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RELATIONSHIPSClass_Punk/r/RedPillWomen09/02/17 10:24 AM
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MetaClass_Punk/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 04:34 PM
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THEORYClass_Punk/r/RedPillWomen05/02/17 04:37 PM
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Question for WomenClass_Punk/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/16 02:37 PM
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DiscussionClass_Punk/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 02:52 PM
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THEORYClass_Punk/r/RedPillWomen22/12/16 02:42 PM
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DiscussionClass_Punk/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/17 04:56 PM
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Question for MenClass_Punk/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 02:38 PM
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DISCUSSIONClass_Punk/r/RedPillWomen10/12/16 02:22 PM
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DiscussionClass_Punk/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/17 03:36 PM
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Off TopicClass_Punk/r/TheRedPill24/01/17 05:58 PM
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Question for AllClass_Punk/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 07:26 AM
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MetaClass_Punk/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 05:41 PM
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Class_Punk/r/askTRP18/01/17 04:10 PM
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OFF TOPICClass_Punk/r/RedPillWomen24/01/17 04:42 PM
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First comes first, attractiveness is primary a genetical thing. I would argue female attraction primarily comes as a result of dominant extroversion. Bad boys and thugs who stereotypically have a lot of sex are dominant extroverts, but they often make sacrifices in other forms of intellect to do this. Quiet men easily become sexually invisible, not in the sense of women not being attracted to them, but because initial female attraction is less extreme than initial male attraction, and males are …
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 02:38 PM
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Some weak people downvoting me in here that can't handle the idea of freedom of speech.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 01:33 PM
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I just got banned from another subreddit. I have only ever deleted one comment on my youtube channel, which was someone doxxing the wife of a man who hung himself (although I find her detestable). So I consider being banned an achievement that suggests I'm more committed to free speech, and the intelligence it inevitably brings with an upvote system, than any of these so called moderators on most of reddit. As millennials age and the new less politically-correct generations come in that's when t…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 04:38 PM
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After the collective trauma of 9/11, acupuncture and massage were more popular forms of therapy than talk therapy. Trauma gets stored in the body, in things like muscle tension and the way you move. So being aware of that and changing it can help, along with touching more and being more open to touch, and possibly heat can help as well. Right now I have a theory bouncing around in my head that approach/dating/relationship anxiety is the result of trauma, trauma has to be healed on the level of t…
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/17 12:10 PM
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Its here: https://www.youtube.com/c/ClassPunk I've been making MGTOW videos since before it exploded on youtube back in 2014, though I made the mistake of deleting my earliest videos. It is true at present that MRAs or MGTOW seem to see the benefits of self-improvement much less than what TRP or PUA does. But I can't help but wondering if there will be less division as generations of people age and these movements change.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 12:02 PM
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I am done writing topics here about any kind of self-improvement because I probably get a bigger, less negative audience on youtube, but I was never a PUA; I mostly lurk and post here because my vision is for PUA, MRA, and MGTOW-- the entire men's movement, to combine under the banner of something like male-centric self-improvement, moreso than what it has worked together against feminism. I would say anti-gynocentric instead of male-centric, but the reality is female-centricism is biologically …
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 03:27 PM
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I've been binge watching documentaries, trying to finish reading a longer book, doing research, and getting into a little bit of gardening. I'm starting to think America is heading towards a melt-up where stocks will get really high and then plummet into a huge market crash caused by fiat money, debt, and low interest rates. I've been wondering if I should invest now and make some money off the melt up which is risky because there are so many factors and I have no idea when the crash is coming, …
/r/TheRedPill26/04/17 12:11 PM
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contributing had become less helpful, more hindering there's truth telling and then there's being an asshole. You once deleted an anti-feminist comedic post I made. So just keep a difference between this two things or else this subreddit will begin declining and everyone will be singing this.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/17 12:00 PM
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The year is 3037, genetically altered against my will, I am a shifter. Capable of embedding my consciousness into multiple machines and slowly feeding their collected data back into my pre-frontal cortex, I am able to work multiple jobs in order to push my goals forward in EuroChina. Neither of these situations applies to me as cybernetics allows me to mitigate the desire for all forms of relationships as I navigate the probabilities involved in successful multiplanetary revolutions. Sorry, I wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 08:47 AM
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Don't eat turtles.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 08:41 AM
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I've never wanted kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 03:22 PM
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I'm not sure if gaslighting is exclusive to narcissists. But what I do know is that gaslighting will fuck you up bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 03:13 PM
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Wen she say "Ayyyyyy ima femist" shorty no thnks i got my own paper 2 wrry bout aint nbdy got time 4 that wen she go full casper aint nobody got time 4 that wen bitch b gaslitin awww helll no bitch u crazy get 3 blocks and a planet away from me n mine http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ghVSZNYPXtw
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 02:54 PM
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What's the deal with airplane food?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 02:51 PM
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Yes, 2 actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 02:49 PM
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I've been burned and rejected so many times over so many years that I don't have it in me to ask random women out. I also don't want kids and most women do. On the chance I like someone I always immediately see the worst case scenarios.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 01:38 PM
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I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 01:30 PM
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All of Rollo's books are just collections of his free-to-read blog entries, but I'm not talking about Rollo Tomassi, I'm talking about Rollo Tobasco.. The Rational Chef.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 12:50 PM
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I'm almost 29.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 03:00 PM
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You're good at seeing through double-standards. I enjoy your trollery. May much chocolate come to you, may you find yourself with a delicious chocolate milk in your hand and the sunset at your back. https://s3-eu-west-1.amazonaws.com/sales-i-wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/20170219/happy1.jpg
/r/TheRedPill23/04/17 02:31 PM
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Debbie eventually discovered that Bill had been looking at porn on the family computer If that's the case then this happened in the early to mid 2000's and he was probably working with dial-up.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/17 02:18 PM
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I'm a virgin and in the 80% but I don't think its pointless to exist. For instance right now I've got chocolate milk and taco bell breakfast.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 12:55 PM
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Rolo. The round little chocolates with the caramel inside.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 12:54 PM
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Lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 12:53 PM
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The same way MGTOW is still obsessed with women. What counts as being obsessed with women? Because with the average MGTOW compared to the average man, I'd say they aren't. Look harder at the average straight man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/17 03:32 PM
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incel nonsense Explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/17 03:31 PM
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-- Audioslave
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/17 03:18 PM
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I guess I truly am a pioneer then.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/17 02:37 PM
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Will you be using both to preserve your dick when you are an old man? (Honest question, no homo.)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/17 02:14 PM
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So you are more of a Gordon Ramsey guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/17 02:13 PM
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I'm not talking about The Rational Male, I'm talking about The Rational Chef.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/17 02:13 PM
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Do you have any criticism of his actual ideas? And you never answered the question about the chocolate..?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/17 02:12 PM
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Are you a man, a woman, or a cat?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 01:46 PM
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So vinegar is not your thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 10:48 AM
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Why do you say this? And how do you feel about Rolo?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 10:47 AM
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I did. Are you one of those people that like your food bland?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 10:10 AM
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I've been bouncing back and forth between red pill and purple pill for years and I continue to. The problem with acknowledging a balance of contradictory evidence for something so close to human beings, is that it makes you contradictory towards yourself, you are constantly in a debate with yourself, which takes a heavy toll on your sanity. So I suppose it did change my view that I should focus on what can actually be changed for my own wellbeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 07:18 AM
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If you have diarrhea you won't be able to sculpt it into anything.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/17 01:36 PM
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I do think that the tides are slowly turning, I'm in a large local group on facebook and regularly see people with their real names and faces making fun of feminists. I used to be afraid of speaking out against these thousands of idiots because they have went out of their way to destroy people's lives. Now I regularly reference the White Feather Campaign and the story of Erin Pizzey.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/17 07:54 AM
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Thanks I will check it out.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/17 05:59 AM
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There are a lot of books that and writing that have knowledge or good pieces of advice but don't directly prescribe it like many posts on TRP. I didn't take the popular route of being overtly prescriptive, saying "do this and do that" with headers or bullet points, but my suggestions for self-improvement are all there. You'll be more limited in the finding beneficial knowledge if you aren't as able to find what's hidden in the average writing, which goes along with what they teach in all these d…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/17 05:59 AM
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Once you start referencing the greeks it can all go downhill from there.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 03:22 PM
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Isn't an excess of Zinc poisonous? I would only take that stuff temporarily before going to sleep if I was really sick. I'm pretty sure it used to be in Fixadent and it put a guy in a wheelchair from nerve damage. I couldn't do keto long term, but I think higher amounts of healthy fat without totally scrapping carbs, as they are needed to provide energy for intense workouts, is the most optimal way to bulk up.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 02:02 PM
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Because they play the violin too well. =P
/r/TheRedPill15/04/17 02:51 PM
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I've come to the conclusion that as good as practicing scales, techniques, and chords for the instruments that have chords can be for mastering some aspect of music, learning songs by ear or sheet music depending on the individual, playing over songs, or making songs, and the emotion that comes with those things and the individual, emotional choice in those things is what keeps people practicing. Its really easy to get frustrated if you're focused on something beyond your skill level, and people…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/17 03:07 PM
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I've seen it work once, or it at least appeared to, from my limited view. They were very Catholic, they had a lot of kids, the man could cook and helped a lot with the kids, and the woman had a good paying job. It was probably over a decade ago I first met them, since I was friends with their kids when I was in school, and they are still married. I saw another couple who has the dynamic, though their relationship isn't as healthy. But the pattern I've seen in both couples is lot of kids (like 3 …
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/17 01:51 PM
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If I could give you samadhi easily I would. =P
/r/TheRedPill14/04/17 01:39 PM
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No condescending tone; all the advice sounds like something a father would say to a son "Alexander, ya dun goofed." - Aristotle
/r/TheRedPill12/04/17 10:53 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i3TayaMTq_8
/r/TheRedPill11/04/17 03:53 PM
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I believe women want a man that other women want. But this has more to do with his social demeanor and social ability than it does with whether or not he sleeps with the other women. Its the traits that seem to often come along with virginity, like lack of confidence, lack of sexual dominance, lack of overall social ability, and lack of extroversion which reduce a man's SMV to women. The people most likely to commit are virgins, both men and women want that in the context of an LTR, thus virgini…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/17 04:40 AM
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Why People Shame Virgins TL;DW: Virginity is a trait which causes higher sexual market value in both men and women, and the people shaming it feel a loss of personal value in the sex they've already had.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 04:01 PM
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The whole human race could easily end given the right circumstances. That's why we need to build a giant robot fist to punch the sun before it explodes.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 04:58 PM
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I think that an exceptional life comes more from holism than specialization, not achieving popular ideas of success, but moments of meaning from endless, logically-driven failures. When you focus too much on certain dreams, you suppress the number of dreams you actually have, and get into a battle with your emotions instead of working with them. Your emotions don't care about only doing what seems realistic right now, or only doing what society wants, they are insane.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 03:47 PM
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I'm pro childfree, and where I live its surrounded by single mothers and women who come across as more masculine, but I'm too comfortable here to move. So in the same vein, if you think if the location is making it harder to date, you have to make a choice about how important it is to you to be in a relationship and whether to uproot your life to raise your chances of finding someone or not. On top of moving towards conservative-leaning places, moving towards places with a higher ratio of men to…
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/17 02:35 PM
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I got a decent mic and my dream guitar, a black BC Rich Warlock, in the mail today. I'm also waiting on some better violin strings. Excited to start making music again, this is my therapy.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 01:54 PM
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What in your opinion is the best way to pass a shit test from a man? A situation where a guy is challenging your authority where you are paid to be an authority figure.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 03:38 PM
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Maybe if you keep talking about it you can have a breakthrough. Hope it helps. =)
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/17 03:34 PM
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I hate the term beta, but if sex toys/robots for men were more prevalent, I honestly think any man no matter how "beta" they seem, would eventually get much more dominant with a sex robot they owned than they would with actual women. And this is because of societal conditioning. Men have object-leaning focus while women have people-leaning focus. So on an animal, instinctual level, men sexually objectify women as a way of loving them as much as they love objects in general, and on an animal, ins…
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/17 08:27 AM
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warrent God damn that spelling drives me nuts.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 01:58 PM
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This isn't MGTOW, its all over the place. People are making money through patreon, and using minds.com and vid.me to back up their videos. Youtube is Heading Towards Suicide
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 01:45 PM
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He didn't use a noun as an insult towards Rollo or Chappelle so I wouldn't call it ad hominem. I would say its closer to a No True Scotsman logical fallacy. But as you said, Chappelle can be married and his anti-marriage stance is still credible.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/17 01:14 PM
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I generally feel the same. I have had some women subtlety throwing themselves at me who I could have just plated, but I don't care about casual sex or dealing with shit tests and I've stayed a virgin instead. I simply don't give a damn, my ultimate goal in life isn't believing in some kind of romantic love that evidence suggests doesn't exist in women, my ultimate goal in life is to be legendary.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/17 02:14 PM
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I don't know if I would necessarily call it spiritual, but I love the English copy of The Ribhu Gita (its on youtube in audio form for free). The most popular book on /r/meditation though is The Mind Illuminated.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/17 02:08 PM
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Here is the guy she was looking for all her life.
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/17 03:23 PM
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Its actually too complicated. Anecdotally and socially, women seem more emotional than men. But men take more risks because of testosterone, so they get more success because of that, but they also get hurt and die more because of that. Men tend to cope through doing, while women through talking, so male or female emotion tends to come out more through the gender-matching coping mechanism. When you take into account the emotion in silent male actions, for instance a guy who is drinking himself to…
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/17 12:35 PM
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AutoModerator is misspelling warrant. Well I believe in enlightenment. And right now I think all possible insanity that comes on the path to enlightenment is a result of thought and belief; I use the word belief on top of thought, because in the vein of the word "samskara" which means impression, belief is a synonymn for an impressed thought or impression of thought, whereas thought is a present thing-- in this case, when talking about thought, I'm talking about linguistic thought, words, and in…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 05:48 PM
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Should i text him? or will this make me appear needy? You have to risk appearing needy if you are trying to get a solid relationship. I cant tell if he wants to date or just be FWB You could ask him through text. The hardest rejections come from people you don't know enough to see it coming, and you know people the least the more avoidant you make yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/17 05:35 PM
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Its given men self-esteem and in some cases, saved some men's lives. Its improved my self-esteem and life dramatically. But I'm not talking about the non-stop insults towards women that it now gets associated with, I'm talking about the deeper conversations about science, the human condition, and the freedom that comes with seeing masculinity as being heavily female-centric, and from that understanding, redefining masculinity or what it means to be male for oneself, as an individual, with the on…
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/17 05:13 PM
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Thanks! Definitely wish I would have shelled out more cash than what I did because I wanted to get a black instrument. I've a lot learned techniques for getting the best sound, but I'm hoping I can get a much better sound once I replace the strings.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 04:59 PM
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Got my teeth fixed which I had a shit ton of anxiety about doing. Trained someone at work so now I have days off again. I bought a violin and have been practicing excessively; eventually I'll get better strings and maybe a wider bridge piece, which should last me until years from now, when I'm ready to shell out big money for something made out of maple with an attachable mic pick-up. I'm going to start practicing guitar again too. I got a cyberpunk song I started (a combination of Dreamwave/Syn…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/17 02:22 PM
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No. MGTOW aren't highly respected by RP men Its unfortunate. =P
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/17 01:35 PM
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Being involved in MGTOW for years, I'm not sure. There is this idea both in MGTOW and red pill PUA that women can never love you, which goes along with the idea of the male burden of performance, and the idea that female love is more opportunistic-- which correlates with more women initiating divorce and women taking longer to fall in love and falling out of love more easily. And I've seen a lot of evidence of women not liking men showing too much weakness or negative emotion including leaving o…
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/17 03:06 PM
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What you wrote: I'm curious - why did he peg you What I read: I'm curious - why did you peg him Reading blue pill subreddits made me read like this.
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/17 03:50 PM
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Beautiful women can be openly emotionally unstable to the point where even if a man is stoic and isn't showing the full extent of how negative he feels from her behavior, she's making him regularly on edge and even more drained from having to deal with it. I think especially when a woman is attractive to a man, and she's unhappy around him, it can subconsciously make him feel worse than most other people being unhappy around him, as though his subconscious, without his permission, is framing the…
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/17 04:49 PM
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I'd say a true adult rarely complains. Some older women reach that level of stoicism, most don't.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 03:27 PM
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There needs to be less men trying to out-alpha each other and more men trying to out-individual each other, you can't endorse that because no one person can see all of the future.
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/17 03:18 PM
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I don't want to spend too much so I can potentially afford the violin. I'm thinking of going for a Fender squire stratocaster. Just something I can plug into my computer and use with FL Studio. Here's the last song I did with guitar (think Indie video game music): https://soundcloud.com/class-punk/symbiosis-ost-runaway-duck
/r/TheRedPill04/03/17 03:29 PM
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I'm happy, that I got in a full body workout yesterday, also working a lot of overtime and thinking of getting a guitar, and if possible on top of that, maybe a cheaper violin. My goal is to advance as far as possible in meditation. I've been reading a little bit of The Ribhu Gita everyday and I've come to some new conclusions; there are two forms of oneness, oneness that is not pure-consciousness has a sense of separate self in it, and thus varying degrees of fear, whereas oneness without a sep…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/17 03:54 PM
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(ಥ﹏ಥ) Where do you come up with all these faces?
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/17 03:35 PM
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He's the retarded half-son of Zeus, but he didn't invent the ballcap, he merely was the first to flip it a hundred and eighty degrees.
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/17 02:42 PM
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It's like a peeping into a wormhole of the way a man thinks TRP has 190,000+ subscribers. The world has over a billion (1,000,000,000+) of men. Its mainly a wormhole into modern pick-up art, not necessarily a perfect mental wormhole into the majority of men.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/17 04:32 PM
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I want to see a dating site that only allows vlogs instead of pictures, and see statistics around it, to see if women are more attracted to vocal sound than men. I think women tend to talk more than men on average, and men and women project their gendered brain structure onto each other causing miscommunication, and I think being a quiet guy would get you farther if you were gay than what it would get you with women; so it would make sense that vocal sound would correlate with a higher level of …
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 03:28 PM
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Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/17 08:56 AM
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The movie "Taken" was actually based after the true story of Mr. Rodgers.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 03:34 PM
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But anyway, the point of this post is that anti-depressants are typically a red-flag. You wrote this post like the average woman who identifies as a feminist is not a red flag, since it tends to have nothing to do with equality, and more to do with seeing all men as both subhuman oppressors and "morally"-justified slaves. =P I would more likely date a non-feminist on anti-depressants than I would a feminist who is not on any psychological medication. I think the more logical thing to say is that…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 03:27 PM
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Its pretty low for Vitamin D recommendations, and there are women who have claimed Vitamin D raised their libido, which makes sense as it raises testosterone (to a small degree). It was just a suggestion, I left a disclaimer, and everyone can do their own research.
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/17 02:40 PM
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I haven't seen any signs of hypercalcemia (Vitamin D overdose), and keep in mind I almost never get sunlight. I'm pretty confident I have h. pylori. I can't afford to cure it. I hold it off with probiotics.
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/17 02:34 PM
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At first I read your nickname as "vaginator". I feel that you chose the wrong nickname.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/17 04:04 PM
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As a disclaimer, I am not a doctor. But if you want try 6,000 IU's of Vitamin D3, just not every day. I'm a guy but I take 10,000 almost every day with nothing bad happening to me other than it hurting my stomach ulcers, so I can continue my weird, experimental lifestyle outside of sunlight.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/17 03:54 PM
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Success: I'm feeling swole and sore today. I will only do full body workouts, even if I only have the energy to do something very simple. I did a more complex full body workout yesterday, hitting every muscle group. From now on, I'm switching out dumbell squats with dumbell deadlifts so I'll start hitting my lower back regularly. I only use dumbbell exercises and body weight exercises, I keep the dumbbells at a weight where I can just barely curl, and use them for every exercise so I never have …
/r/TheRedPill26/02/17 03:38 PM
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I think guys should do it, unless they're drowning in sex and absolutely never masturbate. I don't use my hand at all. I've got more sleeves than what I even use, so I won't buy anything until something comes on the market that's good and is either piston-powered or simulates pelvic floor/vaginal muscles, which are both pieces of the puzzle in the future of sexbots. Amazon is a cheaper place to get lube than sex toy websites, and it has to be water-based, the one I think is best is Shibari. The …
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 02:54 PM
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You have any kind of sexual trauma or negative memories pertaining to sex or women in your past? People's sex drives can shut down because of trauma, and people do all sorts of crazy shit because of trauma. Everything in your post to me is screaming some kind of traumatic memory. The only other possibility is that you did serious damage to your sensitivity from masturbating by using a deathgrip, in which case I recommend getting a fleshlight or going to toydemon for cheaper stuff, getting lube, …
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 11:01 AM
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You can't be a goblin living in an ass and worship pussy. If you truly worshiped pussy, in a world where you had the choice, you would live in a pussy rather than an ass, thus making you a pussy goblin.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 10:58 AM
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There was a bestselling book in Japan that was translated to English and become a bestseller in America by a Japanese woman that organizes people's houses for a living. One of the things she says in it that I found extremely helpful for sorting junk and things I want to sell from things that are useful or that I want to keep, is "Keep the things that bring you joy." That's not necessarily a replacement for therapy, but its a helpful quote.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/17 07:24 AM
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Yeah you can call it a series of character traits to paraphrase Rollo Tabasco, but then when you have women saying its totally static in men that comes across as something as concrete as race, so the bouncing back and forth between most men are dateable and most men are undateable is like watching a game of intellectual ping pong. =P
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/17 02:55 PM
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I think corrupt means usually have corrupt ends. But I'm also for the legalization of prostitution because I think, like drugs, its safer if its legalized and regulated; and more can potentially be done to prevent abuse, manipulation, and human trafficking that way. There aren't enough alphas to go around I'm still trying to figure out a collective definition for what an alpha male is. A guy who doesn't ever show vulnerability (which to me is either an ultimately damaging fake personality to get…
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/17 08:15 AM
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I'd wager that most of these women are miserable though, its what happens when you have a too unrealistic view of reality. As far as the big picture goes with what one might consider negative human behavior, one way or another on that scale, the universe seems to balance itself out. Putting on makeup that makes you more attractive and getting tons of likes and comments from strangers: doesn't open a non-fiction book and put the knowledge in your head, change what you're eating and give you a hea…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/17 04:19 PM
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Then many MGTOWs try to convince you that its bad if you do on dates sometimes you should rather get a hooker Hey man, these same guys can't done anything to you if you go on dates and still use the label man. Use the label or don't use the label dude, its like a free label, like space or air, man. Listen to this for free and tell me what you think man, its copyroted but its free to listen to man.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/17 03:32 PM
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I didn't realize you were the same person as the person I quoted, so I'm probably just losing my mind.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/17 02:07 PM
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I'm not sure how you got that out of my post, I'm talking about women who demand much more than that.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/17 03:49 PM
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it drove me crazy to read online profiles of men who lived with their parents or worked part time jobs at the movie theater or were just students at 31. This is off-topic but I want to offer a male perspective on this. I think that mentally ill men seem preoccupied with achieving status that breaks them out of their mental illness, and more mentally healthy men are more preoccupied with achieving what's normally considered status; but they can still have lower status if they are following their …
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/17 10:45 AM
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Tell me your secrets Salarian.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/17 10:05 AM
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There might be a lot of guys that you are overlooking because you're immediately judging them based on the standards of other women your age, which many of these women are looking for the wrong men for long term relationships because they see casual sex as equal to committed, emotionally vulnerable sex. You can't negotiate attraction, but if there is attraction but you're unsure because he's quiet, or he's too socially awkward, or he's too romantic in the sense of doing things for you to make yo…
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/17 10:32 AM
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You need to get all the data you have, including this and stuff on female weight and male attraction, into a post, so I can archive it and download some of it to my brain. =P
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/17 09:58 AM
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I love this man's username.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 04:56 PM
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I don't like the whole alpha and beta thing because human beings aren't pack animals. And even though men and women have the potential for dualistic sexual strategy and many of them pursue dualistic strategy rather than just arguably not doing that by attempting to get lifetime monogamy, I think its best to look at positive/negative traits rather than positive/negative alpha/beta traits. And I think attractiveness and unattractiveness in men when it comes to how they act, is largely the result o…
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/17 04:43 PM
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Thank you. I'm not saying lose control of your emotions, just have an emotionally-charged positive inner voice that leads them, and leads you, into action. Leading the storm of your emotions towards your missions and passions.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/17 02:24 PM
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I think the way stoicism is perceived is overrated. TOO MUCH STOICISM IS BAD FOR YOU. Men kill themselves from suppressing their emotions. People who are successful in some way ARE EMOTIONAL. Their emotion is a flood moving in the direction of their success. This idea of constantly suppressing your emotion and your memories isn't holistic, and the greatest access to knowledge requires openness because knowledge hides everywhere, so excessive stoicism won't maximize personal growth. I've been wat…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/17 05:38 PM
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I also believe that no man is rightfully a leader in every situation. Yep. Most of humanity's past is in hunter-gatherer tribes where leadership was more skill-based than dominate male-based.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/17 02:32 PM
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Oh I believe you. I've heard of women falling out of love with their boyfriends when they go off of birth control. I wouldn't want a woman taking it if I was dating her.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/17 02:11 PM
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And the fact that men are deeply influenced by how we feel and act. Yep. The high post-divorce suicide rate for men, along with the idea that men who are in love value themselves by how happy they make their SO, also suggests this as an evolutionary thing.
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/17 04:08 PM
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I see.
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/17 04:06 PM
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liking the strange! I think if this is a metaphor I'm too young to understand it.
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/17 02:34 PM
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I have to disagree with the idea that feminine men can't get laid. I agree with the narrative here that social skills and charisma (and the social proof that comes with it) will get men the most amount of sex. There is this guy I've seen who is skinny with no extra muscle, he plays a lot of video games and watches non-educational media, doesn't seem to have any other hobbies or any kind of self-improving hobbies (not that video games can't develop cognitive skills), and just in general, he doesn…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 11:03 AM
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http://www.news.com.au/lifestyle/relationships/dating/chinas-newly-rich-women-deemed-leftovers-at-28/news-story/51fe8d46e6e6ed5085456085247909a6
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/17 10:46 AM
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The route of ALL BAD THINGS is trauma. ..the source of MOST MENTAL ILLNESS https://yourlogicalfallacyis.com/strawman I don't have time for this kind of stupidity, have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/17 02:25 PM
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Now look at how that lines up with your statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/17 06:24 AM
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The route of all bad things is trauma. Not sure where I said that but have fun playing with the straw.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/17 06:28 PM
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Bargaining for desire.
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/17 10:58 AM
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90% of ED related problems are stopped by the guy cutting out porn/masturbation. Not completely true because of circumcision. Aging and the hardening of the glans in circumcised men contributes to less sexual function. You can use tugging, "Manhood", lotion, and some people have said they use condoms all to offer some amount of restoration. Otherwise, sexual mutilation for men means less and less ability to feel anything as they get older. In my experience the difference even with partial restor…
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/17 10:10 AM
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I pulled what's probably the most relevant information. I've come to the conclusion that trauma is the source of most mental illness and that trauma-based therapy will be the future of therapy. We can freeze over and over again in response to extremely traumatic memories, this is also where most anxiety seems to come from, including approach anxiety. ..when someone is freezing up as a result of criticism or an argument, they are totally disempowered. The healthiest relationships appear as though…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/17 07:36 AM
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Thanks. You could also buy Sue Johnson's book Hold Me Tight and try the exercises in that. If you were also interested in individual trauma therapy since EFT is for couples, EMDR therapy has shown success for healing trauma, but there is also somatic therapy and you could look up mindfulness meditation. Even if people have an overall happy relationship, I think EFT is powerful enough to potentially strengthen it.
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/17 07:34 AM
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I pulled what's probably the most relevant information. I've come to the conclusion that trauma is the source of most mental illness and that trauma-based therapy will be the future of therapy. We can freeze over and over again in response to extremely traumatic memories, this is also where most anxiety seems to come from, including approach anxiety. ..when someone is freezing up as a result of criticism or an argument, they are totally disempowered. The healthiest relationships appear as though…
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/17 04:24 PM
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No problem. Its bizarre because on this subreddit I've had a lot of women compliment me for doing my best to give them advice, but on AskWomen I've been criticized and mocked just for asking questions. =P But what I'm finding with anxiety its related to trauma and it takes baby steps to heal it.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/17 04:20 PM
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Then I learned the coworker had MS, which had seriously impeded her mental abilities in the recent years, and that the boss had fought a dirty battle with management to keep her regardless of her performance. I also know someone with MS and I've noticed that they have a lower stress tolerance, stress + MS seems really rough on people.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/17 04:04 PM
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Thanks I will check this out.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 04:00 PM
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When you are introverted and you have anxiety around a specific place like a gym, you just have to repeatedly show up there and spend time there. You have to build up a sense of emotional safety in connection with the place over time. I've struggled with severe anxiety most of my life. I use to have a lot of anxiety going to the grocery store on my own, going to the bank, going through a drive-through, and over time I had enough memories of nothing bad happening to override my anxiety and fear, …
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/17 03:59 PM
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Too lazy to take my barbell out of the closet so I need to remember this.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 08:41 AM
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If any problems come up, its a red flag in a red city filled with red people taking selfies with their red dogs using red cell phones with little red flags on them, END THE RELATIONSHIP IMMEDIATELY.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/17 12:54 PM
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What is being revealed by the change in times is that validating masculinity has become too dependent on success with women. This exists primarily in the decentralized movement of Men Going Their Own Way or MGTOW. Seeing it explode on youtube years ago was an emotionally powerful thing. In the beginning there wasn't just anger against women and injustice as a means of coping, there was much more of this consistent affirmation that men are equally valuable to women because they believe it to be s…
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/17 06:08 PM
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She urgently needs to rewrite history in her mind and in order to be able to do so, she needs to provoke a negative reaction from you. "He is an asshole anyways!" This hit me really hard. Because I had a woman calling me hot multiple times who later friendzoned me and said she was never attracted to me, and she later went on to project and say I was just rewriting the history of everything that happened. We went from having really long conversations talking everyday and her talking about mailing…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/17 04:15 PM
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a mission You can also have more than one if you have equal opposing values, it makes you feel like your life is constantly being pulled in two directions, its a fun, horrible, memorable roller-coaster ride.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/17 03:33 PM
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Almost all of the attractive women around me are putting tobacco and drugs into their body, or they would be attractive if they weren't obese, or they are single moms.. and they have little to offer except sex which is replaced well enough with porn and sex technology. Loneliness and the the threat of self-destruction is less emasculating and more empowering than a single second of my free time spent around a single mother. I'm missing teeth, have scars all over my body, and I'm a 28 year old vi…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 05:56 AM
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We are very much disposable to women. Not just sexually/romantically, also outside of moral women who share our genes, I would argue that our human rights and life are also disposable. This is just a matter of female in-group preference and what the dominant culture is saying about the value of a male life.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 05:17 AM
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Dual consciousness is just any kind of regular, everyday, normal consciousness. You can also call it multiplicity. Its moving towards more than one, and towards the belief of separation. Its the normal perception of the world that everybody is in. So its anything that is not meditative consciousness. As for the non-dual experience, you often can't fully wrap your mind around it. Moving towards the inability to speak about that experience, either vocally, or with thinking in your head, is progres…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 05:00 AM
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I have went from severe depression and being totally out of shape to getting back in shape multiple times, by throwing out the conventions about what it means to work out. The convention is you have to train extremely hard, be super positive, train all the muscle groups equally and such. When you aren't in the mental place to do that, even a few push ups and crunchers or sit-ups, or some running is a good enough start, and incrementally work up from there every week, or if you can, every other d…
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/17 02:22 PM
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It is done.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/17 02:18 PM
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Thanks. I'm mostly against using drugs for meditation. But its your choice, take care of yourself.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 10:14 AM
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Didn't think of that but you're also right.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/17 05:45 AM
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How do you know they didn't read the sidebar? =P We've gotten an influx of little boys Amused mastery. who think they're special Frame control.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/17 04:33 PM
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You're right about single mothers having lower SMV. But men and women both have animal parts of their brains which run towards hypergamous or hypogamous polygamy, and then the more intellectual part, hook-up culture supports the animal part, and because of Briffault's Law and female sexual gatekeeping, hook-up culture is arguably fueled primarily by women. Monogamy is more unnatural, but it is tied to male parental investment or fatherhood, which is one of the reasons human beings are as smart a…
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/17 04:14 PM
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Well keep in mind if its just that you don't have a supermodel's face, its much easier for a woman to have an unattractive face then an unattractive body to the majority of men, and testosterone can make men sex obsessed enough that they care more about the overall package than just a woman's face. Staying fit and not being fat, as much as that can hurt feelings, can make an enormous difference. Falling in love/infatuation also raises attraction to some degree.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/17 03:51 PM
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I rarely post here, haven't read everything in the sidebar, but I have a good grasp of red pill concepts. I've decided not to post essays here (though I haven't wrote essays for anywhere else), because even though there are self-improvement posts here and I have nothing against people discussing sexual strategy, and oftentimes self-improvement or "your mission" will be considered more important than sexual strategy, it clashes the description of this place which comes down to discussing sexual s…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/17 04:44 PM
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I think if you take away words like captain, alpha, and beta, it forces you to think logically about the root of a problem rather than applying simplistic labels to something as complex as human beings. You can say what you want him to do and how it would make you feel if he did it, and change yourself. You can ask him why he lacks motivation, ask him if he's depressed and what you could do to help him, for instance maybe he needs sunlight/vitamin d supplements, maybe he needs therapy, maybe he …
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/17 04:24 PM
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A single mother. 'Cause he broke up with her after he insisted on not using a condom and found out she was pregnant. Usually a guy who is heading to or from the alpha male warehouse (jail and prison). "C'est la vie."
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/17 04:06 PM
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Yep, just can't compete with the extroverts, or most of the time even enjoy trying.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/17 02:20 PM
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So. Much. Bullshit. Feel free to elaborate, I don't have the energy for an angry debate and I am open to hearing your evidence-based counter-arguments. I will add that these are generalizations about women that I find to be probable, and not absolute statements about women. If I agree with any of your points based on the evidence you present and its probability based on all available evidence then I will concede to them. Also, you're a good person.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/17 04:18 PM
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A potential positive of it in the future is that a woman could choose to act more feminine and improve herself, knowing that it can cause a man to improve himself without it being irrationally sacrificial or selfless and causing him poorer health, which would benefit both of them. Like a constructive feedback loop. Whereas the feedback loops that go on in many relationships today seem like people repeating some aspect of one or more traumas they have been in and haven't fully renegotiated and he…
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/17 01:50 PM
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Women in general seem heavily attracted to social charisma and some men will never have a lot of it which is part of their personality, even though they may be able to mitigate it more with experience. Even a guy who is filthy rich or famous in some way can doom or damage a potential relationship with a serious enough lack of social charisma, because most women expect you to be like a woman and have a natural ability to be social. Collective opportunism and more sexual guardedness from women giv…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/17 07:29 AM
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I'd go on to say that all of reddit is an echo chamber, its just a matter of which buttons you aren't allowed to press in any particular subreddit. Few people on reddit can see that just as genetic variance lends itself to a more evolved organism, freedom of speech and variance in opinion lends itself to the highest intellect.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/17 06:10 AM
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Well I will entertain your questions because I'm interested in what your motive is for asking them. =P Never heard that before. They are related to me but different. To clarify myself, sadness is a form of pain, and so its synonymous with it in that way, but not the other way around. What would you feel like after some time of not being able to experience dark aesthetics? It would annoy me at the worst. If someone were to take all of it from you and you couldn't listen to anything but happy musi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/17 05:37 AM
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"Twinsies." -- Deadpool
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/17 05:06 AM
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That's rough.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/17 04:48 AM
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Completely fucked up, but unfortunately when I read this it meshes with other stories I've read.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 02:37 PM
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I'm not sure if its mean or not, but I like that because people are more forced to stay indoors during the Winter, I feel like I'm missing out on less.
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/17 02:03 PM
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I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 01:57 PM
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Are you religious? Asexual/aromantic?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 11:57 AM
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You could have a crib in the room and try to move them or have a babysitter when you needed to. But generally its very smart keeping infants close, it keeps them from ending up with attachment disorders. Its builds up their sense of safety as they age until they start going back and forth between close proximity with parents and exploring more on their own. I think there's a lot of parents who wish their older kids were more independent but they accidentally deprived them of a developmental sens…
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/17 10:58 AM
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Well you have your opinion and I have mine. Goth doesn't equal depression, and that kind of black and white thinking isn't logical. Sadness and pain are the same thing so you can't turn sadness into pain. When I look at my skull cane, I'm not usually thinking of death, I just like the dark aesthetic, I associate it with emotional safety-- in the same way someone who loves the beach might do with sea shells, I don't even think of the fact that I'm looking at something shaped like human anatomy. E…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 05:40 AM
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This reminds me that I remember reading some study that South Korea sort of regards romantic relationships with less significance than in America, there is more distance in those relationships I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 05:28 AM
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That's good to hear. Yeah I don't like the incel label either.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 05:27 AM
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Interesting. I'm not interested in casual sex at all because it sounds like a bunch of stress, shit tons of drama, and lots of risk. I'm 28 and at this point I sort of feel like, I'm never going to feel like a normal person in the sense of all those years with loneliness and an absence of affection, so I might as well embrace being increasingly weird and increasingly smart, and keeping everyone distant or at arm's reach. I sort of don't care if my social skills were to deteriorate further in ord…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 05:21 AM
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I see. Makes sense. Although I'm not necessarily religious, I agree with you that I don't see casual sex as "casual".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 05:14 AM
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I agree with you there on all counts. Even though I think a rational, positive culture could affect high sex drive men who can't get sex in such a way that they aren't a threat to society, while also not dehumanizing them. But as far as women, what about the idea that women tie emotion more to sex? What I wonder is, would having a deep emotional connection with a woman (that's not the type that causes her to lose attraction and ditch your ass before you even knew what was happening), cause her t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 06:00 PM
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I imagine your woman woes are a large source of your depression that drives being a goth. I was drawing monsters and reading short horror stories when I was a little kid (the horror stories still creeped me the fuck out though, I was just a kid). Goth doesn't equal depression. A lot of gothic stuff makes me happier, there's a black cane with a tower of steel skulls on it that has sat in the corner of my bedroom for years. Do you think of yourself as an angry person? Or are you more on the gentle…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 05:54 PM
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I realize it's a spectrum, but overall men are much more sexual than women. I think initially this is true. But I'm still skeptical about what exactly to believe when it comes for this idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 05:33 PM
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Are you very religious?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 05:31 PM
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Have you been trying to get laid? I'm not interested in casual sex, partly because I think I would get too attached. I've been on dating sites and occasionally talked to different women. I'm very introverted and I don't like crowds, I don't like long drives and feel like I'd get more out of my car by not dating a woman who forces me to drive too much, plus I wake up really late where there isn't much time before bars close, so I don't really go out. Do you ever feel sexual frustration? I've felt…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 05:21 PM
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Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 04:58 PM
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I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 04:57 PM
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Create it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 02:40 PM
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For men it seemed the chief concern was being able to keep working and earning $$$ and or working out. Sexual health was rarely brought up. For women, being able to have and enjoy sex was tantamount. Even when dealing with severe health issues. Some went off medication to their own detriment because it interfered with their pleasure. I would wager that this is because women attach emotion more immediately to sex, so promiscuity is going to be more tied to depression for them, and their happiness…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 11:11 AM
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What's shaming? This: How many of y'all would seriously fuck a robot? I'm a woman, I don't understand a man's struggle, boo hoo. But are y'all seriously that horny that you would have sex with a machine? Wouldn't that be creepy? I keep hearing in these creepy sexbot threads women r gonna be jelly lol' but are they going to become common for all men or just incels/virgins? I just cannot see myself or anyone normal pulling a robot out of the closet, clicking the on button, and listening to a robot…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 06:44 AM
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Well a vibrator runs on batteries and the average fleshlight doesn't, technically making it a robot. I think the creators of sexbots will be avoiding too much realism so they don't have to worry about uncanny valley which would be the only thing that would make them creepy to me. But this whole idea of "You're a loser" or "That's weird" that some people might get from this is just intellectually-challenged luddite nonsense to me. If I was in a relationship, I probably wouldn't own a sex doll or …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 06:20 AM
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Apart from male disposability being the norm, most men and women can't see the sadness in male anger. They see anger and react through self-defense by dehumanizing the people within the group. do large groups of women feel threatened by large groups of males? I remember an article about women being intimidated by skyscrapers. Women evolved more than men to be threatened by anything, whether the threat is real or imaginary, it just needs to be a popular threat. A large group of men that present a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 05:10 PM
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Bingo! Here's the House theme: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BAVUPu7URbc
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 04:59 PM
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I would have personally left it alone, natural chaos is valuable to understanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 04:56 PM
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Hell, I'm wondering if we even need friends to be happy: can we derive our meaning from something other than our relationships with other people? You are seeking connection with people through inanimate objects as well (not just electronics, but literally everything), keep that in mind. You have to practice non-desire to the extreme and go into extreme meditative states as a result of that non-desire to have the possibility of perpetually cutting off loneliness. You have to see absolute sufferin…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 04:50 PM
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Yes, I'll get around to making a video on female hypergamy and opportunistic love one of these days. I'm putting it off, because its a lot of work giving people nervous breakdowns, and putting together all the evidence for this subject really is from a male perspective like building a more complete vision of hell, but it will be nice to point to as a more definitive answer for the question. As for a short answer, there's 80/20 rule in online dating, women value masculine traits-- including more …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 04:29 PM
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This is for women, but you can sometimes find advice that applies to both genders. There isn't really a subreddit for studying LTRs for both men and women that includes red pill ideas, apart from Purple Pill Debate, which is full of arguing and all over the place as far as intellect goes (by intellect I mean thinking based on evidence, probability, and avoiding logical fallacies).
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/17 04:22 PM
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Some of this post is dumb shaming language, but yes, I would fuck a robot. Just like creepy women and their creepy robot vibrators.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 04:17 PM
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Its important for both men and women to be able to be assertive. You don't owe anyone the money you make, if they take money from you that you worked for and its not something you want or need, they took time away from your life. You can also be assertive and still be calm, and not rude, but you can only build that assertive muscle by having the situations that force you to be assertive and stand by your values and self-worth. Everyone is equal in being human, and that comes before any type of a…
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/17 04:50 PM
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No man will ever respect insecure bitter losers like you, and you are going to end up single, bitter and ALONE! You can't end up bitter if you are already bitter. You are worthless to men, and you will just get stuck with a low quality loser that is using you I feel like this is feminist projection. People also tend to create traumas until they fully heal from them which goes along with the projection thing. The disparity of single mothers in America is millions more in comparison to fathers and…
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/17 04:12 PM
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Women are repelled by anxiety because anxiety is correlated with submissiveness. I have to partially disagree. Anxiety is hypervigilance from one or more traumas. There are veterans and other people who have went through trauma who would be more likely to kick some serious ass, because they are stuck in a state of hypervigilance which could possibly benefit those kind of situations. I think female brains just are naturally embedded with more social skills, and that men and women project their br…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 10:33 AM
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I'm not 100% pro traditionalist but I think there are aspects of it that are healthy for some or the majority of heterosexual romantic relationships. Dating seems messed up. I think what will help is women understanding that they are most attractive in their 20's (even though they can still date later on), that its scientifically best to have a kid in their 20's or early 30's (as far as I remember), and that being a single mom or hurting your looks with drugs will decrease your dating pool. I do…
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/17 06:55 AM
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Probably a mutual willingness for horribly uncomfortable communication. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L8rZ4wUfSMk
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/17 06:42 AM
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There's other benefits of meditation out there, but they require focus and a tolerance for frustration. If you were having a dream, and in the dream you were in your bedroom practicing mindfulness, but you kept having thoughts come up that were stopping you, what part of the dream would be separate from the entire dream itself? If you realized that the entire dream was you, you wouldn't really even be able to speak about it to anyone, since it would be totally absurd to, even though that you wan…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 01:12 PM
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Unless you were making it hard for him to sleep I don't see what the problem is. I think red pill communities traumatize some men enough that they get the idea into their heads that if they aren't controlling, their relationship is doomed. There is more power for men and women in accepting what they can't control, and you can't control another human being without serious negative emotion controlling you. Men and women having self-respect, and standards/boundaries is one thing, but control is est…
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/17 07:26 AM
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To the men, what helps you relieve stress when it is something that cannot be solved and is just the situation at hand? Meditation. There's the Headspace app that some people use, The Mind Illuminated is the most loved book on /r/meditation, I got started with Eckhart Tolle's The Power of Now, there's guided meditation videos on youtube, and videos by meditation teachers including Eckhart Tolle, there's quotes from teachers you can find, and my absolute favorite book on the subject is the Englis…
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/17 03:16 PM
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Samadhi is for everyone. http://www.holybooks.com/wp-content/uploads/Essence-of-Ribhu-Gita-ebook.pdf
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 04:16 PM
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You don't verbally attack people through reddit. You do it through youtube with calm, demonic, Hitchensian wit. And its really only worth it if they are powerful people. EDIT: Person who downvoted me is UN Chinaman, its on.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 02:39 PM
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I think there is nuance to this that isn't understood yet. Rollo's idea of showing chinks in armor versus looking weak is a good starting point, even though that is subjective, vague, and leaves a lot of unanswered questions. A very big truth seems to be that communicating insecurity or vulnerability cannot get in the way of men sexually escalating, that's usually a death knell for any potential sexual relationship; but taking into account the idea of female solipsism, it could register in the w…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 09:34 AM
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it's mostly older people who are divorced who are saying these comments to me We see the world through our pasts. They have no positive lens to see your relationship through because they don't even know how theirs ended. Them suggesting more time as a gauge for a relationship's health is just the result of a lack of understanding on their part, so I'd wager that they are talking more about themselves than they are about you.
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/17 07:40 AM
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I actually thought about writing "I'm shy in public. Text me 555-555-5555" on a piece of paper and handing it out to girls in situations where you can't talk or the other person can't. Women could do this too. Some people aren't going to be talkative in public or certain public circumstances, the place where I meet single women the most is at work and its incredibly risky for me to ask anyone out because its become more abnormal and wrong for men to do that. You can get a bad reputation or get f…
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/17 04:09 PM
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Alpha males are made by The Principia Discordia. These are Golden Apple Alphas. Blessed by Eris herself, who is not real (peace be upon his nametag). Bull Alpha > Wolf Alpha > Golden Apple Alpha
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/17 04:05 PM
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Train first. Masturbate after. BUT FOR THE LOVE OF GOD DON'T MASTURBATE IN THE FUCKING GYM!!!
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 12:09 PM
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Be ready for her to cheat on you. It doesn't matter how "alpha" you are, you could be some kind of rich superstar. A woman going out getting drunk all the time, especially when she's ovulating, is significantly raising her chances to cheat on you.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 12:05 PM
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No "goofy" pictures (silly clothes, funny faces, etc.) - this is low self-esteem beta male territory Greyface, I will respectfully disagree. The right hat makes a man more confident. A demonstrated wit or sense of humor, not saying "I'm witty/sarcastic/funny" These are conflicting points.
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/17 11:50 AM
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I'm a futurist, so to me, red pill communities are a means to an end: love science. I see red pill communities as having some things right, and some things wrong, and I wouldn't claim to know all of those things either. And though it might be past our lifetimes, I think that red pill terminology will eventually disappear or be integrated into actual love science. People are also individual, which attachment and emotional significance has a lot to do with, so you can't look at the totality of rel…
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/17 11:05 AM
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I've started studying more about trauma to work on my avoidance issues. Unconditional positive regard (in this case, self-regard) is a good thing to practice, so is separating the present moment from memories and projections of the future (mindfulness). EMDR therapy has a lot of success behind it for healing trauma but seems like it requires a therapist. Recalling and reperception of traumatic memories is somewhat of what EMDR is, but in order for it to be successful it may require positive conn…
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/16 02:06 PM
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Endless arguing. Endless poop. http://img.lum.dolimg.com/v1/images/open-uri20150608-27674-8axz7n_d1d7c2b1.jpeg
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/16 02:28 PM
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I think once falling in love starts to happen, to some degree, physical attraction is boosted. For example, there were guys in TRP talking about dating average looking women and their perception of them changing to sex goddesses after a relationship was established. But people also age differently depending on what you eat, eating in a smaller window of time, exercise, and whether you do drugs and what drugs. A lot of women who choose to smoke cigarettes rather than e-cigarettes, other non-tobac…
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/16 10:59 AM
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A healthy relationships means 2 healthy individuals This is important. Not that you don't have flaws but you put your best foot forward. Lots of 20 somethings can't do this, its like they never learned how.
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/16 05:53 AM
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Its got some really deep stuff on it. No problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/16 05:20 AM
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I used to do this with cell phone message drafts with my old phone. I've been trying to work on my memory more lately, so if something doesn't go on little slips of paper it goes in my head.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 03:12 PM
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I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/16 02:19 PM
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That was before I discovered any red pill stuff, to clarify. At the time I was unemployed and nobody would hire me due to lack of experience, I was living with my parents, I had extreme social anxiety and depression. I could go months without barely speaking a word even though I wrote almost every day. I don't think my parents understood how bad the anxiety and depression was. They kept pushing me to find work, I was barely functioning, none of the anti-depressants worked. Eventually they let me…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/16 02:04 PM
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Thank you! I think there are cliques and communities within MGTOW. But as for the traits of individuality and community not being mutually exclusive, it depends on the topic. When it comes to dating, sex, male mental health (especially with regards to women), whether women can change, the variability in good and bad traits in women as far as romance goes, I think you will pretty be an individual and an outsider if you are going against common held beliefs like these. I think the people using the…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/16 04:01 PM
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I've been part of the MGTOW youtube community when it was still new, and I watched it grow and took part in it, though my oldest videos were deleted because I got pissed off from seeing virgin-shaming from some people I respected. I'm not a PUA and though I've posted on TRP I wouldn't really consider myself a TRP'er because I'm probably different from the majority of them. There's an idea that came out of MGTOW that if you avoid women, or see them in too negative of a light as a result of red pi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/16 11:51 AM
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Self-improvement at the cost of mental or physical self-destruction is what you are getting at. I've done this with fitness, I was deadlifting too much weight while on Jack3d and going for too many reps, serious pain shot up my back and I fell over the barbell; I never deadlifted as much weight after that and I'm little scared of deadlifting now because of how intense that pain was. I've also done this with learning new things or being an autodidact, many years ago, I was going on information an…
/r/TheRedPill25/12/16 07:59 AM
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I believe like Gary Chapman has stated, that the initial infatuation stage of a relationship only lasts up to two years. If I read correctly, this infatuation stage has higher adrenaline, higher dopamine, higher serotonin for women and lower serotonin for men. There's also a link between low serotonin and OCD, which obsessive compulsive disorder is quite similar to infatuation. I actually used this information in the past to get over some women, I took 5HTP, which is a supplement that is an amin…
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/16 04:34 PM
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My question was - why is having ones primary language BE touch pathological I'm confused by the question. I'm not sure if you read something differently than how I was trying to convey it. Or if its just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/16 02:36 PM
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I will give it a try. I keep a bottle of Apple Cider Vinegar on my bathtub for months and use it in place of hair conditioner.
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/16 04:47 PM
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Well I changed this line, the distance of these men is the result of their affection To: the distance of these men could be the result of their affection Since my title already has the word "might" in it, so I'm not making a statement that sounds absolutist, or most probable.
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/16 03:39 PM
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Thanks, I will look into it. I have been spitting up specks of blood for years, pretty much through my entire 20's, maybe earlier than that, I don't remember. Rounds of antacids couldn't ever solve it alone so it has to be that bacteria keeping the ulcers from healing.
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/16 03:34 PM
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Well I had the soreness go up through one of my sinuses including throat, but the Vitamin D kills off the healthy bacteria. Its best to space them out. =)
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/16 03:32 PM
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The best way to heal a stomach over the counter are a lot of probiotics, the stronger the better. But if its an H. Pylori infection it will be extremely hard to get rid of with probiotics and it will just hold back the infection. The other thing is sunlight/Vitamin D deficiency can cause lower testosterone and deperession. A lot of people have a Vitamin D deficiency. I was taking 6,000 IU's of Vitamin D3 a day with no problems. If I haven't taken any in awhile I'll go for 10,000. D3 is better to…
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/16 02:49 PM
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Which is more normal? Are you talking which is more normal: resources for sex, or status for sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/16 02:43 PM
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When I was 18 or 19 I had a girl changing shirts and showing her bra in front of me and I did nothing. It was for the best that I didn't understand how to escalate, this girl and her parents gave me "RUN THE FUCK AWAY" feelings, and I ignored them for lust. I'm still partly attracted to crazy though, I've learned to tell that part of my mind to fuck off.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 02:36 PM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Prostitution_among_animals
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/16 02:28 PM
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anecdotes. *probabilities. Its called theory. =P
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/16 02:20 PM
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Sorry, my mind feels like a giant cobweb sometimes, I don't get all the points out easily. If touch is so important, that its more important than anything else in the context of a romantic relationship, that suggests a history touch deprivation, and probably some kind of mental illness. Here's some stuff on the power of touch on the formative brain: The hug that helped change medicine https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0YwT_Gx49os How Important Is Physical Contact with Your Infant? https://www.scie…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/16 02:13 PM
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I think more often than not, a man who gets too busy at work is either genuinely busy despite his best intentions (you'd know if it was this because he's likely to compensate) or he's trying to avoid being around his wife. So you don't think in the average case, the man is working overtime to set the couple up for the future? I could be wrong with the average case.
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/16 01:49 PM
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Love Languages don't have scientific backing, but the books are bestsellers and have helped a lot of people, so I'm not willing to throw the information away. I'm just looking at the social pattern. You could be right that there is something I'm missing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 04:57 PM
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get married Lifetime monogamy is fine if it works. But telling men to sign a marriage contract is immoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 03:05 PM
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If you can communicate about your differences in love languages you might be able to make compromise when he has time. If he has acts of service or gift giving and you don't, he could consider acting in your love language to be a gift, or an act of service.
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/16 03:01 PM
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In my experience, I think women tend to text more like how they talk, whereas men can write more differently than how they talk. Or I could be wrong, and it could be that men and women that write obsessively might talk differently than they write if they aren't as good as speaking. But I agree with the PUA idea that longer messages don't usually build as much attraction, and can also destroy it.
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/16 02:02 PM
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I don't know if I count, I'm both self-actualized and not self-actualized, I'm successful in some areas of my life and a wreck in others. I have a history of going in and out of depression from massive lack of Vitamin D in my blood, because I hate constantly swallowing pills, it even has got to the point of my joints going stiff where I start dropping my car keys and stuff at work which is probably from lack of ability to absorb calcium. I just figure I'd rather be freakishly intelligent than we…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 06:27 AM
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I won't take every evo-psych idea as complete truth because I'm sure at least some of it is still in the realm of theory. But then again, I haven't been able to read into it as much as I wanted to because it was damaging my sanity too much and I already knew more than I wanted. It all is what it is. =|
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/16 06:22 PM
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My version of "the red pill" comes from the MRM and MGTOW more than PUA and reddit, so it includes male disposability as much as female hypergamy and gendered differences in sex drives. And with hypergamy gone, it wouldn't necessarily mean the end of male disposability. Men will always be more disposable than women, and society will always be female-leaning. Eggs = expensive, sperm = cheap: and from there, along with all the other physical and mental sex differences, men are generally considered…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/16 04:40 PM
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TRP isn't a representation of all the men on the planet, but if you see deeper, you can see why TRP and MGTOW exist. Male depression often manifests as male anger. Being too vulnerable and showing too much sadness, for men, tends to easily isolate them more, and just helps them rationalize self-destruction and suicide more easily. Feminism has created women that are more miserable, less loyal, and demonize men, and there are men who have been seriously emotionally messed up or had their lives ru…
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/16 07:57 AM
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You could also ask him to start addressing problems more with "we" instead of "you", and tell him it would make you feel happier if he did that, like ending whatever criticism he has with, "How do we work on this?" Using "we" reframes the problem where you are both working with each other and are more open to the transparency and vulnerability needed to solve a problem. If the other person isn't fully on board, this is going to be an uphill battle. But you can always keep reframing these argumen…
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/16 04:18 PM
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I'm highly doubtful that the AI going into a sexbot is ever going to get human rights, its not conscious.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 04:09 PM
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So many people were throwing around "autistic" as an insult, the best way to prevant agurnst it were a mispel. Stupid people do actually have more sex.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 02:14 PM
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However, after the sexbot downloads come online, the next logical step will be for AI to be given equal rights, the right to vote, the right to refuse sexual access, the right to take half your shit if it get's bored -the usual and expected progression. This argument is irrational and nonsensical. For AI to be THAT advanced it won't happen in our lifetimes, and will never actually be conscious. In the future, society's gynocentricism won't win over against the guys shelling out cash for some ext…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 01:40 PM
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My life experience confirms this. But I can get emotional with people I get close to, and I'm not sure if I'll ever be able to pull off this level of stoicism permanently. Maybe when I get better at putting myself out there, I can get better at being fake for shorter amounts of time to get into an LTR and get sex and affection for awhile, eventually the mask will fall off and she'll resent me for being a human being instead of the fantasy male that only actually exists as a guy wearing a mask, I…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/16 04:28 PM
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Have you heard of high reactive nervous systems? I'm inclined to believe that is real, but not ADHD. I also think someone could get diagnosed with ADHD who ate tons of junk food/caffeine, or simply has a different learning style that doesn't match up to education, where female teachers are predominant and have their own biases. I think I have a high reactive nervous system myself. When I was in high school it felt like "people claustrophobia". The anxiety and sensory overload at lunch time was a…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/16 02:15 PM
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being ADHD I think you are probably smart so I'll say this. Look at the symptoms and try to find one that isn't compatible with childhood. Its not real.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/16 03:13 PM
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Boosting his ego when we know his approach is not ideal is not good. Silence is the best way then. Especially with men whose ego is strong. An ego wich grows too strong is always detrimental. If the ego has a high investment in protecting you and making you as happy as possible, is it still wrong to withhold advice and boost the ego?
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/16 05:05 PM
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I agree with this. Men want to be complimented and encouraged more than given advice they didn't ask for. Part of being male is liking a struggle while simultaneously suffering because of it. I think this is one reason why so many men who need therapy don't go, part of their brains actually like struggling because its one way they connect with other men, and they will partly value other men based on how harsh their struggles have been, so you have guys who hurt or kill themselves out of too much…
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/16 04:57 PM
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For me, it feels awkward to hang out alone with a woman I'm not trying to date, with exclusion to maybe older women, maybe in a scenario where they could teach me something. I've had single female friends where I wasn't attracted and they started falling for me, or the exact opposite. But then again I lack social skills and have avoidant personality.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/16 04:25 PM
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Thanks, good luck.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/16 01:59 PM
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We all go to the pub together. So you never hang out with these girls alone? =P But you could hang out with your guy friends alone?
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/16 01:25 PM
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Is it the same as your male friendships?
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/16 10:43 AM
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Try touching him before talking to him, or if he isn't comfortable with that, getting closer to him and then talking.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/16 08:11 AM
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You should write a book. I will conveniently leave it around any woman I end up dating and act like I didn't know where it came from.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/16 08:03 AM
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It's kind of like how men aren't "attracted" to intelligence in women, but still usually end up with someone close to their IQ. This is actually helpful advice.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/16 08:33 AM
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Something I'd suggest from the book MODELS is that emotional vulnerability is tied to the highest possible confidence. Striking up a conversation with a stranger is scary when you aren't actively making the connection confidence with emotional vulnerability. Socially putting yourself out there makes you emotionally vulnerable, but the thing is, almost all strangers will have a pleasant conversation with you because there is shared humanity in that; and the strangers who give you negativity have …
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 05:37 AM
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I think the "scarcity mentality" or "deprivation thinking" comes primarily from social trauma and attachment trauma. You just have to continually think, "What if there is actually abundance of whatever it is I want?" You have to continually challenge your ingrained mindset, including looking for wisdom for others that can help, and take small, manageable actions that you are passionate about, to work towards realizing an abundance mindset in every area of your life. This will be a battle.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 05:11 AM
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I'm happy that women get criticism by a lot of MGTOW (I'm happy that women get criticism like men do period), and I think there is a disconnect between a lot of MGTOW and self-improvement that's going to hurt them in the long run, but because MGTOW to some degree equals male self-determinism, there is no way to push self-improvement on men who self-identify as MGTOW. I love MGTOW, but I think one thing a lot of angry men who identify as MGTOW don't understand, is that women are wired so differen…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 03:14 PM
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Sorry I was just trying to be nice. Wow I'm getting bitched out by strange women on multiple social networks today.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/16 02:24 PM
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Tom Golden is a therapist in the men's movement who knows Paul Elam and Warren Farrell, and has studied how men cope with grief and emotional pain. He says that they cope through action that honors the grieving and brings them into future, and inaction. My personal theory is that inaction as a form of coping, for both men and women, only happens as a result of severe emotional pain, but more active coping can also be related to severe emotional pain. Some of the ways I coped with the worst depre…
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/16 03:22 PM
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women love to dead bedroom men and be unrestrained shrews.. I have no argument with calling those women cunts.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/16 02:59 PM
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You might find some interesting stuff in the book NO MORE MR. NICE GUY, because if you swap genders some of the stuff in that book applies to women. Negative memories of feeling abandoned and not belonging can hurt a person's ability to love themselves and act with love towards themselves and others. It especially hurts if those negative memories come from parents. We can end up building our identity on those negative memories from childhood and our youth. So the key is, to start rebuilding on t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/16 02:54 PM
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Thank you for the advice. I have yet to watch that movie.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/16 02:43 PM
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I'm glad I can sit back, sip my chocolate Oreo milkshake, relax to some folk music, smile a little, and think, "At least I'm not that guy." I'm the guy that sees men as human beings, not the insecure loser who discovered he could put a bunch of different popular insults together to hide the fact that he hates himself and he's ugly as hell on the inside.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/16 02:30 PM
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You're look for relationship books for women? Laura Doyle's are the only smart ones that come to mind. The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman, and Hold Me Tight (how to book for couples)/Love Sense (about love science) by Sue Johnson, aren't gendered, but are relevant to romantic relationships.
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/16 02:44 PM
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Gays actually understand women better than straight men do. Some parts of gay male brains are like women's which support this.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/16 02:36 PM
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The goal of feminism is subjugating betas and getting pounded by alphas, never forget that. In the end apart from testosterone/genetic differences, there are no alphas or betas because its mostly cultural. So modern feminism is a campaign in support of female misery through a culture of demeaning men and their sexuality, which creates a "happy monogamous relationship vacuum" that inevitably supports female misery. That's what so ironic about it to me.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/16 02:30 PM
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Good luck.
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/16 01:53 PM
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It sounds like he is somewhat depressed, so here is some advice. Sometimes you can find your passions by looking at what you loved in your childhood and teenage years. Other times you can find it in whatever thing or things helped you the most after severe trauma. Everyone has things they are passionate about that they primarily associate with being positive, when we suppress or get disconnected from those things, we lose motivation. Let the positive memories overtake the negative memories, and …
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/16 03:02 PM
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This book had me examining my childhood, issues with my parents, and how my Christian upbringing and friends and family pushed me away from my full expression of individuality. I always liked poetically dark things, with the exception of gore, and I discovered goth culture around age 16 and clicked with it. Though I'm not dark triad just because I like gothic culture, I want to be a moral and good person. So the world taught me to hate myself for liking poetically dark things and to see it as wr…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 02:30 PM
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Anyone who isn't in debt, makes extra money, and wants more money, should be investing. Like the emotional appeal logical fallacy using assholes on the Wallstreet Playboy blog have said, the only way to get rich is owning a business or investing. And really, business owners who want to make more money, for whatever reason, should be investing extra money if they aren't in debt. But maybe an exception would be an enormous debt where they will leave you alone as long as you pay a certain amount re…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 07:37 AM
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Something I've been thinking about this week that I got from Anthony Robbins: Love is action. Self-love is action. Thinking about one's past abandonment issues, however minor they might be, including abandonment issues with your parents, and that those memories don't have to stop you from fully being who you are however strange or different, and that those memories don't have to stop you from taking action to love yourself, has motivated me beyond what I was and improved my mood dramatically. Bu…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 04:17 PM
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Yeah. If you think about it, a straight guy legitimately telling a woman "You are beautiful." without the context of that quote being, "I want to have sex with you." would be during sex or after sex, or maybe once in a while in a relationship where she's done something to alter her appearance and he wants her to feel good about it. There's literally no reason to compliment her before sex other than to hint at wanting sex rather than directly stating it, which comes from of an initial lack of tru…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 11:12 AM
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Almond Oil (Vitamin E) and Coconut Oil (Ketones) both have unique benefits (in parenthesis), the brain is mostly fat and needs fat to run, they are both healthy fats. You can also replace carbs with them to whatever degree you want.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 06:26 AM
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I've been reading a couple good books on this, NO MORE MR. NICE GUY, and right now I'm reading MODELS. Its not that you were complimenting her, its the context. The context when a guy tells a girl she is beautiful, usually is, "I want to have sex with you." or "I want to do [insert sex act] with you." It makes you more emotionally vulnerable to say, "I want to have sex with you." Or "I want to do [insert sex act] with you." Or in the case of a single guy, "I find you attractive, when can we hang…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 06:12 AM
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More emotional appeals.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/16 05:07 AM
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Build a high-quality, exciting life. This can get conflated with the career woman who is so obsessed with her college and future career, or career, that she absolutely no time for a relationship. Or a woman who is so obsessed with a particular passion that she has little to no time for a relationship, which is fine if she's happy, its just that usually these women aren't. And with the idea of letting men lead more in a relationship, but with women who have hobbies and passions being more interes…
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/16 04:39 PM
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You actually described the bulk of MGTOW, on youtube and other places, as well. I distanced myself from MGTOW some time ago by referring it to a culture rather than a community as the infighting got worse and worse. I knew about MGTOW ideas, some evo psych, gendered psychological differences, old school and red pill PUA, and Rollo Tommassi's ideas. I went on my own to look into theories on Red Pill Women, the work of Sue Johnson, Laura Doyle, Gary Chapman (The 5 Love Languages), and now more rec…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/16 03:08 PM
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Appeal to emotion. You didn't address my points. You sound like another idiot who can't think rationally.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/16 01:53 PM
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your repeated use of the word GENDER is SJW virtue signaling that anyone versed in TRP can spot a mile off, troll What a joke. This entire conversation was fruitless and its obvious with your pattern of inability to comprehend my posts and blatant strawmannning that you lack the intellect to even have a constructive conversation with anyone, let alone someone who has been involved with the men's movement longer than you. And here's a little hint, you won't find a sidebar for real enlightenment, …
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/16 01:40 PM
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Confidence is not in any way completely tethered to masculinity or femininity since the male and female brain aren't so different from each other that there is sufficient proof that confidence is gendered, and thus completely tied to a reproductive imperative. I don't believe that for a second. The survival drive is the primary drive in living things, and some degree of confidence is inevitably required for survival. I will acknowledge gender holism, or that femininity and masculinity validate e…
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/16 06:26 AM
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Nikola Tesla was not at all a particularly masculine man I disagree. There's this idea that autism is actually male-mindedness, which goes along with heavy object and concept leaning focus. Object and concept leaning focus which causes the ability to use and create new "tools" is highly masculine, along with the male-leaning coping mechanism in Tom Golden's work which is action and honoring the future. Tesla had all of these things in spades. This is masculinity from a scientific angle, you are …
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/16 06:16 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4PzetPqepXA
/r/TheRedPill05/12/16 03:38 PM
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How did it not make logical sense? You say "confidence = masculinity". Then you say "sex = higher confidence". That doesn't equate sex with the ultimate validation of masculinity or confidence.
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/16 03:37 PM
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What you are describing sounds very similar to derealization/depersonalisation and trust me it is not a pleasant experience. If you can, practice feeling no desire in combination with feeling loved. Then you'll turn your disorders into samadhi.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/16 03:22 PM
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"..and confident focused men are what build civilizations and explore the cosmos.." "No, but it does make men feel more confident in themselves for many reasons.." Still two different things. I'm a 28 year old virgin and I can see this. Looks like its really not that simple.
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/16 02:02 PM
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But I'm having these feelings where I long to sort of have my own space. The main thing is you should probably communicate that to him, that you have a need to have your own private space where you can be alone and recharge. I don't really have a lot of activities outside of work, besides social events but those are typically business related You might be an introvert. If you aren't a hardcore introvert where you need solitude, you could spend time away from him at a place like a library, or a r…
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/16 03:01 PM
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It's the ultimate validation of masculinity. No its not. Which of these guys come across as the most masculine to the majority of men? A) Someone from TRP who has slept with a bunch of women. B) Retired United States General James Mattis C) Nikola Tesla Most men would choose B or C. Struggling for the future, learning from struggles, and winning or beating struggles, whether they are physical, emotional, or mental, is probably the ultimate validation of masculinity. Struggling to get sex with so…
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/16 02:29 PM
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Like others have said, there are different forms of intelligence-- and there are intelligent guys who hide their intelligence. I think they usually hide it because they can't find someone to have an intellectual conversation with a given topic they are interested in, and this includes not finding anyone worth teaching because they people they've tried to teach are too egotistical or critical. If you end up dating someone and they aren't dominant enough, outright stating that you have that as a n…
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/16 02:51 PM
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When I was in the most severe depression of my life, the book that helped pull me out of it, alongside working out, was Eckhart Tolle's The Power of Now. It could help out both of you. I'm an autodidact and I've always had an interest in scientifically-backed holistic medicine. If I ever got cancer, one thing I would try, is that I would binge swallow completely raw, minced or chopped garlic (like swallowing pills) on a daily basis to the most extreme degree I that could. I'm not saying it could…
/r/askTRP02/12/16 04:15 PM
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This is an example of Nice Girls. The Nice Guy uses covert contracts and being manipulative instead of stating his needs at the risk of showing emotional vulnerability, the Nice Girl is the same. A covert contract for a Nice Girl would be "lets just be FWB's", when in reality she wants commitment and exclusivity, and can get resentful on a long enough timeline when that never comes because she never stated it as a need, or she stated it and it was already turned down, and she didn't walk away wh…
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/16 03:54 PM
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I'm almost through the book "NO MORE MR. NICE GUY" and its helping me see how childhood abandonment issues in men and women cause the suppression of the communication of vulnerability and needs, sometimes along with the ability to set boundaries with others. This abandonment in some form from the parent(s) gets projected onto other people, the perception that love is scarce makes it scarcer. So in this mindset, they can't communicate their needs directly, even to themselves in their own head, be…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/16 04:20 PM
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This is mostly how I've felt for years. I've been learning how to not being in perpetual conflict with life, or right now, or any person, and spend most of my time flowing with life, and improving myself in ways that somehow honor my present emotions, even if they are negative emotions, including loneliness. I'm trying to suppress negative emotions less, see them as signs that there are things in my life I want to change, see them as things that can influence my identity and my actions in a way …
/r/TheRedPill01/12/16 09:18 AM
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No it is not my good man. But it could be a NEW definition. Can you GIVE IT A CHANCE!!?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/16 04:52 PM
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Groom-like suits are designed for cats.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/16 03:21 PM
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Combo breaker mother-fucker.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/16 03:05 PM
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OP, your post describes me 100%, along with the comment about having less social energy and getting it back from solitude. What does it feel like in the back animal part of your brain when you're in a noisy crowded place, and you are a hardcore introvert? Like screaming. Endless screaming and the potential threat of death. The hindbrain logic is: loud crowd of people = more emotionally driven = threat of death. There's a suppressed panic attack going on in the back of your head, and you'll never…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/16 02:45 PM
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Thanks, good luck.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/16 12:26 PM
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I feel like I've aged too much, because I can see blatant troll bait and say to myself, "You don't have to be a polemic activist tonight Class-Punk. Fuck what happens to irrational people. Just go cook up the last of those chicken wings." This is what happens when you spend enough years around MGTOW, you mostly give up on the intelligence of others and the hallmarks of your life are peaceful, silent eating.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/16 07:17 AM
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You can't lift yourself out of your traps, they're your shoulders bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/16 07:09 AM
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This might help. https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/563vum/how_to_potentially_stop_arguments_use_them_to/
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/16 06:57 AM
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When push comes to shove you have to take risks and be direct about only wanting to have sex in a committed relationship. If you think he's still going to possibly use you for sex, and your lack of trust in him is serious enough then maybe your intuition is right and you should give up on him. If you think there's a chance he could commit to you if you made him wait, since he is still getting over a break up, that's a big risk that if you take, you should take based on what kind of cues he's giv…
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/16 06:40 AM
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Toy Demon exists for a reason.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/16 04:03 PM
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You need to look at what you have achieved in life, outside of sex and romance, and take pride in that, and see that as the new foundation of your self-esteem. You should also focus on what you want out of life in the future, apart from women, what your anxiety isn't holding you back as much from doing, and what you can do to achieve that. Having a negative view of the future will destroy your motivation. Don't ever think that you know exactly how the future is going to pan out. You have to work…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/16 05:48 AM
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This is also probably a dealbreaker: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uTUcHNxKEWE
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/16 06:03 PM
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Women have hamsters. Men have gerbils. ..and Legends have guinea pigs. I think this advice sums it up: To induce oneitis in a guy, a woman has to make him believe she is his best available option. Actually being his best option in the SMP is pretty effective. OP, just enter his frame and be direct. After a particularly good day with him or after sex or whatever, just tell him, "I'm not comfortable with you seeing other girls and I would like us to be exclusive." But. Be prepared to walk if you d…
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/16 03:02 PM
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After a particularly good day with him or after sex or whatever, just tell him, "I'm not comfortable with you seeing other girls and I would like us to be exclusive." This is good advice. Though for some reason I can only imagine this scenario playing out with a woman holding a knife to a man's throat while he's in the shower.
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/16 02:58 PM
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He has an extreme crush on you, so its good you told him how you feel, but cutting off contact completely is the best for both of you. I think because men and women have different general brain structures, they project their brain structure onto each other and it causes this miscommunication. Women can have more emotional vulnerability in platonic friendships than straight men, and they confuse men for having the same kind of brain. Straight male friendships can have emotional vulnerability once…
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/16 02:24 PM
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Well if this post is real and communicating the issue didn't solve it, and the guy has no problem, then the present relationship isn't the root of the problem. Its one or more relationships in the past that created your present negative self-image.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/16 03:21 PM
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Thanks for the compliment. May we all stay focused on what we want out of life.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/16 02:25 PM
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Yeah, that's a good way of putting it. =)
/r/TheRedPill27/11/16 02:11 PM
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Thanks. Your compliment means a lot. I was starting to get sleep deprived so I was afraid I might've screwed up when I was doing the revision.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/16 02:10 PM
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I remember reading a post on TRP that wealthy guys generally don't wear blue jeans as much. Clothing can symbolize different things like how much money someone has, but obviously as a generalization, never an absolute. The person who knows the most about this is probably named Sherlock.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/16 03:41 PM
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I've been dealing with this just in self-improvement versus negativity and have found a solution. Extroverts are just thinking with their mouths open, even they can't escape over-thinking once in awhile, so the solution is not about you not living in your head, its about where your focus is most of the time. You only have so much time while you are awake and what you think about matters. The whole Law of Attraction, that if we think about something enough it will happen, is not scientifically va…
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/16 03:31 PM
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Thanks. I will bookmark it. But I would add, and this is just my opinion, that "feeling" can be valid in being present with the sense of touch, or in the sense of peace or bliss coming from meditation.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 02:20 PM
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This subreddit is heavily about male self-improvement. And the most improved a man could be to me, would be the man who could get that guy in your post off of sedatives, get him mentally functioning and confident, get him training, ect. A man who is beyond some master pick-up artist, who can run game on himself and other people both at the same time in the sense that he is creating seemingly improbable positive futures and making them happen. Someone who hasn't just improved himself dramatically…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/16 04:19 PM
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The world is your face. This has nothing to do with drugs. When you look in the mirror and see your face, you feel, "This is me." This feeling is not just from the mirror, you can look at the whole world, and feel, "This is me." You can look at the whole world and sky as if its your face, or your body, or a second body. You can walk around in yourself. You can feel the embrace of yourself, and the peace that comes with it. The only reason you don't perceive yourself as living in yourself is beca…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/16 04:04 PM
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but I fear I'm developing some kind of mini-psychosis and everything is just inside my head. Oh don't worry, it can get much worse than that, LOL.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/16 03:45 PM
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This is my personal opinion, feel free to completely disagree with it. Like the alpha and beta male, the omega male doesn't exist. You can create traits if you want, but there is a longstanding connection between at least half of these male classifications being used as insults: real science doesn't do that. No human being exists in a solid state of being, and anecdotal evidence is the weakest form of science.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/16 03:15 PM
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Yep.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/16 02:44 PM
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Dolphin semen and keto is the only way to become an IFFBB9000+ ProMaster Bodybuilder to fight the black hill-o-copter replicantiles and take back the aerospace that is and has been dominated by GANGSTALKER MICROWAVES!!!
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 03:43 PM
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I will cross my fingers that this is a trend in childfree women, LOL.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/16 03:37 PM
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Fuck sexual strategy. Here to share my theories on life strategy my friend. Sorry, but that actually does sound like something a cool dad would say.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 03:24 PM
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There are probably men with character out there who are willing to have a scenario of, "you have your money, I have my money", apart from maybe if you have kids, for the kids. They might not have as much money as you, but if they're attractive, and don't want to leech off of you, which you can only find out through blunt communication about it, then the guy could be a catch. Find what you are passionate about and improve yourself in that way. Being single and healthy or in a healthy relationship…
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/16 03:17 PM
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It might be harsh for him but there's no other option. If you string him along with friendship he'll end up getting a lot more angry at you in the future. Because men hide their emotions better, they can have extreme crushes and hide them better, just because he's not constantly showing the infatuation doesn't mean its gone. He would eventually get frustrated and try to ask you out, and then if the drama cooled off he would keep hanging on hoping things would change, and it will just go on like …
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/16 01:39 PM
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You can't be friends with him.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/16 08:10 AM
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I'm a 20 year old virgin and feel very ashamed of it. I found this funny. I am a 28 year old virgin, even though it is different for men. I once asked a black guy who was a 50 year old virgin if he had any advice, in case I stay single the rest of my life, which I might. To paraphrase him, "Sex isn't as big of a deal as what people make it out to be." He seemed to be indifferent enough to romance not to offer any advice about it. Stupid people generally have the most sex, and with the most amoun…
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/16 07:55 AM
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So I just ask the red pill to be clear here, what lifestyle should men ideally be living by your standard? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d9TpRfDdyU0
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/16 03:39 PM
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I got my dad a copper Roman coin about the size of a US dime, I think it was made around 300 AD. I've been seeing supposed Egyptian rings on E-Bay, no way to know if they are legit or not but like the medieval ones they look ugly as hell which might be a possible indication that they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/16 03:21 PM
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Weekly Offtopic-Sunday Megathread (20 November 2016) You can post off topic/jokes/puns as a comment to this Automoderator message. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h2SXKI3m14s
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/16 03:12 PM
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Thank you for your post, it resonates with me a lot.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 03:02 PM
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An adult taking responsibility for their own happiness understands what happiness they want out of life and creates a plan to obtain it. I think most adult human beings aren't this well-rounded. Their parents or other close relationships damage them in different ways. People grow the most when they pick themselves up and fix their problems themselves, but they can't always do that with every problem because they're bound to things like gendered brain differences and memories that have made them …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/16 02:37 PM
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There are some good suggestions here. I have a lot of experience with being in the moment, but I think I need to change my view of that to a more positive and empowering one. Thanks for the reply.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 01:58 PM
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Yeah but the actual MGTOW communities online don't really follow this. The vast majority of it is just anger targeted at women. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/16 01:49 PM
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As far as regular talking.. There's only one male outside of work that I talk to on a weekly basis who is my roommate. The only women outside of work I talk to on a weekly basis are family members. I can go weeks at a time between getting texts from someone I know. Most of the time I share my thoughts with people, they give me stupid replies, and when I share my dreams with them, they knock them down. So I have adapted by being avoidant and extremely quiet.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/16 10:29 AM
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Unconditional positive regard.. + getting to know someone by breaking into zoos and stealing goats.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 10:01 AM
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I own a lot of unread books but I'm often too depressed to read, same goes with watching documentaries and learning in general. I used to be really passionate about learning new things. I have been training hard, cooking, and meditating, but there's a sense that catatonic depression and nihilism is always closing in on me, and gloom is always infecting the things around me that might've brought me joy in the past, so I'm always pushing back against depression and I always feel surrounded by gloo…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 09:57 AM
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I am thankful for Christmas shopping and gift giving, its fun. If I pick out some inexpensive gift for a family member and its not a holiday, they'll feel guilty (or else they should, greedy jerks), so this time of year I'm absolved of that, and the little Dave Ramsey angel on my shoulder has his mouth scotch-taped and his hands twisty-tied behind him while he's kicking around trying to write his miniature newspaper column, and there is nobody better to give gifts to than immediate family member…
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/16 06:24 PM
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I don't understand it, men want women to be assertive Men want women to be sexually assertive and assertive about their needs. Sexually assertive = Self explanatory Need assertive = "I need/want to sleep on that side of the bed.", "I need/want to go get groceries.", as opposed to, "Which side of the bed are you sleeping on?", and "I've been thinking a lot about food." Generally nobody who is dating should be debating each other. Criticism, at least towards men, does little to nothing to build at…
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/16 03:13 PM
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Eventually they'll put the weed in the chicken.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/16 03:52 PM
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Looking at men who quickly look away when you make eye contact with them doesn't make me feel alpha, it makes me feel sad. Look at OP with all his muscle and ego, all I had to do was change my body language, now he's sad and in my frame. Just writing that because some people on this subreddit don't understand that sometimes humility and intelligence has more power than overt strength and directness. =P
/r/TheRedPill19/11/16 03:02 PM
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When I was going through the worst depression of my life, The Power of Now and its idea of the pain body, along with exercise, helped me to pull out of it.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/16 02:56 PM
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Its a moment. Or being EXTREMELY present. I think that's the best way to describe fulfillment.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/16 02:54 PM
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What were you saying about muscle mass? http://a4.files.biography.com/image/upload/c_fit,cs_srgb,dpr_1.0,q_80,w_620/MTE5NTU2MzE2MDU2NDIxODk5.jpg http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2009/09/22/article-0-068BA294000005DC-250_468x331.jpg http://www.bodybuilding.com/fun/images/2010/member-of-the-month-ed-cook_a.jpg https://i.ytimg.com/vi/l15OZ2z6nIs/maxresdefault.jpg http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-IJytZOxJ464/UtT-iz5-68I/AAAAAAAADB8/QtFVxwSqHl8/s1600/IG_14-01-2014_Vegan-Bodybuilder4.jpg http://www.odditycentr…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/16 10:05 AM
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We are expected to put a premium on women’s sustained happiness in a feminine-primary social order. Women’s happiness has become the prime directive and the metric for a relationship’s success. Any concern for men’s happiness is either a sign of his weakness or his problematic misogyny. My theory is that you can get rid of this social order or culture where female happiness is more important than male happiness in relationship success, and it will still exist, since women end relationships more …
/r/TheRedPill17/11/16 09:24 AM
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Bomb Cook I get mild dyslexia so I keep reading this as "cock bomb".
/r/TheRedPill17/11/16 06:50 AM
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yea I'm marrying the girl Signing a marriage contract is sort of like being poor and borrowing a large amount of drug money from a criminal organization, telling them you'll pay them back in a certain amount of time, and then trying to double it at the casino.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/16 06:26 AM
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My extremely real and physically tangible son who exists in time and space, Picard, really wants the remastered Blu-Ray collection of Star Trek: The Next Generation. He has a heart problem and he's bald due to.. we'll say medical issues, but he's hanging in there and enjoying his regular tea. He really wants you to set a course, for your heart, and get him this for Christmas. I don't like the show at all, but I told him that I would watch it with him since its his favorite. Hopefully some charit…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/16 06:08 PM
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I am at the bottom of my life and I am lost Well there probably isn't internet below sea level so you can be thankful that even though your life sucks since you're at the bottom of your life right now you won't suffocate in the ocean. A sense of humor with other people helps to deal with anxiety and depression. I'll never totally get rid of my anxiety or the feeling of being socially drained but what's helped me a little bit with anxiety is baby steps, I don't take medication or go to therapy, s…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/16 05:58 PM
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I was trying to find Rule 34 on Rule 38, and a hipster council just knighted me because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/16 05:45 PM
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I hate the term incel. I don't think most men are involuntarily celibate. I think male virgin is a better term. There may be men who have really, really low SMV who can't get a prostitute for some reason, who might be legitimate incels. Most male virgins at the least could get a prostitute, or lower their standards, possibly with alcohol, and have sex with a less attractive woman, but the issue is usually that they don't want meaningless sex, not that the animal part of their brain doesn't want …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/16 05:38 PM
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When I look in the mirror I'm happy that I'm in shape, but I mainly feel a lot of disassociation. I've been meditating for 8 years which is mainly why, but a lesser amount of the disassociation is from messing with DXM when I was a teenager. One of the reasons I don't like traveling is because I have underlying derealization where any location just registers partially as nothingness. To some degree I also feel detached from my own name. I'm happy its not the kind of disassociation that would pre…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/16 05:23 PM
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There could be individual variation, but the most important hormone in causing libido is testosterone. And that can go along with Vitamin D levels, a lot of people have Vitamin D deficiency from sunlight deficiency, which can affect testosterone, potentially cause catatonic depression, affect joints and the ability for us to actually get the calcium we consume. Women also need testosterone, just obviously not anywhere as much as men.
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/16 07:12 AM
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Larger or regular amounts of D3 for men or women can boost libido. A lot of people also have Vitamin D deficiency from sunlight deprivation. Vitamin D3 might actually be the closest safe thing to female viagra. https://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/1rb9k9/now_wife_has_her_libido_back_after_taking_vitamin/
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/16 07:08 AM
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Everyone, especially woman, don't care about much more than Netflix. I know, this is not the newest insight but bear with me here. How does it not drive you nuts? One lesson I've learned in life is that if you get too smart, you usually have to decide whether you want to pursue sex with a stupid woman, or just masturbate so you don't have to deal with them.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 06:13 AM
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Good luck!
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/16 01:46 PM
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I don't ever expect to meet a woman who is like me politically. I think I might be libertarian in some ways, socialist in others. So I'm a libertarian socialist, political relativist, or rationalist. I decide my political views based on evidence and avoiding logical fallacies, and from there, find the highest probability argument for any particular view, and adopt the highest probability view unless a higher probability view comes along. I see this as the most futuristic and logical way to make …
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/16 02:54 PM
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Thanks. There isn't a lot of people I can look at and say, "They are genius." But that's how I feel about Sue Johnson, she's a woman I have a tremendous amount of respect for. Her books give some contrast apart from the hardcore red pill view of things from MGTOW, PUA, and red pill'ers, which is a lot more of a depressing view. After trying out that latter view to the extreme, I have to say that optimism is more favorable.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/16 02:39 PM
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Sorry Rollo, I was supposed to spend about 10 minutes jotting down some thoughts but instead I wrote you an autistic-tinged Victorian love letter. This is not intended as criticism so much as a differing view. My present position is stumbling around in the dark with bits and pieces of contradictory evidence, studying romantic love and losing sanity on the way to the monastery. Part of me is skeptical of the romantic/opportunistic love idea. I would say that not all men necessarily want women to …
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/16 04:26 PM
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I was thinking about this yesterday based on something a married male friend said that if a woman wants a man she should bake him something and give it to him while wearing a skirt, which will never happen to most men in their lifetimes despite that they would probably like it to. It seems like cooking or baking food exclusively for one person is a clearer way of showing interest for women compared to being friendly, playing with hair, or making longer eye contact, which are too subtle for most …
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/16 02:21 PM
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I thought it was about a friend she knew IRL. I looked at the post, don't know.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/16 02:07 PM
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Why the hell are there guys who still use their hand? I never use my hand. I've probably got more artificial vaginas than anyone else on this subreddit! You can get some intense sleeves off of Toy Demon for dirt cheap. Fleshlights are softer though. And the cheapest lube is probably on Amazon, I recommend Shibari.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/16 04:38 PM
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I am in shape and have a good life but deal with the same kind of nihilism. I've been interested in science and theory behind both romantic love and enlightenment. I'm picky with women, and the colleges blockade how much I can study around romantic love and attachment theory as it relates to relationships in general, since I'm not going into debt, so I tend to either obsess over meditation or take breaks from it to be contemplative and nihilistic, lol. Seriously though, I'm typing this with one …
/r/TheRedPill11/11/16 04:15 PM
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Women usually find it creepy to be hit on online. But I honestly would rather have a woman I know in some capacity locally hit on me online rather than in real life, because in real life I can be a lot more picky and superficial, probably because I spend too much online, LOL. I think there was a woman I would've dated that I actually rejected because of this. She was standing next to her male friend, he came into my work, and asked me if I had a girlfriend. I looked over at the girl and there we…
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/16 03:05 PM
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So do I, preferably with as much directness as possible. If hook-up culture and casual sex wasn't so popular I think it would happen more. I wonder what the ratio is of quiet, non-approaching guys being more monogamous. =P
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/16 02:45 PM
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I was. =P That's why I said "all men", since not all men are only looking for casual sex. But I messed up, I should've added that she should obviously try to figure out how monogamous the guy is through conversation. And if he is at least open to a long term relationship and seems okay, meet him in person and see how it goes.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/16 02:38 PM
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I'll try to be honest. I'm a male virgin. But because of meditation, there are times I've legitimately felt like a demi-god. I've had moments of loneliness, depression, and suicidal ideation in my life as well. But I've looked at men chasing women for sex and romance, and thought about what would happen if they lost that, or couldn't get that anymore, how misery would flood them because they lost their external validation. Advanced meditation seems like its very difficult, but its real internal …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/16 04:10 PM
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I've never heard that before but there is something super creative about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/16 03:35 PM
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If you don't have a lot of relationship experience it can mess you up, alternatively, so can a lot of failed relationships or casual sex. When you are single for a prolonged amount of time, its harder to feel emotional highs, but you are also more emotionally level or neutral, in that you can't get the extreme emotional lows at all, or as much as you would with a bad romantic relationship. So if you were severely depressed and single, I think it could be even more extreme for you in a bad romant…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/16 03:23 PM
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"Hi, I find you attractive." Men aren't women, so they usually don't find it creepy when random people initiate conversation with them on social media. I don't want him to think that I'm chasing him That might be your problem. You think chasing all men will doom any possibility of a relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/16 11:14 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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