Someone weaponizing their oppression is usually something the left doesn't think that can happen, and think you are bigoted if you think that could happen.

For example.

With race, the term "black card". The left hates this term. Because they it's bad to point out how black people try to use the black card to justified their bad behaviors.

But when it comes to gender. All of a sudden it's ok to point out how black men use the black card to take advantage of black women though lol. There are so many feminists talking points about black men using their race to defend themselves as way to appeal to emotions when harming black women. Since black men can fool the community by saying "oh no you are sending another poor black man to jail". People on the left have actually use this same talking about for P Diddy.

Another example is being gay. It would also be considered bad to say that gay people like to use the gay card to justify their bad behaviors on the left. But again when topic is about how women always have it worse. All of a sudden gay men or bisexual men hide behind their LGBTQ identity to be misogynistic. Do you guys see the hypocrisy here?

It's almost similar to the "women most affected by war when mostly men are dying" meme. Because it doesn't matter how oppressed a group is. Their female counterpart will always have it worse. And that oppressed group can still weaponizing their own oppression against women in their groups.

That's what intersectionality is all about right. Doesn't matter how you cut the pizza. Women still have it worse. Poor women have it worse then poor men. Homeless women have it worse than homeless men.

Even though most of racism/homophobia is misandry based. I.E. police brutality statistically more likely with black men, or gay/bi men being more likely to face stigma compare to their female counterparts. But I digress though.

In conclusion.

Remember guys saying that someone is using a oppression card to justify bad behaviors is terrible thing to say. But all of a sudden when you switch the topic to women oppression and intersectionality.

It's now ok to talk about how marginalized men weaponize their oppression against defenseless women because of male privilege.