For example, I'll see a girl I find cute, I'll talk to her and our convo will be going really well. I'll get her number and set up a date. But before the date and possibly after the date I start becoming physically unattracted to the girl..not emotionally. I just don't feel that, "Omg I want to sleep with her"..not that I usually feel it before because it takes a connection for me to want a girl..that can't happen until i get to know her though.

I don't know what it is at all. I don't have an ego, and I certainly don't think I am better than them or above them...i'm not even amazing looking..totally average. And before any nofap people come in here, I don't fap that much...and my libido levels are normal...and don't like porn girls or huge boobs or w/e so I don't have some weird distorted image.

sometimes i go on two dates and i start becoming emotionally connected, but I'll still find them physically unattractive.

I think it's perhaps the fact that some of the girls I approach are very cute by other guy standards but I'm not super attracted to..I just do it for practice...not expecting any results. Every girl that I've been very attracted to has been very cute, maybe too cute(out of my league) and turned me down because they had a boyfriend...and I didn't get their number so I don't know if it's just that I'm not succeeding with girls I'm attracted to or there's something wrong with me?

I don't particularly feel very physically drawn to very many girls even if they really are objectively cute and I personally THINK they're cute...I don't know why.

it makes me a bit of a loner to be honest.