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It actually started professionally with some guys I met here on r/seduction, but I'll get to that... For me, the informal start was just answering questions for friends. They'd seen me grow from a total introvert to someone who was able to walk into a bar and seemingly effortlessly (ha!) attract women I liked. They did what I said and got results. I wanted to see if it could be more than just me helping friends, so I offered a class via Skillshare. I rented a small room in a co-working space and…
/r/seduction17/02/16 09:53 PM
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Again, I can relate. I think that particular feeling comes down to how you feel her value reflects on you. So if she's dating losers, what does that say about you? Are you a loser? It's not about her, it's about how you relate and compare to other men. So the good/bad news is that this insecurity was there prior to her. Any number of things could have agitated it, it just happened to be her past in this case. I have yet to develop a surefire way to deal with it, but I have found some practices h…
/r/seduction27/01/16 06:27 PM
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I am in an open relationship so I can relate to the logical/emotional feelings gap. It's a bitch, but it has given me a lot of time to reflect on insecurities and where they come from. I've found it always roots from fear and in the case of OP, it sounds like a personal insecurity. Perhaps that you won't stack up to her past, that you'll be labelled as a guy who dates easy girl, could be a wide variety of things. Best technique I have found for uncovering the roots of these feelings is free writ…
/r/seduction26/01/16 07:45 PM
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I had a phase like this. I became super concerned with my "value" relative to others. To the point where I saw simple favors, like "Hey could you hold this for me?" as something I'd need to make a snarky reply to. I think the difficulty stems from the fact that a lot of the advice you're likely to find is half-complete. It's there to help you not get walked over, but it doesn't really address how to be kind and thoughtful. So for me, I dropped a lot of the push over behaviors, but I never replac…
/r/seduction22/12/15 02:24 AM
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If neither of you knows her, whoever has the guts to speak to her first should have the opportunity to get to know her and see where things go. If after a while he decides it isn't going well or he's not as into her as he thought, you guys can work it out and see if you might be a better match. You won't charge in there at literally the same time. Someone will take the first step and the other person will be incentivized to move faster the next time
/r/seduction07/11/15 02:24 AM
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Happy to help man! This is a topic I love to talk about, but unfortunately for me, not one many people are interested in. I've haven't written more simply because it would interest you and like 6 other guys ;-) If you think dating multiple women might interest you as more than a passing fad, I would check out "The Ethical Slut." Great book on non-traditional relationships and one that put me firmly on the anti-monogamy path
/r/seduction14/04/15 10:07 PM
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Dude, are you being serious? Will Smith is a scieftologist? Since when? The only thing a quick Google search reveals is that he denies any rumors that he is involved with them. And its not pre-arranged. I'm sure they know some of the questions they'll be asked but it is far from scripted. Why do you think they would script out a 50 minute interview that is one of hundreds to promote a movie/album/whatever?
/r/seduction14/04/15 08:37 PM
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You don't have to choose. There are a lot of arrangements other than exclusivity that work for a lot of people, myself included. Now that said, there are only 24 hours in a day, so I have personally found that seeing more than 2 or 3 with any regularity is tough. Still, you definitely have time to give these various relationships a shot since they are so early on in the process. I wrote about this a loooong time ago at length here. I have learned quite a bit since then, so this isn't 100% up to …
/r/seduction14/04/15 07:25 PM
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Appreciate the shout out :-) I'd add that by far the simplest way to immediately boost how funny you are is to speak louder. I'll never forget my one friend who would walk around repeating other people's jokes at 2x the volume (without trailing off like I used to do) and would get raucous laughter all the time.
/r/seduction01/04/15 05:56 AM
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Here you go https://s3.amazonaws.com/charismaoncommand/Captivate_kindle.pdf If you like it and want to write a review on Amazon, that would be awesome. Hope you enjoy!
/r/seduction16/11/14 04:49 AM
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Nope - yours forever for free ...but that would be a nifty mechanism ;-)
/r/seduction14/11/14 05:08 PM
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No problem - hope you find it helpful
/r/seduction14/11/14 12:07 AM
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As a heterosexual male, I enjoyed that compliment far more than I should have ;-)
/r/seduction13/11/14 08:00 PM
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So this is actually a video course that I don't have transcribed. The code will be good for the next day or two so you should be able to grab it when you get home
/r/seduction13/11/14 07:57 PM
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Made me laugh just thinking about it :-) http://hyperboleandahalf.blogspot.com/2010/04/alot-is-better-than-you-at-everything.html
/r/seduction13/11/14 07:55 PM
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Nope, you get in now and you have it forever, so no worries!
/r/seduction13/11/14 07:55 PM
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Feel free to drop any questions you have here or in the course :-)
/r/seduction13/11/14 05:57 AM
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Yeah, just to add color to the second point...it's not about butchering the grammar or saying the words in an English order. It's that when you think in English, you're more likely to think creatively rather than linearly, so the thoughts that come to you will be more engaging. Take those thoughts, translate back into French as best you can and it'll be easier to keep people hooked
/r/seduction11/11/14 11:59 PM
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I know the feeling. I dealt with this four times (two times moving to countries with different languages and then each return home). Here's what I can tell you: When you enter a new language, all of a sudden, you want to fit in. You want to not sound foreign. You want to know the right answer to every questions that is asked and express is perfectly. The problem with this is that it leaves you interacting at a very surface level. You become so concerned with not sounding like an idiot that you f…
/r/seduction11/11/14 11:43 PM
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I really wish that were the case, but my experience says otherwise. Trust me, I hate texting and I have gone the pure logistical route to keep things simple. But having done that, I find that there are plenty of things I can do to increase my odds of seeing a girl again other than just texting her when and where we are meeting. I totally concur that nothing you can text can beat what you can do in an in-person interaction. And I plan to include things like getting her excited about next encounte…
/r/seduction28/10/14 06:46 PM
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i really appreciate that! Thanks so much - I most definitely will!
/r/seduction22/10/14 06:50 PM
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Haha, sure man. What's your email?
/r/seduction22/10/14 06:49 PM
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Truth - we are getting the whole website redesigned right now and are gonna make sure that isn't an issue!
/r/seduction22/10/14 08:48 AM
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So Amazon has an exclusivity agreement. I can opt out after 90 days, at which point epub can become a reality, but until then they are the only distributor we can use :-/
/r/seduction22/10/14 08:48 AM
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Sure, whats your email?
/r/seduction22/10/14 08:38 AM
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Arg - working on it, thought I finished that but I left part of the vid undone and forgot. May not have the videos til next week, but I'll make sure you can sign up to get them when they are up
/r/seduction22/10/14 08:24 AM
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There are some great singing exercises you can do. You can get pretty deep, pretty fast, but try Youtubing "lip rolls." Those are the most basic that build coordination between your diaphragm while relaxing your throat
/r/seduction22/10/14 04:30 AM
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No but if you want a pdf, shoot an email :-)
/r/seduction22/10/14 04:28 AM
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Sure, what's your email?
/r/seduction22/10/14 03:30 AM
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Not for at least a few weeks, but that is definitely a format we want to get to eventually
/r/seduction22/10/14 03:27 AM
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What;s your email my man?
/r/seduction22/10/14 03:26 AM
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Sure, whats your email
/r/seduction22/10/14 03:26 AM
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The nightlife here is unreal. Yesterday was a monday night and the club was still packed. Plus when you're local, basically everything is free. There are so many tourists that the people who do live here really look out for one another. I've got some other cities on my list to check out, but nightlife in Vegas beats anywhere I've ever lived And which post are you talking about?
/r/seduction22/10/14 12:48 AM
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We are doing really well, looooving Las Vegas where we just moved :-) Only thing that isn't great is that Ben actually blew out his voice from going out to loud clubs and has to have surgery. I didn't because I've been doing diaphragm exercises for projecting. So learn to project without screaming if you're going out to loud places!
/r/seduction21/10/14 11:59 PM
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Shoot me a pm with your email and I'll send you a pdf
/r/seduction21/10/14 11:46 PM
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So I have a slightly more nuanced take. I think she is a solid human. I'm not trying to date her because I don't want a monogamous relationship, but I would defend her decision as an out-of-character lapse. First off, she had basically checked out of her relationship. She had caught the guy cheating multiple times and he was treating her consistently worse. Her failing was in not breaking up with him when he treated her like shit. This opened the door for her to cheat. Doesn't excuse cheating, b…
/r/seduction05/08/14 01:10 AM
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Thanks! I really appreciate that - very few things make me happier than hearing that people enjoy my writing :-)
/r/seduction04/08/14 09:40 PM
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Oh god, rereading in that frame of mind...webslinging takes on a whole new connotation
/r/seduction04/08/14 09:37 PM
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Bahaha I do Spiderman in my head. I was obsessing about webslinging so much that I'd have lucid dreams about it. Come to think of it....I need to get back to that!
/r/seduction04/08/14 07:45 PM
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None of those are fake actually. I asked friends and clients who have read the book to leave a review. They're biased since they know and like me which is why they are so praising (the book has its flaws for sure) but not bribed and I didn't tell them what to write. Honestly, would love for you to check it out and leave your genuine feedback :-)
/r/seduction29/05/14 01:53 PM
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You can use read the kindle version through amazons browser. Or pdf here: https://s3.amazonaws.com/charismaoncommand/The+Anti+pick+up+line_final1_udemy.pdf
/r/seduction29/05/14 01:49 PM
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And for those without Kindle, you can read it straight off Amazon's browser
/r/seduction29/05/14 04:28 AM
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PM me. I'll dig up a pdf and send it your way
/r/seduction28/05/14 06:42 PM
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No problemo. Hope you find it helpful :-)
/r/seduction28/05/14 05:38 PM
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I normally try to read one book at once. Everyone has different styles. The important thing is to come back to the ones that you're most impacted by. I've read certain books 5+ times. (4 hour work week, 6 pillars of self esteem) As for the inner game stuff, I have a few thoughts. One, don't repress anything. Yes, it should be fun. But if that's not how you feel, fine. The important thing is to act in the face of frustration or fear. If you can't have fun while doing it, at least respect yourself…
/r/seduction29/04/14 07:47 PM
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Yo man, I'm flattered by the thought but I don't think that's a good arrangement. We're not going to be living in Brazil, I'm coming back to the US and traveling across the country over the summer. Even beyond that, it would be impossible for me to take everyone who wanted free training into my house. One thing to think about as you continue to reach out to people, there are a lot of people out there who would love free work and apprenticeship. As you reach out to them, think about writing them …
/r/seduction23/04/14 03:16 PM
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I liked your enthusiasm and appreciated the review so I set up one free login just for you :-) Put it to good use!
/r/seduction09/04/14 09:28 PM
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Sorry man. I love your enthusiasm though. As a gift, here is a free link to the daytime course. There is a ton of good material and some live footage that should be really helpful. Obviously, not as good as a coach in person, but the next best I can do :-) https://www.udemy.com/meet-women-by-being-awesome/?couponCode=RZA If you save up down the line and want to talk coaching, just let me know
/r/seduction09/04/14 03:33 PM
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Beautiful here are the details: http://www.charismaoncommand.com/us_workshops/ If you decide to come, let me know and I'll shoot you the daytime footage we have so you can review before
/r/seduction08/04/14 04:15 AM
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I saw it - thanks for the review Zach! Currently in Brazil and have been since August. We will be coming back to the USA at the end of May and then moving out West. I am planning on being in NYC for the first weekend in June though. We were actually discussing doing a Saturday daytime course there, since the weather is likely to be nice. If you're interested, let me know and I'll send you details if we go through with it :-)
/r/seduction07/04/14 03:34 PM
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Since you're already enrolled, you can access the course forever. You just had to sign up by Monday! For everyone else, they'll stay up but just not for free. And I gotta say, thanks so much for letting me know - it means a lot. If you get a chance, please leave a review on the course as well :-) Separately, there is a course on meeting women during the daytime if you're interested. No free promo, but it's just as good: https://www.udemy.com/meet-women-by-being-awesome/#/
/r/seduction07/04/14 05:18 AM
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Much appreciated! Its funny: very few guys ask questions about winging, but it is easily one of the most important and helpful ways to improve
/r/seduction06/04/14 02:31 PM
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haha, thanks for catching that! I'll take one down
/r/seduction06/04/14 02:29 PM
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Okay man, if you don't want to watch, that's your call. No hard feelings. You can assume you have nothing to learn from me and skip it. OR Watch the course and see if there is anything helpful to YOU. Start on the in-bar section, video 11. Give it 15 minutes and then actually go out and do what it says. If I'm a fraud, you've wasted 15 minutes of your time. If I'm not, it could change your life.
/r/seduction06/04/14 12:33 AM
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It is. Thanks man :-)
/r/seduction05/04/14 05:04 AM
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Totally down for that. Not quite sure how though haha. Playing around with Screenflow, it looks like there is an option to "Mix Input to Mono." Does that sound like it would fix it?
/r/seduction05/04/14 02:14 AM
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Weird. Here are the links in case this is happening to others as well Eye Contact: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BwVrWaiqsYQ Gesticulation: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ACIZKkvhEYQ Tonality: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yia923Eg8Xs
/r/seduction04/04/14 10:16 PM
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Glad you found them helpful. If people like these I'll shoot some more :-)
/r/seduction04/04/14 06:17 PM
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Haha, but the question is "Why Phoenix?" What do you like about Phoenix? Did you stay for your family? The laid back lifestyle? What is it that kept you there?
/r/seduction10/01/14 07:09 PM
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Statements, not questions is huge, and extremely helpful. The reworks of common questions here are much better. I dig it Unfortunately, most people you'll interact have not worked so hard on their conversational skills. You're going to receive the stale seven. That is why we need to learn to answer better questions than the ones other people ask (i.e. answering "Why do you do what you do?" as opposed to "What do you do? "). It is just as important as making statements and not questions. Either w…
/r/seduction10/01/14 05:17 PM
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Sure man. Site is www.kickassacademy.com
/r/seduction07/01/14 06:40 AM
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Think you took the wrong lesson man. The moral is not "don't get seen flirting with 2 girls" the moral is "don't lie about it cause it's totally normal." You can run around bars getting numbers all night. You can make out in front of girls and then make out with others who saw. If you're not in a monogamous relationship this is totally cool. Issue is that you lied. You acted like you did something wrong. If you'd walked up and resumed conversation as normal it would have been fine. If she questi…
/r/seduction12/12/13 12:00 AM
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Yes, and I am going to write a detailed post on this. Here are the crib notes... You don't start with confidence and then go get girls. You feel scared as hell, feel like you'll take any excuse not to talk to the pretty girl at the bar or in the street, feel your heart race and your brain scream. And then you go talk to her anyway. That is called courage. Forget confidence, aim for courage. Confidence comes later. So set up specific ways to push your comfort zone WITH GIRLS. The gym is great, bu…
/r/seduction11/12/13 09:47 PM
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Bah sorry to hear that. But the moral of the post is that the best thing you can do, now and forever, is go out and meet new girls so you don't feel that scarcity. So get out there and mix it up - day time is awesome!
/r/seduction11/12/13 09:08 PM
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I got the same feeling and fear you may be right
/r/seduction11/12/13 01:52 PM
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I coach so I gave him my own videos and resources. I think seddit has a supportive learners community, but because of reddit's algorithm it prizes new content over evergreen. It can be overwhelming for beginner and lead to more consumption of content than action. I try to give pieces of actionable advice and let them do something about it before overloading with more information.
/r/seduction11/12/13 01:49 PM
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Yeah, it's funny, no matter what guys claim the issue is, it almost always goes back to a philosophy of scarcity
/r/seduction11/12/13 04:50 AM
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Glad to be of service :-)
/r/seduction09/12/13 07:29 PM
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I'd move away from routine stacks and focus more on building habits. The difference is this: a routine stack is static. You come in knowing what you're going to say. The conversation becomes a decision tree (if she says this, then I say this, bla bla bla) I'd avoid that. But conversations DO take familiar turns, and it'd be silly to deny that we spend a huge chunk of our lives living out habits. If I extend my hand to introduce myself, you extend yours back without thinking. So basically you wan…
/r/seduction08/12/13 03:48 PM
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Brazil is awesome! Seriously better than I had even hoped. Insanely warm people, awesome food, beautiful weather. On average girls in Rio are about as cute as girls in NYC BUT the best looking ones are drop dead gorgeous. The style of interaction between men and women is waaaaay more direct. None of this win the friends stuff - girls take that as a sign you aren't interested. Plus you can push too hard very easily down there. Til the end of the month we're back in the US to reset our visas, doin…
/r/seduction15/11/13 04:34 PM
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Haha, thanks man. I'm happy that the anti-being a dick thing comes across loud and clear :-)
/r/seduction15/11/13 01:00 AM
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Here here :-)
/r/seduction21/10/13 06:11 PM
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I think the big thing, which you seem to have picked up on, is that the kiss is a natural escalation of physicality between you two. If you're wondering whether or not its there or not, the answer lies in her receptiveness to other kinds of touching (hugging, touching her arm to make a point, holding her hand as you walk through a bar, etc)
/r/seduction26/08/13 11:36 AM
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HAHA that genuinely made me burst out loud laughing
/r/seduction20/08/13 02:46 AM
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Apologies guys. My WP host, Pagely, is dealing with server issues. No word back, but I'm trying to get things fixed
/r/seduction08/08/13 10:06 PM
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Thanks for the heads up. Not sure what happened. It should be back up now
/r/seduction08/08/13 03:58 PM
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Thanks my man :-) Excited to hear how your day time adventures go!
/r/seduction08/08/13 02:58 PM
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No. If you enroll today, you keep it forever
/r/seduction08/08/13 02:58 PM
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Nope. You can go through it at your own leisure as long as you are enrolled
/r/seduction07/08/13 10:39 PM
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Nope. Link includes the code. Just gave it in case anyone has issues
/r/seduction07/08/13 09:30 PM
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Good feedback. Didnt even consider that. We screwed the video/audio up so many times for this. Next videos will be better for it though :-)
/r/seduction07/08/13 09:10 PM
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I fly on Sunday. I'll still be around here though
/r/seduction07/08/13 09:10 PM
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Good eye - much appreciated! I'll be filling out the rest of the descriptions pronto. Hope you enjoy the course :-)
/r/seduction07/08/13 07:45 PM
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Three thoughts . . . 1) 5 for 40 in actually seeing someone is low. You are either not having really great interactions which make them want to come see you or you are having trouble setting up the day 2. My bet is the former. Total stab in the dark, but I'm guessing you're not getting her attracted enough which is largely a function of your energy. Smile big, gesticulate, touch, and speak loudly. 2) 0 for 5 in girls you met during the day is low (assuming you like them). These are girls you pre…
/r/seduction02/07/13 05:17 AM
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Gracias my man. It's crazy how often we deal with veiled fear with clients. And it's made me even more aware of the ways I STILL am shrinking from fear in certain aspects of life and interactions with girls. I don't know that you ever win completely, but it's totally a battle worth fighting
/r/seduction21/05/13 05:59 PM
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Dude, you've been convinced and you're going to this right???? Cause I'd prefer not to reiterate all the fine reasons why, but you really fucking should.
/r/seduction15/05/13 03:49 PM
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I think you've got a good point. Out last night I saw there were moments that others guys might have considered shit tests. Like this girl was pretending that she was going to walk off if I spoke to other girls or didn't give her my undivided attention. I laughed and told her she was being weird and that she was obviously free to walk wherever she wanted. She stopped the fake walk-offs after that. So I would make 2 addendums . . . 1) Shit tests will still come, but I actually think not viewing t…
/r/seduction15/05/13 03:45 PM
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You've either not found what something you're passionate about or you have and you're too afraid to admit it (I was). There are a few steps to take in either case . . . Try both and see what works for you. If you haven't found what you're passionate about . . . you have keep looking! Sounds trite, but it's true. Some pointers. Don't filter experiences based on what you think you'll like. You have no idea. I thought I would hate dancing. I love salsa. I thought I would hate Asia. I may be moving …
/r/seduction14/05/13 11:53 PM
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I'm glad my writing has helped man! That's why I put it out there into the world. LOTS to do and much more to come for sure
/r/seduction05/05/13 04:26 PM
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Dude, fantastic question. I didn't straight up quit my job. I was prepared to. I walked into my boss's office in late November and (in a super How to Win Friends and Influence People way) told him that come February 1, I was going to be in NYC. He could fire me or keep me on remotely. But I would not be coming into the office. My future projections ALL involved getting fired. I still have the Google Doc with the name of every soul I knew in NYC and how I was going to reach out to them to find wo…
/r/seduction04/05/13 02:04 AM
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That's awesome man. There is totally space to motivated to hit the goals you haven't yet reached as well as to be proud of the past goals you're already living :-)
/r/seduction03/05/13 11:30 PM
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Teaching pickup and promoting. They go together super nicely :-)
/r/seduction25/04/13 04:36 PM
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Unless you believe in prescriptive grammer, it is ;-) http://www.merriam-webster.com/thesaurus/impactful
/r/seduction24/04/13 09:35 PM
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YES! (sorry whenever anyone asks for a book reco, I get stoked) This article is very heavily based on what I took from "Awaken the Giant Within" by Tony Robbins. I thought the guy was a total joke before I read the book. Fire walks and other cultish nonsense turned me off. I begrudgingly read ATGW and did a total 180. The dude is awesome. The best I have ever seen at helping people change. I've since devoured audio tapes and vids but ATGW will give you a good overview of his stuff.
/r/seduction24/04/13 05:58 PM
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Just wikipedia-ed it. Sounds like it is in the same ballpark as NLP / Tony Robbins-esque training which is what spurred the idea. As a man thinketh . . .
/r/seduction23/04/13 10:46 PM
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