CallRepresentative25 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
71	How often do women approach you?	Removed: No Beginner Topics/Too Broad	CallRepresentative25	/r/seduction	03/07/26 12:06 AM
6	Rapid escalation?	Escalation & Calibration	CallRepresentative25	/r/seduction	16/09/25 01:40 PM
5	Neccessary tools to be a successful player?	Conversation	CallRepresentative25	/r/seduction	25/09/25 08:52 PM
2	Is it all just bs?	Outer Game	CallRepresentative25	/r/seduction	29/11/25 03:22 PM
1	The hottest of the hot girls	Conversation	CallRepresentative25	/r/seduction	28/09/25 05:11 AM

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1	Men who've never struggled with dating and hooking up, what do you do differently than the rest of us? How many girls would you say youve slept with?	/r/seduction	26/07/26 03:22 PM
1	Men who've never struggled with dating and hooking up, what do you do differently than the rest of us? You mention being "very tall" how tall are we talking? I'm 6'5". Not saying I struggle with women, but you make it sound like you're drowning in them. Im also very handsome and jacked, and make well over 6 figures, confident, funny, charismatic and can talk to literally anyone, and I seem approachable because everywhere I go random people will strike up conversations with me, and confide to me very quickly. But im wondering what seperates men like you and myself with regards to women? I possess …	/r/seduction	26/07/26 08:01 AM
1	Men who've never struggled with dating and hooking up, what do you do differently than the rest of us? Im all of those things and much more. But seem to have the opposite effect. So it cant be this.	/r/seduction	26/07/26 07:55 AM
3	Men who've never struggled with dating and hooking up, what do you do differently than the rest of us? The men youve given sexual access to, what are some of the common denomenators with them?	/r/seduction	26/07/26 07:50 AM
-2	Mean but sexy So dont even attempt to sleep with the really hot girl to find out if shes good in bed, so you can justify smashing mid girls? Whats your point?	/r/seduction	25/07/26 01:39 AM
-3	Mean but sexy Have any of you guys actually had mindblowing sex with a girl whos a true 9? Its possible. I have and ive seen the light. And im telling you nothing tops it. Why would I settle for less if i've had a taste of the real good life?	/r/seduction	25/07/26 01:38 AM
12	25M: Doing great in my career, but my dating life is non-existent. Sometimes this thought physically hurts my chest How about we start talking less crypticly and we give some actionable advice.	/r/seduction	25/07/26 12:48 AM
-4	Mean but sexy Hes not trying to wife her up, he wants to smash. Smashing a 10 is FARRR better than a 7, regardless of her personality. I do agree with your point to a degree. Theres a reason why the hottest girls make millions on onlyfans or command high prices for escorting, they're sought after by many men.	/r/seduction	24/07/26 08:35 PM
3	79 Women Later: Everything I’ve Learned About Women, Attraction, and Dating I can never understand this, im the opposite. If a woman can agree to sleep with me ive got her secured for however long I want her, or if I want to date her. Getting her to sleep with me is the hard part. Lets trade.	/r/seduction	24/07/26 03:04 AM
2	Women only want me when I treat them like sh*t Well said	/r/seduction	19/07/26 05:54 AM
12	Women only want me when I treat them like sh*t Yeah poor advice, most men I knows girlfriends are total bitches, and the men are absolutely miserable. They confide to me. Most men want peace, and thats almost always not offered by the woman. The fact that a lot of the random men in this thread seem to be agreeing that this also validates their experience with women. And I absolutely concur. I believe genuinely that a good portion of women desire and reward poor behavior from men. I met my last ex with that poor behavior, and she absolutely j…	/r/seduction	19/07/26 05:52 AM
48	Picked up & hooked up with a woman sitting behind me at restaurant. Let the man have his damn flowers	/r/seduction	17/07/26 02:28 AM
1	Getting Pussy is too hard Ive met guys who crush it with women and treat sleeping with women as an objective. I get the jist of your message though.	/r/seduction	16/07/26 04:54 AM
1	Getting Pussy is too hard Ive got the opposite problem. All women I meet want me as a boyfriend or husband. Hooking up is very difficult.	/r/seduction	16/07/26 04:51 AM
3	The Lost Art of Meeting Women Any man who wants to teach seduction, and if the end goal is sleeping with as many women as possible. They should be transparent with their laycount. A higher number proves irrefutibly that its less about luck. Its like wanting to learn how to make money. Do you ask a homeless man, or the multi millionaire/billionaire? People with a proven track record will obviously have developed a specific set of skills at whatever their track record is.	/r/seduction	14/07/26 10:38 PM
2	Guys in their 30s that are having casual relationships, what are they they typically? Seems like the really hot girls just like flat out douchebags, so this whole "be nice with a spine" seems like nonsense. Women like bad boys, they like men who are assholes. Why do we delude ourselves and say its not so, when reality shows us time and time again.	/r/seduction	11/07/26 01:03 AM
1	Drop your standards Lol what? All I get is girls below me hitting on me. Im not sure what you're talking about.	/r/seduction	09/07/26 04:50 PM
1	How often do women approach you? Crazy, how would you rate yourself physically? You appear to be the anomaly in this thread.	/r/seduction	05/07/26 03:29 AM
1	How often do women approach you? Why does anyone want to know anything? Curiosity of course! There are definitely men who seem to have some type of appeal to women. Ive seen guys who aren't the worlds most handsome men, but somehow have this magnetic ability to attract women. Ive seen certain guys who get women approaching them everywhere they go, despite just entering the scene. I want to know why.	/r/seduction	05/07/26 03:28 AM
1	How often do women approach you? Lucky, ive only ever really had unattractive ones do that.	/r/seduction	04/07/26 01:16 PM
2	How often do women approach you? Ive had a group of people shout that im sexy. Never had a girl do it. I don't go clubbing lots, now im my early 30's. Not saying I havent had girls shoot their shot. Its been very rare though.	/r/seduction	04/07/26 05:12 AM
1	How often do women approach you? Ok good to know im not alone.	/r/seduction	04/07/26 03:49 AM
1	How often do women approach you? Do you get hit on all the time?	/r/seduction	04/07/26 03:49 AM
1	How often do women approach you? Nice, ok you're above my stats. How would you rate yourself physically? Just curious what seperates some guys from others.	/r/seduction	03/07/26 02:55 AM
1	How often do women approach you? Lifetime?	/r/seduction	03/07/26 02:48 AM
1	How often do women approach you? Never say never, there can always be a first.	/r/seduction	03/07/26 02:36 AM
1	How often do women approach you? How would you rate yourself physically? Not trying to diminish or discredit you but ive met lots of guys who misread signals from a woman. Ive seen guys who are very self assured that a woman wants to "fuck them" when in actuality she was just being polite and conversating with him. How can you be sure all of this eye contact actually means shes attracted? I make eye contact with lots and lots of people but almost never assume attraction unless theres an unbroken gaze for more than a specific pe…	/r/seduction	03/07/26 02:33 AM
17	How often do women approach you? In my experience the less attractive women are the ones who will actually "approach". Just from my personal experience. Maybe fat women have no confidence to do that.	/r/seduction	03/07/26 02:31 AM
3	How often do women approach you? Interesting, so you think it could be related to "big fish, small pond." Only way to know for sure is to go to a big city and see if you get the same reception. I live in a "big city" I guess you could say and its slim pickins out here, but I also think the women in my city are very stuck up, and would probably overrate themselves if asked to rate themselves.	/r/seduction	03/07/26 02:29 AM
1	How often do women approach you? Maybe Toronto is a lot like Vancouver (where im from) The women here seem to be really stuck up.	/r/seduction	03/07/26 02:26 AM
3	How often do women approach you? How often have you been "approached" in real life.	/r/seduction	03/07/26 02:25 AM
2	How often do women approach you? I will get random people come up and talk to me all the time, men and women (like mostly older women, im not counting them for what I mentioned before.) I probably give off a friendly vibe I think. I agree that I believe women will approach less attractive men, because probably they themselves dont want to get shot down. Im trying to see if theres a correlation between attractiveness, and being approached. Or if its all just random and men who fit a girls "type".	/r/seduction	03/07/26 02:24 AM
2	How often do women approach you? How many women approach you monthly? Like approach and start the conversation, or approach and are initiating sexual talk, flirty ness or asking for your number. Genuinely happy for you. When you say "got hot" what do you mean by that exactly.	/r/seduction	03/07/26 12:58 AM
7	How often do women approach you? Obviously, doesn,'t answer my question.	/r/seduction	03/07/26 12:57 AM
1	How often do women approach you? Take those wins for what they are. I wonder if your no nonsense attitude really sparked something in her or her attraction to you, and then she had time to sit on it and think, which also made her more attracted to you.	/r/seduction	03/07/26 12:56 AM
1	How often do women approach you? I mean its flattering, but really dissapointing when you aren't physically attracted to those women. The vast majority of women approaching me (which hasnt been many.) has been from women i'm genuinely not attracted to, feels bad.	/r/seduction	03/07/26 12:53 AM
19	How often do women approach you? Man you must be handsome. Or you're hanging out in the wrong places...lol. Do you live in Palm Springs?	/r/seduction	03/07/26 12:31 AM
4	How often do women approach you? Fair enough, obviously women being drunk probably helps them to feel more comfortable talking to you. Or just being a bit more aggressive with being "flirty". Ive had a somewhat similar experience as you.	/r/seduction	03/07/26 12:30 AM
2	How often do women approach you? I mean I see your point, but it doesnt really answer my question. I'm trying to understand exactly how rare it is to be approached by a woman, so I can understand it better. The majority of men on this sub would parrot exactly what you said, theres no shortage of that re-affirming "be the man" mentality around here.	/r/seduction	03/07/26 12:28 AM
1	How often do women approach you? Saying it doesn't happen isn't true. Ive seen girls do this to other guys in real life. I've personally been approached by two women I had never met before, offering me a threesome, at a concert. (The girls weren't my type physically.)	/r/seduction	03/07/26 12:26 AM
2	How often do women approach you? A woman walking up and talking to you in real life.	/r/seduction	03/07/26 12:16 AM
2	I feel invisible to women Or genuinely women might not be checking him out, you can be right as well.	/r/seduction	03/07/26 12:02 AM
6	I feel invisible to women Lol this guys trying to tell you something that isnt happening to you. Ive seen when women are attracted to a guy, putting themselves in proximity, handing their number, or going to go talk to the guy. Ive seen guys who get that reaction from women. I'm like you, been called movie star handsome, i'm 6'4", in great shape, make well over 6 figures, no shortage of confidence, and charisma, i'm also funny, I have every part of my life together, minus the women part. I'm also basically invisible to w…	/r/seduction	02/07/26 11:57 PM
9	34M. Experienced with dating. Met a girl I liked a lot & dropped other options. Then got dumped. What’s my mistake? I have to agree with him. Why do fuckboys get more play and action from women, when they clearly present themselves as not long term material? They're mysterious, fun, and dont invest too much into the woman. A stable man who is actually husband material seems to lack these qualities or the thin veil of what makes the fuckboy exciting seems to be lost on the guy who is husband material. And the sad part is most men really want to be in the fuckboys spot, but misrepresent themselves and get lost …	/r/seduction	25/06/26 04:43 AM
1	How to have female presence benefit you even if you don't like the girl who wants to be by you? People will feel sorry for you for banging the 3/10, versus banging an actually attractive woman which would make guys jealous and actually make other attractive women try to find out whats so special about you. Sleeping with the lowest of the low on the totem poll gets you exactly zero street cred. Infact you go negative on balance.	/r/seduction	24/06/26 11:00 AM
1	Gentleman. Getting Healthy Will Reduce Your Anxiety To Oblivion. What else have you tried and done? Fixed your sleep, optimal and healthy diet, getting adequate physical exercise, any supplements you're taking? Have you tried to do exposure therapy? For instance I was very anxious in big crowds and social settings. Being in social settings a lot more and forcing myself to be social really helped to reduce my overall anxiety in that case, it also helped build confidence. Also reducing caffeine or no caffeine also helped my overall anxiety. I can even reccomend…	/r/seduction	30/05/26 01:08 AM
1	Gentleman. Getting Healthy Will Reduce Your Anxiety To Oblivion. Honestly I wouldn't advise it, until you've tried a bunch of other stuff and you feel stuck. This drug is really powerful and if improperly administered can have serious negative side effects. Its an HDACii inhibitor, called Vorinostat. There are others too, but that was the specific one I used.	/r/seduction	29/05/26 07:29 PM
1	Gentleman. Getting Healthy Will Reduce Your Anxiety To Oblivion. I did everything you did, and 10x more. And it didnt fix my anxiety. It greatly reduced it, and becoming more confident after mastering a lot of what you listed really helped. But I always had that underlying hum of anxiety in my day. I found out about a powerful chemotherapy drug which acts on specific parts of your brain. I actually learned about it on reddit in a very niche thread, one single comment mentioming it. It essentially opens up parts related to memory storing and can re-write negat…	/r/seduction	29/05/26 04:59 AM
1	I have absolutely no idea how to attract women. Any ideas? I think you're leaning too much into my answer. This guy gave a generic cookie cutter comment. I rebutted with adding more onto that stereotypical comment which could generally be lumped together when guys think about stereotypical things women want. The point is that stuff isn't true. And yes all of those things I've listed and he listed I actually have and am, and actually much much more. I'm a very rare man, I sound cocky, but really im just confident in myself. Took a lot of self growth, pai…	/r/seduction	04/05/26 06:06 AM
0	I have absolutely no idea how to attract women. Any ideas? You missed all my other attributes I listed, my problem is I don't approach women. I kind of expected them to start chasing me, after I got to this level. Im actually very charimastic, and can talk to anyone about literally anything. People usually confide to me and tell me their secrets very quickly, so no not a personality issue, just me going and approaching issue I guess.	/r/seduction	02/05/26 12:46 PM
2	I have absolutely no idea how to attract women. Any ideas? Yeah when I hear this cookie cutter advice that actually doesnt work. Thats my entire point.	/r/seduction	02/05/26 07:06 AM
4	I have absolutely no idea how to attract women. Any ideas? Ok what after that? You forgot money too and i'm making well over 6 figures. Also 6 ft 5, what else? None of these things actually seem to work.	/r/seduction	02/05/26 04:52 AM
18	Men: how often do you get approached by women at clubs? Very rarely, and im a good looking 6'4" guy. And if I do get approached its by girls that are less than desireable.	/r/seduction	01/05/26 06:01 AM
1	Men with high bodycount. Your experience? Whats really high?	/r/seduction	20/04/26 01:07 PM
2	what's everyone's body count here? The hells your secret?	/r/seduction	02/04/26 03:10 AM
2	what's everyone's body count here? I would be at 10, 000 if we counted 1 person	/r/seduction	02/04/26 03:09 AM
21	Does fucking 4s or below help you in any way with getting 5s and up? Sounds like you want an excuse to smash gross looking girls. My girlfriend who was a solid 8 would do all kinds of freaky stuff with me and was a total nymphomaniac, but hey i'll leave the 4's to you my friend.	/r/seduction	29/03/26 07:55 PM
1	How I went from an autistic 24-year-old virgin to being chased by beautiful women Yeah but being honest. Women who are more attractive generally have a much better selection of men. These women can afford to be picky and choosy. The very attractive women have the ultimate selection, any guy, from any type of background, any monetary level. These women can take whatever they want. Not to say they won't want a guy like OP. But the likelihood they would want him over a guy who is an absolute stud, millionaire, celebrity, athlete, with a lifestyle like a movie.. etc. I mean it is…	/r/seduction	19/03/26 06:34 PM
5	How I went from an autistic 24-year-old virgin to being chased by beautiful women Dude you literally read my mind. I don't want to discourage op, very happy for his success. I hear and read all these stories and truly all of these men overrate the women that they are with. I can guarantee it.	/r/seduction	19/03/26 02:13 PM
7	Manufactured pre-selection is the ultimate cheat code. Here is exactly how I fake it. Yeah I agree, if you have that many women then this stuff just comes naturally to you and other women would smell it on you, you wouldn't need to be so try hard. Almost all of these ideas are also after you get the girl back to your place. So... yeah.	/r/seduction	03/03/26 09:16 PM
47	Manufactured pre-selection is the ultimate cheat code. Here is exactly how I fake it. Lol, are you trolling?	/r/seduction	03/03/26 09:14 PM
1	Guys who find it easy to get sex on the first date -how? Originally when I started my journey I was doing things to get girls. But i've made my peace awhile ago, doing this to just to be better. And for the past couple years ive given off nothing but calm relaxed energy. If anything ive been too relaxed about women and not being pushy about sex. My issue is now that ive set the bar so high for myself, I can only expect the same from women. I want the highest quality women. And if its for hookup purposes I want the most attractive women. I have no prob…	/r/seduction	12/11/25 03:11 PM
0	How can you get really hot girls? My comment includes people who all possess money, but they have something thats way more powerful. Status, being a celebrity, having social proof, other women who want these men. The lifestyle that these types of men can provide. You seem to be missing my points. I'll state it clearly. The majority of women are attracted to men with money, power, and status. (Obviously there are more nuances to this, but these are the big three.) Extremely attractive women can be as choosy as they like in cboosi…	/r/seduction	12/11/25 07:25 AM
4	How can you get really hot girls? These women are treated almost as pseudo celebrities. Why would they date joe schmo in Kentucky Ohio who is "socially calbrated" when they have rich, successful, handsome, famous, attractive, athletic men offering them a lifestyle of freedom, fun, high status networking, and all expenses paid trips, and anything fun money can buy and seeing guys they are actually attracted to? True about the hot girls, but im talking about the "really hot girls". The girls that every man wants, not just the hot …	/r/seduction	12/11/25 05:05 AM
25	How can you get really hot girls? The only guys who should actually give advice are guys who actually get really hot girls. But most guys consider girls who are above average as really hot or way overrate girls they sleep with to give themselves bragging rights, when in actuality "really hot girls" are few and far between and are most likely dating celebrities, athletes, musicians, or extremely high status guys. These girls get their pick of the top level men since they're so sought after.	/r/seduction	12/11/25 03:42 AM
1	Guys who find it easy to get sex on the first date -how? I havent downgraded myself in any capacity, and I don't actually intend to do so. Which is exactly why I attribute my lack of success with women. I genuinely believe women want shithead broken men who are drug dealers, and low lifes, so they can get the emotional thrill and feel like they have a purpose (to fix this broken guy). Ive only been upgrading myself, I won't change myself for anyone. I'm 6'5", jacked, handsome, make well over 6 figures, charismatic, confident, funny, I have every facet…	/r/seduction	12/11/25 02:35 AM
4	24 deep truths about women & relationships that you won't hear from the mainstream. Great words	/r/seduction	11/11/25 01:34 AM
1	Guys who find it easy to get sex on the first date -how? Its complete bullshit that women would want a broken guy, over a guy who has his entire life in order and is still masculine. I feel like I need to downgrade myself to get women to really be interested and its actually really sad. I did way better when I was a totally broken and depressed little boy, and wasnt even a fraction of the confident man that I am today.	/r/seduction	10/11/25 11:24 PM
2	Truth about "Body building to generate attraction" Truth.	/r/seduction	09/11/25 05:14 PM
1	Dating/Game Rule Number 1: Never Get Into A Serious Relationship With A Woman Who Makes You Wait For Sex!!! As I elaborated in the first paragraph, i've always felt repulsed by woman who do this. Since as long as i've been alive and can remember, for no real reason. Like its been ingrained into me; not through social conditioning but it was built into me. Make sense?	/r/seduction	09/11/25 02:43 PM
6	Dating/Game Rule Number 1: Never Get Into A Serious Relationship With A Woman Who Makes You Wait For Sex!!! I feel like its built into my DNA to be repulsed by women who are loose with who they sleep with, and sleeping with a lot of guys. I understand the double standard of men sleeping with a lot of women doesn't have the same effect. But ever since I can remember i've had that feeling inside of me without really knowing or understanding why I felt that way. I absolutely respect a woman who doesn't want to sleep with me or anyone else. Thats her autonomy as a woman to make that decision. But a woman …	/r/seduction	09/11/25 08:16 AM
1	Why it is hard for short guys in dating I'm 6'5" and I can say height does have some impact. Saying it doesn't at all at least in my experience simply isnt true. But a lot of guys seriously believe its the make or break and thats absolutely not true. It really has much less of an impact then men would actually believe. I follow all the classic : be charismatic, tall, funny, handsome, jacked, smell good, dress good, be interesting, make over 6 figures, well endowed, highly skilled, hard worker, And none of these are a flex because I ca…	/r/seduction	31/10/25 07:11 AM
0	Why it is hard for short guys in dating Alright then	/r/seduction	30/10/25 04:48 PM
43	Why it is hard for short guys in dating Im pretty damn tall and still struggle so don't worry its bad on both sides.	/r/seduction	30/10/25 01:34 PM
2	How much does big arms/good physique help pulling on a night out? Get bloodwork first to confirm you have low T.	/r/seduction	25/10/25 06:03 PM
5	How much does big arms/good physique help pulling on a night out? If thats the only takeaway you got from this.... Don't mess around with that stuff without having a valid reason. You can disrupt your natural endocrine production and if you haven't done proper research on how this stuff impacts your body you can do serious damage to yourself. I hopped on after reaching my natural limit in the gym, after 10+ of natural lifting, I wanted to see what my potential could have been since I felt like I maxed out myself.	/r/seduction	25/10/25 04:21 PM
3	How much does big arms/good physique help pulling on a night out? I don't get nearly the attention that you would think. Im approached so seldomly by women. Yes i'm 6'4". And i'm very handsome (been told by lots of different people.) This comes across as braggy but these things alone have had very very little impact on my success with women. And I haven't been very successful with women, which sucks. I was trying to prove a point that by being even like a top 1% male, in terms of height, physique and looks I barely got attention from women. That doesn't includ…	/r/seduction	25/10/25 04:15 PM
20	How much does big arms/good physique help pulling on a night out? Not true. I got really jacked, 240lbs, 6'4" maybe 10% bf. Improved my style and i've never gotten that much attention from women before. When I went to a country festival I had girls randomly coming up to me and just hanging around me or following me. Random hot girl walks up and initiates an instant make out without eirher of us saying a word to eachother. Another really good looking girl I smashed within a few hours of meeting her, several times. Going from no attention to that is incredibly e…	/r/seduction	25/10/25 11:11 AM
14	Why women pull away even when things are ‘going well’— and how to react when it happens Lol. You didnt lay it down as well as you think you did, or you aren't as great as you think you are. If you were her best option without question she would drop any other guy she was talking to, or acquiesce her plans to see you.	/r/seduction	21/10/25 02:37 PM
4	She’s telling you about her problems with another guy? Bro, you’re already in the friendzone. But did you smash that "porn star"?	/r/seduction	21/10/25 02:55 AM
5	Getting ditched by girls at bars Lol what does any of this advice have to do with ops specific situation? Literally just spit out the most generic how to get girls pickup stuff that every guy has ever heard.	/r/seduction	19/10/25 03:59 PM
3	How to get sex faster What....? You tell her kindly no problem, respect her boundaries and walk away. Don't take that as some kind of challenge to bed her with a boyfriend. What is your end goal? Sleeping with her and pursuing a romantic relationship with her. Theres no point hanging around unless you want strictly friendship in which case why would you be on this sub.	/r/seduction	15/10/25 10:48 AM
3	Who else has worked long and hard for something thinking it would increase their chances at getting girls only to have fallen short? My entire late teen - early adult - adult life ive spent working on myself in absolutely every regard. Maxed myself and skills out in countless ways. Assumed once i've done all this work that women would be lining up to date me and its simply not the case. Maxing out almost every regard in your life and every goal you basically almost ever set infront of you feels great but it really stings when the only thing lagging behind is women. Oh well really proud of myself for all i've accomplished.	/r/seduction	15/10/25 03:01 AM
1	Do you think “confidence” is overrated in seduction? I don't actively try to date at all. I hardly go out, work lots and i'm busy with my daughter and being a parent, so i'm sure that really hinders me and my progress. I really fully expected women to be throwing themselves at me at this point. Being this far ahead of other men in so many ways I thought it would be obvious to women, but apparently not so. I didn't want to be the one to pursue women. I figured if I could make myself into an amazing person the rest would fall into place. Anyways you…	/r/seduction	13/10/25 04:23 PM
6	Do you think “confidence” is overrated in seduction? Lol. This is going to come across as bragging. I'm incredibly skilled in lots and lots of things. I can basically build an entire house myself, from scratch. This is just one area of my life i'm really skilled in. I have lots of others. I could go on and on but its not my point. I'm very tall, handsome, strong, in good shape, competent, confident, make good money, skilled, charismatic and funny. And I get no women. I've had some women interested in me but they are few and far between. And the ty…	/r/seduction	13/10/25 03:04 PM
4	I think I am becoming a "Bad Boy"! 31M Technically anything thats brought up is considered broscience. But if enough people can validate they share the same experience then it is more grounded enough in reality. I understand your point of BPD. But the points he listed are factual in my eyes and I've shared the same experiences, so my point is it doesn't negate his claims if what he says is laced with some form of truth. Also if something is universally shared with most people, at what point do we stop calling it broscience, or non fa…	/r/seduction	12/10/25 07:53 PM
6	I think I am becoming a "Bad Boy"! 31M Does this negate any of his points though? Or are they still valid.	/r/seduction	12/10/25 01:33 PM
3	Are women after 25 harder to game? After being kicked to the curb by countless douchebags that they intentionally chose. Now they're ready to settle down.	/r/seduction	12/10/25 01:04 PM
2	Will I naturally become more of a 'arsehole' with experience and time? Even when succeeding sexually and spinning plates I'm still perceived as nice. Im not saying all women go for these types. But a lot of attractive, hot and very beautiful women ive met have gone for these types of guys. I've talked with them, seen it with my own eyes, or known the guys they're seeing. You really start to see patterns. And yes there is definitely women dating good men. Maybe I notice it a lot more since like i've observed. The really attractive women tend to date the assholes.	/r/seduction	30/09/25 01:42 PM
0	Will I naturally become more of a 'arsehole' with experience and time? Even when succeeding sexually and spinning plates I'm still perceived as nice. Drug dealers, liars, egomaniacs, douchebags and people who can't be trusted, totally self centered humans. People who are the bottom feeders of society. People who embody awful traits like extreme greed, lack of empathy. People who contribute very low to this planet. I could go on and on. Me personally observing this with my own eyes, over and over and over. Really discourages me and my beliefs on some of the men that women go for.	/r/seduction	30/09/25 01:04 PM
1	Will I naturally become more of a 'arsehole' with experience and time? Even when succeeding sexually and spinning plates I'm still perceived as nice. It seems like most women (not all) like guys who are total assholes and scumbags, especially the more attractive women. Don't tell me thats not the case because i've seen it with my own eyes for most of my young adult life. Anyways op if you are having success don't change anything. Be yourself.	/r/seduction	30/09/25 12:46 PM
1	The hottest of the hot girls Nah no issue attracting the best of the best currently. I want to expand the net as wide as possible. I'm not satisfied gathering in my small circle/city.	/r/seduction	28/09/25 06:26 AM
1	Neccessary tools to be a successful player? Lol you're in the seduction sub, what did you expect? Do you want me to cater to you and pretend that isn't my goal. Don't understand mouthbreathers like you. People set goals for anything in life. It.gives you a marker to reach, why would this be any different?	/r/seduction	28/09/25 05:23 AM
1	Neccessary tools to be a successful player? You're hung up on words here. I understand if you try to carry yourself as a "player" women will objectively be against that. I was just using it as a phrase for guys who juggle lots of women. Theres no other side to make it out to. I don't struggle with women. I want to date the HOTTEST women, the most beautiful. That means I need to be levels above other men which means honing my craft.	/r/seduction	27/09/25 03:50 PM
2	Dating a new woman who's hotter than what I'm used to. How do I get her to be more enthusiastic about giving head? I don't think its how he views himself. It could be how his girl views him. No offense to OP but if his girl was single and met her favorite male actor, or musician, or celebrity. Do you think she would give that guy the best sex/blowjob ever? I know it sounds crushing like that, but its most likely true. Doesn't mean she probably doesn't love him. But i'm using that as an example to prove my point. I could also be entirely wrong and she could also love OP like crazy, and not be a head giving ki…	/r/seduction	27/09/25 05:24 AM
1	Neccessary tools to be a successful player? You're on a seduction sub. Did you expect me to lie to your face and say i'm not interested in seeing how successful I can become with the opposite sex, sorry not sorry.	/r/seduction	27/09/25 05:20 AM
75	Dating a new woman who's hotter than what I'm used to. How do I get her to be more enthusiastic about giving head? My ex who was stupidly hot would give me leg tingling blowjobs. Best head ever. Girls who worship you and truly love you and are awstruck by you will enthusuastically do anything for you. A blowjob is a barometer of how much the girl likes you. Unless she is the type that absolutely despises giving them in generall.	/r/seduction	26/09/25 07:05 PM
1	Neccessary tools to be a successful player? Thats like telling someone who wants to become a professional athlete that there is lots of little nuances to become great, not even elaborating on what those might be. And then telling them to not even try because it will take too long to achieve. I never asked how long it would take, or if you think its silly, I could care less. I've worked on myself for the better part of my entire young adult life. I relentlessly grind at whatever is infront of me. I've got nothing but time. I'm not sure wha…	/r/seduction	26/09/25 05:15 AM
1	Broke deadbeats who pull beautiful women...how do they do it? Broke women don't neccessarily need to be charming. They just need to be really hot.	/r/seduction	26/09/25 04:29 AM
1	Neccessary tools to be a successful player? Nothing that I mentioned is direct words or phrases to win people. Aren't there basic things you can draw from every successful interaction you have had with people? I believe people can absolutely break down their own behaviors, mannerisms and quirks especially with regards to social interactions on what might make them excel at whatever it is they are good at. I understand there are variances with people, but thats like saying everyone is so objectively different that you cant draw any inferen…	/r/seduction	26/09/25 04:03 AM
1	Neccessary tools to be a successful player? What are your words then?	/r/seduction	25/09/25 11:39 PM
1	What Nobody Tells You About Being Chad - My Story Not to disparage your journey and understand your different in your values. I'm also a very tall and handsome guy (lots of people have told me. At this point in my life, my looks mean very little to me.) I've worked tirelessly most of my young adult life to improve myself in every single category. Physically, mentally, emotionally. All of the things people list as a "chad" are things I have. I'm very skilled at a lot of different things. I have basically maxed out everything that I could and am …	/r/seduction	25/09/25 08:35 PM
2	What Nobody Tells You About Being Chad - My Story The real question is are you getting laid regularily and with new attractive women? Thats the end result of every guy, right? Like why would you improve your hair, your fashion, take dancing skills etc Not trying to diminish these things but the metric that I use to gauge success with women is ability to close and consistently.	/r/seduction	25/09/25 05:00 PM
3	How to seduce and build a great relationship with you, dear men Men aren't complicated at all. Show extremely obvious interest, or ask him out. Be a really cool girl to hang around with. Be low maintenance. Low drama. Appeal to his hobbies, be supportive, caring, attentive, and show you don't take life too seriously. In the bedroom, blow his mind. Always stay in shape, prioritize your health and keep up with your appearance. Boom. You will have him hooked, possibly a husband. Your consistency in these qualities will determine how long you can maintain him. O…	/r/seduction	24/09/25 12:57 PM
1	How do I get laid? Dad bod, no definition.... not overweight. When I sit around 210lbs I still look relatively skinny. Just adds to my point that i've never seen a 6'5" guy thats 220+ lbs and is actually "overweight". You have the smallest hill to climb to get into shape.	/r/seduction	19/09/25 01:44 PM
1	How do I get laid? If you're actually 6'5" and 224 theres no way you're overweight. Source: i'm 6'5" and have been 224 and 240+lbs.	/r/seduction	18/09/25 08:35 PM
2	All of your flaws as a man can be seen as positives in the dating world Yeah truth. You described me and the truth of the matter is i'm still introverted which greatly hinders my chances. I can talk to literally anyone, I have lots of confidence, i'm charismatic, I can definitely be extroverted and energetic. But me doing all of these things drains my battery and theres only so long I can be like this before I need alone time to re charge. Its difficult to try and be extroverted and then try to explain that i'm actually introverted and me being introverted means me …	/r/seduction	17/09/25 05:11 PM
0	Rapid escalation? I probably made out with like 150 girls at least. In all ranges of drunk, to tipsy, to more sober, and sober. Legit like 95% of the time it was reciprocated enthusiastically. That being said, I really fumbled by not asking these girls to come back. But something about that felt inauthentic and my logistics were really poor. (1+ hour commute) with my friends also at the bar. I basically had never done that before so didn't really have a clue to do that or have a proper gameplan. I skipped the who…	/r/seduction	17/09/25 04:08 AM
1	Rapid escalation? I don't really go to clubs or bars anymore. But I think back on these times. I never asked girls to leave with me. Which is why i'm wondering how much I left on the table with them. If they would have willingly went. Or if more comfort is essential in order to get compliance to come back with me. I understand that comfort is very important. But having a woman show direct interest and being willing to reciprocate a makeout obviously means something.	/r/seduction	17/09/25 03:59 AM
2	Rapid escalation? Its not harassment if the girls are actually reciprocating willingly and enthusiastically. Thats what i'm trying to convey, I did this very rapidly and almost always with reciprocation (like 95%) Some girls I exchanged maybe a few words initially and then instantly escalated. They had every right to push me away or convey through body language they were uncomfortable. But they didn't.	/r/seduction	17/09/25 03:55 AM
1	Rapid escalation? To add on. I've personally seen it when my friend made out with a girl intensely at the bar. Got her in the cab and it really fizzled out. I felt like if you start really high (instant escalation into making out.) And then the energy falls below this (which is difficult to maintain consistently.) So if you are leaving the bar/club and heading to a place where you can close. Unless your logistics are really close. It will be very difficult to keep that same dynamic going. Would you agree or disag…	/r/seduction	17/09/25 03:04 AM
5	Why do so many men fail at first-date sex if a lot of women are open to it? Not true	/r/seduction	16/09/25 12:58 PM
8	What Do You Talk About When Being Charismatic? Charismatic people usually demonstrate three properties power prescence warmth Confidence, powerful body language and social proof, being fully engaged and present with people, and having warmth in your interactions is usually a sure fire way to be more charismatic.	/r/seduction	14/09/25 08:29 PM
2	I didn't think I'd be talking to a 10 so soon and she'd be so attracted to me Girls and just people in general will put up a facade and tell you exactly what you want to hear...until the mask starts slipping. No offense but being long distance relationship with her will make it extremely difficult to gauge anything realistically. You need time to actually date her and trust me you will see if there are cracks within months. Some girls just hide it better.	/r/seduction	13/09/25 02:42 PM
1	Men who have sex with lots of (attractive) women, how did you do it? 6'5"	/r/seduction	06/09/25 01:38 PM
2	Men who have sex with lots of (attractive) women, how did you do it? Is that being cocky? I used to walk up to girls I didn't know (at the club) and I could basically instantly start making out with them, with them reciprocating. But that was me operating under delusional confidence, that I couldn't consistently maintain and aided by alcohol. It took awhile to get to that point of delusion. Also doesn't hurt to be tall and good looking.	/r/seduction	06/09/25 04:57 AM
3	from 1 to 10, how bad is it to cry in front of a woman? Yeah you've clearly never dealt with a psychopathic woman before and it shows. Ive never had to cry to break up a relationship. I took the other route but I can totally see why that would be the easier way to end things. Rather then having the cops come to take me away, for a woman who was hitting herself and blaming it on me. I don't understand how you can't grasp that.	/r/seduction	04/09/25 03:26 AM
6	from 1 to 10, how bad is it to cry in front of a woman? You sound like you've never dealt with a mentally unstable woman before. Women will literally manipulate a situation to benefit them, sometimes theres no words in the english language to calm a berated scorned woman. A vindictive woman and scorned woman will burn your world to the ground to try and make herself feel better or that she has the upper hand. My ex used to threaten that she would call the cops on me when I would mention I was done with the relationship and wanted to end it. Sometimes…	/r/seduction	04/09/25 03:09 AM
9	Full blown got laid in the club [field report] Everytime I picture these scenarios I picture a girl that I would never give the time of day to. I think a lot of guys will take whatever they can get.	/r/seduction	02/09/25 04:42 AM