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I'd said something similar to friends I've helped. But what I say and what they hear are different. By confidence, I don't mean "confidence with women" you should have confidence in yourself by way of your own accomplishments. Hobbies, things you've done/can do. Aside. I don't agree with "approaching with the goal of being rejected" I say "approach with the goal of giving out your number/social(s)" you mayor may not get rejected. The point should be gaining confidence in talking to women and bei…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/22 09:41 PM
72

Does your husband know how much you make? Alternatively let him pay and spoil him with gifts from time to time. His hobby pay off his vehicle put a huge down payment on a "toy" (boat, motorcycle, backyard bbq/kitchen, etc) Make extra principal payments on the mortgage Upgrade his phone/computer Buy him a suit Only if you're comfortable doing so (financially/emotionally)
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/22 02:53 PM
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Well shit. I don't even wear cologne, but I'm buying some on payday
/r/MensRights23/04/22 04:51 PM
1

I understand this feeling. But it's all a matter of perspective, you could sit and wallow is this mindset til it gets the better of you. Or you could test your family. If you have short term disability through your job you can set this plan into motion this weekend. Otherwise, squirrel away some money in a secret bank account where the paperwork goes to a different address. Pain is subjective, go do some work in the garage, pile some boxes around your hip/thighs and scream bloody murder. Hopeful…
/r/MensRights21/03/22 06:34 PM
4

Oh, I wasn't being woke, just passing on a nearly useless factoid that's stuck in my mind for about a decade. As far as parental equity, the argument can be made that the best way to handle this, is with a multigenerational household. Where grandparents assist with raising/rearing children and keeps the elders active.
/r/MensRights09/03/22 10:36 AM
6

Actually, human males can lactate.
/r/MensRights09/03/22 09:49 AM
16

Do you have any quotes or studies to back this claim? I didn't care that there were females in my unit. However I wouldn't want one in a foxhole, not because they're less capable. But because males would put themselves at a greater risk to save wounded female than a wounded male. This is why females aren't allowed to be in combat arms units. (Aside from a few special forces units and they have to meet the same qualifications as males) The biggest thing I've seen and been annoyed with about femin…
/r/MensRights09/03/22 07:55 AM
9

Next time lie and say you're gay, or have a Significant Other. Although the latter might not work, hospitals are rampant with adultery.
/r/MensRights01/03/22 11:08 AM
5

I find it amusing, the red pill in general. This is just Machismo, minus the family. What most Latinos grew up with up to the mid 2010s. But I get it, there's not really any other place to learn masculinity
/r/TheRedPill30/09/21 04:44 PM
4

Maybe find a content creator that explains some of the stuff he's into.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/21 12:52 PM
24

It can be overwhelming trying to "get into" that many hobbies. Since you say that you zone out, presumably when he explains X Y or Q about comics or video games. I would suggest asking him what he likes about Comics. Who's his favorite villain? What super power would he want? What was the first video game he played? Any content creators that he likes? Finding out the why of someone can be more engaging that having facts read off.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/21 08:59 AM
2

Oh drat, didn't read the article. I expected them to keep the trend in the article. Well, at least there's some progress
/r/MensRights19/08/21 05:26 PM
92

Wow, the news headline says rape in reference to a male child! Finally some progress
/r/MensRights19/08/21 05:06 AM
1

A friend's daughter (16) has the same goals, at first my aversion wasn't because I'm against marriage, I just don't like kids and forget that other people want them around. There was a post I saw somewhere, that a female doesn't get why other females think she's crazy for wanting a lasting marriage. And she gave the example of how she landedher husband. She got a degree in finance/CPA with minors in stuff's to how to manage/run a business. She lounged around the STEM buildings, set her sights on…
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/21 10:01 PM
9

study the sidebar like you have to get an A come back when you need help on how to apply it
/r/askTRP21/06/21 05:39 AM
3

go ahead and talk to females now, get in the habit/practice of flirting. ALL THE TIME. fitness can help, if you have some game. Females aren’t gonna throw themselves at you just cuz you’re ripped. You still have to approach. However, Wit, Charm, Charisma and Humor will get you laid regardless of looks and money.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 05:29 AM
7

I hadn't thought of this, how to keep plates around longer. I just "do" but I had to break it down for a friend recently. What I do is establish a pattern of communication. Messaging for logistics AND I message 2-3x a week "do anything fun this past weekend?" (If I didn't see them) or "how's your week going" on Monday or Tuesday. "Got anything fun planned after work?" On Weds or Thurs "Got anything fun planned for the weekend" early Friday Not all plates are sitting around waiting/hoping to see …
/r/askTRP21/06/21 02:04 AM
1

Amy Schumer's a four? 🤢
/r/askTRP21/06/21 01:48 AM
3

Why do you care about body count? It's just your turn, hop on til it's not
/r/askTRP21/06/21 01:46 AM
2

Get a suit, tailored, and stand out
/r/askTRP21/06/21 01:27 AM
1

Bad idea, but it can't hurt to reach out. don't admit fault, simply say "Fathers Day got me thinking of my princess (or whatever you called her)" Just realize it's from a weak position, YOU are the one ATTEMPTING to CRAWL back to HER. TL;DR would you respect her if she came crawling back to you?
/r/askTRP21/06/21 01:21 AM
1

I wouldn't care what the LTR is serious about or not. The fact that she threatened acting up is grounds for dismissal. Perhaps in 3-6 months she can work her way into plate
/r/askTRP19/06/21 05:06 AM
1

First, never check you phone when you're with a female. Respect each other's time. Personally, I have zero shame. I would have called her out. "You don't have the balls to cause a scene" and let her act a fool, finish my meal and just pay for mine. Since you were considering leaving and paying, but worried about her acting a fool. I would have excused myself to go to the restroom, found my waiter, paid the bill (my half but dealers choice) tipped BIG and let the waiter know she can pay for her h…
/r/askTRP19/06/21 12:41 AM
3

You dodged a bullet and you don't even see it. This is why you vet, just cuz she's nice and the sex is good doesn't make her GF/LTR material. Her threatening to cause a scene would be the end of her being in a relationship with me. And if that threat was made while she's an FWB then she'd stay an FWB, never in the running for GF
/r/askTRP18/06/21 08:16 PM
1

"i think it's best we (move on/ don't see each other) you've disrespected me by wasting my time. I wish you the best" Hard next
/r/askTRP18/06/21 07:00 PM
10

Let her make the first move, but make all the double entendres
/r/askTRP16/06/21 07:16 PM
1

This
/r/askTRP16/06/21 07:05 PM
32

I've have sex with a few (4 IIRC over the past 25 years) What you're describing just sounds like a lesbian that thinks you're cool and wants to be friends. Which can work in your favor as pre-selection and social proof. Don't fuck it up by trying to fuck her
/r/askTRP16/06/21 07:04 PM
2

Scissors and a double edge safety razor
/r/askTRP15/06/21 05:06 AM
5

Why are you taking her back to yours? Fuck her in the parking lot or her place. Don't bring a female to your home until she's been vetted. #dafuqiswrongwithyou
/r/askTRP14/06/21 07:17 AM
16

My… mantra/mentality/mindset when I'm out and about and approach females is "if you act right, I might let you suck my cock" I don't neg, or become the center of attention, I just flirt with wait staff/bartender. Comment on something I overhear, until I spot some green lights/IOIs. Then I introduce myself and play it by ear. In my experience, female ego crumbles under a scrutinizing stare and a comment along the lines of "do you do that to make your friends think you're cool or are you just bluf…
/r/askTRP13/06/21 07:36 PM
1

Think of it this way, in 15 ish years, your kids will (hopefully) me out of the house. By then you could both have animosity and just avoid each other until one of you dies, or one of you finally files for divorce. Remember, the kids come second to you husband. They're gonna leave, and you'll be stuck in a house with a stranger. This doesn't mean ignore your kids, feed 'em love 'em and send them to school. When hubby gets home, drop what you're doing and greet him. He is probably glad you're sta…
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/21 05:00 PM
2

Low bun? Personally not a fan of anything that "hides" the length. But I understand that it keeps your hair healthy.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/21 04:49 PM
0

Don't focus on the negative or the possibility of divorce. Be a better you and the best housewife. Keep his belly full and his balls empty and you'll never have to worry about another woman
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/21 04:47 PM
17

This, Communication is key. Talk dirty during. After ask if he prefers A or B (more spit or more gagging sounds, more eye contact or more talking, etc) Every guy is different, in terms of what they like. There's even some who don't like BJs at all.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/21 04:44 PM
1

Presuming your "long hair" is at least to your shoulders. I'm a sucker for something as simple as your hair to one side. That said, it's your hair, do what you want.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/21 04:42 PM
20

OF has no bearing on peak. quit wasting time on e-thots, go out and daygame
/r/askTRP13/06/21 04:38 PM
0

11 - Dating/chasing girls 13 - got a blowjob (would've gotten head around 11 but I grew up in a barrio, English slang was not my strongsuit and I thought head meant she wanted to gnaw on in for some reason) 17 - sex (was scared to get a girl pregnant, else it would've been 13)
/r/askTRP13/06/21 04:04 PM
3

What you should do is learn to read body language. Learn that and you'll know she's gonna say yes before you introduce yourself
/r/askTRP13/06/21 04:01 PM
2

Now, it seemed like it was good banter. But you gotta read body language as well, and not just keeping an eye out for IOIs. You gotta look for red lights, or whatever RP calls the opposite of IOIs
/r/askTRP13/06/21 03:49 PM
2

I only use dating apps when I travel. Set "my zip code" to the town I'm traveling to a week before I land. Matches for days. Otherwise I just approach in person
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 10:33 AM
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I then told her “How about you come back to my place tonight so I can show you?” In a sarcastic tone. She then made a disgusted facial expression This was your clue to stop
/r/askTRP13/06/21 10:30 AM
1

I'm a sex addict and more in tune with reading body language etc, where I can get laid within an hour of leaving my house with a moderately attractive female. With minimal effort, this dating/hooking up shit is like breathing. I'm the asshole that swoops in and takes the girl your taking to for the past hour, just for my own amusement. But it's no longer amusing, there's no point, no benefit. So I keep my rotation and venture out for replacements. Even then, it's boring
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 01:21 AM
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I personally don't date with the intent of marriage because I'm a widower. A. That's a pain that will test your mettle B. It is unlikely I will find another female like my late wife. That said, I realize the market is fucked. And I know how to manipulate the market. There's a few female friends I could see and be satiated every day of the week, or I can do my job, my side hustles and chill with my friends. You can whine about the problem, or find/make your own solution. No one owes you anything
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 10:42 PM
8

Beach/lake/river activity is the only reason to have a shirtless pic. Females, in general like mystery, a tight fitting dark shirt will make them wonder and swipe on you better than a shirtless pic regardless of circumstance
/r/askTRP11/06/21 10:28 PM
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This is how it's supposed to work. Just don't get pussy whipped
/r/askTRP11/06/21 10:26 PM
8

Tell her you support her decision, but you're gonna be seeing other people while she detoxes.
/r/askTRP10/06/21 05:08 PM
137

go to an AA meeting. The fact that you realize the problem and willing to go to an AA meeting, you're not alone. You got this bro
/r/askTRP09/06/21 03:16 AM
5

Do both, Take the job, every free moment you're not at work, grind on your start-up. No women, no parties. Eat, work, workout, grind, sleep repeat.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 10:57 AM
1

Add something specific to the "I just noticed {X} And wanted ask you about/where/how/when you got it" the best is if you can manage to ask how they feel about something.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 10:55 AM
3

How long did you vet her before agreeing to a LTR?
/r/askTRP22/05/21 02:36 PM
1

you'd be surprised how many females wouldn't say no to any of it
/r/askTRP17/05/21 03:21 AM
1

Perhaps you misread/understood my point, the act of sex is automatic for me. By that I mean it no more important to me than brushing my teeth or taking a shower. That does not mean I don't perform with gusto and enthusiasm. Simply that for 30-40 minutes I'm checked out.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 03:16 AM
1

besides a committed relationship that all her and my peers were jealous of, and phenomenal sex?
/r/askTRP17/05/21 02:25 AM
7

This.
/r/askTRP15/05/21 11:32 PM
4

Yes and no Yes because you eventually get to a point where "it's just another hole" No because one can focus and want to be with one female (should she prove herself worthy) but even then, while I was able to pair bond. Sex was just, auto-pilot. Like taking a shower or brushing my teeth. The caveat is that I'm a sex addict, so I may an anomaly than the rule.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 06:32 PM
19

"the real question is do you deserve to find out"
/r/askTRP22/04/21 03:42 PM
2

Plates get Google voice, business/family get the real number
/r/askTRP21/04/21 07:54 PM
1

You didn't put her on her trick, you just came into a situation. Best case you're a sugar baby's sugar baby.
/r/askTRP21/04/21 07:53 PM
2

This, pimpin ain't easy.
/r/askTRP21/04/21 07:52 PM
2

It's just a fancy word for tease/flirt. It amuses me how… dumbed down English is. In Spanish there's a lot of words that are/would be considered archaic in English, and others are just the scientific/medical word for something. Eg in Spanish we don't say "chew your food" one would say "masticate your food" To your point, I grew up with the knowledge/idea that females are coquettish. Because they have to be coy and preserve/show/prove they're pure (virgins). As to how to deal with it, it's just a…
/r/askTRP21/04/21 07:51 PM
1

You wouldn't?
/r/askTRP20/04/21 09:54 PM
1

I'm just good at reading body language and not wasting time for sometime in the future to possibly maybe Meetup and see what might happen. Unless you got an hourglass figure, long hair and a cisfemale or post op trans, not interested.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 09:48 PM
1

I stopped counting at 1000 on 2 Jan 2000, but that count is skewed. There's a lot of "half points" where sex after 24 hours from initial contact, or only head in any timeframe. So 600 ish points were just from head and/or getting it in after 24 hours
/r/askTRP20/04/21 09:42 PM
1

Random females, any that are good in bed get to stay in rotation, but they filter themselves out by the Valentine's. I haven't had a land whale since '99 when I realized my value.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 09:36 PM
1

I'm only interested in females
/r/askTRP20/04/21 09:27 PM
1

No, they are not. Men may want sex a lot, but a sex addict will ruin lives, wreck homes, lose jobs just to get it in. Your numbers for n-count is an average month for me.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 09:22 PM
1

Focus on improving yourself. How's your hygiene, do you shower more than once a day? Do you apply cologne correctly? Do you know how your body reacts to deodorant vs anti-perspirant? Is your beard neat/are you clean shaven? Are you taking care of your skin? Females can assess this in under a minute when you approach, all the swag, wit and humor won't overcome B.O., poor hygiene or a fucked up haircut
/r/askTRP20/04/21 09:21 PM
2

Make business cards, Name number and/or social media screenname Keep the interaction short, and end it with "hey I gotta run, here's my card" and make sure wherever you're keeping the card, it stays flat/dry AND that you only have a few. You don't want it to look like you have a hundred cards and just hand it out Willy nilly, even if you actually do hand out 50 a day, make it seem like it's a limited edition Yu-Gi-Oh card… or whatever the hell card kids are into these days
/r/askTRP20/04/21 09:18 PM
1

Eh, I'm a sex addict so my numbers are an outlier/anomaly.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 09:13 PM
2

as long as when you say something "polarizing" you don't keep going, try to explain it or apologize, you'll be fine. There's been times I'm messaging a female and a there's an opening for making a sexual joke. I say it, and no response. neither positive or negative. and an hour, a day or a week later we start up a new conversation. Don't overthink things
/r/askTRP18/04/21 08:40 PM
4

Amused Master oh that's cute, but I saw better last night keeping your clothes on won't keep my attention you know I'm not into you, right?
/r/askTRP18/04/21 08:29 PM
7

You did NOT say turning my butt into McDonald's meat…
/r/askTRP18/04/21 08:25 PM
3

Enter the Kettlebell by Pavel Tsatsouline
/r/askTRP18/04/21 07:24 PM
20

This
/r/askTRP18/04/21 12:37 PM
1

A. - Don't Shit where you eat This should be the first rule of TRP, or at least in the top 5. Never hook-up with a current co-worker/boss/direct report. EVER B. - Improve yourself before trying to get laid If you follow/learn the side bar COMPLETELY you would know how to handle/proceed C. - No hoe is worth an asswhuppin This may be a lesson that needs to be learned the hard way… ignore A & B
/r/askTRP17/04/21 07:00 PM
2

Meetup.com Essentially FB events based on interests. Though guitar groups might be more interested in jamming than dating. There are some groups that are for singles, usually by age group. And often times they meet up for group dinners, bowling (pre COVID) so there's plenty of options. Just a matter of how much you want to deal with new people
/r/askTRP15/04/21 05:44 PM
1

Rotation, multiple plates I used to have them scheduled for certain days of the week, but nowadays I can just send a group text for the first available to come over
/r/askTRP14/04/21 06:51 PM
2

This is where you keep a mini harem lined up
/r/askTRP14/04/21 06:40 PM
7

Back in my early 20s a dry spell for me was anything over 12 hours. I did come to realize later that I am a sex addict. Even though I was raised with the idea that the more notches on your belt, the more of a man you are. When I realized that I was having sex with females I didn't even find attractive, just to get it in. And that I was using sex to deal with anything that was remotely negative, bad day at work, lonely, sad, bored, that I used sex just to feel good. Well, it wasn't until I sat ba…
/r/askTRP14/04/21 06:18 PM
1

LTR no. plate sure
/r/askTRP14/04/21 03:41 PM
2

Find a hobby: knitting, woodworking, custom audio cables (niche side hustle), pottery -- ideally something you do with your hands. Not much beats doing something with your hands and having a tangible object to say "I made that." Perhaps not as satisfying at first since what you make may not be great, but you accomplished a goal. And as a bonus you get a boost of… some feel good hormones idr the name atm. But the point is threefold, 1 the … dopamine? shot, 2 the sense of pride AND 3 learning/know…
/r/askTRP14/04/21 03:39 PM
5

This
/r/askTRP13/04/21 03:47 PM
37

7 days? For a small lie? 36 hours should've been the max. Now you're single, learn and move on
/r/askTRP13/04/21 03:46 PM
3

American Society* Latin Americans grew up red pilled all their life, Machismo.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/21 07:56 AM
3

Get a vasectomy, some insurance plans cover it for free. It's reversible (if for some retarded reason you decide you want children) and if you keep your mouth shut about, you can find out when your plate is being a hoe (gets preggo by another male)
/r/askTRP12/04/21 02:18 PM
2

Oh, I didn't mean they don't like it, simply their initial reaction is being intimidated.
/r/askTRP12/04/21 04:15 AM
1

Yeah, once females get past the "oh he won't kill/rape me" they love it, and yes, there's a significant number of females that have CNC fantasies. I just got tired of living in the gym and supplements, now I just do calesthenics, kettlebells for functional strength over size.
/r/askTRP12/04/21 03:42 AM
1

Yes, they do love being manhandled. But they're intimidated when one is huge like a body builder. I'm 1.8m 100kg, 18% body fat? (Last time I checked with calipers was after news years so I'm padding 5%) Back when I was jacked, 110kg 9-12% body fat (caliper and bodygem measured). But supplements and and a pound and a half of meat per day get expensive and exhausting to eat every few hours
/r/askTRP12/04/21 03:31 AM
1

There's a difference between NFL player who has money. And a guy that's jacked and could manhandle them like they're a toddler against their will. So NFL players are attractive to females. Bodybuilder males are scary to females
/r/askTRP12/04/21 03:10 AM
1

Too situational to cover everything. But I usually make a joke along the lines of "hi my name is Gallo, you're cute enough, I'll let you buy me a drink" it's not a line females hear, if ever. And they laugh and I go from there. Other times it just depends on what I see her doing/wearing and go from there
/r/askTRP11/04/21 11:15 PM
4

Being in shape/lean/cut yes Getting big and mistaken for a body builder/MMA fighter/NFL player- no. Plus being big is expensive
/r/askTRP11/04/21 08:17 PM
3

I grew up with 60s-70s Spanish love ballads, which just reinforced red pill ideas, Machismo. The difference then, being you can have your cake and eat it too. Get married, have a house, wife and kid and scratch the occasional itch. English love songs, have a more beta… tone/message/ideal. As long as you recognize that it's just a song I doubt it'll affect you. Unless your the type to start pimping, selling cane, and shooting muthafuckas that diss you cuz you heard an NWA album. I think you're go…
/r/askTRP11/04/21 08:15 PM
3

So, I'm not familiar with all these terms. I'm Latino and grew up with Machismo/red pill before the matrix came out, let alone RP as an ideology. Sometimes I offer to reach something high up for them. Or depending on the aisle I'd ask "hey I've never had (whatever she's holding in her hand) what do you like about it/ do you have a recipe you'd recommend" Occasionally an employee will ask how I'm doing, do you need any help finding anything. "Yeah, actually, hold on… (grab my phone) I need some h…
/r/askTRP11/04/21 08:06 PM
0

As a Dom, I would highly recommend you find a kink community and learn what you can from a few Doms. Thats entirely to you, whether you want to invest that time and effort. But without a doubt, establish safe and caution words safe word = stop, game over caution word = pause, take it down a notch and start/ramp up slower If she says stop/safe word, that means STOP. This isn't 50 shades of retarded shit. OBEY SAFE WORDS
/r/askTRP11/04/21 08:00 PM
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I have a rule that I live by, if she doesn't suck, I don't fuck. If the head ain't right, I leave. Yes I've pulled my pants back up within a minute cuz it was bad, and left. Do you, stick to your guns and ignore everyone's opinions if you want. No one here pays any of your bills, so dont worry about it
/r/askTRP11/04/21 07:56 PM
3

I do this all the time, though I'm nearly 50. Target, whole foods, trader Joe's, farmers market is like shooting fish in a barrel.
/r/askTRP11/04/21 07:47 PM
1

I am all for practicing with low interest females. I doubt anyone will be lucky enough to be a bartender in a high volume dance club anytime soon to people watch and learn body language/social Cues/IOIs from others' interactions. You the best place to practice, is by practicing where you can. Now if this were pre-covid, or you're in a fully open state, then yes. Ignore low interest females and daygame in public
/r/askTRP11/04/21 07:46 PM
4

Very few 10s are not crazy and good in bed. Though I'd recommend you stop drinking, or at the very least limit yourself to 2 drinks in a 12 hour period. wit + compusure > false confidence
/r/askTRP11/04/21 07:42 PM
5

I'm a sex addict and ran through a slew of females in the 90s. I realized I'm a sex addict about 10 years ago and toned it down. I can tell you empirically, sex hot females doesn't mean/equal that the sex is going to be good/great. Personally I prefer to keep good sex partners around than have a HB10 on my arm to show of to people I don't know/credit about
/r/askTRP11/04/21 08:54 AM
3

tell the waiter to separate the check, pay yours and be on your way.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 11:16 PM
1

one could go either way with this. depends on my mood in the moment, sometimes I play the pauper, others as successful as I am. regardless, they only get my time and my cock
/r/askTRP05/04/21 05:04 AM
5

This, If you didn't grow up scrapping, you're gonna get you ass handed to you. And even if you take up a martial art, there's no guarantee you'll win a fight-- class sparring is significantly different fighting. You have to be able to "turn off" and see you opponent as less than human.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 02:15 AM
5

If it's a potential hook-up, LTR, whatever, don't answer. Be vague: A. It adds mystery and makes her want to know more B. She should earn every bit of information she wants from you Just say you can pay your bills and afford whatever toys you want. She'll likely take that as, "ooo he can afford to buy me stuff as well" but that's another conversation
/r/askTRP05/04/21 02:13 AM
1

If it's intentional dread, that she notices. I'd tell her exactly what she did to offend/earn dread. Then tell her the consequence/s of the next time she "misbehaves". If it's unintentional dread, you're too focused on a potential plate, preoccupied with something at work etc. Let her know it's unintented, sim.ly you've got work stuff on your mind (even if you are thinking about a potential plate)
/r/askTRP05/04/21 02:09 AM
3

I watch the second showing on opening day, then I watched it 12 more times while it was still in theaters
/r/askTRP31/03/21 06:22 PM
6

I don't pay attention to them, the only thing I've ever learned is the name/term for what I've been doing since the 90s. But, I am amused how they bicker like females
/r/askTRP31/03/21 06:21 PM
1

@kneesovertoesguy on Instagram
/r/askTRP29/03/21 01:47 AM
1

Not at all. Being fit is better than ripped Yeah you'll get eyes on you when you take your shirt off at the pool/beach but if you don't have game and wit, you might as well be blue pill
/r/askTRP28/03/21 05:43 PM
4

Just wait, that female you've got oneitis for will fuck several males she barely knows.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 05:41 PM
2

Putting on muscle is expensive, I'm 6'/1.8m and weighed 235#/106k at my best, I was 9-12% body fat (calipers) the amount of supplements, and food I had to eat was nearly $70USD/day back in 2005. You have to eat constantly, and when you're closer to your goal, large muscles low body fat missing a single workout can't set you back 5-7 days of progress. Just some words of caution. Now I'm more focused on functional strength, calisthenics, kneesovertoesguy, rings and kettlebells
/r/askTRP28/03/21 05:20 PM
1

What's keeping you in a high cost area? Can you work remotely?
/r/askTRP26/03/21 02:16 AM
1

FHA loans only need 3% of the purchase price. So 3k per 100k of price. If you don't have it, quit the Starbucks, air Force ones, consoles, clubs and drinking. Grind out and save 10k, get a second job so you can enjoy this life in a few years instead of never
/r/askTRP25/03/21 08:51 PM
2

Do you own a home? If you've never gotten a mortgage you can get an FHA loan, with 3% down. Buy a multi-family home (duplex, quad, apartment complex) and have the other tenants pay your mortgage and your bills. If you get a complex, or even a quad and you have no residential maintenance skills. Hire a Real estate management Co. to collect rent and handle maintenance. They usually charge 10-20% of what's collected and handle the money however you want They can collect all the rent, find tenants, …
/r/askTRP25/03/21 07:47 PM
3

Just remember, in 5 years she'll have a cuck wrapped around her finger and she'll be wishing she could fuck a guy half as attractive as you'll be cuz you won't stop improving yourself and you'll have a mini harem to keep you warm whenever you want
/r/askTRP24/03/21 07:21 PM
1

Go to a military recruiter, take the ASVAB test get your score and sit with the recruiter and see what your job options would be. Don't worry, no matter what they tell you, you aren't obligated to ANYTHING until you sign a contract and swear in. So don't sign anything, even if they say it's a waiver. Lesson 1 don't sign anything you haven't read and/or don't understand. The point of this is to see what job/s best suit your skillset/understanding. They'll tell you what jobs you quality for, and w…
/r/askTRP24/03/21 07:18 PM
2

Just about everything, I'm Latino/Mexican-American/Texan. In my household, as far back as I can remember I was told and inferred that the measure of a man is based on how many notches he has on his belt. My stepdad would brag to his friends that I got a girl to drop her panties for me when I was five, and saw a room full of naked women by the time I was seven. I never learned RP the way it's presented in the sidebar. Instead of IOIs I learned to read body language as Stop, Go, detour (change app…
/r/askTRP24/03/21 07:10 PM
-1

You're worried about 4!? I don't get why anyone worries about body count. Even if you plan on marrying a female, body count is the last thing I worry/ask about.
/r/askTRP22/03/21 09:42 PM
0

Don't lie, down the road she's gonna brag about her skills. Then one day she'll cross my path and I'll have to not only tell her she's bad but she won't be getting laid that night cuz I'll leave and I'll be mad at you for convincing her she's any good and I wasted a few hours of my time.
/r/askTRP22/03/21 09:39 PM
1

I understand the "nice guy alpha" at least in terms of having to be cautious/careful with any type of accusations. You can still be nice (gentleman) without taking any shit/maintaining frame. But my example deals with once you're already dating them. I don't let my dates touch a door handle is my presence. She stays within arms reach (except for going to the bathroom) and I "lead" her by the base of her neck. As far as getting 7+ chasing you, it takes a little more work. But that "work" is just …
/r/askTRP22/03/21 09:35 PM
3

Leave/move out. No warning, no heads up, find a place, even if it's just renting a shitty room from Craigslist/Kijiji
/r/askTRP20/03/21 10:56 PM
2

Why are you pushing for OF? Are you gonna get a cut or are you just intrigued by hooking up with a porn star? In either case, the one that trying to put restrictions on you soft next, or just flip it "no. I'll only fuck you on/for OF"
/r/askTRP18/03/21 08:35 PM
6

One can be acquaintances with an ex, but not friends. Her only use to you should be her circle of friends. But you're gonna do what you want, when you realize that it's pointless then we can talk
/r/askTRP11/03/21 08:05 AM
1

yeah, a decade ago I wanted to be ripped again. But even in my late 30s I realized that I couldn't skip a training/workout session let alone a day You lose gains quicker when you're older. So I settled on just being in better shape than my peers, though generally that makes me look better than most males over 35. And I can live with that
/r/askTRP04/03/21 08:48 PM
1

the "sweet spot" in terms of muscle maturity, and take this with a grain of salt as I'm going off of military PT standards and stuff I've read/heard when I was training back in the day. Is 25-27 is male muscle "Peak" in terms of metabolism, muscle memory etc. In other words, It starts going downhill in your late 20s. Consider how Cross fit games has categories for ages. I forget what age "masters" (polite way of say "old af") but rarely does one win the top prize over the age of 30.
/r/askTRP04/03/21 08:26 PM
3

I'm nearly 50, and metabolism/food choices catch up to you. Took me nearly 40 years to quit sodas. But overall I've been between great and decent shape. I quit doing PT after I got out of the Army and slowly packed on pounds. In my late 20s I got rid of it and got ripped/huge (being bodybuilder size/ripped is expensive) Now I just do calesthenics, rings and kettlebell exercises every other day. Eventually you're going to HAVE to eat more veggies and less processed foods. RN what's worked best fo…
/r/askTRP04/03/21 06:40 PM
10

Do the bare minimum, even if it means you fall behind. This would be best if you could get co-workers to do the same. By doing a slow down, it'll make upper management realize that they need more people. Keep the pressure and do the same amount of work until you're fully satffed. Or start looking for a new job while doing the bare minimum. Then bounce when you're hired
/r/askTRP04/03/21 01:44 AM
-10

The choice is yours. Subs technically have more power, in that they can use a safe word which is THE SAME AS saying Stop No Don't That has to be clear before you even agree to play. Let alone actually starting a scene
/r/askTRP24/02/21 02:55 AM
2

How averse are you towards working with your hands/getting dirty? Look into Operating Engineers union in your/nearest major city. These are jobs where you'd eventually drive a bulldozer/grader or run a crane (heavy equipment operator) though you start off on the ground clearing/digging or rigging. Alternatively look into Electrician's union. Both are a work while you learn/OJT. You apply to the union, take a test (something like the ASVAB-military entrance exam) if you pass you get an interview.…
/r/askTRP23/02/21 01:16 AM
4

Don't do it. I get the allure of a virgin, but you do not want to deal with the batshit crazy that follows. Sometimes they want sex ALL the time (to make up for all they missed out on/haven't done) Othertimes they decide that, you are theirs and theirs alone. (Bat shit crazy) But it seems, like you really want to shoot yourself in the foot. So, invite her over, don't make any promise "not to fuck her", just invite her over. Be sexual, but slow. Don't apologize or make excuses. Tell her once that…
/r/askTRP21/02/21 02:40 AM
6

Masculine by definition, at least per New Oxford dictionary – having qualities or appearance traditionally associated with men, especially strength and aggressiveness Nothing concrete about that definition, and what masculine means to you might be different than what it means to me. Depending on who I am around determines how serious or playful I am. As well as how well they react/respond to me. TL;DR be you, no one is gonna care more about what you want than you. Just make sure you don't let an…
/r/askTRP21/02/21 02:30 AM
1

For me it clicked when I was about 7. I'm Mexican-American/Latino/Texan and grew up around Machismo. (Think RP with a Latin American twist) so I was raised with this unspoken rule that "the measure of a man is also based on how many women he's banged" My stepdad would brag to his friends about the crazy shit I had already gotten into with females. Like when I got caught fingerbanging one of the neighborhood girls. In front of my mom, I got yelled at. Then pulled to the side given a swing of beer…
/r/askTRP20/02/21 06:08 PM
8

Move on
/r/askTRP20/02/21 05:53 PM
2

Google "research peptides" they may seem shady in how they accept payment but I can vouch for iron dragon and Madison something… or something Madison. Anywho, I broke my hip a few years ago and the nerves down there don't always work. Sometimes I have the felling I'm gonna piss my pants only to let out a trickle. Other times I'm have a high school raging hard on and have no idea. Nothing wrong with needing Tadalafil or Sildenafil. STAY on your path to a better you and remember, enjoy her while i…
/r/askTRP17/02/21 11:37 PM
2

I ran away at 17, been on my own since. Aside from the occasional birthday or Christmas card with either $5 or a $500 money order.
/r/askTRP16/02/21 07:05 PM
2

Hmmm, I ought to figure out what type of rich old ladies are into tatted Latino bad boys
/r/askTRP16/02/21 07:04 PM
1

Depending where you're at (major city) look for/into Systema. If your in Toronto you'd have access to the best instructor Restreamer outside of Russia.
/r/askTRP14/02/21 09:12 PM
2

I approach everyday time I leave the house. Cashiers, parking lot, females in the same aisle. There's no reason to NOT at the very least say "hi" to a female.
/r/askTRP14/02/21 09:09 PM
3

If you're asking this, go with whichever one is willing to go to bed with you. Opening/Working groups takes practice and you have to be observant while not appearing so. Meaning, you have to be able to peripherally see when a group member is checking you out whilst talking to another. You have to know understand body language, sharp wit, sense of humor and let jokes/insult roll off like water on a duck. As you get better you can pull threesomes and fourways.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 08:37 PM
22

You can: A. get off your ass and make the world burn B. get off your ass and make yourself a better you C. Sit on your ass and do nothing
/r/askTRP13/02/21 08:29 PM
2

Do you NEED to get big or do you just want to get bigger? Or do you just want something challenging? Big muscles cost a lot of money, in terms of food and supplements. '06 was my best year 6' 255 11-13% body fat (depending on whether I used calipers or a calculator/chart) I hated being that size because I had too eat 5-8x/day, plus pills, protein shakes out al. Now I just use/do calesthenics, kettle bells and rings. I'm not ripped, but I have more functional strength now than in '06. You shouldn…
/r/askTRP13/02/21 03:55 PM
8

Stand your ground.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 02:18 PM
2

Read books while you're on the mend. A. It keeps you off electronics-thus less social media B. You improve yourself by learning things-presuming you read self-help how to books. C. You have incremental goals/achievements that boost your self worth. (I'm going to read X pages today, I'm going to read a book/week, I'm going to learn bout…) D. You can still do basic calisthenics in bed/chair, leg raises, arm raises, stretching. Fend off atrophy!
/r/askTRP21/01/21 10:50 PM
1

I have the same issue, misanthropic resentment, but it's for a different reason. I deal with it by focusing on whatever makes me happy that moment/day. You might not make up tomorrow, hell, you might not make it to bed. Do you while you can, no one gets outta this life alive
/r/askTRP21/01/21 03:13 AM
14

my wife could turn a wrench, change tires, spark plugs, brakes, oil. She was quite feminine, IIRC she only had 3-5 pairs of pants, 2 were jeans. She was essentially a Stepford wife with a career and independent/capable in her own right. She didn't need me, she wanted me and that's what made her attractive to me more than anyone else I was seeing/talking/hooking up/dating.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/20 06:03 PM
1

It'll take a lot longer to do, and you might need to use two razors
/r/askTRP20/12/20 07:50 AM
2

yeah, one of these Takes practice to shave your head with one of these. You're gonna slice your head a few times when you learn but it'll be ok.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 06:46 AM
6

I shave my head at least twice a week, though usually daily. I have thick coarse hair, though thinning in the front and that typical bald spot. (think Jason Statham's hairline). I used to have a mohawk… fuck I'm old, 20-25 years ago. Anywho started shaving it off when my hawk thinned out. Personally I use a Safety Razor and double edged blades. I can mow down a weeks growth in under 5 mins haven't regretted it. Though I do look like a tatted biker version of Mr. Clean haven't noticed anyone trea…
/r/askTRP20/12/20 06:22 AM
1

Don't care about ePeen points, been fuckin since before a lot of these simps were born. How you say things is more important that what you say
/r/askTRP17/12/20 03:58 AM
4

It's not about putting them down. It's about putting them in the right frame. Yours. I have this… mantra/attitude/aura whatever you wanna call it. "If you behave I might let you blow me. If you're good at it I'll fuck you" It's rarely about what you say. It's how you say it
/r/askTRP16/12/20 01:48 PM
4

This.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 01:45 PM
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"Whoa whoa whoa whoa WHOA! ... Whoa! Holtup, what makes you think I'd wanna be seen in public with you?" "Only one way to find out, let's go" (and walk off) "Do you wanna get philosophical or get it in?" (I don't think you've leveled up enough to try this) "Ahhh, I see, you think you're still on tinder where everyone swiping on you is a simple. You should see a doctor about a reality check"
/r/askTRP16/12/20 01:42 PM
1

Tough to say. For the most part it's the setting where you meet said females, OLD or in person. The former is typically just for hooking up, the latter depends on where you meet them. You're not gonna find a wife in a bar or dance club. Try new things, best bet (in my book, for a good wife) is go to Church and get involved with some of the singles groups in your age range. Try libraries, book stores, and craft stores. Avoid Target, Whole Foods, Trader Joe's (for a wife, plenty of daygame hookups…
/r/askTRP13/12/20 07:24 PM
55

Women are born with a pussy; they don't want another. If you're the smartest person in the room and no one is here to listen to you, you're in the wrong room. If you or anyone else can't fix it and it won't kill you if it doesn't get fixed, then don't worry. Listen to what they do, not what they say.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 09:16 AM
3

I'm a widower. I'm done with pair bonding That aside, if I can pair bond with a 4 digit n-count, I'm pretty sure a female with a high 2 digit n-count is capable of pair bonding
/r/askTRP01/12/20 01:21 AM
3

Agreed, as to why, no pussy is made of gold.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 09:28 PM
1

Thanks, I just wish I could easily share this knowledge
/r/askTRP30/11/20 08:06 PM
1

Oh, for my number. 🤔 pre maybe 3-4x a year? Now, havent been asked yet. Success when I approach, something like 29 out of 30. I used to be a bartender in the 90s and I watched thousands of approaches. After the first 500 I was able to accurately determine the outcome most of the time. So I use that knowledge now. I pay attention to body language and tone, so I know before I approach that a female is interested. If I get turned down is because I overstepped/miscalculated something.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 08:00 PM
1

Pre-covid about 3x/week? But it was usually to comment "has anyone ever told you you look like a tatted Mr clean?" or "you look familiar" the rest of the time it's some cheesy pick-up line or flirting. Now maybe twice a month? But pre-covid I'd go out daily to at least 3 different places. Now I go out once every other week and go to 6-10 with focus on getting out ASAP.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 07:49 PM
1

I mean, I'm for this. Not for those reasons, but yeah. I'm all for ending the human race, or t least drastically reducing the population
/r/askTRP30/11/20 07:40 PM
1

Ah, In my experience, confidence can beat looks, muscles and money. I'm 6' and look like a tatted biker version of Mr clean, and I had this fat balding Patton Oswald looking runt swoop in and snag a female from a group I was talking to. In any case, exotic also carries some weight. I'd say you can do both tinder and daygame. Personally I prefer daygame to OLD or night game.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 07:38 PM
1

Curry?
/r/askTRP30/11/20 07:29 PM
1

I'd clarify, "just friends or FWB?" If she replies with just friends "I have plenty of those" and move on, if she's playing coy love her on read and reply a few days later.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 07:28 PM
5

Add her. Don't worry about what anyone here says. A. Best case you bang her (I simped on a female I knew back in 2008, got shot down ignored her. 2013 I banged her 4th of July weekend) B. Likely scenario, you get access to her friends, bang them and brag about you to her (I found out in 2017 this is why she hit me up) C. Worst case, she doesn't add you, or she does but doesn't wanna hang out. No worries, there's about 1 billion other choices
/r/askTRP30/11/20 07:25 PM
4

Personally I don't care about body count. Body count does not equal good or bad GF material nor does it correlate to anything. I've been with females that had low body counts (less than five) and had amazing skills, I almost considered marrying. I've been with high counts that are pillow princesses, good in bed and just OK. Second reason I don't care about body count, mine is high. Doesn't mean I'm a bad person, just poor impulse control when I was younger.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 07:15 PM
12

pfft, I've gotten laid when I was a scrub. Don't worry about what they think. Go in with the mindset if you act right I might let you blow me they're lucky to be asked out. Any judgement from them about your car is laughable AND proves they aren't gf material, let alone worthy of getting laid.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 09:50 PM
1

read self improvement books, Ideally 2 books /week, at least start with 1 book/month work out everyday, even if its as little as 10 squats/push-ups learn a skill-- go to home depot/lowes website and see what their schedule is for workshops. stuff like, repairing/replacing a tile, fix a leaky faucet/toilet, patch a hole. get a hobby or two learning skills & hobbies help boost your confidence. Above money, and muscles, female are more drawn to confidence. hone your wit, sense of humor. If your con…
/r/seduction09/11/20 04:37 PM
3

depends on my intentions, Personally I'd just keep her as a platonic friend to have access to her circle of friends. I'm widowed and doubt I'll ever find another female as awesome as my wife was. Plus she's almost too young for me to consider dating for marriage. Virgins are just a headache, from inexperience-- Though after the first two/three times they make up for it in enthusiasm they tend to be the worst type of clingy. But I'm nearly fifty and in a much different mindset. Best of luck
/r/askTRP09/11/20 04:32 PM
8

I ended up homeless as well, though it wasn’t immediately after the divorce. She was supposed to pay off my truck as she got the house. About 3 months after it was finalized I found out the hard way she hadn’t paid in 7 months. (Just the first 4 she was supposed to) Took me 7 weeks to get back on my feet. Still had my debit card so I was able to deposit the money I made panhandling/begging everyday. The worst thing was having to shit outside cuz I smelled so bad no one would let me in anywhere.
/r/MensRights02/11/20 09:32 AM
5

I was a referee, then coach for a female amateur sports league. Every now and again there were out of town trips for games, then after parties and hotel after after parties. So everyone's hanging out in the hot tub/pool area and females begin their girl talk. One female has cushing's syndrome basically HUGE FUPA, big belly, jowly neck and moon face. Though this female had what looked like ripped arms and legs. So not attractive on anyone's scale. Cushing Syndrome female, CSF, was lamenting that …
/r/askTRP31/10/20 10:03 PM
2

short version, females gaslight each other. long version to follow this comment.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 09:50 PM
2

Change your mind at any given time and do something different than planned. Often used/done in football to do a secondary plan when circumstances change.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 06:14 AM
12

not everyone has the education or drive to make as much money as possible. Often times, it is cheaper for the wife to stay home and raise the kids than for the wife (generally) to go to work and all of her wages and part of his go towards just barely covering childcare costs. Now I do agree in principle that if the couple made similar salaries it would offset costs in divorce, such as alimony (though not all states have alimony-- in Texas you have to be married for over 10 years and it's only in…
/r/MensRights29/10/20 05:51 AM
2

decide before you go out, tonight I want an asian, or ginger and give that one slightly more attention early on and increase it as the night progresses. But you can always call an audible and focus on the one that's DTF right now.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 03:08 AM
3

You sound like my wife that passed a few years ago, though she also liked to toss other females around. Day to day most would assume she was a stepford wife, but she was toegh as nails, and bisexual. The rules here aren't law, punishable by anything that could affect you. Live your life as you want, come here (this sub orwreddit in general) for help/guidance and occasionally a laugh. Best of luck and happy hunting
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/20 11:05 AM
12

I think the underlying problem is the whole hookup culture. Even in a stable relationship the next one is just a swipe away. I have no idea what you're dating profile and/or what you say at a coffee meetup. But I would suggest adding "I'm not having sex until I'm in a committed monogamous relationship, and that's not gonna happen in three dates" though I think someone else can come up with a more tactful way of saying that. Personally I'm honest from the onset: I'm widowed, I'm not going to be e…
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/20 10:58 AM
1

It's because most have been raised by women who emotionally vent/stunt their sons "Oh Billy, I had a bad date tonight, don't be a bad man" I get downvoted left and right for saying "women were born with a puss, they don't want another one" and when I give an example of how to be replies are TOXIC MASCULINITY let them cry, downvote, complain all they like. I still pull 20-30 year old like they're in a vending machine, and I'm almost 50
/r/askTRP22/10/20 12:56 AM
2

Just accept that you're a grower. Most females in their early 20s don't know this is a thing. (mainstream porn only shows erect penises) OR you can go the same route as my brother, admit to females that you're a grower (explain if necessary) and say they can't see it until its erect.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 07:25 AM
1

As mentioned, used kirby or Miele. I've had more luck finding Kirby's at pawn shops. Any kirby after G3 is the same, just rebranded.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/20 04:16 AM
1

She died 3 years ago
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/20 04:35 PM
1

I never expected this kind of love, just thought I might find someone easy on the eyes that'd put up with me and laugh at my jokes. Nothing beats that feeling, being looked at with desire and admiration. I stumbled into it, a group Meetup ended up as dinner for two. So call it dumb luck, serendipity, lightning in a bottle. It was the best 4 years and 11 days of my life. Don't try to chase it, just let it happen
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/20 04:08 PM
14

it's still early in y'alls situation (not yet a relationship) Think of the positives, there is discussion after a disagreement. Not an argument, nor any yelling. I would agree with him in withdrawing support. Personally, if I am trying to help and have a conversation and we are at a standstill, I am not going to go over the line to comfort/console. At least until I learn the nuances of whether she is being pouty, bratty or genuinely needs consoling. Keep in mind that there are going to be bumps …
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/20 01:24 AM
2

I would bet money that the 80s study, the male dominant relationships were minorities/immigrants. Growing up, TV families (sitcoms) and the families I knew growing up were nothing alike, aside from both parents being in the home.
/r/MensRights22/09/20 12:04 AM
129

He's screwed, he should go to another college get his degree (if theyll accept him) and file a civil suit for damages and against the former University. He might win and get some money, but its a long shot.
/r/MensRights21/09/20 02:26 PM
1

another big one, don't buy shit to impress people/females. people come and go, do what makes you happy. Want a 8k projector capable of 12 foot wide movies, DO IT! Don't get it cuz a buddy eggs you on to spend money he doesn't have
/r/askTRP19/09/20 12:03 AM
1

put 2k a year in a IRA and another 2k/yr in a Roth IRA. get a doing business as license (name varies per locale -- AKA assumed name) in your city. register it with your bank and you can give yourself another ... 6 or 9k /yr in a employer IRA (your pretending to be a business entity and "contributing" to your account) there's a few other things you could do, but I cant recall ATM. as far as an exotic car, go for it, but NEVER buy NEW always buy used/pre-owned/certified. You can change your mind A…
/r/askTRP18/09/20 11:57 PM
40

could face jail time, will likely do some probation
/r/MensRights16/09/20 04:17 AM
23

In '05 I was huge body builder sized, meal prep, supplements, vitamins, weighing out carbs/fat/protein X grams per Y kilos. '07 I got lean, almost ripped but any little deviation from a perfect diet would set me back about two weeks of progress '11 I just work out (calesthenics) eat mostly healthy. A cheat day a month and a cheat meal /week. I'm about the size/build of Kevin on shameless (but 6' tall) Being ripped/lean (or almost lean/ripped) works great if your at the beach. Anywhere else you j…
/r/askTRP12/09/20 05:07 PM
2

it doesn't affect how I approach females. I am great at reading body language, in-between-the-lines, and playfully sexualizing a conversation that even a nun wouldn't get mad at. Granted, I don't look like Brad Pitt, I am the epitome of "the bad boy"
/r/askTRP12/09/20 12:14 PM
6

Gravity? If you mean from killing myself: My disdain for suicides Sheer will to not be defeated by someone/thing Having a small harem/stable
/r/askTRP12/09/20 12:05 PM
2

I studied a few, karate, tae Kwon do, akido (teen/kid) because I was losing as many as I was winning, and I couldn't rely on being bigger than another kid to not get into a fight (little Napoleon complex dudes would always want to "prove" something) I wouldn't call any martial art the best, there's pros/cons to each. I'd recommend systema (Russian spetznaz origins) over krav maga. Both I think are better than average. but in my experience w/ krav maga, you get locked into it a 6 month/a year lon…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/20 11:29 AM
1

OP stated that bigger guy was alone, friends are simply a possible threat if he happened to win the fight. Depends on the state, some it's assault, others class A misdemeanor and in a few, self defense (though it's harder to get away with with so many cell phone cameras) I've been jumped and in dozens of fights, I didn't win them all, but I lost a lot less when I realized a street fight isn't like an MMA fight. There's no tapping out, you fight until they go limp or run away. Regardless of the g…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/20 09:54 AM
5

Reminds me of a friend of my father's, though he went scorched Earth. In the early/mid 90s a homeless guy would come to our house and have dinner with us, when he left he'd take two large trash bags full of aluminum cans. I asked my father when he made friends with a homeless man. He said, "I didn't, I'm friends with a NASA engineer" I was confused, and I asked him, ok, why are you friends with a homeless NASA engineer. He asked if I remember "that broad" that brought her boyfriend to the garage…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/20 09:42 AM
-3

I grew up with other people being bullied/picked on. (I was usually among the tallest kids in class) every now and again some rest would wanna prove something and pick a fight with me. So I got into a lot of fights. In your shoes, I would've looked over my shoulder (see the gesture) then turn back to my female friend and said over my shoulder "fuck off before I make you my bitch" then read her reaction to see if he was walking off or taking a swing. Duck to avoid and spin out straight into a fig…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/20 09:25 AM
1

ignore texts, for days. leave her on read if she messages for anything. when in a group acknowledge her, but never initiate anything towards her. "Hey, I'm gonna run to the store, {female near you} need anything? Joey, you good? Rob? cool see ya in a bit" If she asks you for something, hold out your hand for cash "you buy I fly" If she talks to you be cordial, smile but keep your answers short. "yeah, I did", "No, I haven't", "thanks, see ya later" TL;DR you don't have to be an asshole to her, b…
/r/askTRP08/09/20 09:59 PM
8

Ignore her and move on. In a few months, when she realizes that you don't really care, she'll want you attention and end up in your rotation
/r/askTRP08/09/20 09:12 PM
1

Overthinking, not everyone goes to malls anymore. Try trader Joe's, whole foods. Fairly simple to approach. IN PASTA AISLE "hey, I'm gonna cook pasta tonight, but I wanna try something different than sauce in a jar. Do you know any easy recipes?" Words words banter. "wanna join me for dinner/be my guinea pig/ taste test?" Any other aisle, notice something they're grabbing, "excuse me, do you like that (insert name)? I usually get (something similar) have you had both? And the one you have you li…
/r/seduction06/09/20 07:15 PM
4

Can't quote on mobile, Mostly true of "no teeth" but a civil victory would allow one to place a lien on any real estate property. Thus, can never sell without paying
/r/MensRights05/09/20 04:47 PM
48

And sue her, civil court lost wages, Emotional pain and distress.
/r/MensRights05/09/20 12:58 AM
1

Meh, I'm old, can't rely on the looks I had. Aside -- lotion, everyday after you shower, your whole body. And don't get dressed until you're skin absorbs it.
/r/askTRP04/09/20 09:40 AM
3

Ignore it, it's just jealousy. But keep in mind looks fade, you can work out and stay in shape. But hairlines recede and wrinkles set in. Hopefully you have more going for you than just looks. Read a book, learn a language, do interesting shit.
/r/askTRP04/09/20 09:36 AM
18

Cocky is making a point to let everyone know you're confident, can do X Y and Z Confident you just do what needs to be done (and show people that you're confident) TL;DR cocky talks the talk, confident WALKS the walk
/r/askTRP04/09/20 09:29 AM
9

Don't have kids A. So that you'll never need to learn, first hand, why we need men's rights B. So we can keep your genes out of the pool #kthxfkoffby
/r/MensRights29/08/20 10:03 PM
20

I was in a similar situation with my son, except i didn't find out he existed until he was about to turn 10. She was sure I was the father, and I said, "I'm going into the Army, you prove it's mine and you won't have to worry about doctors, and I'll pay child support." she told me go to hell! how could not trust her! She's telling the truth! Don't agree to anything until you get a DNA test, the kid-can look like you all day and be 100% not yours. Give your parents a heads up "hey, I hooked up wi…
/r/askTRP28/08/20 09:25 PM
1

I didn't talk to him much about it, he would hear/get woken up from time to time from the girl(s) I brought home. Eventually he asked and I broke down "game" as best I could
/r/askTRP26/08/20 05:39 PM
1

I think its all about being "different". In a major US city I'm seen as average, in a smaller town I'm seen as exotic and don't have to put much effort in. When I would visit Montreal often, a lot of guys I knew would try to impress girls with Comment allez-vous? Parlez-vous anglais -- How are you? do you speak English? Most girls would answer oui -- yes as though they were bored, other times they would just say non/no and walk off. I tried something a bit different, I would ask if they spoke Sp…
/r/askTRP26/08/20 04:51 PM
0

I think the percentages are a bit off, more like 3-5% of males get 60% of the high SMV females. If you stop and think, whats the percentage of all females that have a high SMV? First its subjective, I prefer t h i c c over petite/skinny bitches. The next guy might ONLY find ScarJo / Jennifer Lawrence types hawt. Now, I am 6ft, but I don't nor have I ever had a 6 pack. I've been fat, lean, dadbod, swimmers body, pro wrestler sized. I'm almost 50, I don't have a 1M in the bank, but I do alright an…
/r/askTRP26/08/20 02:07 AM
2

My luck on dating apps has more to do with travelling. When I had a conference/convention I would set my location/zip to where I would be 3-5 days ahead. Because I was "new" to the zip code/area I would get sorted in with the "new" users. So I would end up in front of A LOT of eyes and increase my matches. Otherwise I would keep my account deactivated until I was going to travel again. If you're account is deactivated long enough you'll be seen as "new" in your own area when you turn it back on.…
/r/askTRP26/08/20 12:24 AM
1

"You can lead a horse to water..." In other words, you'd waste your time and get flamed by trolls and possibly doxxed
/r/askTRP24/08/20 07:31 AM
2

my reply to the How do you know I don't have a boyfriend? "what makes you think I care?" Then continue talking to her. she might've still said something about a boyfriend and I still would've have talked/spit game, until she left or said "I'm not interested"
/r/askTRP21/08/20 03:14 AM
1

Helps me fall asleep
/r/askTRP19/08/20 06:36 AM
2

Cuddles and intimacy are fine, in an LTR and usually after she's proven herself worthy over the course of a year. Real talk, I like cuddles. But never with an FWB.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 06:33 AM
4

You made yourself her ATM You let a hit go unanswered I get LTRs there's a bit of helping out financially here and there. But taking care of one of her bills on the regular? Ever woman I hookup with more than once knows my ex wife and I went toe to toe. Granted she was prior service like me, and would usually come at me with a knife/ frying pan. I would end it, and I would never hesitate to end a fight the with any human. Early on with a FWB I tell them what I expect and if they're out of line I…
/r/askTRP19/08/20 06:29 AM
4

"Women are born with a pussy; they don't want another one" Sure they say they want a nice guy, prince White Knight and all that jazz. But you won't make them wet. At the end of the day when you're off in lala land cuddling and snoring away, she's rubbing one out to the guy that got called her, rides a motorcycle or the two that Eiffel towered her
/r/askTRP19/08/20 06:24 AM
2

If you really had frame, none of this would matter. You're bluffing yourself, think "I might let you blow me"
/r/askTRP18/08/20 05:30 AM
1

First off, you should NEVER get drunk. Personally, i have a 2 drink max limit if at all. Otherwise i drink Shirley temples. Now,I'm almost 50, pre covid I had 1 new hookup/week. With new hookups I can go 2-4 times, 10-30 mins each with a 10-30 min break between. With my FWBs usually 2 times max. As I lose interest they drop off, or get tired of me not settling down and filtering themselves out
/r/askTRP18/08/20 05:08 AM
4

Short version - yes Long version - No Thats just the big picture. Learning in general is a good idea. A book a week is best, reading a book a mont should be a minimum. Game and SMV can get you laid. Learning how to read a room and read between the lines will get you laid consistently. Maintain frame and willing to walk away will get your plates ok with * picking up your next plate * dropping you off with your next plate * staying longer to play with you and not plate * plates finding new plates …
/r/askTRP13/08/20 10:05 PM
1

IOIs push/pull and other stuff in the sidebar
/r/askTRP13/08/20 05:08 PM
1

6'/1.84m
/r/askTRP13/08/20 05:08 PM
2

It works but you have to be subtle. It's better if a FWB does the whispering for you.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 07:51 AM
1

I agree, all this TRP stuff is inculcated in Latin America. This first nature to me, a few of my field reports have been taken down because I don't use the proper terms. The best advice I could offer get a job as a barback. People watch, particularly approaches. When you can predict the outcome based on the first 20 seconds. Quit.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 05:13 AM
3

If said shy white Chad can't approach he can't open and can't slay. Your Indian friend won't outslay a ripped Chad, but he'll get his dick wet more than a rich short fat fuck.
/r/askTRP12/08/20 07:38 AM
2

True, fake confidence is nothing more than a paper tiger. OP is focused on muscles and looks, individual components of SMV. Which is the total package. But out of all the parts that make up your SMV nothing is better than confidence as opposed to being cocky or worse a Schmuck
/r/askTRP12/08/20 05:26 AM
15

Confidence > muscle I've been huge, ripped, dad bod and just in shape. Regardless of my shape, confidence has still gotten me laid. A few times I've been able to swoop in and snag a female another male was talking to. (Granted he was really being a jerk) Another time a short Patton Oswald looking dumpy fuck snagged a female I was half ass gaming at a bar. TL;DR CONFIDENCE > money > muscles
/r/askTRP12/08/20 03:33 AM
6

Burpees to failure or 1 min building up to 10 mins (though Tabata/HIIT would yield better results) Push ups between shows while binging Mountain climbers same as burpees on a different day Bear walk- focus on maintaining you weight on your arms than on your legs
/r/askTRP12/08/20 03:23 AM
1

I wish I could reply with a gif Full metal jacket choke yourself
/r/askTRP11/08/20 10:24 PM
1

Its easier to say "be an asshole" than "learn to be smug" Then again there different ways to approach things.
/r/askTRP11/08/20 04:10 PM
3

Smug is better than being an asshole. An asshole tends to draw attention to themselves and has to prove something Smug is knowing that you're good and being an asshole when necessary. Being smug you can read a room while the asshole is drawing attention to themselves. And in the commotion you could sneak off into the parking lot and bang someone's girlfriend and be back before the asshole finishes making a fool of themself
/r/askTRP11/08/20 04:16 AM
8

She'll want to talk about her DH, or will have a moment of nostalgia and either be happy or begin to cry "for no apparent reason" If you wanna be long term with her, you're going to have to accept this. However there's a difference between "oh, going kayaking reminds me of my Dead Husband because he'd go twice a year with his high school buddy" Vs "my dead husband was a better kayaker that you, he knew to do x y z"
/r/askTRP10/08/20 09:24 AM
2

This
/r/MensRights03/08/20 11:19 AM
4

No one is going to care about your health more than you, except maybe a RPW wife. Do what you want and don't worry about others opinions about you unless they sign your checks or pay your bills
/r/askTRP29/07/20 01:13 AM
13

Don't say anything, if she asks. Don't answer, change the subject, or mention you wanna buy a boat
/r/askTRP28/07/20 07:30 AM
1

don't worry about/if the cum. Get yours, get dressed then leave. Don't worry if they want to/end up as plates. Just keep finding going for ONS. Eventually one or two of them will want to be more than a ONS, then more than a FWB/plate, GF.
/r/askTRP28/07/20 07:28 AM
7

Laying it down like your life depended on it can help. But it's the whole package, and knowing how to read them and react to them. Plus how to treat them in general, when to reward and how to punish. (Though this applies more to the BDsM side of things)
/r/askTRP28/07/20 04:42 AM
1

I'm a sucker for an SCM (Sternocleidomastoid) the muscle that connects from the inside of your clavicle to behind your ear
/r/seduction23/07/20 08:46 AM
20

I would only consider it if you already have a wedding date set.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/20 05:44 AM
0

I have a variety of friends, not just cis male and female but also trans and one nonbinary. As well as hetero gay queer and asexual. Though friend may be a strong would, I call them friend because calling them an acquaintance would wound their egos. In any case, I am a big flirt, even when my wife was alive we flirted with others in front of each other, not to make the other jealous, but to keep it in practice. Flirting with your SO can become write and what was endearing in your 20s can be anno…
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/20 08:43 PM
2

My love and I had very few arguments, fortunately she was levelheaded. If something bothered her she'd tell me "babe X (That you did/said) botherd me. I want to talk about it but not right now." If something bothered me, which was usually external "tesoro, I'm frustrated/pissed about Y (something from work/I can't fix/resolve on my server) I need some time" and she'd leave me alone but to tell me dinner's ready or she's going to bed. One thing that we made sure of is we NEVER went to bed angry. …
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/20 08:13 PM
7

I was lucky enough to have had her, as we were the envy/"relationship goals" of many people. It's been difficult, and I'm too old and cynical now to be hopeful. But with age, and a good head comes reflection
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/20 03:36 PM
5

Had, Car accident 3 years ago
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/20 12:35 AM
9

The way she looked at me, it couldn't be faked or bought. I genuinely felt loved, cherished and hyped up. In that in her eyes' I saw that I was capable of accomplishing anything which made me FEEL like I could do anything.
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/20 10:47 AM
4

Exactly why i say not all women can be seduced
/r/seduction28/05/20 04:20 AM
3

I've been at this since the 90s. I would argue that most women can be gamed. Something like 29 out of 30, there are women who are faithful and would never consider cheating on there man, let alone look at another man (besides celebrities) My last wife was great, and yes, being in love is great. Even better is the feeling of being loved. The way she looked into my eyes, made me feel like I can do anything
/r/seduction28/05/20 03:42 AM
4

See if there's an IBEW in your country, Electrician's union. Worst case, you wont be allowed to work on a few jobsites. But i know a few felons in US that have gotten an Electrician's license in the US, depending where you re that could be between 3-5x minimum wage (in the US)
/r/askTRP06/05/20 07:53 AM
4

You fuck in a bed?
/r/askTRP27/04/20 05:18 PM
2

Use the anger of betrayal as fuel to workout. Get ripped and show her the body she's never going to have again
/r/askTRP22/04/20 05:46 PM
2

I would like to see laws written as human not as it is often written, benefiting one gender or omitting the other, particularly parental rights.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/20 08:08 AM
7

Are we talking real equal rights or ... ?
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/20 07:58 AM
1

I had this problem in my 30s. There were a couple of plates that I would have liked to make a LTR, most never took me seriously whenever I would bring it up. "You're already getting in my pants you don't have to say things you think I wanna hear" "I like this ... Arrangement better. I don't want to see how the sausage is made" A few thought about the idea and immediately thought they could make demands or changes to who I am. "Ok, but you're not gonna talk to any other girls, right?" "Oh good! I…
/r/seduction06/04/20 03:25 PM
1

I usually keep a minimum rotation of three, and randoms when I go to conventions. Sometimes local randoms end up in rotation so it can be up to five. Now that we're in shelter in place down to one.
/r/askTRP05/04/20 03:47 AM
8

Church
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/20 07:32 AM
1

DM
/r/askTRP03/04/20 01:31 AM
1

Almost 50 I can pass for 30 at night 35 during the day.
/r/askTRP03/04/20 01:11 AM
3

I have some stretch marks near my hips and inner arm close to armpits. I'm not ripped, but you can tell I'm in shape even with a shirt on. Most women are just in awe that I don't look my age, if they've noticed my stretch marks they've never said a word to me
/r/askTRP02/04/20 01:22 AM
2

There's guys that "don't believe" a woman when she says she's got a bf. And in some cases she doesn't have a boyfriend but is just not interested in the guy hitting on her. Regardless, some guys will still try and hit on a hit "aww come on, don't be like that". "if I were your boyfriend I wouldn't let you outta my sight". "If you have a boyfriend why isn't he here"
/r/askTRP01/04/20 11:58 AM
24

If they don't respect her when she says no or says she has a boyfriend I step in. Otherwise there's no need to get bother or upset.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 02:14 AM
6

If you're thinking of going and have a high enough asvab score, go chair force. Wanna see the world, Navy, want a instant brother no matter where you go when you're done Corps (all branches to a degree, but a Marine you meet would get in a knife fight to defend you knowing you less than 5 mins). Army for a decent chunk of college money
/r/askTRP30/03/20 08:41 AM
11

Not all guys look at just physical beauty in a mate, some take the time to get a read on their personality before deciding on whether or not to date.
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/20 03:46 PM
2

Fuck am ex all you want, just never redate.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 09:28 PM
3

Never redate an ex
/r/askTRP28/03/20 09:22 PM
1

Yes all females have a preference just as males do. Some guys can't be as selective as other. I'm lucky in that I can be picky, but also I fit "the bad boy" look to a T. And it seems nearly all types of women have a preference for that. Now that I'm almost 50, I can pass for mid 30s at night, but usually people assume/guess late 30s. So I also get the girls with "Daddy issues"
/r/seduction28/03/20 09:03 PM
1

Credit cards
/r/askTRP28/03/20 03:51 PM
0

I'm nearly 50 and even though I'm in as good/better shape than most guys half my age, I'm not getting any younger. If I had a son now I'd hate myself. By the time the kid is old enough to play little league people are gonna think "it's cute" that "grandpa" is taking him to his games and what not. It may not bother me much, but it'll chip away. My father had me when he was 42, he was also in good health over all. He just didn't stay on top of his diabetes. He made to his mid 70s but there was alw…
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/20 08:17 AM
1

Feeling angry is Natural reacting out of anger is not only stupid but asking for more problems than being angry is worth. If she entertaining their advances, I presume you mean something like they hit on her, she smiles, they hit on her some more, and back and forth until she finally says "stop/no I have a bf" Then you should next her, hard or soft your choice, but this is where the point of having plates becomes important. When they do something that displeases you, you have 2 or more to keep y…
/r/askTRP28/03/20 08:12 AM
1

Put as much as you can in a shell corp BEFORE you propose. Drag the engagement out for a year so "on paper" all you own is ONE house and ONE car. Anything else you acquire put it in a new she'll corps assets. As for the board of directors put a parent/aunt/uncle you trust and a friends name (you need 3 people IIRC) NEVER PUT YOUR NAME ON ANYTHING. when you get divorced all she can take is half the house and half the car. Your salary should be a hair above poverty line and your CCs should be a "c…
/r/askTRP28/03/20 05:09 AM
1

Perhaps you mean Caucasian males, at least for me as a 1st and 2md generation Mexican-American, I grew up with Machismo. Think TRP with a family twist. Protect/Provide for your family and your "reward" is you can step out (cheat) all you want, just don't rub it in your family's face (have flings not mistresses). My issue growing up was trying to apply the blue pill world to what my father taught me and comprise with purplish pill life. But I gave that shit up by my mid20s and went full red
/r/askTRP27/03/20 06:18 AM
3

Look into roommates, saves on the initial deposits and lowers the brunt of monthly expenses
/r/askTRP27/03/20 02:37 AM
2

Exercise, specifically calesthenics. Push ups, crunches squats, just go to failure, or even between credits/intros while your binge watching.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 02:33 AM
2

Agreed
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/20 07:55 PM
2

Interrupting something were doing, (project, in the garage, etc) just bring the glass of water you were going to ask we wanted and set it in plain site and leave us be. Don't use it as an excuse to start a conversation or "ask a quick question" Breaking our concentration to answer even a simple question takes about 20 minutes to remember where we were in the process of what we were doing.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/20 04:27 PM
1

You fucked up by asking her if she wanted to meet up after you text "Goodbye". Everything after that is down hill. She might have been interested in still seeing you, and might have messaged I'm another day or two to hang out. But you went into her frame and she told you to meet her at a store. At least you didn't, but you fucked up. Just quit messaging her while your still behind in time she might come back around. Just don't count on it, think of it as a nice surprise you might get in a few mo…
/r/askTRP26/03/20 04:08 PM
9

My mindset is I don't care as in: I only maintain personal relationship's with family out of obligation. Friends because I trust them, acquaintances because I might have a use for them, or they might become friends. I'm not genuinely happy about much, certainly not their life. I only take my goals seriously, you're either with me or not. I can see how it could be seen as arrogant, but I just don't care. "The opinions of others pay none of my bills"
/r/askTRP26/03/20 03:52 PM
1

Be vague or ignore Lost count Nunya It wasn't you Why, you miss me?
/r/askTRP26/03/20 03:36 PM
7

You can't force someone to take the pill, and even if they say "man I wish I was like you/ how to you keep them from finding out about each other/ etc". They're not ready. Just agree and amplify. "Yeah man, it's great that you found the right girl, I hope I do to someday" and leave it at that, if they try to convince you to settle down "Not yet I haven't found the one"
/r/askTRP26/03/20 03:33 PM
2

What I'm saying is if you learn body language you can tell which girls are more likely to respond positively to your approach. Constant rejection is the only way to learn to get over it
/r/seduction26/03/20 09:52 AM
2

You're observing people at work, barbacks can work weekends (once Coronavirus lets us out) where you'd be watching approaches and interactions
/r/seduction26/03/20 09:45 AM
1

Get a job as a barback, (bartenders gopher — restock beer, liquor bottles wash glassware, etc) you have a lot of down time. So you can watch a few dozen approaches per night. Learn to read body language by observing. When you can accurately guess the outcome of the approach with in the first 5-20 seconds. Quit and apply what you've learned.
/r/seduction26/03/20 09:25 AM
3

I mean, are we talking about a booty call or your live in girlfriend? If you're noticing flaws it should be while she's a plate/FWB. If you see them and you're already living together then you've changed who you are. It's all context
/r/seduction25/03/20 02:01 PM
3

I prefer day/night game in person over OLD, I'm in my 40s Hispanic and in better shape than guys half my age, I can pass for early 30s at night and mid 30s during the day. I'd recommend spinning at least two, and if you don't already know it, learn body language. I was a bartender when I was younger and saw hundreds of approaches a night and got pretty good at being able to tell from body language if the guy was going to be successful in the first 5-20 seconds. Confidence is also key, but wit ti…
/r/askTRP25/03/20 01:55 PM
1

She conditioned you instead of the other way around
/r/askTRP25/03/20 05:47 AM
1

I would not give her an option that far out, and I wouldn't ask I'd say "Hey let's go do something fun" or "follow me". Though before that I would ask for her number and call or text her right then. "There, now you have my number, the fun guy you met X" If she says no, just shrug and walk off. You don't need to explain yourself. Her loss Edit italics
/r/seduction24/03/20 11:33 PM
1

Most of my successful approaches are situational. Let's say for example it's outdoors in a park , nice day, nice forecast but there's dark clouds off in the distance. Me — hi my name is <insert name> nice day out dontcha think? Her — yeah / yeah but those clouds look dark Here things can vary because her response could be one of two (at a minimum) the first answer is short and positive second is cautiously positive. She could say any number of different things. In either case it's important to k…
/r/seduction24/03/20 09:29 AM
1

I would've responded with "what relationship?" Or "relationship!? We're just fuck buddies/FWB"
/r/askTRP24/03/20 09:14 AM
1

Keeping an ex FWB, in my book, is always a good idea. Even if she does get serious with another guy, in my experience she will more often than not tell her beta bf that "he's just a friend" so that you can still hang out on occasion. Second by being friends with her you have instant credibility with any of her female friends. And surely one or two of them already know how good (or bad) the sex was. And considering that it was a long term FWB situation, I would bet that the friends know/think tha…
/r/askTRP24/03/20 09:12 AM
1

I would agree, depending on your background. I'm Latin/Hispanic so red pill is in my blood/bones, but how I was raised and how the world is didn't match. So I tried to apply what I learned from my father to the world and sometimes it didn't work. And some blue pill things make sense. "Man and wife should work together in the household like sharing house chores." But by the time I got 25 I started dropping the blue tendencies in favor of my red nature
/r/askTRP22/03/20 03:06 PM
-2

This has been my... Mantra for the past 20 years "I might let you blow me, and if you're any good I might fuck you".
/r/seduction22/03/20 06:27 AM
5

You can easily follow it up with "I prefer not to discuss my personal life at work". Being honest in an office environment is tricky, a woman can make that initial email look/sound like "oh he was struggling with his workload and I thought I'd offer to help him navigate the ins and outs of our company culture, I had no intentions of anything romantic, he's a predator and tried to come on to me"
/r/askTRP20/03/20 02:48 PM
8

Reply to the email with the gist "I'm flattered, but I have a girlfriend and I don't think she'd appreciate me having a female friend" Blind cc HR and a private email account, to cover your ass. If you tell her verbally, there's no proof and it will always be your word against hers
/r/askTRP20/03/20 02:35 PM
-2

Was
/r/askTRP20/03/20 04:41 AM
7

He was
/r/askTRP19/03/20 10:30 PM
25

"women are born with a pussy, they don't want another one" —My Father
/r/askTRP19/03/20 10:10 PM
2

Your past is in the past you can't change it, but you can change yourself. Better yourself, learn body language
/r/askTRP19/03/20 10:04 PM
10

I'm just a few years younger than him and definitely remember the threat of being whooped or getting a paliza literally stick beating
/r/MensRights19/03/20 05:48 PM
1

*Shrug* This is the importance of have a stable/rotation/ harem/plates.
/r/seduction19/03/20 12:58 AM
1

Or it was her number, boyfriend found out and made her block you
/r/seduction19/03/20 12:53 AM
2

IOIs are good in general, but sometimes you're in a crowded bar and everyone looks bored, or there's a 9 males to 1 female ratio and most of the guys are just standing around shooting the breeze or convincing themselves they have the balls to approach. In these situations I may not see any IOIs, but I used to be a bartender and in general have a good sense of picking up vibes and reading people. So I approach a female or group of females that has my type thicc, and I just introduce myself and as…
/r/seduction18/03/20 07:46 PM
2

First do the math, what's cheaper, paying half of everything or getting your own place. And assume your mother will only let you take your clothes and stuff you've paid for out of your own pocket, say a console system, and a TV. So factor in furniture, tv, a bed, bedding (sheets, pillows) towels toiletries etc. If it cheaper to move out then do so. But I would bet that it isn't. So negotiate with your mom, all the bills is fine, but your only buying your own food (buy yourself a fridge to keep i…
/r/askTRP17/03/20 11:23 PM
4

It's one thing to not GAF, it's another to shit on everyone's ideas because you're just not in the mood. Think of people as objects that are useful, just not always. Some people have a lot of friends/acquaintances, you may not like them or want to hang out with them, but they could introduce you to other people that have a similar hobby, know of a cool place to go surfing/skateboarding. Short version, be friendly with everyone, even if you don't like them, or can see an immediate use for them, d…
/r/askTRP17/03/20 11:01 PM
2

I'm a sex addict and I made up excuses just to cheat. Or made up excuses to justify my cheating. At the root of it, I didn't see her as "shit I'm stuck with her" my ex wife was is still pretty hot and she's pushing 50. My second wife was bi so we had "rules" but for the most part I didn't feel the need/desire to cheat because a three/foursome was pretty much always an option
/r/askTRP17/03/20 10:56 PM
1

I didn't mean it's what worked as in the sole thing, I meant that it helped in addition to frame, and wit. Wit is the most important one. That you were quick with responses instead of stumbling or waiting to long to come up with a response.
/r/askTRP15/03/20 06:05 AM
8

Good report. Some might say cringe, but self depreciation can (and did) work to your advantage. You added the right amount of teasing. Keep it up, also kudos for not going after another man's gf. Not many have that self-restrain, myself included.
/r/askTRP15/03/20 05:37 AM
1

Technically she's telling the truth, female on male abuse doesn't get near as much media coverage, it doesn't get vilified. But it does get ridiculed and even "he deserved it" ... searches for "why are you booking me" meme
/r/MensRights14/03/20 12:00 AM
5

Don't be,we need more people like you, willing to take a honest look at things
/r/MensRights13/03/20 11:31 PM
4

Awesome message, Sadly this could get tossed on other subs/platforms simply because it doesn't cheerlead feminism 100%. Worse yet, if a male were to say anything similar on even a neutral platform, he'd instantly be called an incel and told to go cry to your momma. I'm all for equal rights... Well I'd prefer true anarchy, but baby steps right? The sad fact is this is the way the western/industrialized world is viewed
/r/MensRights13/03/20 06:15 PM
22

When I was stationed hear the French Canadian border all the other soldiers would approach and try to impress girls with "Comment allez-vous? Parlez-vous anglais?" Meaning, How are you, do you speak English? Girl were bored with that and would sometimes say oui/yes though usually non/no. I "reinvented myself" by saying "do you speak Spanish" they of course could hear that my accent wasn't local and assumed I said "English". As soon as I heard "oui" I would quickly in Spanish say "oh my goodness …
/r/askTRP13/03/20 09:46 AM
15

As mentioned trades, meaning construction, electrician, plumber, heavy equipment operators, machinist, millwrights, Boilermakers, Ironworkers all make pretty decent money too.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 11:12 PM
7

Church
/r/askTRP12/03/20 10:37 PM
2

When you sign up you can ask for the world, and will likely get what you ask for, especially with a score higher than 70. You can get bonus cash (usually paid in installments, 6 months after basic and then every year after sign up). Just don't be a dummy and buy a new car. Never buy a new car near a duty station. Always buy used and in a major city, just not in/near duty station. There are tons of predatory dealerships. Also pick/ask to get air assault/path finder. Looks good for the promotion b…
/r/askTRP12/03/20 03:42 AM
1

They've tried to make thing equal, but they're still not. For example an airman that has to live on army barracks gets extra BAH because they're substandard living conditions for an airman. Plus an airman never has to share a room, whereas army, you don't get your own room until you're a sergeant. And granted Navy it's cramped sleeping quarters, but travelling the world vs stuck in a shit hole duty station for 2 yrs at a time sucks balls. But with that score you can pick your first duty station.…
/r/askTRP12/03/20 03:15 AM
3

Don't do it, at least not like that. Approach the group introduce yourself to everyone, spend a little time talking to the one you're interested then alternative between her and another girl that's sorta of the opposite. For example if the girl you like is blonde blue eyes, talk to/flirt with a brunette/brown eyes. Then go back and forth between the two without gushing for one over the other. Then ask to exchange info for a study group. At the very least, don't say "I think you're cute what's yo…
/r/askTRP12/03/20 01:02 AM
3

If your asvab score is high enough, go chair force. If you REALLY want to go combat Arms, go Marine corps, if you want to travel the world, go Navy. If you like it, do your full 20, you can retire before you're 40 and still start another career or jump into something else.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 12:15 AM
1

Or bring her into your rotation and definitely don't hide it from her. Just never redate her
/r/askTRP12/03/20 12:11 AM
1

Cut out meats from your diet add more veggies. When I hit 40, plus having had a motorcycle accident and needed hip reconstructive surgery made me not able to get a full erection for a few months. Though it was more of a nerve issue, my diet didn't help. Changed my diet, animal based protein about once a week now they're more frequent and high school/raging erections than what I had in my late 20s and throughout my 30s
/r/askTRP11/03/20 03:39 PM
1

I agree with OP. Getting laid is a secondary benefit of becoming a better you. If you're not getting laid as often as youd like, you've got a ways to go. Some people seem to shortcut and pick and choose what they want from TRP and use it more as a PUA strategy/shortcut that usually works. When it starts to fail they cry "I'm aN aLpHa I DoN'T gEt WhY tHiS Isn'T WoRkInG!?"
/r/askTRP11/03/20 03:28 PM
1

At least you are trying and not letting multiple rejections keep you down. I know being rejected sucks, regardless of what you look like or past successes. The best thing that I can recommend to you is that you get a job as a bartender or bar back (this one is better because you have more down time and restock for the bartender and is a position necessary for high volume bars/clubs). This way you can stand back and watch approaches, literally hundreds of approaches per night. Dont try to listen …
/r/seduction11/03/20 03:08 PM
2

I think my success has more to do with "reading" a room. Having been a bartender I saw thousands of approaches, plus stuff I was doing on my own around the same time. Instead of approaching everything that moves, approach the ones that give IOIs. When you first walk into a room you should be able to spot who's taken a glance at you, sizing you up, "taking you all in", shyly/coyly glancing at you, and the one who are oblivious/haven't taken notice of you (this is usually the case).
/r/seduction11/03/20 07:13 AM
2

The women here are looking for long term/marriage worthy good men. Think leave it to beaver but the mom has a mind and can do things for themselves. That's the short version but not exactly definitive
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/20 12:08 AM
5

I think you're mistaking what RPwomen are in comparison to TheRedPill.
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/20 12:02 AM
3

No, although my gym is at home
/r/askTRP10/03/20 10:57 PM
18

This, it's one thing to "not have a personality" but don't be a doormat
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/20 10:53 PM
2

I (late 40s male) generally don't take an interest in a female less than 21. Not that I don't occasionally hook up with 18-20 just a preference of convenience, if I ask her to grab me a six pack or a bottle of something on the way over. If you have a way to contact him just message and say something about grabbing a bite to eat. If he agrees, be clear what you're looking for. Some older guys get the idea in their head that a younger girl actually loves them and wants to spend the rest of their h…
/r/seduction10/03/20 10:42 PM
4

If I could put it into words I'd retire in a year
/r/askTRP10/03/20 05:53 AM
5

Approaching because they find the girl attractive instead of scanning a room/quad/bar/location. In other words noobs focus on how% to approach (as many women as possible) rather than reading a room and knowing *who (women who show IOIs) to approach.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 05:48 AM
1

I was a barback/bartender back in the day, if I could break down and put into words what I learned I'd retire in a year
/r/askTRP10/03/20 01:11 AM
1

Definitely a shit test, I've had a few. "If you had hair/no tattoos/x/y/z you'd be perfect for me". "If you were cuter I'd introduce you to my friends"
/r/askTRP09/03/20 08:40 AM
1

Escalating from what point? Once you get her to your place, that's a pretty good indication that she wants to, or at least is willing to hook up. Personally if I sense a girl is on the fence, I suggest truth or dare. When I drank, "never have I ever". I can't think of a time that I did not get laid by playing truth or dare. Granted, I'm almost 50, so I've likely forgotten, but I'm pretty sure I F closed 19 out of 20
/r/askTRP09/03/20 08:31 AM
3

On weekends you don't hang out with the guys go to Lowe's/home Depot and take one of their workshop classes. Learning how to fix/repair thing around your house is invaluable. Read books on psychology/body language, in other words learn to read IOIs by glancing around a room when you walk in. Alternatively get a part time job as a bar back and watch all the interactions, don't try to hear what they're saying, figure it out by what you see. When you can predict what's going to happen from the firs…
/r/askTRP09/03/20 08:28 AM
2

I go a different route, "kill anyone lately?" Meant to shock and have her undivided attention, of course they answer "no". To which I tell them, "good, never admit to it, that's how they get you" . Sometimes I misread the girl and she thinks I'm weird/crazy/psycho. Worst case I get a laugh from shocking her. Usually I keep her undivided attention and have her follow me around the bar for the rest of the night til we leave. Point is, I don't care "about" her, I care more about an experience, whet…
/r/askTRP09/03/20 08:22 AM
1

Self depreciation works well in more professional environments/encounters. Who I am/how I act is most settings (blue collar) is vastly different than how I interact at a professional convention. TL;DR know your audience
/r/askTRP09/03/20 08:14 AM
8

"did you just realize this?". "Did you forget (that I'm good/amazing?". "You don't have to tell me something I know for am excuse to talk to me"
/r/askTRP09/03/20 08:10 AM
1

::Shrug:: I learned the hard way by getting a job as a bartender/bar back and paying attention to what people do, not what they say
/r/seduction08/03/20 08:49 AM
1

It's a double edged sword, if they fire you, you can apply for unemployment. Being fired looks bad to a new company. Although when they verify employment they can't ask if you were fired. If you quit, and leave them with a huge workload, when the new job verified employment they could go on a rant about you being a bad employee.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 08:21 AM
1

Could be race, depends where you're at. Racism is still pretty strong in the south, oftentimes it's subtle.
/r/seduction08/03/20 08:04 AM
3

Instead of pick up artist books and how to game, read psychology, body language. Basically learn to read a room and approach the women that are begging you to with IOIs. In other words, learn to pick who to approach the girls that will say yes/give you their number instead of approaching everything that moved for a possible yes out of 50
/r/seduction08/03/20 08:00 AM
2

Above average compared to other 40-50 year olds, slightly better than average compared to early 30s guys. What helps is I'm in shape. Not ripped but muscle tone is noticable. If a girl has a tthig for a tatted Mr Clean, I wreck house
/r/seduction08/03/20 07:44 AM
1

It is occasionally gratifying to call a female out for basically being a gold digger, it's also fun to use them like a sex toy you're gonna leave a gooey mess in a corner
/r/seduction08/03/20 07:01 AM
5

Good on you for denying buying her drinks, it could've played a few different ways. I personally just say, "I don't drink" and go from there, sometimes it's a shit test other times they want to know why. Short version good job not being a doormat.
/r/seduction08/03/20 06:48 AM
4

With hold affection, hugs/kisses, cuddling after she smokes. Had a LTR that smoked less around me and eventually only when out drinking/weekends.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 05:33 AM
1

This
/r/seduction07/03/20 07:02 PM
2

Learn body language, non verbal cues and psychology. If you learn to read IOIs especially the faint ones, you can zero in on the ones that'll most likely say yes. In other words you'd get 80 phone numbers from 100 approaches. Of those 80, 50 will turn to dates. It's up to you iif you can seal the deal.
/r/seduction07/03/20 05:33 AM
1

I would say to tell her "don't shit where you eat" but I've had a friend get fired and the ugly boss thinking that he'd go ahead and date her now that she fired him. I'd angle for a promotion and move to another department, verbally, so she can't come back and say that you promised to fuck/date her if you got the promotion
/r/askTRP07/03/20 03:45 AM
96

"Fuck crazy all you want, never date crazy. And if you do date crazy, *never redate** an ex*" — My Father
/r/askTRP07/03/20 03:39 AM
2

It's recoverable, just ignore her until she reaches out and apologizes. There's been times where I've fucked up and just played like I never said anything. Don't gaslight, just ignore and she'll either conform or not. Example Me - send me a pic of what you're wearing. Her - please, lol Me- I rarely use that word, and I never "sorry" Her- sends pic lol that's fine I was just being sarcastic
/r/askTRP07/03/20 03:34 AM
0

It can happen but not the way you think. After my divorce and finding out I am a sex addict, I was celibate for a while. Then I started dating/hooking up not with the intention of finding the perfect woman. Just a woman that was a good fit for me. But my intent with dating wasn't to find a "good fit" it was more like, I'm going to date and have fun and hopefully I run into someone. After about two years I started dating the woman that's become my wife. And it was a great 4 years and 11 days.
/r/seduction06/03/20 01:58 AM
10

Get over it, you'll have to do a lot of things in life that you're not comfortable with/rather not be doing. Now, the tranny is going through a physical transformation just like you are going through a mental/philosophical transformation. Do you not think that incels, feminists and neckbeards would be repulsed by you if they could see your change? You have to become a chameleon and maintain frame all the time. The difference is the tranny is embracing change and you want others to conform to you…
/r/askTRP04/03/20 03:42 PM
3

Something with your hands, repair, build things. Repairing old film cameras, you can usually find for less than $10 at garage sales. Take woodshop, carpentry skills will be invaluable when you have to make repairs adjustments to things in your home, such as baseboards, crown molding, wainscoting/chair rails, bannisters, cabinet leveling. Building / construction (forgot what high schools call it) bus a class where you learn basic plumbing, drywall repair, replacing/installing light switches/plugs…
/r/askTRP03/03/20 10:59 PM
-5

If you left unread and just saw the notification, Reply in a week. Along the lines of "oh, yeah, I forgot about you, no worries". If it's read ignore it, might not be a better option but a provider that came along, which she'll miss you, if you had value, and slip into your DMs in a few weeks/months. Change her name in your contacts as "girl that was a little fun" or whatever dumb nuckne you can think of that'll remind you of who she is but not her name.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 09:24 PM
1

Done it dozens of times, parks, mall service hallways, building stairwells. Worst case you get a public indecency ticket, sometimes a fine Don't be afraid to fuck
/r/seduction03/03/20 09:13 PM
-4

Dear lord, KISS. Just be confident, make statements not questions Let's get out of here > "wanna go back to my place?" Don't be afraid to fuck on a car in public, what is it with you kids always wanting to have sex on a bed?
/r/seduction03/03/20 08:23 PM
1

This is the 4th time I've seen this post, what answer are you looking for so I can cut and paste and not see this again
/r/seduction03/03/20 08:15 PM
9

I pretty much did this, when I was in kindergarten. Short version I'd overheard her saying she wanted a haircut, I had a crush on her and thought I was "helping" teacher talked to me, mom and the girls mom. I didn't feel, or recall feeling like I was in major trouble, just that I should use my words when/if I have a crush on a girl
/r/MensRights03/03/20 04:19 PM
1

Have you really internalized RP?
/r/askTRP03/03/20 04:07 PM
6

I could have a relationship if I desired, but since my wife died, I don't see myself forming an emotional bond with anyone. So now I just have a few women in rotation, if I want to be alone I stay home, if I want a little warmth I'll visit them, if I want affection I'll stay the night.
/r/seduction03/03/20 02:07 PM
6

Being older, nearly 50 don't care if I pick up a woman or not. I'm more content with knowing a woman wants to leave with me. Also my wife died a few years ago, don't think I can form a meaningful emotional connection with anyone again
/r/seduction03/03/20 06:43 AM
1

So shoes make the man?
/r/seduction03/03/20 06:35 AM
3

This, ​ if she's late she'll see you picking up/hitting on other females. she'll either leave or try to stake a claim on you. Which adds value to the new one seeing that the old one wants you for herself. ​ If she's on time, you have her wrapped around your finger.
/r/seduction03/03/20 01:51 AM
1

I was gonna comment something educational, as in something I don't know. But it seems were thinking of doing the same thing.
/r/seduction02/03/20 09:38 AM
1

I've lived longer than I ever expected, by a few decades. What I'm suggesting is trust your gut a little more than crunching the numbers, say a 60/40 split. Both my wives were promiscuous in their 20s, when I met them they wanted to settle down and have a happy home life. Fucked up the first marriage and now I'm widowed. So I'm throwing caution to the wind, been around 3 decades more than I thought I would. If you're seriously looking to a monogamous young 20something that wants to be Suzy Q. ho…
/r/askTRP02/03/20 09:36 AM
-1

Belittle him in a "cute" way "Aww bless your heart, you think neggin her makes you look good" *mess up his hair and/or Pat him on his head*
/r/askTRP02/03/20 09:21 AM
3

This, confidence, wit and humor go farther than looks and money, usually Standing around like a peacock so everyone notices that your jacked SCREAMS insecure to a woman. They're better at reading body language than most guys are. And they can read fakes
/r/askTRP02/03/20 09:18 AM
4

Nope, everyone dies, trying to prolong it by taking extra precautions only to get run over by a truck, why bother. Live your life like you're gonna die tomorrow, because it's a real possibility.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 09:16 AM
0

Life a risk, don't be skurr. Been married twice, divorced and now widowed. I doubt I'd ever find a woman the quality of either. The first marriage I fucked up by fucking around a lot. Got my shit together and my second wife was perfect for me. If you want to minimize risk crunch your own numbers, others' experiences are going to do anything for you if you're just gonna stick to the numbers. In the end trust your gut, if you don't trust your gut, you've got some more reevaluating to do than "how …
/r/askTRP02/03/20 09:12 AM
0

You presume I want a committed relationship, low n count doesn't mean that she'll be faithful. Nor does a high n count mean she won't. Then again I'm older and my cup of tea is women in their 30s, usually post wall/alpha widows and will do as I say to stay in rotation.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 09:00 AM
0

Soft next and dread, talk to every girl you see/meet in front of her, if she gives you any shit "you're still here?" Text exes get them to send you nudes and browse through them in front of her. Though in your shoes I'd hard next.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 08:58 AM
-1

If you fuck on or before a first date Are vague with details from their past either from intentionally hiding or "drank/partied too much to remember" Personally I don't care, they could've gotten gangbanged every weekened in college my n count would still be higher. And even if they came close, if prefer it because I wouldn't have to waste time teaching them anything, and they might be I to some of the kinks I am into.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 08:49 AM
2

So you have some with and banter to get them to come over. Are you not trying/attempting to get physical with them? Do you touch her at all? Kiss, there's something you're not telling us, or at least something you don't see/notice while you're with them at your place.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 08:42 AM
1

In my hood growing up hoop earrings were pretty much only worn by cholas. And when they came off it was for one reason only, to throw down. Honestly can't think of the last time I saw a girl with hoop earrings, but I'm nearly 50 and the women I entertain usually have long enough hair to cover their ears.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 08:39 AM
2

After my divorce I thought nothing of my behavior/addiction, then I figured "great now I'm free and have nothing to slow me down" at the time I prided myself on being able to pickup at least one woman a day, whether it lead to sex or not, "1 a day" was the goal. One of those women ended up becoming a very good friend. For some reason I actually enjoyed her company. I knew she was swooning over me and she was content having my friendship but hoped for more. Other than the first week we had met, I…
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/20 04:32 PM
1

I come from a Latinx background, Machismo which most misinterpret as alpha, but it's more like "family alpha with perks". As in take care of you family, put their needs first, once their taken care of your reward is to fool around as you please, just don't get attached. This is both spoken "a real man has been with a ton of women!" and unspoken wives look the other way so long as the other woman remains a fling and the kids don't know about it. So with that, and a few other things that happened …
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/20 07:34 AM
1

Get a job as a barback, you basically restock for the bartenders and clean up after them, but in your downtime you can people watch, in particular how other guys approach and SEE for yourself what that looks like and if you pay attention, body language, IOIs. Hell, guys should being paying to get this job because the experience is worth it's greater than any course/class/seminar you could buy
/r/seduction28/02/20 05:44 PM
1

She at least had the courtesy to be honest and remain friendly with you. I understand how difficult it is to out yourself out there for a woman that seems to be a perfect match for you, (or describe her perfect guy and it sounds like she's describing you). There might be 4 guys on Earth that could get her to give up her trip to Cambodia. (You and I are not one of those 4). So drop the "losing weight to get her to stay" you're still going to be you. What you can do, if lose weight and build muscl…
/r/seduction28/02/20 11:39 AM
3

Being "foreign" can work for you. But you need "an angle" an approach the amplifies your accent as a positive. For example: When I was in the army I was stationed very near the Canadian border, East coast where French is common. Most of the other soldiers that would go to Canada would try to use the line "Comment allez-vous. parlez vous anglais" "How are you, do you speak English?". Most girls would boringly/respond "oui/yes" if they found them attractive or "non" to get away. I would flip the s…
/r/seduction28/02/20 11:08 AM
2

Don't give too much detail on the type of restaurant that isn't oily or fried enough to eat 2 times a day.. Just say food that isn't fried, I prefer to use/say "non chain restaurant" or "mom n pop hole in the wall". Don't ask about the price or the 2 times a day (perhaps you didn't word it the way you say it but I don't understand the question). The price questions makes you sound cheap (sounds line you're saying "HI, IM POOR/CHEAP"), The over worded (2x day) sounds confusing and they won't admi…
/r/seduction28/02/20 10:14 AM
2

I'm generally against coworker dating/hooking up. Ask what his plans are for the weekend, if its something for a group setting or public, such as hiking, bowling, dog park, golf etc. Mention that you've never been/haven't tried in a while and would love the opportunity to go/try said event. He might invite you, of he doesn't, ask if you can't join if he accepts/invites, tell him when you arrive to the event your intent and leave the ball in his court
/r/seduction28/02/20 10:01 AM
1

Get a job as a barback, basically a bartenders gopher. Refill ice, restock beer in coolers, grab new liquor bottles and occasionally you get to make a drink. But there's a lot of downtime. You won't get to interact directly with the customers, but you'll get to see a lot of interactions. This is where you can observe "in the wild" approaches, attempts, and most importantly body language. This will help "read" when you approach yourself.
/r/seduction28/02/20 05:14 AM
2

When my wife was alive we always talked about out wants/needs/desires. To be sure to be on the same page, and we both made compromises. The key is being able to communicate AND compromise. My wife has been gone for nearly fours years now, so I no longer have to compromise. So I'm satisfied in one way since I cannot have the other.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/20 04:11 AM
1

My wife was the prototypical "every man's fantasy" long red hair, curvy, smart, beautiful and could drink ANYONE under the table. But even though people stopped and took notice of us, I still occasionally glanced at or checked out other women. Lucky for me she was also bi. So even if your bf had a chance to be with her, he would still admire beauty in another. It's human nature, or at least for males to at the very least glance at another attractive woman.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/20 03:57 PM
1

Ask older co-workers if there's a bar they usually frequent. Most major cities, or cities with a major airport have at least one bar that caters to the 45+ crowd. I go here from time to time just to upstage the other guys my age. In a bar I can pass for mid 30s because I'm fit for my age. If you're looking specifically for 45+ women only try "our time" or "silver singles" dating sites. You'd have to lie about your age to sign up, but at least you'd have a better chance of finding what you like
/r/seduction24/02/20 06:05 AM
1

Confidence can beat most shortcomings. I'm 6' (maybe a bit shorter now that I'm older and gravity is actually affecting my vertebrae) but there have been a handful of times that a fat or short or shortly dressed guy has stopped into a group of women I opened and charmed the pants off one of them. I do recall one time the charming little fat fuck pulled the women I was trying to single out. So quit worrying about your height. Only girls taller than you on heels care
/r/seduction22/02/20 03:52 PM
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I have no idea, I've had a few guys DM me about more specific scenarios from my comment history and found out guys pay crazy amounts of money just to figure out how to consistently get laid. I'm not a Master, but I can get laid before I go to sleep tonight with a woman I meet today. But I'm bored with that, manipulating and corrupting people for my own amusement, now that is a game I love to play.
/r/seduction18/02/20 03:34 PM
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Some of this is laughable. Now, I'm genetically blessed. Think a tatted Hispanic Mr Clean that speaks several languages. Eye contact IS key, and you are right (don't stare creepily). I have more of an amused gaze, or "undress her with my eyes". If I look away it's to glance at another female in my periphery. Sometimes the girl I'm talking toon a date with will notice, if they call me on it "wanna get her number/think she's hotter than me" I answer honestly. "I'll get her number later/I didn't ge…
/r/seduction18/02/20 03:20 PM
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One should always game sober, 2 drinks in a 24 hour period max. While being inibriated may help anxiety, it's a hindrance to wit, banter, coordination and a few other things. If you're anxious, figure out how to get over it. Theres No one watching your every move and secretly criticizing you. It's all in your head
/r/seduction15/02/20 04:05 AM
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do you ever talk/approach to anyone during the day? as in, do you ever approach, and you have an issue talking only at a club, or do you always have an issue to approach? ​ I presume you wish to talk to a girl to eventually sleep with her or date her. do you think of all the what ifs, or are you frozen in place because you think theres no point, or something else? there are a lot of factors that you haven't shared and I doubt anyone can give you honest helpful advice that will lead towards your …
/r/seduction12/02/20 07:53 AM
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I think there's a distinction you're not recognizing, or perhaps I'm just misreading. You say I am not this way though. I just like beauty Which to me reads more accurately as "I lust beauty". Stating that you can "prove" that you're a cutter reads like you're seeking attention. Now I don't care or pass judgement. I've seen kinkier and done only being aroused by "beautiful men" doesn't seem like that big a deal.
/r/seduction11/02/20 02:51 AM
1

I suppose were saying the same thing in different ways. I agree that one should practice and build up game by approaching. And by approaching everything I mean practice talking to females. And build from just introductions yourself to sexualizing the conversation and maintaining frame. But most guys I give that advice to, are expecting to get laid after saying "hi"
/r/TheRedPill09/02/20 12:03 AM
1

I'll concede that "the pussy will follow" is an oversimplification and assumes a few things that I have not explained. The point I was meant to make is as follows: Don't put the cart before the horse, meaning "Don't try to get laid now, you're a æchump/scrub/nothing..." Now you can still slip and fall into some pussy every once in a while, but First you have to make yourself fuckable, and Two approaching with the intent to fuck is not something a novice ... ¿player? can pull of consistently. Foc…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/20 01:02 AM
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How old is this kid? 18-23 most sexually open Post wall women are also sexually open. If you know where to look. Now I’m almost 50 and have plates between 19 and 62. The only plates that have a chance of being FWB are bi and over 25. with few exceptions anything younger is vapid and boring. It’s interesting to see how someone else “sets up” a threesome. In my experience all but 6 threesomes I’ve had “just happened” (the first time) the repeats have been scheduled/planned. You can increase your o…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/20 05:20 PM
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It might be obvious now and ruin the surprise if you asked "what's your favorite kind of lingerie?" but it might be a good question to ask after V Day. You can end up saving a lot of money if say his preference is just stocking with a garter. Buy one garter and a few stockings as opposed to something pokey and restrictive that'll just get torn off/broken later.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/20 12:59 AM
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ah, yes, hit and runs are at times annoying.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/20 12:54 AM
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My wife and I eschewed Valentine's, and we made sure we knew how we felt about each other year round (loved). ​ That aside, are you sure he likes lingerie? Some guys find it more attractive/seductive to see his woman in a dress shirt of his and nothing else, others might find business casual irresistible.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/20 12:52 AM
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I think the point OP is trying to make, that correlates with TRP is "make yourself better/be a leader." There's no need for sexual strategy if you're the cream of the crop. ​ Which is something it seems most commentors don't realize. This sub isn't a PUA shortcut. Become a better you, the pussy will follow.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/20 12:47 AM
2

Suggest he send you sexy/racy texts before he initiates, you've stated there isn't physical intimacy prior. Perhaps he could get behind being "mentally intimate" beforehand to sorta let you know, that he's in the mood. In other words a heads up that he's wanting some.. fun later, and perhaps this could help you mentally prepare. Then later seeing how you're "ready" would encourage him to give you more of a heads up and "help" you get ready. It may not read as intended, but basically baby steps f…
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/20 09:12 PM
2

It breaks down to "no one's gonna tell me what to do"
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/20 08:32 PM
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I think ultimatums are the equivalent of using nuclear launch codes. In other words if you make an ultimatum be prepared to be single/divorced soon after. Most men would turn and run in the face of an ultimatum even if the desired outcome would benefit the man
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/20 04:33 AM
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Never date a cheater, nor re-date an ex. And this should be first, never shit where you eat (don't date co-workers)
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/20 11:51 PM
1

Next time you get to pick what to watch on Netflix, put on The Game Changers. I’m prior service, so I know about packing on the pounds. I’ve lost weight before when I got too big, but nothing made me seriously consider my health like the documentary did. YMMV
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/20 02:38 AM
1

Are you assuming he won’t or has he said this? If the former, get out of your head, very little good happens when you sit and think of “things”. If it really concerns you, ask him and get an answer instead of speculation. If the latter, and you are just his fiancé, consider getting out. If he’ll hold it over your head now, he’ll consumptive to do so.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/20 02:28 AM
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Location location location is important. I met a guy that made 800-1200 and only panhandled on Sundays by a mega church. I averaged 80-120. A few good days of 200
/r/TheRedPill10/01/20 09:35 PM
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sounds more like a "taken in hand" relationship at best and taken for granted at least.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/20 01:49 AM
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Been in your shoes brother, army vet, but the same boots. I was lucky to run into some guys that were squatting, (after almost a month) just had to pitch in a can or two of food a day. I don't get much disability-wise but that plus what I was panhandling, was deposited into an ATM every night. Eventually I had enough to get a place with all the deposits. And that was about 11 yrs ago
/r/TheRedPill09/01/20 06:25 PM
2

If you were 10 years older. I've never surfed, wanted to learn but the gulf coast isn't big on surfing more of a fishing / chill at the beach vibe. Glad to hear your parents instilled self-sufficiency. You'd be surprised how many mid late 30yr olds (male and female) still don't have their shit together. There's a lot, society takes for granted particularly, old people. You'd be surprised what you can learn that's not easily found in history books, self-help, or online. Though sometimes you gotta…
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/20 10:36 PM
1

I like very masculine looking men, so on a physical level ROFL, I don't think I've seen a masculine male under 30? 25? Man buns and leggings? But I suppose I can't throw stones, I'd go grab brekky at a diner in PJs a custom fanny pack and heart shaped sunglasses. My old man taught me. A bunch of things, one was teach your wife how to be a widow. When she asks you to fix something, do it. But take the time to teach her. Under the guise of "if I'm in the hospital /working out of town/ jail you nee…
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/20 10:08 PM
2

I'm a sucker for long hair and a skirt, but I'm older than most. In my book your SMV is higher than average, but who knows really. SMV is subjective and varies by region as well. Men in your preferred age group seem to me as a part of the hookup culture. If I was in your shoes I'd try a pay to play dating app. One of the ones you have to pay to communicate with someone. At least there, I think you'd find guys more willing to commit to a relationship. Is a guy in the 25-35 range a better fit for …
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/20 09:01 PM
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If I told a male friend that I'm with "a friend" it's because I am not taking the "relationship" seriously, (read she's just a FWB).
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/20 12:37 AM
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I think there's a difference or perhaps a misunderstanding (at least on my end) between sexual compatibility and sexual preferences. It's one thing that desire/frequency tapers over time. But compatibility I think is a real thing. For example, I wouldn't expect a potential mate to want it as frequently as I would prefer 2+/day. But I do have some preferences, and I'm sure everyone else here does as well. Plus some things would be a hard no for some and for others it's foreplay. So at the very le…
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/20 11:07 PM
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This is what it's like for males and anything that doesn't cheer lead and is 100% pro feminist. There's a middle ground between nearly any faction, though more often than not, one side is less likely to listen /discuss because you're obviously wrong because you associate with the "other side"
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/20 09:37 PM
1

I think that TRP is a good idea in theory. And these are generalizations not absolute facts, In that men who have been raised by single mothers, or beta men as father's who have no idea "how to be man". However, TRP sub contributors perverts the best/desirable qualities of a man into being a confident PUA. It seems as though most guys only focus on improving themselves enough to have a parade of women. Rather than being the best version of themselves and expecting /searching for that in a mate.
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/20 08:25 PM
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There are guys who don't want any children, and there are guys that can't have children either and would consider adoption. It's a matter of figuring out what are some must have boxes that are checked off in a mate and what are the nice to have
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/19 08:51 AM
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Congrats! Merry Christmas
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/19 08:36 PM
1

/hug
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/19 08:13 PM
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Some guys don't like the holidays because it reminds them they no longer have any immediate blood relatives. Doing Christmas stuff just amplifies it, and have to put in the extra effort to just put on a happy face and not kick everything green and red in sight.
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/19 07:20 PM
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Sigh... I don't want to be the bearer of bad news, and I could be projecting myself into the situation. When I go out on a date or via dating app/text tell the girl "I don't want fwb, random hook ups, I'm looking for long term". I'm fishing, if she's looking for a LTR great, I found a potential gf. If she's not looking for LTR she might sway the conversation to something sexual to let me know she wants to have a little 'fun' while I'm looking. Or they'll stop talking to me because a LTR doesn't …
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/19 01:38 AM
1

I also thought ED was an age issue, brought on early by breaking my hip. Just figured I'd have to "find a new pill that worked." Plus being a sex addict it wrecked my esteem and perceived value/worth. Hence the depression and weight gain which didn't help.
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/19 02:22 PM
1

40+ myself. I have a few friends that have gone through their 1st/2nd divorce and I can't get them to go out to save their life. Good on you for going out on your own and dancing. It's frustrating to have a friend/acquaintance ask for advice only to waste your time because going out is too much effort.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/19 01:28 PM
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I had ED problems after breaking my hip in a motorcycle accident. Became depressed got fat ED got worse. took some Cialis/Viagra generic pills to "get things going" but eventually it worked less and less. Started working out, and eating more veggies after watching "game changers" on Netflix. One segment is a test on college age males. One night they ate their normal meal that included meat. They wore a device to sleep that measured duration and girth of erections during their sleep cycle. The ne…
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/19 01:20 PM
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