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Will give it a watch, thanks man.
/r/askTRP23/05/17 05:34 PM
0

I don't live in the states, but I didn't want to feel left out.
/r/askTRP20/05/17 08:34 PM
2

I second this. You're still in high school broski. Focus on you.
/r/askTRP20/05/17 06:09 AM
0

If I were to move to a different country it'd be France.
/r/askTRP20/05/17 06:05 AM
2

To be unofficially married to a harem of 8 women. Where the only assets we share are my peen.
/r/askTRP20/05/17 06:04 AM
1

It's always about making connections. The goal should be to have a circle of co-workers that you can rely on and trust.
/r/askTRP18/05/17 05:50 PM
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Dude, just don't fuck your co-workers. I flirt with my female co-workers all the time. It makes work more enjoyable. I also joke around with my male co-workers. It makes work more enjoyable. Nobody likes working with the uber professional. I can garuntee you the more connections you make, men and women included. The more opportunities will come up. Edit: work related opportunities, not sex opportunities
/r/askTRP18/05/17 05:11 PM
1

Set your FwB in line. At this point it's you confront and tell her that shit is not cool and out of line, or you promote her, or you hard next. She needs to know that behavior is not cool if she is still wanting to sleep with you. As far as her coworker that shit is already fucked. No use trying, see if she'll reach out to you.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 05:01 PM
2

Refer to Barney's crazy hot scale
/r/askTRP17/05/17 04:57 PM
3

Do what ever you want to do man it's pretty simple. If you don't want anything more than FwB then I'd soft next. If you want to promote her from FwB then well do that. Just don't do anything because your afraid of losing 80% of your poon time.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 04:55 PM
1

You can get a genetic test done that tells you exactly what your optimal macro intake is. Though, keep it simple. Count calories, adjust accordingly. Weight gain is calories in vs. calories out. A daily surplus of 500cal = roughly 1lb of weight gain a week. Don't worry about Macros until you get the calorie part down.
/r/askTRP10/05/17 04:06 AM
1

This has to be a joke.
/r/askTRP10/05/17 04:02 AM
1

Dude it's hard to say. Like I said, she is venting her shit into a diary. You only see the negative. Implement dread game, then break up with her, or shell be put in her place. Trying to break up with her now would just be be a little kid saying "well actually I broke up with you first" just trying to get the last laugh. Dread game man. All you need to do.
/r/askTRP09/05/17 07:49 PM
1

Implement dread game. In the sidebar.
/r/askTRP09/05/17 07:47 PM
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Man don't just pack up and leave. Everyone is so quick to just next. God damn. Don't snoop in other people's personal stuff. It's not for your eyes. She is venting her thoughts. Alot of that shit you read is the negative of it. A simple diary entry does not define how she feels about you. Implement dread game, don't just pack up. If she fails then you leave. You need to have safety nets in place man, you just dealt with a very depressing situation with your father, my condolences btw, don't go o…
/r/askTRP09/05/17 07:33 AM
1

Can you give some examples? It just sounds like you play pranks on people
/r/askTRP09/05/17 07:24 AM
3

I think the reason men chase the disneyesque ideal love is because it's the most perfect scenario. Mixed in with some hollywood societal conditioning it seems like an escape from the pressures from being a man. Women just don't have the same pressure and don't have a strong enough need for that Disney romance.
/r/askTRP08/05/17 07:21 AM
3

Do the things that interest you; you'll find like minded people. I will say though, give church a shot. I'm an atheist, though, I still go to church by myself from time to time.
/r/askTRP07/05/17 08:26 AM
1

Don't fuck women you aren't connected with? Why would you waste time trying to fuck someone if you aren't going to enjoy it.
/r/askTRP07/05/17 08:18 AM
1

Don't eat. This is the quickest possible way. Great things take time. Put in the work, the results will come. Don't be a pussy and take shortcuts.
/r/askTRP07/05/17 08:16 AM
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Calories in vs. calories out. Why would you recommend some shitty pseudo diet? Do you even lift?
/r/askTRP07/05/17 08:15 AM
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It's pretty simple man. Either you get the concept and accept it and make changes that cater to it. Or you reject it and keep doing what you are doing. This is for you to decide. Though I will say this. Forget the political side. Shits full of angry cucks who hate women. Redpill is about finding yourself and realizing you don't owe anyone shit, and women don't deserve respect simply for having a pussy. True happiness comes from within, not from getting married. I promise you nothing is more sati…
/r/askTRP07/05/17 08:14 AM
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There are usually youth groups. That being said, you shouldn't be going to church to pick up girls. Go to church if you find it interests you. You shouldn't be wasting your time doing anything if the only reason is to pick up chicks. Especially if you don't enjoy it.
/r/askTRP07/05/17 08:03 AM
1

Blowjobs, I'm the same way, i can go to pound town for an hour but as soon as she starts sucking I'm done in 30 secs
/r/askTRP07/05/17 12:57 AM
2

Get them to suck u off
/r/askTRP07/05/17 12:57 AM
1

Try and be a little more empathetic to her situation that she was put it in. When she asked you for help on the assignment, and if you knew the answers, why even hold that back? She already got your attention, you withheld the answers out of spite, people see that shit. Believe it or not, you started this whole thing. You assumed she was just trying to annoy you. Before anything I would have just told her " Hey, Sheila thanks for picking up my slack while I'm on holidays, it's much appreciated."…
/r/askTRP27/04/17 02:05 AM
1

Lol don't talk to your boss about it.
/r/askTRP27/04/17 01:12 AM
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Nothing, just going off of my experience here.
/r/askTRP26/04/17 04:29 PM
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I think the reason TRP moves against being emotional or to embrace your emotions and let them flow through you is because it makes you vulnerable. It becomes much harder to be a stable person when you let your guard down. That being said, you should reserve those moments with people you trust, or with yourself. Not some random sloot u bagged. Alot of guys on RP have had this trust broken, by most likely giving away that trust to easily, and that points to not being in control of your emotions.
/r/askTRP26/04/17 04:38 AM
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I like the show not because of the story, but because of the characters. They are so interesting.
/r/askTRP25/04/17 09:08 PM
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You can learn plenty from fiction.
/r/askTRP25/04/17 09:04 PM
1

Sheesh, who pissed in your cornflakes?
/r/askTRP25/04/17 05:39 PM
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I thought that too, have you tried rewatching the show? Don got a whole lot more interesting the second viewing. I never finished the second run through, though, Don makes a whole lot more sense. I just think in general the show is really real in terms of sexual strategy that RP preaches. Ie. Abundance, hypergamy, alpha fucks/ beta bucks etc.
/r/askTRP25/04/17 08:02 AM
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It sounds like you are insecure. What do they have to gain from playing you like that? Nothing. Relax man, people aren't out to get you. Have fun, and enjoy life.
/r/seduction25/04/17 07:43 AM
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You shouldn't be working so hard on this girl, for any girl in that matter. Like you said, she is difficult. Not worth your trouble or your time.
/r/seduction25/04/17 07:39 AM
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LTR should be monogamous. Difference between an LTR and a plate is your commitment. If you keep it open the only thing that changes is the label.
/r/askTRP25/04/17 07:24 AM
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Check the sidebar, there is a guide for this sort of thing.
/r/askTRP25/04/17 07:15 AM
3

You are 6 foot 9 and she is an inch taller than you? Where do you live, giant country?
/r/askTRP25/04/17 12:33 AM
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Would you have preferred if she called you in a lion outfit? She would have went through the whole wardrobe if you didn't pick up. That's where you fucked up man. How much better would have been if she was dressed like a lion meowing at you?
/r/askTRP24/04/17 11:00 AM
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If she has was into you should would make it easy to hangout. She just likes the attention. Don't give it her, have some dignity.
/r/seduction24/04/17 10:30 AM
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Do you want me to tell you, you're pretty?
/r/seduction24/04/17 10:24 AM
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Either she is: A. Playing games Or way more likely B. She's just not that into you bro. Either way, not worth the trouble. Next!
/r/seduction24/04/17 10:24 AM
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What did you do wrong? She called you in a school girl outfit begging for forgiveness. Either you're trying really hard for validation, which probably means this didn't happen, or you're just plain naive, which probably means this didn't happen. Fake and gay.
/r/askTRP24/04/17 10:18 AM
1

I don't even see at as a shit test lol. Its just a conversation piece. Though I see what you are getting at.
/r/seduction22/04/17 05:53 AM
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Well no point trying past then man. Not worth the trouble.
/r/seduction21/04/17 08:01 PM
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Having goals isn't about telling society. It's about you. Have shorter term goals. Like what you would accomplish this week, month,. Etc.
/r/seduction21/04/17 07:30 PM
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Have goals, and accomplish those goals. The more you succeed, the more confident you will be. It's a simply recipe. Volunteer part-time? Work part-time? If there is a will there is a way. Join a club that you have an interest in. Be social. It's amazing how much more productive you can be when you cut out netflix and videogames.
/r/seduction21/04/17 10:08 AM
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Marriedtrp might have some useful info for you man.
/r/askTRP21/04/17 10:01 AM
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Yes you are friendzoned. Didn't have to read the post, if you have to ask. You are friend zoned. Either make a move and have some god damn dignity boy, or accept her as a friend.
/r/seduction21/04/17 09:57 AM
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Just fucking make a move you fucking tit. Christ, next time you are watching a movie just look at her and kiss her.
/r/seduction21/04/17 09:55 AM
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The key with being confident with other people is being confident with yourself. Have goals. Also, if you really struggle with social anxiety, try to get a job in a field that forces you to interact with people. Sink or swim man, try not to worry about sinking. Focus on the swimming. "Just keep swimming"
/r/seduction21/04/17 09:52 AM
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I work sales by day, and bartender by night. Point of question?
/r/seduction21/04/17 09:48 AM
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Look man, it was probably a shit test. She wanted you to grab her and pull her in for a kiss and make a real splash in her panties. Though, you didn't so anything and left her drier than the Saharan desert in mid July. Couple things to learn A. Don't wait till the end of the date to make a move, halfway through at the latest. Escalate, escalate, escalate. B. She gave you a shit test. ON THE CHANCE IT WASNT A SHIT TEST, WHO GIVES A FUCK, ASSUME EVERYTHING IS A SHIT TEST. Agree and amplify is the …
/r/seduction21/04/17 09:47 AM
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Lol, come on man, have a little faith in people.
/r/seduction21/04/17 09:37 AM
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Probably becauze you are the ultimate alpha male and women break all their rules for you. Teach me your ways oh great pussy slayer.
/r/askTRP20/04/17 05:52 PM
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50% of my one night stands are cosmetology girls. I owe them so much. I'll make sure to give something back one day. Probably herpes.
/r/askTRP15/04/17 01:01 AM
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Yeah, success revealed over time. I used to think girls wanted a nice guy. After a one-night stand I went for a "good morning" text. I thought that maybe she felt like a slut and wanted her to feel better or something. Obviously, that didn't play out well. Didn't learn the first time. I realized it when I just stopped giving a fuck and I texted some girl I had banged, it was 3 weeks without saying a word to her. "Come over tonight". She came over, I tried with other girls, same shit. All these g…
/r/askTRP14/04/17 07:07 AM
2

Plate both. The ethics are your blue-pilled mind kicking in. It's a dog eat dog world.
/r/askTRP14/04/17 06:52 AM
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21, Same here man, wasn't angry. I was actually sucessful with women, until I caught oneitis and I turned into a trainwreck. I came on to redpill roughly 4 months ago. It confirmed by beliefs, and gives generally good guidance to game and personal development. Gotta be careful for the fake alpha fags on here. Alot of dudes on asktrp are still angry and vomit it out everywhere. Edit: Before I cought oneitis I had a decent understanding of women and their desire for sex. A little confidence and kn…
/r/askTRP14/04/17 06:46 AM
1

Alright, touché
/r/askTRP14/04/17 05:49 AM
1

You don't have a group chat to share stupid shit with you boys?
/r/askTRP14/04/17 04:42 AM
1

What you don't look at memes on occasion?
/r/askTRP14/04/17 04:31 AM
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https://youtu.be/mKygjUmjMw4 This is why I say it. A little shout out to my fave comedy.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 10:27 PM
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You should see mine from a year ago, haha. Yeah that's seems to be an accurate description of most of my endeavors. Though once I lack the need to be persistent I usually lose interest.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 10:24 PM
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To be perfectly honest I like the chase. I find when girls throw themselves to me, Im not attracted to them. I work sales as well, so persistence is practically natural to me. Any frustration built up from rejection with a girl will manifest itself in the bedroom, which makes for some wild sex.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 09:42 PM
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Yeah, I'm learning. The second interaction you can see I use none of that. Just 1 emoji (gasp).
/r/askTRP12/04/17 09:06 PM
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I guess persistence will work and not work. As many sexual strategies go. It's a numbers game lol. I just feel persistence is the other side of the aloof/stoic coin of male sexuality. Persistence being the high energy, and aloof/stoic being low energy.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 08:48 PM
1

I wouldn't even say my messages were that long man. Maybe a couple words longer on avg than example 1. How can you be persistent without giving a fuck? This seems the be the answer I'm looking for.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 11:41 AM
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Before you walk away land a three way with her and her lesbian friend. Pursue this it all costs, you can only lose her. Which by your post, she's not worth much.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 09:10 AM
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Don't do long distance. It'll most likely tear you apart even more than you are now. Keep her as a plate and find other girls where the logistics are better. If she moves closer then consider her as an LTR. Remember you are the gate to commitment. She has to earn it. She shouldnt be able to earn it when she is 3000 miles away. You'd be giving it up to easily. She has to pursue the level of commitment, you reciprocate. All you should be concerned about is the next time she comes to town and you g…
/r/askTRP12/04/17 09:08 AM
1

Leave it be. It's you're coworker.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 04:52 PM
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Most women reciprocate their interest. You have to bleed it out of them, cut by cut. In other words, you have to put pressure on them by escalating. Her reaction will be quite obvious to what she wants. That being said, just in case you're getting ideas, don't shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 08:01 AM
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Simply put, friendships are built out of a mutual appreciation of that relationships value. Ex. You look up to someone, you'll try and be their friend. However I find it hard to look up to women, unless they are on top of me.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 07:58 AM
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Apply dread game
/r/askTRP11/04/17 02:54 AM
1

I went with "that's a shame, because I think crabs are sexy"
/r/askTRP09/04/17 09:44 PM
2

Probably the creatine. Whey is simply protein.
/r/askTRP08/04/17 06:01 AM
2

He's got you there you colon cancer carnivore.
/r/askTRP08/04/17 05:54 AM
-2

They definitely want you. Message her back saying "come fuck me now".
/r/seduction08/04/17 05:44 AM
1

Relax man. Do you get this stressed out watching porn?
/r/askTRP06/04/17 09:09 AM
1

If they don't mention their boyfriend they either like the attention or you.
/r/seduction05/04/17 03:07 AM
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If she feels like you need that information she will tell you. No need to ask. If she does happen to have a boyfriend. I'd still fuck her anyways, it's only a matter of time before she branch swings. I
/r/seduction05/04/17 12:44 AM
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Join a club of somesort. Something you find interesting.
/r/seduction05/04/17 12:42 AM
1

Only text for logistics. If you aren't trying to make plans, don't text her. Be clear and concise. Do the seducing in person. If she says "maybe" or "I don't know". It's woman for "I'm exploring other options, if nothing is happening I'll go out with you". What I do in this scenario is make plans for the day she said maybe too. If she all the sudden decides she can make it. I just tell her I made other plans and try to reschedule. Don't tell her that you like her or anything like that, you are e…
/r/seduction05/04/17 12:42 AM
0

I'd go straight nuclear on her. Who the fuck says that to someone they just meet? What a stupid little girl.
/r/askTRP04/04/17 09:19 AM
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I don't think honesty is trait of being beta or alpha. It's a thing on it's own. Though I think lying is a sign of weakness in most scenarios. "I'm going to lie to this girl because I'm afraid of losing her." Though ambiguity is a different story. Somethings aren't other people's business and should be kept that way.
/r/askTRP04/04/17 09:07 AM
1

No problem man. Happy to help.
/r/seduction03/04/17 08:58 PM
1

I had a oneitis that really liked elephants. When things didn't pan out, I hit rock bottom. I found TRP, and all the sudden I had goals and I was moving forward. I set the background of my phone to an elephant. To remind me of what I was, and what I need to do. I see it all the time and it has never failed to help me get my ass in gear when I feel like laying on the couch and procrastinating. I also have a Fitbit, which really helps you guilt trip yourself to go to the gym when motivation fails.…
/r/askTRP03/04/17 09:28 AM
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/r/seduction03/04/17 09:06 AM
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This is a classic drive for the narcissistic man. Who's narcissism stems from his insecurities. Who seeks the superficial indicators of status. Ie. Having a hot girlfriend. This is not a healthy perspective in life. To answer your question: No, as you get older the societal ego boost depreciates, because older people can see fake. It's all surface level. When a guy feels validated, or expects validation because he "got a hot girl" it's obvious. Your confidence should not depend on the size of yo…
/r/seduction03/04/17 09:03 AM
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You will never know if you don't try man. She has given you her number, you have a foot in the door. Something as simple as: Hey, we should catch up, how about coffee day of the week ? The more you think about it the more you'll come off as desperate. Don't think just do. If she says no, whatever, atleast you tried.
/r/seduction03/04/17 08:21 AM
1

Well snap chat is different. Though, number is always better. I thought you were talking about a girl being like " add me on Facebook, or insta" She could have a boyfriend. Snap chat is more discreet. Dude can't read her Snapchats, but can read her texts. Ive had a girl who have me her snapchat because she had a boyfriend.
/r/seduction01/04/17 06:59 AM
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I just wouldn't have said "hook up?". I would have gone with. "Let's hangout"
/r/seduction01/04/17 06:54 AM
1

To add on, I mean, it's hard to tell if she would appreciate it or not. Just don't turn it into a big deal. "What's your number, let's do something this weekend"
/r/seduction01/04/17 06:51 AM
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If she insists on social media, fuck that noise. Get the number. She just wants more likes on her Instagram posts. "I don't give my number out to be people I just met, but add me on social media" "I don't add be on social media that I haven't had a coffee with yet. Let me get your number and well work out an arrangement" (Corny af I know but you get the point) She says yes, then, probably just to get you to fuck off, or maybe your persistence turned her on. Only one way to find out. All-in all, …
/r/seduction01/04/17 06:46 AM
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Stop using other people as your benchmark. Worry about your own successes and areas of improvement. You said you got shutdown. Instead of thinking the girl is a bitch, think about how you were holding yourself, or what you were saying. Did you escalate,? or did you wait and see if she would make a move? If you did escalate, and she shut you down, did you misread her attraction to you? or did you follow a script and dug in to early? You say you got shut down. What was the shutdown like? Was it a …
/r/seduction01/04/17 06:40 AM
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I understand monk mode. However, with everything you find in seduction or redpill(gasp) you take it with a grain of salt. Everything in moderation, especially when people try to logic their way through life. The idea of monk mode is to get your foundation in order. You have a routine, that you aren't willing to sacrifice for anyone. It has a satisfaction to it because you are accomplishing something. My problem with monk mode is that you can use it as an excuse to not do something you want to do…
/r/seduction01/04/17 06:17 AM
1

I have read 2 books. One self help, other novel, and currently halfway through another novel, and 3 textbooks, all in the past 3 months. I have school 3 days a week, and work the other 4. I lift 4-5 days a week. Following a push/pull/legs routine. I've always been a frequent lifter though. With cardio 5 days in the morning. Consistent for about a month. With meal plan starting today. Like I said, I'm back on my feet. I'm in a good spot right now. It's exciting. I'm happy with what I've accomplis…
/r/askTRP30/03/17 07:33 AM
1

I realize that hitting on other women as an ulterior motive to make her jealous isn't a good idea. I mentioned I was good at lying to myself because I also realize I have a bias to the situation. Yes, I realize women are not a substitute for anything meaningful. You agree that you can have relationships with women that are meaningful and not meaningful correct? I understand that she is toxic for me. That pursuing her is a bad idea. Though, it's also tempting. Look, I get it, I've made surface le…
/r/askTRP30/03/17 06:41 AM
1

Have a bottle of wine on standby. Game over lol
/r/askTRP22/03/17 03:20 AM
1

Yeah fuck a study sesh lol.
/r/askTRP22/03/17 03:17 AM
2

I'm thinking of just sending " ya, study sesh at my place" I live alone so easy to escalate.
/r/askTRP22/03/17 03:16 AM
2

As far as being upfront with intentions. There is no need. You shouldn't be actively looking for a serious relationship. It should come naturally with someone you really click with. Although, this doesn't mean lie about your intentions. If you hook up with a girl and she gets pissed off because you decide she isn't worth you time anymore. You shouldn't feel guilty. You should only feel guilty if you led her on to believe you wanted something more from her. If a girl is like "What are your intent…
/r/seduction21/03/17 06:02 AM
1

I haven't talked to her in 3 months lol
/r/askTRP20/03/17 01:57 AM
1

I've fucked other women since her.
/r/askTRP19/03/17 06:41 PM
1

Lol quit that nonsense. Just because someone thinks you are wrong, or overstepping. Doesn't mean they are "blue-pilled" or "beta". I'll even give you the opportunity to prove me wrong. Show me a study where it was conclusive that the smartest woman, is dumber than the dumbest man. If you can't, don't bother with anything else.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/17 12:16 PM
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Well, that's just backwards thinking. You are so wrong in that statement, I feel bad for you man. I really do, you must have been seriously hurt by women if you honestly believe that.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/17 11:27 AM
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I get what your trying to say. To add, I think, the "IDGAF" mentality is to not add value to a woman's opinion, because she's a woman. To take it for face value. But, guys give fucks lol. Not giving a fuck about anything is depression.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/17 11:19 AM
3

By deciding to put your ass an gear and become the person you want to be.
/r/seduction07/03/17 01:10 AM
1

I'm the opposite man, I'm more suave the more I drink
/r/askTRP05/03/17 10:00 PM
2

You don't know her that well. Don't let your guard down so quick. Keep a level head and make sure your priorities are yourself: job, school, hobbies etc. Don't sacrifice any of those for a woman, or anyone. You are doing fine, don't think about it so much.
/r/seduction04/03/17 10:44 AM
1

Uh nothing
/r/seduction04/03/17 10:16 AM
2

Keep radio silence. Hit her up the day of, or the day before. Something like "hey, be ready for time tomorrow/today. I'll pick you up."
/r/seduction04/03/17 10:14 AM
2

Don't shit where you eat man. Don't do it.
/r/seduction04/03/17 10:10 AM
1

Nope. People believe in things because, subjectively, it explains their issue(s). Is it the right explanation? Maybe, maybe not.
/r/askTRP04/03/17 09:52 AM
3

For the goal in mind it works. Only texting for logistics is sensible for dating and plate management. If it's an LTR, then different story. Your question was about plates, so we are going to focus on that. You don't really care about her feelings or her comfort, then why give it? Any indication you give otherwise is breaking frame and is being dishonest and manipulative. (I'm not okay with being dishonest or manipulative, alot of other people here don't really care, but, to each their own.) If …
/r/askTRP04/03/17 07:34 AM
8

"what a world" he says. Ask for a raise? Shit like that happens all the time. If you are doing more work, it's reasonable to ask for a higher wage.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/17 10:08 PM
5

U didn't slap her hard enough
/r/askTRP03/03/17 08:40 AM
0

Okay, fair. I'll change it.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 08:42 PM
-1

That's subjective. Pre workout helps me go 100% at the gym. I've tried the just caffeine route, its not the same. Obviously, If preworkout does not help you pick up intensity at the gym, don't take it.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 08:35 PM
1

This is basic info. Sure, if you want to go for a minimum of .70g per lb of body weight go for it. But 1g per pound of lean body weight isn't too much.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 08:29 PM
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Preworkout is the best supplement. Lol, it has the biggest impact of lifting. It allows you to kill it during every workout. If you feel that there is a supplement that has a bigger impact, or you think I'm wrong with a certain area. Please specify. I'll gladly explain why I'm right.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 08:14 PM
1

Ew, CrossFit. Lol jk. In my exp, giving myself too much time in the morning just leads to sleeping in.
/r/askTRP02/03/17 06:25 PM
3

Time will heal friend. Just remember that you were happy before her, that usually helps me realize that the sadness I feel is hormonal. Learn from your mistakes and work on you. Pretty cliche advice, but it helps.
/r/seduction02/03/17 02:36 AM
3

Only one way to find out. If you're interested ask her out.
/r/seduction02/03/17 02:32 AM
1

Get hammed and go to the local dive bar/club. Works for me lol.
/r/seduction01/03/17 06:30 AM
6

You are a junior in highschool, you pull any pick up shit you're gonna get ostracized. Then you are gonna be more frustrated. Just try and talk to more girls, don't aim for anything. Just get familiar talking with people of the opposite sex. Don't matter if they fat or ugly. Most importantly work on you. Join a sports team, get a hobby, focus on your studies.
/r/seduction01/03/17 06:28 AM
1

What's your point? Interactions aren't working and online dating isn't working. You say your looks definitely aren't the problem. If it's not your looks, then what is it? Do the math. Do you just not run into high SMV women? In the past 10 years you haven't had an interaction with a single high SMV woman? I find that hard to believe. Tone down the narcissism and maybe you'll have more success.
/r/askTRP01/03/17 06:16 AM
3

Online dating is hard no from me. It sounds like you get enough interactions in the real world. Just capitalize on those. Online dating just comes off as desperate.
/r/askTRP01/03/17 01:22 AM
1

Paint, a intermediate paint set and tools will run you under 100$. I'd probably recommend acrylic. More forgiving on mistakes.
/r/askTRP01/03/17 12:46 AM
1

I wouldn't call them if they stop replying lol, that comes off as needy. Texting is for logistics. A date is easy to set if they are into it. You are never gonna close 100% of them. I usually just go with. "Hey, grab a coffee with me Sunday". Or whatever day works for me. It's garunteed a reply, and an answer. Sometimes u have to reschedule but whatever. Or set up a date during the interaction. And follow up text. The sooner the better.
/r/seduction27/02/17 05:39 AM
2

Smoke pit is the place to be for chit chatting and picking up chicks. If you can get passed the smoking lmao. Talk make friends, get numbers and go from there. 2nights in a row is a tough go man, but don't let it get your head.
/r/seduction27/02/17 03:29 AM
6

Save the texting for logistics, but don't get caught in those big text convos. I've always stood by the rule, always text with a purpose. If she texts you, ask her to meet up, and vice versa. You could totally reply to that, "let's check it out this weekend." If she says no, then move on.
/r/seduction27/02/17 03:18 AM
1

You are a sociopath? Is that a self diagnosis?
/r/seduction24/02/17 08:31 AM
1

No, social intelligence is the ability to judge social situations. Confidence is about ones accurate judgement of themselves, their actions, and accepting their strengths and weaknesses. Social intelligence is an indicator of confidence. Someone who is not confident will not judge social situations accurately because their perception of social situations is influenced by their insecurities. Was Jimi Hendrix insecure? Does it matter? How does someone relate to a legend like Jimi Hendrix. Of cours…
/r/seduction24/02/17 08:28 AM
1

Awesome thanks man
/r/askTRP21/02/17 11:00 PM
7

Cook her dinner bro, when she comes over, get her to help out, and feed her wine.
/r/seduction21/02/17 09:31 AM
4

Models - Mark Manson. If you have no game this would be a good book to start at. The book is about building your self worth so you can attract people naturally. Not through a set guide of scripts.
/r/seduction21/02/17 09:30 AM
1

I'm gonna start off by saying. Good for you man, seeing a psychologist and applying yourself to be better. It seems like you really want to get over this, and be a better version of you, and you aren't afraid to make those initial steps. Understand, I'm not a PHD, I'm a random guy on the internet, and I'm only commenting from MY experiences. A few months back, I met a girl much like you describe. Someone id call the one. Ive met alot of girls, and she was different. She challenged me, and I real…
/r/seduction21/02/17 09:21 AM
1

I usually just go for coffee, or study date. I take a more casual approach to classmates. With girl alone for lunch. "You look like you need company." Seems like a good enough opener.
/r/seduction21/02/17 09:07 AM
2

With anything it's a learning process. You are going to make mistakes, it's going to be awkward, you may look like an idiot. That being said, it's worth it, because it betters yourself. It's like building muscle. The muscle must tear before it can regrow stronger an better than before. Everyone gets anxious about making a move. The difference between someone who makes the move and doesn't make the move. Is the lack of caring about what happens after. Whether positive or negative. Next time you m…
/r/seduction21/02/17 09:01 AM
2

Haha agreed.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 06:50 AM
2

Done, and done, but, the texting her every few days contradicts what other people are saying. Care to elaborate?
/r/askTRP21/02/17 06:11 AM
2

Yeah, that makes sense. Haha, im too busy to be gaming multiple women. I'm either at school or work 7 days a week.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 05:54 AM
1

Yeah, true that.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 05:37 AM
1

I'm not sure on the day she gets back. Should I find that out, Or not worry about it? Thanks for the advice
/r/askTRP21/02/17 05:35 AM
1

Oh, okay, I get it. Honestly, pretty new to dating. I've just been playing one night stands.
/r/askTRP19/02/17 09:30 PM
1

I did try to go for the kiss earlier. I usually do. I get increasing kino, I think I played that well. I guess maybe could have better. As far as brining me back to her place. I was her ride, she lives with her mom, I doubt she wanted me to come upstairs and fuck her with her mom there. I should note, She is Muslim haha.
/r/askTRP19/02/17 09:08 PM
1

Yeah, I get what you are saying, but both times I went for a kiss she turned away. I honestly think she said it out of context. English isn't her first language.
/r/askTRP19/02/17 09:02 PM
1

I wanted to go to the improv show haha. It's pretty cheap to get in. 16$ with a drink included. Dinner was more of a bite to eat. It honestly wasn't that extravagant haha. We did go for coffee first, a few days earlier.
/r/askTRP19/02/17 09:00 PM
1

Do you think calling her out on saying "platonically" was a good thing to do? Or was that being insecure?
/r/askTRP19/02/17 09:12 AM
1

But why, I'm curious to the implication of that?
/r/askTRP19/02/17 08:33 AM
2

I'd fuck u just for that comment
/r/seduction19/02/17 07:34 AM
2

I think you are just paranoid dude. People aren't that petty.
/r/seduction19/02/17 07:30 AM
4

Kino is great and all, but like she's an old friend man. I'd just confront her, tell her how you feel and ask her out. See how it goes. If she says no, or you guys go on a date an realize you guys are better as friends, then it's no big deal to revert to that.
/r/seduction19/02/17 07:29 AM
1

I haven't had that problem haha, always make the move. Sure, I've been rejected, but even getting rejected a kiss on the first date doesn't really mean much. Sure hit her up again, there really isn't anything to lose.
/r/seduction19/02/17 07:26 AM
3

"I'm not looking for a serious relationship" , doesnt mean you can't find one.
/r/seduction18/02/17 06:33 PM
1

Nothing wrong with being upfront man. "I'm not looking for a serious relationship" is a pretty standard line. Aslong as you are clear, you cant really go wrong .
/r/seduction18/02/17 11:00 AM
1

Go for it man. Why wait? Just understand you can't control how she feels.
/r/seduction18/02/17 10:58 AM
1

Keep it simple man. If you want to ask a girl on a date, then do it. If you FEEL that this is what you want, then do it.
/r/seduction18/02/17 10:55 AM
4

Great for when you just meet someone, but man, if you ask someone something you already asked them before. Gg no re
/r/TheRedPill18/02/17 10:40 AM
3

Honestly if your looking for a relationship, I'd hold off on the sex. People are gonna call me a cuck for saying that. Although, in my experience, i found that to be true. Edit: the part about holding off on sex, not about me being a cuck.
/r/seduction14/02/17 11:49 PM
1

It's honestly practice. I mean, you don't have to practice this with exclusively women. It's gonna be awkward at first but eventually it will flow smooth. Usually commenting on what someone is wearing, doing, etc. Is a good way to start a convo. You can build from there.
/r/seduction14/02/17 11:09 PM
1

If someone doesn't want to do something they find a way out man. You're fine don't stress.
/r/seduction14/02/17 11:07 PM
2

Was there any esports? Glad you had fun man
/r/seduction14/02/17 09:28 PM
2

I guess because in way seducing is sort of "selling" yourself.
/r/seduction14/02/17 02:55 PM
1

Move to the Midwest where asians are scarce, you'll be an exotic fruit.
/r/seduction14/02/17 01:43 PM
1

With different women*
/r/seduction14/02/17 01:25 PM
1

Seeing as it's already happened.. how'd it go champ?
/r/seduction14/02/17 01:24 PM
1

He's just trying to tell you to aspire confidence out of thin air. "Don't be down on your worth" You seem to have a pretty shitty attitude about your self with, "I'm short, not fun" etc.
/r/seduction14/02/17 01:21 PM
1

Here's what I think, take it as you will; I'm a random guy on the internet. Don't get stuck in a routine. If girls are a passion for you, don't force it, by all means. However don't lie to yourself either because it's an easy out. Self improvement is never easy, you have to be proactive about it. Self improvement involves meeting new people and allowing them to show you new things. I don't read and practice this stuff because I desperately need a girlfriend. I do it because when the time comes a…
/r/seduction14/02/17 01:09 PM
7

It's funny, I work sales, and I talked to my manager/coach about how I felt my problem was with closing. We decided that it was actually my connecting with the customer. That my issue was laying the foundation to be able to close. I think this largely translates to 'seduction' (I honestly hate that word) . Think about it like this. You can ask 100 girls out to coffee, and the only words you say is "coffee?" Maybe one says yes. Now add in a few "oh hi, I think your _____ looks great", a cheeky jo…
/r/seduction14/02/17 01:01 PM
6

The best way is through some sort of social hobby or through work. When I moved to a new city I joined a rugby team, I instantly had 20 new friends haha.
/r/seduction12/02/17 10:33 PM
1

It depends. Probably 20-30min sometimes sooner, sometimes later.
/r/seduction11/02/17 06:09 PM
3

https://youtu.be/A1-wUV0-_JY
/r/seduction11/02/17 11:45 AM
1

Haha your gonna get some pretty western answers.
/r/seduction11/02/17 11:43 AM
5

You do you man, whatever your most comfortable with.
/r/seduction11/02/17 11:30 AM
8

Not if your first approach is a cab driver
/r/seduction11/02/17 11:29 AM
2

Man one thing I learned about dating is that you are trying to find interesting people. There is nothing weird and our wrong to be like " hey you actually seem pretty cool, come do _____ with me this weekend, itll be fun."
/r/seduction11/02/17 11:28 AM
5

If you have trouble finding things useless, just go find your unopened box of condoms
/r/seduction11/02/17 11:26 AM
3

Hey, I was just playing with that comment. I honestly didn't mean to much by it.
/r/seduction11/02/17 11:25 AM
1

I feel like this is out of my cultural realm of understanding. I don't think I can give you good advice on this lol. Where you from? just curious
/r/seduction11/02/17 11:24 AM
9

I'm sorry, to answer your question. Ya but, words are so much easier. Throw a couple sexual innuendo's and if she gives you that grinning giggle you've got it in the bag.
/r/seduction11/02/17 11:23 AM
67

Ya, put ur finger up her cornhole, if she smiles you're in.
/r/seduction11/02/17 11:20 AM
19

Okay, so your frame is who you are, and what you are true too. Let's say you like David Bowie, If some girl says "fuck David Bowie" you'd be a fucking weiner if you agreed. Also, you'd be breaking your frame. Basically you maintain your frame by not being fucking spineless. Don't change your opinions and views to match someone elses just to maintain a level of social connection. Its pathetic and people smell it like shit on a finger. If you say "I like rock climbing" and Becky says "ew that's so…
/r/seduction11/02/17 11:18 AM
1

No disrespect my man. That hand touch thing sounds fucking weird. Did ya slip her the good ol' Steve buschemi smile while you did it too? All kidding aside. Just talk to her man. It doesn't always have to be a the perfect moment. Make that moment. Just run up and talk to her, stop by after work and see if shes working. If she says she busy, ask if she wants to grab a coffee after work. If she don't want to, and you still feel that she's just an awkward lady, then don't waste your time. Nobody wa…
/r/seduction11/02/17 10:44 AM
1

I want to help you, I have a few questions. A. You're Asian, ne hao ma, jk lol, are you asian-american or in a predominantly "white" country? B. What do you mean connections? Personal or cultural, etc (cultural could be like - nerdy kids vs jocks)
/r/seduction11/02/17 10:16 AM
1

The only advice I can give you here is to structure your post so it doesn't just look like a wall of text.
/r/seduction11/02/17 10:01 AM
1

Would you even push that to a casual thing like a coffee date?
/r/seduction11/02/17 09:45 AM
1

I heard about that too. My question was more on the lines of whether it's important to go for a kiss on something casual like a coffee date. Though, now that you laid it all out. I guess there isn't a set point to do anything. It's all about timing. The retrovision is killing me right now haha. (Had a coffee date today, all of those signs, didn't go for it). I guess I had this pre conceived notion that I shouldn't go for a kiss on a coffee date.
/r/seduction11/02/17 09:44 AM
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My text game sucks. I dont know what im doing wrong https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/5skf0w/my_text_game_sucks_i_dont_know_what_im_doing_wrong/
/r/seduction09/02/17 06:25 AM
1

Yeah so true, thats what sucks about texting is the lack of inflection
/r/seduction07/02/17 11:08 PM
1

I like it
/r/seduction07/02/17 10:38 PM
1

You don't feel that can come off as needy?
/r/seduction07/02/17 10:35 PM
1

And you too
/r/seduction07/02/17 10:35 PM
6

Seems like you are more upset then me. I'm not even upset, I'm helping him 'improve' his communication skills. I don't like being talked to that way. It's pretty simple.
/r/seduction07/02/17 10:16 PM
8

To each their own. There are plenty of ways to be blunt, direct, and correct without being a dick.
/r/seduction07/02/17 09:37 PM
3

Hahahaha
/r/seduction07/02/17 09:35 PM
1

Yeah I try to avoid texting when I can. She texted me first tho. I guess I figured I had room to fuck it up lmao.
/r/seduction07/02/17 08:14 PM
1

She texted me first. I usually take the calling route because i know I shit the bed texting. Calling can come off as creepy tho, especially if they were busy and don't pick up.
/r/seduction07/02/17 08:12 PM
1

Sounds like a good plan, I'll keep it in my back pocket when the semester is over lol.
/r/seduction07/02/17 08:06 PM
5

Never said he was wrong, just doesn't have to be an asshole lol
/r/seduction07/02/17 08:04 PM
1

Yeah, fair
/r/seduction07/02/17 08:03 PM
3

I dig it man hahahahaha
/r/seduction07/02/17 08:01 PM
1

Lol
/r/seduction07/02/17 07:53 PM
2

-.-
/r/seduction07/02/17 07:53 PM
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I'm just curious if you actually want me to listen to your advice, because if that was the intention, you need to work on the delivery. Why would I take advice from someone on communication, when they can't communicate themselves. "Let's call him a 'boring sack of shit' that will really get his attention, they call that negging right? Let me double check the good ol' Models book to make sure I'm using this technique right."
/r/seduction07/02/17 01:02 PM
9

Yeah, I'll do that. I think it comes from the transition of high-school texting to adult texting, I'm 21. It's less about convos more about making plans etc.
/r/seduction07/02/17 10:21 AM
3

Haha yeah I probably did fuck up big time. It's funny because I was pretty close to saying "let's hangout", but I figured no rush because she texted me first.
/r/seduction07/02/17 10:19 AM
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Okay, so if I hit her up in a couple days I should just open up with setting up plans? "Hey I found a great plot of pavement for us to go this weekend" Idk something dumb like that. I think I put to much thought into texting and that's why I shoot myself in the foot lol. Also thanks for the advice.
/r/seduction07/02/17 09:58 AM
2

You can't really control if someone is going to next you because you are 5'7". But you can control the extent to which it worries you. The more you worry about it, the more it will shoot you in the foot.
/r/seduction07/02/17 09:25 AM
1

Fuck I wonder if I made that post and deleted it lol. Your neediness stems from not having other fulfilling things in your life. Reevulate your goals, sit down with a pen and paper and write down what you want to accomplish in the next 3 months. Leave your relationship out of this. Make goals related to career, education, and recreation. Don't ignore your SO, just don't make them your number 1. The effort should be 50/50 split. Think about it like this, if you need to put a 100% into making the …
/r/seduction05/02/17 11:02 PM
1

Just go up to her and be like, " I don't recognize you, are you from here?" Go from there.
/r/seduction28/01/17 08:54 AM
1

Stop beating around the bush and go for it. It's the only way for you to know how she feels about you.
/r/seduction28/01/17 08:52 AM
1

Man, I wouldn't worry about it. The only way for you to know if you are friendzoned or not is to make a move. If she rejects you, there is your answer, no need to worry about it anymore.
/r/seduction27/01/17 11:42 AM
2

I feel like wearing shoe lifts would just amplify your insecurity. I really don't think height matters. Unless you are incredibly short. It's all about confidence. I know a guy who is 5'4" and kills it, because he is so confident.
/r/seduction26/01/17 10:54 AM
2

I wouldn't say that man. Seduction is for anyone. It's like learning not to curse Infront of your parents.
/r/seduction20/01/17 05:54 AM
1

"crack the code" that slayed my pussy lmao
/r/seduction19/01/17 08:36 AM
3

I'm not gonna use her feelings towards me as a way to fuck her. That's fucked up.
/r/seduction19/01/17 08:33 AM
1

Thank you, good luck my man.
/r/seduction19/01/17 08:30 AM
2

I was gonna write a whole winded response, and when it boils down. I posted this story because I found it ironic. Sure, I wrote it in a voice of a more cocky version of myself, it just makes for a more interesting read, please don't take everything so literal! If I have to be clear, I have no intention of leading anyone on. I would hate myself if I did. If I happen to lead her on, and realize that there is no chance, then shit, that's life, ill apologize and she'll get over it.
/r/seduction19/01/17 08:29 AM
3

The only reason I didn't ask her to hangout is because I'm just not sure if I want to hang out with her. She's in my class, I can get to know her through there. But, I appreciate your insight, thankyou.
/r/seduction18/01/17 07:59 PM
7

I wouldn't say I was hooked because she's hot. I found her hot, she sparked my interest, I decided to see what she was about. Seems she's about stuff that I don't find to be too attractive lol.
/r/seduction18/01/17 07:55 PM
3

I didn't say I'm not attracted to her. I just said after talking to her im not that attracted to her for me to really care.
/r/seduction18/01/17 07:52 PM
1

I know, I wouldn't. I'm just not sure yet.
/r/seduction18/01/17 07:38 PM
1

If it's getting in the way of other things in your life, then it's too much.
/r/seduction18/01/17 10:18 AM
2

That sounds like a solid idea man.
/r/seduction18/01/17 10:16 AM
1

It's not so much about disconnecting your emotions, it's about not letting your emotions control your actions. People think seducing a women is within their control, it's not. Never get upset with something that is out of your control. This is a learning experience, it's only defeat if you let it.
/r/seduction18/01/17 10:13 AM
3

Guys come to this community because they are, for lack of a better word, "beta". Pickup is a fake it till you make it approach to getting laid. Or you can talk about inner game, which is imo way more beneficial, which is about bring up your self confidence and ambition to a point where pickup becomes natural.
/r/seduction18/01/17 10:02 AM
1

Everybody keeps a body count, I don't care if you say you don't, you do.
/r/seduction17/01/17 07:47 AM
1

No no no, I've been rejected enough times to begin welcome it's cold embrace.
/r/seduction17/01/17 01:43 AM
2

Mmm fair. Thanks.
/r/seduction15/01/17 10:03 AM
2

Come on that one is easy.
/r/seduction15/01/17 07:52 AM
2

I guess your right, im just looking for reasons why I shouldn't wait.
/r/seduction15/01/17 07:40 AM
3

When I'm at work in a meeting I'd favour jerking off. But, Im not gonna pull down my pants and jerk off.
/r/seduction15/01/17 07:29 AM
1

Yes, but, I'm not sure what I want to do.
/r/seduction15/01/17 07:22 AM
2

Don't be concerned about what she wants. People have this crazy idea that pursuing a girl is some sort of different beast that needs to be attentively tamed and one wrong move will have it ruined. "I have to get her to like me". Don't get caught up in the notion that there is a perfect time to pursue someone. She is attractive to you, and youd like to spend time with her to get to know her better. That's it, there is no shaming in voicing this. If she rejects you in anyway, who cares, this does …
/r/seduction13/01/17 10:56 AM
1

You realize you are doing that exact thing right? No amount of your butthurt rant will change that.
/r/seduction13/01/17 08:20 AM
1

He's in a relationship and actively looking to cheat? You don't see the problem in that?
/r/seduction13/01/17 01:13 AM
1

Fair enough man. Where are you meeting girls currently?
/r/seduction12/01/17 09:30 AM
1

Just gotta push through it man. Sometimes I call myself a pussy and count down from 3. Does the trick.
/r/seduction12/01/17 08:19 AM
6

It sounds your looking for a person to make you happy, this is generally a sign your unsatisfied with your life currently. Don't look to a girlfriend to change this for you, you need find happiness in your life with out relying on another. If you want a girl who is 1 in a million, you have to go through a million girls. (Exaggeration) You are 23 man, have fun, travel, do shit you won't be able to do once you have a career going. You're still young man, don't tie yourself down.
/r/seduction12/01/17 08:17 AM
5

Ur a terrible human being You risk breaking up your relationship, because bitches be crazy, and if you try to hook up with this girl, word could travel around if it works out, or if it doesn't. All you gotta do is make a move, if she objects, which she probably will. Stand your ground. Ex. "You have a girlfriend" "But I want you" etc.
/r/seduction12/01/17 08:12 AM
1

Just sit down next to her and strike up conversation.
/r/seduction12/01/17 08:04 AM
1

Go out with her one time, or see where she goes. But man, I can't stress this enough, use protection. As people get older there is a higher chance for STDs. Especially ones that are just looking to fuck.
/r/seduction10/01/17 10:26 AM
3

First thing is first if you have anxiety with talking to people, it helps to start small. Atleast that is what I have found. What I usually do, before I sit down, I ask the person next to the empty seat, "hey is anyone sitting here?" They will probably say no. Then I sit and introduce myself and go from there. Ask about Major's etc.
/r/seduction10/01/17 10:01 AM
10

A cougar, a beast which lurks the forest of flashing lights and remixed pop music. She prowls, searching for prey to sink onto. You can smell a twinge of expensive perfume. Do not be alarmed, this is merely the smell of mid-life crisis. She'll lure you with self conscious comments about her vanity. Sort of like a Fisherman. When you feel you have caught the cougar, this is in fact the moment she has caught you. Be wary, some of these creatures are diseased, for if you manage to survive the encou…
/r/seduction10/01/17 09:52 AM
7

Have some god damn integrity man. She cleary has issues, don't use her for sex man, that will probably make things alot worse for her. Don't be so desperate. Simply explain to her that you feel she isn't ready for a relationship, and that it would be best to part ways.
/r/seduction09/01/17 10:04 AM
1

Tbh if you are concerned over cost of the date. Go somewhere cheap, or do something cheap like a hike.
/r/seduction09/01/17 09:59 AM
3

That's not true bro. I've had plenty of women pay their way and have second dates. Even hookup the same night. It's the 21st century man.
/r/seduction09/01/17 09:58 AM
4

I brought it up really casually. We were talking about her bringing me food somewhere. I suggested that I meet her halfway at a dimly lit restaurant. She said that seems like a date. I said nothing gets past you huh. Then she just flat out asked if I was asking her out to which I said yes. She said she was busy with school and work.
/r/seduction09/01/17 06:51 AM
1

I'm totally calm lol
/r/seduction09/01/17 06:48 AM
9

I'd say most companies do. Sexual harassment is a different thing than harmless flirting. It happens. Think of Jim and Pam on "The Office". I'm not saying use your workplace as a place to pick up women. I'm saying if there is someone who you have chemistry with, don't be afraid to act on it.
/r/seduction08/01/17 12:31 PM
1

You come from abundance because you have what you need, and you don't need more? You can still be social and flirty but don't go out your way to 'game' that's unfair and disrespectful.
/r/seduction08/01/17 12:04 PM
1

I understand where you are coming from, and I've been there. There isn't a problem with taking interest. You don't block out that out. You control it. You show it with your actions not your words. You take her on a date, kiss her, see her again etc.
/r/seduction08/01/17 05:49 AM
3

It's not about opening up emotionally as soon as you can. Think about if a dude came up to you, you guys chatted and he was all like "hey I think your a cool dude, we should be best friends". It would be strange, maybe if you are desperate enough, you'd be receptive but desperate measures rarely turnout. When you are on a date or talking to a girl it's about deciding whether or not she is worth your time. Someone who is in control of their emotions doesn't make this decision on impulse. Generall…
/r/seduction08/01/17 05:09 AM
1

Doesnt matter which, shit testing is dumb I don't stand for it.
/r/seduction06/01/17 08:09 AM
3

She's probably testing you man
/r/seduction06/01/17 07:41 AM
1

Yeah, it sounds like your playing it off like you don't care. Which you wouldn't have asked her if you didn't care. Something like "that's a shame, I'm going to be there anyways, if you change your mind you know where to find me"
/r/seduction06/01/17 07:32 AM
14

Honestly, it comes down to self development. It's funny you get into seduction to get chicks, and you realize that women aren't everything.
/r/seduction06/01/17 07:26 AM
14

If I go to bar with friends I always end up rolling solo. Wingmen are overrated. The only thing that sucks about going full solo is you have to 'warm up' the social wheels and can make the first couple interactions kinda awkward and can mess with your mojo.
/r/seduction06/01/17 07:23 AM
1

The only real way to get over approach anxiety is to just go for it. If your having trouble approaching attractive women, start off by just striking up convos with random people. Doesnt matter who they are.
/r/seduction06/01/17 07:20 AM
1

There is nothing wrong with looking like you are coming on to them.
/r/seduction06/01/17 07:17 AM
2

Also, make sure you keep everything light and flirty. You don't want to come of as spiteful or angry.
/r/seduction06/01/17 07:16 AM
2

The ball is in her court. Move on. Make other plans. If she says "hey I can make it for the date". Reschedule. If she doesn't say anything she's not interested enough, or she just lacks basic skills of communication which is not an ideal person to spend your time with.
/r/seduction06/01/17 07:15 AM
3

Keep things simple man. If your honest you can't go wrong. On the other hand, new flings are always exciting, but remember you don't know her that well. Make that your motive. You find her interesting and you want to get to know her better. "Hey I thought you were cool, I'd like to get to know you better let's meet for _____" I can't stress it enough man, don't get to caught up over girls you just met. This is my advice, also, remember I'm a random dude on the internet.
/r/seduction06/01/17 07:08 AM
2

Thanks pal
/r/seduction30/12/16 01:28 AM
1

Oh lol she just replied. She said she's kinda seeing someone.
/r/seduction29/12/16 10:23 PM
1

Haha no kidding. She didn't even reply lmao
/r/seduction29/12/16 02:57 AM
1

Got a solid no reply haha
/r/seduction29/12/16 02:57 AM
1

Should I just jump into asking her out?
/r/seduction28/12/16 07:34 PM
2

That's what I figured haha. I'm trying to be more straightforward and honest with my intentions. I think the only shitty part is some girls see it as clingy.
/r/seduction28/12/16 11:22 AM
1

I think when you are traveling you are living in the present moment. Living day by day. When you moved back you got stuck in limbo because there isn't a need to do anything immediately. But you can, there isn't anything stopping you from getting a new/better job, moving somewhere else, meeting new people.
/r/seduction27/12/16 09:59 AM
2

Wrong sub bro
/r/seduction27/12/16 09:55 AM
1

Just ask if she wants to grab a drink after work sometime. "Hey me and a couple co-workers are heading here after work. It'd be great if you came by."
/r/seduction27/12/16 09:49 AM
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Haha I was trying to lose my virginity with a girl who was also a virgin that I had been dating for over a year. I was also being pretty dependent on her. I turned to game to try and manipulate her into sleeping with me/turn the tides by playing hard to get etc. Lol it worked.
/r/seduction27/12/16 09:37 AM
9

Oh fuck bro. This was me about a month ago. Then I met this girl who made me feel like a little boy again. Shit didn't work out and hit me like a ton of bricks. Mostly because I let my guard down way to goddamn early. Just beware man, when you meet a girl like this take it one step at a time.
/r/seduction24/12/16 10:04 AM
-1

Man I would have straight up clocked that fool
/r/seduction24/12/16 04:26 AM
1

Idk man. I'm in a similar situation right now, and I can really feel for you here. I'm sure you understand the more you dwell on this the more its going to seep in to the rest of your life like an infected limb. You need to amputate bro. It's not easy man. The hardest part about moving on is convincing yourself that there is nothing you can do. Trust that it will come with time. Keep yourself busy, be productive. Meet other women, help yourself realize that there are many other eligible girls ou…
/r/seduction21/12/16 11:12 AM
1

See that's what im looking for lol, thank you.
/r/seduction17/12/16 08:30 PM
1

No no no, you don't understand. 1 I said in dropping her. Why do I care if she thinks I'm a cuck. 2. I said in a way that doesn't like I'm being a dick/spiteful, your examples were just pure sass. Im not mad, I understand the game, im not putting up with it anymore. I'm moving on.
/r/seduction17/12/16 07:42 PM
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I know it was rude, she was rude to me. I understand this lol. There's no point getting pissed off over it.
/r/seduction17/12/16 07:40 PM
0

I was never being a whiny puppy hahaha. I was putting my foot down when I didn't like something. I'm probably just gonna avoid the text game and go to cold calls. This doesn't really help me out lol
/r/seduction17/12/16 07:38 PM
1

It's really not, the only reason I included that "proof" is because I knew that's what people would automatically jump to. Obviously they jumped there anyways. I honestly don't expect anyone to understand why I want to do this, I just want the how.
/r/seduction17/12/16 07:36 PM
1

I know it's not necessary haha. I explained this in the post. It honestly doesn't take alot of effort at all. I'm just looking for a way to explain this without being spiteful.
/r/seduction17/12/16 07:33 PM
-1

Yes lol she apologized perfusly.
/r/seduction17/12/16 06:51 PM
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No I really don't. I have moved on. I don't resent her for being flakey, I can understand it. I just don't believe in being fake, or grey about anything.
/r/seduction17/12/16 10:49 AM
0

I just believe in being sincere. That ghosting people is rude, and I lead by example.
/r/seduction17/12/16 10:47 AM
1

Just tell her you don't want to be friends. Maybe you are right, but don't go in thinking that it's going to turn out for you. Be friends but keep your goddamn distance. If you cant do that, cut her out man.
/r/seduction17/12/16 10:08 AM
3

Fuck what that other guy says, if a girl asks for ur number she will probably hit you up. Maybe she is busy. Don't message her on FB that looks desperate. The ball is in her court. Next time, get the girl's number.
/r/seduction17/12/16 10:00 AM
1

2 things: 1: don't limit yourself to this one chick, meet other women. Imagine women are apples, and there are 3.5 billion of them, and maybe a million of them taste really fucking good, you ain't gonna find those delicious apples without trying a fuck ton. 2: if you want to talk to her, than do it, but don't go out of your way to chat her up. Maybe your mowing ur lawn, and this chick walks by, say hi, mention how you recognize her form HS. But don't go barrelling out of ur home when you see her…
/r/seduction17/12/16 09:58 AM
1

Hahahaha u bastard
/r/seduction16/12/16 09:25 PM
1

I just can't tell bro. I just don't understand how I have such a connection with someone and get 50 cents on the dollar back
/r/seduction16/12/16 09:14 PM
1

I would never say that haha. But, you do good point, how do I learn to arouse through text?
/r/seduction16/12/16 09:13 PM
1

That is a conclusion that I can't sleep with. Mostly because that would damage my confidence beyond repair. So fuck you.
/r/seduction16/12/16 09:12 PM
1

Okay now for my defense. I did what I did because I didn't want to play games. Obviously i fucked up pretty bad. I met this chick the other night, and clearly my text game is seriously fucked. I can pull hot chicks no problem, but if it gets to texting it's gg. How do I work on my text game? What are some pointers.
/r/seduction16/12/16 09:10 PM
1

Yes, but not because of your body, it means taking interest in yourself and women like that.
/r/seduction16/12/16 11:09 AM
1

Haha god speed cegavas
/r/seduction13/12/16 11:18 AM
1

If she abandons ship then whatever. She'll probably call you again tho, she sounds manipulative.
/r/seduction13/12/16 10:40 AM
1

U like this girl, or just want to gorilla fuck her sometimes?
/r/seduction13/12/16 10:34 AM
2

If she's eating alone just roll up and be like "i don't like eating alone, can I join you" and just take it from there. The idea is you want to talk to her because you are curious. Fuck what she thinks. If she seems hostile, or not down with it, then you have sated your curiosity, and you realize you don't want someone like that in your life.
/r/seduction13/12/16 10:33 AM
2

One step at a time my man. Some girls like to hold back. Feel it out, don't worry to much about it.
/r/seduction13/12/16 10:29 AM
2

What I found from pick up is that you need to put yourself first, it was all about self development for me. Become someone I respect. Picking up women isn't about playing games it's about being genuine and meeting as many people as possible to find people with similar interests. Just improving quality of life from self development.
/r/seduction13/12/16 10:26 AM
1

How long have you been seeing her?
/r/seduction13/12/16 10:23 AM
1

If you are honest and open and get to the point, you won't waste your time, and you'll get clear answers, play games and she'll play games back. If she plays games when you are being honest and open shut that shit down in a non aggressive way, she does it again then move on.
/r/seduction13/12/16 09:04 AM
1

Set a time and a date a week in advance or so, a time that works for you. Be clear about your intentions. Something on the lines of "hey, name I find you interesting care to join me for date on when/where" She'll say no, she'll reschedule, say yes, say yes and flake, say yes and flake but reschedule. Regardless if she shows interest back, keep pursuing, but don't get too invested.
/r/seduction13/12/16 09:01 AM
1

"I'm not funny enough or exciting enough". Being funny, is being confident. Being exciting is about devoting your time into your interests not other people's. Invest yourself in you, the girls will come. You suck at talking with women, because frankly you aren't confident or exciting, and you worry to much about how other people think. Attract people because they find you interesting, because they want to be a part of your life. The only way to do this is to become interesting, it's not easy, bu…
/r/seduction13/12/16 05:30 AM
1

It's all about what you want. If you want to just have meaningless one night stands, then play games. You'll be able to brag to your friends about the girls you bang and maybe you'll feel good about how you can manipulate people. If you want to lead a sucessful and meaningful life, then take from the other camp. Be genuine. Become someone you respect. At that point you won't need women, you won't need anybody. You won't be bothered with games because frankly you have more important shit to worry…
/r/seduction13/12/16 05:17 AM
1

All you need to do is work on yourself. It sounds like a shit piece of advice, or vague so let me explain. People like people who are confident and interesting, this applies to attraction and seduction. You can fake it, or you can be it. How do you be it? Search for things that interest you, don't be afraid to try something new, do archery, who gives a shit. Do something that you find interesting. Work on your career, school, hobbies, fitness, make those your focus. Worry about girls after you h…
/r/seduction13/12/16 05:04 AM
1

The trick to appearing confident is being confident! How do you do this? It's very simple, pursue you interests and be proud of what interests you. Once you have invested enough time into yourself, you won't second guess yourself, you won't psych yourself out, you won't have time to do that. Also, never act, don't pretend to have a frame if you don't actually have one. Build that frame!
/r/seduction13/12/16 04:55 AM
1

Don't give up! You just have your goals set on the wrong target! You should be going out and doing things you enjoy doing! If you don't have hobbies find one, do something that interests you. Your priority should never be a girl/girls. It's ironic, but the more you don't focus on getting girls, and you focus on being a better you is when getting girls is easier.
/r/seduction13/12/16 04:48 AM
2

It's going to be weird at first, and will be forced. But it's something that will eventually come natural to you. When you touch her shoulder or hand etc. It should be because you want to not because the script said so.
/r/seduction13/12/16 04:43 AM
1

She's being honest with you. in my experience, this usually means "I need space" . Take a few steps back and see how it goes. You should be talking to other women. Have you slept with her?
/r/seduction13/12/16 04:41 AM
2

I find I have more successful interactions on my own. If I'm with people, I'll go stray, and if I find someone interesting who has friends I'll introduce to my friends.
/r/seduction13/12/16 04:37 AM
1

At this point I'd probably say you got the most out of pickup, u aren't afraid to approach people. I'd just try and be sincere about your intentions.
/r/seduction13/12/16 04:35 AM
1

It means you went in with no lube and dry dogged the shit out over hoping she'd get wet.
/r/seduction08/12/16 09:04 PM
1

Goals before holes ;)
/r/seduction08/12/16 06:58 AM
1

Haha this just happened to me too, don't waste too much time worrying about it, at the sign of disinterest move on. You don't have time to chase after a girl.
/r/seduction08/12/16 06:44 AM
2

Honestly, this is my opinion, and obviously I don't know the full picture. I'm just going off what happened to me, very recently. Things looked great, we fucked after a couple dates, we really connected. Maybe I seemed to pushy, maybe I showed my hand to early. It doesn't matter. Move on, she sees your texts, she knows she committed to a pizza date. You need to move on, because you have more important things in your life. If you don't have more important things, find them.
/r/seduction08/12/16 06:40 AM
1

I like the idea, and understand where you are coming from, but what exactly are the consequences you are afraid of?
/r/seduction08/12/16 06:34 AM
1

I'm going through this right now, this past few years have all been about how many girls can I fuck, having 'relationships' lasting at most maybe 2 months. There was no passion though, if it lasted 2 months she was a doormat. Just 'hey come over". Then I met a girl who turned me into some cheesy fuck. We talked and hungout for a couple weeks. I was so excited, but maybe I was being to pushy and I pushed her away. I honestly thought she was going to be the only girl I ever needed. Now that train …
/r/seduction08/12/16 12:12 AM
1

Yeah, I understand this. Thanks
/r/seduction07/12/16 07:46 PM
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