My emotions and mindset turn negative when I do badly with women, how do I fix this?

dafaqiswrong · 2012-08-05T09:48:03+00:00

Fuck this was hard to read.

2012-08-04T23:50:00+00:00

you really have to find a mindset and stick to it.. some may laugh, but something that just helped me long ago was this Pete Rose story... I just submitted the story...here's the link.. http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/xox2n/pete_rose_story_hope_it_helps_some/

MolsonIce · 2012-08-05T08:47:24+00:00

That never really goes away. If you have a good group of supportive people in your life, then you can use them as help to cheer yourself up when you feel down the morning after a shitty night.

Also, I like keeping 1-2 girls on the side to make it less nerve-wracking. If I fuck up 10 sets in a day, who cares. I still have 2 go-to ladies who I'm cool with.

2012-08-05T23:19:07+00:00

Think like this:

"It's not me. It's you."

Move on and try again.

tomacuni · 2012-08-06T00:44:52+00:00

You're putting all the blame on yourself. Don't worry about why she rejected you. It's probably a time in her life where she isn't ready for you to be in it.

There are millions and millions of women out there that you can be seducing, why worry about just this one? I'd gladly take 100 failures if it means I succeed in the end. It's all about the abundance mentality, the idea that you have plenty of women to be with and losing out on a single one of them is no big deal

smokemiser · 2012-08-05T04:32:53+00:00

understand that we've all felt this way before, everyone, even women. Yeah shit sucks, but there's only one way to live and that's to just to pick yourself up and keep going. Momentum nigga.

Title	My emotions and mindset turn negative when I do badly with women, how do I fix this?
Author	Boooheo
Upvotes	5
Comments	6
Date	August 4, 2012 10:36 PM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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