| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | How do i make it obvious that im looking for a serious relationship as a female?Im 19 and im not religious its just what i prefer 😭 | /r/seduction | 30/05/25 04:57 AM |
| 0 | How do i make it obvious that im looking for a serious relationship as a female?Thank you! | /r/seduction | 29/05/25 04:05 PM |
| 4 | How do i make it obvious that im looking for a serious relationship as a female?Thats not my attitude towards sex at all 😭 im not trying to market myself as better just because im a virgin. My point is that i dont want to waste time for myself or other guys who are only looking to hook up. I just choose not to have sex with anyone before settling down because thats what i feel more comfortable with. | /r/seduction | 29/05/25 04:04 PM |
| 1 | How do i make it obvious that im looking for a serious relationship as a female?I mean for me im not interested in any type of sex before marriage so thats out of the table. For me casual relationship just means relationships for the sake of experience or being with someone? Whether it be lust or what not. When i say serious i mean like actually connecting with each other and living together and potentially leading up to marriage type of thing. Its good to adress that beforehand so no one gets a different idea yk? | /r/seduction | 29/05/25 03:53 PM |
| 46 | Why do you not use dating apps as much as us men?Well for me the way men approach me on a dating app feels more like a “hey i wanna have a one night stand” instead of “im going to be respectful and hope we build a relationship” and im dedicated to saving my virginity for marriage so thats a big no for me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/25 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Hard to pursue romance because everyone i like has someone else that also likes themIm not going after the dude cuz he gets female attention im saying when i like a guy i find out later on that he has someone else who also likes him | /r/seduction | 12/02/25 12:36 PM |
| 2 | Hard to pursue romance because everyone i like has someone else that also likes themWhat does this mean | /r/seduction | 11/02/25 03:47 PM |
| -3 | Men’s reaction to the 4B movement is disgusting and justifies women picking the bear.Lol I personally think u american women r weirdos for ripping off korean women. It was their movement americans dont live in the same society as korean women u guys r far more privileged in some aspects than korean women and now u guys rip off their movement because of politics? Literally seems like american women are just making fun of korean women atp. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Do men get weirded out/overwhelmed by sudden affection?Ah im not love bombing thats just how i am always w ppl i like :) | /r/seduction | 20/09/24 03:23 PM |
| 1 | How can i pick up/ hit on MEN without coming off as awkward or creepyWhats a pua tactic | /r/seduction | 29/08/24 03:22 PM |
| 2 | How can i pick up/ hit on MEN without coming off as awkward or creepyIm not from Switzerland 😗 | /r/seduction | 29/08/24 03:02 PM |
| – | The idea of men wanting traditional pure wives is false in realityMy point still stands | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/24 12:32 AM |
| 1 | The idea of men wanting traditional pure wives is false in realityThere is no justifiable reason to cheat or sleep around and then act like a saint that needs a saint goes for both ways ur weird | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 06:00 PM |
| 1 | The idea of men wanting traditional pure wives is false in realityHow would you know the bald guy didnt sleep around when he was younger? Or maybe he works in the sex industry? How would you know the girl with the nose ring isnt sleeping around? Many people have kinks for those types of girls | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 05:59 PM |
| 1 | The idea of men wanting traditional pure wives is false in realityWoah someone took that personally | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 05:57 PM |
| 0 | The idea of men wanting traditional pure wives is false in realityThats not rlly the point of my post | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 05:57 PM |
| 1 | The idea of men wanting traditional pure wives is false in realityIm just gonna guess you cant read what you wrote | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 03:49 PM |
| 1 | The idea of men wanting traditional pure wives is false in realityUr inconvenience in attracting women isnt rlly our issue dude | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 03:48 PM |
| 1 | The idea of men wanting traditional pure wives is false in realityIts good that ur not a passport bro many of those women usually just want green cards and money go with someone you love | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 03:47 PM |
| 1 | The idea of men wanting traditional pure wives is false in realityAppearance has nothing to do with lying about ur bodycount? Sure ppl might laugh but how r u supposed to know | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 03:46 PM |
| 0 | The idea of men wanting traditional pure wives is false in realityIm a rape victim and i count it as rape. Rape can be many things | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 03:45 PM |
| 1 | The idea of men wanting traditional pure wives is false in realityWhere do you see such hateful posts or such from women about wanting to date traditional virgin men? There isnt many compared to ones men make im focusing on the intense trend of such things | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 01:09 PM |
| 1 | The idea of men wanting traditional pure wives is false in realityIm confused youre talking about “bad” men and taking into crimes and drug dealings but then pull out divorce rates as your source? Im confused on how thats relevant in anything? People divorce for many reasons man or woman its an agreement of both parties there are many men who dont want to end up like their parents because of course they had fights and troubles and thats okay you dont have to push all of those things onto women they have nothing to do with “forcing men to be bad” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 01:07 PM |
| 1 | The idea of men wanting traditional pure wives is false in realityYes u are talking about men and 6 figures | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 01:03 PM |
| 1 | The idea of men wanting traditional pure wives is false in realitySo making sure women are safe is hating men now? What a world | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 01:02 PM |
| 1 | The idea of men wanting traditional pure wives is false in realityAnd it seems like you do not keep up with news or history! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 06:48 AM |
| 1 | The idea of men wanting traditional pure wives is false in realityIm more of looking out for other women who might be preyed upon these manwhores its not like they are going to be loyal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 06:48 AM |
| 2 | The idea of men wanting traditional pure wives is false in realityI never said women have the right to rape a person by deception too? Idk where you got thaf from im speaking for both parties that its wrong | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 06:46 AM |
| -1 | The idea of men wanting traditional pure wives is false in realityNo its gross that you dont believe so | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 06:46 AM |
| 2 | The idea of men wanting traditional pure wives is false in realityI dont understand your chronically online language silly man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 06:44 AM |
| 1 | The idea of men wanting traditional pure wives is false in realityWe arent me and my friends would never date a man who isnt a virgin my friend cried and broke up with her bf after finding out his bodycount lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 06:43 AM |
| 1 | The idea of men wanting traditional pure wives is false in realityHow did women force anything? R u saying drug dealers and alcoholics are that way because women told them to do so? Im confused | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 06:41 AM |
| -1 | The idea of men wanting traditional pure wives is false in realitySee ur points r not making sense because im sure most of these women w high bodycounts who slept around when they were young arent getting mad and going crazy over men who also sleep around.. im sure alot of them would marry a non virgin as well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 06:40 AM |
| 1 | The idea of men wanting traditional pure wives is false in realityI hope you find her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 06:39 AM |
| 1 | The idea of men wanting traditional pure wives is false in realityI dont see how i put all men in a box im more focused on the red pill men who claim to want purity when they arent themselves? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 06:38 AM |
| 0 | The idea of men wanting traditional pure wives is false in realityRape by deception | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 06:38 AM |
| 1 | The idea of men wanting traditional pure wives is false in realityLol yes thats true not like the good ol days | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 06:37 AM |
| 1 | The idea of men wanting traditional pure wives is false in realityYes i agree but my post isnt directed at men who hold the same standards for themselves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 06:36 AM |
| 1 | The idea of men wanting traditional pure wives is false in realityYour comment was about women tho? Idk from where youre bringing up ugly short men lmao why do u wanna play the victim | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 06:35 AM |
| 2 | The idea of men wanting traditional pure wives is false in realityIf you’re giving out your body so easily you obviously have issues with lust and the fact that you’re so easily taken by other people just says that you don’t value yourself so yes bodycount matters when it comes to loyalty | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 06:34 AM |
| 1 | The idea of men wanting traditional pure wives is false in realityOh wow thats very interesting if you dont mind where can i find the video to watch? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 06:32 AM |
| 1 | The idea of men wanting traditional pure wives is false in realityThe main idea is that a manwhore is a prude for wanting a virgin | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 06:31 AM |
| 1 | The idea of men wanting traditional pure wives is false in realityWell then good for you? My post isnt directed at you then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 06:30 AM |
| 1 | The idea of men wanting traditional pure wives is false in realityI dont wanna marry a hoe anyways good for me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 06:29 AM |
| -1 | The idea of men wanting traditional pure wives is false in realitySo youre saying men didnt wanna sleep with you being a virgin which is exactly what im talking about in my post? Orrr?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 05:59 AM |
| 1 | The idea of men wanting traditional pure wives is false in realityRape by deception you consent to sex on the premise of sleeping with a person with a bodycount of 2 but then after you find out their bodycount is 15 but you didnt agree to have sex with a person who has a bodycount of 15 so yes it counts as rape | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 05:58 AM |
| 1 | The idea of men wanting traditional pure wives is false in realityYes thats also a big issue they just want to use a woman to play into their sick twisted games and then when she agrees shes a hoe or a slut sadly not all of them are realizing that it goes for both parties my dude ur a slut too.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 05:56 AM |
| 0 | The idea of men wanting traditional pure wives is false in realityYou keep contradicting ur own answers you say men aren’t desirable for hookups then whos hooking up w those girls huh? Women? And then you say you also sleep around w women like thats something to be proud about… virginity and the overall look on a persons romantic history is far more different than money.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 05:54 AM |
| 1 | The idea of men wanting traditional pure wives is false in realityYeahh seems like u kinda forgot ur initial points and also admitted that ur a hoe so yk idk ab our topic either | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 06:25 PM |
| 2 | The idea of men wanting traditional pure wives is false in realityWhat happened to ur rave of alpha men now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 06:17 PM |
| 2 | The idea of men wanting traditional pure wives is false in realityLmaooo thats funny and yet sadly true i think some men are just mad that women are starting to have equal rights not like the good ol days when you could marry a little girl or buy her and then rape her cuz shes ur bride am i right | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 06:14 PM |
| 2 | The idea of men wanting traditional pure wives is false in realityI think we should praise men who are staying as virgins its good regardless of gender | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 06:12 PM |
| 3 | The idea of men wanting traditional pure wives is false in realityI personally would not date or marry a used up man whos basically the community dick maybe you guys need to put that in ur heads too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 06:11 PM |
| -7 | The idea of men wanting traditional pure wives is false in realityThats true but i also hope you keep in mind that lying about your bodycount is a form of rape so if such thing happens dont be afraid to speak up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 06:08 PM |
| 1 | The idea of men wanting traditional pure wives is false in realityYes yes i think its a very toxic narrative to push on women and especially with the rise of social media among children god who knows what these little kids would be subjected into dont sell your body off dont lock it away either the right person comes at some point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 06:07 PM |
| 1 | The idea of men wanting traditional pure wives is false in realityYes i understand it was my fault for not clarifying i tried to clarify more in the replies its more catered towards the last two | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 06:02 PM |
| 0 | The idea of men wanting traditional pure wives is false in realityMaybe lesser than the women in europe or america other countries have heavy views on such things while for men they dont some punishable for death or vaginal mutation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 06:01 PM |
| 2 | The idea of men wanting traditional pure wives is false in realityAGREED! You should 100% look for someone who matches your sexual desires for a long term partner it’s a hypocritical world | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 05:59 PM |
| 2 | The idea of men wanting traditional pure wives is false in realityIf you read my post im talking about men who want a traditional woman but hoe around themselves its not about others nor am i saying being a hoe is good its not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 05:57 PM |
| 1 | The idea of men wanting traditional pure wives is false in realitySorry for not clarifying my first time posting here i do think for such guys its just because they dont feel so masculine and comfortable in their own bodies and i wish men were more concerned about their virginities as they are with womens | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 05:56 PM |
| 0 | The idea of men wanting traditional pure wives is false in realityMy post is directed to the internet phenomenon of red pill men and if you read it does say majority of those men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 05:54 PM |
| 1 | The idea of men wanting traditional pure wives is false in reality100% agreed with you love the points you made | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 05:53 PM |
| 1 | The idea of men wanting traditional pure wives is false in realityThe thing is humans are unpredictable a woman might be a hoe and then change her attitude about it or a traditional virgin could feel as if she missed out and turn into this so called hoe yes its very rare for this to happen im glad you found the love of your life but its wrong to generalize others in such a way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 05:52 PM |
| 2 | The idea of men wanting traditional pure wives is false in realityBy a google search the average body count of a man in turkey is 14 in india its 3 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 05:49 PM |
| 1 | The idea of men wanting traditional pure wives is false in realitySorry dude its reddit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 05:48 PM |
| 1 | The idea of men wanting traditional pure wives is false in realityThis made me chuckle thank you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 05:46 PM |
| 1 | The idea of men wanting traditional pure wives is false in realityI agree there is always two sides to such arguments but im just focusing on the men who do not uphold such standards for themselves as they do to women much respect to men who do! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 05:45 PM |
| 1 | The idea of men wanting traditional pure wives is false in realityI understand your point but we are very distinctly different I dont think apes are sitting here inventing the atomic bomb its not a fair argument if ur point is just that “were animals” animals also kill each other eat their kids etc but for us its a crime and that shows that we have the ability to distinguish good from bad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 05:44 PM |
| 1 | The idea of men wanting traditional pure wives is false in realityI hope they do i stand by what i said | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 05:40 PM |
| 2 | The idea of men wanting traditional pure wives is false in realityI get that but i was more of focusing on the redpill man issue itself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 05:38 PM |
| 3 | The idea of men wanting traditional pure wives is false in realityMan or woman the higher the bodycount the less loyal they are | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 05:37 PM |
| 3 | The idea of men wanting traditional pure wives is false in realityI think humans are not animals we are a species w our own minds i don’t understand why we have to compare ourselves to wild animals who dont even know what the meaning of loyalty or jealousy is. Yes there is a reason men can impregnate many women but we as a species evolved to a point there is no such thing as what ur talking about. We are not apes anymore | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 05:35 PM |
| 2 | The entire “if a girl is really into you, you’ll know and there is nothing that can dissuade her” narrative really needs to die already. This is completely false, and is misleading generations of men.See this is where ur argument kinda seems off cuz there is no thing as talking stage if ur in a talking stage its 100% u thinking that way not them lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 03:50 PM |
| 1 | I hear the statement "The bar for men is extremely low these days" a lot in the context of dating, sex, and relationships. Is the bar low for men's looks or personality/character/effort?I dont think so they r in their early twenties | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/24 05:20 PM |
| 1 | I hear the statement "The bar for men is extremely low these days" a lot in the context of dating, sex, and relationships. Is the bar low for men's looks or personality/character/effort?From my perspective yes the bar is very very low i have insanely attractive female friends who are absolutely in love with their boyfriends whom id say are not very physically attractive but they have the personality and courage to make up for it they make them laugh take care of them listen to their issues and arent scared to make first moves basically taking the leading role in the relationship for men it seems to be different they dont catch feelings for a female unless they r attracted to th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 05:00 PM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.Why do we need to compensate with anything if ur so broke that u cant take a girl out to eat then its a personal issue most men r happy to pay for me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Do you think weaponised incompetence around housework exists? If not, why not? If so, where do you think it comes from?Felt this as a woman who had a little brother (3 year age gap) growing up i was always expected to make dinner clean the house including his room do the laundry etc if i didnt i used to get the “tough love” from my mother and my brother would never be assigned with a chore because he was just “naturally” incapable of doing it even with small tasks like folding his clothes if he didnt do it my mother wouldnt beat him she would pass the task onto me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.Makeup doing ur hair and perfume arent hygiene if u think it is then yikes kinda proves my point on men and no one wants to go on a date w someone who looks like they just woke up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 02:40 PM |
| 0 | Men only have importance to women as providers.Well yes but no i totally expect the man to pay for me after i took so much time to look good for him hair makeup perfume etc r expensive lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 12:25 PM |
| 5 | To the women who have dated or are dating a guy with less relationship experience than you, what is it like ?I thought so too but he speaks normally to his new girl 🥲 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 12:22 PM |
| 4 | To the women who have dated or are dating a guy with less relationship experience than you, what is it like ?Not that good honestly i fell for him first and its been really tricky because he didnt want to see me because he was shy when we went on dates he wouldn’t talk at all i kept trying and asking him questions and he would just reply with yes no or being silent and yet on text he would talk normally and would text me every second the moment another girl got in his life he dumped me so yeahh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 06:48 AM |
| 4 | Why do men catch feelings for their female friends than vice versa?Ive never felt any romantic attraction to a male friend and i realized men tend to be really bad at reading between the lines of friendship and romance when it comes to women im a naturally pretty open person and i take care and compliment my friends regardless of gender and it doesnt mean i like them but men take that as flirting or me having interest in them which results to them catching feelings for me and i have to take the burden of rejecting someone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Are women actually entertaining hypersexual douchebags?From my experience women who do hook up with douchebags r all fatherless and cling to any male attention they can get for them thats not important because they have gone so long without being loved | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 03:20 PM |
| 3 | Unsolicited dick picsI personally never seen a dick and thought oh thats hot its just repulsive for me personally | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Dear women, how much would you say other women are sleeping around and how they approach the dating market?I have very traditional look on love so i refuse to sleep with a man until im married but my friends (18-19) don’t share these morals with me which im okay with and I’ve known these girls ever since i was young at 15-16 is where they start sleeping around id say the average girl in that age group has at least a bodycount of 2 half of them do get into relationship but its with men whom they aren’t really attracted to its mostly money or how they treat her while also texting and meeting up with ot… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 01:21 AM |
| 2 | This sub is basically a place for men to come and vent and argue about their frustrations about dating. Where are all of the women with bad takes?Maybe this will be perceived as a bad takes but its just what i believe in when it comes to dating nothing comes good with lust in the relationship if you actually want to develop a deeper connection with ur partner any sexual stuff must be eradicated no sex no talking about it no touching inappropriately etc these things come into play when ur married. Men have no right to be mad at women for being “picky” because its natural for a woman to sought after a perfect man women loose everything by g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 01:08 AM |
| 0 | Sex Work needs to be decriminalized to fix datingSex isnt a human need therefore just because its normalized doesnt mean its not shameful | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/24 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Signs you ARE the woman's first choiceAs a woman if we constantly text u, ask for hangouts first, make the first move, go out of our way to make u happy (getting u random gifts cooking for u etc), listening to ur problems (prompting for u to open up), getting mad/frustrated when ur being dry, acting shy/quiet, | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/24 04:41 PM |
| -1 | Sex Work needs to be decriminalized to fix datingNo sex work should be completely banned alongside the porn industry it sets unrealistic and unrestricted standards on sex and relationships if u want to fix dating u need to completely erase lust | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/24 04:34 PM |
| 1 | I Don’t Think Women Fully Comprehend The Shame of Being a Male Virgin As He Moves Through His 20sTry being a female whos trying to save her virginity for marriage in this society lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 12:28 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that women value love more, and men sex?Yes most women see love as a rarer and deeper thing than sex because ever since ur young youre so sexualized and taken advantage of sex kinda looses its meaning women start to realize that most men will have sex with any female without having a deeper connection first | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 11:32 AM |
| 1 | Discussion : Am I wrong in saying I’m noticing more attractive men settling for less attractive women these days?I think it really depends on the place where ur living at in asia where i am right now id say this is reversed most girls are slim and pretty while their boyfriends are really questionable looking overweight and just overall ugly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 05:01 PM |
| 1 | I don't think average men get laid that much actuallyIve noticed when it comes to an avarage looking guy it more about whether hes outgoing or not alot of mid guys who are overly extroverted get lots of girls while the ones who are not usually go unnoticed and lack the ability to notice when a girl is trying to hit on them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 03:00 PM |
| 1 | What's your experience with having a Chad guy friend.What Behavior changes you noticed in women around him?Im a girl and i noticed alot of differences especially because he used to be a chubby little introverted kid when we started being friends and now he glowed up alot back then girls wouldnt even want to be near him and id even hear my own girlfriends talking about how being in his presence makes them uncomfortable he would constantly get called a loser and creepy and call me weird for being friends with him i never understood why because he was a really nice boy now my girlfriends ask me for his … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 05:38 PM |
| 1 | White men are far more open to dating Asian women than white women are to Asian menBut sadly they don’t typically end up dating the avarage asian guys because guys who look like kpop stars are rare | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 05:23 PM |
| 2 | PPD women be like:Nah mate height and race aint in the same debate im a woman who has a racial preference and i still get hated on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 05:15 PM |
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