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Don't forget how carbs make you fat ;). http://i.imgur.com/K3nnNDT.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 04:04 AM
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I couldn't care less about you. Go back to r/imaloser.
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/17 12:13 AM
1

Who the hell asked you? Go kill yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/17 11:59 PM
1

Don't get married.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/17 07:01 PM
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I'm turning 36 and I get hotter every year from lifting and good diet. I look 100x better now than I did at 25, awkward haircut and no muscle. I don't think I'll peak for another decade.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/17 07:00 PM
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You!
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/17 06:06 PM
1

What's the point of marriage if you don't want kids?
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/17 04:56 AM
1

No, but firmer legs and arms from having muscle, not flab, reduces it.
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/17 01:06 AM
0

30 is nowhere near the new 50, lol. Please keep up your pathetic attempts in this sub to get women to think they need a captain at 20.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/17 09:12 PM
6

Cardio won't make you lean and jiggle free. Weights are an investment in yourself. Start now!
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/17 02:23 AM
7

I think you should get an education and get a career before you marry. Save a lot of money and never let your finances be entirely in the hands of a man. What if your man leaves you? Then you are shit out of luck. A wise woman would focus on education and self-suffiency. Marriage should be an OPTION for you, not a necessity because you are uneducated and unemployable by anywhere but Wal-Mart.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/17 09:16 PM
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The odds are in my favor and I love being a woman! I'm going to be 36 in March and I'm at my leanest. I can wear a bikini year round. I lift 5 days a week and have a two plate dead lift and a nearly bodyweight bench. I have a strict diet and do regular cardio. My body is my temple and I am far, far more fit than most women in their 20s, and it shows in the attention I get from men. My own boyfriend is 8 years younger and I get asked out by early to mid 20s men often. You have the power to contro…
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/17 09:14 PM
3

Thank you <3. I truly appreciate that. I really enjoy it here as well.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/17 09:33 PM
4

How am I not? Because I won't let a man cheat on me and I keep myself in great shape? Lol. I think RPWs would be insulted if you implied that an in shape, confident woman who would not tolerate infidelity isn't RPW.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/17 06:52 PM
3

There is no way in hell I think you're not a troll, but you're entertaining, to say the least.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/17 06:45 PM
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I'm sure for many that is true. Not in my case, though. I'm more of a loner. I don't go after men, nor have I ever lacked for dates.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/17 06:43 PM
5

You don't understand. I don't want children, and I like spending a lot of time alone. I'm not married and don't want to be. I have a boyfriend, and I told him if we break up, I'm going back to spinning my own plates (dating multiple men). I don't fear any wall. Now, I never said men don't cheat even on highly desirable women. I said I wouldn't tolerate it or look the other way. I'd instantly break up at any infidelity.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/17 06:40 PM
9

Does anyone not realize that this account is likely a TRP troll? The whole "cat lady," men should be able to cheat but women shouldn't, women are controlled only by FEELZ, women should settle down at 19, bear children and shut up... This is a complete troll.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/17 06:24 PM
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Yeah, that's a pretty disgusting sentiment to have. You are fine to live like that, but I would never tolerate a man cheating on me. Then again, I'm not desperate, so I don't know what you put up with.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/17 06:23 PM
2

Why would I care if the human race dies out? I don't want kids. They ruin your figure and cost a ton. I just want to look hot, make money, date men solely on my terms and die. I don't want to settle for a beta and reproduce or chase an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 03:35 AM
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Don't have kids and spend your money on yourself. Winning :D.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 06:46 PM
2

"Regulate" and "freedom" oppose each other. ETA: It is TRP which states that men and women have different and opposing sexual strategies, and one must fail for the other to succeed. If that is the case, then fuck all regulation. I'd rather all these men fail than I compromise on my strategy and lose power and freedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 05:13 AM
2

I didn't. He asked me :D. I was dating him and another guy, and was pleased he asked me to be exclusive because I'm into him. But I would have been fine continuing to date both of them too.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/17 06:44 PM
1

I've always had great results with online dating. I met my boyfriend on social media (not a dating site). I'm a confident person but introverted and don't drink or go to clubs, so unless I meet a man at the gym or the grocery store, I would never date if not for online interaction. If my boyfriend and I break up, I'd hop right back online. I really liked OKC. Never used Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 06:14 PM
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I respect both, as long as the person is not whining and complaining about it. Choose it and own it. I'm a good looking woman and I'm in a relationship. But I prefer a lot of time alone and if my boyfriend and I break up, I don't think I ever want an LTR again. I would spin plates personally. I like to keep most people at a distance and not compromise.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 06:12 PM
3

Seems like the problem is you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 06:09 PM
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"I blame others for not leading my own life. High quality women see through me, so I fuck bar sluts and pretend to be world weary."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 04:15 AM
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Nope. 35 and never wanted kids. My friends who are moms wish they had MY childfree lifestyle!
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/17 02:25 AM
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I never reach the wall :D. Reasons? (1) No kids (2) I don't WANT marriage or kids (3) I don't want a provider (4) I don't chase alphas. I don't like extroverted, cocky men. (5) I'm in amazing shape from weight lifting and a strict diet. I know some will quibble, but the Wall is only reached if (1) you want kids and need to lock down a provider (2) you need to be validated by so-called alphas (3) you can't get anyone YOU want for sex (it doesn't matter whether others find him attractive or not). …
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/17 10:03 PM
0

You don't speak English?
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/17 07:51 PM
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I am extremely fit with no kids. Not only did the Wall not come, but I am more attractive and get hit on more now than my early 20s.
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/17 02:13 AM
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Neither is offensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/17 11:37 PM
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No, but I'm an INTJ. I am not an emotional woman myself and emotional people of either gender annoy me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/17 11:37 PM
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I'm 36 and haven't hit this wall yet. What am I missing?
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/17 11:35 PM
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I don't. I like Sigmas ;). Chads need CONSTANT validation from women. They need it. They need to go to parties and be the life of the party. They need bars and clubs. They need fancy vacations. They need to be seen and be worshipped. That is too much work for me. No thanks. Give me the good looking loner who lifts on a Friday night and goes to movies alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 04:06 AM
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Never say never!
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/17 03:59 AM
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I'm honestly not promiscuous. Never road the CC and didn't even lose my virginity until after college. I'm a late bloomer. N count is pretty low for my 35 years. No, the reason I like dating without commitment is not to get NSA sex with many men. It is so I don't have to compromise and I don't always have someone around when I want to do my own thing.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/17 03:17 AM
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That's a good question. We have a lot of fun together, and we live together. We've almost broken up a few times and we're working on it. I can't say for certain if it will last. There are compelling reasons for me to be single for my own benefit. If he and I break up, I remain financially sound and I'm in the fittest shape of my life. We'll see. It's hard when you do have an emotional attachment to someone.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/17 02:00 AM
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Ah, okay. I train both but conventional is my favorite. I always use mixed grip. I'm not a fan of 1x5; that's too low volume in my opinion. I also don't like 1x10 because you really should get more practice. My current training has me working up to a sumo or conventional max every other week, then I do 5*3 at 80% of the max I pulled. I also do rack dead lifts (pulling from right BELOW the knee) to work on lockout. I'm currently at 225 conventional and 220 sumo at 120#. I'd suggest you ditch Stro…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/17 01:57 AM
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Thanks for the vote of confidence ;). Hope things work out for you!
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/17 12:37 AM
2

Haha! I'm the straightest straight chick ever. I love dick, believe me. I just don't want to be submissive outside the bedroom. I like getting dominated in bed, but don't tell me what to do anywhere else! Does that make sense?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/17 12:27 AM
1

How are you training your DL? Sumo or conventional? Are you weaker off the floor or lockout?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/17 12:22 AM
1

Your bench is 90 and your DL is 190?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/17 12:20 AM
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I pretty much am. No wonder I have trouble relating to the women you guys talk about.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/17 11:52 PM
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Yeah, but your wife is obviously sending her nudes to Chad because there is no logical explanation, so this whole thing is moot.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/17 10:46 PM
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I'm a huge Molyneux fan! Yeah, I don't blame you for changing. Neither you nor your wife are wrong. You just grew apart. I'm a fan of marriages being a renewable contract, not permanent. TFA reminds me of a grown child. I'd be exhausted having a husband like that. I love my boyfriend of two years, but I unapologetically put myself first. He is on Team Deadsandsushi or not; I do my own thing. Everyone is replaceable to me except me.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/17 10:41 PM
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Yup. Someone nailed it above. A relationship is two people. As much as this sub likes to think that if the man just leads, the woman will follow, it's not that simple. What if she doesn't want an alpha that she has to constantly keep up with? If you as TFA and a few others here, all women love to be "kept on their toes" and have an alpha to give them tingles who could easily leave them for another woman. What she just wants a comfortable marriage? All women don't despise "betas." She might have …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/17 06:41 PM
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Nailed it <sup>.</sup>
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/17 06:29 PM
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I agree with u/alphabeta49. I can see why a lot of you don't want him to be right though.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/17 06:21 PM
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I'm glad I'm not the only one that feels this way :).
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/17 06:12 PM
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I'm just straightforward :D. And I mean what I say. Tough shit if a man doesn't work as hard as I do. He's not owed a cozy 9-5 and salary to support a family of 4.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/17 10:23 PM
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Well, you have the right to live as you choose, but you don't have the right to live free from judgment. I still get judged for not wanting kids but I don't care. It's my life.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/17 10:09 PM
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Because I like the Red Pill? Does it require me to be a doormat?
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/17 10:08 PM
3

That's tough shit for him, but I'm not giving up my great income so a man can have it.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/17 07:04 PM
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Yup!
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/17 07:03 PM
5

I'm super happy.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/17 07:02 PM
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I'm glad for all of the above, frankly. I'm glad I can make a great salary like I do and that I don't have to be married to a man I am not attracted to and suck his cock or be homeless. I'm glad I don't have to have children because it is expected of me because being childfree is acknowledged as a lifestyle now. I'm glad that I can live with my boyfriend and we can have sex outside of marriage. I'm glad that I don't have to be a housewife. I'm glad that my boyfriend and I can both contribute to …
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/17 07:00 PM
1

I eat like a bodybuilder--lean protein and "clean" carbs. Tuna is convenient, high protein and zero fat and carbs. Great deal! :D
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/17 06:06 PM
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Hilarious!
/r/askMRP08/01/17 02:32 AM
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Sorry, Stoney :). I see he got butthurt and started a thread on RP. Yep, all women are evil bitches. Nothing is innocent.
/r/askMRP08/01/17 12:49 AM
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You sound cranky. Might want to rub one out.
/r/askMRP07/01/17 07:27 PM
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Sounds like she did the same thing guys are encouraged to here--pay attention to attractive women in front of their spouses and deny or A&A when confronted--to get the hamster going. It worked for her!
/r/askMRP07/01/17 06:45 PM
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Violating my SO's privacy is not okay with me.
/r/askMRP07/01/17 02:54 AM
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Never mind. Keylog away. Tingle tingle.
/r/askMRP07/01/17 02:53 AM
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Keylogging over finding nudes she already told him about is INECURE AS FUCK.
/r/askMRP07/01/17 02:40 AM
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A woman knows when a man is butthurt and if she finds value is exploiting that, she will :). I don't know OP's situation and I of course couldn't see the wife's tone. But she didn't have to vocalize the connection between her rejection and his activity not once but TWICE. That strikes me as no accident.
/r/askMRP07/01/17 12:45 AM
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I disagree. I liked his answers. Fogging would look weak and obtuse here. He was straightforward and confident.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/17 12:39 AM
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Beta.com.
/r/askMRP06/01/17 10:50 PM
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My wife first told me she wanted to leave me in our first year of marriage, many years ago. Since then, we have about 3 months per year where things are decent/good between us, and the other 9 months we are either disconnected or fighting. This can't be fixed. She didn't even like you or your marriage dynamic in the beginning. No one here can say that the entire reason is because you were a "beta" and just following the steps of dread will turn this around. Sure, if you had a few good years and …
/r/askMRP06/01/17 09:53 PM
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That will go over well when she finds out (and she will).
/r/askMRP06/01/17 09:49 PM
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I actually agree with u/Mecha75. Unless she is smiling and being obviously light-hearted, this looks like she's purposely belittling OP and making it known that she knows he was butthurt.
/r/askMRP06/01/17 09:35 PM
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FFS, I hate shit. Don't complain if I'm not wet enough or I didn't come when I'm having sex with you. Do you know how unattractive it is for a guy to be asking me, "Did you come? How come you didn't come? You're not wet? Are you not into me?" Ughhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. You want her to be wetter because you see it as validation of your tingle status. That is not how it works. Not every woman is a gusher.
/r/askMRP06/01/17 09:11 PM
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Good edit. Ugly trolls don't give validation tingles :D.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/17 09:05 PM
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No. I don't like frat boys and I think most football players are stupid (not to mention black, no thanks). I completely avoided them in college. My boyfriend now is an athlete, but extremely smart and never in a frat.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/17 07:01 PM
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Great job at giving her validation on the flight ;). I love it when a man is obviously flirting with me. It's like getting likes on a social media photo.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/17 06:59 PM
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None. I'm anti-marriage myself ;).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/17 03:50 AM
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I love doing me. Who wouldn't?
/r/askMRP06/01/17 01:34 AM
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I'm just a bitch if I can't have sushi ;).
/r/askMRP05/01/17 10:27 PM
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I'd think it was really weird if my SO was tracking my cycle. Really weird. Just sayin'.
/r/askMRP05/01/17 06:28 PM
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Haha, I eat a lot of tuna. It's a great nearly fat-free protein source :D.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/17 06:09 PM
1

Don't be hyperbolic. From OP, she is enthusiastic about PIV. A woman attracted to a man does not automatically love every sex act that he favors. People like different things. I don't swallow jizz. Doesn't mean I don't want to be with my man.
/r/askMRP05/01/17 01:59 PM
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I never said he shouldn't get it from his wife because she doesn't like it. It's just unlikely he'll get them with the frequency he desires, and he won't get much validation knowing she isn't lusting to do it. Yeah, she got first crack at doing something she finds disgusting. Not sure that really turns her on ;).
/r/askMRP05/01/17 01:50 PM
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Exactly why I said he could pay for blow jobs. His wife finds them disgusting. That's unlikely to change. She apparently loves PIV so it isn't that she is not attracted or asexual. She just doesn't want a dick in her mouth. OP has to decide how much he will compromise.
/r/askMRP05/01/17 03:35 AM
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I disagree. For some women, there are things they will never do no matter what a man's SMV is.
/r/askMRP05/01/17 12:46 AM
3

How...homoerotic.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/17 10:50 PM
1

I do an intermittent fasting diet, eating all of my calories in an 8 hour period. On a cut with this eating schedule it's hard to keep protein up, so I will need to be good at supplementation with whey isolate. I do IF too, but I have no issue with getting over 1 gram per pound of bodyweight in protein, even on a cut. Go for canned tuna. It makes it so easy.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/17 10:35 PM
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Yes, I agree with your answer completely. I see this as the sane RP. This whole idea that all women would be jizz gurglers for the right man or for Chad or Brad Pitt is absurd.
/r/askMRP04/01/17 10:12 PM
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If someone wants to spend the time "training" another person, and is capable of even doing so. If bjs are that important, just pay for them. Much less work.
/r/askMRP04/01/17 10:08 PM
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I think men for the most part view cunnilingus as a way to get the girl off for their own power (i.e. they like to know they gave her a good O) or to get her to give a blow job in return, or to get her ready for PIV. I think only a very small percentage of people are into giving oral for truly altruistic reasons or just out of pure desire if they get nothing in return.
/r/askMRP04/01/17 10:06 PM
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Agree with that completely. Plus, I'm being honest here, having a dick in your mouth isn't delightful. My view is that the vast, vast majority of women who do blowjobs do them only to maintain the relationship and see it as a price to pay for stability. As for women blowing alphas back in college or what have you, many women are insecure and will do anything for a man's attention. It's not really desire to suck his cock, but her desire to be desired or wanted.
/r/askMRP04/01/17 07:01 PM
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So you agree with me that not every woman is eager to give blow jobs to the "right" guy?
/r/askMRP04/01/17 06:54 PM
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Check out the edit I added. This is from his history: "Then I burned out after 6 months of that hedonism and found myself a proper girlfriend. She has her own personality and willpower, which I find cute and challenging, though I do miss my submissive sluts with each passing year." So he purposely chose a "proper" woman for an LTR. And guess what? She doesn't like blow jobs, like most women. You address a whole other point re: "not like that anymore." I can get into that separately, but let's de…
/r/askMRP04/01/17 06:48 PM
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Do we know that is the case? I think it is typical RP to talk about how she would blow Brad Pitt if he were around (and no one knows that for sure). Do we know that she did this in college? Is this in the record? If not, you can't assume this was the case. Hell, I never gave blow jobs in college, believe it or not. ETA: Here is a quote from the OP from a few days ago: "Then I burned out after 6 months of that hedonism and found myself a proper girlfriend. She has her own personality and willpowe…
/r/askMRP04/01/17 06:38 PM
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BPP, you are absolutely right :D.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/17 06:20 PM
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She says blowjobs "disgust" her, but that she's trying to make an effort for me. The answer you're looking for is that your wife doesn't like blow jobs and she's only doing them to keep your relationship from imploding. She's never going to be excited about blowing you, she's never going to get turned on about it and she's never going to do it from a place of desire instead of resignation. Get over it or get a woman who wants blow jobs. You can't make someone desire something that they are indif…
/r/askMRP04/01/17 06:15 PM
1

It is a hilarious user name. I guess what I'm looking for are what kind of relationship options does RPW see as good for both parties other than C-FO?
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/17 06:05 PM
1

I agree with you. Jealousy is a stupid emotion but it sure as hell exists. I have females jealous because I'm dating a man 8 years younger than me. It baffles me. I don't care if men date 15 years younger. Good on them! Why get jealous because I'm dating a younger man? It's not my fault they aren't in top level shape like I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/17 03:58 AM
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/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/17 10:27 PM
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It's on! The reason I liked your FR is that it was fun and uplifting. I like that you brought your wife into your frame by making her feel sexually attractive, not from this sense of over cocky superiority I see too often. I love when my man is playful with me like this. He makes me feel hot while still getting me irked at times, all of which keeps us laughing and happy. His playing with me and teasing me from a frame of contentment makes me want to make him happier. He never looks hotter to me …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/17 10:18 PM
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I thought I would wait to see if anyone wanted my reasoning. I don't want to be presumptive :). I also didn't want to be late for the gym!
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/17 10:04 PM
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I like this one for a few reasons.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/17 09:20 PM
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I enjoy many of the conversations.
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/17 06:17 PM
1

I'm not a feminist nor do I see casual sex as empowering. I just don't want marriage or children and I am willing to date casually so long as a man fits in my life. I don't see my choosing sex without commitment as losing power because I only want commitment if it suits my interests. I'm currently in an LTR of my choice and convenience. I realize it might not last forever and I have outcome independence.
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/17 03:14 AM
1

I don't desire marriage or children, but I enjoy my relationship with my man, which has lasted two years. He has not cared about my N, which he knows. His N is twice mine. Neither of us cares. He is the only man I have ever loved or bonded with even not being close to my first sexual partner. I don't believe that bonding can be "used up" so quickly with women, and RP's "evidence" is very slim for this. Keep in mind that a woman choosing to date without commitment doesn't automatically make her a…
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/17 03:10 AM
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I have a SO I've been with for two years. I just don't need a captain. I do very well making my own decisions. We trust each other and no one needs to lead. I'm better at some things and he is better at others. I never felt any need to surrender. On what? I make a great salary and am very fit. He doesn't need to lead me.
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/17 03:03 AM
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What do you mean by your comment?
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/17 03:00 AM
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All of this is conjecture. It's not a given that women bond more easily with sex (I don't) and I do not feel that sex is something a man "takes" from me that reduces my power. This is presumptive. Also, what is "riding the CC?" If I have sex with a man on the third date and we date for 3 months before ending it, am I on the "CC?" What if I didn't want his commitment, wasn't pumped and dumped and enjoyed his company?
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/17 10:24 PM
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The first guy. He's a little too "metro" on face for me but at least he keeps in shape. I have bigger shoulders than the second guy (how can he have NO upper body mass??) and I hate greasy hair. If the second guy had a more developed upper body and neater hair, I would choose him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/17 10:19 PM
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Women do not all want the same thing. I will date a man under 6' feet, no problem, but I won't date a man who wants marriage and children. I will swipe right on a 5'6" white man and left on a 6'3" black man. Stop complaining about what generic "women" want. We don't all want the same thing. I don't need to adjust my standards for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/17 10:15 PM
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Can you be RPW and not want a Captain-First Mate relationship?
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/17 08:36 PM
2

Not a shit test ;). I just hate fake bf%. 10% would have been just as impressive in addition to accurate. 5% is an on stage bodybuilder running gear.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/16 10:34 PM
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I think it is very helpful. I have a friend who is an ex-Mormon. His parents would lock him in the closet and beat him for masturbating. Go to r/Deadbedrooms. Plenty of the marriages there are messed up because a partner raised religiously has a hard time with sexual shame and guilt. Extreme adherence to religious rules can cause a lot of psychological harm. Sorry for not being 'traditional," but I'm right.
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/16 08:02 PM
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Strong answer. Nothing I wrote suggested special snowflake status. Go back to masturbating.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/16 07:59 PM
0

I'm saying that would be a deal breaker for me. I think having your girlfriend being lazy and not working out and wanting you to stop is a dumpable offense. Why are you with a lazy woman?
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/16 03:46 AM
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He looks great, absolutely. I just got triggered at the 5%, lol.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/16 03:44 AM
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Not saying you don't look good, but not 5%. Calipers are not that accurate and best used as a guide. Even DEXA is less accurate than thought: http://weightology.net/weightologyweekly/index.php/free-content/free-content/volume-1-issue-5-the-pitfalls-of-body-fat-measurement-parts-5-and-6-skinfolds-and-dual-energy-x-ray-absorptiometry-dexa/the-pitfalls-of-body-fat-measurement-part-6-dexa/
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/16 03:12 AM
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5%? You realize that is the level of a bodybuilder ON STAGE, right? Sorry, but I don't believe you were ever 5%. Your second picture, from what I can see, is ~12%.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/16 01:56 AM
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Absolutely true. I keep myself extremely fit with consistent diet and training. My partner will do the same or I will be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/16 01:01 AM
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Glad it worked out for you, but it is troubling that she tried to interfere with your gym time. That would have been a deal breaker for me. Nothing sceams insecurity as much as an unfit person trying to derail a fit person.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/16 11:44 PM
1

A woman who can't captain her own life shouldn't make a man her "captain."
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/16 11:18 PM
1

Nothing about arm hair and I don't have facial hair.
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/16 10:18 PM
1

Not every man wants kids. Not every man wants to spin plates. What if a woman 28+ is in great shape and they share interests and the same sense of humor?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/16 10:17 PM
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35, no kids, very tight :). Or so says my 27 year old boyfriend ;).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/16 10:13 PM
2

No, divorce is not a status marker. I have divorced female friends and I don't see anyone celebrating their status. They aren't ashamed of it either. I personally see it as neutral.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/16 10:12 PM
1

This stuff fascinates me. It is the major reason I enjoy this sub.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/16 08:26 PM
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This is a very refreshing read. I share your perspective. I would only want to be in a relationship where we both were choosing to be together; not because of obligation or money or desperation. I would be absolutely fine if my current relationship ended.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/16 08:15 PM
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Right, but why would you as a man want a woman who doesn't keep herself a prize? Why would you want to keep in shape and have a wife that is not lean and doesn't care about diet and has no hobbies? That sounds horrible to me.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/16 08:11 PM
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Thanks. Speaking of which, I wanted the redpill perspective on this from you all: Can there be two "prizes" in a relationship? Or must the woman see her man as above her for it to work? I am very self-assured. I keep extremely fit. I would put myself in the 90th percentile easily for my age. I have a career I love and make a good salary. I'm well educated and interested in a variety of topics. I consider myself good looking, interesting, fit and charming. In short, I see myself as a prize. My id…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/16 07:39 PM
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Exactly, redmountain. No amount of redpilling is going to turn a low libido woman (yes, they exist) or asexual into your private slut.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/16 07:34 PM
1

Whomever smelt it dealt it.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/16 01:23 AM
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To be fair to DB, TFA did look like a fool on there. If your spouse isn't attracted to you at all, trying to kiss her when she is busy with dishes or cracking glowsticks is going to do fuck all. I think TFA's advice is great advice for keeping an already good marriage fun where both partners are attracted; for a DB situation, it is ill suited and I think the criticism he got there was warranted.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/16 12:46 AM
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Fair enough.
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/16 12:33 AM
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Not surprised that a religious male waiting for sex has a mental disorder. I have no idea how to date without having sex; that's not something I would do since I don't want a relationship unless I enjoy the sex. That said, you just have to find men that are willing to give you commitment first, or change your position on this. Also, remember that you can have sex outside a relationship and still not be promiscuous, not be a slut and not be impulsive. It's just your decision.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/16 09:58 PM
2

Flirting with other women serves the purpose of making your wife feel dread. No, women wanting HIM is supposed to create dread. Not him chasing others.
/r/askMRP29/12/16 09:40 PM
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I'm content to be an outlier ;).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/16 09:35 PM
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That's an awesome DL for your wife :D. It's my favorite lift. I hope she keeps it up!
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/16 06:26 PM
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I never wanted kids and I haven't changed my mind (I'm now 35). I think it is important to know this ahead of time and make sure your SO is on the same page. For me, I don't even go on a date with a man who wants children because I don't want to waste my time. My SO and I have been together for 2 years now (not married) and we are quite content without kids. I love not having kids and leading a fulfilling childfree life. I told my SO that if he changes his mind, to let me know and we can amicabl…
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/16 06:18 PM
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This is really weird to me. It was an OLD guy at a DANCE class. The purpose is to dance with other partners, not just your spouse. And it wasn't even a hot, good looking guy! I do think you are way overreacting and being jealous for no reason. And old guy dancing with your wife at DANCING classes. I can't imagine my SO being upset about this. We'd probably both laugh later. Anyway, I would have just let them dance. I definitely wouldn't have blown him a kiss like I was ruffled. Over an old dude.…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/16 06:13 PM
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I am actually better looking in my 30s than my 20s (I didn't lift then, had an awful haircut and was very shy). I don't disagree that most women are better looking younger, but to think of that as automatically her "best" is really just shallow. I keep in extremely good shape, but my "best" isn't just my body. As for baggage and bullshit, I hear you on that. That isn't strictly reserved for females though. As a late bloomer / introvert, I think I escaped without either of those!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/16 06:05 PM
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It absolutely does not matter for me. I never orgasm from PIV--ever--only from fingers or oral. Doesn't mean I don't enjoy PIV, but I won't get an orgasm out of it no matter what size it is. I also dated a guy who was very small years ago, but our chemistry was off the charts.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/16 04:48 PM
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I have a rule of no hair below my head. I maintain shaved legs, armpits and vagina year round (easy to keep up and I detest hair). I haven't had issues with razor burn or ingrown hairs though.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/16 04:21 AM
2

No, that assumes she is only attracted to these mm. It does not say she isn't attracted to non-alpha fuckbois.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/16 11:33 PM
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You have to agree that 2 is not all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/16 10:42 PM
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I'm very straight forward. What do you think I'm hiding? Women don't always want a relationship. Sometimes they just want sex. Sometimes they want to spin plates. Some don't want marriage at all. Some like short term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/16 10:40 PM
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Two! Wow. How overwhelming! I have never asked where all the "good" men have gone. There are tons of them!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/16 10:38 PM
2

This is about those "fuckbois" who are the opposite of stable men though. These are the so-called alpas who won't buy a cup of coffee for a woman or who are homeless and fuck college freshmen.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/16 10:31 PM
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I have no idea. I never fucked a "fuckboi" and I don't want to be a wife or mother. There are plenty of women in this sub who told you they wanted short term relationships or ONS in their 20s with no desire to lock a man down.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/16 10:29 PM
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These "attractive men" you were referring to have nothing to offers relationship. The point is that they have no long term prospects.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/16 10:26 PM
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We aren't. You read about them on RedPill from anonymous dudes who have every reason to be bitter. I never heard of "alpha widow" until RP and don't believe it exists outside of a few cases of unstable women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/16 10:25 PM
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Why would a woman realistically want to lockdown someone who has no career or direction in life? That's alpha fuckboi. What benefit would she have locking down someone who can barely afford generic cereal?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/16 09:58 PM
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You're assuming that all women thought that "locking down Chad" was possible and had her heart set on that. Most likely, she knew that Chad would be a short term thing and her attraction to him was within that context. I don't know any women who chased "bad boys" when young and realistically thought these men would make STABLE relationship partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/16 09:55 PM
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100% agree with this. Upvoted.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/16 09:51 PM
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Nothing. All solutions should be individual-based and not use coercion, including from the government.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/16 07:12 PM
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It's completely fair, as is AFBB. No one is owned someone's "best," and I don't even think sex is the "best" of someone. You have a right to go for whatever type of man or woman you want. You don't have a right to use force. You also are not obligated to give your "best" to anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/16 07:11 PM
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My SO and I weight train together (because who wants an unfit, not lean, weak SO?), see movies, go out for our favorite food (sushi, obviously), check out different coffeeshops, watch political and fitness YouTube channels we both like and discuss/debate the content, etc. We also do our own activities a lot so we have things to tell the other and our own space/downtime. I hate surprises and spontaneity, so I prefer we have plans.
/r/askMRP28/12/16 01:52 AM
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If you're not lifting heavy weights and adhering to your diet, you're lazy. Do it.
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/16 06:49 PM
1

Weed, cigarettes and reliance on alcohol make me disrespect a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/16 10:27 PM
1

You are going off OkCupid. Unoriginal and weak.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/16 08:05 PM
1

What will you do if she never wants to swallow your cum?
/r/askMRP26/12/16 07:15 PM
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First of all, stop assuming that you are so damn original and edgy that you'll cause me cognitive dissonance. Your piece was boring and pretentious, since you asked. I care about attraction and compatibility. As for status, I hate validation seekers, lifes of the party, cocky, popular alphas. I like guys who don't drink and don't party. I don't do either and certainly don't want to get dragged to lame bars and parties full of insecure druggies and whores. As for money, I need him to pay his own …
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/16 03:38 AM
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My way is reminding myself that no male is above me and each one is replaceable. Enjoy it while it lasts, but always put yourself first. I love being single too and love exactly who I am. I never give a guy power over me or superiority over me.
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/16 07:23 PM
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Haha ;).
/r/askMRP25/12/16 06:40 PM
2

225 pounds and sexy? That is not a sexy or healthy weight for ANY woman.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/12/16 01:32 AM
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It's not my obligation to make them feel sexual. Society is better off if the mentally unfit, physically disabled and omegas don't reproduce.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/16 04:40 AM
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Your friend honestly sounds stupid. I would tell her that she is an "askhole" and you will no longer discuss her dating life because she never takes your good advice.
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/16 04:34 AM
0

I never want to get married so it doesn't waste my time. It's up to you to decide.
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/16 04:32 AM
1

It can reduce appetite and make cutting easier, but without a deficit keto won't do anything. It will make you lose more water though, which really isn't impressive. And for muscle building it is vastly inferior to a higher carb diet. I eat similarly.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/16 10:56 PM
1

So much broscience.
/r/askMRP23/12/16 09:48 PM
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There is a lot of bro science here. I never do the treadmill to warm up for deads either. I just work up to my working set. Glad to see your smart comment. It doesn't help that OP lifted like an idiot. Lift with stupid form in a rush, win stupid prizes ;). Wait until you see the advice about everyone doing keto to "trick your body into burning fat."
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/16 09:44 PM
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This is me, haha ;).
/r/askMRP23/12/16 08:45 PM
1

I read experts like Alan Aragon, Lyle McDonald and Brad Schoenfeld. I have no idea what you read to think ketosis is fat burning. Gary Taubes? Keto works by restricting calories like ANY other diet. That is why I said "sustained energy deficit." It can be keto or high carb or equal macros. When protein is equal there is NO metabolic advantage to ketosis. None. Plenty of bodybuilders and others in fitness eat higher carb diets and are lean and not hungry. Sure, I will put my physique up against o…
/r/askMRP23/12/16 07:55 PM
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Good question. I would say in this instance yes. He gives me a lot of alone time, which I need, and we have a lot of fun together. He's more easy going than I am, so I don't feel the stress of someone controlling my time. If we do break up, I will probably prefer to casually date and plate for a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/16 02:01 AM
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35 / f / hetero / middle class / rather not name city but liberal city with lots of singles 20s to 40s / I'd give myself a 7.5 - 8 and had that confirmed by some of the opposite sex. I would say commitment is pretty easy. I don't prize commitment like many women do because I don't want kids, have my own resources and need a lot of independence and solitude. I have been in a relationship for two years; he asked me for exclusivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/16 12:37 AM
2

Why would Chad be at a strip club of 4s? He has 9 and 10 models practically grabbing his dick at the grocery store.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/16 12:16 AM
2

Chad isn't wealthy or a professional. RP has made clear that he is good looking and tough, but barely makes enough money to afford rent and couch surfs He's the good looking loser women will fuck but not want for relationships. He's what is commonly referred to as a loser, degenerate, trash, etc., even by other RP men. He's trashy. Yes, he gets pussy, but he's still a degenerate.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/16 12:10 AM
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A girl doesn't need to know you to fuck you; if she's mentally damaged enough. FTFY.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/16 12:07 AM
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Sounds like OP has a huge crush.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/16 12:04 AM
2

Babies are gross though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 11:12 PM
6

Mmmm. Strip clubs? That is trashy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 11:11 PM
3

I'm glad you snagged him ;). You seem very happy!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 11:11 PM
1

Perhaps they viewed him as out of reach. How often did HE initiate the exclusivity talk? If he really wanted a girlfriend and didn't initiate the talk, that could be why. Not every woman will initiate the talk with a man she sees as out of her league.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 10:08 PM
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So Chads are uninteresting degenerates who make low value chicks wet. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 09:34 PM
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My boyfriend and I were both dating other people nonexclusively when we started dating. After we had a great weekend together, he told me that he would like us to be exclusive. Since I was really into him, I said yes and we both dropped our other dating partners. My boyfriend wanted me and told me. That is alpha. Waiting for a chick to ask you when you desire a relationship with her is beta. I know he had other options, but he wanted me, told me, and I cherish that. My experience isn't that unus…
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/16 07:19 PM
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The whole "with you" thing is pithy, but not accurate. Some women hate blow jobs and will never do face fucking, threesomes, swallowing or anal. Telling guys that she will do anything if you are more attractive, hot, rich, famous or care less is setting false, unachievable expectations. I love rough PIV (that's fun for both people) but I get nothing out of giving blow jobs and I'm indifferent about getting oral. I do not want to swallow jizz or have a dick in my throat. Anal causes issues down t…
/r/askMRP22/12/16 07:13 PM
1

Because they believe delusions. Also subordinating yourself to a higher power is inherently beta. There is no one above me.
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/16 02:49 PM
2

No religious person is high value.
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/16 06:18 AM
1

Women also are the gatekeepers of commitment.
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/16 05:17 AM
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No. Ketosis does not make you lose more fat than a high carb diet. It doesn't "trick" anything. If you eat more fat, you oxidize more fat (same with eating more carbs and oxidyzing more carbs). Only a sustained energy deficit leads to weight loss. No, steady state cardio does not make you hold more fat. There is so much bad fitness advice on this sub.
/r/askMRP22/12/16 02:58 AM
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I don't consider any guy a 10/10, so that confirms what I thought: Chad doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 01:10 AM
0

First few dates and he hasn't pushed for sex? I'd next him for being gay.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/16 11:05 PM
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What high value man is going to commit to a woman without seeing how sex is? None.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/16 11:01 PM
1

/u/Rollo-Tomassi states that pornography is hated by women because it's easy access to a sexual intimacy encounter, something they can not control. Something that a man has easy access to, that can vent their sexual frustration and take away from their sexual currency's value. I don't think Rollo is right on this, or I think he may have a skewed view. I also remember his writing that women would be against prostitution or male birth control. I don't know any women who are against pornography (un…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/16 10:26 PM
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Some women like plating themselves. If she dated him for 5 months and never discussed exclusivity, maybe she was happy with the arrangement. Is she really heartbroken over it? It's the responsibility of the person who wants exclusivity to ask (my boyfriend was the one who asked me and I was happy to stop dating others to date just him, but I wasn't going to until we had the talk).
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/16 10:08 PM
2

Absolutely. It's fun and to me, it keeps my interest levels up.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/16 06:58 PM
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If you're above 15% body fat, cut to below before starting a bulk. If you're new to training, you can gain muscle and lose fat at the same time (not so for those beyond the beginner stage or not overweight). Eat at a deficit, making sure your protein falls in the range of .8 - 1.5 grams per pound. You don't have to do keto at all in order to cut. Some people just prefer it but it is not in any way better than a higher carb approach if protein is equalized. You also don't have to eat every 2-3 ho…
/r/askMRP21/12/16 06:29 PM
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I love being fit and focusing on my physique and muscular development. I love being at the senior level in my company and having a great title and making a LOT of money (I'm a minimalist, so I put the money away for security). I love being confident. I can't think of anything that wouldn't apply if I had a penis.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/16 06:25 PM
2

I love texting. When my boyfriend and I first started seeing each other, we texted or FB messaged a lot. This idea of only using it for logistics sounds boring as fuck to me. My guy likes texting and being in communication with me. I don't think he cares what a few Red Pillers think, lol.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/16 06:22 PM
1

OkCupid is my favorite dating site (besides Facebook, haha). Also join singles groups on Meet up in your city. I met the last guy I dated before my boyfriend in a 20s and 30s singles group at a happy hour (and I don't even drink).
/r/askMRP21/12/16 12:25 AM
1

I don't think a woman has any obligation to disclose a prior rape to a guy she's seeing. In fact, that would be completely stupid. Get therapy for it if you need to, but don't ever disclose that. I wouldn't want to hear about the childhood abuse a guy I was seeing endured.
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/16 10:14 PM
1

Good luck with the new start! I moved from an area of the U.S. I hated to the city I'm in now, and my whole life changed for the better. It's great for you to get out of a relationship, job and city that isn't making you happy.
/r/askMRP20/12/16 08:56 PM
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Fair enough. I guess I would call him a Sigma or something. I wanted to distinguish him from the "alpha" oft described on Red Pill, who is someone is quite social and the center of attention. I am not interested in a guy like that. It repels me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/16 06:42 PM
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My boyfriend and I spend the majority of our time at the gym or reading. He doesn't go to bars or clubs and only occasionally hangs out with friends. He doesn't drag me to parties, etc. I find extroverts to be like puppies. They are needy and exhausting. I don't want to have to go out to a bunch of social places because my man craves attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/16 06:39 PM
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Why are you initiating? Let him do it.
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/16 06:25 PM
3

Not for me. I like loners. The last type of guy I'm attracted to is a popular extrovert. They drain my energy right down and are annoying with their social needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/16 06:24 PM
4

Of course it's a brag post. Why not? I'm awesome and doing well in life, and rather than settling for a beta bux and getting fat and having kids, I'm dating a man 8 years younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/16 06:22 PM
5

I'm definitely not a RPW, haha. I don't even want to get married, let alone have kids, and I captain myself. I'm not a PUA though. I'm actually introverted and like to be alone a lot. My boyfriend is just a great companion for me since we have shared interests and he's good looking :D.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/16 06:21 PM
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He has to be into lifting weights, with good shoulder and quad/hamstring development. No lanky, skinny dudes. I don't have a preference for hair/eye color but I only am attracted to Caucausians and some Asians. No Hispanics and definitely no blacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/16 06:20 PM
1

Slightly is fine for me. I'm 5'4" and would have no issue dating a jacked 5'6" man. I just don't want to date shorter than me. My boyfriend is 6'3", but his height is incidental to why we are together.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/16 06:18 PM
4

It really sounds like lifting and earning much money is the solution to all problems for everyone. Agree!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/16 06:15 PM
4

I thought the goal was to be the prize and have outcome independence? I have that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/16 06:13 PM
1

claps Been waiting for you to pull the trigger. Congrats!
/r/askMRP20/12/16 04:58 PM
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It's not about being genetically gifted, though that helps. It is LIFTING HEAVY WEIGHTS (ladies, if you don't, you're going to be just all flab or skinny fat flab which is disgusting) and a healthy diet. I'm 35, and I easily get attention from men 10 years younger than I am. I'm very lean and fit from weight training and maintaining a strict diet, with no drinking or drugs. I have very clear skin with no blemishes or wrinkles. I own my health. Also, the wall really applies to women who need a be…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/16 04:57 PM
1

Hi guys!! 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/16 03:27 AM
1

No. I wait for men to qualify themselves for me.
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/16 06:56 PM
4

If you're not lifting weights, you should be. You need to sculpt yourself so that you are lean and have muscle, not fat. Once you get stronger in the gym with deadlifts and squats and presses, you take a lot of pride in staying healthy, lean and strong and you don't engage in eating disorders.
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/16 06:56 PM
5

Realize that men are replaceable and that there are an abundance of men who you can enjoy spending time with. Once you realize this, as I have, you'll never be alpha widowed because you won't ever set any one man as the be all end all. I love my boyfriend and we've been together 2 years. I'd be sad if we broke up, but we'd both move on and I'd wish him to have a great future. I know I would only be alone if I chose it. I'm too busy with hobbies to mourn a relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/16 06:53 PM
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I don't believe this exists on a high scale. I see men in RP who talk about not wanting to dump their girlfriend because they don't want to "alpha widow her" and how can they let her go gently. It makes me laugh. These guys want to believe that they are so important and memorable that a woman will think about them for years. Some will, sure. But in reality, most women will get over a man in a few months, even a LTR or husband, and move on quite easily to another man. Meanwhile, he'll be thinking…
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/16 06:51 PM
3

How important is your SO's sexual past? Do you want to know his n-count? What's the deal breaker number? Not that important as long as he's clean (and he is). I know his N-count and he knows mine (and I didn't lie). His is about double mine. Deal breaker would be something like 60+. He is in the low 20s. Have any of you ever lied about your n-count? Is this a common thing? Never lied, and never knew this was a "thing" until I started reading Red Pill stuff. No man I dated ever asked. Keep in min…
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/16 06:37 PM
2

That primarily, plus lack of options for women who don't want to have kids but still want to enjoy life without being a spinster. I also like knowing I have more choices than giving blowjobs to my husband who also fucks a mistress or be starving on the streets.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/16 02:31 AM
8

I would put a shotgun in my mouth if I had to live like a wife in the 1950s.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/16 07:14 PM
1

I never had an abortion, but I'm so pro-choice that I'm pro-abortion. I'm happily childfree and if I got that parasite, I'd abort it happily with a smile on my face. I have no problem with women happily aborting. Humans aren't inherently valuable. It's one less mouth on the planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/16 06:01 PM
2

Yes .
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/16 05:52 PM
3

I dress how I like. If he likes it, that's nice too.
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/16 12:39 AM
2

Of course. However, that doesn't mean that the blame doesn't lie with the one who commits the action. To say that a man couldn't divorce because "the children" or "his finances" is to say he is a weak, trapped person. Everything has risks.
/r/askMRP08/12/16 10:26 PM
2

You're projecting your experience on to others. I have trust in my relationship. I trust him, he trusts me.
/r/askMRP08/12/16 07:04 PM
2

You know, you're right. If she won't give him anal, blowjobs on demand and threesomes, he is being treated like shit and deserves to cheat.
/r/askMRP08/12/16 07:00 PM
5

I disagree with your generalizations 100% here, but I don't think going point by point with you, while interesting, would result in either one of us changing our minds.
/r/askMRP08/12/16 06:56 PM
4

An open marriage is different from cheating. Both partners know there is an increased risk of STDs and accidental pregnancies. Cheating denies the other person the option of consenting or not consenting to this increased risk. In a relationship, you have the security of knowing you are the only person sleeping with the other, and the risk of STDs is low. This is one reason cheating is so disgusting. You are endangering a person who has given you his/her commitment.
/r/askMRP08/12/16 05:24 PM
1

I didn't say I wasn't an exception. I just said that not all women think the way you believe they do. I don't want a superior. I want someone who fits into my life and makes me happy, whether that is short or long term. I'm the prize and he should be his own prize. I will never put another person above me as a "prize."
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/16 05:22 PM
1

Because he obviously hasn't forgiven her, or he wouldn't be posting here about it. How do you suggest he get past it? She broke trust, and trust can't easily be regained. Is getting your dick sucked really all it takes to forgive broken trust? She's sucking his dick in order for him to stay married to her. He knows that.
/r/askMRP08/12/16 05:20 PM
1

The idea that men go beta and the woman cheats, and it was his fault for not just being more alpha is ludicrous. Simply ludicrous. Promoting the notion that women don't have agency isn't going to help men. I honestly don't get this line of thinking. It is pure fantasy.
/r/askMRP08/12/16 05:18 PM
2

Where did I call him a faggot? If he wants to fix his marriage, he can certainly try and I won't call him a faggot for doing so. Emotional attachments are hard to break. But you're wrong, sorry. Anyone who cheats bears 100% of the blame. There is this thing called breaking up or divorcing which you can do when you are unsatisfied in a relationship that does not involve breaking the promise of commitment, which is what relationships are founded on. She could have divorced him. She could have aske…
/r/askMRP08/12/16 05:16 PM
6

No, I disagree that a woman cheating on her man is somehow excusable or understandable because he was "beta." Cheating isn't AWALT. Cheating is only the fault of the cheater, and is the response of a person you should never forgive or trust again. He should have dumped her immediately. Even now, he owes her nothing. He'll never get past her being a cheater. He should tell her he found he can't forgive her, he's disgusted by what she did, and it's over.
/r/askMRP08/12/16 02:39 AM
2

You're welcome :D
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/16 07:48 PM
3

I've noticed that as I add muscle, I also add a mild amount of fat. When doing cut weeks, will my body eat the fat over the muscle provided I eat heavy right after my workout? You add muscle in a surplus. Depending on your insulin sensitivity, it will be about 50:50 muscle:fat. Only drugs can really make you put on more muscle and less fat. That is why naturals do bulk and cut cycles. It is expected that you should put on some fat along with muscle when you are in a surplus. You should be gettin…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/16 06:41 PM
3

Although great progress has been made, was thinking about the fact that short of applying active dread she is not really responsive to my initiation and sex happens or does not happen on her terms nearly 100%. Why would this be otherwise? Men have higher testosterone and higher desire for sex. I know some men on here will talk about how much their wives love to gobble their cocks now that they are 110% alpha, and in some cases it is true, but women on the WHOLE don't crave sex the way men do, as…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/16 06:35 PM
1

Your problem is you believe every woman is looking for a man who is "better" than her for a relationship. I don't want that. I don't want to chase and I don't want to hold down someone who thinks he can always do better. I just want someone to have fun with for NOW, and see what happens. No guarantees. I want to be with someone where we BOTH know we can get others, but we are choosing to be together. I don't want to be with someone out of desperation, or because we're married, or because we have…
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/16 06:28 PM
0

I don't want marriage or kids. I'm in an LTR but I also love my freedom and space. Commitment is nice if I am getting benefits from the companionship, but I can enjoy that without commitment as well. I really value my freedom above all else.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/16 03:44 AM
2

Boom :D
/r/askMRP06/12/16 06:24 PM
2

Isn't that what alphas do? ;)
/r/askMRP06/12/16 06:23 PM
1

Yet I'm in a happy relationship of two years while a lot of RP men are alone looking for virgins :D.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/16 06:23 PM
1

I don't believe anyone is superior to me.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/16 01:16 AM
2

How is she being punished? With this beta not bothering her, she is winning.
/r/askMRP06/12/16 01:14 AM
1

My boyfriend has plenty of other options. He doesn't care. That said, both of us are childfree and don't care about marriage. Maybe if you are looking for that Madonna vessel to carry your children, it's much more important. Also, I don't know if a majority of women lie about their number. I don't have a problem telling a man my number, and I would have someone to replace him with if it were an issue.
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/16 06:41 PM
3

You need to practice your STFU, obviously. Does your wife know you're on her laptop?
/r/askMRP02/12/16 09:50 PM
1

I'm too busy upping my deadlift and following my training program to comment on other lifters. I'm pretty sure that listening to your whine isn't going to build better men. That's good for you, since they would just outcompete you for the 4s.
/r/askMRP02/12/16 09:45 PM
2

That's his choice. He doesn't have to get married. If he wants a wife and kids in his late 30s/early 40s, he has to pick from what's left. Now, if he chooses to get married while young, he can marry a young woman who won't have a high notch count and might be a virgin. But RP men don't want to do that. Someone has to lose out. Just as a woman can't fuck around while young and marry a top alpha (most likely), a guy can't fuck around while young and get that nubile virgin. Tough luck. I'm just hap…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 09:40 PM
1

These women will still want those attractive men and constantly be comparing their current men to her former lovers and wishing he was as attractive as they were. Even if he makes more money and is a more stable provider, the sexual connection will be mismatched because she has had top tier men and now has to settle for "less", sexually. Again, this assumes that she hasn't put sex behind her as her main motivator for being with a man. If she can have a husband, a house, a comfortable lifestyle a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 06:48 PM
1

Because she spent so much time fucking around with top tier guys, like those french farmer types, when she eventually has to settle with a "less than" type guy, she will never be truly satisfied as she will always be comparing them to the top tier guys she had in the past. Doesn't that assume that she cares about being ultra sexually attracted to her husband? I'm not one of these chicks, since I don't want marriage and I don't want kids, but for these types of women, many of them just want to ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 06:47 PM
3

I think it is hilarious that they criticize the supposed "AFBB" when they want to bang hundreds of women in their 20s and 30s and then when they are in their 40s, they want to marry a virgin or very low N-count woman younger than 25 who will stay home and raise their kids while they flirt with other women in front of their wives. LOL. The wall really ONLY applies to the type of women who really want a big family and to be a stay at home wife and mother. Women who make their own incomes and/or wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 06:37 PM
2

I care about a man's value to me, and my boyfriend fits that mold. I'm not disagreeing with you on what men overwhelmingly prefer. I'm disagreeing that woman's value peaks at 25 (this is highly individual based on how much she takes care of herself). Not all the woman on here want children (I don't), so I go for men who are not interested in having children and a family. My ideal partner is someone I have a lot of mutual interests with and who I can have fun with.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/16 05:56 PM
4

Not all women care about having children or appealing to you. I know this shocks you. Any man or woman who doesn't lift weights and pay attention to diet is going to decline early. Man or woman. Look at female bikini competitors in their 40s who look better than college women who don't lift. If you get into a relationship with a woman who doesn't lift, you are guaranteed to have a very declining value.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/16 05:34 PM
7

The next day I told wife I wanted sex and a backrub when the boys went to bed. She coldly said "fine" and yep, frigid starfish sex. Wow, I'm so surprised she wasn't ready to hop on your dick after how smooth you were.
/r/askMRP02/12/16 05:25 PM
1

Why would you want to give commitment to a guy you haven't slept with? I don't get it. We can plate too. Commitment isn't worth anything to me with a man who doesn't fit all of my criteria, including that I like having sex with him.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/16 05:15 PM
3

Women don't peak at 25. Lol.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/16 05:09 PM
1

Outside of a few men on Red Pill who want to be promiscuous and then marry a virgin, no one cares about your N-count. They care about your mannerisms. I've never been asked mine (though I have volunteered it) by any man I dated. I'm in a 2 year LTR and we both know each other's counts. His is double mine, but mine is not below 5. No one cares. We're both adults.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/16 05:06 PM
3

A lot of problems in this sub would be solved if men didn't wife up women who don't lift. It would save years of upping your SMV only to have a fat wife sitting on the couch.
/r/askMRP02/12/16 04:43 PM
5

Suggested we try non-intercourse sexy times 26% body fat. Choose one.
/r/askMRP02/12/16 02:37 AM
8

She told you more than once that she wants a divorce, and purposely didn't put you on her health plan. She'd rather go on Obummercare than be your dependent on your plan. She's checked out. What makes you think your show of "disappointment" means shit to her? Your SMV might be higher on the market but she doesn't care. Give her the divorce. If you're as in shape as you claim, you can spin plates.
/r/askMRP02/12/16 02:31 AM
2

Don't bulk unless you are below 15%, or you'll just add more fat than muscle due to lower insulin sensitivity and poor nutrient partitioning.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/16 09:07 PM
2

You can make plenty of strength gains in a deficit with a solid program, consistency and adherence. Your problem is fucking around.
/r/askMRP29/11/16 01:58 AM
1

One with far more test than you.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/16 04:51 AM
0

You're a fucking child. She probably wishes she were married to the other, hotter dad.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/16 11:18 PM
1

Caucasian and muscular from weight lifting. Height doesn't matter as long as he's taller than I am. I like scruffy face and blue eyes, but these are optional.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/16 05:50 PM
3

Sorry, Rollo, but I'm haaaaaaaaaaaapy as fuck :). A little less projecting would be nice.
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/16 06:33 PM
2

Someone else's sexual decisions are none of my business. A woman can remain a virgin until marriage or have sex with a new man every week and it literally has no affect on my life and my decisions. I don't believe woman need to keep themselves pure for a man who is sleeping around and decides to settle down, just like I don't think a man needs to wife up a promiscuous woman when she's ready to settle down. A man doesn't "deserve" a pure, virginal woman if he's promiscuous and a woman doesn't des…
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/16 06:30 PM
4

Not sure what is traditional about not working, but if it makes you happy, go for it. Personally I love having my own career and making money and I don't want or like kids. I prefer to spend my money on hobbies I enjoy and put a lot away for my retirement and I don't want the government involved in my decisions and pushing family-friendly stuff in my face. I'm not a feminist at all, but I am libertarian. Live and let live is my motto. I would have killed myself if I lived 100 years ago and my on…
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/16 06:20 PM
1

Then she has the wrong boyfriend for her. You can't change another person.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/16 09:37 PM
1

Nope. I'm a strong individualist and I don't believe in group identities.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/16 09:18 PM
1

I've never said higher or lower, just the exact number if it happened to come up. I just don't treat the number like a big deal. Hasn't hurt my dating life as far as I'm aware.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/16 09:17 PM
1

You're making broad generalizations based on your own preferences.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/16 09:15 PM
0

Lol, no. I love spending time alone and being busy myself. I don't have time to be "sad" about my boyfriend having a life because I'm reading, lifting heavy at the gym, enjoying sun/nature, sleeping, working, etc. You sound clingy.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/16 09:11 PM
2

I don't care at all. I have a high SMV myself. I also don't treat a man poorly because of low SMV. I would prefer him to one of the RP assholes who thinks he's the prize and should get anal on demand.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/16 06:59 AM
1

You haven't gotten divorced yet?
/r/askMRP10/11/16 12:20 AM
1

You're cuter when you're angry <3.
/r/askMRP08/11/16 10:41 PM
1

Look, I know you have a past full of addiction and an ex-wife, so you're bitter, cynical and jaded. That's understandable. But you have no idea who I am or what my relationship is like. Yes, I make substantially more than him, but I knew that going in (as did he). He deadlifts over 700 pounds and is one of the most intelligent men I know. He coaches my powerlifting and I attribute much of my success in strength training to his coaching wisdom. We laugh together every damn day, and two years afte…
/r/askMRP08/11/16 09:25 PM
-1

It must be sad that the only women who suck your dick are paid.
/r/askMRP08/11/16 05:51 PM
0

Been making substantially more than my bf since we met. This month is our two year anniversary :).
/r/askMRP08/11/16 02:48 AM
3

You sound angry and bitter. My man is a strong man. I mean that literally (he deadlifts 700#) and mentally (he is very goal-focused and intelligent). He does not treat me with kid gloves and he is always extremely honest with me, which I value. But he respects me, loves me, and supports me when I am struggling with something. That does not make him less of the masculine man he is in my eyes, nor does it make me lose attraction for him. Is your only experience with women who are vapid sluts you m…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/16 09:59 PM
1

That could be the case. Who knows? I just know that I'm content and I'm reaching my goals. We both believe that the other is just along for the ride, and better keep him/herself at the top of the game. I can't imagine the frustration of some of the men here who have out of shape and unintelligent wives. I would never tolerate that in a partner.
/r/askMRP07/11/16 07:15 PM
1

+1 this. A quality woman does not SEEK OUT drama. If you met her at a club, expect her to seek drama. Of course, if you met her at a club, you shouldn't be LTRing her.
/r/askMRP07/11/16 07:03 PM
0

Sorry for the hijack ;).
/r/askMRP07/11/16 02:31 AM
-2

Exactly!
/r/askMRP07/11/16 02:22 AM
-2

There are more of us than you realize ;). Again not saying you are wrong. But you have to have a wife who thrives on drama and/or doesn't have anything going on in her life (career, fitness) that she needs the stress of your impending doom. Honestly, neither of those options sound like a great life partner. Maybe this is me not getting men wanting this. I admit I don't! A partner causing me stress when I just want to relax in the sun in my bikini would be a dealbreaker :).
/r/askMRP07/11/16 02:18 AM
3

Not odd at all. My man and I discuss diet, politics, religion, sex, gender relations, race, history, etc. How boring it must be if you can't have in depth conversations on a multitude of topics with your partner. I'd rather live alone than have a dull partner.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/16 02:11 AM
2

It is, I just think the guys here sometimes envision something more direct and aggressive ;).
/r/askMRP07/11/16 02:08 AM
2

Unlike what many here think, you can have two frames that work in a complementary fashion. My man is highly supportive of my lifting and career goals. That doesn't make him "live" in my frame. He is confident in his masculinity to not need me to be his shadow. Frankly with my INTJ personality I hate ups and downs and feeling peril. I went out of my way to not date men in high danger jobs because outside of my work, I want to chill out and relax. We both get thrills from our weight training. That…
/r/askMRP07/11/16 02:03 AM
1

She's submissive sexually, not so much otherwise. Yup, that is me. I'm dominant and goal oriented in my career, fitness, etc. but I want man to always control the bedroom (or other sexual places ;)).
/r/askMRP06/11/16 08:31 PM
1

Haha 😄😄.
/r/askMRP06/11/16 06:57 PM
5

If she's responsive/passive desire (like a LOT of women are), it's on you to initiate. She'll get into it IF she's attracted to you, but you have to start. Alpha/RP man or not, women do not for the most part initiate like men. Take a minute to pout about this and get back to reality. If I'm ready for sex, I will flirt with my man, stand or walk suggestively, run my hand lightly over my breasts while talking to him, walk by naked, etc. I am not going to grab his dick and start sucking or jump on …
/r/askMRP06/11/16 01:21 AM
1

Sorry for the delay :). Long story short, we met on Facebook 4 years ago. We had an instant attraction. I should stats upfront that while I am 8 years older, I am in amazing shape. I weight train and eat a very healthy diet, and don't drink. I regularly get people thinking I'm 27 or 28, so my boyfriend's age. I would consider myself an HB8 and I attract men younger than me regularly. We lived in different states so nothing came of it. Dated other people but stayed friends on FB. Two years ago af…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/16 01:12 AM
1

Yep, female INTJ :). That is why I lift more per my bodyweight and I'm more alpha than half this sub ;).
/r/askMRP05/11/16 09:22 PM
4

So tough and alpha.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/16 07:36 PM
1

I'm a 35f dating a 27m. AMA :D.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/16 08:56 PM
0

and considering how high-quality a man I actually am - I won't have a problem in that situation. AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA! Dude, you have 5 kids. You get triggered at being called "faggot."
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/16 08:34 PM
1

Glad this makes sense :D. Re: the character thing. It would feel "fake" to me to roll play this stuff with my boyfriend, which doesn't turn me on. Plus, it would be too much effort. It's just as easy for me to read my erotica and get myself off. Re: not everything being on the table. Look, the honest truth is that some women hate giving blow jobs, and wouldn't give one to Brad Pitt. Some women hate being on top and some hate doggy. Some will never do anal. Some would rather do something you woul…
/r/askMRP04/11/16 06:14 PM
1

Just do it.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/16 06:02 PM
0

Where is submissiveness a requirement? A RP man doesn't have to have a doormat wife. I love planning stuff. Part of my job involves focusing on details and they aren't overwhelming.
/r/askMRP04/11/16 05:48 PM
4

You look average and get hit on by average chicks. What are you expecting exactly?
/r/askMRP04/11/16 05:45 PM
2

Stop giving yourself permission (that's what you're doing) to skip the gym, drink, watch porn and be lazy. You are allowing yourself to do this. Make these non-negotiable: Lifting 3-5 times a week. Not drinking more than 1 alcoholic drink a week, if any. Not watching porn. Not sitting around playing with your dick instead of getting shit done. Forget about getting applause and parades for adherence. Motivation fades; discipline and dedication stick. Do not give yourself leeway to fail. Logic ove…
/r/askMRP04/11/16 05:43 PM
1

Lol :D. He doesn't read these subs but he has all the behaviors. I'm more into RP on an intellectual level. I find the dynamics fascinating.
/r/askMRP04/11/16 05:34 PM
1

Haha ;).
/r/askMRP04/11/16 05:33 PM
1

Well, I can't speak for every woman of course ;), but I'll say that for some things, I just would rather have these fantasies alone. I don't want to "roll play" them out because it feels fake. Also, they are fantasies where it is not ME in them, but me reading erotica where this occurs. I do think this is something men don't often get. Sometimes even the most assertive woman like me feels a little self-conscious about our really private fantasies, and we also see them as "ours" and not something…
/r/askMRP04/11/16 05:31 PM
2

Definitely! In fact I am the straightest straight chick. I only like dick. Never did any "experimentation" with my female friends :).
/r/askMRP04/11/16 01:58 AM
2

Yes. But just because I am more logical and less emotional than the majority of women doesn't mean I don't have some of the same experiences as the rest of my gender.
/r/askMRP04/11/16 12:15 AM
2

Hahaha
/r/askMRP04/11/16 12:14 AM
7

Covert contract.
/r/askMRP03/11/16 10:46 PM
-2

Why can't she get her own food? I take care of myself and never miss a day of work or the gym being sick. If I did, I could feed myself. Are her arms broken?
/r/askMRP03/11/16 10:43 PM
5

My perspective is that this sub sometimes gets itself into a bind with advice because some of the "tenets" of MRP have been taken to absurd levels. If men are to lead the relationships (women are not their equal) and to be treated as children/little girls who run on "feels" and not logic, then you take away her agency. This is convenient for many of you, because it gives you the power in the relationship. But then, if a woman engages in behavior like the OP's wife did--sexual messages and emotio…
/r/askMRP03/11/16 09:42 PM
3

Haha! Should I be flattered that you thought I was your wife's account, or upset? ;)
/r/askMRP03/11/16 06:39 PM
2

Mhm. Which is why you were so successful that you're MGTOW now.
/r/askMRP03/11/16 06:25 PM
1

Lol. I loved that movie!
/r/askMRP03/11/16 05:34 PM
3

Must be something wrong with me! Who wouldn't get turned on by this? He's so alpha. I love how he gives step by step instructions as to what I'm feeling and what he's doing. Oh, this was supposed to be you being dominant? Fuck, I thought it was a comedy.
/r/askMRP03/11/16 05:27 PM
3

You think OP's solution is to hold her down and talk dirty to her until he gets the right "button" for orgasm response? She'll just nod along so he'll hurry the fuck up and finish. You can't command her to orgasm and think that is a long term solution. His solution is to stop being so butthurt about her responses. He needs to work on himself so he stops having covert contracts about how he does X and gets Y.
/r/askMRP03/11/16 05:18 PM
2

You can't "make" a woman want to initiate. I don't know why guys can't get this. She might comply like OP's wife to get him off her back, but it isn't genuine. You can't "command" enthusiasm, authentic desire, genuine initiation, etc.
/r/askMRP03/11/16 05:16 PM
4

I don't know, but studies suggest only 30% of women can orgasm from PIV. All the alpha men who are saying "it's all about dominance" really don't know that this is the case. It could be that their girl can orgasm from PIV and others can't. And yeah, a lot do fake it so that men like the OP don't hound them. I mean, OP didn't like that his wife just put out. He demanded "more enthusiasm," which she complied with. Oh, but that's not enough! He needs her to initiate and be enthusiastic! No wonder s…
/r/askMRP03/11/16 05:14 PM
7

Are you retarded?
/r/askMRP03/11/16 12:04 PM
3

She was a virgin until marriage. She never was wild in bed before they were married. She didn't bait and switch. This is all on him. Wifely duty is all that is required of Christian wives. If he wants a woman more active about her orgasm, then divorce is his primary option. Holding out on sex like she's going to give a damn is a covert contract.
/r/askMRP03/11/16 12:03 PM
0

Yet she is your ex...
/r/askMRP03/11/16 11:57 AM
5

Idea that sex is for procreation only, that masturbation is a sin, certain positions are sinful, etc.
/r/askMRP03/11/16 01:28 AM
3

Fair enough, but this one is married. She doesn't seem inclined to be freaky and she isn't rebelling against her parents (a big draw for kids).
/r/askMRP03/11/16 01:27 AM
-1

If you have to take responsibility for her actions and treat her like a child, you have a really stupid wife.
/r/askMRP02/11/16 10:51 PM
1

Depends on how busy my day is, but I can usually throw one in.
/r/askMRP02/11/16 10:43 PM
31

I'm one of the few females on this sub so I'm going to weigh in. There will be a lot of comments about how you are not alpha or dominant enough. Well, guess what? I never EVER had an orgasm from PIV. I have been with a few men and have an LTR of 2 years. Dick size hasn't mattered. Position hasn't mattered. His "alphaness" hasn't mattered. I only orgasm from oral or fingers, never PIV. Do you oral or finger her? Also, Google this if you have to, but if she has an "outie" vagina, she is even less …
/r/askMRP02/11/16 10:30 PM
2

That sounds perfect!!
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/16 09:45 PM
2

Dealbreakers: --Wanting kids. --Drugs and alcohol (other than a little drinking). --Not lifting weights --Not focusing on diet --Being overweight --Being liberal --Being religious --Not seeing me as an equal partner in the relationship --Having any double standards for how we are allowed to act/behave in the relationship --Being controlling about my time, thoughts or activities.
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/16 07:24 PM
15

Dump him. You want marriage; he doesn't. Why get married to a man who has to be forced into it? Also, he read one of your old diaries without permission? Look, if you want to stay with a man who doesn't respect you and also has to be tricked into marriage, that's on you. But you lack confidence. I'd leave him and work on your own SMV and RMV.
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/16 07:21 PM
7

I never want to get married. I make a good salary and don't want kids. I love my freedom. I'm in an LTR, but like that we can both walk away easily.
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/16 07:19 PM
1

300 grams a day right now; higher when I'm on a lean bulk.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/16 07:16 PM
1

I do powerlifting style training with accessories. Right now I have a five day a week upper/lower split. For diet, I personally like a high carb, low fat diet focusing on lean proteins, starches and fruits.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/16 07:14 PM
1

Must be the keto breath.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/16 06:12 PM
2

My boyfriend and I are into lifting and nutrition. Neither one of us would be in a relationship with someone who isn't fit and who doesn't pay attention to diet. If he started packing on the pounds, I'd tell him he needs to cut. If he stayed fat, I'd break up with him. Hell, I'd fat shame the hell out of myself if I ever got fat, but I won't because I have standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/16 06:12 PM
1

If I'm already attracted to a man, what makes me more interested? His being an INTJ or similar introvert, his into lifting, his not wanting kids, his being libertarian/conservative, his not being religious, his liking to eat sushi. Most of these are mandatory for me anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/16 06:10 PM
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Pro-tip: Never LTR a woman who doesn't lift, doesn't eat a healthy diet and who doesn't avoid drugs and alcohol.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/16 06:08 PM
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RP female. I'm an INTJ, so basically a masculine brain in a female body. I'm not very emotional or sensitive; I'm more logical and analytical. This sub interests me greatly since I think like many of the men here. I'm naturally confident and witty, and Amused Mastery and Agree and Amplify are easy techniques for me.
/r/askMRP02/11/16 06:07 PM
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Aren't handjobs for middle schoolers?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/16 05:44 PM
1

Here's my view, and I'll see if the sub agrees: you should be worried if she DOESN'T shit or fitness test you. That means she's checked out. Do I shit test / fitness test my man? Absolutely. Not as much as a shrew or low SMV woman, because I'm damn confident. But I still test his strength. Why? Because he is my man and this is our relationship, and I want the man who is in a relationship with me to have fortitude and resolve. I want him to stand up. I don't want to be with a weak guy. Now, we've…
/r/askMRP02/11/16 05:40 PM
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I think you are right in both not apologizing unless it is sincere and of course you are right that it is a power play. She doesn't want a beta, but she needs to test your resolve. I admit as a woman myself, I like to see how strong my man really is--mentally and physically. I might be near unicorn but I won't say I don't do fitness tests. I sure as hell do. I think what you said was perfect and I disagree with it being called DEERing. Frank, succinct statements don't seem rationalizing to me.
/r/askMRP02/11/16 05:31 PM
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I disagree on this being a DEER. He's being frank. He'll apologize when warranted, and not when it isn't. End of story. I don't see rationalizing there.
/r/askMRP02/11/16 05:28 PM
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Hmm. That's a tough question. I'm going to have to side with the MRP men here and say that if she doesn't bring up Red Pill on her own, don't mention it. I happen to have a red pill mentality just by personality. I think other women do too, but they could be put off by some of the red pill writings they read about. I do recommend getting your LTR into lifting heavy weight if she's not already, getting her into healthy eating habits, and have her check out red pill friendly women like Lauren Sout…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/16 05:23 PM
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That's an excellent choice. I myself prefer full meals--usually lean protein like fish and lots of rice, potatoes and fruit.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/16 05:20 PM
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She's too fat for me to get horny.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/16 02:42 AM
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I have loved this from the first time I read it about 5 years ago when I started taking my weight lifting more seriously. It's a piece that should inspire everyone to consistently lift. The mental and physical strength you gain from years of lifting is unmatched in just about any other endeavor.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/16 02:09 AM
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I do IF too, and have been for 8 years. Love it! My only suggestion for you is to change your eating window to a small break the fast/pre-workout meal and have your LARGEST meal at night. This meal should contain the majority of your carbs. You really don't want to be skimping on protein and carbs post workout.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/16 02:05 AM
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Haha. I detest keto. I do low fat high carb :). I do like steak though. Also deep fried food is high fat. That isn't a carb problem.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/16 10:31 PM
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Cream of Rice with cinnamon and fruit :). Fuck fat. Carbs are better.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/16 09:43 PM
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That's nowhere near what I said. You seem a little hyper. Calm down, and re-read.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/16 08:48 PM
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It sucks to get shit on, but pretending this is unique to men is ridiculous. Tons of women stay in bad relationships, and not just because of resources. It's the same kind of romantic "he's the one" bullshit that MRP is against.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/16 08:43 PM
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Then love doesn't exist, because unconditional doesn't exist. How low are you that you don't have conditions on your time and emotions?
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/16 08:40 PM
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He doesn't deserve anything he can't earn.
/r/askMRP01/11/16 06:18 PM
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I'm not going to "cheat" on my wife Interesting. What special snowflake name have you come up with for what you are doing? Just curious how your mind is working to make you in the clear. In just about every universe, making out and sexting is cheating. I would dump my LTR for either.
/r/askMRP01/11/16 06:13 PM
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When he fully embraces "she isn't yours, it's just your turn", a women recognizes immediately and gets nervous. I think it can go both ways. I know my man isn't mine; he's mine now so long as our mutual interests and attraction align. You only have true outcome independence when you know that you'll be equally happy with this person or striking out on your own.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/16 04:37 PM
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You mean "God Emperor President Elect Trump" :).
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/16 02:50 AM
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Thank you :)
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/16 02:26 AM
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You make excuses for the cheated on beta that you'd never make for a cheated on woman, because it suits your vision. I'd call that...hamstering.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/16 01:22 AM
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Show me proof men love unconditionally and women love conditionally.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/16 01:21 AM
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Tell me how much you would love your woman if she was a fat shrew with an unwashed vagina. Unconditional, right?
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/16 11:40 PM
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He loves the idea he created, or he doesn't want to get out of his comfort zone and leave. It is not because of UNCONDITIONAL love. That's hamstering.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/16 11:35 PM
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You only have one life. You don't like her and you don't want to sleep with her. I think a clean break is what you need. Just don't get into another LTR until you work on you. But you will be able to do so without a hostile roommate.
/r/askMRP31/10/16 11:08 PM
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No shit, Sherlock. All love is conditional, as it should be. I love my LTR, but he knows that if he gets out of shape, stops lifting, turns religious, wants kids, or breaks any of my deal breakers, my love is gone. I know well that if I got fat, lived off his money, turned feminist, etc., he would stop loving me. This isn't a female thing. Any being with self-worth knows love, respect and friendship are CONDITIONAL on your getting value out of the transaction. I love my LTR so long as he is valu…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/16 10:32 PM
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Agree with you.
/r/askMRP31/10/16 10:10 PM
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I like what you suggested saying (I can picture doing the same thing) and from following your posts, I don't see this marriage turning around. Get out as soon as feasible. Her emotions after you leave are HER problem. FTR I disagree with people telling you to stay. You might be a fuck up, but at least outside this marriage you can work on you. Your wife was never interested in you, unlike some of the wives of the alphas turned betas turned alphas again. She is disinterested in your time. You hav…
/r/askMRP31/10/16 10:08 PM
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I made a few people butthurt.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/16 08:51 PM
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I make more than my man and second this. I don't lack respect for him by not making what I do--I have been in my career longer. If he made less and laid around all day not adding value, I sure as hell would not respect him.
/r/askMRP31/10/16 05:55 PM
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Have you seen most trainers? They look like they haven't touched a weight in their lives. They got hired after passing NASM. Not dread at all.
/r/askMRP31/10/16 05:53 PM
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Thread is won here.
/r/askMRP31/10/16 05:51 PM
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Revenge fantasies are cute, but promiscuous women who are extroverted and goal-oriented in college often move on to great careers and marry promiscuous, extroverted men with great careers in their field. I know you want to believe they are crying alone in apartments surrounded by cats (which honestly sounds better than putting up with some of the guys on RP), but statistics show that likes marry likes. Alpha men in law, medicine and business aren't obsessing over N-count. They marry successful, …
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/16 01:32 PM
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Unfortunately, it has come to mean whatever some bitter and often spurned men on RP in the anger stage say it is. There is no definition for this; some men say any sex a woman has outside of a LTR is riding the CC. If you ask them for evidence that this impairs pair bonding, all they can present is divorce statistics, which say nothing about pair bonding. They also won't address how promiscuous men often make bad LTR choices for women due to their greater desire for variety, "degrading" sex and …
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/16 01:28 PM
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I don't. I lift heavy and I lift nearly entirely with men. Some women feel intimidated about things and want female only spaces. I personally think it is ridiculous. That said, private businesses should be able to do whatever they want. If they want to provide women only, men only, black only, Christian only, atheist only, libertarian only spaces, let them do it. This only matters if it is government mandated with tax money.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/16 01:23 PM
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Forget about when her prime was. Stop thinking you can coast until you're 50 and have your revenge fantasy prime then. Stop obsessing about N count. Stop your rigid alpha/beta Madonna/whore thinking. Lift heavy. Improve your physique. Set career goals. Get your finances in order. You can't control other men, women, society. Build your life on YOUR terms and decide who can be a part of it. One woman or no women or a hundred women--it doesn't matter. Build a life that people desire to be a part of…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/16 01:00 AM
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Overweight rednecks. I'll make the pigs diet. Can't fix an effeminate man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/16 03:08 AM
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Green flag for me. I'm an independent introvert and would rather spend my free time lifting and reading solo than entertaining or babysitting friends and being social. My boyfriend is the same way. We keep in strict shape and have our own hobbies. I would not date an extrovert or man who loves parties. ETA: purple/red.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/16 04:06 AM
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I enjoy RP and agree with a lot of it but I am too selfish and alpha myself to be an ideal RP woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/16 02:26 AM
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I'd think it was funny. I read MRP and TRP myself and I'm kind of an "alpha" type of woman so that stuff doesn't bother me. Locker room banter. If he started treating me like a plate and thinking he's going to lead my life, that would be another thing. I don't do follower.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/16 03:02 PM
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Meh. I see integrity as Red Pill and cheating as weak. You do you.
/r/askMRP24/10/16 01:46 AM
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You are so bitter that it's hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/16 01:42 AM
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Who says we all support cad?
/r/askMRP24/10/16 01:40 AM
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Nope. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/16 01:39 AM
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Just remember ASALT: all spotters are like that.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/16 09:29 PM
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Incline is my favorite press :). And that's not love. That's momentary appreciation.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/16 09:22 PM
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I don't. In fact, I have a "masculine" brain as a female INTJ and I offer solutions IFA female or male friend confides in me. I never complain about anything in my life without putting a plan in place to fix it. If you want to have a submissive, passive woman who will let you be captain, then you have to deal with all that comes with it. You can have a woman like me who is confident and self-reliant, but you won't get an aimless follower to lead. Your choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/16 09:20 PM
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No one loves someone for who they are, men or women. Unconditional love does not exist. Both men and women love based on their priorities, and it should be that way.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/16 09:10 PM
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Rekd :).
/r/askMRP23/10/16 09:03 PM
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I will be later :). Definitely deadlifting more than OP.
/r/askMRP22/10/16 05:27 PM
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"I fuck her in all three holes! You'd think that would be enough for her! What's all this emotional stuff? I'm the alpha!" puffs up chest He has every right to leave her over the emotional affair, but his attitude and description of his marriage indicates a failure of leadership. He failed to provide an emotional connection. Anal sex is great, but she clearly doesn't feel connected to OP.
/r/askMRP22/10/16 05:19 PM
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Go to the childfree subreddit (I'm childfree and post there). There are many users who had kids and openly regret it. They warn others to not have kids out of pressure.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/16 01:18 AM
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This is me, except the dog. 35f, in amazing shape from diet and lifting, great career and salary, no kids and never wanted them. I'm in an LTR but I love my some time and if it ended tomorrow, I would be fine. I don't want to get married. I am selfish and very individual focused. I'm goal oriented, into self-improvement, and don't want a husband or kids to interfere with my life choices. I'm unburdened, make great money, and am very fit. Life is awesome and a husband and kids would cramp my styl…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/16 01:16 AM
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Hahaha!
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/16 01:34 AM
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I'm a minimalist and so is my man. It's hard to be with someone with different values. Good luck to you!
/r/askMRP20/10/16 11:17 PM
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He's fat.
/r/askMRP20/10/16 10:38 PM
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:)
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/16 09:39 PM
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I think you have a hard on for neckbeards. Does your wife have a beard?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/16 05:57 PM
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Great conversation! To be completely honest, I guess I don't get jealous because I think I'm awesome and a prize, and if he isn't happy he can leave. I loved being single so returning to being single doesn't deter me. I also know I could easily date again. I have true abundance mentality, so jealousy just doesn't make sense. I wouldn't hang out with an old ex or expect him to, but I wouldn't be really upset if an ex was in town and he wanted to catch up over coffee, assuming they're on amicable …
/r/askMRP20/10/16 05:48 PM
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I respect your view on this, and I'm tempted to agree. I'm stubborn, and I also have an extremely strong frame for a female. I also don't get jealous easily, if at all (I love it when women find my man hot). I would personally get pleasure out of showing how unruffled I am by one of his exes, so I'm kind of projecting this on to OP. Given that OP is more beta than I am and does not possess my unshakeable frame, you might be right ;). I can now imagine him getting butthurt and clingy at this meet…
/r/askMRP20/10/16 05:28 PM
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I'm just saying that just because I make more money doesn't mean that I don't want my man to be confident and a leader in his own life. He should own his career, own his physique, own his social life, etc. My money shouldn't matter.
/r/askMRP20/10/16 05:21 PM
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I actually attended a religious college. I have read Aquinas, Anselm and several others. You're upset because your post went over like a lead balloon. But that's alright. You love being on your knees before another man.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/16 05:20 PM
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That's fair enough, but I don't think my perspective was "hamstering." I feel that he looks stronger going along with this already and showing an unbreakable frame, rather than backing out and saying that she's not going either. He hasn't set boundaries and he's beta as fuck. He needs to work on himself and increase his SMV. Then he can set boundaries and if she doesn't live up to them, he can ditch her for a better woman. Right now he looks weaker backing out. That's just my view.
/r/askMRP20/10/16 05:19 PM
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Sure, but more than half the men on this sub and likely 3/4 of the main sub see religion as anti-reason, which it is.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/16 02:04 AM
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No, but I work with many in my profession (immigration law).
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/16 02:02 AM
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Mormon culture is sick. A man and his wife that I know had to escape from physical, sexual and emotional abuse of the most disturbing nature. This is endemic to Mormon culture. You think it's good because women should know their place, huh? And men should be beaten and locked in closets without food for masturbating, right?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/16 02:00 AM
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Then you don't need to reference my gender on an anti-religion comment. I only date atheists anyway, so what male god worshipers think of me is irrelevant. Of course they like religious girls.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/16 01:47 AM
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You have men in this thread saying the same thing. Sorry the truth hurts you.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/16 01:27 AM
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Powerful or not, I'm glad it is a backwater now.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/16 12:35 AM
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Say we're flirting, and I am in the mood for a bang, I will increase the flirt level by some of the following: -- softening my voice and dragging words out with a smirky smile (ex. "Oh, reaaaaaalllly?") -- batting my eyelashes and look down while glancing up with flirty eyes -- running a finger near my collar bone and down between my fits -- wiggling my ass at him -- running my hand down his arm or across his chest -- pretend to walk toward bedroom or couch and glance over my shoulder. I barely …
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/16 12:21 AM
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Lol :p.
/r/askMRP20/10/16 12:13 AM
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No one calls a hot unmarried woman a spinster or calls an ugly unmarried man a bachelor. "Be attractive; don't be unattractive." Applies to both men and women ;).
/r/askMRP19/10/16 11:37 PM
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I back up Persaeus. I never chase. I give signals of horniness for HIM to act on. Neither my man nor I expect me to chase sex. We both find it hot when he is the aggressor. If I wanted to chase, I'd munch pussy.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/16 11:34 PM
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Have fun justifying a beta belief in sky fairies that developed before we understood science.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/16 11:28 PM
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spinster 1950s called. Wants its word back.
/r/askMRP19/10/16 11:18 PM
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I make far more than my man but I still don't want a beta. I want a confident man who owns his shit.
/r/askMRP19/10/16 11:16 PM
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I like the book club scene. It would be hot if my man did that.
/r/askMRP19/10/16 11:01 PM
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20% body fat on a man is FAT. someone in good shape 19% Lol.
/r/askMRP19/10/16 09:42 PM
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Then engage me :). I am ALWAYS open to seeing my biases. Please show me.
/r/askMRP19/10/16 05:42 PM
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I agree again, but he already made plans to go out. Backing out now makes it look like he sees the other man as a challenge. If I were in a situation around one of my man's exes, I would be my confident self and not display an ounce of jealousy or insecurity. Everyone has a past. If you know you are a prize, it shouldn't be a big deal.
/r/askMRP19/10/16 02:30 AM
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I should note I agree with both you and thisisme below that it is inappropriate. I'm in an LTR and not even married and have ZERO connections, on social media or otherwise, with my exes. That said, OP never set a boundary on this apparently AND agreed to the outing. So my advice as far as that still stands.
/r/askMRP19/10/16 02:05 AM
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I don't think it's unusual to want to look good for someone you used to date. I want men I used to date to still think I look hot because who doesn't want to be perceived as attractive? It doesn't mean she still wants to fuck him. It's validation. I have no issue as a female admitting this. Go along and be gregarious and light hearted. Don't ever look suspicious or concerned. Definitely don't act butthurt and don't make passive aggressive statements. Don't say anything about visiting an ex girlf…
/r/askMRP19/10/16 01:37 AM
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I love this.
/r/askMRP17/10/16 09:16 PM
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High in fruits and vegetables, low in highly processed/industrial foods.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/16 09:13 PM
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No one forced him to enter a relationship where fidelity is the standard (marriage). I'm as much against divorce rape as you, but a cheater brings this upon himself and his kids.
/r/askMRP17/10/16 05:16 PM
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So how can you come in here and call people "blue pill" if you only get side action by lying like a pussy?
/r/askMRP17/10/16 12:03 PM
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I can't agree with you enough on squats and deads!
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/16 11:28 PM
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Hey, I've never had a pumpkin spice latte or worn a pair of Uggs in my life!
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/16 11:13 PM
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Dead lifts, squats and sushi ;).
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/16 07:44 PM
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Lol. I know it hurts the ego, but sometimes the situation has nothing to do with the man. He's just in the right place at her right time ;).
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/16 04:33 PM
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Yes. If something is uncomfortable or against my principles, I don't compromise for a face.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/16 04:32 PM
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I like this sub. I agree with the message. Also the women's subs are boring;). I'm actually from New England, but that isn't the year round bikini weather I enjoy!
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/16 04:30 PM
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No, but saying it like you're sticking out your bottom lip and pouting because your wife doesn't respect your Captain hat is silly. Look, I wouldn't personally care if my husband went to a strip club. It wouldn't alarm or bother me. But your wife was under the impression that you were doing one thing and then you just did something else. I don't see it as her being a child because she was upset about the situation. I'm definitely not saying you're in the wrong or you need to apologize, but you d…
/r/askMRP15/10/16 05:46 PM
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I'm an INTJ. We're like robots. Needy or clingy is not in my software ;). Most men are needier than I am.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/16 05:23 PM
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Oh great. Another alpha Rambo! Can't wait to see how this turns out. I'm the Captain grabs popcorn
/r/askMRP15/10/16 04:59 PM
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The Family Alpha isn't justifying being in a marriage where he is supposed to give his fidelity but isn't because something something spreading his seed hamster hamster.
/r/askMRP15/10/16 04:56 PM
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Be careful with all/nothing statements. "100% of women would cheat" is unlikely and impossible to prove. Perhaps women will give "wilder" sex under certain circumstances, and your adultery example makes sense. But is it the male or the situation? Not all women cheat with alphas. Perhaps "wilder" sex with adultery partners is like wilder sex on a vacation to Paris with a woman's regular partner--it is the situation bringing "tingles," not the man :). Maybe instead of "Every woman is a slut for th…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/16 04:47 PM
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If he's high value enough, she will share him while remaining loyal because HE is the prize. Red Pill theory 101. Of course OP might not be the prize. In that case, he should continue to hide his little dalliances. Hell, she might have her own.
/r/askMRP15/10/16 12:48 AM
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High value women, especially those working in male dominated fields, will always have orbiters. Truth ;).
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/16 08:13 PM
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Then AWALT is really SWALT, which is the actual truth :).
/r/askMRP14/10/16 06:04 PM
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Oh, I would never accept a one-sided agreement ;). But I am I many ways an outlier. Just seems a contradiction for RP to say women are willing to share a high value man but a man should sneak around because he's afraid to lose his marriage. Isn't he the prize? RP is amoral; I understand. But in what universe is being sneaky an alpha trait? I thought alphas owned their shit.
/r/askMRP14/10/16 05:37 PM
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Open on his side. RP theory says a woman will share a high value man, right? So he should just tell her the marriage is open on his end only and since the OP is clearly alpha, wife will agree.
/r/askMRP14/10/16 05:19 PM
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I'm not a feminist, and I also don't want to get married, but I would keep my own last name. It's really only common in Anglo culture for the woman to change the last name. It is not common in many parts of the world. I like my name, I built a career with my name, and I don't want kids, so I don't see the point of changing it. I would absolutely understand a man not wanting to marry me if I wouldn't change my last name, but then we wouldn't be compatible anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/16 04:54 PM
1

First, we don't have a Captain-First Officer relationship. We're two individuals who are choosing to spend time together and be exclusive, but neither of us needs to dominate. If I'm better at something, I will lead, and vice versa. Second, I'm older than he is by eight years. Yup, I love younger men. Third, he's never cared about my N-count (not high, but he never cared about the figure) or my being submissive. I guess my red flags would be my not being submissive, being 35 and childfree (lol),…
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/16 04:50 PM
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Your wife is right. A new car's value decreases as soon as you sit your ass on it and drive it off the lot. Spending money on a "flashy" car is a completely dumb move.
/r/askMRP14/10/16 04:46 PM
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since society doesn't accept this he has to do this subversively. Hamster, hamster. If you were really high value, your wife would share you openly with other women because she wouldn't want to lose YOU. If you're afraid to tell her you want an open marriage on your end because she'll leave you, you're not high value. Don't use this "society" excuse.
/r/askMRP14/10/16 04:43 PM
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I do.
/r/askMRP14/10/16 04:40 PM
1

Lol, of course he deleted it.
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/16 03:16 PM
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Find a more submissive person to date. I can't see what she's doing wrong other than it interferes with your feeling like a man.
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/16 12:25 PM
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Yeah, you should just not bother. Leave the weights for those who earn them.
/r/askMRP14/10/16 02:40 AM
2

No, I don't find typing a difficult task. Not sure if I can help you if you are struggling with it.
/r/askMRP14/10/16 02:25 AM
1

You won't lift because you are being a lazy, complacent whiner. Your wife is fat and you're fat on your way to skinny fat with no leadership. Maybe the fact that I'm a woman who powerlifts and bodybuilds, is about 18% body fat with abs and dead lifts over 200 pounds and squats over 135 pounds will shame you into lifting. Or not. Just keep being weak.
/r/askMRP14/10/16 12:57 AM
2

Haha. Honestly I don't have a dog in this fight so not sure where my hamster lies. I'm an open book if you want to point it out. And I'm in Texas :).
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/16 12:51 AM
4

Definitely not hamstering :). But I think the RP idea that every women will be a slut for the right man is fantasy. Just like men, women have a range of libidos. Some will go from virginal prude to sex kitten for her husband and some will stay a prude, no matter how "alpha" he is. Similarly, not all women who ride the CC or even have an active sex life when younger will have to "settle" for a beta; promiscuous and extroverted people often marry each other and continue to be active. I would cauti…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/16 09:31 PM
7

It's not extortion if it's voluntary.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/16 05:29 PM
3

No, but I'd let him buy me sushi dinners.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/16 03:22 PM
2

I'm 5'4", 125 lbs. and about 18% bodyfat. I've been lifting for years, both bodybuilding and powerlifting style. I train 3-5 days a week and I have a strict diet. All of my friends, both men and women, are into the fitness lifestyle and I ONLY date men who lift weights. I care about physique, aesthetics and strength and maintain a lean physique year round without ever "letting myself go." There are more and more women getting into the fitness/lifting lifestyle from social media and it is only go…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/16 03:20 PM
1

How do you know you haven't gotten her best? You married a prude who fucks like a prude, and you hamster your cheating because she's not the filthy slut you wanted. You want pornstar sex from a woman who never gave that to you at the beginning. Your fault for marrying a prude instead of a hoe.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/16 01:29 AM
1

I would definitely let him check something. But I want my electronics and mail private. Ah, he was a plate, but we've been exclusive for 2 years now ;). He won me over.
/r/askMRP13/10/16 12:10 AM
1

It's just to get you warm enough to start. Once you start sweating you can turn it off :).
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/16 11:23 PM
2

Lol.
/r/askMRP12/10/16 11:22 PM
1

Can't stump the Trump!
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/16 11:22 PM
1

trumptrain2016. It was nice while it lasted...
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/16 09:44 PM
1

I believe in individual privacy in a relationship. My boyfriend doesn't have access to my passwords, my phone, my mail or my bank account. Vice versa. I trust him and he trusts me. If there is an issue, we discuss it. I would never be in a relationship where I gave up right to privacy. That's a deal breaker of mine.
/r/askMRP12/10/16 09:37 PM
1

I don't have any girlie stickers on my laptop, but I do have a "Hillary for Prison 2016" bumper sticker on my car.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/16 09:30 PM
1

I'm jealous :D. My man knows I love being alone and gives me space, but that is definitely one thing I miss from being single.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/16 08:16 PM
2

I love living alone. I love being alone. Even in my happy LTR, I can't get enough alone time. I'm never bored; I can entertain myself endlessly...my perfect relationship would be us each having separate apartments.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/16 03:55 PM
-1

Stop associating with the dregs of society. Find fit women who enjoy their careers and don't like kids.
/r/MGTOW11/10/16 11:13 PM
-1

Eh, I know plenty of 30s women who are in amazing shape from lifting heavy and don't want kids. They don't mind paying for dates either and like living alone. You only seem to be referring to chicks who party and drink.
/r/MGTOW11/10/16 11:03 PM
0

You shouldn't be married if you can't keep commitment for an 8 month marriage. You're upset at HER for not enough sex when you aren't keeping your side of the bargain?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/16 10:58 PM
1

Lol, no. Alan Aragon's "Lean Muscle Diet."
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/16 10:56 PM
0

Married for 8 months, cheating already, and wanting to escalate to dread level 7 in a few months...
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/16 09:25 PM
1

Can you get a small space heater for the basement? They aren't that expensive and will save you from needing to redo your schedule.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/16 09:22 PM
1

Did you get the Aragon book yet?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/16 08:52 PM
3

Oh, yes, I totally agree on no nagging/shaming/controlling the other person, no matter WHICH gender.
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/16 08:45 PM
6

Excellent post. We also call this a "renaissance man." I think that is what is missing in both genders today, to be honest. There is too much focus on the superficial and not on training the mind and training the body. No one should neglect their muscular and strength development, just as no one should stop making time to be well read and able to discuss numerous topics.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/16 08:40 PM
1

Sounds good! The deadlift is definitely a technical lift.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/16 08:05 PM
0

Something is wrong with your programming if you weigh over 200 lbs. and you have that low of a DL (particularly with your bench higher). What program are you doing?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/16 05:57 PM
1

Watching TV is a passive waste of time. Lift, read a book, or work on a project. Don't zone out in front of the junk box and act as her servant. First step is to end this waste of time. This isn't quality time with your wife. Second is if you are there, tell her simply that you aren't her servant and she can get up herself. I'll gladly get my partner a napkin or glass if I'm up already, but I'm not running errands to serve hand and foot.
/r/askMRP11/10/16 05:51 PM
2

Every hot person should be able to catch and release (men) or get hit on (women). If not, you are unattractive :).
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/16 05:38 PM
12

Not every Red Pill Woman wants a captain. My boyfriend is hot, intelligent and fun. We have common interests. But he doesn't lead me and I don't follow him. We're independent people who like spending time together. He isn't perfect and neither am I. We lead our lives and advise the other when necessary, and it works great. Neither of us want to depend on another for money, guidance, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/16 09:55 PM
3

Don't lift? Ewww. Fix that, eat an anti-inflammatory diet, and you'll stay young looking for decades. You made a choice to get married young. You didn't sow wild oats. Your choice. Own it. There is plenty you can do to improve yourself and your life without needing validation from other women.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/16 09:37 PM
1

Yes. I love this.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/16 07:19 PM
1

That's a good one too.
/r/askMRP08/10/16 04:39 PM
1

I absolutely love teasing in my relationship. But in this instance, if my man kept teasing me about a crush, I'd find it irritating and unattractive. YMMV.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/16 08:21 PM
-1

Yes, I would. I wouldn't keep teasing her, "Omg, how's your boyfriend? Omg, look how unruffled I am!" It's not about being conflict adverse. It's about knowing that attraction doesn't mean she wants to cheat on you and fuck him. It's realizing attraction happens, and it isn't a big deal. Do I think my boyfriend's ever checked out other women? Of course he has, and I'd be worried if he didn't. "Make my presence known to him." Why not just swing your dick around? That'll put her in her place. Ugh.…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/16 08:20 PM
1

How can I be annoying? I'm so damn awesome :D. Eh, I stand by every comment. Sometimes the majority will agree, sometimes not. You can give advice from your perspective, and sometimes it hits bullseye and sometimes it doesn't even make the target.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/16 06:46 PM
1

I would just ignore it. Any joking about crushes looks like butthurt (that's how I would see it if my man did it, and he is not weak). If I weren't into the neighbor then, the fact that my man seems butthurt about it would make me wonder if he thought the neighbor had higher value.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/16 06:29 PM
2

Butthurt.jpg.
/r/askMRP07/10/16 06:27 PM
4

You usually give good advice but that looks childish. Laughing about a crush (she hasn't admitted to) and making a lame remark to the neighbor in front of her? It looks like jealousy. I'd just ignore it and work on myself.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/16 06:20 PM
1

Good grief. I'm fucking cringing so hard right now. I'm so glad my man doesn't dry me up like a Sahara saying this shit.
/r/askMRP07/10/16 06:08 PM
1

That's always been my second favorite Berkhan post. First is "Like Water," which everyone should read as well. It's a great post about sunk cost fallacy.
/r/askMRP06/10/16 05:38 PM
1

Waste of resources and kids are life drains.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/16 02:24 AM
1

I'll take the high SMV guy, but I want to see other men too. We can plate each other. I'd prefer this because I need a lot of alone time and fidelity and resources aren't my requirements (I'm marriage and child free).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/16 02:21 AM
1

Fair enough :).
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/16 10:51 PM
1

Haha. I'm 5'4," 125 pounds, powerlift and bodybuild and about 18% body fat. What about you? Tubes is a collosal idiot who thinks fat cannot be stored without insulin. Fat stores with 97% efficiency due to its low TEF. He is a laughing stock. His own study attempting to prove metabolic advantage of low carb diets fell on its face. Like him all you want, but he's like a flat earther. You could have just disagreed with me instead of trying and failing to make me look like a fembot troll.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/16 07:51 PM
5

u/heavycreem please give me your amazing knowledge on how CICO is incorrect. I would love to see how you are smarter than Alan Aragon and Lyle McDonald. Go ahead.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/16 07:46 PM
4

Defending carbs is a bad sign? Pseudo-feminist who is voting for Trump? Doesn't want kids like half of this forum? Try a little harder to discredit me. That was weak. And your jab at CICO convinces me you don't understand science. I bet you read Gary Taubestard and Jason Fung and think you understand metabolism now. Maybe you're the attention seeker? Show me on the doll where carbs touched you. New user with one post? Not bold enough to use your real account? Pussy.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/16 06:04 PM
2

Bulking over 15% for men makes the ratio of fat gain to muscle gain higher. In other words, you gain more fat than muscle as you increase weight.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/16 02:48 AM
1

Being over 15% worsens insulin sensitivity and you partition more towards fat gain.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/16 01:19 AM
0

Why are you bulking at 25% bf? You should be below 15%.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/16 08:53 PM
13

She doesn't like or respect you, and from reading your post history I can see why. You're a beta who thinks he is alpha because you follow a bullshit religion that talks about female submission, and you're butthurt that your wife doesn't want to blow you with your captain hat on. She can't stand you. Your absence is a gift for her. Your only option is divorce. She doesn't want to improve for you or be led by you because you repulse her. MRP improves marriages where the woman doesn't want to lose…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/16 08:28 PM
3

That's a cop out. TRP clearly has Chad as a party dude, extroverted and promiscuous. Exactly what I am not interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/16 11:44 PM
2

No. Chad is stupid, does drugs and has a criminal record. I like smart, strait edge, clean men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/16 06:42 PM
3

Alpha male virgin? Lol no. Also, there is no "one." There can be many ones depending on where you are in life. Next this one. Your N-count is your N-count and you two aren't compatible.. There are tons of real alphas who aren't looking for virgins and aren't freaked out by sex.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/16 02:49 AM
3

Notice you didn't address the fat and not lifting accusation. Confirmed.
/r/askMRP01/10/16 02:42 PM
1

Thank you! I haven't gotten through all of the archives yet ;).
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/16 10:27 PM
1

I didn't say it was.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/16 09:26 PM
2

Could you rephrase all of that into something coherent? Don't get pissed at me because your home life isn't going as expected. No desperation here. Sorry to ruin your revenge fantasy.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/16 09:24 PM
1

Here's one thing I've been wondering from reading MRP. Men here often say that a woman doesn't know what she wants. That's debatable. But in some sense, a woman who IS getting married in her 30s and wants children purposely chooses a "beta." She knows that alpha will give her trouble--he won't be loyal and he won't be comforting. If she chose the beta, and the guy WAS beta at the time, then she doesn't have any obligation to accept the new alpha RP man. That's not what she wanted. He is changing…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/16 07:11 PM
7

Why should we take you seriously? What's so alpha about you and your self-admitted cheating that we should listen to you? Why is your whining worth attention?
/r/askMRP29/09/16 02:02 PM
1

I'm 35 and my boyfriend is 27. I've had younger (21-22) interested but that's a little too young for me. I always tend to date younger men. They don't want kids and are usually into lifting. I don't need their money.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/16 10:31 PM
1

The only healthy fats are the ones that keep you in energy balance. Fats are 9 calories per gram unlike carbs and protein and can add up, and not everyone finds them filling. Saturated fat is also still positively correlated with CVD despite low carb propaganda.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/16 08:00 PM
1

Lol. I eat 150 grams of protein a day and I'm a 5'4", 125 lb. chick.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/16 08:00 PM
4

Chad would be high lying in his own vomit at a beach house. Not married with a SAHM and 3 kids.
/r/askMRP28/09/16 07:45 PM
1

Lmao. No. You don't need to be in ketosis to lose weight.
/r/askMRP28/09/16 07:41 PM
2

I think the idea that all women cheat and/or are sluts is far more unlikely than a woman could be happy and loyal in a marriage.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/16 02:14 PM
1

If you want my advice: you're obsessing and being paranoid about something very unlikely to occur. Hotwifing/cuckolding is a fringe community.
/r/askMRP28/09/16 01:25 AM
1

We are!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/16 01:12 AM
1

Nope. I just don't take in any unnatural sugar (i.e. candy, cola). I avoid artificial sweeteners too. All of my food is whole food (including white rice). Sugar amount isn't that important in a micro nutrient dense diet.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/16 01:12 AM
1

Carbs 😍😍
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/16 01:10 AM
1

Sure, attraction plays a role in everything. So what? Life isn't fair. Women find uglier men creepier. If you're ugly, try to not be creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/16 12:52 AM
0

Race realism isn't racism. Look at crime statistics. Look at rap music.
/r/askMRP27/09/16 11:25 PM
1

I'll be fine. You're not roping me into saving marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 10:29 PM
1

I wish you luck then. Glad it's not my problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 10:20 PM
1

Because women who choose hotwifing and open relationships are mentally damaged and choose degenerate men, a trait high in black culture.
/r/askMRP27/09/16 10:19 PM
1

That's fair enough. There is a line, I agree. I don't find men who brag about female attention or lays to be attractive, but I like to see a man who is on top of his physique, proud of it, and gets attention. I like that my boyfriend is attractive to other women, but outright flirting would be a dealbreaker for me.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/16 07:54 PM
2

Do you have a vagina? Lol. You make a lot of assumptions. Good grief, the insecurity is coming at me in waves.
/r/askMRP27/09/16 07:51 PM
4

It sounds like you're the one with a fetish for this. I bet you jerk off to this.
/r/askMRP27/09/16 07:51 PM
1

Well, just ask any woman you date whether she is into black men or ever slept with a black man. I don't know how else you're going to feel comfortable. I can tell you that I am a white woman and none of my white female friends have slept with black men or desire to. It's not as common as you're proposing.
/r/askMRP27/09/16 07:48 PM
1

That's what I meant. I like it when my boyfriend is hit on but does not flirt, but is charming. I'm charming to men and women. We both are against outright flirting and don't do this. But we are both good looking and get attention in public and on social media. It keeps you both on your toes and you know YOU have a prize as a significant other. I love flirting, but when I'm in a relationship, I won't do this. It's a respect thing and I expect my man to adhere to this as well.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/16 07:47 PM
1

I think the best relationship is where it is at Level 8 on BOTH sides. When both the man and the woman are on top with physique/health, career AND the opposite sex wants them, you both win. What man or woman wants a significant other no one else would want and who doesn't stay at the top of his/her game?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/16 07:40 PM
2

Not all white women are attracted to black cock. In fact, I would say Reddit makes this appear more common than it is. I'm a white woman and I would NEVER sleep with a black man. A white man sleeping with a black woman is a red flag for me. I can't stand black culture--the anti-intellectualism and higher rates of STDs including AIDS are big turnoffs. Black men are not alpha if you define alpha as successful, intelligent, put together and lacking criminality. Absolutely fair to rule out a white w…
/r/askMRP27/09/16 07:25 PM
3

I would date a short man but not a fat one. Fat is gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 04:20 PM
7

I think a lot of bitter men tend to say that women only find unattractive men creepy, and that "Chads" can get away with everything. Nope. Attractive men can be creepy too. Creepy to me: constant need for attention/validation, need to contact you a lot, being controlling about your personal time,, weird/out of place sexual remarks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 04:18 PM
1

I appreciate the plug :D. When I'm bulking I'm at 460 + grams of carbs. Carbs are your friends; do not be scared of them! I should mention that my carbs are white rice, white potatoes and fruit; I stay away from shit :D.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/16 03:28 PM
1

Brad Pitt is like 50. Can't you use a more relevant guy for my generation? ;) I completely agree with you. My point was that I will date a man without commitment (and I have zero issue with this) but I won't be loyal to him as long as we aren't exclusive. I might not go out of my way to see other men, but if the opportunity arises, I don't feel an obligation to decline a date since I'm not in an exclusive relationship. I have zero issue being a plate and having other plates when I'm a single wom…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/16 02:33 PM
2

Get Alan Aragon's "The Lean Muscle Diet." Not only is keto not necessary for fat loss / cutting, it can be detrimental to muscle retention and long term lipids.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/16 01:44 PM
1

Did you really use that daddy language?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/16 01:42 PM
1

Then you have to make having kids more attractive than enjoying money and freedom. Good luck :D.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 01:26 PM
1

It seems like you're the upset one, by observation. I am child free; what happens after my death is not a concern. I am also a bit of a nihilist. Men not being able to find virgin brides or promiscuous women not finding attractive husbands isn't something I lose a wink of sleep over.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 12:11 PM
2

Then what's the problem? If men are willing to provide and women aren't and both sides know this, no one has an excuse not to know or be bitter. I actually don't care if marriage rates keep declining or women can't find "good" men. I am happy and that's all I care about. No one deserves anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 03:55 AM
2

Immediately. Otherwise I will friend zone you :).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 03:17 AM
1

Not as much, sure. But you can't make the case that all women are against LTR with a man who makes less. And don't forget all the men who marry women who NEED support financially because they bring nothing to the table other than youth and beauty. If you only care about that and not a woman's career or earning potential, that is what men should expect: being a provider.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 02:14 AM
2

There are increasing numbers of us. It's not 1950 and women with their own money who might not want families have the freedom to choose men based on factors other than ability to provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 12:25 AM
10

The 7 was only interested because you were flirting with her hotter friend and she wanted the validation from you. Telling you how horny she is was icing on the cake to get your favor. She wanted to tell 9 later about how thirsty you got.
/r/askMRP26/09/16 09:01 PM
1

high five Bogey :D.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/16 08:57 PM
0

I'm the only person I ever put on a pedestal, even growing up.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/16 08:57 PM
-1

NAWALT. Jealousy is an unfamiliar emotion to me :D.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/16 06:15 PM
0

I honestly do. She's a 1950s child and married my dad at 21 (he was 22). I could imagine her having one or two others, but she'd have no reason not to tell me since we're damn honest with each other, and she knows I'm not a virgin, lol.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/16 06:14 PM
1

No, lol. My dad is my mom's one and only from what she tells me, and we have a close relationship. My man is younger than me and I know he finds younger women / tons of women in general attractive. It would be odd if he didn't. He's even told me he has. I'm okay with this because it is totally natural. I told him if at any point one of us felt that we wanted to sleep with other people and not be exclusive, we should discuss it so we can end the relationship on amicable terms. He knows full well …
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/16 04:35 PM
2

I'm 35f and been childfree since I was six (yep, six). There will always be people who want to have kids, but more and more people are discovering how freaking awesome a childfree life is. I make a great salary and have a lot in savings. Zero debt. I can spend money on gym clothes and sushi and vacations. I don't need a man to provide for a future family so I can date who I want without needing "provider" qualities. Stop trying to save the world and just focus on your own enjoyment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/16 04:26 PM
1

Fair enough. My parents have been married for over 40 years now, quite happily. My mom is a social butterfly and my dad is an introvert. As such, my mom is involved in several town committees and often goes to events, including with male friends, without my dad. This is the environment I was raised in and thus, having male friends or a married woman having her own activities just isn't something I raise an eyebrow at. My parents have a ridiculously good relationship--I've never seen them fight--…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/16 04:22 PM
2

We don't know if she is going "on the sly." The invitation was to both of them, and he can't go as he'll be out of town. He knows that she is invited. I'm not being purposely obtuse. I just don't see the big deal. Yes, I'll tell my boyfriend if I'm going to the grocery store and what have you or meeting a friend. However, when he went to visit his parents without me over Christmas last year, I went out with friends without mentioning it to him. I'm sure he did the same when he was away. We respe…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/16 04:14 PM
6

I make a lot more than my boyfriend of two years. Because I don't need or want a provider (I make a very good salary and love my career), I'm free to be with my man who makes less because he adds value to my life--makes me laugh, we powerlift together, we have similar lifestyle preferences (childfree, no marriage, minimalism), etc. I'm not his provider--he pays his bills. I just don't mind being with a man who makes less than I do since I'm not looking for a family provider (never want kids). I …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/16 03:32 PM
4

I don't understand why going to a neighborhood party is something to be concerned about. People in relationships never attend casual events separately? This is news to me. I wouldn't be at all concerned if my LT partner of 2 years went to an event without me.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/16 03:05 PM
3

Pretty hard to be alpha and believe masturbation is a sin.
/r/askMRP26/09/16 01:41 PM
1

I call it like I see it. Some say it's refreshing, some want to strangle me. My personal motto: I'd rather be polarizing than people-pleasing.
/r/askMRP25/09/16 12:11 AM
4

Men who dump cats are assholes. I have a cat loving boyfriend and DGAF what you think of me.
/r/askMRP25/09/16 12:03 AM
10

What a fucking asshole. I hope you get left homeless with no way to protect yourself and your wife fucks Chad. Fucker.
/r/askMRP24/09/16 03:03 AM
1

Thank you :)
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/16 09:23 PM
1

I am damn special and sushi is amazing :D. Some days I'm more emotional than other days, for sure. But I've always come out INTJ on Myers-Briggs, and I fit the description like a glove. And I'm a real strong independent female because I lift and make money :D.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/16 08:33 PM
1

I have no issue with keto, only the misinformation in this sub about it. A caloric deficit is needed to cut. A surplus is needed to bulk. You don't need high fat, low carb for either goal or for health. Also, keto usually initially improves lipids due to weight loss, not Neto itself. It has a strong potential to be inflammatory if high in saturated fat and n-6s.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/16 06:00 PM
1

I could be pretty easy to doxx; then again, I have nothing to hide either.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/16 05:57 PM
1

I wish I could post a pic of myself. It would shut down anyone thinking I don't know what I'm talking about ;).
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/16 05:39 PM
1

Glycemic index has been debunked. It has zero relevance to real world eating patterns. I eat a lot of white potatoes, white rice and fruit.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/16 05:38 PM
1

What are you really asking me? If you make your point directly, I can address it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/16 05:29 PM
1

Of course. But insulin has been overstated as a fat storage hormone. It is a fuel regulator. I maintain AND cut on a high carb, low fat diet.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/16 05:28 PM
2

Lifting is not my only priority, but it is a priority. Yeah, if he lifts but is voting for Hillary, that is a deal breaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/16 04:05 AM
1

Men who don't lift are gross. Women too. Saggy muscles on both genders disgust me. I would sooner live with 20 cats alone than date a man who doesn't lift.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 10:53 PM
1

Hell no. I ONLY date men who lift because I have been lifting seriously for years, including powerlifting for 2 years. I don't use pink dumbbells and only do cardio. I am disciplined and LEAN. I only date lean, fit men who lift heavy shit. Also you assume women are turned off by RP. I ignore the beta angry misogynists but I like confident men into self improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 10:50 PM
2

I don't feel stressed and unfeminine and I am naturally unemotional. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 10:38 PM
-1

Sharing means she can also see other men, right? Why would I share a man if I have to sit by while he fucks others? Open it on both ends or I'm out.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/16 10:30 PM
2

Generally men do better on lower carb and women on lower fat. Always exceptions. I have no issue with keto other than it being pushed here by people who are not familiar with thermodynamics and think keto is always the correct approach no matter what. Reading some Lyle McDonald and Alan Aragon over bullshit promoters like Gary Taubes would serve many here well.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/16 09:28 PM
0

I'm interested to see if any other woman will put up with your autistic spergy need to overanalyze everything and get frustrated when things don't operate according to your multiple covert contracts. grabs bucket of popcorn
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/16 06:36 PM
1

Keto is far too overrated on this forum with dudes who have no knowledge of thermodynamics assigning it magic qualities. You do not need to do keto for fat loss, to be ripped, or to stay lean. Not to mention, it is not great for long term lipids and keto zealots tend to focus only on triglycerides instead of LDL particle count.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/16 06:31 PM
1

This is absolute bullshit. There is no anabolic window. Carbs/sugar are fine in your daily caloric allowance. Not everyone wants to do keto.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/16 06:23 PM
1

*you're ;). Honestly, I wish female INTJs weren't .8% of the population sometimes. You'd realize that AWALT isn't AWALT! I'm not saying we are unicorns, but we are definitely NOT like most females.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/16 05:36 PM
1

Haha, many might not like this here, but I use A&A a lot with my boyfriend. It drives him nuts but it does shine a light on absurdity. But then again, I'm not the typical female.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/16 05:20 PM
1

Damn straight! You weigh that food in grams, sir ;).
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/16 01:48 AM
2

You might try Lyle McDonald's generic bulking routine.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/16 01:23 AM
1

I do IF year round, including bulks. I love 16/8 and haven't earn before noon in 8 years. YMMV.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/16 12:05 AM
-4

The fact that he met someone else doesn't mean that you were wrong to enjoy casual dating. Why would you want to LTR a man who thinks it is slutty to enjoy sex during dating? Why should you seek commitment if you don't know him well enough to sleep with him? It's not dirty. I was dating another man non-exclusively when I met my boyfriend of 2 years as he was dating other women. Didn't stop him from wanting me as his exclusive girlfriend because of the value I bring to the table.
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/16 11:40 PM
1

Yay on food scale! I love weighing my food in grams and tracking on FitDay. That plus lifting makes me hot at 35 ;).
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/16 10:48 PM
6

This is one of the issues I have with this sub. I get the whole Captain-First Officer thing (though my boyfriend and I don't have that set up), but I don't like the idea that the Captain doesn't have to compromise. That might just be my issue that I'm putting on to you, and I apologize. I personally can't do a Captain-First Officer set up because I have my own things under control and just want him to lead on his stuff. I definitely don't want someone dismissing my suggestions because he doesn't…
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/16 06:03 PM
7

Your husband sounds controlling if he needs his opinion "parroted" back to him.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/16 05:27 PM
1

Don't be so quick to think me at odds here. NAWALT ;).
/r/askMRP18/09/16 08:03 PM
3

A woman checking out my man in public doesn't bother me. Absolutely, I want other women to find him attractive. A woman texting him means he GAVE her his number. That would be a breach of trust. If I gave another man my number, my man would dump me instantly. As for "other thing," I meant the same self improvement steps that are always presented here. Of course you know I didn't mean foot rubs, back massages and roses ;).
/r/askMRP18/09/16 06:56 PM
3

It's not about me. Any woman could do the same, including OP's wife. His plan is completely stupid compared to other things he could do to get her more inetested in sex. No one is special, and everyone is replaceable. Fact I know better than many here.
/r/askMRP18/09/16 03:57 PM
2

That's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/16 03:55 PM
1

If my husband was getting sexual texts from another woman, I would consider that straight up infidelity and confront him. It would be a deal breaker for me personally (i.e. divorce), not something that would make me kinkier.
/r/askMRP18/09/16 02:11 AM
1

No. There is enough time wasted in schools on soft subjects.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/16 01:25 AM
1

I wouldn't ever say something like that. Sounds like a single mother from the ghetto.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/16 01:24 AM
0

You incels crack me up 😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/16 01:22 AM
1

I don't want to live under an authoritarian regime.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/16 07:11 PM
14

It would be a deal breaker for me. There are plenty of men out there. Next this guy.
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/16 03:12 AM
1

35 Caucasian MA, USA Single Atheist Upper middle class Upper middle class. Bachelor's.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/16 03:08 AM
1

No, I don't believe in "good" and "evil" and think those are religious terms. I do believe in "live and let live" and that is my morality. I don't harm you and you don't harm me. I also don't owe you anything and you don't owe me anything. I personally choose to abstain from drugs and alcohol, eat well, exercise, and not sleep around, but not because of morality, but because they benefit me health wise. I do believe in free will, outside of things you can't control (your race, country you were b…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 08:28 PM
1

Both are okay. I find promiscuity gross in men and women. Also, you can't really compare a woman choosing to sleep with a man and not be in a relationship with paying someone to sleep with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 08:22 PM
-1

Would you believe me if I told you? It's against RP rules ;). But it is 10, including my boyfriend of 2 years. I didn't lose my virginity until right after college. Not religious or ugly; I was much shyer then. I'm different now in terms of confidence, but I don't drink, don't go to bars, don't do drugs and am not promiscuous.
/r/askMRP16/09/16 08:21 PM
0

I don't like strange. Never had a ONS :).
/r/askMRP16/09/16 05:53 PM
-2

The wife sounds like a bitch. I'm not defending her and her use of terms. Just make me smile that so many responses were criticizing the alt right, which is one of the only movements trying to preserve Western civilization and eliminate SJWs and guilty white syndrome. Not to mention, many men here would flip out if they knew their woman had ever been with a black man. Lol.
/r/askMRP16/09/16 05:29 PM
-1

You can do what you like, but race I not a social construct. Look up intelligence rates and you will we whites and East Asians are at the top. Race also influences culture.
/r/askMRP16/09/16 01:00 PM
-1

The butthurt at race realism here is pretty hilarious.
/r/askMRP15/09/16 09:52 PM
1

That's a point I wanted to make as well ;). Often how we think we would act--or want to believe we would act--in a hypothetical situation is not what we do if it hits.
/r/askMRP15/09/16 05:23 PM
1

I'm not into metrosexuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 04:28 AM
2

I love Sigma males and hate kids, so it's a win-win for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 12:22 AM
1

That's just not the case, and GotMoreLikes is right. I am not promiscuous but I've had sex in short term, non-exclusive relationships (never one night stands) with men I had no desire to actually be committed to. We may have just had fun going out for sushi and watching Netflix and we were attracted to each other. A woman doesn't always have sex with a man she is into with the intent to have a long term commitment. I think red pill men need to believe this myth because "commitment" is the only h…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 06:32 PM
2

If he's decent looking and friendly, I wouldn't mind it. I'm in a relationship so I'd have to turn him down, but I'd be flattered.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 06:28 PM
0

Lol, no, running is not the best for burning fat. A caloric deficit is. Weight lifting has more bang for the buck.
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/16 06:16 PM
1

While I generally agree with your point, not all women are down to forgive physical infidelity, no matter how high her man's SMV. My boyfriend is extremely good looking, but unless we had an agreement, I would not forgive cheating, physical or emotional. While you could pull it off given your wife's stance, there is no guarantee OP could.
/r/askMRP14/09/16 05:32 PM
1

Never mind, they changed it from "independent feeemale" to "NAWALT." Thank you, mods!
/r/askMRP14/09/16 01:23 AM
1

Not my flair choice ;). But I thank the mods since it is hilarious. Not sure what my choice would be. I don't think I come across as a harpy.
/r/askMRP14/09/16 01:18 AM
1

He is one of the most solipsistic posters. Quite hilarious that TRP calls this a female trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/16 09:34 PM
1

An interesting perspective, but I can understand it. Thanks for explaining :).
/r/askMRP13/09/16 09:27 PM
1

You are the ONLY person I ever heard that claimed what the OP noted: that attractive couples are "slutty, stupid, broken, damaged, or mentally ill." Do you think other people are taught this?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/16 06:22 PM
2

There are tons of men who are government leeches as well. Right, we can have opinions. You just seem to think YOURS are universal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/16 06:05 PM
0

You make it seem like your wife has no reason to be upset about your demanding to see whomever you want at any time. I'm quite sure you wouldn't feel the same about her and a male coworker you knew she was sexually attracted to. I get that you can choose to have double standards, but this is emotional infidelity if not leading to physical infidelity. This is cheating whether you want to acknowledge it--or not. And she would be well within reasonable standards to leave herself or demand you stop …
/r/askMRP13/09/16 05:51 PM
2

No one asked you to condone it or pay for it. The idea that women are only independent because the government is beta bux is another redpill fallacy. I have a job in the private sector and take no welfare. But you have some bizarre ideas if you think an N-count greater than 5 is a slut or cock carousel rider, or if you think that men are told as children that looks don't matter at all to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/16 05:47 PM
2

I find that PemBayliss has a very odd view of things. He believes that a woman sleeping with anyone other than an LTR is riding the cock carousel, even if she isn't jumping from man to man. He has a very parochial view of how women should behave and what N-counts are "acceptable." He also seems to be very bitter about women's preferences as a whole and the freedoms they have now, including to be HAPPY in their 30s and single. No, no one ever told me that attractive couples are as you quote above…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/16 04:01 PM
5

I'm libertarian-conservative, not a feminist (I believe in equality of rights, not outcome), I don't rely on my boyfriend to provide to me, I don't give him shit tests because I'm more logical and reasonable, I support him in his endeavors (as he does with mine), I pay often for our dates and gifts for him, I keep fit for myself and also because I think it is fair to keep fit in a relationship, I respect him and I don't flirt with other men.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/16 03:51 PM
1

I wouldn't say either of us lead, but I'm more professionally ambitious and disciplined with my personal habits (diet, finances). He's working on those. He coaches my weightlifting and leads me there, in addition to our sex life (the area I enjoy being submissive).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/16 01:30 AM
1

It seems like Reds want more submissive women and value an active social life with "social proof." I'm not submissive and I don't want to be very social/extroverted or want that in my partner. He and I met on Facebook :). We met on a diet and training page we were both following and started chatting. He added me. We were online friends for 2 years before we met in real life and got together. We dated other people locally but found the other attractive. I actually never anticipated us getting int…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/16 01:28 AM
1

Yes, absolutely. I'm fine if you think MB is bullshit. I have found it very helpful in my personal and professional relationships if I know a person's "type."
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/16 01:24 AM
2

You are one of the quality posters on this sub.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/16 09:46 PM
8

This is how I'm planning it. I never wanted kids and I'm 35f now and haven't changed my mind. I don't want to get married because of the legal entanglements, and I'm not with my boyfriend for a provider (I make a large percentage more than he does). I've been with my live in LTR for 2 years and it would be great if it lasts forever. If not, I'll be fine too. We don't share finances either. I don't want to do that and neither does he. We both live basically like individual, autonomous beings who …
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/16 06:19 PM
5

That's how I'd handle it. Of course, some of the RP men would say you should give unsolicited blowjobs and offer anal and threesomes in an attempt to get him to not leave you. Lol.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/16 06:10 PM
1

Good to hear :D.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/16 06:09 PM
2

You can't negotiate attraction OR someone else's values. If she values what this older man has to offer over you, you need to seek elsewhere. I stole a 27 year old guy from chicks his age or younger at my 35. They can't compete and that isn't my concern ;).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/16 05:50 PM
6

35/f here. It's a personal choice. I don't feel anything about it and I don't respect strangers in general so it doesn't matter if she married a man twice her age or is married to a man her own age. I'm live and let live unless in interferes with my life. It's hard to generalize to all situations. I would say that for the most part, it would be the stability factor for most women here. Unless she is really homely, she could date a man closer to her own age. Plus, some people have values other th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/16 05:30 PM
1

Would I? It would depend on the circumstances and how much I'm attracted to each man, and my relationship status. It's not something I've ever done and I don't have ONS either. I can't say I wouldn't if the two men were hot, I was single, and it was absolutely safe sex. I'm not concerned about this being a dealbreaker for men I would date since we all have dealbreakers. I would never disclose this unless I were asked directly, "Did you ever have a threesome" because I don't bring up my sexual pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/16 05:25 PM
5

I couldn't care less about masturbating to men online.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/16 05:22 PM
7

You should have so many hobbies and interests in your life that when he goes off with friends or doesn't contact you for a few days, you are so busy having FUN in your life that it is no big deal. Nothing is more boring than a clingy, desperate female afraid to lose a man. Make him not want to lose you because you are so high quality. Don't let him see that you are sweating over this.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/16 05:21 PM
1

You haven't disproven that there are different personality types. Do you acknowledge that extroverts and introverts exist?
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/16 02:44 AM
1

No. No one owes anything to a stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/16 07:54 PM
1

We both like having him initiate. It's just hotter for us both and I am responsive desire. That said if I'm in the mood I will usually flirt hard with him and get naked :). Nothing complicate necessary!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/16 06:05 PM
3

INTJ female. We are .8% of the population, so a rarity. I identify as Purple toward Red. I'm just not a typical Red Pill Woman and I like confident loner sigma males and not extroverted party and drugs alpha types. I'm child free, independent, VERY fit and make good money at a job I love. I don't care to get married or have a provider. I don't get jealous and I'm not needy or very emotional. My boyfriend is younger than I, very dominant sigma, and we share the same interests in weightlifting and…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/16 06:04 PM
5

I am indeed interested in those things. I just don't need a rando approaching me to make that happen. The OP thinks women want men to suffer. Most of us don't care about you. Wanting a man to suffer is an investment on my behalf. I'm not invested in strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/16 12:22 AM
3

No restrict contact. I just have a life and I'm busy. I'm not just waiting for you to make my life interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/16 12:01 AM
4

It's pretty telling. Anytime I dated an E or F man it has been horrible. I love confident and successful introverts who loathe party and drug atmospheres.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/16 10:42 PM
1

I am not interested in popular, extroverted men who like parties, bars and clubs and slutty women. I like Sigma men who are confident, successful loners who loathe bars and drugs and empty party lifestyles. The men I date lift weights, eat healthy, limit or avoid alcohol and date quality women who do the same. Our dates are things like sushi and watching a good film, not bars, clubs, sluts and drugs. I also don't have to choose a an into lifting or a man in law school. Men who don't waste time o…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/16 10:40 PM
9

No, I don't care about men other than my boyfriend, father and male friends. I have no see desire to see you suffer because your existence doesn't affect my life. Why would I care whether or not you suffer?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/16 10:36 PM
7

Well I'm not married, but my live in boyfriend and I keep separate finances. If we married, it would remain that way. I also don't need him to lead me. We don't do Captain-First Officer in our relationship. We are a team in wanting the best for each other, but we lead our own lives. It works well for us.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/16 10:33 PM
1

Seems like some of the male commenters haven't met INTJ or INTP women. We don't care about people and gossip, lol. Also, it's fair for you to have whatever sexual expectations you want, but some women are not going to do anal, choking or blow jobs to completion, not even for "Brad Pitt" and there is nothing broken or frigid about them.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/16 08:18 PM
1

Impossible to say. You could date a woman who was raped who will never mention it and has no lingering repercussions from it. Some will be basket cases. If you care that much, ask every woman you might want to LTR if she's ever been raped so you can dump her.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/16 08:08 PM
19

I think abortion should be safe and legal in all circumstances if it is privately paid for (not government funded). I think men and women are better off keeping all their own money and not doing joint finances. I think women who don't make and keep their own money are boring.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/16 08:05 PM
1

You forget libertarian men. They are my type. Easy to find where I live too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/16 05:38 PM
1

I'm happy as hell to remove myself from the gene pool and luxuriate myself in all my money :).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/16 05:24 PM
1

Please elaborate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/16 05:22 PM
3

No. I'm a female and think it is bullshit. Everyone has "the gift of fear" (good book with this title) and we evolved to have gut feelings about situations and people. Some of us have this more honed than others, but there is no specific female power coming from our vaginas that give us insight.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/16 05:16 PM
1

I'm passionate about nutrition and weight lifting. I do powerlifting/bodybuilding style training and take it seriously. I LOVE history, particularly medieval and Renaissance history. I enjoy reading about alt right/libertarian/conservative politics and current events. I love sushi. I can spend hours reading on different topics. I'm not needy or clingy and I am very independent. Not looking for marriage or kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/16 05:15 PM
1

For me: Very liberal/SJW political views. Religious outlook. Drinking often or doing drugs. Lots of ONS's and/or very promiscuous. Very extroverted and enjoys partying. Often frequents bars and goes to clubs. Does not lift weights. Overweight. Ethnicity other than white or East Asian. Wants a submissive / dependent woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/16 05:13 PM
1

Once or twice a week is fine for me.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/16 03:33 PM
2

Hasn't been a problem for me. One of my best friends is a married man and I'm also friends with his wife. He and I were friends when we were both single (before he married, and before I got into my LTR). We still get coffee alone on occasion to catch up and message each other on Facebook. Neither my boyfriend nor his wife have any concerns. When we were both single, we were never sexually attracted to each other. He isn't an orbiter and could have made advances on me then if he felt it. In fact,…
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/16 03:32 PM
8

Not surprising to me. 35f here and happily child free. I know a lot of other content child free women. I'm not surprised. Men don't have to go through 9 months of pregnancy, have another organism growing in them, take time off work and hobbies, and be expected to be a "mom" rather than an individual. So called "alpha" men especially don't anticipate being hands on. Of course it's easier for a man to want children because there is no physical labor for him and he's not expected to wholly subsume …
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/16 01:12 AM
6

Anything higher than 30 would be a turn off to me. Preselection doesn't work on me. I'm grossed out by promiscuous men and any man who flirts in front of me is out. I'm also not looking for marriage but for an LTR my thoughts are the same as I wrote above.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/16 01:32 AM
3

Well I'm 35 and my boyfriend is 27, haha. I like younger men. But I should say I don't want a provider or kids and probably not marriage. If I did want those things, I would be fine with up to 10 years older. Older than that to ME seems awkward.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/16 01:30 AM
4

I don't look at all at penis size when deciding I want a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/16 01:53 AM
1

You should go back to Africa.
/r/MGTOW03/09/16 06:45 PM
1

Thank you 😄😄.
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/16 05:24 PM
2

Not just men, but women too. I have hobbies and interests and need lots of alone time. If I am going to sacrifice some of that valuable time, it better be worth it.
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/16 02:42 AM
1

Do you think I owe my precious time to people who don't bring me value? I could spend time with a boring guy or be at the gym. I choose the gym.
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/16 01:54 AM
1

Otherwise I have zero use for him in my life. I'm not a charity.
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/16 10:59 PM
1

I wouldn't have ever let a penis get near me that's been in crack whores, prostitutes, and other dregs of society.
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/16 09:20 PM
3

I want a man who is passionate about his hobbies and interests, just like I am with mine. I don't want a man who thinks partying, drinking, drugs and going to bars is important. I want a man enthusiastic about history, travel, politics, lifting, etc. A man confident in his passions and not giving a care if they are popular.
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/16 09:18 PM
2

Thank you so much :D. I'm not sure I'd be qualified for that, but I definitely agree with desiring more discussion on relationship models on this sub other than Captain-First Officer.
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/16 05:10 PM
2

Awesome ;) :).
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/16 11:47 PM
18

I can't stand alphas. When I think of an alpha, I think of a smug, extroverted party guy who needs constant stimulation from new experiences. I like sigmas: confident, successful LONERS. I like men who love solitude, who don't care about what is popular, who don't need drugs and crazy activities to enjoy life. These men get along best with me, a confident INTJ who likes what she likes. My ideal relationship isn't Captain-FO with constant experiences and new things. Mine is me + Sigma male, very …
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/16 11:22 PM
5

I never wanted kids. I couldn't care less about my genetic line or my species. I love my child free life and doing what I want with my money and time. It doesn't offend me to be a reproductive failure. I am very content.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 01:33 AM
1

Provide your own content warnings. I won't pay one cent toward it and I'll openly mock it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/16 08:48 PM
10

I'm living mine. I have a fantastic job making over $70K a year with no dependents, I love the city I live in, I have hobbies I enjoy, I'm extremely fit from weight lifting and a strict diet, I have a great boyfriend who also doesn't want to have kids or get married (I look for these) and I'm always finding new things to enjoy. My goal life is my life!
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/16 06:11 PM
1

I never want to get married so I guess you can say I married myself :D. I'm in a LTR but I never want legal commitment.
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/16 06:10 PM
1

I don't have ANY responsibility for YOUR triggers and I don't want YOUR triggers interfering with my education or entertainment. That's all on you, and I won't take any responsibility for keeping you safe from triggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/16 06:05 PM
1

35F here. I agree with the Reds on this. Why no woman deserves to be raped EVER, you shouldn't go down dark alleys alone at night, you shouldn't go hiking or running on offbeaten trails alone, you shouldn't get into a car with a guy you don't feel comfortable with, you shouldn't go home with strangers from a bar, and you shouldn't get black out drunk at parties. Sure, date rape can still occur, but I've never done any of the above and hey, I have never been raped!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/16 06:02 PM
2

Nice revenge fantasy. You need to realize you are completely expendable and replaceable.
/r/MGTOW26/08/16 01:10 AM
1

triggered
/r/MGTOW25/08/16 11:32 PM
2

It's important to me to be physically and mentally strong. I don't really care what anyone else thinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/16 11:20 PM
1

I know. I don't care. At all. I'm a nihilist.
/r/MGTOW25/08/16 10:29 PM
0

I care for those I choose to care for.
/r/MGTOW25/08/16 09:03 PM
1

I'm not at all uncomfortable with prostitution. I'm a libertarian and think it should be legal everywhere. I laugh at the idea that women would be threatened by prostitution because it lowers the price of pussy. That only matters to mediocre women. I just don't find a man fucking prostitutes hot. I wouldn't date one nor would I date a man who fucks other men or black women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/16 06:46 PM
3

Anything you want. The idea that it has to be dainty and not emasculate men is ridiculous.
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/16 06:43 PM
-5

Lol. No one cares about you.
/r/MGTOW25/08/16 06:39 PM
1

No, I don't think on the WHOLE, women want sex or crave sex as much as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/16 05:38 PM
1

Can we put them in a soundproof room?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/16 02:25 AM
1

I'm an introvert who doesn't drink and hates clubs and noise. I met every boyfriend including my current online. It's easy if you are confident, interesting and fit, which you should be. Okcupid is my favorite dating site. I dated 3 guys from Facebook including my current man. He and I are both devoted to nutrition and weightlifting and met on a page dedicated to that.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/16 02:25 AM
1

Fertility doesn't detract from your SMV except to men who want children. My boyfriend is child free so my not wanting kids increased my SMV in his eyes. As childfree men are the only men I consider at all, my SMV to them matters more than men who want kids.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/16 02:19 AM
3

Yeah, I don't wants brats at my office.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/16 01:59 AM
6

Much of it is women who didn't want kids in the past but were forced to by their financial dependency don't have to now. Much is also that people see how fulfilling and fucking awesome a child free life is, especially a DINK lifestyle, and opt out of having dependents. ~ signed, the happily child free :)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/16 01:57 AM
2

This sub is about helping men get more masculine to either fix or leave their marriages, not about helping them bang a work hoe and deal with their blown up marriages. Take your post to r/patheticloser.
/r/askMRP21/08/16 04:36 PM
1

35f here. I HATE rap and EDM. I love all rock and classic rock.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/16 03:27 AM
3

I'm a woman and feel safer with RedPill over anti-free speech authoritarians like you. So glad you're not American, you triggered loser.
/r/ExRedPill19/08/16 11:55 PM
1

Goofy is fun, but it's not really "attractive." Keep a mix of being fun with being dominant and masculine. If she just sees you as the goofball and not the man who throws her on the bed and takes her, she won't be attracted to you.
/r/askMRP19/08/16 05:40 PM
1

Lol. I never heard of it. Is there a link for an explanation?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/16 11:02 PM
0

Wtf is "packet game"? Is it as lame as it (and OP) sounds?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/16 10:02 PM
6

My N-count is my N-count and I don't really feel embarrassed about it. It seems anti-Red Pill to care what others think. There are 3.5 billion men. You have to have abundance mentality.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/16 06:43 PM
1

Lmao so hard at these pics.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/16 02:20 AM
1

It honestly strikes me as rather sad and pathetic that you don't like your wife and she annoys you constantly. I am in love with my boyfriend, and I also like him. I don't always like what he says, or what he does, but I like the person he is or I wouldn't choose to be with him. I can't see how your improvement is going to make you less annoyed at her. The unique things about her are things you don't like, and are unlikely to change without resentment on her part. You "never really loved" her an…
/r/askMRP17/08/16 05:30 PM
1

Honestly, I can't wait to get out of work clothes when I get home and into something more comfortable/relaxing (unless I'm going to the gym). It could be that, or honestly just coincidence.
/r/askMRP17/08/16 05:08 PM
1

See my separate comment on that in this post. Absolutely I don't condone her lying any more than his overreactions and insecurity.
/r/askMRP17/08/16 03:39 AM
1

I hope you're squatting and deadifting.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/16 01:40 AM
1

If your LTR is old enough to have a job and support herself without daddy's money, she doesn't have to abide by their standards. Time for her to be honest with them. She's an adult now.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/16 01:34 AM
1

Accepting a ride home when sick ad having lunch with a colleague during lunch hours is hardly "self isolating."
/r/askMRP17/08/16 01:19 AM
2

I don't like lying in relationships, even by omission, and I am not going to excuse her behavior. That said I truly think you pushed her into a corner with your overreactions and insecurity, to a point where she lies simply to avoid a blow up. You shouldn't want a situation like this. Lunches with colleagues, an occasional lift home by the opposite sex, etc. shouldn't be a hill to die on. You have to have some trust and you also don't want to look insecure, overly jealous and needy.
/r/askMRP17/08/16 01:15 AM
5

I wasn't trying to be rude. The truth is that if a woman doesn't value your presence, your absence isn't a heartbreak. Once you become higher value through focusing on your journey without caring if she notices your absence or not, it will make a difference to her. We like the company of interesting, confident, attractive men.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/16 12:57 AM
3

Your absence seems like it would be a reward for her. No beta at home.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/16 06:21 PM
1

Lol, 99% of RedPill will never be James Bond :D.
/r/askMRP16/08/16 06:01 PM
1

He's much better than a Chad :). Whenever I think of Chad, I think of a stupid but good looking stoner/bar creature who only cares about pussy and has a perma-smirk. Sounds like someone I'd avoid!
/r/askMRP16/08/16 05:11 PM
1

Fantastic stuff here.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/16 02:08 AM
5

Do it. My boyfriend and I powerlift together and he's my coach. Couples that keep fit together stay together ;). The benefits are manifold: you both keep fit, you spend quality time together (i.e. not in front of the TV), you can show leadership in training her, you show ownership of self and dedication, she's got some dread from your keeping in top shape, you both care more about nutrition, etc. This doesn't mean you have to train together all the time. I train alone quite often.
/r/askMRP15/08/16 05:15 PM
1

Your two cheating exes are a sign of your poor vetting, not "evidence" that "when a woman tells you she wants a break, it typically means she's either thinking about fucking Chad or is already fucking Chad." The other examples of this occurring on MRP or MMSL are cognitive bias. The guys whose wives didn't cheat/branch swing aren't posting here.
/r/askMRP15/08/16 05:13 PM
2

Agree with every word here, irate. You are one of my favorite MRP commenters for a reason :D.
/r/askMRP15/08/16 05:11 PM
2

Fair enough, and I agree on your last paragraph. I'm intrigued by the idea of making marriages like short-term, renewable leases. Then both parties could get out on rather amicable terms at some point.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/16 05:10 PM
2

Thank you for pointing out my new flair :). I hadn't noticed, and want to thank the mods for thinking I'm important enough to merit this. I feel included :D. I actually agree that separations are stupid. Either fix the problem(s) head on, or get a divorce. Separation only seems to work for the stronger party. Yes, I do agree that she could "fall for strange dick" just like a man could go for strange pussy. I was objecting to the idea that she wouldn't want to separate for her own sake. It isn't …
/r/askMRP15/08/16 05:09 PM
1

2, never cheated.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/16 02:33 AM
2

Come on, Perseus. You know it is not just about sex with women. She could genuinely want a break without needing new cocks :). Sex is far more of a need to men. Women want companionship and compatibility more.
/r/askMRP15/08/16 01:22 AM
2

Bogey, that didn't happen in this case. You have to look at things on an individual basis. Being angry at divorce rapes by cheating wives--quite legitimate--doesn't mean you can't defend a loyal wife of 25 years who stood by her husband in the face of his cheating and mistreatment of her. Right?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/16 01:10 AM
1

Me. I am on Team Myself. But I'm a libertarian nihilist. 99.99% of people mean nothing to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/16 02:54 AM
0

Word.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/08/16 02:01 AM
6

She supported him for years with her labor and endured his emotional abuse. That's worth something.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/08/16 01:49 AM
1

I'm curious why what your mother is doing is "unfair" from your perspective?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/16 09:58 PM
1

He made a poor vetting choice. Divorce is his best option.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/16 09:47 PM
1

Not saying he shouldn't want anal, or that the wife's past is not important. But he admitted to me in another comment thread that anal didn't even matter to him until he heard she did it with others. I think he needs to figure out what he really wants from this marriage. And he should be able to talk to her directly about the past. If she's lying, he can tell by body language.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/16 06:07 PM
2

shudder No bluepill here, please ;). Yeah, I just find the friends telling him about her swinging and doing anal and having threesomes to be...odd. That's mostly why I want him to talk to her.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/16 06:06 PM
1

But we don't KNOW his wife's past. All we know is what her supposed friends have said.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/16 05:48 PM
2

Oh, no. He is free to divorce or fix his marriage with MAP. He's not bound to anything. But why not talk to his wife directly about her past? All he has is hearsay from her "supposed" friends. If my friends were talking to my man about my sex life, I'd be upset.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/16 05:47 PM
1

The other day a guy who was 30 wrote about his 35 year old wife, and nearly half the comments were telling him to get a divorce. Maybe because of things like that?
/r/askMRP12/08/16 05:46 PM
2

Hope I won't get banned for this comment. My boyfriend and I have a similar age gap (8 years, with me being the older). Doesn't bother us :). We both keep in strict shape, have the same interests and love being with each other. He's my alpha. I get why the other guys on here say to go younger and I am not arguing with that. It's just not always the best course for the individual. If you have a great connection with your girl as you say, follow the advice on this sub and become more masculine and…
/r/askMRP12/08/16 04:29 PM
1

That he seems to only care about his wife's supposed past now that he heard about it and didn't care when he was dating her.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/16 04:24 PM
1

Just my opinion, but it's way too late. It is not like you made a wild sex life a prerequisite of your marriage. If you never found out about her doing anal would you care about getting it?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/16 09:53 PM
1

So you never discussed her past with her? You just automatically believe her friends? All of your whines are based off hearsay?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/16 09:46 PM
0

We are ridiculously cute, haha. Relevant to MRP, this is an area of our relationship where he leads entirely. He's the expert on this, and he designs my program for me. I clear all substitutions with him and if I disagree on my programming for the day, I defer to him. He's really great on this stuff. He has a 500 + back squat, nearly 700 deadlift and he's working on a 400 bench. It's hot ;).
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/16 06:13 PM
0

Not a professional :D. Just a long-time hobby of mine. My boyfriend is my powerlifting coach and we train together.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/16 05:13 PM
1

Ugh, sorry to hear that.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/16 01:12 AM
1

What's the issue with the gym? Are you on a cut? I do powerlifting/bodybuilding so this stuff fascinates me.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/16 05:51 PM
1

I really like what you wrote :). My boyfriend and I have been together 2 years. I'd definitely consider him an alpha. He is the king of DGAF, extremely bold, and jacked. He doesn't like submissive, unopinionated women. We met on a social media site, and he knew exactly how I function: independent, opinionated, passionate about my hobbies, career-driven, don't want kids, etc. And he wanted me. We have an interesting relationship. Not Captain-First Officer at all, but two people who just click and…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 05:48 PM
1

A lot of RedPill men wouldn't get along with us, to be frank. I'm anti-feminist and libertarian (good to RedPillers) but I'm independent and not submissive outside the bedroom (bad to RedPillers). Dread would glace off me or make me laugh, for example. RedPillers, if they dated many INTJs, would not say AWALT.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 05:28 PM
1

I am more like a robot :D.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 05:15 PM
2

Yes, I'm an INTJ woman, and female INTJs are about .8% of the population (so a very small minority). I'm more alpha/dominant and less submissive than other females, but I'm also less empathetic and more libertarian/conservative leaning. I'm not in either camp. I sympathize with a lot of men on RedPill except for generalization of females because obviously INTJ females are not like the majority of our gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 07:22 PM
1

I don't want a protector or provider. I make my own money. I just want a guy I have things in common with, who makes his own money for HIMSELF, and we have attraction. That's it. Basically, two separate successful people who hang out. I don't want to be led or provided for.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 05:15 PM
1

Ridiculously stupid and inferior.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 05:14 PM
3

I'm an INTJ. I'm very logical, and can easily separate the logical action to take from feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 05:13 PM
1

Who talks about their sexual past with people you just started to date? Female here. How would a guy I meet know what I had done and how fast with previous sex partners in order to judge if he were getting a fair "price" for my pussy? If I don't put out on the first date, how does he know if that I "fair" or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/16 06:29 PM
3

It would be a foolish decision. If she discovered this, there would be zero hope for an amicable divorce.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/16 12:18 AM
3

Holy butthurt.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/16 11:55 PM
3

Your advice is that he just cheat? How is that becoming a better man? He could just initiate the divorce.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/16 11:55 PM
1

In my frame solidly. Keep going.
/r/MGTOW31/07/16 07:01 PM
2

Still in my frame.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/16 07:01 PM
2

You are so riled by my frame. I love this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/16 06:58 PM
0

You crack me up. Please go on about your "options." How incel are you anyway?
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/16 06:55 PM
1

Haha. Not having kids rocks. Lots of sex, money, vacations...DIN relationships are so awesome. You can't stand a woman enjoying life. 😅😅😅😅
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/16 06:54 PM
-1

I actually love being single. You must be so sad that no chick, even a fat one, wants sex wit you. 😂😂😂😂
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/16 06:53 PM
3

Your butthurt is so amusing. Kill yourself.
/r/MGTOW31/07/16 06:50 PM
4

I hope you get sodomized so hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/16 06:49 PM
1

Haha 😂. Now it makes sense!
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/16 06:48 PM
-1

Bwahaha. Are you so easily triggered? Need a safe space? 😂😂😂
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/16 06:48 PM
1

Is she going to look the other way art your cheating while she handles all 5 kids, or will she divorce you and take the $ and kids?
/r/askMRP31/07/16 01:18 AM
-1

Did you respond to the wrong comment? You're all over the place.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/16 01:06 AM
6

He sounds like a complete asshat.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/07/16 06:17 PM
9

I won't. I don't want kids and don't want to be a beta mother raising another chick's kid. Not to mention, you are permanently second place. Bad deal.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/16 03:12 AM
5

Honestly, it never happened to me. I am 35 and chilfree, and my younger boyfriend is also childfree. But your feeling is common. I think 21 is too young for marriage and kids but that's just my opinion.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/16 03:12 AM
1

Yes, you still need to fucking lift. You won't ever get "too big" because that takes work and effort you probably won't put in. I'm a female and lift 5 days a week. It is my top priority besides my job. Everyone over the age of 16 should be lifting for life.
/r/askMRP27/07/16 05:35 PM
4

So it's starfish UNLESS she pretends to be asleep? Then that is her way of initiating, for fuck's sake. She wants you to take her when she does this. Source: me.
/r/askMRP27/07/16 05:16 PM
2

I would.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/07/16 02:29 AM
1

It would be hard to game your wife if you snapped your neck and are confined to a wheelchair.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/07/16 01:58 AM
2

I love that :D. And you deserve to. Life is too short to be unhappy when you have the power to change it.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/16 05:58 PM
2

Thanks for the compliment on my comments :D. Well, this is my perspective as an accomplished and fit 35 year old woman (I do powerlifting and keep in strict shape year round). I decided early on that I didn't want kids and planned my life trajectory without them. Of course, I agree that many women have regrets later, but the type of woman he seems to be describing is the type of woman who would lock down a man earlier on, bang out kids, and keep going with her career and body. These women (and I…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/16 05:15 PM
2

That's not my recollection of Cad's wife. His post history shows that he was irked that she had a lunch meeting with a colleague, and went nuclear (i.e. initiated cheating on his end). Even with all his professed alphaness, she never seemed to care about his CADing behavior (i.e. he never inspired dread or tingles). There are a lot of examples of good Red Pill marriages on MRP so I don't understand the fascination with CAD's failing one.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/07/16 05:41 PM
2

If she's 35 and hasn't had kids yet, she doesn't want kids. How do I know? You said she is in fantastic shape and accomplished. She could have gotten marriage and kids if she wanted (i.e. she isn't desperate). She has chosen to not have kids, so your fear of baby rabies seems nil (or wishful thinking--that she'd want your baby?). I know a lot of 35 year old women with great jobs and who are into lifting/diet and have great physiques, who chose not to have kids. ETA: You're also a weak sauce with…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/07/16 05:22 PM
1

I agree you. Well said.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/16 05:39 PM
1

Fair enough. And I didn't mean "unnatural" from some religious perspective (I'm an atheist). I'm meaning that if your wife is not getting pregnant through intercourse, her body is saying something is off and she shouldn't get pregnant. That's something to consider. I understand your point, but since this is optional medical treatment (not necessary) and the first round already failed, I can see your grandmother's perspective on this.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/16 05:12 PM
2

No moral indignation. It's just such an incredibly weird decision.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/16 05:10 PM
1

So instead of adopting a child who could use a loving home, you and your wife wasted thousands on trying to get her pregnant against nature, and now you are upset that her grandmother doesn't want to waste more money on this failed endeavor?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/16 02:40 AM
2

Have the talk about how you're not owning your shit and how much of a beta you are?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/16 12:58 AM
1

You're welcome! My major in college was history but I didn't want to be a historian. I thrive on order, neatness, writing, rules, analysis, etc. I got into law by "accident" applying for a legal assistant position with a solo practitioner right out of college, who hired me and trained me from scratch in his field, business immigration. I'm now at a senior level, still in business immigration, and have been for 13 years now. I make a good salary and benefits and love my city and company. My profe…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/16 04:14 PM
2

Law. I'm a senior paralegal. I'm logical, organized, independent and love to write. There is also very good money in specialties. Yes. I am at the top level you can achieve without a law degree. I'm satisfied. It matters, but I live a minimalist lifestyle. I actually live on abou 60% of what I make and bank the rest. No. I value security over passion in career. Yes, absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/16 02:28 AM
1

Glad to hear that!!
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/16 10:41 PM
2

I am a woman who never wanted/wants kids. No matter how wonderful a man is, he will never change my mind. Hence, before I got together with my boyfriend (of 2 years), I made my child free status clear to him and that we would terminate our relationship if he changed his mind and wanted kids. So far it is great. My point is that if someone is sure he/she doesn't want a family, lsten. Don't try to change them and make them resent you.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/16 11:31 PM
1

It just comes across as try hard. If you can't be witty, STFU or raised eyebrows/facial expressions of amusement are better.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/16 04:03 PM
1

Dude, I'm cringing at your shit test responses.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/16 06:12 PM
3

OP, don't take this advice. It's disrespectful to blow her off with standing plans, especially when the only thing she has done "wrong" is not initiate sex, which is your job.
/r/askMRP12/07/16 06:04 PM
1

I'm not a jealous person. I like when my boyfriend gets checked out by other chicks. It doesn't bother me in the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/16 05:33 PM
4

I know :). That is why TRP isn't generally applicable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/16 04:11 AM
1

Lol. None of these are true about me. I definitely don't want to get knocked up and find "Chads" imbecilic. I also don't care what my friends are into. In fact, they look at me as a leader. Jealousy isn't an emotion I experience, especially with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/16 04:08 AM
7

But this is a forum where she should be allowed to be honest. If she genuinely feels disgusted by her husband, and he is genuinely needy and lazy, she should be able to say so without it being 'badmouthing.' It's just the truth from her perspective.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/16 01:57 AM
3

I can't stand kids. Happily childfree.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/16 01:55 AM
16

She's done nothing wrong in being honest about her assessment of her SO. Over at Married RedPill, they give similar descriptions of their wives and no one is "horrified" that they are not being respectful. Why shouldn't she be honest? This sub shouldn't encourage women to walk on eggshells and be "nice" instead of being honest.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/16 01:17 AM
3

Female here, purplepill. Yes I would, without an ounce of remorse.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/16 07:12 PM
1

Me, haha. I would either dread back or dump him. Likely both. I definitely do not have scarcity mentality. There is no one I can't replace.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/16 07:10 PM
1

Female here--I would never respond to a text like that. I'm too high value.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/16 07:00 PM
1

I'll easily take no sex over bad sex. I like sex but I don't have a high libido. Good sex is if I'm attracted to the guy. Nothing else matters. If I'm into him, I'll have a good time. Alpha, beta, doesn't matter. I'm not hugely sexual so it's easy for me to pass up if I think it would be bad or mediocre.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/16 06:58 PM
1

Agreed. Fat disgusts me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/16 05:19 AM
1

35f / childfree / libertarian / marriage-free / in an LTR with a younger man / INTJ / make my own salary / very independent. AMA. No. Yes. No. No. No. I don't drink. Yes. My boyfriend and I both do powerlifting/bodybuilding. I was already into this hobby when I met. No. No. Yes, but rarely. No.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/16 03:13 AM
1

Childlessness sounds like a reward.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/16 02:40 AM
1

They aren't that different. And kids are permanent.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/16 09:33 PM
1

I would say the evidence points to that being the case. Of course I won't be everyone's cup of tea.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/16 09:32 PM
1

The world isn't just. Not the fault of women that your height limits your dating pool. I won't date overweight men or men that want kids. We all have priorities.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/16 09:34 PM
2

Nope. I'm not looking for a provider (I never want kids and I make a very good salary). I'm 5'4" and have dated men from 5'7" to 6'4". I don't want to date a man shorter than me, but he doesn't have to be over 6 feet. And I never want a beta provider, because I don't want to be provided for.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/16 06:34 PM
2

A man with a high partner count is a dealbreaker for me. I think many men of RedPill overestimate "preselection." I consider myself a high value woman and I don't want sloppy hundreds.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/16 02:42 AM
5

I'm sure with a baby attached to her boob she will really be in the mood to blow her whiny husband.
/r/askMRP22/06/16 09:26 PM
1

I'm childless by choice and in a relationship (for 2 years) with a childless by choice man. Not swingers or poly here :D.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/16 06:40 PM
0

All the more reason to be childfree and get a childfree wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/16 06:12 PM
1

K.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/16 05:27 PM
1

Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/16 04:26 PM
1

That doesn't mean that it is the result of baby fever. People associate having kids with being an adult, and many have kids without even thinking about what they actually desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/16 04:25 PM
6

I personally know more parents who regret having kids than childfree with regrets.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/16 02:15 AM
1

No! 35f here and I was 6 when I knew I never wanted kids. Have never changed my mind. I don't want to sacrifice for kids and I want to put myself first. Total myth that Red Pill often puts forth along with hysteria about sperm jacking. I love sex without procreation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/16 11:33 PM
1

It doesn't do anything for me as far as I can tell. I am strong willed and do my own thing. I've been on and off the pill over the last 15 years or so and my taste in guys is the same as well as my libido.
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/16 05:43 PM
2

I would NEVER be in a relationship with a drinker. I don't drink at all and my boyfriend has a drink once in a blue moon. Your choice, but I would be out of this "relationship" so fast his head would spin. You can't be in a relationship with a drunkard.
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/16 05:39 PM
1

Over a year and a half now.
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/16 05:36 PM
1

I'm an open book. 35.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/16 08:39 PM
4

Nope and nope. I don't like kids. Yes, I'm a senior paralegal in an international law firm. Never. Can't stand kids and I would kill myself if I stayed home and did nothing. No. I like the safety of not being legally tied. I loved being single, so I'd be okay. I also wouldn't have trouble dating again. I'm in fantastic shape from my weight training and diet and I have a lot of independent hobbies.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/16 07:18 PM
2

Female here. I can't stand babies, but hot men? Definitely!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/16 07:56 PM
3

I'm a woman and I definitely don't love children. I do love my high value boyfriend though. The idea that women love children and not men is just laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/16 07:34 PM
1

Hardcore, man. Hardcore.
/r/askMRP10/06/16 01:36 AM
-9

Are you 12? Why are you constantly slapping her ass in public? That's childish.
/r/askMRP08/06/16 09:42 PM
1

They are smart like me (35/f). I have a fantastic career, a lot of savings, and a great body from my hobby of powerlifting/bodybuilding/nutrition. I read a lot, go out in the sun and see movies. I have a boyfriend who also doesn't want kids (or I wouldn't be with him). My life is amazing and I don't have a "wall" to deal with since my fertility doesn't matter to me. I keep improving my physique and don't have body issues from pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/16 01:33 AM
1

35f. I don't care at all about penis size. In fact, one of the men I was most sexually attracted to had the smallest penis of those I've been with. What made me attracted to him was the whole package and how he made me feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/16 01:28 AM
3

A smart fuck. LOLOL.
/r/MGTOW05/06/16 01:00 AM
1

Keep in mind that it is not the "dream" of every mid-30s woman to have kids. If she is as accomplished as the OP described, she likely planned to have an independent life without being held down by motherhood.
/r/askMRP03/06/16 05:32 PM
1

You assume every woman in her mid-30s who is described as "independent" wants to have kids?
/r/askMRP03/06/16 05:31 PM
0

Childfree is not childless.
/r/askMRP03/06/16 05:30 PM
2

u/TheFamilyAlpha, you are one of the few around here that will at least challenge the "She's a child; ignore her; she needs to bend to your will" line. If my husband treated me like a child during a serious discussion, I would be out of there.
/r/askMRP01/06/16 05:20 PM
1

Just because sex is easy to get doesn't mean sex with any man is desirable. I don't even care that much about sex. My abundance mentality comes from loving my life whether I'm single or in a relationship. I actually love being single and having my own space and time to myself. I have abundance mentality because as much as I love my boyfriend, if we broke up, I'd be just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/16 07:17 PM
1

We're good :D.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/16 12:01 AM
2

I actually didn't realize how many "ups" I got until you pointed that out. I'm not a major poster (you can check my history) and I don't really care if I get up or downvoted.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/16 08:17 PM
2

I think you're very confused. Re-read my post. "I think everyone should avoid an institution in which he or she doesn't benefit." [Emphasis added] "To the men who are avoiding marriage..." [addressed to men already avoiding it]. I'm not responsible for anyone else. If people read my comment and are further inspired to avoid marriage and kids, good on them. How is that my responsibility? Not sorry that you are so triggered about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/16 07:39 PM
3

^ Found the cuck.
/r/askMRP29/05/16 01:23 AM
1

What would the wife's incentive be to purposely get pregnant from an affair? It doesn't seem like she's desperate to keep OP.
/r/askMRP29/05/16 01:19 AM
26

I'd applaud them. As a woman who never wanted marriage or kids, I think everyone should avoid an institution in which he or she doesn't benefit. To the men who are avoiding marriage, kudos to you! I cheer in solidarity.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/16 05:08 PM
3

Where is 6?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/16 01:39 AM
2

You don't know ANY childfree women who are happy? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/16 12:23 AM
2

So your wife is feminine, beautiful, smart, and not materialistic, but you have an issue with her not being submissive?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/16 09:39 PM
3

This scenario doesn't work. I would want my OWN chocolate ice cream. I wouldn't want to watch someone else eat multiple ice creams.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/16 01:04 AM
2

Yeah, but you don't want an open relationship where she is also allowed to sleep with others, right? Because high quality women don't usually agree to be exclusive to a man who is fucking others when she doesn't have that right.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/16 01:02 AM
1

If it's voluntary, it's totally acceptable to me. If you are giving a woman your commitment but not telling her that you are fucking others, then you are breaking a commitment and you're a piece of shit. I have dated men who I know were sleeping with others and didn't care because we were not exclusive. If my current boyfriend were to cheat, I would dump him immediately. I don't care how alpha a guy is; I do not "share" him in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/16 01:00 AM
1

No, it's because I'm not a beta loser who whines about women all being evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/16 12:56 AM
10

Nope, preselection is nonsense to me. Any sign of disrespect from a boyfriend is a break up. I have abundance mentality like Red Pill tells men to have. Flirting in a relationship is a no for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/16 10:54 PM
2

Me (f). Almost never. I don't like being the initiator for sex (I find that a turn off).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/16 05:57 PM
2

3 kids and you need a new family?
/r/askMRP13/05/16 01:41 AM
1

+1 Million to everything here.
/r/askMRP13/05/16 01:38 AM
1

Two wrongs don't make a right. Adultery is breaking a commitment, and neither gender gets a pass. Women should be called out on it, but men shouldn't be applauded for partaking in it.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/16 01:24 AM
11

Thisneverhappened.com.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/16 11:49 PM
3

So they are just catching up to what men have always done.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/16 01:00 AM
-1

It's a risk to take for a little gain.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/16 01:04 AM
-3

How about just don't do it? You don't need to choke to be dominant, and in fact, it's rather cheesy.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/16 06:19 PM
4

That's...not how sex works. That's not how the brain works. Are you a virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/16 02:38 AM
1

There are none. I (35/f) would insist on it and even draft parts myself. But I don't really want marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/16 02:24 AM
-6

120 pounds? Lmao. Girls do that for reps.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/16 11:01 PM
1

They aren't high enough. I'm 35/f and in fantastic shape. Why? Lifting and diet are PRIORITIES. I have a set diet I don't deviate from, and I eat macros targeted toward my physique. I do powerlifting style training with accessories, so I have defined muscles and an "X" shape with tiny waist, nice glutes and shoulders. My boyfriend is also into diet and powerlifting. Neither of us ever "let ourselves go" because we both hold OURSELVES to high standards. I'm not extremely fit for my boyfriend; I'm…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 04:46 PM
0

Cad is fucking retarded.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/16 01:41 AM
1

Become a bitter loser like Cad who gets excited banging soccer moms.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/16 01:18 AM
1

I wonder what she'd say about you. Are you below 10%? What's your OHP?
/r/askMRP04/05/16 01:12 AM
1

So you want to be with women impressed by manipulation and lies?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/16 01:11 AM
1

So your anecdote with a pretty stupid woman (from your description) is applicable to all women?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 06:36 PM
1

Reading. That doesn't need an explanation for coolness.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 06:35 PM
1

You don't need a cycle of gear. If you're not in a surplus, you won't be putting on any muscle mass. Strength is about neurological efficiency, which can be increased in a deficit. Before you hop on gear, think about what your goals are. If you are still wanting to cut fat, you need to be in a caloric deficit and that means putting "gains" on the back burner for now.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/16 05:52 PM
2

It should never be banned. Let people have the freedom to speak. I say this as a female who doesn't agree with a lot of what is written on TRP. You have no right to NOT be offended. Not sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/16 07:07 PM
3

Lol, there are tons of men on TRP who won't let their girlfriends have girl nights out or travel. TRP is full of shitty men who hate women. I love myself and I don't care about what the rest of my gender does. I'm not responsible for them, just like I'm not responsible for all the shitty men out there.
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/16 12:06 AM
-5

Oh, yay, a quote from a book on a sky fairy.
/r/MGTOW01/05/16 07:14 PM
1

This assumes every woman wants commitment and finds that advantageous. Certainly not. I wouldn't mind giving men tips on just fucking women. It wouldn't hurt me in any way, so why would I care?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/16 07:10 PM
1

Yes. I'm a woman into powerlifting and so is my boyfriend. We are both in exceptional shape and I am in particular into a strict diet. I am attracted to my boyfriend, but not ONLY because he works out and eats well. If he were liberal and religious and wanted kids, I'd be hugely turned off.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/16 07:08 PM
0

Just curious, by why do you need her to submit so badly?
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/16 06:33 PM
1

u/GayLubeOil is happiest with a dick in his mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/16 10:36 PM
1

Must be white or Asian. Must lift heavy weights. Must have no kids and not want them. Libertarian or slightly conservative. Atheist. Independent and confident; not clingy. Not controlling or domineering.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/16 10:27 PM
2

Whining about his wife somewhere...the wife that never cheated on him in his original telling of the story (the one he rebranded when he found fame on this forum ).
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/16 10:15 PM
1

35.
/r/askMRP29/04/16 05:31 PM
1

I'd just feel badly for a guy that wants kids in his late 30s/early 40s.
/r/askMRP29/04/16 01:39 AM
2

Mentioning you had a vasectomy is a plus in the dating market. More women than ever don't want to be tied down with kids.
/r/askMRP28/04/16 01:13 AM
3

Not every woman wants kids or more kids. A vasectomy and no worries about pregnancy is a huge turn on.
/r/askMRP27/04/16 09:32 PM
1

^ This. He is trying to be authoritative and respected but he is just being a brownnoser and PITA.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/16 01:35 AM
2

Nope. I don't find either attractive and want to stay the hell away from crazy actors.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/16 09:29 PM
1

Supposedly. In any case, I'm not attracted to the top 1% of men. I have no interest in being a sidekick or trophy. I want to be the protagonist of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/16 01:07 AM
3

Oh, and I don't consider him a "Chad." From what I can see of posts on RedPill, Chad is a complete idiot who attracts low value women. I'm not interested in Chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/16 05:28 PM
2

Haha, thanks, even if you are sarcastic! Oh, and we're not married. Neither of us want kids and marriage doesn't make sense otherwise :D.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/16 05:26 PM
4

I earn a lot more than my man. I still respect him and find him amazingly hot, masculine and wonderful. He powerlifts and coaches me in my powerlifting, and has two bachelor's degrees in economics and business. Nothing effeminate about him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/16 05:36 AM
5

Add paragraphs or I'm not investing in this.
/r/askMRP24/04/16 01:18 AM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/16 02:04 AM
1

Yep. It's merciless_smelliot and his subsequent accounts. I've downvoted every comment he makes with every account.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/16 02:03 AM
1

Right, and my experience is not another woman's experience. So maybe you shouldn't generalize about women, eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/16 01:06 AM
3

Lol, yes. Women who chase rock stars and athletes are mentally damaged. Are you surprised? Look at those dregs of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/16 01:05 AM
2

You would say that a woman with many options for sex but who CHOOSES not to fuck everyone would be laudable, right? And one who did the opposite is a slut, right? So I'm attracted to men with a lot of options because they are fantastic, awesome men, but who are selective. A man who fucks every opportunity is unattractive to me because he isn't selective.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/16 01:04 AM
2

I love scruff on a man's face, but body I prefer as little as possible. On myself, my routine involves NO body hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/16 02:25 AM
2

I would never share a man, and I don't know any woman who isn't mentally damaged that would.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/16 02:24 AM
1

Sounds like you have a personal problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/16 02:23 AM
1

Did you ever finish high school?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/16 02:23 AM
2

My boyfriend makes far less than me and he's open about his feelings (while being alpha). I find him hot. I don't care that I make more and I like that he is open and not stuffy and stoic. Also, I don't care about preselection at all. I like what I like, others be damned. Needing preselection is a sign of insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/16 02:21 AM
6

A man that women want is attractive to me, but a man that slept with lots of women is unattractive to me. There is a difference...do you see it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/16 02:16 AM
5

GridReXX is right. I was still a virgin after college at 22 and wanted to lose my virginity BEFORE I started dating someone I was interested in, so I could have the first awkward time out of the way. I slept with an acquaintance, got it "over" with, and we remained in touch for a few months. I met someone I wanted to date and moved on. I never bonded with the guy I first slept with. I am not promiscuous ever, and don't really crave sex much. I don't see it as important enough to spend much time …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/16 02:10 AM
1

I do not believe I have to be open minded while dating. I am not a charity and I don't pity date. I am also not a set of training wheels. I have absolute nopes with dating, some based on race/ethnicity, religion, politics etc. and I make no apology for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/16 01:53 AM
1

You spied on her like a little beta. You couldn't confront her like a man. You come and cry on Reddit.
/r/askMRP18/04/16 05:32 PM
1

K.
/r/askMRP17/04/16 08:24 PM
1

Respect is earned, not taught.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/16 11:20 PM
1

Oh sorry. I will go back to being a housewife who wants to splatter her brains on the wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/16 11:18 PM
4

The end goal for all of us isn't marriage. I'm in a LTR and I don't really care if I ever get married. In fact, I see it as a bad deal for women who have their own careers and don't want kids. I want a LTR with a man I respect.
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/16 02:21 AM
1

To whom? I personally don't admire a man's ability to get pussy from club and bar chicks. Preselection doesn't work on me. In fact, a man flirting with another woman in front of me, or my knowing of his fucking another woman, makes me completely uninterested.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/16 01:23 AM
2

I don't see why the similar would not apply to men, and The Red Pill denies this. Can a guy used to casual sex with multiple women ever pair bond with just one?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/16 12:55 AM
1

I agree. He is so underrated and very humble too. I am so looking forward to his book!
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/16 06:31 PM
2

Just replying to put a +1 on Stephan Guyenet. He is one of my favorite nutrition/food reward bloggers. His research is fascinating.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/16 06:16 PM
1

I wasn't joking, though I realize it came off like that. I am serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/16 06:11 PM
0

I agree that rape and purposeful paternity fraud should carry the same sentence, absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/16 06:03 PM
0

She should be punished to the highest extent possible. It should be an offense resulting in jail time to purposely trick a man with regards to paternity.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/16 06:03 PM
1

I think this is disgusting. Yes, she should have to repay him for all of the child support he paid, and she should serve a full term jail sentence. All the women I know would feel similarly outraged at this. Not all women are radical feminists or even feminists at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/16 06:01 PM
2

The Red Pill makes it out to seem that any woman who isn't a virgin can't pair bond.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/16 05:59 PM
2

Aww, are you hurt? He's the only man I loved enough to have him move in with me and have a life together. I didn't want any man enough to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/16 05:59 PM
2

Absolutely not. My boyfriend of over 1 year is the 10th man I've slept with (I'm 35), and yest that is 10, not 10x3 :D. None of the 10 were one night stands, but he is the first LTR I've had. He is the ONLY one I've been in love with and the only one I've bonded with emotionally. None of the other 9 have made it impossible for me to genuinely love my man, more than I have ever loved anyone in my life. So no, I'd say that I haven't been alpha widowed. I also dispute the idea that women can't pair…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/16 01:52 AM
2

All of those are fine with me. I'm 35f, in great shape, great career, have my finances in control and I'm in an LTR with a hot 27m whom I'm crazy about. Never want kids and don't care at all about marriage. I wouldn't go back 50 years ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/16 01:46 AM
2

This simply isn't true. I'm a female and one of my closest friends is a married male. I know his wife too and we are friends. He and I were friends when we were both single, but we just aren't attracted to each other. We could and can always talk about our relationships (his marriage, my LTR). I also have online friends who are male and enjoy our conversations on powerlifting, diet and fitness, movies, etc. I'm sure many of them would fuck me if given the chance, but I won't tolerate anything di…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/16 01:39 AM
1

Absolutely. If I'm interested in a man, I'll make eye contact, smile, play with my hair, flirt in conversation, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/16 01:35 AM
2

No one does.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/16 04:51 PM
1

Of course not. But he was making a generalization about all women from his experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/16 04:51 PM
2

Not going to happen :D. I'm getting a tubal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/16 04:50 PM
9

Your anecdote can't be extrapolated to all women. My boyfriend is the love of my life and I have supported him through tough times, including his recurring depression. Furthermore, I loathe children. I love men and puppies.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/16 01:16 AM
1

What does ass slapping and hair pulling have to do with AWALT? Did you just want to include that term like a student aiming to pass a test?
/r/askMRP12/04/16 09:33 PM
1

Why not be an adult? Tell her the relationship isn't working, you are breaking up, and you are coming by to retrieve your stuff. Then make a clean exit.
/r/askMRP12/04/16 05:20 PM
1

Reaction? I wouldn't give a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/16 02:20 AM
3

"Guys, guess what? My wife lets me pretend I'm captain of a a ship!"
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/16 01:18 AM
1

You realize that men and women have affairs on soap operas, right? They are dramas. One fictional woman's actions no stronger proves AWALT than a nerd getting the cheerleader in the movie proves reality.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/16 01:11 AM
1

Those are little boy celebrities. Come on. Most women don't fantasize about these skinny dudes. Are you reading Seventeen magazine?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/16 01:08 AM
1

Nope. I am not into celebrity boys. Do you think all women like little movie boys?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 09:40 PM
1

I don't care about anyone's problems unless you are a chosen friend of mine. Why should I give a fuck? What is my motivation?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/16 07:05 PM
1

I'm a woman. That scenario wouldn't happen. I hate clubs and bars (don't drink and think clubs are retarded). My boyfriend wouldn't even tolerate some guy openly flirting with me. He would just tell him to get the fuck out, and I'd probably start laughing. I don't get "carried away" by emotions. I'm in a relationship, and if my boyfriend is not with me, I can say so. Why can't we just be direct?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/16 06:25 PM
1

IIT, men take a troll seriously.
/r/askMRP10/04/16 12:01 AM
2

It doesn't bother me, but I would never date a man into other males.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/16 07:30 PM
2

It's beta as fuck. I have never mate guarded a boyfriend. I have abundance mentality. If the worst thing that happens is he cheats I just replace him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/16 07:28 PM
0

Fulfilling, lol. Loud shitty money drains.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/16 07:27 PM
3

35/f. I knew since I was 6 that I never wanted kids. Decades later, I'm extremely happy with the decision. I do exactly what I want. I have an amazing career and make great money. I powerlift and eat sushi with my boyfriend. I live in a fantastic city. Kids are poopy, smelly, loud money drains. Fuck no.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/16 07:26 PM
1

Sure. I'm sure at one time one person changed his/her mind with a CMV. I have no proof of this, but you have no proof that someone didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/16 08:51 PM
5

Not wrong in the least. Not wrong for either gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/16 08:49 PM
3

I hate stylish men. I mostly wear yoga pants and tank tops and my man mostly wears shorts and t-shirts. We lift a lot and value nice workout clothes but not dressing up. I have zero attraction to men into fashion.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/16 09:25 PM
1

I don't care about anyone I don't selectively choose to care about. That includes 99.99% of the population, not just Omegas. They can kill themselves as long as they don't get in my way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/16 07:01 PM
0

+1.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/16 05:36 PM
2

Okay, I apologize. I thought that is what you meant by "traditional roles." I love to submit to my man in the bedroom, but we can make decisions together on our direction as a couple. I don't want him to "lead" me but be a partner with me. I defer to him on our powerlifting because he is my coach and is more experienced, but why shouldn't he defer to me on areas I am more experienced?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/16 05:22 PM
2

Cad is always triggered. Lol. No wonder I'm a fan of FamilyAlpha and Jack.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/16 05:19 PM
1

I have my own career, and I don't want kids. Should I be a stay at home wife? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/16 05:10 PM
2

I doubt anyone respects a slave.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/16 05:09 PM
1

I agree. But it is hilarious when men complain about women wanting shit, and date college girls or bar sluts who have nothing. Why not date a woman who is financially stable?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/16 05:08 PM
1

I make 10x what my boyfriend makes, but he's not a loser. I've never enjoyed being with someone as much as him, and I'm so financially stable that I overlook his making significantly less. Shitty women live off others.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/16 02:29 AM
1

Nope. I earn more than my boyfriend and we take turns paying or split and we've been living together for over a year. We keep our finances separate and even though I make more he pays his own bills and I pay mine. Fair and square.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/16 02:27 AM
1

I guess you'll hate my anecdote ;). 35f with 27m. I don't ask him for any resources except his companionship and fidelity. He doesn't take any of my resources. We have a genuine connection and we both value our physiques so there is not "degrading" of looks (I lift and eat a strict diet and many think I'm 25). We powerlift together. I'm low maintenance and not demanding. He said I'm refreshing from what he found banging chicks of Tinder with nothing to offer but pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/16 02:24 AM
1

Fuck no on marriage and family. I just wanted a boyfriend who lifts with me, eats sushi, doesn't want kids, and has a sense of humor. I got it. Plus I have my amazing career, my physique chisled from diet and training, live in a fantastic city... I have everything I ever wanted, and I never wanted kids/marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/16 02:11 AM
4

Appreciate is not respect. Who doesn't appreciate someone bending over backwards for you and expecting nothing but a slap on the ass in return?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/16 01:07 AM
1

Not in my relationship. I'm bold, very confident and assertive. My man is the exact same way. He hates wishy washy women with no goals and personal interests. My man and I powerlift together and he loves seeing how physically and mentally strong I am. Of course, he is into the fact that I take care of my body with my diet and training and I'm trim and clean, and that I'm not promiscuous (not now or before I met him). But he isn't looking for a nurturer. We both don't want kids, so that might exp…
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/16 01:00 AM
3

The problem is that they are living in the 1950s in a modern world. Also, they think that men will respect them for being submissive. No one respects a pebble in their shoe. The more submissive they act, the more the other person pushes to degrade them further. RP men who want to dominate a woman's life are damaged goods and RPW just go along for the ride.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/16 12:55 AM
1

How many other women want insecure betas who keylog?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/16 09:37 PM
1

I'm not saying to take a risk and not use protection. I'm saying that going for a chick who actively doesn't want children is a smart move if you don't want kids.
/r/askTRP06/04/16 01:27 AM
1

Childless = doesn't have kids and might want them or can't have them. Childfree = doesn't have kids, doesn't want them & actively plans to never have them. Both men and women can be childfree. I'm in a childfree relationship and it is wonderful.
/r/askTRP06/04/16 01:17 AM
1

Way too generalized.
/r/askTRP05/04/16 11:16 PM
1

Of course. But check outhe r/childfree. Tons of chicks who don't want to be breeders.
/r/askTRP05/04/16 10:08 PM
1

Nah it is more fun here. Beta men always use your line instead of logic.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/16 10:07 PM
-1

Being more independent is not being a feminist. If you can't stand a woman who is more independent in her life, go for a woman with a low SMV and is clingy so she is desperate to stay with you.
/r/askTRP05/04/16 01:54 AM
1

Go for childfree chicks. They are super careful because they definitely don't want an "oops."
/r/askTRP05/04/16 01:44 AM
1

I have no issue with the man leading the woman into adventure. I just can't believe she wouldn't have any hobbies of her own. Sounds boring as fuck. My boyfriend and I powerlift together, but we also have separate hobbies.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/16 01:03 AM
2

Dude, I am a chick, hence why I mentioned my boyfriend. I just really enjoy The Red Pill.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/16 01:02 AM
3

You didn't threaten me, lol. I'm laughing at you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/16 01:53 AM
6

Nope. I'm older than he is too :D. I purposely lost my virginity to a man I didn't care about because I wanted to get that awkward shit over with before I was with a man I loved. It was the perfect decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/16 01:52 AM
9

Absolutely. My boyfriend didn't take my virginity and he is the only man I've ever been in love with, had move in with me so we could be together, and genuinely have bonded with emotionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/16 01:33 AM
1

I'm so glad that I have the choice, unlike women in the 1950s. I can't stand kids and never wanted them, and I enjoy my career in law. I also have a boyfriend that is proud of my accomplishments and drive. I would be bored as fuck staying home all day and probably would commit suicide if I had kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/16 01:14 AM
3

Read first paragraph and laughed my ass off. I'm glad there are those to teach you in the comments.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/16 12:26 AM
2

3000 for 6' male is not a lot. My boyfriend is 6'3" and needs 5000 to maintain because of powerlifting. I powerlift with him and I'm 130 maintaining on 2500. You should be eating WAY more and lifting heavy and doing cardio so you have a lean, muscular build. It's attractive on both genders.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/16 12:23 AM
1

Flirting is riding the CC now?
/r/askMRP04/04/16 12:13 AM
-1

You really think women in the 1950s were free to express their unhappiness? This is why Betty Friedan's book was so controversial.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/16 12:11 AM
1

I would never stay in a relationship with a man who cheated for any reason. I also find clubs and drinking unattractive, so I don't do those or date men who have fun drinking and clubbing. Sure, some chicks will stay in a relationship with a cheater and good for them. Me, I have abundance mentality so I'd take off as soon as I found out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/16 06:30 PM
2

Nooo. I am a childfree woman and have been since I was a kid (I'm in my mid-30s). A guy who is sterile or has had a vasectomy gets a huge attractiveness plus in my eyes. I find pregnancy and kids to be absolutely libido killing and having sex without the worry about getting pregnant is hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/16 06:26 PM
2

You need to do some reading outside of this sub.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/16 06:05 PM
0

You seriously think women were happy in the 1950s? Seriously?
/r/TheRedPill03/04/16 06:03 PM
-5

So? That's his own fucking fault.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/16 06:02 PM
1

I'm not a man, and I like speaking directly. Does that bother you?
/r/TheRedPill03/04/16 05:44 PM
6

1 is not true at all and neither is #3. What world are you living in? Women know plenty about beta men and many high value women lift weights themselves and know a guy with 14" arms isn't jacked. This is April Fool's, right?
/r/TheRedPill03/04/16 01:44 AM
1

That actually makes perfect sense. My boyfriend and I have separate hobbies, but our main hobbies are things we enjoy together, namely our powerlifting, physique building, seeing movies, etc. I read your post to say that the woman would merely be a reflection of a man and have no interests, which seemed really dull.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/16 01:32 AM
0

Maybe stop being emotionally abusive so she seeks comfort elsewhere. If she's a reflection of you, she's reflecting your shit.
/r/askTRP03/04/16 01:19 AM
1

Just curious--your wife has no independent hobbies from you and just reflects your actions only? Isn't that extremely boring?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/16 01:13 AM
1

You are assuming that all women are feminists here and all women are playing games.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/16 12:13 AM
1

I don't really care to nurtur as I'm not nurturing. I attract men like my current boyfriend with my caring about my physique, my clean lifestyle, my lack of debt and drama, and my confidence. I am an introvert and I don't care about being a martyr and nurse for others. There are plenty of very feminine submissive women for those who care for that. How men rank my SMV is not a concern for me. I never lack companionship when I desire it, but I like to be alone a lot in any case.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/16 12:09 AM
1

In her own apartment or house she likely wants to relax. It doesn't have to be sloppy, but she doesn't want to dress in a dress and pearls like a 1950s housewife.
/r/askMRP03/04/16 12:01 AM
2

Of course. But she doesn't care about you, so your disapproval has no role in her life. Does that perhaps upset you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/16 11:57 PM
3

You seem highly invested in something so stupid. sips tea
/r/TheRedPill02/04/16 11:57 PM
1

I would just ask you directly. I don't hamster. That seems like such a lame thing to waste time on instead of having a frank conversation.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/16 11:55 PM
2

Are these supposed to be triggering? It seems like a five year old wrote this. If you want I'll answer each one.* *as a female who loves reading TRP.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/16 02:17 AM
7

I would laugh so hard if I saw a man drop lipstick out of his pocket. This isn't Machiavellian. It's hilarious. I'd probably tell him the shade is too dark for his skin tone.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/16 02:05 AM
1

Define "long term." I just turned 35 (f). My boyfriend and I have been together since late 2014 and I see no signs of it ending. We have a ton in common--mutual love of music, powerlifting, movies, humor, food, physique goals, and lifestyle. We rarely have arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/16 01:39 AM
1

You are forgetting women who are late bloomers and introverts who may not start dating seriously until after college. Your dichotomy is two narrow to have sluts and extremely young women who want to marry before 22.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/16 01:29 AM
6

Another point: some women don't care about marriage/kids and staying "pure," so the opinion of men on CC women is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/16 01:19 AM
1

Not the case at all, at least for me. I have to be physically attracted to the man, but it is not solely about looks. You are talking about a specific type of woman who cares about playing with makeup and clothes and hairstyles, and they exist for sure. Not all women are into overly done appearances. I also don't think your idea that women into looking pretty think looking good 'belongs' to them makes any sense. You haven't shown this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/16 06:43 PM
2

Mind your own business. Live your own life. Take care of your own body and career. Nothing more cringey than a busybody.
/r/askTRP01/04/16 06:24 PM
0

^ triggered.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/16 06:15 PM
1

Well said. It is good to have some reasonable content on this subreddit again.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/16 05:59 PM
1

So you were hurt by one woman, and now you extrapolate that to all women. Great use of logic. I'm sure if a woman DOES cheat on you, you'll understand since you have no integrity.
/r/askTRP01/04/16 05:24 PM
1

You are worried that she is extremely smart, has varied hobbies, is independent / not clingy and has a great career / is ambitious? That's a worry? That's rather sad. Would you rather have a damaged bar slut who barely graduated high school?
/r/askTRP01/04/16 02:06 AM
2

Plenty of women don't want kids and know at a young age. If she says she definitely doesn't want kids, there is no reason to disbelieve her.
/r/askTRP01/04/16 01:53 AM
1

Seems like you are unfamiliar with dealing with a woman who has a life and is not desperate for your attention. If you need a woman in your life to worship you and give you constant validation, she doesn't seem the right fit.
/r/askTRP01/04/16 01:39 AM
0

I'm not a feminist woman, but a libertarian. I'm against government conscription for BOTH genders. We should defend from foreign attack but not be a world police force.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/16 01:29 AM
1

Well said. How can anyone lacking integrity be masculine man?
/r/askTRP01/04/16 12:03 AM
2

At me end? It's great to have a pirate aboard the MRP ship.
/r/askMRP31/03/16 11:29 PM
0

Lol, OP has got to wish he didn't write this cringe fest.
/r/askMRP31/03/16 05:13 PM
1

Of course. I'm a live and let live libertarian and not everyone's values and perceptions are the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/16 02:16 AM
1

TRP advises flirting with other girls in front of plates to show abundance. If she does the same, why get butthurt? She's not your exclusive LTR.
/r/askTRP31/03/16 01:18 AM
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