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| 1 | How to approach a guy without coming on as aggressive?In my opinion, unless you actually are a pushy person, ur not gonna actually act pushy. U may do one little weird thing during the interaction but most people aren't gonna see it and brand you as "that pushy girl". If u are in fact feeling like u need to be a little more aggressive, u can drop a canned line. I got no examples for u tho. | /r/seduction | 06/03/15 09:56 AM |
| 1 | How to play with your confidence?If u think a diary would help u, go for it. | /r/seduction | 29/09/14 07:51 AM |
| 1 | How to play with your confidence?Well, personally, my confidence never drops. But you can take small steps to slowly build yourself up throughout the day. There's a saying, "motion creates emotion". Basically means do happy stuff (get your energy up) and you'll feel better. If u can get excited, your confidence should follow. | /r/seduction | 28/09/14 09:10 PM |
| 2 | How to play with your confidence?I have low/high energy days and if I don't feel like pushing myself, I won't. I see it as a way of being congruent (maybe just an excuse) but I can still game and my confidence stays pretty high. | /r/seduction | 28/09/14 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Straddling a guyIt's awesome. Grind when u do it, yo!!! | /r/seduction | 28/09/14 02:42 PM |
| 1 | What do you do if you approach a girl, and she just ignores you?The smoothest line to get all da bitchez. http://youtu.be/gBkOlgU3MYY | /r/seduction | 28/09/14 02:32 PM |
| 3 | How to play with your confidence?It sounds like u just have high energy days and low energy days. Do u actually feel insecure or do u think that u have to be an enthusiastic elf-man in every interaction? Cuz u don't. (Although it's optimal) | /r/seduction | 28/09/14 02:29 PM |
| 1 | what DO you talk about?!It really doesn't matter. People say it all the time because IT IS SO TRUE. Talk bullshit but be comfortable about it. The way I do it: Talk bullshit but focus on how this girl is talking, where she's looking, her body language and then the words. You bullshit until you hit an interesting point in the convo and go from there. | /r/seduction | 28/09/14 02:13 PM |
| 3 | How to "make your interest known"?Compliments about looks. Recently told a girl her new glasses made her look good. Worked well. ...That actually sounds lame but my exact words were "Damn, those glasses make you look really good." | /r/seduction | 28/09/14 02:01 PM |
| 1 | How to.. well.. not give a fuck?Well, what kind of person doesn't give a fuck? The guy who is happy, doesn't want for anything and is comfortable with who he is. Here's an RSD video where Tyler talks about entitlement, which will lead you to not giving a fuck about certain shit. TL;DW: Sort it out in your head that you're good enough. Because at the end of the day you only give a fuck because of fear or insecurities. | /r/seduction | 05/07/14 11:13 PM |
| 2 | How to be disinterestedI wouldn't say disinterest, but more like indifference. You can take it or leave it. When you approach you wanna subconsciously have her understand that she has simply piqued your interest, she's not yet important to you. | /r/seduction | 05/07/14 11:00 PM |
| 17 | Girls ignoring you on purpose, shit test?Quick question: Girls play the waiting game on purpose right? A lot of the chicks I've talked to are on their phone all the time, but when I text them they take 15-60 mins to respond. I KNOW DAMN WELL I'M BUSIER THAN THEM EXCEPT I CAN RESPOND IN A TIMELY MANNER!!! | /r/seduction | 02/12/13 09:24 AM |
| 2 | Kissless virgin here, how do I stop that from keeping me down?Your confidence is shit. That's why no one wants you. Show some optimism! | /r/seduction | 02/12/13 09:19 AM |
| 1 | How do I change the mind set of "she's out of my league"?Think highly of yourself to a point where you think of pickup as more of a "will she fit my standards" thing. A girl's looks will get me to approach but meeting her will determine her actual value. You can judge which league she's in after you talk to her. | /r/seduction | 24/11/13 02:42 PM |
| 3 | Is this a good save/turn around for those who sit on the wall at clubs? Is this the way to play things?Haha, I'm not talking shit but you have obviously never been to a club. Typically, the girl will come out of nowhere and start dancing on you. If you're on the wall, no one is going to talk to you. If you really are that uncomfortable, try dancing in a very minimal fashion in the middle of the dancefloor. Y'know, bouncing around and shit with you're head down. OR, go there and just dance, socialize and fuck around. I guarantee if you disregard females and acquire a good time, the girls are gonna… | /r/seduction | 19/05/13 07:01 AM |
| 1 | Excuse me for a minute. I need to [Rant]Funny that I came on here for the first time in a couple months and the last thing I said was "Yaaaay outer game!" We don't get enough of it. | /r/seduction | 17/05/13 02:33 AM |
| 2 | Julien How To Generate Massive Social Proof Instantly (Infield Footage)Outer game! Yaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay | /r/seduction | 13/03/13 08:01 AM |
| 15 | [FR] How I F-Closed my ex-gf, #-Closed another girl and pulled off the Lorenzo Von Matterhorn in one night!I was gonna say that you should've ignored the ex's text but you got the f-close and it seems the HB8 is still interested. So good shit. | /r/seduction | 03/03/13 10:01 AM |
| 8 | Passing Shit Tests and DHVHoly shit! U opened a window!? 2Cool4Me | /r/seduction | 17/02/13 09:45 AM |
| 4 | One-Itis, Self-Confidence, and why my game got better after I stopped reading /r/SeductionOkay, now I'm curious; does anyone here play sports. I used to play high school football, but that was because my friends forced me to join, was never really into it. | /r/seduction | 17/02/13 09:09 AM |
| 8 | Seddit, stop being judgmental.I'm not gonna lie, not giving a fuck solves a lot of problems tho. | /r/seduction | 17/02/13 08:57 AM |
| 1 | Seddit, stop being judgmental.Naw, the people who preach "open direct" are usually the noobs who are trying to kill AA. | /r/seduction | 17/02/13 08:39 AM |
| 20 | Seddit, stop being judgmental.AFC= Average Frustrated Chump | /r/seduction | 17/02/13 08:16 AM |
| 6 | Seddit, stop being judgmental.True. The dudes who do this typically mean well. It's just they like to do it in that weird motivational douchebag way. I.E. ARE YOUR FEELINGS HURT!? THEY SHOULDN'T BE! YOU'RE A FUCKING MAN!!! NOT A BITCH ASS PUSSY!!! | /r/seduction | 17/02/13 08:14 AM |
| 2 | can you really just talk to random girls on campus?At least you know what you're doing wrong. | /r/seduction | 07/02/13 09:17 AM |
| 20 | can you really just talk to random girls on campus?Practice makes perfect. Hit on some girls you don't care about. Shit is a lot easier than our brains make it out to be. | /r/seduction | 07/02/13 09:07 AM |
| 1 | How did you start out?It happened gradually. I just found myself thinking about certain interactions after they happened and realized that the girl probably wanted the D. Especially since some of them straight up said they were interested. | /r/seduction | 03/02/13 08:34 PM |
| 2 | [FR] First night back out in the gaming mindset in a while.So this green light/red light shit is a thing now? Sure, I'll try it out. | /r/seduction | 03/02/13 10:32 AM |
| 5 | How did you start out?Was getting a good amount of attention from multiple quality girls. Never once capitalized, even when they made it blatantly obvious that they wanted to date/fuck. I was too scared to escalate and I just didn't know how. Gradually I realized that I could have fucked a couple hot girls (even without the game) easily and it pissed me off that I was such a bitch. So, I cut that shit out and here I am. | /r/seduction | 03/02/13 09:23 AM |
| 1 | [FR] bro-night, first approach. nothin happened, but i was proud.Oh boy! Can you? Do you have time? | /r/seduction | 03/02/13 04:29 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Two bars, three #'s closesThose strippers just wanted your money. | /r/seduction | 02/02/13 12:00 PM |
| 9 | [FR] bro-night, first approach. nothin happened, but i was proud.Cool story bro. | /r/seduction | 02/02/13 11:32 AM |
| 5 | The first 30 seconds of this video is something every guy needs to see and internalize.There was no pickup skill displayed in this video. An interesting point is that while there is no pickup technique being used, Tyler goes out and has the reference experiences. He can tell by the way this girl looks and her body language that she would accept a kiss. That's why people are pissed and assume she's drunk. This sub is getting a little more attention from newbies and they can't comprehend that sometimes a girl can become attracted fairly easily. | /r/seduction | 26/01/13 02:58 PM |
| 16 | (FR) NYE day two f-closeIt's almost too good to be true! | /r/seduction | 02/01/13 09:27 AM |
| 1 | Can you ever fall in love?I don't think love is where you have to need the other person. But everything else you said is definitely agreeable. | /r/seduction | 01/01/13 09:33 AM |
| 2 | Actual Women's View on "PUAs"They were probably all just practice sets anyway. Ahh, I remember trying out negs for the first time too. | /r/seduction | 01/01/13 09:24 AM |
| 2 | Actual Women's View on "PUAs"They were mostly bitching about negs. Most people here hate negs as well, I thought they were justified. Did you read some of their stories?! /r/cringe worthy. | /r/seduction | 01/01/13 09:23 AM |
| 1 | [FR]It's a college life for me.Nice. | /r/seduction | 24/12/12 10:01 AM |
| 9 | [FR] "Are you coming to pay tribute too?" - Why preselection kicks ass & how you can create it from scratch.Tofu all up in this bitch! This is good shit. First time I've heard about the "come say hi" technique. | /r/seduction | 22/12/12 11:04 AM |
| 7 | The 55 laws of the Alpha MaleA lot of this seems like douchey, tough guy stuff. My version of alpha is a dude that everyone loves and respects, but can still fuck a nigga up, haha. | /r/seduction | 22/12/12 10:38 AM |
| 1 | How about just saying "kiss" instead of "kiss-close"?I'm with this guy. The nicknames are shortcuts and they are like this subreddit's personality. Without our nicknames, we are boring. I'm tired, its 3am, so I probably sound crazy. | /r/seduction | 21/12/12 11:23 AM |
| 1 | When I remind a girl about our date tomorrow, she said "oh yeah I forgot about that" but it's still on. Was this a "shit test"?In this case, I believe she was in Uber Complicated mode. We are on a pickup forum where we rely heavily on subliminal interactions, so it is very plausible that she does the same. The subliminal part, not the pickup. | /r/seduction | 15/12/12 08:15 AM |
| 1 | When I remind a girl about our date tomorrow, she said "oh yeah I forgot about that" but it's still on. Was this a "shit test"?Yea, but if she genuinely forgot, why would she tell him? I personally think it's a shit-test. | /r/seduction | 15/12/12 07:03 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Girl from classThat "I'm not hitting on you" line is from Sasha Daygame, correct? | /r/seduction | 15/12/12 06:38 AM |
| 1 | C-Blocked by 40 yr old dude on the train. Kind of hilariousYea, but that didn't happen and that particular line sounds like a dick thing to say that probably wouldn't get you anywhere in terms of attraction. | /r/seduction | 11/12/12 05:28 AM |
| 1 | C-Blocked by 40 yr old dude on the train. Kind of hilariousYawp, all about them calibrations. Haha | /r/seduction | 11/12/12 04:06 AM |
| 0 | C-Blocked by 40 yr old dude on the train. Kind of hilariousThe tease is plausible, but the "us vs him" thing, I don't agree with. They were only talking for about 4 minutes, so it doesn't seem likely that she would be comfortable ganging up on this random guy. Unless the old guy was offensive or OP had some significant attraction going on, I dnt see that happening. | /r/seduction | 11/12/12 04:04 AM |
| 1 | C-Blocked by 40 yr old dude on the train. Kind of hilariousYeah, but it seemed like the whole conversation fizzled out. But, you're right, never hurts to try. | /r/seduction | 11/12/12 03:29 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Doesn't Matter, Had FunHaha, I got excited when you said you were going to try the apocalypse opener, always wanted to know the results. | /r/seduction | 11/12/12 03:25 AM |
| 2 | C-Blocked by 40 yr old dude on the train. Kind of hilariousWell, going off of the context of the title and the words OP used, I assume that the old man is a negative factor in this whole situation, so I found it safe to assume that he didn't exactly help the situation. | /r/seduction | 11/12/12 03:08 AM |
| 7 | C-Blocked by 40 yr old dude on the train. Kind of hilariousOkay, you are getting a little too excited. Sure, he wasn't aggressive but that's just how some dudes run game. But this was a very awkward situation and I personally would've bailed on the whole thing as well. Being a good PUA doesn't mean pulling a Hail Mary on every single approach. Edit: Even if she did give him the number, Urethra Man killed any attraction he had built so OP probably wouldn't have gotten a date out of it anyway. Imagine hitting on a girl and some random dude butts in to tal… | /r/seduction | 11/12/12 02:47 AM |
| 2 | Too much kinoI'm getting downvoted. I don't think ppl realize that you're agreeing with me. | /r/seduction | 09/12/12 10:35 AM |
| 1 | what are the significant differences between trying to find a girlfriend and picking up girls?Why the downvotes? Jealousy? | /r/seduction | 09/12/12 06:22 AM |
| 4 | Too much kinoWell, that's just your opinion, man... Girl... | /r/seduction | 09/12/12 06:04 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Conversation at the hospital with a cute girl or: How I learned to stop worrying and love the approach anxietyAfter she says she doesn't like the food in your area: "Where have you been eating?! Our food is the shit!" She will then try to qualify herself. Nothing amazing, but its all I got right now. | /r/seduction | 04/12/12 11:35 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Conversation at the hospital with a cute girl or: How I learned to stop worrying and love the approach anxietySo, I see that you were trying to be very polite. Teasing is a very easy way to make a connection with someone and I saw an opportunity for it after she mentioned how she didn't like the food in your area. Not negging, I don't like negging. Teasing is a little different the way I see it. | /r/seduction | 04/12/12 08:25 AM |
| 0 | Facebook: The simplest way to demonstrate higher value towards females.I disagree. I'm probably gonna try OP's advice. | /r/seduction | 04/12/12 08:12 AM |
| 1 | Facebook: The simplest way to demonstrate higher value towards females.Haha, this guy agrees with the post but is trying to complain about something that was never mentioned. Tis funny. | /r/seduction | 04/12/12 08:07 AM |
| 6 | Scientific proof showing cold showers REDUCES testosterone./r/seduction has really been pissing me off lately. Why the fuck are we even talking about this shit. You don't need some fucking voodoo to be good with girls! How the fuck have we gone from discussing outer game/inner game to fucking cold showers?! Do you people really need some fucking magic pill?! Are you guys really that hopeless?! Fuck End rant | /r/seduction | 26/11/12 10:23 AM |
| 1 | Everything you know about approach anxiety is wrong.I understand the concept of hammering ideas in, and maybe that is what he was trying to do. But IMO, it was like he was selling some new "mind blowing" idea. It annoyed me... Mostly because it was the same stuff. | /r/seduction | 25/11/12 12:02 PM |
| 2 | Taking out the "hot girl" of my friend group. How do I not screw this up?The word pedestal turned into a verb. | /r/seduction | 25/11/12 11:06 AM |
| -5 | Everything you know about approach anxiety is wrong.I didn't read the whole thing, but I dont think there's anything new here. All you did was take the term "approach anxiety"; say It's regular anxiety, and segued into how "competence curbs anxiety." Seems like you just reiterated what everyone already knows and gave it a shiny, bright title. | /r/seduction | 25/11/12 10:44 AM |
| 1 | If a strip club is too much, start at a HootersThis was smooth as fuck. Imma do that. | /r/seduction | 25/11/12 10:28 AM |
| 36 | If a strip club is too much, start at a HootersLiterally! Really! Shit bro, get to the hospital! | /r/seduction | 25/11/12 10:27 AM |
| 5 | The one thought changed everything for me.True. This eliminates AA, helps you stay out of your head and overall keeps you comfortable. As long as you're comfortable, this shit comes easy. | /r/seduction | 24/11/12 10:58 PM |
| 1 | It this true about girls?Yawp, girls do this. A girl pulled this on me and I was like "You trying to make me compete with that fuckin choad?" I was much "better" than my competition. That dude was a wannabe thug, haha. I ended up gettin the girl. | /r/seduction | 11/11/12 12:40 PM |
| 2 | Stop looking for IOIs and just approach.I'm here to tell you that its possible to force an IOI. Just wave and smile (not like a needy choad, but like a muthafukkin bauwss). She will respond with an IOI or IOD. | /r/seduction | 27/10/12 12:35 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/22/2012This is probably bad advice but it worked for me. So, I assume ur thinking about the light touch on the elbow, the light touch on the lower back or the gentle caress of the hair. What worked for me was kinoing a lot more aggressively while being very clear in my intent. For example, I grab a hand, pull her toward me and say "Your cute, I need to talk to you." I stole some of Tyler Durden's swag, just watch his infield stuff and u will figure out what I mean. | /r/seduction | 23/10/12 07:37 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Cross-Dressed, Got BitchesThis shit-test paranoia is getting out of hand... | /r/seduction | 05/10/12 07:50 PM |
| 2 | The best advice I've got for beginner's with AA...Seriously though, u need to stop caring what a random chick thinks. I know that's not what u want to hear, but dammit It's the truth. | /r/seduction | 05/10/12 07:40 PM |
| 1 | The best advice I've got for beginner's with AA...Did u approach from the front? Did she see u coming? Did you give her enough time to process what u said and come up with something to say? A lot of the time guys make rejection too easy by fucking up the approach. | /r/seduction | 05/10/12 06:51 PM |
| 1 | The best advice I've got for beginner's with AA...It's funny, because looking back, this would have helped me. But since I've gotten used to approaching I looked at this and thought "But I probably won't get rejected that badly". Just goes to show that you really can get over the fear and self-doubt. | /r/seduction | 05/10/12 06:45 PM |
| 1 | How do you make small talk with strangers?I get your point, but you don't have to stick to the "How are you opener". In my original reply, I just wanted to add something to keep in mind, which was "try to make her talk more". | /r/seduction | 01/10/12 11:47 PM |
| 3 | Being yourself... this finally clicked for meYou've been doing this for years and you're just now discovering congruence?! That's like... The main rule for inner game! | /r/seduction | 01/10/12 10:17 PM |
| 2 | How do you make small talk with strangers?Good advice, but you also want to get her to talk a little more than you; it makes her invest in the conversation a little more. | /r/seduction | 01/10/12 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Am I the only one that just FALLS FLAT when it comes to women that i genuinely like?This doesn't have to be a problem. Just use direct game. You can basically say whatever you have on your mind and be honest. You don't have to over think anything just say what you feel and say it right. For example, approach HB10, get flustered, say "Damn... I was gonna say something witty, but ur way too fuckin hot and you fucked me up. So what's ur name?" Works for me. | /r/seduction | 30/09/12 10:20 PM |
| 2 | Girl friendsI just thought about this little "chart" you just made and this is too damn true. Everyone should see this haha. | /r/seduction | 30/09/12 10:13 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Girl brought her friends on the date.. all of them.It seems that you did everything right. But, I do think that you could've at least attempted to escalate. But I'm just gonna assume that you didn't think the time was right and I support ur decision to escalate at the party. | /r/seduction | 30/09/12 10:05 PM |
| 1 | [FR] The moment you truly stop giving a single fuck about trying to get laid, you have the gravitational pull of 1,000 sunsYou talk about this incident as if you KNEW they were attracted. You say that you had no intentions of getting laid and these women probably picked up on that and saw you as a non-threat, and instead saw u as a guy having fun and wanted to join in on the fun. I understand the message of "just try to have fun", but this doesn't mean they are attracted. | /r/seduction | 30/09/12 02:35 AM |
| 2 | 18 and a new school, no exp with girlsBack then I had poofy long hair down to my shoulders; I'm half black, half Asian; was around 5'10" 150lbs and I would say I was a 7, 7.5 tops. Edit: I honestly think my personality and confidence are what made people attracted. I was never a popular kid in my previous high school and I was never really outspoken, mostly just a calm guy. Now I live in SoCal and I'm doing pretty well socially. | /r/seduction | 29/08/12 07:38 AM |
| 3 | 18 and a new school, no exp with girlsJust made this account so I could help u. Holy FAWK dude, u are lucky. When I transferred schools I got so much attention from women I could have had about four girls in the first week! Not even exaggerating. And the awesome part is that they all came to me! I wish I knew about seddit when I was in your position. Disclaimer: I just started checking out seddit, so don't think I'm a guru or anything. Use where you're from as a conversation starter. You're the new kid and you're from a different pl… | /r/seduction | 29/08/12 07:20 AM |
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