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social issuesvegetables-10000/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/02/25 04:59 AM
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Debatevegetables-10000/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 07:11 AM
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Women complain, because you modern little boys have claimed the accomplishments of OTHER men- accomplishments you have NOTHING to do with- to justify your high opinion of yourselves. In fact, the wives and mothers of these men deserve FAR more credit for these men's accomplishments, than any of you entitled, selfish little man children do. Feminists want men to be held accountable for the actions of rapists and abusers. So you can't have both ways with your "other men did that, not you" logic.
/r/EverydayMisandry08/08/25 01:19 AM
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And they are also stuck in a corner too. Because women fear of men and men fear of false allegations go hand and hand with each other. If women are truly uncomfortable when men interact with them. Saying men are statistically more violent, that every woman they know has a SA story, that they choose their bear. Then it naturally makes sense for men to interact with women less. Because that's what women are asking for. Again they are stuck in a corner here. They must either admit women fear of men…
/r/EverydayMisandry06/08/25 04:15 PM
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Starts with ask F
/r/EverydayMisandry06/08/25 05:15 AM
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That's because they expect men to protect them all the time. Therefore men must be the ones that stop women from supporting trans women.
/r/EverydayMisandry05/08/25 11:42 PM
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Wait until you tell these liberal feminists about black men or POC men history of racism fuel by false allegations.
/r/EverydayMisandry05/08/25 03:32 PM
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Be careful here. Because you are accusing OP of being unsafe to women. That's dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 08:16 AM
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Only people who are "Pro" are general populaton and the average girl who thinks "yeah, finally the government do something for us women!" Pretty much.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/07/25 04:13 PM
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Female gang members are considered a part of femicide in Brazil. Despite it being gang on gang violence. But I guessed femicide is just anytime a woman is killed by a man. Doesn't matter if it's not related to sexism, rape, or DV. Because a woman's life that is so precious. That a man killing a woman is a far greater sin than killing a man. And also killing people is already a crime. Therefore making this term more pointless and dumb.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/07/25 04:11 PM
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Yep that too.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/07/25 02:28 PM
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Sounds like they still cater to what they call "patriarchy." Exactly.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/07/25 10:08 PM
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Most definitely 😂
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/07/25 06:10 PM
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Down Low.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/07/25 02:55 PM
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Closeted gay man.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/07/25 02:51 PM
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Men are already being exposed for being DL or bisexual. I'm not surprised homophobia would be an issue here. Women say they are on the app to protect themselves from rapists or pedos. But half of it is just gossip about which men are possibly bisexual or broke. And the white knight who made this app. Saying that evil Men rights activists want to tear down the innocent app he made to protect women. But yet the app has the word "gossip" as a default name. And I heard the app has gotten hacked. Cau…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/25 08:08 PM
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Good one. 🤣🤣 It's Schrödinger's Feminism. A woman being simultaneously a victim and empowered: The most common definition suggests a woman exists in a state of being both a victim and empowered simultaneously, until a particular situation dictates which role is most beneficial or convenient.
/r/MensRights27/07/25 07:27 PM
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And guys also remember that these are also the same people calling men paranoid for not wanting to interact with women. And Feminists are also complaining about men not wanting to interact with women. That's the opposite of this issue here. The classic "men are damned if they do, and men are damned if they don't".
/r/MensRights27/07/25 06:02 PM
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THIS
/r/EverydayMisandry27/07/25 07:08 AM
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Why are all men not credited for the people who built the world in the past, yet are held accountable for the actions of a few elites from the past? Feminist hypocrisy in a nutshell here.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/07/25 01:00 AM
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It's all men's fault lol.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/07/25 12:59 AM
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Who is the person you watch? This person sounds based.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/07/25 02:04 PM
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Because they want more robots working for them.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/07/25 02:26 PM
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This is due to benevolent sexism and chivalry. Men are expected to always talk to women in a nice way, and never be too serious with them. Because any serious male tone to a woman can come off as "toxic masculinity" or "incel". So a lot of women struggle to tell the difference between equality and misogyny. Because to them equality is a man giving them special treatment. And misogyny to them is a man treating women no different from men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/07/25 09:34 PM
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I always word my posts this way. Way before Chatgpt was a thing.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/07/25 02:06 AM
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Very well put comment here.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/07/25 10:47 PM
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Yes, makes them feel like they are lonely.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/07/25 06:29 PM
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What a coincidence. I didn't even see this post before I made my male loneliness epidemic post.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/07/25 04:16 PM
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Society puts unnecessary pressure on men to be in romantic relationships with women. By calling men incels, losers, or virgin shaming men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/07/25 12:31 PM
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When its a wide spread problem for other groups is a systemic issues that requires social support to solve but when its a wide spread problem for men its a personal issue that men need to solve themselves. Bingo.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/07/25 05:17 AM
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And that "healthy masculinity" is usually just pseudo traditional masculinity with a feminist gaze.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/07/25 05:23 PM
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Heck most feminists think men making movements about men's rights is taking the spotlight away from women. And they think men should advocate for women instead. Because men don't need a movement. Ask this question. What is more important to you as a feminist, men creating their own movements, or men being allies to women? And watch them struggle to answer their question. Because they know that they expect men to put women's needs before their needs.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/07/25 05:21 PM
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In this world men will have internalized misandry. Causing them to die more working dangerous jobs to provide for women. Therefore misandry does kill. And also guns and knives exist. And the average man isn't a UFC fighter or Navy Seal. And 5 women can still beat one man. So again misandry would kill. And this isn't even counting the fact that women are still alive in misogynistic countries.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/07/25 02:47 PM
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You’re absolutely right, there is an alarming lack of conversation about how women use religion to manipulate and shame men, especially in deeply religious cultures. We’ve long recognized and criticized the way men use religion to control women, but when the power dynamics flip, people fall silent. This imbalance in public discourse creates a blind spot where real harm is done to men but never acknowledged. It's intellectually dishonest to pretend this isn't happening just because it challenges …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/07/25 04:29 AM
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Thank you.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/07/25 04:57 PM
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That's a very autistic belief to have. Most people are pretty good at it. Just because you're bad at it doesn't mean it doesn't exist. Most people are fucking idiots. The idea that I might be labeled as "autistic" for advocating clearer communication is got to be the dumbest shit ever. It's not about a lack of understanding. it's about recognizing that everyone has different communication styles and comfort levels. People often conflate emotional intelligence with mind-reading, as if we should j…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 04:28 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/interesting/s/3lkRR3ZUUX The thing I hate about consent talk, is the fact that feminists, the left, only care about consent when something bad like rape happens to women. And then they forget about consent talk the next week. It's like when police brutality happens to black men. Everybody posts on Twitter about it being injustice, there are protests. But then next week everybody will forget about it. The same thing happens with mass shootings too. Unlike race and police …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/07/25 04:51 AM
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This is not just nonsense, it’s dangerous thinking dressed up as some twisted version of “romance.” There is nothing romantic or masculine aboutbeing an idiot. “The whole point of romance is to involuntarily escalate”? No, the whole point of romance is mutual desire, not forcing momentum based on assumptions and your own ego. Consent isn't a buzzkill, it's what makes sex ethical, safe, and we don't have to deal with this bs. You say “she wants that animal”? That’s not confidence, that’s projecti…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 04:18 AM
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Cognitive dissonance is one hell of a drug. Especially when it comes to people's opinions on gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 09:33 PM
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And what you fail to understand is that most men will never encounter a situation of "misunderstanding". Most men won't ruin anyone life, they won't jump on women, they'll go for a kiss (and would immediatly stop if this kiss were not returned). Some guys won't even risk a kiss even with a ton of signals leaning for it. That doesn't matter. All that matters is how the women perceive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 09:23 PM
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So this is something important for women to know. I meant men here. Typo. Saying “most men are fine” ignores that even one misunderstanding can ruin someone’s life, this isn’t about averages, it’s about risk. The fact that you “highly disagree” doesn’t erase the fear and caution many women openly express toward men. Just because you haven’t experienced it doesn’t make it untrue, that’s anecdotal blindness, not a counterpoint. The entire point is promoting clarity to protect everyone, not just th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 09:04 PM
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Doesn't matter. The vast majority of women still view most men as sexual predators. So this is something important for women to know. Since women are the ones always telling men how they should know more about consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 06:24 PM
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I don’t see why it’s so hard for you to understand that I am explaining the world as it is, not as you wish it to be. Most people accept and navigate ambiguity fairly well. No they don't, because we still have numerous situations of women complaining about men not understanding boundaries and consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 06:18 PM
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Nodding, shaking your head, or using sign language are intentional, structured, and universally understood within context, not vague like body language. There’s a huge difference between clear, deliberate signals and ambiguous gestures like “she smiled” or “leaned in.” You’re confusing non-spoken with non-consensual. The issue isn’t silence, it’s ambiguity. Most people do communicate non-verbally, sure,but that doesn’t make it safe to rely on those cues for something as serious as consent. Again…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 04:48 PM
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Men should care more about their image and not going to jail than a woman getting turned on.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 03:41 PM
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Oh no what can this person do. It's not like THEY CAN JUST LEARN ASL.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 03:28 PM
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I'm not autistic. Body language is just magical bullshit that doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 03:10 PM
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Women call me gay all the time when I don't violate their boundaries. And also body language is just pseudo science bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 02:59 PM
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Your comment ignores the fact that cognitive dissonance exists. And the same people can have different views at the same time. A lot of women here struggle to understand that the same people can hold contradictory beliefs. You say it's not hypocrisy unless the same person holds two conflicting positions. But in practice, we regularly see individuals, especially in online spaces, criticize men for “not reading signals” and then also complain that “asking ruins the mood.” Those are not different p…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 02:34 PM
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I guess being mute makes you incapable of consent This is just a BS gotcha. Because the chances of men running into mute women is low. This is just a bad faith gotcha that dodges the real issue. We’re not talking about people using structured, intentional languages like ASL, we’re talking about ambiguous body language and vibes. Bringing up rare edge cases like mute individuals doesn’t defend non-verbal consent. it distracts from the fact that most people rely on unclear cues, not formal systems…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 02:22 PM
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I don't give a fuck if it's sexy or not. Being in jail or being labeled a creep isn't sexy either. That's why this is terrible advice for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 02:17 PM
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And you are dumbing people down, making them unable to read body language or expressions. I have to dumb people down, because people did this to themselves. Because we live in a society that has made this shit complicated in the first place. I'm not the one saying women feel uncomfortable when men approach them. Women are usually the saying that, not me. Do you think couples go through life constantly asking if they can hug each other or kiss each other? Have you ever had a relationship? Even in…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 02:16 PM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 08:21 AM
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This is the same society that is always talking about men having an issue with consent. So society shames men for crossing boundaries, then mocks them for wanting clear consent? That’s hypocrisy, not progress. Expecting clarity isn’t autistic. it’s a direct response to the exact standards society demands from men. You can’t hold men accountable for misreading signals while also ridiculing them for asking first. Pick a side.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 07:21 AM
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Exactly, I'm going to take a page out of feminist book. And say the solutions to men issues will automatically help women in the long run. Ah yes the good "feminism is for men too" being used against them. I see the irony guys lol. But at least we are actually honest when we say that too. This is a fact. Male solutions benefit women far more than female solutions. Sure Feminists may love men's issues because women benefit from rigid male gender roles. But that's just women wanting special treatm…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/07/25 06:26 AM
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Or maybe Putin and Zelensky can just go to war with each other. Instead of letting other men fight their wars.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/07/25 09:10 PM
6

I agree with everything here.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/07/25 07:52 PM
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How tf does traveling make a better human? Matter of fact it's the opposite. The most egotistical people travel lol.
/r/EverydayMisandry01/07/25 05:19 PM
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Reminds me of this video. 😂😂 https://youtu.be/5UZetLBx5AA?si=Iy1-8mOEvmi3vEcX
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/07/25 03:44 PM
50

This is another form of Feminist cakism. What women basically mean when they say they want men to be more emotional. I only want you to be open with positive emotions like loving me or the family. Because that's "healthy masculinity". But I want you to be stoic with your "negative emotions" like not liking your job or complaining about how hard life is. Because that's "trauma dumping" and "bitching". Now progressive women don't flat out say this. But this is obvious by how they feel, judging by …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/07/25 03:42 PM
15

I think she realized how her argument sounds like a conservative talking point. And was afraid I got her in one of those gotcha movements.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/07/25 03:09 PM
3

For bi men it's the opposite. They are told not to date women without letting women know.
/r/EverydayMisandry30/06/25 09:22 AM
2

Yes DARVO.
/r/EverydayMisandry29/06/25 07:02 PM
3

It's just pop psychology bs. These types like using terms like Narcissists, sociopaths, therapy speak, or DIVO all the god damn time.
/r/EverydayMisandry28/06/25 02:47 PM
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Funny how the same women still use insults like gay or feminine whenever men are being emotional.
/r/EverydayMisandry27/06/25 08:31 PM
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True. Most of racism is misandry any way. Hence why Conservative use the "protect women" narrative to be anti LGBTQ and anti immigration. By convincing people they just want to protect women from violent men crossing the border or creepy "men" invading women's spaces. Misandry harms trans women. Because it's the idea society has that people born males are inherently evil. An idea both Conservatives and Feminists constantly push.
/r/EverydayMisandry27/06/25 08:24 PM
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Honestly, they will still defend that, by saying black men are still men. Therefore the problem is men.
/r/EverydayMisandry27/06/25 08:15 PM
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I won't get upset. But I will definitely stay away from a woman like this. Because this is a ick.
/r/EverydayMisandry27/06/25 08:14 PM
7

Exactly.
/r/EverydayMisandry27/06/25 08:13 PM
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This is just "positive masculinity" in a nutshell. Feminists cherry picking parts of traditional masculinity that benefits women, and harm men. "A secure man won't get upset when you say All men" = "Men don't get upset" also = "A masculine man doesn't care about a womans opinion," But they're not willing to accept that's what they're saying. Ironically this benevolent sexism, being perpetuated by feminist here. Saying a man shouldn't care about a woman's opinion. Therefore saying that women's op…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/06/25 08:06 PM
1

True.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/06/25 06:55 PM
4

It's just more "women are wonderful" BS.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/06/25 04:09 PM
2

Yeah fair point. You right. 😂
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/06/25 08:14 PM
2

It's so good to finally see Bill Maher have a good take.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/06/25 06:55 AM
4

Oh man this is really sad and frustrating.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/06/25 05:07 AM
29

Men can still have a female bias.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/06/25 02:08 PM
54

Reddit has a female bias and is pro-misandry. Heck even Twitter can be pro-misandry a bit.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/06/25 08:23 AM
6

Facts.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/06/25 04:13 AM
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Men are seen as creepy and losers for having sex toys. While sex toys are considered empowering for women.
/r/EverydayMisandry24/06/25 04:25 PM
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To society, men are either straight or gay. No bisexual, no asexual, no demisexual. You're either hypersexual or not a "real man". There's no room for nuance, no space for men to express boundaries without being mocked or dismissed. And when men like the OP speak up about unwanted sexual pressure, it's often minimized or ignored. Society need to recognize that consent, identity, and emotional safety apply to everyone, not just women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/06/25 04:03 AM
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Feminists like her would be the same women that would find it odd if men weren't overprotective of their daughters and didn't want to white knight for their girlfriends.
/r/EverydayMisandry23/06/25 08:42 PM
3

This post is great. I enjoy reading it. Overall a great take on the topic.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/06/25 04:02 PM
8

Great analogy here.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/06/25 02:02 PM
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I can see why they do it, though. There is immense pressure to "chose a side" and no room for nuance. I dont totally agree, but I understand it. This is facts. People call others fence sitters, "enlightened centrists", or say they are both siding issues whenever someone points this out.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/06/25 06:43 AM
1

The average man isn't that height or weight. And women can also be that height and weight too.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/06/25 05:40 PM
1

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 04:00 AM
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Thank you.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/06/25 05:34 PM
18

Violent men are usually fighting other men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/06/25 03:36 PM
14

She also said in a previous vid that she trusts men less around children and at least she admitted that that's something she needs to work on. Generalising all men like this is also something she needs to work on. That is so silly. Because the "men are stronger" argument doesn't even make sense here. Since women can overpower kids. And it's usually women that get away with raping male school students anyway.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/06/25 03:35 PM
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Ironically, to your point, feminists sometimes fall into the same trap they accuse other of: “when you’re accustomed to privilege, equality feels like oppression”. Only they’re entirely blind to their privileges to the point that they’ll shut you down for merely suggesting they exist. The irony is absurd. Perfect point here.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/06/25 02:47 PM
7

It's hard to find time stamps on Reddit. She says like 4 minutes into the video. It's around the time she shows his Google image picture. That time stamp doesn't mention the Military at all.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/06/25 02:10 PM
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4:45 to 4:48
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/06/25 02:01 PM
7

She said she has never heard about him being mean to women without giving examples of what means when a man I mean to women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/06/25 01:59 PM
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I didn't say that. I was speaking in general. Only the last part is about her.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/06/25 01:49 PM
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Feminists: Men don't face violence, because men are afraid of other men. Me: Men are the victims of the majority of crimes. Also Feminists: "yEaH bY oThEr". And also in the video. It's interesting how she thinks a man being mean to women is an example of a man being an abuser or rapist. This could expose that she thinks women should get special treatment from men. Because mean can mean a lot of things here. Calling someone a slur is mean. But to some people a man not being chilarious to women co…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/06/25 12:59 PM
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What does size have to do with being vulnerable to bullets? Big or small getting shot can be lethal. Feminists ironically think men are superhumans.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/06/25 12:55 PM
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I call it cakism Feminism.
/r/MensRights19/06/25 01:44 AM
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A white supremacist can use the same "if feel attack" argument too. So they have to keep that in mind too. And even the same Feminists have their "not all women" movements too. Such hypocrites.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/06/25 09:33 AM
2

Thx.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/06/25 04:57 AM
2

And also Malcolm X too.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/06/25 12:34 AM
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We need to be careful with people like FD. We don't want people to mistakenly think that people like FD are actually "pro men". When in reality they are not. Menlibs are detrimental to men issues. Menlibs like FD often frame male struggles through a feminist lens that still blames men as a group. They offer surface-level empathy while reinforcing the idea that men are the root problem. This co-opts male issues without genuinely advocating for men’s autonomy or well-being. It creates the illusion…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/06/25 05:07 PM
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You're dismissing a legitimate critique as “autistic overanalysis” while admitting both sides say toxic things, this double standard proves the point. You downplay radfem rhetoric as "just venting" while treating manosphere content as inherently dangerous, why isn’t “anger-feeding” a concern when it's women doing it? Claiming things “don’t blow up because they’re true” doesn’t change the fact that these messages still shape real attitudes and behavior, especially among younger users. Your use of…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/06/25 03:48 PM
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Don't like it. Then don't read it. That's why the post is split into parts.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/06/25 02:11 PM
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True
/r/EverydayMisandry13/06/25 08:52 PM
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Great way to flip it.
/r/EverydayMisandry13/06/25 06:51 PM
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The side is always talking about abolishing gender roles, sure loves upholding gender roles when it comes to men though. How convenient.
/r/EverydayMisandry13/06/25 06:50 PM
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Men are afraid they will be labeled creepy or predatory.
/r/EverydayMisandry13/06/25 06:49 PM
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No, not at all. I’m even astonished it’s that bad now. Do women prefer boyfriends they didn’t know before? And are they surprised or indignant they end up in abusive relationships? And then they generalize all men based on the few men they have dated with their specific preferences.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/06/25 01:39 PM
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Claiming that the average man is physically stronger than the average woman isn’t a strong argument either. Being physically stronger doesn’t mean shit, the average woman is also stronger than a child. In fact, a five-year-old is stronger than an infant. So what’s your point? 🤔 Again, being physically stronger doesn’t mean shit. A professional strongman might as well be a different species compared to the average man, highlighting how weak the average man can be in comparison. Even if men are st…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/06/25 08:30 AM
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a) "Women give birth, men do military service, everyone has their role". That's bullshit. Women are not forced to have children nowadays. Men on the other hand are very much coerced to do military service. The Feminists will always result back to gender roles when it's convenient. b) "Women would get sexually harassed in the military", and weaker males get horribly bullied in the military but nobody seems to care. Men lives don't matter to them. c) "Women have periods", are women equal to men or…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/06/25 08:26 AM
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hidden violence" such as manipulation, gaslighting, provocation etc I hate this shit.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/06/25 10:35 PM
3

Oh ok gotcha.
/r/EverydayMisandry12/06/25 01:09 AM
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They are probably the same straight or bi women that get the ick from the thought of dating bisexual men. And ironically prefer men to heterosexual. Because they ironically think "heterosexual" men are superior. Since they associate heterosexual men with traditional masculinity and bi men with femininity or "weakness''. I won't be surprised if these anti dating dudes women fit in this category. Tell me what you think of this theory OP.
/r/EverydayMisandry11/06/25 07:51 PM
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This is true. https://www.reddit.com/r/DeppDelusion/s/VJztR6ROqS
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/06/25 12:12 AM
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Feminists, both individuals and media, have at times: Framed men avoiding women as “paranoid” or “ closeted creeps.” Downplayed concerns about false allegations, dismissing them as distractions or even harmful. Criticized those seeking due process or defending men facing accusations.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/06/25 10:11 PM
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I'm glad you use the motte and bailey argument to describe the "patriarchy harms men too" narrative.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/06/25 04:27 PM
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And Feminists also forget that oligarchy put men into position of power. Because of the male gender roles and traditional masculinity. The same male gender roles and traditional masculinity feminists love to call "positive masculinity" when it's convenient. And also call men losers or incels for not being successful enough for women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/06/25 04:25 PM

Ah my friend this is just the cycle of shit. Encouragement, Demonization, and Alternatives. Step 1: Encourage men to be flirty with women, and always compliment women's looks. Because a "real man" knows how to make a woman feel special. Since Men must be confident or have rizz/game (I hate saying that shit). Step 2: Then demonize men for objectifying women, despite encouraging this behaviour to men in the first place. Since women are more than just their bodies. Women have hopes, dreams, and liv…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 03:41 AM
3

Oh no.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/06/25 02:53 AM
2

This Is why I don't date cakism feminists.
/r/EverydayMisandry06/06/25 03:43 AM
4

I noticed women view all men through the lens of their past romantic relationships with men. This is a dumb generalization. Because dating preferences are very specific and women are usually going for specific types of men on average. So it doesn't make sense to say "all men are trash" based on your limited dating pool or even shitty standards.
/r/EverydayMisandry06/06/25 03:42 AM
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This isn't shocking.
/r/EverydayMisandry06/06/25 12:13 AM
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It's like they want us to care about them not caring. It's usually the opposite in reality. Feminists ironically complaining about men not interacting with women in a different topic.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/06/25 05:15 AM
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Misandry meets homophobia. This is why bisexual men are hated by women. Because a lot of women don't think a bi man can't be a "real traditional masculine man". Since being attracted to other men or having sex with other men is considered feminine/weak in society. Even the most progressive/liberal/feminist women still view bi men this way.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/06/25 04:29 AM
1

Spirituality doesn't exist.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/06/25 03:35 AM
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Feminists equate men with the patriarchy amongst each other and then say “the patriarchy hurts men too” when they want men to stop talking about their issues on their own terms. Exactly.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/06/25 01:31 AM
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I will remember you.
/r/EverydayMisandry01/06/25 06:07 PM
2

Facts, your comment is gospel here my friend.
/r/EverydayMisandry01/06/25 05:18 PM
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You didn’t read my post at all. Nothing I said was about demanding women pander to men, or denying the existence of harassment, trauma, or male entitlement. My post was about the confusing landscape men are navigating today, where approaching a woman in public, even respectfully, is often met with hostility, suspicion, or fear. I wasn’t asking for pity or blaming women. I was explaining why some men have decided to keep their distance, because engagement feels more dangerous than ever for both s…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/05/25 08:43 PM
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Yep incels are just these socially awkward losers who spend all day in their moms basement and never touch grass. But yet Incels are still a part of this vast and very organized criminal organization that kills thousands of women every year through mass shootings.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/05/25 05:58 PM
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If the genders were reversed. Feminists would say it's internalized misogyny when women are the cause of other women's issues.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/05/25 01:37 PM
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They are such hypocrites. 🤣
/r/EverydayMisandry30/05/25 10:23 PM
3

Exactly. It's cakism.
/r/EverydayMisandry30/05/25 10:22 PM
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Women: We want to be alone! Also women: We can't find a man. This is cognitive dissonance at its finest.
/r/EverydayMisandry30/05/25 10:22 PM
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As anecdotal evidence I can tell you know many male friends, male co-workers, and male family members who had negative experiences approaching women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 12:37 AM
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Just keep that energy when she wants to meet in public in broad daylight or with a friend. We don’t know who is bad and who isn’t No my friend it's the opposite. This ironically strengthens my point lol. Since men are so dangerous. Then women should have no problem with men not approaching them. Since they can finally feel safe. Dawg you admit women can’t tell if a man is safe, yet people agreeing with you in this thread still expects men to know exactly when and how to approach without seeming …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 11:32 PM
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This response dodges OP’s actual point about men's experiences and reframes it as emotional weakness to dismiss it. OP didn’t "blame women" but explained patterns of negative reactions, often supported by social commentary and anecdotes. Dismissing it as victimhood ignores systemic dating dynamics and safety concerns on both sides. Turning a social critique into a personal attack avoids addressing the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 11:29 PM
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I want you guys to be consistent and stop being hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 11:28 PM
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I love this game of people telling me to use anecdotal evidence when I use data because that's not real-world experiences. But when I do use anecdotal evidence. People tell me that's not backed by data though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 11:27 PM
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That’s an ideal, but reality shows many respectful men still get rejected or labeled creepy due to subjective attraction and social biases. It ignores how women’s safety concerns and past negative experiences shape reactions, regardless of approach quality. Looks, height, and wealth do impact responses. Attraction isn’t just about decency. So, it’s not as simple as “be decent, get no problem.”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 05:18 PM
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Then how TF do men approach women without approaching them lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 05:16 PM
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Dismissing men's concerns as an "internet fallacy" ignores real-world experiences backed by data and viral cases of men being shamed for polite approaches. Saying women want polite men doesn't change the fact that "polite" is judged subjectively, many still get labeled creepy despite good intentions. Claiming it's only about "context" oversimplifies how suspicion of men has grown even in public, neutral spaces. The bear analogy proves the point, men are still seen as potential threats by default…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 05:06 PM
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That's what men are doing. And they are still getting shit for it. 😭🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 05:04 PM
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You drive a car almost everyday. You don't do the same with a plane. At least for the average person.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 05:02 PM
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Yeah he is making terrible points lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 05:00 PM
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Yes there are.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 05:00 PM
1

What do you mean here? Are you talking to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 04:59 PM
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What problems? You are assuming men have these problems to begin with. What if men are just more happy being single and not adhering to rigid gender norms of masculinity. Because that's what this is all about. It's not about treating women like human beings. It's about maintaining the status quo of still approaching women. Let's not pretend that's not the case here. You reframed men’s caution as victimhood, ignoring the valid social reasons behind it. Instead of engaging with the concern, they r…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 04:31 PM
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Voicing systemic patterns isn’t “bitching”, it’s identifying real issues that need collective awareness. Social trends aren’t solved by silence public discourse is often how solutions start. Blaming men’s caution on personal weakness ignores cultural shifts affecting everyone. Accountability cuts both ways, so does understanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 04:23 PM
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The fact that you are not defining what creepy means here. And Is being vague. Shows that you are a part of the problem here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 03:38 PM
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Men aren't mind readers. They can't know which women want to be approached and which women don't want to be approached.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 03:32 PM
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Some women said they even reject men for being awkward or not having "confidence". Not that it is related to being creepy or even weird. So not every man who gets a hostile reaction was being creepy, many have been respectful and still got shamed. Dismissing all negative reactions as men’s fault ignores bias, double standards, and women’s subjectivity in defining “creepy.”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 03:31 PM
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You ironically downplay women’s fear here. By claiming online narratives distort reality, yet women’s fear of men is largely shaped by those same online stories and viral experiences. If men’s caution is dismissed as “internet-fueled,” then logically, so is women’s. You can’t validate one group’s fear while calling the other group’s “divisive shit.” That contradiction unintentionally undercuts the very concerns you claim to support.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 03:29 PM
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Just because some men still approach doesn’t invalidate the large number who’ve had negative experiences and chose to stop. That’s like saying poverty isn’t real because some people are rich. Brushing it off as "fear" ignores real social consequences men face today. The double standard still exists. attractive men are welcomed, others often shamed. Dismissing genuine concerns as “comfort talk” is condescending and gaslighting not insightful.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 03:24 PM
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Calling men’s reasons “cope” is dismissive and assumes emotional cowardice over lived experience. Studies show fear of being labeled creepy, not just rejected. Is a huge deterrent. Men aren’t just avoiding emotional discomfort; they’re avoiding social penalties. Saying women have “no expectation to approach” proves the double standard. So criticizing men for stepping back while benefiting from that privilege is tone-deaf.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 03:23 PM
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Your take ignores the fact that many men have approached respectfully and were still met with hostility, rejection, or labeled as creepy, and that’s backed by data. Just because some women want polite approaches doesn’t mean all do, or that they react consistently. It’s not just about location;, it's about subjective attraction, men women find unattractive often get different treatment even in “safe” places. Even places like a club, party, or bar. Women still complain about men approaching them …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 03:19 PM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 03:15 PM
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Anecdotal evidence aside. Even studies like the 2020 Pew Research report show over 60% of men feel it’s harder to approach women due to fear of being misinterpreted or rejected harshly. Data from YouGov also shows a majority of women prefer being approached only by men they already find attractive. These aren't just anecdotes, there’s real evidence that men face social penalties for initiating. OP’s point lines up with both lived experience and the research. https://www.pewresearch.org/short-rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 03:13 PM
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What content creators. I don't watch any red pill content. I'm too progressive for the red pill. This is the narrative changing. You just ignore everything said. This isn’t a motte and bailey because I’m not shifting from a bold claim to a safer one. I’m expanding the original point with added context. Saying "men get hostile reactions" and then explaining why some women might react that way isn’t a retreat, it’s cause and effect. I never denied the initial claim. I clarified it. That’s not a ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 02:35 PM
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Cold approaching is the worst advice you could ever give men. So yes men will still remain single even if they approached women. Magical terms like "game" or "rizz" are just BS PUA terms. And that won't work for men either.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 02:16 PM
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It’s not a slick diss, it’s a fact. The overlap of men who don’t approach, with men who complain about being single and that women also do not approach, is large. How else would you like me to have said it? No it's not lol. Men who complain about being single still approach women. And get rejected like 100 times. A man's chances of being in a relationship has nothing to do with approaching women LMAO. I mean the choices are relatively simple: men either approach knowing it comes with rejection, …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 02:08 PM
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This instantly dismisses a whole group of people’s lived experiences. That’s not a counterargument, that’s just denial. I've personally seen and heard plenty of stories, some from friends, some from firsthand experience, where guys approached politely and still got hit with sarcasm, eye-rolls, or straight-up hostility. Acting like it’s just men going after “Giga Stacys” and then crying about it? That’s such a lazy generalization. Most guys aren’t out here thinking they’re going to date a supermo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 02:06 PM
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They can be bitchless and stay bitchless for all I care. Nice sneak diss here. So you do care. Care enough to make slick insults or dog whistle insults like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 01:56 PM
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Men have numerous stories of women getting hostile when they say "hi" or "hey". To this point this was actually a meme on Facebook. And all these replies in the thread contradict women's experience here. Women are always saying every woman they know has a SA story. Women are always saying they are wary of men. Women say they can't tell the difference between good men and bad men. So it's better for them to be cautious and assume all men are potential threats. https://youtu.be/3BeqJZOWpFY?si=kjC9…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 01:52 PM
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They never approached women because of that lol. And this is true. They can use many antidotes of women saying they don't want to be approached. Since that has been the popular opinion in the media for decades. 😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 01:46 PM
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1: I would rather be alone with a man man than a woman? Absolutely not. Many women express deep discomfort or fear around unfamiliar men, citing crime statistics that show men commit the overwhelming majority of violent acts. This perception fuels the idea that any man, no matter how ordinary, could be a threat simply by virtue of his gender and the unpredictability associated with male violence. 2: It's not all men, but it's always a man. This phrase is used as gotcha to the phrase "not all men…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 01:22 PM
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Off topic. But FD is an Amber Heard supporter. https://www.reddit.com/r/DeppDelusion/s/PSI01h3DBj But on topic. That's because people, usually feminists and women or white knights like to paint this narrative that most male abusers are cowards or pussies who won't get violent with other men. Therefore violence against men is ignored.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/05/25 03:29 AM
4

Yeah.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/05/25 03:02 AM
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Wanting to have it both ways. In this case only wanting equality when it's convenient.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/05/25 09:44 PM
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I agree.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/05/25 06:32 PM
2

This is a fact. I agree.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/05/25 04:08 PM
1

Yeah I couldn't take this person seriously with the woo woo yin yang comprehension.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/05/25 04:06 PM
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It's basically fighting fire with fire. A lot of people on the left ironically think the solution to men's issues is enforcing male gender roles.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/05/25 04:04 PM
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Based
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/05/25 01:12 PM
0

Liberal women are the same way too. https://youtube.com/shorts/3Zt3sRXre-A?si=3UFPFV2yC5FifSap
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 04:36 AM
5

I.E. women have no agency.
/r/EverydayMisandry25/05/25 09:59 PM
7

Modern feminism has turned into cakism Feminism. Only wanting equality when it's convenient.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/05/25 05:33 PM
14

I have to go out of my way to find incels spaces online or even incels in real-life. When it comes to misandry. All I have to do is open up social media and that's the first thing I see. Or hear female coworkers talking about men.
/r/EverydayMisandry23/05/25 06:02 PM
4

Probably the same woman that would get mad if a man hits a woman back, when the woman hits first.
/r/EverydayMisandry23/05/25 09:24 AM
1

Second this.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/05/25 08:40 AM
3

Yeah it's considered degrading to be fucked by men. Slut shaming is also related to biphobia against men too. Because of the "degrading" aspect of both.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/05/25 08:39 AM
20

Facts.
/r/EverydayMisandry23/05/25 07:06 AM
3

People tend to lose their common sense when it comes to gender related issues.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/05/25 04:11 PM
14

THIS. Feminists usually try to flip it around. And say men don't take accountability for their actions. But that is just projection.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/05/25 04:07 PM
1

And that is so sad.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/05/25 03:00 PM
5

I agree. But let me give it a run down here. Diddy is definitely guilty. Chris Brown was definitely guilty. R Kelly was definitely guilty. Bill Cosby was definitely guilty. The NFL dude was being weird with his kinks, especially choking. The Jonathan Majors situation is very tricky. The situation with the Mermaid actress is still new. And I have no idea what's going on with the Tory Lanez situation.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/05/25 06:22 AM
7

As a black man I feel the same way too.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/05/25 05:24 PM
8

This is freaking accurate. Great point here.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/05/25 04:44 PM
4

Thank you, great reply too.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/05/25 01:29 PM
15

It's a perfect example of a strawman.
/r/EverydayMisandry21/05/25 08:01 AM
2

This is why I always roll my eyes when I see women or Feminists talking about boy moms. When it's a normalized trope in the media for fathers to threaten their daughters'boyfriends with guns on prom night.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/05/25 04:33 PM
2

What does that mean?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/05/25 01:02 PM
25

The only type of feminism I hate is cakism Feminism. I actually want women and men to be equal. Unfortunately some feminists only believe in equality when it's convenient.
/r/EverydayMisandry19/05/25 04:55 PM
2

This is a great post here. Technically, a 12 year old boy who was raped by an adult woman could be forced to pay child support whilst the woman avoids jailtime. This sucks.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/05/25 11:43 AM
22

The woman is basically doing the same thing here lol. My god if the genders were reversed. People would be calling the man a whinny little incel bitch for complaining like that.
/r/EverydayMisandry18/05/25 07:53 PM
6

Exactly.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/05/25 11:42 PM
1

Yeah you need good skills to get them a gotcha. And also not all gotcha are bad. This is a valid gotcha.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/05/25 06:12 PM
6

This is the one. I'm definitely using this. 😂
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/05/25 04:54 AM
9

All of these are facts. Great reply.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/05/25 04:51 AM
13

Woah Woah I thought OF was empowering for women. Because women had more control compare to porn or sex work.
/r/EverydayMisandry17/05/25 01:34 AM
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Because remember women don't have enough agency to choose their partners. /s
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/05/25 12:50 AM
7

Women 'weaponised incompetence' in the form of benevolent sexism.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/05/25 11:01 PM
5

That is insane.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/05/25 04:47 AM
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And I hate the blue stereotype of TERFs too. That stereotype makes it seem like TERFs are a part of this weird rare cult or something. When in reality the average Feminist is probably more likely to be a TERF. I.E. JK Rowling. Even the Feminist trans allies can still be TERFs. There are plenty of Feminist LGBTQ allies who get the ick from the thought of dating a Bi man. So why wouldn't the same happen with trans women? 🤔 So that crazy blue hair TERF stereotype masks the reality that gender-criti…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/05/25 04:31 AM
3

Formulaic action films that haven't been given the feminist make-over above tend to still leave the guys fairly bland heroes plus "expendables". Jason Statham movies are all about the same guy. "Taken" has a bland dude... who's also been left by his wife and a mockery in his private life. But take a movie like "Deer Hunter" which is pretty much just normal dudes going to war, war experiences, trauma... and you don't have any of those categories, characters have a genuine sense of humor and gravi…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/05/25 03:22 PM
8

True.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/05/25 06:10 AM
10

The scary thing is that your examples aren't even exaggerations. These could all be accurate situations that could happen in real-life.
/r/EverydayMisandry13/05/25 02:57 AM
5

Wtf
/r/EverydayMisandry13/05/25 02:55 AM
3

Oh man I thought I was the only one. I even reject help from women, who want to help me do simple tasks. And they get so upset. It's almost similar to the trope where male feel insecure, when their girlfriends or wives don't need their help opening a jar. It's crazy i have the same experience with women real life lol.
/r/EverydayMisandry13/05/25 02:52 AM
1

Even my sister says don't worry about her car being dirty. Because she is a woman lol.
/r/EverydayMisandry13/05/25 02:49 AM
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This is it. Facts.
/r/EverydayMisandry13/05/25 02:23 AM
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Conservatives and Feminists are two different sides of the same coin. The only difference is. Conservatives want to put men in a box. Feminists just want to make the same box a little bigger for men. We want to get rid of the whole box for men. And both sides hate us for this.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/05/25 06:28 PM
21

Toxic masculinity and "positive masculinity" are just two sides of the same coin.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/05/25 06:25 PM
21

Exactly, men should define who they want to be. Not let society decide that for them.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/05/25 06:24 PM
6

I feel you man. I agree with your take on masculinity here. Whether it's Conservatives or Feminists. Both sides based their idea of "positive masculinity" on male self-sacrifice, male disposability, and being chivalrous to women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/05/25 06:22 PM
1

This is facts.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/05/25 01:44 PM
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Schrodinger Feminism. Where women are both empowered and victims at the same time.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/05/25 08:43 PM
89

Feminists love convenience. First, it's women are more than just baby making machines. Until it's time for women to be baby making machines though m
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/05/25 08:42 PM
11

Yep this is not surprising.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/05/25 08:39 PM
1

Good take here.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/05/25 06:24 PM
3

I agree.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/05/25 08:51 PM
46

Oh my god I'm always talking about how ironic this phrase is. Because it's usually Feminists struggling with the idea of women being treated the same way as men. And I didn't even know this phase was more ironic than I thought. LMAO. Thank you for showing me this information.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/05/25 05:02 PM
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Wait MRAs made this phrase? I'm reading your comment right? Not that I disagree with you. But it's just it would be shocking (but actually makes sense though lol).
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/05/25 04:49 PM
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The ironic thing is a lot of women are complaining about men not being chivalrous or giving them special treatment nowadays. https://youtu.be/XlipTAynX6k?si=kXJ7_xhwzq3xZMhX So you are right OP. It is a projection. Because women are struggling with the idea of men treating them like equals. Oh the irony.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/05/25 04:43 PM
10

That means closeted gay men.
/r/EverydayMisandry06/05/25 12:40 AM
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They still consider men creepy when they don't approach women. You can't make this shit up. 😂
/r/EverydayMisandry05/05/25 12:35 AM
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Toxic masculinity when men don't show feelings And Trauma dumping when men do show emotions. It's the same old feminist hypocrisy.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/05/25 12:25 AM
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They also ironically use the #notallmen argument when it comes to men not approaching women or interacting with women due to fear of being labeled creepy. Saying that women don't mean all men when they say they don't want men approaching them.
/r/EverydayMisandry04/05/25 04:53 PM
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I thought this was just a girl boss joke that you only see in a South Park episode about Feminism. I'm actually shocked this is something that happened in real life, WTF.
/r/EverydayMisandry04/05/25 04:47 PM
14

Note these are the same people. Saying that men should use their "male privilege" to help women, and stand up for women against misogyny and violence. All because women are oppressed. Such hypocrites with their cognitive dissonance. If women don't need men. Then Feminists shouldn't want or expect men to use their "male privilege" to help women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/05/25 04:35 PM
1

The funniest/ironic thing here. Is the fact that right-wing men are more likely to be successful with women lmao. Because most women, (including feminist women) have a preference for traditionally masculine men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/05/25 11:23 PM
3

"OG DEI" Only lasted 5 seconds on that sub. The post and comments were stupid.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/05/25 04:34 PM
4

Despite wanting to be morally Superior to men, and also legally equal to men. They still want to feel physically inferior to men too. I know it's a mind fuck paradox LMAO. But feminists still ironically view incompetent men as their protectors or providers. That's how they usually define "positive masculinity''. Or men using their "male privilege" to help women, or stand up for women against misogyny or violence. https://www.reddit.com/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates/s/WEdPHFzB0d
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/05/25 04:28 PM
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But of course the feminists need to push the false idea that most women are allegedly suffering at hands of their loving husband (ohhh noooo) to get their point across. While also shaming single men by calling them incels, losers, or closeted gay men. Because they use shaming tactics on men, to make men follow gender roles like pursuing women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/05/25 04:13 PM
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This also ignores the fact that men can still be depressed in Marriages. People are always saying BS like married men are more happy than married women or single men. As a way to show how terribly married men treat women, and also as a way to shame men for being single too. I wish I could find more evidence that debunks this idea. After all married men die faster.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/05/25 04:08 PM
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If the men are trash. Then that means the woman is the bin that fits the trash.
/r/EverydayMisandry03/05/25 05:54 AM
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It's just propaganda to shame single men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/05/25 01:33 AM
3

Even Conservative and red-pillers think only male immigrants should be deported because of the "protect women" narrative. Remember guys racism is half racism and half misandry.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/05/25 08:02 PM
2

I think it's everybody's fault.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/05/25 03:35 PM
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The same crowd of women are usually the ones complaining about men interacting with women less. https://youtu.be/H6b3_BcuyAw?si=A9nSV38LqrHLUdLI https://youtu.be/mKSZeT0wiT8?si=fG-NJiG0XEe-BoGl The 🐻 women crowd would probably agree with the talking points in these videos.
/r/EverydayMisandry02/05/25 01:46 AM
5

Exactly 😂😂
/r/EverydayMisandry01/05/25 10:04 PM
22

Said this better than me here. Great post. My point is, it is easy for women to condemn men as creeps but when they reward creepy behaviour in men they find attractive and punish men who are respectful towards them. They are complicit in the very thing they are condemning. Accurate.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/04/25 05:38 PM
3

Thank you. Lol
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/04/25 06:48 AM
4

Imagine if the fake feminist boogeyman/narrative with the red-pill radicalizing young boys was actually true with this sub. That would be great for us, because we would have more influence. But this wouldn't be great for feminists though. Because they would hate that, because of the Cakism status quo, this sub automatically goes against by default. They would hate us so much. That they would choose the red-pill over us, bear vs man style lol.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/04/25 06:44 AM
5

Frustrates me. It's like people have watched Batman, and said, "We really need to take steps to protect ourselves from this Joker guy!" Accurate.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/04/25 06:35 AM
8

Yep. Lol
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/04/25 08:45 PM
27

Yes this just sounds like more "positive masculinity" nonsense.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/04/25 06:34 PM
10

Yes I saw that too. And I agree. I'm glad I'm not the only one.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/04/25 06:31 PM
63

Ah yes the bare minimum. The bar is in hell.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/04/25 06:31 PM
23

I don't know guys. It seems like she is promoting "positive masculinity" here. Especially with her examples about men making women feel "safe". Like she is between a feminist and a conservative.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/04/25 06:30 PM
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Idk know how tf they think we are a part of the Manosphere. If we are not against women rights like voting, having careers, or abortion. Sorry that was dumb of me lol. I definitely know why this is happening. I think Feminists automatically loop this sub with the Manosphere for a convenient reason. This sub goes against the status quo of male gender roles. We won't push some BS repackage progressive idea of traditional masculinity and call it "positive masculinity" like our Menlibs counterparts.…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/04/25 03:39 PM
5

Thx
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/04/25 12:17 PM
12

the only thing that has changed is the explanation of why exactly women should be protected and men shouldn’t complain. In traditional societies, it was explained by saying that women are weak and men must be strong. Now, it is explained by saying that women are oppressed and men are "privileged." But the core idea remains the same. This is a perfect way to explain this.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/04/25 09:52 PM
13

It does seem fairly biased. The women who do advocate for men's rights or equal treatment are often labelled 'pick me's' or pandering. They receive a lot of backlash. While it's considered "positive masculinity" when men advocate for women's rights.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/04/25 09:50 PM
3

Yes
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/04/25 09:47 PM
8

It's funny how they think all men protect each other. But still think all men are the root cause of other men issues at the same time lol.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/04/25 01:39 PM
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Its like, People have collectively decided to believe that male on male violence is none of their concerns And it's also ironic how the left doesn't do this with black on black crime.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/04/25 01:34 PM
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Not that I disagree. But I'm curious what people mean by her privilege leaking into their worldview and content.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/04/25 02:30 AM
3

Fair enough. Just use him as an example of a man who faces a lot of pushback in the media. Because of the leaked audio.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/04/25 12:29 AM
3

Men issues = women more affected.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/04/25 01:40 AM
124

Most people IRL hate Andrew Tate.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/04/25 01:11 AM
3

Brilliant post.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/04/25 12:32 AM
12

But but but..... FeNiNiSm iS fOr mEn tOo. R/s.
/r/EverydayMisandry18/04/25 05:35 AM
2

That sounds so accurate here.
/r/EverydayMisandry18/04/25 04:15 AM
5

😂
/r/EverydayMisandry17/04/25 09:40 PM
1

This is the most annoying shit about gender issues. I want people to call out women more for this behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 05:04 PM
7

This is sad man.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/04/25 03:03 AM
5

This is based.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/04/25 04:45 AM
9

I understand wdym the type of feminist to think less of bisexual men ? She views bi men as "less masculine" because they are attracted to men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/04/25 03:51 AM
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It's not coherent because she is ignoring the fact that "masculine looking" gay men and bi men exist too. And ironically she wouldn't consider those men "real men". Even if they identified as being traditionally masculine. She associates cis men with straight men. She is also the type of feminist to think less of bisexual men. So she only has these expectations for straight men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/04/25 03:27 AM
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Yeah this isn't surprising. Stepping out of gender roles is usually something for women, not men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/04/25 02:25 AM
1

I agree.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/04/25 05:02 PM
6

The only sports I have been interested in are combat sports (MMA, boxing, etc). I find most sports outside combat sports boring.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/04/25 02:48 PM
2

Don't have a relationship with it at all.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/04/25 02:47 PM
7

Even with race the progressives still ignore struggles with men. I.E. black men are just identical black versions of white men. Because black men still have male privilege and benefit from the patriarchy.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/04/25 11:08 PM
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I mean feminists enforcing rigid male gender roles on men.
/r/EverydayMisandry10/04/25 11:23 PM
1

They can't tell the difference between misogyny and true equality. They ironically think benevolent sexism and equality is the same thing.
/r/EverydayMisandry10/04/25 09:30 PM
9

Toxic masculinity from women, especially Feminists is nothing new. It's common.
/r/EverydayMisandry10/04/25 09:13 PM
1

It depends on how conveniently traditional the Feminist I'm dating is.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/04/25 08:31 PM
8

And they have no reason to help solve men's issues either. Since men issues and female privilege are connected. So removing men's issues, also removes female privileges. That's why they are so anti male advocate groups.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/04/25 04:22 AM
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I don't trust them at all with helping men. Half of the time their solution for men is men just adhering to traditional gender roles via "positive masculinity".
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/04/25 04:17 AM
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Accurate comparison here.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/04/25 04:09 AM
7

The funny thing is this phrase is more likely to exist with women. Because in society both women and men have a bias towards women. While men have a outgroup bias. Women have a sisterhood. So men are more likely to listen to women than other men lol
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/04/25 01:35 AM
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Your welcome.
/r/EverydayMisandry07/04/25 09:55 PM
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Edit: Holy shit guys. I did not see the "this didn't age well" tweet in the first reply. That's why you can't fully see the tweet. 😂😂
/r/EverydayMisandry07/04/25 05:17 PM
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This is the one rebuttal here. Thank you. 😂 So I was right. It's just Schrödinger's Feminism. “Men only listen to other men” directly contradicts “women fought for their rights all by themselves”,
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/04/25 05:32 PM
3

Great post here.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/04/25 04:37 PM
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That's what I'm saying. Not all men view all men as "real men" lol. It's basically just Schrödinger's Feminism. They are so empowered that they can fight for their rights, have successful careers, and do anything a man can do. But yet they are still victims who can't stand up for themselves in the workplace lol.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/04/25 01:13 PM
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She would probably be more sympathetic to women who complain about men not approaching them anymore.
/r/EverydayMisandry06/04/25 01:33 AM
4

Heck men are even called creep when they don't interact with women at all lol.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/04/25 04:43 AM
9

This is the scariest thing about false allegations. Women are still allowed to withdraw from consent, six months after sex wtf. I understand withdrawing from consent during sex. But six months is scary for men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/04/25 04:37 AM
4

This is also true.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/04/25 03:09 AM
11

Great clip. Thank you for showing this. For a while I thought I was the only one who saw this lol. Which is silly of course. No talking point is ever original.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/04/25 03:08 AM
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Ignoring all the jobs men mostly do that are about helping people. Police, Firemen, the Army, etc. Are women to do these jobs.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/03/25 11:36 PM
12

Great way to describe it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/03/25 11:35 PM
2

Facts.
/r/EverydayMisandry31/03/25 03:51 PM
1

I agree
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/03/25 02:46 PM
9

Oh it's ok. I live my life that way too.
/r/EverydayMisandry30/03/25 02:49 AM
8

You posted this post under a different name?
/r/EverydayMisandry30/03/25 02:39 AM
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The reply thinks one weirdo men decenter women.
/r/EverydayMisandry30/03/25 02:35 AM
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I give you a hint. It's one of those ask W- omen subs.
/r/EverydayMisandry30/03/25 02:32 AM
6

That post got downvoted too.
/r/EverydayMisandry30/03/25 01:21 AM
7

The cognitive dissonance from Feminists is out of control. 😂😂😂
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/03/25 12:31 PM
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Pretty much that's any sub on Reddit. But I will say it's a major disappointment when scientific subs engage In this behavior though.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/03/25 07:03 PM
7

I agree.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/03/25 04:00 PM
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The point I’m trying to make is that they(women) assume men can’t have expectations of them, meanwhile they can even though they offer nothing in exchange. I’m sorry I went in on a different topic to the one here, but it shows how women(even the conservative ones) view masculinity. Facts. But this isn't just conservative women though. It's also feminist women who have expectations for men too. Most women are in the middle. Most modern tradcons are posers. Because we don't live in a world where w…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/03/25 02:34 PM
4

I agree.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/03/25 11:44 AM
2

This is understandable.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/03/25 03:55 PM
13

Or the same people that can't fathom how a country wouldn't want a female President or think women are more emotional. When you ask to be treated like children. Society will actually treat you like children.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/03/25 03:52 AM
5

THIS
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/03/25 02:19 AM
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This is true. This is super related to my post. They think women don't have agency. While they have hyper agency for men. Even for young boys under 18.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/03/25 07:38 PM
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This is a common sense take. But women still hate men for having this take though lol.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/03/25 06:51 PM
2

Facts explain this way better than me.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/03/25 03:53 PM
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Maga, femcels, misandrists, conservatives - they are all conformists. Expose their hate with facts and logic and they get real quiet real fast. Accurate here.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/03/25 03:35 AM
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Facts
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/03/25 11:01 PM
3

I agree with this too.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/03/25 09:39 PM
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Either way, I think my position here aligns with yours Yes, I definitely agree with you here.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/03/25 04:31 PM
1

True.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/03/25 02:34 PM
1

What are you talking about here? I watched about 5 minutes of the long ones and they were pretty much correct.
/r/EverydayMisandry22/03/25 04:25 AM
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For relationships they are weaponizing psychology terms like Darvo, narcissism, and therapy speak.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/03/25 11:33 PM
2

I have seen some replies (I can't find) on this sub using the phrase "male feminists usually turn out to be creeps". Again this is a very popular phrase a lot of people say. So it's not surprising that thinking sneaks into this sub. Of course it's not everybody. But it's still important to avoid this thinking though.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/03/25 06:37 PM
3

This was also a general post. So not just about him. It's about the general idea of "male feminists usually turn out to be creeps". Harry was just an example of this. Red-pillers like Myron are already falling for the trap by pushing the narrative that all male feminists are creepy. https://youtu.be/llaj2lQ-t7Y?si=y7dXYJb1837NS1yV
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/03/25 06:28 PM
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No he was being called a predator by feminist women. This is a false allegations situation. There are vids covering this. https://youtu.be/7QMGoO4Mkc0?si=idTlx7VPPZQPeoN0
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/03/25 06:16 PM
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The looks of female characters in video games never crossed my mind.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/03/25 05:49 PM
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And just because men don’t say they’re offended, doesn’t mean they aren’t. That’s your own bias claiming women are just so offended, so they ignore you, and the men don’t care, so they ignore you. Like shouldn’t the goal be treating everyone with respect? That's the problem if the genders were reversed. People would be calling men entitled and saying women aren't obligated to give men their time. And yes I know this specific to gender. Because we live in a society that encourages men to be chiva…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 07:44 PM
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Not “sugar coating” how you talk to women? What does that even mean? It’s so silly it would be comical if it weren’t so sad. For example, I'm an asocial person. I hate talking to people, especially at work. So anybody ask me about my personal life. I would tell them that's none of their business. I would say this to both men and women. And only women would get offended. Men would usually just back off. And also again benevolent sexism is bad because it portrays women as weak children who always …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 07:22 PM
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No one has ever called you a potential mass shooter for anything other than the hateful rhetoric and vitriol you spew for women. It has nothing to do with just being single. Don’t be obtuse. In the past 3 months I have actually argued with 10 people on here who think men who are single are more likely to be violent and go out to harm women. Are women creating this pressure for you to get with women or do women just not want to be treated as subhuman? Ben Shapiro is an awful example. He is misogy…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 07:06 PM
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I don’t know another word for a man without a partner into his old age other than bachelor. Women were called spinsters, old maids, cat ladies, prude, and lots of other things that hold a much more negative connotation than “bachelor.” Incel was coined by a woman and holds a very different connotation than just an unpartnered man with its current use. I do think men should decenter women. But incels can’t. They have to blame women for everything. I don’t even care when they complain about dating…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 06:43 PM
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All your statements just CLAIM they are obviously true and don't need evidence to suppor them. Why can't you give the evidence for it, if it's factual? I show you a study you downplay it. Why do you want to nudge women to be more what you want, instead of being content with the women who already are what you want? I don't give a fuck what women want to be lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 05:11 AM
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Do people really think female attention is the most important in men’s lives? To be fair, that's what everybody thinks. Hence why a lot of people associates only lonely men with incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 10:37 PM
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Again, you lack evidence or arguments for your claims. I don't believe you based on "default". A lot of people's idea of "equality" and "positive masculinity" is based on benevolent sexism. This is a fact. The phrase "men must hold other men accountable" has two meanings. Men calling out their friends when making misogynistic jokes. Or men risking their lives when they see women in danger. The Gillette commercial about men doing better that went viral literally used an example of a man bumping i…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 06:39 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates/s/FckTUwgXBC The fact that people have an idea of "positive masculinity" in the first place is automatically wrong by default. Gender abolishment or gender Nihilism should be the solution. And also if you don't have an idea of "positive femininity". Then don't try to pull that bs with "positive masculinity".. And to some people gender roles and "positive masculinity" is the same. I'm sure most of the women who don't want to date bisexual men, because…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 01:36 PM
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But "positive masculinity" is just repackaging the male gender roles that causes male loneliness in the first place. In my view, the ideas of "positive masculinity" and "healthy masculinity" in feminist discussions often miss the mark. They seem to reform patriarchal structures rather than dismantle them, making them more palatable for women while still enforcing traditional gender roles. This approach doesn't truly liberate anyone. The terms themselves are vague and subjective, leading to varie…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 02:08 AM
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I'm not trying to be a man at all. That's the point lmao. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 07:40 PM
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Brilliant.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/03/25 02:20 PM
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Elaborate more. Sounds like you are cooking here.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/03/25 02:15 PM
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Their argument is usually "bY oThEr mEn".
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/03/25 12:07 AM
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Too many men only identify with putting women first.
/r/MensRights13/03/25 10:53 PM
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Fair point.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/03/25 12:41 PM
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Or your seen as a bad guy for doing neither, as you don’t have to do anything. In fact, you doing neither (not being a perv but not going out of your way to be heroic or kind specifically for women) proves that you are content in women being mistreated, even though those are not cordlated. And even though I’ve never been in that type of situation anyways, you kinda loose either way. The story of my life here lol. You are automatically on the oppressor side if you are neutral.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/03/25 12:39 PM
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What Feminism is the one that is pro male gender roles? Cakism Feminism?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/03/25 10:37 PM
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Wait how could women make up 66 percent of the work force, when the same Feminists always say women aren't giving opportunities in the work force?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/03/25 10:18 PM
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Doing 66% of the work? Where? In factories? Are women the primary bread winners? Get fucked. At this point I know the claims were already BS LOL.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/03/25 10:16 PM
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Even Conservatives are white knights too.
/r/MensRights11/03/25 08:39 PM
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True.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/03/25 11:01 PM
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Facts
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:52 PM
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Outside lesbian feminism. All forms of Feminism still prefer male gender roles because it's beneficial.
/r/MensRights10/03/25 07:29 AM
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Remember guys Feminists idea of equality is men still adhering to gender roles that benefit women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/03/25 04:41 AM
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When men do something bad: This is why women pick the bear. Men are dangerous. When women do something bad: Oh my God humanity is awful.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/03/25 01:43 PM
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Police are already investigating the situation that happened with the male stalker who harassed popular female streamers a few days ago.
/r/MensRights08/03/25 02:44 AM
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But the same people ironically say "not all men" when it comes to men not approaching or interacting with women though. So it's another convenient thing Feminists do. When the narrative changes.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/03/25 04:52 PM
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Sorry typo. And this sounds terrible, but it's not surprising though.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/03/25 09:29 PM
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I just watched a very popular show on CW called All American. It had a recent episode. Where a female character thought a male character was gay, because he didn't want girls putting their underwear in his locker. Again this is extremely popular show on CW with 7 seasons. Now you tell me which gender the media thinks enjoy rape and sexual assault more.
/r/EverydayMisandry04/03/25 04:37 PM
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The* typo
/r/EverydayMisandry03/03/25 03:17 PM
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Trust this technique does work. Check out my recent post on deep thoughts. They are freaking out.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/03/25 09:06 PM
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The trick is to not call out the misandry and hostility towards men. The trick is to join them. If you can't beat them. Join them. I know this sounds crazy. But hear me out. Let me cook here. Whenever these misandrists start complaining about men not approaching women anymore. Or men not interacting with women in the workplace at all. Or men not helping women in the public. Tell them that women say men are more dangerous than bears. Women say every woman they know has a SA experience. Women say …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/03/25 02:22 PM
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Allyship is nuance. Exactly you are right. Allyship is nuance. And don't forget the fact that a lot of women can't tell the difference between equality and misogyny too. So a man who treats women like equals, can definitely be viewed as a misogynist. Despite the man treating men and women equality. But he is still labeled misogynistic or an incel for treating women like normal people (ironic). While a man who is traditionally masculine can be chivalrous towards women. And a lot of women can inte…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 08:43 PM
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I just view women rights as human rights. Nothing special for me. I just think it's the bare minimum. I think women can do whatever they want. Because it doesn't affect me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 08:37 PM
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Well you didn't say anything wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 08:34 PM
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I won't be a part of a movement that considers me to be the oppressor. Why would they want help from their go oppressors in the first place? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 08:34 PM
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Man I hope this is actually an honest story about how false allegations negatively affect men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/03/25 06:46 PM
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A surprising and smart comment from a woman on that thread. "I know you think you’re defending women, but you aren’t. Women should get the respect of being held accountable when we do something wrong, not like hyper emotional children, who have no control over our emotions. In an attempt to defend women, you’re actually reinforcing the stereotype of us being irrational and unable to handle our emotions." These male Feminists or even female feminists are ironically perpetuating sexist attitudes a…
/r/EverydayMisandry01/03/25 12:30 AM
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Ignoring the part where a lot of women don't want to work dangerous jobs or dirty jobs. <No, you are not forced to fuck people who buy you dinner. Remember guys women have no agency. Despite being empowered victims who can do anything a man can do (Cough cough Schrödinger's Feminism).
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/02/25 05:31 PM
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Right a man who focuses on exercise and self improvement can still be misogynistic lol. The reason women started the 4B movement was not because of Incels. It was because they were frustrated with the misogynistic boyfriends they keep choosing.
/r/EverydayMisandry25/02/25 04:03 AM
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😂😂 Brilliant.
/r/EverydayMisandry25/02/25 01:08 AM
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False allegations aren't a joke or a online thing. Before you do the predictable NPC thing. And tell me to touched grass. Maybe your head has been in the grass too much.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/02/25 04:06 PM
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was the accusation completely debunked or was the accuser someone who lied constantly? Both.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/02/25 03:56 PM
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True.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/02/25 03:40 PM
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I agree 1000 percent agree here. That's why conservatives love weaponizing benevolent sexism too. When the other side thinks women's lives are always in danger. And say men are the worst than bears. Bringing up statistics about how violent men are. And how 1 out of 4 women have a SA experience. This is where Conservatives come in and weaponize the Left talking points against them. Now all of a sudden laws that negatively affect Trans women. Oh that just means Conservatives just want to protect w…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/02/25 03:49 PM
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That's the low bar Conservatives are trying to weaponize.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/02/25 09:53 PM
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Sometimes I think we are the only rational people about gender online lol. Everyone is dog shit. Conservatives, Feminists, red-pillers, etc.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/02/25 10:11 PM
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Purple is just the red PILL with less restrictions for women. But still maintain the restrictions for men though. It's a bad sub.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/02/25 10:04 PM
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The post was about society's fickle feelings about women being sexualized. Where men are encouraged to sexualize women. But men are demonized when they sexualize women. This causes mixed signals. For example, men are predators or creeps when they sexualize women. But men are also gay or odd when they don't sexualize women. Therefore men put into a damned if you do, and damned if you don't type of situation. the place brings the worst out of men but how was it for you? did you get called names or…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/02/25 09:24 PM
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Btw Jordan is me.
/r/EverydayMisandry21/02/25 07:09 PM
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Things will have to get much worse still before those sorts of compromises will be offered. That's because men issues are only considered issues, when it affects women. For example. Feminists usual response to the lonely male epidemic was haha we don't care. Men did this to themselves. It's not a women's problem or women's job to fix men's issues. Now women are complaining about men not approaching or interacting with them anymore. Now all of a sudden Feminists "care" about men being lonely. And…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/02/25 04:50 PM
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Funny video.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/02/25 04:45 PM
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I'm saving this comment.
/r/EverydayMisandry21/02/25 03:29 PM
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She is saying she loves it that more men are lonely and committing suicide.
/r/EverydayMisandry21/02/25 03:06 PM
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This is very accurate. 😂 And don't forget you are also considered misogynistic or an Incel for not sexualizing women too. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 11:50 PM
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This is all a you problem. No one is asking you to sexualize anyone. You’re choosing to because you think they’re dressing a certain way for you. and they’re not. I promise, it’s not for you. Again I said I'm not easily influenced by silly society standards. You conveniently ignored that part. I don't approach women at all, I don't flirt with women, and don't stare at women at all. So this isn't a me problem lol. I don't give a shit how dress. I don't care if they are naked. It has nothing to do…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 07:12 PM
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I'm not being encouraged because I'm not id*ot or easily influenced. Everytime a woman wears revealing clothing or show cleavage or their buts. Men are being encouraged to say "damn", "gyat", or stare when women walk pass them dress like this. And then society turns around and demonize men for this behavior and says it's dehumanizing and objectification. Despite society encouraging men to have this behavior in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 07:04 PM
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That's the whole point of this post. Men are being encouraged to sexualize strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 06:59 PM
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How do you go about sexualizing random women that are strangers while asking for consent? 🤔 Hope this helps. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 06:58 PM
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But yet it's still on the men to assume the woman wants to be sexualized, before even asking for consent. The only way this would make sense, if the woman told the man she wants to be sexualized by him. If that doesn't happen. Then it's unfair to expect the man to be a mindreader. So society can't give men shit for not sexualizing women. When men can't magically know when women want to be sexualized. Especially when women don't say anything to the men they want to be sexualized by. Hope this hel…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 06:49 PM
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Have a conversation, read body language, dip when not reciprocated. That’s it. First of all body language is barely a thing that exists. It's just pseudo science. Someone can have a mean face. But that doesn't necessarily mean they are upset though. What? Men can also familiarize themselves with women then or prefer more warm connections like women if they’re so afraid of a woman having an opinion. They don’t have to avoid women that’s just weird. Men can't familiarize themselves with strangers.…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 11:59 PM
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Again you are still skipping the part where men have to approach women or sexualized women. There Is no way a man can know how a woman would react to his compliments. Hence why men aren't mind readers. Yes they are avoiding assuming the best of strange men because men statistically commit a shit ton of violent crimes. However they become more comfortable by reading the room and conversation and body language that minimizes threat or progresses familiarity. For example, a family member or male fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 11:39 PM
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Oh, that's 100% true. Few posts on this sub are worth reading in their entirety. Nonetheless, when I say you struggle with boundaries, I know I'm right because you keep saying that men aren't mindreaders. I can't struggle with boundaries when I have never violated somebody's boundaries. I don't approach women at all. So you are making a big allegation here. It's people like you, that give men more reason to not interact with women. Because you say shit like this. Assuming a man violates women bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 11:33 PM
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Original topic: "women sexualize themselves so why can't men sexualize them?" --> "boundaries" Wrong as hell LMAO. The actual original point of the topic: it's ok for women to sexualize themselves. But why are men encouraged to sexualize women though. When we have been told it's bad when men sexualize women. I don't give a shit if women sexualized themselves. I'm just frustrated with the fickle feelings people have when it comes to this topic. The fickle feelings with this topic creates mixed si…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 11:25 PM
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No it's definitely on topic. Just how women can't magically know whether a male stranger is safe or dangerous. A man can't magically know whether a female stranger wants to be sexualized or not be sexualized.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 11:18 PM
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Just how women don't have to be a mind reader to determine whether a male stranger is safe or dangerous? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 11:14 PM
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Sorry that's the current climate we are in right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 11:01 PM
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Do you see there's a boundary there? Is this a problem of not understanding boundaries? No it's a problem of women thinking men are mind readers who automatically know their boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 11:00 PM
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Great read here.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/02/25 10:13 PM
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I 100 percent agree here.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/02/25 07:55 PM
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If I could, I'd wave my magic wand and take away all privilege...and resentment...that seems to be one of the roots of these issues. Again it's up to women to stop fighting for a half-ass version of equality. And actually fight for a version of equality where they are identical to men. No more Cakism equality, where you can have your cake, and want to eat it too. And not it's just traditional women who like benevolent sexism. Feminists like benevolent sexism too. Hence why they are calling men w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 07:53 PM
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Are you serious? Did you read anything I said? Did you miss the part where women are afraid of random men who approach them? https://youtu.be/tuup5GxNVp0?si=BAYULD8M6CRuhHE2
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 07:49 PM
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Women will say this shit but do nothing to change it behaviorally. That's the part where we and feminists will never get along. Because feminists rarely ever stand on shit. Lol.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/02/25 07:19 PM
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I said treat women as three dimensional humans with value, and I'm adding basic human respect. I'm not sure what's so problematic about that. I never said it was problematic. I said women need to actually accept equality for change to happen. Not a half-ass version of equality. A lot of women struggle to tell the difference between equality and misogyny. A lot of women think benevolent sexism is "pro women". A lot of women view male gender roles as "positive masculinity" or healthy. So women are…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 07:03 PM
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I agree. This is why I called rape culture the cycle of shit in the post. And also I'm just trying to speak in a language they will understand. To make them see their hypocrisy.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/02/25 06:52 PM
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I agree, which is why I called rape culture the cycle of shit in the post.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/02/25 06:41 PM
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I think the biggest point here is enabling. Of course rape isn't normalized in society. But maybe the thoughts that leads to rape is normalized in society though. It's similar when people say Andrew Tate isn't the root cause of the problem. He is just a symptom of the problem, again not the cause. The same can be said about rape culture too. For example. People thinking rape is good is not a problem, because rape isn't accepted or normalized in society. But the expectation for men to constantly …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/02/25 06:40 PM
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Again I already admit she doesn't always have the best takes. 😂
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/02/25 06:23 PM
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That's why it's called a paradox.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 04:46 PM
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Women just want to be treated like three dimensional humans with value. There's a time and a place for sexualization, that time is not all the time, if that makes sense. That's the problem though, women usually don't like it when they are treated like equals. I don't flirt with men, I don't give up my seat on the bus for other men, I don't compliment men, I don't do minor favors for men. So I'm going to treat women the same way. Because women and men are identical to me. But yet a lot of women s…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 04:31 PM
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You are saying not all women are like this right? I'm just saying get shit when they do the same thing with not all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 04:01 PM
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I don't care about being viewed as a sexual being as a man lol. I'm just frustrated with women's fickle feelings about being sexualized, consent, and men approaching them. I hate the damned if you do, and damned if you don't paradox men are put in these types of situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 03:55 PM
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Good keep it like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 03:46 PM
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When it comes to women safety. You know all the stuff about the bear vs man analogy, men being statistically more violent, 1 out 4 women having a SA experience, catcalling, and the metoo movement. Women often say they are afraid to leave their house, walk alone, or walk at night. All because of how scary men are. They give fake numbers to men. Because they don't know how a man is going to react to the word no. Women can't tell the difference between good men and bad men. Because both are strange…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 03:41 PM
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Then why are more not approaching women anymore? And why are a lot of women complaining about that? If women don't like being sexualized by men. They should have no problem with men never approaching them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 03:27 PM
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No because women aren't the only people that have to deal with double binds in society lol. Dudes like you aren’t doing themselves any favors. Chicks (dudes) like you aren't doing themselves any favors too. Women who think like you have the audacity to complain about these double blinds. But yet still uphold double binds that affect men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 03:13 PM
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You have to be thin, but not too thin. And you can never say you want to be thin. You have to say you want to be healthy, but also you have to be thin. You have to have money, but you can’t ask for money because that’s crass. You have to be a boss, but you can’t be mean. You have to lead, but you can’t squash other people’s ideas. You’re supposed to love being a mother, but don’t talk about your kids all the damn time. You have to be a career woman but also always be looking out for other people…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 02:51 PM
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THIS is pure facts. Treat men and women like equals. Albeit women usually hate it when men treat them like equals lol. But you aren't treating women like equals, because women like it. You are treating women like equals, because it's the right thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 02:04 PM
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It's the same thing honestly.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/02/25 01:53 PM
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Yes, call out creeps by all means but please do not demonize regular, healthy male sexuality and try to make them feel guilty for things they are biologically wired to feel. It's not just that bro. They call us socially awkward, socially inept, or even gay when we don't sexualize them. So it's a double edged sword. So again mixed signals. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:45 PM
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In other words this translates into expecting men to be mind readers.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:43 PM
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Because you don’t know what objectification means. A woman taking control of her sexuality and deciding what to do with it herself is empowering. It’s a personal choice. A woman having someone else’s sexuality forced on her or having her humanity taken away just because she’s sexual isn’t empowering. In my post I already said it's fine for women to sexualize themselves. My problem is why are men being encouraged to sexualize women though. Why not just let women be sexy by themselves. While the m…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:41 PM
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So not all men... (Women).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:39 PM
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This just sounds like women wanting to have their cake and wanting to eat it too. Nobody is forcing women to be sexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:37 PM
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A false dilemma is a logical fallacy that presents two opposing options as the only possibilities, ignoring other alternatives. I.E. they think men must either be creepy who don't interact with women because they will end up harming women or they think men must be confident and assertive enough to "rizz up" women with their "game". Those are the only two options for men lol. Either be called a creepy misogynist or adhere to traditional male gender roles.
/r/EverydayMisandry19/02/25 06:19 AM
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Now that I think about it. This is probably a major factor too.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/02/25 12:43 AM
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True.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/02/25 12:42 AM
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I don't think you simplified things. You still have a valid and common experience too. I was just talking about how bullying may look different in other cultures. This doesn't take away from your experience at all.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/02/25 11:18 PM
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It's Cakism Feminism or Schrödinger's Feminism. They want the best of both worlds.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/02/25 11:15 PM
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The thing is women and even feminists still want men to follow those rigid gender roles too.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/02/25 09:57 PM
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Maybe bullying is different is other cultures. So as a black American man. When I was in school the boys bullied me like they were in the Mean Girls movie. They would make fun of my shoes/clothing/fashion. And every time I walked past them, they would whisper to their friends and giggle while looking at me. The bullying was never violent.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/02/25 09:55 PM
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feminists had a point in getting rid of it because they (usually) don't like gender stereotypes. I don't get why they'd ban you for saying that. Yes and no. Most feminists still like male gender roles. They just don't like female gender roles.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/02/25 09:51 PM
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SHOE0NHEAD > > > > Noah Samson
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/02/25 03:43 PM
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If women feel threatened by this. Then it's definitely a huge red flag, suspect movement, and self exposed on their part lol. Give me valid reasons why women would feel threatened by men not interacting with them. Sorry if this sounds hostile. I'm speaking in general here. Even in a workplace environment men could be professional and cordial with women. And women still complain about men being too professional. So any woman being mad at this, seems very suspicious. 🤔
/r/EverydayMisandry16/02/25 03:59 PM
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This is the best one yet lol. Seriously, this is so accurate to my post.
/r/EverydayMisandry16/02/25 03:51 PM
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I'm asocial. In my experience women just ask me why I don't talk that much.
/r/EverydayMisandry09/02/25 02:13 AM
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A better question would be. Why do Feminists get mad when men are jaded towards women, when they are justified for being jaded to men too? If a women supports men rights. She is a pick-me or suffer from internalized misogyny. But also even if a man supports men rights. He is a woman hater, or incel. Despite numerous times, Feminists saying men should make their own movements and not expect women to help them. Women issues are treated as default, there form women issues are everybody problems. Me…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/02/25 10:36 PM
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And the best part is when even Feminists themselves uphold certain parts of this "patriarchy". When it's beneficial/convenient for women. Since women still benefit from male gender roles.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/02/25 09:28 PM
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The whole idea of "positive masculinity" is tradcon coded.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/02/25 09:22 PM
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1000 percent agree here.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/02/25 12:57 PM
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I 10000 percent agree here. I keep saying this. And I know some will disagree here. Both Menlib and MRAs are detrimental to men issues. Both are different sides of the same coin. Both think male gender roles are the solutions to men's issues. When male gender roles are the root cause of men's issues. Both believe in the magical concept called "positive masculinity". Only difference between both. Is that one group is more liberal. While the other group is more conservative.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/02/25 05:02 PM
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men only need to reflect on masculinity and that's it. And even then those profeminist men's liberation movement still want men to reflect on a form of masculinity that is only beneficial for women. Not men themselves. That Masculinity is called "positive masculinity". Which is pseudo traditional masculinity. So to them male liberation is about men still adhering to traditional gender roles, without expecting women to do the same.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/02/25 04:58 PM
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Leftwing Male Advocate has a good ring to it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/02/25 04:54 PM
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Bad for men issues. And could easily be used as ammo by Feminists, to push their narratives.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/02/25 12:26 PM
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The only male privilege all men shared is that they are physically stronger. Therefore they are 1 percent less likely than women to get sexually assaulted. Emphasis on 1 percent here.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/02/25 08:51 PM
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The same way I define toxic masculinity. Justifying bad behaviors, and calling it masculinity or religion.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/02/25 12:57 PM
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Yep this is feminists would still be against a non misogynistic version of Mgtow. Because it still goes against the status quo.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/02/25 12:10 AM
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The problem with intersectionality when it comes to gender. is that it ignores the important factor gender roles and traditional masculinity plays in gender dynamics. The fact the left believes in "positive masculinity" and not positive whiteness or positive heterosexuality. Proves this point. There is no race or LGBTQ equivalent to gender roles. White people aren't socially expected to be chivalrous to black people. Standards for white allies and male feminists are different. A lot of Feminists…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/02/25 10:54 PM
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I think a lot of people make the mistake of thinking intersectionality is simply additive, i.e. a black woman has it twice as bad as black men because of both racism and sexism. However, it's not that simple since historically out group males are targeted for specific harms by the dominant group. The male part of being black in America can't reasonably be seen as benign since we are seen as threatening. Racism is usually misandry. If this wasn't true. Then black women would be the ones getting m…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/02/25 10:39 PM
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It's the most annoying thing about feminists and menlibs.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/02/25 11:46 AM
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It's going to sting way more hard for them when they start losing more men to Leftwing Male Advocates lol. Because they hate us more than right-wingers. Which is crazy of course. Think about it. They hate us more than the right. Because the right still maintains the status quo. We don't hold the status quo at all. Some feminists or the left will lose their shit if our beliefs became just as rampant as the red-pill with younger men. Im about to use the man vs bear analogy here. Don't worry guys, …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/02/25 09:40 AM
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Ironically there is already in a woman that exact thread saying how women hate cold approaching. Because cold approaching is scary to women. And it gets women killed. But yet these guys think cold approaching is something all women want. Lol.
/r/EverydayMisandry02/02/25 04:53 AM
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More info: My whole argument was that women will either like a man or not like a man. And somehow this was an Incel take. Because these men think there is some magical way to approach women that gets results.
/r/EverydayMisandry02/02/25 12:30 AM
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That sounds great man. I hope you do well.
/r/EverydayMisandry01/02/25 07:59 PM
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Fair enough.
/r/EverydayMisandry01/02/25 02:48 PM
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You are missing the point here. If it's silly to give all men the credit for some men having great accomplishments benefiting society throughout history. Then it should also be silly to hold all men accountable for the actions of a few bad men decades ago.
/r/EverydayMisandry01/02/25 02:29 PM
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Because of male gender roles. Men are always expected to be the ones to protect women. Because it's "positive masculinity". Which is just pseudo traditional masculinity with Feminist gaze.
/r/EverydayMisandry01/02/25 01:45 PM
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The funniest thing is Feminists would downplay men issues to men just being sad that they can't get laid, and that's not a women's problem. But yet the same Feminists are more likely to say men are more likely to be violent misogynists or lonely incels when they are not in romantic relationships with women. They make fun of men for talking about their struggles about dating. But at the same time they would hate to live in a world where men didn't care about dating. (Cough cough because women wou…
/r/EverydayMisandry31/01/25 10:24 PM
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Yes I'm for it.
/r/EverydayMisandry31/01/25 10:15 PM
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Nice.
/r/EverydayMisandry31/01/25 10:05 PM
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I agree. You are right. Men play a role too. Men can actually start by treating women like equals, and rejecting benevolent sexism. This is why I'm against men's cold approaching women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/01/25 07:12 PM
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start asking if women are cake feminists or egalitarian feminists. That's the best way to go about it. Lol.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/01/25 05:58 PM
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Yes this is definitely true too. Feminists just want Cakism. They don't want the drawbacks of female privilege. But also they want to remove the awards men get from male privilege. Again they just want to have it both ways.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/01/25 05:43 PM
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Benevolent sexism just = double edged sword female privilege. It's a double edged sword. Because feminists want the benefits of society treating women like they are children who need protection from men, men to provide for them, and chivalry from men. But at the same time though. Feminists also risk society treating women like they are incompetent, or take women less seriously. Making it harder for them to do their fake "girl boss" thing. Therefore the female privilege is a double edged sword.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/01/25 05:12 PM
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Violence is at best a part of human nature anyway, but these narcissistic women are too fragile to admit it and try to blame men instead. Even the same women want men to use violence to protect them from abusers, rapists, violent men, or men they don't like. Violence is only ok when it's convenient for them.
/r/EverydayMisandry31/01/25 03:28 PM
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Both of you guys are right.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/01/25 03:09 PM
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Ah yes the good old Schrodinger Feminism. Where women are empowered and victims at the same time.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/01/25 02:54 PM
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We are being turned into second class citizens We were always second class citizens lol.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/01/25 02:53 PM
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I treat women like equals. Meaning treating women and men the same. And somehow the most progressive, feminist women still have a problem with that. I mean we all know why, (cough cough traditional male gender roles). 😂😂
/r/EverydayMisandry27/01/25 04:32 PM
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We are truly in a patriarchy that benefits men. Well we all know, that feminists use the apex fallacy to generalize all men. But this is BS. Because the same girl boss Feminists probably still prefer to date me who have status, and more power than them.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/01/25 02:45 AM
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Ah yes it's the good old Schrödinger’s masculinity. Where society has a paradoxical idea of masculinity.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/01/25 01:17 PM
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Now you are classified as Incel or Nerd by the society that both man and woman take part in it, and everyone hate you just because you are not manly man. Not just men and women that are conservative. Even liberal men and women will judge you for not being manly enough too.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/01/25 01:10 PM
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And I think you miss the OP point. And also masculinity isn't that comparable to being gay or race. A gay man will always be a gay man, doesn't matter if he is married to a woman for 20 years. While all Masculine man has to do, is put on a dress or make up. And society automatically considers them feminine. Heck even masculine gay men and especially masculine bisexual men are automatically considered "feminine" in society. Because of their attraction to men, and then engaging in "submissive" sex…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/01/25 01:08 PM
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Although people associate masculinity with dominance, I feel as though it’s actually quite submissive. For example, the idea of men being perfect soldier who follow commands for their country and die for others is very subservient BINGO A man's masculinity is always based on other people's validation or approval. There is nothing independent about masculinity. Both are cringe. But this is why I will always choose the sigma male nonsense over the alpha male nonsense. At least one is actually abou…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/01/25 12:55 PM
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And that victim complex automatically leads to misandrists thinking men should take up the role of being the protector. So men can protect the helpless female victims.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/01/25 05:08 PM
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The funniest and ironic thing is that Feminists are more likely to take men who are on the top of the apex fallacy more seriously than lower status men. Their ideas of masculinity with BS terms like "positive masculinity" which is just pseudo traditional masculinity. And many studies also show that even the most feminist women date up, and only want men who are more successful than them. So it's a classic funny case where Feminists fail to understand or refuse to acknowledge the role they play t…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/01/25 05:06 PM
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Sounds like more "positive masculinity" (aka pseudo traditional masculinity) BS to me.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/01/25 09:05 PM
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But that's just you though. Not everything that works for you, works for all men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/01/25 09:04 PM
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This is very accurate and actually happens. Many women shame single men, but get upset when men don't approach them.
/r/EverydayMisandry24/01/25 12:26 PM
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They are the biggest hypocrites.
/r/EverydayMisandry24/01/25 03:26 AM
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when they're struggling they no longer offered help nor are doors open & other common polite niceties are no longer performed. How the phase goes again? Something something. When you are so accustomed to privilege, equality feels like oppression.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/01/25 03:44 PM
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this channel, would you recommend her content? or anyone who is subscribed to her, would you recommend her channel? I mean she has good takes on physiology. But again her takes on gender can be iffy at times.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/01/25 10:42 PM
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Its not this cave man/obeadient dog ideal at all lol. Yep it's basically the Madonna/Whore complex for men lol.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/01/25 06:11 PM
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It's not me lol.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/01/25 09:12 PM
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Patriarchy wouldn't exist in the first place if it wasn't for nature. I don't mean this in a dumb red-pill bro science way. Back then when there wasn't technology. Women depended on men. Because men were physically stronger. Now modern society has internalized this fact. Of course this is dumb. Because technology exists, and women don't need to depend on men anymore. But I'm just saying patriarchy didn't come from evil men who wanted to oppress women. Patriarchy was just a natural response to na…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/01/25 07:23 PM
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They only use that as an excuse to ignore how women and feminists themselves still uphold the patriarchy. It's just deflecting. If we switch gender to race here. We all know damn well feminists wouldn't use the same excuse for black men. Imagine if a black man was being colorist towards dark skin black women. And his defense was you can't blame, because white people created white supremacy. Again we all know damn well this excuse wouldn't fly well with Feminists lol. But that's the exact thing f…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/01/25 06:59 PM
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Seems like you have a good approach here. Is she making this easy for me without me needing to use game or rizz. The moment I detect I need to use game or rizz to get her out, I'm out of there. Rizz and game is just bs.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/01/25 04:08 PM
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The double standards prove this. It's funny how Feminists can change their narrative of the lonely men epidemic when it's convenient. When Feminists say "We don't care about men's dating struggles". They get praised. But when we say the exact same thing. We get hate. Because they know men having the same opinion as them on men dating lives will automatically go against the status quo. It's basically Cakism. They want to have their cake and want to eat it too. On one hand they don't want men comp…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/01/25 02:30 PM
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This may sound like a conspiracy theory. But I think this conspiracy theory is very true or some truths in it. It seems like society forces men in a box, where they have to be hypersexual.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/01/25 08:31 PM
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"Positive masculinity" is just a dog whistle for men to adhere to traditional gender roles that benefit women. It's only "positive masculinity" when it helps women. And it's "toxic masculinity" when it doesn't help women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/01/25 06:47 PM
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"healthy masculinity" but not positive masculinity. It's the same thing.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/01/25 03:29 AM
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🤣🤣🤣
/r/EverydayMisandry16/01/25 09:23 PM
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I agree with everything you say here. But you said something valid that I didn't brought up in the post. So I would just like to add more to the point you brought up. The actual thing you're seeing here, is that people want higher status men to "objectify" but not lower status men. The thing is this also affects higher status men or attractive men too. What if an attractive man doesn't want to objectify women because of religious reasons, celibacy reasons, or he just doesn't like being openly se…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/01/25 05:46 PM
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I'm hoping the video in the link is rage bait. But I won't be surprised if it's not rage bait. But either way I think this woman represents a lot of women conflicted feelings about men approaching women. And also the person in the first slide. Said this "Unfortunately for me, I love men." Not joking. It's the same person.
/r/EverydayMisandry16/01/25 02:32 PM
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Two things can be true. Women can like Luigi because he is both attractive and did something they considered heroic. An attractive man who kill a bad guy. It's the best of both worlds.
/r/EverydayMisandry16/01/25 01:13 PM
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No not really. If an unattractive man killed the CEO. Nobody would be saying how they want to fuck that man. Many people hate Donald Trump. But nobody is sexualizing the person who shot him though.
/r/EverydayMisandry16/01/25 01:06 PM
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(which usually means being aligned with feminists on most stuff except autonomy) Exactly the best way to explain both sides being different sides of the same coin. Horseshoe theory. Matter of fact horseshoe theory is the perfect example of showing how feminists and conservatives are the same when it comes to male gender roles.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/01/25 05:06 AM
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Similar to how straight men can experiment with other men. But most women aren't into bisexual men or even men who have one curious experiment.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/01/25 04:12 PM
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Feminists view it like this. Female gender roles = toxic masculinity, patriarchy, and misogyny. Male gender roles = "positive masculinity", "healthy", and "morality"
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/01/25 04:09 PM
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You have to flip it on them. If you can't beat them, join them. Hear me out here. Once you agree with their "all men are evil" narrative, especially when it comes to the (less men interacting with women topic). They begin to change their mind. And ironically say "not all men" lol. 1: I would rather be alone in the woods with a bear than a man. Because men are so dangerous and unpredictable. Using crime statistics to show how violent and dangerous men are 2: It's not all men, but it's always a ma…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/01/25 09:58 PM
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Maladaptive Masculinity. Perfect term to describe it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/01/25 06:09 PM
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Then women shouldn't get upset when men don't interact with them. Since men are so scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 05:28 AM
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Exactly 😂😂
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/01/25 01:37 AM
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Perfect analogy to describe this post.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/01/25 03:52 AM
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Facts
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/01/25 02:33 AM
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Found a "positive masculinity" bot here. Feminism couldn't be further from all right-wing ideologies. Positive masculinity isn't traditional gender roles for men, it's simply being a decent person and rejecting the fallacious notion that personal characteristics are inherently tied to one's body. It's not. If Feminists truly thought men and women were equal they would do one of these two things here. 1: Positive femininity would be a thing for women. Both genders would have a positive standard, …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/01/25 08:21 PM
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Men get told, "do better," and when we comply with the rules even more consistently than women do, the narrative about us seems not to change. Men are still given shit for listening too. It's a damned if you don't, and damned if you don't type of situation. With many women or Feminists themselves complaining about men being too professional, introverted, around women. For fuck sakes I have seen some women or Feminists complain about men asking for consent too much. Let that sink in.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/01/25 08:12 PM
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😂😂
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/01/25 08:08 PM
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Not surprised at all. Boys have been taught how evil men are and how women are afraid of men for decades. Make sense boys would care more about consent. While on the other hand society or feminists hasn't taught girls about consent. So they don't care about boys'feelings about consent.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/01/25 08:05 PM
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This is a great one. 😂😂
/r/EverydayMisandry11/01/25 04:57 AM
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and oh the gymnastics they do to back track on their own arguments. 1: I would rather be alone in the woods with a bear than a man. Because men are so dangerous and unpredictable. Using crime statistics to show how violent and dangerous men are 2: It's not all men, but it's always a man. Or it's not all men, but it's enough men for it to be a problem for women. 3: Women aren't mind readers. We can't tell the difference between good men and bad men. So we must be cautious, and assume all men are …
/r/EverydayMisandry11/01/25 03:42 AM
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Even men did it more. 99 percent is too high. And even then sex crimes from women are reported less, aren't consider rape at all (see sex with school teachers), and women get lessor prison sentences.
/r/EverydayMisandry11/01/25 02:14 AM
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Threw important things to realize about male privilege. 1: Male privilege is the apex fallacy. They only focus on the few men in the position of power. Therefore thinking all men are privileged because of a few men with status. So it's stupid to expect the average man working at McDonalds or Amazon to use his privilege to help women. 2: Male privilege just = rigid male gender roles where men are expected to be protectors and providers for women. Men must protect and provide for women. Because th…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/01/25 07:06 PM
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Yep the fact that even the most progressive women get the ick from bi men, because they view bi men as less masculine due to their attraction to men. Shows that the rules and enforcement of said rules remain the same, like you said.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/01/25 01:30 AM
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Perfect analogy. 😂
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/01/25 01:29 AM
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Conservatives and Feminists are different sides of the same coin. Both think the solution to men issues is "positive masculinity". And "positive masculinity" just means men adhering rigid male gender roles.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/01/25 09:44 PM
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Bisexual men face a similar hatred from progressive women too.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/01/25 08:31 PM
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They always ignore the part where Feminists become obstacles for any men's rights movement that tries to start up. https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/s/kFYLjo2Eyp
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/01/25 05:05 PM
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Oh boy I say shit about you. I will be banned. But you can call me a bitch. And say I'm one of the 100 men who fuck Lilly. And nothing happens to you. If you really insist, I can call you a rapist though, if you get some kick out of it? You already did.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 04:25 PM
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If women are all over you, how many of them falsely accused you of rape? And I mean actually accusing you, not in the way you just twisted my words. False allegations aren't just about evil women lying. Women can still feel like they were rape even if they consented. Women can have regrets after having sex. So even if a woman is friendly with men, that doesn't mean she won't falsely accuse that man. Like how some feminists thought Lilly Philips was taken advantage of by the men. Even though she …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 03:59 PM
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It's no different from women saying they are not nice to men. Because they don't want men to mistake their kindness as flirting with them. Women talk about men thinking they are interested in them, after showing bare minimum kindness, a lot. So women shouldn't be upset that men are doing the same thing too. Don't want to be friendly to women. Because they don't want women mistaking their friendless as creepiness or a way to hit on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 03:07 PM
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women are very empathetic towards male victims whilst even other male victims joke abut it. Cut the BS. Women response and especially feminists response is to say male rape is their issue, because women have it worse. And say men should fix that issue themselves. And then their indifferent attitude changes to caring real quick when men start to do something about it. And all of a sudden they get something to say about male victims. https://np.reddit.com/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates/s/akB8NojODI
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 01:07 PM
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Facts over feelings women think the same way about male victims. Hence why there is history of feminists being against male version victims of SA shelters.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 12:57 PM
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Men get rape a lot by women. Society just doesn't consider it rape. So many stories of women getting away with pedophilia because the victim is a boy. And society thinks boys should like it. So that doesn't even factor into statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 12:52 PM
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However, I agree that it's probably for the best if you, OP, in particular, stay away from them. Women are the ones that don't stay away from me. And this is the BS I'm talking about with false allegations in this post. You as a person on Reddit are already insinuating or assuming that I could be a potential rapist. And don't BS me here. That's what you mean when you say you want me to stay away from women. So cut the BS. Therefore you are proving the point of this post. It's people like you who…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 12:43 PM
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Not all cases get reported as false. And rape is very broad. And gay men aren't common. Straight women are more likely to rape men than gay men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 12:43 PM
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This is true.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/01/25 12:46 AM
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For the women's movement, everything centers around the oppression of women through societal norms or active male harm. So from their perspective, good society for women should obviously lead to a good society for men because why wouldn't it? If it's good for them it HAS to be good for men as well. The problem is a lot of women think what harms men is good for men and women. Rigid male gender roles harm men. A lot of Feminists make male gender roles seem like it's a form of "positive masculinity…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/01/25 06:26 PM
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Because self identified feminist used the same argument you use. I'm not calling anybody a feminist. People are calling themselves feminists, not me. Saying we have a President who grabs pussy is the point you are trying to make to downplay false allegations issues here. Therefore comparing Trump the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 04:33 PM
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It's funny how Feminists and others in this thread say I can't compare the average man to Mike Pence. But it's perfectly fine, to compare the President of a freaking country to the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 04:20 PM
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You don't understand, women's issues are related to it. Women issues that are about men being dangerous. Grape, and SA. Why would men want to approach women. When it's a popular opinion that most women are afraid of men. So men are respecting women's boundaries by interacting with them less. Again If women say they are so afraid of men every time they walk out of the house. They can't tell the difference between good men and bad men. Because there is no way they can truly ever know a man's inten…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 12:48 PM
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Women also conflate being creepy with sexual misconduct.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 04:21 AM
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The hypocrisy is making an article about the Mike Pence rule. When feeling this way in the past. Therefore proving why the Mike Pence rule is responsible thing for men to do. This is an essay about internalized misogyny, it's a common feminist theory. It's an incredibly normal and consistent view for a feminist to hold. What's contradictory about it? Where does she want men to conform to gender roles? Where is she insisting men base their masculinity on female validation? You were the one who sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:30 AM
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Using my post history proves nothing, and is bad faut. Nobody deserves shit. So maybe take a step back and consider how you sound with this unhinged rant. What unhinged rant lol? I'm saying nobody deserves special treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:26 AM
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Bro I literally show a well known feminist who contradicted herself in this exact post. Not a "random anonymous comment online". Don't be shocked that many Feminists aren't consistent with their views.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:20 AM
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I didn't read your comment while I was editing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:17 AM
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Aren't you the one that said Jessica Valenti is human? So by that logic Feminists are human too. Therefore they can be close minded too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:15 AM
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No I don't you just reinforce my point in your other comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:14 AM
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Makes sense, since women were the ones who decided that they don't want random men interacting with them. So it does help. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:14 AM
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Not talking about the doc. The doc and article is separate. https://youtu.be/H7gqtwuXJN4?si=FSucYSR0Zi7LLBlS
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:10 AM
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Step 1: A lot of Feminists still expect men to adhere to traditional male gender roles. Step 2: Feminists gain a lot of benefits and privileges like chivalry, protection, and resources when men still adhere to male gender roles. Step 3: A part of being a man is basing your masculinity on female validation or approval. Step 4: If men stop basing their masculinity on female validation. Then women lose their power over men and privilege Step 5: And Feminists don't want that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:09 AM
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But most women never cared about the loneliness epidemic for men though. Since it's not a woman's problem men are depressed. ploy to coerce women into humoring unwanted sexual advances. This is the type of nonsense I'm talking about in the post. There is no illuminati group of men forcing women to date lonely men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:01 AM
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That's why it's better to teach men that female validation doesn't matter. But feminists are still against that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:58 AM
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Wait did you just say "NOT ALL MEN"?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:50 AM
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And only an exponentially tiny number of terpers will ever get both. So the next time you guys think you have a big gotcha, better take a second look at the pathetic begging for sexual validation in dead bedrooms, in retroactive jealousy, in the marriage and sex subs, in r/ seduction, and take a looooong look around at your brothers in the gym dropping weights, grunting like gorillas, and your idiot friends who send unsolicited dick pics in a desperate bid for attention and ask again: are women …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:49 AM
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Good faith? You are the one choosing to ignore what's being shown in the video.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:33 AM
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It's in the video in the link. https://youtu.be/wV2P8zuMVvc?si=fT0j9VyW8_Y8Jf5O
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:29 AM
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Sorry no lol. I have to point out hypocrisy and cognitive dissonance whenever I see it. If someone complain about men not interacting with women. Of course I'm going to bring up all the times someone said it was scary if men interacted with women. Like tf lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:08 AM
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No, it's actually the opposite. I bring up women's issues as a response to feminist downplaying false allegations.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:01 AM
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The same statistics that should make men acknowledge how afraid women are of them. If women say they want men to stop approaching them and leave them alone. Don't you think it makes sense for men to actually stop interacting with women. Because they are doing something women want. It wouldn't make sense for women to call men paranoid for listening to them. Especially when women tell men to deal with it. Meaning men must accept that women are cold and distant with them. Make sense men would respe…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:34 AM
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Spend your time working on yourself, then you won't be one of those guys women complain about. I'm the opposite since women usually question my sexuality when I don't hit on them. That's the hypocrisy I'm talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:26 AM
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First I'm not offended by women being afraid of men. I just don't like the hypocrisy. Since they aren't consistent with this fear of men. I wouldn't care if women decided to not interact with men. Which is why I'm not against the 4B movement in concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:23 AM
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You know that false allegations don't necessarily have to be made by evil women who are intentionally lying right? Women can think they were grape. Women can feel regrets after having sex. For fuck sakes, Lilly Philips consented to have sex with 100 men. There was a documentary made about this, where she cried. And now a lot of feminists think 100 men took advantage of her. There was an article about this. So now imagine this foolishness on a larger scale with the average man. Again women don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:19 AM
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I agree. I don't like the downvotes this comment has.
/r/EverydayMisandry08/01/25 12:22 AM
4

I think we need a feminist word equivalent to Zionism.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/01/25 08:22 AM
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Hmmm interesting point here.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/01/25 06:40 AM
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Context: https://youtu.be/F6aeClj4xkY?si=Ling-p5VOBl0reb3
/r/EverydayMisandry07/01/25 04:45 AM
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"femcels just rant online, Incels kill women in real life" "Misandry hurts feelings, misogyny kills" Will be the average Feminist response to this.
/r/EverydayMisandry07/01/25 03:20 AM
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That's the agenda. And not enough people talk about this. Both male gender roles and Female privilege are tied to men's issues. And a lot of Feminists don't want women to lose their privileges or benefits. And male gender roles help keep the status quo of female privilege alive. So if there are more men groups advocating to abolish male gender roles. That isn't going to be something most Feminists like. That means less men pursuing women in relationships, providing resources for women, risking t…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/01/25 05:13 PM
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The typical male = protector role and female = victim role.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/01/25 12:07 AM
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,>Despite this being a nothing burger of actual help.. its also completely incorrect.. how often have you heard women / feminists call men "Fragile" for crying or drinking out of mugs or bottles with "Male Tears" written on them? Or they say men expect women to be their personal therapists. Because of all the trauma dumping and emotional labor.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/01/25 08:27 PM
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Some women usually talk about how feminists call them pick-me for caring about men's issues. But the funniest thing is, not even men are allowed to talk about men issues either lol. Since feminists will call them incels, misogynistic, or tell them men have no issue. Matter of fact most Feminists automatically think non male feminists are on the side of the oppressor if they are indifferent. Because they must support women rights, because it's the bare minimum. And it means a man cares about huma…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/01/25 04:41 PM
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You are going to love this post then. https://www.reddit.com/r/everydaymisandry/s/LWlqbSrn1d
/r/EverydayMisandry05/01/25 04:33 PM
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On the feminist sub they actually classified this sub as a hostile sexist sub. I'm not joking. This is true. The only way they would accept us. We must walk on eggshells around them and agree with all of their ideas about gender. That's Menlib in a nutshell.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/01/25 04:26 PM
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The "feminism is for men" meme is just lip service to make sure men stay in line and don't make their own advocate groups. Since they want to control the narrative around men's issues. They don't want men taking their attention off women issues, and focusing on men issues. That would take the spotlight away from women issues. Even if a male advocate group is not misogynistic. That group is still automatically labeled misogynistic if it goes against the status quo. They know if a male advocate gr…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/01/25 03:17 PM
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At this rate Feminists will have more sympathy for female gang members/criminals who get killed by rival gangs or Drug Cartels than innocent male civilians who get killed by gang violence.
/r/EverydayMisandry05/01/25 02:22 PM
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Oh wow what a dumb thread on that sub.
/r/EverydayMisandry05/01/25 02:18 PM
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Oh my so sorry to hear that. Yeah this is very frustrating.
/r/EverydayMisandry05/01/25 01:26 PM
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"actually women attempt suicide more" 🤓
/r/EverydayMisandry05/01/25 11:26 AM
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When those male advocate groups become successful, too successful, successful enough to be obstacles for female privilege/benefits. Then all of a sudden "feminism is for men".
/r/EverydayMisandry05/01/25 03:50 AM
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Exactly the "feminism is for men" meme is just lip service to make sure men stay in line and don't make their own advocate groups. Since they want to control the narrative around men's issues. They don't want men taking their attention off women issues, and focusing on men issues. That would take the spotlight away from women issues. Even if a male advocate group is not misogynistic. That group is still automatically labeled misogynistic if it goes against the status quo. They know if a male adv…
/r/EverydayMisandry05/01/25 03:02 AM
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As for "feminism was started by women for women, do it yourself"... it's all well and good, until we remember women harass, demean and belittle any men's rights activism. In a popular Jubilee debate the biggest Feminist argument was why do men need an rights movements for. Then turn around and talk about how men should start their own movements and not rely on women. And yet women are the first ones to scream that men who don't support and promote feminism are the problem. Just more cases where …
/r/EverydayMisandry05/01/25 01:16 AM
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Feminists don't care about men's issues. The only time they care about men's issues. Is when a particular men issue affects women. Like the war meme. They usually don't care about men dying in war. But when Hillary Clinton did the "wives, sisters, and moms are the most affected by war" meme. All of a sudden this was valid now. Another man's issue is the lonely epidemic or more men being single. Feminists usual response was "men not being able to get laid, is not a women's/feminist problem". Sinc…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/01/25 01:29 PM
2

Just see AITA sub
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/01/25 07:13 AM
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Pushes the idea that all men are mindless sex beasts.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/01/25 10:40 PM

I'm not taking anyone who uses broke as an insult seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 01:14 PM
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Yep feminists love the patriarchy when it benefits women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/12/24 10:00 PM
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Ahh you think I'm cute. Note this isn't a sexual harassment comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 07:59 PM
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Let’s say feminism blows things out of proportion with creepy guys. Your alternative is to what? Just let men be creepy? Encourage it? Dismiss it because “bad guys and rapists and creeps exist? Oh well if you run into them?”. No the alternative is to interact with women less.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 07:27 PM
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Are you disagreeing with me here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 05:18 PM
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Oh then the argument is even worse for the reasons already mentioned. So it makes sense for men to not interact with women based on women's fear of men. Because men would be respecting their boundaries right? 🤔 You are more than welcome to, just as other people are free to call out that reasoning as absurd. You saying that reasoning is absurd makes you a hypocrite with cognitive dissonances. You are ironically downplaying women's fear of men here. So you are basically saying men are just paranoi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 02:55 PM
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Bro I hope you respond to this comment. Jessica Valenti is the same Feminist that says she hates the fact that society makes her miss cat calling. And she is writing this article for Mike Pence. https://youtu.be/wV2P8zuMVvc?si=fT0j9VyW8_Y8Jf5O Note I don't agree with the YouTuber in this video. This is the only vid I can find. The case is close though. My point in this post is proven, LMAO.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 02:46 PM
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Do women claim to be afraid that men are going to falsely accuse them of rape? That's a new one to me Bad faith at its finest here lol. You know I was talking about women fear of men raping them. I even said that in the same reply you are replying to right now lol. About 1/3 of men said they would rape a woman if they could get away with it, as long as you don't use the word "rape." Most women say they assume all men are potential threats. Make sense for men to interact with women less just base…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 02:40 PM
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No one is asking you to. They're just calling your reasoning absurd. Let's cut the BS here. None of you guys would be calling women absurd for their fear of men. You guys would think women fear of a man raping them is valid. Despite the fact that non rapist men far outnumbered men that are rapists. So please cut the BS man. Yeah except you're claiming that your main concern is that someone is going to forge the deed and repossess your house. No I'm not, I'm saying I'm still taking that as a poss…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 02:14 PM
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The chances of someone rubbing your house in the suburbs is pretty. But yet you still lock your doors. 1-3 percent is still a lot. And I'm not taking risks. Because I can't know what women 1 percenters or not. Similar to men assaulting women is still low. But women still assume all men are potential threats. Because they don't want to take any chances. I'm doing the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 01:59 PM
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I'm also more likely to be assaulted by a woman too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 01:37 PM
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It's like Feminists expect men to ignore the things women have said for the past decade when it comes to men interacting with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 01:10 PM
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That was a great post. And very detailed too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 06:32 AM
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Where can I learn more about this story?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 03:25 AM
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It's called the "women are wonderful" effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 02:24 AM
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This person is a perfect example of my post here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 01:24 AM
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You can comport yourself according the video if you want, but I assure you, nothing positive will come of it. What do you mean by this?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 01:17 AM
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I don't care about women doing sex work. But If this happens. Make sure you guys give women their own agency. And don't try to blame men or paint men as bad guys the second a sex worker feels regrets.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 01:05 AM
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It’s like those white people who freak out “WE CANT SAY ANTHING ANYMORE” because HR said you can’t say “n*****” in the workplace. Like bro just chill and be kind 💀🤣 No you get twisted. Men aren't afraid of women because they can grab their asses in the workplace anymore. Men are afraid because any action can make them be perceived as a creep. If people say to wear a seatbelt because a car crash could happen, yes, they are going to look at you weird if you wrap yourself in bubble wrap every time …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 01:03 AM
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Some women take offense to a man just existing lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 12:44 AM
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Are women guilty of gender discrimination with their fear of men too? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 12:41 AM
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Similar to all the media talking about women's fears?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 12:30 AM
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That's... not the issue. The issue is that there are many men who manage to interact with ALL women without being a creep. It's not that difficult. The issue comes in when men are so certain they can't control their behavior in such a way that everyday interaction with women doesn't come off creepy. Bc it's very possible to acheive. Again it's women themselves saying they can't differentiate good men from bad. So they must assume all men are potential threats. So how can men not appear creepy to…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 11:43 PM
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I work in numerous factory jobs,.with immigrants too lol. Hispanics, Haitians, Bahamians, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 11:39 PM
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Yes I do. Because this plays a role in why a lot of women or Feminists get angry when men don't interact with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 11:30 PM
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Yeah... that's my point. Generally, when feminists complain about big men telling small men to avoid women, they are pointing out big men telling small men to completely remove women from their interaction pool all together- the big men are saying "if the woman isn't giving you sexual favours, she is useless to you". Or at least that mentality is what the feminists are trying to ward off. But that's not the case though. Men actually do have valid reasons to interact with women the same way as me…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 11:27 PM
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Of course they would do that to earn more money don’t be so naive. Well doing YouTube is their job. Like any job they make money lol. My point here is that they are not the type of guys to fabricate fake stories. Of course there are people out there who will claim to be upset etc about anything. They are the people to avoid in life and you will be so much happier Feminists complain about societal issues on how men view women. And how this can lead to issues in society. This is no different. This…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 11:22 PM
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I followed this YouTube channel religiously. Trust these guys are not the type to do that. And they are also people from the real world too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 11:16 PM
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Not because men are a different species, but because they're just not attracted to the other men. They still speak to those other men cordially, and don't devalue them based on them not being potential partners. Usually the feminist talking point relates to how men who abuse women usually do so after dehumanizing them. You exposed yourself a little bit here. Attraction should have nothing to do with how you interact with people. Which means nothing, since feminism is a movement and not an identi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 11:14 PM
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The everyday man works in warehouse jobs. Where they can just go to work and come back home without interacting with anyone. And let's cut the BS here. The women complaining about this issue. Has nothing to do with team work. Since they are still being upset with men for being "too professional". Meaning there are no friendships, flirting, or compliments. Just work.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 11:12 PM
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You’ll call it flirting, whilst the rest of the world calls it harassment and deals with it appropriately, which you’ll then claim it’s not fair. I don't call it anything. Because people bullshit arbitrary standards they only use based on their flip floppy feelings whenever it's convenient. I call it unfair because men are still encouraged to flirt in a society that demonizes men for flirting. WTF that went over your head. 😂. My point is that either flirting is good or bad. It can't be both. It'…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 11:00 PM
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So women fear of men is just terminally online shit. So the 1 in 4 women get assaulted don't exist, women feel safe walking at night, women aren't suspicious of male strangers. So men cold approaching random women should be ok right. All of that is just the internet right. Again you can't have it both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 10:54 PM
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Back up what?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 10:52 PM
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weird non-human species, since that mentality generally correlates with men who do horrible things to women. Oh yeah forgot to respond to this. It's not about treating women like. Non-human species. It's the opposite. It's equality. Men don't flirt with other men, men don't compliment other men. So why do they have to treat women differently. Unless they are sexist. The ironic part is giving women special treatment by treating them like a non-human species. And that's something both conservative…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 10:51 PM
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But again, you don’t get sacked for flirting Yes If that flirting is perceived as harassment by a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 10:44 PM
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Yes men can. Put the women in that video was complaining about men being "too professional". Whatever the fuck that means. Also, woman aren’t the ones complaining about men not interacting with them, thats in your head, or on 4chan Ah yes the Ad Hominem Fallacy By dismissing the argument based on where it originates rather than addressing the content of the claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 10:42 PM
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You do realise that not every woman who says something rude about a man is a feminist, right? Like, feminism is a rights movement, not a femcel community. Yes I'm aware of that. But concern about women safety is in a lot of Feminists talking points and protests. So using statistics about how violent men are is a feminist talking point..
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 10:40 PM
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Majority of the time they’ve lost their job because they harassed someone at work, it’s called consequences That's the BS I don't like about people. Flirting can be harassment dude lol. So it makes sense to tell men not to flirt in the work place. It's good advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 10:36 PM
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There are so many articles about this. This topic has been discussed in the media like crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 10:35 PM
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Again like I said in the post. You can't have it both ways. Meaning women can't have their cake and want to eat it too. If 1 in 4 women get sexually harassed. Then women should be the last people complaining about men not interacting with them. Since that should be great for women right?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 10:34 PM
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No you are insinuating these men are closeted creeps.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 10:27 PM
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Bad faith here. Because I mentioned men can lose their jobs too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 10:26 PM
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Using incel as an insult comes off very poorly here. None of this makes sense when you actually listen to women. A lot of women say they assume all men are creepy. Because there is no way they can know a man is a good person. So it makes sense for men to have this attitude. Since it's such a burden for women to know if they are not creeps.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 10:25 PM
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What do you mean not being consistent? By not getting upset when men don't interact with them. Women can't say they want men to leave them alone. And then get mad when men leave them alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 10:22 PM
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It's not a damn strawman. You walk back from what you said. You think it's good for those men to isolate themselves. Because you think these men would do bad stuff if they didn't isolate themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 10:20 PM
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"Men who can't understand the difference in contexts between cold-approaching a random woman in public and talking to a co-worker absolutely should permanently isolate themselves from any and every non-necessary interactions with women" So you are insinuating that these men can be potential creeps here. Since you think it's great if they isolate themselves from women. Therefore you think these men are potential creeps, predators, or rapists. Because you think these men would do questionable thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 10:17 PM
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Yes, women have caution around men. If this upsets you, why don't you speak with men? Why is the reaction to get mad at women for having a fear of men? I'm mad because women aren't being consistent with their fear. I don't give a shit if they don't want to interact with men. I'm focused on women. Because they are the ones making the standards here. I hate those standards are emotionally driven, convenient, and hypocritical. Yes, men should learn not to take comments they read online personally. …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 10:13 PM
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I never said they couldn't, I said a conditional shouldn't I meant anywhere typo My comment was way too short and direct for you to understand so little What is there to understand. You're just trying to minimize an issue. And end up proving my point lol. By saying these men are closest creep. That's an argument I already addressed in the post. 😂 <absolutely should permanently isolate themselves from any and every non-necessary interactions with women Not interacting with women = potential rapis…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 10:08 PM
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Yes because you said something that didn't make sense when compared to what most women say. Men can just not be creepy around women. When a lot of women automatically assume all men are creepy, since they want to be cautious. When men get mad at this. Women usually tell men it's better to be sorry than dead. So deal with it. So it doesn't matter if a man doesn't have intentions to be creepy. It's about how he is perceived. Women use crime statistics to back up their fear of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 10:06 PM
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It's like people never read this part. "1: I would rather be alone in the woods with a bear than a man. Because men are so dangerous and unpredictable. 2: It's not all men, but it's always a man. Or it's not all men, but it's enough men for it to be a problem for women. 3: Women aren't mind readers. We can't tell the difference between good men and bad men. So we must be cautious, and assume all men are potential threats, in order to be safe. A few poisonous Skittles can ruin a whole bag, a few …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 10:00 PM
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But yet there are still numerous videos, personal stories, studies, and articles about this topic. For fuck sakes even the mainstream media talk about this topic a lot. Both Liberal and Conservative media talk about this topic. Even I experience this issue in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 09:53 PM
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Men who can't understand the difference in contexts between cold-approaching a random woman in public and talking to a co-worker absolutely should permanently isolate themselves from any and every non-necessary interactions with women Buddy this woman in the video is upset that men are being "too professional" with female co-workers. So let's get real here. And you can cold approach someone anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 09:51 PM
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I care because this would lead to more stupid issues I don't want more men going to prison or getting fired because there is a strong expectation for them to flirt with women or compliment women. If they don't do that they met get fired for discrimination at worst. And judge harshly because of social standards at best. I don't want this behavior to be normalized in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 09:49 PM
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But yet women and Feminists are still complaining about men avoiding women in the work place. This doesn't necessarily have to include romantic relationships. Women can still expect certain traditional expectations from everyday men, like chivalry. Doesn't matter if she finds that man attractive or not. Whether it's the friend zone, coworker zone, or potential boyfriend zone. Women have a lot of reasons to be upset with men who don't interact with them. Similar to men. A lot of women are affecte…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 09:46 PM
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Great response. My heart was beating when I read that comment from the person we replied too.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/12/24 08:53 PM
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I agree.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/12/24 07:57 PM
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I think false allegations become a big deal with female celebrities particularly. I think the everyday female victim is taken seriously. But people become very skeptical of female celebrities. Since false allegations seem way more common with female celebrities.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/12/24 07:48 PM
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No. I think it would be like usual. Where people always take female victims seriously.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/12/24 07:39 PM
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Oh my bad. Sarcasm and paraphrasing can be hard to read on the internet without any context.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/12/24 04:14 PM

1: I was using God as a metaphor. 2: I'm an atheist. 3: I'm celibate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 03:50 PM

Cognitive dissonance is a huge issue with humanity. Most people are emotionally driven, and not logically driven.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 03:44 PM

This isn't paranoid fear. We see this with the way women describe sex with men. Feeling tainted by having sex with men, describing sex with men as gross, or feeling degraded when having sex with men. So it makes sense that women's attitude towards sex would create more women who have regrets in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 03:23 PM

Even a woman gives Enthusiastic consent. Pray to God she doesn't have any regrets after sex. Because Feminists will still say this woman was taken advantage of by men because of her regrets. Exhibit A: Lilly Philips was taken advantage of by 100 men. Even despite giving enthusiastic consent. It's all because she had regrets after sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 01:36 PM
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Sorry this bs mindset doesn't exist on this sub. Go to the MRA sub or any other Conservative sub.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/12/24 01:29 PM
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People* missing in title.
/r/EverydayMisandry26/12/24 02:05 AM
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What is the name of the YouTuber?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/12/24 09:27 PM
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I know many women want guys to be more pro-active in approaching them 💀
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/12/24 09:25 PM
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There is a irony in the feminists complaining about the Mike Pence rule. Are probably the same feminists that say these 5 things here. Note I'm paraphrasing here. 1: I would rather be alone in the woods with a bear than a man. Because men are so dangerous and unpredictable. 2: It's not all men, but it's always a man. Or it's not all men, but it's enough men for it to be a problem for women. 3: Women aren't mind readers. We can't tell the difference between good men and bad men. So we must be cau…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/12/24 09:13 PM
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https://youtu.be/5UZetLBx5AA?si=4vvABq4GmVA5bA0O Off-topic, but still relevant to this post though. Note when it comes to the men not interacting with women anymore because of false allegations topic. Where men want to keep everything professional with women. Meaning no flirting with women, or not giving women compliments. In order to be safe. I noticed how feminists are trying to use a very dirty tactic with this topic here. Where they flip the script. And say men who want to interact with wome…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/12/24 08:52 PM
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Wait, so other celebrities that have worked with Diddy in the past (and not part of the freakoff) were criticized for not calling them out? Is that what you were trying to explain here? Yes There are no doubt women who have stayed with men that treated them badly, but that could take different forms i.e not appreciating them, cheating on them with other women, etc. In Diddy's situation, this isn't just a case of a man wanting to have his cake and eat it too. This is a clear imbalance of power, w…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/12/24 05:03 PM
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I'm not talking about Diddy. I'm talking about Jay Z. And I'm also not talking about Cassie, I used Beyoncé in that example. In that example Diddy is the bad man. And other men are being strongly criticized for not stopping Diddy actions. For the woman's defense, they could've been scared to come forward due to the ramifications someone like Diddy could do Men can deal with the same ramifications too. And also have low social status. So men can get punished for speaking out too. Note I'm not str…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/12/24 04:06 PM
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This is an actual talking point lol When feminists thought Jay Z was guilty. They still give Beyonce the benefit of doubt. I already know you are in bad faith here. Because you mentioned "left wing masculinity". We don't do that "positive masculinity" nonsense over here. I don't give a damn about living up to your arbitrary standards of masculinity. I am advocating for men issues. Since this post is about men always being portrayed as the ones doing wrong in society.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/12/24 03:25 PM
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Self worth has nothing to do with women's personal preferences lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:01 AM
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This has nothing to do with what my post said.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 04:55 AM
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This is bad for attractive men too. Since attractive people are called misogynistic or get their sexuality questions. If they don't adhere to traditional male gender roles. For example, approaching women is a traditional male gender role. So a lot of women will question an attractive man's sexual orientation if that attractive man doesn't approach them. Or think that man is socially awkward or has a small d. Attractive men are more likely to be called misogynistic if they don't interact with wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 03:50 AM
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There is truth to this. A lot of women automatically think men are bad people, losers, creeps, or unconfident if they don't live up to their personal arbitrary standards of a "real man". Arbitrary standards these women think are universal. And based a man's whole self worth as a human on those standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 03:47 AM
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I guessed the metaphor is about not giving consent to people who you don't find attractive hitting on you. There are better paradoxes to use here. Women using sex as a reward to men for doing what they want. Women using sex to manipulate men in a femme fatale way. So basically women using sex as a transaction to get money, gifts, or other benefits. All of this feeds into the stereotype that women don't enjoy sex with men, and only have sex when it's a reward for men or when they want money. And …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 03:42 AM

People forget that feminists are still conservative when it comes to male gender roles. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 02:47 AM
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The interesting thing is the Left is saying Chatgpt is biased towards conservative and gives misinformation
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/12/24 01:42 AM
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Oh yes, because the average liberal believes 9/11 was well deserved. The average man doesn't use Reddit or follow subreddits. Since that was your reasoning for being vague about men. So what's your point here? Again moving the goal post. Because with 300 million Americans, youre bound to have those who should be in an insane asylum. This is like me thinking TikTok reflects the real world. But yet you still think multiple subreddits reflect the world. For fuck sake even Candice Owens had the same…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 03:02 PM
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https://youtu.be/22s9hpgg_CU?si=5IZtRh8ibOK3_K8p https://youtu.be/AvL19GT1w1E?si=Xn6kWBVglZs8MYm7 Hasan is a popular Liberal streamer with opposite views on both topics. And most of the fanbase agrees with him on both topics. His fanbase is big. Just read the comments on both videos. He is the most popular streamer when it comes to politics, especially on the left. So I can come to the conclusion and say a lot of people are being hypocrites here. Multiple men and many on this very subreddit. I c…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 02:14 PM
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FOR YOU. Women who are hypersexual aren't saying women don't care about sex. And I doubt you even have proof that they're the same people. We will already be living in a consistent society if they weren't the same people lol. Similar to how the Liberals can give a former Marine pushback for doing vigilante justice on a homeless person on the train, by calling it a hate crime (racism). But yet the same Liberals are cheering Luigi Mangione right now for vigilante justice. People are hypocrites. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 01:47 PM
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Also, you can't whine about group 2 and claim the stereotype of women not caring about sex is being pushed. Yes you can it's called cognitive dissonance. Why are you assuming those are the same women? Give me proof that cardi B was whining about objectification and the patriarchy. It's the fans that listen to those music. For fuck sake Katy Perry even said "we are not about the male gaze, but we are about the male gaze though" wink wink in a music video. She turned her but to the camera when she…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 01:05 PM
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Exactly, my comment is already getting downvoted. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 07:07 AM
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Women are exactly like this when it comes to objectification. Objectifying women is bad, toxic masculinity, and a product of the patriarchy high beauty standards. But it's also empowering when women do sex work, have only fans, WAP level music videos, and use their sexuality to become femme fatale to manipulate men into giving what they want. Pushing the stereotype of women being gold diggers, not caring about sex, and only doing sex as a reward for the man. Stereotypes most women don't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 04:45 AM
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That sounds like my boy Luigi. 🤘🤟 I have a another good example too. EG: I would rather be alone in the woods with a bear than a man, because men are so dangerous and unpredictable. But it's also misogynistic/discrimination for men to not want to be alone with women or not interact with women in the workplace.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 04:38 AM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 01:33 PM
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I agree most misogyny is benevolent. Most of misogyny is in benevolent form which these people don't call out as misogynist as much. That's because Benevolent misogyny is the only form of misogyny feminists accept. Because women benefit from it. So most Feminists aren't going to benevolent sexist men out lol.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/12/24 05:34 PM
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Good reply. I'm glad someone pointed this out.
/r/EverydayMisandry21/12/24 05:17 PM
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him being nice being perceived as him coming on to her. Bingo. Exactly it's a damn if you do and damned if you don't type of situation. If men are kind. Then that means they are fake nice guys trying to manipulate women. If men are cold. Then that means they are hostile misogynistic men who hate women.
/r/EverydayMisandry21/12/24 04:33 PM
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Bro you are basically agreeing with the idea that gender is a social construct with this "real man being a title" thing lol. But there isn't no title to being a "real man" though. Hench why I keep using quotation marks with the term "real man". It's all arbitrary. Every society, culture , and individual has different ideas of what a "real man" is. And usually these ideas contradict each other. For example, Sean Strickland or Andrew Tate would think a " real man" is someone who can fight. If we t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 04:21 PM
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The ironic thing is it's usually women calling men gay for hanging out with their friends so much. Making fun of men for caring about validation from other men. Saying that men care more about men's opinions than women. Now all of sudden the narrative is that men hate each other. Funny how the narrative always changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 04:06 PM
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I agree with you somewhat. But we need to stop with this "not real men" bs. All men are real men. Nobody is a cartoon. Cowards, abusers, creeps are still real men. I understand you are trying to separate yourself from other men you consider horrible. But that's not a way to go about it. It comes off as taking accountability away from these men. Whenever you say they are not "real men".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 04:02 PM
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No it's more socially acceptable for them to go after other men. If they go after women, then a bunch of people start repeating your comment. Society views men as cowards when they go after women. Hench why red-pill podcasts like F&F are mocked on the internet universally.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 04:01 PM
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True.
/r/EverydayMisandry21/12/24 03:27 PM
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Exactly. When women do it's empowerment and sisterhood. When men do it's gay. You can't make this shit up. I play into the idea that men are expected to love women more than women love men in society.
/r/EverydayMisandry21/12/24 01:27 PM
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I call this progressive female homophobia.
/r/EverydayMisandry21/12/24 01:27 PM
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I think we should teach kids this concept: "Self-fulfilling prophecy is a concept used in the social and behavioral sciences to refer to the idea that one person's or one group's expectations for the behavior of others can quite unintentionally help to bring about the behavior expected of those others." Facts, self-fulling prophecy are very common when it comes to gender.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/12/24 10:16 PM
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Probably on the liberation side. But then again Feminists don't actually want men free of their gender roles. Since women still benefit from male gender roles.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/12/24 10:10 PM
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I see MRAs as mostly a conservative movement. And I see Men Lib as mostly a feminist movement. Both conservatives and feminists aren't good for men's issues. Both sides usually tend to perpetuate men issues.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/12/24 09:58 PM
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None. I'm a Leftwing Male Advocate.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/12/24 09:55 PM
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I manage to upset both men and women. The comments are pretty much. Women: Women have it worse. OP just whining. Men: These are not paradoxes. This is just biology. Women and Men: OP doesn't understand nuance and balance. Men don't have to be on the extreme sides of the spectrum. Number 3 is basically people trying to justify these paradoxes under disguise of Balance and nuance.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 02:38 PM
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The only difference is women aren't expected or pressured to do the housework/cooking/childcare/. And I have seen far more women complain about men trauma dumping and women having to be men's personal therapists. Women are giving sympathy when they complain. about gender roles. Men are told they whinning too much when they complain about male gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 01:02 PM
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Individual capabilities ARE based on inherent traits. Child birth and nurturing -> female role due to biology. That is not pseudo science. Who is going to protect the family while the female is pregnant and biologically chemically bonded children around her that she nurtures with her biological body? We evolved those roles based on our biological realities. Who is going to protect the family/tribe? The sex with low muscle mass, high fat mass, less athelticism and way less power in physical comba…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 10:10 AM
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There absolutely are, where body height is relevant. Just like with the differences between the sexes. Roles emerge where the differences are relevant. Men's traits lend themselves to the protector role. I don't want to argue about pseudo science BS here. The notion that protection roles are biologically determined by gender is not supported by scientific evidence. Social roles are shaped by culture and individual capabilities, not inherent traits. Btw there is a reason the UFC has weight classe…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 09:29 AM
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You are too deep into gender-feminist brain rot territory. Protecting someone doesn't mean they can't protect themselves. Nurturing someone doesn't mean they can't take care of themselves. Helping someone carrying the groceries, doesn't mean they can't manage it themselves. Biological and psychological differences lend themselves to different roles on average. Our evolutionary past has an effect on what we like regarding behavior of the other sex. The roles of the sexes are nothing to "believe" …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 08:49 AM
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I think the biggest struggle is men still feeling pressure to adhere to male gender roles. While female gender roles are abolished in society for the most part. So it's a double standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 06:58 AM
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And even then when boys are compliant, mature and hardworking. They are still seen as odd or socially awkward. Because boys are expected to be assertive and competitive. Since that shows confidence in society.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/12/24 05:41 AM
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Because none of these are real issues. And you think it definitely is a clue that you not only don't hang out with women. Nor date them. I was raised by women who think like this. I have a mom and sisters who think like this. All of my experiences with women have been like this. Life is hard because it can be difficult. And you my friend clearly don't know how to navigate it. Your social understanding is poor. Thus making things difficult for you. I negate life by pointing this bullshit out. And…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 08:52 PM
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Socially incept at what lol. How could you say none of this is unfair. But also say life is hard at the same time. Basically saying men must deal with the unfairness. That's all you can say right lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 08:44 PM
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It's unfair to expect men to be non violent, but violent enough to protect women in dangerous situations. It's unfair to expect men to magically know when women want to be approached and not want to be approached. It's unfair to expect men to treat women like equals when it's convenient, when it comes to giving women special treatment. It's unfair to say that female gender roles are misogynistic and oppressive. But also talk about how male gender roles are "positive masculinity" and healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 08:38 PM
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So you are basically saying here that the neurotypicals are the ones who are not making sense here. Since they expect people to read their minds. While the autistics are the ones who understand context. If that's the case. Then I guessed I'm autistic then lol. Since autistic means being logical by your definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 08:35 PM
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There is a difference between balance and unfairness. There is a difference between balance and being one sided.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 08:31 PM
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There are plenty of men who are able to understand nuance and would easily be able to tell the difference between unwanted sexual attention and unwanted. I assume a lot of these guys are neurotypical. I assume this was a typo. And you meant wanted instead of unwanted. But also Women often make this hard too. Since they expect men to be mind readers. Since they expect men to magically know when they want to be approached or not be approached. It's like saying the women who can't tell the differen…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 07:52 PM
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Are we talkign about anecdotes of singular women on social media again? Really? I am not generalizing over all incels or red pillers at all. I said "the men you have in mind". Everything from anecdotes, social media, pop culture, and our entertainment (movies/shows/books). I didn't call you part of the manosphere. What you linked is a Master Thesis of a student, not peer reviewed studies, published in scientific journals. Even well known credible feminists will tell you that benevolent sexism ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:10 PM
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Yeah, i argued in that way for years, because i heard it on some podcast. I could NEVER find those studies, even after intensive search. Please, show me these "actual studies out there" on this topic. I really want that to be true, but for all ic an find, it's not. It's more grifters trying to influence your opinion. And you just perpetuate it without checking for validity. I call it, the "there are actual studies, but i won't show them"-paradox of manosphere debates. https://np.reddit.com/r/Lef…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 04:42 PM
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I see this belief is common among red-pillers. But In real life the average person doesn't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 02:20 AM
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Exactly. if women have this level of fear for men. They should be cool with men not interacting with them at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 11:08 PM
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Women are 50 years ahead of men, when it comes to progress with gender roles. Male gender roles are considered "positive masculinity" in most liberal spaces. You can find the most generic movie or show on Netflix or Hulu. And the show can make fun of a male character expecting women to clean or cook. Because it's so outdated and misogynistic. So again remember female gender roles are considered misogynistic and dehumanizing in society. While male gender roles are considered "positive masculinity…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 11:03 PM
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The problem is women aren't consistent with that fear. A lot of women who think like you would probably still be against gender segregation or men interacting with them less.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 10:57 PM
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The only difference is, the paradoxes for women and female gender roles aren't normalized in society. Compare to male gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 10:56 PM
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These gender related issues affect our laws, morality, and social standards. So I think it's ok to point it out and say it doesn't make sense. Telling people it doesn't make sense for men to play heroes and jump into dangerous situations isn't comparable to a dumb Adam Sandler movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 09:08 PM
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men's issues that tangentially affect women in which case those issues are a problem. This is true. For example, The male loneliness epidemic is men's issues. But feminists reaction to that is usually "it's not our fault men can't laid" or " it's women's job to worry about men getting laid". But when more men are not approaching women or interacting with women in big numbers. Now all of a sudden this is a men's issue feminists care about. And they are concerned about the well being of men who ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 08:50 PM
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That is the question I'm trying to figure out too.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/12/24 07:02 PM
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Me I have the opposite issue with women. I don't usually get called a creep by women. But I hate being touched or asked personal questions. Women usually do that with me. Since it's expected for men to engage with women or flirt with women. A woman asking me if I have a girlfriend. That is annoying. Since women always ask me this question. It's normalized to ask men these questions about their dating lives or sex lives. Not every man wants to be this friendly. Because of society expectations men…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 07:00 PM
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Not every man has the same personality. For example, your personality may fit into gender roles or gender expectations of men. While men who are more introverted or asocial might be viewed as more standoffish in the workplace from the perspective of a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 06:56 PM
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I'm not saying women don't have struggles. It's just that women usually get more support socially compared to men. When they have those struggles. And their struggles aren't normalized in society compared to men. For example, men who don't want their girlfriends to have careers can be seen as insecure or outdated in society. So this is an unpopular opinion in society. But most people aren't going to pay attention to Feminists who still expect a man to provide or make more money than her. Because…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 06:13 PM
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I don't believe in any of that shit. I'm a gender abolitionist or gender neutral. But op still has a point though. who decided that? Society. using what criteria? Using whatever arbitrary society wants. what is a "feminine man" ? What society considered a feminine man to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 03:09 AM
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"positive masculinity" is just traditional masculinity with a Feminist gaze. I.E. "positive masculinity" is just women wanting their cake and wanting to eat it too. And also some of the biggest white knights I have seen are not male feminists. White knights tend to lean conservative. Conservatives were the ones who started the "men must protect women" cringe. Again feminists are just basing their idea of "positive masculinity" on conservative values center around male gender roles. So feminists …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 02:58 AM
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Even if they find a man like that. The relationship is still going to be one sided. Since the man will have resentment. Because he is the only person in the relationship following gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 02:48 AM
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Feminists are blaming men for the Lilly Philips situation. Somehow it's the men's fault she decided to have sex with 100 men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 12:29 AM
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Don't forget how the left justifies homophobia when it comes to men too. Similar to how they justify misogyny when it comes to white women with the term Karen. It's common for people on the left or feminists to gay as an insult on. Or associate men hating women with men being gay or bisexual. There is a lot of stigma towards bisexual men that the left doesn't care about.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/12/24 12:26 AM
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Of course. Agree 1000 percent
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/12/24 12:23 AM

They should be uncomfortable with their teen sons too. What is this question lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 10:32 PM
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This is already happening 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 10:26 PM
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They’d prefer you act like a girl and sit calmly at a desk and pay attention to the teacher and be very nice and safe. Fuck that. I made a post about this. And even then they still judge boys for "acting like girls" (I.E. the alternative) because again, it's cognitive dissonance. I have experienced teachers finding me odd because I was a quiet boy, and wasn't as loud as other boys. And they thought something was wrong with me. So either way boys don't win.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/12/24 08:31 PM
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Kinda feels like a smokescreen with the “idea” of what we should do to help men in society as a whole, but the solution is purposefully obfuscated under layers of legal red-tape bureaucracy, which then becomes a “utilitarian issue where people will say : It's just lip service to manipulate men into doing what they want.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/12/24 05:47 PM
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Feminists struggle to tell the difference between misogyny and equality. Feminists struggle to tell the difference between benevolent sexism and pro women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/12/24 02:19 AM
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Sometimes I think we are too feminists for the feminists.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/12/24 02:18 AM
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BINGO
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/12/24 02:17 AM
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I just end up accepting that yeah I am gay, because how is that an insult or an argument against me. Exactly
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/12/24 07:51 PM
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Oh yes it is. Again it's no secret that a lot of women want to live in a world where they want to have it both ways. They don't want to deal with the shittiness of female gender roles. But yet they expect men to deal with the shittiness of male gender roles with a smile on their face.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/12/24 07:40 PM
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"It's like it's our job to protect women and it's women's job to soak up an endless amount of attention and protection while fretting that there's still not enough being done." They think men are privileged to get help. They wouldn't want to help people they view as oppressors. While they still expect their oppressor to use their privilege to be their protectors. The irony.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/12/24 04:03 AM
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The irony is they say men only bring up their issues when women talk about their issues. The reality is they think women's issues are more important than men's issues as a default. It's not like they think women should focus on their own issues. While men focus on their own issues. They also think women's issues should be men's main concern too. And will get angry if they see men focusing on men's issues. I made a post about this the other day.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/12/24 10:52 PM
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I was speaking in general. Since Hasan said it was not a big deal when a poor man got robbed by a bunch of kids.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/12/24 02:42 PM
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Zero sum game people say. Hmmmm. The crazy thing is feminists don't even want men themselves to focus on men's issues. Since they automatically think men should support women rights as a default or bare minimum. If not then men are automatically put in the misogynistic category. I will make a post about this.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/12/24 10:38 PM
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There is definitely a lot of pressure other women put on women. And also women not being expected to communicate their boundaries.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/12/24 01:17 PM
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Hasan Piker is a perfect example of being out of touch.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/12/24 01:31 PM
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Yep exactly I'm good. Keep this form of masculinity ova there.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/12/24 08:02 PM
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This one flaw is intersectionality, Race and gender isn't 100 percent comparable. Racism and sexism or race and gender are not comparable when damn gender roles exist lol. Sorry you can't win this one. Both black men and black women always use the phrase "protect black women". Men and women in general use the phrase "protect women". Even the most progressive feminists have expectations for men to be protectors or stand up when they see women in danger. You never see this with race. Black people …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/12/24 10:16 PM
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When did male gender roles become obsolete?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/12/24 10:14 PM
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Naw she is really serious. She is having arguments about this in the thread. Shaming gay men for being closeted, because women are most affected.
/r/EverydayMisandry08/12/24 02:54 PM
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It's funny how some anti gun leftists conveniently ignore the fact that guns or knives exist. When the topic of how women can be dangerous comes up.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/12/24 02:47 PM
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It's ok for feminists for to be homophobic. That's the stupid rules they make.
/r/EverydayMisandry08/12/24 12:21 PM
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This is a beautiful comment and explains what I mean more deeply.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/12/24 02:42 AM
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Yes, it's exactly like that.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/12/24 12:44 AM
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Somehow these silly people think Elliot Rodgers was some hero or inspiration for all future mass shooters.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/12/24 10:23 PM
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The most ironic shit about masculine men taking orders. They are usually taking orders from men that wouldn't usually fit the masculinity ideal. A lot of pro war men, or politicians tend to be short, bald, out of shape, and not athletic. The only masculine thing these men have, is usually just money, social power, and status. The UFC is full of tough guys. But yet most of the tough guys are afraid of Dana White and Donald Trump. Jon Jones the baddest fighter on the planet right now. Was ironical…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/12/24 12:30 PM
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Nothing screams alpha male than being under another man's control.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/12/24 12:25 PM
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It's ok.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/12/24 09:49 PM
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Nothing is wrong with the leftwing male advocate label. It's just that the label wouldn't be well known. So you might as well not use it lol. And then the MRA label already has stigma because of conservatives and bad actors. So I agree we should avoid labels.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/12/24 02:48 AM
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Feminists would probably think female gang members in street gangs or Drug Cartels getting killed by rivals is femicide. While they wouldn't care at all for all the male gang members that usually get killed more. And they also wouldn't care about the innocent men who are not gang members that get killed.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/12/24 11:56 AM
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Ah yes this reminds me of the 4 step program. 1: Misandry doesn't exist. 2: And if misandry does exist, it is not as bad as misogyny, because women have it worse. 3: Misandry is just a reaction to the rampant misogyny women have faced from men for decades. 4: Misandry is the men's fault anyway, since they created the patriarchy in the first place.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/12/24 06:54 PM
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This is just downplaying and deflection. I don't need to touch grass in order to see that male gender role expectations exist. And noticed how they will never give the women the same advice with online misogyny. Even though the red-pill communities are far less smaller than these Feminists bashing men in the media lol.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/12/24 06:49 PM
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Your comment perfectly describes the gender paradox. Feminists want men to be a combination of traditional and progressive. Treat women like equals when it comes to rights. But still expect men to be responsible for women's problems.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/12/24 06:55 PM
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Human Companionship nowadays is treated as if its business agreement where both parties aim only to maximalize their profit margins, its disheartening. Outside lonely people, ("usually men") complaining about relationships being transactional. It's usually people (usually women) who want relationships to be transactional are the ones that end up complaining about relationships being transactional lol. For example, women don't like it when men expect sex from them based on doing tasks. But yet th…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/12/24 06:32 PM
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Feminists use these men to downplay valid men issues. While also getting mad at men for thinking any woman is a feminist.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/12/24 06:12 PM
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This is why you can't trust conservative men, red-pill men, or any other right-wing person with men issues. Joe has also used the typical feminist gotcha "bY oThEr mEn" as a response to someone asking him about men who get rape.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/12/24 06:08 PM
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Meanwhile some Feminists (not all) are being forced to agree with terrorist groups that are actually harmful to women. All because they had to pick a "side" and agree with the status quo.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/11/24 08:25 PM
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Indian men are dealing with this same BS too. As black men, I can relate to people using your race to show how toxic your gender is. And justifying this hate under the disguise of Feminism and "protecting women"
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/11/24 08:23 PM
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But a man just existing for himself is toxic. I don't know about you but I've even been told to go die in a war or something like that if I have a conversation about men's rights. Despite me not once saying go back to the kitchen or something. When women just exist for themselves it's called self care. But when men do the same it's considered selfish. This is a double standard.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/11/24 12:26 AM
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I don't see them going out into the streets with placards against cases of benevolent sexism. Because it's better to virtue signal about being against benevolent sexism. But secretly love benevolent sexism in private, because it benefits women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/11/24 10:51 AM
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Skepticism and Atheism have been affected by this brain rot when it comes to gender. I'm glad nihilism hasn't been affected yet.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/11/24 03:31 PM
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It's like saying BLM helps white people too. Some Feminists (not all) like to have it both ways. They want men to be these oppressors who can use their privilege to help women that are oppressed victims. But also want men to know that the patriarchy harms them at the same time. Despite telling men their issues are their fault because they created the patriarchy, so it's not women's job to help them. It's a shady tactic some feminists like to do. It's double speak. I already mentioned this in ano…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/11/24 05:49 PM
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Exactly, for some reason these liberal leaning women don't like to date liberal men. I wonder why. 🤔
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/11/24 12:23 PM
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The irony of then saying victims doing stuff for money.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/11/24 08:27 PM
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I call this the 3 Body Paradox. Where feminists want to be equal to men legally. Feminists want to be morally superior to men. But also feminists still like the idea of being physically inferior to men. Legal rights means women get to have rights like voting, having a job, or a successful career. Morality superiority means women are viewed as more nurturing than men. And less violent than men too. Physical inferiority means women are viewed as helpless victims who need men to protect them or pro…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/11/24 07:47 PM
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When women are fed up with toxic gender roles with men. This is valid. Then why is it not valid for men to feel the same way? 🤔 I don't hate women. I hate the role women play in keeping these gender roles alive for men. Especially when it comes to feminists who still enforce these roles on men. Just how women can call out women being pressured by men to follow gender roles. Men can feel the same way too. And you never answer my question. Do you think "positive masculinity" is real?
/r/EverydayMisandry15/11/24 02:43 PM
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I'm calling you a miserable incel based on the bullshit rhetoric I've read in your comment and post history. I'm sure you reject women all the time. You definitely don't hate women at all. You only hate my rhetoric because I don't worship women. Nothing in my post history is about women being promiscuous or having abortions. I don't care what women do with their bodies. Hence why I don't care about women doing this 4B movement. I'm pro choice and think women have agency. The only reason you thin…
/r/EverydayMisandry15/11/24 02:37 PM
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Tell me you've never had a conversation with a woman without telling me you've never has a conversation with a woman.Please show me proof of this. Because my experience with my 1) wife 2) friends who are women 3) acquaintances and coworkers who are women. This is not true. This is what YOU think women want. Hence why I'm in a healthy happy relationship. I have a mom and 3 sisters who expect this from men lol. Stop pretending like women don't have these expectations. It's not helping your cause. …
/r/EverydayMisandry15/11/24 02:28 PM
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They expect men to treat them as princesses. Wanting chivalry from men like opening doors, men giving up their seats on buses/trains, men protecting them in dangerous situations, and men providing for them in relationships, and following all the traditional gender roles, while they follow no traditional gender roles themselves.
/r/EverydayMisandry15/11/24 02:18 PM
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If only these women would just start dating liberal men, not conservative men. Then they will get the equality they want But they won't for obvious reasons lol. Since these women don't really want equality, they just want special treatment.
/r/EverydayMisandry15/11/24 01:17 PM
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The minute we have this same standard for women and start acting cold towards them for 5 mins. They start freaking out.
/r/EverydayMisandry15/11/24 11:23 AM
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Facts, explain it more better than me.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/11/24 08:26 PM
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Remember guys men's issues are individual problems. While women issues are everybody's problems as a default.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/11/24 06:38 PM
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Similar to how most Muslim don't accept LGBTQ people, because it's against their religion. Most women that are identified as feminists don't accept trans women. Because they think trans women are taking their spaces. The left likes to trick people with the concept of intersectionality. Making it seem like all oppressed groups or minority groups magically get along. When in reality that's not the case.
/r/EverydayMisandry14/11/24 03:45 PM
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Exactly lol
/r/EverydayMisandry14/11/24 03:06 PM
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Yeah what sup
/r/EverydayMisandry14/11/24 12:26 AM
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It drives me crazy how people deny the obvious fact that the current message is contradictory to the old one. They are afraid to acknowledge their hypocrisy and their Cakism of wanting their cake and wanting to eat it too.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/11/24 10:22 PM
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I would say fuck it to the roles. And be yourself.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/11/24 09:19 PM
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Fantastic analogy here.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/11/24 04:42 PM
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They are right though that if we want to abolish gender roles we have to do it ourselves. Unfortunately that implies an adversarial gender relationship because that’s what happens when you have groups with opposing interests. Exactly even when we do it ourselves. We still get push back. More men are becoming single and not interacting with women. Feminists see this as a problem since that means the gender role of men being expected to pursue women might go away soon. So they start calling men cl…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/11/24 04:12 PM
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It's hilarious watching things shift from "I'm horrified every time a man talks to me in public, because I don't know how they'll deal with rejection" to "It's okay for men to approach you respectfully". It's the cycle of shit.
/r/EverydayMisandry13/11/24 03:51 PM
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i think it's pretty interesting that when feminism abolished gender roles for women, it hasn't done the same work in being able to abolish gender roles for men. gender roles for men are still largely perpetuated by patriarchy and continue to harm men. They will say it's men's job to abolish gender roles themselves. Not a women's job to do that for men. But the thing is a lot of feminists aren't even indifferent or neutral to male gender roles. They themselves get upset just like conservative whe…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/11/24 03:50 PM
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It's definitely "not all men" when large portions of them stop approaching them.
/r/EverydayMisandry13/11/24 01:50 PM
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If they want to play the "women were nothing but 100% oppressed all the time throughout history card" let them. Also don't forget women are these empowered girl bosses who can do anything, go through any obstacles, and they don't need men. But also feminists want men to use their privilege and power to help women, because they are oppressed victims. Oh the irony.
/r/EverydayMisandry12/11/24 02:58 PM
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I got into many arguments in that thread about men not interacting with women lol It's funny how this sub or thread would be so supportive of women avoiding men because of how statistically dangerous men are, since women can't the difference between bad men and good men. And even saying women would rather be alone in the woods with a bear than a man. But these people always expose themselves when you take irrational beliefs seriously. If you can't beat them join them. That's the mentality. So I …
/r/EverydayMisandry12/11/24 02:55 PM
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This isn't new for men. Men have dealt with misandry throughout history too.
/r/EverydayMisandry12/11/24 02:51 PM
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Just like how the tradcons control Men via shaming by calling men "gay/too girly/not man enough" when men don't meet the criteria of behaviors they desire. Feminists want to control men via shaming by calling men "Toxic Masculine/Incel" Actually there is overlap between feminists and tradcons. Since a lot of women switch back and forth between feminist values and traditional values when it is convenient. And also since virgin shaming and homophobia against men is normalized in society. So you ge…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/11/24 11:15 PM
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This is true. I have sisters who have a gay male Best friend. And say the most homophobic shit. And also use gay as an insult on me because I'm not interested in having a girlfriend. And don't get me started on most progressive women's reaction to bisexual men.
/r/EverydayMisandry11/11/24 10:56 PM
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Wow this post was amazing For progressives, 'Frat bros' represent a negative model of masculinity due to their perceived overconfidence and sexual misconduct (Creatures). Essentially, they are 'failed Demigods'. They posture towards him (calling yourself 'Alpha' is a quick way to lose Demigod status by trying to signal you are one, which a 'real' Demigod doesn't have to do) and therefore must be humbled. And you can also say to progressive the demigod is "positive masculinity". The demigod can j…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/11/24 09:01 PM
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I'm not talking about you. I'm talking about all the women that vote for men like Trump.
/r/EverydayMisandry11/11/24 08:32 PM
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Women feel the same way too. Which is why they vote for these men too.
/r/EverydayMisandry11/11/24 08:29 PM
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Kamala's beliefs in a draft. And the Ukrainian President didn't start the war.
/r/EverydayMisandry11/11/24 08:23 PM
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But yet feminists are still forcing those social expectations though lol. It's not like they are not. I have seen female feminists tell male feminists to risk their lives if they see women are in trouble with men or being cat called. Calling this BS "positive masculinity". Positive masculinity is just repackaged traditional masculinity with a progressive gaze or female gaze.
/r/EverydayMisandry11/11/24 08:17 PM
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I will still be fighting in a country run by Kamala Harris. So nothing changes lol
/r/EverydayMisandry11/11/24 08:15 PM
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Rich men aren't hunting down men lol. And you are missing the part where there is a societal expectation for men to protect women. Feminists don't mention that. Because women benefit from men throwing their lives away to protect them.
/r/EverydayMisandry11/11/24 08:09 PM
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Women can be powerful too.
/r/EverydayMisandry11/11/24 08:06 PM
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A group of people including women will force me to fight. It's not like most women even disagree with the draft lol. Should've seen how women were insulting men who dodged the draft back then.
/r/EverydayMisandry11/11/24 08:05 PM
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Trust me if Harris became President. The draft will still be a thing for men. She is pro draft. So it's not just rich men or Conservative men who think like this. Society universally thinks like this.
/r/EverydayMisandry11/11/24 08:02 PM
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No I'm telling you women make up 50 percent of the population. Women also called men cowards who don't defend women too. Feminists can't have it both ways. Women can't be these empowered girl bosses who can do anything, and helpless victims who have no power at the same time.
/r/EverydayMisandry11/11/24 07:55 PM
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Even on a micro level feminists still expect men to risk their lives to protect women that are catcalled from violent aggressors. So this idea of viewing men as disposable isn't exclusive to right wingers or rich men.
/r/EverydayMisandry11/11/24 07:51 PM
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They love to say men created the patriarchy. But at the same time they love benefiting from the patriarchy too.
/r/EverydayMisandry11/11/24 07:48 PM
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It's the "women are more affected" meme
/r/EverydayMisandry11/11/24 04:55 PM
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Now if men take this mindset too seriously. Then women start complaining about men not interacting with them. Funny how that works.
/r/EverydayMisandry11/11/24 12:31 PM
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These are probably the same women that get upset when men don't compliment or acknowledge how beautiful they are. I experience this in real life all the time.
/r/EverydayMisandry10/11/24 08:24 PM
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Meanwhile feminists ignored this. And generalize all men as fantasizing about being rape at 13 by a hot female teacher.
/r/EverydayMisandry10/11/24 01:31 PM
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They fail to realize this form of misandry plays a role in the stigma towards gay and bi men. They are making it seem like it's a bad thing to be attracted to men. They are perpetuating slut shaming against women with this too.
/r/EverydayMisandry09/11/24 11:59 PM
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I love how all of them are assuming their boys will be straight.
/r/EverydayMisandry09/11/24 11:46 PM
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As a man who isn't the biggest feminist supporter. This dude actually comes off as the creep most women complain about. 🤣🤣
/r/EverydayMisandry09/11/24 09:32 PM
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Again typical downplay of men issues and vulnerability.
/r/EverydayMisandry09/11/24 06:45 PM
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Seems like India is as misandrist as it is misogyny.
/r/EverydayMisandry09/11/24 05:07 PM
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Even when men do control themselves they are called homophobic slurs or socially awkward for not acknowledging those beautiful women in dresses.
/r/EverydayMisandry09/11/24 05:03 PM
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In real life these same women get upset when I don't sexualize or objectify them lol. The male gaze is ok when it comes to men they find attractive. Since after all they still like male attention. It's like when they say they don't wear make up for men, they do it for themselves. But yet they still feel pressure from the toxic patriarchy to wear make up for men. So which is it? The same thing is happening with the male gaze here.
/r/EverydayMisandry09/11/24 01:48 PM
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I hope not. Even Trump publicly says he doesn't like some of the ideas, and thinks it's bad. Maybe he is saying that to look good. But even then, people would have to be insane to support that.
/r/EverydayMisandry07/11/24 07:03 PM
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These meme points keep getting better and better. The middle ground became right. Because the right are pretty good at putting on a mask, and hiding their true intentions.
/r/EverydayMisandry07/11/24 07:01 PM
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Very accurate. Which is why both sides suck on men's issues. I'm glad subs like this and Leftwing Male Advocates exist.
/r/EverydayMisandry07/11/24 06:59 PM
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Why is this so accurate to my title. 🤣🤣🤣
/r/EverydayMisandry07/11/24 01:54 PM
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🤣🤣🤣
/r/EverydayMisandry07/11/24 01:12 PM
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If the genders were reversed. A gay man would be called misogynistic for even suggesting that men have better sex with other men. It's only cool and empowering for women to be gay or bisexual. When it comes to men, being gay or bi is something that is taboo, or a joke.
/r/EverydayMisandry07/11/24 12:40 PM
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Same bisexual women or "spicy straight" women that get the ick when they find out a man is bisexual.
/r/EverydayMisandry07/11/24 12:16 AM
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internalized misogyny” I usually like to throw their logic back in their face. For example, in this case I would say the men who voted for Trump have internalized misandry. This is classic hyper-agency vs hypo-agency. For example, the person from the One Direction band that died recently. Women were calling other women pick Me's for going after his girlfriend. Saying women shouldn't be held accountable for men's mental health, men should fix their own mental health, women aren't their personal t…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/11/24 05:56 PM
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Even though a lot of women voted for Trump too.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/11/24 05:48 PM
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Another women good, men bad type of post.
/r/EverydayMisandry06/11/24 12:25 AM
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I would put Aba and Preach in that centrist category. But I think my fellow members of this sub aren't big fans of Aba and Preach. Don't know why though..I'm sure they have valid reasons though.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/11/24 05:49 PM
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News stories be like: Female Teacher have sex with boys. News stories be like: Male Teacher rape girls. Oh my god this definitely proves we live in a patriarchal society. (Sarcasm).
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/11/24 04:41 PM
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Like a comment once said it's always a self owned when they compare women to children.
/r/EverydayMisandry05/11/24 04:25 AM
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The biggest punishment he can do is not interact with her. And see how mad she gets lol.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/24 07:08 PM
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With this logic feminists will have more sympathy for violent female gang members or drug cartel members who get killed by rivals, than an innocent male bystander who gets killed in the crossfire. They would think female gang members getting kill by rivals is sexism. And not care about innocent male civilians getting killed. How ridiculous.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/24 07:06 PM
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Sounds like conservatives when they talk about black on black crime.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/24 07:03 PM
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One thing conservatives and feminists have in common. Is attacking men for not being "masculine enough" for them.
/r/EverydayMisandry04/11/24 07:02 PM
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Isn't Korea the same country that has that decenter women's movement. When men did MGTOW they were call losers, misogynistic women haters, and closeted gays by both conservatives and especially feminists. But when women do MGTOW it's considered empowering and ground breaking.
/r/EverydayMisandry04/11/24 12:05 PM
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The only dichotomy here is the purser/predator dichotomy. Where men are called creeps, predators, or toxic for cold approaching women, because it makes women feel uncomfortable. But also men are considered unmasculine, socially awkward, or secretly gay for not cold approaching women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/24 11:59 AM
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When most sexism women face in society is actually benevolent sexism. Not joking here. You know patriarchy isn't really strong when women benefit from sexism against women or the "patriarchy" lol. Heck the reason hostile sexism is still around (albeit a very small minority of men). You can argue that hostile sexism still exists, because benevolent sexism still exists. Yeah who would've thought that viewing women as lesser people would lead to more hostile sexism. But nope, a lot of feminists sti…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/24 11:56 AM
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Understand us through our worst stereotypes. It's like they are using the dumb dad trope or lizard brain man trope to represent all men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/24 11:46 AM
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It's like men are aliens to these people. They have no understanding of men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/24 10:32 AM
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I agree. I upvoted your post.
/r/EverydayMisandry03/11/24 09:19 PM
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Feminists are conveniently conservative when it comes to male gender roles too. We all know this classic male gender role meme with feminists. I pick KH over Trump any day. But even then she has some conservative views that are yikes. She still thinks the draft is a good idea, and she isn't drafting women to war. Remember guys this might be the first female President who is also feminist/progressive leaning. But still have these conservative views about men. Heck even the political ads for getti…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/11/24 08:33 PM
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You and me both.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/11/24 08:24 PM
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lesbians obsessed with “gold stars” And even then that lesbian fear is rooted in misandry. Because they think bi women or even other lesbians are "tainted" for sleeping with men in the past. Most gay men don't care about bi men being attracted to women. Heck even straight women get shit for being attracted to men lol. Society thinks it's "mental illness" to be attracted to men.
/r/EverydayMisandry03/11/24 01:18 AM
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In reality a woman would be more likely to expect the man to get up and give up his seat.
/r/EverydayMisandry02/11/24 04:45 PM
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Even these people themselves think you shouldn't be misogynistic with the worst women. So why doesn't the same logic work here with misandry.
/r/EverydayMisandry02/11/24 09:58 AM
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In my experience liberal women are probably the MOST regressive when it comes to men’s gender roles. This is 1000 percent true. Liberal women are so regressive they still think it's a major turn off to date bisexual men. Because they don't like the idea of a man being submissive in certain sexual positions with other men. They find bi men "less masculine'' for this.
/r/EverydayMisandry01/11/24 11:10 PM
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Yes 1000 percent yes.
/r/EverydayMisandry01/11/24 08:14 PM
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I know some people might disagree here. But like I said men are the only "oppressor" or "privilege" group that is expected to do better or be protectors of the oppressed. For example"positive masculinity" exists for men. But positive straightness doesn't exist. Positive Whiteness doesn't exist. Male gender roles exist, and still exist today. While white roles or straight roles aren't a thing. And that idea would be ridiculous, even to their oppressed counterparts. Society doesn't have this same …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/11/24 07:59 PM
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Feminists are a perfect example of rules are for thee not me.
/r/EverydayMisandry01/11/24 07:53 PM
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I love how masculinity is still important for young boys even in progressive places. Because even liberal women still expect men to adhere to gender roles. They just don't like it when those gender roles are forced on women. That "believe in yourself" line can easily be translated to traditional masculine expectations for men. Believe in yourself to be confident enough to approach or pursue women. Believe in yourself enough to be ambitious and have money or status in society. "Positive masculini…
/r/EverydayMisandry01/11/24 07:51 PM
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A lot of conservatism exists in Feminism. Especially when it comes to male gender roles.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/11/24 06:09 PM
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What is happening here. Is that feminists ironically don't like equality lol. These men are probably just treating women like equals or human beings. So feminists are calling labelling these men "rude sexists" for treating women like equals. How ironic. A lot of feminists or women prefer benevolent sexism. Where men treat them like children they have to take care of, by men opening doors for women, helping women pick up stuff, men offering their seats to women, and giving women free stuff. In th…
/r/EverydayMisandry01/11/24 04:07 PM
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They are very misandrists.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/11/24 02:52 AM
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But still automatically expect men to care about women issues as a default. Or they considered men misogynistic for not being allies. Feminists never fail to uphold male gender roles. Especially when it comes to men being expected to be protective of women in this case.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/11/24 12:03 AM
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She is great. And isn't an obvious grifter like Pearl or the other wannabe female Tradcons content creators.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/10/24 06:01 PM
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Hmm that's interesting, I never hear about women being into threesomes with two men.
/r/EverydayMisandry31/10/24 08:33 AM
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A lot of women are biphobic. Since they view bi men as "less masculine" or "feminine" because they find men attractive and may engage in "submissive" sexual acts with other men.
/r/EverydayMisandry30/10/24 09:55 PM
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Idk might be too cool for me lol.
/r/EverydayMisandry30/10/24 04:16 PM
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They have more paradoxes than a time travel movie Lmao.
/r/EverydayMisandry30/10/24 03:40 PM
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Facts, men are considered creepy for having any interaction with a woman. And then the same women have the audacity to get mad at men who don't interact with women.
/r/EverydayMisandry30/10/24 03:26 PM
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So true lol
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/10/24 12:37 PM
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Or calling them out for thinking of a man being attracted to men is naturally feminine or less of a man because he engages in submissive sexual positions with other men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/10/24 12:05 PM
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I have seen feminist compare bi men to incels. Because they feel so "entitled" to women's bodies.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/10/24 11:53 AM
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I'm Gen Z too. And even then Gen Z is still afraid to dismantle certain parts of the patriarchy that benefits women, and harm men. Because some feminists wouldn't want women to lose their privileges from the patriarchy.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/10/24 12:18 AM
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Glad you are here. brain is still reeling from the fact this place exists. I never thought I'd see such a thing. I've always been a lefty and I've always been pro-male and critical of feminism due to its abuse of males. Consequently I've also been pretty alone in those positions, and subject to a lot of mockery and hate. Same here. I was shocked when I found out a sub like this existed. The only people who talked about men were bad actors like conservatives, red-pillers, and menlibs. Never thoug…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/10/24 12:16 AM
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Thank you.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/10/24 10:06 PM
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BEST case scenario lmao So true. 🤣
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/10/24 09:45 PM
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She is simply wrong when she claims that feminism does not take anything from men. Wait how can women be these strong independent queens who don't need men, if they are oppressed. Perfect example of Schrödinger's Feminism. Schrödinger's Feminist - The phenomenon in which women express feminist ideals when it's beneficial but disregards them for traditionalist ideals when those are more beneficial. For example, being an empowered Goddess and helpless little child at the same time. The old argumen…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/10/24 09:39 PM
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Caring about men issues is just an option at best to these people. While caring about women's issues is the default. And men are automatically considered misogynistic or the enemy for not being feminist allies. This is why the phrase "feminism is for men too" is BS, because it's 100 percent a psyop or a deflection from men issues. So we must be careful here. I noticed they only pull this tactic whenever they see major improvement or uprising with men's issues from men's rights movements. It's li…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/10/24 09:32 PM
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They are the new incels. Which is a femcel I guessed.
/r/EverydayMisandry29/10/24 08:51 PM
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This is perfect
/r/EverydayMisandry29/10/24 08:50 PM
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Facts. I noticed they only pull this tactic whenever they see major improvement or uprising with men issues. It's like they don't feel comfortable if the ball is not in women's hands. If it's in man's hands (especially men like us), that means they don't get their way. And they don't like that. That means they lose a lot of their female privilege. So they pull out the "feminism is for men too" card as a way to get the ball back into women's hands. Since they want women to be in control here.
/r/EverydayMisandry29/10/24 06:55 PM
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True
/r/EverydayMisandry29/10/24 04:18 PM
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It's almost like they don't view gay men as "real men"
/r/EverydayMisandry29/10/24 04:17 PM
2

🤣🤣
/r/EverydayMisandry29/10/24 03:50 PM
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This is your brain on misandry.
/r/EverydayMisandry29/10/24 02:55 PM
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The same sub that is famous for being biased towards women lol.
/r/EverydayMisandry29/10/24 02:54 PM
5

The comment with that one woman calling interaction of the two worker men complimenting her dress, feeling creepy, and you can tell how egotistical the comment sounds “two male employees felt it necessary to compliment me on how good it looked (the dress)”. Bro thank you for telling me this. Not gonna lie. Even this caught me off guard. Not only are you seeing contradictions in different slides. You are seeing contradictions in the same OP comments lol. She even said she felt flattered, but stil…
/r/EverydayMisandry29/10/24 12:57 PM
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Sad but true.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/10/24 11:36 AM
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Like, if a cishet guy is homophobic, he doesn't pretend he's an ally usually. By avoiding those people I've found myself knowing lots of accepting dudes. Homophobic and biphobic women are more likely to pretend to be allies.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/10/24 11:33 AM
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That's why I think this phenomenon with some women should be a psychology study on cognitive dissonance. It's basically a meme at this point. "I'm so afraid of men, but I still like male gender roles like men approaching us though" meme lol.
/r/EverydayMisandry29/10/24 10:40 AM
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It's all good
/r/EverydayMisandry29/10/24 12:50 AM
5

I said usually
/r/EverydayMisandry29/10/24 12:49 AM
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I agree
/r/EverydayMisandry28/10/24 10:26 PM
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The hard labor jobs.
/r/EverydayMisandry28/10/24 10:06 PM
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The irony is women usually don't want to do the job.
/r/EverydayMisandry28/10/24 09:36 PM
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I completely agree here.
/r/EverydayMisandry28/10/24 08:55 PM
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I swear a South Park episode can be made about this specific gender situation. 😂 My response is usually I can't tell the difference between women that want me to talk to them and women who don't want me to talk to them. So I don't approach lol. This is why I always join their side with the bear vs man topic. Because I know I don't have to argue with them. Since I know they will expose themselves on their own at some point, when I ironically take their irrational fear seriously. Women: Say they a…
/r/EverydayMisandry28/10/24 08:54 PM
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But anytime a redpill dweeb farts sideways its a new discourse cycle. And I'm not saying there shouldn't be. But the totally obvious lack of standards for this shit is so telling. I agree both are bad. But it seems like toxic views seem to be more accepted or tolerated by society with one gender. This is probably because of the oppressor vs oppressed dichotomy. Where men are the privilege class. While women are the oppressed class. So toxic behavior from women is tolerated in society, because wo…
/r/EverydayMisandry28/10/24 05:04 PM
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Sent me a chat request
/r/EverydayMisandry28/10/24 04:13 PM
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Edit: I meant to say transactional actions for women = valid in the title. Check the last two slides before the last slide. You can see their hypocrisy.
/r/EverydayMisandry28/10/24 04:13 PM
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So you think a gay man is bisexual for being attracted to trans men?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/10/24 11:32 AM
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Homophobia is so terrible for men. Especially on social media. Even the most progressive people or feminists (usually liberal women) love to use gay as insults on men they don't like or men who don't live up to their traditional masculine expectations. And perpetuate the narrative that all misogynistic men are closeted gay men. And don't get me started on the hate bisexual men get. I have see feminists compare bisexual men to entitled Incels, for rightfully calling out women for being biphobic o…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/10/24 11:26 AM
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True. I'm just saying I'm not surprised if some of these women identify as feminists.
/r/EverydayMisandry27/10/24 09:33 PM
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"positive Feminism" to them is men following gender roles.
/r/EverydayMisandry27/10/24 09:26 PM
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Won't be surprised if some of these Women aren't conservatives or tradcons themselves lol.
/r/EverydayMisandry27/10/24 09:25 PM
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I saw that post. Good finds.
/r/EverydayMisandry26/10/24 11:07 PM
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Point still stands because the man could be a male feminist. Since he says he is all for strong independent women.
/r/EverydayMisandry26/10/24 03:57 PM
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People love to pretend like most women (not all) don't love gender roles lol. Especially feminists themselves. Outside women that are trancons or Conservatives. Feminists or progressive/liberal women are also the main ones pushing gender roles onto men. So it's not just "oThEr mEn". Slide 8 is a perfect example of I want my cake and want to eat it too. Feminist: I want to be strong and independent, I don't need a man, f*ck the patriarchy. Also feminist: Me proposing to a man, HELL NO, that's a m…
/r/EverydayMisandry26/10/24 03:50 PM
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I agree especially when men aren't allowed to have choice Feminism too. Men are considered misogynistic for wanting traditional women. While for women especially progressive women) wanting a traditional man is just a "preference". While it's a strong expectation for men to be the perfect combination of traditional and progressive.
/r/EverydayMisandry26/10/24 11:08 AM
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Situations like this are sad. Because disabled people sometimes struggle to communicate. This is why police need better training in situations like this.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/10/24 07:59 PM
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At this point they are becoming incels. If they can wish harm on innocent men. Then they can definitely kill innocent men too. Stuff like that does happen. There are plenty of stories of women killing men based on their gender and justifying their actions just like how an incel would. So they are basically femcels at this point.
/r/EverydayMisandry24/10/24 04:28 PM
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At a very young age. With 3 girls whipping me with belts for fun, at a friend's house. This was while I was in elementary school. I couldn't hit back because of the stigma of boys hitting girls. Another time was In middle school. Where these two girls were making fun of my D size out of nowhere, for no reason. I was the quiet kid who didn't interact with anyone. So I guessed that made them upset. As an adult the misandry I face is more based on traditional gender roles. Women are usually upset a…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/10/24 04:15 PM
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And they say men are supposed to be the ego gender lol.
/r/EverydayMisandry24/10/24 02:34 AM
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I find women like that very entitled and narcissistic.
/r/EverydayMisandry24/10/24 02:34 AM
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It's just the "women are wonderful effect" at play here.
/r/EverydayMisandry24/10/24 02:32 AM
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I feel the same way too.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/10/24 02:31 AM
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This is why I don't have any non anonymous social media apps like Facebook or Tik Tok
/r/EverydayMisandry23/10/24 07:59 PM
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This is definitely a better explanation for it. It may seem passive on the outside. But on the inside it's not passive at all.
/r/EverydayMisandry23/10/24 07:12 PM
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Facts, this I called soft power.
/r/EverydayMisandry23/10/24 06:47 PM
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These would probably be the same women that would get mad if men stopped interacting with them
/r/EverydayMisandry23/10/24 06:46 PM
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They have a narrative to push.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/10/24 05:19 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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