“Your body my choice”

gratis_eekhoorn · 2024-11-16T10:28:09+00:00

Oddly enough, I have not seen any examples of men saying this, online or irl. I have only ever seen people complaining about it.

Don't you know? when it's a handful of alt right nutjobs saying such things (male or female) it's "men", when it's a prominent feminist figure or a rando saying something blatantly hateful against males and getting hundred thousands of likes it's just "some irrelevant crazies" or "male trolls pretending to be women"

GNSGNY · 2024-11-16T14:41:31+00:00

one fascist man said something and all the misandrists came out the bushes

ashfinsawriter · 2024-11-16T15:39:02+00:00

I saw like one guy on Twitter saying it

Funny how a few insane dudes justifies attacking all men, but when there's an entire trend of "Kill all men", it's unfair to be upset...

Although to be clear "Your body my choice" is stupid and it's fair to be upset at the individuals saying that and the circumstances causing them to do so. It's just not fair to take it out on other men

Professional-You2968 · 2024-11-16T10:24:55+00:00

I have seen this only on twox.

They were the kill all men crowd, so it's a leopardatemyface situation.

Grow_peace_in_Bedlam · 2024-11-16T17:44:34+00:00

"Your body, my choice" perfectly describes what still happens to the majority of newborn American boys circumcised against their will every year. I'd argue that that's even worse than the abolition of abortion rights; I'm totally pro-choice, but unless a woman is raped, pregnancy is a situation that is based on her choices. Nothing a newborn boy does makes the occurrence of circumcision at all within his control.

Fan_Service_3703 · 2024-11-16T10:17:27+00:00

I'm not American, so I've not come across anyone either online or in real life using this phrase.

Needless to say, this phrase is appalling and there is no justification for using it, whether in jest or otherwise. HOWEVER, the same is also true for "kill all men" and "male tears" which are also treated as jokes despite the horrid implications behind them.

QuantumBullet · 2024-11-16T17:09:27+00:00

Imagine if there were a group of loonies going around saying "kill all men" with impunity for over a decade. Do you think those people would see the irony of going nuclear over a less offensive slogan?

AskingToFeminists · 2024-11-16T10:43:54+00:00

Some might say that the ability of women to make unilateral decisions resulting in parenthood and then suing the unwilling father for child support is a case of "your body, my choice", but something tell me this is not the kind they are outraged about.

Anyway, I keep saying, we've seen what it looks like, feminists conflicting with feminists on ideological ground, trying tonclean house from unacceptable (at least from their point of view) bigotry in feminist ranks, with all the TERF issues. And the very fact that we see absolutely nothing like it surrounding misandry while many feminists proudly declare their misandry shows us exactly how acceptable misandry is to feminists.

Feminism can go to civil war over an issue of bigotry against less than a % of the population, but they can't be bothered to protest a bit when it comes to bigotry against 50% of the population. That tells you everything about their priorities.

NotJeromeStuart · 2024-11-16T12:27:44+00:00

Question: if a man (or boy) is raped and the woman gets pregnant, how does he stop that baby from being born?

Answer: He can't. Legally, his sperm has been not stolen and it's her choice of what to do with his biological material. His body her choice. 18 years of child support. Her choice.

Question: if two people have consensual sex and both agree no children should come from that but later she changes her mind, how does he stop that baby from being born?

Answer: He can't. Legally, his sperm has been not stolen and it's her choice of what to do with his biological material. His body her choice. 18 years of child support. Her choice.

triple_skyfall · 2024-11-16T11:58:42+00:00

Usually it has a lot to do with the men these women choose to spend time with, which ironically....is their choice?

eternal_kvitka1817 · 2024-11-16T17:00:46+00:00

What about forcible mobilization for men only in Russia and Ukraine?

Doesnotcarebear · 2024-11-16T13:13:19+00:00

The only examples I've seen of it said directly have been twitter screenshots from some shit stain named Nick Fuentes, and I think some other asshole nobody. But its not even remotely close to an "everybody/everywhere" type thing.

Emotional-Self-8387 · 2024-11-17T19:20:06+00:00

Only time I’ve seen it is women on TikTok reacting to it and 2 viral tweets saying it. I don’t work in a school so idk how often boys are saying it. Then again, people say boys in school talk about Andrew Tate all the time, but I never heard a boy of any age mention Andrew Tate when I was a substitute teacher for 7 months. If it was as widespread as internet feminists say it is I would’ve heard something about it

BloomingBrains · 2024-11-18T06:55:01+00:00

One of the radfem tropes is "have you even met any women IRL, incel" whenever we say anything they disagree with. I say reverse it on them.

"Have you even met any men IRL or are you just an incel?"

LumenBlight · 2024-11-16T14:00:41+00:00

I have personally never used it, nor seen or heard anyone use it, but apparently some people out there are saying such unhinged things to get a rise out of people.

SomeSugondeseGuy · 2024-11-16T14:58:35+00:00

Nick Fuentes said it and a few other incels started barking it.

Weak_Working8840 · 2024-11-17T05:18:41+00:00

No one is fucking saying this term except extremists. Yet again though decent men are generalized with the evil and misandry prevails.

gaut80 · 2024-11-16T15:08:08+00:00

Was the use of the word "trumpeted" an intended pun?

Leinadro · 2024-11-16T22:12:17+00:00

Outside of that Nick Fuentes guy I've heard 1 story about how apparently some girl at school was harassed by a group of boys chanring it to her. Problem is I've yet to see anything more than third party people talking about no word from the parent of the girl or the girl herself.

ChemistryFederal6387 · 2024-11-17T20:39:29+00:00

Honestly, I have never heard this phrase and I have no idea what it means.

Just sounds like more culture war non-sense, that ordinary people don't give two sh*ts about.

Enticing_Venom · 2024-11-17T00:06:49+00:00

Nick Fuentes is the one who first said it on X and all the Groypers started spreading it. It received 90 million views and 35k retweets so that's why it blew up on social media in general. They are obviously a minority of men and I suspect a lot of others who aren't Nick's fans just started saying it to be trolls. But Nick doesn't need any help for his posts to go viral.

No-Knowledge-8867 · 2024-11-17T09:37:51+00:00

I've heard that apparently Nick Fuentes tweeted it, although I haven't seen it. Other than that, I have only heard it used on the "Whatever" podcast in reference to an argument being made to women achieving the vote but not being subject to the draft. Essentially, they can vote for war and not be subjected to fighting for it, which they claimed was essentially women being able to say your body, my choice to men.

InAJam_SoS · 2024-11-17T17:41:48+00:00

I have looked everywhere and cannot find any instances of this being said. If it is being said, which I doubt, it's certainly not to the degree that it's being made out to be. As a matter of fact, we're only being told it's being said. My hunch is that this is typical Democrat/Feminist propaganda. Has anyone seen the SM post about divorcing their husbands, even deleting them? We will see "the M word" used more than ever now and a ramped-up effort to rile up the base so they can 'fight back". Knowing how the Dems gaslight us and use 'the patriarchy and 'the M word" as a wedge issue at men's expense, at what point do we need to start asking ourselves what other issues are being used the same way? The post-election behavior has been a complete eye-opener for me.

ikeed · 2024-11-18T04:10:01+00:00

It's stochastic terrorism. The goal is to make the left and right as angry as possible at each other.

Poyri35 · 2024-11-19T21:37:01+00:00

There are a couple of people who say that, on twitter. Which is like going to a KKK meeting and getting surprised that they are racists lol

nomino3390 · 2024-11-21T23:07:05+00:00

I've only seen one person saying "your body, my choice" but at least 20 girls fantasizing about hitting men and saying "my fist, your face." It's just another false victimhood.

Ossevir · 2024-11-16T17:14:50+00:00

Uhhhh teenage boys are saying this to girls at my kid's highschool. I live in an area that voted 80/20 for Harris. This is absolutely put there in the real world.

sn95joe84 · 2024-11-16T15:51:29+00:00

Disgusting. I am so disappointed about this. I’ve not heard any actual person saying “your body my choice” except for that little douchebag Fuentes who seems to be doing it as rage bait, however the sentiment must exist somewhere. But this is why it’s such a shame trump won the election. Now instead of women finally getting a woman President, and possibly not feeling like they’re victims of patriarchy, they go and elect a guy that creates more division and hatred, and allows women to feel justified in blaming men for their woes.

It’s truly heartbreaking as someone who authentically wants to see womens and men’s issues get the attention they deserve.

YetAgain67 · 2024-11-16T13:51:37+00:00

A neo nazi commentator said it on his show. And other far right assholes took hold of it and started blasting it on social media.

There are also cases of likely bots sending people hateful texts after the election.

Just because you don't see it doesn't mean it isn't happening.

And downplaying the emboldened fascist sentiment in America is not a good look.

nightmare2299 · 2024-11-16T16:42:25+00:00

I'm genuiely confused why people are taking this bait so easily, like what does you posting a pic of woman brutally murdering a man that i guess was meant to represent Fuentes, will change? Nothing....this is the reaction this people want....

Noe_b0dy · 2024-11-16T16:43:42+00:00

I've seen it a few times but I've also been hanging around the more conservative parts of the internet on account of the election showing me that the parts of reddit i normally frequent are an echo chamber.

country2poplarbeef · 2024-11-16T17:24:16+00:00

Even online, the only times I've seen it are in angry feminist memes and what could easily be fabricated "vents" on Reddit. It really seems like textbook Russian agitprop, especially since, iirc, this is the same thing they did last time with Russian trolls propping up white feminist issues like "mansplaining," which unsurprisingly seemed to start making an unironic comeback coming up to this election

Revolutionary_Law793 · 2024-11-16T15:36:39+00:00

They send it to our inboxes

tuftedear · 2024-11-16T16:49:37+00:00

Is it not possible that this is another attempt from Russian actors to sow division in the US? That was my first thought upon hearing this.

Edit: link: https://www.reddit.com/r/self/s/hPFalDfj8M

uberphat · 2024-11-21T05:57:27+00:00

I had an argument with someone on this sub who claimed "Your body, my choice" was nothing more than a harmless pun, and that women shouldn't feel threatened. That was on a "left wing" subreddit, so it's not hard to imagine that use of the term was rather prevalent.

I hate that - in attacking feminists - we have to down play a mysoginistic term perpetuated by the right. This is the type of slippery slope that leads to crazy Sandy Hook/false flag type conclusions.

Why can't we just acknowledge it for what it is, a horrible phrase repeated by horrible people.

https://www.isdglobal.org/digital_dispatches/your-body-my-choice-hate-and-harassment-towards-women-spreads-online/

mizdev1916 · 2024-11-16T14:05:25+00:00

It probably is a small group of trolls but what they are saying is fairly accurate.

It's a phrase mean't to mock women who believe in body autonomy and if you're a woman offended by this phrase but you also voted for Trump or didn't bother voting at all then you deserve to be mocked imo. Vote for your own interests next election or shut up.

Revolutionary_Law793 · 2024-11-16T15:38:47+00:00

That they want submissive wives or are unable to find mate at home

Fast_Ant2590 · 2024-11-16T13:25:46+00:00

It's really just funny. Don't forget about the troll minority here. Saying incredibly offensive things just to make ppl mad is pretty funny regardless of what color tie ur wearing, and 'ur body my choice' is a devastating line that is sure to get ppl triggered. That's my perspective!

dreyaz255 · 2024-11-16T16:47:03+00:00

Thinking that women responding proportionately to a threat to their autonomy and lives is misandry is bewildering and smacks of fascist propaganda infiltration, so I'm having difficulty believing this question is in good faith, since the only reasonable response to a rape threat by right-wing extremism is to fight it. We should be discussing how to defend the women in our lives against these cretins so they don't have to end up killing anyone by defending themselves. They are seeing this as a real threat because a real threat was made to them.

Let's assume you are actually posting this in good faith. The responses from women addressing this advocating the killing of men for it are two-fold: satire to highlight the idiot audacity of threatening to publicly rape other people who should have the same rights under the law, and a call to other women to defend themselves and not be cowed by threats of violence and oppression, since THEY know fascists and performative oppression fold when faced with real, violent consequences.

Nick Fuentes was doxxed after he made this threat and he is hiding behind his mother after it. Facing consequences to your actions is normal, and not sexism. Do your best to defend the women in your life that need defending from Nazi trash, and check the men from saying shit like this.

TLDR; this "misandry" is a shot across the bow to men that this kind of explicit, public rape threats are intolerable, and that they are leaving the ball in our court to check other men on this before they resort to violence to defend themselves.

FAFO is gospel.

Title	“Your body my choice”
Author	BootyBRGLR69
Upvotes	132
Comments	86
Date	November 15, 2024 8:45 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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