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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | How does one maintain rapport through text game in between dates?Can you post some examples or some transcripts? My issue is that I sometimes don't even text women in between dates(1-2weeks) and sometimes we slowly drift apart it's bad | /r/seduction | 19/05/13 10:20 PM |
| 6 | So lost my virginity todaylay the story out for us at least how did you meet her? did she know and did you tell her, what was her reaction? what did this happen, etc... | /r/seduction | 16/03/13 08:40 AM |
| 1 | What's the protocol on valentines day?f you take a girl out on valentines, you are sending a message that you are interested in her. As in more than just some chill thing? | /r/seduction | 11/02/13 11:02 PM |
| 15 | Girls change their mind or lose interest later onIt's not oneitis to have emotions, it's normal | /r/seduction | 08/11/12 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Girls change their mind or lose interest later onWhere is this dancin place? What sort of venue is it? What type for girls are these? Are they all from nighttime or daytime? And I've been having similar issues op, it hurts man. I chalk it up as the girl's are looking around and just found someone better Either that or maybe you're a bad lay? | /r/seduction | 08/11/12 05:40 PM |
| 1 | My first meetings with women go great, but it's all downhill from there because I'm too funny.Except I'm not that attractive, I think. it's mostly my personality that's pretty good. if I had that I'd be golden. also I have a bunch of other problems(mostly due to my upbringing) that I won't get into. | /r/seduction | 13/08/12 05:49 PM |
| 8 | My first meetings with women go great, but it's all downhill from there because I'm too funny.There's no "way you are" People aren't static. | /r/seduction | 10/08/12 01:00 PM |
| 1 | I never feel strongly about any girl I date and I want to. What am I doing wrong?. If you want to get laid, it should be as easy as playing the numbers game, making eye contact, assuming attraction, escalating all while mixing in a few drinks. Meaningful relationships, though, are a bit different. I don't think I'd have a problem getting laid, it seems fairly easy in college. I'm not looking for some monogamous super long LTR or some marriage thing. just a connection, nothing more or less. i guess i'm not feeling close or connected to the girls i go out with even when they a… | /r/seduction | 09/07/12 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Should I lie about being a virgin?Can you go a little more into how one would that? Like giving example statements. I'm guessing you say that you date but that you're really selective with the people around you, and that you want to connect with a women before sleeping with her. | /r/seduction | 09/07/12 08:34 PM |
| 0 | I never feel strongly about any girl I date and I want to. What am I doing wrong?She limited herself. She wasn't outcome independent. She was trying to force an intangible connection that must nearly always arise organically for it to work right. Should I spend more time with the girl, give the thing more time to arise organically. but the lesson here is that culture, your own personal culture, is your reality. In general, your relationships are going to click if you two both share a common personal culture. Obviously, there are exceptions, and open-minded people tend to be … | /r/seduction | 09/07/12 02:12 AM |
| 3 | I never feel strongly about any girl I date and I want to. What am I doing wrong?This is why going to bars is, pretty much, asinine. If you just want to get laid, ok, but the best sex and the best meaningful relationships are going to form between people with common interests and common relationship dynamics. all my pickup is through daygame. I'm a college student. I'm not looking for the one, nor do I believe in the concept. I'm not a hopeless romantic, I don't have any ideal picture of what a girl should be like. but I do want a connection...I do want something meaningful … | /r/seduction | 09/07/12 02:00 AM |
| 3 | I've never felt strongly about any girl and it feels bad. What do I do?you're completely and utterly wrong about everything Even my age, I'm 22. I do not prescribe to such beliefs. I don't know how you made so many assumptions from 3 paragraphs. | /r/seduction | 08/07/12 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Whenever a girl becomes interested, I begin becoming unattracted to her, what's wrong with me?I go crazy for a girl, work my ass off to try and get her, then when i find out i can have said girl, i no longer want them. doesn't it feel bad? sigh. Little things will turn me off about them. exact same thing. | /r/seduction | 21/06/12 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Whenever a girl becomes interested, I begin becoming unattracted to her, what's wrong with me?I always seem to get about 2 weeks....There's still that sort of macro desire to make things work, but I lose the attraction for that girl oh man you completely understand. it's really annoying because i just want to sleep with them but everything i felt just disappears. Could be a mix of the two, depending on the girl. Yeah you were spot on with those two. I don't want to overanalyze not feeling it for a girl, but at the same time, I don't want to let some kind of fear mess up good things becau… | /r/seduction | 21/06/12 11:43 PM |
| 1 | Whenever a girl becomes interested, I begin becoming unattracted to her, what's wrong with me?no, I ALSO find them attractive..but my attraction fades. i don't know. | /r/seduction | 21/06/12 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Whenever a girl becomes interested, I begin becoming unattracted to her, what's wrong with me?So if you've never had a serious relationship, then are you afraid of one? Not particularly. I'd be nice to find a girl who is gf material. You don't validate yourself based on dates, you validate based on success at the first step. I honestly have never had a bad date, ever..usually after the number close it goes very smoothly. I know it takes two dates to sleep with her. That's all in your head, brother. "We should have coffee at [coffee shop] on [date]. What do you say?" Either she does or sh… | /r/seduction | 21/06/12 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Whenever a girl becomes interested, I begin becoming unattracted to her, what's wrong with me?But the girls I hit on I do find attractive/cute..all of them are at least 8s. I don't know what's wrong with me. | /r/seduction | 21/06/12 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Whenever a girl becomes interested, I begin becoming unattracted to her, what's wrong with me?no...why do you ask. i don't see women as targets, i'm very empathetic about everything..i don't keep scores or numbers or anything like that....but sure..everyone feels better when they're successful. Possibly you see the women you're targeting as just that: targets. You like the challenge and the ego-boost when it all works out (#-close, etc), but you're not interested in the dating process. i like flirting and all that jazz but setting up dates can be a pain, takes a lot of preparation and lo… | /r/seduction | 21/06/12 07:08 AM |
| 1 | Whenever a girl becomes interested, I begin becoming unattracted to her, what's wrong with me?when I WANT to move forward I find I am no longer finding them physically attractive. I end up feeling bad too because suddenly the guy who she was clicking with just drops everything. | /r/seduction | 21/06/12 05:25 AM |
| 1 | Whenever a girl becomes interested, I begin becoming unattracted to her, what's wrong with me?man is never satisfied...:( it really bums me out man...i feel a bit lonely about it. | /r/seduction | 21/06/12 05:22 AM |
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