Explain why monogamy is red pill?

stonepimpletilists · 2016-10-14T13:31:43+00:00

Do you want the validation that getting your mistress to fuck your wife is cool?

screechhater · 2016-10-14T10:42:48+00:00

The other day I paid a plumber to clean tampons out of the sewer line at a sorority house that was backing up the sewer. We actually have a separate sheet in all residence agreements to not flush tampons or pads, they are supposed to initial and sign. I bet you a 100 they signed it ...... but as to reading it .....

SampsonBrass · 2016-10-14T10:32:43+00:00

understand this sub is a huge proponent of monogamy and I am interested in the reasons why

Keep reading. Your understanding is faulty.

2016-10-14T11:46:29+00:00

TRP is a toolbox. Monogamy is a specific implementation. There are guys who plate here too.

nonnimoose · 2016-10-14T22:52:28+00:00

If a man is going into marriage expecting to cheat, why get married at all? I use cheat because I can't think of a different word. I don't think you meant open on both sides, or even open in the sense that it's one-sided but the wife tacitly agrees, since you said "subversively."

I am not trying to argue the point with you, I am genuinely curious. Why would a guy who knows he wants to continue to fuck other women, even saying that's what a guy should do, get married at all? Non-married LTRs are completely acceptable to society so it just seems like it (marriage) wouldn't be worth it. In fact the opposite - could blow up and wreak financial havoc.

RuleZeroDAD · 2016-10-14T10:37:47+00:00

You are not wrong or right about your choice.

RP is amoral. We operate within Rule Zero. You are your own judge. The appearance of a monogamy preference is the often additional restrictions men here place on themselves for reasons outside the pure praxeology.

Some guys here spin plates, while many take the position that leadership of a family is Paramount to self-actualization. It's a conscious decision to be limited. Main sub guys often view this as "stupid" or taking on unnecessary risk.

Fuck as many women as you like, but your preference is yours to own. The development of best self to maximize opportunities to have as much quality sex as possible does not waver. We simply give our SO's first shot.

UEMcGill · 2016-10-14T12:36:28+00:00

However, I understand this sub is a huge proponent of monogamy

You understand incorrectly.

Monogamy is a relationship guideline. As a guideline it is used to frame the relationship.

Take for example, she is real good woman. She's a great first mate, she's a great mom, and a porn star in the bedroom. It's at your discretion to reward her for her sexual and emotional commitment with your monogamy. Men offer commitment, women intimacy.

Conversely let's say you are a the perfect Alpha provider. Yet she sits around in a messy house and you bust your ass getting the kids off to school with big blue balls. You are certainly free to withdraw your monogamy and assign her the status of "plate" even though she lives with you. The redpill thing to do would be to now create an exit strategy.

Now let's say your a big beta faggot. You are an emotional slut who gives away your feeelz like costco free samples. Your old lady is craving Alpha dick and fucks the biker she met at margarita night out with the girls.

Did she violate the relationship guideline? Nope. You did because your a faggot, and gave her beta instead of Alpha, ie you failed on your commitment so she did too.

BluepillProfessor · 2016-10-15T02:53:47+00:00

Explain why monogamy is red pill?

No.

RPSigmaStigma · 2016-10-14T12:36:35+00:00

/r/RedPillNonMonogamy

deadsandsushi · 2016-10-14T16:43:36+00:00

since society doesn't accept this he has to do this subversively.

Hamster, hamster. If you were really high value, your wife would share you openly with other women because she wouldn't want to lose YOU. If you're afraid to tell her you want an open marriage on your end because she'll leave you, you're not high value. Don't use this "society" excuse.

Alcebiadeeze · 2016-10-14T12:03:47+00:00

I don't think monogamy is a red pill congruent concept. However most of us are already married so we are doing the best we can. You work within the reality of your situation.

Willow-girl · 2016-10-19T15:01:16+00:00

Why is it wrong? Because you're cheating your wife (and kids, if you have them) out of the time, energy and resources that you put into chasing strange. That's why it's called "cheating."

JuniperSunshine · 2016-10-14T16:48:20+00:00

So why not have an open marriage and be honest about what you want?

Outrageous-Wafer9762 · 2023-07-11T06:34:14+00:00

unless you re fulfilling your role 100% your wife will not stay with you , and if she does be ready to find her with multiple men She doesnt have to lower her standards or shut down her needs or be submissive to a cheating degenerate who cant fulfill his vows

Title	Explain why monogamy is red pill?
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Date	October 14, 2016 9:23 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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