoy the ride while you wait it out. There's no need for the next 10-15 years (I don't know your kid's ages) to be miserable where you're just *putting up with your woman. Fucking enjoy it, have a blast, smile every day, and then execute the divorce when the time comes. You will never get this time back, no need to spend it angry at the strings controlling the system. Remember, if you're doing this for your kids then you …
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/16 12:20 PM
2

He doesn't want to respond to me.
/r/askMRP30/11/16 05:23 PM
2

I became an excel wizard on Instructor Duty, made life way easier.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/16 05:04 PM
2

The only button that pisses me off is guys who blame their wife and act as if they are the victim. Fuck. That. OP could have led his woman to being a financially squared away woman months ago. He could have set parameters, Mint alerts, the fucking works and worked together to reach their financial goal. Instead he bought some stupid shit and got called out then decided Hey wait, I'm in charge here fuck that, they're both wasting dough. My wife and I recently sat down and went over all of our bil…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/16 05:00 PM
2

If she has the same budget and is aware of it, then how the fuck does she hit $541 before you address the issue, she isn't a part of this or she'd have her financial game on point as well. Also, you fail to mention what the $80 purchase was so it's most likely an unnecessary purchase. Does your wife work? Have you sat her down and showed her why you need a budget? Have you taken the role of 'leader' in this? Or are you deciding to have a 'financial meeting' because you got called out? You need t…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/16 04:57 PM
2

You are with a woman whom you cannot decide if you should even have in your life. That's a lie, you don't want her in your life and are sacrificing your 'self' for the upbringing of your kids. It's a fair decision, but when you make it you don't get to complain or be angry as that does nothing. Decide to keep her, at least for now and make the very best of it. Or ditch her because you clearly have no attraction to the woman. By keeping her and playing the tole of dad, husband, leader you are rew…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/16 04:53 PM
3

You're fucking garbage. You buy something out of nowhere and your wife gets pissed then like a butthurt child you say WELL LOOK AT WHAT YOU DID SEE, I HAVE SECRET BUDGET YOU DON'T KNOW ABOUT YET i'M HOLDING YOU TO IT.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/16 04:34 PM
3

I'd go w/ this. Also, think on this - I won't get into why you are the one moving out if she filed, that's a different story.
/r/askMRP30/11/16 04:03 PM
15

So this morning I wake up at 4:30AM because I'm hungry from a big workout yesterday Humblebrag fluff? She says "Wanna chat ?" I sleepily say "Sure". then I open one eye and tell her I'm not in the mood for a big discussion at 5AM. Later, please. Yet she asked to chat, she asked you for permission to do this and you shut her down. Why not say no? How is she supposed to follow your lead when you contradict yourself? not now and not with the tone she is using. Right, because she spoke when you told…
/r/askMRP30/11/16 03:59 PM
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This is why the manosphere is key. Every day seeds are planted and men embrace their masculine nature. Men are finding comfort in the discomfort of reality, choosing that brutal truth over the soft comfortable lie. It is liberating to say the least. No one cares and no one is going to help you, there's freedom in that.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 12:24 PM
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When you're sexy. How long does that take? How fat and insecure are you? https://thefamilyalpha.com/2015/11/17/10-ways-to-keep-your-wife-on-her-toes/ https://thefamilyalpha.com/2015/12/30/creating-your-slut/ https://thefamilyalpha.com/2016/02/15/lifting-is-step-1-towards-reclaiming-your-masculinity/ https://thefamilyalpha.com/2016/09/06/are-you-a-funny-fat-guy/ https://thefamilyalpha.com/2016/10/25/stop-being-a-clown/ https://thefamilyalpha.com/2016/09/20/break-the-mold/ https://thefamilyalpha.c…
/r/askMRP30/11/16 12:14 PM
3

I want to segway a little here; do you really believe the "9-12 yr mark" has anything to do with anything? I've been told, you're only 21, that's why your marriage is on point, wait until 3 years goes by and kids Now I've got two kids and am told, wait until the 7 year mark hits, then you'll see the reality I hit year #8 this year. Now I see 9-12. When does it end, when do guys stop setting this weird bar for when shit should hit the fan? Your point is sound, she may get some weird feeling and f…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/16 12:09 PM
2

Rewarding Failure - If people fail to meet the mark, yet they're still given 'love', time, and attention then what is the point of the mark? Also, what incentive do they have to perform better? Solid points.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/16 12:04 PM
2

thats for you J10 wherever you are in the great run on sentence hall of fame in the sky perhaps Ha!
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/16 02:50 AM
3

Excellent points. I think anyone who reads over this discourse will come away a much more well rounded individual because of it.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/16 12:20 AM
1

You're too quick...or I'm too fucking slow
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/16 10:54 PM
1

I tried getting the edit in quick, I submitted then immediately realized I had more to say.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/16 10:36 PM
7

Trust me, after writing the I'd do it again post, I took a hard look at what I was putting out to guys and I adjusted my perspective. I am a 1%er, I'm the exception to the rule. The problem here and te reason I think you're not digesting my message is that you are so deep in seeing your lady as old news and being in Camp 'I'm not sure if this marriage is going to work out or if I even want it to' that any suggestion that there are actions which men can take to make their wife drool for them is p…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/16 10:35 PM
3

When you lay game on a girl, is it so she gets wet & you can pick her up and get her back to your place? You're telling guys, who may enjoy their wife or still enjoy their marriage and just want to 'fix it' that they should follow your path, the path of a dude who views his wife as old news - it doesn't make sense?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/16 10:21 PM
3

Agreed, sometimes I will just drop lines for the lurkers. We have 10,000 subscribers, I'd say maybe 60 active posters - which is a good thing.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/16 09:14 PM
2

I told her if she wanted to continue to venture into the world of social media she needed to toughen up.
/r/askMRP29/11/16 07:53 PM
4

What you experienced was the transition from Faking it to making it.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/16 07:43 PM
2

Dude, she changed her photo because you said something, then asked me if she had an RBF and I told her negative, she has an ABF - Always Bitch Face.
/r/askMRP29/11/16 07:41 PM
2

That's my lady's anthem, fuckin' love that song.
/r/askMRP29/11/16 07:06 PM
2

Gonna be in your head all day queer; serenade your lady, r/deadbedrooms told me that's how you get her naked.
/r/askMRP29/11/16 06:53 PM
2

Ask & You Shall Receive
/r/askMRP29/11/16 06:31 PM
3

We have a lot of new guys, felt the need to add a disclaimer with that one.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/16 06:30 PM
2

Lol Embrace your unlimited power brother
/r/askMRP29/11/16 06:24 PM
4

do you think he's actually spending the majority of his day thinking about what would get his wife wet? God, I hope not. Negative, I'm too busy thinking of & writing about how I can make weak dudes strong dudes...I have an addiction To piggy back on this, treat your wife as if she were a ONS. Try to pick her up, impress her with your body, don't take her seriously, and don't worry about failing. Every morning when your feet touch the floor, she's a new woman that you've got to game and get into …
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/16 06:18 PM
3

It does, I'm just interested in the How/Why/When etc. It comes across in the writing, sometimes a post that says Unfuck yourself by recognizes X and bypassing it with Y is needed.
/r/askMRP29/11/16 06:13 PM
2

I've been working to simplify my message to actions after seeing your praxeology comment. Guys need quick guides in between the big theory. My initial point gets downvoted because it's easy. I'ev been saying it for years, the whole process and life is easy. Guys don't like that because it means they can't do easy. Problem isn't their capability but lack of doing the easy. Just. Do.
/r/askMRP29/11/16 05:21 PM
2

Taking action is my biggest weakness, so good at reading and intellectualising concepts, but not enough action. Now you see the point of my initial comment.
/r/askMRP29/11/16 03:47 PM
3

If you start working out with the hopes your wife fucks you more, you're wrong. That is a covert contract and it defeats the whole purpose of training your body. You must train your body because you want to improve your life, the increased sex is a byproduct. If you just go to the gym & don't explain shit to your wife, you're also wrong. If you want your wife to get in better shape, when she asks why you're going to the gym so much, tell her. Use your words and explain how strength training and …
/r/askMRP29/11/16 12:02 PM
2

Stop w/ the alpha vs beta and take a look at your life. What specifically bothers you about it? What do you wish your life looked like? Once you have those answers, what do you have to do to make it a reality?
/r/askMRP28/11/16 11:17 PM
3

Excellent. Do your thing brother. We all walk this path alone, so long as you are genuine, fuck the majority.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/16 10:22 PM
2

Truth
/r/askMRP28/11/16 07:43 PM
7

The resistance to change goes deep. In this case, it was Skype-Chad who stabs him in the most precious sanctuary of the mind. That stab set this man free, now he needs to choose and commit on a course of action.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/16 05:39 PM
2

Have you read How to be your dog's best friend? It was the combination and some advice from my sister who trains w/ Cesar Milan that I got my 'dog game' on point. You're correct with the training though, my dog could have trained himself. Smart as fuck, sometimes too smart...
/r/askMRP28/11/16 04:53 PM
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Forcing people to follow is not leading.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/16 04:50 PM
4

Lab for the win, smartest fucking dog I've ever seen/owned. Must be his owners leadership.
/r/askMRP28/11/16 04:36 PM
3

Have you read Acta, Non Verba anywhere on this sub? Do you know what it means?
/r/askMRP28/11/16 04:35 PM
3

You've been around here for a while dude, what's the deal w/ you and your wife? Do you want an enjoyable life? If so, are you going to make that happen any time soon? The analyzing of the marriage needs to stop and the implementation of masculine living needs to occur - now. You need to just start being a irrationally confident and full of limitless joy. Life is easy, marriage is what you make it.
/r/askMRP28/11/16 04:34 PM
3

My response: We can talk about this in person You sound butthurt. You're not wrong in what you're saying, but this isn't about right/wrong - it's about solving the issue, which you failed to do as things did not improve.
/r/askMRP28/11/16 04:28 PM
6

Start acting like a man instead of the needy, unstable child you've become. You fucked your marriage up and you aren't saving it. You need to save yourself and stop fucking with this woman's life. Fix you, if for no other reason than to help your kids not grow up without a father.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/16 04:22 PM
2

Dude, my dog flips, no idea why. I just let him run outside when we vacuum.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/16 01:56 AM
7

My dog game is on point, he has a phobia of vacuums lol
/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 11:18 PM
2

The iron doesn't lie, that's for damn sue.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/16 06:49 PM
3

Ha! I'll be the Grinch if I must to wake these dudes up.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/16 06:49 PM
3

Thanks and it's amazing how the less you need your girl, the more you enjoy her presence in your life.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/16 06:48 PM
1

You do what you must, but that sounds like a shitty plan to me.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 06:47 PM
1

True, but you managed your time to where your racecar was not all you did. You ate right, made sure to handle what you needed to handle before what you wanted to handle.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 06:46 PM
1

Yo be clear, I get your point.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 03:04 PM
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I feel like my dog would either kill it or die from anxiety.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 03:04 PM
9

Time is time brother. Some things are destructive, some are constructive, all must be managed appropriately.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 02:55 PM
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Some guys spend 3 hours a day in the gym doing 1/2 hour of work. They forget to do their school work or extra work to develop a side business, don't help their kids with their education, and no longer lead their wife. They only care about 3 hours of the iron, it's inefficient and a waste of time. writing & sex, you can become so focused in these topics that you forget to cultivate other aspects of your life, thus the lack of accountability and time management makes these activities time vampires…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 02:08 PM
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Moderation is key; all of the following can be a time vampire. Video Games TV Lifting Computer Writing Women Sex Alcohol Pot Porn Building a car Whatever else Anything can become detrimental to your success if you lose control of your time management.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 01:06 PM
19

'Alpha' (I prefer the term masculine) men do whatever the fuck they want. No relationship status is going to change whether a man is more Alpha or not, it comes down to the man.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 01:03 PM
5

Look at the professionals in every sport. They worked their way up, building confidence & skills as they advanced. Same applies with women.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 12:04 AM
2

I chose not to touch this as, what aim would it serve? True, I could provide an example of a marriage that doesn't suck - but I could also provide an example of one dude who smoked a pack of cigarettes every day for 20 years and didn't get lung cancer. Pointing out the exception doesn't help men, it hurts them.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/16 01:52 PM
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For those looking to find time, turn the radio off during your commute. You'll begin to find comfort in the discomfort of being alone with your 'self'. Sounds easy, but many dudes don't know how to be alone with only their mind to keep them company.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/16 02:22 AM
2

Anything linked to Rollo, Trump, & Sex in marriage are my big ticket items on there.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 03:32 PM
1

Dread is key, there should always be a steady state. Simply being a good looking man is sometimes enough.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 02:41 PM
3

My wife works full time, she fucks my brains out. She is the boss at work & submissive at home, it works if you can make it work. It comes down to whose frame the marriage is in.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 02:37 PM
3

Remember, you maintain your standard. Set and enforce boundaries, refuse to reward failure.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 02:12 PM
3

If I write a post saying I am sexually satisfied in my marriage 2-10 upvotes. If I write a post about how I'd be fine if my marriage were to fall apart 40-100 easy.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 02:10 PM
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I see it the same way now. My problem was, I didn't see myself as the exception but rather the rule. A shift in perspective and paying attention to what was going on opened my eyes. Marriage is a raw deal, I make it work and have been fortunate thus far, but for every 5 guys who are satisfied and 'good' there are 500 who aren't.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 10:52 PM
1

Let it go man, the girl you want you'll have a relationship with in person. You're being a woman, remove the feels and look at this objectively.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 10:18 PM
7

OP has it right. You need to release that masculine energy which builds up over time. It's why when you wrestle w/ family or friends you feel so good after. The times where you can release your true masculine energy are too far & few between. Make it happen, man up.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 10:16 PM
2

Thanks for the post u/TheFamilyAlpha - why are you not an EC?? A question for the mods. I've been here since before we were 1,000 strong. Most likely reason is because /u/RedPillSchool and I had a disagreement on my promotion of marriage. I've since shifted my view and have decided to start posting here again with the 'Married' flair. I figured one day they'd just throw a fancy title at me.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 07:37 PM
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Motivation is a match, it burns hot but fast. You need to take the match of motivation and use it to light the log of self discipline. Burns hotter & longer.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 06:36 PM
4

We're all men here.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/16 05:58 PM
3

I’m new and my credibility is lacking Post was fine, fuck this disclaimer just say your piece and let the reception tell you how you did. Being new isn't a free pass. Your words speak for themselves. With all of that said, remember to enjoy the ride brother.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/16 05:31 PM
2

Immediate evaluation of man provides whether he'd be worth the time for either. Sometimes you just give him that nod saying, she's mine if I want her
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 05:19 PM
7

I took a LOT OF SHIT from other family members for a couple years, but funny enough everyone has fallen into my frame like dominoes. That's how it goes man, it's just a giant shit test. People fight tooth & nail, after some time they grudgingly agree and then act as if it was their idea.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 05:16 PM
1

It was a med/high fade to be fair. Not Marine, Not slacker.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 04:31 PM
6

Dude, our wives are all different. You don't describe her at all - the fuck are we supposed to recommend aside from Skittles?
/r/askMRP23/11/16 04:08 PM
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It was exactly how you described, childlike.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 04:05 PM
1

It's a project, also the result of a wine filled night. But I set the challenge and intend to see it through, we'll see if it stays after I reach full potential.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 03:37 PM
3

Fuck that, I think the 'cutting of the hair' was a confidence boost & it led to you being more confident in who you were - the whole Look Good Feel Good concept. I may be biased as after 28 years of high fade I've decided to let the hair grow out to Man Bun level.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 03:14 PM
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Dude, this rabbit hole goes deep. What's fucked up is when the woman despises her husband in favor of the masculine man. I've had wives turn to putty laughing at my jokes and literally watched a husband ask, "Why don't you giggle like that when I say X" to which she replied, "When Hunter says it, it's funny" Poor dude didn't even know his wife was disgusted by his dad bod. When you're confident and sexy women are onboard, when you white knight women see through your covert contract. They want a …
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 02:43 PM
2

No problem man, I hope you're able to make those minor shifts in perspective to get the most from the limited amount of time we've got.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 02:38 PM
2

Thanks man, there is something to be learned from everything. Either what to do or what not to do.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 02:37 PM
2

Is there any way you can expedite the process? We don't have to go too deep, I just didn't know if there was something specific hanging the process up.
/r/askMRP23/11/16 02:37 PM
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The frame of the relationship must always be maintained by the man. The woman will challenge & test but men, never break frame. You live this life on your terms always. This is why so many marriages are completely fucked up. The man enters it entirely in the woman's (& society's) frame. They tell him how it will be. He's told he should gain weight, his wife should gain weight, sex should decrease, fucking 'happy wife Happy life BS - etc. Then the guy realizes he's been duped and when he improves…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 01:15 PM
1

Of course you would, all skills perish over time. My question, as a non-divorced dude - why would this take an entire fucking year?
/r/askMRP23/11/16 01:10 PM
1

This is a great comment and if you polish it up some I think it would be a quality post that may resonate with quite a few guys on here.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 01:09 PM
3

Smart decision to keep the mind on the task at hand (driving). I'd challenge you to stop looking at the world, and focus on the immediate, right now moments. You have books yet you don't read. Ok, so you aren't much of a reader. You see injustice and have no control, ok none of us do. But you can feel the breeze from your car right now can you not? When I talk about immersing in the moment, I'm talking in the literal sense. Truly feel what you've become desensitized to, the breeze, sound, colors…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 01:00 PM
1

The way I have found is best to describe to people what I mean when I discuss the difference between men and women is to draw a Yin-Yang. They'll see two sides are not the same but complementary to one another. When those two sides fill their role you have balance and harmony, they are whole. When one side wants to shift or move their shape and fuck it all up (that goes for both men and women) the Union gets out of balance & that Harmony is lost. Wgat most men don't recognize is the fact that sh…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/16 11:54 AM
1

Whole that's a good perspective it's a different avenue to discuss iwith OP, it wasn't what I was saying. What I meant was, is he afraid that if he does not pick up chicks for the next few months does he believe he'll never be able to do it again.
/r/askMRP23/11/16 11:23 AM
1

Thanks man, that is motivating as shit. Remember that as a masculine man you are never out of the fight. You Never Lose Yourself as all you need is your self. Work to find who you are and genuinely what it is you want to do and then start walking down that path.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 11:12 AM
1

Worst case scenario: Strike out a few times once you get back in the game, that's not so bad is it?
/r/askMRP23/11/16 11:09 AM
5

Better than getting your void filled by another dude filling voids.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 03:41 AM
1

Are you afraid if you don't use it you'll lose it?
/r/askMRP23/11/16 02:47 AM
19

Your whole comment and especially Really wish I discovered TRP sooner wreaks of defeat. Listen man, you aren't out of this. You haven't missed shit, you just live differently. Nobody is stopping you right now from going out and exploring something strange. Your past is gone and if you don't leave it there it will kill you. I've got all this on my blog o I'm not going to rehash it, but I will leave you with this. You have now and you can work towards creating a better future. But the past is gone…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 02:29 AM
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No problem man. Keep improving and keep raising the standard. Remember, you set the bar from which excellence will be measured.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 01:48 AM
2

It's good to see you taking it like a man and owning it. Not only that, but owning it and improving from it.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 12:54 AM
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Dude, it's comments like these that keep me going. Keep pushing forward brother; I look forward to hearing of your future success. Also, don't worry about me slowing down, I've got years of writing in me. The blog is only in year #2 - big changes & higher quality posts will be coming soon.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 12:49 AM
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You improved for a girl and not for your genuine self - Mistake #1 You did not internalize the pill, just half assed See Burn Your Ship I wrote about doing the exact opposite of what you did. Fully commit to moving forward, never back. - Mistake #2 Oneitis isn't a disease, it's a weakness, a product of the romantic man. You did not strengthen this weakness - Mistake #3 You learned a life lesson here, thank this girl do no resent her as she has opened your eyes.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 12:29 AM
1

Someone else, I know who you're talking about though - don't remember the username.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 07:02 PM
10

TransMasculine Holy shit dude, that gave me a pretty good laugh.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 06:41 PM
1

We're trying to get men to internalize the concepts so that they manifest themselves in action. Precisely, no time for Reddit Puppets, society needs Men
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 06:40 PM
1

I also read it on a plane (From Bahrain not Vegas)
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/16 06:12 PM
1

I appreciate your insight. I try to keep the topic broad as the last thing we need is people following instructions, instead of taking the theory and catering it to their particular situation. I get your point and will refine the message, more meat && specific actions, less broad strokes of theory.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 05:54 PM
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Being outcome independent & irrationally self-confident are your best strengths to develop. Your ugly, ok? You can still be strong, shredded, funny, and interesting as shit. Look to this ugly mother fucker as proof DGAF & Do you brother.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 05:42 PM
12

alpha mode lol what does this even mean?
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 05:34 PM
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Don't fucking apologize and tuck your tail. Accept the criticism from another man then move forward, improving in the process. Either take it down and repost or add content, but saying I'm sorry is fucking gay. You aren't sorry because if you were you'd of already made the adjustments I recommended. You said what you wanted to say and thought that it would help other dudes here, or you're proud of yourself and wanted to share - whatever, TRP is a good place as there aren't many masculine places …
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 05:02 PM
5

I meant if you stick to having ONS you won't have to worry too much about too many shit tests.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 04:52 PM
0

Do you feel better?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/16 03:02 PM
1

Again, men handle their personal life so they don't end up in the fucking hospital. I've never experienced the type of GoGoGo Kanye West experiences, but I've deployed and the guys who had mental break downs on deployment were the ones who didn't have their shit together. Not the same, but the concept applies. Keep your shit in order and ensure you have time to both rest and perform.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 02:39 PM
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It's also an example of a man not doing his job. Mental break down? Sleep deprivation? He's been doing this long enough to know better & ensure he's got the energy for the long haul.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 02:06 PM
2

You could have not written this post until you did have time, you do realize that right?
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 01:57 PM
3

This is a very astute observation, seeing this tendency to go all in on removal of empathy is not the suggestion, but rather the ability to do so is. You need to care at the right times and not care at others, it's your job to know when to do that. With your wife for example, you need to know when to ignore her shit tests and when you need to face it head on. You need to know when to mate guard and when to ignore, you need to know when to make a decision for the family without total agreement an…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/16 01:43 PM
3

You're some next level Asperger man.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 12:50 PM
4

Not splitting hairs, I agree with you. I just want to show the various aspects to the state of flow you're discussing here - don't get defensive. Some guys have no idea that you're talking about the blend of all these characteristics that are associated with masculinity.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 12:23 PM
2

Some guys want a bullet point version of How to do X as well as having everything just given away. There's nothing I can do, I just keep posting content, the emails I receive show it's helping dudes, the guys who get butt hurt can continue to do their thing - no impact on me.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 12:14 PM
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