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It was never "victim" puking or presentment of my issues through concern trolling. I've also never been a natural whiner either, especially to strangers on the interwebs. What I did was worse. I pantomimed and mimicked RP through quickly learning the basics of the praxeology and started dolling out advice before I ever started working on me. It was intellectually dishonest and was preventing me from improving (Acta) and I was not talking (non verba) from a place of experience, but from an intell…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/16 03:00 PM
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I think Hemingway thought Santiago "had it coming" to him as well.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/16 01:58 PM
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I wonder why he jumped, the old man thought. He jumped almost as though to show me how big he was. I know now, anyway, he thought. I wish I could show him what sort of man I am. But then he would see the cramped hand. Santiago, is that you?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/16 02:17 AM
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J10H predicted this months ago. He stated implicitly that TFA would be given an opportunity to Pope his own religion of Masculine Men if he were smart enough to loose himself from the bounds of Red Pill Speak. This is not a RPS victory, but a TFA evolutionary step, where he's set some really firm boundaries on fundamental TRP tipping points like fidelity and marriage. It certainly doesn't make TFA a loser either, he recognizes his contribution to MRP can only go so far once he fully realizes his…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/16 06:18 PM
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You're posting in a male locker room purporting to be TRP on Hard Mode. TRP is beholden to Rule Zero. For a "lady" you have a decent grasp on the troubles a married man may have applying a praxeology that is designed to maximize his sexual life. Many say LTRs and marriage are antithetical to the entire reason for TRP. Here lays the problem. The post started seeks guidance on how to vet for a wife. Not a TRP goal, arguably not an MRP goal either. This was compounded with your nonsense about I'm i…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/16 11:26 PM
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Words are what I get paid for. If a man, firmly within his own frame decides to work from home and provide a real service to his children in the form of education and leadership, I'm all for that. If you look at the progression of the posts from m'lady that I tested, you see she challenges the praxeology in the context of TRP being a sexual strategy of abundance and for the most part, anti-ltr. She creates false equivalents for why, as a super STEM she is a snowflake who has no desire to change …
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/16 01:08 PM
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Paradox, if I substitute "whomever we want" with "our SO's" does that fit your eye? MRP is TRP on Hard Mode. TRP is bound to Rule Zero. Are you here for the self-improvement seminar with walking hors d'oeuvres? If it makes you feel better, I am faithful in my marriage, but I don't advocate starting a marriage, and the concepts of alpha and the praxeology of TRP are amoral. Sorry, that's the facts.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/16 06:37 AM
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Rule Zero. We are here to maximize our sexual satisfaction by employing a set of tools designed to optimize our opportunities to fuck whomever we want and exactly how we like. You are asking us if it is wise to adjust a man's sexual strategy to scale back the quality and intensity of the sex he prefers for what, frequency and companionship? Are you terminally ill? Going to prison? Hideously deformed? What possible reason do you have to go vanilla? If you enjoy dominance, find a full time sub, no…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/16 03:22 AM
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Now "she's" indignant about you making enough money to afford domestic assistance. We just can't seem to do anything right. Muh misogyny and privilege must be showing. Tits or GTFO
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/16 01:13 AM
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Inconsistent for a reason. Troll FTW. RP "woman here," "vampire" username, husband "choosing" to stay at home with kids, has "unique" contribution to give to society. No one is taking the bait. I'm teeing this up for a certain computer savy sailor.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/16 12:35 AM
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My wife is pure STEM, and the moment she had our first child, her priorities shifted. AWALT, biological imperative, or simply changed mind, she toned her career ambition way down and I knew I needed to step up financially. In my experience, women play logical until they aren't. You hamstered a rationale for having a stay-at-home dad. Congratulations on your systematic neutering of your husband. I hope he accepts his gelding with aplomb.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/16 12:13 AM
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You are hedging your happiness and future on events that have not taken place yet and are planning to provide for scenarios that are merely hypothetical. Even a distant, future, not yet realized relationship you have yet to earn has you stepping into the frame of an imaginary woman. The "Rule Against Perpetuity" is a legal premise that a person can't plan to devise assets as part of estate planning to hypothetical heirs. You can't bequeath a million dollars in a will to the third son of your yet…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/16 07:50 PM
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It's the relationship "Rule Against Perpetuity." Devastating abundance mentality for the mere potential to have a future relationship. I hate to say it, but "you do you" applies in this instance. And OP gets zero points on this bar exam style hypothetical essay question he formulated.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/16 07:09 PM
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Yes, (A) once a day, and twice on Sund(A)y. Paralysis of analysis. Sometimes a blowjob is just a blowjob. This is a question asked by those who feel as though they don't deserve a sloppy BJ. Whether it's flawless sidebar implementation that got you the oral or pure luck, have some fun. Oh I forget, some of you are annotating experiment results. Sample group (B) entry: "Forceful vocal intonation of 'lick my balls' yields unenthusiastic compliance by subject X - RESULTS INCONCLUSIVE"
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/16 06:01 PM
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It's your vintage 1970's first edition copy of WISNIFG, be careful not to stain the pages, lol. I had some hardcore family matters to attend to and also devoured the sidebar+ during the past two months. Back with little empathy for the power lurkers. I hope Scurve's surgery went well. Also will be drafting a FR on something not often discussed, and a shitty comfort test nightmare, the death of SO's father.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/16 05:30 PM
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Hey, Frenchy Jesus! Have you ever drafted a covert contract? I know I haven't. It must be written in special invisible ink made from Brony blood to remain covert. Good post. The difficult task of being attractive (exterior improvements) and simultaneously not being unattractive (in this case a predictable "beer-bellied bellicose beta bitch") can never be stressed enough.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/16 05:06 PM
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Sunk cost fallacy. A five year LTR w/o kids is an extended stay pump and dump in the grand scheme of things. If you own your shit, spread your wings and fly if you dare, Icarus. We survive and thrive in marriage here, not advocate for it. Rule Zero still applies to you with no limitations, variations, or moral conundrums (if you believe fidelity is important).
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/16 04:22 AM
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Hmm...Challenge accepted. Expect a meaningful OYS in August. I'd rather lead than entertain anyway.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/16 02:02 PM
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Down-voting reading and thinking. That's the equivalent of saying everyone's opinion is right no matter how misinformed. All I can think of is this.....
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/16 04:03 AM
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I missed the really good live acts, because I caught more punk 2.0, which mixed and transitioned into skater rock. You caught the best stuff 10 years earlier.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/16 02:02 AM
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Punk girls were aways aggressive, ready to go, and attracted to the violence. They fucked like it too, miss my punk rock girl. We'll dress like minnie pearl, just you and me, punk rock girl.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/16 01:44 AM
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Now if you didn't get laid before, during or after that concert, I'm deeply disappointed.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/16 12:21 AM
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I would bet a least a few of the 7000+ on the sub have an SO with bolt ons. I would think that could have some relationship complications depending on the circumstances of the acquisition.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/16 12:13 AM
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Read what Henry Rollins says about lifting. His performances seem pretty solid over the past 30 years.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/16 11:54 PM
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Repeat after me. "I will better myself for me and no one else. My happiness is paramount to my ability to lead. Women will choose to follow me, or not, including my wife. My happiness will not be affected by who chooses to follow. This is about you. You still view yourself as an adjunct to your relationships. Good luck on your journey.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/16 11:51 PM
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Got tits meaning puberty, or implants. I would figure the issues of a woman with implants would be different than one who has generalized anxieties since a teenager.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/16 11:36 PM
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Your purchase or pre-relationship?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/16 05:00 PM
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I believe it's doing a comparison of gaming power levels (World of Warcraft?) to an improved man incompatible with a certain type of woman. I don't speak basement dweller, but I see enough online to get a flavor for grown men investing vast amount of resources obtaining fake power in fake worlds that to their surprise does not translate to reality.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/16 07:53 PM
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The cashier at the corner store only sees your sculpted shoulders and defined jaw line as a result of impeccable diet and lifting heavy. She does not see the fact that you lost the kid's college savings playing blackjack when you said you were working extra hours at the office. LTR's necessarily imply history and on the part of your SO, a memory that does not militate in your favor. If the memory bank is filled with leadership failures, the road is long and slow. That's what guys here screw up t…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/16 12:18 PM
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I figured out THIS is the "sudden" change RPW is worried about.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/16 02:30 AM
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I was sitting and controlling my emotions, then oh fuck, I'm a giant cockroach!
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/16 01:48 AM
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Yes, a veritable "hit piece."
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/16 09:34 PM
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No, he hangs with a fag named Stewie
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/16 09:31 PM
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Yeah, she has a talking dog named Brian.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/16 09:26 PM
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Is her name Meg?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/16 09:13 PM
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Remove this.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/16 09:06 PM
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learned the following: RPW: You misread what I said, WOT super hamster spins, you're still not listening!, insults, frame dragging via persistence, we're endorsed nah nah, you have cooties, last word wins. MRP: facts, genuine concepts, review of praxeology, loss of frame due to attack on egos and refusal to listen to reason, can't argue with children, bitch has cooties, I quit. Comical in hindsight.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/16 08:10 PM
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Nice to see a practical frame exercise after the past two days of living inside of some bunny's. I swear to Christ I almost gave up on the sub and took the advice of J10H and asked Pope TFA if he needed any Deacons.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/16 05:48 PM
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And...I lose for being an unoriginal bastard. EDIT: Is it my left or your left?, cuz when I get under there I tend to turn a bit....guess it doesn't matter.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/16 08:26 PM
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The Canadian Sailor approach of "tits or gtfo" works too.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/16 07:48 PM
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Hey, bunny helped out in her own special way.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/16 07:36 PM
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If everyone told each other to get fucked there would be no subtext of "endorsed" or "true to the original." It's like all of the "Ray's" pizza places in NYC. No one knows who is original, and those who claim to be so are assholes to anyone asking about the other locations.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/16 07:19 PM
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How did a praxeology become politicized? There is a power dynamic that flows through this that has nothing to do with the goals of each group. The hostility and "we're endorsed" BS wouldn't exist if the approach taken was "you do you."
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/16 07:06 PM
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I Adjunct at a State University in Poly Sci courses. I get to give a conservative limited government perspective to impressionable minds to counteract the rest of their professors. I term it "starting from a position of absolute freedom" and explain that all government programs play upon the fears of the individual to trade freedom for safety. They identify well with this. If I called it Libertarian, they would viscerally recoil and learn nothing. The pay sucks, comparatively, but it is almost a…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/16 05:25 PM
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What if you're both? I would prefer a Hawt co-ed crying "Professor!" over my 50 year old corpse, but I'll most likely have angry clients upset that their fucking lawyer "up and died on 'em."
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/16 05:10 PM
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I would train for the half marathon during the "walk around the neighborhood all night" time and make myself unavailable to her when you normally train together. It's a subtle move to withdraw attention and affection. That is one suggestion for your oneitis. Plus it puts the thought in her mind twice a day of "where is he at, and what is he doing?" "He's in shape and running, but with whom and when?"
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/16 02:50 PM
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That is also a part of the anger phase for some of us, because by all other measureables (education, possessions, career, etc...) we've "made it." Only one problem, the woman we've decided to share this with doesn't give a fuck.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/16 02:31 PM
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Some here would pay for a Oneitisectomy if it were guarantied to work. Or you can take your chances working on the railroad and get lucky like Phineas Gage. Can ya tell I consider Oneitis my biggest weakness?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/16 02:18 PM
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I believe Abdada lost more in his divorce than the combined earnings of all neckbeards. Curated, hand-crafted, organic, animal-friendly tea cozy sales included.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/16 02:04 PM
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We have the most educated group of gullible and trusting people ever assembled. Myself included.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/16 04:59 AM
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Like me. I was on Pine server for my first email prior to HTML. I have socks older than Rihanna.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/16 11:57 PM
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It was meant to be gross, and I'm glad you think so.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/16 11:34 PM
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So I guessed right. Good role model. See, I have a girl of my own, so I can't pull out many of the "tools in the shed" for the reasons you stated. She has to see me as a positive all the time and as an effective leader. I became unattractive due to illness, not supplicating myself to any m'lady back bending. For this reason, I think my journey might be easier than my peers here, but you never know. That's why self improvement isn't a goal, it's a lifestyle. Keep that body tight young lady.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/16 11:22 PM
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My frame's fine. M'lady doth protest too much, methinks. I need no help. Timing trolling is new I'm sure. I'm sure others are curious how to magically implement RP at juuuust the right moment. Like any nitpicking malcontent, you suppose I care about both my story and your reaction. I'm no snowflake, and neither are you.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/16 11:14 PM
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OK pro shit stirrer, so I need to lay out a time line to delineate when my wife deserted me emotionally to satisfy you. Fuck off. Fact is it started during chemo, came out after blowing up to 330 pounds for "treatment" and she asked for a divorce right after surgery to repair a broken leg. Since when is "perfect timing of RP implementation" a requirement for seeing the light? You sound retarded searching for semantics, and now I know the cancer talk in your previous post was backhanded white kni…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/16 09:37 PM
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Sticks and stones may break my bones, but whips and chains excite me.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/16 08:30 PM
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We aren't women. We won't berate or desert you when you are experiencing a temporary jag of weakness. Time to re-do your MAP and make career a priority. We get a lot of satisfaction/grief from our careers and identify too much with what we do as opposed to who you are. At least you have identified the problem.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/16 08:25 PM
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"Dominant" is BDSM for some, and "I would like to be on top" for others.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/16 08:11 PM
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Sex is like a one act play. Everyone important to the entertainment is there in the same confined space, they all want applause at the end, you only get one chance, and EVERYONE MUST KNOW THEIR ROLE.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/16 07:52 PM
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Thanks, but please be clear, the abrasiveness I discussed was a comment made long after the therapy, and not a reaction to the symptoms you described your dad having. Your reply comes off as white knighting my wife's response a bit. I apologize if it's just text atonality giving me this impression. I ran that same process through my manster regarding "it's normal behavior in response to stress, she loves me for me, etc..." until I realized that being a fat fuck was the source of the discord. My …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/16 07:42 PM
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Let your guard slip- get sick, have a family member die, get depressed, become forlorn and defeated because your wife has lost attraction and treats you badly all the time and you will finally understand where most Merpers start their path. This! ^ Beginning of marriage, professional degree, high n count and socially competent athlete. Wife adored me. Then....Cancer, wrongly diagnosed disorder from chemo, hit by car, put on steriods and gained 150 pounds. Wife suddenly found me too abrasive and …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/16 06:55 PM
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And I sincerely hope you find a man worthy of support even during his weakest times. Many guys here are ESL, socially autistic, ham fisted, paint by numbers malcontents. Many are also men who were fooled into believing "for better or for worse" applied to them. Desire can't be negotiated, this is obviously true, and those who get past being stupid and/ or angry here are judicious enough with what we learn to hopefully be more objectively attractive than we were when first married. Either our pas…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/16 01:26 PM
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Wow, wheelhouse day for me... The Bible has three important things to say about the meaning and purpose of marital sex. First, it is central to the process by which a husband and wife become one flesh (Genesis 2:24). Second, it is the means whereby they participate in the ongoing work of God's creation through procreation (Genesis 1:28). Third, it is intended to serve as a picture or symbol of the union between Christ and His Church (Ephesians 5:31, 32). Sex, then, isn't supposed to be "all abou…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/16 01:52 AM
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Not sure if it's intentional, but two retarded mantras from the RP singles club continue to resonate and repeat: RP - Married men can't be RP, because, well they just can't; and RPW - Alphas are a natural phenomenon and RP in general is repulsive in the hands of a married man (except MY husband, of course, since, ya know, magic vagina). How did a praxeology become so politicized?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/16 01:25 AM
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Play on a username. But I've committed the micro-aggression of anthropomorphic generalization. NABALT?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/16 12:07 AM
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In the volume scene I discussed earlier, yes, I did. I quoted it because these men are not "open minded" or even men. They are beaten down, shattered remnants of what I would consider a man. Their mansters try to reconcile the fact that their snowflake is anything but. OP needs to wake up, or stop trolling an issue that MRP has no tolerance of.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/16 05:23 PM
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You like RP men if they truly own their shit. Posers and social retards need not apply. If you practiced what you preach, you would search out the relationships that work in MRP and emulate, or at least ask about our SO's to get a clue. Reading vintage Better Homes and Gardens and believing that will inform you of what modern families inundated with feminist horseshit need from a wife is just naive. Are you willing to truly support, physically satisfy and be a smart, sexy mom to a awesome man's …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/16 09:26 PM
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I'm not convinced you haven't met the Three Billy Goats Gruff, and I'm really not convinced on her quality. For me, unless you're one of the "open minded" cuckold wannabe folks I encounter more and more these days, the mention of "other men" is a deal breaker. "Where time takes" any woman I'm with is to my bed and worshiping my dick. From a guy older than you and married who grew out of the high volume scene. Either you or her have not had enough partners to be content. In my experience, couples…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/16 08:19 PM
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This young lady sounds like she wants permission to get on the carousel she walked past at 22 when she started dating your weak sauce. She drunkenly hamsters her fantasies out loud, and when push comes to shove, I think she views you as an uninteresting old beta. This "freak out" is just a low value sloot showing her true desires and contempt for you when the inhibitors are pushed aside by her "excuse," alcohol. You are weak, she is a Chinese fingers cuff in training, and the relationship is a j…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/16 03:10 PM
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Whatever you do, make yourself the focus and have a plan. That plan may need to be revised more often then you like, but you need one. The 60 Days of Dread series is good to look at if you're not exactly sure what areas should be of focus. The basic categories are starting points for putting together your MAP (as the vets call it).
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/16 07:44 PM
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You need to stay "in touch," but you are your best judge of how your wife responds. Getting groppy like a socially-autistic retard never works, and as with any tool used, YMMV. I would focus on becoming attractive and keeping the mood and touching playful (if that has a precedent in your earlier days). Doing something overtly out of character will scream "POSER" and your wife seems pretty blunt about her attraction levels as it is. If you convey that kissing and touching is the norm and you also…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/16 06:58 PM
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You have the natural intelligence and probably the strong nuclear family (positive father figure) to immediately spot a poser. Being high value is a good thing, and you are generating hostility from a place in the heart of men (EGO) that rejects the premise that he can't change enough to win over (or keep) someone like you. If you're HAWT, you're HAWT....If you're not, this bunny isn't fooled. At least you can intelligently and dispassionately state a preference as opposed to hamstering a "gentl…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/16 04:13 PM
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Im ok with intentionally putting us into a db to see if she finally starts complying. Everything said before and after meant nothing after this vindictive bullshit. Leaders don't demand fealty. Demanding "communication" or no sex for either of you is the most nefarious covert contract I've read Mr. 99%.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/16 01:39 AM
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I concede my masculinity, fight the patriarchy, petition to remove guns from the world, and recognize that every pronoun is a micro-aggression. I work to prevent all violence, which in turn makes all women safe. Then I wake the fuck up and realize none of the things above provide any safety, and the only thing that gives a true sense of safety is competent leadership by example. Shit handled = ladies feel safe.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/16 04:23 PM
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Read Ian Ironwood's very recent cross-post here from the relationshits sub to see his explanation why MRP guys and men in general don't want a "best friend." A wife, a true trusted partner to share lives and bodies with, is light years beyond a simple friend. Real men love with an all-encompassing devotion for a deserving woman that dwarfs the meaning of friend. Our love is not opportunistic, conditional, or comparable to what some feel for their pets. This is why we guard our hearts, because wo…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/16 05:04 AM
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Like our favorite Canadian Sailor likes to say: "That'll show her."
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/16 03:46 AM
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But, but, but...isn't apathy the opposite of Wuvv... There has to be a give up point, or this doesn't make sense. We seem to have firm "deal breakers," but dying on the vine in spite of full, non-Rambo, thoughtful, and gradual implementation. I'm in my 40's, and I'll be damned if I shit away good years if I strive to be awesome and my relationship sucks.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/16 07:19 PM
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Did you see the recent post where a dude's "high quality" SO hadn't read a book in over 15 years? Spat out my Chateauneuf du Pape when I read that. Embracing the suck is not easy. Judging by the way you subtlety write about moving on, your wife sounds like she was very high value and the women approaching you engender contempt because they're inferior to her. Like the illustrated woman, you old fag.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/16 04:46 PM
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You need to review the Sacraments portion of your Catholic upbringing. This sex fast is not only stupid, but antithetical to your confessed beliefs. Honoring the Sacrament of Matrimony, the Catechism of the Catholic Faith states in part: "The well-being of the individual person and of both human and Christian society is closely bound up with the healthy state of conjugal and family life." Healthy conjugal life means fucking, dude. Somehow you dipped your relationship into the other service sacra…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/16 05:05 AM
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Man, we apologize for all the recent Taco Bell Gordita talk during your cleanse. Looks like it's working.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/16 09:46 PM
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We need a new meme called "Where I go when I get Sad." It will be a picture of a brony sitting with a copy of WISNIFG in a red Miata (Mazda Roadster) in a Taco Bell parking lot.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/16 09:36 PM
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Does Literotica have a RP category I'm not familiar with? Sounds like provision protection masquerading as hysterical bonding. Temporary guilt response lulling OP into a false sense of security.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/16 12:01 AM
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You can't do anything to make her a better wife. You improve yourself and lead and she will conform to the improved you, naturally. ....or she won't. You need to accept either possible outcome as you do the things that must be done for your happiness. Don't be a Rambo or a socially autistic retard and read and slowly internalize the sidebar. Also look into dread and apply it as carefully as every other concept. Lift, own your shit to the fullest (work, friends, hobbies, fucking your wife well, h…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/16 05:12 AM
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Alexander Hamilton was the Founding Father Chad Thundercock and finally got shot for it by the sitting Vice President, Aaron Burr. Naw, never any assholes among that group. Read what was said about Andrew Jackson's wife for some more perspective.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/03/16 06:46 PM
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Use the mantra "I've got this" as much as possible when it comes to confrontations over stuff getting done around the house. I assume you don't want to live in filth or around filthy kids in a poorly maintained home, so own that shit, because YOU enjoy a clean living space. Don't wait for her to do "her share," because being a mom is haaaard, and no one gives a single fuck if you're sick, injured or tired. Don't expect doing what you need to do to equal "sexual credits" or any other choreplay bu…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/03/16 06:39 PM
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If the object of your dread sees none of this, it's not dread, it's ego stroking validation. Has Wifey stepped up the fucking in response to complements drawn? Dread is a strategy with a specific target audience not a general RP behavior employed to the world. I don't want to cheat on my wife. You're not supposed to give a fuck about keeping multiple girls interested unless you are plating them. RTMFSB EDIT: Read the acronym in Samuel Jackson's voice to get it sink in more.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/03/16 06:02 AM
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"Marriage is a big enough risk for a guy, and an even bigger risk with a foreign woman who wants to live in this country. In my mind, the fact that she doesn't actively want to live in the US is the nail in the coffin for this relationship. But I may be wrong." I think you have this backward. If she's not gold or opportunity digging with USA residency as a prize, she might be a keeper, as she's willing to add value and offer a compromise. If you are a true, independent RP SOB, who has made smart…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/16 08:46 PM
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I'm the democratically elected Treasurer. It's a thankless position with no direct contact with the teachers, but all the power. Attend all the meetings and adopt the mantra - "I'm sorry, but we don't have the funds available for that type of program at this time." It helps when the Principal stares at your chest and arms when she asks for the monthly Treasurer's Report. Zero push back.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/16 08:27 PM
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I think of it as farm-to-table fuck you ladies.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/16 05:49 PM
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How will you vet your potential customers other than willingness to pay and work out regularly? It sounds like a very specialized form of life coaching. I just fear for your safety. Man crushes be scary sometimes and social autism seems to be spreading.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/16 05:45 PM
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You're a good dude and it's hard to not feel as though you are pissing into the wind when it comes to deprogramming men and their little boys from their feminist indoctrination and eventual gelding (physical and financial). I too have been thinking of "doing more" to improve the lives of fathers and sons, but with me teaching in a typical PC "safe-space" University environment, and practicing in front of "womyn-power" judges, I can't be public with my beliefs. I undermine efforts to consolidate …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/16 04:19 PM
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Is this your first child? I assume he is a toddler who loves to cuddle with SAHM? You need to get the bedroom as a kid-free zone ASAP. It's hard to match comfort for comfort with your son. All tests will feel like shit tests, because your wife is deriving comfort from your child all day long and hamstering a martyr tale of how haaaaard it is to be a mother. You withholding too much comfort is a means to her seeking it with a closely available substitute. In my hardcore beta-blue days, I referred…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/16 03:38 PM
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Hence I stir...Many noobs here equate income to sexual attraction and budgeting to income. Income is only one component to budgeting, and has nothing to do with SMV. Even less than nothing if married. You get it, but I've seen protracted conversations about the role of income and ability to close even in this forum.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/02/16 06:34 PM
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Pay yourself first. Always contribute to your retirement savings off the top. If you work for yourself, open and contribute to an SEP IRA (USA, sorry other nations). You'll be very surprised at the high contribution limits and tax savings if you do so. If your employer has a standard match for retirement savings contributions, contribute the max match percentage of your pay. Otherwise, I echo everything here so far. Be conservative and realistic with your budget. Either know exact amounts for ex…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/02/16 04:07 PM
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He needs to dread her desperately, but he doesn't have the basics in place to do that. The thought of making himself attractive to other women probably pains him, and I can guaranty he hasn't lifted a weight since OP was a child. Start with WISNIFG, but it's not "easy reading" for someone with ADD. Friends? Hobbies? Some way to withdraw affection? EDIT: Just caught this on second glance. WTF is this Uncle Date shit? How was this made OK?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/16 04:57 AM
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I believe you are influential, and if people read your responses without some context, tact and introspection, they may fuck-tard themselves into a deep hole. Your hobby harms the stupid. It's the trite Spiderman maxim, "with great power comes great responsibility." I agree with your consistency and your lemons-out-of-lemonade approach to your RP application. You are the best judge of your relationships, so I (and nobody else) shouldn't place a moral component upon how shit is owned. I also agre…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/16 04:09 AM
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We don't need to constantly learn, and the internet in general can be a source of entertainment. Whether it's making fun of Rollo's posts for having a "sent down from God" gravitas quality to them, or laughing at the expense of men who have abdicated their balls for the opportunity to not die alone, entertainment is in the eye of the beholder. However, when it comes to some influential posters, here and in TRP, those who influence can't just imply they've reached the ultimate level of IDGAF and …
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/16 08:08 PM
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Entering 40's and not much different from 20's when lifting heavy and diet is good. Free testosterone, increased circulation and rbc production from mitochondrial increases in new muscle will keep the production coming (pun intended). Edit: YES! Downvoted for advocating lifting to bring up testosterone. I feel accepted now! Wheeeeeeeeee!
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/16 07:36 PM
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Hey, persistent and WomynPower-like use of the patent-pending vernacular herein may be infringing upon my Manosphereez registered trademark. Heed my username consumer.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/16 11:33 PM
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I like to practice procreating as much as possible, and in my case my practice partner no longer has the requisite means. The 20% of fuck-wits fitting the description of hoarding resources over meaningful b/g relationships absolutely should remove themselves from procreating.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/16 09:28 PM
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It is the simplified chemical formula for a master alloy when added to iron makes it malleable (more durable, less brittle, easier to draw out, cast and shape). Iron sharpens iron, but we need to remain flexible. Best MRP user name, ever.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/16 09:16 PM
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Yes, more like MGOTW (Men Getting Out of The Way). Complete loser portion of the Beta Buxers might withhold themselves from being caught by wall-approaching nags in a 2.0 marriage. Sounds more like a Prostitute Principle as opposed to the Pareto Principle. Pay less for more variety.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/16 09:09 PM
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No, to be A-A-D's version of RP ("real" RP you thoughtful widower) you lick every cupcake, stand on the table in the middle of the room, and with your RP hands on your RP hips scream "MINE!" When a co-worker walks in to take a cupcake, you must, must, must show ALFA® dominance by screaming at the co-worker and the cupcake "WHORES!!!" as you smash the rest of the cupcakes with your fists, flip over the table upon which they were resting, and leave the lunch room triumphantly.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/16 07:00 PM
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Not just abstract terms, but "registered trademarked" terms. I've added a "circled R" to one of my own - Mansphereeez® Means well, and has good information, but writes like translated stereo instructions in an attempt to sound profound.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/16 05:55 PM
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What to do about 19 y.o. Main subreddit guys who crush useful discussion about dealing with spouses by emphatically and consistently shitting on all advice with "married and monogamous is not RP?" Do we ban our retarded younger and/or eminently less relationship experienced brothers? I feel like reaching through my screen and showing these malcontents what a real "anger phase" is.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/16 05:37 AM
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I caught it a few posts ago, because my foundry-rat father worked 40 years pouring "grey" and nodular iron engine blocks so I wouldn't have to.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/16 01:55 AM
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Someone remembers his undergraduate inorganic chemistry.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/16 01:37 AM
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Fuck having standards huh...what's the point of becoming the prize if one is required to screw the illustrated woman or whatever freak show throws herself at you?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/16 11:45 PM
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I've come across a number of "butch" lesbians in my time spent in the culinary and legal professions, and their gripes are very similar to the victim puking seen in RP: Not enough sex, believes the stay-at-home wife is either shirking her duties or eating other pussy, unsupportive of family goals, and fails to recognize sacrifices made. AWALT applies to all women identifying themselves as the "girl" of the relationship. I would think that a "RPButch" would be a useful subreddit for these masculi…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/16 06:09 PM
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Fighting actually suppresses testosterone as the major "fight or flight" hormones are adrenaline and cortisol. Neither of which are attractive in large quantities. Cortisol causes fat hoarding and gynecomastia (bitch tits). Plus, it's hard to fuck with a concussion. Science says heavy lifting with large muscle groups produces the greatest testosterone response other than the puberty ball drop. Less punching, more reading.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/16 01:44 AM
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I agree with this. Unfortunately, I've been cutting for the better part of two years, but would always recommend that key pieces be swapped out as you reduce your shadow. Blazers always go on seasonal sale and drop 50-75% off retail. As your chest and abdomen change size, it's easy to have these tailored if necessary and will continue to match jeans and slacks as you loose your gut. A well-fitting navy blazer made of quality fabric over a crisp white shirt (dark jeans or slacks) never fails to l…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/16 06:12 PM
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Reading and internalizing the sidebar is difficult with a closed-head injury (boxing), or while in jail (fighting). Training for boxing is cardio, which is a time suck and will not outweigh a shitty diet. I'm not cutting to meet the MW limit of 160. We're improving ourselves via lifting because: strength, hormones, aesthetics, discipline and routine. In addition, real fights eventually go to the ground, and I choose to roll around on the ground "practicing" procreation with women as opposed to B…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/16 04:56 PM
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This is learning and refining an art, and a good portion of new guys are seeking paint by numbers. I'm not sure if it's a Google-for-answers mentality, or our instant gratification culture, but some will NEVER put in the required work necessary and blame the system for their failures. A certain lupine defector comes to mind.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/16 03:34 AM
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He asks himself "would you fuck me?"
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/16 09:50 PM
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You are righting you, and that is always worth it. First Mates may come and go, but the Captain owns his boat. Develop your abundance mentality, and you'll find that focusing on yourself drags along those who find you interesting. From what I've read, your wife likes your dry sense of humor, and if you are lifting, reading, and otherwise growing, those are positive changes. If you were Buffalo Bill from Silence of the Lambs, what would you say to yourself when looking in the mirror? Would she ou…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/16 08:29 PM
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Given a stick of TNT after being told a firecracker was all he ever could expect, enjoy or aspire to have.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/16 06:38 PM
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Not speaking for TTB, but we make snap judgments about spouses based upon how the other behaves. If he's a turd, she's low value by simply tolerating him or encouraging weaksauce behavior. Should she recognize she's possibly encouraging and/or enabling this stupid behavior? Sure, but that's not what leaders concern themselves with. Guilt by association. He's awful, so there is a perceived deficiency with her as well for being with him. In addition though, you mentioned a POV that we generally do…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/16 06:34 PM
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I think your description of the "repression of self" is the true source of the Anger Phase. Reestablishing your masculinity after walling it off for so long and then adding the hormones from thinking in concert with one's biology, heavy lifting, and eating right causes the dam to burst. I know I wanted to physically destroy things with my hands when I realigned my masculinity. Unplugging is hard because you are faced with the fact that most of the people in your life have lied to you about what …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/16 05:57 PM
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TRP and RPW are eye fucking each other as an Internet singles bar. Taken dudes wanting to fuck their wives don't interest gals looking for a Cad in the rough. RP 20 somethings don't want the advice from married dads on how to get laid consistently even though we fucked their moms in high school, college, and last Tuesday. We share overlapping methods, but few long game goals.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/02/16 08:26 PM
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I hope and pray that in the case of BPP the game he aims to "win" is not increased book sales via higher rate of exposure here and elsewhere. More MRP subreddit numbers equals more potential customers. Just the pessimism leaking out.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/02/16 08:15 PM
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I assume everyone on the internet is a fat brony who worships pussy, as we are anonymous here for the most part. If it's stated at the end of a diatribe describing how OP is certain to fuck up, how can YDY be interpreted as "I support you being your shitty self as you trudge forward in a retarded fashion?" I don't think I've ever seen YDY used in a vacuum without any context. EDIT: and fuck you for doxxing me with my "before" picture
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/16 04:43 PM
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So YMMV is just hedging one's bet on his shitty advice too? No one here can give or take any advice based on even 100% perfectly distilled RP sidebar gold without the chance of something unexpected happening. You do you appears more to be a "go out there and try your plan the way you see fit, but I the outside observer see trouble on the horizon." There are punk kids in here whose personalities are unknown even to themselves half the time and often need to develop an identity based on years of i…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/16 04:19 PM
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Wife casually mentioned yesterday after a good session that a woman in her workplace has a husband necessitating a liver transplant (guys a prick, and the damage is somewhat self-inflicted) and requires palliative care until death or transplant. Wife tells me that co-worker hamstered (not her words "explained") situation and prognosis to her and that she felt put upon and lost respect for him "long ago." The day dude enters hospice, served with divorce papers. A man can never show any weakness, …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/16 08:17 PM
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The exemplar Marine from the cited article who has the fidelity of "Jay's" pedestal gal Jane, even though she still talks to Jay for the attention feelz. EDIT: When I see alpha and "Steve" I immediately think McQueen.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/16 07:55 PM
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"Iron sharpens iron" is frequently used to describe an overall maxim of what improves men here. Your nom de plume speaks of "master alloy" to shape and change iron to make it flexible and less prone to fatigue. After this post, I consider it a name well chosen.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/16 04:25 AM
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The fact that she uses "terminology" with you to pull her into her frame means she is the Captain of your relationship. For the military guys and historians here: "Loose lips sink ships." You exposed the playbook via outright disclosure of RP or ham-fisting application of the tenants so blatantly that she learned (and applies) RP to you. Holy fuck.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/16 07:05 PM
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Yep. Troll read Whinemore literally and went on a rant calling RP "fucking retarded" because he had zero knowledge, couldn't fathom that MRP vets are sarcastic assholes, and failed to realize everyone is castigating OP for living in the past and focusing on HER earning ability. We've had the money doesn't necessarily equate to SMV discussion lots of times here.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/16 01:22 AM
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Mods on top of it killed BP troll ASAP. No fun to be had with him. OP on the other hand...Needs to learn SMV and money are loosely linked and that past military status is worth its weight in yesterdays. Leading people not obligated to follow you is much more difficult than obeying a chain of command.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/16 12:15 AM
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Some say liberation from playing the male/female game of interaction. I tend to interpret it similar to you. Taking your ball(s) and going home. Cost benefit analysis is not a way to run one's sex life or life in general. To each their own.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/16 04:59 AM
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Men Going Their Own Way = MGTOW Nihilistic viewpoint of some men, mostly introverted Millenials who believe that the relative chasm of meaningful interaction between the sexes is so great that m/f relationships are pointless. Focus is on self-realization through masculine pursuits and transactional treatment of sex, if desired. Japanese "Grass Eaters" or "herbivore men" are an extreme example.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/16 03:05 AM
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Considering "open Marriage" huh? I call bullshit. Ready for GNO's until 5 am and mom of 4 on the CC while you watch the kids? As your text fantasy has already proven, women can get dick instantly. You, not so much. Enjoy the brief stranger infatuation, but tread carefully. Abundance mentality and delusions of grandeur often get conflated. This dalliance, or whatever you think it is, will require a solid plan of implementation if it is what you want. In hindsight, the plan to spin a plate with 4 …
/r/MarriedRedPill01/02/16 04:53 PM
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Yep, we all have objective value. http://liblog.mayo.edu/2010/01/14/whats-the-body-worth/ So what? However tactful he/she/they may be, a wife, plate, friends, colleagues, etc... have no subjective value in a RP context if they don't compliment or increase your own value to yourself. You assigned value to your 2nd wife because she taught you a social skill you find valuable. Your assessment. Your valuation. Sometimes tactfulness is an excuse for obfuscation. I prefer bluntness. Your current wife'…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/02/16 04:27 PM
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Based upon OP's responses to you in the past hour, I believe your first instinct was correct. Flush this turd.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/16 10:19 PM
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"For the sake of the quality of this sub, going forward these posts will be deleted as they provide spectacle without value to readers. Those that enjoy that type of thing already have a place at purplepilldebate." Hey, my gold frame with me and idiot girlfriend is higher on the shelf than ANY frame in the house. Respect my call to revamp entire system based on shrine status and totally owning that whole drug addict threatening my death thing. Hilarious.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/16 06:13 PM
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Depends on the subject of the thesis. Ha ha.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/16 12:54 PM
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Thanks from MRP JD to MRP MD.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/16 08:31 PM
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Another "manly" thing most dudes don't do, is be their own advocate for their medical treatment. If what is being prescribed does not heal you or makes you feel worse, you need to get educated and tell your current medical team to fuck off. Doctors are like lawyers and plumbers, they are there to provide a specific service. They are owed no more deferential treatment than any other professional. If your accountant gives antiquated or shitty tax advice, you don't stick with him out of some weird …
/r/MarriedRedPill25/01/16 06:56 PM
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Same boat. Lifting since 17, hit by a car in law school, cancer at 27, misdiagnosed with auto-immune disorder and on oral steroids, until I ballooned to a very weak and sore beta-Billy 330 lbs. 28 months ago, started a clean protein-heavy diet and Strong Lifts 5x5 with only the oly bar for all movements except dead lift (plates needed to get the bar off the floor). It sucked royally for the first 6 months as the tards doing "curlz fo' the girlz" looked down on the round guy doing compound lifts …
/r/MarriedRedPill25/01/16 04:17 PM
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Very few men truly lead, or realize that his happiness drives the rest of his relationships.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/16 08:02 AM
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Unfortunately, men are blinded by "nice guy" philosophy and become complacent, unfuckable, dad-bods doing "choreplay" for bland pity sex.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/16 07:58 AM
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You are total MRP. Your lack of ego, realization that Disney relationships are fake, and planning your future in your frame are proof enough. Onward and upward.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/16 03:34 PM
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Thanks for the link...and the chat. I have an appointment with some iron.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/16 04:57 PM
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True, I assumed that kids were an afterthought and asked questions hoping that wasn't so. OP set me straight. As for alpha, I get your point, and will not use the word as synonymous with what it is not. It's a defined descriptor without morality and I'm still internalizing that.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/16 03:59 PM
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Completely agree. I'm not advocating saving shitty marriages, but raising functioning children. Two households or one. I was afraid OP was out playing, and so was his wife, without a plan. He's making the best of a gross situation.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/16 03:14 PM
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If kids are incidental to your abundance mentally and power fucking, then don't get married and have kids. You do you.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/16 03:08 PM
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I've raised the ire of two all-star contributors, who I believe are right about RP tenants, but miss the point of my post. Nowhere did I say save the marriage. My entire post is about acting decisively to protect your kids. OP's explanation answered my questions. He's acting and improving. Not much bluing of the message there. If RP is male happiness above all else, even your progeny, then that's not leadership. Fire away. Being a family alpha and your best version of a man means being a good fa…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/16 03:01 PM
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Sexual Market Value. Numbered 1-10. Higher the better. Many discussions about relevance to your spouse, but not important to the use in the post.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/16 11:42 PM
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Did you file yet? Move out? Take kids with you? If not, you're having an "open marriage" without consequences to the slob. Act to split this up and get the kids acclimated and at least shield your offspring from slob's desperation and nutrition habits. You employed nuclear dread with an expected (or highly possible) outcome without a contingency plan in place for your little ones. Congratulations on moving toward your happiness, but without protecting your kids too, it's a good RP outcome, and a…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/16 06:20 PM
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Subconsciously, beyond the regimen, discipline, strength and aesthetics it provides, lifting provides that socially acceptable outlet for the mind-altering rage that gets pent up over time. I think it's easier to achieve IDGAF, when you're endorphin bathed from lifting (controlled entirely by you) and fucking (partially controlled by you and lifting helps this too). Too many dad-bods are on a hair trigger because they do neither. We're not given an appropriate outlet beyond "talking" in our femi…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/16 05:57 PM
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I did, and the updated information does not change my response. The law is the law regardless of the religious beliefs. It's a bad deal to plunge into a serious financial (and in her case spiritual) commitment when you have no idea if the two of you are sexually compatible. What happens if the honeymoon is just "meh?" It's too late to turn back and the die has been cast. I've been with a lot of girls who were great kissers and teasers with their hands, teeth, and tounge, but were mediocre lays a…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/16 04:05 PM
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See the Paul Elam response for some perspective. It's slightly over the top, but stresses the message that we, as Fathers must temper the hyperbole and rhetoric with the message that everyone gets treated like shit. As masculine men, our girls need to be taught that fathers are leaders that should be able to demonstrate their worth. It's our job to monitor the feminist horseshit that she will see, pretty much from birth, to present the more compelling argument that equal opportunity and self-rel…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/16 02:29 PM
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But man up with 32 y/o Alpha Widow former fun time turned promise ringer? Man up with someone else. At least AWALT will be more predictable and fuck without a ring first.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/16 02:32 AM
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DTF = Down to Fuck She promises freaky sex to you in exchange for long-term commitment under the ruse that she wants it all the time, but has only had ONE partner. Bad deal for a single 38 y/o male of any worth. You should be bettering yourself and crushing pussy, not heavy petting like a 14 y/o when her last partner (at least) got the whole enchilada. She's telling you that you need to make the ultimate sacrifice, fidelity to her and 50% of future earnings to fuck? Grow up.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/16 01:31 AM
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I used NEXT in a post about a 38 y.o. dude with a 32 y.o. "born-again" virgin "nympho" girlfriend who claims to be an n=1 and won't fuck him without commitment. I think NEXT could be appropriate, especially when the actual married guys (common-law, reasonable time invested LTR's included), are asked for advice by Millennials whose longest sexual relationship is 6 months dating.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/16 05:41 PM
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32 and n=1 and always DTF (within confines of "relationship" of course)? Come on, you're a grown ass man. Logic should be your forte. Let her peddle that shit to someone without options. NEXT.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/16 04:15 PM
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Age of you and her? Significant, only because a n=1 "nympho" is either a failure to realize true definition of serious mental disorder and may be using hyperbole, or she's lying about her n. If she's 18-25, trying to lock you down with hotness and "saving freak for you" tall tale. Older than that, just flat out BS. Won't allow test drive before commitment? You lose. Sex is her currency, commitment is yours. We're realists around here, and no sex is simply a deal breaker.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/16 02:45 PM
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You're not even married yet! All kidding aside, keep working on you. Have caterers been called off, invitations rescinded, officials cancelled? Watch what she does, not what is said. This is a comfort test to see if you are, for certain, not like her Father. Tease her that you have conspired for 10 years just to get her into bed. It sounds silly when said out loud, but also reminds her that you've been the male rock her father never was.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/16 07:37 AM
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Good info about HER, no one here, including the veterans, can help without sizing you up. If you're an average college graduate without the social or financial prospects of your MD LTR, you are fucked. Guatemalan Chad with a stethoscope will have proximity, "like-mindedness," and freshness that you lack after 10 years of support. Tell us more, but my first impression is that she will never assume a position in the relationship that would allow you to lead from a masculine frame.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/16 07:03 AM
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You will come to not tolerate those who are late or unprepared to fully participate in your chosen activities. When your time is planned, allocated and becomes productive to your improvement, anyone inconsistent with that becomes expendable. Good post and self-awareness.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/16 05:31 AM
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I see your point. Kind of looks like introductory grandstanding in the middle of your solid post. Won't happen again. Background puke is almost as bad as victim puke.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/16 08:52 PM
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I would never reply to something I didn't read. I was simply stating why MRP "works" for me. I think preference and belief are important to implementation of any plan of action. If someone does not identify with the underlying logic and how TRP fits into our changing world, the lost guy will be "black boxing" his life with MRP/TRP crib notes and not internalizing it. MRP fits me to begin with, I don't struggle with the precepts. That's just me. Unplugging and being upset about what the world for…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/16 06:52 PM
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People are wrong or simply failures in their own application of good advice. Philosophies are just schools of thought. Anyone not owning their shit will fail, regardless of how they choose to fix things. You do you, but TRP & MRP are guidelines with solid anecdotal evidence of success and are further backed by numerous social science studies with results showing correlation (if not causation) of why men and women behave the way they do. I consider myself to be an intelligent misogynist, the term…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/16 06:32 PM
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Ridiculous...A suggestion of an "open relationship" was met with open arms, but giving real advice to have her man "sack up" was reason for banning. Hamstering hypergamy horseshit! Advise the guy how to become masculine and come correct with his cock and balls to the bedroom, or someone with TRP knowledge will power fuck his wife right out of his life. No DREAD anywhere to be found.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/16 06:07 PM
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Is all of this good advice reaching someone besides us? I would venture to say that the majority MRP followers, SGM readers and devotees of BJTC trend toward the style of pounding the wife in the post craves. She piques my interest and lets me know that abundance mentality in the face of relationship changes relative to my own improvements might lead me to a closet freak. One man's weakness is another's opportunity. Unless she and other repressed princesses see this. . . Trees falling and sounds…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/16 05:41 PM
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Oldest teenager in the house always needs to prove that she's still fun. Never rely on her to DD or party responsibly. Then after the fact you break frame by driving impaired the rest of the way home. You were literally the Drunk Captain during all of this. No cabs where you live? To steal one from u/[deleted]. . . That'll show her.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/16 05:41 PM
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Dogma, hypocrisy, and addiction drive the family of a girl you are not living with. Pull head from ass and thank the Lord that this holiday "gift" of insight from witnessing the GF family dysfunction gives you a clear path to NEXT.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/15 04:10 AM
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That therapist committed an intentional tort against OP's SO by implanting false memories, or she's making this shit up. http://www.fmsfonline.org/links/fmsfrecoveredmemories.html Get her educated about this fraudulent theory, and get to work on yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/12/15 07:42 PM
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I'll add another: If a man marries a feminist, both will invariably want someone outside the marriage to play the role of wife in the future.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/12/15 09:38 PM
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Sex during pregnancy is like pizza, even when it's bad, it's not inedible. The affection you could have conveyed (with a weak orgasm for you in return) is better than what you did. I recommend NoFAP while she's pregnant, to get you to "appreciate" sex with your changed wife, even if it's not ideal. You did this to yourself by deciding to procreate. Make the best of it.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/15 07:08 PM
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EDIT:Oh, and my Paisley half sleeve I got to commemorate circumnavigating the globe with the navy. I think that means the tattoo artist marked me as his bitch, so thats a hurdle I have to overcome as well. Ha! Excellent reference to a recent and ridiculous post. I just need to consume more/less Red Pill too, depending on the circumstances. To your post, your current sky-high SMV will only go up without a limp and a job. You got this.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/15 06:37 PM
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This from u/TheOakenshield, 100%. Physical abuse is not acceptable EVER. This should be a pillar of your frame. You're already at a disadvantage by raising kids in a gyno-centric pussified world. Unless it's part of foreplay, a woman will never hit me. The kids NEED you to captain them through Disney feeling-filled waters of bullshit and entitlement mentality. My rambling advice off the cuff: Do a first and final Q&A about your goals and how RP/MRP/Manosphere helps you. Show her your positive ch…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/15 06:17 PM
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That's why "you do you" needs to be an acceptable answer regarding poly or not to poly. Polys need to stop patting themselves on the back regarding "progressive" endorsement of a non-traditional choice (sounds almost like recruiting), and RP Men more akin to Rollo need to simply be cognizant of these tales of "non-judgmental enlightenment" and recognize all types are out there. Man is not designed to be monogamous, and women are prone to hypergamy. Both biological imperatives can be a source of …
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/15 06:08 PM
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Why do poly proponents always play the "insecurity" card when RP men express a preference of not wanting to share their pussy? You do you, but questioning Rollo about the convictions of his beliefs and the semantic differences between your woman fucking some other dude with your knowledge vs. Behind your back is counterproductive. Wearing the horns (victim of adultery) and a fetishist view of wanting to see your woman fuck other men just happen to use the same word.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/15 02:48 AM
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Being familiar with what to expect from the opposite sex need not be comfortable or encouraging. I believe RP has a term describing all women and their behavior patterns. Expect little and appreciate that your leadership might net you slightly more from your little lady then the uninformed. Knowledge of the nature of women and a strong frame should lessen the blow of an ungrateful bitch.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/15 05:11 PM
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Arrange a weekend getaway with lingerie packed in with the reservations and brochure of the resort/excursion with a note requiring that she wear the items during dinner and that they will be removed from her at your discretion any time that evening.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/15 04:46 PM
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I second this. In fact, as an adopted (non-genetically similar) child, my beta-Dad was visibly threatened by his wife's reactions to me as I became a scholar-athlete through my teens and into college. I treated her like a Mom and not a woman, and she gave odd reactions to things like proms and other school functions that involved the opposite sex. Once I stopped putting pussy on a pedestal, I had a better understanding of what was going on. TRP has taught me that "The Golden Rule" (Do unto other…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/15 04:37 PM
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Chris Rock, probably not a Manosphere go-to, said the following, which I think we all need to keep in mind: “Sometimes I am walking with my daughter, I’m talking to my daughter, I’m looking at her, I’m pushing her in the stroller. And sometimes I pick her up and I just stare at her and I realize my only job in life is to keep her off the pole. “Keep my baby off the pole!" Meant to elicit laughs, but substitute the CC for the pole, and it's pretty accurate.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/15 08:37 PM
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In the same boat. You and I were both "packages of potential provision" when we met our wives. Kink and frequency were the norm. Unless threatened (DREAD), she thinks she won the lottery (or entry to a stock of other successful and competitive men). Comfort and commitment stop the tingles unless we work really hard to up our SMV in the eyes of a woman with a really high baseline expectation. Other women value us higher as-is (I could plow my secretary this afternoon), but I'm on MRP like you to …
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/15 05:56 PM
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The newer editions are updated with new studies, if available. The title was changed, because the author found that mainstream government and school systems, not just the feminist movement is perpetuating the "disadvantaged female student" myth. Best quote from the book: “As our schools become more feelings centered, risk averse, competition-free, and sedentary, they move further and further from the characteristic sensibilities of boys.” Fat Beta Blues and the harpies who control them.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/15 04:57 PM
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It's not bad at all. Unfortunately, the tautology of "boys will be boys" has been given such a negative connotation over the past 40 years, that society has equated boisterous roughhousing and the desire to move about and explore the world as a sign of patriarchy and rape culture. I can't make this shit up.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/15 06:54 PM
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As a noob to the MRP Subreddit, I want to preface what I have to say with an acknowledgment that I'm still devouring and integrating the essential Sidebar, and I will not comment or interfere with anything regarding the sexual aspects of MRP (main point of the subreddit). However, I have extensive experience with the marginalization of men and in particular (and more heinous) the feminizing and demonizing of little boys in academia. As a PTO president, college professor, and attorney, I see a le…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/15 04:25 PM
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Aristotelian telos. To be judged doable by the sex constantly in a state of hypergamy, you need to constantly reassess and seek higher goals. Making more money is a constant goal, not an objective measure of value. Getting more fit is a constant goal, not an objective measure of value. Posters commenting here stating that perception by your target is the reality of your SMV are right on the money. A Michigan 8 is a California 5. Real men should improve in all aspects because they can, and accord…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/15 07:02 PM
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Solipsism at it's finest. No mind exists outside the hamster, so spin it in your direction gents if at all possible. Never mind her action of swiping right every 20 minutes, her own thoughts and feelings about this reaction are all that matter to her. This technique by the alleged asshole used to be called "playing hard to get." (I'm old). Or, he's just not interested snowflake.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/15 05:07 PM
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