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articleBootyBRGLR69/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/09/24 01:31 AM
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discussionBootyBRGLR69/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/07/24 07:24 PM
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social mediaBootyBRGLR69/r/EverydayMisandry08/10/24 03:51 AM
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discussionBootyBRGLR69/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/07/24 06:11 PM
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discussionBootyBRGLR69/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/11/24 08:45 PM
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discussionBootyBRGLR69/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/06/24 04:09 AM
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DebateBootyBRGLR69/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 11:28 PM
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discussionBootyBRGLR69/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/10/24 10:19 PM
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social mediaBootyBRGLR69/r/EverydayMisandry13/11/24 04:54 AM
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mediaBootyBRGLR69/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/24 06:51 PM
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discussionBootyBRGLR69/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/07/24 04:44 AM
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social mediaBootyBRGLR69/r/EverydayMisandry17/11/24 06:21 PM
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social mediaBootyBRGLR69/r/EverydayMisandry12/11/24 05:31 AM
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DebateBootyBRGLR69/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 04:18 PM
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Absolutely
/r/MensRights24/09/25 08:58 PM
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I had thought about a neo-slasher movie about a female killer on a college campus who targets men and cuts off their genitals At first, it seems that only bad men are the ones being attacked - a rapist would probably be the first kill, then an openly misogynist asshole, etc. - but as the movie goes on, the attacks start to feel more random and less morally grey (to mainstream audiences) The police aren’t ready to believe a college girl is a serial killer and is searching for “the man behind the …
/r/MensRights24/09/25 12:55 PM
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/r/EverydayMisandry18/09/25 02:11 PM
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Maybe she’s both…
/r/EverydayMisandry16/09/25 12:41 PM
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But also men should strive to connect with women and embrace femininity to deconstruct “toxic masculinity” or else you’re a misogynist
/r/EverydayMisandry30/08/25 06:24 PM
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Thetinmen on both instagram and reddit is good
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/08/25 06:19 PM
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Insane that “drug addicts and alcoholics are doing it to themselves and therefore deserve no sympathy or care, especially if they are part of this specific demographic” is now a take that exists in leftist spaces instead of just fox news or mein kampf like it used to
/r/MensRights30/08/25 06:02 PM
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“I’m reduced to my sexuality, whose maleness is only tolerated as long as they perceive me to be on their ideological side” As a cis bisexual man at a very queer/leftist college this hit so hard for me
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/07/25 06:00 PM
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The good old goomba fallacy <image>
/r/EverydayMisandry29/07/25 07:18 PM
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Two ideas that can coexist: 1: Sexual dimorphism in humans is a real thing that exists and leads to measurable differences in psychological and physiological tendencies between the sexes. (And that’s okay) 2: Gendered traits like these present themselves on a bell curve. There have always been and will always be an extraordinary amount of people who are exceptions to any gendered “rule”, and it is unfair to those people to pressure them into falling in line with those gendered traits. Ultimately…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/25 07:11 PM
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For someone who wants to decenter men, she sure does center them a lot in her thoughts As i’ve heard it put (referring to obsessing over one’s enemy), “throw as many darts at it as you want, you’ve still hung up a picture of him on the wall”
/r/EverydayMisandry16/07/25 03:50 PM
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For someone who wants to decenter men, she sure does center them a lot in her thoughts As i’ve heard it put (referring to obsessing over one’s enemy), “throw as many darts at it as you want, you’ve still hung up a picture of him on the wall”
/r/EverydayMisandry16/07/25 03:50 PM
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Nah richard reeves actually does look at men with some degree of empathy
/r/MensRights15/07/25 07:59 PM
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“I am styled a misogynist forsooth because I detest the sex-class ascendency, striven for by a considerable section at least of the bourgeois Women’s rights advocates and desire instead a true and human equality between the sexes” Seems like times don’t change much, huh
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/06/25 10:29 PM
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The funny thing is that in the era that photo was taken, the idea of a man needing emotional support at all, let alone the idea that he deserves it from his partner, was unthinkable
/r/EverydayMisandry26/06/25 03:55 PM
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“Women are strong and independent until it’s a survival situation in which case they are helpless victims and men should sacrifice their own lives to save them.”
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/06/25 01:09 PM
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“I have zero straight women in my life, unless they’re a romantic interest.” “Women are pleasure and fun, but not part of my core, the rest of my life is community with other men” Imagine a male actor said this
/r/EverydayMisandry21/06/25 10:19 AM
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It feels like i could’ve written this post - well said
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/06/25 06:12 PM
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Imagine someone said this about mother’s day
/r/EverydayMisandry16/06/25 03:03 PM
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Gotta be honest, it can and has. Prescriptive gender roles, whatever they may be, whenever enforced, absolutely limit emotional freedom and expression.
/r/MensRights23/05/25 01:43 AM
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We gotta make things better for the working class in general - more third spaces, less strenuous hours, more personal economic freedom etc.
/r/MensRights23/05/25 01:33 AM
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I’m just waiting for a draft letter in the mail /:
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/05/25 04:02 PM
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As a man i keep my house clean out of spite to prove people like this wrong Also it’s just nice to be in a clean house lol
/r/EverydayMisandry12/05/25 09:12 PM
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“The patriarchy” serves the same rhetorical function as “the judeo-bolshevik conspiracy”
/r/EverydayMisandry30/04/25 07:16 PM
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Good luck soldier
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/04/25 04:00 PM
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No i completely understand I’ve thought about anonymously writing essays that i post around campus I was one of those guys once - all i needed was to hear the male side of the story framed in a clear way before i went “wait a minute, I actually kind of agree with this”
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/04/25 03:54 PM
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Sometimes i wonder how many other guys on my campus are feeling the same way though Maybe the key is to talk to other guys about this
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/04/25 03:31 PM
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No i know Honestly the isolation i feel holding these opinions at my liberal arts college terrifies me I am terrified every day that I will express an opinion that will set someone off, and all of a sudden I’d be public enemy number one on campus It’s not something to be taken lightly, for sure
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/04/25 03:27 PM
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Honestly i feel like we need to bite the bullet and actually talk to our IRL leftist friends openly about this The best way to prove to someone in your life that there are male advocates who aren’t the MGTOW, RWMAs, etc., is to be one.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/04/25 03:13 PM
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“No, no, see it’s okay when i hate and make generalizations against THESE people based on immutable characteristics they can’t control”
/r/EverydayMisandry27/04/25 09:20 PM
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Maybe women are more likely to admit to having symptoms/seek treatment
/r/EverydayMisandry27/04/25 09:16 PM
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Damn powerful stuff if you read all the way through. That last paragraph cuts deep. I feel this is legitimately one of the best things you could show a hive-mind feminist/misandrist type that actually might get them to stop and think for a moment. Unfortunately it does still push patriarchy theory as being true a priori, but I’ll take what i can get from a 2016 medium article. I do think it’s also worth pointing out that this article would not have half the rhetorical punch it does if it weren’t…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/04/25 04:05 PM
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“By other men” “Black on black crime” Zero difference in terms of argument
/r/EverydayMisandry25/04/25 04:30 PM
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As a LOTR fan i am a proponent of “fellowship” lol
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/04/25 07:11 PM
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The funny thing is that this is legit bar for bar the same as the “nice guy” but since it’s a woman doing it to a man they can’t see it.
/r/EverydayMisandry07/04/25 05:03 PM
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Good post
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/04/25 04:56 PM
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Here’s the thing. Tate is a misogynist. He is a criminal, and a horrible horrible person, this is all true. I have never met anyone irl who expresses support for him, and have seen very few people do so online. These people have always been heavily downvoted (even on the scary boogeyman subreddits like r/mensrights that are supposedly hotbeds of misogyny). The reason why you know andrew tate’s name is because he’s been cast by feminists as the figurehead of “the toxic manosphere” - a term that b…
/r/EverydayMisandry07/04/25 03:18 PM
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The fact that a teacher wrote that makes me sad for all the boys she’s taught (and likely subtly shamed for being male constantly)
/r/EverydayMisandry01/04/25 02:46 PM
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This is good news but I gotta say it does really sting that they finally realized just how misandrist they were being AFTER the election. It makes it feel less like they actually care and more like they want our votes
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/04/25 01:58 PM
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Tate is an example of a legitimately hateful, bona fide misogynist that happened to be saying inflammatory things at the right time for feminists to point to him as the sole, defining figure of “the manosphere” (a term that’s honestly just as nebulous and malleable as “feminism” itself) They did this to discredit any dissent from the feminist narrative by grouping together any and all male advocacy into one convenient package, and branding that package with the mark of a figurehead who is legiti…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/03/25 07:13 PM
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As a former male feminist, it was entirely motivated by self-loathing and the low self-esteem that comes with clinical depression. Basically, everyone around me was saying that men were horrible in their nature, and since I was a man who hated myself, I believed them. It also didn’t hurt that to publicly disagree with them would mean social suicide
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/03/25 03:37 PM
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My response to “kill all men” is usually “so george floyd deserved to die?”
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/03/25 03:31 PM
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How much do you want to bet the second bullet point was a guy who argued that hating men based on a personal history of sexual assault still wasn’t okay
/r/EverydayMisandry20/03/25 11:32 PM
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I don’t think it’s intentionally about mens issues on the part of the artists as much as it is about labor issues, but I also love this song specifically for this reason. (And that’s not to say labor issues and mens issues aren’t extremely interrelated, because they are) To me, lines like “we’re the first ones to die” and that part about who gets sent to war are as much about how the rich exploit the workers as they are about male disposability and the objectification of male bodies as both tool…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/03/25 10:56 PM
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First slide is from a completely different universe what
/r/EverydayMisandry17/03/25 07:03 PM
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The only thing i can think of would be “not racially indian”
/r/EverydayMisandry15/03/25 02:13 AM
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Actually insane fantasy world these people are living in
/r/EverydayMisandry15/03/25 12:54 AM
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This is the correct answer
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 06:26 PM
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What the fuck is happening in this comic i’m too high for this shit
/r/EverydayMisandry10/03/25 07:19 PM
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If it was for the 99% it wouldn’t be called feminism.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/03/25 03:55 PM
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r/menkampf
/r/EverydayMisandry05/03/25 03:18 PM
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Man you are chugging that internalized misandry kool aid aren’t you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 09:14 PM
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The empathy gap
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 12:34 AM
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If this was posted by a girl all the comments would be telling her she’s being abused and to report her parents to the authorities
/r/EverydayMisandry26/02/25 09:41 PM
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Could be a lot worse tbh at least they’re self aware. They still had that thought and then posted it as a tongue-in-cheek joke instead of actually reflecting on their own hypocrisy
/r/EverydayMisandry26/02/25 08:58 PM
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The whole idea that testosterone is some kind of nazi super drug that makes you violent and aggressive is scientific misandry, pure and simple
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/02/25 04:00 PM
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/r/EverydayMisandry20/02/25 07:42 PM
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Yup - i’m an education student and i had to spend last semester student teaching under a mentor teacher who had a “white male tears” sticker on her water bottle
/r/EverydayMisandry20/02/25 04:51 AM
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I never said the enemy was women or trans people.
/r/EverydayMisandry18/02/25 02:53 PM
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Same psychology as the christian persecution complex
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/02/25 02:20 PM
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The idea that you can point to the fact that the majority of powerful individuals were white men and conclude that the average white man shares that power and subtly perpetuates it just by living their lives every day, is a bit like yelling at a minimum wage McDonalds employee about how horrible and unfair McDonalds’ business practices are/how unhealthy their food is, and how they’re perpetuating it by working there. Yeah, they are paid by McDonalds, which is based on an objectively exploitative…
/r/EverydayMisandry18/02/25 12:57 AM
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At this point i see this shit and I only have to read the first three or so words to know EXACTLY what the rest of it is gonna be. Absolutely no independent thought going on inside OOP’s head, full NPC
/r/EverydayMisandry18/02/25 12:37 AM
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Shit that’s almost a bingo
/r/EverydayMisandry18/02/25 12:20 AM
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My favorite piece of leftist theory is Capitalist Realism by mark fisher
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/02/25 03:35 PM
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People like you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 01:29 AM
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And those men are wrong, they don’t speak for all men. The question is, why are you so ready to believe their story, but not the story told by myself and the other men who agree with me? Could it be because it’s ideologically convenient for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 08:32 PM
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Yes, they are really platonically lonely, but I do think you are putting words in a lot of men’s mouths based on a few examples you’ve seen online, and smugly using those examples as “proof” of your ideological superiority. In other words, you’re not actually thinking about men as individuals who (gasp) might even disagree with each other. You’re a misandrist POS, basically
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 08:20 PM
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I’m a man, do you believe me? Or is what i’m saying contradictory to your shitty conclusion that you want to draw
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 08:06 PM
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You’re making a hasty generalization based on what SOME men are saying, and running with it so you never actually have to think about how fucking stupid your entire worldview is
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 07:18 PM
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Damn, completely destroyed my argument. I should’ve played the semantic hokey pokey with you, you’re right /s
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 07:16 PM
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As a man in a long-term relationship, there is a male loneliness epidemic, and it is about so much more than just romance/sex. People who say it’s just about sex are either misandrists/feminists or actual misogynists. The fact is we live in a very atomized world with basically no sense of community. People are more likely to look favorably upon women due to the women-are-wonderful effect, and so women are just generally more likely to be trusted and valued as good people, making it easier for th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 07:14 PM
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The idea of patriarchy is similar to a religious idea of satan/the devil -it is an invisible, all encompassing force that corrupts good and is the origin of all worldly evil -it can hide itself in your thoughts, and its agents of evil can make themselves appear righteous to others (see: secretly misogynistic male feminist trope) meaning we all must be constantly vigilant against both others and ourselves. No one is to be trusted. -since it is a constant source of danger, you must not question or…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/02/25 07:57 PM
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Tiktok and its consequences have been a disaster for the human race
/r/EverydayMisandry07/02/25 04:04 PM
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r/leftwingmaleadvocates
/r/EverydayMisandry03/02/25 01:40 PM
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The “i don’t want to give him a ‘feminism helps men too’ book” part of this just shows how far gone she is
/r/EverydayMisandry03/02/25 01:36 PM
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DEI was basically a way of making the system seem more fair while still remaining a capitalist hellhole where the rich get richer and the poor get poorer. It’s a way of pitting the working class against each other.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/01/25 02:28 PM
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The worst ones you know about tend to be male. Female abusers tend to get away with it, meaning you never hear about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 03:58 PM
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If that’s the case, marrying/sleeping with a man for his money should also be classified as fraud/theft
/r/EverydayMisandry27/01/25 04:55 PM
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Never said they did.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 07:06 PM
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<image> This pretty much sums it up
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 05:10 PM
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The answer to no. 18 is feminism lol
/r/EverydayMisandry23/01/25 03:52 PM
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LiVeD eXpErIeNcE (“whatever i say is right because i said so”)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 08:15 PM
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Yeah that’s pretty much the pledge we all took at the Evil Man Cult That Exists To Make Women Suffer, I guess it’s true, all of us do hate women and want to see them sad /s
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 02:14 AM
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i’d argue that being male makes you MUCH more likely to actually be killed in a violent way. So much so that we get numb to it and don’t end up caring about male death quite as much as a consequence. Between workplace deaths, random violent crime, and war, the disparities are just unreal. We are simply more OK as a society with a man dying violently than we would be with a woman. One could argue those men died due to their gender. But we don’t call those early deaths an androcide epidemic, do we…
/r/EverydayMisandry05/01/25 07:48 AM
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You choose to be a feminist, you do not choose to be white. I live by the rule that in order for me to judge a group of people, that group has to have control over whether they’re a member of it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 03:25 PM
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Feminists say “by other men” for the same reasons racist conservatives always bring up “black-on-black crime”
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/12/24 02:38 PM
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Beyond any conversation of *why men die alone, look at what’s happening here. They found a gendered issue that’s actually quite sad. Men are far more likely to spend their final days alone. Did they have an ounce of empathy for these men? Even a little bit, at the beginning? No they didn’t. Did they even consider that it might not be the fault of these men that no one cares about them? No they didn’t. They saw a tendency for men to end up lonely and isolated in their final years leading up to th…
/r/EverydayMisandry28/12/24 05:58 PM
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Same psychology as antisemitic conspiracy theories
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/12/24 05:45 PM
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I saw a post on threads (misandrist hellhole) that argued the male tendency to use firearms as a suicide method is actually a final act of patriarchal dominance, as “the women in his life are forced to clean it up”
/r/EverydayMisandry26/12/24 02:48 AM
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You are the best poster on this sub. Write a book, I’d buy it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/12/24 07:28 AM
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I feel like this is more to do with the fact that it’s a cop, i’d be on edge too tbh Probably not the best way of handling it tho
/r/EverydayMisandry19/12/24 04:35 AM
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But believe all women, right?
/r/EverydayMisandry18/12/24 10:33 PM
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How many opportunities to prevent a rape do they think the average man gets in a day?
/r/EverydayMisandry18/12/24 10:29 PM
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Ah, but you forget: Women good, whereas men bad Hope that clears things up
/r/EverydayMisandry17/12/24 02:35 PM
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Some of us are suffering and don’t say those things. You just choose not to see or acknowledge those people because it doesn’t fit into your narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 07:42 PM
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I honestly think (and hope) that the dam is starting to break. Men are struggling to a degree that is impossible for society to ignore. I absolutely do know what you’re talking about, though.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/12/24 07:39 PM
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Seriously. I wish everyone at my university could read this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 04:52 AM
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There was a time when patriarchy was a useful term when discussing gender dynamics. Now, it is a word that is only ever used to delegitimize men’s concerns and blame victims for their own oppression.
/r/EverydayMisandry14/12/24 07:56 PM
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I love this video so much
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/12/24 03:58 PM
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Same here
/r/EverydayMisandry14/12/24 03:56 PM
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The mask has come off
/r/EverydayMisandry08/12/24 04:40 PM
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Basically no one in my life except for my parents and my partner know about my views on gender issues. I never give a name to my political stance bc declaring yourself a male advocate at my university is pretty much guaranteed to get you pegged as a horrible misogynist incel.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/12/24 11:22 PM
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In general, people are quicker to assume that whatever problems a man has, he should be able to handle himself. This makes dealing with things like autism really fucking hard for men. I know many people unfortunately think of joker as an “incel movie” but the quote “the worst part about having a mental illness is that people expect you to act as if you don’t” comes to mind here. Yeah, it can apply to women too, but there tends to be more of a “oh, well she can’t help it” vibe to the discussion t…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/12/24 03:42 PM
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Op is right, y’all can’t read lmfao
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/11/24 02:11 PM
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Men are expected to take a much more active role in sex. We would never discuss female “sexual performance” in the same way we do for men. Everything is on us, and therefore everything is our fault. If she isn’t wet, it’s his fault for not knowing how to turn her on, but if he can’t get it up, it’s also his fault If he doesn’t communicate, it’s his fault, but if she doesn’t communicate, he sHoUlDv’E pAiD aTtEnTiOn To HeR bOdY lAnGuAgE because women can do no wrong and should never have to suck i…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 06:38 AM
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I got banned from there for suggesting misandry exists r/bropill is basically the new r/menslib
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/11/24 06:26 AM
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Was it right when the men did it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 03:31 AM
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I feel like the wage gap is one of those points that feminists have drilled so deeply into the collective psyche that literally any analysis of the topic beyond “yes, the wage gap is real! End of story” is treated as dangerous misogyny.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/11/24 09:17 PM
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Op is right, nothing else to say here
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 08:23 PM
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Feminists: “If men are lonely they should support each other, it’s not women’s job to coddle men” Men: makes an effort to start supporting each other Feminists: “what the fuck why are the men forming social groups among themselves this HAS to be a threat to me somehow”
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/11/24 05:05 PM
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…misandry, or other words that you make up… And he thinks we’ll take him seriously?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/11/24 05:09 PM
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Yeah, but at this point I think we’re still far enough outside of the overton window that it’s wise to pick our battles. Getting into an argument about statistics would mean the main point of the post (which is good) would be lost in the battle.
/r/EverydayMisandry21/11/24 08:27 PM
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Ok the mod won’t let me reply but honestly wtf did I do i’m confused
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 12:32 AM
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I think it might have been that you copy and pasted another post in order to prove a point. That in and of itself could seem trolly/low effort. I feel that flipping the script verbatim is a good rhetorical strategy that is probably best employed in the comments section of the original post.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 12:13 AM
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I recognize that there are real issues that feminism intends to fix, I also recognize that many people use feminism as a shield to be hateful towards men. I have seen way too many self-described feminists victim blame men for their struggles. To write these people off as “not real feminists” is to commit a no true scotsman fallacy and allow them to continue being counterproductive as shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 08:49 PM
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When we do have community with other men, many women see it as a misogynistic boys’ club. Realistically, the lack of third spaces in general is the biggest factor here. I think telling men to “just get out more” is victim blaming that ignores the societal factors as to why men don’t have community in the first place. So continues the long feminist tradition of blaming men for their own suffering.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 07:51 PM
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If they didn’t, how would you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 06:46 PM
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Like them, I have also “opened up” to my friends in the past. Let me tell you, you absolutely could just be hearing the very censored version of what’s going on in their heads. My friends would have responded to the same question exactly the exact same way you did just now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 06:45 PM
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Ok well as a man who has been in that situation you’re just wrong about that then? Like I don’t understand why you think you know more about men’s inner emotional experiences than actual men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 06:03 PM
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The fact that I’m telling you about it (they’re scared of being taken as misogynists)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 06:01 PM
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Do you think the liberal men would feel comfortable telling you if they did? Or would they be scared of being reassessed as a potential misogynist? Really think about this one for a second or two…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:48 PM
12

Hey, hi, I’m a guy like the one you described! I exist!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:45 PM
2

Lack of pleasure
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 12:32 AM
19

The phrase “happy wife happy life” has no genderbent counterpart. There’s your answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 12:31 AM
2

this is why universities switched from ‘women studies’ to ‘gender studies’ in the early to mid aughts Mine still calls it WGS (womens, gender, and sexuality studies)
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/11/24 06:45 PM
4

I’ve also had that thought. Honestly the tinfoil hat part of my brain wonders how much of the man vs. bear shit was also russia
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/11/24 04:51 PM
17

Right, but my point is it’s not just “men in general”
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/11/24 04:16 PM
6

That post was like reading a transcript of my own mind. I’m sorry dude. You are not alone in feeling this way.
/r/EverydayMisandry16/11/24 04:02 AM
36

I’m a guy who struggles with suicidal tendencies, largely due to and usually triggered by the misandry I see in my day-to-day life. Misandry has the power to kill. Don’t let anyone tell you it doesn’t.
/r/EverydayMisandry15/11/24 08:54 PM
2

Amazing analysis and refreshing proof that honest self-reflection is possible.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/11/24 05:46 PM
6

Ok, real talk, has anyone actually heard/seen anyone say “your body my choice” bc I have not personally. I have only seen people complaining about people saying “your body my choice”
/r/EverydayMisandry15/11/24 02:41 AM
3

I’m not sure what you’re arguing here, If you’re arguing that it’s considered OK by society to shame men (not males, btw) for being sexually inexperienced, and that it shouldn’t be, than I’d agree with you. If you’re arguing that it SHOULD be considered OK to do so, I think you’re a callous and mean-spirited misandrist who just wants to hurt men however you can. Personally, I think you meant it the second way, given your disdain for “abhorrent males”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 05:20 PM
10

Ok an unrelated note can we talk about the abysmal handwriting
/r/EverydayMisandry12/11/24 08:38 PM
8

Those men are doing that because they’re stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 03:41 AM
9

Im drunk as fuck rn - thats how im coping lmao
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/11/24 04:29 AM
4

I think if either candidate was more likely to start WWIII and then reinstate the draft, it’s trump. Our bodily autonomy is also at stake here.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/11/24 05:42 PM
3

Fif badaki is good
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/11/24 07:18 PM
10

a POS can’t comprehend people who are altruistic That’s certainly rich coming from u/LillthOfBabylon
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 04:31 PM
3

“Because he’s the man and that means he’s entitled” Is your current boyfriend also entitled? If not, you should have been more clear in your first comment
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 03:09 PM
4

So true, every single man is just like your ex. This is totally proof that men are all evil cheaters who hate women /s
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 01:40 PM
1

Source: trust me bro
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 01:39 PM
1

This post is rooted in the antiquated idea that women should be the caregivers of children by default and that men are less capable of parenting than women. Fathers are not second-class parents, and women are not always good parents either. I would MUCH rather a child live with a single father than have both the child and the father live with an abusive mother/wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 01:39 PM
30

why would i respect a male There you have it folks
/r/EverydayMisandry02/11/24 01:35 PM
-1

Source: trust me bro
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 04:10 PM
33

I don’t think this is redpill, I think this is an example of a really shitty husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 04:45 PM
3

Right
/r/EverydayMisandry30/10/24 04:42 PM
10

I feel like this is misandrist, but also that cake is awful
/r/EverydayMisandry30/10/24 04:40 PM
9

Imagine holding them to the same standard. “You’ve had experiences with bad men? Why are you talking about them without considering why they are that way” You’d be eviscerated
/r/EverydayMisandry30/10/24 04:34 PM
9

If you hear and repeat the same bullshit enough times it starts to become the truth. Same shit as scientology
/r/EverydayMisandry30/10/24 04:32 AM
23

Misandry
/r/EverydayMisandry29/10/24 02:53 PM
97

The parts where you can tell he’s trying so desperately hard not to be taken as a misogynist are honestly heartbreaking and deeply relatable
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/10/24 04:32 PM
6

This is definitively not it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 11:03 PM
10

The not decent ones are the ones who work at the CIA lmao
/r/EverydayMisandry23/10/24 08:20 PM
1

I spose. Sorry, defensive
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:01 PM
11

Or maybe he’s not primarily concerned with just sex all the time and does actually see women as people, contrary to the misandrist belief that all of us are psychopaths
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:39 PM
20

Schrödinger’s man: Simultaneously a dangerous, desperate animal who will fuck anything with a pulse and also a narcissist whose standards are just too high
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 12:17 PM
1

I think the “normal feminists” need to realize that they have a responsibility to answer for the “crazy people who want men to not exist” Because those people are more common than you’d care to admit, and men see that the “real feminists” do absolutely nothing about it, so it is ultimately understandable for men to see those people and begin to associate feminism with man-hating, and claims that the man-hating “isn’t real feminism” is a no true scotsman. As for achieving gender equality, I think…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 12:07 PM
13

Fair, but I’m saying that, now, the victimhood narrative is accepted by the mainstream, making the mean girls bullying/shaming style all the more powerful.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/10/24 04:55 AM
48

“Why do people compare us to nazis?”
/r/EverydayMisandry22/10/24 04:53 AM
40

Modern feminism is what happens when you take regina george from mean girls and give her the social power that comes with the perception of unquestionable victimhood.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/10/24 08:33 PM
4

I’m white and male and I’ve never had that experience Me when i lie holy shit Really? You’ve NEVER seen a tweet saying “kill all men”? You’ve NEVER heard of the man vs. bear trend? You’ve NEVER seen someone post about how they “hate to see beautiful women with ugly-ass men”? The lengths they will go to in order to deny the existence of misandry, or even that the left isn’t perfect is insane.
/r/EverydayMisandry21/10/24 08:12 PM
18

I think the people opposing women in the military due to actual bona fide misogyny are absolutely not the same people talking about male disposability. This is a case of failing to recognize that men are varied individuals.
/r/EverydayMisandry21/10/24 08:02 PM
5

I feel like these things do get said occasionally, but I have almost never seen misogyny go unchallenged. It is always either downvoted, removed, or just stays at the bottom with 0 upvotes. Open misandry, on the other hand, is often the top comment, it rarely ever gets challenged, and when it does, the response is often downvoted, met with accusations of misogyny (upvoted), and it kind of doesn’t matter what the responder was actually arguing.
/r/EverydayMisandry21/10/24 08:00 PM
42

Imagine being a boy, realizing you’ve had a piece of yourself removed against your will, and then going through your mom’s facebook and seeing this
/r/EverydayMisandry21/10/24 04:40 PM
4

a lot of men don’t seem to understand nuance That’s interesting, given that one of the main strategies of modern feminism is to discourage all nuance when discussing gender issues and push a black and white narrative of “man bad woman good”
/r/EverydayMisandry21/10/24 12:32 PM
17

the radfem tendency towards neofascism needs to be studied
/r/EverydayMisandry20/10/24 07:02 PM
46

Yeah, there is a ton of intersectionality between misandry and racism
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/10/24 10:27 PM
2

The commenter did not need to reply at all, and their assumption that OP wouldn’t acknowledge that is a veiled accusation that he isn’t arguing in good faith
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 10:15 PM
3

I cleaned my house!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/10/24 07:27 PM
3

You won’t either lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 04:59 PM
72

OK so beyond any discussion of whether or not being raped is worse than dying, Why is rape your first thought when considering the reasons people might want to get to your unconscious body following a car accident? How propagandized do you have to be to see a safety measure and think “this was designed by men so that other men can rape me”
/r/EverydayMisandry16/10/24 02:59 PM
36

It’s always funny to me that, according to feminism, it’s OK to demonize all men and pathologize maleness bc of the actions of a minority of men, but the moment a man draws any kind of connection between the label of feminism and the misandrists who hide behind it, suddenly we shouldn’t be putting people into boxes. And the most hypocritical part of this whole situation is that people choose to identify as feminists, men don’t choose to be men. They put themselves in the box, we didn’t.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/10/24 09:56 PM
4

I do care about the damage tate is doing to men and boys, I do care that radfems use him as a way to gain supporters, Your last paragraph is written so poorly that I’m honestly not sure what point you’re trying to make here. I never said any of those things. Are you sober right now? Honest question.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 08:43 PM
0

If you think andrew tate and his supporters are the mainstream you are actually just delusional. Also, andrew tate didn’t rise to power in a vacuum, a lot of young men who look up to him probably wouldn’t if it weren’t for all of the misandry that seems to pass for feminism these days. You make your own enemies
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 08:06 PM
-1

I see that said to them all the fucking time, you live in a delusional non-reality where misogynistic attitudes are still the norm in the mainstream
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 07:25 PM
-2

I do call those guys out, and honestly I haven’t seen any comments like the ones you’re saying are “so popular on this subreddit” that haven’t been (rightfully) downvoted Stop playing the victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 06:12 PM
8

I feel like “I’ve read articles that state X” is a pretty weak claim here. I’d wager many such relationships are more evenly divided when it comes to housework than many misandrists would have you believe
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/10/24 05:03 PM
4

You are treating all men as if they are a monolith. Yeah, some men do use the societal narrative around male sexuality to insist that they can/should be rapists/playboys, etc. But there is also a vast majority of men who don’t, and who still suffer from male sexuality being demonized. We cannot control the actions of the former group, and so we’re just kind of stuck, because people like you refuse to see us as individuals. In fact, being in that place can make men so frustrated that a lot of the…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 04:10 PM
1

Fair actually, I’ve started seeing this too now that I think about it. I think part of it is the perception that all his fans are incels, and so therefore he must be too 🤷‍♂️ I do see what you’re saying though, as an adhd/autistic man at a liberal arts college you’re damn right about that social darwinist streak
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/10/24 12:44 PM
3

r/menkampf
/r/EverydayMisandry08/10/24 04:39 PM
27

I do spiral. I don’t have a solution for you. I’m sorry. Hang in there man, you’re not alone, even if it feels like it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/10/24 11:29 PM
15

In any case, the solution to the problem is still the same, I feel like at a certain point it doesn’t really matter who’s behind it, it still has the effect of protecting the powerful from accountability
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/10/24 11:16 PM
15

I feel like given that so few female criminals are a.)caught/arrested, b.) actually convicted by a jury, the ones who fucked up bad enough to actually make it to prison aren’t non-violent victims of circumstance who don’t deserve prison time
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/10/24 02:18 PM
23

I’d actually be fine with a less punitive justice system, just make it that way for everyone like norway, sweden, etc. do
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/10/24 02:12 PM
7

Here’s the thing. This sub tends more towards the malagency theory of gender disparity, rather than the patriarchy theory, which is the current understanding of gender issues in both the mainstream and intersectional sides of feminism. Malagency theory, if you haven’t heard of it, is the idea that a cultural/psychological bias exists that paints women as having less agency/capability than they actually do, and men as having more. The difference here is determinism, an ideological pillar of the l…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/10/24 08:45 PM
81

The rationale part is killing me What the fuck Why Why can’t boys just matter for themselves, why is it that every single gender disparity HAS to be twisted in order to make women and girls the victim somehow. Somehow reminds me of the “women are the true victims of war” quote
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/10/24 08:27 PM
25

The strategy of most 21st century feminism is pretty much just reinforcing malagency bias from the left, so leftists never suspect just how conservative it really is.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/10/24 08:24 PM
2

Yeah, I understand, and I’m sorry you’ve been hurt. It does take a while to build trust, especially after getting hurt multiple times
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 08:17 PM
2

Aaaand now we’re back to bioloessentialist gender roles, wonderful
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 04:20 PM
4

Leave it to a blue piller to reduce men’s motivations to absolutely nothing but sex
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 03:52 PM
21

Both intactivism and the draft as an issue of bodily autonomy (“nAmE oNe LaW tHaT aImS tO cOnTrOl tHe MaLe BoDy”) The connection between the traditional masculine role and the ideals of capitalism (i.e. you are only worth anything if you’re working) The left’s convenient abandonment of determinism when it comes to mens issues - for (almost) every other group, it is understood by the left that their specific issues are in many ways a product of their upbringing, society, their environment, etc.—Y…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/10/24 03:46 PM
1

Look up the female fear of crime paradox
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 11:23 PM
2

When they tell you their stories about creepy guys, do you ask them for proof?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 11:22 PM
2

Keep this energy when women are telling ypu about their experiences, see how that goes for you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 11:19 PM
22

I hate that shit so much, they never fail to steer the conversation back towards the idea that every bad thing is, at its core, a man’s fault somehow I’m sorry man, you deserve all the best
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/10/24 04:27 PM
3

Keep reading. I share your aversion to that definition but I think he’s talking more about the general societal definition, rather than the real one - just poorly communicated
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/10/24 04:45 PM
38

As soon as she started the “misogyny is systemic, misandry isn’t” copypasta I stopped reading I’m gonna be honest
/r/EverydayMisandry01/10/24 01:18 PM
51

So much for that “glass staircase” that I was, in my college sociology course, taught automatically makes men the most respected person in any female-dominated workplace bc patriarchy or something
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/09/24 08:15 PM
4

I think we should take the win and celebrate it, with the caveat that it’s still a fucked up situation and in a truly just world we would just care about men for their own sakes
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/09/24 04:53 PM
24

I think it’s the same reason why parents in the 80s burned their kid’s DND books and played all their records backwards to look for satanic messages. Leveraging cultural paranoia around a “dangerous other” to push your own agenda is nothing new
/r/EverydayMisandry23/09/24 11:11 PM
3

Gotta love a good misandrist straw man
/r/EverydayMisandry23/09/24 06:35 PM
10

They’ll never admit it tho, Their whole worldview is based on the assumption that men have all the power, and that because of that power-imbalance, it’s only fair to “knock them down a peg”. Ironically, they’ll lose all their power the moment they admit to having it.
/r/EverydayMisandry20/09/24 04:44 PM
19

Wait but I thought men were supposed to turn to feminism for their own sake too - haven’t we been hearing for years that it’s for our own good? Now the mask is off I guess, they can stop pretending to care
/r/EverydayMisandry20/09/24 04:26 PM
4

r/menkampf
/r/EverydayMisandry18/09/24 07:50 PM
4

That’s the difference between you and a good person then. I personally try to live with sympathy for as many people as possible BECAUSE it could literally be anyone, as you said. The whole “I don’t owe anyone anything” thing our culture has going on is so fucking toxic because you actually do owe it to your fellow human beings to be kind and courteous to the needs and feelings of others, just as they owe you the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 09:55 PM
0

Or maybe a depressed, suicidal man who’s at the end of his rope, and attempts suicide after reading one of the listed articles on a particularly bad night (hey, that happened to me!)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 08:59 PM
14

Source: trust me bro
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 08:41 PM
2

Google the SCUM manifesto
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 08:40 PM
63

David Bowie voice “There’s a strawmaaaan waiting in the sky”
/r/EverydayMisandry16/09/24 01:52 AM
3

Also suicide 😬
/r/EverydayMisandry11/09/24 07:44 PM
2

On the contrary, I’ve seen more pushback against anyone who would have a problem with people seeing male sexuality as a threat
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 02:53 PM
–

This exactly. Very well argued and articulate!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:32 PM
0

I definitely feel male solidarity for immigrant men, I think men who see other men as “just competition” are a big part of the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 05:47 PM
2

David Bowie voice “There’s a strawmaaaaan waiting in the sky”
/r/EverydayMisandry22/08/24 05:45 PM
14

Been saying this to myself for years, the only men still brave enough to openly approach women in 2024 are the ones y’all complain about, because they don’t care. It’s a self-fulfilling prophecy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 10:59 PM
3

I’ve heard egalitarianism used to describe this belief, and that’s how I describe myself
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 06:49 PM
2

The issue of pro-choice vs pro-life is a very clear-cut, easy to define stance on one issue There is no one who matches “John’s” beliefs irl, there are a lot of very hateful, self-described feminists Feminism is pretty nebulous, and it means a lot of different things to a lot of different people. You made up a definition of feminism in your head that excludes those who would draw criticism towards the movement. Those people consider themselves feminists, and so do I.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 04:46 PM
2

But you can’t claim they’re “not feminists” Just because you don’t accept them doesn’t mean the movement as a whole won’t
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 04:30 PM
2

Look up what the “no true scotsman” fallacy is. If you cherry-pick which feminists are “real” and which ones aren’t based on whether they fit your argument or not, rather than whether or not they associate themselves with feminism, you are being intellectually dishonest.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 04:25 PM
2

This is a no true scotsman fallacy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 04:17 PM
2

The problem with this take is that the “real” feminists readily accept and defend these people and do not criticize them at all. If you have one misandrist asshat in a room full of 99 other “real” feminists that will defend them against any and all criticism, you have 100 misandrists, it’s just that some of them are quieter than others
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 04:17 PM
14

I love making up scenarios in my head to be mad at
/r/EverydayMisandry08/08/24 02:56 PM
35

This kind of shit just makes me weep for humanity tbh. It makes me feel tired and hopeless more than anything.
/r/EverydayMisandry07/08/24 01:03 PM
5

Do you think telling the men who are the generally that they are dangerous, inhuman, worse than a bear, etc. will help the situation? Or do you think it will push them further into their mental problems? Also, being the exception shouldn’t mean men like me don’t matter, or that we shouldn’t leave space in our rhetoric for them
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 06:11 PM
7

As an insecure man who has only ever attempted violence against himself, you have no idea how much the whole “insecure men are dangerous” rhetoric can destroy a struggling person mentally, exacerbating the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 04:27 PM
7

Calling a woman “crazy” for having emotions is rightfully denounced by the vast majority of people (in my community at least) as misogynistic. The same cannot be said for the other side of the coin.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 01:14 AM
16

“Just deal with it” This is exactly the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 12:43 AM
4

This is larger than just my friend group, I was just using it as an example. I think you can’t really understand the kind of condescension that is underlying with this specific call for men to “just go to therapy” without having been socialized as male and being on the receiving end of it. It’s also not about there being resources on campus, it’s about how willing people are to even try to empathize with a person’s pain. Again, it’s not what is being said, it’s how and why it’s said.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 12:25 AM
9

I am a male in a mostly female friend group. If I complained about my problems half as much as they do, around the same people that they do, I would be treated very differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 12:09 AM
16

You don’t see this dynamic because you think it’s just how things should be. Also, I never mentioned relationships. I’m talking about just, in general, when a man is dealing with emotional turmoil, he receives MUCH less sympathy for it than a woman would, and in many cases, is berated for expressing it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 12:02 AM
2

I’d argue that women being the primary receiver of mental health services is just evidence that we as a society care more about how women feel than how men feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 11:54 PM
11

Yes. To answer your second question, it seems to me that when therapy is recommended to women, it is for their own sake. Whoever is recommending it to them genuinely wants them to be ok for themselves, and will probably listen to the person’s actual problems with empathy before they do so. For men, “go to therapy” is often a backhanded gesture and a dismissal of the conversation. It’s not the suggestion itself that’s the problem, it’s the connotation of “not my problem, and it’s your fault that …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 11:53 PM
3

Not talking about in-class discussion, more so just interactions outside of class
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 11:43 PM
11

Basically, in the age of mass-media, most people don't actually think for themselves
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/08/24 10:41 PM
4

Yes, 100% It just makes you feel so alone
/r/EverydayMisandry30/07/24 01:33 PM
6

I’d made that connection too… I think if the world (hopefully) learns one thing from the Israeli genocide, it’s gonna be that victimhood does not justify becoming like the ones who hurt you, and that to do so is to continue the cycle of hate and abuse.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/07/24 04:12 AM
23

Hyperagency/hypoagency bias
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/07/24 04:06 AM
32

They aren’t concerned with justice as much as they are with revenge. It just goes to show that people who have been victimized don’t become incorruptible paragons of virtue because of it. Women are just as susceptible as men when it comes to the allure of abusing one’s power. It’s almost like humans can be good or bad people no matter who they are. Go figure.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/07/24 01:48 AM
11

Well put and very fair, though I’m willing to wager you have several downvotes over in menslib lol
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/07/24 11:08 PM
37

Also, the idea that “no one is free from sin” feels very similar to the idea that to exist as a man is inherently patriarchal due to your privilege
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/07/24 07:29 PM
8

*food for thought
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/07/24 07:27 PM
1

I think it’s a bit of a dogwhistle Could be taken as one anyway
/r/EverydayMisandry27/07/24 09:04 PM
16

Early on in the queer movement there were sects of lesbians that hated gay men and blamed them for having aids…
/r/EverydayMisandry27/07/24 06:41 PM
18

I’ve noticed this as well, And I think it honestly might be because it’s a lot harder for feminists to dismiss black men as being privileged. Also, there is a lot of intersectionality between race and misandry - I’m not black, so I can’t really speak much on this particular facet of the issue, but I do think it’s worth pointing out that the vast majority of the shootings that spurred the BLM movement/protests were perpetrated against black men
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/24 12:23 AM
3

I do tell this to feminists, or at least I try to. I completely understand where you’re coming from and I’m angry too. I just don’t want to let myself give in to the same tribalism I’m fighting against
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/24 07:59 PM
3

If we as male advocates can’t hold space in our worldview for the very real consequences of misogyny, how can we expect women/feminists to ever do the same for us? Our end goal here should be to make peace, we can’t fall into the same trap that they do or we don’t have a leg to stand on. It’s exactly what they want us to do.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/24 07:20 PM
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I once saw a post on instagram threads (a veritable cesspool of misandry) that argued the tendency for men to choose suicide by firearm is a sort of final show of patriarchal dominance by the suicide victim, because “women are forced to clean it up” I have struggled with suicidal thoughts/tendencies all my life, and that post caught me in a particularly bad place. It got me spiraling into guilt and hopelessness, and I almost attempted that night—I got as far as tying a noose. It’s honestly amazi…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/07/24 11:21 PM
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As a man with suicidal tendencies (largely due to misandry in my community) this shit is triggering as hell and makes me furious
/r/EverydayMisandry15/07/24 12:33 AM
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The answer to that last question is: very few
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 11:51 PM
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Hear hear! r/leftwingmaleadvocates
/r/EverydayMisandry09/07/24 02:35 AM
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Accuracy aside, I think it’s really bad strategy on our part to call them “sick in the head” This isn’t gonna be solved with more vitriol and name-calling
/r/EverydayMisandry06/07/24 06:32 PM
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Not a prominent one but I’ve done several oil paintings inspired by my experiences with misandry/coming to terms with my identity as a man
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/07/24 12:48 AM
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Breaking news: member of societal group identifies with said societal group when it is mentioned specifically Psychologists shocked by this unexpected turn of events /s
/r/EverydayMisandry29/06/24 05:54 AM
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I feel like a lot of times when I hear about this issue it’s framed as “teach your boys to clean and cook for the sake of women”
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/06/24 03:57 PM
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r/leftwingmaleadvocates
/r/EverydayMisandry26/06/24 12:42 AM
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I go to a liberal arts college and tend to run in very leftist circles Let me tell you, you can practically feel the misandry hanging in the air on campus. I’ve overheard people saying shit like “men are just walking penises” or joking about how they want to marry a man so they can kill him for his money It feels like any time you hear the word “men”, it automatically has a negative connotation. “Man bad” is the punchline of every other joke. I fucking hate it
/r/EverydayMisandry25/06/24 10:33 PM
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See here’s the difference though. You’re talking about feminists, misandrists are talking about men in general. A person chooses to be a feminist, while a man doesn’t choose to be a man. I personally live by the rule that, in order for me to judge you for being a part of a group of people, you need to have chosen it. A lot of feminists I’ve talked to about misandry compare hating all men to the philosophy behind ACAB, which doesn’t make sense to me, because cops choose to become cops, they had t…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/06/24 01:34 AM
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There are a lot of people here who I think can relate to you right now. There are also a lot of people out there who will call you an incel for acknowledging that misandry exists and that men’s issues actually matter beyond how they affect women. I know from personal experience, and many long nights spent wrestling with my thoughts and morals, just how easy it is to fall into a spiral of guilt and self-doubt about this The mantra I repeat to myself when I feel myself giving in to hate is that I …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/06/24 09:06 PM
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Replying to Content_Lychee_2632...I feel this so much, I’ve spent so many sleepless nights as a male leftist having this exact conversation with myself It really gets in ur head, especially if you have issues with guilt/depressive tendencies
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/06/24 09:48 PM
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Watch this happen and then suddenly feminists start caring about the draft
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/06/24 08:21 PM
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I once brought up my thoughts about how circumcision violates bodily autonomy in a casual conversation with a feminist classmate at my college without mentioning anything about FGM or even women’s issues in general and she still had the fucking gall to immediately respond with “it’s not as bad as FGM tho” Like how far are you willing to go not to have any fucking sympathy for men on anything. You, a person with a fully intact set of genitals, are telling me, a man who actually did have his a par…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/06/24 05:42 AM
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Tbh it’s pretty bad here too in some places What you described sounds pretty much exactly like my college campus
/r/EverydayMisandry14/06/24 03:32 AM
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I had this happen to me too. A male classmate kept harassing/touching me and I was always told I was being homophobic if I said anything about it. Until very recently I believed it was my fault for responding to his initial texts.
/r/MensRights03/07/20 04:17 PM
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Let’s play a nice game of switch the groups in the sentence “What’s it to you if police officers are hypervigilant and cautious around strange black people?” “What’s it to you if airport security is hypervigilant and cautious around strange muslims?” “What’s it to you if a loan office is hypervigilant and cautious around strange Jewish customers?” Individual bias and hate don’t only happen to systematically oppressed groups. If it is wrong for a man to assume that any given woman is weak and hel…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/19 02:33 AM
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Also no one cares when it happens to men, as usual
/r/MensRights31/05/19 03:36 PM
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This is exactly why I joined this sub.
/r/MensRights13/05/19 03:24 PM
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Wow. This is seriously messed up. Why do we still think of rape as a purely women's issue?
/r/MensRights03/05/19 04:13 PM
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