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Let me try and make you see what I mean ahah! You want to press on the cartilage of the ear which is closest to the face. If you feel your own ear, you've got the lobe, which is the part with no cartilage at the bottom of your ear. If you then bring your finger UP and TOWARDS your face, you'll notice a little cartilage piece, obviously its size and shape can vary from person to person... This little cartilage piece can be pressed into the ear, with no awkwardness and zero pain. Try it on yoursel…
/r/seduction26/06/15 05:25 PM
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Then it's my fault, english isn't my first language. You know what I mean when I mention the ear cartilage?
/r/seduction26/06/15 04:28 PM
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Don't give her a wet willy... It's not what I'm saying lol
/r/seduction26/06/15 11:48 AM
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For some reason, plugging the ear makes your voice much much easier to understand. If you're both able to understand each other without a problem, then yeah sure don't go plugging her ear for no reason. If you do have to plug her ear, you can bring your body in close, face to face with hers, and put your free hand on her hip as you talk to her.
/r/seduction26/06/15 11:46 AM
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You make it sound like I'm saying "walk up to anyone and stick your finger in her ear" which is not what I'm saying. Be skeptical if you wish, I can understand it, but I do this A LOT and the only reaction you're gonna get most of the time is "whoaaaa I hear you so well!!" Of course it can be creepy if there's no context behind it.. anything can be creepy depending on how you act. There has to have been a certain escalation before hand which I mentioned in the post. Just try it out if you're cur…
/r/seduction26/06/15 12:51 AM
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I'm guessing you've never tried it
/r/seduction25/06/15 11:43 PM
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Lol.. You know the piece of cartilage from your ear which is closest to your face? The one right over the ear lobe? Plug her ear with that, by pressing your thumb on it. Then talk directly into that ear
/r/seduction25/06/15 10:32 PM
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Yes, plug it with the cartilage from her own ear if you see what I'm talking about
/r/seduction25/06/15 10:28 PM
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Yes, I think being proactive is more efficient in club settings or with girls that you'll probably never see again. You have to be more agressive and make things happen. As you said, the more laidback approach is better suited, in my opinion as well, for work, social circle, etc. For one, this is where girls will get to see your lifestyle a bit more (granted you have an interesting one) and it's also a much more proper way of attracting them. Making a move in these situations simply bears more c…
/r/seduction19/06/15 03:59 AM
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Look at yourself smile in the mirror to see what you look like, and smile however you want people around you to see you smile. It's not about trying to smile like some politician, it's about being genuine. Take good care of your teeth, brush and floss them every day.
/r/seduction14/04/15 04:49 AM
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Don't worry about it, when it comes to setting up a date and meeting women, a lot of stuff can happen that is pretty much entirely out of your control. Just don't meddle on it and move on :)
/r/seduction20/02/15 05:05 AM
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Yeah that's fine. You don't have to go off on crazy sexual flirty mode lol. Just chat her up, ask her how she finds the class so far, what she thinks of the teacher etc.. Everything in its time :)
/r/seduction20/02/15 05:02 AM
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Generally speaking if you make it clear you're not talking just to know her in a platonic way she'll let you know if she's with someone, wether it be true or not.
/r/seduction19/02/15 05:08 AM
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You're on the right track by doing those types of activites but like you pointed out there's just that little barrier that needs to be crossed. You could try doing something that necessitates less of a ''bridge'' between touching for fun and touching for sexual intent, like a watching a movie or a show together for example. If you think she's interested in you, you can literally sit down on your couch/bed whatever is facing your tv, open you arm and say ''c'mere'' so that she cuddles up to you, …
/r/seduction19/02/15 05:05 AM
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Regardless of her personality or looks, if you want to date her or sleep with her you're gonna have to start talking to her. She's already taken a few steps towards you, so you have to be responsive to her. Not to downplay what you've posted at all, but by starting to talk with her and getting to know her better, you'll be able to gauge if she's actually interested in you. From the looks of your post, it seems there's some sort of physical attraction, yes, but she needs more than that to commit …
/r/seduction19/02/15 04:54 AM
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You could just tell them to leave you alone if that's what you want. Any real bro should understand that you are serious and leave you alone. If they keep coming to bug you to take your girl's attention away since they can't break the ice themselves, you should tell him directly you do not appreciate it. If they can't respect a clear, direct indication that you want to be left alone with women you meet in a given place, then it's time to try it out when they're not around..
/r/seduction19/02/15 04:49 AM
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Depends on what you want with the girl, but the movie makes it a little more difficult since you guys won't be talking much during that time... Make sure you are capable of placing yourself close enough to her during your activites so that you can touch her. Do you have history with this girl? How did you meet? How long have you known each other? Depending on these variables, you can go from agressive at the movies to just... pretty much paralyzed dude, unless it's already clear she really digs …
/r/seduction27/06/14 03:59 AM
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I just was so internally captivated I wasn't thinking of unique ways to intrigue like I normally do. You seem to have put your finger on it. As much as it can be hard to do so, you must separate your "awe" for a woman from the rest of your interactions with her. Meaning, sure you can think "wow she's fucking incredible" but you can't let that paralyse you or hold you back. So although you might not think you're putting her on a pedestal, what you just stated shows how in fact it is likely the ca…
/r/seduction10/12/13 06:48 AM
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Well you can't really just say "no" for the sake of not seeming subservient. What do you value in a woman? What do you value in yourself? If something is going on between you and her that steps on those values, that's when you say no. Not because you have to respect a certain code to not look like a chode. Obviously, if she's overtly just trying to use you, this steps on your self integrity, and that is also a very valid reason to say no, and also seek better company. That's essentially what mak…
/r/seduction10/12/13 06:16 AM
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hahaha!! Go habs go!
/r/seduction24/09/13 11:15 PM
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I'm glad you made the muscle analogy, because it's perfect for why I'll never have friends or relationships. You're already admitting defeat.. How old are you? Is your first paragraph metaphorical or about actual muscle mass? It's not very clear. It seems to be about your actual muscle mass. If that's the case, I just want to let you know that it's all in your perception of yourself. I'm 5'9 and don't even make 140lbs. I'm fucking slim by anyone's standards. Yet I feel this doesn't affect my lif…
/r/seduction16/09/13 03:51 PM
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We got your back :)
/r/seduction15/09/13 04:57 AM
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You'll see, the more you expose yourself to physical touch with women the more you'll want it, it's like a snowball effect. Start off small, ex. you laugh at her joke (or yours) and briefly put your hand on her arm or shoulder, or touch them with the outside of your hands to emphasize a point (ex. she tells you something you go "no way! blablabla" and touch her simultaneously). Don't prolong contact. Keep it brief in the beginning. Longer contact comes later. So just start small, you don't need …
/r/seduction15/09/13 02:21 AM
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You can't really just "make" a relationship happen. It's not something you sit down and talk about. It's something that can actually be quite progressive, or pretty fast too. What I recommend, is to focus on creating a physical and emotional connection with the women you encounter in your life. Don't think about a relationship, live in the NOW. Intimate relationships don't really develop until you've been having sex together for a time. Physical intimacy is important. So basically I'd say you're…
/r/seduction15/09/13 01:59 AM
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This is a psychological phenomenon known as "projection". When we live an intense emotion (embarassment in the case where you trip in front of a lot of people) we tend to think that the people who witnessed our trip are experiencing the same level of intensity in their emotion, which is utterly false. So while you'll be thinking about this for several minutes to come (and thinking how everyone must see you as an idiot), in reality the others around you will have already forgotten about it long a…
/r/seduction27/08/13 10:26 PM
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That's true but the difference is that after the interaction, the confidant man thinks no more of it and gives 0 fucks. He doesn't dwell on "jeeze why did he have to fuck with me :/" for hours afterwards.
/r/seduction23/08/13 03:19 AM
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I'm in Vegas for a week. Where are you staying? PM me if you wanna meet up.
/r/seduction23/08/13 02:10 AM
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They're both pretty different indeed. In short term scenarios you have to be much more agressive, whereas in long term ones (social circle for example) you have to take it pretty slow and just be generaly awesome. It seems as though your "lifestyle" affects way more your long term seductions than your short term ones, from what I've experienced. For your short term interactions, be agressive with kino, and escalate. Nothing should be holding you back, cause you don't even know this girl.. it's n…
/r/seduction18/08/13 09:52 PM
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Honestly just don't mention it until the subject comes up. What you do for a living will eventually come up FOR SURE, but if you don't rush things in that direction you can make out how interested she is BEFORE learning about your work. And also, the fact that you didn't seem to "try" to impress her by mentioning your work just like that is way more attractive. Make her discover it herself. Be intriguing.
/r/seduction23/07/13 02:55 PM
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Not bad but risky. Sometimes it's hard to get the message across via text. It can be a good primer for your next social interaction with that girl (you got her thinking about you, etc.) but it's best to keep it limited. You definitely, definitely don't need texting to "improve" your game. You'll make much more progress interacting face to face than hiding away from your anxiety. Plus, it's easy to come off as needy via text (if you have anxiety I'm guessing you'll be rather needy via texting). S…
/r/seduction18/07/13 02:59 AM
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Girls can be shy but if you're being real cool and touchy and all, you can see how they react to that. They'll rarely "make a move" and be blatant about it, you have to sort of.. squeeze it out. Assume attraction. If she's interested then things will roll from there, if you play your cards right.
/r/seduction12/07/13 04:40 AM
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Having been in such a situation I'd say you definitely need to do something 1 on 1 to build more rapport and attraction together. However you can still build attraction in a group setting too, which can make it easier for you to secure a date with her (ex. you make yourself the interesting dude of the group). Inviting her on a date will just come off naturally, she'll want to spend time with you because you're high value. Once alone you can be a little more agressive. Don't keep the flirting/kin…
/r/seduction09/07/13 03:23 PM
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Yesssss right on man, I was starting to get really annoyed with all the bullshit everywhere and the general negativity and self pity a lot of users keep shoving in everyone else's face. You don't have to share your fucking hate for life and women. This is the wrong place. Fucking get your shit together and get off your ass and start working on yourself! Even if it doesn't reap the rewards you want, it's still WAY more respectable by the simple fact that you are AT LEAST trying to work on yoursel…
/r/seduction08/07/13 04:29 PM
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And here you see the importance of treating her just like any other person in who you're sexually attracted: like a normal human being.
/r/seduction08/07/13 12:26 PM
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Rizotto and wine
/r/seduction04/07/13 09:05 PM
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Dude come on.. Unless you tell her she's a fat ass motherfuckin hoe and you hate her, you're fine. Don't hide your interest for nothing, she fucking wants you. Just don't be a needy little bitch that cries for her attention/affection. You have a life, and it doesn't revolve around her giving you the attention you want. Just organize something the two of you together and seal the deal.
/r/seduction03/07/13 06:39 AM
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"possible mistake one" wasn't a mistake at all, it's actually exactly what you were supposed to do. That being said, from your FR I'm guessing she wasn't that interested. But don't worry, you seem to have handled it rather well, just move on. (maybe you should've taken her dancing though :p)
/r/seduction03/07/13 06:35 AM
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Ouch. Like you're just not that crazy for her. The thing is it can be hard to hide your attraction for her, so even though you don't wanna show it, it might seep through your behavior, which can turn her off real quick... If she KNOWS you want her and she wants you too, she'll reciprocate if she wants you too... Was there any kino/escalation before or you're just being her little puppy dog? There's quite a lot of details missing.
/r/seduction03/07/13 06:30 AM
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Just be physical on your next date. If you're sure she's attracted to you, she'll be more patient than if she was just neutral. Still though, don't bank on it, make a move.
/r/seduction30/06/13 03:51 PM
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Anglais aussi mon cher, le Québec est une province bilingue!
/r/seduction30/06/13 03:40 PM
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I'll eventually ask for sure, because seriously I was fucking clueless lol.
/r/seduction30/06/13 04:50 AM
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It was pretty gradual, and also it depended on the activity/time of day. I just acted like nothing had happened seriously..
/r/seduction30/06/13 12:45 AM
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It's pretty irrelevant at this point... I ommitted mentioning anything there because it just wasn't necessary, there was no "seduction" involved.. The guy asks me if we fucked? I'm not gonna lie lol, I don't care saying I don't, I'd rather be honest.
/r/seduction30/06/13 12:43 AM
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Yeah like I said that girl just fucking knows how it's done.. I do feel like she gamed the shit out of me, but I'm proud of the fact that I didn't turn into a total chump. It was still pretty weird though cause we're talking about social circle game.. We have a lot of mutual friends (our group basically welcomed her in Quebec) so I didn't want to make a blatant move with everyone there. I just put the best of me out there during our social gatherings, and occasionnally organized things without t…
/r/seduction29/06/13 09:09 PM
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Yeah i understand, it's just that I'm still struggling with oneitis a little.. but I managed to keep it under control real well, if not things would never be where they are now. It's a constant struggle, thanks for the heads up.
/r/seduction29/06/13 07:26 PM
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She has game dude.. it's insane.
/r/seduction29/06/13 07:08 PM
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Yeah it's all relative! That's why I put it in quotes
/r/seduction29/06/13 07:07 PM
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She's from France! I love the accent :)
/r/seduction29/06/13 06:41 PM
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I actually care more for our feelings one towards the other than if I fucked her, sorry.
/r/seduction29/06/13 06:35 PM
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We actually didn't have sex! But hey, you can still have a lot of fun... :)
/r/seduction29/06/13 04:50 PM
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What's up! You just walk in through the back of the stadium (at the base of the tower) and you can get a ticket for 15$. Basically it includes an elevator ride up to the observatory and you can stay up there as long as you like. There's lotsssss of tourists lol, I met a couple of English people there. The view is cool too.
/r/seduction29/06/13 04:18 PM
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Lol that's my bad, we weren't texting in english, french is my first language.
/r/seduction29/06/13 04:16 PM
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I am 100% positive that had they told Nick straight in the face to fuck off, he would have left them alone. This wasn't the case though. Nick wasn't going to give up on them because of minor inconveniences (and his inner monologue) so he pushed as he saw a window of opportunity and.. well, look what happened. The girls didn't even know him. They wouldn't of cared to send him off if they didn't want to spend time with him.
/r/seduction27/06/13 04:20 PM
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Seriously dude come back to this comment every once in a while because billy's comment hits the nail right on the fucking head: it's all you need to know, honestly.
/r/seduction26/06/13 01:48 AM
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I actually responded to that comment by advising to try situational topics like "what's the cover charge here?" while you're waiting in line and shit. The big turnoff for women is when you act like you just want to talk and show you don't want her yet it clearly shows... Just be honest with your intent dude. You can be very direct or really just chat her up randomly for the fuck of it, and remain outcome independent.
/r/seduction11/06/13 06:49 AM
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a situational topic. Make it look like they could've been anybody and you would've still talked to them. A good place for this is waiting in line to get in the club. More often than not you can squeeze in a few completely innocent questions like "what's the cover charge here?" etc etc. Make conversation from there.
/r/seduction10/06/13 11:16 PM
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Oh I agree absolutely! I'm not even really considering them though lol, I don't take the time to game such women, I want something more. I agree 100% though! They do exist, and damn are they ever annoying!
/r/seduction08/06/13 06:45 AM
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Almost everyone seeks a little validation through their looks, especially women, so that's why they want men to look at them! Put yourself in her shoes for a minute: how would it make you feel if women looked you up and down? That's right, it would feel fucking good wouldn't it? Even if you didn't necessarily want that girl. Validation my friend! You're doing the right thing though in my opinion: do not validate her looks. It's bait. They want men who are into them for other reasons than just lo…
/r/seduction08/06/13 06:14 AM
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From what I'm reading I don't think it's from the fact that you started to learn game that you're having a bad time with HBs 8+ . Your concept of alpha and domination seems to be a little twisted. You don't "dominate" a class by answering all questions. You simply come off as knowledgeable, perhaps even annoying sometimes (other people might want to give an answer too you know). Furthermore, I would make you focus on being a modern alpha male... One that doesn't obtain his status by comparing hi…
/r/seduction07/06/13 04:38 PM
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Give me a bit of time, we're working on getting /r/MontrealSeddit ! There's a fuck up with reddit and we have to go through the admins. To get the sub. Shouldn't take too long :)
/r/seduction06/06/13 04:23 AM
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Dude seriously, if ever you're up here, hit me up, we'll organize a night out.
/r/seduction06/06/13 04:19 AM
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The thing is you have to keep her wanting more. If you go fucking all out right from the start, not only does it come off as needy, like "holy shit I want this NOW" (there will be a time for that), but it also doesn't leave any suspense, or mystery, which girls fucking love. It's an escalation, really. Ben made a good comment on this thread about what you should do post-kiss. Read it.
/r/seduction05/06/13 10:52 PM
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I had no idea. It won't hurt to have something up on reddit though, it will make the whole thing more accessible in my opinion.
/r/seduction05/06/13 10:41 PM
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Honestly any of your 3 suggestions seem perfectly fine. The one with the club picture can be interesting though because it can quickly start up a conversation about that night and really close the gap of time between you and her.
/r/seduction05/06/13 02:01 PM
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Here's a few things I picked up, based on what you wrote: You tried escalating too quickly with the leg massage thing and no prior escalation because you were sitting in front of each other. Therefore she was nervous and uncomfortable. You didn't pull back from the kiss yourself; it was always her. Therefore you might have come off a little needy. I think you should have invited her over to your place, instead of heading to hers. It would have given you more control over the events of the night.…
/r/seduction05/06/13 01:57 PM
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I'm going to create it. I also like Metropoleseddit, I'm gonna make a new post on seddit once it's done.
/r/seduction05/06/13 02:53 AM
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I'm with you.
/r/seduction02/06/13 05:28 AM
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This is good! I've used it and i agree. Sometimes I add "look at me for a sec."
/r/seduction29/05/13 05:02 PM
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I agree... This guy's nervous, he's just losing his mojo :(
/r/seduction26/05/13 05:40 AM
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Do you have access to iBooks..? either through iphone or ipad etc? look up Joe Navarro, his works are good, especially "What every BODY is saying". If not , I don't know any good online resources as it is, only straight up books.
/r/seduction14/05/13 10:34 PM
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Understanding your emotions means you must take a step back when under the influence of one and think on why you are feeling this emotion right now. You will come to realise what makes you happy, sad, angry.. etc. You will also now know how to become happy via your actions and the actions of those around you. Don't just be a victim of your emotions, be the creator of them. Expressing your emotions means more than just not bottling them. I mean things like don't be afraid to express disagreement,…
/r/seduction13/05/13 03:24 PM
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He does make a point though. You don't just open up to anyone. People have to earn your trust before you share deeper things about yourself.
/r/seduction13/05/13 03:00 PM
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Seek new experiences; leave your comfort zone Don't repress your emotions, let them out in a socially acceptable way, understand them. Don't let others trample your interests or your image: show them you don't put up with it. Sometimes people don't even realise they're being dicks until you show them. If they do, seek other people's company. Adopt an "apprentice mindset". Let go of your fucking ego, open your mind, be willing to learn. This somewhat resembles my first point. Learn the basics of …
/r/seduction13/05/13 02:55 AM
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One thing is for sure, and it's that wether they want to or not, their behavior will change if they're attracted to you. It can be intimidation, shyness, defiance, whatever.. It's hard to know if it's because she's actually attracted to you or any other factor, but in my experience girls seem more comfy interacting with guys they find attractive. I have met, and still know, some awkward girls who let their attraction show so easily yet think that they're doing a good job at hiding it. they think…
/r/seduction09/05/13 01:40 AM
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A Marie-Victorin girl? Are you guys going on a date in MTL? If so, where?
/r/seduction08/05/13 02:01 PM
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You believe you interpreted her emotions toward you correctly while under shrooms..? Maybe that's where the problem is
/r/seduction30/04/13 11:05 PM
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This isn't very detailed, but it seems like you maybe jumped the gun a little bit? How much time did you spend together? Was there a connection or was your conversation just lifeless and leading to nowhere? She has to trust you if she's to go back to your place.. If you don't build any trust, forget it.
/r/seduction30/04/13 12:45 PM
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I find it great that you take the time to post this guide. This is definitely helping the community for the best; I find your advice spot on!
/r/seduction30/04/13 01:51 AM
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Massive respect for you for putting yourself out there and putting your neck on the line. Folks on here must learn from this. You are a great example of "leaving your comfort zone". Many on here hog this subreddit and don't do shit. Once again, massive, massive props to you and best of luck for the rest of your attempts, you have the will to change yourself and that is the true beauty of self improvement. Your will is in fact strong enough to make you go through undesirable situations. That's fu…
/r/seduction29/04/13 02:17 AM
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I drive a stick too. Take her hand and work the gears with her, then make her work the gears alone while you work the clutch. It's a funny little exercise, if she's down. But like i said, stick or not, once your car is parked, the console only becomes annoying once you get down to business..
/r/seduction25/04/13 02:02 PM
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Don't let it phase you dude you're still pretty close to the girl, just turn yourself towards her when talking (if she's the one driving for intance) and inch closer. After a date once I just flat out asked her Mystery's little "do you want to kiss me" line as she dropped me off to my car and that's all it took.. The center console becomes a problem when you actually start making out or whatnot, cause either you or her will be on the fucking console and that's pretty damn uncomfortable after a w…
/r/seduction25/04/13 02:57 AM
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There can be much better activities than dinner for a first date. It really doesn't take much. A walk in the park, a picknic.. anything where you can escalate. A place where you can talk/touch is really the essential. Chances are you'll be sitting face to face at the dinner with your faces stuffed and escalation can be pretty difficult in those situations.
/r/seduction25/04/13 02:17 AM
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I would've actually stood up to this girl. She has no business ruining your evening with a one liner. You did, however, make yourself pretty vulnerable with it all and she just jumped on the occasion to squish you.. If it happens again, don't take it seriously. Laugh it off like she's a 5 year old trying to insult you. Show her you don't get stepped on. "Ahah! Wow! turn to your friend did you ever think of calling her "bossypants"?!?"
/r/seduction21/04/13 04:34 AM
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The thing is they did, because I did. Not anymore. What are you trying to get to here..?
/r/seduction15/04/13 05:53 PM
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Height/weight! I'm not really tall, almost 5'10", and i weigh like 140lbs on a good day. I don't even think about it anymore, it doesn't affect me. In the past I'd get discouraged when girls would say they'd be turned off by men who were lighter/smaller (I'm real thin so even though I weigh more than the girl, I appear to weigh less) than them. After I've seduced a few, I realise it's ridiculous to impose yourself such limits, even if the girl clearly stated she didn't like my body type. It didn…
/r/seduction15/04/13 02:15 PM
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How? All you have to do is work your observational skills. Anyone can "look" at people interacting, but it takes skill and concentration (in the beginning mostly) to pickup on the meaning of non verbal behaviors. It can easily be self taught, but if you want a coach go check online, you can find seminars on non verbal communication. Joe Navarro used to give some himself.
/r/seduction12/04/13 03:25 PM
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There are books dedicated solely for that purpose. I had the same problem as you, until I read What Every BODY Is Saying by Joe Navarro, an ex-FBI agent in counter-espionage. It's probably the best decision I've taken in my life. Now I read people like they're fucking books. Try it.
/r/seduction12/04/13 02:04 PM
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Here's what you said that makes me think you gotta change something: you're just listening to their issues. "Listening to her issues" should be something that takes place later on in your relationship, it should never be something you do in your initial interactions. You're going straight for rapport, or "the comfort phase" and skipping attraction building, thus getting friendzoned. Unless there are other details you can provide, this is what I'm getting from your post. A "nice guy" vibe.
/r/seduction10/04/13 01:29 AM
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I've enjoyed going out with 3D glasses with the lenses popped. I looked like some party hipster and everyone wanted to try the glasses.
/r/seduction10/04/13 01:21 AM
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Use texting as a primer for your next actual interaction with her. If the texting turns into some long ass conversation you could have in person, that is too much IMO. It's about being funny, yet slightly distant as well. Be "mysterious". Make her want to see you in person. Be a tease.
/r/seduction08/04/13 02:37 AM
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Haha, good points. I feel you man, we share the same opinions. Thanks! I've read the others and yeah I definitely will set something up between just us, it's what I was planning to do anyways! My question was more towards that particular night, and as you say, I think it would have been unethical to go agressive on her at such a small party, and with AFC there on top of it (and with some others knowing the deal between AFC and HB) Thanks again
/r/seduction05/04/13 10:59 PM
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Yes, thanks for completing for me. OP, it's important you gauge her reaction to you gaming other girls, it's actually VERY important. There are chances she won't give a shit, and in those instances, I dunno what to tell you.. I'd suggest looking elsewhere. On the other hand if she shows interest or responds positively to your "new" sexual self with her, you need to make a move dude, don't wait it out. Keep the fire burning. I'm not talking like fucking kiss her out of nowhere, but don't keep gam…
/r/seduction03/04/13 10:31 AM
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Ok, here's my trick. This is no guarantee but it can work, depending on the girl. (still though, I advise to GTFO of there and look elsewhere). If you've known each other for long and are friends, chances are you are rated 0 on her sexuality scale. How are you going to change this? NOT by randomly starting to be sexual with her. She's already disqualified you, so it won't work. First off, you'll want to hit the clubs and AT LEAST talk with other girls to help this bad case of oneitis you seem to…
/r/seduction03/04/13 03:57 AM
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Dude it's impossible to be positive 100% of the time but it's definitely not impossible to make it your ruling mindset. Don't discourage yourself when negativity seeps in, it's normal. You're not a negative person because you occasionally fall in a sort of negative loop.
/r/seduction31/03/13 11:32 PM
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Mtl represent!
/r/seduction31/03/13 05:01 AM
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I didn't even consult any myself.. a bit of /r/malefashionadvice here on reddit but really not that much, it's not my style! I inspired myself with what i was seeing people around me wear, and feedback from my social circle.
/r/seduction30/03/13 04:54 AM
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Definitely! Running for me is awesome. For a few minutes in my day, I'm just alone with my thoughts. Eventually endorphin starts kicking in and I'm just feeling great and relaxed.
/r/seduction29/03/13 12:45 AM
1

Check out the one by Joe Navarro, "What Every BODY Is Saying"
/r/seduction28/03/13 08:58 PM
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It's definitely sketchy, but I don't think it's about her, it's actually about him. He's letting his relationship turn to shit (he is ultra AFC) and she's looking elsewhere.
/r/seduction28/03/13 08:51 PM
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Dude, I'm 5'9" and a half, and like 137-138 lbs. I'm a toothpick. I used to let it get to my head and feel really insecure. Now I just focus on putting the best of me out there.
/r/seduction28/03/13 12:52 PM
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MERCI BEN TABARNAK!
/r/seduction28/03/13 12:50 PM
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No grudge! I was never angry at her, I was just sad it wasn't going to work out and heartbroken. I've been over her for a while and it's what helped me not give a fuck and that made her fall for me.
/r/seduction28/03/13 12:49 PM
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Honestly I don't know, I'm just letting things flow. I'm definitely not going to do anything while she's with her boyfriend, I know the guy on top of it, and that'd be wrong. Also she's a coworker, and we aren't many employees, so i don't want to start any drama. I doubt anything will come out of this! If it does, it'll be later!
/r/seduction28/03/13 11:09 AM
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DON'T be afraid to try new things. Follow and protect your interests, don't let others get between who you are and who you want to be. Set yourself some goals: find yourself a model or models that you aspire to be like. Learn to place yourself in other people's shoes when they talk to you: understand WHY they're interested in this or that. This will help you develop respect and appreciation for them. It will also help in knowing how to please them. However, don't live just to please others, obvi…
/r/seduction28/03/13 02:02 AM
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What do you mean with "slut"? Why would you want to game one?
/r/seduction27/03/13 11:42 PM
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But by refusing to improve yourself and going straight for seduction "techniques" you will clearly be showing a lack of congruence, which is possibly one of the reasons behind your lack of success. If you don't want to leave your comfort zone and try new activities, meet new friends who could have inspiring perpectives on life and learn from them, then how will you improve? :/ You have to be open minded and try new things. The fact that you know little about women in general is the main factor b…
/r/seduction26/03/13 07:47 PM
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You clearly have issues, and it's time you resolve these before getting into seduction. It's what we call inner game. You need to work on that first. Like NOW. I advise seeking professionnal help too like a psychologist, honestly. That comment was just a spew of racist, egotistical bullshit, even though you probably don't realize it. Take a break from this sub. Go out there, find interesting hobbies. Take walks, hikes, bike, run, travel. Meet new friends. Come back when you're done with this shi…
/r/seduction26/03/13 06:14 PM
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I find one of Casanova's quotes pretty relevant here: "a man who makes known his love by words is a fool." That guy wasn't crazy.
/r/seduction26/03/13 12:54 AM
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There's the possibility that she's legit boring. I was just trying to illustrate how sometimes the fact that you see her as a boring person will limit your interaction with her and stop what could of otherwise (possibly) been a very good relationship. If you feel you are trying to be as friendly and entertaining as you can and she's still just boring and non-responsive then move on, why would you pain yourself going after her? She doesn't even make you happy: there are a hell lot of interesting …
/r/seduction25/03/13 02:02 PM
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Find what her interests are also, she'll love talking about them. It's all about asking the right questions, that lead to a meaningful conversation, not just "where are you from/what do you do" blah blah. Enthusiasm is contagious my friend!
/r/seduction25/03/13 04:40 AM
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You say you find most women boring. What is an interesting woman for you? Have you considered that the way you perceive her depends on your interactions together? Sometimes you have to get them out of their shell, then she can become an entirely different girl. You might be finding most women boring because you talk about/do boring stuff with them. I don't know, you'd need to elaborate. I find hardly anyone boring to be honest. There's always this switch that you can find that brings out their p…
/r/seduction25/03/13 04:18 AM
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i've never been to either one of them! I hang out more in the french spots, but I'll have to try those out.
/r/seduction22/03/13 12:07 PM
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Good idea. None of my friends are into pickup much so i can't relate anything with them. 21 yo Montreal Quebec
/r/seduction21/03/13 02:08 AM
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I very often drive, so not that much. Cover charge + 1 or 2 beers max, each around 4-5$ so total would be like 18-20$ with tip. Alcohol can be quite inexpensive depending on the spot you're at when in Montreal.
/r/seduction20/03/13 10:25 PM
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Concentrate on living the moment. Practice practice practice: instead of dwelling on your thoughts you will pick up how others see you through their behavior. Plus, people you interact with can sense it if you're not "all there" in the interaction. This has probably happened to you as well: you talk to someone, and they react to what you say, yet you don't feel them 100% present. Maybe it's not even intentional: they're just overwhelmed by their thoughts and inner monologue about who knows what.…
/r/seduction20/03/13 02:17 AM
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Charisma can actually be broken down to 3 concepts: power, presence and warmth. When people meet or see you for the first time they immediately assess power (your apparent social status for example) and your warmth (friend or foe?) Your presence is determined by how well you listen to others. Charismatic leaders normally speak a little slower, with a lot of emotion, and well placed gestures throughout their talk. People want to hear them talk. Power is oozing out of their ears. There's a lot on …
/r/seduction16/03/13 06:55 AM
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Don't. Buy. Them. Drinks.
/r/seduction15/03/13 03:02 PM
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"Show me what you got" grab her and start dancing. I've read higher up this thread and fuck the "just five minutes" thing, personally. It's practically begging. Even if they say yes, you're staying there talking to them because THEY "allowed" you to. It's submissive, and you will have completely blown your chances after this.
/r/seduction15/03/13 03:00 PM
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Good choice. Women won't know what the hell to do with "your feelings" but they should always assume you're interested though. Don't be afraid to show interest via touching and smiling etc. But don't just tell her how you feel like that. Big mood killer!
/r/seduction15/03/13 02:51 PM
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Some people can walk without crutches and they'll never know cause they're too afraid to let go of it.
/r/seduction14/03/13 03:06 AM
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Don't let it become a crutch..
/r/seduction13/03/13 09:42 PM
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You're limiting your chances by trying to isolate the girl prior to any interaction with her/the group. Ideally, in situations like this you want people (not just the girls) to think you ARE the party. If you got them to notice you earlier because of some dance/joke/any positive behavior, bingo: you've got your foot in the door. Now it's time to push that door wider open: approach them. If you're the fucking party that night, then what's stopping you from going to talk to them? You're already ch…
/r/seduction13/03/13 09:32 PM
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Have her pay for the first round and then you pay the next. Game her meanwhile, she'll stick around. You have to protect yourself and make sure she's not just trying to use you. Her asking me to buy her a drink is a red flag for me. If she refuses to buy the drinks first, simply say something like "I thought you were cooler than that" and move on. Night clubs are filled with people.
/r/seduction12/03/13 12:00 AM
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