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Bunabayashi/r/seduction06/08/12 01:17 PM
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I never divulge numbers. At the most, I'll say something like, "I don't keep track, but I do know that the total number would fit into a bus"
/r/seduction10/12/13 11:29 PM
1

She has some issues from previous relationships that prevent that from happening with some dude she just met<< e.g., a scorching case of herpes
/r/seduction07/09/12 05:21 PM
1

I waited a year between graduating hs and going to undergrad, it was one of the smartest things I've ever done, I had a bit less wild child & a bit more worldliness, which translated into an ability to work hard in school and also Mack the ladies pretty hard on weekends. One of the hottest girls in my class was 28 when we started freshman year, she had been in the air force or something-- the guys were mad for her because she had the 'I don't give a fuck, go away 'frosh' mindset. In pua terms yo…
/r/seduction03/09/12 01:33 PM
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"Afterparty, my place."
/r/seduction31/08/12 04:37 PM
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If it were me (and it was several years ago) I would first rule out any physical issues by getting a good checkup from a general practitioner doctor. They can rule out hormonal imbalances and other potential ailments. If you're good to go there I would recommend talking to an empathetic and professional therapist-- one who does not believe in or use anti-depressants or other drugs-- and work towards uncovering the issues which are producing the behavioral/emotional symptoms you're experiencing. …
/r/seduction24/08/12 02:08 PM
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I agree, one of the goals I've had is to work hard to be 'free from outcome'. If you look at another person's eyes and just be in the moment, and don't expect a response (good or bad), the results are pretty amazing.
/r/seduction23/08/12 12:27 PM
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Downvoted for use of the word 'whilst'
/r/seduction23/08/12 03:21 AM
6

dude, some of us are trying to eat here
/r/seduction21/08/12 03:50 PM
15

Eyepatch. Bitches love the eyepatch.
/r/seduction17/08/12 05:26 PM
5

This.
/r/seduction17/08/12 03:50 PM
2

Some women want a 'Provider', which is a role that society pressures Nice Guys to conform to in order to get the girl. Fuck that, & fuck any woman who makes you buy shit for her in order for her to deign to pay attention to you.
/r/seduction17/08/12 03:48 PM
16

"special needs, yes"
/r/seduction17/08/12 12:55 PM
0

This.
/r/seduction16/08/12 09:15 PM
3

"I'm holding it in my stomach for you"
/r/seduction16/08/12 09:12 PM
3

The Clown Nose Opener
/r/seduction16/08/12 07:41 PM
9

I don't know the answer, I do know 'HerVajesty' is arguably the funniest reddit handle ever.
/r/seduction11/08/12 12:22 PM
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The best advice I can give is: as you lead the interactions with a woman you're interested in, ask yourself, "would this thing I'm about to say or do be appropriate if we were in her bedroom, DTF?" If it's not, then don't do it. Humor is a fantastic tool in your arsenal, but you're right, if it's so good that it charms the pants off her, you need to switch gears at some point and throw those pants across the room.
/r/seduction10/08/12 03:13 PM
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Most women aren't terribly responsive or warm to human beings they perceive as Walking Wallets.
/r/seduction09/08/12 12:07 PM
0

she’d be an HB8 if she dropped a few pounds<< 30-40?
/r/seduction08/08/12 01:26 PM
1

exactly, thank you
/r/seduction08/08/12 01:11 PM
5

Revel in it. Bathe in it.
/r/seduction07/08/12 11:11 PM
1

I have, but I'm not sure I can be of help because in both situations I met them out, had no idea they were stews until later. I can tell you from being around them and their co-workers, most have a very high shit-test ratio and very low self-esteem.
/r/seduction07/08/12 11:06 PM
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"Well, I'm a little concerned over the escalating tensions in the Middle East..."
/r/seduction07/08/12 11:04 PM
10

No, 'double penetration', silly
/r/seduction07/08/12 10:51 AM
1

but now she is for the full package<< yep, full on fucking gold digging pos
/r/seduction06/08/12 05:31 PM
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I think it's a great window into a (from a guy's perspective) completely useless form of courtship.
/r/seduction06/08/12 02:08 PM
2

This. She's not rejecting YOU, she doesn't even know you man!
/r/seduction30/07/12 02:42 PM
1

It seems to me you're 'drawing state' (feeling confident and 'worthy' of the girl's attention) because of what you know and your mastery of it, instead of simply because of who you are. You are enough. Having the mental attitude of 'I am enough' without external validation from what you know will draw women to you.
/r/seduction30/07/12 12:38 PM
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No it's cool, I get what you're saying.
/r/seduction29/07/12 11:09 PM
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also, why? what's the problem with guys showing an interest in you?
/r/seduction29/07/12 06:41 PM
3

I'm not sure that's possible to any great extent. Maybe a nun's habit when you're out?
/r/seduction29/07/12 06:40 PM
2

Dude, think how epic it would be if you got an F close off of that crappy font!
/r/seduction29/07/12 03:43 PM
6

"Who?"
/r/seduction26/07/12 12:30 AM
4

Neither. "Come hang out with me at this awesome place I know, they serve the best <whatever>."
/r/seduction25/07/12 12:54 AM
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Respect to you, I know first hand this shit is tough
/r/seduction24/07/12 02:35 AM
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Yes, you do know. I'm sorry to be a dick knowitall but I'm certain you know, there are parts of you which don't want to openly acknowledge it.
/r/seduction22/07/12 05:27 PM
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"yes, & that ice pack feels pretty good too."
/r/seduction22/07/12 12:06 AM
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You're welcome. I will save you some time (but not pain, I'm sorry on say) and lay out a question for you which, if you dig in and answer fully honestly, will help the process back to healthy self-esteem. When your therapist asked, "why are you so harsh to yourself in every aspect of your life?", the real question is, who in your life as you were growing up was harsh on every aspect of your life, or through their actions towards you or indifference towards you showed you that they thought you we…
/r/seduction21/07/12 02:52 AM
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Dude, it's really hard reading you just trashing yourself up & down, I'm really sorry you don't have more respect for yourself (& I mean that sincerely, not a dig). It doesn't matter what you look like. It doesn't matter what you look like. It doesn't matter what you look like. You can sarge & pull women like a fucking champ once you get this. It doesn't matter what you look like. I recommend you read & watch everything you can by Tyler Durden (real name, Owen Cook) over at Real Social Dynamics.…
/r/seduction19/07/12 01:25 AM
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If its in your job description to do what they ask of you, do it but make a note of it. Fill a small notebook with these notes & then take it to your boss. If its not your job, cheerfully inform them that what they're asking isn't in your job description & leave the area.
/r/seduction17/07/12 12:45 AM
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voted up for TRUTH
/r/seduction16/07/12 09:58 PM
3

Marcellus Wallace says, give her a foot massage
/r/seduction15/07/12 08:45 PM
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You're in
/r/seduction14/07/12 03:55 PM
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Why?
/r/seduction14/07/12 03:22 PM
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Friend A has many of the classic symptoms of depression.
/r/seduction13/07/12 03:42 AM
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'8 Reasons Regular Guys Should Learn To Cook' What is a 'regular' guy? Fuck that dlv bullshit
/r/seduction11/07/12 07:53 PM
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I agree
/r/seduction11/07/12 07:45 PM
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I was raised in a Chinese family and my mother was a horrid bitch that constantly belittle me on every aspect of my looks such as my body weight and acne.<< Therapy my friend. I'm not kidding. This shit sticks with you into adulthood and shapes your worldview in toxic, unhealthy ways-- you yourself are noticing it. Find and engage the services of a warm, competent therapist who will be your advocate and help you process the bullshit your mother poured into your soul.
/r/seduction11/07/12 03:12 PM
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This gf must be ridiculously hot for you to put up with being punked out like this.
/r/seduction11/07/12 02:08 PM
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Oh it's the ironically wacky jenna marles--DIAF
/r/seduction11/07/12 03:41 AM
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"No I don't sm-- hey wait a minute, is 'cigarette' a euphemism?" wink wink
/r/seduction10/07/12 09:39 PM
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Thanks, yeah that was a cut-paste from an ancient pdf
/r/seduction10/07/12 09:35 PM
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downvoted for the word 'caught', fu
/r/seduction10/07/12 06:32 PM
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He's a cockblocking petty douchebag cunt who tooled on you mercilessly and then had the balls to accuse YOU of being the person in the wrong when you called him out on his bullshit. In pua this is AMOG'ing, your goal is to get into a state of being that you can out-AMOG bitches like your room mate. Tyler Durden has some awesome stuff on this, check out Neil Strauss's book 'The Game', from which I quote: WARNING: Wall of Text MSN GROUP: Mystery's Lounge SUBJECT: AMOG Tactics AUTHOR: Tyler Durden …
/r/seduction10/07/12 03:12 PM
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Truth
/r/seduction10/07/12 03:06 PM
3

Give them a Snapple. Bitches love the Snapple.
/r/seduction10/07/12 12:00 PM
1

She framed you into being a Provider.
/r/seduction10/07/12 02:12 AM
5

some girls are angry
/r/seduction09/07/12 05:41 PM
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Downvoted for encouraging chode behavior
/r/seduction09/07/12 12:34 PM
1

When you say 'the best of the best', who do you mean?
/r/seduction09/07/12 12:49 AM
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"Hi I'm 5ft11flip, a bloody Yank visiting your fair island. I think it's in both our interests, as well as a fine gesture towards peace & love between our two countries, if you meet me for coffee forthwith."
/r/seduction08/07/12 10:37 PM
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found any fakers? Just curious
/r/seduction08/07/12 10:35 PM
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"Oh my god, coffee dates are so boring! You actually enjoy that tedious bullshit? I thought you were adventurous?" Make her qualify and demonstrate value to YOU
/r/seduction08/07/12 05:17 PM
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Nice job man, that's awesome
/r/seduction07/07/12 10:24 PM
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for sure it puts you in a weaker, supplicating position. also ending sentences with an 'uptick' of vocal intonation (typically reserved for questions) is a dead giveaway
/r/seduction07/07/12 10:09 PM
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and do girls say the things that Tyler says they will? If so did that cause you (at least at first) to snap out of state for a bit? Sounds like an epic way to go
/r/seduction07/07/12 06:07 PM
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When your sense of self-worth is derived from the high opinion of others (and more damagingly, when they have a low opinion of you), you are externalizing (making outside of yourself) the source for something which should be internally generated. The origin of that unhealthy model for living most likely goes back to your formative years, and it's a bitch to unravel let me tell ya. I know it might sound drastic or unwarranted, but I strongly recommend speaking with a competent and trust-worthy th…
/r/seduction07/07/12 04:31 PM
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Oh sorry I missed that-- yeah Style swears by it, I've had some 3-somes but have never initiated with it, seems like an awesome move. Balls of steel you will need, hmmmm? <Yoda>
/r/seduction07/07/12 02:09 AM
4

Google 'dual induction massage'
/r/seduction07/07/12 01:36 AM
2

If you're consistently a funny guy, you're halfway there, check out David De Angelo's Cocky Funny pua advice
/r/seduction06/07/12 08:34 PM
1

Voted down for advising men to act like chodes
/r/seduction06/07/12 08:33 PM
1

Make her qualify herself to YOU. You have a low opinion about yourself based on your job, which is bullshit. There's a million ways to engage her so that you can meet up later: "So, what do you do when you're not repairing cars?" "Hey can you look at my starter motor, it keeps making this grinding noise?" "How are you with light aircraft engine repair?" Just say anything cocky funny to engage her, she will open up and you can work it from there.
/r/seduction06/07/12 05:11 PM
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So she's vapid for rejecting you based on the color of your skin, but you're ok because you only hit on women based on the color of their skin? How does that work?
/r/seduction06/07/12 12:40 PM
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He's gay.
/r/seduction06/07/12 12:38 PM
4

The general consensus in the PUA community is to never, ever compliment as it demonstrates lower value (DLV) for you. If you do compliment, always follow it up with a neg, so there is a push/pull (my personal experience has been this works freakishly well).
/r/seduction05/07/12 07:22 PM
2

They're so desperate for protein
/r/seduction05/07/12 03:41 PM
7

Up voted for the following: 'bitches love telescopes'
/r/seduction05/07/12 03:12 AM
3

Was this at a place called 'Hooters' by chance?
/r/seduction04/07/12 11:24 PM
1

my personal experience has been that women with sleeve tattoos have a whole host of issues which make figuring them out more trouble than it's worth.
/r/seduction04/07/12 08:30 PM
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That's awesome, I think you have a great attitude. Just for your consideration, there's o reason why you can't be with both girls. :)
/r/seduction04/07/12 05:23 PM
4

I think the best way is to win over the friend, who is maybe acting as a protector (e.g, cock-blocker) or simply being a douche. regardless, if you can establish rapport with the friend, you just confidently 'ask permission', something like, "Hey I need to borrow your friend for 5 minutes, be right back" as you take your target's hand and lead her away. Reasons why can vary from, "You have to come meet my awesome friends", "I have to show you this awesome thing (non-sexual)", there is also a gam…
/r/seduction04/07/12 04:17 PM
1

I think to keep your value high you should say something like, "thanks for the offer, I'm busy earlier, let's do next Tuesday night..."
/r/seduction03/07/12 09:32 PM
4

If it were me (& Im not recommending anything I havent done myself) I would talk to a competent & empathetic therapist about what it is you're experiencing. Just FYI, children of single parents are highly likely to develop challenges later in life such as what you're describing
/r/seduction02/07/12 03:38 AM
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It doesn't sound batshit crazy, not at all. I'm going to say something which might at first seem controversial or wrong- headed, but I will try to illustrate it with a metaphor which might help. Picture a soldier coming home from serving in Iraq or Afghanistan, he's a civilian now & minding his own business walking down the street, ok? Suddenly a car backfires, or some kids set off a string of firecrackers, he's going to drop to the ground and cover completely automatically, without thinking-- h…
/r/seduction02/07/12 02:56 AM
1

What feelings come up for you, or perhaps what thoughts (no matter how illogical) when a male approaches or shows interest?
/r/seduction02/07/12 01:33 AM
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I think you made a mistake by submitting to the request of taking a picture of them.
/r/seduction01/07/12 04:26 PM
1

no worries, I hope it helps!
/r/seduction01/07/12 12:56 PM
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False time constraint+something cool that's in your room=ayiyiyiyiyiy "I have to show you this awesome video my friends & I made, but then I have to kick you out because I have to get up early for work..." If you have done the work prior to this step you're in
/r/seduction30/06/12 05:56 PM
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That's awesome (not that you were morbidly obese, but that you lost the weight). How did you do it?
/r/seduction30/06/12 03:50 PM
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You need a wing, this was he best post I've read on how to do it right: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/vg5ow/the_bunker_buster_how_we_wing/
/r/seduction30/06/12 02:55 PM
5

"I feel lik a pretty pretty princess, thanks for asking."
/r/seduction30/06/12 12:02 AM
1

bazinga
/r/seduction29/06/12 09:37 PM
2

Where do you live? Health food stores, book stores, upscale malls, there's a TON of places. BTW I don't drink anymore and I too have felt the b) stares, my #1 never fail response to when they ask, "You don't drink?!" is, "No, I think I drank my lifetime quota by the age of about 25 or so..." it hasn't failed to elicit a positive vibe, it needs to be delivered dryly and with no drama.
/r/seduction29/06/12 09:19 PM
1

But seriously, if she's that bold I would push it to see if that's her thing, get all up in there and see if she's comfortable. Alley time!
/r/seduction29/06/12 08:55 PM
1

Google 'Dual Induction Massage'
/r/seduction29/06/12 07:18 PM
1

Maybe she wants the outdoor sex
/r/seduction29/06/12 07:13 PM
0

No worries, people flake. "Oh was that for today? I totally flaked. I'm just heading out the door to meet some friends. ttyl" and then wait for her to reach out again.
/r/seduction28/06/12 07:02 PM
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I realize I haven't been here long but I'm up voting this as best subject line of the year
/r/seduction28/06/12 01:44 AM
9

Carry a puppy. Bitches love the puppies.
/r/seduction27/06/12 10:12 PM
2

Yes BUT-- often it's a subtle trap, in that the girl does it as a way to disqualify you. Very attractive women will touch, & if you see it as an IOI and try to reciprocate/escalate, they shut you down. I have had ridiculous success by doing the following [credit Style]: every time they touch just gently brush their hand away or gently pick it up & drop it, along with saying something like "hey, hands off the merchandise", "this shit's not free", "That"ll be $30.00, no checks"... It is crazy how …
/r/seduction27/06/12 02:19 PM
3

Google the phrase 'Dual Induction Massage'
/r/seduction27/06/12 01:47 PM
1

Tossing hair, I see that one often. I call it the Breck Girl Move.
/r/seduction27/06/12 11:51 AM
1

It will be cool when your period synchs up with everyone else's
/r/seduction26/06/12 11:28 PM
1

Hahaha!
/r/seduction26/06/12 11:22 PM
2

Bang her on webcam Upload to youporn Email link to friend Just kidding'. This guy is fulfilling the very destiny he says he wishes to avoid. If you want to be with her, do it. People on here are saying don't abuse the friendship, but that's exactly what HE is doing to YOU.
/r/seduction26/06/12 09:34 PM
3

It makes a great opener, that's for sure
/r/seduction26/06/12 08:55 PM
1

"My, what big beakers you have, wanna make out?"
/r/seduction25/06/12 09:13 PM
35

This post creeped me out
/r/seduction25/06/12 01:35 PM
2

I think that for whatever reasons (and this isn't a slam, I mean I'm sure you DID do a whole bunch of stuff correctly for her to connect with you like she did), but for whatever reasons she gave you her number, but you're not giving her a reason to want to continue the seduction. You may have momentarily impressed her with balls of steel, or she may have been the type who prides herself (while being a 10) on being publicly nice to 'nerdy' types but then shuts them down later privately. Who knows…
/r/seduction25/06/12 01:32 PM
0

Thanks, I appreciate your response
/r/seduction25/06/12 12:22 AM
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You're welcome. Be forewarned he seems like the kind of guy who will want to escalate and get physical, just keep humiliating him. "No dude, as you can see by my awesome angel here I'm a lover, not a fighter but good luck with that, seriously man no offense, right?" And offer to shake his hand but then pull it away at the last second, just completely blow him out.
/r/seduction24/06/12 10:01 PM
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Actually, it doesn't really matter. My advice would be to learn Tyler Durden's techniques for AMOG'ing the threat (although, in all seriousness, the guy sounds like a complete moron). Next time he does the look, or the tongue thing, or whatever douche move he thinks makes someone else's gf wet, whip out your phone and go, "Oh man that was awesome, that tongue thing? Do it again bro, I have to get this on video." [AssMOG reply, something like 'go fuck yourself' or whatever rapier wit response he …
/r/seduction24/06/12 07:38 PM
7

what age is everyone in this story?
/r/seduction24/06/12 07:31 PM
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IMHO, the best 'insta-dates' (aka, bounces) are seemingly casual & spontaneous while also being planned pretty carefully. It should be a contrast from where you're starting, it should demonstrate higher value for you, AND it should be a hook into something she has mentioned she likes. So, if she is into art or fashion, it would be something like, "hey I forgot my friend is having a gallery opening today, you should come meet him he's awesome", or if she's a foodie, "Oh my god no matter what you …
/r/seduction24/06/12 04:40 PM
4

If it really is just too freakin' loud to talk without basically putting your mouth to her ear, just say, "let's go (to the smoking area/front of club/just outside the club, wherever it's quieter)" & when you get there tell her you don't smoke (cocky funny, unopologetic), I've done this a bunch of times and-- presuming you have done the groundwork before of building rapport-- it's always met with a laugh & a smile. I usually sy something like, "yeah I coldn't hear you very well & this seemed lik…
/r/seduction24/06/12 02:15 PM
4

Did you know every 10 pounds of weight you lose equals another inch to your length? (Up to a point, of course). Lose some weight bro! :)
/r/seduction23/06/12 01:23 AM
1

awesome, thanks :)
/r/seduction23/06/12 01:20 AM
1

someone on the thread said their go-to word was 'adorable', how would you react to that?
/r/seduction23/06/12 12:25 AM
1

sexual harassment charges. You lose your job and get a serious black mark on your resume.
/r/seduction22/06/12 07:16 PM
10

F'ing brilliant stuff here, thanks
/r/seduction22/06/12 07:14 PM
5

I understand it bothers him, but the very fact is that the fact it bothers him DLV's him in the eyes of others. I'm saying use what you have and make it work for you. Think about the opportunities! MILFs, teen girls, and girls his own age!
/r/seduction22/06/12 06:39 PM
3

Include the possibility that she couldn't speak freely, like there was a manager standing right next to her or something. I had a friend who worked at T.J.'s and they were incredibly strict about the 'no personal calls' thing. I know this is 20/20 hindsight, but next time you could try something like, "Oh I get it, you can't speak freely, am I right? If the answer is 'yes', cough once..." you have NOTHING TO LOSE and EVERYTHING to gain. If she coughs, it's conspiratorial and fun as you plot how …
/r/seduction22/06/12 06:32 PM
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Use it as an opener. "Hey guys, I just have a sec, my buddies and I were having this discussion & I need a quick opinion on something. Do I look too young to be here?"
/r/seduction22/06/12 06:14 PM
86

I don't mean to be a dick, but you're aware what dangers there are in dating people from the workplace, right?
/r/seduction22/06/12 02:12 PM
1

A good way is to not ask, but rather tell her to come join you somewhere, e.g., message her with 'you should come meet my awesome friends, we're hanging out at [whatever bar] tonight'.
/r/seduction22/06/12 02:05 PM
5

Just roleplay, pretend you're the manager of the club, or the manager in charge of hospitality-- it's your JOB to meet & greet people there. (Note, I'm not telling you to actually say you're the manager, I mean get into that mindset. Even if someone is a total dick you can just step back and say, "Ok, this person definitely needs another round!" or something similar.
/r/seduction22/06/12 01:56 PM
1

exactly, so in order to stand out and not get shut down, use material and methods that catapult you over the initial resistance... be different
/r/seduction21/06/12 09:19 PM
1

"Oh were we supposed to hang out? I totally flaked. Heading out with some friends, thanks for the message!"
/r/seduction21/06/12 09:12 PM
2

Started going on about her fuck buddy (?) - thought this might be a shit test, but tried to play it cool. Negged in response - "So you're that easy, are you?"<< Next time try, "Oh what's her name? Can I meet her?"
/r/seduction20/06/12 09:28 PM
0

They all want dick.
/r/seduction20/06/12 04:37 PM
1

Style was doing a teleseminar once & related a bit Chris Rock used to do about what it is that's going on when men talk to women. Basically every time the man speaks he's actually saying, "Want some dick?" "What's up ladies [want some dick]?" "You look fine tonight [want some dick?]" "Great party riight [want some dick?]" You get the idea. Also it was a lot funnier when Chris Rock did it :P So anyway, the point of relating all that was to say, you have to be the guy who does NOT say, "want some …
/r/seduction20/06/12 01:39 PM
2

Here's what I do: in order not to appear beta and/or creepy, send a friend request with a personal message along the lines of, "ok this is scary how does Facebook know to suggest people I went to freaking middle school with? That's insane! What's up with you?" That way it's implied that it was the 'auto friend suggest' thing and not you
/r/seduction20/06/12 04:34 AM
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