I seem to have this problem where my relationship don’t escalate because im “too affectionate” and i was talking about this with my girlfriends and they said they were the same too so they had to tone themselves down. I want to hear answers from other men on this and is toning down ur affection rlly the best strategy or am i making myself look too easy? When im in a talking stage with a guy i usually enjoy to take some initiative and get them gifts and give compliments and support them on whatever is going on in their life because thats what id like to receive on their end too and i think stuff like that should be 50/50 but many guys seem to get scared and ive had some ask me why im so good to them and that they would like to end our relationship because they r baffled at how im being which seems kinda confusing to me??