| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 396 | I ended my relationship - A cautionary tale to ALWAYS VET and ALWAYS FOLLOW FDS STANDARDSThis man was LV and is still LV. I don’t think anything you listed (paying, gifts, no porn) are HV I think they are the bare minimum. We should not expect that as high value. It sounds like he breadcrumbed and masked for a year but in hindsight this was a LV man all along. Also never date former porn addicts. They don’t change and have too much issues. Glad you got out sis! 🙏🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/22 07:40 PM |
| 103 | What Are The Signs Of Porn-Sick Men?💯 sis! every woman should read this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/22 12:15 AM |
| 3 | Do you believe in the idea of soulmate or soulmates?💯 agree | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 07:00 PM |
| 8 | I was scrolling through IG and the amount of married/gf men following or commenting on naked women is absolutely insane!Ugh, sis why is the is so true. The more my eyes are open to men, the more I become asexual by choice lmao. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 07:08 PM |
| 259 | I was scrolling through IG and the amount of married/gf men following or commenting on naked women is absolutely insane!jesus #family #strongvalues 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/22 09:16 PM |
| 137 | I was scrolling through IG and the amount of married/gf men following or commenting on naked women is absolutely insane!Omg. And you just reminded me. FashionNova is basically soft core for men now instead of clothing. WTF?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/22 09:04 PM |
| 33 | I was scrolling through IG and the amount of married/gf men following or commenting on naked women is absolutely insane!True sis. I think I mean noticing, your right. Checking out is like when you’re holding a glance for longer than 2 seconds. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/22 08:49 PM |
| 149 | I was scrolling through IG and the amount of married/gf men following or commenting on naked women is absolutely insane!Exactly. I don’t use social media except only for an IG account I follow photography on, but the amount of YOUNG women literally nipples and camel toes showing is soooooo crazy! I just wish I could tell these young women noooooooo! Girls this is not empowerment. Married men from freaking india are masturbating to you! Sometimes it makes me cry there is just so much wrong with our world now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/22 08:43 PM |
| 304 | I was scrolling through IG and the amount of married/gf men following or commenting on naked women is absolutely insane!They do not. I have had many male strangers that do not know me, tell me they’re cheating on their partners in conversations like it was just akin to talking about the weather. It’s a disease. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/22 07:10 PM |
| 110 | I was scrolling through IG and the amount of married/gf men following or commenting on naked women is absolutely insane!I agree. I wouldn’t feel good telling my bf “let’s see Magic Mike for all the naked hot men” (obvs there are women like this) but I wouldn’t do the same to my partner as I would expect to be done to me. We all know there’s a fine line between checking out someone on the street because they’re attractive, we all do it, including women. But I think deliberately going to a movie to see naked women or following or commenting is a HUGE sign of disrespect, and imo a form of cheating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/22 07:05 PM |
| 59 | Once a cheater, always a cheater.Yet they sing and preach about family values, love, and being a good person with God. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 07:52 PM |
| 41 | What we can learn from model Paulina Porizkova (the latest Aba & Preach video)Yes! He was so fugly and she’s dead gorgeous. One of those relationships that had me scratching my head. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 06:44 PM |
| 70 | Once a cheater, always a cheater.Hahaha. Morgan Wallen is a huge country music star with multiple #1 hits. The baby mommas/girlfriends are no one. Lol. He basically cheated on the baby momma with the gf then cheated on the gf with multiple girls @ his show. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 06:40 PM |
| 86 | What we can learn from model Paulina Porizkova (the latest Aba & Preach video)They were living together but separated/estranged. As a huge FU to her he cut her from his will. What an absolute douchebag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 06:38 PM |
| 32 | It only takes one wrong guy to ruin your entire life.Yes and if you do happen to have the child, hire a top notch custody lawyer and only meet the scrote through your lawyer/set up court arrangements etc. under no circumstances let him back into your life because he’s the father of your child. He will ruin your life again just to get back at you and spite you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 04:27 AM |
| 42 | It only takes one wrong guy to ruin your entire life.Yes :( so many women are in the sunken cost-fallacy of it. They think the time they’ve invested/wasted will eventually amount up to something, I was here many times. Ladies, IT WONT. And rarely ever does. It’s like another poster said in a comment, “at the end of our lives, we do not get a trophy for the suffering that we’ve gone through.” So why suffer when you can be HAPPY?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 02:26 AM |
| 52 | It only takes one wrong guy to ruin your entire life.I loved all my exes at one point in time thought they were my soulmates, and shared my entire life, mind and body with them, and some were HV MEN. Once it’s over, you start to develop the insight from a 3rd party-unbias perspective because you are out of that burning fire. I kid you not, all of my exes are complete strangers to me now, even if I would have taken a bullet for them at one point. It’s like they didn’t even exist except for the emotional trauma I have to deal with but to them it cou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 01:25 AM |
| 70 | It only takes one wrong guy to ruin your entire life.“Men know the minute we walk and have two weeks to process the situation - we are gone.” Exactly. This is why men love-bomb and triangulate us and close off our social circles so we cannot develop the insight to leave them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 01:19 AM |
| 62 | It only takes one wrong guy to ruin your entire life.I’ve never in my entire life had anxiety until I met my ex. He was the cause of my anxiety and I let him smh! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 01:11 AM |
| 8 | Scrolling Reddit is downright depressing: women with no dignity or self-respectI love this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 08:34 PM |
| 135 | It only takes one wrong guy to ruin your entire life.100%. It starts in the family - aka. pleasing the father. Everyone does it - including mom. - “Oh dad/husband hits me, but that’s only because he cares. He provides and puts food on the table so we must put up with it or we’re ungrateful.” It carries and trickles down into our relationships because ‘lo and behold! We were conditioned to it from our parent’s and societies dynamics! It’s conditioning. We were conditioned since we came out into the world to accept this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 08:28 PM |
| 100 | It only takes one wrong guy to ruin your entire life.Yup. Not just your kids or your lives only - but also your family, your friends, your coworker and your professional career. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 08:07 PM |
| 25 | Why do guys get back with their ex?Exactly. This is not about you or “what you did wrong”. LVM’s would have done this to any girl who entertained them. It’s more about him being a LVM and less about why he did it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 03:16 PM |
| 825 | This is why you VET and NEVER have sex too early - bullet dodgedJust wait...give it three weeks and you’re going to receive a text from him at 11:30 p.m. saying that the girl turned out not to be a good match and that he wants to pursue again with you instead. Can you give him another chance? 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 03:05 PM |
| 62 | Maybe he doesn’t hit you.... butMaybe he doesn’t hit you...but he gaslights you until you start to believe you’re the one in the wrong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 02:55 PM |
| 15 | Just a reminder ✨Sticks and stones may break my bones, but never a guy who can’t make me cum. ✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 02:30 PM |
| 2 | "Friends with Benefits" will NEVER turn into "something more"omg I love your username | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 12:09 AM |
| 2 | "Friends with Benefits" will NEVER turn into "something more"“A-ha!” moments are a girl’s best friend! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 12:02 AM |
| 2 | "Friends with Benefits" will NEVER turn into "something more"This is amazing. Thank you 🌸❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 12:00 AM |
| 6 | Same, sis..You go queen! Only thing that will get through to these players is blocking their ass! 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 01:22 AM |
| 460 | notice the double standardFlat tummy, big boobs, fat ass? This ain’t no build-a-bitch! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 10:04 PM |
| 131 | Remember this post every single time a man complains that his ex/current wife/girlfriend refuses to have sex with him. Makes me wonder how many posts on r/ deadbedrooms are from the perspective of the abuser. No, she's not "asexual" or inherently "low libido", he's probably just an asshole.Honestly, this sub has brought my libido down and opened up my eyes to the nature of men. It takes so much more now for me to be attracted to someone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 07:05 PM |
| 10 | How direct should we be when talking about sex while vetting/dating?Exactly. Give him a vague answer when he asks because he will use this in the future against you no matter what. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 01:01 AM |
| 26 | Harsh truthYup. I now make it a point to confirm what we’re both looking for on the first date. Any sign of wishy-washy hesitation from him, or “oh I don’t know...I’m just seeing where it goes.” Peace. I’m out. I value my time more than I value trying to convince a man he ought to look for a relationship with me. HVM know what they want. LVM do not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 09:48 PM |
| 3 | Have you ever ended a relationship because you realized his Dreamgirl wasn’t you—it was an ex or one of his friends?I learned this way too late. My last ex told me he was friends with two of his exes and would occasionally see one of his ex (a hairstylist) for his haircuts. They also went out to grab dinner sometimes and he would brush it off as them being just friends and he treating her to dinner for cutting his hair. One night he spilled that he thought about marrying her. I’m like wtf, you still see her! Suffice to see, relationship is over and he is with someone else and still tries to call me to be frie… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 09:40 AM |
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